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Speaker 1: Pit Ship. Hi, you seem a little stress today. Hi.

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Speaker 1: Um um, I guess I can go well, I guess yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's can't even speak. Would you like me to give

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Speaker 1: my update? You know, I know what you were thinking through,

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Speaker 1: so we'll get back to yours. He's already worked out

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Speaker 1: the transition into the topic. We're so pro over here

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Speaker 1: that that's already worked. Um. Well, I'm sad to say

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Speaker 1: which we talked about a little bit last week, and

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Speaker 1: to recording early. It's Tuesday in Nashville and it's pouring

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Speaker 1: because of getting their residual effects of Hurricane Ida. And sadly,

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Speaker 1: that's my update. You know, I'm from Louisiana and it's

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Speaker 1: just so devastating to me anytime these huge hurricanes come through,

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Speaker 1: and it's just I don't feel like unless you've lived

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Speaker 1: in and see the destruction that's happening. I mean, New

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Speaker 1: they're all really really devastated. So I'm gonna start looking

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Speaker 1: into ways that we can help because it always just

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Speaker 1: kills me to see us. They're still sort of unraveling

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Speaker 1: even what the damage is. But I know there's like

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Speaker 1: and wanting to help how we can. So keep updated

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Speaker 1: on my Instagram. I'm at velvet age, but I am

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Speaker 1: going to be posting different ways that we can help

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Speaker 1: the people down in Louisiana. We just had a really

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Speaker 1: of God. I'm like, is the world being wiped out

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Speaker 1: is the universe just trying to start over because maybe

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Speaker 1: they're like, this population is too destructive and they you know,

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Speaker 1: they're too far off. We can't help you. Let's just

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Speaker 1: let's just wipe them out. Yeah, I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: So and I definitely feel if anyone is into astrology,

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Speaker 1: ways the planets are line and we're moving into the

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Speaker 1: I mean mine I guess is Um, the funny transition

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Speaker 1: like you're her girlfriend's until you want to celebrate how

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00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 1: beautiful this is that these two people who love each

427
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,200
Speaker 1: other have decided to commit to each other there in

428
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: this capacity, Like I think it's so amazing, but it

429
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 1: kind of goes back to our programming at the feeling

430
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 1: of we have to get married, you know, like that's

431
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,919
Speaker 1: the key to a success or the sign of a

432
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 1: successful relationship, as if you get married. And I'm just

433
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: wondering if that's going to start shifting as our programming

434
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 1: in society is sort of starting to shift to like, hey,

435
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: maybe that's not for everybody, and so like the marriage

436
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 1: becomes more of a choice, and so maybe we're not

437
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 1: mourning this it is like the last Bash, but also

438
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: but you know kind of like celebrating it instead and

439
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,120
Speaker 1: like or the last penis she's ever going to see

440
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: or whatever. I don't know, whatever that is it was,

441
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 1: it's so weird to me, Like it's like this weird

442
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: license just act like a fucking asshole. Oh my god,

443
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:49,679
Speaker 1: it's so true, Like would you ever bring a dildo

444
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: to a restaurant in any other occasion? Like I didn't

445
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 1: even think about it until you said it. That's how

446
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,919
Speaker 1: messed up it is. Like I just don't understand like

447
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: the need for it to be like barrassing or crass um.

448
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: You know. It's like the penis straws and the penis

449
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: decorations and the and we see it all in Nashville.

450
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 1: I mean we think the penis. Yeah, we see the

451
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: worst of it in Nashville. So it's like I don't know,

452
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: like at the end of the day, like I feel

453
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:23,399
Speaker 1: like it's just embarrassing, you know that. And from the

454
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: bride's perspective, Look, we all know the like this particular

455
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,399
Speaker 1: weekend was, it's we we know least, and she's just

456
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 1: gonna have a ripparing time wherever she goes. I don't

457
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: think embarrassment even plays into her, like that's not an

458
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 1: emotion that she feels. But like I don't understand the

459
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: benefit of trying to embarrass somebody or make it awkward,

