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Speaker 1: what's up? What we're talking about today? What we are?
Speaker 1: Ok We're talking about once versus needs and the death.
Speaker 1: The textbook definition of want is a desire to possess
Speaker 1: or do something or wish for um thoughts, should or
Speaker 1: need to do something, and the noun is a lack
Speaker 1: or deficiency of something. And then the textbook definition of
Speaker 1: need is something that is required because it is essential
Speaker 1: or very important um and expressed or implied necessity or obligation,
Speaker 1: or circumstances in which something is necessary or that is
Speaker 1: required in some course of action. So when we were
Speaker 1: talking about before we got the roller, was the question
Speaker 1: will elaborate on this, would you rather be wanted or needed? Needed?
Speaker 1: Put in everybody vote? Then we wouldn't break it down.
Speaker 1: So you rather be needed? I say needed. It's possible
Speaker 1: cause I gotta ego. I'm a leo, so that's part
Speaker 1: of it. But needed because if somebody won't you, it's
Speaker 1: kind of like you know, I won't you, but what
Speaker 1: the hell? He So somebody wants you? That's like you know,
Speaker 1: I want to be around you. I want to I
Speaker 1: want you involved with what I got going on, but
Speaker 1: I don't particularly you know, have to have you. You
Speaker 1: feel me like you. I may want a soda, but
Speaker 1: I need water. M h. That's a great analogy. But
Speaker 1: now I want to be needed because I want somebody
Speaker 1: that you know, should you need me here or this?
Speaker 1: Should want to be needed or you need to be needed?
Speaker 1: I need to be needed. Okay, that was a good catch.
Speaker 1: I guess who I say? I told O, I want
Speaker 1: to be wanted. You know what I'm saying? Because if
Speaker 1: you won't me, you won't me. If you need me,
Speaker 1: you could just fun with me because you need me.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel like when it comes to um,
Speaker 1: when it comes to need, like when you need somebody
Speaker 1: or you know that you need somebody, you put on
Speaker 1: you put on a mask to to get your need
Speaker 1: from them. Yeah, and I want you if I totally
Speaker 1: want you, like I desire you. I want you as
Speaker 1: a person, and that depends in a relationship. You want
Speaker 1: to be wanted, Yes, you don't feel like one is
Speaker 1: more like I wanted somebody, want that. That's what I
Speaker 1: want that I want that you want? What if? What if?
Speaker 1: What if they saying I need your emotional support, I
Speaker 1: need your conversation. I feel like if you want me,
Speaker 1: you're gonna get your needs from me. If you want me,
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna give you everything that you desire if
Speaker 1: I feel that you want me. But I feel like
Speaker 1: when I feel like, when you need somebody, you're gonna
Speaker 1: work your move or figure out whatever whole you need
Speaker 1: to fill in to play whatever you have to play,
Speaker 1: get whatever you need that person. What about the what
Speaker 1: about the term when they say, uh, what does it
Speaker 1: say a woman wants to feel needed. Isn't it a
Speaker 1: term the same want? And a woman needs to feel
Speaker 1: wanted for me. For me, I'd rather be needed right
Speaker 1: like when it comes to work anything and that I
Speaker 1: need to be an asset. You need to need me.
Speaker 1: That's a difference like that, like period the relationships. I
Speaker 1: want you to want me. I want to yearn for me.
Speaker 1: I want you to go crazy behind me, So you
Speaker 1: better want me in a relationship, but need me in
Speaker 1: any other. When the woman walk around the club and
Speaker 1: say I don't need a nigga ship, she still want
Speaker 1: to be wanted. You don't need it, Like for me,
Speaker 1: you wanted to pay your bills. If you're that type
Speaker 1: of bitch, you want a nigger to do other certain things,
Speaker 1: but you don't need him if you're already fulfilling all
Speaker 1: of those things for yourself, but you need I feel
Speaker 1: like if you need somebody, No, I feel like you
Speaker 1: need somebody for love. Let me. You'll do anything you
Speaker 1: might be deceitful to prove that you to get them
Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, but if I need you, then I
Speaker 1: mean I can't go without you. But that's up to
Speaker 1: the other party to realize that you're what I want
Speaker 1: something for me? When I want something, I think like
Speaker 1: when you're saying that if you need something, you're gonna
Speaker 1: change who you are to get blah blah blah. I
Speaker 1: look at it the opposite way. When I want something,
Speaker 1: I look at like, I want this I know to
Speaker 1: study that ship and be whatever I need to get
Speaker 1: to get what I want. I think it's the opposite
Speaker 1: when you want something, to study that ship and you
Speaker 1: do whatever you need to get to get to what
Speaker 1: you want. When you need something, it's just like I
Speaker 1: need it, like, but we just got different opinion. Do
Speaker 1: you feel like you want you have her or do
Speaker 1: you feel like you want or need chant once and
Speaker 1: by me wanting her brought certain things that I need
Speaker 1: her first because I want you first, right, Okay, it
Speaker 1: starts that way. So you don't think the need is
Speaker 1: the graduation of I don't need up for ship what
Speaker 1: I need an You don't think you need her, like, no,
Speaker 1: you don't need what to be my wife. That's not
Speaker 1: a need. No, I want I want your companionship. You
Speaker 1: need it. I don't need it because I can find
Speaker 1: that ship anywhere. You can find that anyway, but can Yes,
Speaker 1: because the way I want you it to me. Let
Speaker 1: me call the way that I want you. That means
Speaker 1: I'm dedicated to want you, to need you, if that
Speaker 1: makes sense what I'm saying. If I don't guess what
Speaker 1: you can need the motherfucking don't want them, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, the people in relationship just because they
Speaker 1: need you. I need you to support me financially, but
Speaker 1: I don't really want you. Don't even want to come home.
Speaker 1: You don't even like you. But damn I ship we
Speaker 1: go have on bills and ship like that I need
Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, I need that. But if I, if I,
Speaker 1: just if I want you, we're gonna have a good time.
Speaker 1: If I need you, it's whatever I think. So not
Speaker 1: to jump the gun, though, but I think so. At
Speaker 1: first I was gonna say need for sure, But now
Speaker 1: I'm thinking in my head like you gotta be a
Speaker 1: healthy balance though, you gotta kind of need the person
Speaker 1: for something, but you I can't to me, I can't
Speaker 1: need you if I want you because I already seal fish.
Speaker 1: My grandma show me how to watch my clothes, cook
Speaker 1: clean up. I know I do everything that she can
Speaker 1: do besides have a puss. Now when I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 1: When I'm thinking about need, I'm just being a real
Speaker 1: But when I'm thinking about need, I'm like the non
Speaker 1: tangible things that you can't touch, like them like how
Speaker 1: how how she came to your emotions? You feel me?
Speaker 1: And that I'm saying I just said I That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's how I know I want her instead
Speaker 1: of needing her because I love everything about you. I
Speaker 1: am a victim of victim you when you beat him
Speaker 1: of domestic violence, do that, That's what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: but but if I need did you do beat on
Speaker 1: you like that? You know, Beacon just beat just being
Speaker 1: an asshod. But what I'm saying is me wanting earth
Speaker 1: allowed me to not give a funk about being beating
Speaker 1: beat You get like that me being single, it's kind
Speaker 1: of like different, Like I want chick with a big
Speaker 1: old fat ass, But I don't need you need stability, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I need stability. I want somebody who can kind of
Speaker 1: help build on the ship that I'm already doing. I
Speaker 1: don't need all the extra body ship when you with
Speaker 1: you on the way, you can't press themselves Jesus Christ, moment.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is I'm saying, I want what want me?
