1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Welcome to Naked Sports, the podcast where we live at 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: the intersection of sports, politics, and culture. Our purpose reveal 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: the common threads that bind them all. So what's happening 4 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: in women's basketball right now is what we've been trying to. 5 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: Get to for almost thirty years. 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: From the stadiums where athletes break barriers and set records. 7 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 1: Kamen Quark broke the all time single game assists record. 8 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: This is crazy for rookies to be doing. Our discussions 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: will uncover the vital connections between these realms and the 10 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 1: community we create. In each episode, we'll sit down with athletes, 11 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: political analysts, and culture critics, because at the core of 12 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: it all, how we see one issue shines the light 13 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: on all others. Welcome to Naked Sports. I'm your host, 14 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: Carrie Champion. If you are listening to this podcast, and 15 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:00,319 Speaker 1: if you're watching this, I hope you are. Hope you're 16 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: watching it. On my YouTube page, you will see I'm 17 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: fully dressed, I have a scully on and I got 18 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: on a very warm jacket. I'm getting hot right now, 19 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: but it's cold in New York. It's a real cold. 20 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: It's frigid. And one of my guests did his best 21 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: to run, literally run to the studio and be here 22 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 1: because I had a short amount of time. But you 23 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: all know him from Cool Runnings a New York Undercover. 24 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 1: He's been an actor, a mainstay actor at least for 25 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: the culture, for the better part of thirty forty years 26 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: if you ask me, and I really have gotten to 27 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: know him as a good person off camera. I call 28 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: him kind, That's the word that I would use. But 29 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: his commitment to building the community and giving back is 30 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: one that must be honored and talked about. And so 31 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: today Malik Yoba comes on the podcast. He clears up 32 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 1: a few things I know that he was in the news, 33 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: most recently for saying he's a non white man, that's 34 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: how he's going to identify himself, and that went viral 35 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: for various reasons. He explains what he meant by that. 36 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: He also talks about, you know, growing up here in 37 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: the city and in New York rather and what it's 38 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: meant to him and how it's helped him develop as 39 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: a man, and why he is so committed to being 40 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: just more than an actor a multi hyphen it. As 41 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 1: the kids say, I hope you enjoy this edition of 42 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: Naked Sports. So whenever I have a guest on the 43 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: podcast that I genuinely know, I like to give an 44 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: origin story. But every time I do this without fail, 45 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: there's a part of the podcast where we say the 46 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: origin story is not true, or the origin story is subjective, 47 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: or the origin story looks different. And of course you 48 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,399 Speaker 1: are explaining to me before we even start recording when 49 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 1: we met, how we met, what happened when we met, 50 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: and it didn't go that way. But okay, because you 51 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: said you got you you true talent. You are such talent. 52 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: Y'all think y'all know everything your talent. 53 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 3: I just know what I know. 54 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: Okay, So you said it was twenty years ago, But 55 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: twenty years ago was would we win? Two thousand and five? 56 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 3: Two thousand. 57 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: I lived in Florida in two thousand and five. There's 58 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: just no way I was walking the city streets of 59 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 1: New York. I hadn't. There's just no way. I was 60 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: a I was a CUB reporter. 61 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 3: I think it was more like two thousand and six. 62 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: Maybe I was in Florida than Atlanta. 63 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 3: When did you leave the Tennis Channel? 64 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 1: I was twenty eleven. 65 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 3: So it wasn't. It was definitely for that. 66 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: And I started working at the Tennis Channel in two 67 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: thousand and nine. 68 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 3: So maybe you were at Okay, Yeah, I had my recollection. 69 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,119 Speaker 1: I left Local if we had just met, I left 70 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: Local News. I had just got fired and hired. Yeah, 71 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: so it's two thousand and. 72 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 3: Nine, okay, so you didn't have a job yet. 73 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: I was just looking. It was out here, I was, 74 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: I was in between gigs, I was hustling. 75 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 3: Because that was the conversation on the roof of the Dream. 76 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: Okay, So tell me what happened to you and. 77 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 2: Your girl what's her name again, your best friend Kendrew 78 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 2: were walking down the street and I saw you. 79 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: And I was so, that had to be two thousand 80 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: and eight, two thousand and nine. 81 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 2: So you're walking down the street and I'm like, that's 82 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 2: what happened. And then we made it to the roof 83 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 2: and I was. 84 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: Like, oh, those you're like, come with me. I'm going 85 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: to the Dream. 86 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 3: No. No, you guys were going and I was going. 87 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: You were staying there, and we were there. 88 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: I was going as well, and I just happened to 89 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: see you in the street first, and then you were 90 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 2: on the roof okay, and we started chatting. You looked 91 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 2: familiar to. 92 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: Me, okay, and then we talked. 93 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 2: We talked, and part of it was you talking. First 94 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: of all, when you talked about how much you loved sports, 95 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 2: I thought that was fly because you're beautiful and black 96 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 2: and talk at sports. And I was like, yeah, that's dope. 97 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 2: And you were like, I'm looking, I'm trying to get 98 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 2: a new gig. So you hadn't had the get yet, and. 99 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 1: So was I not at the tenants So I was 100 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 1: not at the Tennis channel or I I. 101 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 2: Just remember you talking about wanting a job and a 102 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 2: job in sports broadcasting, and I thought that was a 103 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 2: really cool thing. And then cut to a few years later, 104 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: you're in ESPN and we hadn't seen each other in from. 105 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:55,919 Speaker 1: Okay, So then that's what it was. Okay. So I 106 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,919 Speaker 1: was at the Tennis channel. I was probably looking for 107 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: a new opportunity, and I was like, I want a 108 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: bigger gig than just being at the tennis channel because 109 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: it was a single sport network. So it was like 110 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: two thousand and eight, two thousand and nine, you give 111 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: me that, give me that to be it's some pieces 112 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: of our memory. And then and then obviously I was 113 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: at ESPN, and then and then you and I did 114 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 1: we connect while I was at ESPN or do it? 115 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 3: So we did? 116 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I feel like it might have been on 117 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 2: Instagram or it might have been a Zita. 118 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 1: It was a Za our mutual friend who is also 119 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 1: an actress. Well, let me say this to you. Over 120 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: the years, I will tell you one thing that I 121 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: have noticed about you outside of you being a phenomenal 122 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: actor and me being a fan before I even knew you, 123 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: because you, for so many of us, have narrated our 124 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: our childhood, our teenhood, our adulthood in terms of the 125 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: films that you've been in that have been a part 126 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 1: of the culture, that are integrated deeply into the culture. 