460
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: you know, like some pride to be are like virgins,

461
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, shy about it, like their

462
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: sex life. Yeah. I mean, so those are essentially maybe

463
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 1: two different topics that I just brought up. So it's

464
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: one as you're talking about the embarrassment factor and why

465
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,479
Speaker 1: it just has to be so vile and over the

466
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 1: top and just like crass and all of those parts

467
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 1: of it, And that is the assumption, right Like anytime

468
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:13,160
Speaker 1: someone's like, oh, a bachelor party or a bachelorette party,

469
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 1: like it's going to be wild, you just know that

470
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: that's like the theme. Yeah, yeah, which is fun. And

471
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 1: I mean I think it is like, yes, go out

472
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,119
Speaker 1: and have a blast of friends for you know, a trip.

473
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: That does get a little harder maybe when you're you know,

474
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 1: have a husband or a wife and you have kids,

475
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 1: like it just gets harder to get people together. Like

476
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: you said, why is it this like this is the

477
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 1: last too raw, Let's go balls to the wall or

478
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: dildos to the table or whatever. I mean, why does

479
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 1: it have to be like that, and why isn't it

480
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: more just like what an amazing thing that we can

481
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: do to celebrate with each other and celebrate this love

482
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 1: that you guys have in this commitment that you're making.

483
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: I guess that's more the wedding that I'm talking about,

484
00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: But I I still think, like embarrassing the bride just

485
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense for me. You know, themes, the

486
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 1: themes of bachelor and bachelor parties are just a little

487
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,360
Speaker 1: bit maybe we need to maybe they're a little outdated.

488
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 1: We need to like read programs and stuff. Right, I

489
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 1: thought it was. I thought it was. We played a game,

490
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,159
Speaker 1: Um and sorry if I'm getting ahead of myself here,

491
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: but we played a game of like to kind of

492
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 1: see who knew and I thought that was cool, you know,

493
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 1: and funny enough. It was her coworker. Oh yeah, they

494
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: spend so much time together, so much time together, right,

495
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 1: so she knows their day in and day out now too.

496
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: You know, I just think that's interesting. Um, well, when

497
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: it comes to the big theme of the bachelor bachelor party,

498
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 1: you also tell me an interesting statistic about bachelor parties

499
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: that actually found very sad. Yeah, remember, yeah, so I

500
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: found us. I mean it's a little dated, but still,

501
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know that the world has changed

502
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: that much. It's from two thousand fourteen and it's a

503
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: story for mental health. It says one third of all

504
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: grooms to be cheat at their brad store parties, according

505
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: to a recent British survey and two independent sex experts

506
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 1: to be interviewed. That makes me so sad, Like if

507
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: you're cheating right before you get married, like that, you

508
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 1: might need to rethink this wedding. Yeah, is that just

509
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: a person? Is that just my own opinion or do

510
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 1: you feel that way? Um, it's like yeah, absolutely, Like

511
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: it's just not the way you want to start off

512
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 1: any sort of commitment. But it's not as if you

513
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 1: haven't already been in a long term or I'm assuming

514
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: somewhat long term serious relationship and here to the point

515
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: of getting married. Absolutely so like what you cheat all

516
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 1: of a sudden in the middle of a long term

517
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 1: relationship and then even more serious commitment and then what

518
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: you're going to flip the switch when you get actually

519
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: get married. I don't really know. I don't get that well.

520
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 1: I also think it's um, it has to do with

521
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: more of the idea and what we're told these events

522
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 1: need to be. I mean, in las Vegas limo driver

523
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: Jenny G came up with a similar estimate, based not

524
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: only um hearing her passengers brag, but also on the

525
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: commissions that she earns whenever they asked her to order

526
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:28,719
Speaker 1: an escort to their room. Because she also occasionally sees it,

527
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: I have my partition, my partition de activated, Jenny says.