Speaker 1: So if I don't feel that you want me, I
Speaker 1: can't give you my all. You gotta feel you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I could just feel you need me.
Speaker 1: Everybody need a nigga like you. But when you okay,
Speaker 1: when you when you get past, when you get past
Speaker 1: your day and you go on your way in your head,
Speaker 1: are you thinking, man, I need to talk to Shante
Speaker 1: I want? Is it just the one I need to
Speaker 1: talk to? Y'all y'all gon, y'all ain't gonna y'all ain't
Speaker 1: gonna get me to say that, bro, because I can
Speaker 1: talk to the same conversation I got what I got
Speaker 1: I can't have with you. I want to. I want
Speaker 1: to teach, share my day with you because I love you? Right,
Speaker 1: I don't need to though A need? What's the what's
Speaker 1: the definition for need? A need? I could be tripped. No,
Speaker 1: I think I think when we get to that, I
Speaker 1: think I think right here, I'll tell you what you're saying.
Speaker 1: It is something that is required because it is essential
Speaker 1: or very important. Do you feel like you know how
Speaker 1: RV said, I'm sorry said I need your love and
Speaker 1: all this other ship it's kind of almost like a
Speaker 1: void if you don't have that from that particular person. True,
Speaker 1: you can talk to anybody or whatever the case is,
Speaker 1: but but if you don't talk to that person person,
Speaker 1: it's not it's not the same. And I think I
Speaker 1: want to talk. But if I don't talk to you,
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen? Will you be that? Will you be disappointed? Huh?
Speaker 1: If you couldn't talk to her for a week, would
Speaker 1: you be disappointed? For sure? So you need it? If
Speaker 1: you'd be disappointed, if you don't give a funk, you
Speaker 1: don't need it. I'm just trying to better. Huh. Do
Speaker 1: you say to her make you better? Yeah? It didn't
Speaker 1: say nothing about better. It could be a same let
Speaker 1: me because I listen, I used to be on the
Speaker 1: ship she was. Don't trust me, right, But therapy and ship, right,
Speaker 1: it's just like kind of just tapping in with your emotions,
Speaker 1: just like I'll tell my wife, I need you without
Speaker 1: my ego. I'm not saying. But the question is, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying I don't need her, like we're gonna take
Speaker 1: that out. What I'm saying, y'all said, would I'd rather
Speaker 1: be wanted or needed that I'd rather be wanted, because
Speaker 1: when you're being wanted to me, that show that it's real.
Speaker 1: If you're being needed, then you don't know it's questioned there.
Speaker 1: If you only need me, then I don't know how
Speaker 1: you really feel. But what does she never needs you? Whoever,
Speaker 1: that may be nothing, you won't feel like I feel
Speaker 1: like if everything all us feel trying to take with
Speaker 1: sleep up under the bridge with me, that's not because
Speaker 1: she needs me. That's because she wanted me, not necessarily.
Speaker 1: What does it mean what she needs me of me
Speaker 1: help on the bridge? I mean sometimes she hit me.
Speaker 1: What she needs comfort? You do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Would come with you don't need the material needs she
Speaker 1: wants me? If I don't know, I guess I mean
Speaker 1: you're basically saying that in order to have a needed,
Speaker 1: thing has to be a one thank you. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. In order for you to feel
Speaker 1: like you need me emotionally and physically, you have to
Speaker 1: want want me first, because you can need me just
Speaker 1: for different things and not even want to even deal
Speaker 1: with me or talk to me. Yeah, it's what I'm
Speaker 1: trying to say. I guess I'm saying that then you
Speaker 1: need me enough to be able to put up with
Speaker 1: my boys. Thanks, So it's about you do leave both.
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. You could rather be the question
Speaker 1: you'll ask that you'd rather be needed A want it.
Speaker 1: I'd rather be wanted, because once you want me and
Speaker 1: I want you, it's gonna turn until we need each other.
Speaker 1: But you don't think You don't think that if you're
Speaker 1: wanted but not needed, it makes you more disposable. But
Speaker 1: if you wanted what I needed, then we're gonna go
Speaker 1: separate anyway. I got you. So you're saying, but at
Speaker 1: the beginning, I don't start like that. You don't need
Speaker 1: each other at the beginning. At the beginning, some of
Speaker 1: they broke a whole needed needs holding like that. Let
Speaker 1: me really the beginning, some people looking at what I
Speaker 1: can gain from being in the relationship with shelter. So
Speaker 1: that's that's gonna saying, like to me, that's the mix up.
Speaker 1: But I feel like on the other side, if a
Speaker 1: needy can't realize that he's being used in the situation,
Speaker 1: you're not really paying attention. How you how the red
Speaker 1: flask of that trust me? When when they want to
Speaker 1: ever know you wouldn't know, y'all ship all right, all right,
Speaker 1: you really won't know because in your mind you're thinking
Speaker 1: of this bitched in my mind, I think I'm about
Speaker 1: to use her too, ass. That's what I'm saying. That's
Speaker 1: the need you won't you need? Won't you need it?
Speaker 1: Won't I can beat it'd be cool, but I won't.
Speaker 1: I want some ask right now some presumably you've done
Speaker 1: that for a majority of you like to drink you
Speaker 1: know what, you to need you and not want you.
Speaker 1: I wanted to need me for certain things and not
Speaker 1: want you know. I'm not saying that I'm going into
Speaker 1: what you're saying. The balance of it. You definitely want
Speaker 1: the person to want you, for sure, But I don't
Speaker 1: think that you just wanted to want to big facts.
Speaker 1: I want you all to need me, big facts. My job.
Speaker 1: If somebody wants me for a job, I want them
Speaker 1: to need for the job. What happens is that's a
Speaker 1: difference if the need. If the need is missing in
Speaker 1: any life situation, business or personal, there is a void.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is, if you can't talk to chante,
Speaker 1: do you feel a void? Yes? Therefore you need we
Speaker 1: upset a cool which one is that's upset. I don't
Speaker 1: got that. Don't don't go that. D if if you can,
Speaker 1: if you if you okay, if you're my regular bakshift,
Speaker 1: that means if you need to talk to because I
Speaker 1: won't hurt. That's what I'm saying. But I'm saying that.
Speaker 1: But if I'm set with my pet ship, I don't
Speaker 1: need to talk. I'm talking about some different ships. You
Speaker 1: lost your phone. You lost your phone, and you lost
Speaker 1: your phone, you can't talk to Seante. But that's not
Speaker 1: a need, that's a requirement. Well that's a difference. If
Speaker 1: I lost my phone, I better go find a pay phone.
Speaker 1: I told you to do that. I'm just being real,
Speaker 1: So I have to do certain things that I just
Speaker 1: have to do anyway, I don't matter if I need.
Speaker 1: That's what I try to get to. Did you ever
Speaker 1: miss Shante? Because I missed my wife? But sometimes I don't.
