WEBVTT - That's What He Said 0:00:00.960 --> 0:00:04.400 This is How Men Think with brooks Like and Gavin 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:09.200 to grow and I heard radio podcast Welcome to How 0:00:09.280 --> 0:00:13.160 Men Think, a podcast where we dive inside the unique 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:16.320 minds of good stars like you, Mr Gavin Degras and 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:19.520 you Brooks. I appreciate it. My name is brooks Like 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:23.680 and with us today flying in from Nashville. Let's let's 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:25.880 I want to tip my cap to you, my friend. Hey, 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:27.960 come on, I want to tip my cap to you. 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:30.680 For me to be here, your commitment to the podcast. 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:34.040 Gavin guy know he lives in Nashville and travels here 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:37.320 to l A to record this. So Amy said we're 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:38.960 going to do it without you, and I pushed back 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:41.400 and I said, no chance in how we're doing a podcast. 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:45.360 Thank you for your loyalty. Amy didn't mean to throw 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:48.479 Amy under the bus, Like I know you have a 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:50.120 lot of travel in your life, my man, and that 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:52.360 you have tour this summer, and so I just want 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:54.240 to say on behalf of the guys. We appreciate you. Try. 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:55.600 Thank you, man. I'm so happy to be here. You 0:00:55.680 --> 0:00:57.520 kidding me? I was like me, man, I'm just looking 0:00:57.560 --> 0:00:59.680 forward to this very much. It was good to see 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:03.080 some of my favorite male faces. Yes, he didn't say 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:09.199 he didn't say personalities, but he said it faces for radio. Also, 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:13.039 I want to acknowledge Rick, my cat Rick. So Rick 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:17.240 also travels down to l A from Oakland each week 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:20.400 for the show. Uh and he's married to kids, got 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:22.319 a full time job. So the commitment of these two 0:01:22.360 --> 0:01:25.320 good sirs to bring you this podcast is exceptional. I mean, 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:29.959 so I'm still tipping it more in Gavin's favor, but 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:31.680 sure it's nice that you can, but you still need 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:35.960 to get on the public bus of airline and Ryan 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:42.920 Ryan's Ryan drove like four miles to get here. Guys, 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:50.160 that's very possible. Cat more to me and Dmitri runs 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:53.000 this place. So I don't know what that means, but 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:55.360 thank you. Yeah here, I'll tell you that once a day. 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.600 See if we can get you a raise from Amy. 0:01:58.080 --> 0:02:02.080 Uh No. But we have an interesting show here, gentlemen, 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:07.240 really super interesting topic. Today. We are answering questions from 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:10.200 our audience. We like that, we like that, we like 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:14.400 the audience. First, yeah, we have an audience. We did 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:18.359 all right, it says first question from Rick. That can't 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:23.520 be right. So just to everybody listening, we have an 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:26.120 email address that many of you have reached out. We've 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:29.360 received a ton of emails already. Men at I Heart 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:32.000 radio dot com is where you can send your emails 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:35.959 and we'll always dive into questions from listeners on this show. Uh, 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:38.240 we have questions from that email. We also have questions 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.160 that you guys have sent us on our Instagram page 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:43.640 at how Men Think podcast on Instagram. And we're gonna 0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:46.679 get into our first question. This is called That's what 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:50.519 he said. These are our answers to questions from listeners, 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:55.519 male and female. The first question is from Katie. She says, 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:59.079 do men feel the same press pressure as women to 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:04.720 marry and have children? Especially as we get older? Who's 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:09.760 aged in here looking at you, buddy? Do men feel 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:13.120 the same pressure women? Think? Uh? Do men feel the 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:15.519 same pressure? I think that men feel feel pressure, but 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.760 they don't feel the same level of of it being 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:20.400 the timeline that women feel. And it's simply due to 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:24.560 the way we're built physically, you know, we're just Uh. 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:28.359 I think men's timeline just in general is longer than 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:32.040 women for giving, you know, for making a family, starting 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:34.360 a family. So what age would you say that you 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:41.960 just science? I get you pregnant, right, now I've been snipped. 