WEBVTT - Scooter Braun: "I Let It Burn"

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<v Speaker 1>No one has all the answers, but when we ask

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<v Speaker 1>the right questions, we get a little closer, closer to truths,

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<v Speaker 1>closer to each other, even closer to ourselves. I'm journalist

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<v Speaker 1>Danielle Robe, and each week, my guests and I come

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<v Speaker 1>together to challenge the status quo and our own ways

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<v Speaker 1>of thinking by daring to ask, what if, why not?

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<v Speaker 1>And who says? So? Come curious, dig deep, and join

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation. It's time to question everything. For years, Scooter

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<v Speaker 1>Braun was known as the man in music with the

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<v Speaker 1>mightas touch, launching and steering the careers of artists like

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<v Speaker 1>Justin Bieber, Ariana Grande, and Jay Balvin. His name became

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<v Speaker 1>synonymous with strategy, influence, disruption, with making the impossible happen.

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<v Speaker 1>His company, as b Project, became known for closing the

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<v Speaker 1>big deals. But there was another side of it too.

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<v Speaker 1>The tour model they pioneered built philanthropy into the business.

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<v Speaker 1>Under Brawn, tour models became platforms for impact. Here are

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<v Speaker 1>some examples. Justin Bieber's tours funded global education with pencils

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<v Speaker 1>of Promise and launched Justice and Action, connecting fans to

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<v Speaker 1>causes like climate change and criminal justice.

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<v Speaker 2>Reform.

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<v Speaker 1>Ariana Grande's concerts raised over twenty three million dollars for

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<v Speaker 1>victims after the Manchester bombing and registered thousands of young

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<v Speaker 1>voters through Headcount. Demi Levado's tour offered free on site

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<v Speaker 1>therapy sessions in partnership with Cast Centers. SB projects also

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<v Speaker 1>contributed to movements like March for Our Lives, We Are

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<v Speaker 1>the World, twenty five for Haiti, and organizations including Make

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<v Speaker 1>a Wish, City of Hope, and the Enough Project. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's just what's public. There's likely more we'll never see

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<v Speaker 1>in the headlines. That was a part of Scooter's image too,

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<v Speaker 1>someone who, whether strategically or sincerely or both, placed a

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<v Speaker 1>value on contributing. There's this scene in the Justin Bieber

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<v Speaker 1>documentary where Scooter is running around a stadium handing out

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<v Speaker 1>tickets to fans who couldn't afford them. Suddenly kindness was cool,

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<v Speaker 1>Philanthropy wasn't optional, it was expected. If you weren't giving back,

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<v Speaker 1>it looked out of touch, and other pop stars and

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<v Speaker 1>celebrities he didn't manage started to follow suit. And then

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<v Speaker 1>Scooter bought Taylor Swift's Masters and everything changed overnight.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything I had done before didn't matter. What surprised me

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<v Speaker 3>is how before that I was known for helping people

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<v Speaker 3>and philanthropy and success and all these different things, and

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<v Speaker 3>the next day all of that was out the window.

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<v Speaker 3>You were defined by this one moment.

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<v Speaker 1>He had done hundreds of business deals, but that deal

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<v Speaker 1>cracked his world open. His name became shorthand for a

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<v Speaker 1>much larger conversation, one about ownership, power, and loyalty in music.

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<v Speaker 1>The Internet flattened him into a villain. But while the

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<v Speaker 1>world debated intent, Scooter was facing something far more personal.

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<v Speaker 1>His marriage was ending, his relationship to work was disentangling,

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<v Speaker 1>and beneath it all, he was staring down a question

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<v Speaker 1>that had quietly driven him for years. Am I enough?

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<v Speaker 1>In the time since, it seems like he's been trying

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<v Speaker 1>to stitch things back together, not just his career, but

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<v Speaker 1>his identity, his family, and his understanding of who he

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<v Speaker 1>really is. After twenty three years in music, Scooter Braun

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<v Speaker 1>walked away from management altogether. He's never fully talked about

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<v Speaker 1>why until now. This interview was recorded in April, and

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<v Speaker 1>even since then a lot has changed. Taylor now owns

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<v Speaker 1>her Masters. I reached out to Scooter for comment, and

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<v Speaker 1>he told me he's genuinely happy for her. He's also

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<v Speaker 1>stepped down as CEO of HIBE and is thinking seriously

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<v Speaker 1>about what comes next. And maybe he already sensed it

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<v Speaker 1>back in April when we recorded, because when I asked

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<v Speaker 1>him about the future, it was clear he had a

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<v Speaker 1>direction in mind. But what struck me most in this

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<v Speaker 1>interview wasn't the business arc or even the drama. It

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<v Speaker 1>was how tightly he had wrapped his self worth around work,

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<v Speaker 1>the unraveling that came when that identity no longer held,

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<v Speaker 1>and the rebuilding that he's doing now in his spiritual life,

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<v Speaker 1>in his parenting, in the kind of man he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to be. This conversation isn't a defense. It's not a

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<v Speaker 1>puff piece, and it's not an expose. It's something in between.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked about Taylor about the rumors in her lyrics,

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<v Speaker 1>whether he's talked to his kids about it. I asked

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<v Speaker 1>about Kanye about justin about the weight of being responsible

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<v Speaker 1>for other people's careers. It's all in there, But so

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<v Speaker 1>is the other story, the one we don't always leave

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<v Speaker 1>room for, the one about worth, unraveling and repair. We

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<v Speaker 1>often want people to be one thing or the other

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<v Speaker 1>hero or villain, right or wrong? But what if we

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<v Speaker 1>allowed people to be whole? What if we made space

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<v Speaker 1>for contradiction, for change, for complexity. Scooter is known for

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<v Speaker 1>getting the deal done. So the question we're circling today

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<v Speaker 1>is what if the most important deal you make is

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<v Speaker 1>with yourself? This is his answer. It's time to question

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<v Speaker 1>everything with Scooter bron Scooter. There are documentaries and headlines

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<v Speaker 1>and Reddit threads, fan theories all written about you. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we as the public get quotes here or there,

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<v Speaker 1>but we never get your full story from you. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot has changed in your life. You've stepped away from

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<v Speaker 1>managing artists. Before we get into what the future holds,

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<v Speaker 1>which I am really curious about for you, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we have to go back a little bit. And

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<v Speaker 1>the one word that keeps coming up and all your

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<v Speaker 1>interviews is ambitious. And I feel like your ambition could

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<v Speaker 1>have been pointed in a few different directions, but you

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<v Speaker 1>pointed it towards music. When did you fall in love

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<v Speaker 1>with music?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I've always been in love with music. My

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<v Speaker 3>first job in entertainment was a dancer. I was a

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<v Speaker 3>dancer at bar Mitzo's and weddings. I was discovered at

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<v Speaker 3>a teen club with my friend Dale back in the day.

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<v Speaker 3>It was actually a teen club and I think it

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<v Speaker 3>was Mount.

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<v Speaker 2>Vernon in New York.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, I've always I DJ'ed. I was dancing.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I started throwing parties when I was in college.

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<v Speaker 3>But music is something that always no matter what in

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<v Speaker 3>my life. It was like music and basketball were the

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<v Speaker 3>two things that could take me out of the thought

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<v Speaker 3>process of life and keep me in the moment and

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<v Speaker 3>give me just joy in the moment. When I was nineteen,

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<v Speaker 3>I was in my freshman dorm room and I read

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<v Speaker 3>a book.

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<v Speaker 2>Called The Operator about David.

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<v Speaker 3>Geffen, and he is not a fan of the book,

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<v Speaker 3>but I saw it as someone who is flawed who

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<v Speaker 3>became extraordinary and I'm flawed. Were all flawed, and it

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<v Speaker 3>made me think like maybe I can do this. And

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<v Speaker 3>I remember there's actually one distinct moment I'm in my

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<v Speaker 3>dorm room and I'm reading and I can't split this

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<v Speaker 3>book down, and it's talking about David trying to sign

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<v Speaker 3>John Lennon's solo career, and I start literally screaming in

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<v Speaker 3>my bed, like just go to Yogano. I know everybody's

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<v Speaker 3>being hard on her, but she has his ear go

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<v Speaker 3>to Yogono. And I turned the page and David was

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<v Speaker 3>the only one to go to Yogono and he signed

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<v Speaker 3>a solo career and it made me think I can

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<v Speaker 3>do this.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this way.

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<v Speaker 3>I was in Atlanta. I think the way David thought,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, think, you know, to think outside the box

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<v Speaker 3>would seem natural to me is never really what the

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<v Speaker 3>way everyone else thinks. And I was in Atlanta, Georgia

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<v Speaker 3>in two thousand. It was just an epic place to

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<v Speaker 3>be for music. You had Dallas Austin, Jermain Dupree, outcast,

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<v Speaker 3>Ti Ludacris coming up, like Jazzy Faye was a guy

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<v Speaker 3>on the radio who had this young girl seventeen sixteen

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<v Speaker 3>Sierra that he was, you know, put out the song

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<v Speaker 3>one two Step like it was all happening in that

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<v Speaker 3>era of the early two thousands, and Usher is you know, usher,

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<v Speaker 3>and like it was exciting. And I got to be

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<v Speaker 3>in the streets of Atlanta coming up with these people.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard you were driving a purple Mercedes.

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<v Speaker 3>I bought a purple Benz on eBay cash so I

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<v Speaker 3>could fake it till I make it at the clubs.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it work?

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<v Speaker 3>It got me in the door with a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 3>and people still talk about that Benz. And when I

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<v Speaker 3>was twenty years old, I'd done some stuff for this

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<v Speaker 3>this guy Chris love Alava on the radio. He had

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<v Speaker 3>a manager named Shaka Zulu and Jeff, two brothers. Shaka

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<v Speaker 3>was the program director at Hot ninety seven. Chris was

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<v Speaker 3>the big morning show, Chris love Alova, and he had

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<v Speaker 3>a rap named Ludacris and he was coming up as

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<v Speaker 3>a rapper and he had this song, you know, fantasy,

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<v Speaker 3>and and I was throwing parties for them, and kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like people knew me for.

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<v Speaker 2>Throwing my parties.

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<v Speaker 3>And then this guy Jermaine Duprie, it was like you

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<v Speaker 3>got more potential than parties. And within six months I

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<v Speaker 3>was running marketing for So So deaf and I was

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<v Speaker 3>twenty years old.

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<v Speaker 1>What made you good at marketing? In other interviews you

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<v Speaker 1>talk about how you were getting on a plane with

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<v Speaker 1>your main dupre like presenting marketing plans to him.

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<v Speaker 3>The reason I was good at marketing, the reason I

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<v Speaker 3>was if I was good, you know, but the reason

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you were listen, the reason I had a

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<v Speaker 3>successful career with marketing, and also A and R and

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<v Speaker 3>making records is because my belief that I am not extraordinary.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually the opposite.

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<v Speaker 3>I believe extraordinary people know how to speak to a

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<v Speaker 3>small amount of extraordinary people.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm ordinary as hell.

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<v Speaker 3>I like, you know, what makes me move usually makes

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<v Speaker 3>millions of other people move. What makes me tick usually

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<v Speaker 3>makes millions of other people tick. So my gift was

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<v Speaker 3>just what my parents gave me, which was stupid confidence

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<v Speaker 3>that what I like maybe other people liked. I think

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<v Speaker 3>that's the difference. Most people have the gift of being

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<v Speaker 3>able to speak to the masses, they're just afraid to

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<v Speaker 3>find out. I think the way my parents raised me

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<v Speaker 3>and my siblings, they were like, if there's no leader

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<v Speaker 3>in the room, be a.

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<v Speaker 2>Leader, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think that is how I was able to

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<v Speaker 3>kind of put my ideas forward. And I also was

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<v Speaker 3>in a unique place where, like the Internet was really

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<v Speaker 3>taken off and social media was taking off, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I was native to that.

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<v Speaker 3>I was that age where like first on Facebook, first

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<v Speaker 3>on MySpace, you know, first to use YouTube, like that generation.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, having that love of music, having you know,

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<v Speaker 3>being native to the new technology. It was just a

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<v Speaker 3>perfect storm. And being in the city of Atlanta, where

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<v Speaker 3>you were close to the culture.

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<v Speaker 1>But kudos to you for being willing to adapt it

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<v Speaker 1>because a lot of people just shied away from the

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<v Speaker 1>Internet and didn't want to be a part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Look.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw it as a way to reach a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of people, and I saw it as a way to

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<v Speaker 3>convey a message to a lot of people. And that's,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, one of the hardest things in marketing. You

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<v Speaker 3>could have a really good idea, but how do you

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<v Speaker 3>get it out to the masses and how do you

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<v Speaker 3>expand it and grow it?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was.

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<v Speaker 3>So afraid of failure at that point in my life.

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<v Speaker 3>I was leaning into all these things and it really

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<v Speaker 3>was And I think when you're younger.

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<v Speaker 2>You think you're manifesting everything.

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<v Speaker 3>You think like, I'm going to make this happen, make

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<v Speaker 3>this happen. And as you get older, you start to

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<v Speaker 3>realize how lucky you are to be in the position

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<v Speaker 3>you're in that yes, there's a little bit of manifestation,

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<v Speaker 3>but there's also a lot of you know, the universe

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<v Speaker 3>and God putting you in a position to do that stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think that's where you understand like, as you

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<v Speaker 3>get older, it's not you necessary as doing You're kind

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<v Speaker 3>of a custodian of that energy, you know. And I

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<v Speaker 3>think if you get blessed enough to be a custodia

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<v Speaker 3>that energy, you have to treat it as such.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like a vessel, is what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>You said earlier when you read the Operator you felt

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<v Speaker 1>like somebody flawed could make it and could do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel flawed when you were in college?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I think so. Well.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we're all flawed. I think we're all perfectly flawed,

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<v Speaker 3>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know if everyone's aware of that in college,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's interesting to me.

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<v Speaker 2>That you, yes, they are. They might not say it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I was saying it that way when

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<v Speaker 3>I was younger. The truth is is what drives you

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<v Speaker 3>as an entrepreneur is sometimes the thing that makes you

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<v Speaker 3>not great at intimacy, you know, like what makes you

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<v Speaker 3>good at business is not always best in intimacy. When

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<v Speaker 3>you're great at business, sometimes you're always thinking about the

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<v Speaker 3>next move, You're always thinking about the next day.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you're so afraid of losing.

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<v Speaker 3>You're so afraid of something coming and gets you don't

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<v Speaker 3>know how to be present right and at that age,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't feel enough. I didn't feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I was worthy of anything. I felt like I needed

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<v Speaker 3>to earn being worthy. I didn't think That's probably why

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<v Speaker 3>I went by Scooter since I was eighteen years old.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like a nickname when I was younger, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and almost like I took it on because I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>think Scott was enough.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's interesting to me because you had this dichotomy

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<v Speaker 1>where you're saying you didn't feel like you were enough,

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<v Speaker 1>and yet there was something inside you that was willing

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<v Speaker 1>to bet on yourself and say I'm gonna do this

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<v Speaker 1>like in Atlanta, and then when you found Justine.

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<v Speaker 2>Incredible driver insecurity.

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<v Speaker 3>Insecurity is an amazing driver for business because when you're

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<v Speaker 3>insecure that you're not enough, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>You build to be enough.

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<v Speaker 3>You build a life for yourself that other people can respect,

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<v Speaker 3>because deep down you don't know if you're worthy.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was going through that as a.

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<v Speaker 3>Young person of I thought, well, the only thing that

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<v Speaker 3>makes me worthy of anything is building and building and building.

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<v Speaker 3>And at that point in my life, I was very

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<v Speaker 3>I was working from a competitive mind of like I

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<v Speaker 3>have to achieve otherwise I'm a loser, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>being older. Now, I'm in a place now where, like

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<v Speaker 3>I move from a creative mind where there is no end,

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<v Speaker 3>there's no winning.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no losing.

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<v Speaker 3>I just get to create because I've gotten to a

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<v Speaker 3>good place here, which I'm sure we'll talk about, because

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<v Speaker 3>there was a lot of trials and tribulations and being

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<v Speaker 3>misunderstood and hard times. And it's never the success that

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<v Speaker 3>teaches you how to love this. It's being misunderstood, it's

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<v Speaker 3>being ridiculed, it's sitting in your place and just being like,

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<v Speaker 3>this feels unfair, and then you have to actually look

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<v Speaker 3>inward and realize the only thing that's actually going to

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<v Speaker 3>overcome it all is like looking inside and being good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad you said word misunderstood, because that's a

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<v Speaker 1>word that kept coming back for me as I was

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<v Speaker 1>preparing for this interview. So I want to get to it.

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<v Speaker 1>But there was something that your friend Jay Williams said

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<v Speaker 1>in an NPR interview and you touched on it a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. He said, you can spot talent with an

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<v Speaker 1>X ray like precision. Is it a feeling you get?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interested in that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like falling in love. Say more, you can make

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<v Speaker 3>a plan to fall in love. You can say I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to meet the love of my life this year,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna get married, I'm gonna have two point five

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<v Speaker 3>kids in a pick e fence. Life does not work

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<v Speaker 3>that way, right, And for me finding talent, finding stars,

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<v Speaker 3>it was like it's like a It's like that. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like you meet someone and you just know.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's this feeling. It's like where do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>it in your body?

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<v Speaker 3>It's just it's almost like a download. It's almost like

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<v Speaker 3>a cheat code sometimes where you know. Sometimes I'm like

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to figure it out, but sometimes it's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>just letting you know this is it has nothing to

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<v Speaker 3>do with you. I'm just giving you the heads up

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<v Speaker 3>because you know what to do. Like as I said,

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<v Speaker 3>you're almost like a custodian of this energy. It almost

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<v Speaker 3>feels like it's not even coming from me. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>someone giving me the heads up. And then I feel

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<v Speaker 3>this certainty and it almost like I get a downloaded.

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<v Speaker 3>I could see everything that's to come and I know

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<v Speaker 3>where to go. And I think sometimes that can be

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<v Speaker 3>with a talent.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes that could be with a company, Sometimes that could

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<v Speaker 2>be with entrepreneur.

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<v Speaker 3>It would be nice that happened, you know, in my

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<v Speaker 3>love life again. But like I said, you can't make

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<v Speaker 3>plans for it. It shows up when it's supposed to.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just very fortunate that, for some reason I

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<v Speaker 3>was placed to see it a bunch of different times.

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<v Speaker 1>There's an interview magazine article where Donald Glover interviews himself

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, are you ever worried about staying relevant?

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<v Speaker 1>Donald asked himself and his answer was, I'm never worried

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<v Speaker 1>about relevance because I have vision. That's a big word.

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<v Speaker 3>I think things change as you get older and you

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<v Speaker 3>have different experiences. And I was with two great entrepreneurs

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<v Speaker 3>yesterday morning and young people building a really great company

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<v Speaker 3>not in entertainment, and we were having a very interesting

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<v Speaker 3>conversation and we talked about this place of self work

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<v Speaker 3>that I've gone the last five six years.

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<v Speaker 2>And one of them said that he was nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>He wants to do this self work, but what if

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<v Speaker 3>it takes away the dog in him?

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<v Speaker 2>What it takes away that energy?

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<v Speaker 3>And I kind of smiled because I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>you'll do it when you're supposed to, because you won't

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<v Speaker 3>care about that when you have new priorities and I

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<v Speaker 3>promise you, if that's supposed to be there, it will

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<v Speaker 3>be there, and all you're doing is delaying it, and

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<v Speaker 3>eventually in the universe smacks you around the way it

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<v Speaker 3>did with me to.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's time.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it take the dog away?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely not. It just gave me an opportunity to enjoy

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<v Speaker 3>being here.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. It taught me how to be present.

