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Speaker 1: Big Facts Friday. What's up people? What's up? Film? That's happening?

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Speaker 1: owning out you Wilman you let's get straight to it.

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Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be an interesting conversation today. You

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Speaker 1: what's up? What we're talking about today? What we are?

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Speaker 1: Ok We're talking about once versus needs and the death.

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Speaker 1: The textbook definition of want is a desire to possess

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Speaker 1: or do something or wish for um thoughts, should or

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Speaker 1: need to do something, and the noun is a lack

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Speaker 1: or deficiency of something. And then the textbook definition of

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Speaker 1: need is something that is required because it is essential

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Speaker 1: or very important um and expressed or implied necessity or obligation,

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Speaker 1: or circumstances in which something is necessary or that is

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Speaker 1: required in some course of action. So when we were

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Speaker 1: talking about before we got the roller, was the question

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Speaker 1: will elaborate on this, would you rather be wanted or needed? Needed?

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Speaker 1: Put in everybody vote? Then we wouldn't break it down.

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Speaker 1: So you rather be needed? I say needed. It's possible

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Speaker 1: cause I gotta ego. I'm a leo, so that's part

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Speaker 1: of it. But needed because if somebody won't you, it's

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Speaker 1: kind of like you know, I won't you, but what

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Speaker 1: the hell? He So somebody wants you? That's like you know,

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Speaker 1: I want to be around you. I want to I

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Speaker 1: want you involved with what I got going on, but

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Speaker 1: I don't particularly you know, have to have you. You

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Speaker 1: feel me like you. I may want a soda, but

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Speaker 1: I need water. M h. That's a great analogy. But

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Speaker 1: now I want to be needed because I want somebody

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Speaker 1: that you know, should you need me here or this?

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Speaker 1: Should want to be needed or you need to be needed?

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Speaker 1: I need to be needed. Okay, that was a good catch.

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Speaker 1: I guess who I say? I told O, I want

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Speaker 1: to be wanted. You know what I'm saying? Because if

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Speaker 1: you won't me, you won't me. If you need me,

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Speaker 1: you could just fun with me because you need me.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel like when it comes to um,

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Speaker 1: when it comes to need, like when you need somebody

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Speaker 1: or you know that you need somebody, you put on

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Speaker 1: you put on a mask to to get your need

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Speaker 1: want you, like I desire you. I want you as

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Speaker 1: a person, and that depends in a relationship. You want

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Speaker 1: to be wanted, Yes, you don't feel like one is

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Speaker 1: more like I wanted somebody, want that. That's what I

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Speaker 1: want that I want that you want? What if? What if?

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Speaker 1: What if they saying I need your emotional support, I

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Speaker 1: need your conversation. I feel like if you want me,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna get your needs from me. If you want me,

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Speaker 1: because I'm gonna give you everything that you desire if

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Speaker 1: I feel that you want me. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: when I feel like, when you need somebody, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: work your move or figure out whatever whole you need

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Speaker 1: to fill in to play whatever you have to play,

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Speaker 1: get whatever you need that person. What about the what

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Speaker 1: about the term when they say, uh, what does it

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Speaker 1: say a woman wants to feel needed. Isn't it a

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Speaker 1: term the same want? And a woman needs to feel

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Speaker 1: wanted for me. For me, I'd rather be needed right

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Speaker 1: like when it comes to work anything and that I

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Speaker 1: need to be an asset. You need to need me.

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Speaker 1: That's a difference like that, like period the relationships. I

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Speaker 1: want you to want me. I want to yearn for me.

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Speaker 1: I want you to go crazy behind me, So you

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Speaker 1: better want me in a relationship, but need me in

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Speaker 1: any other. When the woman walk around the club and

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Speaker 1: say I don't need a nigga ship, she still want

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Speaker 1: to be wanted. You don't need it, Like for me,

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Speaker 1: you wanted to pay your bills. If you're that type

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Speaker 1: when you're saying that if you need something, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: when you want something, to study that ship and you

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Speaker 1: you want. When you need something, it's just like I

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Speaker 1: you feel like you want or need chant once and

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Speaker 1: by me wanting her brought certain things that I need

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Speaker 1: starts that way. So you don't think the need is

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Speaker 1: the graduation of I don't need up for ship what

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Speaker 1: I need an You don't think you need her, like, no,

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Speaker 1: you don't need what to be my wife. That's not

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Speaker 1: a need. No, I want I want your companionship. You

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Speaker 1: need it. I don't need it because I can find

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Speaker 1: that ship anywhere. You can find that anyway, but can Yes,

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Speaker 1: because the way I want you it to me. Let

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Speaker 1: I'm dedicated to want you, to need you, if that

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Speaker 1: you can need the motherfucking don't want them, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, the people in relationship just because they

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Speaker 1: I don't really want you. Don't even want to come home.

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Speaker 1: You don't even like you. But damn I ship we

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Speaker 1: go have on bills and ship like that I need

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Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, I need that. But if I, if I,

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Speaker 1: If I need you, it's whatever I think. So not

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Speaker 1: to jump the gun, though, but I think so. At

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Speaker 1: first I was gonna say need for sure, But now

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking in my head like you gotta be a

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Speaker 1: healthy balance though, you gotta kind of need the person

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Speaker 1: for something, but you I can't to me, I can't

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Speaker 1: need you if I want you because I already seal fish.

