WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Take A Picture Of My Date

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of to Day. We talk about weird dating

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<v Speaker 1>trends a lot on our show, and I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>cool when we hear from listeners who actually try them. Yeah. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>remember a little while back, we had a couple on

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<v Speaker 1>this segment that did the Target Date night challenge. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to do that with my husband. I

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<v Speaker 1>never got around to her. Yeah. That's where you buy

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<v Speaker 1>random stuff from Target and then you have to try

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<v Speaker 1>and figure out how to make a date out of

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<v Speaker 1>those items. It's really yeah, except for the diaper's part

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<v Speaker 1>in that situation, creative? Or what about the hundred dudes

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<v Speaker 1>in a hundred hours challenge? Oh I don't. I'm ashamed

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<v Speaker 1>to admit I only made it to seventy nine. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>wow before my body gave out. So really disappointed in

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<v Speaker 1>myself on that one. But one of our listeners says

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<v Speaker 1>he tried a date night challenge off the internet recently

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently it went well, but he would like some

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<v Speaker 1>help from us today. His name's Rick. Rick. How many

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<v Speaker 1>dudes did you get through? Did you beat me? No? No?

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<v Speaker 1>No dudes, man? No? Oh this was it was a

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<v Speaker 1>different challenge then, what made you? I'm already going through

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<v Speaker 1>it and you guys are killing me. But before we

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<v Speaker 1>get to the internet challenge, tell us about the woman

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<v Speaker 1>that you want us to call. What's her name? How'd

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<v Speaker 1>you meet her? Her name is Bella. I met her

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<v Speaker 1>online and this girl was beautiful at least you know,

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<v Speaker 1>her pictures were that's great. Bella does mean beautiful too, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it does. I mean, here's the thing when you saw her?

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<v Speaker 1>What made you want to do an internet challenge thing? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the funny thing was we were trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>a first date, and through the process I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be awesome because we both thought all

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<v Speaker 1>of the ideas we had for first dates were like crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>cliche and stupid. Yeah, okay, so she found this thing

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<v Speaker 1>and she said at me a link forward. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like some photo shoot blind date thing. Oh so it's

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<v Speaker 1>actually her idea. Yeah, it was totally her idea. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like people who don't know each other, they can have

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<v Speaker 1>a photoshoot of their first date done and then that way,

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<v Speaker 1>like after the date, you can look back at it,

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<v Speaker 1>like you can like see if the chemistry was there

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<v Speaker 1>or not, and then if it was a really cool

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<v Speaker 1>date and like the relationship leads to something. You have

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<v Speaker 1>this really amazing keepsake of your first date. Okay, the

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<v Speaker 1>whole photo there's a photographer for a time. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of hope in that idea. Yeah, so that so

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<v Speaker 1>doing the photo shoot is the actual date right exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I don't know, man, I get so

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable in photo shoot. It's like, yeah, I think it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be fine. I know you love being in front of

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<v Speaker 1>the camera, but not everybody does. It sounds very unique,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say that. So how did it go? I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was going to be awkward. She found a photographer.

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<v Speaker 1>I went ahead and booked it, and we did this

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<v Speaker 1>shoot in the city, and I was crazy nervous. But

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<v Speaker 1>like when I saw her, she came out in this

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<v Speaker 1>stunning dress, her hair amazing, Like, I mean, she was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I cannot emphasize that enough. I gotta say genius

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<v Speaker 1>on her part, because it is such a good reason

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that you look like perfect for your date.

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<v Speaker 1>You can wear whatever you want, whatever looks best on you,

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<v Speaker 1>and be like, well, that's a photo shoot. Yeah, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you wear? I wore a nice suit with

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<v Speaker 1>a light purple shirt with a black tie. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we were fancy. This was all right. So how

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<v Speaker 1>was the actual chemistry between you and Bella? I found

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<v Speaker 1>it to be amazing, Like, you know, as the date

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<v Speaker 1>went on, we both really kind of relaxed, and I

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<v Speaker 1>mean there was a moment where like we forgot the

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<v Speaker 1>photographer was there and we kissed for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>You got your first kiss on camera. I did, oh cool.