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<v Speaker 3>It taught me I had to lose for me to

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<v Speaker 3>understand what I have and for me to find myself again.

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<v Speaker 3>And I wouldn't I wish other people would figure it

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<v Speaker 3>out fast. I needed to slap in the face a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit. But when you talk about this idea of

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<v Speaker 3>it or relevance, I think you just show up every

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<v Speaker 3>single day and you can make long term plans and

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<v Speaker 3>then the universe makes its own plans and you just

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<v Speaker 3>try to be on the journey. Like my favorite poem Ithaca,

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<v Speaker 3>it's this concept.

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<v Speaker 2>Of like traveling. It's by Cafafi.

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<v Speaker 3>It's this idea of traveling to the island of Ithaca

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<v Speaker 3>and the Greek islands and all the things that you're

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<v Speaker 3>going to see and experience along the way, and when

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<v Speaker 3>you finally reach your destination Ithaca, if you find her poor.

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<v Speaker 3>She did not fool you because it was never about

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<v Speaker 3>getting to Ithaca. It was always about the journey. And

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<v Speaker 3>then you understand what ethica means. And I think it's

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<v Speaker 3>a metaphor for life, like this idea of vision early

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<v Speaker 3>at least it's cool experiences, school stories has what you

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<v Speaker 3>know has me sitting here with you, and all the

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<v Speaker 3>questions you're gonna ask that are gonna make me comfortable

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<v Speaker 3>and uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you feeling so far?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fine. At the end of the day.

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<v Speaker 3>The only thing that really matters is how you see

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<v Speaker 3>yourself and how you see your relationship with the people

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<v Speaker 3>that really love you.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's you know, the question I ask myself is like,

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<v Speaker 2>why would I even do this?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, you know, it's going to be speaking to a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of people who don't know me.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, what I've learned over.

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<v Speaker 3>The years is both the praise I received and many

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<v Speaker 3>points in my career and they hate I received the

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<v Speaker 3>man in my career, neither of them were deserved. The

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<v Speaker 3>people praising me didn't know me, yeah, and the people

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<v Speaker 3>hating me didn't know me.

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<v Speaker 1>So a lot of music managers operate behind the scenes,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were a really public figure. Was that purposeful?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that a business decision?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it actually is because of Outcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Outcasts had a manager and they won the album for

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<v Speaker 3>Album of the Year. It was the first hip hop

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<v Speaker 3>group to ever went out of the Year. And that

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<v Speaker 3>year there was a big party in Atlanta, and their

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<v Speaker 3>manager was on the bill of the party with another executive.

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<v Speaker 3>And the following year Outcast broke up and that executive

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<v Speaker 3>came back and he did a party, but the manager

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't on the party ever again. And I realized, too

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<v Speaker 3>much of his career I was nineteen twenty years old

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<v Speaker 3>in this too much of his career was correlated to

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<v Speaker 3>the decision making and the success or failure of someone else.

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<v Speaker 3>So I decided that while I wanted to build up acts,

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to build up myself so that I could

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<v Speaker 3>maintain and keep going. And I have things that have

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<v Speaker 3>been great about that, because you know, when acts of

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<v Speaker 3>mine have gone through really hard times, I've been able

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<v Speaker 3>to mate a power base to maintain them.

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<v Speaker 2>And help them and build other acts.

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<v Speaker 3>But at the same time, I also, as you know,

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<v Speaker 3>became a very easy target because in this business, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it became the big, bad executive.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you enjoy the recognition?

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<v Speaker 2>Ever when it was productive.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm much more of a homebody than people realize. Like

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<v Speaker 3>I can go and have a good time, but I

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<v Speaker 3>like watching movies and hanging out with my kids and

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<v Speaker 3>like just being home, and I still hang out with

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<v Speaker 3>my best friends.

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<v Speaker 2>I was eleven years old for the most part.

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<v Speaker 3>So yes, I liked it because any human being, like

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<v Speaker 3>when you're being praised or people appreciate what you do,

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<v Speaker 3>that feeds the ego, It feeds the soul, and it

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<v Speaker 3>feels really nice. So I can't say I did not.

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<v Speaker 3>I did enjoy that. But at the same time, I

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<v Speaker 3>liked it when you could give away tickets, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>when when the power was used for like the most

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<v Speaker 3>influential things in my life with that were being able

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<v Speaker 3>to like, you know, respond with Arianna to the Manchester attack,

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<v Speaker 3>to help the kids from Parkland with March for Our Lives,

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<v Speaker 3>to you know, help my friend Bumbee with a you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a fundraiser and a telethon for the hurricane victims of

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<v Speaker 3>Florida and Texas, or to simply you know, join a board.

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<v Speaker 2>Of a charity and like helps make a wish.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, It's like there are perks that come with it,

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<v Speaker 3>and then there are negatives. But in my opinion, if

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<v Speaker 3>you use it properly, the perks far outweigh the.

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<v Speaker 1>Negative, so you never wish you could undo that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, there were definitely times where I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>this ain't fun.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you got to you gotta be strong for

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<v Speaker 3>some of the stuff that comes when you're in the

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<v Speaker 3>public eye, some of it, like I don't want for

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<v Speaker 3>my kids. But I also don't think I'm like a

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<v Speaker 3>well known celebrity, you know. I think there's people who

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<v Speaker 3>know what I've done. There's people who don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>I've done and assume they know. I think that it

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<v Speaker 3>served me well for the things that I want to achieve,

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<v Speaker 3>but I don't necessarily need it anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you be sad if it went away?

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<v Speaker 2>Not at all. I mean, as long as I got

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<v Speaker 2>my kids and my friends, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>What does it take to be a really good manager?

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking up like David Geffen's model, which is

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<v Speaker 1>very similar to your model. It's more of like an

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<v Speaker 1>equity model, irving asof did like a touring model. More so,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody had a different vibe. You were the first one

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<v Speaker 1>to do this equity model plus be a public figure.

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<v Speaker 2>We were.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, look, we were very successful and the acts that

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<v Speaker 3>we worked with were incredibly successful. Yeah, and everyone did

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<v Speaker 3>incredibly well across the board.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm really proud of the work that we did.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, sometimes it's hard because you know when

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<v Speaker 3>you leave, you know there's people from the outside they

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<v Speaker 3>wone have re vision. It says you this that. But

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<v Speaker 3>at the end of the day, I got in love

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<v Speaker 3>for everybody I worked with and nothing to say negative.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm very appreciative of those twenty three years. And I

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<v Speaker 3>wrote about it like I did a post and wrote

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<v Speaker 3>all the explanations why I stopped managing. It was hard

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<v Speaker 3>because there was a year where legally I wasn't allowed

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<v Speaker 3>to say why I stopped managing, and everyone had all

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<v Speaker 3>their assumptions and stories and this person left in this

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, I lost forty three clients in one day,

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<v Speaker 3>but legally I couldn't until we resolve certain things. And

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<v Speaker 3>then when I finally could, it just felt nice to

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<v Speaker 3>do it, not so much for everyone else, But once

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<v Speaker 3>I said it publicly, I held myself accountable that I

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't go back because I knew I didn't want to.

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<v Speaker 3>I think when you're asking me, like what it takes

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<v Speaker 3>to be a good manager, I think it differs. I

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<v Speaker 3>think some managers aren't amazing at torry. Luckily I had

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<v Speaker 3>people on my team who were. Some managers are amazing

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<v Speaker 3>at croudding the deals. Some are you know, amazing at marketing, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, building a little sitt for you though.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we were really good at marketing. We had

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<v Speaker 3>a really good sporting team. I was one manager who

0:22:58.600 --> 0:23:01.200
<v Speaker 3>built an amazing team. You know, I stood on the

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<v Speaker 3>shoulders of a lot of people. You know, Jules is

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<v Speaker 3>one of the best branding people brand deals out there.

0:23:07.160 --> 0:23:09.960
<v Speaker 3>Alison is you know, was amazing at like dot in

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<v Speaker 3>the eyes, crossing the t's and like you know, running

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<v Speaker 3>the touring.

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<v Speaker 1>Jam me it was more like EQ or IQ.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was a combination.

0:23:17.160 --> 0:23:19.800
<v Speaker 3>I think like I could cut deals and we would

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<v Speaker 3>do deals and no one had ever done before. But

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<v Speaker 3>also it was a lot of building relationships, being there

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<v Speaker 3>in the trenches, having understanding and being empathetic to what

0:23:29.080 --> 0:23:31.280
<v Speaker 3>they were going through. And many times I've heard other

0:23:31.320 --> 0:23:33.520
<v Speaker 3>managers tell me you got too close, you know, you

0:23:33.600 --> 0:23:36.359
<v Speaker 3>had too close of a relationship like that was you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, something you shouldn't have done. But I don't

0:23:38.440 --> 0:23:40.200
<v Speaker 3>have regrets, you know, because at the end of the day,

0:23:40.440 --> 0:23:43.360
<v Speaker 3>relationships ebb and flow, family ebbs and flows, and those

0:23:43.359 --> 0:23:44.399
<v Speaker 3>people always be family.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think what was interesting is not what made

0:23:47.640 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 3>me a good manager, but in the end what made

0:23:49.320 --> 0:23:52.920
<v Speaker 3>me a bad manager. When I finally did the self work,

0:23:54.640 --> 0:23:57.359
<v Speaker 3>I knew my time as a manager was coming to

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<v Speaker 3>an end. What made me a great manager for twenty

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<v Speaker 3>years was my incessant need for them to tell me

0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:09.239
<v Speaker 3>that I was enough for them to tell me, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>A good job.

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<v Speaker 3>So I had self worth. And when I stepped out

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<v Speaker 3>and was in a tough place in my personal life

0:24:18.520 --> 0:24:20.840
<v Speaker 3>and everything else, and I chose to step away, And

0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:22.879
<v Speaker 3>that was the first step, no phone, no email for

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<v Speaker 3>the first time in twenty five years, and really go

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<v Speaker 3>back into my childhood and dig deep into who I

0:24:28.440 --> 0:24:32.000
<v Speaker 3>actually am. When I went to that place, I never

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<v Speaker 3>ever let anyone call me Scott.

0:24:33.640 --> 0:24:34.439
<v Speaker 2>I was only Scooter.

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<v Speaker 3>I never felt like a Scott when I got out.

0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:40.000
<v Speaker 3>I loved my name Scott. I appreciated Scooter, but I

0:24:40.080 --> 0:24:43.160
<v Speaker 3>knew Scott had actually made him and that little boy

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<v Speaker 3>was back in charge.

0:24:44.640 --> 0:24:47.600
<v Speaker 1>But I can imagine your clients needed you to tell

0:24:47.680 --> 0:24:50.840
<v Speaker 1>them that they were great, Like it was a codependent

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<v Speaker 1>relationship undred percent.

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<v Speaker 3>But when I got out, I wanted to be there

0:24:55.400 --> 0:24:57.080
<v Speaker 3>for myself for the first time, and I wanted to

0:24:57.119 --> 0:25:00.480
<v Speaker 3>be there for my kids, and so much of my

0:25:00.520 --> 0:25:05.240
<v Speaker 3>life for twenty years was dedicated to them. And when

0:25:05.240 --> 0:25:07.320
<v Speaker 3>I got out, I just wasn't a good manager the

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<v Speaker 3>way I was before. And and I know that in fact,

0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:12.439
<v Speaker 3>you know, at the end, Ariana actually said it to me.

0:25:12.960 --> 0:25:15.080
<v Speaker 2>She was like, you know, you haven't really been the.

0:25:15.040 --> 0:25:17.840
<v Speaker 3>Manager you were for the last couple of years. And

0:25:17.880 --> 0:25:21.000
<v Speaker 3>she was right, you know, and she deserved better at

0:25:21.000 --> 0:25:22.960
<v Speaker 3>that point. And you know, my friend Brandon Creed is

0:25:22.960 --> 0:25:25.560
<v Speaker 3>her manager now and he's crushing it and she's happy

0:25:25.600 --> 0:25:28.160
<v Speaker 3>and she's crushing it, and I'm so happy for both

0:25:28.160 --> 0:25:28.440
<v Speaker 3>of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, honestly, were you burnt out? I think it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>part of being burnt out.

0:25:33.080 --> 0:25:35.800
<v Speaker 3>But I also think the course of all the relationships,

0:25:35.840 --> 0:25:38.760
<v Speaker 3>like it wasn't like just me, it's they could see

0:25:38.800 --> 0:25:40.720
<v Speaker 3>it too, and their needs, like they deserve to have

0:25:40.840 --> 0:25:42.280
<v Speaker 3>someone that's the job.

0:25:42.320 --> 0:25:43.600
<v Speaker 2>You're supposed to be there for them.

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<v Speaker 3>And when I wasn't, you know, in that position, if

0:25:48.359 --> 0:25:50.879
<v Speaker 3>my soul wasn't in it the same way. So I

0:25:50.880 --> 0:25:52.679
<v Speaker 3>think it was a mutual thing in the end of

0:25:52.720 --> 0:25:53.919
<v Speaker 3>like an understanding like this is.

0:25:53.960 --> 0:25:54.840
<v Speaker 2>And I've talked about it.

0:25:54.880 --> 0:25:56.479
<v Speaker 3>We talked about twenty three years in the post and

0:25:56.760 --> 0:25:59.720
<v Speaker 3>I spoke about it all. But I think nothing makes

0:25:59.720 --> 0:26:01.920
<v Speaker 3>me happier than to see each one of them continue

0:26:01.920 --> 0:26:02.480
<v Speaker 3>to succeed.

0:26:02.840 --> 0:26:04.920
<v Speaker 1>Right. I've heard you say you like seeing everybody win.

0:26:05.080 --> 0:26:07.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I like seeing everybody wins. Then everybody can pay

0:26:07.080 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 3>for their own vacation. I call my vacation theory. But

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:12.080
<v Speaker 3>the other reason I like seeing everybody win is no

0:26:12.080 --> 0:26:13.960
<v Speaker 3>matter what it's like, it's what me and my ex

0:26:14.000 --> 0:26:16.359
<v Speaker 3>wife talk about, Like we have three amazing kids and

0:26:16.359 --> 0:26:20.159
<v Speaker 3>we're tied to each other forever. That's family, and I

0:26:20.200 --> 0:26:21.920
<v Speaker 3>want to see her do well because that's my family.

0:26:21.960 --> 0:26:24.400
<v Speaker 3>No matter what, whether we're a couple or not, we're

0:26:24.440 --> 0:26:26.560
<v Speaker 3>still co parents. We're still family forever. And that's the

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<v Speaker 3>way I feel about the acts. It's like there's gonna

0:26:29.560 --> 0:26:31.280
<v Speaker 3>be an ebbs and flows, and you know, you look

0:26:31.320 --> 0:26:33.359
<v Speaker 3>back at history and certain people feel this and other

0:26:33.400 --> 0:26:35.520
<v Speaker 3>people come in different people's years and say all kinds

0:26:35.520 --> 0:26:37.199
<v Speaker 3>of things. But at the end of the day, for

0:26:37.320 --> 0:26:38.560
<v Speaker 3>me at least, it's all love.

0:26:39.040 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 2>It's no matter what.

0:26:40.440 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 3>We did that, and we did that together and no

0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 3>one can take that away, So you know, why not?

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:50.760
<v Speaker 3>Like Dave Little Dicky, he and I had a dinner

0:26:50.800 --> 0:26:52.919
<v Speaker 3>and he was talking to me about a relationship with

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<v Speaker 3>someone else from his past in his career and I

0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:57.760
<v Speaker 3>managed him for a while and he was frustrated, and

0:26:57.800 --> 0:27:00.159
<v Speaker 3>I said, listen, does that person want to be your

0:27:00.160 --> 0:27:00.960
<v Speaker 3>business life anymore?

0:27:00.960 --> 0:27:02.719
<v Speaker 2>He said no. I was like, do you want them

0:27:02.720 --> 0:27:03.840
<v Speaker 2>in your life anymore? He goes no.

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:06.280
<v Speaker 3>I was like, then, why can't you just celebrate who

0:27:06.320 --> 0:27:08.520
<v Speaker 3>you were once to each other and let the rest go?

0:27:09.480 --> 0:27:11.639
<v Speaker 3>And he did that, and I think that's what I

0:27:11.680 --> 0:27:13.320
<v Speaker 3>try to do with all these people in my life.

0:27:13.359 --> 0:27:17.199
<v Speaker 3>It's like there's so much noise out there in the

0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:19.600
<v Speaker 3>world that we're in, especially in this town, in this business,

0:27:19.640 --> 0:27:22.680
<v Speaker 3>everyone seems to have an opinion. I'm just going to

0:27:22.760 --> 0:27:24.560
<v Speaker 3>celebrate who we awre to each other always.

0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:28.280
<v Speaker 1>I like that. I want to talk about your first client,

0:27:28.520 --> 0:27:31.200
<v Speaker 1>justin Biebert. You guys had such a ride together. I

0:27:31.240 --> 0:27:35.399
<v Speaker 1>don't think Asher Roth was my first that's a great call.

0:27:35.800 --> 0:27:38.080
<v Speaker 1>Was Justin your second Yes, Okay, I want to talk

0:27:38.080 --> 0:27:39.040
<v Speaker 1>about actually.

0:27:38.680 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 3>Know I had one called Cato, and I know them

0:27:40.800 --> 0:27:43.560
<v Speaker 3>called the Bama Boys. You just know the ones that

0:27:43.640 --> 0:27:44.800
<v Speaker 3>worked really big.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk about your biggest clients.

0:27:47.680 --> 0:27:51.159
<v Speaker 2>Okay. I Love College. That was my first hit and

0:27:51.160 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 2>that was the first success. And then Justin.

0:27:53.280 --> 0:27:55.280
<v Speaker 1>I was in college partying to I Love College.

0:27:55.320 --> 0:27:57.239
<v Speaker 3>You know, Justin was in the studio when we cut it,

0:27:57.240 --> 0:27:59.440
<v Speaker 3>in the makeshift studio behind in the basement because Asher,

0:27:59.480 --> 0:28:02.760
<v Speaker 3>you used to literally babysit Justine me sometimes because Justin

0:28:02.800 --> 0:28:04.199
<v Speaker 3>was so young, and he would go hang out at

0:28:04.200 --> 0:28:06.400
<v Speaker 3>Asher's house and they'd like play you know, Mario Kart

0:28:06.400 --> 0:28:07.880
<v Speaker 3>and like watch Justin hilarious.

0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:08.639
<v Speaker 2>I mean it's crazy.

0:28:08.680 --> 0:28:09.919
<v Speaker 3>Like I have a picture of like all of us

0:28:09.960 --> 0:28:12.560
<v Speaker 3>on the stoop of the Greenhouse where like we recorded

0:28:12.680 --> 0:28:14.720
<v Speaker 3>Asher stuff and I put them up to live and

0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:16.399
<v Speaker 3>right down the street in the townhouse is where I

0:28:16.400 --> 0:28:17.760
<v Speaker 3>put Justin and his mom and.

0:28:17.680 --> 0:28:20.000
<v Speaker 2>It was like this makeshift crew of like us trying

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:20.440
<v Speaker 2>to make it.

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I'm sorry it was my mistake.

0:28:22.600 --> 0:28:24.159
<v Speaker 2>You're right, I will forgive you.

0:28:24.440 --> 0:28:26.320
<v Speaker 1>Justin was not your first client, but I want to

0:28:26.359 --> 0:28:28.720
<v Speaker 1>talk about your ride with him. I don't think we've

0:28:28.760 --> 0:28:31.919
<v Speaker 1>seen fandom like that since the Beatles. That was really wild.

0:28:32.359 --> 0:28:33.080
<v Speaker 1>Why are you laughing?

