1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Canfully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: and the Black Effect, And just like that, we're back 3 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: on the air. Welcome back to another carefully reckless episode 4 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 1: with your Girl just hilarious. Look, I got my twenty 5 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: here today, y'all, Princes say, what up? What? Yeah? That's 6 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: my twin y'all seeing with me all the time. All right, 7 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: So look, ain't no storytime today, and it hasn't been 8 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: storytime lately, so I want to hear nothing. All right. 9 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: So we're gonna be talking about friends, different types of friends, 10 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 1: and then friends going on trips and traveling and ship right, okay, cool, 11 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: we have some interesting trips that't we? Man? What okay? Looks? 12 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: So the first trip that we went on was Malleable 13 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: and we went to Malible with Joey and Joey is 14 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: my best friend in l A. It was me, Joey, 15 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: Prince Sina Lawrence like all of Joey's sisters. And we 16 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: had a particular friend that we bought. Oh man, yo, 17 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: yes yo, we really bought that bitch. You have to 18 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: bring a bit on a trip, and she caused all issues, 19 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: all the fucking issues, and don't nobody even noticed bitch 20 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: like nobody even know, y'o. And it's like you off 21 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: the rip coming crazy at these people, like, oh my gosh, 22 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: it them burst the funk out of me. I had 23 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 1: to play referee old from she was just as much 24 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: as your friend, and she was mine. And ship, Oh 25 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: my god, I mean it's safe to say we ain't 26 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: friends with this bitch now. But nigga, thank god, Oh 27 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: my god. So first thing, it was one nigga on 28 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: the trip. It was the nigga Lawrence and that's you know, 29 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: that's Joy brother, that's the homeboy. You know, that's big 30 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: big elk. I mean niggle trip because I was sick up. 31 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: Oh bitch, my bad, Oh my god, I'm so sorry. Bro. 32 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: He like bitch is because I'm gay. No, don't do that, 33 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: how to like my big I'm so sorry, bro, okay 34 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: my big Yeah. Alright, So it was two niggas. It 35 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: was two guys on the trip, y'all, with a bunch 36 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: of women, a bunch of it was like, I guess 37 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: it's like what seven eight girls and ship? Alright, cool, 38 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: So imagine the ratio for a man and woman. It's crazy. 39 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: A lot of fishy ship going on. Damn that's just 40 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:44,519 Speaker 1: what it was, not in the smelly way. Hold on, 41 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,799 Speaker 1: hold the funk up, Hold up, I'm not fucking playing 42 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: with you not. It's a lot of it was giving 43 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: very much tune to fish slide who the smelled like 44 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: some fucking soon the fish bitch because I don't have 45 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: a think nobody was a lot of pussy in there. 46 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't ever it was real fishy and 47 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: bit it was really smelly, like no, yeah, it was 48 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: a bitch wh I said it wasn't smelling alright, alright now. 49 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: There was a lot of attitudes and it was like 50 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: hosting a fucking bad girls club. I sweater god, oh 51 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 1: my god. It was crazy. Everybody had an attitude with 52 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: everybody in the house and you walking around confused and 53 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: high trying to have fun. We're screaming and sucking, smoking 54 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: and not pop drinking and fucking give it up. Why drinking? 55 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: The jagger sure he was having fun and the house 56 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: and then yeah, we ain't need no handy time. He 57 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: was going on his end. And then all we knew 58 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: was one would come up and say I'm ready to go, 59 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: because like this is not what the ready do really 60 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: smit her and her sisters, And I'm like, bitch, is 61 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 1: only one of you? You your sister here, bitch, that's 62 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 1: her and her sisters. All right now you run around 63 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: starting and Ship. I'm gonna let it beat you up. 64 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let I can't keep playing this game. You 65 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: walk in there like the nigga likes you and Ship. 66 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: This man don't even know you're this madness. He's just 67 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 1: like messmearized. Bitch. Did he tell you that he was 68 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: never even looking at us? Did like? And I think 69 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: the little system me because he liked me. Bitch, what 70 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: are you talking about? Who the funk are you? Yes? Girl? Ship, 71 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: and then the fucking outfit. Oh my god, yo, everything 72 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 1: everything is everything, everything, everything was so jaman like. And 73 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: it was her birthday. It was mind you, it was 74 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: Joey's birthday, right, it was my friend's birthday. Yo. This 75 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: bitch literally came like she was going to a wedding 76 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: every day. Like it was like a like a beat 77 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 1: Safari wedding. Like she looked like a biggest angel on 78 