127 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: But coming to know you off camera, you stay very 128 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: consistently kind to everyone, like and that is and that's 129 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: a hard thing to do in this industry because it. 130 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 3: Ain't about the industry, correct. 131 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: It's about the world. But people don't know that. 132 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that because you one thing I like 133 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 2: about you, you will send me a random as text 134 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 2: like you have such a beautiful heart, You are so kind. Yeah, 135 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 2: and that's all. 136 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 1: That's it. 137 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 3: And I appreciate that. 138 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: People I think don't the more and more I'm a 139 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: little more and I don't know if you can relate 140 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 1: to this. I'm a little more like socially fine, but 141 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: I'm very introverted. I'm very particular. I'm very private, so 142 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: it sometimes prevents me from getting to know people. But 143 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 1: I am very observant about how people treat other people. 144 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 1: And you treat other people wonderful, from the president to 145 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: the janitor, and I think that speaks volumes to who 146 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: you are and I appreciate that. 147 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 3: Thank you. 148 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 2: I think it's important. I think you know, did a 149 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 2: lot of unkind people? Yeah, and I don't understand that. 150 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: I do. They're miserable. Oh they want everybody else to 151 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 1: be missed. 152 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, yes, yes, yes, I understand it from 153 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 2: that perspective. 154 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 3: But a misery is a choice too. 155 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. When you look back over your career, and we're 156 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: in New York filming this, which is so fricking ironic. 157 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: If if someone would have told me that, I would 158 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: have been sitting with you doing this podcast and I'm 159 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: about to talk about New York kud to cover. I'm like, really, 160 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: think when you look back over your life and some 161 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: of the roles that you've had, and I know that 162 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: you know, people know you from particular places, are you 163 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: Are you aware of your cultural impact? 164 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. But so we're in one sixty five 165 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 3: what's forty sixth Street. 166 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: That's where the building is right now where we are filming. 167 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 2: Yes, and so this is the Actor's Equity Building. It 168 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: used to also be the office for the Negro Ensemble Company, 169 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 2: where I sat in this building and sold subscriptions for 170 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 2: the Negro Ensemble Company, which was the preeminent theater company 171 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 2: from I was there from about sixteen years old to 172 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 2: eighteen years old. And so that was my job in 173 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 2: this in this building back in the eighties, and like 174 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 2: selling newspapers, no, no, no, no, we sold subscriptions. Like so, 175 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: now how you buy subscriptions to everything right to the 176 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 2: you know streaming or whatever back. 177 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: In the day you can do it online. 178 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 3: No, it was it was theater. It was live theater. 179 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 2: So people would there'd be a season and the season 180 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 2: could be from like say September to May maybe, and 181 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 2: you did. The theater would produce four shows a year, 182 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 2: and my job was to call people up, Hey, miss champion, 183 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 2: would you like to renew your subscription for next season? 184 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:45,079 Speaker 3: We have this amazing. 185 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:48,319 Speaker 2: Play with Felice Richard or Sam Jackson or Angela Massett 186 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 2: who were all part of that theater company Denzel eight 187 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 2: Off Cason. 188 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 3: Wow, So this is where I used. 189 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 2: To come and dream about being an actor, aside from 190 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 2: the fact that performing ours high school when they danced 191 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 2: in the Street at the beginning of Fame, that was 192 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 2: right in front of this building. 193 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: At the beginning of Fame when they danced on the 194 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: street is in the beginning of this is right here 195 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: where I am right now. 196 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 2: You walk out this building, you go to the left, 197 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 2: there's a red stone castle kind of that used to 198 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 2: be performing out of high school. And then my first agent, 199 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 2: Ambrosier and Mortimor, was also in this building, and I 200 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 2: signed with them because I knew Sam Jackson and Angela 201 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 2: Bassett from my time at the New York at the 202 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 2: Negro Ensemble Company. And when I booked Cool Runnings, I 203 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 2: didn't have an agent. It was an open call, and 204 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: so when they booked me on the film, they were like, 205 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 2: you need to find an agent to negotiate your deal, 206 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 2: and I chose Ambrosia Mortimor because Sam and Angie were 207 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 2: our clients. 208 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: Oh wow in this building. Oh wow. Fact that's a 209 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 1: great story. You want to put your I don't know 210 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: how can you put you on any more water? You stuck, 211 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: you stuck up under there? You got this or you 212 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,839 Speaker 1: can lift it. Look we stuck up under there, and Jay, 213 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: why we got my man stuck up under here? 214 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 3: Your work? 215 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: Yo? 216 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 3: Look at Jay's shirt. It says be kind. He knows 217 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 3: what's up. 218 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 1: He knows what's up. Jay's always kind. Kind, it's kind 219 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: of kindness goes a lot, but. 220 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 3: It's different than nice. Right. I hate people debate kind 221 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 3: and nice all the time. 222 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't say that nice would be the first 223 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: word you would use to describe me. But you definitely 224 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: if you knew me, Eve, you say kind Yeah, yeah, accurate, right, accurate. 225 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: Over the years, I think that I don't know what 226 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: makes someone a mainstay, but people are mainstays. Do you 227 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: actively make sure that is a part of who you 228 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: are or it has happened? 