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Speaker 1: You're gonna be like, all right, boring Laurence Sanchez. Laurence

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Speaker 1: But I wouldn't want to be like high jumping on

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Speaker 1: You fucking bagged it because you went from an NFL

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Speaker 1: what does she have to prove? Wear an she wears

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Speaker 1: Fox zero Fox Lauren zero Fox Sanchez. And that's a rant,

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