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: the beach. Yeah, and it wasn't bad. It wasn't appropriate 79 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 1: for what the funk we were doing. Yeah, it wasn't bad. 80 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: It was everything was giving photo shoot though it you 81 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 1: know what I mean? And then she was hot a 82 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: couple of times too. She was how to ship. She's like, 83 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: it's how to shout out him like bitch. That's because 84 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: you're working around like son leathing every day all day. Faith. Yeah, 85 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: because she had the little veil ship on the back side. 86 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 1: You'll remember that. Hold up, what are you going? Yo? 87 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: And it's the last thing because we can talk about 88 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: this ship all day. Remember she was on the couch 89 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 1: right and she was sucking. She was on the phones. 90 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: So my boyfriend and ship and we was all day 91 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,799 Speaker 1: and it was ray lead, we re going to do something, 92 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: um And must have asked her what she was when 93 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 1: she was like, I don't know, but I'm ready to 94 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: come home. Yeah, everybody's talking around, Joey talking around. I 95 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: was like, you know, I'm gonna get sun to each y'all. 96 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: Let's go, because like Nick is angry. I was just 97 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: trying to like break, oh my god, the monotony, like 98 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:19,679 Speaker 1: oh please, oh my lord. Trip. It was a shady 99 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: as trip, which I want so hog. I probably would 100 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: have enjoyed it a little bit more if I was 101 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 1: paying attention. Yeah, oh my goodness. And when the funk 102 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 1: I went to Believe, hold up, hold up, hold up, 103 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: hold up, hold up? That tripped on the count bro 104 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 1: that was for that was my birthday? Well we share birthday, 105 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: so that don't count. Next up ject, Oh my god. Okay, 106 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: so he didn't go. Yeah, she left me, y'all, and 107 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: I did go to Believes. Then she got there, ain't 108 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 1: and talked to me. I couldn't talk to you. You 109 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: wanted my bill to be a million hours. Fuck, I'm 110 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: not paying them allions? You right, you right right? Be No, seriously, 111 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: you don't even have a good time. It was two 112 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: days late. I did have a good time when I 113 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: got there. I was. I was two days late because 114 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: I got stuck in Miami. She was getting her head done, y'all. 115 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: First of all, she was getting her hand down in 116 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: the hotel. Y'all. Don't that. I was getting my hair done. 117 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: So I definitely was. But that's because I didn't like 118 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: the girl who did it before. I mean, I didn't 119 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 1: like it how she did it before, and it was 120 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: sucked up. But I was not celebrating my twenty nine 121 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: birthday like that. Not still talking about Believes though, he Yo, 122 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: look bitch, just my mother because you just all right? 123 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: Then way we go? What else were going? The bit? 124 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: We went to Puerto Ricoco? Yeah, we did. That was fun, 125 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: know the funk. It wasn't the best part with the 126 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: plane ride. Oh ship, what happened in Puerto Rico? Wait? 127 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: But what is that? Nothing? Exactly nothing. We didn't do nothing, 128 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. We dressed up to go to a 129 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 1: Chinese restaurant because everything was closed. Oh and that's when 130 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: I did too many of them sucking rooms and I 131 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: felt like the floor was swallowing me, and I was like, 132 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: what the fuck? And then I started eating some broccoli 133 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: and it wasn't broccoli to me, and I was like, Yo, 134 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all something later, but I don't want it. 135 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: Was like, we leave out of here, I'm gonna tell 136 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: y'all something, and I'm not gonna tell y'all now because 137 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to scare the ship out of y'all. 138 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna tell y'all something. Then we got the 139 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: restaurant was like what you had to tell you? Was 140 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: like I don't even remember. Yeah, why, But then I 141 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: was like, Yo, the broccoli isn't really was like, okay, 142 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: I could see that visit shut up. But no, seriously, 143 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: so we really didn't do anythinging like back to Belie. Yeah. 144 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: So when I first star tecause I ziplined, I parasailed, 145 00:08:56,040 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 1: I swam with the sharks and didn't know. I'm sorry, No, 146 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: that's the only thing I didn't do. I didn't I 147 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: didn't feel safe, and they did that when I was 148 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: stuck in Miami, because remember I came like two days late, 149 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 1: like a day and a half late, right right right, yo, 150 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: Miamimi to Miami. You was about to fight Floyd Maywether's 151 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 1: people and ship that big as asked what bottom, But 152 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:31,319 Speaker 1: I was going to fight you know those niggas biggest. No, 153 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: we know you're not that gonna dance a little bit 154 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: like please don't have this mask on, just what it is. 155 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: But that was a good trip though. That was a 156 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 1: family trip, so you know me, you ash mom? What 157 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: else did we do there? We do we do an excursions. No, actually, 158 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: this is this kind of boring these trips. We gotta 159 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,719 Speaker 1: go on a good one. We're good people because the 160 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: people gotta understand you got different friends for different ships. 