1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: with her radio everybody. I'm Ben, and we have a 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: surprise guest with us in studio today. We also have 4 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: Wells Adams. It's like, I've never done this before. Literally 5 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: three minutes ago he was like, I don't think I'm 6 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: gonna be part of the podcast, and we just like 7 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: got on some headphones and a mic and there he is. Well, 8 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 1: when you have a talent like Wells Adams and studio 9 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: with you, we have to use them. So uh. And 10 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: we also a lot to talk about obviously, UM. This 11 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: week there has been a lot going on. UM. There 12 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: was a tragedy that took place in the United States 13 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 1: that we need to talk about because all three of us, 14 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: actually Wells and myself, we're in Vegas together for the 15 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: Heart Radio Festival UM last weekend and we we stood 16 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: at the same spot that this tragedy took place. And 17 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: Wells is actually working that show all day. And I 18 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: know when I heard the news about the shooting, it 19 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: hit deep um not only because person I said, I've 20 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 1: been there, but but also because I know how excited 21 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 1: I was and how freeing it was to be at 22 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: that festival. To listen to music, to take my mind 23 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,559 Speaker 1: off of the world, to celebrate with people, to see friends, 24 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,759 Speaker 1: to hug, to hug the people around me. Right. Um 25 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: And and I just when I heard this news, it 26 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: was sad because it took that all the way. Um. 27 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: It worries me that at what events now can we 28 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: just be free? So I want to hear you guys 29 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 1: thoughts on last weekend, um, and kind of your response 30 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: to the tragedies of place this week. Yeah, I mean 31 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 1: I'm looking at just the scenery and just thinking about 32 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: how great of a time we all had last week 33 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: and it was just like one of those moments together 34 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: we were just like, Wow, my life is great. I 35 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: love life. It's we're just having a blast. And now 36 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: to just look at the same place and yeah, I 37 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: guess it's just sort of ruined. I don't think I'm 38 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: ever going to look at it the same again, and 39 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: thinking about all the things, how that could have happened 40 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: last week when we were there, just the same big gathering. 41 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: But how many people were at the I Heart Festival 42 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: outside that day, like thousand or something, So it's like 43 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: the exact same thing and you just could have chosen 44 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: to do it last week when these tragedies happen, you 45 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: navially put yourself in those positions, right, Like what would 46 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: I have done? What was crazy for us is that 47 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: we were literally there, like when I was watching when 48 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: I was watching TV this morning, I was like, that 49 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: was my vantage point when I was filming all day, 50 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: Like that's exactly where we were, which is just terrifying. 51 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: I don't know, like this whole thing is so sad 52 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:38,959 Speaker 1: and you can't you can't make any sense of any 53 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: of it. But I mean because a guy who's like 54 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,839 Speaker 1: lived in the music industry for so long, You're right, 55 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: like concerts like that are to bring people together and 56 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: you can't wet fear now ruin that going forward, you know. 57 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: I mean, it's going to be scary to go to 58 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: big events like that. But I feel like as Americans, 59 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: we just need to like not stop doing that stuff. 60 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: You know, you're right. I mean, my I think the 61 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: word that's the trendy word right now, that that represents 62 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: um the culture we're living in in the times of 63 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: living is divisiveness. You keep hearing it, right, who's being divisive? 64 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: Who's not? So a situation like this, our first response 65 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:21,839 Speaker 1: is it divides or us from the joy at which 66 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 1: a concert or an entertainment event can bring us. Um. 67 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: I want to encourage everybody, including myself, because I was 68 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: talking to my my family this morning and my mom 69 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: was like, how are you ever going to go to 70 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: an event and feel safe anymore? Kind of like you 71 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: just said. And I think our response as people is 72 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: we're just not gonna let it divide us. UM. I 73 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: don't know how we do that, but we have to 74 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: join together and say, um, we're gonna choose to love. 75 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: We're gonna choose to combat the evil that is out 76 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 1: there with good. I just don't know how. I remember 77 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: after the Boston Marathon bombing, I remember signing up for 78 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: the Nashville race like the next day because I was like, listen, 79 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: everyone's gonna be scared to go run. But like, that 80 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: can't be