Speaker 1: If we wake up on the morning on some bullshit,
Speaker 1: I don't need to talk to me. I'm just being
Speaker 1: a real turning. But sooner or later, I'm going on
Speaker 1: normal circumstances. Normal circumstances, No'm a circumstance. I'm gonna need
Speaker 1: to talk to you because I want you. I want
Speaker 1: that same feeling that we had last night if this
Speaker 1: morning I think basically, so do we need to eat
Speaker 1: food or do we want to you need? So what
Speaker 1: I'm saying is, just like we have nutrition ship for
Speaker 1: our body, we also have certain ship for our emotions.
Speaker 1: That's why I have my wife because she gives me
Speaker 1: certain stuff to that need that I don't want to
Speaker 1: get no where. But but what if she decided to
Speaker 1: say she don't want me no more, I don't need her. No,
Speaker 1: I agree with you a thousand for sent because now
Speaker 1: it's just based on convenience. Thank you. It's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I don't want you, what I don't need you ship,
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna be nowhere with an empty vote
Speaker 1: for somebody that don't want me. But the reason why,
Speaker 1: the reason why I need her because I feel she
Speaker 1: wants me. But can you have a need without a want? Though? No?
Speaker 1: Is That's what I'm trying to break down basically, like
Speaker 1: I can't want you, I can't need you if you
Speaker 1: don't want me. Bro No, You're right, that's won't turn
Speaker 1: it turns into a need that but need is a
Speaker 1: part of it. Not sense not not not necessarily not
Speaker 1: necessarily bro, because at the end of the day, once
Speaker 1: you don't want me, that need be what's the last word,
Speaker 1: that's what That's what happens in divorce. Left for last week, redundant? Okay,
Speaker 1: now you need me repudiate it because he don't need
Speaker 1: needs you no more. If you don't want me, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be around about it. That don't want me, bro,
Speaker 1: get a relationship? How can I need you and you
Speaker 1: don't even like me? Exactly right? Let makes sense? So
Speaker 1: if you want me he ya, Now now the once
Speaker 1: has turned into emotional needs from each other, so you said,
Speaker 1: but that she could be turned off right then, as
Speaker 1: soon you say you don't want me to more, I
Speaker 1: bet you don't need you the morning you turned off,
Speaker 1: especially like what like I'm sorry but with so many
Speaker 1: years of like companionship, relationship and all the things like
Speaker 1: if schantag just I'm sorry to use you as the one,
Speaker 1: but if Shanty just woke up today and there like
Speaker 1: you know a bank, I don't need you, know, I
Speaker 1: don't want you no more. I don't think that it's
Speaker 1: humanly possible to just be like you know what what
Speaker 1: fucking I don't need you and everything. It depends on this.
Speaker 1: If you're saying yes, it will, it depends on you
Speaker 1: said you don't need me no more, and then you're
Speaker 1: standing out of ship and all this you're missing. Fuck you.
Speaker 1: So I don't mean I need you. When you need
Speaker 1: a person, your life don't go on without them. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We could think we need certain ship,
Speaker 1: but then just think about all the ship that we
Speaker 1: thought the worst of the worst ship gonna happen. Then
Speaker 1: when it happened to be like like I used to think,
Speaker 1: like I used to pray, like God, take me before
Speaker 1: you take my grandma. I need her. She passed away.
Speaker 1: I was hurt, but my life went on. When the
Speaker 1: worst happens, your life's gonna go on. Regards You're gonna
Speaker 1: go through the stage of being hurt all that, But
Speaker 1: just madden the worst of ship that you thought it
Speaker 1: wouldn't happened. You didn't want that bad. So hey, I'm
Speaker 1: not even gonna baby to click off your emotion, but
Speaker 1: you're gonna bait it. I'm anna the person I know
Speaker 1: how to accept everything. I don't have a choice. But
Speaker 1: that said, but what do I'm gonna keep doing now
Speaker 1: you drag me right, You're just saying you don't want me,
Speaker 1: now you That's that's how I need to be getting
Speaker 1: caught up in doing all the bullshit. This woman telling
Speaker 1: you she wants you, then you catch you with a
Speaker 1: motherfucker Johnson in the mouth. You want to beat up
Speaker 1: want you just told she just told you. I don't
Speaker 1: ask you bro with you, but you need this person
Speaker 1: she need. I was just saying, what, what's the next step?
Speaker 1: That's not telling you I don't want you? And I
Speaker 1: mean it's one needs. It's one of the need and
Speaker 1: loving and mica or you can say loving us, because
Speaker 1: what does somebody love you but us loving us? And
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to love his need. Yeah, you're saying
Speaker 1: it's so you think you can't beat you can't not
Speaker 1: love a person to need them, failing you think you
Speaker 1: cannot love a person but you need them. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Like what I'm saying, you don't
Speaker 1: love them at all? But how do how does it?
Speaker 1: How does it go with this person if you love
Speaker 1: them but don't like them, and vice versa. It's a lot.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think if you love them and they
Speaker 1: love you, but you don't like each other or one
Speaker 1: what one person doesn't like the person? Can you still
Speaker 1: love the person because like you don't mean I don't
Speaker 1: want you. But you can love somebody and do like
Speaker 1: and love then we'll get to that. Can you not
Speaker 1: like somebody but love them for sure? You've got a
Speaker 1: lot of people in your family you love it. I
Speaker 1: think that's a little bit synonymous to the one knee ship.
Speaker 1: I think you gotta have both to be completely happy.
Speaker 1: If you just love somebody because you love them and
Speaker 1: you knowing them forever and you with them, but you
Speaker 1: don't like them no more, that's gonna cause issues. But
Speaker 1: because I want you, I can learn how to like
Speaker 1: you and love you again because I want you. But
Speaker 1: if I don't want you no more, I mean, but
Speaker 1: if I don't want you but I need you, I
Speaker 1: can play a role to keep you around, to get
Speaker 1: the things that I want to get, the strength to
Speaker 1: do the funk to say fuck you. It's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: They don't make sense, makes sense. But if I want you,
Speaker 1: I want you. I light up when you come around.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I my wants is making
Speaker 1: me need you. Basically, It's what I'm saying, Like the
Speaker 1: way that I want you, it makes me need your present,
Speaker 1: It makes me need your loving, it makes me need
Speaker 1: all that. But if I don't want you and I
Speaker 1: just only need you and I just got my dog,
Speaker 1: let make sure, yeah we're not get big. I'm still
Speaker 1: think of you. Yeah, in a relationship, you do have
Speaker 1: to help both. But I feel like if if if
Speaker 1: the won ain't in now you did, the one is
Speaker 1: the foundation. Like you can need your job but hate
Speaker 1: that motherfucker to death every time. You ready to want
Speaker 1: to burn that ship down. But I need their job.
Speaker 1: But you're gonna act different if you want. But if
Speaker 1: you want your job, you can nigg out. You see
Speaker 1: how we're coming in, bitch, having a good time. The
Speaker 1: folks want to see us here. Man, we missed y'all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. They want to see us in.
Speaker 1: The energy is being reciprocated throughout this facility when we
Speaker 1: come in the builds. You get what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, we want y'all here, But I think
Speaker 1: that it's that that we need y'all were feeling me y'all.
