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Speaker 3: He Come the Touch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah they talk better than they say.

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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the thread, like you're

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Speaker 2: writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We

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Speaker 2: call them blogs. Kiki yo, take it away, girl. We

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Speaker 2: got a lot to talk about, we do.

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Speaker 4: Dear blog. You know life is getting very real for me.

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Speaker 4: You guys know, I've recently gotten engage. Feels very odd

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Speaker 4: to say that, but it's true, and.

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Speaker 2: You actually struggle to get the sentence out, Like I know,

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Speaker 2: all jokes are say you like, I.

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Speaker 1: Got very weird.

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Speaker 4: Like I had to call Big Tim my fiance yesterday,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, my, I was a glitchen, Like my, my,

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Speaker 4: the man I live with, You're.

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Speaker 2: Gonna have to come up with a whole new comedy

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Speaker 2: routine now because none of that stuff works anymore.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy.

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Speaker 4: So and surprisingly, the man who took seven years to

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Speaker 4: get his life together and make the best decision in

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Speaker 4: his life, he is now applying pressure on when this

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Speaker 4: wedding is happening. So I was like, okay, let's aim

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Speaker 4: for like twenty twenty seven, and he was like, what

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Speaker 4: about twenty twenty six, Like we can't make this happen

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Speaker 4: within a year.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, look, wait.

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Speaker 2: A minute, exactly. Oh you took seven and a half years. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he sees your star rising. Is that what it is? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's what it is. But you know what that predum

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Speaker 2: is gonna slap in the face in it?

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Speaker 4: Maybe that prenup so solid. I got Mama fred on it.

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Speaker 4: She was hyping it up right now.

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Speaker 2: Don't you worry, don't you worry. No, she's she's handling

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Speaker 2: all the business now for the show.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I don't have anything to little anyway. He

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Speaker 4: is actually the one kind of applying pressure, like let's

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Speaker 4: do this, and I'm like, okay. So I go to

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Speaker 4: my source of knowledge, which is TikTok, and I say

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Speaker 4: twenty twenty seven brides and I just typed that in there,

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Speaker 4: and then all these videos pop up like I book

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Speaker 4: my venue, I got my hair and makeup already done,

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Speaker 4: I found my dress for twenty twenty seven. That is insane.

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, you know, meet Jason. He knows that

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Speaker 4: I like to dealian dally through life. You know, I

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Speaker 4: let things happen. I'm not a planner, So this is

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Speaker 4: not the situation for you at all. I came in here, yes,

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Speaker 4: and I'm looking at Chasing like please roll your sleeves up.

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Speaker 4: We got work to do. And I'm like, Kaylene, you've

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Speaker 4: been in seventeen thousand weathers.

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Speaker 3: That needs your help. But as I started the process.

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Speaker 1: Who's paying for this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, where do we get the money from?

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Speaker 1: Like, hello, i've't been flushed on Saturday, So I got you.

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Speaker 3: That was gonna happen. I really let me. I'm serious

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Speaker 3: about this lottery thing.

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Speaker 4: Like I've never wanted you to win the lottery more

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Speaker 4: than I need you to win anything.

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Speaker 2: I really feel like this is the time. And I've

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Speaker 2: been saying that for a couple of weeks, but it's skitch.

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Speaker 1: It lies.

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Speaker 2: I've been lying to you a lot. I didn't think

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Speaker 2: it was the time. I just wanted people to buy

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Speaker 2: tickets so I could have more because I'm greedy. So yeah, no, Saturday,

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Speaker 2: don't worry. We're gonna have about seven hundred million. Pay

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Speaker 2: some tax on that. I'll give you a generous budget, please,

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Speaker 2: tens of thousands of dollars you can spend on your

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Speaker 2: wedding free.

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Speaker 4: Walking into the door at the reception places at the

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Speaker 4: banqueod halls. You need to have thirty thousand dollars to even.

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Speaker 1: Talk to them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I haven't done any talking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I turned around.

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Speaker 4: It's crazy, like I mean, the dresses, the cakes, and

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Speaker 4: then deposits.

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Speaker 1: A lot of them want their money now, right, fifty percent?

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Speaker 3: I don't even if I'm gonna be eleven twenty twenty seven.

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Speaker 4: You want me to give you fifty percent of this.

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Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, So I don't know. Guys, we gotta

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Speaker 4: do something.

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Speaker 1: We got what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 2: Get like some payday loans and something like take out

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Speaker 2: of it the home equity line of credit, Like what

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Speaker 2: do you how do you do that if you don't

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Speaker 2: have that kind of if you're not flush like that.

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Speaker 3: I'm righting Amy with a right.

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Speaker 4: On the damn ryans a little squabs everything I got.