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<v Speaker 1>See now you girls think it's cute. I never doubted it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like, it's hard for me to be in

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<v Speaker 1>front of the camera like that. But have you seen

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<v Speaker 1>the photos? Yeah? Yeah, Well I have the photos, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of the problem that I have. She's ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>me ever since that day. And we were supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>split the photographer and I have all the pictures, and

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<v Speaker 1>I have the bill that I had like crazy expensive.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she outright agreed to split that with you.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was buying them online, she was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it and or half of it, Like we

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<v Speaker 1>were going to split it. Okay, did you guys do

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<v Speaker 1>anything else? You go grab drinks or anything? Afterwards? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we went and we had like there was the street

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<v Speaker 1>vendors outside or something. Yeah, we like eating each other bacon,

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<v Speaker 1>rat dogs and stuff. I thought that looks I can't

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<v Speaker 1>feed each other falafels. Where do you find this photographer? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you said that you've been trying to text her

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<v Speaker 1>and she's not answering at all. Yeah, she's totally ghosted her. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>have you like texted her like a sample of the

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<v Speaker 1>photos because she hasn't even seen him? Right, Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna do that. Like, she's got to pay

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<v Speaker 1>for him if she wants to see him, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money. Yeah, you're right. All right, Well

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<v Speaker 1>I feel for you, man, Let's play a song. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back. We'll call Bella for you, and we're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get your second date update. All right, thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>All right second d oh man, Last time I kissed

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<v Speaker 1>a stranger on camera, I was dressed as a pizza boy, really,

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<v Speaker 1>and they paid me. I'm still getting residuals from that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure. It's just a fun time. Yeah. One

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners Rick, he kissed his date on camera

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<v Speaker 1>because they hired a professional photographer and did a photo

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<v Speaker 1>shoot as their first date. Apparently it's part of a

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<v Speaker 1>new internet dating challenge where you hire a professional photographer

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<v Speaker 1>and you use that as your date activity. So they

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<v Speaker 1>took some pictures together around the city, had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>But afterwards, not only is she ignoring his text, she

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<v Speaker 1>also left him with the bill. Yeah. I was gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>this is kind of a rich person trend. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like the target thing was more accessible to everybody when

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<v Speaker 1>it came to dating idea. Absolutely. Now, Rick, you said

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<v Speaker 1>you paid a lot of money. You didn't say the

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<v Speaker 1>exact amount. You said it was expensive. Can you give

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<v Speaker 1>us a ballpark? Dude? It was well north five hundred dollars. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna gets eight hundred yeah, yeah, yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean the thing is, she must have thought you were

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<v Speaker 1>cute because it was her idea to hire the photographer

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<v Speaker 1>even though you paid for it. But after the photo shoot,

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<v Speaker 1>now she's not calling back. I don't know. Maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>kiss wasn't good, Maybe your clothes weren't fancy enough. Loo,

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<v Speaker 1>I have pictures, I have roof. Okay. That's what makes

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<v Speaker 1>it so frustrating because it's like the financial thing, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's one thing, But the relationship part of it, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's the part that's really throwing me off. So if

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<v Speaker 1>she agrees for a second day, or you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>still hold her to the bill. Yeah, okay, okay, alright,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be dude. I honestly think you should suck

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<v Speaker 1>it up. If she's like, look, I do a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of funny suck it up. Is exactly what they said

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<v Speaker 1>when I was the pizza boy. That's so weird. What

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<v Speaker 1>a flashback. Okay, anyway, let's just make this phone called

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<v Speaker 1>it Bella and get to the bottom of it. Is

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<v Speaker 1>you ready to do this? Yeah? All right, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm down the number. Now. Hello, Hi? Is this Bella? Yeah, Bella?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you perhaps order a large pizza du extre meat?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry? Whoa? I'm sorry? How did that? So? It

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<v Speaker 1>was good? Okay, I'm sorry, Bella. M Hi, Sorry I

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<v Speaker 1>got sidetracked. My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing? I'm okay.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? We're doing a segment from our show

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<v Speaker 1>called the Second Date Update. We're reaching out to you

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our listeners has given us your number.

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<v Speaker 1>They're trying to get a hold of you. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Rick. I know who you're referring to. Um. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really want to talk about that right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, Yah, we're just looking for a short answer

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<v Speaker 1>to help Rick figure out what's going on because he's

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<v Speaker 1>really really confused. Rick feels like he went all out

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<v Speaker 1>for your date. He paid a lot of money, he

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<v Speaker 1>had a good connection with you, and now he feels

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<v Speaker 1>like he's been hung out to dry because afterwards you've

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<v Speaker 1>completely ghosted. Yeah. Look, I really do feel bad about

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<v Speaker 1>that things just happened. But can you give him an answer?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you have a why? Like could you

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<v Speaker 1>imagine being in his place? Like you'd be totally confused?

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<v Speaker 1>This guy kisses you, he is apparently attracted to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and then nothing like just silence, Like nobody wants to

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<v Speaker 1>be ghosted. It sucks. Yeah, Honestly, the time we had

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<v Speaker 1>together was great and it was a lot of fun. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I did feel a connection with him, but things have changed.

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<v Speaker 1>What what do you mean? I mean, are you in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship? Is that what you're saying? Because I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>If I went and did a full photo shoot and

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<v Speaker 1>I looked so good like he said you did, I

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<v Speaker 1>would definitely want to see the pictures, and you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>even seen the pictures yet. I'm just I'm gonna sound

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<v Speaker 1>like a terrible person if I say this. Well, it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're all terrible people. Yeah, so we won't judge it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a good company. Oh gosh, I actually knew the photographer.