Speaker 1: I think I think they for that for us. He'll
Speaker 1: have somebody to say, like they got a job that
Speaker 1: they have to do. I feel like this is some ship.
Speaker 1: We get to do this ship fun. Like niggas got
Speaker 1: that they have to do or they're not gonna survive.
Speaker 1: But we get to do this ship. Everybody can't do
Speaker 1: this ship. What this is some ship that we go
Speaker 1: with me. I don't have some I don't work some
Speaker 1: jobs I had to do, I don't. So maybe that's
Speaker 1: why I like when I was teaching, I had to
Speaker 1: do that showing sense because I ain't never work for
Speaker 1: them and I ain't Yeah, big facts, I don't have
Speaker 1: to do. I get to do this this ship fun
Speaker 1: and choking out. Look, kid, I did one time I
Speaker 1: had a job at but I quit because they were
Speaker 1: trying to get me to steal. How they were trying
Speaker 1: to get me the sneak the sneakers out the back door,
Speaker 1: and I was, you know, I'm an upstanding citizen. When
Speaker 1: I see this popum on my keleor I get up.
Speaker 1: I get up. I want to do this, not a
Speaker 1: damn man. I gotta go to be a fat w
Speaker 1: instant man. Man. They don't come in. Yeah, is that
Speaker 1: it's the same ship, But it's same ship. Was just saying,
Speaker 1: but I want to do it. Anything that I do,
Speaker 1: I want to do it, So it's gonna come out right.
Speaker 1: I want to go home to my wife, so it's
Speaker 1: gonna be we're gonna have a good time when I
Speaker 1: get home. If I don't want to go home, I
Speaker 1: don't want to go home. So the signs of those words,
Speaker 1: like so you're saying that when you're dealing with people
Speaker 1: in your relationship that once and knees can be balanced
Speaker 1: or whatever the case is. But outside of that in life,
Speaker 1: when it comes to whatever material items, experiences and all
Speaker 1: the other ship, then it flips around. Then the knees
Speaker 1: surpassed the ones facts facts like you said, like food
Speaker 1: you need, food you need. But do the question, what
Speaker 1: do you want to be wanted or needed? And I
Speaker 1: want to be needed in this culture, I want I
Speaker 1: want them to need me. I want them to need
Speaker 1: my words. But in my relationship, I want to be wanted.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying because I'm gonna feel when
Speaker 1: you don't want me. I'm gonna feel when you feel
Speaker 1: some type of way about stuff. Then it's gonna cause
Speaker 1: friction and ain't gonna need a won't you right? But
Speaker 1: what about when it comes to them kids? What about
Speaker 1: the kids? Like you know, like with kids, it's a
Speaker 1: lot of stuff that we do for our kids. We
Speaker 1: definitely we definitely don't want to do, we don't necessarily
Speaker 1: need to do, but we still do it. So where
Speaker 1: does that fall up? That's a difference. You gotta do
Speaker 1: it if they need it, but what if it You know,
Speaker 1: a lot of times kids don't be needing ship, they'd
Speaker 1: be wanting ship. You don't want to do it, nor
Speaker 1: do you need to do it, but you still do
Speaker 1: it. It It depends on how your kids situation. My kids grown,
Speaker 1: so I don't need or want to do ship for them.
Speaker 1: My grand baby, I wouldn't give a damn what she
Speaker 1: won't unneed she can get. Yeah, but you don't even
Speaker 1: look at it as what you want don't even matter,
Speaker 1: You don't even matter. So do you think that, like
Speaker 1: love can get to a certain point to where at
Speaker 1: that point it don't even matter what that you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like you said, for your grand baby,
Speaker 1: what she wanted to desire, it don't even matter how
Speaker 1: it affects you, right, because you're just gonna do it
Speaker 1: because she needed a want. So do you think that
Speaker 1: love can reach a certain type of moment like hight
Speaker 1: to where it don't matter, Like don't it don't matter?
Speaker 1: It don't matter at this point with me? Like I
Speaker 1: just told you bro early in this relationship, I mean,
Speaker 1: in this, in this conversation, that I have to do
Speaker 1: certain ships no matter if I want to do it
Speaker 1: or need to do it or not. What I'm saying
Speaker 1: is I do it because I know she wants me. Yes,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it if I just felt like she
Speaker 1: just only needed me. I don't given how you feel.
Speaker 1: Just take what I get you or take whatever what
Speaker 1: I whatever. But if you you showing that, hey, Bay,
Speaker 1: why don't call me? Oh, you're showing that you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, you're showing them gonna get a
Speaker 1: beat up when I get home type of ship. So
Speaker 1: you showing me you want me up, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So do you think with love it comes with a
Speaker 1: certain form of sacrifice for sure, compromising no matter what
Speaker 1: you no matter what you when you get this, when
Speaker 1: you tell a person that okay, it's us forever. No
Speaker 1: matter what you want, you gotta do what they want.
Speaker 1: But how does that work? I'm just saying, like, just
Speaker 1: say if they if she make a if she makes
Speaker 1: a requests and you know it's a sensible requests, you
Speaker 1: better do it right for sure. That's what I'm saying, Like, like,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But because if you don't
Speaker 1: want to do it, even if you don't want to
Speaker 1: do it, like I remember used to be going to
Speaker 1: did no Ice now that ship like that bro, I
Speaker 1: hated this ship, but I'm sending their motherfucker looking like,
Speaker 1: oh look at this, look at this. Ain't got no choice,
Speaker 1: but she knew in a heart like ye'all know you
Speaker 1: want to go, bab thank you for going. She know
Speaker 1: I don't want to go that ship. Do you feel
Speaker 1: like men make the biggest sacrifice and relationships, well when
Speaker 1: it comes to love, So of course we're gonna say that.
Speaker 1: I don't think so. You think it's an eco sacrifice
Speaker 1: because you know what's happy wife, happy life, You got
Speaker 1: happy house, happy spouse. You gotta make your wife happy.
Speaker 1: I can't make you happy. You don't want me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but we're talking about making sound talking about as far
Speaker 1: as like as far as men are concerned with their
Speaker 1: sacrifices as opposed to the sacrifices that men have to make.
Speaker 1: I feel like women have to endure more because men
Speaker 1: can't fucking men don't have to deal. Like if a
Speaker 1: man had a wife or a girlfriend or whatever, and
Speaker 1: she funked around and had another baby on him, he's gone.
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, women, depending on
Speaker 1: how much time has been invested in certain other factors
Speaker 1: and things or whatever whatever, they may choose to stay
Speaker 1: and just try to accept whatever comes with this nigga
Speaker 1: that that cause at the end of the day, Shall
Speaker 1: you don't have their baby if you be their baby
Speaker 1: and be here with us the baby. I just gotta
Speaker 1: baby moments on way with the baby. I got chicken
Speaker 1: with the baby, get her hand. Now you know I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I got nigga baby every day, dude, sact is it true?
Speaker 1: My baby on my own to hang my baby for
Speaker 1: the weekend. Ain't got to bring them to you. I
Speaker 1: don't know. You don't never got to see the baby.