229 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 2: Not in terms of like. To me, it's always been 230 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 2: about purpose, right. So I was not pursuing a career 231 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 2: in theater in film and television. 232 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 3: I actually was more interested in theater. 233 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 2: Growing up as a kid, I wanted to be on 234 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 2: Broadway right down the block I went to high school. 235 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 2: So I went to three different high schools. One of 236 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 2: the high schools is fifty a street between ninth and 237 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 2: tenth right here in time script. 238 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: It's crazy. 239 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 2: I got shot at that school when I was fifteen 240 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 2: years old, so. 241 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 1: It's not where how this is a bullet? Wo? Why 242 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: when that happened? 243 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 2: So right between eighth and ninth Avenue, I used to 244 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 2: go to Park West High School. There was and then 245 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 2: there was Printing High School on the same street. So 246 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 2: January eighteenth, nineteen eighty three is two high schools let 247 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 2: out on the middle of midtown. So he got like 248 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 2: three thousand kids in the street. Nine of those kids 249 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 2: were beaten down another kid. One had a baseball bat, 250 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 2: one had a golf club and then beating this kid 251 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 2: within an inch of his life. And I'm leaving school 252 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,199 Speaker 2: heading to the train station on eighth Avenue, and we're 253 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,719 Speaker 2: all watching this, and so I literally was like, y'all, 254 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 2: I wish it would and they did, and they pushed 255 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 2: me out the way to beat on this kid. 256 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 3: One of them. I pushed a kid back. 257 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 2: Another kid came up behind me, threw me around, grabbed 258 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 2: me around the neck, threw me on the ground and 259 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 2: told the third. 260 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 3: Kid to shoot me. 261 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 2: So that's fifteen years old, right here in midtown Manhattan, 262 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 2: and my friend Marvin was standing on the corner. 263 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 3: Everybody watched it and he was like, yo yo, but Yoba. 264 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 2: They used to come to me Joba in high school 265 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 2: and we ran to There was a hospital, Saint Clair's 266 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 2: on ninth and fifty second Street, and it's that getting 267 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 2: shot at that when I went to that school. And 268 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 2: my father wouldn't let me go to performing our high 269 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 2: school because he didn't want us to pursue our career 270 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 2: and the arts. He said, you know, get a real 271 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 2: job kind of thing. So I was studying engineering over there, 272 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: which was crazy. But because I got shot, He's like, 273 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 2: you know what, We're going to switch schools. And there 274 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 2: was another performing arts program called Talent Unlimited that kadem 275 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 2: Hardison went to. Most death went to Lisa Lisa Geene. 276 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 2: Anthony Ray, who was in fame, actually went to the 277 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 2: same program. So that's I was allowed to go to 278 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 2: that theater program. But I had two passions growing up. 279 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 2: One was education, working with kids. It was just always 280 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,959 Speaker 2: that kid that other kids came to with their problems, 281 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 2: and I was always I had some kind of wisdom 282 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 2: and I was always tutoring or helping out. And so 283 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 2: the other one was theater, like doing theater, but musical theater. 284 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 2: So I grew up a musician, playing guitar, singing, and 285 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 2: so for me, I wanted to be on Broadway and 286 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 2: I thought I'd be doing musicals, and I was pursuing 287 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 2: music and working with kids. And it was through the 288 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 2: job I had at a place called the City Kids Foundation. 289 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 2: At the time, it was a job before that, but 290 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:25,559 Speaker 2: City Kids really would change my life. I was there 291 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 2: from nineteen to twenty four years old. And so when 292 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 2: the grant that was hiring me, that was paying for 293 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 2: me ran out in the summer of eighty nine, I 294 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 2: told my boss, Yeah, I have a waiter job at 295 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:45,440 Speaker 2: a restaurant uptown, Cafe Luxembourg, and I said, I'll volunteer 296 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 2: for the summer. And so when I showed up at 297 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 2: work one day, there was a flyer on the wall 298 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 2: for an audition because we had a repertory company. And 299 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 2: in that repertory company was Donald Faison, Isaiah Washington, Lisa Lapere, 300 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 2: who's unequalizer now dashed, myha who was on Ray, Donavi 301 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 2: been in a bunch of other stuff, a bunch of kids. 302 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 3: Doulay Hill came through there. 303 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: I keep calling dou Lay Duel, but doule. 304 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 3: Doule Doulay Hill. And so. 305 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: That what wealth of talent you grew up with New 306 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: York City? Well New York is really special in that way. 307 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: Go on. 308 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 2: So no, no, it's all good. So I go and audition. 309 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 2: So as a science says three twenty five a day. 310 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I could do that. Twenty five 311 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 2: dollars a day. Yeah, three twenty five days. So I 312 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 2: went in auditioned for that movie. Got the movie. It 313 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 2: was a little film called Seriously Fresh. And that's the 314 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 2: guy who wrote that film was a guy named Jamal 315 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 2: Joseph and he had just gotten out of his role 316 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 2: doing ten years in Levenworth Prison for his role being 317 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 2: in the Black Panther Party. And so he's telling me 318 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 2: the story on set, and I said, yo, I work 319 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 2: with this youth group. I want you to come and 320 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 2: talk to my kids during Black History Month. And so 321 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 2: I was like eight months later, oh, no, four months 322 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 2: later or something like that. And we loved him so much. 323 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 2: He is the person that we end up hiring to 324 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: run the city kids of a repertory company. And Jamal 325 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 2: is the dude who called me one day and said, hey, 326 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 2: they're doing this movie about the Jamaican Bobster. That team 327 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 2: from an audition. It was an open call, and that's 328 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 2: that's how it happened. 329 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 1: That's how you got running. 330 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 3: So I wasn't ever really trying to, like, I've never 331 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 3: really tried. 332 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 1: What did you see yourself as? Were you going to 333 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: be an activist in the community? Were you going to 334 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: You wanted to do Broadway, but what else were you going? 335 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 2: I was always a multi hyphen in so musically and 336 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 2: my father you say, boy, you need to focus. So musically, 337 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 2: I wanted to be Bob Marley and samk those are 338 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 2: my two, like the way they made me feel. 339 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 3: I wanted to make people feel. I play acoustic guitar. 