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Speaker 1: My grandma show me how to watch my clothes, cook

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Speaker 1: When I'm thinking about need, I'm just being a real

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Speaker 1: But when I'm thinking about need, I'm like the non

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Speaker 1: how how she came to your emotions? You feel me?

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Speaker 1: And that I'm saying I just said I That's what

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Speaker 1: of needing her because I love everything about you. I

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Speaker 1: am a victim of victim you when you beat him

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Speaker 1: of domestic violence, do that, That's what I'm saying. So

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Speaker 1: but but if I need did you do beat on

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Speaker 1: you like that? You know, Beacon just beat just being

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Speaker 1: an asshod. But what I'm saying is me wanting earth

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Speaker 1: old fat ass, But I don't need you need stability, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I need stability. I want somebody who can kind of

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Speaker 1: you on the way, you can't press themselves Jesus Christ, moment.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying is I'm saying, I want what want me?

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Speaker 1: So if I don't feel that you want me, I

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Speaker 1: can't give you my all. You gotta feel you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I could just feel you need me.

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Speaker 1: Everybody need a nigga like you. But when you okay,

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Speaker 1: when you when you get past, when you get past

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Speaker 1: are you thinking, man, I need to talk to Shante

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Speaker 1: I want? Is it just the one I need to

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Speaker 1: I can't have with you. I want to. I want

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Speaker 1: to teach, share my day with you because I love you? Right,

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Speaker 1: I don't need to though A need? What's the what's

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Speaker 1: RV said, I'm sorry said I need your love and

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Speaker 1: void if you don't have that from that particular person. True,

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Speaker 1: don't need it. I'm just trying to better. Huh. Do

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Speaker 1: ship she was. Don't trust me, right, But therapy and ship, right,

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Speaker 1: it's just like kind of just tapping in with your emotions,

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Speaker 1: be wanted or needed that I'd rather be wanted, because

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Speaker 1: when you're being wanted to me, that show that it's real.

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Speaker 1: If you're being needed, then you don't know it's questioned there.

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Speaker 1: If you only need me, then I don't know how

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Speaker 1: that may be nothing, you won't feel like I feel

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Speaker 1: like if everything all us feel trying to take with

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Speaker 1: What does it mean what she needs me of me

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Speaker 1: What she needs comfort? You do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: you're basically saying that in order to have a needed,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. In order for you to feel

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Speaker 1: for different things and not even want to even deal

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Speaker 1: it's the same ship, But it's same ship. Was just saying,

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00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 1: but I want to do it. Anything that I do,

425
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 1: I want to do it, So it's gonna come out right.

426
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: I want to go home to my wife, so it's

427
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: gonna be we're gonna have a good time when I

428
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: get home. If I don't want to go home, I

429
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 1: don't want to go home. So the signs of those words,

430
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: like so you're saying that when you're dealing with people

431
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: in your relationship that once and knees can be balanced

432
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 1: or whatever the case is. But outside of that in life,

433
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:19,719
Speaker 1: when it comes to whatever material items, experiences and all

434
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: the other ship, then it flips around. Then the knees

435
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: surpassed the ones facts facts like you said, like food

436
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: you need, food you need. But do the question, what

437
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: do you want to be wanted or needed? And I

438
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 1: want to be needed in this culture, I want I

439
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,360
Speaker 1: want them to need me. I want them to need

440
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 1: my words. But in my relationship, I want to be wanted.

441
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying because I'm gonna feel when

442
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: you don't want me. I'm gonna feel when you feel

443
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: some type of way about stuff. Then it's gonna cause

444
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:56,679
Speaker 1: friction and ain't gonna need a won't you right? But

445
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 1: what about when it comes to them kids? What about

446
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,399
Speaker 1: the kids? Like you know, like with kids, it's a

447
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 1: lot of stuff that we do for our kids. We

448
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: definitely we definitely don't want to do, we don't necessarily

449
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: need to do, but we still do it. So where

450
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 1: does that fall up? That's a difference. You gotta do

451
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 1: it if they need it, but what if it You know,

452
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 1: a lot of times kids don't be needing ship, they'd

453
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,399
Speaker 1: be wanting ship. You don't want to do it, nor

454
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:17,679
Speaker 1: do you need to do it, but you still do

455
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: it. It It depends on how your kids situation. My kids grown,

456
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: so I don't need or want to do ship for them.

457
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 1: My grand baby, I wouldn't give a damn what she

458
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 1: won't unneed she can get. Yeah, but you don't even

459
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: look at it as what you want don't even matter,

460
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: You don't even matter. So do you think that, like

461
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,160
Speaker 1: love can get to a certain point to where at

462
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: that point it don't even matter what that you know

463
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like you said, for your grand baby,

464
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 1: what she wanted to desire, it don't even matter how

465
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: it affects you, right, because you're just gonna do it

466
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: because she needed a want. So do you think that

467
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,120
Speaker 1: love can reach a certain type of moment like hight

468
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 1: to where it don't matter, Like don't it don't matter?

469
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 1: It don't matter at this point with me? Like I

470
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,719
Speaker 1: just told you bro early in this relationship, I mean,

471
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 1: in this, in this conversation, that I have to do

472
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: certain ships no matter if I want to do it

473
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 1: or need to do it or not. What I'm saying

474
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: is I do it because I know she wants me. Yes,

475
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it if I just felt like she

476
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,400
Speaker 1: just only needed me. I don't given how you feel.