Speaker 1: But I gotta call home. We got the baby cry
Speaker 1: and ships the baby looked like I ain't even looked
Speaker 1: at it like that, But damn, that's right. I look
Speaker 1: a lot like a lot of ship. But in the
Speaker 1: healthy relationship, I think you gotta have a conversation because
Speaker 1: this happened with me and my wife one time, and
Speaker 1: it's like, you gotta learn to respect. They're sacrifices and
Speaker 1: they're compromised because you might not know everything. Not compare them,
Speaker 1: not compare the exactly because a woman going through a
Speaker 1: lot of ship. But I ain't gonna know to you
Speaker 1: tell me that you're going through all that ship. Then
Speaker 1: I kind of told him to ship I gotta go
Speaker 1: through to make you happy doing all that. Hell, I
Speaker 1: think you're having to do some ship. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That ship ain't just snapping the finger. So
Speaker 1: you just gotta respect each other, communication understanding, Like I
Speaker 1: just need to know, like still want me right? You
Speaker 1: know ahead, make sure let make sure we keep that
Speaker 1: in there, because motherfucker did screened you alone, bro, and
Speaker 1: you've been string alone for what you could be. Don't
Speaker 1: got somebody that won't you. That's how niggas flip out
Speaker 1: and start killing everybody that's like you can't do that. No,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying but that's how it happens, blame or not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I feel when you said that you want to
Speaker 1: be needing in the relationships, are you really joined what
Speaker 1: you basically one? Definitely? Because you definitelytionally I want her
Speaker 1: to need me because you said you need ask what
Speaker 1: that's what you said. You know that. I said, you
Speaker 1: don't be making it up. He didn't say that, but
Speaker 1: you sound like you needed it. No, I said, I
Speaker 1: won't ask. But what I say, but now we are,
Speaker 1: you're talking about the whole time I'm talking about versus
Speaker 1: what I want to ask? What I need is he
Speaker 1: very rarely gets any show. He'd be leaving us to
Speaker 1: go get bitches. Now, No, I don't got a bit.
Speaker 1: You don't let that in there to keep rocking. I
Speaker 1: don't got no holes now he got one man one
Speaker 1: right now, he's trying to be cool, y'all go ahead, holes,
Speaker 1: But does he get the holes? Ass? Were talking about
Speaker 1: what your needs connection? You've seen to me action like that.
Speaker 1: But I need it. I need to be want wanted.
Speaker 1: I want to be wanted and that I don't. I
Speaker 1: need to be wanted man wanted. But I feel like
Speaker 1: once you want me and show you you want me,
Speaker 1: and I start want you. I'm gonna do things that
Speaker 1: You're gonna make you automatically needing. That's deep. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna do things that that's that's that's that's
Speaker 1: gonna make you where you you don't want to be.
Speaker 1: You don't want to be out of my present like
Speaker 1: you need my presence. RsTen is a big part of that, Huh.
Speaker 1: I tell some of my partner's like, if you don't
Speaker 1: miss the person you with something with the ones, the needs, whatever,
Speaker 1: if you don't miss that person, so many right supposed
Speaker 1: to miss the person. Yeah, I guess, I guess it's
Speaker 1: I guess when I when y'all ask the question I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about, like an issue like if I come in
Speaker 1: a relationship with a person I need them. I don't
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna being real with them. I don't nobody
Speaker 1: should jumping right in the relationship needing somebody that ship.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Do you want to be wanting
Speaker 1: and needed where you gotta start it? Start from the
Speaker 1: begin the beginning. But can that captain save the ship?
Speaker 1: Turn into some other ships, some good ships? Yeah, we
Speaker 1: don't see some niggas save some women. Yeah, but see
Speaker 1: what happens with get different. What happens with the captain
Speaker 1: saving ship is like they go into it saving the
Speaker 1: bench or whatever, and then the bitch gets comfortable with
Speaker 1: the routine and just decides to settle. Yes, for sure,
Speaker 1: for sure. She's saying like, that's okay if you like
Speaker 1: savings the code that you know what I'm saying, You
Speaker 1: need a girl, you take care of, pay of beers
Speaker 1: and all that, you know what I'm saying. And then
Speaker 1: she got them. She's just like she got comfortable with that.
Speaker 1: She don't quit a job. Okay, now that taking even
Speaker 1: even though I don't want him. Yeah, but that code
Speaker 1: can't pay them being she gonna show him I don't
Speaker 1: need you, want you niggas out of here on the
Speaker 1: big Willie. Yeah, well yeah, that ship do happen for fact,
Speaker 1: third strange Jane ship. And people only need you until
Speaker 1: they find who they want. That's deep damn the truth.
Speaker 1: That's a big fact right there. Some people only need
Speaker 1: I need you for comfort right now. That goes back
Speaker 1: to stringing the person along and making them flip out
Speaker 1: once they find out the truth. I didn't did that
Speaker 1: a few times the toxic. I ain't gonna hold you.
Speaker 1: I didn't did that a few times, been bored on
Speaker 1: some ship, didn't have nobody else? Then talk to somebody,
Speaker 1: did some ship and wait to somebody that came in.
Speaker 1: What was the what was the middle? They are doing
Speaker 1: for you though? No, it was just like some ship
Speaker 1: to do. Like somebody talked to somebody, take me out
Speaker 1: to eat? I was I ain't allow I was on
Speaker 1: some bush. I just strung it along just because I
Speaker 1: knew I so many women do that. Yeah, we do it,
Speaker 1: so many women. For the first dude, Now, I just
Speaker 1: stopped talking to him because the other dude came and
Speaker 1: I like them more. You ghosted him. Yeah, it's easy.
Speaker 1: You know how anyone that trigger what you're doing. You
Speaker 1: get the messages that used to be every hour now
Speaker 1: they like answer but stop calling me. But some of
Speaker 1: you women a disgrad brush. Stop calling me. But you
Speaker 1: don't even I don't even like you. Man, click, don't
Speaker 1: need to give you that. Just put your ass on
Speaker 1: the block list and you want to start the man,
Speaker 1: that ship just disappears. You'll see you Have you seen
Speaker 1: that have my Yeah? I did have I did have
Speaker 1: a girl. I'm really just waiting on this other nigga. Click, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. We're not playing the games. I'm
Speaker 1: too poping for that. So you so you're the warm
Speaker 1: them up. Take him go, let them get drunk. Okay,
Speaker 1: come see you like right, I don't like. I mean
Speaker 1: like I'm like going out side for that ship that happened.
Speaker 1: Did you coming over here? It's you up a bit
Speaker 1: heart up friend, drink? Come put up up? In weekends?
Speaker 1: How to eat? We got like, how many times it's always,
Speaker 1: don't do that yet me once? Just once? What years?
Speaker 1: That was twenty seventeen, that was one time in twenty seveneen? Heaven,
Speaker 1: I said, how many times I go out of that
Speaker 1: ship that happened? I don't be out you do be
Speaker 1: out by myself buying drinks and don't drink. The house
Speaker 1: of hook ain't no drink. It's them. That's part of
Speaker 1: not saying, you gotta have had Yeah, I ain't had once?
Speaker 1: Thank you. The night before the late nights, she called
Speaker 1: the nigger they got them they eat eating mother, and
Speaker 1: who is that? I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go wan thing.