340 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 2: I'd be out here on the street singing, and I'd 341 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 2: be in the subway, I'd be in club like you know, 342 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 2: open mics, all that, and so I was chasing the 343 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 2: music because I felt like I could put I can 344 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 2: control that. Yeah, I don't have to wait for an audition. 345 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 2: Because growing up in the city doing theater, all my 346 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 2: friends were pissed when they wouldn't get stuff, And I'm like, 347 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 2: y'all are I'm not doing that? 348 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to do a lot more. 349 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so real estate, which I do now. Development was 350 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 2: always something. 351 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 1: We're going to take a quick break because we have 352 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: to pay some bills. We'll be right back in just 353 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: a few moments. In today's age, people feel like they 354 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 1: can't well, today's age, they do. They are very much 355 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: comfortable with saying we are multi hyphen its. It is 356 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: the thing. You have to have a lot of things 357 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: going on. But back then that wasn't that very popular. 358 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: It felt like, like to what your dad said, son, 359 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: you need to focus. Did you ever find it a 360 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: burden to be so talented in different areas mentally, physically, emotionally. 361 00:16:58,520 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 1: Did it feel like. 362 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 2: If you're the way it still feels that way. Why 363 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,879 Speaker 2: not a burden that I can't handle? Because when you 364 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 2: I call myself a Swiss Swiss army knife, I'm useful 365 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 2: in a lot of situations. 366 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:12,160 Speaker 3: Right. 367 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 2: I could produce this show, I could choose that a 368 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 2: direct that can edit it. I can write a speech 369 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:18,880 Speaker 2: for you. I can sing a song. I can work 370 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 2: on strategy for you. We can talk about development, we 371 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:25,400 Speaker 2: can talk about education. So for me, you know, made 372 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:27,959 Speaker 2: it make sense to me. Martha Stewart, when The New 373 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:32,880 Speaker 2: York Times posted her schedule, I was like, Oh, that's 374 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 2: like school, math, class, science, class, gym, language. Like when 375 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 2: we went to school, you had like eight classes a day. 376 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 2: You did and you tried to get an A or 377 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 2: eighty or whatever we did. 378 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: But why does it feel like a burden? Not a 379 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 1: burden you can't handle. 380 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 2: Well, Because sometimes I really, honestly, like say, my music, right, 381 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 2: the music has always been probably I think it's one 382 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 2: of my greatest talents, but it's not the thing I 383 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 2: do all the time. So the burden of ambition is 384 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:09,199 Speaker 2: more because I'm ambitious in all these different ways that 385 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 2: it's hard to focus on all the things you want 386 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 2: to do, so I try to mash it all up. 387 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 2: Like my development company over Developments at the intersection of 388 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:19,399 Speaker 2: real estate, education and media. 389 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 3: Right. 390 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 2: The reason why we moved the way we move is 391 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 2: because I was able to figure out, oh, telling stories. 392 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 2: I'm a storyteller at the end of the day. So 393 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 2: whether it's development, whether it's owning my restaurant I had 394 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 2: in Times Square forty secondary for years Soul Cafe. Right, 395 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 2: it told a story. You walk in, you felt good, 396 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 2: you saw yourself, the colors, the black people, the menu. 397 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,159 Speaker 1: Right, that told what's the Because I'm listening to you 398 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, I can relate. I have a 399 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 1: lot of I think a lot of creative people consider 400 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: themselves with starby knives. I think you take one platform 401 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 1: and you do it well, and that allows you to 402 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 1: open up doors to do other things. But what is 403 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 1: the what would be the downside of being creative? And 404 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if there's somebody listening and saying I 405 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 1: want to do it all? Do you get too overwhelmed 406 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,199 Speaker 1: in your mind? Do you not have enough time in 407 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 1: the day to accomplish all the things that you want? 408 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 3: That's part Yeah. 409 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 2: I mean right now we're producing our activation right flipping 410 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 2: the Hood, which is in a month from tomorrow. Sure, right, 411 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 2: that takes all of my time, okay, And so that's 412 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 2: a heavy lift, even though we have a team. So yeah, 413 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 2: I think it's just a friend of mine said recently, 414 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 2: not to do list is longer than the time I 415 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 2: have on the planet, and I relate to that. So 416 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 2: it's not like a burden, like but that was a 417 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 2: joy to be able to wake up every single day 418 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 2: and do what you want to do, pursue the things 419 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 2: you want to pursue. So yeah, I think that the 420 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 2: burden for me has been the public perception of who 421 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 2: people think I am. 422 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: Who do people think you are. 423 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:50,880 Speaker 2: The characters or a collection of characters that you play. 424 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,959 Speaker 2: They think that you're driven by being a celebrity. They 425 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 2: think that you think you all the whatever is in 426 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 2: their head that they want to assign to you. You 427 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 2: deal with it as well. I'm sure right people you 428 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,119 Speaker 2: think you know, you think I think I'm that. So 429 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:08,680 Speaker 2: what I've learned is there is the person I am, 430 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 2: they are the collection of characters I've played, and then 431 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 2: there's a persona that has been developed based on those perceptions. 432 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 1: So you're a little bit of all. 433 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 2: In the eyes of No, I'm the first dude, like 434 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 2: you said I'm you said I'm kind to people, right. 435 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 1: Doesn't mean all those other people can't be kind that No. 436 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 2: No, what I'm saying is that I think that people 437 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,199 Speaker 2: will want to sign a value to you based on 438 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 2: who they think you are. So people like if I'm 439 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 2: I posted something about my real estate, right, so oh 440 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 2: you celebrities think, No, I ain't doing this because you 441 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 2: think I'm a celebrity. I'm doing this because I'm purposed 442 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 2: to do it now the value you want to sign 443 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 2: to that is on you. So and there are people, 444 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 2: as you know, who are really into being celebrities. There 445 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 2: are people who really work on it, make sure that 446 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 2: every event. 