477
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: Just take what I get you or take whatever what

478
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:29,360
Speaker 1: I whatever. But if you you showing that, hey, Bay,

479
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: why don't call me? Oh, you're showing that you know

480
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, you're showing them gonna get a

481
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:34,919
Speaker 1: beat up when I get home type of ship. So

482
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: you showing me you want me up, That's what I'm saying.

483
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: So do you think with love it comes with a

484
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 1: certain form of sacrifice for sure, compromising no matter what

485
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: you no matter what you when you get this, when

486
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 1: you tell a person that okay, it's us forever. No

487
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 1: matter what you want, you gotta do what they want.

488
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: But how does that work? I'm just saying, like, just

489
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: say if they if she make a if she makes

490
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 1: a requests and you know it's a sensible requests, you

491
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 1: better do it right for sure. That's what I'm saying, Like, like,

492
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But because if you don't

493
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 1: want to do it, even if you don't want to

494
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: do it, like I remember used to be going to

495
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 1: did no Ice now that ship like that bro, I

496
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: hated this ship, but I'm sending their motherfucker looking like,

497
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: oh look at this, look at this. Ain't got no choice,

498
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: but she knew in a heart like ye'all know you

499
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: want to go, bab thank you for going. She know

500
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to go that ship. Do you feel

501
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: like men make the biggest sacrifice and relationships, well when

502
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 1: it comes to love, So of course we're gonna say that.

503
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 1: I don't think so. You think it's an eco sacrifice

504
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 1: because you know what's happy wife, happy life, You got

505
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: happy house, happy spouse. You gotta make your wife happy.

506
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 1: I can't make you happy. You don't want me. Yeah,

507
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 1: but we're talking about making sound talking about as far

508
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 1: as like as far as men are concerned with their

509
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: sacrifices as opposed to the sacrifices that men have to make.

510
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 1: I feel like women have to endure more because men

511
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: can't fucking men don't have to deal. Like if a

512
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: man had a wife or a girlfriend or whatever, and

513
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 1: she funked around and had another baby on him, he's gone.

514
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,919
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, women, depending on

515
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 1: how much time has been invested in certain other factors

516
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: and things or whatever whatever, they may choose to stay

517
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: and just try to accept whatever comes with this nigga

518
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: that that cause at the end of the day, Shall

519
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: you don't have their baby if you be their baby

520
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: and be here with us the baby. I just gotta

521
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: baby moments on way with the baby. I got chicken

522
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: with the baby, get her hand. Now you know I'm saying,

523
00:28:49,240 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 1: I got nigga baby every day, dude, sact is it true?

524
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: My baby on my own to hang my baby for

525
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: the weekend. Ain't got to bring them to you. I

526
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: don't know. You don't never got to see the baby.

527
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: But I gotta call home. We got the baby cry

528
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: and ships the baby looked like I ain't even looked

529
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: at it like that, But damn, that's right. I look

530
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 1: a lot like a lot of ship. But in the

531
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: healthy relationship, I think you gotta have a conversation because

532
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: this happened with me and my wife one time, and

533
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: it's like, you gotta learn to respect. They're sacrifices and

534
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: they're compromised because you might not know everything. Not compare them,

535
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 1: not compare the exactly because a woman going through a

536
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: lot of ship. But I ain't gonna know to you

537
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: tell me that you're going through all that ship. Then

538
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: I kind of told him to ship I gotta go

539
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: through to make you happy doing all that. Hell, I

540
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: think you're having to do some ship. You know what

541
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That ship ain't just snapping the finger. So

542
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 1: you just gotta respect each other, communication understanding, Like I

543
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: just need to know, like still want me right? You

544
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: know ahead, make sure let make sure we keep that

545
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: in there, because motherfucker did screened you alone, bro, and

546
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: you've been string alone for what you could be. Don't

547
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: got somebody that won't you. That's how niggas flip out

548
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: and start killing everybody that's like you can't do that. No,

549
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying but that's how it happens, blame or not. Yeah,

550
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: So I feel when you said that you want to

551
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: be needing in the relationships, are you really joined what

552
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: you basically one? Definitely? Because you definitelytionally I want her

553
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: to need me because you said you need ask what

554
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: that's what you said. You know that. I said, you

555
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: don't be making it up. He didn't say that, but

556
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: you sound like you needed it. No, I said, I

557
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 1: won't ask. But what I say, but now we are,

558
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: you're talking about the whole time I'm talking about versus

559
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 1: what I want to ask? What I need is he

560
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: very rarely gets any show. He'd be leaving us to

561
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: go get bitches. Now, No, I don't got a bit.

562
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: You don't let that in there to keep rocking. I

563
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 1: don't got no holes now he got one man one

564
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: right now, he's trying to be cool, y'all go ahead, holes,

565
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: But does he get the holes? Ass? Were talking about

566
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: what your needs connection? You've seen to me action like that.

567
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: But I need it. I need to be want wanted.

568
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: I want to be wanted and that I don't. I

569
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: need to be wanted man wanted. But I feel like

570
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: once you want me and show you you want me,

571
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: and I start want you. I'm gonna do things that

572
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: You're gonna make you automatically needing. That's deep. Yeah, I

573
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna do things that that's that's that's that's

574
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: gonna make you where you you don't want to be.