Speaker 1: I really want to fool and drum because he ain't
Speaker 1: gonna be ain't and he ain't buying ship, so I
Speaker 1: need somebody else to do get out there. That's a
Speaker 1: tragic story. Sorry for that, but I wish your motherfucker
Speaker 1: would they've been doing it yet? Who all of them?
Speaker 1: So okay, so let's let's let's start over. Since we
Speaker 1: had a great dialog. Do you rather be wanted or
Speaker 1: what versus needing? Is Codak's kind of drumming need it
Speaker 1: couldn't my word coming off the big facts need it
Speaker 1: and I as a big consistent the whole time, need it.
Speaker 1: So you want that needs you? So girl, girl, now
Speaker 1: want you. We just said you can't have a need
Speaker 1: without a want. You can have a need without he's
Speaker 1: shch sain't choose one. We have to choose. It's red
Speaker 1: bluepill today red the bluepill, needed on one needed needing
Speaker 1: that if you're needed, you're not wanting all right now.
Speaker 1: When I say need, I'm talking about emotionally. I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about she need me for. But that's saying but
Speaker 1: you can need. She can she can deal with you
Speaker 1: for emotionally, Like just let you be a counselor and
Speaker 1: still come, won't me? And you may be the one
Speaker 1: that's easier to talk to, but think that I really
Speaker 1: want He ain't trying to hear none of that. He don't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't even want him to hear that I got
Speaker 1: real life problems going on because I want him to
Speaker 1: think I got that's really really, I'm not talking to
Speaker 1: somebody about the issues that I'm not dealing with like
Speaker 1: that girl. So girl, Yes, yeah you are girl? How
Speaker 1: didn't how do you know this show you that your girl?
Speaker 1: How do you know? How you know? You know? He
Speaker 1: give you know, the to drinking money? Yeah? What you're doing?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I got this houst thing. I'm about to
Speaker 1: pull up like you wanted them. I'm gonna pull up
Speaker 1: on you. I need ticket to the Big Fact Live, Nigga?
Speaker 1: I got you? How I accused you of that? What
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is you want you want to
Speaker 1: be a different like nobody say you don't five bitch?
Speaker 1: He knew at the five bitch. But is he the
Speaker 1: warmer though? You warmer five bit won't be warmers toaster
Speaker 1: ving him? Yeah, that's what we were house buddies. What
Speaker 1: we're talking about, Jake, I'm just saying that's all they're saying.
Speaker 1: Are you the warmer were not saying, yeah, honestly, absolutely,
Speaker 1: are you wanting the nigga that girl be like they
Speaker 1: don't count because you know girls always got the niggas
Speaker 1: that don't count. Don't want them still beat. I don't
Speaker 1: give a funk. I don't I don't give your ship,
Speaker 1: give it you, but don't right, I don't smoke, I
Speaker 1: don't eat. Come already warmed up. We got ain't got
Speaker 1: no dishes? What you mean, ain't got but I been
Speaker 1: ba you try to give up, but protuber ain't got
Speaker 1: that ain't doing. We're gonna let code that woe three woman.
Speaker 1: He ain't w ship like I'm right here, I'll you
Speaker 1: wont want to want now in the relationships. I definitely
Speaker 1: want to be wanted in business and everything else. I
Speaker 1: definitely need to be needed first, work with friends, with friends.
Speaker 1: An't here less gonna lie with friends you don't you
Speaker 1: can need if a friend need you, that ship weird
Speaker 1: know it ain't because I felt like with certain something,
Speaker 1: I got certain friends. I like. If I'm going through something,
Speaker 1: it's a certain friend I need to talk to. I
Speaker 1: need to need different friends with different things. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: we're not I have certain friends I want to go
Speaker 1: hang out with. I want to go out with this friend,
Speaker 1: but a certain friends. But if that friend wasn't available
Speaker 1: to get that whatever you want to talking for us
Speaker 1: you want to get off with. Do you need them
Speaker 1: for that ship? Or can you have that same conversation
Speaker 1: with another? No, you still need them, you just kind
Speaker 1: of wait, like at least for me. With me, like
Speaker 1: my certain friends that I feel like give me the
Speaker 1: best advice, Like if they're not available for me to
Speaker 1: talk to, I may go to my friend two or three,
Speaker 1: but I still gonna bring it back to the main
Speaker 1: one that I feel like give the best advice and
Speaker 1: I feel like know me better, so I need that person.
Speaker 1: But then you want, you know, I think with friends
Speaker 1: this want and need. I think you don't know your
Speaker 1: oldest friendship how long we've been friends, like ship high school?
Speaker 1: So like fifteen sixteen years y'all still talk every day.
Speaker 1: We don't talk every day now because we talk cool now.
Speaker 1: We talk we lock in like everything important. We talk
Speaker 1: about like all of that ship. But we ain't talking
Speaker 1: every day. But if I got something that's like going
Speaker 1: on in life and I'm like depressed or something, I'm
Speaker 1: a car check in or if some ship going on
Speaker 1: with her, she needs some ship going on, she's gonna
Speaker 1: call check in one of them. Hamma, who I jumped
Speaker 1: out of with. That's my first friend that I ever
Speaker 1: had in life, and I want to be his friend.
Speaker 1: Like we cannot speak for months, years he's been in
Speaker 1: prison and all this ship we're still have friends. I
Speaker 1: don't need him for a friend, like I don't need
Speaker 1: him for him. He don't need him for me. But
Speaker 1: that's my brother, So I want him to be my brother,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But he do come forth
Speaker 1: if I need him, Like if I need you, he
Speaker 1: gonna pull up. So but I want to be as
Speaker 1: fun first. Let make sense in the world, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's the same way I'm trying to
Speaker 1: say with a relationship, Like if I just need you,
Speaker 1: how do I really can say I respect you or
Speaker 1: love you if I only need you, I only need
Speaker 1: If somebody only needed their friend because their friends do
Speaker 1: certain ship for him, got a car, got this or
Speaker 1: got that or whatever, then it's missing. Its exactly the
Speaker 1: same with my wife and not put my hands on
Speaker 1: her just period, like in public whatever, I just gotta
Speaker 1: be touching her because I want her. I don't need
Speaker 1: to be touching her. You get wanna say, I want
Speaker 1: to touch you and make you feel and smile and blushing. Ship,
Speaker 1: I want that. I want to see that smile. You
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. But if I just needed you
Speaker 1: on it, ship, sho, get out of the car. Yo.
Speaker 1: I don't get where your parkhead. I don't count, but
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna walk down there and make sure because
Speaker 1: I want to make you feel good. If that makes
Speaker 1: sense what I'm saying. But if I just answer my feeling,
Speaker 1: I just only needed you, and I'm telling how I
Speaker 1: would treat you. To think about how your sume s.
Speaker 1: Think about how your friends, like the people that needed
Speaker 1: you in life, right when they didn't need you no more,
Speaker 1: think about how they treated you. That's why I'm coming from.
Speaker 1: I don't went through that. Everything of that needed me
Speaker 1: when they needed me to stop. They faced to beat this,
Speaker 1: beat this, beat this. They were the best of my friends.