0:28:33.080 --> 0:28:35.399
<v Speaker 3>I'm laughing because the Paul McCartney, Yeah, I think it

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:37.600
<v Speaker 3>was like the first or second Grammys we ever went to.

0:28:38.160 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 2>He like saw me in the hallway.

0:28:39.520 --> 0:28:41.280
<v Speaker 3>I'll never forget this, and he goes, you're Scooter right,

0:28:41.360 --> 0:28:42.880
<v Speaker 3>and I was like yeah, and he goes, I'm one

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:44.160
<v Speaker 3>of the only people in the world who knows what

0:28:44.200 --> 0:28:46.240
<v Speaker 3>you're going through it And for me.

0:28:46.280 --> 0:28:47.800
<v Speaker 2>I was so excited because I share a birthday with

0:28:47.800 --> 0:28:50.080
<v Speaker 2>Paul McCartney. And when I got to tell him we

0:28:50.080 --> 0:28:50.760
<v Speaker 2>share a birthday.

0:28:50.800 --> 0:28:53.640
<v Speaker 3>For me, that's incredibly exciting to share a birthday with pumccartney.

0:28:53.920 --> 0:28:56.280
<v Speaker 2>Turns out didn't really excite him that he shared a

0:28:56.280 --> 0:28:56.880
<v Speaker 2>birthday with me.

0:28:57.480 --> 0:28:59.959
<v Speaker 1>He kind of was like, that's nice.

0:29:00.000 --> 0:29:01.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't think he's walking around like I want to

0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:03.720
<v Speaker 2>tellim scoter we share a birthday. So I was like, oh, yeah,

0:29:03.760 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 2>I guess the other way. It's not really as exciting,

0:29:06.440 --> 0:29:06.800
<v Speaker 2>but I.

0:29:06.720 --> 0:29:08.720
<v Speaker 1>Think that's great because that was your second Grammy, so

0:29:08.760 --> 0:29:10.200
<v Speaker 1>it was still all new and exciting to you.

0:29:10.280 --> 0:29:12.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, by the wait As long as I'm seeing it

0:29:12.840 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 3>through the eyes as someone who's experiencing it the first time,

0:29:15.120 --> 0:29:16.240
<v Speaker 3>it's always fun for me.

0:29:16.720 --> 0:29:19.680
<v Speaker 1>There's videos all over the internet of you guys running

0:29:19.720 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 1>around giving out tickets to people who either couldn't get

0:29:24.400 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 1>tickets couldn't afford tickets, and you hand them front row seats.

0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:30.960
<v Speaker 1>They're crying. You guys donated a dollar from every ticket

0:29:31.000 --> 0:29:34.800
<v Speaker 1>sold on Justin's Believe Tour to support Pencils of Promise.

0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:38.040
<v Speaker 1>During the Justice World Tour, Bieber launched the Justice and

0:29:38.120 --> 0:29:42.360
<v Speaker 1>Action Initiative. He's the talk recording artist for granting wishes

0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:46.320
<v Speaker 1>for Make a Wish. Sure, when I think of philanthropic musicians,

0:29:46.320 --> 0:29:48.840
<v Speaker 1>I always think of Dolly Parton, but I'm not sure

0:29:49.000 --> 0:29:52.400
<v Speaker 1>I've seen a young person do it on that scale.

0:29:53.240 --> 0:29:55.680
<v Speaker 1>What about the give back was so important to you guys.

0:29:56.440 --> 0:29:58.800
<v Speaker 3>I don't think you get the rest without it. You know,

0:29:59.000 --> 0:30:01.680
<v Speaker 3>my grandparents say, if your cup is being filled with

0:30:01.720 --> 0:30:04.160
<v Speaker 3>water by God, you better start pouring in and other

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:06.000
<v Speaker 3>cups before it just makes a mess and spills all

0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 3>over the place. If we keep getting that energy, we

0:30:08.960 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 3>have to share it. And that was always something important

0:30:11.720 --> 0:30:13.280
<v Speaker 3>to my mother. It was important with In my culture.

0:30:13.280 --> 0:30:18.800
<v Speaker 3>It's called sedaka just giving and charity, and it's biblical,

0:30:18.920 --> 0:30:22.240
<v Speaker 3>like it literally says, you know, in the Torah, in

0:30:22.280 --> 0:30:25.920
<v Speaker 3>the Bible, it literally says, when getting your crops, you're

0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:28.440
<v Speaker 3>supposed to leave the field at the end untouched so

0:30:28.520 --> 0:30:30.200
<v Speaker 3>people can come in and get some of the.

0:30:30.120 --> 0:30:33.640
<v Speaker 2>Crops, right. And I'm a very firm believer in that.

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:38.600
<v Speaker 3>And I'm very grateful that Justin and Ariana and Demi

0:30:38.640 --> 0:30:40.959
<v Speaker 3>and all these artists, Jay Balvin, all these artists I've

0:30:40.960 --> 0:30:44.040
<v Speaker 3>gotten to work with over the years, all them said yes.

0:30:45.160 --> 0:30:47.600
<v Speaker 3>And we brought in SHAWNA Nepp, who now runs our

0:30:47.600 --> 0:30:51.480
<v Speaker 3>family foundation, but she's always run philanthropic and still does

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:53.480
<v Speaker 3>for most of the artists I've worked with and these

0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:57.360
<v Speaker 3>you know, families, and she's just absolutely amazing. And you know,

0:30:57.440 --> 0:30:59.560
<v Speaker 3>our job is to make it and her job is

0:30:59.560 --> 0:31:02.360
<v Speaker 3>to give it a and that's just something really amazing.

0:31:02.400 --> 0:31:04.239
<v Speaker 3>So I'm really grateful to all of the artists who

0:31:04.320 --> 0:31:06.200
<v Speaker 3>signed up to do those in credit Blacks. I'm grateful

0:31:06.240 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 3>to Justin for how many wishes he made over those

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:12.000
<v Speaker 3>tours and how many kids he made happy. And you know, now,

0:31:12.160 --> 0:31:13.920
<v Speaker 3>like I'm very fortunate I get to serve on the

0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:16.360
<v Speaker 3>national board to make a wish, and whenever I go

0:31:16.400 --> 0:31:18.960
<v Speaker 3>to a board meeting, Leslie, our CEO, who is incredible,

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:22.720
<v Speaker 3>I always tell her these board meetings I benefit more

0:31:22.720 --> 0:31:24.920
<v Speaker 3>than it, you know, than the kids, because getting to

0:31:24.960 --> 0:31:28.840
<v Speaker 3>hear the stories, getting to witness these wishes fills me up.

0:31:29.560 --> 0:31:31.560
<v Speaker 2>And the greatest thing you can.

0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:34.200
<v Speaker 3>Do is give, because it's like I promise you, you make

0:31:34.240 --> 0:31:36.320
<v Speaker 3>another dollar, you're going to be looking for more and

0:31:36.320 --> 0:31:37.640
<v Speaker 3>trying to find out how to be happy.

0:31:37.720 --> 0:31:40.560
<v Speaker 2>You give something, you're going to get closer to that happiness.

0:31:41.840 --> 0:31:44.160
<v Speaker 1>I think now you see Chance theor rapper, he gave

0:31:44.160 --> 0:31:47.360
<v Speaker 1>a million dollars to the Chicago Public school system. Taylor

0:31:47.400 --> 0:31:51.120
<v Speaker 1>Swift would like give people their college education, their tuition.

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 1>Do you think it's fair to say that you guys

0:31:54.440 --> 0:31:58.520
<v Speaker 1>changed the culture of pop stardom and geared it a

0:31:58.520 --> 0:32:00.600
<v Speaker 1>little bit more towards philanthropy.

0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:05.240
<v Speaker 3>Look, that's a really beautiful thing to say, But I

0:32:05.280 --> 0:32:08.200
<v Speaker 3>think the Civil rights movement was paid for by Sidney

0:32:08.200 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 3>Poitier and people like him. I think that artists throughout

0:32:12.560 --> 0:32:17.760
<v Speaker 3>history have stepped up to help others. I don't think

0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:18.600
<v Speaker 3>that started with us.

0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 2>I think we were inspired by the people before us.

0:32:21.080 --> 0:32:23.440
<v Speaker 1>You've had time away from that part of your life,

0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:25.680
<v Speaker 1>what do you look back on and feel the most

0:32:25.720 --> 0:32:26.280
<v Speaker 1>joy about.

0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:29.360
<v Speaker 2>Well, I also didn't know an adult life was like this.

0:32:29.720 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 3>I've been managing since I was nineteen, and like full

0:32:32.600 --> 0:32:35.360
<v Speaker 3>time since I was nineteen, like two phones, answering every

0:32:35.400 --> 0:32:37.040
<v Speaker 3>phone calling it. Yeah, so like the last two and

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:39.280
<v Speaker 3>a half years not managing because I announced it was

0:32:39.280 --> 0:32:40.560
<v Speaker 3>I guess a year and a half ago, the twenty

0:32:40.600 --> 0:32:42.240
<v Speaker 3>three years, but it's really been two and a half

0:32:42.280 --> 0:32:43.520
<v Speaker 3>years since I made this decision.

0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:46.720
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know you could have like a weekend.

0:32:47.800 --> 0:32:50.400
<v Speaker 3>I didn't know you could actually like binge watch an

0:32:50.520 --> 0:32:51.920
<v Speaker 3>entire series on Netflix.

0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:53.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's epic.

0:32:53.640 --> 0:32:56.160
<v Speaker 3>Like I'm loving it, and I'm still like I got

0:32:56.200 --> 0:32:57.720
<v Speaker 3>the hunger again to go do other stuff.

0:32:58.400 --> 0:33:00.120
<v Speaker 2>But it's been really nice.

0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:03.480
<v Speaker 3>To be so present with my children and be so

0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:04.560
<v Speaker 3>present with my friends.

0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:05.960
<v Speaker 2>And my friends talk to me about it.

0:33:06.000 --> 0:33:08.960
<v Speaker 3>They're like, you use some of these skills to like

0:33:09.080 --> 0:33:10.920
<v Speaker 3>make sure we're all good at stagecoach or if we

0:33:10.960 --> 0:33:13.360
<v Speaker 3>go to Coachell or something like that, But like used

0:33:13.400 --> 0:33:15.120
<v Speaker 3>to use these skills in other ways, and it's kind

0:33:15.120 --> 0:33:16.239
<v Speaker 3>of fun for you to use them.

0:33:16.240 --> 0:33:18.040
<v Speaker 2>For us, and it's been really nice.

0:33:18.080 --> 0:33:23.280
<v Speaker 3>When I look back at the career, it's a less

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:28.720
<v Speaker 3>small moments and then really big philanthropic moments. It's like

0:33:29.840 --> 0:33:32.720
<v Speaker 3>a little moment on a road trip or being in

0:33:32.760 --> 0:33:36.720
<v Speaker 3>a restaurant in you know, Europe on a promo trip

0:33:36.760 --> 0:33:38.800
<v Speaker 3>when we were first starting and having laughs with the

0:33:38.840 --> 0:33:43.160
<v Speaker 3>original crew. It's you know, watching Marcus Mumford come out

0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 3>at the Manchester Show and do the moment of silence

0:33:45.560 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 3>and seeing sixty five thousand people completely silent, you know,

0:33:48.640 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 3>when you didn't even know if they were going to

0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:53.040
<v Speaker 3>show up because of you know, acts of terror. It's

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:58.720
<v Speaker 3>it's little things like backyard concerts that no one will

0:33:58.720 --> 0:34:01.040
<v Speaker 3>ever see, you know, with a guitar being a passed

0:34:01.040 --> 0:34:05.600
<v Speaker 3>around a fire pit. It's it's all the things that

0:34:05.960 --> 0:34:09.480
<v Speaker 3>made all the nonsense worth it, you know, all the

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:11.440
<v Speaker 3>things that make me happy when I look back, I

0:34:11.440 --> 0:34:16.800
<v Speaker 3>would have done for free. And being able to tell

0:34:16.840 --> 0:34:21.200
<v Speaker 3>the stories in private settings when people ask or sometimes

0:34:21.239 --> 0:34:23.320
<v Speaker 3>that's the best moment because you take it for granted.

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:26.280
<v Speaker 3>You almost act like, you know, you're feeling the injuries

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:28.799
<v Speaker 3>of it sometimes and you don't realize how many great

0:34:28.840 --> 0:34:31.600
<v Speaker 3>things came from it. And how many beautiful moments and

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:36.560
<v Speaker 3>how many experiences, and honestly, it's just a lot of love.

0:34:36.920 --> 0:34:39.040
<v Speaker 3>Like you're looking backly even like being on the road

0:34:39.080 --> 0:34:41.839
<v Speaker 3>in the beginning, and like pulling into Walmart's at two

0:34:41.840 --> 0:34:43.520
<v Speaker 3>o'clock in the morning, and the things that you'll see

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:45.160
<v Speaker 3>in a Walmart at two o'clock in the morning in

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:48.480
<v Speaker 3>the middle of America epic epic?

0:34:49.239 --> 0:34:50.799
<v Speaker 1>Do you have any regrets about that time?

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:54.320
<v Speaker 2>I think everything happens exactly the way it should.

0:34:55.239 --> 0:34:59.080
<v Speaker 3>However, I don't want to use mental health as a

0:34:59.120 --> 0:35:01.160
<v Speaker 3>crutch because I think too many times people do that.

0:35:01.960 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 3>I think people say, oh, mental health, mental health. It's

0:35:03.920 --> 0:35:06.120
<v Speaker 3>almost like they don't want any adversity in their life.

0:35:06.560 --> 0:35:08.960
<v Speaker 3>And I don't think unless you take responsibility for your life,

0:35:09.000 --> 0:35:12.719
<v Speaker 3>you actually learn or grow. But I do think the

0:35:12.800 --> 0:35:19.520
<v Speaker 3>regret I have is not understanding taking self work time

0:35:20.640 --> 0:35:22.880
<v Speaker 3>for both myself and encouraging it for the people I

0:35:22.920 --> 0:35:26.680
<v Speaker 3>work with. I think we all could have awaited a

0:35:26.680 --> 0:35:28.719
<v Speaker 3>lot of pain. I think we were so young, and

0:35:28.719 --> 0:35:33.880
<v Speaker 3>we all moved so fast that we didn't know you know,

0:35:33.960 --> 0:35:34.880
<v Speaker 3>and by I didn't.

0:35:34.640 --> 0:35:35.520
<v Speaker 2>Figure that part out.

0:35:37.680 --> 0:35:41.000
<v Speaker 3>You're moving so fast and you're having all this success

0:35:41.800 --> 0:35:44.120
<v Speaker 3>and you're not realizing that toll it could take on

0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:49.840
<v Speaker 3>you long term of not being present completely to the

0:35:49.840 --> 0:35:52.680
<v Speaker 3>moment of all the pressures that come with it that

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:55.360
<v Speaker 3>you're not prepared for when they finally hit. And I

0:35:55.400 --> 0:35:59.440
<v Speaker 3>think understanding now at this age the importance of one

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:01.399
<v Speaker 3>to two weeks year where you really take the time

0:36:01.840 --> 0:36:04.360
<v Speaker 3>to go inward and build a foundation for yourself so

0:36:04.400 --> 0:36:07.799
<v Speaker 3>when those waves come you can swim through them. I

0:36:07.840 --> 0:36:10.600
<v Speaker 3>didn't understand that lesson until I was older and I

0:36:10.640 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 3>had to deal with hard things, and I wish I

0:36:12.239 --> 0:36:13.880
<v Speaker 3>knew it earlier and I would have been able to

0:36:13.960 --> 0:36:16.000
<v Speaker 3>encourage it for everyone I was working with as well.

0:36:16.200 --> 0:36:20.719
<v Speaker 1>That makes sense. So you pluck someone from Canada off

0:36:20.719 --> 0:36:25.000
<v Speaker 1>of YouTube, you guys have this insane ride together, and

0:36:25.040 --> 0:36:28.359
<v Speaker 1>then the working relationship has since come to an end.

0:36:28.800 --> 0:36:30.640
<v Speaker 1>When did you guys know it was the end of

0:36:30.640 --> 0:36:32.759
<v Speaker 1>that relationship, Because to me, it must sort of be

0:36:32.840 --> 0:36:36.239
<v Speaker 1>like an intimate partner, like you just wake up one

0:36:36.320 --> 0:36:41.200
<v Speaker 1>day and feel it like it's over or was it

0:36:41.200 --> 0:36:41.879
<v Speaker 1>a slow role?

0:36:42.800 --> 0:36:45.680
<v Speaker 3>I just think, listen, a lot of things happened, and

0:36:45.760 --> 0:36:51.040
<v Speaker 3>I think over time, each one of us is making

0:36:51.080 --> 0:36:53.600
<v Speaker 3>decisions for our own personal life. And sometimes you drift.

0:36:53.680 --> 0:36:57.400
<v Speaker 3>Sometimes a lot of people get in between. Sometimes, you know,

0:36:58.960 --> 0:37:02.120
<v Speaker 3>I think the story's not not in a working relationship,

0:37:02.120 --> 0:37:04.640
<v Speaker 3>but I think that's what happens with relationships like that.

0:37:05.440 --> 0:37:07.680
<v Speaker 3>They ebb and they flow, and they go up and down,

0:37:07.719 --> 0:37:10.920
<v Speaker 3>and sometimes they go into one direction, sometimes they go another,

0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:12.719
<v Speaker 3>but you always keep your heart open to the fact

0:37:12.760 --> 0:37:17.040
<v Speaker 3>that that's family and it goes up and down and

0:37:17.080 --> 0:37:19.400
<v Speaker 3>you have each other's back in the end. And I

0:37:19.440 --> 0:37:23.400
<v Speaker 3>think that you know, for me, my life went a

0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:27.040
<v Speaker 3>certain direction where I was done managing and I wanted

0:37:27.040 --> 0:37:28.799
<v Speaker 3>something else for my life. And I think his life

0:37:28.800 --> 0:37:31.040
<v Speaker 3>when a certain direction where he was ready to really

0:37:31.040 --> 0:37:36.920
<v Speaker 3>control his own destiny. And I think both are appropriate

0:37:37.600 --> 0:37:41.120
<v Speaker 3>and I respect completely. You know that he is his

0:37:41.160 --> 0:37:43.640
<v Speaker 3>own man now and that that you know, he wants

0:37:43.680 --> 0:37:46.279
<v Speaker 3>to build his career moving forward the way he sees fit,

0:37:46.360 --> 0:37:49.000
<v Speaker 3>and he should same way. I respect the fact that

0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:51.200
<v Speaker 3>I want to build my life a certain way moving forward,

0:37:51.280 --> 0:37:53.880
<v Speaker 3>and I think you do so with love and respect,

0:37:53.880 --> 0:37:56.080
<v Speaker 3>and you don't really Sometimes you it's you know, with

0:37:56.160 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 3>other people it was like, Okay, this is the day,

0:37:58.080 --> 0:38:00.000
<v Speaker 3>and you point to it, and other times you really

0:38:00.360 --> 0:38:02.759
<v Speaker 3>it just gets there. One day, and I think you

0:38:02.840 --> 0:38:03.880
<v Speaker 3>treat both with respect.

0:38:05.080 --> 0:38:05.960
<v Speaker 1>Was it tough.

0:38:07.560 --> 0:38:10.720
<v Speaker 3>At times, but like I said, I feel like everything

0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:13.400
<v Speaker 3>happens in the timing it should. Yeah, you know, the

0:38:13.440 --> 0:38:15.960
<v Speaker 3>stuff that I was dealing with in my personal life

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:19.520
<v Speaker 3>was much tougher, you know, divorced with kids. I wouldn't

0:38:19.520 --> 0:38:23.279
<v Speaker 3>wish on your worst enemy, even with someone like my ex.