575
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: You don't want to be out of my present like

576
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: you need my presence. RsTen is a big part of that, Huh.

577
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: I tell some of my partner's like, if you don't

578
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: miss the person you with something with the ones, the needs, whatever,

579
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 1: if you don't miss that person, so many right supposed

580
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: to miss the person. Yeah, I guess, I guess it's

581
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 1: I guess when I when y'all ask the question I'm

582
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 1: thinking about, like an issue like if I come in

583
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: a relationship with a person I need them. I don't

584
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna being real with them. I don't nobody

585
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: should jumping right in the relationship needing somebody that ship.

586
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Do you want to be wanting

587
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 1: and needed where you gotta start it? Start from the

588
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: begin the beginning. But can that captain save the ship?

589
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 1: Turn into some other ships, some good ships? Yeah, we

590
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 1: don't see some niggas save some women. Yeah, but see

591
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 1: what happens with get different. What happens with the captain

592
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: saving ship is like they go into it saving the

593
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: bench or whatever, and then the bitch gets comfortable with

594
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: the routine and just decides to settle. Yes, for sure,

595
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: for sure. She's saying like, that's okay if you like

596
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: savings the code that you know what I'm saying, You

597
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: need a girl, you take care of, pay of beers

598
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: and all that, you know what I'm saying. And then

599
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: she got them. She's just like she got comfortable with that.

600
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 1: She don't quit a job. Okay, now that taking even

601
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: even though I don't want him. Yeah, but that code

602
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: can't pay them being she gonna show him I don't

603
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: need you, want you niggas out of here on the

604
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: big Willie. Yeah, well yeah, that ship do happen for fact,

605
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: third strange Jane ship. And people only need you until

606
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: they find who they want. That's deep damn the truth.

607
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: That's a big fact right there. Some people only need

608
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: I need you for comfort right now. That goes back

609
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: to stringing the person along and making them flip out

610
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 1: once they find out the truth. I didn't did that

611
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: a few times the toxic. I ain't gonna hold you.

612
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 1: I didn't did that a few times, been bored on

613
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: some ship, didn't have nobody else? Then talk to somebody,

614
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: did some ship and wait to somebody that came in.

615
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 1: What was the what was the middle? They are doing

616
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,479
Speaker 1: for you though? No, it was just like some ship

617
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 1: to do. Like somebody talked to somebody, take me out

618
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: to eat? I was I ain't allow I was on

619
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: some bush. I just strung it along just because I

620
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: knew I so many women do that. Yeah, we do it,

621
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 1: so many women. For the first dude, Now, I just

622
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 1: stopped talking to him because the other dude came and

623
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: I like them more. You ghosted him. Yeah, it's easy.

624
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: You know how anyone that trigger what you're doing. You

625
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 1: get the messages that used to be every hour now

626
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,320
Speaker 1: they like answer but stop calling me. But some of

627
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,320
Speaker 1: you women a disgrad brush. Stop calling me. But you

628
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: don't even I don't even like you. Man, click, don't

629
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: need to give you that. Just put your ass on

630
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: the block list and you want to start the man,

631
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 1: that ship just disappears. You'll see you Have you seen

632
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 1: that have my Yeah? I did have I did have

633
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 1: a girl. I'm really just waiting on this other nigga. Click, No,

634
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. We're not playing the games. I'm

635
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 1: too poping for that. So you so you're the warm

636
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:52,760
Speaker 1: them up. Take him go, let them get drunk. Okay,

637
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: come see you like right, I don't like. I mean

638
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: like I'm like going out side for that ship that happened.

639
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: Did you coming over here? It's you up a bit

640
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 1: heart up friend, drink? Come put up up? In weekends?

641
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: How to eat? We got like, how many times it's always,

642
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: don't do that yet me once? Just once? What years?

643
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 1: That was twenty seventeen, that was one time in twenty seveneen? Heaven,

644
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 1: I said, how many times I go out of that

645
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 1: ship that happened? I don't be out you do be

646
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 1: out by myself buying drinks and don't drink. The house

647
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 1: of hook ain't no drink. It's them. That's part of

648
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: not saying, you gotta have had Yeah, I ain't had once?

649
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: Thank you. The night before the late nights, she called

650
00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: the nigger they got them they eat eating mother, and

651
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: who is that? I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go wan thing.

652
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: I really want to fool and drum because he ain't

653
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 1: gonna be ain't and he ain't buying ship, so I

654
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: need somebody else to do get out there. That's a

655
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 1: tragic story. Sorry for that, but I wish your motherfucker

656
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 1: would they've been doing it yet? Who all of them?

657
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: So okay, so let's let's let's start over. Since we

658
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 1: had a great dialog. Do you rather be wanted or

659
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: what versus needing? Is Codak's kind of drumming need it

660
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: couldn't my word coming off the big facts need it

661
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 1: and I as a big consistent the whole time, need it.

662
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 1: So you want that needs you? So girl, girl, now

663
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,439
Speaker 1: want you. We just said you can't have a need

664
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: without a want. You can have a need without he's

665
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 1: shch sain't choose one. We have to choose. It's red

666
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 1: bluepill today red the bluepill, needed on one needed needing

667
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: that if you're needed, you're not wanting all right now.

