Speaker 1: Second date updated, Brooke, have you ever been straight up
Speaker 1: rejected for a kiss before?
Speaker 2: Oh? I'm sure.
Speaker 1: I mean, besides what just happened in the break room
Speaker 1: two minutes ago, reached for the I'm talking about in
Speaker 1: a like a date or a shady dive bar scenario.
Speaker 1: You never been shot down.
Speaker 2: I can't remember being shut down. I feel like men
Speaker 2: are always like, whether they like you or not, they're
Speaker 2: up for a makeout session.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's true. We have very low standing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's why one of our listeners, Brittany, is feeling
Speaker 1: very confused because, according to her email, her night out
Speaker 1: ended with her lipstick completely unsmeared by kissing. So let's
Speaker 1: talk to her. Brittany, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Hi, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: You're welcome.
Speaker 2: You know, I don't think it's a bad thing. I mean,
Speaker 2: my husband was pretty prude when we first met.
Speaker 1: Now he's i mean total free.
Speaker 2: Yeah we didn't we kiss right away, but we didn't
Speaker 2: do anything else for a long time.
Speaker 1: We'll get to the kiss eventually, but let's start at
Speaker 1: the very beginning. Who's the guy that you met?
Speaker 2: Oh? His name is Ryan, Ryan, Okay, and I'm just
Speaker 2: guessing you met him on a n app Is that true?
Speaker 3: As you know.
Speaker 2: On the show?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Would you like about him?
Speaker 3: Well, he wasn't holding a fish, that was a big
Speaker 3: green flag. Also, I noticed he volunteers with kids. That
Speaker 3: was one of his pictures and I do too, And.
Speaker 2: So what did you guys do for your date?
Speaker 3: So we ended up went to a bar, and so
Speaker 3: when we're at the bar, you know, we're trying to
Speaker 3: make conversations. And the cool thing about this bar is
Speaker 3: they've got a whole wall of board games that you
Speaker 3: can play.
Speaker 1: Because kids get to go to that bar too.
Speaker 2: I think it's because adults like to play board games
Speaker 2: as well.
Speaker 1: Oh really, it was a bar last night.
Speaker 2: I connect four.
Speaker 1: These are adult places, So that's okay, that's interesting. So
Speaker 1: you played some board games with him?
Speaker 3: We did, and my favorite is scrabble. That's probably controversial.
Speaker 3: People think it's I like it.
Speaker 2: You don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a very romantic game to play
Speaker 1: with each other. Really, I mean, yeah, I guess it
Speaker 1: does depend on what you're spelling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3: It's kind of funny you say that, because my idea
Speaker 3: was to kind of mix it up, and I came
Speaker 3: up with dirty scrabble.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I'm interested. What is dirty scrab What are
Speaker 1: the rules here?
Speaker 3: You're only allowed to say or spell kind of naughty
Speaker 3: words like nothing crazy but okay, like lick or slap.
Speaker 3: I think he played slap at one point. Issues probably
Speaker 3: just daddy a lot of points.
Speaker 2: That sounds so funist.
Speaker 3: Honestly, it was so fun, like it totally set the mood.
Speaker 3: We were drinking and we talked about family life like
Speaker 3: it was I mean, laughed the whole time, like it
Speaker 3: was honestly so fun.
Speaker 2: So, I mean, I get while you were confused you
Speaker 2: didn't get a kiss because like you're you're spelling naughty words,
Speaker 2: you are drinking.
Speaker 1: Can you tell us, like, can you bring us to
Speaker 1: that moment when you thought the kiss was gonna happen?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so was the end of our date, you know,
Speaker 3: when I was feeling very comfortable because we had obviously talked.
Speaker 4: About all sorts of things.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a pretty confident person. And before I left,
Speaker 3: they said something along the lines of like, oh, are
Speaker 3: you really going to leave here without kissing me?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: Is that nice?
Speaker 2: Oh? I think it's really nice.
Speaker 1: It just like opens the window they do it. But
Speaker 1: the tone of it is like, Oh, really, dummy, you're
Speaker 1: really going to leave here with not without making a
Speaker 1: move on me?
Speaker 2: Everything? Is it insult like you think so? Personally she's
Speaker 2: just being flirty disappoint you.
Speaker 1: But I mean it is just it is a little
Speaker 1: bit forward and some guys can be taken back by that.