528
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 1: It's also it's always funny. They'll put the girl in

529
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 1: the middle seat, in the middle of the back seat,

530
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: and they'll try to straddle her doggie style. Every time

531
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: the car moves and turns the corner, one of them

532
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: ends up falling over and banging their heads on the

533
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,479
Speaker 1: window because there's no there's no footing. That's just not

534
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: enough room. So um, you know, she says. Incidentally, Jenny

535
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 1: says bachelor's or pussycats compared to their best men, who

536
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: she says, have sex of the time. I mean I

537
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: can see that. That's like mean, who knows they could

538
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: be single, you know, and so it's just like a

539
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: huge throwdown party, like we're saying. But yeah, I mean,

540
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 1: I think it's probably different between bachelors and bachelorettes because

541
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: I do think when you put that many guys um together,

542
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: the testosterone sort of like it becomes a competition and

543
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: you're just like chasing girls. That's a bunch of dudes

544
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: seemed to do. Yeah. Yeah, I mean we barely left

545
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 1: the house. Also, it is COVID, so I think that

546
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 1: probably played into it a little bit. But we didn't

547
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: like go out. We went to dinner one night, but

548
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: the rest of the time we were on the beach

549
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: or just at the house, and we had so many

550
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 1: of our own activities and we're just having so much

551
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: fun together. That was perfect. Like I loved it. Yeah,

552
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 1: I mean it was pretty chill. Yeah, it's like yeah,

553
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, I I didn't. I didn't go into

554
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: it thinking like, let's go down there and meet a

555
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:57,239
Speaker 1: bunch of new people, like other than the people that

556
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: we didn't know that we were going to be meeting

557
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: at the wedding anyway. Yeah, that's true. I mean, maybe

558
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: it's because I'm forty five years old that I didn't

559
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 1: feel like raging, but well, you're like, no need for

560
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 1: new friends. It's like, you know, I think we we

561
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: also chose a place that like speaks to the idea

562
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: of it being more relaxing than like going to Vegas.

563
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: Going to can Coude or somewhere that's like it is

564
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: meant to be um party place Miami, like these kind

565
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: of things. Yeah, I mean right, I guess that was

566
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: just more r vib and especially in the pandemic, it's

567
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: like no thanks, all right, the last one I have,

568
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: and maybe you have some other ones you wun add

569
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: to the list. But I said, don't forget about yourself.

570
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: And like this is from past experience when I was

571
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: younger and got super burnt out with all my friends

572
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: getting married all the same time, and there was like

573
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: this rush of everyone getting pregnant, and so if you're

574
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: the single person or the person who doesn't get married

575
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: or have kids, you end up like over extending yourself

576
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: multiple times for all these people and all the parties

577
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 1: and like all the requirements of these kind of things,

578
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: and if you don't consider yourself within the process. I

579
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: found myself to start getting resentful or like another wedding,

580
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: another bachelor at another baby shower, And that's not really

581
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: how I want to feel with any of my friends.

582
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: But it goes back to that same thing of just

583
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: like if you don't feel up your own cup first,

584
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: you have nothing to give and so like there was

585
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: a couple of mornings where I knew everybody was up

586
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: you know early, or like a couple of nights you

587
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: and I went to bed earlier than everyone else. And

588
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: like I in the past probably wouldn't have done that

589
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: just to be like appeasing of the group. But I

590
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: knew if I was going to function at all, that

591
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: I needed to get sleep, like that's just what I need,

592
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: and especially I had had a really long week the

593
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: week before, and so um so I just did it.