668
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: When I say need, I'm talking about emotionally. I'm not

669
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: talking about she need me for. But that's saying but

670
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 1: you can need. She can she can deal with you

671
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: for emotionally, Like just let you be a counselor and

672
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: still come, won't me? And you may be the one

673
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: that's easier to talk to, but think that I really

674
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 1: want He ain't trying to hear none of that. He don't. Yeah,

675
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: I don't even want him to hear that I got

676
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: real life problems going on because I want him to

677
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: think I got that's really really, I'm not talking to

678
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 1: somebody about the issues that I'm not dealing with like

679
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: that girl. So girl, Yes, yeah you are girl? How

680
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: didn't how do you know this show you that your girl?

681
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: How do you know? How you know? You know? He

682
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 1: give you know, the to drinking money? Yeah? What you're doing?

683
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I got this houst thing. I'm about to

684
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: pull up like you wanted them. I'm gonna pull up

685
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: on you. I need ticket to the Big Fact Live, Nigga?

686
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 1: I got you? How I accused you of that? What

687
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is you want you want to

688
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:26,839
Speaker 1: be a different like nobody say you don't five bitch?

689
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: He knew at the five bitch. But is he the

690
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 1: warmer though? You warmer five bit won't be warmers toaster

691
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 1: ving him? Yeah, that's what we were house buddies. What

692
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: we're talking about, Jake, I'm just saying that's all they're saying.

693
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: Are you the warmer were not saying, yeah, honestly, absolutely,

694
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 1: are you wanting the nigga that girl be like they

695
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 1: don't count because you know girls always got the niggas

696
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: that don't count. Don't want them still beat. I don't

697
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,839
Speaker 1: give a funk. I don't I don't give your ship,

698
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: give it you, but don't right, I don't smoke, I

699
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: don't eat. Come already warmed up. We got ain't got

700
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: no dishes? What you mean, ain't got but I been

701
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 1: ba you try to give up, but protuber ain't got

702
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 1: that ain't doing. We're gonna let code that woe three woman.

703
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 1: He ain't w ship like I'm right here, I'll you

704
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: wont want to want now in the relationships. I definitely

705
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: want to be wanted in business and everything else. I

706
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: definitely need to be needed first, work with friends, with friends.

707
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: An't here less gonna lie with friends you don't you

708
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 1: can need if a friend need you, that ship weird

709
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 1: know it ain't because I felt like with certain something,

710
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: I got certain friends. I like. If I'm going through something,

711
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: it's a certain friend I need to talk to. I

712
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 1: need to need different friends with different things. Yeah, okay,

713
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: we're not I have certain friends I want to go

714
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 1: hang out with. I want to go out with this friend,

715
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 1: but a certain friends. But if that friend wasn't available

716
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: to get that whatever you want to talking for us

717
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: you want to get off with. Do you need them

718
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: for that ship? Or can you have that same conversation

719
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: with another? No, you still need them, you just kind

720
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: of wait, like at least for me. With me, like

721
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 1: my certain friends that I feel like give me the

722
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: best advice, Like if they're not available for me to

723
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: talk to, I may go to my friend two or three,

724
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 1: but I still gonna bring it back to the main

725
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 1: one that I feel like give the best advice and

726
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 1: I feel like know me better, so I need that person.

727
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,240
Speaker 1: But then you want, you know, I think with friends

728
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 1: this want and need. I think you don't know your

729
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: oldest friendship how long we've been friends, like ship high school?

730
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 1: So like fifteen sixteen years y'all still talk every day.

731
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: We don't talk every day now because we talk cool now.

732
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,359
Speaker 1: We talk we lock in like everything important. We talk

733
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,359
Speaker 1: about like all of that ship. But we ain't talking

734
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: every day. But if I got something that's like going

735
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: on in life and I'm like depressed or something, I'm

736
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: a car check in or if some ship going on

737
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,479
Speaker 1: with her, she needs some ship going on, she's gonna

738
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 1: call check in one of them. Hamma, who I jumped

739
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: out of with. That's my first friend that I ever

740
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 1: had in life, and I want to be his friend.

741
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 1: Like we cannot speak for months, years he's been in

742
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: prison and all this ship we're still have friends. I

743
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: don't need him for a friend, like I don't need

744
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 1: him for him. He don't need him for me. But

745
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: that's my brother, So I want him to be my brother,

746
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:55,399
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But he do come forth

747
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: if I need him, Like if I need you, he

748
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: gonna pull up. So but I want to be as

749
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 1: fun first. Let make sense in the world, you know

750
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's the same way I'm trying to

751
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: say with a relationship, Like if I just need you,

752
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 1: how do I really can say I respect you or

753
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 1: love you if I only need you, I only need

754
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: If somebody only needed their friend because their friends do

755
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: certain ship for him, got a car, got this or

756
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: got that or whatever, then it's missing. Its exactly the

757
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: same with my wife and not put my hands on

758
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 1: her just period, like in public whatever, I just gotta

759
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 1: be touching her because I want her. I don't need

760
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 1: to be touching her. You get wanna say, I want

761
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,439
Speaker 1: to touch you and make you feel and smile and blushing. Ship,

762
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 1: I want that. I want to see that smile. You

763
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. But if I just needed you

764
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: on it, ship, sho, get out of the car. Yo.

765
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 1: I don't get where your parkhead. I don't count, but

766
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna walk down there and make sure because

767
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: I want to make you feel good. If that makes

768
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: sense what I'm saying. But if I just answer my feeling,

769
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 1: I just only needed you, and I'm telling how I

770
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: would treat you. To think about how your sume s.