Speaker 1: How did he react? Uh?
Speaker 3: He got kind of weird. He said, I'm not sure
Speaker 3: if that's.
Speaker 4: A good idea.
Speaker 2: Oh that's not a good response. I mean, like what
Speaker 2: was going through your head?
Speaker 3: I mean I I kind of brushed it off, like
Speaker 3: I tried to maintain my confidence and I wasn't going
Speaker 3: to press him.
Speaker 2: That's not good.
Speaker 1: Is everybody else in the room thinking what? I'm thinking?
Speaker 1: That he had some kind of disease or like some
Speaker 1: cold sore going on. They be covered up with makeup. Sorry,
Speaker 1: my head immediately, Well, why else would he turn her
Speaker 1: down if they had such a great time.
Speaker 2: Because it wasn't attracted to her? I mean, is that
Speaker 2: the exactly you could be super beautiful and not be
Speaker 2: attractive to someone. How did you take it? How did
Speaker 2: you take it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the most important.
Speaker 3: I'm usually pretty positive. So I thought, Okay, maybe he's
Speaker 3: thought I was too tipsy and and he wanted, you know,
Speaker 3: and he gave me a hug.
Speaker 2: I like that angle better. That's much kinder than mine.
Speaker 2: I apologize.
Speaker 1: But then now he's not calling you back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I'm here because I'm like, I'm just confused.
Speaker 1: Now, that's what real gentlemen do.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, go for years and yeah, so much respect.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just waiting for you to sober up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sober now while to.
Speaker 1: Respond there, So that's good.
Speaker 2: She thought about it, you did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a clear mind, and that's what we need
Speaker 1: when we come back and we call Ryan for you
Speaker 1: and try and get you your second date update.
Speaker 3: All right, okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: Hold on second date update.
Speaker 2: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 2: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 2: right after you here. Part two.
Speaker 1: We just learned a new twist on the board game
Speaker 1: Scrabble thanks to our listener Brittany and her game.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I playing liter at home.
Speaker 1: Because because it's called dirty scrabble, where you only put
Speaker 1: down suggestive and flirtatious words to really set the mood moist.
Speaker 1: Mama's mancakes.
Speaker 2: Oh kay, is a good letter to play.
Speaker 4: Score.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but if you can get a Zaddy in there,
Speaker 2: that z is going to get you.
Speaker 1: Places triple word score. Yeah, that one, one thousand and
Speaker 1: forty two points for Jeffy.
Speaker 2: I don't think you ever scored scrabble in your life.
Speaker 1: Don't play with me. Bro got too many naughty words
Speaker 1: up in this melon? Okay, melons, there's another one and
Speaker 1: another forty points, but you've used all yours. Even though
Speaker 1: dirty Scrabble went great that night, the first kiss did
Speaker 1: not know, In fact, it didn't even happen because her date,
Speaker 1: Ryan said, I don't know if this is a good idea.
Speaker 2: He said, it's not a good idea. There's no question
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 1: Which is weird because I think every single one of
Speaker 1: us in this room would have it's you in that moment,
Speaker 1: that's right.
Speaker 2: I think she also just turned us down, so which
Speaker 2: is fine.
Speaker 1: You don't think that's a very good idea.
Speaker 3: Listen, I'm I'm kind of lonely, so all.
Speaker 1: Right, Well, I'm not going to put that information out.
Speaker 1: When we call Ryan, I'm just going to ask him
Speaker 1: why it's not calling you back.
Speaker 3: All right, that's probably a good idea.
Speaker 1: And then I'll offered a group kiss at the end.
Speaker 1: He says, yes, but let's do it. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Ryan. Yeah, and sorry, not just me,
Speaker 1: an entire room of people is looking for you, Jeffrey
Speaker 1: Morning Showy.
Speaker 4: Did I win something?
Speaker 2: Well, you may kind of, yeah, I mean it's your
Speaker 2: lucky day. Somebody likes you, nobody, jeff.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 1: We're doing a segment on the show Ryan called Second
Speaker 1: Date Update. It's where we reach out to people who've
Speaker 1: gone on dates recently to try and figure out why
Speaker 1: there hasn't been a second date yet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because the person that is interested in them reached
Speaker 2: out to us.
Speaker 1: Right, And the person who reached out to us is Brittany.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh yeah.
