1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: I am very overt about the fact that I never 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: want to get married again. 3 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 2: Why why are you so overt about it? Why are 4 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 2: you so vocal and like dead set on it? Why? 5 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 2: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 6 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, Hello to the latest installment of the Calm 7 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: Down Podcast. Aaron and I are so far yet so 8 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: close together. The countdown is on for our trip to 9 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. Thank you guys so much for all of 10 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: the feedback on so much beware all the things. 11 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 2: So we're excited about that. We have a lot going on. 12 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: What are we going to talk about today's sister, We 13 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 1: are going to talk about how is the Bellmont incredible? 14 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: We will get into that. I have a great opportunity 15 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: to work that for Fox. Aaron also has an update 16 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: for everybody on her Korean skincare For those of you 17 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: that are new to the program, look what happened in 18 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: my face? Or get into that. Who has been singing 19 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: the praises? But now it sounds like that's not the 20 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: case anymore, So stay tuned for that. Also, our gal 21 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,559 Speaker 1: is playing a little hurt today. She was up all night, 22 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 1: not on a bender, but boo being a. 23 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 2: Mom And if you want to call sailing spray a bender, 24 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 2: then I am wasted. We'll get to that. 25 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: Welcome more to Okay, Aaron's been doing this move for 26 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: those of you that can't see her. She takes her 27 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: stack of papers and like keeps organizing them, like she's 28 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: got like so many documents that she's going through with 29 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: over there. And it makes me laugh every time. Aaron's 30 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: very organized and always has her shit together. What is 31 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 1: all we have to question his papers? Did you print 32 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: out the like what. 33 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 2: My cute assistant did? Hold on? Can I can I ask? 34 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 2: I've seen a lot of people instagram this kind of stuff. 35 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 2: I am a three beverage gal. I got the coffee, 36 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 2: I got the water, and I got the green. Are 37 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 2: you the same? I cannot just have one drink? Am 38 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 2: I the same? I feel like you know this about me. 39 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 2: I'm surprised I only have one beverage in my hand 40 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 2: right now. Anyone that has known me. 41 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: Knows that, for the longest time, a brunch consists of water, coffee, 42 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: green juice, mimosa yea. 43 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 2: And then we'll get into the apparel sprint s portion. 44 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: I mean, at any given time, there could be five 45 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: beverages right in front of me. 46 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 2: It's excessive. And I also have two different lip glasses, 47 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 2: a pen. Yeah, what's in you on your dass? Not 48 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 2: what's in your purse? Well, what's in my wallet is 49 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: not a lot of concealers for my zips that I'm hiding. 50 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 2: Really yeah, that right in front of you. 51 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: That's adorable and also very organized. That you have your 52 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: concealers in a zip block bag. 53 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 2: Well, because they were in my nasty purse with the gross, 54 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 2: dirty bottom, Like it's insane. So what aren't we doing 55 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: for a purse at tailor's Way? Because I feel like 56 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 2: venues see through. I don't know what to do and 57 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 2: I only need like credit card, lip gloss, gum, phone, phone, 58 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,959 Speaker 2: hotel key, Jery can hold that, yeah, mince Oh you 59 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 2: say gum gum? 60 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 1: I panicked, Oh my gosh, we'll get to all the 61 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 1: things actually here, No, this is going to take us 62 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: right to it. So I had the great privilege of 63 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: being one of the individuals that got to cover the 64 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: Belmont for Fox, which is very exciting for a guy 65 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: like me who's currently at the ranch and has always 66 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: loved horse racing because I used to go to the 67 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: track with my grandpa when I was a little girl, 68 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: and he'd give me twenty dollars and he would tell 69 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: my grandma, don't tell her that we're at the track, 70 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: and I'll give you money, because he didn't want knowing 71 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: that he was gambling, because there may or may not 72 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: have been a problem if you have a problem called 73 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: one eight hundred gambling, oh not in your respective state. 74 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 2: But he just gave me some hush money. 75 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: And by the way, as a seven year old getting 76 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: twenty bucks, mama was ready rich. 77 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 2: I'd go right up to that. 78 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: Window and I learned how to make the beds and 79 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: win play show, the whole thing. So imagine my enthusiasm 80 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: when Fox comes to me last year and they're like, 81 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: we got the Belmont like and we'd love you to 82 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: work it. We know your affinity for horse racing, the ponies. 83 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: I talked about this last week. For those of you 84 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: that listened to the podcast, thank you. So I was 85 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: in Saratoga all week now, first time in Saratoga. I 86 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: went to the Gap a lot of times. I bought 87 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: many outfits from the Gap, which. 88 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 2: I gotta say, Gap kids, unbelievable for my child. 89 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 1: I was going to buy a bunch of stuff for 90 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: Maxtell at Gap Kids. But then I had to carry on, 91 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: so that was I going to make it back. But anyways, 92 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: that was that was fun learning new restaurants. Shout up 93 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: to the canteen and Saratoga got a lot of mark. 94 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: Every time Aaron called me, she goes. 95 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 2: You back to the Mexican restaurant Ram Sureram had a 96 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: great taco salad, Yes, taco salad and margarita frozen margarita. 97 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: So to the kind people in Saratoga, thank you for 98 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: being so welcoming. 99 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:00,679 Speaker 2: Wish. 100 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: I know I've mentioned this before on the podcast and 101 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: I sound like we're so arrogant for saying this. I 102 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 1: just have to think anyone that comes up to me 103 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: or to Aaron or when we're together or not together, 104 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: and says that they love the podcast, it makes me 105 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: so nice. This happened multiple times while I was there, 106 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,359 Speaker 1: and I just I hope you guys know that it 107 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: actually really makes me happy, because sometimes Erin and I 108 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: are like, who's listening? 109 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 2: But it's adorable and I love all of you guys. Okay, 110 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 2: And so face timed me with a couple of fans yes, 111 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: because I was like, well, let's They're like, I love you, 112 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 2: and Aaron I was like, well, let's just call her 113 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 2: right now. So it really makes my heart happy. 