161 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 1: So when you go on these trips, it's always the 162 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: same group of different bitches like all the time. Like 163 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 1: you got the bossy bitch like that, that would be London. 164 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: That would be our London. Like getting upt seven o'clock. 165 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:11,959 Speaker 1: I'm them all, y'all so we can go to the 166 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: qui um. They got a new um fish taking any 167 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to see this. Then we got my soldiers. 168 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: That's why we like damn for you. How is it 169 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: a vacation if we got our work, like a fucking 170 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 1: school trip, not a fucking vacation trip. We've grown. Then 171 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 1: you got the real rich bitch, which is you, that's 172 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 1: gonna come and that's just gonna serve every time, Like 173 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: I'm here, bitch, They're gonna know we're here. I don't 174 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: give a funk. I got money. Fuck it is what 175 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 1: it is, right, that's you. Then you got the one 176 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: friend who's a fake rich bitch. Then you got the 177 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: fake orite bitch that's broke trying to keep up with 178 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: the real rich bitch. Just out this bitch winging it 179 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: and you don't even have a plane ticket back home, 180 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: but just bit it. Oh my goodness, Oh yeah, hard Okay, 181 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,599 Speaker 1: sitting on the sofa talking about they ain't got no 182 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 1: more rooms in this hotel, bitch. Yes they do, Yes 183 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 1: they do. I must have reached my max with my 184 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: car today. But you don't have no way. Oh my god, 185 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: I don't have no money. Then you got the clueless 186 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 1: friend that's just always in their phone. I don't know 187 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 1: what the funk. Definitely, yes, y'all, Yeah you got. You 188 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: got the bit that's on the phone wanting to get 189 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,839 Speaker 1: the whole time on the phone with hard guys. I'm 190 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: all bad. I wish you was here all that like, 191 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 1: it was just that, but texting to hold another nigga 192 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:44,319 Speaker 1: the whole time, the whole time. You got the friend 193 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: that you never see that met. People want to beat 194 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 1: your intense and disappear for ours and come back to 195 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 1: my Hey, y'all, was that's a true experience. It's crazy. No, 196 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: that's real. Ship, that's funny. Now we got a commercial 197 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: and if you click off this podcast, I swear I'm 198 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 1: gonna beat your ass. Listen. What about going on vacations 199 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: with Bay? How many vacations have you been on? Zero? Zero? 200 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: Never been? Really never been? How many have you been 201 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: on too? Oh no, no, I've been on three. I'm 202 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: telling me about but I want to know what happened. 203 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: Um a matter of fact, I don't only give a 204 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: funk about the trips because I know how they go 205 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 1: in your eight slept funk, got up and did it 206 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: all over again. Oh my good, Okay, Jamaica, Puerto Rico. 207 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: And I mean that's Miami. Ain't really a Bay trip 208 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: because Miami is like down the street. Yeah, but like honestly, 209 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: I wasn't down the strip so bit down the street, 210 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 1: I know, but I wasn't down the strip, only down 211 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: the streets down the strip. Yeah, it's a nice places 212 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: of Miami, Like it's not only it's not only to 213 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 1: be you know what I'm saying. It's really nice talking 214 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: because he was in the jeep with the doors are okay? 215 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: So so how do you get to that though? Like, 216 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 1: how how do you get to that Bay trip stage? 217 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: Like how would you gotta start with dating a person 218 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: first to realize that you could deal with them here? Yeah? No, no, no, 219 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 1: you're definitely right. You you're right about that. But some guys, 220 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: that depends on your bracket like of money or in 221 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: your your mental like which if you really really trying 222 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 1: to perception, you're not in the same city. You gonna 223 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:21,319 Speaker 1: fly out, y'all go somewhere, like for the first time 224 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 1: I've done that. I've been on the trip for a 225 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 1: first date. But and and listen, that's different. And yes, 226 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: it's very different. And I mean I knew the person. 