Speaker 1: They was kicking it like they wanted me. They got
Speaker 1: a position where they didn't need bank no more than
Speaker 1: now it's fun or not even that. In fact, they
Speaker 1: didn't need you no more you cut off access to
Speaker 1: you to what they can't even thinking like that, I
Speaker 1: can't use you exactly. I see, okay, I can't go
Speaker 1: sit on that sof bank. You don't. I'm so filled up.
Speaker 1: And then j that the dove tripping about that get
Speaker 1: the money. They can start seeing like ship the chain
Speaker 1: and you can start showing their red hand. They't one.
Speaker 1: They probably pay the humble. But I got in seven
Speaker 1: six thousand events free. Yeah, because I needed you to
Speaker 1: get an events once I started showing that you can't
Speaker 1: get an events. Look, I don't want to go to
Speaker 1: your ship no more. You know what I'm saying. Like
Speaker 1: one music fest, we just did shots out of one
Speaker 1: music fest we just did. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: we didn't have access to no tickets to that ship
Speaker 1: with tripping. If you're really fun fair, how you say
Speaker 1: you're doing your feminine by ticket and let me see
Speaker 1: you feel me from the cross. That means you want
Speaker 1: to see me win, not need to see me when
Speaker 1: you need to see me win. That means you need
Speaker 1: to see me win to help you. You're winning is
Speaker 1: only as relevant as it helps me. It's no, that's
Speaker 1: the truth, though, say want because you won't be you.
Speaker 1: You're gonna want to see me happy. You gonna want
Speaker 1: to see if you're gonna want I don't want to
Speaker 1: see me win. Yeah, I see what you're saying. So needed,
Speaker 1: it's kind of if I need bank needing, the self
Speaker 1: serving on my part. Yeah, like Screen just said, Screen, no,
Speaker 1: he can get ta, we can get whatever at the
Speaker 1: ship show. He won't. He just said, I'm about a
Speaker 1: whole brow in the phone call and get the teams
Speaker 1: away whatever. That's because he wants to see me win. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know I'm saying if he needed me for some tickets,
Speaker 1: it used to be like, no, I want to see
Speaker 1: you win. That's the difference, bro. Yeah, I get that.
Speaker 1: I get that. So when when these women are calling
Speaker 1: here you and they're drinking up, you're looking all this,
Speaker 1: you just won't they won't to be womped up and
Speaker 1: I won't ship. Yeah, real ship, in relationship, you should
Speaker 1: want to be wanted. I can't tell everybody whatever. But
Speaker 1: and then I feel like once you, once you've been
Speaker 1: properly wanted, they're gonna automatic need you. Yeah you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, I think you're right, because but
Speaker 1: I know that like a lot of men that they'll
Speaker 1: start their relationships by saying they want a woman that
Speaker 1: need them so but that's that's that's a that's an
Speaker 1: ego thing to not necessarily like myself. But some men
Speaker 1: have to want to be needed for certain ship. That's
Speaker 1: how that that's the dynamics of their relationship. But the
Speaker 1: thing about it is if you put if you, if
Speaker 1: you're the type of man, then I feel like I am,
Speaker 1: you're gonna give a woman something she came not she
Speaker 1: came not need. You get what I'm saying. But you
Speaker 1: wanted me, gonna make me, make you want to need me,
Speaker 1: If that makes sense what I'm saying, like, I just
Speaker 1: need you to want me, to give me a chance
Speaker 1: to show you you need Okay, you feel I'm saying
Speaker 1: like you wanted just because she wanted you from the
Speaker 1: beginning when y'all got together. Okay, now we need each other.
Speaker 1: Then we need to start a family, We need to
Speaker 1: get married. We'll get married. Started how they went. But
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying, But it came from you
Speaker 1: wanting her. Know, the foundation is definitely the ones I
Speaker 1: learned that that that makes all the sense in the world.
Speaker 1: But the foundation is there. But another thing like Black
Speaker 1: was just saying, like, then you put that, she gonna
Speaker 1: know she needs you. You put the right one at
Speaker 1: the right time, she gonna know what she needs. That's
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. Like you some niggas don't understand or
Speaker 1: some nicks who need to be needed. Dang got everything
Speaker 1: it take to be wont Yeah, That's what I'm just
Speaker 1: getting ready to say. Like how he was saying, like,
Speaker 1: when you properly, when you've been properly wanted, you never
Speaker 1: need to be needed again. Facts. Fact, Jake's running back
Speaker 1: one time for the bitches in the back, Jake, when
Speaker 1: you have been properly wanted, you never need to be
Speaker 1: needed ever again. Facts. Yeah, that's a fact. Taught me something.
Speaker 1: That's when it comes to like relationship ship. I think
Speaker 1: for me, I think most I could just be for myself.
Speaker 1: For me, I felt like I'm so like independent, Like
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't need nobody, Like because you
Speaker 1: met the nigga that you can't sleep, eat whatever without.
Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. That's what it is. That's
Speaker 1: what I feel like. It's a want, like if I
Speaker 1: could deal like I want you for certain things, But
Speaker 1: I felt like it's a different bro's it. Then when
Speaker 1: you need to meet certain people, not even a nigga,
Speaker 1: you meet the female whoever, you meet the person that
Speaker 1: I want you so much that I got a met
Speaker 1: your match. Yeah, exactly, like a lot of the ship
Speaker 1: you be on. I'm telling you this ship, he said,
Speaker 1: should I be on? You think I'd be on? Bullshit?
Speaker 1: You mean you respect him a certain way? All that ship.
Speaker 1: You know he ain't going for this ship. You ain't
Speaker 1: even gonna be on this ship. It's gonna be He's
Speaker 1: gonna meet your match. The strang on and not fix.
Speaker 1: We were talking about three in the morning all this show.
Speaker 1: We're talk about in the past, Like no, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no no. I got to let me. We're talking
Speaker 1: about in the past like things have in the past
Speaker 1: when I was giving those examples, but waking up at
Speaker 1: three and I'm not changing my mind on that. Like
Speaker 1: Jay got that hit. You can't say that. You can't
Speaker 1: say that right nigga. Three sound. I swear to God,
Speaker 1: the right nigga, do the right ship. But you go,
Speaker 1: God damn, you'll find that motherfucker cutting the meat off
Speaker 1: the couch. Yeah, damn curated. You'll do everything you need
Speaker 1: to do to get the nigga the sound what you
Speaker 1: won't because you won't because you want him to be happy.
Speaker 1: Thank you in the morning. We ain't gonna do this
Speaker 1: because they the comments ate my ass up about me
Speaker 1: talking about three in the morning. Make you want to
Speaker 1: show you don't make that sound whistling for the right
Speaker 1: niggas whistling Lane Dixie, that's your sleep listen, because I
Speaker 1: you know, I'm man a fact, don't have it. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna come and tell you, man, I just I woke
Speaker 1: up at three in the morning and made a sound.
Speaker 1: See I like I go through that too, Like I
Speaker 1: just like saving like coming out home, like so neat
Speaker 1: she know what to say to make me say that
Speaker 1: side if she don't want to do it, but fine,
Speaker 1: like getting up, man, like why do you wait that?
Speaker 1: God sleep? And then I'll be like this side. But
Speaker 1: I know you would have did it that. I got mad. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like you gonna do it anyway, you get what's that?