594
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: And I actually think that it ended up putting me

595
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: in a better place to be able to like do

596
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: you the fun parts with everybody or participate in a fun,

597
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: loving way versus like it's tired, like burnt out, I

598
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: don't want to do this activity and I wanted to

599
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 1: do everything I did, and so I think that makes

600
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: for a much better energy to bring. So you agree,

601
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: good one. Susan will love that answer. Oh my god, Well,

602
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 1: I can tell that you are just a little bit

603
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: anxious about your day. And really he's like, give me

604
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 1: the funk off this reporting. I've got to go to

605
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: on site. It's time for a rehab, baby. I mean,

606
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: I used to make the joke every time. This isn't

607
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:44,959
Speaker 1: a joke. But when the Britney spears would be like

608
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 1: taking thirty days for her mental health, I'm like, I

609
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: want to fucking do that, Like I want to go

610
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: to Malibu and shut my phone down and take thirty

611
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 1: days because I have anxiety, because I do in So

612
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: my celebrities like that are lucky for that well, because

613
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: they can. You know, at that level, you can afford

614
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: to take a break and you can be like, hey,

615
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: I'm going to rehab inner manager can handle shit. You know.

616
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 1: You're like, no, I'm the manager. So it's a little

617
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: bit harder. All right, let's get to listen to emails

618
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: a chip can go about his day. This is from

619
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: last week. We were talking about how much we love Brillan,

620
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: this new artist. He's in country music but kind of

621
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 1: all genres. Honestly, he's so amazing. He's not been on

622
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: the road with Dirks, and so this girl said, Hi,

623
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 1: I'm listening to your newest podcast chat about Brilon and Dirks.

624
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, I love me some Dirks, but

625
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: I'm also obsessed with Parker McCollums music. And that's what

626
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: got me to that concert. Oh my god, best concert ever.

627
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 1: Dirk's was amazing and Briland was so good. I would

628
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: definitely go see them again. Basing righting basically writing to

629
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: say that I agree with you and Ship heard it

630
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: here for there. You gos gonna be a huge star

631
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: and I think Parker is. Yeah, Parker's gonna beet It

632
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: starts all the guys. I'm literally hot guys tour and

633
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: it is like some of the best up and coming talent.

634
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: I feel like because Riley is gonna be huge too.

635
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 1: Riley Green. Yeah, the ladies love Riley. That is like

636
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 1: my most fun thing to watch the shows is watched

637
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:21,840
Speaker 1: the girls literally almost paying their pants and he walks by,

638
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 1: oh YouTube, oh maybe maybe a little, maybe a little.

639
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 1: This one is in reference to another podcasts I did

640
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,439
Speaker 1: or I'm the Velvet Sadden things about grief, and she said,

641
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,280
Speaker 1: thank you so much for creating space for such meaningful

642
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: conversations and also setting the tone for my weekend every

643
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:49,399
Speaker 1: Friday with Chips. We like to keep it casual, keep

644
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: us fun for you guys. Yeah, um, look, can I

645
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 1: know it's been a little heavy? Um yeah, uh, watched

646
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: like probably a few months because the world has been

647
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,439
Speaker 1: dealing with some dark ship and UM. I mean, look,

648
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: we even experienced it this weekend where we're there was

649
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: just some back and forth on Instagram, and it's like,

650
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: you know, we're not this this podcast in particular, we're

651
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: not in the business of of trying to talk about

652
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: the heavy stuff, although like it creeps in because it's

653
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 1: just the world that we live in, UM, and you know,

654
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 1: we we do ask for feedback and UM. I think

655
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: it's important for people to be able to talk whatever

656
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: they you know, whatever they want to talk about with us,

657
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 1: and I'm always open to a dialogue. But when people

658
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: say what we're talking about isn't important and points out

659
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: what is, UM, I don't think that's constructive. I just

660
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: think that's like comparing apples and oranges and UM, and

661
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 1: by saying bias, talking about one thing doesn't mean that

662
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: something else isn't important. But yeah, it's like we can't UM.

663
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: And you know, we're choosing to talk about sort of

664
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 1: the lighter side of things, UM, because everywhere else we

665
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: turn is the heavy ship. So you and I constantly

666
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: are saying, like we feel stupid trying to bring up whatever,

667
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: you know, dumb, weird sex and dating story or whatever.

668
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: When there's real ship happening. I mean, we said that

669
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: in the last episode. I was like, look at the world.

670
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I just I started the episode this week

671
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: saying the same thing. It's like, there's so many things happening.