0:38:23.080 --> 0:38:24.960
<v Speaker 2>Who we did so we did it with such respect

0:38:25.000 --> 0:38:29.080
<v Speaker 2>for each other. But I don't think stories like end

0:38:29.160 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 2>the way you're describing. I think.

0:38:33.400 --> 0:38:39.839
<v Speaker 3>Their chapters, you know, and real relationships, you know, it's

0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:41.920
<v Speaker 3>just you're in a different chapter. You're each in a

0:38:41.960 --> 0:38:43.879
<v Speaker 3>different point in your life, and sometimes it comes together.

0:38:43.920 --> 0:38:45.279
<v Speaker 3>It's like a good friend, you know what I mean.

0:38:45.360 --> 0:38:48.960
<v Speaker 3>Like sometimes you could be ah, other times you could

0:38:48.960 --> 0:38:50.279
<v Speaker 3>be like, I'm talking to you in years you pick

0:38:50.280 --> 0:38:51.560
<v Speaker 3>it up like that, you know.

0:38:51.640 --> 0:38:52.879
<v Speaker 2>It's just I don't I don't think.

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:56.080
<v Speaker 3>I think the only thing that's definitively ending is a lifetime,

0:38:56.840 --> 0:38:58.400
<v Speaker 3>you know, So the rest of it is you never

0:38:58.520 --> 0:38:58.840
<v Speaker 3>never know.

0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:01.719
<v Speaker 1>Well, the way you're describing it makes it seem like

0:39:01.800 --> 0:39:03.920
<v Speaker 1>you're hopeful that it'll come back together.

0:39:04.000 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 3>Is not the business way, right, I said, I'm hopeful

0:39:06.680 --> 0:39:09.560
<v Speaker 3>in the fact of like, he's not done and I'm

0:39:09.560 --> 0:39:10.759
<v Speaker 3>not done cheering for him.

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:15.560
<v Speaker 1>You guys created such a strong fan base, and recently

0:39:15.600 --> 0:39:18.719
<v Speaker 1>his fans have been concerned about his health. People are

0:39:18.760 --> 0:39:22.800
<v Speaker 1>speculating USA Today said Justin Bieber's crashing out. There's videos

0:39:22.800 --> 0:39:26.200
<v Speaker 1>of him at Coachella where fans raised concerned about his appearance.

0:39:26.840 --> 0:39:28.919
<v Speaker 1>What goes through your mind when you hear me say

0:39:28.920 --> 0:39:30.960
<v Speaker 1>that or see those videos that.

0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:33.680
<v Speaker 3>People should if they really respect him, they should leave

0:39:33.760 --> 0:39:35.200
<v Speaker 3>him and his family alone.

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:38.240
<v Speaker 2>I think he has a newborn child. I think he's married.

0:39:38.320 --> 0:39:40.719
<v Speaker 3>I think that that life is not easy, and if

0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:45.360
<v Speaker 3>they really did care, they would give him an opportunity

0:39:45.960 --> 0:39:46.960
<v Speaker 3>to be a human being.

0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:50.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there was a moment. We talked about this a

0:39:50.600 --> 0:39:53.360
<v Speaker 1>little bit earlier, but there was a moment when you yourself

0:39:53.760 --> 0:39:57.080
<v Speaker 1>made headlines last year. We repeatedly saw these headlines and

0:39:57.120 --> 0:39:59.560
<v Speaker 1>it made it seemed like things were leaking. We're either

0:39:59.760 --> 0:40:03.400
<v Speaker 1>an artist on your roster was coming out or leaking

0:40:03.400 --> 0:40:05.840
<v Speaker 1>that they were leaving your management company, and it seemed

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:08.239
<v Speaker 1>as though you were just taking hit after hit. Yeah,

0:40:08.560 --> 0:40:10.600
<v Speaker 1>how did it feel at that point because you mentioned

0:40:10.640 --> 0:40:12.240
<v Speaker 1>you were under NDA, so you couldn't say.

0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:14.160
<v Speaker 3>Anything, Well, I also had a dream, so I couldn't

0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:16.920
<v Speaker 3>say anything. I could I was under nda. But my

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:19.319
<v Speaker 3>publicists could have, like for our company, could have said, hey,

0:40:19.320 --> 0:40:19.799
<v Speaker 3>that's not true.

0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:22.440
<v Speaker 2>But I wouldn't let her why because I had a dream.

0:40:22.960 --> 0:40:23.200
<v Speaker 1>What?

0:40:23.560 --> 0:40:24.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I had a dream?

0:40:24.560 --> 0:40:25.120
<v Speaker 1>Can you share?

0:40:25.440 --> 0:40:28.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I one of I'm not going to go into names.

0:40:28.880 --> 0:40:30.560
<v Speaker 3>One of my biggest clients came to me and said

0:40:30.560 --> 0:40:32.560
<v Speaker 3>that they wanted to spread their wings and do something different.

0:40:33.080 --> 0:40:34.920
<v Speaker 3>But I also knew that that was appropriate at the

0:40:34.960 --> 0:40:37.239
<v Speaker 3>time because I felt the same way quite some time,

0:40:37.640 --> 0:40:39.839
<v Speaker 3>but I was too afraid to say it out loud

0:40:39.920 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 3>because I was too afraid of who am I without them? Okay,

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:45.200
<v Speaker 3>So when this happened, it was almost a catalyst for

0:40:45.280 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 3>me realizing, like it's now and I was on a

0:40:49.000 --> 0:40:52.000
<v Speaker 3>vacation with my best friends who really in my divorce

0:40:52.400 --> 0:40:55.600
<v Speaker 3>picked me up, and I had never done like a

0:40:55.600 --> 0:40:57.919
<v Speaker 3>boy's trip in my entire life, my entire adult life,

0:40:57.920 --> 0:40:59.279
<v Speaker 3>Like this was the first one. And I took all

0:40:59.320 --> 0:41:01.319
<v Speaker 3>of them and like we went to Europe and I

0:41:01.320 --> 0:41:03.600
<v Speaker 3>took them on a trip and like I'm talking, he's

0:41:03.640 --> 0:41:05.680
<v Speaker 3>gonna love this because I'm stand in the pocket, Like

0:41:05.760 --> 0:41:08.359
<v Speaker 3>I got a buddy Paul Brown from Bridgeport. He loves

0:41:08.360 --> 0:41:11.400
<v Speaker 3>when I say his name, and you know, Mike and

0:41:11.520 --> 0:41:14.040
<v Speaker 3>Jay and Buk and like, you know, all these guys

0:41:14.040 --> 0:41:17.080
<v Speaker 3>who like came to the trip. Dave Usher joined because

0:41:17.080 --> 0:41:18.799
<v Speaker 3>we've adopted him into the childhood group.

0:41:19.200 --> 0:41:22.279
<v Speaker 2>But some of these guys had never been to.

0:41:22.200 --> 0:41:24.879
<v Speaker 3>Europe, and like I was like, I'm taking you guys

0:41:24.880 --> 0:41:26.200
<v Speaker 3>because you were there for me and I want to

0:41:26.239 --> 0:41:27.880
<v Speaker 3>do something for you. And it was one of the

0:41:27.880 --> 0:41:30.000
<v Speaker 3>greatest trips in my life other than being with my children.

0:41:30.120 --> 0:41:30.440
<v Speaker 1>Mm hm.

0:41:31.160 --> 0:41:34.120
<v Speaker 3>And during this trip, this artist said this to me

0:41:34.200 --> 0:41:36.960
<v Speaker 3>that maybe we should change something, and I realized, I'm like, actually,

0:41:37.000 --> 0:41:39.799
<v Speaker 3>they're right, Like I've been avoiding this for quite some time.

0:41:40.719 --> 0:41:43.839
<v Speaker 3>And I went and I actually took a nap and

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:46.680
<v Speaker 3>I had a very vivid dream and I have a

0:41:46.719 --> 0:41:49.480
<v Speaker 3>tattoo on the back of my arm about this dream.

0:41:49.560 --> 0:41:50.640
<v Speaker 1>What does the tattoos say?

0:41:51.000 --> 0:41:51.960
<v Speaker 2>It's not what it says.

0:41:52.080 --> 0:41:55.920
<v Speaker 3>It is a man standing in a giant flame and

0:41:55.960 --> 0:41:58.720
<v Speaker 3>the flame cannot touch him, and inside of him.

0:41:58.640 --> 0:41:59.880
<v Speaker 2>Is the full universe.

0:42:00.480 --> 0:42:03.239
<v Speaker 3>And basically what the dream said to me is you

0:42:03.560 --> 0:42:07.480
<v Speaker 3>are trying to navigate the perfect ending, and if you

0:42:07.560 --> 0:42:09.719
<v Speaker 3>do that, you're gonna get slapped in the face because

0:42:09.760 --> 0:42:11.839
<v Speaker 3>that's not what we want for you. You have to pull

0:42:11.880 --> 0:42:14.759
<v Speaker 3>the band aid. You have to stop managing and do

0:42:14.800 --> 0:42:16.600
<v Speaker 3>what you know you should have done for quite some time,

0:42:17.200 --> 0:42:19.319
<v Speaker 3>and then you have to go silent. If you do that,

0:42:20.400 --> 0:42:22.120
<v Speaker 3>I will let you have the rest of this ten

0:42:22.200 --> 0:42:25.320
<v Speaker 3>day vacation. No one will interrupt, which has never happened

0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:28.040
<v Speaker 3>in my entire career, and you will have the best

0:42:28.040 --> 0:42:29.239
<v Speaker 3>time in your life, and it will show you what

0:42:29.280 --> 0:42:31.440
<v Speaker 3>your life could be on the other side. But on

0:42:31.480 --> 0:42:33.880
<v Speaker 3>the final day, all hell is going to break loose

0:42:34.160 --> 0:42:36.760
<v Speaker 3>and everyone's gonna say they all left you, and people

0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:39.200
<v Speaker 3>are going to completely misunderstand this whole thing. So I

0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:41.680
<v Speaker 3>wake up it's vivid, and I tell my best friend

0:42:41.760 --> 0:42:42.839
<v Speaker 3>Jay Williams, who's on the.

0:42:42.760 --> 0:42:44.399
<v Speaker 2>Trip, And Jay's like, dude, no one cares.

0:42:44.440 --> 0:42:46.040
<v Speaker 3>Your manager's not gonna happen like that, And I was like,

0:42:46.040 --> 0:42:49.320
<v Speaker 3>I'm telling you, so we the rest of the trip

0:42:49.360 --> 0:42:53.760
<v Speaker 3>is amazing. No one bothers. I make the calls that day. Yeah,

0:42:53.960 --> 0:42:56.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm no longer managing. It's done. All the clients know.

0:42:57.840 --> 0:42:59.520
<v Speaker 3>I've like had the phone. I spend a whole day

0:42:59.520 --> 0:43:03.840
<v Speaker 3>making call. The trip is incredible, best trip of my life,

0:43:04.120 --> 0:43:07.080
<v Speaker 3>loved by my friends, loving on my friends. It was

0:43:07.120 --> 0:43:09.120
<v Speaker 3>a beautiful, beautiful trip. It's one of the greatest trips

0:43:09.200 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 3>all of us joke.

0:43:09.960 --> 0:43:10.680
<v Speaker 2>Around, will ever have.

0:43:10.960 --> 0:43:13.880
<v Speaker 3>Okay, the final day, we're flying home and my phone

0:43:13.880 --> 0:43:18.439
<v Speaker 3>just starts to go and literally all hell is breaking loose.

0:43:18.480 --> 0:43:20.920
<v Speaker 3>The press is saying every client's leaving me. People are

0:43:20.920 --> 0:43:23.600
<v Speaker 3>making t shirts over her to La. I was managed

0:43:23.600 --> 0:43:26.719
<v Speaker 3>by Scooter Braun and I left him like it was crazy.

0:43:27.040 --> 0:43:28.640
<v Speaker 2>And the publicist is calling me and being like, we

0:43:28.680 --> 0:43:29.240
<v Speaker 2>gotta respond.

0:43:29.239 --> 0:43:31.480
<v Speaker 3>We got and I said you can't because if I do,

0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:33.520
<v Speaker 3>then I'm gonna get more trouble.

0:43:33.520 --> 0:43:35.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna get slapped. I had this dream and they're like,

0:43:35.120 --> 0:43:36.120
<v Speaker 2>what are you talking about. I'm like, you have to

0:43:36.200 --> 0:43:36.520
<v Speaker 2>let it go.

0:43:36.560 --> 0:43:38.000
<v Speaker 3>It's gonna last for a week or two and then

0:43:38.000 --> 0:43:39.359
<v Speaker 3>it's going to disappear. And they're like, no, we need

0:43:39.400 --> 0:43:39.719
<v Speaker 3>to say something.

0:43:39.719 --> 0:43:40.520
<v Speaker 2>We need to say something.

0:43:40.840 --> 0:43:43.680
<v Speaker 3>And sure enough I stood in the fire. It didn't

0:43:43.719 --> 0:43:45.680
<v Speaker 3>touch me. It all burned down around me. All my

0:43:45.800 --> 0:43:48.280
<v Speaker 3>worst fears of what would happen if I stopped managing

0:43:48.320 --> 0:43:50.879
<v Speaker 3>took place. And then after two weeks and went away

0:43:50.880 --> 0:43:54.040
<v Speaker 3>and it wasn't that bad and the dream was real

0:43:54.320 --> 0:43:56.520
<v Speaker 3>and it sounds crazy and I've actually never told that

0:43:56.560 --> 0:43:59.520
<v Speaker 3>story publicly, but that's why I didn't respond.

0:43:59.560 --> 0:44:00.719
<v Speaker 2>It wasn't any about in India.

0:44:00.719 --> 0:44:03.560
<v Speaker 3>I couldn't write twenty three years for another year because

0:44:03.600 --> 0:44:05.359
<v Speaker 3>we had to finish a lot of the contracts because

0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:08.920
<v Speaker 3>like lots of different reasons, right, but responding, hey, this

0:44:09.000 --> 0:44:12.200
<v Speaker 3>isn't true, I just couldn't because of this dream.

0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:13.839
<v Speaker 2>And then I went and got the tattoo because of it.

0:44:14.520 --> 0:44:17.160
<v Speaker 1>And have you ever listened to a dream before? Or

0:44:17.200 --> 0:44:18.400
<v Speaker 1>this was the first you have?

0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:21.879
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, dreams have guided me in my life a bunch

0:44:21.880 --> 0:44:22.120
<v Speaker 3>of time.

0:44:22.280 --> 0:44:25.440
<v Speaker 2>Really, Yeah, when they're that vivid, yeah, I think I think. Yeah,

0:44:25.480 --> 0:44:26.680
<v Speaker 2>I think they should since you were a.

0:44:27.400 --> 0:44:29.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sometimes there are daydreams sometimes of this, but that

0:44:29.760 --> 0:44:32.680
<v Speaker 3>was really really vivid, and it sucked because it was

0:44:32.719 --> 0:44:35.719
<v Speaker 3>against everything I wanted to do and it was like

0:44:36.160 --> 0:44:38.759
<v Speaker 3>it was hard and it wasn't fun, and it wasn't like, hey,

0:44:38.800 --> 0:44:39.719
<v Speaker 3>we're going to you know, this is going to be

0:44:39.719 --> 0:44:41.520
<v Speaker 3>an easy dream for you. We're asking you to do

0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:43.920
<v Speaker 3>something completely out of your character. You have to let go.

0:44:44.400 --> 0:44:46.279
<v Speaker 3>You're not allowed to manipulate this. You're not allowed to

0:44:46.280 --> 0:44:48.839
<v Speaker 3>try and control this. You have to let go and

0:44:48.920 --> 0:44:54.200
<v Speaker 3>let it burn. And that was really difficult. But the

0:44:54.480 --> 0:44:57.719
<v Speaker 3>crazier it got and the more people talked, the more

0:44:57.760 --> 0:45:01.560
<v Speaker 3>conviction I had that the dream was true. So it

0:45:01.600 --> 0:45:04.080
<v Speaker 3>was like the more people said, and the more ou

0:45:04.160 --> 0:45:06.160
<v Speaker 3>to hand. I mean, they were like Carlie ray Jepson

0:45:06.320 --> 0:45:08.840
<v Speaker 3>left Scooter Brown. I didn't manage Carly in like five years.

0:45:09.360 --> 0:45:10.960
<v Speaker 3>Carly's called me, like, what am I having to do

0:45:11.000 --> 0:45:13.200
<v Speaker 3>with this? I'm like, I don't know, Like like you know,

0:45:13.360 --> 0:45:15.239
<v Speaker 3>Dina Menzel, I'm like, it was starting to get crazy

0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:20.480
<v Speaker 3>people I hadn't managed recently, and and the crazier got

0:45:20.520 --> 0:45:24.400
<v Speaker 3>the more I was like, God is good and it

0:45:24.480 --> 0:45:25.120
<v Speaker 3>is real.

0:45:24.960 --> 0:45:26.560
<v Speaker 2>And like trust.

0:45:27.719 --> 0:45:31.440
<v Speaker 1>So for the record, your clients did not leave you.

0:45:31.960 --> 0:45:35.280
<v Speaker 1>One did, but the rest didn't. You left your clients.

0:45:35.360 --> 0:45:36.480
<v Speaker 2>No, not that I left my clients.

0:45:36.520 --> 0:45:38.640
<v Speaker 3>We had an honest conversation about really where I had

0:45:38.640 --> 0:45:40.600
<v Speaker 3>been for quite some time, and some were like what

0:45:40.600 --> 0:45:42.279
<v Speaker 3>does this mean? And will you still help? And this

0:45:42.280 --> 0:45:44.959
<v Speaker 3>that and the other. But you know, for the record,

0:45:46.360 --> 0:45:48.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't ever want to disch. I didn't leave anybody.

0:45:48.480 --> 0:45:49.359
<v Speaker 3>We left each other.

0:45:49.400 --> 0:45:49.920
<v Speaker 2>It was time.

0:45:50.160 --> 0:45:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's a wild dream, did you.

0:45:54.760 --> 0:45:56.520
<v Speaker 3>I think. I think the reason is also crazy because

0:45:56.520 --> 0:45:59.040
<v Speaker 3>no one could imagine that like I would want that,

0:46:00.120 --> 0:46:01.759
<v Speaker 3>you know, like no one imagined like when you're in

0:46:01.800 --> 0:46:03.160
<v Speaker 3>that position, that you actually.

0:46:02.840 --> 0:46:04.520
<v Speaker 2>Don't want to do that job anymore.

0:46:04.800 --> 0:46:05.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:46:05.360 --> 0:46:06.840
<v Speaker 2>But you know who wasn't surprised.

0:46:07.520 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 3>Every one of my close friends, Okay, they no one

0:46:10.760 --> 0:46:13.000
<v Speaker 3>checked on me because when they saw it, they've known

0:46:13.040 --> 0:46:14.200
<v Speaker 3>for years how I felt.

0:46:14.800 --> 0:46:18.480
<v Speaker 2>So they understood. But I didn't leave anybody.

0:46:18.680 --> 0:46:20.920
<v Speaker 3>Those are the greatest people to work with in the world,

0:46:21.000 --> 0:46:22.360
<v Speaker 3>like the most talented people in the world.

0:46:22.400 --> 0:46:23.280
<v Speaker 2>It was just time.

0:46:24.040 --> 0:46:25.800
<v Speaker 1>Did you ever feel betrayed by a client?

0:46:26.520 --> 0:46:29.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I'm sure they felt betrayed by me. You know,

0:46:29.239 --> 0:46:30.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to.