771
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: Think about how your friends, like the people that needed

772
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: you in life, right when they didn't need you no more,

773
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: think about how they treated you. That's why I'm coming from.

774
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: I don't went through that. Everything of that needed me

775
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: when they needed me to stop. They faced to beat this,

776
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: beat this, beat this. They were the best of my friends.

777
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 1: They was kicking it like they wanted me. They got

778
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: a position where they didn't need bank no more than

779
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: now it's fun or not even that. In fact, they

780
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: didn't need you no more you cut off access to

781
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: you to what they can't even thinking like that, I

782
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: can't use you exactly. I see, okay, I can't go

783
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: sit on that sof bank. You don't. I'm so filled up.

784
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: And then j that the dove tripping about that get

785
00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: the money. They can start seeing like ship the chain

786
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 1: and you can start showing their red hand. They't one.

787
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 1: They probably pay the humble. But I got in seven

788
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 1: six thousand events free. Yeah, because I needed you to

789
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: get an events once I started showing that you can't

790
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 1: get an events. Look, I don't want to go to

791
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: your ship no more. You know what I'm saying. Like

792
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: one music fest, we just did shots out of one

793
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: music fest we just did. You know what I'm saying,

794
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: we didn't have access to no tickets to that ship

795
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: with tripping. If you're really fun fair, how you say

796
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 1: you're doing your feminine by ticket and let me see

797
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 1: you feel me from the cross. That means you want

798
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 1: to see me win, not need to see me when

799
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 1: you need to see me win. That means you need

800
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: to see me win to help you. You're winning is

801
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: only as relevant as it helps me. It's no, that's

802
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: the truth, though, say want because you won't be you.

803
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna want to see me happy. You gonna want

804
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 1: to see if you're gonna want I don't want to

805
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 1: see me win. Yeah, I see what you're saying. So needed,

806
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: it's kind of if I need bank needing, the self

807
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 1: serving on my part. Yeah, like Screen just said, Screen, no,

808
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 1: he can get ta, we can get whatever at the

809
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 1: ship show. He won't. He just said, I'm about a

810
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: whole brow in the phone call and get the teams

811
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 1: away whatever. That's because he wants to see me win. Yeah,

812
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 1: you know I'm saying if he needed me for some tickets,

813
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 1: it used to be like, no, I want to see

814
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 1: you win. That's the difference, bro. Yeah, I get that.

815
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 1: I get that. So when when these women are calling

816
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: here you and they're drinking up, you're looking all this,

817
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: you just won't they won't to be womped up and

818
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: I won't ship. Yeah, real ship, in relationship, you should

819
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 1: want to be wanted. I can't tell everybody whatever. But

820
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 1: and then I feel like once you, once you've been

821
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: properly wanted, they're gonna automatic need you. Yeah you know

822
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, I think you're right, because but

823
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:03,800
Speaker 1: I know that like a lot of men that they'll

824
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 1: start their relationships by saying they want a woman that

825
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: need them so but that's that's that's a that's an

826
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 1: ego thing to not necessarily like myself. But some men

827
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: have to want to be needed for certain ship. That's

828
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: how that that's the dynamics of their relationship. But the

829
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 1: thing about it is if you put if you, if

830
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: you're the type of man, then I feel like I am,

831
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 1: you're gonna give a woman something she came not she

832
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: came not need. You get what I'm saying. But you

833
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 1: wanted me, gonna make me, make you want to need me,

834
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: If that makes sense what I'm saying, like, I just

835
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:40,439
Speaker 1: need you to want me, to give me a chance

836
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: to show you you need Okay, you feel I'm saying

837
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: like you wanted just because she wanted you from the

838
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:48,799
Speaker 1: beginning when y'all got together. Okay, now we need each other.

839
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: Then we need to start a family, We need to

840
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: get married. We'll get married. Started how they went. But

841
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying, But it came from you

842
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: wanting her. Know, the foundation is definitely the ones I

843
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 1: learned that that that makes all the sense in the world.

844
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 1: But the foundation is there. But another thing like Black

845
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:07,479
Speaker 1: was just saying, like, then you put that, she gonna

846
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 1: know she needs you. You put the right one at

847
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:14,359
Speaker 1: the right time, she gonna know what she needs. That's

848
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. Like you some niggas don't understand or

849
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: some nicks who need to be needed. Dang got everything

850
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 1: it take to be wont Yeah, That's what I'm just

851
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: getting ready to say. Like how he was saying, like,

852
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: when you properly, when you've been properly wanted, you never

853
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: need to be needed again. Facts. Fact, Jake's running back

854
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 1: one time for the bitches in the back, Jake, when

855
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: you have been properly wanted, you never need to be

856
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 1: needed ever again. Facts. Yeah, that's a fact. Taught me something.

857
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 1: That's when it comes to like relationship ship. I think

858
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: for me, I think most I could just be for myself.

859
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 1: For me, I felt like I'm so like independent, Like

860
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't need nobody, Like because you

861
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:17,800
Speaker 1: met the nigga that you can't sleep, eat whatever without.