672
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 1: I can't even like begin to talk about all of

673
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:40,280
Speaker 1: them because it's literally everywhere you turn it feels like

674
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: there is another crisis happening of some sort. And so

675
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,439
Speaker 1: I feel like you and I both have the same

676
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: motivation to do the best that we can to be

677
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: informed and to talk about things when we do have

678
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: things to say that we feel it could be productive

679
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: for the conversation and to also mention it and not

680
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: live under a fucking rock like this isn't happening, Like

681
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 1: Afghanistan is not happening. No, that's definitely not how we live.

682
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: And we want to start people's Friday mornings off and

683
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 1: try to have as much fun as a kid and

684
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: keep it light because it is so fucking heavy right now.

685
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 1: Like I mean, there's many days in the last two

686
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: years ago I just have not even wanted to get

687
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: out of bed it's so dark. And so if we

688
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 1: can help each other out with bringing any sort of

689
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 1: positivity to each other, I think we should yeah agree,

690
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 1: And you know, I think you know what made me

691
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: angry about that, and you know, I try not to

692
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: like fight, ever, Um was just that it seemed like

693
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: it was just like picking for the sake of picking,

694
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: and um, I just it felt like a a non sequitur,

695
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 1: if that it's the right word, Like it's just like, oh, yeah,

696
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: well that doesn't matter. This is what matters. Well, what

697
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,439
Speaker 1: these referenced saying as I posted about our podcast last

698
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: week about the only fans topic and said, what do

699
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: you guys think? And somebody wrote back and said, we

700
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: need to be thinking about our troops, not only fans.

701
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: And I would never try to say that only fans

702
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 1: topic is more important. It is also relevant, Like the

703
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: sexual stuff happening in our culture is also a relevant

704
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: topic if you ask me. And there's a lot of

705
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: dangerous things happening with that too, and um, things that

706
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 1: I want to discuss. And so we're not saying one

707
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: cancels the other out. We're also not a political podcast,

708
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: so we do the best we can to to balance

709
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 1: topical situations and pay honor to the things happening. Like

710
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 1: I said, but you said, you actually really got fired

711
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,439
Speaker 1: up because you're like, this is just a ship star.

712
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: She's like literally just trying to come at you. And

713
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,799
Speaker 1: I mean, nobody go to my Instagram and mess with

714
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 1: me because I got some backup with Chuck Doors. That's

715
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: what you real friends are. But I also just think

716
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: it's like a it's a it's a dangerous slippery slope too,

717
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 1: because it's like, of course our troops and are important.

718
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: Of course what's happening in Afghanistan is importantly, you know,

719
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:11,479
Speaker 1: so so are the livelihoods of people in America. So

720
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 1: are you know, um, so are the you know, more

721
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 1: people died in Florida last week of COVID than in Afghanistan.

722
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 1: And it's like it's all apples and oranges, you know there,

723
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,720
Speaker 1: It's all something that's really important, and it's all weighing

724
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 1: very heavily on our hearts. So I was just gonna say, like,

725
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: the reason why it made me angry is because we're

726
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: trying to live. We're trying to like bring some lighter

727
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 1: news into the world, just to have someone be like

728
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: but focused on the darkness, you know, like um and

729
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 1: and that's like I would much rather lead back to

730
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 1: somebody who is more educated on that and has a

731
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: stronger opinion on it. It doesn't mean that we don't

732
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: care about those things. Well, I think it's so tough

733
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: right now because it feels like no matter what you do,

734
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,439
Speaker 1: even if you have good intentions and you're trying your best,

735
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: someone is going to try to find fault with it,

736
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 1: which is sort of what you were feeling from this

737
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: one listener was that it was just like she just

738
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 1: wanted to pick and then like, come on, dude, like

739
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,959
Speaker 1: we are trying. Actually, we've been talking a ton about

740
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 1: the vaccine for this exact reason. That was very difficult,

741
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: for some reason for me to decide to do because

742
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,760
Speaker 1: because of this kind of ship, like I felt like, God,

743
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 1: I've been through the fucking ringer the past, like since

744
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: my reality TV debacle honestly and being a case of

745
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 1: something I didn't do. I'm so scared to say anything nowadays.