0:46:30.600 --> 0:46:32.560
<v Speaker 3>I think it's easy to point fingers at someone else

0:46:32.560 --> 0:46:33.680
<v Speaker 3>and say you did me dirty.

0:46:33.800 --> 0:46:35.480
<v Speaker 2>You know. People hurt people hurt people.

0:46:35.760 --> 0:46:37.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, and I'm sure like when people have

0:46:37.920 --> 0:46:40.799
<v Speaker 3>heard things over the years and misconstrued or someone gets

0:46:40.840 --> 0:46:43.680
<v Speaker 3>in their ear, you know, they can feel, oh, he

0:46:43.760 --> 0:46:46.279
<v Speaker 3>did this or he did that shit the internet think

0:46:46.360 --> 0:46:48.319
<v Speaker 3>so I'm like all powerful, like and I can do

0:46:48.360 --> 0:46:49.880
<v Speaker 3>all kinds of things I have nothing to do with.

0:46:50.160 --> 0:46:51.160
<v Speaker 2>But I think.

0:46:52.880 --> 0:46:55.360
<v Speaker 3>I try to have empathy in every situation because I

0:46:55.440 --> 0:46:58.680
<v Speaker 3>felt betrayed before. I try to imagine if they're acting

0:46:58.719 --> 0:47:02.080
<v Speaker 3>that way, probably they're feeling the same way somehow, And

0:47:02.120 --> 0:47:05.080
<v Speaker 3>I think it's just easier to not hold onto that energy.

0:47:06.320 --> 0:47:08.920
<v Speaker 1>You manage Kanye West for instant.

0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:12.600
<v Speaker 2>And a little while. How long it was like two

0:47:12.600 --> 0:47:13.080
<v Speaker 2>three years.

0:47:13.960 --> 0:47:18.400
<v Speaker 1>So your grandparents are Holocaust survivors. You stand up for

0:47:18.480 --> 0:47:21.840
<v Speaker 1>Jewish people around the world, and Kanye West is now

0:47:22.000 --> 0:47:26.160
<v Speaker 1>an anti Semite and self proclaimed Nazi. I'm curious what

0:47:26.200 --> 0:47:29.360
<v Speaker 1>it feels like to have tried to help guide someone

0:47:29.360 --> 0:47:31.680
<v Speaker 1>who now stands in opposition of so many of your

0:47:31.719 --> 0:47:32.600
<v Speaker 1>deepest values.

0:47:33.560 --> 0:47:35.880
<v Speaker 3>You know, the last time he spoke about me, he

0:47:35.920 --> 0:47:38.400
<v Speaker 3>actually like he did a Charlottage interview and there's like

0:47:38.440 --> 0:47:42.560
<v Speaker 3>a clip of it, and he talked about the relationship

0:47:42.560 --> 0:47:44.360
<v Speaker 3>we had where I helped him, and he actually says, like,

0:47:44.400 --> 0:47:46.760
<v Speaker 3>this Jewish man helped me because two of my brothers

0:47:46.800 --> 0:47:50.400
<v Speaker 3>are black, and he was talking about my relationship. My

0:47:50.440 --> 0:47:52.719
<v Speaker 3>brothers allowed me to have an understanding on how to

0:47:52.719 --> 0:47:54.680
<v Speaker 3>talk to a black man because I have family that's black,

0:47:55.160 --> 0:47:56.600
<v Speaker 3>and he was saying how I helped.

0:47:56.440 --> 0:47:57.160
<v Speaker 2>Him over the years.

0:47:57.560 --> 0:48:01.120
<v Speaker 3>And then three four years later, the narrative that you're

0:48:01.160 --> 0:48:06.760
<v Speaker 3>discussing started. I don't know him anymore, and I think

0:48:07.440 --> 0:48:11.880
<v Speaker 3>the person that I knew wasn't someone who says those things.

0:48:12.719 --> 0:48:15.880
<v Speaker 3>And I think sometimes the hardest thing to do with

0:48:15.960 --> 0:48:18.440
<v Speaker 3>someone you care about is more in them while they're

0:48:18.480 --> 0:48:22.840
<v Speaker 3>still here. And for me, the person that I knew

0:48:22.880 --> 0:48:25.719
<v Speaker 3>is not the person that I'm seeing, So I don't

0:48:25.719 --> 0:48:26.960
<v Speaker 3>have a relationship anymore.

0:48:27.680 --> 0:48:28.960
<v Speaker 2>And I'd rather.

0:48:28.760 --> 0:48:30.880
<v Speaker 3>Stand proudly and who I am and who my people

0:48:30.920 --> 0:48:35.239
<v Speaker 3>are and be gracious and kind to all people, then

0:48:35.320 --> 0:48:36.040
<v Speaker 3>be a part of that.

0:48:36.800 --> 0:48:39.160
<v Speaker 2>So I don't have any ill will.

0:48:39.239 --> 0:48:41.759
<v Speaker 3>I have no interest in turning into the monster that

0:48:41.800 --> 0:48:44.640
<v Speaker 3>people you know with anti Semitism or hate want you

0:48:44.719 --> 0:48:49.359
<v Speaker 3>to be. I'd rather be someone who is focused on

0:48:49.400 --> 0:48:53.160
<v Speaker 3>positivity and being damn proud of who I am and

0:48:53.200 --> 0:48:56.920
<v Speaker 3>who my grandparents were and who my people are, and

0:48:56.960 --> 0:48:59.440
<v Speaker 3>not fall for this narrative that I'm seeing all two

0:48:59.440 --> 0:49:03.759
<v Speaker 3>prevalence October seventh, And that's why I'm not scared or

0:49:04.320 --> 0:49:07.440
<v Speaker 3>interested in talking about anti Semitism as much as I

0:49:07.480 --> 0:49:10.600
<v Speaker 3>am in talking about what a beautiful, kind and loving

0:49:10.640 --> 0:49:13.680
<v Speaker 3>people we are and it is to be a Jewish

0:49:13.719 --> 0:49:17.680
<v Speaker 3>person of Jewish faith and Jewish culture, and I'd rather

0:49:18.320 --> 0:49:21.400
<v Speaker 3>I tell someone instead of like, don't say that about me.

0:49:21.440 --> 0:49:23.520
<v Speaker 2>I'd rather say, come to Shabbat and see who we are.

0:49:24.239 --> 0:49:28.440
<v Speaker 1>So you know, I think he can be reached, though.

0:49:29.960 --> 0:49:32.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't know and I don't know him, and I

0:49:32.200 --> 0:49:34.680
<v Speaker 3>think right now I have three beautiful kids that need

0:49:34.719 --> 0:49:36.600
<v Speaker 3>a dad to focus on them and make sure they're

0:49:36.640 --> 0:49:38.160
<v Speaker 3>prepared and strong in this world, and.

0:49:38.040 --> 0:49:39.319
<v Speaker 2>That's going to be my focus.

0:49:39.840 --> 0:49:42.080
<v Speaker 1>Does any part of you ever wish that you didn't

0:49:42.160 --> 0:49:43.560
<v Speaker 1>manage any of these people?

0:49:44.040 --> 0:49:47.640
<v Speaker 3>No, I love I love my life, and I think

0:49:47.840 --> 0:49:50.080
<v Speaker 3>my life has been like almost like this weird Forest

0:49:50.160 --> 0:49:51.280
<v Speaker 3>Gump journey.

0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:54.160
<v Speaker 2>Of like how the hell did I get in that situation?

0:49:54.880 --> 0:49:57.839
<v Speaker 3>I mean I got to like travel the world with Justin,

0:49:57.920 --> 0:50:01.440
<v Speaker 3>with Arianna, but also with like side doing Gangnam Style

0:50:01.600 --> 0:50:04.120
<v Speaker 3>and like Harley Racing called me maybe, and the wanted

0:50:04.160 --> 0:50:06.319
<v Speaker 3>doing Glad you came and seeing Tory Kelly sing at

0:50:06.320 --> 0:50:10.319
<v Speaker 3>a coffee shop, to winning Grammys to you know, Dan

0:50:10.400 --> 0:50:13.560
<v Speaker 3>and Shay like and then all the different things, so

0:50:13.600 --> 0:50:16.759
<v Speaker 3>many different wild stories and artists and tech company like

0:50:16.800 --> 0:50:19.640
<v Speaker 3>it's just all these weird situations I found myself in

0:50:19.680 --> 0:50:22.200
<v Speaker 3>over the years and still find myself in and I

0:50:22.239 --> 0:50:23.759
<v Speaker 3>always say, like, when you say, do you not.

0:50:23.760 --> 0:50:24.440
<v Speaker 2>Wish you manage him?

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:27.520
<v Speaker 3>I always think of do you remember Carl Lewis, He

0:50:27.560 --> 0:50:29.400
<v Speaker 3>won the gold medal for the US. He was like

0:50:29.440 --> 0:50:31.440
<v Speaker 3>the fastest man in the world. And we were kids,

0:50:32.440 --> 0:50:34.440
<v Speaker 3>me and my brother Adam. We were in an airport

0:50:34.480 --> 0:50:38.279
<v Speaker 3>when we were probably like seven and five or like

0:50:38.360 --> 0:50:40.960
<v Speaker 3>eight and six, and Carl Lewis had just won the

0:50:40.960 --> 0:50:43.359
<v Speaker 3>gold medal. He was in the airport and my dad

0:50:43.400 --> 0:50:46.400
<v Speaker 3>pointed it out and me and my brother kept walking

0:50:46.560 --> 0:50:49.279
<v Speaker 3>and then running past him and then letting him pass us.

0:50:49.719 --> 0:50:51.279
<v Speaker 2>And then we'd run past him and we were like,

0:50:51.280 --> 0:50:52.960
<v Speaker 2>we're the fastest guy in the world.

0:50:53.160 --> 0:50:54.600
<v Speaker 3>And there was one time where he kind of like

0:50:54.640 --> 0:50:56.400
<v Speaker 3>looked at us and he made a move to like sprint,

0:50:56.400 --> 0:50:59.960
<v Speaker 3>and we like all giggled. I'm forty three years old.

0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:04.399
<v Speaker 3>I have never forgot that moment. And I said to Chris,

0:51:04.440 --> 0:51:07.080
<v Speaker 3>Paul was an amazing point guard and an amazing friend.

0:51:07.840 --> 0:51:09.520
<v Speaker 3>I said to him one time, I said, you know what, Chris,

0:51:09.520 --> 0:51:11.600
<v Speaker 3>the coolest part about our lives now is that our

0:51:11.680 --> 0:51:16.080
<v Speaker 3>every day is someone else's forever, you know, and that

0:51:16.239 --> 0:51:18.400
<v Speaker 3>things that happened to us on a daily basis. Is

0:51:18.440 --> 0:51:21.319
<v Speaker 3>that story that little kid remembered at forty three years old,

0:51:21.920 --> 0:51:24.320
<v Speaker 3>And as long as I don't take that for granted,

0:51:24.520 --> 0:51:27.319
<v Speaker 3>how cool is that? And like that job afforded me

0:51:27.360 --> 0:51:29.399
<v Speaker 3>all those memories, so I love it.

0:51:30.000 --> 0:51:32.160
<v Speaker 1>If you had to throw like one fish back into

0:51:32.160 --> 0:51:33.120
<v Speaker 1>the ocean, though.

0:51:33.520 --> 0:51:36.440
<v Speaker 3>One fish back into the ocean, this is gonna be fun.

0:51:36.480 --> 0:51:38.520
<v Speaker 3>If I had to throw one fish back into the ocean,

0:51:39.160 --> 0:51:39.920
<v Speaker 3>you're saying.

0:51:39.680 --> 0:51:42.120
<v Speaker 1>Like one client, Yeah, like one client.

0:51:43.320 --> 0:51:45.120
<v Speaker 3>Honestly, I have never even thought of this, but actually,

0:51:45.160 --> 0:51:48.080
<v Speaker 3>like every experience was worth it.

0:51:48.760 --> 0:51:50.640
<v Speaker 1>So if people didn't know you from your work with

0:51:50.680 --> 0:51:53.480
<v Speaker 1>all these artists like Bieber and Ariana, they definitely know

0:51:53.520 --> 0:51:58.480
<v Speaker 1>you from the Taylor Swift saga started back in twenty nineteen,

0:51:58.800 --> 0:52:02.360
<v Speaker 1>and I think we quotes here and there around the internet,

0:52:02.400 --> 0:52:04.439
<v Speaker 1>but we never really get the full story from you

0:52:05.040 --> 0:52:06.760
<v Speaker 1>from your perspective what happened.

0:52:07.840 --> 0:52:09.879
<v Speaker 2>Look for me, it was six years ago.

0:52:10.680 --> 0:52:14.200
<v Speaker 3>I think, like going backwards and like revisiting this is

0:52:14.200 --> 0:52:14.960
<v Speaker 3>a waste of time.

0:52:15.719 --> 0:52:16.440
<v Speaker 2>I think.

0:52:18.600 --> 0:52:24.080
<v Speaker 3>That I just assume you know, since then there have

0:52:24.080 --> 0:52:26.200
<v Speaker 3>been more deep dives, but I think people cared less

0:52:26.200 --> 0:52:27.600
<v Speaker 3>and less than the years, So I think a lot

0:52:27.640 --> 0:52:29.840
<v Speaker 3>of the facts are out there now if people actually

0:52:29.920 --> 0:52:32.200
<v Speaker 3>choose to go look at them. But I always choose

0:52:32.200 --> 0:52:34.600
<v Speaker 3>to think like, the only thing I didn't appreciate is

0:52:35.360 --> 0:52:38.680
<v Speaker 3>it was so public without an understanding of actually what

0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:40.799
<v Speaker 3>was going on. But I think once you do that,

0:52:40.840 --> 0:52:43.239
<v Speaker 3>it's hard to put it back in the box. But

0:52:43.320 --> 0:52:46.640
<v Speaker 3>I also think that, you know, like when Taylor says

0:52:46.680 --> 0:52:49.040
<v Speaker 3>that she wasn't offered the Masters, the reason I was

0:52:49.120 --> 0:52:51.800
<v Speaker 3>under NBA was because we were in negotiations to sell.

0:52:51.680 --> 0:52:52.440
<v Speaker 2>It back to her.

0:52:52.840 --> 0:52:55.120
<v Speaker 3>I just choose to believe her that maybe they didn't

0:52:55.120 --> 0:52:58.399
<v Speaker 3>tell her her team, like maybe her team didn't tell

0:52:58.400 --> 0:53:01.520
<v Speaker 3>her didn't understand the negotiation. But the thing, you know,

0:53:01.880 --> 0:53:04.480
<v Speaker 3>for me, the only thing that I really regret is

0:53:04.480 --> 0:53:07.680
<v Speaker 3>that it's easy to have a monster if you never

0:53:07.760 --> 0:53:10.480
<v Speaker 3>meet them. And Taylor and I have only met three

0:53:10.560 --> 0:53:12.799
<v Speaker 3>times in our life, and I think at that point

0:53:12.840 --> 0:53:14.920
<v Speaker 3>we hadn't seen each other in two three years. I

0:53:15.000 --> 0:53:17.440
<v Speaker 3>was managing people she wasn't a fan of, and she

0:53:17.520 --> 0:53:19.320
<v Speaker 3>probably saw my name come up and was like, I

0:53:19.360 --> 0:53:22.440
<v Speaker 3>don't like those people, so I don't like him. But

0:53:23.120 --> 0:53:24.640
<v Speaker 3>you know, we never had an opportunity to sit in

0:53:24.640 --> 0:53:26.360
<v Speaker 3>front of each other and actually have a conversation to

0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:29.200
<v Speaker 3>this day, and I think that you know, most of

0:53:29.239 --> 0:53:31.200
<v Speaker 3>the time, when people actually sit in front of each other,

0:53:31.239 --> 0:53:33.879
<v Speaker 3>the monster isn't real, that there's an understanding, that there's

0:53:33.880 --> 0:53:36.200
<v Speaker 3>a healing, you know that you know people kind of

0:53:36.239 --> 0:53:39.000
<v Speaker 3>a conversation. And because when I was asking for that,

0:53:39.200 --> 0:53:43.440
<v Speaker 3>it just never happened. It really awry, and I chose

0:53:43.480 --> 0:53:45.799
<v Speaker 3>to not say much. But the cool part is if

0:53:45.800 --> 0:53:47.960
<v Speaker 3>you actually pay attention, everybody in the end won.

0:53:48.920 --> 0:53:49.520
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean?

0:53:50.080 --> 0:53:52.960
<v Speaker 3>Well, yes, she could have bought them back and that

0:53:53.000 --> 0:53:54.879
<v Speaker 3>could have been part of the victory, but I choose

0:53:54.920 --> 0:53:56.239
<v Speaker 3>to think of a team. Maybe he didn't tell her,

0:53:56.840 --> 0:54:00.120
<v Speaker 3>but like we ended up when they turned it down,

0:54:00.280 --> 0:54:02.360
<v Speaker 3>we ended up selling it to someone else because she

0:54:02.400 --> 0:54:03.319
<v Speaker 3>didn't want us to have it.

0:54:03.880 --> 0:54:04.960
<v Speaker 2>We did very well in that.

0:54:04.960 --> 0:54:07.479
<v Speaker 3>Sale because we bought it at at a really great price,

0:54:07.480 --> 0:54:11.600
<v Speaker 3>and the value Masters went up. And the thesis when

0:54:11.640 --> 0:54:13.719
<v Speaker 3>I sold it was she had announced she was going

0:54:13.800 --> 0:54:18.480
<v Speaker 3>to do rerecords and I, if you understand music, the

0:54:18.600 --> 0:54:21.960
<v Speaker 3>value went up for Masters because Spotify and streamers created

0:54:22.000 --> 0:54:25.799
<v Speaker 3>a longer decay than buying just CDs, so like people

0:54:25.800 --> 0:54:27.560
<v Speaker 3>would listen to them more so there's a longer decay,

0:54:27.560 --> 0:54:31.440
<v Speaker 3>but it's still decaying. But when she records, all ships

0:54:31.520 --> 0:54:33.439
<v Speaker 3>rise in a world of streaming, so people were going

0:54:33.440 --> 0:54:34.520
<v Speaker 3>on and they were a being them.

0:54:34.560 --> 0:54:36.320
<v Speaker 2>They were listening to see how much they sounded like.

0:54:36.400 --> 0:54:40.720
<v Speaker 3>So she did incredibly well and basically had the biggest

0:54:40.719 --> 0:54:42.880
<v Speaker 3>moment of her career, reinvigorating her career.

0:54:42.680 --> 0:54:44.520
<v Speaker 2>With each one. It was brilliant on her part.

0:54:44.840 --> 0:54:47.759
<v Speaker 3>But also each time she released one, you saw a

0:54:47.800 --> 0:54:50.200
<v Speaker 3>spike in the original catalog, and that's how we were

0:54:50.280 --> 0:54:52.319
<v Speaker 3>able to tell, Okay, if she doesn't want them, this

0:54:52.440 --> 0:54:55.000
<v Speaker 3>is still a really great asset. And we actually created

0:54:55.040 --> 0:54:56.319
<v Speaker 3>an e n out. We did every one of our

0:54:56.320 --> 0:54:59.160
<v Speaker 3>earn outs and we were right. So funny enough everyone

0:54:59.239 --> 0:55:02.640
<v Speaker 3>involved in the Sofa from a business standpoint one, she's

0:55:02.680 --> 0:55:04.880
<v Speaker 3>the biggest she's ever been, biggest artist of all time.

0:55:05.560 --> 0:55:07.640
<v Speaker 2>We did really well with the asset. The people who

0:55:07.680 --> 0:55:10.240
<v Speaker 2>bought the asset did really well because of those spikes.