114 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: So thank you guys for being so generous and giving 115 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 1: up a little bit of your time every week to 116 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 1: listen if you do so sweet. So backdrop of Saratoga, 117 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 1: the oldest racetrack in the country, incredible. 118 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 2: I had never been there before, which bummed me out. 119 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 2: But you're gorgeous. 120 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 1: Oh you're very sweet, but so so fun And was 121 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: there and I have this fear, like you do, of 122 00:05:56,279 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 1: having bad breath or bo or just not being frushers. 123 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: Aaron I like to say, like, we love the freshness. 124 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: So I am going to a dinner and I realize 125 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: as I've gone down the elevator and I'm in the lobby, 126 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, shit, I don't have any gum in my purse. 127 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: I I so then go to the little area in 128 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: the front of the hotel where they're selling you know, 129 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 1: the concessions things like that they don't have any gum. 130 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 2: I'm like, we have no gum, and I don't want. 131 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 1: To go all the way back up, just around waiting, waiting, 132 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: and I'm there right, I'm there for work and anyone 133 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:33,479 Speaker 1: like we do not get in that car. 134 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 2: Be on time. Don't be that person that's late. Sure, 135 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 2: So what is it? 136 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 1: The little concession area is a toothbrush and a toothpaste. 137 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: So what do I do. I buy the toothbrush and toothpaste. 138 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: I throw away the toothbrush because I don't need the 139 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 1: toothbrush and I'm eating toothpaste throughout the evening. That's what 140 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: I did. Instead of having gum, I just squeezed the 141 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: cress little mini into my mouth while I was out 142 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: and about. Sorry, I'm not gonna risk and maybe that's 143 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,119 Speaker 1: gross and maybe that's bad for me. Just a full 144 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: douse in the mouth, freshness and ready to go. 145 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's one of the worst things, you know. 146 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 2: I appreciate the effort. Yeah, I love it. 147 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: So I was in Saratoga all week, fresh as a daisy, 148 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: and just got back and got to my ranch. 149 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: And I have learned so many tips and tricks with 150 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 2: the ponies. 151 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: I can't wait to get I'm looking at my horse 152 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: right now out this window, and yeah, well he was 153 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: very inexpensive. He's not a thoroughbred race horse, okay, And 154 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: I know that this poor guy out there. I thought 155 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: that horses just sleep standing up. Well, I was informed 156 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: from my time in Saratoga with these Thoroughbred horse races 157 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: that they would love to sit down and sleep if 158 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: you give them a bed to lay down on. 159 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 2: And I'm like, when. 160 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: Meat a bed, Well, that's what I'm thinking. So of 161 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: course I'm like, well, let's get the horse the best 162 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: bed that you can get. It's like, no, it's like 163 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: straw or like something that's just saw for the horse 164 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: to lay down. I feel like such a dick because 165 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: all I have are these little shavings in my sweet 166 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: Oz's house out there. So guess who's about to get 167 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: a full on like set up with a bed. 168 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: This guy, I'm going to be out. 169 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: There shoving some straw into his little stall, and he 170 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: is going to be a happy camper. I know his 171 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: life's about to change. His life already has changed. He's 172 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: loving it out there. 173 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 2: Where where are you when they the horses go? Like 174 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 2: when the race begins, were you there? Were you? Or sat? 175 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 2: Where were you? Adorable? Thank you for asking. 176 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: I was in the winter circle because I had the 177 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 1: great privilege of presenting the trophy with the Governor of 178 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 1: New York, Kathy Hokel and so I'm in the winter 179 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: circle and it goes by like that, and Dornick, who 180 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 1: is one of the owners is Jason Worth who used 181 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: to cool for the Phillies, and he's won a World 182 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: Series and it was so fun to see he wasn't 183 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,839 Speaker 1: the favorite and no one, not a lot of people 184 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: thought he was going to win. 185 00:08:57,640 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 2: He wasn't projected to win. 186 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: So, as Dissa pointing, as it was because I lost 187 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 1: money betting on the favorite. It was cool to see 188 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: sort of the long shot, not. 189 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 2: Sort of the long shot. He was mid mid range 190 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 2: long shot win the race. 191 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: And to have Jason win and I love like asking 192 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: him afterwards like where this ranked compared to winning a 193 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: World Series and he was like it beats it, which 194 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: is cool, Like I mean really like the pinnacle of 195 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: his profession. 196 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 2: But then to be an owner. 197 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: Of a horse's school, so yeah, it's credit for the 198 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: sport too. 199 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 2: I was thinking about this earlier. I want to talk 200 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 2: about trophy presentation interviews or interviews in the winner's circle. 201 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 2: I've had the opportunity to do a few at the 202 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 2: World Series. You were phenomenal doing yours there. I was 203 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 2: getting a big kick. People have no idea, They have 204 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 2: no clue how difficult those are. They are so hard. 205 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 2: There's so many people, they're all excited. We get that, 206 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 2: but you also have a job to do. They always say, 207 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 2: do not give up your mic, even if someone is 208 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 2: like wrestling it from you. Also, I meant to ask 209 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 2: you about my mic to the governor. I saw that, 210 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 2: but I wasn't critiquing that part. Were you on the 211 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 2: loud speaker? So could you hear yourself too? People also 212 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 2: don't understand how difficult that is. You have to block 213 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 2: that out or hope to god your ifs are so 214 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 2: loud that you can't hear your voice on the loud speaker, 215 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 2: because that is so hard. 216 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: Well, it's funny you say that, because it reverberates. And 217 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: that's what I always think happens with singers, Like we 218 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: know what. It's like a foregone conclusion that a singer 219 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: always them out, rip them out of their ears, because 220 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: they must be hearing some sort of like whether it's 221 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: static or reverse something. Because if you hear yourself and 222 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 1: then you're on a delay, I mean, this is I'm 223 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: just we're putting it out there. This is not the 224 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 