746
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 1: It's like even when I'm trying to help, Like it's

747
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 1: just I think that we all have to try to

748
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: give each other a little bit of grace and really

749
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: pay attention to what's actually being said and done versus

750
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 1: what you assume to be true about someone or their mentality.

751
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:57,800
Speaker 1: Right anyway. This comes from Andrea. She said, Uh, where's

752
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:01,320
Speaker 1: c I was posting about being over in bed this weekend,

753
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: and she wrote she knew you were with me until

754
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 1: she wrote in the message where's d H? I here?

755
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,799
Speaker 1: The people love that just as much as I do

756
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: a little thing song for everybody on a Friday. Uh.

757
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 1: This comes from Brooks. She said, I d M me

758
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: a lot, and I've I've realized that you and Schipper

759
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: my outlet weekly. I just wanted to let y'all know

760
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 1: I'm vaccinated, got mine in March, and currently have COVID. No, no,

761
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: it's kicking my ass. Not only that, but I have

762
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 1: the emotional bullshit of COVID and cried constantly. Did you

763
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: face that? That was to me? I told you the

764
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: hardest part of having covid um. I did have some

765
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 1: tough physical symptoms for a couple of days, but then

766
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: even when those have passed, the hardest part for me

767
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 1: was the isolation, because you're just literally people act like,

768
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: well this is I had it a year ago, so

769
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: it's gotten a little less. But like people acting, you

770
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 1: have the black plague and you cannot see anyone, and

771
00:41:56,760 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 1: it's so sad and isolating. Yeah, no, I mean it

772
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: really is. And it's like you feel like you have

773
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: the black plague, you know, because they the way that

774
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: people react, And I think it's just because there's so

775
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: much varying information out there and people are just scared

776
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 1: so well, and like you don't really know day to

777
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: day how you're going to feel with COVID, which is scary, right.

778
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 1: Like it's like you hear these stories of someone who

779
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,879
Speaker 1: was fine and then seven days in it just took

780
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: a turn for the worst. And so I think the

781
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: unpredictability of the virus itself is already very like causes

782
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 1: a lot of fear. And then when you can't have

783
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: your loved one next to you, like holding you, or

784
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 1: you can't see anybody, Um, yeah, it can just be

785
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: super emotional. So I think just to let you know

786
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 1: that is totally normal, and I hope that at this

787
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: point you're feeling a lot better and you know, maybe

788
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 1: able to see some people. I think FaceTime was a

789
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: really helpful thing for me doing that. If you can

790
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: FaceTime friends, do it and find a good show half

791
00:42:55,440 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: the time. Um, this one comes from me and she said,

792
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 1: I just listen to the podcast as someone This is

793
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 1: from last week's this topic of the um Only Fans.

794
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: As someone who feels like a side checks to porn Hub,

795
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: I'm saddened by the news that only Fans has are

796
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 1: tracted their non porn only statement. To my knowledge, my

797
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 1: BF isn't a subscriber. But I have so many thoughts

798
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: running wild in my head after that podcast. I'm about

799
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: to get real vulnerable. Sorry. I was never against porn

800
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 1: per se. I do think it's always gave men unreasonable

801
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 1: expectations of women. I believe it made women's out their bodies,

802
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: but if but it has gone beyond that now now

803
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 1: it's about human trafficking. It's been reported that porn hub

804
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: is a big part of that that I'm against. I

805
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: think porn is too available and it's affecting a lot

806
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 1: of relationships. Mine included so many layers. My boyfriend got

807
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,439
Speaker 1: heavy into porn when he was married for twenty years

808
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 1: and his wife quit having sex with him after the kids.