227 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: I just never dated the person. Okay, y'all just jumped 228 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 1: straight Yeah. So it was just like Okay, I got money, 229 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: you got money, whatever whatever you wanna when you when 230 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: are you free or I'm free here I would like 231 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:46,319 Speaker 1: to see, let's go here. And I'm like, okay, that's nice, 232 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: Wenna go there. Make fin and short lived came back 233 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: the next day. I didn't even get the funk. It 234 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:57,559 Speaker 1: was like, well, so that's a so that so what 235 00:13:57,679 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 1: did he do that was a deal breaker? Like that's 236 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 1: some things you probably would have realized dating first, Like 237 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: that would have been a deal break and you wouldn't 238 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: even got to that point, but because you jumped straight 239 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: into it, Like what was your deal break to be? Like, bit, 240 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm going home tomorrow. He couldn't close his mouth. His 241 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: mouth was very big. He cannot close his mouth, like, 242 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: his teeth was huge, bottom lip droopy. It was like, ill, 243 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: how do you like hold it? Up for the pictures 244 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: like that, and even to tell of your videos like 245 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: how do you look? Like? Oh my god. It made 246 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 1: me very angry. I was like, oh, I cannot stare 247 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: at this all weekend and I'm not and I won't 248 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: and you will not kiss me like extra spit right, 249 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: like like I just and I'm just I'm not, Like 250 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: I can't do messy with your mouth. I can't. I 251 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: don't know. My deal break is for people, Yeah, people 252 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: that talked too much, people that talks too much attention 253 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 1: spaning like you, You're gonna lose me after like the 254 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: first if I really really really like you, I talked 255 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 1: too much? I no idea. He tells me that all 256 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 1: the time. I like how you throw that? That's nice, okay, 257 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: okay when over your heads? Okay, Um, yeah, somebody talked 258 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: too much, or somebody that just I don't know, Like 259 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: it'd be random ship that I my thought that was like, 260 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: and then to see it repeatedly, it'd be like, oh 261 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 1: my god, Like why did I even like that about 262 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: you in the first place? Oh my gosh, Like I 263 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: used to like those shoes, are you stop wearing them? 264 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 1: It was like all types of ship, Oh my God, 265 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 1: you only got one belt, right, Like, I like how 266 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: we talk with your hands when I first meet you. 267 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: Now every time you talk, I feel like you want 268 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:36,359 Speaker 1: to fight, so oh my god, like every little thing. 269 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: I'm talking to this guy when something, and I liked 270 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 1: the way he laughed until like, yall, remember does he 271 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: do that ship? That ship? Yo? Just like his ass? No, 272 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: for real, that ship would piss me off. To bro, 273 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna lie. It was like, why are 274 00:15:55,920 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: you laughing like that? Yeah, you sound crazy? Shut the 275 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: funk up. It'd be like, what the fuck is that? 276 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: And I'm like, how the fund did I ever think 277 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 1: this was cute? Bitch? Goodbye? I don't even with you. 278 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: Oh man. My biggest deal breaker in the dating stage 279 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 1: with people, it's like, you know, how you meet somebody 280 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: up front and you talked about this before, but it's 281 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: actually true. Like you meet somebody at first and everything 282 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 1: is a one, like everything is on point, but as 283 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: time go on, it's like they stuff to decrease as 284 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: a person. You see likes be like he was getting 285 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: nails done every week, keep your head, you know what 286 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 1: I mean, done the haircut, whatever. Now it's like you're 287 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: like fun I'm is like, bitch, no, no for me 288 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: deal breaking baby moms like I'm telling you, And I'm 289 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 1: not saying I don't expect when the have kids, you 290 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like you can't have kids and 291 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: none of that ship. No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying, 292 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: like when you are still involved with the baby mom, 293 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 1: like you gotta be boundaries, They gotta be a level 294 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 1: of respect that y'all already have prior to me coming along. Absolutely, 295 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:13,199 Speaker 1: because I can't grow with that like I cannot. I 296 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 1: can't deal with that ship. I've had agree with that 297 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 1: experience just because of who you are. Any nigga with 298 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: a baby bubba, they're gonna have a problem because in 299 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 1: their eyes, this nigga left me and I might have 300 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 1: been the best thing since sliced bread for this nigga. 301 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 1: Now this nigga went and got the whole fucking loafer bread. 302 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 1: That's always gonna be the issue with that baby mother. 303 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: That's that nigga really, you know, unless they really on something. 