0:55:11.320 --> 0:55:14.000
<v Speaker 3>The only thing that I'm sad about is that's a

0:55:14.000 --> 0:55:17.440
<v Speaker 3>great example where everybody all ships can rise and there

0:55:17.480 --> 0:55:19.759
<v Speaker 3>doesn't need to be an enemy. There doesn't need to

0:55:19.760 --> 0:55:22.200
<v Speaker 3>be and and in that if her team, you know,

0:55:22.400 --> 0:55:24.799
<v Speaker 3>she could have bought them back, but like, even with

0:55:24.880 --> 0:55:28.799
<v Speaker 3>not doing that right, I wish kids and people out

0:55:28.800 --> 0:55:32.520
<v Speaker 3>there understood that, like there are scenarios in life where

0:55:32.520 --> 0:55:35.319
<v Speaker 3>there doesn't need to be an oppressor and oppressed. There

0:55:35.360 --> 0:55:38.799
<v Speaker 3>are scenarios in life where it's a misunderstanding yet everyone

0:55:39.120 --> 0:55:42.640
<v Speaker 3>can succeed. And the whole reason I did that deal

0:55:43.120 --> 0:55:44.840
<v Speaker 3>was not only because I believed in Big Machine and

0:55:44.920 --> 0:55:48.960
<v Speaker 3>Scott and Thomas Rhett and you know Florida, George I

0:55:49.000 --> 0:55:51.080
<v Speaker 3>and all the amazing acts they had on Big Machine.

0:55:51.600 --> 0:55:55.040
<v Speaker 3>But you don't make a deal at that level unless

0:55:55.080 --> 0:55:58.520
<v Speaker 3>you believe in her. Yeah, you know, so I believed

0:55:58.719 --> 0:56:01.400
<v Speaker 3>that she was going to become exactly who she's remained

0:56:01.400 --> 0:56:04.759
<v Speaker 3>to be. And you know, the narrative since then, you

0:56:04.800 --> 0:56:06.520
<v Speaker 3>know me even talking about this, now there's gonna be

0:56:06.560 --> 0:56:08.640
<v Speaker 3>Hello Swifties. They're gonna be yelling and screaming and you

0:56:08.680 --> 0:56:10.480
<v Speaker 3>know this, that and the other. You can't say anything right,

0:56:10.520 --> 0:56:13.560
<v Speaker 3>and it is what it is. And you know my

0:56:13.719 --> 0:56:16.799
<v Speaker 3>response to that is they made the horrible, you know,

0:56:17.960 --> 0:56:21.839
<v Speaker 3>miscalculation that I care. You know, My thing is that

0:56:21.880 --> 0:56:25.440
<v Speaker 3>i'd you know, I just I don't know those people

0:56:25.440 --> 0:56:26.840
<v Speaker 3>out there, and if I met them in person and

0:56:26.880 --> 0:56:27.680
<v Speaker 3>they needed my help.

0:56:27.760 --> 0:56:29.000
<v Speaker 2>As a stranger, I would help.

0:56:28.840 --> 0:56:32.279
<v Speaker 3>Them, and I've seen that on a human level, and

0:56:32.320 --> 0:56:34.120
<v Speaker 3>I think people forget that when you have a fan

0:56:34.160 --> 0:56:36.360
<v Speaker 3>base that big. If ten thousand people are yelling at you,

0:56:36.400 --> 0:56:38.239
<v Speaker 3>it feels like the world is ending. But that's less

0:56:38.239 --> 0:56:40.200
<v Speaker 3>than one percent of a fan base that big. I

0:56:40.280 --> 0:56:43.200
<v Speaker 3>think most people are dealing with their own problems. I

0:56:43.200 --> 0:56:45.360
<v Speaker 3>think most people are dealing with their own insecurities the

0:56:45.360 --> 0:56:47.239
<v Speaker 3>same way I am, the same way you know, every

0:56:47.320 --> 0:56:50.120
<v Speaker 3>artist and every human being is. And I think that

0:56:50.360 --> 0:56:53.520
<v Speaker 3>it's just a more productive use of your time to

0:56:53.560 --> 0:56:57.160
<v Speaker 3>not get stuck in the craziness of celebrity fodder and

0:56:57.200 --> 0:56:58.760
<v Speaker 3>focus more on being kind to people.

0:56:59.800 --> 0:57:03.520
<v Speaker 1>Interesting to hear that everybody won Like netnet, you made money,

0:57:03.680 --> 0:57:06.799
<v Speaker 1>she made money. The thing that she told Time that

0:57:06.840 --> 0:57:09.160
<v Speaker 1>I am curious about is she said, with the scooter thing,

0:57:09.200 --> 0:57:11.760
<v Speaker 1>my masters were being sold to someone who actively wanted

0:57:11.800 --> 0:57:14.880
<v Speaker 1>them for nefarious reasons. In my opinion, what do you

0:57:14.920 --> 0:57:16.000
<v Speaker 1>think she's referring to.

0:57:16.720 --> 0:57:19.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't have any nefarious reasons. You don't.

0:57:20.360 --> 0:57:22.160
<v Speaker 2>That was a major risk for me at the time

0:57:22.160 --> 0:57:23.000
<v Speaker 2>to buy that company.

0:57:23.720 --> 0:57:26.600
<v Speaker 3>I couldn't afford to do it for nefarious reasons to go, Like,

0:57:26.760 --> 0:57:29.360
<v Speaker 3>just from a financial standpoint, that doesn't.

0:57:29.080 --> 0:57:29.880
<v Speaker 2>Make any sense.

0:57:30.720 --> 0:57:34.480
<v Speaker 3>I needed her to be successful for me to take

0:57:34.520 --> 0:57:38.920
<v Speaker 3>that risk. There's nothing nefarious about it, there's nothing. I

0:57:39.600 --> 0:57:42.120
<v Speaker 3>don't know what she was told, but the monster if

0:57:42.160 --> 0:57:43.760
<v Speaker 3>she ever wanted to sit in front of me, the

0:57:43.800 --> 0:57:45.400
<v Speaker 3>monster doesn't exist, and she'd.

0:57:45.160 --> 0:57:46.120
<v Speaker 2>Be met with kindness.

0:57:46.520 --> 0:57:49.360
<v Speaker 3>I just wish that it didn't take such a toll

0:57:49.400 --> 0:57:51.960
<v Speaker 3>on my family, with all the people that were activated

0:57:52.000 --> 0:57:54.120
<v Speaker 3>by that stuff, because there were.

0:57:54.400 --> 0:57:56.160
<v Speaker 2>It was a very tough time for us.

0:57:56.440 --> 0:57:58.280
<v Speaker 3>Because there's a lot of people out there that don't

0:57:58.360 --> 0:58:00.280
<v Speaker 3>understand and they hear this stuff and they take it

0:58:00.320 --> 0:58:03.640
<v Speaker 3>to a level that's really not okay, and I think

0:58:03.680 --> 0:58:07.520
<v Speaker 3>that's dangerous. You said earlier that she helps pay for

0:58:07.560 --> 0:58:08.600
<v Speaker 3>people's college tuition.

0:58:09.040 --> 0:58:10.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, good on her.

0:58:11.160 --> 0:58:13.960
<v Speaker 3>I'd rather talk about her doing that than talk about

0:58:14.040 --> 0:58:15.600
<v Speaker 3>her nefarious.

0:58:15.040 --> 0:58:15.680
<v Speaker 2>Reasons with me.

0:58:16.440 --> 0:58:18.560
<v Speaker 1>You think there's a difference between what actually happened and

0:58:18.600 --> 0:58:19.560
<v Speaker 1>what people think happened.

0:58:19.600 --> 0:58:20.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, of course.

0:58:21.040 --> 0:58:23.120
<v Speaker 3>So that's ninety nine percent of the things that people

0:58:23.160 --> 0:58:25.360
<v Speaker 3>read on the internet. But at the same time, that's

0:58:25.400 --> 0:58:29.440
<v Speaker 3>the whole lesson of self work. You can't define yourself

0:58:29.480 --> 0:58:32.080
<v Speaker 3>by what everyone else thinks. Especially people that don't know you.

0:58:33.200 --> 0:58:36.200
<v Speaker 3>That's the gift of being in the public eye, because

0:58:36.840 --> 0:58:39.040
<v Speaker 3>when you're not in the public eye, you can maybe

0:58:39.160 --> 0:58:41.320
<v Speaker 3>hide it a little bit more, But when you're in

0:58:41.320 --> 0:58:43.720
<v Speaker 3>the public eye, it's so much easier to be misunderstood,

0:58:44.200 --> 0:58:47.160
<v Speaker 3>and you better go deep inside yourself to figure that

0:58:47.200 --> 0:58:50.040
<v Speaker 3>part out. But you're talking about someone who doesn't know me,

0:58:50.160 --> 0:58:52.040
<v Speaker 3>and I don't know them, so why would I wish

0:58:52.040 --> 0:58:52.480
<v Speaker 3>them ill?

0:58:53.600 --> 0:58:56.960
<v Speaker 1>You helped make so many other people famous. What surprised

0:58:57.000 --> 0:58:59.680
<v Speaker 1>you the most when your name was in the headlines

0:59:00.000 --> 0:59:01.800
<v Speaker 1>surprised you about how you reacted.

0:59:02.880 --> 0:59:05.160
<v Speaker 3>It was the first time that I had ever had

0:59:05.200 --> 0:59:10.920
<v Speaker 3>any negative press. What surprised me is how overnight everything

0:59:11.000 --> 0:59:14.840
<v Speaker 3>I had done before didn't matter. What surprised me is

0:59:14.840 --> 0:59:18.280
<v Speaker 3>how before that I was known for helping people and

0:59:18.280 --> 0:59:23.160
<v Speaker 3>philanthropy and success and all these different things. And what

0:59:23.320 --> 0:59:26.960
<v Speaker 3>surprised me was like, the next day, all of that

0:59:27.040 --> 0:59:29.320
<v Speaker 3>was out the window. You were defined by this one moment.

0:59:29.360 --> 0:59:33.320
<v Speaker 3>That's what it felt like, and what a gift, best

0:59:33.360 --> 0:59:37.240
<v Speaker 3>gift ever, because that was when I started the lesson

0:59:37.280 --> 0:59:41.919
<v Speaker 3>of learning that all the praise that I thrived on before.

0:59:42.520 --> 0:59:43.280
<v Speaker 2>Wasn't real either.

0:59:43.840 --> 0:59:46.120
<v Speaker 3>That's why I told you earlier, the praise wasn't deserved

0:59:46.160 --> 0:59:48.840
<v Speaker 3>and the hate wasn't deserved because none of these people

0:59:48.880 --> 0:59:50.160
<v Speaker 3>knew me, and at that point in my life, I

0:59:50.200 --> 0:59:54.200
<v Speaker 3>really didn't know myself. So the hate forced me between

0:59:54.240 --> 0:59:57.520
<v Speaker 3>that and losing my marriage, which had completely nothing to

0:59:57.520 --> 1:00:00.640
<v Speaker 3>do with that, something completely different, and there were rumors

1:00:00.640 --> 1:00:04.240
<v Speaker 3>about that, but like that was just all of that

1:00:04.320 --> 1:00:06.640
<v Speaker 3>led me to wanting to go to a deeper place.

1:00:06.640 --> 1:00:08.400
<v Speaker 3>And it's the reason I'm doing a podcast with you. Like,

1:00:08.400 --> 1:00:11.440
<v Speaker 3>I'm almost annoyed that we're talking about this. I think

1:00:11.480 --> 1:00:13.120
<v Speaker 3>you can understand. I don't want to talk about it.

1:00:13.160 --> 1:00:14.360
<v Speaker 3>I understand you're doing your job.

1:00:14.440 --> 1:00:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I do have two more.

1:00:16.040 --> 1:00:16.680
<v Speaker 2>We'll see.

1:00:17.080 --> 1:00:19.840
<v Speaker 3>But what I can tell you, like as we joke

1:00:19.880 --> 1:00:22.480
<v Speaker 3>about it, what I really hope comes out of this

1:00:22.640 --> 1:00:26.440
<v Speaker 3>is that someone goes damn, like I'm gonna forget all

1:00:26.480 --> 1:00:29.080
<v Speaker 3>that noise and maybe look in word. You know, That's

1:00:29.120 --> 1:00:31.680
<v Speaker 3>what I really hope, I sik, somebody realizes that like

1:00:32.080 --> 1:00:34.520
<v Speaker 3>everything you need is and self love. And I know

1:00:34.560 --> 1:00:37.640
<v Speaker 3>that sounds cheesy and cliche, but it is so true.

1:00:39.080 --> 1:00:40.360
<v Speaker 2>Now she's about to take me with two more.

1:00:43.120 --> 1:00:44.480
<v Speaker 1>Have you talked to your kids about it?

1:00:44.960 --> 1:00:46.120
<v Speaker 2>I had to at this point.

1:00:46.480 --> 1:00:48.200
<v Speaker 3>My kids were really young then, but my oldest is

1:00:48.240 --> 1:00:51.480
<v Speaker 3>ten and someone said something very mean to him at school.

1:00:52.040 --> 1:00:53.680
<v Speaker 3>But the beautiful thing is I didn't have to talk

1:00:53.680 --> 1:00:55.440
<v Speaker 3>that much because my kids know who their dad is.

1:00:56.240 --> 1:00:59.120
<v Speaker 1>You mentioned a rumor about your marriage. There's been a

1:00:59.120 --> 1:01:02.919
<v Speaker 1>lot of rumors with Taylor. There's lyrics in vigilante shit.

1:01:03.160 --> 1:01:06.440
<v Speaker 1>I hate cursing, but in vigilante shit she writes and sings.

1:01:07.000 --> 1:01:08.920
<v Speaker 1>She needed cold heart proof, so I gave her some.

1:01:09.080 --> 1:01:11.160
<v Speaker 1>She had the envelope. Where do you think she got

1:01:11.200 --> 1:01:11.640
<v Speaker 1>it from?

1:01:12.080 --> 1:01:13.000
<v Speaker 2>Go ahead, keep going.

1:01:13.160 --> 1:01:15.480
<v Speaker 1>Now she gets the house, gets the kids, gets the pride.

1:01:15.480 --> 1:01:18.640
<v Speaker 1>Picture me thick as thieves with your ex wife? Ex wife?

1:01:19.120 --> 1:01:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Did you ever think these were about you?

1:01:20.880 --> 1:01:23.439
<v Speaker 3>No, because I talk to el every day. My ex

1:01:23.440 --> 1:01:26.480
<v Speaker 3>wife is one of my best friends. So me and

1:01:26.520 --> 1:01:28.720
<v Speaker 3>my ex wife laugh about that stuff. We don't even

1:01:28.760 --> 1:01:31.240
<v Speaker 3>call each other X. That's like my partner, you know.

1:01:31.280 --> 1:01:33.400
<v Speaker 3>That's the mother of my children. That is my family

1:01:33.440 --> 1:01:36.439
<v Speaker 3>for life. I have a tattoo on my finger that's

1:01:36.440 --> 1:01:39.200
<v Speaker 3>the same team after my divorce because she and I

1:01:39.240 --> 1:01:40.720
<v Speaker 3>are same team for life. It's what we say to

1:01:40.720 --> 1:01:43.800
<v Speaker 3>each other. So no, I never thought that was about us.

1:01:44.000 --> 1:01:46.600
<v Speaker 3>She never thought it was about us and everyone else.

1:01:46.680 --> 1:01:48.040
<v Speaker 3>Kind of feeding into the fire.

1:01:48.680 --> 1:01:53.360
<v Speaker 1>Great strategy move, but like, Nah, can we talk about

1:01:53.400 --> 1:01:53.920
<v Speaker 1>your divorce?

1:01:54.360 --> 1:01:56.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Sure, I'll decide if I want to answer.

1:01:57.360 --> 1:02:01.400
<v Speaker 1>So you seem so fueled by success at least in

1:02:01.640 --> 1:02:05.360
<v Speaker 1>your pre Hoffman life. Did you see divorce as a failure.

1:02:05.800 --> 1:02:06.280
<v Speaker 2>At the time.

1:02:06.400 --> 1:02:09.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, No one in my family had ever been divorced.

1:02:09.840 --> 1:02:12.800
<v Speaker 3>And at that time I had built up this foundation

1:02:12.880 --> 1:02:15.560
<v Speaker 3>of Scooter because I didn't think Scott was strong enough.

1:02:15.600 --> 1:02:16.479
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that yet.

1:02:17.080 --> 1:02:20.880
<v Speaker 3>So having the perfect career, the perfect wife, the perfect life,

1:02:20.920 --> 1:02:23.240
<v Speaker 3>the kids, the success, I thought.

1:02:23.040 --> 1:02:24.200
<v Speaker 2>That made me worthy of love.

1:02:24.880 --> 1:02:28.520
<v Speaker 3>And it wasn't until our marriage came apart and I

1:02:28.520 --> 1:02:32.480
<v Speaker 3>couldn't fix it. I felt like a failure because I

1:02:32.520 --> 1:02:35.440
<v Speaker 3>didn't have a foundation. But it was the greatest thing

1:02:35.480 --> 1:02:36.320
<v Speaker 3>that ever happened to me.

1:02:37.120 --> 1:02:39.920
<v Speaker 2>Because the ups.

1:02:39.760 --> 1:02:42.240
<v Speaker 3>And downs of artist's life, the tailor stuff, none of

1:02:42.280 --> 1:02:43.360
<v Speaker 3>that actually affected me.

1:02:44.720 --> 1:02:46.120
<v Speaker 2>Losing my marriage affected me.

1:02:46.920 --> 1:02:49.160
<v Speaker 3>The idea of not being with my kids fifty percent

1:02:49.160 --> 1:02:52.720
<v Speaker 3>of the time deeply affected me so much so that

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<v Speaker 3>October twenty twenty, when I didn't really even understand what

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<v Speaker 3>was going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a suicidal thought at the height of my.

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<v Speaker 3>Career for twenty minutes wow, because my marriage falling apart.

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<v Speaker 2>No one really knew. I knew.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't understand why, and I was like, man if

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<v Speaker 3>I can't be the father to them and you know

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<v Speaker 3>this life, I felt like I didn't want to be there.

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<v Speaker 3>And after that twenty minutes went by, I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>what the hell was that? That was really scary. I

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<v Speaker 3>never want to feel like that ever again. And then

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<v Speaker 3>the next day I actually opened up to a friend

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<v Speaker 3>and he recommended Hoffmann and I went.

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<v Speaker 2>Two weeks later.

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<v Speaker 3>The same day, Arianna was releasing Dangerous Woman. But I

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<v Speaker 3>just decided, you've done it this way for so long

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<v Speaker 3>and look what it got you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, this deep depression. Now you've got to choose

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<v Speaker 2>something else.

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<v Speaker 3>And October twenty sixth I went into the Haffin process

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<v Speaker 3>and started healing and got to this beautiful place where

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<v Speaker 3>here I am six years later. Before, never divorced, no

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<v Speaker 3>one ever said anything negative about me, and the press

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<v Speaker 3>there was, everything online was very beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing negative. Later I'm divorced.

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<v Speaker 3>People talk about me constantly and I couldn't be happier.

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't trade it in a million years, The relationship

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<v Speaker 3>I have with my children, the relationship I have with

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<v Speaker 3>my friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Do I wish you know? Do you wish? Like you know?

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<v Speaker 3>Certain things didn't happen because they were painful, absolutely, but

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<v Speaker 3>they were so necessary.

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<v Speaker 1>That must be weird though, when your insides don't match

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<v Speaker 1>the outside.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know because I didn't know how to be present.