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:45.880 So here's a question, in your mind, what what age 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:48.520 do you think a woman starts to feel pressure to 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:50.280 marry and have a family in what age do you 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:54.000 think a man generally does Just generally speaking, generally speaking, 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:57.920 I think I think when I think, oh, from all 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:01.200 my conversations with buddies of mind they being, etcetera, it 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:06.520 sounds like late twenties is when women start really feeling it, um, 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:10.560 talking about it, really getting serious about it. And I 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:14.760 think that just that can go much, much, much longer 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:17.560 for men in general. There's some guys who say, oh, 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:20.039 I want to be a young dad, right, but what's 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:22.480 considered a young dad now has gotten sort of old, 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:25.799 you know, compared to what the old standards were. Um, 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:29.680 so what's considered a young dad now? In your mind? Five? 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:33.520 Probably that's still considered a young dad, you know, which 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:37.200 classically speaking, is about fifteen years older than it was 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:39.839 a generation and a half ago. And that's that's the 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:43.080 age I was when I had my first Great what 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:47.080 were you? I was thirty two two and Ryan thirty 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:49.839 five when you had your first So I just turned 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:53.560 thirty six, uh, and I I could still go easily 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:55.640 another three or four years, probably without kids. I still 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:59.200 feel like I'm fifteen, right, so, but I think I 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:03.200 would agree with you. I think for so for Katie's question, 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:05.520 do men feel the same pressure, I think we do 0:05:05.600 --> 0:05:07.120 feel pressure. As I got to know dat about it, 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:08.920 I got to be thirty, I was looking for more 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:13.240 fulfillment and purpose and happiness in my life. Uh so 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:16.240 I was looking for the life partner. I wasn't looking 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:19.320 to have kids so much. And still I want to 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:20.720 have kids. I want to have a family. I look 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:23.600 up to you gentlemen for her families. But I don't 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:26.200 feel the pressure right now to do it. So I 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:27.920 would agree with you that I think men can get 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:30.479 to almost forty before they really feel The comment that 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:32.360 Gavin made about being an old dad, I think it 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:35.719 is an important one. So for you, do you you 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:38.320 know you played hockey your whole life. You probably want 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:40.160 to be able to play hockey with your kid. Does 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:43.920 that ever factor into your mind where you say, if 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:46.279 I wait ten years, am I going to be able 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:48.440 to actually get out on the ice and skate with 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:52.000 him in his formative playing years in high school? Or 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:54.920 or not thinking that far? That doesn't honestly that doesn't 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:56.599 weigh on me at all because I believe I'm going 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:58.600 to be so active in my life that even when 0:05:58.600 --> 0:06:02.200 I'm eighty, I'll still be active. So I don't worry 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:05.640 about having kids now because my level of activity or 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:08.200 physicality is going to diminish. I don't worry about that 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:10.960 at all. I'm more just want to do it when 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:14.039 I feel comfortable with my life. And my wife and 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:17.640 I are starting to start talking about kids, like we're 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:19.640 not talking about do we want to have kids right now, 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:21.760 but we're like, Okay, when when would we want to 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:24.680 have kids? Like we should maybe open that conversation. But 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:27.320 being able to be I still think I'm going to 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:31.719 be extremely active later, very late in my life. It's 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:34.560 just how I'm wired. And would you mind playing would 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.520 you mind playing hockey with my kids? Because I don't 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:39.560 feel like I can't really do it, so I think 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:41.719 you can man a couple lessons. I know a guy 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:44.560 can get you a lessons. I'll tell you this though. 