809
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 1: I'm glad he chose that over cheating. But the definition

810
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 1: of cheating does include getting sexual satisfaction from someone other

811
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: than your significant other. But now I'm the one who

812
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: was trying to quote unquote fix him. There's so many

813
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: red flags, but it came up after I was in

814
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: too deep. Let me just say he doesn't think he

815
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: has a problem, but when his hand is getting more

816
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,839
Speaker 1: action than me, there's a problem. In my opinion. How

817
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: much porner masturbation is too much? I don't know. We

818
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: don't talk about it much because it's a source of contention.

819
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 1: Everything your guest, the doctor in your previous podcast said

820
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:35,479
Speaker 1: was spot on the desensitation. Desensitization, God, that word is hard.

821
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,320
Speaker 1: He always wanted to take it a step further, losing

822
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: their erection because they're bored. Sorry, but a cannonball sized

823
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: dildo is not coming up my ass. Don't blame museum. Uh,

824
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: like you, I have so many mixed feelings. I like

825
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: your honesty about your feelings on the single Mom's on

826
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: only fans and how you can't decide if it's IgG

827
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 1: or the or an honest living. But what are her

828
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: kids going to think of her when they find out

829
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 1: she plays with herself on videos for money? Well, the

830
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: kids need therapy. Our friends will see their neck and Mom,

831
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 1: I didn't think about that aspect. Yeah, no, I mean

832
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 1: I think it's there's a lot to unpack like I

833
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: think about that all the time, that these people have families,

834
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: And yeah, I've always wondered that about porn stars because

835
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 1: a lot of times you'll see them with like their

836
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 1: significant other and I'm like, God, that's so interestingly they're

837
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: just okay with them having sex with other people all

838
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: the time. Like I just I'm curious what that conversation goes. Like, Well,

839
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: you know, I actually had a friend that was a

840
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: gay porn star for a while. He was in it

841
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:35,879
Speaker 1: for a few years, and I mean he basically said

842
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:40,919
Speaker 1: to me, he was like, what, it's so the sets

843
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: are so sterile that there's no it's not passionate in

844
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 1: any way, you know, like, yeah, you're having to reshoot

845
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: things all the time. Like it's not it's not as

846
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 1: fun as they make it seem, you know. Um. So

847
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 1: he was like, the emotional side of it is removed,

848
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 1: so it really is a physically just a physical act. Um. So,

849
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 1: I look, I don't know if that's easy for a

850
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Speaker 1: partner to to understand. Um, I guess that. I mean,

851
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 1: there's obviously something you have to disclose at the beginning

852
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 1: of your relationship. And I was gonna say that kind

853
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: of in reference to dance conversation. You know, she was like,

854
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: how much is too much? And these are conversations that

855
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I have literally dealt with the same thing,

856
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: and I have in my past history of dating someone

857
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 1: with corn addiction, and that was really really affected my

858
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: sexual life for a long time because it was like

859
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 1: very traumatizing to me um. And there's a lot of

860
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: stuff that comes with the addiction aspect of this. And

861
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: so I think that that's a really great question, and

862
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:49,959
Speaker 1: I think it goes back to what that doctor said

863
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: to us, or that that therapist we had on David Durrien,

864
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 1: It's like the issue isn't necessarily how much or or

865
00:46:58,000 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: what's too much or anything like that. It's that you

866
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: and your partner are able to have an open conversation

867
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: and they kind of agree on on what works for

868
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 1: both of you. And so if your partner is unwilling

869
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 1: to listen or be honest or compromise or communicate, like,

870
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 1: that's where the issue comes in, you know, not necessarily,

871
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, some people might be okay with

872
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: their partner watching porn every day. You know, it's just

873
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: different for every relationship. Like it's definitely a topic I'm

874
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 1: much more sensitive to because of my history. So I

875
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 1: have to be with a partner who can communicate about

876
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 1: that and openly, you know, be open to discussion or

877
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 1: open to working with me on figuring out what works

878
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: for us. I I don't think that I could, Like,

879
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 1: I don't think I could do it, do what. I

880
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: don't think that I could have a partner that is

881
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 1: doing porn, being like a porn star. Yeah, yeah, I

882
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 1: couldn't do that. Yeah, I don't. I don't think that