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<v Speaker 2>So I always kept moving because.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought like, that's how other people, that's how I

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<v Speaker 3>deserve love. And when I finally had to slow down

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<v Speaker 3>because I couldn't control it anymore, I broke. I had

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<v Speaker 3>no foundation, and that's when I had to put myself

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<v Speaker 3>back together, and other people helped me. And Hoffin didn't

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<v Speaker 3>fix me, but it started fixing me. And it started

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<v Speaker 3>me on a journey to like study breathwork and study meditation,

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<v Speaker 3>and do therapy and study stoicism and study kabbala and

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<v Speaker 3>study all these different things that I'm still doing every

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<v Speaker 3>single day today. You asked me about like being flawed,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still flawed. I'm still battling every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you battle?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>There's this book Many Lives, Many Masters by Brian Weiss,

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<v Speaker 3>one of my favorite books, and it's this idea of

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<v Speaker 3>past lives, and one of the things.

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<v Speaker 2>He talks about, you're life past life.

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<v Speaker 3>It's more this idea that he says, you're here to learn,

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<v Speaker 3>and usually when you go, it's because there's nothing more.

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<v Speaker 2>For you to learn.

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<v Speaker 3>The reason why I jump out of planes, like learning

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<v Speaker 3>I jump learn how to jump solo for my forty

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<v Speaker 3>second birthday, or like I'll go swim with sharks, it's

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<v Speaker 3>because I know that I'm so screwed up and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>still trying to learn every day that I really don't

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<v Speaker 3>think it's my time to go because that book. So

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<v Speaker 3>I believe I'm flawed like everyone else, because I still

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<v Speaker 3>feel resistance. I still have moments where I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>the ego wants to win, or I'm hurt, or I'm angry,

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<v Speaker 3>or I'm disappointed or I'm like hurt by someone, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm always trying to go towards it because that's where

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<v Speaker 3>the good stuff is. And as long as I keep

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<v Speaker 3>having that resistance and keep having that hurt and keep

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<v Speaker 3>having that struggle, I know I'm still in it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I choose to it.

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<v Speaker 1>When does that trigger come up randomly?

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes it's a friend you know, is celebrating something and

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<v Speaker 3>you see it online and you're like, was there a

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<v Speaker 3>reason I wasn't, Like, like, you know, it's it could

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<v Speaker 3>be on the other side of the country and you

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<v Speaker 3>just feel like left out or something, or your insecurities

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<v Speaker 3>make you think you have to do with something that

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<v Speaker 3>has nothing to do with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm more personal or professional for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Personal, yeah, but it's also like the slightest thing of

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<v Speaker 3>like sometimes it's an old thing that you think you

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<v Speaker 3>were past and someone brings up an old wound and

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<v Speaker 3>you were like, damn, I thought I was past that.

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<v Speaker 2>But okay, I'm not. Let's keep working on this.

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<v Speaker 3>And luckily I talked to a therapist once a week,

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<v Speaker 3>which I never did when I was younger, and she

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<v Speaker 3>keeps me extremely accountable. She calls me on my bullshit.

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<v Speaker 3>She goes, no, you're dealing with that. I know you are,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm really grateful for her hit me with.

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<v Speaker 2>The next time.

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<v Speaker 1>No, there there's really none my I mean personally, I'm curious.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you want to talk about this,

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<v Speaker 1>but like Hive has since bought what is it called

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<v Speaker 1>quality Control Music, so like you've since bought other people's Masters,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's no headlines and no issues, so it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>scare you away from it. Do you feel like there

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<v Speaker 1>is like a legal moral way to do it that

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't work?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure?

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<v Speaker 3>I think on this side of my career, I think

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<v Speaker 3>there's lots of things I realize about the laws of

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<v Speaker 3>the music industry that don't make sense, you know, And

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<v Speaker 3>I won't even talk from a master's point of view.

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<v Speaker 3>I think masters is you get what you negotiate in

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<v Speaker 3>the music business. It's kind of like the Wahwah West,

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<v Speaker 3>and Masters is a way that major labels feel comfortable

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<v Speaker 3>investing in artists because they don't participate in publishing. So

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<v Speaker 3>by owning masters or participating in Masters, it gives them

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<v Speaker 3>a reason to take a big risk and a chance

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<v Speaker 3>on emerging artists and helping you break like that's the

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<v Speaker 3>reward that they're.

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<v Speaker 2>Signing up for.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll give you an example though, on the publishing side

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<v Speaker 3>that I disagree with and I actually wish it would change,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've been a part of the problem in the past. Songwriters,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that they're the most underpaid people in our industry.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that they're for the melodies and the stories

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<v Speaker 3>that we love. They're unseen and they're not rewarded the

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<v Speaker 3>way they should. And I think that one of the

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<v Speaker 3>problems when you're majing a major artist is unless that

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<v Speaker 3>artist has a piece of the publishing, there's no way

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<v Speaker 3>for the artists to protect their rights. So, for example,

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<v Speaker 3>if an artist doesn't own a piece of the publishing,

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<v Speaker 3>you can take the lyrics of their hit song and

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<v Speaker 3>you can sell t shirts without.

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<v Speaker 2>Them with any design you want because you own the publishing.

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<v Speaker 3>But that doesn't protect the integrity of the artist's brand,

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<v Speaker 3>or the design work, or all the thoughtfulness they went

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<v Speaker 3>into creating their merch and protecting everything that they've worked

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<v Speaker 3>hard on. But the only way to protect that artist

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<v Speaker 3>is by demanding a piece of something that is a

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<v Speaker 3>very small revenue stream that those songwriters need. I think

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<v Speaker 3>that there should be a way to protect the performer

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<v Speaker 3>and the rights of the performer while not taking away

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<v Speaker 3>from the revenue stream of the songwriters. And that's something

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<v Speaker 3>that I'd love to see happen and something that I

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<v Speaker 3>realize now in this part of my career that while

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<v Speaker 3>I was protecting my clients, I might not have always

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<v Speaker 3>been doing the right thing by the songwriters because I

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<v Speaker 3>was doing my job. But what I'd like to do

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<v Speaker 3>on this side, if anyone want to advocate, I'd be

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<v Speaker 3>right there with them, saying the laws need to be

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<v Speaker 3>changed where you don't need to cut into someone's revenue

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<v Speaker 3>stream to do the right thing by the performer.

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<v Speaker 1>But even with labels, as much as it is true

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<v Speaker 1>that they're taking all the risk, they're putting all the

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<v Speaker 1>money up up front, they don't have anything without the artists.

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<v Speaker 1>And all these young artists now like Chapel Rone just

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it at the Grammys, they're like starting to

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<v Speaker 1>wave their hands saying this isn't right, like the labels.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how else to say it, but the

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<v Speaker 1>labels like just have them.

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<v Speaker 2>Look.

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<v Speaker 3>I think there's things about it that are wrong, and

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<v Speaker 3>then there's things about it where, you know, how many

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<v Speaker 3>artists who aren't successful are asking the label to keep

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<v Speaker 3>investing millions of dollars in them when it's not worked yet, right,

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<v Speaker 3>you know? So, I think there's always two sides of

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<v Speaker 3>that coin. That sometimes the artist in their individual situation

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<v Speaker 3>is spot on, But then what do you tell the

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<v Speaker 3>other artists where you're saying, well, because they said this,

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<v Speaker 3>I no longer have the revenue to take a chance

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<v Speaker 3>to break your next favorite artist, you know. I think,

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<v Speaker 3>like any business that needs to grow, it needs to change.

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<v Speaker 3>There also needs to be stop fighting against technology and

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<v Speaker 3>understanding technology can bring us new revenue streams that can

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<v Speaker 3>change our business. I think people come really hard at

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<v Speaker 3>Spotify and they're like, oh, they're not paying us correctly,

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<v Speaker 3>But they also forget that if it wasn't for Daniel Leck,

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<v Speaker 3>we wouldn't have the music industry value we have today.

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<v Speaker 3>He saved a dying industry. He took a risk, and

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<v Speaker 3>people are mad that he's done so well. But at

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<v Speaker 3>the same time, if it wasn't for him and streaming

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<v Speaker 3>and what Spotify did, we wouldn't be having in the

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<v Speaker 3>revenue that we have right now. So it's always it's

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<v Speaker 3>easy to kind of point fingers back and forth. I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's better if we find ways to work together

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<v Speaker 3>to create more more prosperity for everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, to your point, with streaming and so many independent labels,

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<v Speaker 1>you artists need big labels anymore?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it really depends on the case.

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<v Speaker 3>I think sometimes a big a big label can use

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<v Speaker 3>its power and its its strategy and boots on the

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<v Speaker 3>ground around the world to actually make a difference for you.

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<v Speaker 3>And sometimes you're able to break through using the internet

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<v Speaker 3>and you can do you know, a distribution deal, And

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I really think it depends on your needs.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, some types of acts don't need a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of money to tour or do things. Other acts need

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<v Speaker 3>a tremendous amount of money to develop the music, videos,

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<v Speaker 3>the strategy, the development every act is different.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, pointing fingers at each other while others make

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<v Speaker 3>money off of all of us is not necessarily the

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<v Speaker 3>most productive thing.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think about the TikTok isation of music?

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<v Speaker 2>Too old? I mean, that's honestly the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>I think when other people are coming on, they're like,

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<v Speaker 3>what is this, and like, I'm getting to that age

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<v Speaker 3>where I'm like, I don't understand the TikTok Like it's

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<v Speaker 3>I'm too old, Like I'm not native to the technology anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>So the same way my dad discovered vinyl, I discovered

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<v Speaker 3>DJ Clu mixtapes. And you know, some kids today is

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<v Speaker 3>discovering on TikTok. The one thing that has remained constant

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<v Speaker 3>is the love of discovery of music. So I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to bad mouth how a kid discovers music today

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<v Speaker 3>because that's their generation.

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<v Speaker 1>But artists are making music for TikTok. Do you remember

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<v Speaker 1>in the Instagram era, everybody thought that Drake would make

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<v Speaker 1>these songs just so we would all have Instagram captions.

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<v Speaker 1>And whether that's true or not, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think all artists make songs for TikTok. I

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<v Speaker 3>think artists, like art, take different mediums and date different

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<v Speaker 3>types of art. So what I mean by that is

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<v Speaker 3>there are some artists who are still making albums, there

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<v Speaker 3>are other artists who are focused on singles, then there

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<v Speaker 3>are artists who are focusing on TikTok. I think people

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<v Speaker 3>make art specifically for the art they want to make,

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<v Speaker 3>and we seem to judge it based on who makes

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<v Speaker 3>the most revenue. That's been the biggest issue for me,

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<v Speaker 3>not just with music.

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<v Speaker 2>Across the board.

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<v Speaker 3>Why are bachelor and bachelorette lists based on network and

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<v Speaker 3>not kindness or you know, not even like if the

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<v Speaker 3>person's a try active anymore. It's just like, seriously, it's

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<v Speaker 3>like how much how rich are they?

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<v Speaker 2>You know? And I think, what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>Bachelor and bachelorette.

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<v Speaker 3>Lists Like when we look at them, like when you

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<v Speaker 3>see the most eligible bachelors in the world, Oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>you know they'll be like showing their net worth.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that we've gotten women's beauty.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like women's It's.

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<v Speaker 2>So to me.

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<v Speaker 3>What's interesting about AI if it really does take away

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of.

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<v Speaker 2>Jobs and does replace a lot of things.

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<v Speaker 3>We've been a generation, the generation before us that's defined

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<v Speaker 3>by what we do.

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<v Speaker 2>The next generation might need to be defined by who

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<v Speaker 2>they are.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting because if you get a lot of people who

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<v Speaker 1>have more time on their hands, there's possibly like an

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<v Speaker 1>artistic renaissance.

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<v Speaker 3>Either artistic renaissance or we're gonna have to deal with

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<v Speaker 3>ourselves and not just be defined with what we do.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Shakespeare says idle hands are the devil's

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<v Speaker 1>play things.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna find out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, at the height of it, how many calls.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope it's an artistic renaissance, like you said, and

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<v Speaker 3>not idle hands.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope so too. I think if AI, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a great track record in America, but if AI

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<v Speaker 1>gets into the right hands.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it seems to be in all our hands, especially

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<v Speaker 3>with all the open source and everything that's happening. But look,

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<v Speaker 3>the world's going to change drastically in the next couple

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<v Speaker 3>of years, and we always seem a way of.

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<v Speaker 2>Figuring it out and going on a new journey. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think that.

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<v Speaker 3>There's going to be a lot of opportunity for experience

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<v Speaker 3>and art and it's going to be an interesting world in.

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<v Speaker 2>The next ten to fifteen years, if not sooner.

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<v Speaker 1>At the height of your managerial career, how many calls

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<v Speaker 1>were you making a day?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it is all day emails, calls all day, like

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<v Speaker 3>more than three hundred.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, probably like over a thousand emails in texta day.

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<v Speaker 1>And were you a zero in box guy?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>How did you do it at nighttime?

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<v Speaker 3>It was funny my assistant with jokereg in like two

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<v Speaker 3>three in the morning. It was just like, this is

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<v Speaker 3>just because I'd be answering everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, a scooter. What's it been like to work this hard?

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<v Speaker 2>I've never been asked that. I don't think I knew

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<v Speaker 2>any other way.

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<v Speaker 3>For a really long time, the more interesting question has

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<v Speaker 3>been what is it like to work different? The last

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<v Speaker 3>couple of years learning how to be present, it's less

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<v Speaker 3>a question of what to feel like to work that hard,

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<v Speaker 3>and how nice it is now to be here. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think I knew how to be here. I think

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<v Speaker 3>I knew how to live in the future. I think

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<v Speaker 3>I knew how to prepare, pare for every single moment.

1:15:50.880 --> 1:15:54.519
<v Speaker 3>I knew how to always be on getting ready, getting ready,

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<v Speaker 3>getting ready, And that made me really good at business.

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<v Speaker 1>But you took a breath when I said that. Tailed

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<v Speaker 1>why because.

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<v Speaker 3>I've learned how to exhale. That's the reason.

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<v Speaker 2>It's when you're working so hard before, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know how to breathe. You don't know how to

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<v Speaker 3>take a moment. You don't know how to not look

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<v Speaker 3>at your phone. You're so afraid of what you're building,

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<v Speaker 3>not working. It's like my grandparents' Holocaust survivors. Like you said,

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<v Speaker 3>it was a lot of Holocaust trauma. Like tomorrow they're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna come and.

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<v Speaker 2>Take it all away. Yeah, And the last couple of years,

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<v Speaker 2>the pain of the last.

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<v Speaker 3>Couple of years forced me to learn how to be

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<v Speaker 3>here and learn how to take a breath. And that

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<v Speaker 3>has been really nice because the closest thing I can

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<v Speaker 3>relate to that is being a kid.

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<v Speaker 2>Is like being a kid.

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<v Speaker 3>Who's riding a bike around his neighborhood, a kid who

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<v Speaker 3>liked the ThunderCats and was silly and had fun and

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have a phone yet. And it was a lot

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<v Speaker 3>more joyous than I was in my adult years. And

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<v Speaker 3>I've got that back then you.

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<v Speaker 1>Had the playfulness though, like I mean, maybe it was

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<v Speaker 1>just on Instagram, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I did.

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<v Speaker 3>But I was afraid of tomorrow. I didn't know how

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<v Speaker 3>to be here today. And so my friends feel like

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<v Speaker 3>you haven't changed where They're like, now you're back. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know how to be vulnerable. I didn't know how

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<v Speaker 3>to like tell that, you know, what was really happening

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<v Speaker 3>with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I was.

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<v Speaker 3>I was protecting all the time, and now I'm a mess,

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<v Speaker 3>just like you. It's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you shed people?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I think that happens naturally. I don't really

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<v Speaker 3>like shedding anybody, Like I'm just not built. They my

1:17:39.200 --> 1:17:41.760
<v Speaker 3>friends actually say it's a problem, but I just think

1:17:41.800 --> 1:17:43.839
<v Speaker 3>you get to a point where you realize it's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Like and I changed in a week, so I actually,

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<v Speaker 3>at the same time shed people, I also know that

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<v Speaker 3>they can change in a week and we could be

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<v Speaker 3>friends all over it again, you know. So I give

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<v Speaker 3>people the benefit it out the same way I'd want them.

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<v Speaker 2>To do for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, I was reading an article you and there

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<v Speaker 1>was a blind quote and they said he's a good

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<v Speaker 1>guy and can be ruthless in business. What's it like

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<v Speaker 1>to hear me say.

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<v Speaker 2>That that's their opinion?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it true?

1:18:13.000 --> 1:18:17.840
<v Speaker 2>I think that in my opinion, everyone who's ever.

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<v Speaker 3>Done a deal with me has made a multiple I've

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<v Speaker 3>never lost money for anyone.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never screwed anybody.

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<v Speaker 3>I take a lot of pride in the fact that,

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<v Speaker 3>especially in his town, there are not many people that

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<v Speaker 3>can say that every investor they had did well, every

1:18:30.240 --> 1:18:31.240
<v Speaker 3>partner we had did well.

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<v Speaker 2>That I'm still doing deals with those partners.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll never apologize for fighting for our worth and some

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<v Speaker 3>people might have found that that be a tough negotiator,

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<v Speaker 3>but I always believe both sides can win, and in

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<v Speaker 3>the end we got there and being great an entrepreneur.

1:18:45.280 --> 1:18:48.479
<v Speaker 3>Jeff Bezos says, you better expect to be misunderstood, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm okay with that. So when I hear it, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't take any offense to it because that might have

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<v Speaker 3>been their experience. But you know what they said, The

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<v Speaker 3>most important thing I thought, I was good guy. So

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<v Speaker 3>that's sweet, that's nice to them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you didn't ignore that part at at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So someone you've done a few deals with said to me,

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<v Speaker 1>Scooters able to determine what people want in a situation

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<v Speaker 1>more than anyone. You wrote on Instagram that you like

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<v Speaker 1>in meetings to ask people what their greed is? What

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<v Speaker 1>do they want? Are you always cognizant of people's desires

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<v Speaker 1>in your interactions with them?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>And it also makes things easier because people misunderstand the

1:19:25.840 --> 1:19:29.680
<v Speaker 3>word greed. They think you know it's a dirty word

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<v Speaker 3>because it's usually the thing that you feel shameful to say.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's usually the thing I need to know to

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<v Speaker 3>make the right deal. Sometimes greed is money. Sometimes greed

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<v Speaker 3>is fame. Sometimes greed is I want to spend more

1:19:42.360 --> 1:19:44.880
<v Speaker 3>time with my kids. Sometimes greed is I want to

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<v Speaker 3>be seen for who I am. Sometimes greed is I

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<v Speaker 3>want to make sure this charity I love makes money.

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<v Speaker 2>You never know what the greed is, but if.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone can just say it and stop hiding it, you

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<v Speaker 3>can build a deal that works for everybody you know.

1:20:00.439 --> 1:20:04.720
<v Speaker 3>And so for me, I try to push people to

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<v Speaker 3>feel comfortable enough to say what they actually want, so.

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<v Speaker 2>We can make a deal that works for everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>And it served you. Yeah, you said, you asked Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>Bezos that what did he say?

1:20:15.240 --> 1:20:18.519
<v Speaker 2>Asked him what what his greed was? I never asked

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<v Speaker 2>him that. I probably should.