1: hardest thing in the world. It's just different than any 225 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 1: other part of the job. 226 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 2: You know what, I'm done saying that because we don't 227 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 2: give ourselves an enough criding. It's fucking hard. It's hard. 228 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 2: Now I'm not we're not performing brain surgery. We're not 229 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 2: you know, in a courtroom trying you know, a case. 230 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. It's hard. Not everyone can do it. 231 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 2: I'm sick of everyone thinking they can any who. It's hard. 232 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 2: So you have that. Then you got the gentleman in 233 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 2: the back that of the others excitement, But wow, he 234 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:25,199 Speaker 2: wants to get his word in. You don't want to 235 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 2: be a dick, and you want to acknowledge him. But 236 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,680 Speaker 2: you got places to go before. And I'm sure in 237 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 2: your ear they're telling you to wrap. And my man 238 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 2: wants to talk about the jockey and the trainer, and 239 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 2: you were, you were so you reminded me of Ellen 240 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:44,839 Speaker 2: from a Christmas story. So anyway, like you handled it, 241 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 2: people have no idea how hard that is. You got 242 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 2: everybody wanting to talk. Well, you're very sweet to say that, 243 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 2: but it is the number one rule. 244 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 1: And I actually watched Jim Nance do this, and he 245 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: talked about it in an interview where that is like 246 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: the number one role, like you do not give up 247 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: your microphone. 248 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 2: And there was a time I don't know which super 249 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,319 Speaker 2: Bowl he was referencing where you could see my max. 250 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: It's a struggle not taking this thing away because at 251 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: that point then you lose all control. But yeah, there's 252 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: a lot and especially again I am the horse racing 253 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: is not my domain, Like I go into it because 254 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: of Fox's right, you can't I go out of it, 255 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 1: like it is not my thing. So when you're again 256 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 1: you don't know who the winner is within that last 257 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: few seconds. It's not like you're watching a game and 258 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: it's like someone has a ten point lead or they're 259 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: up by two touchdowns and you can sit there and 260 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,319 Speaker 1: plan out like where's the trainer, where's the owner? Like 261 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: it is like and my biggest fear is, which we've 262 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: seen this happen in sports, we saw recently, not identifying 263 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 1: the right individual and like especially when for them that's 264 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: like the biggest moment, this is their horse that just won, 265 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 1: or a trainer or whatever. So I always want to 266 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 1: just caution that I'm like making sure the right people. 267 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:01,719 Speaker 2: But yeah, you're very sweet. It is not no, it 268 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 2: hard yep. The coolest one I've ever done was after 269 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: the Red Sox one, after the Boston Marathon bombing. I 270 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 2: can Poppy like you shouldn't give up your mic, but 271 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 2: I gave Poppy my mic so he could reenact the 272 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 2: speech of like this is our e fing city. If 273 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:21,839 Speaker 2: I'm going to give my mic up to anyone, I'd 274 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,559 Speaker 2: give it up to that beauty. And then hardest one 275 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 2: I've ever done was the San Francisco Giants won the 276 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 2: World Series. In San Francisco. It was pouring rain and 277 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 2: I was pumped, like you know when you're feeling it. 278 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 2: I was like, I freaking nailed this. I lost all 279 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 2: my notes because it was raining. I like, I couldn't 280 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 2: look down at who I was introducing, who was there. 281 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,079 Speaker 2: But finally when it was going on, it was going on. 282 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 2: But the one thing I kept thinking of is like, 283 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 2: I'm looking at Bruce Bochie right now, and I know 284 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 2: all my fake eyelashes are all over my face and 285 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry Boach, but they weren't. But it was 286 00:13:56,720 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 2: like it was hard. That's so cool though, Like really, 287 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 2: I mean, of course. 288 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: If you get to do any of those, but the 289 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: emotion attached to that Boston one. 290 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 2: I can't imagine. Oh my god, every night during that 291 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 2: World Series, before the first pitch, everybody was crying because 292 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 2: they always had a tribute and they always had the 293 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 2: first responders, so and so that was injured. It was 294 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 2: just like full blown and just what that World Series meant. 295 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 2: It was like a relief and peace for that town. 296 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 2: It was so amazing. My mom and dad came. It 297 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 2: was unbelievable. It was an insane postseason. It was so 298 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 2: fun to be a part of. I was raised a 299 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 2: Red Sox fan. My dad's from Springfield, my mom's from 300 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 2: Rhode Island. It was really really cool. Oh, I can't 301 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 2: imagine how you feel. I got excited to go to 302 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 2: the All Star Game in Seattle with my mom. 303 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: I can't imagine being on the field and like having 304 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: your parents see all that. 305 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 2: They must be like. It was pretty another proud of you. 306 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 2: But I don't remember if it was the round before, 307 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 2: if it was the World Series. I think it was 308 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 2: the World's Series. It was the World Series because my 309 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 2: mom and dad were there. But Poppy was annoyed with 310 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 2: the media. I don't know if he kind of was 311 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 2: not playing well, but something was going on storyline wise, 312 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: he wasn't speaking to the media, but he did a 313 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 2: pregame interview with me in the Red Sox tug Out 314 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 2: and that was the media and yeah, only interview he did. 315 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 2: And I remember my parents were standing right there and I. 316 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 1: Was like, my man, I'm so proud of you though, 317 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 1: like and but let's go back to what this talks. 