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Speaker 1: Amy with a right. My name is.

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Speaker 3: Earth Like it's bad out here. I don't know how

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Speaker 3: the brides do it.

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Speaker 4: If you if you are in the middle of this mess,

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Speaker 4: please help me because I don't know what else to do.

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Speaker 1: You know what you're this is what you should do.

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Speaker 2: Your wedding dress should be like a NASCAR track suit,

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Speaker 2: you know, like they wear. Like, just get all of

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Speaker 2: our sponsors to so we can have like Amy with

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Speaker 2: the right patch on their wind trust patch on their carter,

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Speaker 2: heating and air.

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Speaker 1: I'll keep going like we just keep going.

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Speaker 2: Everybody buys a little spot on the dress and then

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Speaker 2: you know, we be paid for immediately each.

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Speaker 3: One of my jewelers.

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Speaker 1: Get that right on that man, We'll keep going. Please,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: You can use my backyard. Come I told you yesterday.

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Speaker 3: I got the party RAJ thing, my whatever you need

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Speaker 3: a hobby congress.

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Speaker 2: There's a little water table out there for entertainment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Now, Kiki, will it be a big wedding?

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Speaker 1: Do you think you know?

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Speaker 3: I want all the things?

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Speaker 1: One I can't.

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Speaker 4: I never thought this was really going to happen. So

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Speaker 4: now that it is, I want everything, you know, I

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Speaker 4: guess wise. Guess wise is, Yeah, it's going to be

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Speaker 4: up there. I talked to a lady yesterday at thetorney station.

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Speaker 4: I said, you know what, girl, I got a win

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Speaker 4: coming in. Come on there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, invited.

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Speaker 2: We are. We're trying to control costs, and that's a

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Speaker 2: big one. Want to sort of not do that.

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Speaker 4: It's crazy out here, man. Just send all thoughts and

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Speaker 4: prayers for brides because I don't know how.

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Speaker 1: You Yeah, because you want to be like a happy,

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Speaker 1: fun like process. And it's not at the beginning when

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Speaker 1: you get engaged with them, when you get in the

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Speaker 1: nitty griddy of it, it's like more anxiety. It sounds

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Speaker 1: like yeah, And it's not.

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Speaker 4: Like a student loan where I can finesse it right.

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Speaker 2: They want their money, they want it now and texted

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Speaker 2: this and I won't even bother because it didn't go

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Speaker 2: over with my sister, and it's not going to go

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Speaker 2: over with you. If someone Texas City Hall and a

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Speaker 2: big party after, you know when it's different. My parents

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Speaker 2: gave my sister a budget, right, so they wrote her

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Speaker 2: a check and it was, hey, you can spend all

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Speaker 2: this or you can keep it and spend five dollars.

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Speaker 1: It's totally up to you.

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Speaker 2: And I just kept pushing and it wasn't my day,

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Speaker 2: but I'm like, you should have whatever day you want, Amanda.

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Speaker 2: But you do realize that no one's going to remember

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Speaker 2: what they ate. I've already gone on this ran before

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Speaker 2: no one. It was a beautiful day and she did

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Speaker 2: a great job. She and my mom did a great job.

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Speaker 2: It was beautiful right before COVID. Thank god it happened.

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Speaker 2: Everything was perfect for them, I think. But like she

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Speaker 2: could have been. She could have won the power Ball

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Speaker 2: herself if she'd had a food truck and a band,

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Speaker 2: and she would have had a.

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Speaker 1: Bunch of money in the bank. That's the move.

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Speaker 2: And I honestly think if I look at it differently,

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Speaker 2: right because I'm older and I don't you know, so

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Speaker 2: if I ever got married, I feel like if I

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Speaker 2: married someone my age probably already been married before at

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Speaker 2: this point, like did all that, I would do that,

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Speaker 2: I would say, but I have to pay for it now.

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Speaker 2: No one's writing me a check, right, But if I

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Speaker 2: were young, I really feel like I would and someone

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Speaker 2: were saying, here's your budget, I would strongly consider a really,

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Speaker 2: really fun night with tons of booze and great food

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Speaker 2: and great music, and it doesn't have to cost a

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Speaker 2: whole lot. And then I take the rest of the

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Speaker 2: money and I buy a house or pay off debt

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Speaker 2: or do something, you know what I mean, Like something

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Speaker 2: that twenty years from now you're gonna be glad, and

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Speaker 2: maybe you'll be glad you did that twenty But that's

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Speaker 2: not you.

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Speaker 1: I know, that's not you.

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Speaker 3: You know me.

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Speaker 4: I need the chair covers, the bowls, the sparkles, the

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Speaker 4: fire cover.

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Speaker 3: Yes,