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<v Speaker 3>I asked him what he wanted. I didn't ask the

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<v Speaker 3>greed question, but I said, what do you want?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And I here, I was looking at someone who I admired,

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<v Speaker 3>who is misunderstood. You know, someone who has provided more

1:20:32.840 --> 1:20:37.719
<v Speaker 3>jobs for this country than any person alive today. Someone

1:20:37.720 --> 1:20:40.679
<v Speaker 3>who provided more jobs in covid than anybody. Someone who

1:20:40.760 --> 1:20:43.760
<v Speaker 3>changed the minimum wage at the corporate level when the

1:20:43.760 --> 1:20:47.120
<v Speaker 3>federal government wouldn't. He did, and other companies followed and

1:20:47.200 --> 1:20:49.639
<v Speaker 3>changed into fifteen dollars because he said, we can actually

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<v Speaker 3>do this. Someone who's built made trillions of dollars of

1:20:53.760 --> 1:20:56.720
<v Speaker 3>wealth for other people, not just himself, but also as

1:20:56.760 --> 1:20:59.080
<v Speaker 3>one of the most commercially successful people individually in the world.

1:20:59.360 --> 1:21:02.080
<v Speaker 3>And I got to ask him, you know, what do

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<v Speaker 3>you want? And he looked at me and he said,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to evolve. I want to be more vulnerable.

1:21:06.960 --> 1:21:09.240
<v Speaker 3>I want to be a better partner, I want to

1:21:09.240 --> 1:21:10.920
<v Speaker 3>be a better father, I want to be a better friend,

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<v Speaker 3>and I thought to myself, I don't need two hundred

1:21:13.760 --> 1:21:16.479
<v Speaker 3>billion dollars to start that, and I felt like it

1:21:16.560 --> 1:21:18.479
<v Speaker 3>was a cheat code. And I'm the reason I don't

1:21:18.560 --> 1:21:20.160
<v Speaker 3>like to tell stories about certain people in my life.

1:21:20.160 --> 1:21:21.880
<v Speaker 2>But I feel proud to tell that.

1:21:21.800 --> 1:21:24.800
<v Speaker 3>Story about him because I hope more people hear it,

1:21:25.400 --> 1:21:29.040
<v Speaker 3>because no one needs that level of wealth to start

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<v Speaker 3>that journey.

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<v Speaker 1>You seem really passionate about people doing self work. Is

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<v Speaker 1>it because you feel so much better now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

1:21:38.560 --> 1:21:42.200
<v Speaker 3>And I don't want them to be in the place

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<v Speaker 3>that I was to start it. I had plenty of

1:21:45.320 --> 1:21:47.920
<v Speaker 3>people who loved me trying to tell me to start

1:21:47.960 --> 1:21:51.840
<v Speaker 3>self work, and I just didn't turn off the rat race.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I don't need that. Look at the whole

1:21:54.400 --> 1:21:55.280
<v Speaker 2>world is telling.

1:21:55.040 --> 1:21:58.200
<v Speaker 3>Me I'm great, So I'm great, and I refuse to

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<v Speaker 3>hear that little voice inside of me that was like,

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<v Speaker 3>come get me, we should start this.

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<v Speaker 2>And I only started when I was in deep pain.

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<v Speaker 3>So I talk about it a lot now because I

1:22:10.080 --> 1:22:12.920
<v Speaker 3>don't wish that pain on anybody. And it's such an

1:22:12.960 --> 1:22:14.800
<v Speaker 3>easy thing to start, and you don't have to be

1:22:14.800 --> 1:22:16.439
<v Speaker 3>in pain to do so, so I kind of wish

1:22:16.439 --> 1:22:17.920
<v Speaker 3>people start it before they get to.

1:22:17.840 --> 1:22:18.559
<v Speaker 2>The place I was in.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry you were in so much pain, you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm here now, so it's all good.

1:22:24.800 --> 1:22:28.080
<v Speaker 1>What do you want moving forward? What's your agreed?

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<v Speaker 3>I want people to stop asking me about past dramas.

1:22:33.960 --> 1:22:36.519
<v Speaker 1>Maybe after this interview we can put it to bed.

1:22:36.439 --> 1:22:39.680
<v Speaker 2>And maybe I would love that. Honestly, what do you

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<v Speaker 2>really want?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, no podcast answered, what do you actually want?

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<v Speaker 3>I would like to build something that I could share

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<v Speaker 3>with my children.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, I'd like.

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<v Speaker 3>To build something next that if they said, Dad, can

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<v Speaker 3>we come do this with you? There's enough space for

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<v Speaker 3>them to not only do it with me, but find

1:22:57.000 --> 1:22:59.800
<v Speaker 3>themselves in it as well. And I could share my

1:22:59.840 --> 1:23:02.800
<v Speaker 3>care creativity with them, Like if they wanted to do

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<v Speaker 3>more of the business side, I could share that with them.

1:23:04.479 --> 1:23:06.280
<v Speaker 2>Like I would like to do something that.

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<v Speaker 3>If they choose to do their own thing, that's great,

1:23:08.040 --> 1:23:11.599
<v Speaker 3>But if if there was an opportunity that they wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to kind of do something with their dad.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be a lot of fun.

1:23:15.720 --> 1:23:18.559
<v Speaker 1>You shared a lot of stories with me today about

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<v Speaker 1>like a more Fati and Marcus Aurelius, and you seem

1:23:22.000 --> 1:23:25.760
<v Speaker 1>to have these sort of like ASoP fables in you.

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<v Speaker 1>You post some of them on Instagram. I'm wondering why

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<v Speaker 1>being a storyteller is important to you or why stories

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<v Speaker 1>matter to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Does they have meaning?

1:23:37.080 --> 1:23:37.880
<v Speaker 1>Is that how you learn?

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<v Speaker 2>I think so.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you learned from your own experiences, but I

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<v Speaker 3>think you can learn a lot from stories. I think

1:23:44.400 --> 1:23:47.720
<v Speaker 3>I loved always reading stories about great people to kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like have cheat codes. Like the story Jeff gave me,

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<v Speaker 3>that's a cheat code. Yeah, you know, here's someone who

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<v Speaker 3>has all that and that's what they're looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a cheat code. Like great stories are a cheat code.

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<v Speaker 3>Like my favorite story in the scripture was like two

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<v Speaker 3>weeks ago in a parsha and like it's a cheat code,

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<v Speaker 3>it's the story, Like do you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know who actually parted the Red Sea? Who do you

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<v Speaker 2>think Moses?

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<v Speaker 3>People think Moses part of the Red Sea. Moses didn't

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<v Speaker 3>part the Red Sea?

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<v Speaker 2>Pharaoh, Nope. So the real story, I'm gonna go biblical

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<v Speaker 2>on you.

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<v Speaker 3>The real story is the Egyptians were coming and they're

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<v Speaker 3>going to kill everybody, and everyone's freaking out, and Aaron

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<v Speaker 3>and Moses are standing up there saying God says, trust him,

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<v Speaker 3>go into the sea, and the sea is like choppy

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<v Speaker 3>as hell. The current's crazy, like people go in, You're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna die, and they're like Moses wants us to commit suicide,

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<v Speaker 3>like this is We're not doing that. And Aaron's brother

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<v Speaker 3>in law's name was not Sewan. He was the head

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<v Speaker 3>of the tribe of Judah. He was this regular dude

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<v Speaker 3>who was like the leader of his family. Something came

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<v Speaker 3>over him and God said trust me and not shown

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<v Speaker 3>not Moses walked into the sea and his family started

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<v Speaker 3>screaming like, don't do this, You're gonna die, and it

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't until his mouth and his nose went under

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<v Speaker 3>the water that God parted the sea. And it's like

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<v Speaker 3>one of my favorite stories ever of this idea of

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<v Speaker 3>trust and in life it's not until you go into

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<v Speaker 3>a place that is unreasonable, into a place of danger.

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<v Speaker 2>That shows up.

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<v Speaker 3>And I love that story because that's like one of

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<v Speaker 3>the greatest gifts. It's a cheat code of like that's life,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like success and failure live next door each other.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to go into the resistance, you have to

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<v Speaker 3>go into the fear, and it isn't until you put

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<v Speaker 3>yourself into a place of unreasonable danger that usually the

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<v Speaker 3>miracles happen, and I really like stories.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a great one.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks, Oh it's not mine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious when you felt the closest to that fear

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<v Speaker 1>and success. I mean, I've heard you talk about with

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<v Speaker 1>Bieber like you were basically down in your last dollar

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<v Speaker 1>at Asher and justin Yeah, but is there anything later

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<v Speaker 1>in your career where it felt that way, Like were

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<v Speaker 1>you really felt like you were taking a big risk?

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<v Speaker 3>My life change after that where I'll admit it, like

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<v Speaker 3>I have the luck of not being in that financial

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<v Speaker 3>position ever again after that.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, Like I think, it's not just about finance.

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<v Speaker 2>It's about all aspects of your life.

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<v Speaker 3>It's about going towards When I did the self work

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<v Speaker 3>for the first time, I was lost and I went

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<v Speaker 3>in to do something that was so out of character,

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<v Speaker 3>that was so surrender, which I never did before. And

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't until I put myself in surrender in a

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<v Speaker 3>place of being vulnerable in front of strangers that I

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<v Speaker 3>started to actually have the healing and the miracles take place.

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<v Speaker 3>So I can talk about it from a business standpoint,

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<v Speaker 3>but the most powerful in my life has actually been

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<v Speaker 3>you know, understanding that I'm not completely in control and

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<v Speaker 3>that I've actually been taking care of Most of us

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<v Speaker 3>have been taking care of our whole lives. So, for example,

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<v Speaker 3>if you mind I ask you a question. Sure, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>what if you had a friend your entire life who

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<v Speaker 3>every single time, every single time you've got in a

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<v Speaker 3>bad position where you didn't think you were gonna make it,

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<v Speaker 3>that friend showed up and said, I will take care

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<v Speaker 3>of it. And now you're this age and you're back

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<v Speaker 3>in that position where it's the worst it's ever been.

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<v Speaker 3>You feel like it's the worst it's ever been, and

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<v Speaker 3>like you cannot control it. It's gonna fall apart, You're screwed.

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<v Speaker 3>And this friend comes to you and goes, Okay, listen,

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<v Speaker 3>this one need you to do. I've earned this. I

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<v Speaker 3>need you to completely trust me. You have no control

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<v Speaker 3>of the situation. I need you completely surrender and I'll

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<v Speaker 3>fix it. Could you do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>You really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm proud of you because most people are going to

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<v Speaker 3>be like complete control, like, yeah, the friend can help me,

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<v Speaker 3>but like I'm talking, you're not even allowed to know.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to just say I trust and fall back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm really proud because you're an evolved person.

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<v Speaker 1>In some ways to me, that's the universe.

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<v Speaker 2>That's God.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, how many times have all of us in our life.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're at an age of like over twenty, over thirty,

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<v Speaker 3>you've already had enough like experienced that There's been so

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<v Speaker 3>many points in your life, Yeah, where you thought there's

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<v Speaker 3>just no getting out of this, so many of them

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<v Speaker 3>that you've forgotten at this point because they've been healed

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<v Speaker 3>since where you thought it was the end of the

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<v Speaker 3>world and it's far years later and you've removed.

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<v Speaker 2>And every single time steps up.

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<v Speaker 3>So now I got to a point in my life

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<v Speaker 3>where it was like, okay, cool, you think you've been

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<v Speaker 3>controlling this, but I've actually been the one helping you

1:28:23.040 --> 1:28:24.960
<v Speaker 3>the whole time, So can you just fall back and

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<v Speaker 3>let me help you? And I finally gone and got

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<v Speaker 3>to the point and I work on that every day

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<v Speaker 3>because you say, yeah, I'm still working on full surrender.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not there yet. You're better than me.

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<v Speaker 1>No, not full. But the caveat is had I not been,

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<v Speaker 1>had I not had those moments, I couldn't have said yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think we've all had those moments, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>still not able to say fully yes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the thing I'm working on every day.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really interesting. I'm shocked to hear.

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<v Speaker 2>That I'm better at it, but like, because.

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<v Speaker 1>You had to surrender your whole life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but I still struggle with it because it's scary.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm so much better than it was. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>scary every single time because what if they're not going

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<v Speaker 2>to be there? But they've proven you know, God, universe

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<v Speaker 2>has proven me a thousand times.

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<v Speaker 3>It is Yeah, that's called faith, and I think I'm

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<v Speaker 3>still working on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anyone in your life who has like, really

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<v Speaker 1>really beautiful faith that you admire, that you look to.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom does really believe in the goodness in people.

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously it will change that they get older, but because

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<v Speaker 3>of my kids are still kids, I get.

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<v Speaker 2>To see it in them.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been behind some of the most iconic careers of

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<v Speaker 1>the last fifteen years. When someone asks your eldest son

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<v Speaker 1>what his father does, what do you.

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<v Speaker 2>Hope he says, he's Jagger's dad.

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<v Speaker 1>I have some rapid fire questions for you, something that

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<v Speaker 1>really scares you whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>The first that was health for my family.

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<v Speaker 1>The biggest misconception about.

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<v Speaker 2>You that I control everything and I'm a crazy man.

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<v Speaker 1>Wish you knew when you started out in the music

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<v Speaker 1>industry that I don't control shit. What's a risk you're

1:30:07.080 --> 1:30:08.720
<v Speaker 1>glad you took even if it didn't work out.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I just got out there and tried.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe in karma?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but in a way that it's teaching you, never

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<v Speaker 3>hurting you say more.

1:30:22.120 --> 1:30:22.879
<v Speaker 2>I think karma.

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<v Speaker 3>I believe that like all of us are on our journey,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think karma's there to give us corrections, never

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<v Speaker 3>to hurt us.

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<v Speaker 2>It's always to teach us. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>What's something everyone should try once?

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<v Speaker 3>The first thing that came to mind with skydiving, But

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if that's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. If you were a tree, what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>tree would you be?

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<v Speaker 2>Oka and olive?

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<v Speaker 1>Something that you've changed your mind about recently, or an.

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<v Speaker 2>Orange tree i'd like to give people. Yeah, yeah, probably

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<v Speaker 2>an orange.

1:30:53.800 --> 1:30:57.479
<v Speaker 1>Tree, just like lasting fruit. Yeah, something you've changed your

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<v Speaker 1>mind about recently.

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<v Speaker 2>One thing I've changed my mind about recently.

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<v Speaker 3>I was doing like a really healthy diet and yesterday

1:31:05.560 --> 1:31:07.880
<v Speaker 3>I was like, screw this, I want that cookie. So

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<v Speaker 3>I changed my mind about the diet yesterday and I

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<v Speaker 3>ate the cookie.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, a book that changed your life, something you think

1:31:13.080 --> 1:31:14.000
<v Speaker 1>everybody should read.

1:31:14.479 --> 1:31:17.280
<v Speaker 2>Many Lives, Many Masters, that's a really good one.

1:31:18.120 --> 1:31:20.160
<v Speaker 1>You grab the question Everything card game and pick a

1:31:20.240 --> 1:31:23.839
<v Speaker 1>card which everyone speaks to you this is the one.

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<v Speaker 2>Or you're okay. What's your superpower?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I try to see people. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 3>my superpower is I think sometimes superpowers can hurt you,

1:31:39.520 --> 1:31:42.120
<v Speaker 3>and that's a good thing. So I think my superpower

1:31:42.240 --> 1:31:46.759
<v Speaker 3>is deep down, I really just want everyone to be okay.

1:31:48.439 --> 1:31:50.439
<v Speaker 3>That's my superpower. I get people to benefit of the doubt.

1:31:50.479 --> 1:31:54.080
<v Speaker 3>I actually just want I don't like conflict with people

1:31:54.560 --> 1:31:57.040
<v Speaker 3>like I. I want everyone to be okay. I want

1:31:57.040 --> 1:32:00.719
<v Speaker 3>people to get along. And I think even when people

1:32:00.720 --> 1:32:03.600
<v Speaker 3>are treating you know, even when my friends think I

1:32:03.600 --> 1:32:05.439
<v Speaker 3>shouldn't be like that, I'd rather be that way.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting because usually what we give people is what

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<v Speaker 1>we need most.

1:32:11.960 --> 1:32:12.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>See, I just want to be okay and understood. Maybe

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<v Speaker 3>this is a great therapy session.

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<v Speaker 1>Music takes Okay, these are gonna be fun. An album

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<v Speaker 1>you listen to No.

1:32:24.200 --> 1:32:29.280
<v Speaker 3>Skips Lauren Hill Miseducational larn Hill Usher Confessions.

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<v Speaker 2>Another one No Skips that's a good one too.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Three albums to listen to for the rest of

1:32:33.920 --> 1:32:35.200
<v Speaker 1>your life.

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<v Speaker 3>One I just named, well, I'll name other ones. Three

1:32:38.439 --> 1:32:39.679
<v Speaker 3>albums the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Tribe. God, that's so hard.

1:32:42.120 --> 1:32:46.840
<v Speaker 3>I know, albums rest of your life just because you

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<v Speaker 3>know named my kid after Sticky Fingers by the Stones

1:32:50.680 --> 1:32:54.160
<v Speaker 3>and Born to Run or Springsteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Obama would agree with you. AI good or bad for

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<v Speaker 1>the music industry.

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<v Speaker 2>I think things of all of them. When we fight them,

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<v Speaker 2>we get in trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>So could Spotify or Apple Music.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a fan of both companies, but I have been

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<v Speaker 3>a long term supporter and shareholder of Spotify, and I

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<v Speaker 3>think what Daniel.

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<v Speaker 2>Did is remarkable.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's an artist we should all have our eye on?

1:33:18.960 --> 1:33:22.679
<v Speaker 1>Scarlet Opera first CD or tape? You ever bought?

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin Campbell the single Round and Round.

1:33:31.040 --> 1:33:33.680
<v Speaker 1>A song you wish you had discovered? Oh excuse me,

1:33:33.720 --> 1:33:35.960
<v Speaker 1>a singer you wish you had discovered or managed?

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<v Speaker 2>First? I mean alive or dead?

1:33:38.640 --> 1:33:41.839
<v Speaker 1>And you're saying, yeah, an artist you wish you had managed.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't ever want to manage again.

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<v Speaker 1>But in the past, is there ever someone that you

1:33:47.520 --> 1:33:50.080
<v Speaker 1>really wanted on your roster that you never got I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a great run. I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>That's my answer to the question, like I don't have

1:33:54.600 --> 1:33:56.479
<v Speaker 3>that wish anymore. I had an amazing run, I had

1:33:56.520 --> 1:34:00.400
<v Speaker 3>an incredible management career. I'm good, and I think everyone

1:34:00.439 --> 1:34:01.800
<v Speaker 3>was with the person they're supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, peace, love and happy endings. Okay, an artists, people

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<v Speaker 1>would be surprised that you love George Benson a concert

1:34:12.880 --> 1:34:18.840
<v Speaker 1>that blew your mind, Michael Jackson bad an artist that

1:34:18.920 --> 1:34:22.640
<v Speaker 1>you think is still underrated even after all their success.

1:34:22.600 --> 1:34:23.280
<v Speaker 2>Tory Kelly.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. I also put Mario in there, Miguel.

1:34:30.560 --> 1:34:33.880
<v Speaker 2>But I just I'm saying Tori toy. I've worked with Tory.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she's one of the most remarkable voices of

1:34:35.840 --> 1:34:39.479
<v Speaker 3>all time. And you talk about underrated Tory.

1:34:39.320 --> 1:34:42.000
<v Speaker 1>Kelly lyric that lives rent free in.

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<v Speaker 3>Your head, cooler than a polar bear's toenails. Oh hell,

1:34:46.240 --> 1:34:50.640
<v Speaker 3>there he goes again, talking that shit scooter, thank you

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<v Speaker 3>or I'm from Jamaica, Queens where I beat you up

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<v Speaker 3>and take your jeans.

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<v Speaker 2>I always thought that was a funny line.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know what time it is, Today's a good day.

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<v Speaker 1>To have a good day. I'll see you next week,