318 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: We talk about relationships. Yeah, building those relationships and earning 319 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 1: that because that's so special. And when you actually get 320 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: to have it come to fruition where it's like that 321 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 1: reputation or not. You know, yes, the reputation, but also 322 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: the the equity that you've built up in the friendship 323 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 1: can pay off in that moment is really special. So 324 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 1: you're there to do your job and if if that 325 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 1: job means that you get access to somebody that's not 326 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: given anyone else access, good on you girl. You Carson Belmont, 327 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 1: you degree you're Aaron is like the biggest supporter. She's 328 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: so sweet, Like she'll text me throughout a broadcast that 329 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: like she's you know, obviously on Sunday she's busy, she's working, 330 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: but when she's not working and she always I don't know, 331 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 1: you always make a point to be so supportive, and 332 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: I just love you for that. 333 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 2: Thank you. We were out to lunch. We were Mac 334 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 2: was having his first rack of rips and vanilla ice cream, 335 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 2: and I turned on my YouTube TV. Not an ad, 336 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: but I'd love it to be, and I had my 337 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 2: girl on. I was like, so worried that your feature 338 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 2: had already played. I was like, Jared, they already ran 339 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 2: the race and it was actually an hour before. They 340 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 2: hadn't even run it yet. But it's like, you're like 341 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 2: the same way. I just kind of have you on, 342 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 2: like I want to know what's going on. 343 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: You know, I love you And shout out to our 344 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 1: girl Carcy Phipps and Harpburq on. Anyone that's a long 345 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: time listener of the Calm Down Podcast knows that she's busy. 346 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 1: Carcie is always busy. She's got things going on in 347 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:50,760 Speaker 1: that they're such a great family. Hey, what's not great though, 348 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: is Aaron. We alluded to it at the beginning here, 349 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:57,479 Speaker 1: You've got a little situation with the Korean skincare what's happened. 350 00:16:57,280 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: Got a little I got a little build up going 351 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 2: on on the shin, which is always my issue. That's 352 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 2: always my concern area. Finally went and got a facial today, 353 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 2: and you know, when they are spending more time on 354 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 2: the extraction versus the lifting and tightening, we got an issue. 355 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 2: So basically I came clean and I said, I stopped 356 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 2: using the products you sell here and I started using 357 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 2: Korean skincare. And one thing about Korean skincare, which I 358 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,719 Speaker 2: was excited about because I fell for all the ads, 359 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 2: was the dual cleansing. We do our oil cleansing first 360 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 2: and then we do our foaming cleansing. I was doing 361 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 2: that twice twice a day, in the morning and at night. 362 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 2: What I've learned, because I'm a t zone gal, we 363 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,120 Speaker 2: don't need to be putting any more oil on these 364 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 2: pores that we already have. We had a massive blockage. 365 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 2: So what we have going on right now is probably 366 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 2: like I am like a push pad. What do you 367 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 2: call it? Like I was going to say braille, but 368 00:17:56,400 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 2: that's not appropriate, Like it is the real there's a 369 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 2: lot of there's a lot lot of texture on my skin. 370 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 1: Your chin is just Yeah, we've got elevations that we 371 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: don't even know yet. 372 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:11,719 Speaker 2: We're climbing Everest and wow, wowie wawser since so we're 373 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 2: gonna lay back a little bit on the Korean skincare, 374 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 2: which is good because I was very worried about packing 375 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 2: it for Europe, for Taylor, I was worried about how 376 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 2: I was going to pack it for football guys. 377 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: The fact that she thinks about how she's going to 378 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: pack her skincare is bananas to me. 379 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 2: I'm like a twelve year old girl right now. 380 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: I am so envious that she plans and even thinks 381 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:38,639 Speaker 1: about things like that. 382 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 2: You're lucky if it's a lot to plan anything. But 383 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 2: I need to go back at this for a second. 384 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 1: The skincare world is so confusing, and sometimes it feels 385 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 1: like a little bit of a racket. I'm not gonna lie, 386 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 1: and you know what, it's causing congestion well, because it's like, oh, 387 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 1: do this, okay, but don't do this, and then you 388 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 1: do this thing is working. It's like then sometimes be honestly, 389 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: I do nothing and it's like the best my face 390 00:18:58,480 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: ever looked. 391 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 2: I go and get all these faces and then. 392 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 1: I get break out and it's like I don't know 393 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to be doing. 394 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 2: Actually said the same thing today. Are these facials are 395 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 2: all these things like causing the zits and we should 396 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 2: just go back to what we were doing. Like I 397 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 2: don't know what to do because I have the oil 398 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 2: cleanser and then I got that little powder that's in 399 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 2: there and it mixes and I love it and it 400 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 2: feels so good, and then it's like it's working, and 401 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:22,719 Speaker 2: then like a week later, it's not working, and then 402 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 2: I break the glass bottle all over the shower. So 403 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 2: now I'm picking up while naked, shards of glass off 404 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 2: the bottom of the shower. And so I'm like, I 405 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 2: just don't know how I'm for Taylor Swift. 406 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: No, and I'm not consistent with any regiment in my 407 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,639 Speaker 1: life because I get bored with it. Or then I'm like, 408 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:43,719 Speaker 1: oh it's running low and I definitely didn't you know, 409 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 1: buy it. 410 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 2: It's been advanced. I don't know. 411 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: It's just all overwhelming. And then I think to myself, 412 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:52,400 Speaker 1: like less is more like my mom growing up, she 413 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 1: used like washed her face with like a bar of 414 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 1: soap and used oil of let oil. Volet anyone know that, 415 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 1: Like is it's a white bottle black little? 416 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 2: Isn't it funny? 417 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 1: How you like I remember that smell and like watching 418 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,199 Speaker 1: her get ready in the morning. By the way, her 419 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 1: ready is like just lotion and spraying Elizabeth Arden sunflower perfume. 420 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: I know, but like those things like remind me of 421 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 1: her and has perfect skin, has never had a ZiT 422 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: in their whole life. 423 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 2: So I just don't know what to do. 424 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: I mean, we're going left, we're going right, we're going up, 425 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 1: we're going down with skincare. Somebody make it simple for me. 426 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:28,400 Speaker 2: Can I you know, I probably need a blood transfusion 427 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 2: after all the blood I lost today with those extractions, 428 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 2: But can I talk to you about I was talking 429 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 2: to Ash about this. There's always that one or two 430 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 2: area that you know will have a black head or 431 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 2: need like a little bit of extraction. I have one 432 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 2: that I always can go to every two weeks. Wait 433 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 2: then I'm like a jew machin. Yeah, I just know 434 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 2: it's like a white like not a white head, but 435 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 2: it's got a little bit of what I like to 436 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 2: call it. 437 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,879 Speaker 1: I get real excited about those black heads because I 438 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 1: know they're coming out, and they're coming out without any 439 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,120 Speaker 1: kind of repercussion. And when I go and I get 440 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:04,880 Speaker 1: those little maybe we've talked about this safety pins that's not. 441 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 2: Always the cleanesto. 