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Speaker 1: week's episode. Hello Professional home Girls. It's my birthday and

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Speaker 1: I thought it would be a great idea to record

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Speaker 1: on my extra birthday, during my birthday through Happy Birthday

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Speaker 1: be so I have somebody really special with me, and

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Speaker 1: she is like a big sister to me, and she's

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Speaker 1: been knowing me for a very very very long time.

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Speaker 1: So I thought it would be cool to have her

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Speaker 1: on the show. How you feeling feeling good? Feeling good?

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Speaker 1: For warning little flick. Yeah, I haven't take it easy today,

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Speaker 1: y'all because we got a little lit yesterday and it's

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Speaker 1: my last day, I know, so I'm trying to go

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Speaker 1: back home with right, So we're gonna do a recount.

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Speaker 1: I want to share my birthday experience with y'all because

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Speaker 1: I've been with me for almost well for three years now.

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Speaker 1: So I thought that you ever want to go to St. Thomas,

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Speaker 1: here's your review. So the first day, but for our

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Speaker 1: flights were delayed. I don't think I was gonna make

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Speaker 1: it at all. Yes, your sheep's been up. We left

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Speaker 1: on what on Friday? I woke up at four o'clock

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Speaker 1: that morning. I woke up at five. My flight was

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Speaker 1: it's yeah, yeah, about six thirty nine something like that.

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Speaker 1: The President was in town, which I didn't know. So

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Speaker 1: my flight got and then something fell off the flight,

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Speaker 1: which I'm like, what the hell fell off? Who cares?

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Speaker 1: Because I really don't take the time and fixing us

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Speaker 1: to be flying with something missing. So I my flight

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Speaker 1: left at twelve thirty, yourth flight. My father was supposed

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Speaker 1: to leave like at got six forty five something like that.

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Speaker 1: I didn't end up leaving Nashville until until a round

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Speaker 1: about almost nine thirty, ten o'clock, and we just had rain. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but y'all, knowing the South, when it starts raining and

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Speaker 1: when there's inclemented weather, you know, niggas can know how

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Speaker 1: to function. Comparison us up north, they shut it down

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Speaker 1: didn't get here until like nine thirty, So I right right.

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Speaker 1: I was supposed to get here at one. I didn't

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Speaker 1: no saying, oh my god, hurry up, get to the

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Speaker 1: hotel because a lot of close at six. I get

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Speaker 1: there at five. When you get the same time, but

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Speaker 1: you have to fill out sometimes performed that allows you

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Speaker 1: admission to the country. And so I skipped the line

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Speaker 1: because my God, I get the kids that I don't have.

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Speaker 1: If we don't have kids, aren't otherwhere to stay, can't

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Speaker 1: get in. So the airport is literally like a five

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Speaker 1: August Fancy, we're not getting paid for this. This hotel

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Speaker 1: or it's not a hotel, is like a mona pop

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Speaker 1: grandparents house to our cousin house. She feels very quaint, cozy,

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Speaker 1: this place, it's like so beautiful, it's so comfortable. Eddie

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Speaker 1: and Candy are the owners. We talked to them like

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Speaker 1: every day, and we did one thing that Candy don't like.

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Speaker 1: Their house is like right next to their to the resort.

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Speaker 1: They're at home, which is beautiful like the islands, the

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Speaker 1: people like ain't here to good morning, and you know

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Speaker 1: us being niggas, we're walking down the street trying to

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Speaker 1: her family was like, hi, Candy, Hi Eddie was prior

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Speaker 1: here this we need niggas. Isn't like in the term

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Speaker 1: of a dermot, no shade whatsoever. So huh, what's want

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Speaker 1: to say? I was gonna say that wouldn't be shade,

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Speaker 1: they might you know, they think we might be thinking

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Speaker 1: on some racist ship, but were not. They was a

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Speaker 1: very lovely hole, super personal. Like I swear every time

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Speaker 1: I yeah, every time we come here, every time I

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Speaker 1: I get to the place right when you get took

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Speaker 1: a place to places surrounded by casts and roosters. But

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Speaker 1: they're so friendly, and I'm not ant on a person,

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Speaker 1: but they're like, well, wait a minute, they're not friendly.

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Speaker 1: They just won't focus. I mean, don't funk with them,

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Speaker 1: but right, but they don't bother you at all, Like

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Speaker 1: they're just super like regular. So I mean, Eddie, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, my sister left the key for me.