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<v Speaker 1>He said you. You were the one that recommended the photographers.

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<v Speaker 1>So that makes sense? Is it? Like a friend? So

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<v Speaker 1>he he was my ex? Ah, that's interesting. Why would

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<v Speaker 1>you do that? I know I was missing him a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>And oh and when I met Rick, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>had the idea of doing something different for a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>And when the idea came up to do the photo shoot,

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<v Speaker 1>my brain was just like, what better way to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of get back at my X? And so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I sent Rick the link for his photography page to

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<v Speaker 1>book him and to try to like make him jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>Then wait, so your ex even agreed to it because

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<v Speaker 1>you had Rick do the booking. Yes, you showed up

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<v Speaker 1>and your X had no idea it was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be you until you were there. Right. Oh that, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not judging. We're terrible people too, Okay, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I know I told you it sounded terrible. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>So what what did your ex boyfriend say when he

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<v Speaker 1>saw you show up for the photo shoot. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he was jealous. He was definitely holding it together. But

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<v Speaker 1>I could tell like he just was pissed. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how did it never come out during the day? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you even kiss Rick? I know. So there was

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<v Speaker 1>one time when like Rick actually went to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>and my ex was just like, how could you do

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<v Speaker 1>this to me? Like why are you doing this? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And I just I played dumb and I told him

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<v Speaker 1>that I didn't know that Rick had booked him. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I just happened to be acquaintious because I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell him. Obviously I would sound like I'm crazy. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you reason? So you were lying to two men at once,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. It just it happened all so fast. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know it happened so fast. I mean this thing

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<v Speaker 1>that you play shoot, that's so wait are you with

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<v Speaker 1>your X now or what happened there? So after the date,

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<v Speaker 1>he texted me and we talked and I mean long

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<v Speaker 1>chat short and we're back together. Those photos going to waste.

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<v Speaker 1>So you have seen the photos. You can just look

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<v Speaker 1>at his computer. Yeah, yeah, I mean I actually have

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<v Speaker 1>seen the photos. I do really look good in them,

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<v Speaker 1>and I do love them. You've got to pay the

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<v Speaker 1>full price. You don't get half. Now, you got to

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<v Speaker 1>pick up the whole bit that has messed us seriously.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really low. And the fact that you wouldn't even

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<v Speaker 1>say anything to Rick, like not even say hey, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I just can't see you anymore. I do

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad, but I don't know. I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of admit to that. Well. I mean, if you

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<v Speaker 1>could say one thing to Rick right now, what would

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<v Speaker 1>you say? And think about it for one second, because

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<v Speaker 1>I need to let you know, you actually get to

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<v Speaker 1>say that Rick is on the other line listening and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. Wait what yea, yep, Ricky there?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, So what did you want to say? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to say? Bella, what's your one thing

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna say to Rick? Rick? Look, I'm so sorry

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<v Speaker 1>that you had to hear it. I guess like this.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean for any of this to happen. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know how it was gonna You know, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean you didn't know this was going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>You plan for this to happen. You send me the

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<v Speaker 1>lake you are ship in the head. Yeah, and not

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<v Speaker 1>only do you not have to worry about pan half

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<v Speaker 1>the bill, but you can tell you a little punk

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend that he can eat the god I don't never

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear from you. You can go drop dead.

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<v Speaker 1>O little too far, Gosh, I'm sensing that there's still

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of connection between them. Wow, it's emotional, fella.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got to understand he's angry. I mean you definitely passionate. Ye, Rick,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally get you're angry, but like it was a

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<v Speaker 1>first date, a photo shoot, and like I mean to

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<v Speaker 1>wish me to drop dead for something. No it's not, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a first date. It was a manipulative play.

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<v Speaker 1>It was nine hundred dollars, so you can make your point.

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<v Speaker 1>Friends jealous, there was never any shot at it. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, forget you forget him? I'm out? Oh da.

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<v Speaker 1>So at this point I would like to ask Bella,

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<v Speaker 1>will you go am I reading this right to get

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date with Rick? And here's the great part.

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<v Speaker 1>None of you have to pay for anything. Will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for the day, thanks perf for a guy, but definitely no,

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<v Speaker 1>like why not? Okay, I mean, don't do that again, Bella, Seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you learn. I mean, I'm glad that I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call him back, honestly, because if we were to

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<v Speaker 1>go on a second date like the way he just

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<v Speaker 1>blew up like that, that could have happened later in

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<v Speaker 1>the releasing. I don't think that that's what you should

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<v Speaker 1>have learned, Bella. I think there is a bigger, bigger

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<v Speaker 1>lesson we could have taken it. She got a boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>now Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,