442 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 1: But then I'm like, I'm excited when I find a 443 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 1: safety pin in the bottom of the dingebag and I'm like, ooh, 444 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 1: this is going to prevent scarring. 445 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 2: Go right into the poor get her out. 446 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: There's such satisfaction when it just pops right out. 447 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,119 Speaker 2: Now, I did that last week, but still came to 448 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 2: the facial with like a red bomb and she goes, Now, 449 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 2: what you did was you pushed it down farther. There's 450 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 2: more in there. Now I'm bleating again, and you can't win. Now. 451 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 1: I can't win in a predicament that I'm in, and 452 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: I might get in trouble from my significant other for 453 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: bringing this up, but I feel like this is a 454 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: safe space here the Calm Down podcast platform. So I'm 455 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 1: going to present this question based off of a little 456 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: bit of and it's not been identified this situation I'm 457 00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: in and has not been diagnosed. I'm just seeing some 458 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,919 Speaker 1: signs that might make me believe that that's where we're headed. 459 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 2: I saw this sign and it opened up my eyes. 460 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: So I have talked at nauseum about my divorces and 461 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: my last divorce. Yes, I know this just and I 462 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: got robbed and I got divorced. You hadline you can 463 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 1: always count on with me, But I have made it. 464 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:31,159 Speaker 2: Did anyone know that? Anyways? And it there we go. 465 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: We live to tell the tale, but I make it 466 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: very overt. I am very overt about the fact that 467 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,119 Speaker 1: I never want to get married again. 468 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:44,400 Speaker 2: Don't Why Why are you so overt about it? Why 469 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 2: are you so vocal and like dead said on it? Why? 470 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: Because the first time I got married, I was very young, 471 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:52,880 Speaker 1: and I chalked up the first time to getting married 472 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 1: to just being young and dumb and okay. Then I said, 473 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: I don't I don't like losing. You don't like losing, 474 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,360 Speaker 1: And I was like, ooh, that really sucks. Like took, 475 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,400 Speaker 1: I got it. I got an l in that calling 476 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,440 Speaker 1: right now. So the second time around, the individual had 477 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: never been married before, and I didn't feel that it 478 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 1: was fair to be so full stop on marriage when 479 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: that person wanted to get married. It was important to 480 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: that person, and I didn't want to take away something 481 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 1: from them that they wanted just because of my past. 482 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, I also didn't get to 483 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:28,919 Speaker 1: know that person right right. There's any other subplots to 484 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: that headline, but the headline there is that person wanted 485 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: to get married, and I didn't want to take that 486 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 1: away from them, So, against my better judgment, for a 487 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 1: lot of reasons, but also just in general, I was like, fine, 488 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 1: I'll get married again. Get married again. 489 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 2: It's not what really you wanted. It wasn't what I 490 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 2: wanted at all. I didn't want to get married. 491 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 1: Again after the first loss, because who wants to keep 492 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 1: doing that. I was totally fine, and even I even 493 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 1: got married the first time, honestly, not kind of on 494 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: like I don't want to say a bet. So I 495 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 1: was like, I went there to break up with the guy, 496 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,439 Speaker 1: because this is a whole therapy session. I went there 497 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:05,880 Speaker 1: to break up with him because the minute I start 498 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 1: getting attached, I like retreat because I don't want to 499 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: get too close because then I might be dependent on 500 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: someone else for happiness and I want to control my 501 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 1: own happiness. So this is twenty four year old me, 502 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,160 Speaker 1: still thirty three year old me, the same, but sure 503 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 1: start to get too close, so gonna back away. I'll 504 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 1: try to be succinct with this explanation to get us 505 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 1: to where we are in the current day. So I 506 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 1: go to break up with him. He says, we're not 507 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: breaking up, We're getting married. We I go, okay, we 508 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 1: go to Hollywood and get tattoo rings. I've never had 509 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,879 Speaker 1: a tattoo. He had never had a tattoo, get ring tattoos. 510 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,199 Speaker 1: And then four days later I was like, well, if 511 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get married, we're gonna get married on a 512 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 1: beach in Laguna Beach, because I want to get married 513 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: on a beach. He said, Okay, I pull out a 514 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,400 Speaker 1: Forever twenty one white dress out of my closet. 515 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 2: I wear that. I get flowers on the side of 516 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 2: the road, and polaroids were our pictures. 517 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 1: That was the wedding, so I was thinking, this is great. 518 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: I never really wanted the big wedding, so I didn't 519 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 1: have to have it. We crashed somebody else's wedding because 520 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 1: it's in June in Laguna at the hotel. We're staying out, 521 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 1: I'm cutting someone else's cake. Like I mean, it was great. 522 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 1: It was all very like ran am on the dance 523 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 1: floor with the bride. I'm like, I got married to yeah, 524 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 1: so fine, that all happens. And then second time around, 525 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'll do it the right way. I 526 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,880 Speaker 1: actually want my parents at this wedding because I never 527 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,639 Speaker 1: had my dad walk me down the aisle. So I 528 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,439 Speaker 1: get to make up for some of the things I 529 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 1: never thought I wanted but have. Okay, now we got 530 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 1: two strikes. I don't know about you, but I'm in 531 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 1: the batter's box and I look into strike out for 532 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 1: the third and final time, and I just don't want 533 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:40,880 Speaker 1: to make this fail to make this commitment again when 534 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 1: the first two times I was like, not really into 535 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 1: it anyways, to then do it again. Not the relationships 536 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: per se, but this idea of marriage, like, oh, we're 537 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,439 Speaker 1: gonna be so much stronger or so much better if 538 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 1: we get married, like my Goldie Han Kurt Russell mentality 539 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 1: is if we're not married, every single day, I get 540 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 1: to wake up and decide I want to be with you, 541 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: Like I don't have to be with you, but I 542 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 1: get to be with you. 543 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 2: I want to be with you. Is that okay for him? Correct? 