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:47.080 When I was younger, for some reason, I always had 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:49.120 in my head I always knew that I wanted to 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:50.880 have kids, and I always knew that I want to 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.520 get married, and I didn't necessarily think I didn't want 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:55.279 to do it like in my early twenties or anything 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:57.240 like that. But I guess in the back of my mind, 0:06:57.279 --> 0:07:00.159 I was always looking. I was always thinking, like, I know, 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:01.960 there's going to be someone and when that time comes, 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:03.840 that's where it will be. And then I kind of 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:05.320 forgot about it for a little while and I was 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:07.360 It's not like I was obsessed with it, but in 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:09.320 my mind I knew that that's what I wanted. So 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:12.400 when I actually when I met my wife, um, I 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:14.760 kind of I kind of knew right away. We didn't 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:17.520 it was a weird time at the you know, when 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:19.680 we met, so we didn't start dating right away, but 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:21.520 I kind of knew that that was that was it, 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:23.720 and from then on and the rest just felt natural. 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:25.480 And then we were married for a few years. We 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:28.320 dated for a few years, were married for a few years. Then, 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.200 like you were saying, Brookes, it just seemed like the 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:33.360 right time too to then have kids. Oh here's a question, though, 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:38.520 you asked me, pressure desire, right, Yes, so I don't 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:40.200 want to I don't want to get those two conflicted. 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:44.680 And the desires always always existed for you, yeah, of course, 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:48.040 but but pressure is a different thing. Okay, So I 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:51.760 could I ask you, like to be open and genuine 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:56.400 author like, do you right now you're forty correct forty two? Uh? 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:59.880 Do you feel pressure to start having a family now? 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:02.880 Starting to feel that? Yeah? But just because you know 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:05.640 you you start thinking, oh, well, what would a full 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:08.480 life be like? Etcetera, et etcetera. And I and my 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:10.720 father always talks about, oh, when I had kids, it 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:12.600 was the greatest time in my life. And this and 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:15.400 that a lot of people talk about talk about that. 0:08:15.440 --> 0:08:17.720 A lot of a lot of men talk about that 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:20.240 it was the greatest time in my life. You know. Um, 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:22.480 so I feel I feel some of that. I feel 0:08:22.480 --> 0:08:24.240 a little bit of that pressure just because i'm you know, 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:27.680 I'm deep into my adulthood now, you know, I'm not one, 0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:31.520 you know, Katie, that was awesome. Appreciate that question. Onto 0:08:31.640 --> 0:08:37.600 Katie has one more so, Katie, that's we're gonna skip one. 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:40.679 We're gonna go to this one. Katie really wants to know, 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:44.040 and she typed it in here. The most important question 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:52.160 Dick Picks discussed confess have you sent them? Why? Gavin, 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:56.559 do you send them? Women are really baffled. Please clear 0:08:56.679 --> 0:08:59.080 this up. Dick picks. Raise your hand if you have 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:02.959 sent one. I have never sent one, never sent one. 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:05.960 I have never sent one, not recently. I only send 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:12.240 them to myself. I only send them to myself, just 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:16.760 selfies and selfie modes to me, like, yeah, totally. It 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:22.920 just makes my hands look bigger man. So okay, So 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:27.000 the consensus is, uh, this group. I mean, I have 0:09:27.080 --> 0:09:29.640 to interject here. I have to two parts of this. 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:32.480 I feel like dick picks are sort of the new 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:35.880 up and coming thing for you know, having a relationship 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:38.040 in the new age of being online and being on 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:40.600 Snapchat or Facebook or whatever. That's just kind of the 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:43.760 new way of what kids who are either you know, 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:47.200 about to have sex. That's kind of their way of communicating. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:49.040 I hate to say it, but that's how I feel 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:52.720 that they're communicating back and forth. So like they're sending 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:56.000 a dick pick and she's sending something back or vice versa. Right, 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:58.560 Which the second part of what I want to say 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:01.280 was I don't think that really right, you know, like 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:05.520 me being a responsible father and having a thirteen year old, like, 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.520 the last thing I want is for him to be 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:10.960 sending dick picks a because it's practically illegal, like if 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:13.720 you get a dick pick from or a pick from 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:16.840 of one of your friends friends and he forwards that on, like, 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:20.800 you can't not do that criminal charges, right, So, um, 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:24.280 I think Katie, it's an excellent question, and I think 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:25.920 where you're going with it is just kind of the 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:29.040 generalized thing of like who sends dick picks, and that's 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:30.760 kind of the fun side of it. But I think 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:34.440 the serious side of it also is, you know, what 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:38.640 at what point is this accepted in society and what 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:42.960 point can what age is appropriate? I guess really, you know. 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:46.600 I also want to thank Katie for keeping it classy 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:49.040 dressing up the show. Let me ask you, guys to 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:53.240 have any of your significant others, and it can be 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:56.000 a wife or a girlfriend asked you to send one 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:58.560 that you've just chosen not to, or you've never been 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:01.840 approached asking. Sadly, no one has ever asked me for 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:06.120 a dick pick, Dmitri. I just asked you this yesterday. 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:07.880 I did not. I read that the wrong one wrong. 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:11.440 I have never been asked by my wife and I've 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:15.880 never asked my wife to send me those either. Um. 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:17.600 I think both of us sort of have a fear 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:21.760 that somehow our phones could get hacked or so would 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:24.000 be that would be an issue, that would really be 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:26.120 an issue. Well, that's where I feel like it's this 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:30.720 is a newer generational way of communicating and and having, 0:11:31.600 --> 0:11:36.760 you know, exposing yourself, right, you know so, and it's 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:39.319 not good in my mind, you know, I feel like 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:41.920 past go ahead, Yeah, I have I have a buddy, 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:44.080 one of my best friends in the world. I got 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:45.920 out of practice one day and it was like ten 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:48.520 thirty am and I got out of practice. Check my 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:50.240 phone and one of my best friends in the world 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:52.400 sent me a text and this is all it said. 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:56.400 I sent five dick picks before nine am today. That 0:11:57.520 --> 0:12:00.640 was all it said. So, like, it half opens a lot. 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:03.840 Why don't we let Tori she's twenty four. So this 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:07.319 is our producer, Tori. She's twenty four, and she's gonna 0:12:07.480 --> 0:12:12.200 give you guys like the twenty four year old input. Well, 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.520 I think dick picks became a thing once. Um, snapchat 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:17.959 became a thing because then it was like, oh, it 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:21.160 goes away in like two seconds. So I would randomly 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:24.640 like sometimes get things. This happened more in college. Um, 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:27.280 you like open up a Snapchat and you're like, what 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:30.280 am I looking at? And then you're like, okay, yeah, 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:33.120 this is for sure zone's penis and then and then 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:34.840 it goes away and you're kind of like that was weird, 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:37.120 and then they would kind of like side message you. 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:39.320 And I think that kind of became a thing. And 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:41.880 I know that in high school they were like scandals pictures, 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:45.720 but I think that social media has now been given 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:47.719 this more of an opportunity for people, because now you 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:50.679 can literally send like naked photos to somebody over Instagram 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:52.760 and like DM them. So I kind of feel like 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:56.720 it's it's not I think it's I wouldn't enjoy this. 0:12:56.880 --> 0:13:00.320 I didn't enjoy it when I've gotten it, But um, 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:02.280 I think that it's way more of a thing now, 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:05.000 like you face time and you do like naked. Are 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:08.559 we also missing the point that it's not an attractive photo. 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.800 We're not talking about like you think of a picture 0:13:11.800 --> 0:13:14.200 of what you like. Yeah, I mean, like I'm just 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.640 going to be bold, and I hope my mom's not listening, 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:22.680 but I hope the right circumstances, everybody listen. Don't tune 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:24.520 now because Amy said don't listen to I think in 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:29.760 the right circumstances, it can be like a turn on. 