the response that we have. You know, we 81 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: need to like I don't know, like I'm gonna go 82 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: to more shows now, you know, And I think that's 83 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 1: the only way you can you can do it. It's uh, 84 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: it's a courageous Outlook. We have two people on the 85 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: line who are a part of our Bachelor family, who 86 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:27,679 Speaker 1: we care about deeply who called Vegas home. Um, they're 87 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: at this festival UM for two of the nights and 88 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 1: they know people very close to this tragedy. We want 89 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: to bring them on. That's Emily and Haley, the twins 90 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: from Vegas UM. Emily and Haley, Welcome to the Almost 91 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: Famous podcast. Hi. Oh, that was really sweet. It's harmonized 92 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: and everything. Um, so when were you guys there? So 93 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: we were there Saturday night, and it's crazy because we 94 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: were watching Sam Hunt and it's the exact same area 95 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: where it's so hard to talk about just thinking about it, 96 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: the exact same area where we were standing. We were 97 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: standing on the side of the stage where the gunmen 98 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: had shot from the Mandalaid Bay, and so we were 99 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: on the side of the Mandalaid Bay. So just thinking 100 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: if he had chosen to shoot on Saturday, I mean, 101 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: just it's just terrifying to think about. And it just 102 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: feels so blessed and lucky that Sunday we weren't able 103 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: to get to get to go to this concert. So 104 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: I just feel like it was just like a blessing 105 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 1: in disguise. But my heart, I mean, honestly, Haley and 106 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: I are just and so like I honestly don't even 107 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 1: really have words. It's just crazy because all of our friends, 108 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: like Haley and I woke up to like two miss texts, 109 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: so many miscalls, like just so many people thinking about 110 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: us and all of our friends. Make sure all of 111 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: our friends who went were okay. I mean, the most 112 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: terrifying thing ever. My friend was actually there last night. 113 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: She had posted an instagram a couple hours before Jason 114 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: Aldean took the stage. So I texted her, I go, 115 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: based on your instagram, looks like you got out of 116 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: there early, and she goes, yeah, I recently saw Jason Meldine, 117 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 1: so we decided to leave an hour early. Like what 118 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: a blessing. Yeah. I was calling all of my friends 119 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: there who were there, and the service is just so 120 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: terrible that you're ei like can't get in touch with them. 121 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: But I was texting with um My Pilates instructor and 122 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 1: they were actually like hiding, they weren't ducking down, And 123 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: she's like, I'm so scared right now, Like I had 124 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 1: a friend whom she was there hiding with her friend, 125 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: and somebody had gotten shot right next to her in 126 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: the lake. Like people were like running and like like 127 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 1: people's legs are just so cut up from just hopping 128 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: over fences, like I mean, it was just a nightmare. Yeah, 129 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: and then we have a friend in the hospital who 130 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: was grazed viable in his arm, but luckily he's okay. 131 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: It's just like right now, people there, I guess there's 132 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 1: like a desperate need for blood donations. Not like the 133 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: blood banks are full already in Las Vegas right now, 134 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 1: but they need people to come back tomorrow to donate 135 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: blood and then over the next few days because there's 136 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: five plus people in hospitals waiting to either have surgery 137 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: or getting blood. Yeah, that brings us to a good 138 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: place in the podcast. I want to take a second here, 139 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: UM and kind of communicate to everybody out there how 140 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: you can't help um. And one of those ways, as 141 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,600 Speaker 1: the twins just mentioned, is to give blood. You can 142 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: give blood in your local community. It's it's extremely important. 143 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: But if you would also like to, there's a couple 144 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: of places in Vegas. So if you're in Vegas coming up, UM, 145 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: there's a blood bank in Carson City in Las Vegas, 146 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: UH and Reno and Sparks, UM and Henderson. So if 147 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: you're in the Vegas area, or the Los Angeles area 148 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: or any place you're in the United States, please consider 149 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: giving blood right now because of the injuries, UM that occurred, 150 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: which at this point, uh, we we have a number 151 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: up over five hundred UM blood, we'll be running short 152 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: and um it is our way to give back. So 153 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: with that, I would like to, um just ask everybody 154 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: to take the time to go to the local book 155 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: blood bank today. UM. Emily and hey, they have a question. 