544 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 2: So this is you, guys. This is where I'm at 545 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 2: right now. Now. 546 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 1: Steve has not said this. He has not come out 547 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,400 Speaker 1: and said I want to get married. He hasn't said that. 548 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: But I'm feeling a little bit guilty that I'm so 549 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: and this is I just need to have the conversation 550 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,439 Speaker 1: with him, is what's happening. But instead you guys are 551 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,719 Speaker 1: letting me have and you never have no because I 552 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:32,720 Speaker 1: just have never put it as an option on the table. 553 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 1: It's kind of like when your parents said, like, we're 554 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 1: not getting a dog. You can't We're not having a dog. 555 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 1: You're never getting a dog. Get over a kid, or 556 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 1: we're never having a cat. Your dad's allergic. So just 557 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 1: you think, Okay, I'm never going to get that. I 558 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: never have given Steve the option like we're going to 559 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 1: get married, because I just took it off the table 560 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 1: before it could even be a conversation. 561 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 2: So right now you're Joe in the Tortured Poets Society 562 00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 2: Like you're Joe. You took everything off like the table. 563 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:09,200 Speaker 1: All roads lead back to Taylor. We are ever getting 564 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:10,120 Speaker 1: back together? 565 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 2: Back come. 566 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 1: So I bring all this up to get your guys's 567 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:18,640 Speaker 1: advice too. Do I approach him and say like, hey, 568 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: are you feeling so, because maybe he'd be like, Noah, 569 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,400 Speaker 1: I'm good, but I've already taken having a baby off 570 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 1: the table, which he agrees with. He says he doesn't 571 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: want to have a baby, so that part, but I 572 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 1: haven't really heard him ever say like I don't want 573 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 1: to marry you. 574 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 2: I've never heard him say that. I just I've always 575 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 2: heard you say it. I've never heard him say it. 576 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:38,719 Speaker 1: I know. 577 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 2: So, And then I willing a little bit over you 578 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 2: and said I don't like that, and I want you 579 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 2: to get married, But. 580 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: Why do you want me to get married when you 581 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 1: know it's caused me so much pain? Because these aren't 582 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: the same people. 583 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 2: But I do agree with in this day and age, 584 00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,199 Speaker 2: does it really even matter anymore? Like you bring up 585 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 2: you know, Kurt Russlong, Goldie Han, they're adorable. There's actually 586 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 2: a lot of other people that do it too. But 587 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 2: I do think you should find out if that's okay 588 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 2: with him. 589 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 1: I know, And it could be a really simple question. 590 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: I mean like I could just walk outside and be like, hey, 591 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 1: did you ever want to get married? And I just 592 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 1: didn't present that to you, Or it could be like. 593 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 2: Can we talk? Can we talk? I don't know. 594 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: I'm just having her so hard because there's like certain 595 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 1: things like he's just acting in a different way that 596 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 1: I'm used to, not in a bad way, just different, 597 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,199 Speaker 1: And so I'm like, now this is what you and 598 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,439 Speaker 1: I do. It's what we do at work. We all 599 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 1: of a sudden are not getting found in a rabbit 600 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 1: hole and we're getting fired. And the boss said call 601 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: me because he wanted me to go work another event. 602 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 1: So I fired myself before I even give the person 603 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: an opportunity to maybe promote me. 604 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 2: I don't know, lost all feeling in my extremities, like 605 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 2: feeling like my chest is tightening, definitely going to have 606 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 2: some sort of stroke. Oh hey, I was just checking 607 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 2: to see if he could make it to dinner next week. 608 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 2: Well I can't because I'm actually had cedars on an 609 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,959 Speaker 2: IV because they're checking my heart rate because I just 610 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,360 Speaker 2: convinced myself I'm off the A crew. 611 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 1: And it's honestly the missing this year context. Somebody, if 612 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 1: you're a boss, is hey, why don't you give me 613 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 1: a call and to get a chance or just call 614 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: me or you have a minute. 615 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 2: He just tried you. Hey, just tried you. That's also 616 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 2: about that's a bad one. Hey, just ties you. 617 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 1: I know, I just saw the miss Paul, and that's 618 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 1: why I didn't answer, because they're already assuming the words. Hey, 619 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: quick question when you get a minute? No, no, no, 620 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: like how quick, Like you're fired or we're going in 621 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 1: a different direction. 622 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 2: Going in a different direction sounds a little longer. That's 623 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 2: not quick. 624 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, So I would love your thoughts, comments and concerns, questions, 625 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 1: comments and concerns on how I. 626 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 2: Should approach this situation with Steve. 627 00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 1: Do I just go because he's so like, maybe that's 628 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 1: my problem just like he's awesome, which, by the way, 629 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 1: like I have intel, I have intel that basically one 630 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: of my family members, your family member, Ogden Phipps, loves him, 631 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 1: Like well that that's like, that's like my you know, 632 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: that's like the end all be all. If he is 633 00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 1: an endorser of anything, I'm in on it. But I'm 634 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 1: let me just put a bow on this conversation before 635 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 1: we continue. Once I really get answers, why is it 636 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:29,120 Speaker 1: that you what's the thing with marriage? Like why did 637 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: you like growing up? Did you want to get married? 638 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 1: Like what is it about marriage for you that like 639 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: feels like the right thing to have done with Jared? 640 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 2: Like because I don't get it. You know what's crazy 641 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 2: is that I felt like a lot of pressure was 642 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 2: off us once we got married. I felt like I 643 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 2: put so much pressure on our relationship until we got 644 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 2: engaged or married, because I knew I was in it 645 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 2: for the long haul. I knew this is the person 646 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,959 Speaker 2: I wanted to be with. I knew that, you know, 647 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,720 Speaker 2: this was like it for me, but I and I 648 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 2: guess i'd known that from him. But also, like, let's 649 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 2: be honest, we work in this world. We have a 650 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 2: lot of guy friends. It's like, are we doing this? 651 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 2: Are we not doing this? I feel like a woman 652 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 2: asking that more than it is the guy. Yeah that 653 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 2: was me. Yeah. But then it was like once we 654 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,680 Speaker 2: got engaged, once we got married, I kind of chilled well, 655 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 2: I wanted to chilled out. Uh here Wednesday, I chilled 656 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 2: out at all. I felt less pressure with our relationship. 