447 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 1: I'm a little reads a lot of work. It's a 448 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,240 Speaker 1: lot of work to try to be famous up with 449 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 1: the do a lot of work trying to do all that. 450 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 1: What do you think the biggest misconception of you would be? 451 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 1: Like if you are walking down the street and someone 452 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:12,399 Speaker 1: talks to you, or if you meet some morning, you 453 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,400 Speaker 1: hear what people say about you. What is the one 454 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: thing that you hear about yourself that isn't true? 455 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:24,479 Speaker 2: That isn't true. I think back to the whole celebrity thing. 456 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,560 Speaker 2: I think that you know, I don't need to tell 457 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,159 Speaker 2: you our stand up for things that I think are 458 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,199 Speaker 2: important to see people. I think we all deserve to 459 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:34,400 Speaker 2: be seen. And there are times when I've certainly said 460 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 2: things that people have been. 461 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 3: Like why is he saying that? 462 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 2: And I say it for the same reason you said 463 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 2: at the beginning of conversation because I'm a kind person, 464 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,880 Speaker 2: because I see humanity. I don't care who you are, 465 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 2: and I think people can conflate what you say you 466 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 2: stand for or who you may support with who you are, right, 467 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 2: So don't get it twisted that I'm something other than 468 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 2: a beautiful black heterosexual male. 469 00:21:58,560 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 3: Right. 470 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 2: We say black lives matter, we say we are pressed 471 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 2: and we should be supported. But we are the first 472 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 2: to come after each other. 473 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 1: I don't know why. 474 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 2: A few weeks ago, I just said I'm a non 475 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 2: black man. I'd said it to my daughter to Nate before. 476 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,639 Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, So working in the 477 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,679 Speaker 2: federal government, because we have a federal business contracting business 478 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 2: as well, and having friends in the federal business and 479 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 2: the federal government and in contracting, you know that there 480 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 2: are certain words that are being looked for to identify, 481 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 2: to say we're not gonna allow that. Bipod right, black, 482 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 2: first woman. 483 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, all of those words. Right. 484 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 2: So my point in jest was, well, are they going 485 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,920 Speaker 2: to say that about non white Are they going to 486 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 2: specifically say that if. 487 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: You say I'm specifically non white? 488 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 3: Are they going to say you don't deserve an opportunity 489 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 3: because you're not white. 490 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 1: Because you're saying I'm not black. I'm just saying I'm 491 00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: non white. 492 00:22:58,280 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 3: Right, and I'm not saying I'm not black. 493 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,880 Speaker 1: I cannot you're keeping it real generic and you're playing 494 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:04,640 Speaker 1: the word seal of game that they play. So you're 495 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:08,119 Speaker 1: sitting here the exactly and made it and made it 496 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: something that was exactly. 497 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 2: They took wo they're now using civil rights legislation. 498 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 3: Woke and they're saying it's unfair. 499 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 1: Sure, so they're taking get what you're saying and weaponizing it. 500 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: And so you're you're going to take the language that 501 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,439 Speaker 1: they weaponize and use it for your benefit. Yes, so 502 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 1: I'm non white. No, I'm saying that's what you're saying. 503 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,239 Speaker 1: You go online white. It was a joke, okay, so 504 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:35,159 Speaker 1: you're being silly. 505 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 2: I was walking to a meeting on my page, just 506 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 2: posted something and people you're just talking, just talking, talking 507 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 2: that talk, and so people said, what's wrong with him? 508 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 2: But that speaks more to our trauma. That speaks more absolutely, 509 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 2: it speaks to how dare you separate yourself from me? 510 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 2: And those are the things that people have a hard 511 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 2: time understanding when you're a person that is driven by 512 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:01,479 Speaker 2: your humanity. Now by celebrity, not by fame, not by money, 513 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 2: not by anything other than my purpose is to make 514 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,719 Speaker 2: the world a better place. I was raised. We were 515 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 2: raised to leave places better than they were when you 516 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 2: found them. So if somebody is driving in front of 517 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 2: me and they toss them out their window, I've chased 518 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 2: cars down. Like yo, bro, what are you doing? Somebody 519 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 2: toss up in the street. You don't open the door 520 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 2: for an old lady. You don't you know, you don't 521 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,200 Speaker 2: say excuse me. You don't like all those things that 522 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 2: can connect us as humans, that would allow us to 523 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 2: see each other, to be kind to each other, to 524 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,479 Speaker 2: trust each other. The a lot of people that move 525 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,880 Speaker 2: in this world like I ain't trusting nobody because people 526 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 2: are shady. That ain't how I really move. I move 527 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 2: with an open heart and an open mind to say 528 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:52,199 Speaker 2: that in every space I'm in, I belong and I 529 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 2: have one purpose, and that's to be light. 530 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 1: If you're a person like Lghts, yes exactly. 531 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 2: So, if you're a person, I truly believe that you're 532 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 2: a child of God. And if God is love, then 533 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 2: I love you. I don't have to know you. Why 534 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,679 Speaker 2: do I do work in community? I have to know 535 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 2: these kids that we serve. I don't have to know 536 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:13,880 Speaker 2: why am I doing everything I'm doing in real estate, 537 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 2: particularly around educating other people. I don't have to know 538 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 2: you to say I know what I know, I know 539 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 2: what I don't know. So if I put you in 540 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 2: a room with me and you got something to share, 541 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 2: I got something to share. We're going to be strong 542 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 2: if we're doing this together in collaboration. And that is 543 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,199 Speaker 2: what Yoba means. Yoba means lasts from the slaves, a 544 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,919 Speaker 2: new generation. That's how we were raised. My father was 545 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 2: very much on some You ain't doing what everybody Your 546 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 2: name is not like everybody else, your religion is we 547 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 2: were raised Muslim. Your religion is not like everybody else. 548 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 2: You're not moving like everybody else. Since kids, right, you 549 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 2: get in trouble at school, you're like yo. But you know, 550 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 2: Michael said, I don't care what michaels. 551 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't care what Michael eaton and saying yeah, 552 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: it's very interesting when you said a few things that 553 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,440 Speaker 1: I think are very true. But to have that type 554 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 1: of heart and have that mission and to be as 555 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 1: free as you are, God bless you, because that's hard 556 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:05,720 Speaker 1: to be in a world. 