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:33.400 And I'm just gonna say that question, when was the 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:38.360 last dick pick you got? How are you looking at 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:42.440 your phone? I have to think on that like recently, 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:48.400 this month, this month? What what circumcisions would those be? Exactly? 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:57.000 I have? Okay, so sorry, I gotta get some guts here. 0:13:57.040 --> 0:14:02.040 My hands are clamming there. What about like sexting? Uh, 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:04.559 That's why I was pointing out that I think that 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:08.920 dick pick is. I don't think that like there was 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:12.880 sexting like a couple of days ago. Okay, Okay, this 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:16.200 is so can I go? Yeah, you can go. So 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:19.840 I've received in my d M s a dick pick 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:25.000 before on Instagram. I've received it from me. It was 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:28.040 like Brooks, I love you on the show, bro, how 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:34.320 long did it take you to zoom in this picture 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:37.800 like a microphone? But it is like I don't know 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:39.960 how girls handled because it was a startling. I saw 0:14:40.000 --> 0:14:44.040 it and I'm like, whoa, it's startling, Tori saking her head. No, 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:48.840 it's just a straight up Okay. So I guess what 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:52.320 I'm kind of going through in my mind is, oh god, 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:54.960 I really hope my mom's not listening. But I think 0:14:55.120 --> 0:15:01.520 I would send a photo that's sort of classy when 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:04.640 the other when we're texting back and forth, I'm not 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:07.200 sure I had a weird like, Oh, I hope he 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:11.680 doesn't send it back because that would be aggressive a little. 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:15.160 I don't. I'm having a hard time. I think a 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:21.760 girl sending up sort of a photo is easier on 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:25.320 everybody's eyes than the guy sending the photo. I think 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:28.000 it's jarring when a guy sends that. And that was 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:29.960 my point. I don't think that the dick pick is 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:31.840 an attractive thing. I mean, and if I would ever 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:33.800 do it, which I wouldn't. There was an episode of 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:35.440 the King of Queens where he took a picture there 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:37.480 at a wedding and he put a little top hat 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:39.080 on it and he pretended it was Abraham Lincoln. Like, 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:41.000 I'd have to have fun with it because it's not 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.280 an attractive shot. Brooks, if you want to, like take 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:45.560 off your shirt and send someone that photo, I think 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:47.200 you got the right to do that. But I don't 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:49.680 think anybody no offense Rick because you said you did it. 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:54.560 You sent a rick pick good. I don't think it's 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:57.280 going to be an attraction. I still disagree, and I 0:15:57.280 --> 0:15:59.760 would love to hear from people on this because I 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:04.240 think in the right circumstances it could be quite So 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:06.680 I can give you one a good circumstance on that. 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:10.040 So I like playing hockey. I had teammates that they 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:13.280 said that, like, we traveled a lot. So I had 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:14.680 a teammate and I'm not going to mention his name, 0:16:14.680 --> 0:16:16.160 but him and his wife would send each other a 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:20.240 lot of photos or videos um to keep himself and 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:23.200 then herself entertained while he was on the road. They're 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:26.040 married kids. I find nothing wrong with that that's in 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:29.400 their relationship. I find that that's still connecting. Yeah, Like 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:32.760 I find that's actually amazing. I would never do it 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:35.080 with like a random but but when a guy just 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:39.000 sends out a like boom right in your face, here's 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:41.760 a dick picky And whether a d M or a text, 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:45.480 I think I think the guy is searching for is 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:47.960 this going to escalate now? If not, I'm onto the next. 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:50.920 And it's also very abrasive. I think to the woman 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:53.800 to receive that, I'm forty five and in my life 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:57.960 I've received three from three different people. That's it good 0:16:58.040 --> 0:17:01.640 for you when you've send they call that a trifecta. 0:17:01.760 --> 0:17:06.920 When you send your photos, do you include your face 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:10.000 and the photos are only a body shot? Never face. 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:13.359 My buddy that I told you about face all of them. 