Speaker 2: It sounds like you guys had such a fun night
Speaker 2: from what she said.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it was it was it was yeah,
Speaker 4: she was the date.
Speaker 2: It was a day day.
Speaker 1: We heard you played board games. Some people love them,
Speaker 1: some people don't, see Ryan, that's how it works. She
Speaker 1: calls and tells us about the date that you went on,
Speaker 1: so that we get a little bit of the background information,
Speaker 1: and then we go to you to see if you
Speaker 1: can fill in some of the blanks for us.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, well what did she say about the date?
Speaker 1: She mentioned going to a bar playing scrabble with a
Speaker 1: little little bit of twist on it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was that was great? What else does she say?
Speaker 2: That was kind of just you guys laughed a lot.
Speaker 1: She said that a lot of laughing, a lot of
Speaker 1: joking around and sharing happy memories.
Speaker 4: I think, uh huh, Well did she say anything like
Speaker 4: about me, like about what i'd like look like or whatever,
Speaker 4: like what you look like?
Speaker 2: She said she actually didn't mention anything at all. We
Speaker 2: just kind of assumed that she was attracted to since
Speaker 2: she wanted to kiss you.
Speaker 1: Yea, why you No, No, dude, I'm I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: call her back. What's going on, man, We're trying to
Speaker 1: help Brittany out to get some answers here.
Speaker 4: Well there were dude, that's weird. We like weird yea, yeah,
Speaker 4: well this is different.
Speaker 1: Okay, try us.
Speaker 4: You know, we're just like talking and stuff. And she
Speaker 4: keeps like looking at me and like smiling. I small back,
Speaker 4: and she was like, it's crazy. You just looked so
Speaker 4: much like my brother.
Speaker 1: Oh that's not what I thought was gonna happen. Please
Speaker 1: don't tell me. That's when she was like, kiss me,
Speaker 1: you fool.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no. She asked about the kiss at
Speaker 5: the end of the day. But I just could not
Speaker 5: get tap out of my head, Like I was literally like,
Speaker 5: what do you want to kitch your brother right now?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like, oh man, maybe you're just like a generic looking dude.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm just trying to give her any benefit.
Speaker 1: Of the doubt, and of course tries to normalize.
Speaker 2: I'm not tried.
Speaker 1: She just seen that guys at the store, and now you.
Speaker 2: Everyone looks like it's a bit.
Speaker 1: Look Ryan, we we hadn't heard that part of the
Speaker 1: story obviously, Yeah, of course, and uh yeah we should
Speaker 1: be asking, though, Brittany about it. Is on the other
Speaker 1: line right now and she wants to talk to you, Brittany,
Speaker 1: talk to your brother look alike.
Speaker 3: Oh no, oh my gosh, she's on the phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's how the segment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, okay, I totally forgot that that happened,
Speaker 3: Like that wasn't even on my radar, Like that was
Speaker 3: just some random comment.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you're saying, you admit he does look like
Speaker 1: your brother.
Speaker 2: Oh, or you were trying to be funny, No.
Speaker 3: He no, and it is funny. It's just a compliment
Speaker 3: because my brother is very good looking. Yeah.
Speaker 5: Okay, you're saying your brother is good looking, brother's hot,
Speaker 5: and I do look like him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's a good thing because he's a good
Speaker 3: looking person. You're both good looking people. It's not like
Speaker 3: you said, oh, you have the same hot body as
Speaker 3: my brother.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's what she means. You're not attracted
Speaker 2: to your brother.
Speaker 4: She just said he has a body and he's hot.
Speaker 3: You don't think I just need to clear things out, Okay, please, Yeah,
Speaker 3: my brother is veryvery good looking. He has a very
Speaker 3: hot body. That's what is that. So do you and
Speaker 3: so it's a compliment, you know what I mean, the compliment.
Speaker 5: I know you're saying I look like him, but you're
Speaker 5: saying your brother has a hot body.
Speaker 4: Is your brother's hotter than me? His body's hotterer than me?
Speaker 2: Competition?
Speaker 3: Wow, this is give me a break, you guys call it.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Never said I'm attracted to my brother, not once. I'm
Speaker 3: just saying he has good physical attributes, that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I mean, they've done all sorts of scientific research that say,
Speaker 2: you end up like liking people that look kind of
Speaker 2: like you, and her and her brothers share the same genetics.