862
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. That's what it is. That's

863
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 1: what I feel like. It's a want, like if I

864
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: could deal like I want you for certain things, But

865
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,359
Speaker 1: I felt like it's a different bro's it. Then when

866
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:29,240
Speaker 1: you need to meet certain people, not even a nigga,

867
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 1: you meet the female whoever, you meet the person that

868
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 1: I want you so much that I got a met

869
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 1: your match. Yeah, exactly, like a lot of the ship

870
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 1: you be on. I'm telling you this ship, he said,

871
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 1: should I be on? You think I'd be on? Bullshit?

872
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 1: You mean you respect him a certain way? All that ship.

873
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 1: You know he ain't going for this ship. You ain't

874
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: even gonna be on this ship. It's gonna be He's

875
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 1: gonna meet your match. The strang on and not fix.

876
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:03,839
Speaker 1: We were talking about three in the morning all this show.

877
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 1: We're talk about in the past, Like no, no, no, no, no, no,

878
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 1: no no no. I got to let me. We're talking

879
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: about in the past like things have in the past

880
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: when I was giving those examples, but waking up at

881
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: three and I'm not changing my mind on that. Like

882
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,879
Speaker 1: Jay got that hit. You can't say that. You can't

883
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 1: say that right nigga. Three sound. I swear to God,

884
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 1: the right nigga, do the right ship. But you go,

885
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: God damn, you'll find that motherfucker cutting the meat off

886
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: the couch. Yeah, damn curated. You'll do everything you need

887
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 1: to do to get the nigga the sound what you

888
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 1: won't because you won't because you want him to be happy.

889
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,319
Speaker 1: Thank you in the morning. We ain't gonna do this

890
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 1: because they the comments ate my ass up about me

891
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: talking about three in the morning. Make you want to

892
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 1: show you don't make that sound whistling for the right

893
00:50:51,360 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 1: niggas whistling Lane Dixie, that's your sleep listen, because I

894
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 1: you know, I'm man a fact, don't have it. I'm

895
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: gonna come and tell you, man, I just I woke

896
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 1: up at three in the morning and made a sound.

897
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: See I like I go through that too, Like I

898
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: just like saving like coming out home, like so neat

899
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: she know what to say to make me say that

900
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: side if she don't want to do it, but fine,

901
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:23,800
Speaker 1: like getting up, man, like why do you wait that?

902
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: God sleep? And then I'll be like this side. But

903
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:30,960
Speaker 1: I know you would have did it that. I got mad. Yeah,

904
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 1: like you gonna do it anyway, you get what's that?

905
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 1: I know you'll do it, yeah, but I know you really,

906
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,319
Speaker 1: I really just tried. Just five o'clock in the ball

907
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: you tired, you gotta get up whatever but just me

908
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: knowing that you respect me enough that you'll get up

909
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 1: and do it. Mad. I don't want my salitation, no man,

910
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 1: So make my ship with love. That's what I'm saying,

911
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 1: because you're dropping on the floor. If I woke up

912
00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 1: to make that sounds, that should give a frisbee all

913
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:04,239
Speaker 1: across the dust, Like I'm frisbee in it and you're

914
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 1: gonna get it. What bron did some of the bullshit

915
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: like get that girl to get up and fixed me ship?

916
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: And she's coming up with the should not have your sleep?

917
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 1: Oh that she was a guy smacked the crashing as

918
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,839
Speaker 1: up and eat this ship? Oh my god, yes if

919
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 1: I did it? Yeah, see I'm not but certain ship.

920
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 1: Like a couple of episode petty, you have to be

921
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:30,840
Speaker 1: petty because I'm doing those things to see that you

922
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:34,280
Speaker 1: still want me. But can she be that same petty

923
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:35,799
Speaker 1: with you? Like she go wake up at the phone

924
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: in the morning, say make her a sandwich? A sandwich?

925
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: I'm not the sandwich maker? Why not? What makes you

926
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 1: not the sandwich maker? I bring you the sand but

927
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 1: what makes you not the sandwich maker? I never made sounds?

928
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 1: How why not? Because that's not but but but you

929
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 1: ain't wake me up, made no sound. He's not what

930
00:52:54,960 --> 00:53:00,320
Speaker 1: I said for him. I don't make challenge just a chance. Stop.

931
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: That's my child. First of all, he just said he's

932
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 1: not waking about his sleep and making up sound. Here

933
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 1: nobody didn't know wake my sheep to walk up to

934
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:09,879
Speaker 1: the car if she didn't gt to go someone right,

935
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,319
Speaker 1: I wake up at my sleep and do things that

936
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 1: she needs me to do as a husband. She said.

937
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: If he if he say't go to walk, and she said,

938
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 1: go to walk and get this I really needed. I

939
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 1: would wake up a out my sleep and do that.

940
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 1: But I don't even wake up about my sleep to

941
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: be the goddamn to wash the dishes me neither somebody. Yeah,

942
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 1: maybe that's what I give. I get that to you.

943
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: I wake up out my sleep to take care of

944
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 1: my child for you. Do I like about any relationship

945
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: if I didn't want to have sex and wake me up?

946
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 1: Sounds like she just asked that questions about sacrifice. I

947
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:55,279
Speaker 1: did just asked that you confused sometimes that I'll be,

948
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 1: but not to make a sound. And man, the sex

949
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,359
Speaker 1: we did we to do this is gonna come after

950
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 1: her reason. I mean, I could be what what if

951
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 1: that's gonna be different. I'm not it's gonna be different

952
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 1: because we really know you, We know your heart. You

953
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 1: just on this ship, but that ship you're gonna yours.