557 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 2: Why do you think it's hard because I just. 558 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 1: Think, well, you're not as sensitive as I am. Like 559 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,679 Speaker 1: you just said, some people will be like, I'm not 560 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: gonna I'm not doing that, and that would be me. 561 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I would get exhausted after, you know, and 562 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 1: I think that I pick and choose who I give 563 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 1: that love and light to. I doesn't. It doesn't sound 564 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,360 Speaker 1: like you pick and choose. You give it freely, And 565 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 1: to me that is that's a tough ask because because 566 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 1: of what comes with all of that. While your intenders 567 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:36,880 Speaker 1: are great and you're trying to live in a world 568 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,639 Speaker 1: and do right, everyone doesn't have that. In fact, the 569 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 1: majority of people don't. 570 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I don't know who I would be if 571 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 2: I ever lost that And don't lose it. 572 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 3: No, I can't. No, I'm gonna tell you something. 573 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 2: You know that that I was cyberbullied when I stood 574 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:54,200 Speaker 2: up for that community, for the community right in that way. 575 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 3: And that's the community. 576 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,719 Speaker 2: When I stood up for our community, because these are 577 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,440 Speaker 2: are others and sisters and our children, right, we're still 578 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 2: black people. 579 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 3: We're still I see. 580 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:06,920 Speaker 1: What you're saying. You're saying when you sit it for 581 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 1: the black people in the trans community people or or 582 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: or black men or black whomever, You're still being bullied. 583 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 3: No, what I'm saying is that. 584 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 2: Having that experience with the level of vitriol, the level 585 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:27,399 Speaker 2: of misinformation, the level of intentional pimping my pain for 586 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 2: people's profit. 587 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 3: When you decide to put a. 588 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 2: Caption that says Milik, Glba says he's no longer black Milik, 589 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:41,120 Speaker 2: ioba's gay Milik whatever this thing, I'm like, really, this 590 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 2: dude who has represented every single one of us and 591 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,560 Speaker 2: everything I've ever done. When you see me play a 592 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,439 Speaker 2: black man in anything I've ever done, there is a 593 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 2: level of vulnerability that I think is important to imbue 594 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 2: with every single character because so many of our black 595 00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:58,120 Speaker 2: men are afraid to be vulnerable because they don't understand 596 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,679 Speaker 2: that the strength is actually in the vulnerability. It's in 597 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 2: the ability to be human and sensitive and to see 598 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 2: you and to feel you, and to vibrate on your frequency, 599 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 2: no matter what it is. So I study Buddhism, right, 600 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 2: if you've seen what's love got to do with it? 601 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 2: Like when Tina Turner was channing numb Yo horangeyeto devotion 602 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,640 Speaker 2: to the mystic law of cause and effect, through sound vibration. 603 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,639 Speaker 3: That's what that means. Numb yo horanguekeo. 604 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 2: Inherent in every human being at a ten essential life 605 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:33,600 Speaker 2: conditions hell, hunger, anger, animality, rapture, tranquility, learning, absorption, Bodha, 606 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 2: and buddhahood. So in any given moment, we can be 607 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 2: in hell, sure, hunger, anger, animality, rapture, tranquility, right, so 608 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 2: on and so forth, and so from a Buddhist perspective, 609 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 2: if I see a person that may be in hell, 610 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 2: may be in anger. 611 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 3: Maybe is supposed to help. 612 00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 2: Not help, But I can recognize where you may be, 613 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 2: knowing that you have the potential for enlightenment trump putent. 614 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 2: All these cats sugnate puff people still have. That's what 615 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 2: Christianity talks about redemption, to be christ Like, to be 616 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 2: light in the world. 617 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 3: Right. 618 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 2: And so for me, if you can recognize those inherent 619 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,040 Speaker 2: life conditions in people, it's not very hard to be 620 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 2: kind because all of us have those life conditions. So 621 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 2: I could choose to be I could stay in the 622 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 2: gutter with a lot of people. 623 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:35,479 Speaker 3: Sure I choose not to. 624 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: It's harder to stay out of the gutter. I think 625 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 1: it's easy to be in the gutter. I think it's 626 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 1: easy to. 627 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 2: When people don't understand that they have higher life conditions 628 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 2: that they can achieve. And so how do I even 629 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 2: have this information where I studied it? If I didn't, 630 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 2: If I didn't, I had a certain sort of orientation 631 00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 2: as a kid. My mother told me when we were 632 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 2: when they were getting divorced, her my father. I was 633 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 2: ten years old. She said, you have tried to fix 634 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 2: it if I told. 635 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 3: You what was going on. 636 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 2: Oh, so I know that that was my orientation, but 637 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 2: then being able to bolster that with deeper understandings about 638 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 2: philosophies that may be different than how I grew up 639 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,680 Speaker 2: as a Muslim, or what am I to learned from 640 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 2: my Christian friends and my Jewish friends? For me, when 641 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 2: I started studying Buddhism as a seventeen year old, that 642 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 2: was a game changer and. 643 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: A changer whole perspective. Which is why you have been 644 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: able to be successful in many areas, and which is 645 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 1: why you have been to me, what I'm just thinking 646 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 1: as I'm like, why why are some people cultural mainstays? 647 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 1: Why are people always in the zegeist if you will, 648 00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 1: whether it's consistently or every so often, but that is 649 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 1: this magnetism that you have. We're going to take a 650 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 1: quick break because we have to pay some bills. We'll 651 00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 1: be right back in just a few moments. A couple 652 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: of weeks ago, you invited me to and I won't 653 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 1: call it a fundraiser, but it was a bit of 654 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 1: a celebration. 655 00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 2: It was a fundraiser. It was our first charity dinner. Okay, 656 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 2: and foundation and buy my lovely daughter's right off camera. 657 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,760 Speaker 1: I will show her to her beautiful self. She's gorgeous. 658 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: And you talked, you cried a lot. You cried a lot, 659 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 1: and I was like, well, he is so full of emotion. 660 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 1: It was a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful thing to 661 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 1: see a black man cry and be overwhelmed and excited 662 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 1: and have a bevy of emotions that we all could relate. 