Speaker 1: And I bet her brother doesn't play dirty scrabble as
Speaker 1: good as you play.
Speaker 3: Oh god, that's gross, you guys. I've never played dirty
Speaker 3: scrabble with my brother.
Speaker 1: There's something that you have that her brother doesn't. Alright,
Speaker 1: I just told us you guys got on the phone.
Speaker 1: She's playing with family. But if you really want to
Speaker 1: stick it to Brittaney's brother, then you should go out
Speaker 1: on a date with her. It sounds like she wants
Speaker 1: to stick it to her, and that way you can
Speaker 1: make Brittany's brother jealous. It's already been sold. I say, Ryan,
Speaker 1: we're gonna pay for that date if you go out
Speaker 1: with her.
Speaker 3: Okay, before you make up your mind, listen, I'm not
Speaker 3: attracted to my brother. Let's just be super clear about that.
Speaker 3: I thought that we had a great time together. I'm
Speaker 3: sorry there was a misunderstanding. And if you can just
Speaker 3: look past my hot body brother comments, she's been.
Speaker 2: Such a good sport about all of this too.
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, I'll do it, but under one condition.
Speaker 4: We have to just pretend that this never happened.
Speaker 5: No jokes about it, no whatever, We're just moving past it.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm so glad, he said, And I thought he
Speaker 1: was going to say, three somes, Ryan, you're my art.
Speaker 1: Not a successful second date.
Speaker 2: Yah and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Definitely one of the more unusual second date calls we've had.
Speaker 1: You know what. It worked and now both Brittany and
Speaker 1: Ryan are back on the phone to give us an update. Update.
Speaker 2: Your brother isn't here too.
Speaker 1: I don't know Brittany, Ryan, how you guys doing?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 2: Oh my god? All I want to know is one
Speaker 2: are you still dating? And two? Have you met the brother?
Speaker 2: Those are the only two things.
Speaker 1: I want to know.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, we're still dating. Things are going really good.
Speaker 3: Actually that's been a while. Yeah, we actually it was
Speaker 3: last month. We've been together.
Speaker 2: Okay, we are making relationships like real ones happen.
Speaker 1: Yeah, good for us. I'm proud of us. I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm happy for you guys. But Ryan, how
Speaker 1: has it been for you?
Speaker 4: Man? It's been good? And I did I did meet
Speaker 4: her brother?
Speaker 2: Oh god, oh God, tell me were you nervous? I'm
Speaker 2: always nervous to meet someone that people say I look like,
Speaker 2: because then I'm always a little disappointed.
Speaker 4: Well, I wasn't nervous until I met him, but then,
Speaker 4: like when I met him, I mean, he's she's so,
Speaker 4: he's so attractive.
Speaker 2: Yeah good?
Speaker 1: Is that weird to hear Ryan say that, Brittany.
Speaker 3: No, I told him, I literally told him.
Speaker 1: So, okay, I think it makes it better.
Speaker 2: Are you guys cool, Ryan?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, obviously. I mean I guess kind of nervous
Speaker 4: throughout them, but like he's so cool.
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, every ties the brother, Yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we all get along and he actually my brother
Speaker 3: was wanting to move in with us his apartment leases up,
Speaker 3: but we talked about it. Ryan and I we decided
Speaker 3: that probably wasn't a good call. But yeah, I mean,
Speaker 3: we don't get along.
Speaker 2: You both be too distracted by his looks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it just wasn't probably the right move
Speaker 3: for us. And we are a very cute couple obviously,
Speaker 3: but I wouldn't say we're both crazy good looking or
Speaker 3: anything like that. So I don't know if the energy
Speaker 3: would be weird.
Speaker 4: I don't know. Yeah, you're saying we're not or I'm not.
Speaker 3: I said we're not crazy looking, Britney, You're very good
Speaker 3: looking honey, obviously, but you're not like my brother's.
Speaker 5: Level good looking. You know that, there's like literally nobody
Speaker 5: is though it's not even.
Speaker 1: Statue looks pretty similar.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, this has been more of an update on Britney's
Speaker 1: brother than it has been on their relationship. But I'm
Speaker 1: really happy for you guys. It sounds like you're all copacetic. Yeah,
Speaker 1: tell your brother what's up for us. It's Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.