304 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 1: You and your baby father ship like ome boy homegirl 305 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 1: type ship, like you know, that's slow bro type ship, 306 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:42,479 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like if it's like that 307 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: then it's cool, but typical baby mother ladyship with somebody. 308 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: That's always gonna be your issue because you you know 309 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 1: what I mean, that's just what it is. But what 310 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 1: is your idea of a first date though, like an 311 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: actual first day, not just no, oh I'm hungry. You're hungry, 312 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:57,160 Speaker 1: let's just link and get something. But I act no, 313 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: hell no, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, no no, So 314 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: first we would start with first It's like no, you know, 315 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: you know, I enjoy wining and dining, so you know, 316 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm big on the little things like, you know, a 317 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: nice five star restaurant. You know, I would have a 318 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 1: driver come pick you up, getting the car, you know, 319 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:23,439 Speaker 1: maybe some rules is in the car waiting for years Card, 320 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 1: you know some I'm a little cute like that taking 321 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 1: to the restaurant. Have you pulled up to the restaurant, 322 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: you know, and I'm may here waiting all. You know, 323 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 1: the whole experience where Card comes to the restaurant some flowers. 324 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:42,200 Speaker 1: That is so me. Do something different, like I'm an experience. 325 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds really arrogant and cocky, but I don't 326 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 1: give a fun experience and that's good because that's how 327 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 1: I feel here and this experience only last for two weeks, 328 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,159 Speaker 1: so you got to enjoy you Oh my god, I 329 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 1: know right, yes, Like I'm just like tomorrow. It's like 330 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 1: carefully reckless, you know it just experiences two weeks or 331 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 1: enjoy it. I'm gonna give you all I got, yo, 332 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,119 Speaker 1: and if you last past or two weeks, then use 333 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: something special, you know, but you know, just the wine 334 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:11,640 Speaker 1: to die and the whole experience. You know, I'm a vibe, 335 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: I'm an experience, so I'm gonna give you what I 336 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: expect back. And that's you know, that's really how the 337 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 1: two weeks don't go pod because don't really last because yeah, 338 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 1: and people don't not receive issue for me, because we 339 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: are givers, like as aquarious as natural, we give and 340 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 1: then we give a lot of ourselves, you know what 341 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: I'm saying, And it's not reciprocated all the time or 342 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 1: when it's not reciprocated, and it's really a motherfucker that 343 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: you're feeling. That ship is like oh nah, I'm gonna 344 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 1: sound like a bit, but that ship that should be hurting, 345 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 1: you know what, the fun like it's been on the 346 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 1: fucking dinner you couldn't even pay a two D like 347 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:57,439 Speaker 1: you know, just like simple ship. Well, these niggas, man, 348 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: it's just what it is. What was your best first date? 349 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:04,880 Speaker 1: The best best first date that I've had was like recently, 350 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 1: and it's it's really nice, like really nice when somebody 351 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 1: can like take you not too far away, but just 352 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 1: like out of your element, you know, and just you know, 353 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: let you have fun in their world, you know what 354 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 1: I mean, Like in their world ain't bad. It's like 355 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: it's nice. It's like, you know, compatible to yours and 356 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 1: they're in like kind of like that's a rare fun. 357 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 1: You might go hold on this one, I know. And 358 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 1: it's been more than two weeks. We'll see. Thanks for 359 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 1: stopping by, bitch, if you ever like me for stopping by. 360 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 1: Like I was just walking down the street and it 361 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 1: happened to see my fucking twin in the building and say, 362 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: oh ship, let me come over on the podcast, let 363 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 1: me hop on to you, like, bitch, what all right? No, okay, 364 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, thank you for coming over. I'm really anywhere. 365 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: I only came here because you said you had drugs, 366 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 1: So where Oh my god? First of all, no I died, 367 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 1: bit yeah, for goot, the perks, the heroin, the crack 368 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: in the back. I just want some week. All that 369 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: other stuff I don't want it, theer shrooms, a couple 370 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: of an X bars from over Rooms, And just like that, 371 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 1: we are at the end of another Carefully Reckless episode. 372 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 1: Y'all make sure y'all listen next Wednesday. Every Wednesday, hear 373 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 1: Our Heart Black Effects, Say by Prints by Prints. Carefully 374 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: Reckless is a production of I Heart Radio and The 375 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,880 Speaker 1: Black Effect. For more podcasts from my Heart Radio, visit 376 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 1: the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you 377 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 1: listen to your favorite shows.