156 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: What I guess. I don't know if you've been to 157 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: the Strip or kind of if you've had time to 158 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: to get downtown, but what is the overall feel um 159 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 1: of Las Vegas this week? UM? Absolutely, like I think 160 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: that everybody right now. I mean, the lines are just 161 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: out the doors at the blood things. People are out there, 162 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: UM passing out waters. Like people are just volunteering their time, 163 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: passing out food. My brother, he's a nine win one 164 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 1: dispatcher and luckily he UM, he wasn't working last night, 165 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: but he's going to the first responders and he's giving 166 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: it food and stuff. So like everybody, it's just amazing 167 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: how and everybody's free ride to all the blood blood locations. 168 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: So if you call an uber, you get a free 169 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: ride to go donate blood and a free ride back home. 170 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: So that's honestly just so amazing. People are just excited 171 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: to help and donate, which makes me love Las Vegas 172 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: even more, just to realize how amazing these people are 173 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: and how selfless everyone's being. And not to mention that 174 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: I heard stories of people staying behind to help people 175 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: off the floor who had been wounded, to help them 176 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 1: get out of the venue. So it's just honestly amazing 177 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: to see us come together, as you know, the state 178 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: of Nevada, and just be so supportive of each other 179 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:05,839 Speaker 1: and help each other and pick each other up. I 180 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: don't know if you could communicate this, um, but we 181 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 1: were just talking before you came on on. You know, 182 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 1: we were at the Heart Music Festival last weekend in 183 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: the in the same area, and you guys are at 184 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 1: Life is beautiful, right, Yeah no, but you guys pretty 185 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: freaking close to the Mandalay Bay, And I guess for us, right, 186 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: my first response is what would I have done? How 187 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: does this make me feel if I was in the situation? Um, 188 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: for the two of you, as you said, as you 189 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 1: sat there and you heard the news and you're at 190 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 1: the festival on Saturday night. Personally, how does this affect you? 191 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: And then how do you bring a community together? Um, 192 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: post tragedy like this. I mean, it's just it's such 193 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: a tragic, tragic event. I mean, it's just so stay 194 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 1: to even think that we could have been there. But 195 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: I mean, like it's just amazing how how everybody's like 196 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: kind me together. Um, I have a link in my 197 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 1: bio on my Instagram to help donate to the victims. 198 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: There's still a ton of people awaiting to have surgery. UM, 199 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: so I know a lot of like families are out 200 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: there waiting for their family members to receive surgery. So, 201 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: I mean it's crazy. There's a ton of people families 202 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 1: in the hospitals. It's like just going to give food 203 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: to those people who are just waiting in the waiting 204 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: room for their um family and friends to um come 205 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: like you know, fit surgery and just you know, be safe. So, 206 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just such a scary situation. And I 207 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: was talking to Emily, it's like what would we have done, Like, 208 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: I have no idea what I would have done in 209 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: a situation like that. I guess it's just like thinking, 210 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I was like hearing that I don't know, 211 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: I'm not really sure how all this would work, but 212 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 1: I hear like the people who had ducked for getting 213 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 1: trampled over, So it's kind of like do you run? 214 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 1: Do you duck? Were like what do you do? And 215 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: so I guess, like now like thinking about how lucky 216 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: you are that we weren't there. We're thinking of if 217 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 1: this were to happen in the future, what's the first 218 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: thing you do? And you just have to educate yourself 219 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,680 Speaker 1: and like learn from this, and you know, learn that 220 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: you know, you need to be able to find places 221 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: to hide, to take cover, or it's just kind of crazy, 222 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: like maybe ducking isn't the best choices. Honestly, just terrifying 223 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: to think about that, Like it did happen and that 224 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 1: could have been us, and like what should we have done? 225 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: What's the right answer? And I just kind of like 226 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: listening to people, they were like there really was no 227 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: right answer. But every everywhere you went, everywhere you turned, 228 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: everywhere you would hide, you still felt like you were 229 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: going to die. Well, a tragedy like this, unfortunately in 230 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: your local area, your role is now different than than ours. 231 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: You know, I live in Denver and Ashley here in 232 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: Los Angeles, wells in Nashville. Your role in Los Angeles 233 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: or Las Vegas is a little bit close to the situation, 234 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: but it doesn't mean that people outside of Vegas still 235 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: can't help, right, giving blood, preparing for situations like this, UM, 236 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: no matter how tragic, but prepare people so the process 237 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 1: of recovery is easier. It is extremely important. So now 238 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: we all have a role. UM. Go to your local 239 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: blood bank, especially if you're in the Vegas area. Don't 240 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 1: a help, UM. Even the smallest acts UM can go 241 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: a long way. Emily and Haley, we appreciate you coming on. 242 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 1: Good luck and uh we will be I'd like to 243 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 1: say praying for you, but really it's action now, you know, 244 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: prayers are great, but it's the action that's taken place 245 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 1: that will help this get better. So take action and 246 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: lead that charge for calling and decreating the word and 247 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: helping you know, people be aware of this. And we 248 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: really appreciate you guys doing that problem. Speaking of taking action, Haley, 249 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: damn and this as well as by the way, UM, obviously, 250 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 1: Hi guys, I miss your faces, UM obviously, like you 251 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 1: guys are you know you're there? Um, and I assume 252 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 1: that you guys are gonna host something or put something 253 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 1: together where we're gonna try to raise money, So just 254 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: you have our phone numbers obviously when that stuff happens, 255 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: let us know, we'll be on the first flight out 256 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 1: to help promote and raise money and do whatever we can. 257 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 1: You know that'd be great. You guys, We appreciate all 258 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 1: your support. You guys are amazing and just the fact 259 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: that you guys are calling from a different state and 260 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 1: just being here for us, that's honestly just so heart warning, 261 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 1: it's amazing. Well, thanks go girls. We appreciate it. Hi guys, 262 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: love you. Thanks for having us. Love you guys. HI 263 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: love you. So we're gonna move in now to one 264 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: of our sponsors that helped this podcast keep going. Right, 265 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:27,440 Speaker 1: if this podcast doesn't exist, we can't communicate and help 266 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:33,719 Speaker 1: spread a message um of recovery like we just did. So, UM, 267 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: I want to thank Movement Watches for sponsoring this podcast. 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No, um, 296 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 1: it's plugged your podcasts Your favorite thing? Uh yeah, my 297 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: podcast is with Brandy Cyrus. It's called your Favorite Thing podcast. 298 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: We're just talking about our favorite thing and my favorite thing, 299 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: uh in the podcast. Last week was the night that 300 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 1: we all went out together. It was I was the 301 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 1: only girl. I was like living every girl every Bachelor 302 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: Nation fans fantasy. I was with Wells, Peter and Dean 303 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: and I was the only girl. Yeah, you've never you've 304 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: never seen someone more like in paradise than I shouldn't 305 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: use the word paradise because that hasn't worked well. Actually, yeah, 306 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: I was going to say, it's it's much better than 307 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: paradise is actual paradise. Uh. It was just funny to see, 308 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: like the look on your face, Like was it that obvious? 309 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: Everything always written on my face? Yeah, you have a 310 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: terrible poker face in Vegas especially, but you like at 311 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: the Gordon Ms dinner, like you wedged between Peter and Dean, 312 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: did I want to talking about I sound that you 313 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: are lying for the sake of good radio. So wait, 314 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: he taught me his radio tricks because I was listening 315 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: to his podcast this weekend and like texting him while 316 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: I was doing it. I was like, wait a second, 317 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 1: did I say to you? You said that I went 318 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 1: to go change my shoes. I think I probably want 319 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: to go get a fart bubble out. That's that's what 320 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: I said. I feel like he was a little nicer 321 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 1: with the shoes. Well I got to hear this story. Yeah, 322 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 1: so you didn't. You didn't come out with it. You 323 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: were feeling sick that night. So um so, poor Peter, 324 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: I think has been living in this like sheltered little 325 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 1: like pre being the bachelor bubble where he I think 326 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 1: he's just like I don't want to go out and 327 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: like probably make stupid decisions or like get caught in 328 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: a precarious situation. So he's not and he's also living 329 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 1: in Wisconsin, which I imagine isn't like the party capital 330 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 1: of the world. So that night he was like, I 331 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: want to go out. I want to go to a club. 332 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: So we were like, yes, let's let's do this. And 333 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:07,159 Speaker 1: so it was. It was me, Dean Peter, and we're like, 334 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 1: who wants to go and ask She's like I cannot 335 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 1: say it like that, We were all just gonna know 336 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 1: he's exaggerating for the sake of good of a good story. 