663 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: To tell us about the event, the fundraiser that I attended, 664 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 1: and what you're working on. 665 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 2: So thanks for coming. First of all, you are with 666 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 2: your lovely friends who I know through you, Keisha at 667 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 2: the NBA Players Association and her team Erica and some 668 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:03,360 Speaker 2: other folks was there. So you know, we have you 669 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 2: over development the LLC, which is my development company. That's 670 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 2: at the intersection of real estate, education and media, which 671 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 2: I talked about, And our slogan is builder of people, 672 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 2: places and things, And so we run a lot of 673 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:21,400 Speaker 2: education programs for a high school, college, and community level 674 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 2: around how can we level up in terms of having 675 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 2: access to information on the built environment. And when people 676 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 2: think about development and cities being gentrified, they didn't always 677 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 2: realize all of what is that entails. They might just 678 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 2: see buildings grow up and don't understand but who financed it, 679 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 2: and who's the engineers and those the designers, who's doing 680 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 2: marketing and who's telling the stories and right, and these 681 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:49,640 Speaker 2: are places that we're woefully underrepresented in architecture, development, finance, 682 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 2: all that stuff. And if we don't have a seat 683 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 2: at the table, or we don't grow up in families 684 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 2: that are in this space. For instance, eighty percent of 685 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 2: commercial real estate in America is owned by one percent 686 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 2: of families. 687 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 1: It's crazy, that's crazy. But I can see that because 688 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 1: I see the same names everywhere I go. 689 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 3: That's right. 690 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 1: I see the same names on residential and commercial properties. 691 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 3: Everywhere, every city, every state. 692 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and summer around the world. 693 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 2: And so we're not at the table. So we don't. 694 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 2: We're not in that game. I've been in the development 695 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 2: game since two thousand and seven, two thousand and eight. 696 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 2: Shout out to my brother Dan Bythewood, who Reggie Bythewood 697 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 2: we might know from Loving Basketball, Gina and his wife. 698 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 3: Reggie, Reggie's cousin. 699 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 2: We met on the set of New York Kind of 700 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 2: Cover and when I told him I wanted to get 701 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 2: into development in two thousand and seven, two thousand and eight, 702 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 2: he gave me a seat at the table. So started 703 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 2: over development in twenty seventeen, when I decided to start 704 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 2: my own thing, even though I still rock with my brothers. 705 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 2: That gave me my first seat at the table for 706 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 2: development in Baltimore. So I was involved with that for 707 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 2: over a decade. Still involved. But that's where I learned 708 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 2: the game. And the whole time I'm learn the game, 709 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, I want to teach this to people. You know, 710 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 2: folks should know how this really works. Right, And number 711 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 2: one with that family, the Bythewood family, that first round 712 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:10,400 Speaker 2: was friends and family. 713 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 3: Right. 714 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 2: So he went to friends and family, say hey, would 715 00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,400 Speaker 2: you like to be a part of this. Susan Taylor 716 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 2: is in that deal. People like Reginald van Lee, Susan 717 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 2: and her husband Keeper and a bunch of other black 718 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 2: folks that we know were the first investors in that deal. 719 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 2: And so for me, being the educator that I am, 720 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,799 Speaker 2: right that history goes back to the eighties, I just 721 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,239 Speaker 2: felt like, I want to find a way to, you know, 722 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,399 Speaker 2: share this information with our community because I'm learning so much. 723 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,319 Speaker 2: And the first, the biggest money ever made in one 724 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,319 Speaker 2: transaction was a real estate It wasn't in film and teavurse. 725 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,200 Speaker 1: That's where the money is, that's where the money resides. 726 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,719 Speaker 2: So that's what really got me saying, you know, I 727 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 2: need to take this thing seriously and so try to 728 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 2: keep the story short. So in twenty eighteen, I'm doing 729 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 2: a show called God Friend of Me, and I'm playing 730 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 2: a real estate developer and we're on set in Bushwick 731 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:04,239 Speaker 2: and construction site and there's film cameras and I'm like, yo, 732 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 2: my world's emerging. A few weeks later, a few days later, 733 00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 2: we're at a site at Brooklyn Navy Yard. Across the street, 734 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 2: a friend of mine is developing entire city block. A 735 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,879 Speaker 2: guy named Scott Reckler, one of the names you see 736 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 2: all over the place. RXR right, And so the projects 737 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,799 Speaker 2: are down the block, and I'm saying to myself, how 738 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 2: many people from the projects walk by film sets and 739 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 2: construction sites and have no idea about either space. I'm 740 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 2: in both spaces. I want to find a way to 741 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:37,719 Speaker 2: bring all three of these together. And I shared that 742 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 2: vision with a woman and a group of women who 743 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 2: are trying to start a nonprofit with me. At the time, 744 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,760 Speaker 2: I was like, nah, I got this for profit company 745 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 2: I haven't done anything with and by now it's like 746 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, and I said, I want the focus of 747 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,359 Speaker 2: my company to be on educating our community about real 748 00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 2: estate while I'm pursuing deals, but I want to used 749 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 2: film somehow. Two days later, she sends me a deck 750 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,880 Speaker 2: it says I build New York. And she took my 751 00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:11,759 Speaker 2: vision and made turn the thought into a thing. 752 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 1: Wow. 753 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,600 Speaker 2: And I took that deck to my friend Scott. I said, Yo, Scott, 754 00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 2: I want to figure out a way to bring more 755 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 2: black and brown people into this game. 756 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 1: It's good for a year. 757 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 2: He says, you know what, I'll fund it. And when 758 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 2: he said that, I said, you know what, I'm gonna 759 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:31,879 Speaker 2: shoot the documentary and so for six weeks from. 760 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 3: July. 761 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:38,360 Speaker 2: In July twenty nineteen, we went from New Hampton to Newburgh, 762 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,840 Speaker 2: New York, which is upstate, and I took seven young black, 763 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 2: seven Black and Latino young people from eighteen to thirty eight, 764 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,400 Speaker 2: and I introduced them to my roller decks as I 765 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 2: went pursuing my first development deal in New York, and 766 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:54,240 Speaker 2: I filmed the whole thing Ali Anthony Bourdain, Parts unknown. 767 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 2: That became something called the Real Estate Mixtape, which is 768 00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 2: a ten part doc series that I I'm not going 769 00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,240 Speaker 2: to try to sell it to a network or streamer. 770 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 1: You just use it to show what you division. 771 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 3: And I use it in community, right. 