Speaker 1: I know you'll do it, yeah, but I know you really,
Speaker 1: I really just tried. Just five o'clock in the ball
Speaker 1: you tired, you gotta get up whatever but just me
Speaker 1: knowing that you respect me enough that you'll get up
Speaker 1: and do it. Mad. I don't want my salitation, no man,
Speaker 1: So make my ship with love. That's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: because you're dropping on the floor. If I woke up
Speaker 1: to make that sounds, that should give a frisbee all
Speaker 1: across the dust, Like I'm frisbee in it and you're
Speaker 1: gonna get it. What bron did some of the bullshit
Speaker 1: like get that girl to get up and fixed me ship?
Speaker 1: And she's coming up with the should not have your sleep?
Speaker 1: Oh that she was a guy smacked the crashing as
Speaker 1: up and eat this ship? Oh my god, yes if
Speaker 1: I did it? Yeah, see I'm not but certain ship.
Speaker 1: Like a couple of episode petty, you have to be
Speaker 1: petty because I'm doing those things to see that you
Speaker 1: still want me. But can she be that same petty
Speaker 1: with you? Like she go wake up at the phone
Speaker 1: in the morning, say make her a sandwich? A sandwich?
Speaker 1: I'm not the sandwich maker? Why not? What makes you
Speaker 1: not the sandwich maker? I bring you the sand but
Speaker 1: what makes you not the sandwich maker? I never made sounds?
Speaker 1: How why not? Because that's not but but but you
Speaker 1: ain't wake me up, made no sound. He's not what
Speaker 1: I said for him. I don't make challenge just a chance. Stop.
Speaker 1: That's my child. First of all, he just said he's
Speaker 1: not waking about his sleep and making up sound. Here
Speaker 1: nobody didn't know wake my sheep to walk up to
Speaker 1: the car if she didn't gt to go someone right,
Speaker 1: I wake up at my sleep and do things that
Speaker 1: she needs me to do as a husband. She said.
Speaker 1: If he if he say't go to walk, and she said,
Speaker 1: go to walk and get this I really needed. I
Speaker 1: would wake up a out my sleep and do that.
Speaker 1: But I don't even wake up about my sleep to
Speaker 1: be the goddamn to wash the dishes me neither somebody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe that's what I give. I get that to you.
Speaker 1: I wake up out my sleep to take care of
Speaker 1: my child for you. Do I like about any relationship
Speaker 1: if I didn't want to have sex and wake me up?
Speaker 1: Sounds like she just asked that questions about sacrifice. I
Speaker 1: did just asked that you confused sometimes that I'll be,
Speaker 1: but not to make a sound. And man, the sex
Speaker 1: we did we to do this is gonna come after
Speaker 1: her reason. I mean, I could be what what if
Speaker 1: that's gonna be different. I'm not it's gonna be different
Speaker 1: because we really know you, We know your heart. You
Speaker 1: just on this ship, but that ship you're gonna yours.
Speaker 1: When I listen relationship the same way I met my match,
Speaker 1: meet that match, tell you are you going? I ain't saying,
Speaker 1: but I ain't waking up at my sleep to make
Speaker 1: the sandwiches? Is it sex traffic? You tell your why
Speaker 1: she can't need you from what is a sex trafficking?
Speaker 1: If you tell your wife you can't you can't leave me,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like just saving, like savings, I get into it,
Speaker 1: like she'd be like, I just can't deal with this more.
Speaker 1: You can't leave That's not t that's traffic. It's earth.
Speaker 1: Now you're making her to go have sex with everybody else? No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: what I'm saying we have sex? Right, Yeah. So if
Speaker 1: she's saying she want to leave me, and I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you can't leave it, we can't gotta have trafficking exists
Speaker 1: when it's going through people. That's actually coversion? Is that?
Speaker 1: Is that a did you tell your wife she can't
Speaker 1: leave you? It's kidnapping? It really depends on the country
Speaker 1: did you tire up? And it depends on I'll just
Speaker 1: say you been I leave. No, that ain't no crime.
Speaker 1: Black people do it all the time. Okay, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of ship we do that. So crime warming warming
Speaker 1: warming sister, believe that you want him back and back
Speaker 1: he caught in the warm HVAC system. That boy, I
Speaker 1: don't know what they be sleeping over. I don't know
Speaker 1: where they'd be going. So ship, you know more leep over?
Speaker 1: You put them to sleep? Yet you said you gotta
Speaker 1: sleep and who eat getting a warm bits for as
Speaker 1: ship said you going? You you're finding fat? Are you
Speaker 1: going gonna? Maybe they'd be sleeping my ship? So I
Speaker 1: don't know a nap, no wake up at eight o'clock
Speaker 1: in the morning give him. Yeah, but yeah, but I
Speaker 1: ain't ready. He still trapping. Yeah, they came up from
Speaker 1: the spot. I got what I take up. He also,
Speaker 1: so you want them up and them get risk? Yeah
Speaker 1: the shot they shot to get you, let me get
Speaker 1: risk and she could have come with us fully shot.
Speaker 1: He get her gas money, let her take a shower
Speaker 1: before she leave. Man the perfect big fact family. Believe
Speaker 1: that you want to like that? Yeah, Fat and husban
Speaker 1: DM Yeah, y'all see that he probably got somebody right now,
Speaker 1: y'all see that laid back he got going on? Man,
Speaker 1: take to believe what you want to he said, They thick. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking business. That's a couple of can't know, but
Speaker 1: I don't know. Is he warming or Joman gonna blast?
Speaker 1: And if you if your m posted, bitch, what about fitch?
Speaker 1: You all that you ain't that cool? You ain't that cool? Posted? Woman?
Speaker 1: Somebody is upset. Woman, sister, I'm sick too. Sick a girl.
Speaker 1: Don't you see how you do? Break? Break this hard?
Speaker 1: Get it? She come out of the blue jar acting
Speaker 1: like she wants you. That's me. Aby's gonna reply to him. There,
Speaker 1: you'll be like you to follow us? Who sent you?
Speaker 1: She followed any one of yours? Oh good, that was
Speaker 1: a great topic. She followed three years old? Want kick knees?
Speaker 1: Asterday lost? We lost? But no, it's you gotta be
Speaker 1: needed in the situation some balance, For sure. You gotta
Speaker 1: be needing a situation. But I prefer to be one
Speaker 1: it first, and then when you want me the person
Speaker 1: I'm gonna become. Knowing that you want me, it's going
Speaker 1: to create a need for me every woman. I think
Speaker 1: I think every woman want and need certain things from
Speaker 1: like a significant other. Like they're gonna always yearn for
Speaker 1: like a man to treat them a certain type of way.
Speaker 1: So they're always gonna need a man for a certain thing,
Speaker 1: regardless of what we say, Like especially being an independent woman,
Speaker 1: I can say all day, I do all listen all
Speaker 1: that myself, right, but deep down it's certain things that
Speaker 1: I yearned and need for a man to do. That's
Speaker 1: what we're saying. And you're gonna meet your match. You're
Speaker 1: gonna meet your matchup make a cute we want to No, no, no,
Speaker 1: don't you know we're not even gonna do that. All right,
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