883
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: I could have a partner that was like watching it

884
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: all the time either, right, because you would. I mean

885
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 1: for me, it's hard, like sex, And that's why I

886
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:12,919
Speaker 1: think sex addiction is such a tough one that we're

887
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: just really starting to uncover in our society. But like

888
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:19,319
Speaker 1: it's so hard not to take it personal, right, Like

889
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 1: why am I not enough? Kind of thing can pop

890
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: in your head or like she said, it makes women

891
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 1: like insecure about their bodies and like guys have like

892
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 1: this unrealistic expectation of girls with big fake boobs, and

893
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 1: not all porn stars are like that. Sorry that was

894
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,879
Speaker 1: a generalization, but like it's tough because that's their job

895
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: to be naked, like it's sort of like a swimsuit model,

896
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: you know, like as an everyday person, you don't want

897
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: to really feel compared to that. And so if that's

898
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 1: what's like becoming the standard in your partner's mind, that's tough.

899
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,720
Speaker 1: That goes for men and women because like the porns

900
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 1: are guys have good bodies too, and they're all using

901
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: like erection enhancement stuff, right, So that's where it's like,

902
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 1: and like the girls in porn are always having an orgasm,

903
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 1: like let me just tell ye, no, they're not, Like, no,

904
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:15,399
Speaker 1: they're not, and you can tell by the way they're

905
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: having sex and they fake it. Like it's just like

906
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 1: I do think that we have to remember that it's entertainment,

907
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: like Dr Ariam said, and it's not reality, much like

908
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: social media. Um, okay, the last one I want to

909
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: read today is from Diane and I posted a picture

910
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: of you and I was matching airbrush t shirts from

911
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 1: this weekend our beach, same airbrush T shirt, and she said,

912
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 1: oh my god, so hilarious. Two years ago, my son

913
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: and I he was twenty eight, went away for a

914
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: weekend and we drank, got tattoos, got airbrush t shirts,

915
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: went to Dick's last resort. We lived it up. Looks

916
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 1: like you and ship are on the same trip. Love

917
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,760
Speaker 1: you guys. Chip is the ship? When was the last

918
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 1: When was the last time I called anybody the ship? L?

919
00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 1: O L? But he is? Oh my god, that made

920
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: my day. I know. I figured you might need that

921
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 1: one before you got to rehab. I wish, I wish

922
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: we've got to Dick. I've never been to Dick Flash.

923
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: What is it? When she wrote that, I was like,

924
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: what's that? It's a chain where the waiters are rid

925
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: to you. Oh that's right. I mean I thought we

926
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 1: had one a Nashville on Second Avenue. I think we

927
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:22,280
Speaker 1: used to. But also like, why does that sound fun?

928
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: I think it's just funny, you know, like they're making

929
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,320
Speaker 1: it looks like we O don't know. It's temporarily closed.

930
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: It looks like it might have been damaged in the bomb.

931
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: Oh interesting to think about all the ship that's happened

932
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 1: in Nashville. The tornado, then into the pandemic, then into

933
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:45,320
Speaker 1: a mom Yeah, I'm telling you we should start building

934
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 1: that art right now. Just float on down the Cumberland

935
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: of all places to think that's where you're going to

936
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: face right, oh God, all right, Well, we know you

937
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 1: gotta get on ship, and we're wishing you the best

938
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: of luck waiting to hear about it. I'm so proud

939
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 1: of you, and I just hope that it's the best

940
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 1: experience ever. I hope so too. Were gonna have either

941
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:15,359
Speaker 1: gonna come back like relaxed next week or like more

942
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:19,839
Speaker 1: stressed out than that. Yeah, I guess we'll see. It'll

943
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 1: be really interesting for all of us, and I meantime,

944
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 1: I'll chips away at on site. You guys, I hope

945
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: have a great rest of your week and into your weekend. Um,

946
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: while you're living on the edge, you always remember to

947
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:40,879
Speaker 1: casual Jesus. Okay, bye bye