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:15.040 I asked him that. He goes, oh yeah, Brooks, I 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:16.280 just put it on. Was he getting his face in 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:21.520 his own dip bend friends time or on the iPhone? 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:23.680 I don't And that was the thing I was gonna 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:25.639 I wanted to say. It was like, there's obviously that 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:29.880 shock effect to receiving that, but on the other side 0:17:29.920 --> 0:17:32.439 of it, And don't get me wrong, I don't think 0:17:32.520 --> 0:17:35.520 these this is right, but I just want to clarify that. 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:40.359 But the shock factor must also create a little bit 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:43.879 of intrigue behind it. No, they're shaking their heads. No, 0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:46.679 Tories kind of like Tories just opened the window and 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:52.199 jumped out. So what about this? Do you ever have 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:55.840 you ever been texted or sexted a dick PI that's 0:17:56.080 --> 0:18:04.399 circumcised or uncircumcised, and has that drawn any pretty? Very pretty? 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:07.760 Are you? Are you? Are you trying to reveal something 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:14.080 to us here? It's a very topic of conversation. Maybe 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:18.560 it's another question. Maybe that Okay, as you're sort of 0:18:18.560 --> 0:18:23.240 like moving a relationship along or whatever. Maybe that's like 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:25.359 a way to sort of talk about some things. I 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:26.840 don't know, I'm getting a little hety on it, but 0:18:26.880 --> 0:18:35.040 maybe you're kind of like opening the door. Next question. 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:42.120 All right, we're moving on from the well. I'm sure 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:44.239 at some point in this show that topic is going 0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:47.280 to come back around. It's an important come back up. Yeah, 0:18:47.280 --> 0:18:49.240 I sent him to him all the time, Like I said, 0:18:49.760 --> 0:18:52.520 I only send them to him and all the time. 0:18:52.640 --> 0:18:54.840 I would just be so cold that if Gavin, and 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:57.760 let's just say Gavin has a girlfriend and he's on 0:18:57.800 --> 0:18:59.840 the road, Like I think that would be kind of cool. 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:05.800 I would go to um Sears and get professional pictures 0:19:05.840 --> 0:19:10.679 done of it. Uh, you know, maybe with some items 0:19:10.680 --> 0:19:13.480 from their catalog, with a little craftsman tools. See I'm 0:19:13.480 --> 0:19:15.320 old school. I say, go to Santa Monica Pere and 0:19:15.359 --> 0:19:17.000 have that person sketch it for you. And I think 0:19:17.040 --> 0:19:18.840 that shows it's a great idea. They could do a 0:19:18.840 --> 0:19:23.920 caricature version, make it more interesting. Alright, Okay, we're moving 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:27.120 on here. Guys. Uh, here's a question from Damien. We're 0:19:27.119 --> 0:19:29.840 gonna switch topics here. If you could have any man 0:19:29.920 --> 0:19:32.479 on the podcast dead or alive? Who would it be? 0:19:32.920 --> 0:19:35.200 And why? I actually really like this question. Things is 0:19:35.280 --> 0:19:38.280 one of us? Did I would like a dead Brooks? 0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:43.159 Why you were within arms reach on me? You know 0:19:43.240 --> 0:19:45.760 he fights a lot. So if you could have any 0:19:45.760 --> 0:19:48.040 man on the podcast dead or alive, who would it be? 0:19:48.119 --> 0:19:51.840 And why? Rick? Anybody come to mind? Uh? Yeah, have 0:19:51.920 --> 0:19:55.720 any man? Something pops into my head. Yeah, thanks for 0:19:55.720 --> 0:19:57.520 the question, Damian, I mean to be honest with you, 0:19:57.560 --> 0:20:00.440 probably my grandfather on my dad's side, my dad dad, 0:20:00.640 --> 0:20:05.800 you know, he Um was in Latvia as grew up 0:20:05.800 --> 0:20:08.960 in Latvia, one of the Baltic states, and escaped from 0:20:09.000 --> 0:20:12.119 Latvia from the Russians during World War two and just 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:14.880 had a crazy kind of long history of getting out 0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:18.240 of his his home country, moving to Germany during World 0:20:18.240 --> 0:20:21.280 War two, getting captured by the Allies, coming to America, 0:20:21.520 --> 0:20:25.600 and did the whole immigration process while raising four kids. Um, 0:20:25.680 --> 0:20:27.960 And so I would love an opportunity to sit down 0:20:27.960 --> 0:20:30.400 with him and discuss with him how that was like, 0:20:30.480 --> 0:20:33.439 what he went through, what was his mindset you know 0:20:33.880 --> 0:20:36.199 of how do you raise four kids? I'm having a 0:20:36.240 --> 0:20:40.159 hard time with two in a regular neighborhood you know, 0:20:40.320 --> 0:20:44.080 and to go from you know, a country that you've 0:20:44.119 --> 0:20:48.480 completely up rooted yourself, go to another country with no money, 0:20:49.000 --> 0:20:51.960 no nothing on your back beside your family, Like I 0:20:51.960 --> 0:20:54.240 would love to sit and chat with him about that. Wow, 0:20:54.520 --> 0:20:58.320 great answer, Dmitri. I would like to say my father 0:20:58.359 --> 0:21:02.200 who's passed, but he was such a great storyteller. He 0:21:02.240 --> 0:21:06.240 taught me everything, um that I know and hopefully that 0:21:06.280 --> 0:21:08.600 he knew, and and he was very funny. So I 0:21:08.600 --> 0:21:09.959 feel like if we were to bring him on, there 0:21:09.960 --> 0:21:13.640 would be no need for me. So I'm gonna I'm 0:21:13.640 --> 0:21:16.600 gonna just pass pass on that for now. Um, you know, 0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:18.879 I'm gonna go I love you know what, ricks up, 0:21:18.880 --> 0:21:21.560 I'm gonna go a little more lighthearted, and I'm gonna 0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:25.640 go with Chevy Chase because um, growing up, love him 0:21:25.720 --> 0:21:28.840 growing up, he was my comedic idol and i'd, you know, 0:21:28.880 --> 0:21:30.800 watch all his movies. Fletch is one of my favorite 0:21:30.800 --> 0:21:33.359 movies of all time. And I still look at Clark 0:21:33.359 --> 0:21:38.600