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Speaker 1: So we're walking up to the to our room. So

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Speaker 1: I've noticed that Eddie is like taking his sweet time

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Speaker 1: because I'm thinking he's gonna walking to the door this

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Speaker 1: and that. So I'm trying to open the door. I'm

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Speaker 1: So I'm thinking this like a little setup, Like I

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Speaker 1: don't know, you know, when you be from a different country,

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Speaker 1: you just be thinking the worst ship that can happen.

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Speaker 1: So I found you in the US. True in the US,

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Speaker 1: dumbass was thinking. But I see decorations and happy Birthday

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Speaker 1: and my sister is not even in St. Thomas. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's just the right room bitch. Why two of my friends,

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Speaker 1: my best friend Ajah and our other friend Imani, they

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Speaker 1: jumped out to Happy Bathday, so I had no idea

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Speaker 1: So I was so confused, Like I was happy, But

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Speaker 1: want to let her know. Look, bit, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: be there until like eight forty two, So y'all start

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Speaker 1: to trip without me. I'll catch up. So we went

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Speaker 1: to we got ready. She wasn't here yet. So after

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Speaker 1: we got excited, calm down. They got a room right

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Speaker 1: next door. So like everything worked out. So it did perfectly.

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Speaker 1: So we went to this restaurant. The food here was amazing,

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Speaker 1: Like I think our favorite restaurant was the one that

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Speaker 1: we did for my birthday dinner. The prime restaurant good

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Speaker 1: so good. So we end up going doing a day

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Speaker 1: trip to St. Croix and that was a ship show

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Speaker 1: because we took the Fairy the fairy was rough, y'all,

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Speaker 1: but this which is not gonna get an experience like that.

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Speaker 1: I was praying to the dear Lord, saying, look, I

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Speaker 1: just give up on life. Just go ahead and throw

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. If you got a weak stomach, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's not made for the week. Like we were sitting down,

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Speaker 1: we got soaked like this one almost threw up. What

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Speaker 1: the man tells you, I said, I think I'm about

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Speaker 1: about to throw up. My cheeks started watering. I ended up.

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Speaker 1: She mouth started foaming. Just dude told me, hey, you

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Speaker 1: need to go over there. Don't do that ship here here,

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Speaker 1: you need gum. Let me in my head. As soon

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Speaker 1: was like, motherfucker, we've been We've been on this boat

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Speaker 1: You deserve to be thrown up on. Like I was

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Speaker 1: so mad, y'all. We were super cute, and it felt

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Speaker 1: like we was on Titanic. Oh yeah, we were on Titanic.

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Speaker 1: It didn't feel like it. We were, It just didn't

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Speaker 1: some of y'all may not know, is a little bit

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Speaker 1: of a blonde. She literally X before we took off

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Speaker 1: on the ferry. Yo, can we drive? Yo? Can we drive?

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Speaker 1: The St? Croix? I said, what I said, it's the

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Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all. We was on the ferry for like

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Speaker 1: or something you saw that? Did you? I said, see what?

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Speaker 1: You don't see that? But thank froid was a vibe

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Speaker 1: we found a really nice beach. That's like, that was

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Speaker 1: like the first day we got really good son, Like

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Speaker 1: I was knocked out. It was nice. It was nice.

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Speaker 1: The drinks were delicious. The best part of the trip

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Speaker 1: was when we um we did a beach in St. Thomas.

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Speaker 1: I think it was Megan's speech or I think that's

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Speaker 1: when we got We got so lit, y'all. She bought

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Speaker 1: her speaker. We put the music on. We were singing

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Speaker 1: so drunk that our home girl had got us some

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Speaker 1: pizza and French fries. Ah. Man, you thought that ship

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Speaker 1: was steak. That ship was so good. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: It was a great trip where we most definitely hated

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Speaker 1: it was feet ferry ride, but I don't regret it.

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Speaker 1: But I don't because it was an experience. Coming back

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Speaker 1: on the ferry was oh my god, damn guy. We

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Speaker 1: took some motion sickness medicine, but that was a rough one.

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Speaker 1: Like we was drenched because the guy was telling us

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Speaker 1: It was a quick little episode. There you go, birthday,

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday, and you're gonna she was my age in

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Speaker 1: the world. I know. Well, we have new episodes coming,

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Speaker 1: so give me a little moment to catch my parents. Also,

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Speaker 1: two hundred five star reviews guys, so thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for supporting me and let's make this year even better.

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Speaker 1: Until next time, everyone later, Happy birthday, Night night,