337 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: That's a good story, so keep going. Never let the 338 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: truth get in the way of a good story. Actually, 339 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: he says, I'm going to learn this. So uh so 340 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 1: we were like total club and actually was like, I 341 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 1: have to go up to my room. And I said 342 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 1: on my podcast that you changed your shoes, but I'm 343 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 1: pretty sure you went to go do dudes, I don't know, 344 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: actually did not, but it was because I left my 345 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 1: suitcase in Becca's room and Becca decided to stay in 346 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: so I was like, I gotta go transfer my suitcase 347 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: from her on. Yeah, so we end up going. We 348 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:50,719 Speaker 1: wanted to go to a club, um, and so we 349 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: went to the first one that we could find, and 350 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: you know, there's like long lines you have to pay 351 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: to get in, and we didn't have like someone like 352 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 1: coming and like with sinking us into v I p 353 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 1: you know, and so I was like, well, let's just 354 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 1: pay and Peter was like no, no, no, I got this. 355 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 1: So he went up to the bouncer. First bouncer, I 356 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: felt very awkward. I have a hard time with this 357 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:13,919 Speaker 1: stuff too, but so I was like, okay, do it. 358 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 1: So he went to the bouncer and this is Peter, 359 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,399 Speaker 1: like the guy that was supposed to be the Bachelor, right, 360 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: and he's like, hey, listen, buddy, UM, I'm here with Uh, 361 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 1: I'm here with Dean Unglert and Wells Adams and Ashley 362 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,160 Speaker 1: I Kennedy from Bachelor in Paradise. I kind of want 363 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: to get in, and the bouncers like I've never heard 364 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: of these people. Uh, get the hell out. Good reality 365 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:45,200 Speaker 1: check by the way, Like I think, like big bouncers 366 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: aren't like our like our target demo on the bachelorrette 367 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 1: that's right. So we did so so so that happened, 368 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 1: and then we're like, well, let's go to another way. 369 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: So we went and tried to do it again, same 370 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 1: exactly three or four times, like we think we're so cool. 371 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 1: And then it was like three clubs in, We're like 372 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 1: this is not looking good. So finally I'm like, I'm 373 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: gonna pay for us to get in. So I was 374 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 1: like I was because someone like on the strip was like, 375 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:12,640 Speaker 1: you want to go to this club. Here's a card. 376 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 1: So I was like, well, here's like we're going to 377 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: this place. So we show up and I came in 378 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,359 Speaker 1: the car. Car doesn't do anything but anything, give us 379 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 1: like ten dollars off, so I pay to get in 380 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 1: the club for all of us, all of you very generous, 381 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:27,199 Speaker 1: and I was gonna be like, I'm gonna stay for 382 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 1: ten minutes because, like I once it hits like right, okay. 383 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 1: I ended up having a good time when I got 384 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 1: in there. But the first couple of seconds we walk 385 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:37,679 Speaker 1: in there, there's no place to sit. We're like a 386 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 1: very crowded bar, and I'm like, God, this is not 387 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: gonna happen. And then this guy comes It happened. A 388 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 1: guy came up to Wells. He was just like one 389 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 1: of the manager and he's like, hey, big fan, dude, 390 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 1: do you guys need a table? And then they walked 391 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: over since gigantic booth just for the four of us, 392 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, I've lived the effing life. Yeah, 393 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: So the same thing happens to me now every club 394 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 1: or bar I go to and they're like, hey, do 395 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: you want to go back to Bartend? And I'm like no, 396 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 1: I'm not a good bar dinner, I promise you. I 397 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 1: just want to hang out well, you know, the closest up. 398 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: I do have some videos on my phone that hopefully 399 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 1: will go public soon of Ashley just giving googly eyes 400 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 1: to Peter and and just really exaggerating. I was way 401 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,679 Speaker 1: cooler than you're making it seem like I was on 402 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 1: my good behavior. I didn't cry, I didn't get emo 403 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: over anyone, true. No, I just got very, very into 404 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: a few of the people there. I'm just cool. You 405 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 1: are very question you know who else is cool? Our 406 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 1: caller on the line, we have our favorite segment, who 407 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: the heck are you? There? You go, Erica, Who the 408 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: heck are you? Erica Rose? Erica give us a whole 409 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 1: background on who you are, who season you're from, and 410 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: what's new in your life. Okay, No, I was on 411 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 1: originally Season I, which I can't believe was likely originally. Yeah, 412 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:09,120 Speaker 1: I mean it was literally eleven years ago. I only 413 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 1: remember you from what was your second season? I mean, 414 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 1: like so, I was on Prince Laurenz the Borghesie season, 415 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 1: and then did a show on VH one called Your 416 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: cut Off and then