772 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 2: I use it at the high school level, at the 773 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:12,479 Speaker 2: college level, and we do community work. And so that 774 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 2: then became the basis of a curriculum called the Eyebuild 775 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 2: New York Curriculum that we introduced the high school students 776 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 2: to introduce high school students to real estate development partnerships 777 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 2: with PRAP. In the last three years, I've been to 778 00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:28,240 Speaker 2: fifty one city, six countries screening the dot. It leads 779 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 2: to development deals, it leads to me doing stories on 780 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:35,000 Speaker 2: other entrepreneurs, other black developers. I'll be in Austin in 781 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 2: a couple of days I'm working on a documentary on 782 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 2: black women developers, an organization called Big Austin, which is 783 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 2: a CDFI, which is you know, community development, financial development, 784 00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,400 Speaker 2: community development financial institution. So I'm doing a doc on 785 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:54,359 Speaker 2: these black women who actually, by the way, had won 786 00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,280 Speaker 2: an RFP to build a Tesla plant, a Tesla campus, 787 00:37:58,320 --> 00:37:59,680 Speaker 2: which we'll. 788 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:00,760 Speaker 1: Get into that another time. 789 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 2: But when I met them, it was like a hidden 790 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:04,439 Speaker 2: figure story. 791 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:05,880 Speaker 1: I was like, people is amazing. 792 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 2: So the dinner you came to I finally said, you 793 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 2: know what, let's start the foundation. And I asked my 794 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 2: daughter in like three years ago to do the paperwork, 795 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 2: was like just file five one D three so she 796 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 2: could learn that process. And then one of the things 797 00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,600 Speaker 2: we do is called flipping the Hood, which we have 798 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:27,800 Speaker 2: coming up on May ninth and tenth at the Brooklyn 799 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 2: Navy Yard, which in the hood is a mentality. Sure, 800 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 2: the first real estate we owner is in our minds, sisterhood, 801 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,400 Speaker 2: the brotherhood, the fatherhood, the familyhood, the neighborhood. 802 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,399 Speaker 3: Right, we have to not. 803 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 2: Just flip a house for myself and my family, but 804 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 2: how do we flip entire communities? And we can't do 805 00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 2: it without education. So we did the first one in 806 00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 2: twenty twenty three. My daughter at the end of the 807 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 2: year of that year said, Dad, I feel like I 808 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 2: need to step my game up. And I said, Okay, 809 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,880 Speaker 2: shout out to Morgan Stanley, Globals and Entertable. 810 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:02,120 Speaker 3: They were our sponsor. 811 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,839 Speaker 2: But I really wanted to position my daughter in a 812 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,840 Speaker 2: place of leadership that I got to experience at her age. 813 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,960 Speaker 2: May ninth and tenth the Brooklyn Navy Yard two days 814 00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,080 Speaker 2: of We call it an activation because once we activate, 815 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 2: we don't stop. So the first year we did it, 816 00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,360 Speaker 2: we had about a thousand people over two days, about 817 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 2: fifty five million dollars in business activity was generated. That 818 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 2: was primarily through business loans in the real estate side, 819 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:33,680 Speaker 2: but everything from technology, AI, crypto supply. 820 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,240 Speaker 1: Chaine, just educating financial literacy. 821 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 3: Teaching community building right, building. 822 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 1: Up the community that you have. 823 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 2: Just through Yeah, yeah, So how do we co invest? 824 00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 2: As a wonderful woman named Nicki Murkison who as a 825 00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:49,200 Speaker 2: platform called pair gap. So you don't have all the money, 826 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,840 Speaker 2: you got the credit, your sister, your brother, your neighbor. 827 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 1: Does it together? Community? 828 00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, equity shares another one you. 829 00:39:56,400 --> 00:40:00,279 Speaker 1: Have the three c's. It was community. I was reading something. 830 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,040 Speaker 3: Oh, community connection and capital. 831 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 1: Community connection and capital. And I thought that was really smart. Yeah, 832 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:06,240 Speaker 1: I thought that was really smart. 833 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's what it is. 834 00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,640 Speaker 1: It goes back to what I was saying about you earlier, 835 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:11,960 Speaker 1: me being kind. It all full circle. 836 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 2: Well, I honestly, I just feel like I'm being obedient 837 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,640 Speaker 2: when I tell you in this chapter in my life, 838 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 2: I noticed people that go, like, yo, when does his cat, 839 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,040 Speaker 2: Like when did he start doing real estate or whatever? 840 00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 2: You've been doing it twenty years? Right, You've been doing 841 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:26,840 Speaker 2: I owned since before that. 842 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:28,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but. 843 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 2: It really has been in obedience. Like when I was 844 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,160 Speaker 2: doing a show called God Friended Me where I had 845 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 2: this vision whose vision was given to me, and I've 846 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 2: just been obedient to it. Literally, It's like I heard 847 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 2: the words flipping the hood. This is what it is. 848 00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:45,759 Speaker 3: You know. 849 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:47,759 Speaker 2: It's not like I started with a corporation saying here's 850 00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 2: a big check, go do it. It's like, nah, it's 851 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,440 Speaker 2: me picking up the phone, me reaching out the folks saying, hey, 852 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 2: this is the vision. 853 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 3: Do you support it? 854 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,919 Speaker 2: And the best part about it is that for every 855 00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,400 Speaker 2: adult that buys a ticket, a high school a college 856 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:00,359 Speaker 2: student gets I'm for. 857 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,680 Speaker 1: Free, get to what come for free. Oh all right, 858 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:05,239 Speaker 1: so we got to put that out there, flipping the 859 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 1: hood y'all gotta support all the naked listeners and those 860 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 1: who are watching as as my guy elogantly gets this 861 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,799 Speaker 1: water and drinks it and slides it and moves it 862 00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,360 Speaker 1: and then does it. This is he's given us full action. 863 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:21,960 Speaker 3: Movie, sports and politics. 864 00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,960 Speaker 1: We didn't have time. We did not have time. I'm 865 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,240 Speaker 1: so bummed, and it was my fault and your fault. 866 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:28,640 Speaker 1: This is my fault. I'm gonna take the hell. 867 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 3: I'm so proud of you, though. 868 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:36,920 Speaker 1: We cannot talk about me. I don't like attention. I'm 869 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: gonna say wonderful things about you that are going to 870 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,319 Speaker 1: make you quye at the beginning of the podcast, but 871 00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,279 Speaker 1: I won't give it to you now. Thank you for 872 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 1: being light, thank you for being a beautiful black man, 873 00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 1: and thank you for being vulnerable. We don't get to 874 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:54,360 Speaker 1: see it alive. I'm naked, you naked. Fully Naked. Naked 875 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 1: Sports written and executive produced by me Carry Champion, produced 876 00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,400 Speaker 1: by Jockey's Thomas Sound Design, and mastered by Dwayne Crawford. 877 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:04,880 Speaker 1: Naked Sports is a part of the Black Effect podcast 878 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,160 Speaker 1: network in iHeartMedia