954
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:23,760
Speaker 1: When I listen relationship the same way I met my match,

955
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: meet that match, tell you are you going? I ain't saying,

956
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 1: but I ain't waking up at my sleep to make

957
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: the sandwiches? Is it sex traffic? You tell your why

958
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 1: she can't need you from what is a sex trafficking?

959
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 1: If you tell your wife you can't you can't leave me,

960
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like just saving, like savings, I get into it,

961
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:53,879
Speaker 1: like she'd be like, I just can't deal with this more.

962
00:54:53,960 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: You can't leave That's not t that's traffic. It's earth.

963
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 1: Now you're making her to go have sex with everybody else? No, no, no, no,

964
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying we have sex? Right, Yeah. So if

965
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: she's saying she want to leave me, and I'm saying,

966
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: you can't leave it, we can't gotta have trafficking exists

967
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:17,279
Speaker 1: when it's going through people. That's actually coversion? Is that?

968
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: Is that a did you tell your wife she can't

969
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:23,880
Speaker 1: leave you? It's kidnapping? It really depends on the country

970
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 1: did you tire up? And it depends on I'll just

971
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:29,399
Speaker 1: say you been I leave. No, that ain't no crime.

972
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 1: Black people do it all the time. Okay, there's a

973
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:41,240
Speaker 1: lot of ship we do that. So crime warming warming

974
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 1: warming sister, believe that you want him back and back

975
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 1: he caught in the warm HVAC system. That boy, I

976
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 1: don't know what they be sleeping over. I don't know

977
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: where they'd be going. So ship, you know more leep over?

978
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:58,879
Speaker 1: You put them to sleep? Yet you said you gotta

979
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:07,839
Speaker 1: sleep and who eat getting a warm bits for as

980
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 1: ship said you going? You you're finding fat? Are you

981
00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 1: going gonna? Maybe they'd be sleeping my ship? So I

982
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 1: don't know a nap, no wake up at eight o'clock

983
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 1: in the morning give him. Yeah, but yeah, but I

984
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: ain't ready. He still trapping. Yeah, they came up from

985
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 1: the spot. I got what I take up. He also,

986
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: so you want them up and them get risk? Yeah

987
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: the shot they shot to get you, let me get

988
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: risk and she could have come with us fully shot.

989
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,280
Speaker 1: He get her gas money, let her take a shower

990
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: before she leave. Man the perfect big fact family. Believe

991
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: that you want to like that? Yeah, Fat and husban

992
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 1: DM Yeah, y'all see that he probably got somebody right now,

993
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 1: y'all see that laid back he got going on? Man,

994
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: take to believe what you want to he said, They thick. Yeah,

995
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: I'm thinking business. That's a couple of can't know, but

996
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. Is he warming or Joman gonna blast?

997
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:45,920
Speaker 1: And if you if your m posted, bitch, what about fitch?

998
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: You all that you ain't that cool? You ain't that cool? Posted? Woman?

999
00:57:53,120 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 1: Somebody is upset. Woman, sister, I'm sick too. Sick a girl.

1000
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:08,439
Speaker 1: Don't you see how you do? Break? Break this hard?

1001
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 1: Get it? She come out of the blue jar acting

1002
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 1: like she wants you. That's me. Aby's gonna reply to him. There,

1003
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: you'll be like you to follow us? Who sent you?

1004
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 1: She followed any one of yours? Oh good, that was

1005
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:44,000
Speaker 1: a great topic. She followed three years old? Want kick knees?

1006
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 1: Asterday lost? We lost? But no, it's you gotta be

1007
00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 1: needed in the situation some balance, For sure. You gotta

1008
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 1: be needing a situation. But I prefer to be one

1009
00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: it first, and then when you want me the person

1010
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:05,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna become. Knowing that you want me, it's going

1011
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:10,919
Speaker 1: to create a need for me every woman. I think

1012
00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 1: I think every woman want and need certain things from

1013
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: like a significant other. Like they're gonna always yearn for

1014
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 1: like a man to treat them a certain type of way.

1015
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 1: So they're always gonna need a man for a certain thing,

1016
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: regardless of what we say, Like especially being an independent woman,

1017
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: I can say all day, I do all listen all

1018
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: that myself, right, but deep down it's certain things that

1019
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: I yearned and need for a man to do. That's

1020
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: what we're saying. And you're gonna meet your match. You're

1021
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: gonna meet your matchup make a cute we want to No, no, no,

1022
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: don't you know we're not even gonna do that. All right,

1023
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 1: tripled up dot Big facts pot dot com. Okay, And

1024
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 1: then like before we get out of here, good folks,

1025
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 1: we need to give a shout out to, uh, that

1026
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: girl Alexandria from came over the Top what she sees

1027
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 1: with wardrope, remote wardrobe, Alexandria, the Micael Wayne, the air Friar.

1028
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:26,720
Speaker 1: You got some frits. Can't animals princess according to somebody,

1029
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 1: because that should be making you burt man and that

1030
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:32,240
Speaker 1: shouldn't be smelling brome, bitch, and it smells like damn

1031
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:36,840
Speaker 1: really and man. Follow us Big Facts, Pod Facts, Friday

1032
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:42,160
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1033
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:45,760
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