657 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 2: It was funny. One of my really good friends actually 658 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 2: said that to us, maybe like a month ago. She 659 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 2: was just like, you guys have almost gotten stronger with 660 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 2: all the crap you've been through, versus like, amazing how 661 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 2: much it's hurt you. Because then this is always funny, hear, 662 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 2: there are some times we didn't think you guys would 663 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 2: come back. You know, you have some doozy of a 664 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 2: fights when you're dating and stuff like that, which is 665 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 2: through a lot of stuff together. Yeah, but I feel 666 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,960 Speaker 2: like we are just like our friendship, like our commitment 667 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 2: towards each other. I mean that's how I feel about it. 668 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 2: I just hit them, like sorry, Brian, but yeah, I 669 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 2: felt like it took a lot of pressure off. Yeah 670 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 2: that's interesting. Yeah, I think that for me. 671 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,400 Speaker 1: Obviously, my experience with marriage hasn't been great, So why 672 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 1: do you want to jump back into something that hasn't 673 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 1: been good? Like, hey, jump back into that deep end. 674 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 1: The last two times you might be drowned. Maybe have 675 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 1: floaties on this time. It's like, who says floaties? 676 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 2: But I don't know. 677 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 1: I was just curious. So I would love anyone's thoughts 678 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 1: if they've been in similar situations where it's like the 679 00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 1: partner just takes things off the table before they're ever 680 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 1: in an option, And then do you get resemble at 681 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 1: one point like we're going to be fifty years old, 682 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 1: like this is. 683 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 2: My boyfriend state boyfriend? Boyfriend? 684 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 1: Like boyfriend sounds like so insignificant in the big scheme 685 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 1: of thing, but then what my partner? It's like, I 686 00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 1: don't know, that's not weird. So anyway, that's just where 687 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: I'm at. We're out of time, unfortunately, because. 688 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,719 Speaker 2: We're actually not. Ryan wants us to have longer podcasts. 689 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 2: Do you have a few minutes or do you have 690 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 2: to seattle? 691 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:11,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? 692 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 2: No, all I have to do is make Oz's bed 693 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 2: for him. Do you want to go over a couple 694 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 2: of headlines? I would love nothing more than to do that. 695 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 2: I really wanted to hear what you have to say 696 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:33,000 Speaker 2: about this. Okay, we're going threadsheets count? Do thread counts 697 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 2: really matter when buying bad sheets? Experts reveal the truth 698 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 2: thread count has little to do with the actual quality 699 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 2: of your sheets, despite what the industry has put out there. Thoughts. 700 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 2: I'm going to go right back to what we just 701 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 2: talked about with skincare. 702 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 1: I think it's there's some of these companies that have 703 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 1: like all the ingredients and all these things cost so much, 704 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 1: so the price of the skincare has to go up, 705 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 1: and the sheets same thing, like all these materials that 706 00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 1: you're using. That's like, look, get this into the the 707 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 1: buzzword of thread count, so it drives the sheets up. 708 00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 1: Or the marketing like a Chanel lip gloss could be 709 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 1: the same as Cover Girl but actual ingredients, but all 710 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 1: the marketing and the packaging and all the stuff of 711 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 1: the Chanelle makes it forty five dollars and Cover Girl 712 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,800 Speaker 1: is twenty dollars. I say this to be like, you know, 713 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: I'm very honest about my my home design. I never 714 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 1: went to school for interior design. I don't even know 715 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,440 Speaker 1: half the terminology for home design. I just know that 716 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,239 Speaker 1: if I did a blind test and I felt one 717 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,720 Speaker 1: set of sheets and another set of sheets, I wouldn't 718 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,799 Speaker 1: equate thread count with the ones that feel better. It's 719 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,640 Speaker 1: like what feels better for my personal preference. Like some 720 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,320 Speaker 1: people can like that jersey material like T shirt. I'm like, 721 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 1: I like more of a silky like soft sheet. So 722 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,799 Speaker 1: I have no idea if that makes the sheets better. 723 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 1: I think it's all personal preference. 724 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:53,600 Speaker 2: With my side sleeper on my face, I just bought 725 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,360 Speaker 2: a silk pillow case. I know that sounds dirty, but 726 00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:58,800 Speaker 2: like I feel like we got to do everything we 727 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:00,759 Speaker 2: can at this point to save No, no, no, no, 728 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,319 Speaker 2: I don't Why does that sound dirty? That's actually really good, 729 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:05,800 Speaker 2: so you're not smashing your face. 730 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, But like like linen, never ever ever be on 731 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,920 Speaker 1: linen sheets, like as a woman, because that material is 732 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,279 Speaker 1: so rough. Like I love the look of linen, but 733 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,399 Speaker 1: not when it comes, because they sell those. I sell 734 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 1: linen sheets, like if you want that, like to loom 735 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 1: look vibe not on this face. 736 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 2: I don't. I've been looking like the sandy beaches. I'm 737 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 2: sure mine looks like, Yo, you look great. You need not. 738 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,720 Speaker 2: I do love. I'm a terrible host, but I should 739 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 2: have transitioned with how many Americans still believe in true love? 740 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,880 Speaker 2: After our big talk about your talk you're about to have? 741 00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 2: How many Americans still believe in true love? Good news 742 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:48,359 Speaker 2: for anyone seeking a mark of romance this summer. True 743 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,800 Speaker 2: love is still alive, as seventy percent of Americans believe 744 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 2: it exists. Who are Oh my god, I love that. 745 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:56,400 Speaker 2: I love love. 746 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: That's why we talked about it on the pregame with 747 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: the sweet person that submitted the question of like, how 748 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: you okay? You talked about this and Nat You're okay? 749 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:12,239 Speaker 1: They bed bugs, probably more bumps the pregame question that 750 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,359 Speaker 1: we got this week. One of them was about how 751 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 1: soon should you start dating after you get a divorce? 