Bachelor Pad two and three, which, 417 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: as we all know before Paradise there was you were also, 418 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:34,440 Speaker 1: weren't you like a like a kissing guru on first kiss? 419 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: Oh my goddes, way to dig out some good dirt? Wells, 420 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: how do you become a kissing that well? Actually, so 421 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 1: y'all know. Bennett obviously, one of the first producers, was 422 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 1: doing um that show, you know, and he was in 423 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:53,679 Speaker 1: charge of it, and he called me the nights before 424 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,120 Speaker 1: and I was living in l A at the time, 425 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: and he's like, I need your help because on Bachelor 426 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,440 Speaker 1: Pad we had a kissing competition in and I didn't 427 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: even win actually my friend the l A one. But 428 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 1: he's like, I know you're you know, we're pretty good 429 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: at kissing based on that kissing competition, and they literally 430 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 1: spent like hours trying to find an actual kissing coach 431 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,119 Speaker 1: and there wasn't one. So he's like, I feel like 432 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 1: you would be really good at it, Um would you 433 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 1: be willing to do though, actually show the guy how 434 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,199 Speaker 1: to kiss? And I was like, yeah, you know, I 435 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: guess so, So that's kind of how it happened. It 436 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: was the guy that never kissed anyone. It was so awkward. 437 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: He was awkward, bad at it. When he tried right, yeah, 438 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,160 Speaker 1: but then I ended up really helping him and he's 439 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 1: been so grateful about it and like still reaches out 440 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 1: to me and thanks me and everything. So it made 441 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: me feel really happy in the end. That's a very 442 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,119 Speaker 1: important lesson to teach someone. You could actually make a 443 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 1: career out of it. But now you're engaged right now, 444 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:58,120 Speaker 1: I'm engaged. My daughter just turned one, um, So it's 445 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 1: been like a really you know, a funny a fun year, 446 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 1: a challenging year, you know what I mean. I had it. 447 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 1: I broke up with your dad, so that was really hard, 448 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 1: and I moved back to Houston, you know, and so 449 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:13,719 Speaker 1: that was a transition. And so I'm just happy, you know, 450 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 1: that everything's going well now in my life because it 451 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 1: was a path to get there. So the guy that 452 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,919 Speaker 1: you went to Jane Tanner's wedding with, that's that's your 453 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 1: daughter's that's Colin's father, Galen. And we really both tried 454 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 1: our best to make things work, honestly, we both really did, 455 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 1: and it's just like, at the end of the day, 456 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 1: we really weren't compatible, unfortunately, but sometimes that's just how 457 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,239 Speaker 1: it is. We made a beautiful baby. Neither of us 458 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: would ever take that back, you know, and we just 459 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: have to focus on being good parents. So how did 460 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 1: you meet your your fiance? Charles? So, Charles and I 461 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: actually met back in high school. The first time we 462 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 1: met was at junior promp and we found a picture 463 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: of it, which is so funny and neither of us 464 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 1: like our best in the picture and we're like no 465 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: one or we didn't day in high school. But he 466 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 1: was actually my best friend Brittany's date and the guy 467 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: I went with she ended up dating after that, so 468 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,119 Speaker 1: it's just really funny. And now she's happily married with 469 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,679 Speaker 1: a child, you know, and she was the one that, um, 470 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 1: you and I had matched on bumble. But aside from that, 471 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 1: Brittany told me he was interested, and I was like 472 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 1: really because I ran into him at one of my 473 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 1: mom's charity events and I couldn't really tell, you know, 474 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, you know, but I asked him. 475 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,159 Speaker 1: I was like, I won't go out with you if 476 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 1: your secretly still in love with Brittany. And he's like, 477 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm not still in love with her. That was so 478 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: long ago, so I agreed to give him a chance. 479 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: That is so cool. I love stories where you guys 480 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 1: knew each other way back one and then reconnect. It's yeah, 481 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 1: it's really weird to think about, you know, that someone 482 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 1: could have been your life this whole time, but like 483 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 1: not like a huge part of your life, just someone 484 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 1: kind of like in the background. You know. Yeah, I 485 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 1: like to think that too. It seems like less daunting 486 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 1: of a search to be like, oh, you know him. 487 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 1: You know. I always thought I'd figure out which one, 488 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 1: like a mysterious person, and then it's weird, like we 489 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 1: would have never imagin and it was each other, you know. 490 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 1: So to move in to the one thing that we're 491 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: all experts on, we got a transition here. Um, you 492 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,639 Speaker 1: found your love, which we got to celebrate and be 493 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 1: excited for. We have a new bachelor who is currently 494 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: searching for his love, and he also, I think is 495 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,879 Speaker 1: a self proclaimed or his girlfriend's proclaim him as a 496 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: kissing expert. And I never got to know that from experience. 497 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 1: He and I did a bachelor edition of Wife Out 498 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 1: together a few years ago when they did that, and 499 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: I thought he was really cute, but he ended up 500 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: um going home with or whatever someone else. And she 501 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: said the same thing, I'm not going to call her out, 502 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 1: but she said that he was a good kisser. Yes, 503 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 1: anyone I know it's had experience with him, you know, 504 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 1: says that he is one of the best kissers and 505 00:25:51,760 --> 00:26:00,639 Speaker 1: get at other things too good. Okay, you got to 506 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 1: fill me in a little bit here, um, because this 507 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 1: is gonna be a huge storyline in this an RI season. 508 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 1: How do you become a good kisser? Like what defines 509 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 1: a good kisser? I heard somebody say that Ari was 510 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 1: very like intense and kind of like suck the face. 511 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: That sucking the face and has never been something I 512 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 1: think I would appreciate. No, no no face actually uses a 513 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: lot of lip. Yeah, and he uses a lot of 514 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 1: hand on the jaw, hand the job behind the neck. 515 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 1: I told my I guess client or whatever I love 516 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 1: at first kiss. And I learned from Ella on my 517 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 1: season at Bachelor Pad. She was the one that won 518 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 1: the kissing competition, So before I had to go and 519 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 1: coach him, I literally found it on YouTube and watched 520 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,919 Speaker 1: Eli pis and that was one of her advice. And 521 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 1: then also it was change it up, like don't just 522 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: like stick the tongue in the whole time and keep 523 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 1: it there because that's like too much like you don't 524 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,359 Speaker 1: just leave it and then just let in there. Yeah, 525 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 1: because you don't want to be like overly aggressive. But 526 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 1: at the same time, if you don't use any tongue, 527 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: then I feel like, you know, I don't know, it's 528 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 1: just not as good as yet a little boring. Wells, 529 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 1: you're a pretty good expert at kissing. Yeah. Well, we 530 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 1: all know that. I have just talked about Wells is 531 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 1: kissing skills over and over again on my podcast. Really yeah, 532 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 1: I always praise you on this. Oh my god, you 533 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 1: are so good. But also you also, and I'm going 534 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 1: to call you out here, I think maybe the only 535 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 1: non bachelor. You might have the highest tally of kissing 536 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,359 Speaker 1: girls for a non bachelor. I'd like counted, and I 537 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 1: think it's like eight or not. Really, Yeah, there's one 538 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 1: that I'm not I have not not confirmed yet, so 539 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,920 Speaker 1: I say it's it's eight, which is which there's a lot, 540 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,400 Speaker 1: But that's, you know, a testament to who you are 541 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 1: as a very sexy, good kisser. Man. Um, hold on, 542 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:52,399 Speaker 1: I want to thanks. Here's my question. Everyone's got like 543 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 1: a go to kissing move. What is everyone's like one 544 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: thing that they do. Um, After a little bit, I 545 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: guess I like to like go to the ear. Ye 546 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: is it only look? Are you only lobe or do 547 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:08,880 Speaker 1: you like get up in there? I mean you start 548 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 1: with the lobe and then you get see the reaction 549 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 1: and then do you like breathe heavy into the ear 550 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 1: as well? Is that cute? That's actually two thumbs up 551 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:21,399 Speaker 1: over Okay, I'll incorporate that next time. Then what's yours? Um? 552 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,639 Speaker 1: I guess I'm a big hand behind the head and 553 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 1: and honestly at the kind of the I do like 554 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: to bite the lip, not bite hard. It's a little 555 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: bit just like just like, hey, I've been there. Yeah, 556 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 1: I want to know. I want you to feel this. Yeah, 557 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: that's a good move. Eric, what's yours? Wait? What's yours? 558 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: Mine's probably like touching the face and then possibly like 559 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:54,320 Speaker 1: they're just depending, you know, kissing face and don't like 560 00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 1: my face touched, so I don't like. No, i'd pie 561 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: back away a little bit. Yeah, but not because of 562 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: the kissing. I just asked that we kiss and not 563 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: don't touch him. Yeah, I'm just the oils. I worry 564 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 1: about breaking out too. I don't like it if people 565 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 1: time my face, but in an intimate way, it's fine, Okay, well, 566 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 1: what's your trick? Well, you yeah, I don't know my case. 567 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm a bottom lip not not a biter sucker, 568 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 1: you know. Okay, Like, how do you do that? You 569 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: just suck on the bottom lip