752 00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 1: And my whole thing has always been like why I 753 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,280 Speaker 1: got back? Even if I think marriage isn't. 754 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 2: For me, I love love like I love it. 755 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 1: It's part of the reason why, like I'm so happy 756 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:31,840 Speaker 1: in my life right now, which is also why I 757 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 1: don't want to fuck it up with a marriage, because 758 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 1: love is like if you have My dad always would 759 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,799 Speaker 1: say this to me, if you have all these things 760 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 1: in your life, all these great things, but you don't 761 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,840 Speaker 1: have anyone to share it with, Like then what Like 762 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 1: my first call when anything good would happen in my life, 763 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 1: even when I was in relationships, was always to my 764 00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 1: dad because I wanted tom, I wanted him to be 765 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,960 Speaker 1: proud of me. It's my dad, my mom and dad 766 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 1: couldn't wait to tell them the news. And now they're 767 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: not my first call, second call, and Steve's my first call. 768 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 1: And it's like I want, like everyone to be in 769 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,200 Speaker 1: love and I want everyone to be happy because you 770 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 1: think about your life, like how much better it is 771 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:14,759 Speaker 1: with Jared, Like it's it's the reason you like get 772 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 1: excited to do any kidding, I mean, like think about it, 773 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:21,360 Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, it's not every day now I'm fucking perfect. 774 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 1: But going on a trip, you want to go to 775 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 1: Mexico by yourself or would you rather go with your 776 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:26,800 Speaker 1: best friend. I'll never forget what you said to me. 777 00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,719 Speaker 1: We were in Montana. I like that. Remember this when 778 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,360 Speaker 1: we were in Montana and I did not want to 779 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 1: go home, and I was like, oh, I'm going to 780 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 1: stay a few days, and You're like, I want to 781 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,279 Speaker 1: go home. I want to go see my husband because 782 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,120 Speaker 1: I really like him. And I was like, ooh that 783 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,240 Speaker 1: like and it's It was one of those moments where. 784 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,400 Speaker 2: I was like, fuck, I long for the day to 785 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 2: have that. So yay, love Elle, Yay, you have to 786 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 2: go the way you look at me, I like this one. 787 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 2: I think we both feel the same about this. I 788 00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 2: have dealt with this and when I okay, wait. Taylor 789 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,799 Speaker 2: Swift defends Lady Gaga. We saw that whole thing. People 790 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:07,719 Speaker 2: were calling Lady Gaga pregnant, ridic and obviously Taylor Wade 791 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:12,480 Speaker 2: in which I thought was magical. But you gotta believe 792 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,520 Speaker 2: one of the reasons why she weighed in was the 793 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 2: week before. I remember I was in Mexico and these 794 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 2: people were posting videos of her on tour and they 795 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:26,800 Speaker 2: were like, she's pregnant, she's pregnant, and I just two things. 796 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:31,520 Speaker 2: I get. We were not at her level. I can't 797 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,919 Speaker 2: even imagine being at that level. We are in front 798 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 2: of the camera for a living. I have posted a 799 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,839 Speaker 2: photo before of myself on Instagram. It was actually from 800 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,600 Speaker 2: week eighteen of the season. It was me and my 801 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 2: coworkers and I guess I didn't suck in and somebody were, 802 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:52,240 Speaker 2: you're pregnant, and I just thought, no, can't get pregnant, actually, 803 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:56,480 Speaker 2: but thanks for asking. And I also remember when Jennifer 804 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 2: Aniston came out with her whole thing. I forgot if 805 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:01,839 Speaker 2: it was lilast year where she was like talking about 806 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 2: how many times she went through IVF she couldn't get pregnant. 807 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:05,839 Speaker 2: She was like, and then there were the times I'm 808 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,320 Speaker 2: bloated or whatever's going on, and I'm going through IVF 809 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 2: and people thought I were go to hell? Like enough, 810 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 2: are we really still here where we're commenting on women's bodies. Yeah? 811 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,439 Speaker 2: I mean this chick, Taylor Swift and what she does 812 00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 2: four to five nights a week on tour in high heels, 813 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,359 Speaker 2: moving and grooven. She can look however she wants to look. 814 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,759 Speaker 2: That chick is in great shape. And to do that 815 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 2: about lady Gagachu, you have no clue what people are 816 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 2: going through in their lives. Maybe they are doing IVF, 817 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,959 Speaker 2: maybe they are trying go to hell. 818 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:43,960 Speaker 1: Maybe they have anything else going on. Maybe there's some 819 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,880 Speaker 1: something in their body that's making them being weight. There's hormoes, 820 00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,759 Speaker 1: there's all these things. Put it this way, let's make 821 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:52,760 Speaker 1: it simple. Stop commenting on women's bodies period and vil 822 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,919 Speaker 1: like you're too fat, you're too skinny, there's too there's 823 00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,399 Speaker 1: so I mean, there's a million different ways that people 824 00:39:58,480 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 1: go out. 825 00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:00,600 Speaker 2: Women like you don't know what they're going through. And 826 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 2: not just women. 827 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,279 Speaker 1: I know that guys can be attacked too, but the 828 00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,000 Speaker 1: whole pregnancy thing, Like, I'm so glad that you just 829 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,839 Speaker 1: said that about your situation, like you no, I would 830 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,360 Speaker 1: love to be pregnant, you asshole? 831 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:11,880 Speaker 2: Is what you want to rank? Get it? But then 832 00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,440 Speaker 2: it's like, you know what, probably should lay off the 833 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 2: chips and salsa. Actually maybe a little bloated. Yeah you would. 834 00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 2: It's wild, And I'm so glad she said something because 835 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:25,400 Speaker 2: obviously it came from a place where I saw what 836 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:26,160 Speaker 2: they were doing to. 837 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:31,440 Speaker 1: Her the week before. Yeah, stop, everyone, just be kind. 838 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,839 Speaker 1: In the words of Cinderella, as I go and clean 839 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: the attic and the horses stall, I always love the 840 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,440 Speaker 1: expression have courage and. 841 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:45,120 Speaker 2: Be kind, Have courage, and be kind. I mean, God, 842 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,600 Speaker 2: is there any better? Like? I just love that movie 843 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:51,440 Speaker 2: so much, love that movie. My battery is gonna die. 844 00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 1: Okay anyways, no, no, no, I know, I just don't 845 00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 1: want it to cut off before Kurt we upload this. 846 00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:58,200 Speaker 2: I love you so much. 847 00:40:58,760 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 1: Was fun. 848 00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 2: We should do this more off in another ten minutes. 849 00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:02,919 Speaker 2: Ryan loves it great. 850 00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:03,279 Speaker 1: Well. 851 00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:04,000 Speaker 2: I love you guys. 852 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 1: Thank you for everyone that listens, and I would love 853 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 1: your input so I can stay in a loving, healthy relationship. 854 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:11,319 Speaker 1: Thank you for making this a safe space to talk 855 00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 1: about my feelings. 856 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:17,320 Speaker 2: Saves you, don't leave me. Don't leave me, Steve, don't 857 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:22,880 Speaker 2: le me. Calm down with Erin and Carissa is a 858 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,440 Speaker 2: production of iHeartRadio. 859 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 860 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,759 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your podcasts.