a little bit. That's 570 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 1: that's why I like. I like that he's sucky. We 571 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 1: got to get off this conversation because get so excited 572 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 1: over here. Um let's get back to Batchler. So for 573 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: all of your teenagers out there and listen to the show. 574 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: We just gave you a nice four minute segment on 575 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: how to make your kissing life better. You can think 576 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 1: the almost famous podcast later. Make sure to tag us 577 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 1: in all of your tweets. Air Here's the deal. How 578 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,280 Speaker 1: are you going to do as a bachelor? I think 579 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 1: he's going to be really good. I mean a lot 580 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 1: of us that have known him have thought he should 581 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,239 Speaker 1: be a bachelor for like a while now. And I 582 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 1: don't think he's like, you know, he's thirty five, Like 583 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: that's the perfect age. I genuinely believe he's ready to 584 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: settle down. Knowing him, you know, personally, and knowing that 585 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,600 Speaker 1: he's been in a serious relationship, and I feel like 586 00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: he's at a point in his career too, where he's 587 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: not like, you know, running around like doing races all 588 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 1: the time when he really could find the right person. Plus, 589 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 1: I just think he's so cute. He's gonna be really engaging. 590 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 1: He's genuine. Women really do go crazy over him. Um. 591 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 1: So I think he'll be interesting to see what type 592 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 1: of girls are on his season two, you know, because 593 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: it's been so different every season recently. That's I was 594 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 1: just going to ask you, So, do you like the 595 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 1: way that we're doing a throwback season and what do 596 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 1: you think about what do you think about the current 597 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 1: cast and how it's evolved since you've been watching different? Um? Like, 598 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: I personally didn't watch that much of The Bachelor, and 599 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 1: even though I loved Rachel, I just didn't like a 600 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 1: lot of her guys, honestly. But I watched Paradise, and 601 00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 1: I've watched every season in Paradise. Um. But it was 602 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 1: just funny to men, like if you compare this past 603 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 1: to like, you know, Bachelor past season two or three, 604 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 1: it's just so different, you know, and the show has 605 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: changed so much, Like things that we all can talk 606 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 1: about now, like exact or just anything like they would 607 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 1: not let us talk about back then, like they were 608 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 1: very into being like super wholesome. It was like ABC, 609 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 1: you know. Um, And so I think it's I guess 610 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: it's had to evolve with times. But I think that 611 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: maybe this season will be like a good combination of 612 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 1: the past in the present in its own way. I 613 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: want to I want to ask you a question, Erica, 614 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 1: because I feel like you you were on the show 615 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 1: before social media kind of changed everything. Um, do you 616 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: think people go on the show now purely to like 617 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 1: sell do? Yeah? I think so. I mean when we 618 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 1: first did The Bachelor, it was two thousand and six. 619 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:54,360 Speaker 1: Facebook was the only social media and we had to 620 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,240 Speaker 1: deactivate our Facebook, you know, even just take out film 621 00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: and my friends are like, where are you? Like, what's wrong? 622 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 1: But like there was no you don't promote anything on 623 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: Facebook at least back then you didn't, you know. And 624 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 1: so there was people really like the girls on my season, 625 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 1: I will tell you, like, we're there like generally for 626 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 1: this like fairytale experience. The guy was a print. Um. 627 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 1: Some of them admitted they were there for like a 628 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 1: cool free trip to Rome, but no one was really there, 629 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: to be fair, I mean, that was like not really 630 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 1: on anyone's mind. Honestly, people really wanted to get married. 631 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 1: They thought that was exciting. You know. Back then there 632 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 1: was like us weekly in People magazine, but you really 633 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 1: couldn't make money off of it, you know. And I 634 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,920 Speaker 1: just think that, you know, things are so different now. 635 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 1: Like I know so many girls when I lived in 636 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 1: l a that would tell me they wanted to be 637 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 1: on the show just to like help their careers, and like, 638 00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: you know, I guess I don't blame people, but at 639 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,200 Speaker 1: the same time, it's hard. It must be hard for casting, 640 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 1: you know, to find the right people. It's interesting because 641 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: even this has been UM. When I was on The 642 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:55,040 Speaker 1: Bachelorrette which was on Caitlin season UM three years ago, 643 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: we started that season without the idea of social media. 644 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 1: Um it kind of it kind of catapulted really between 645 00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 1: the time that on The Bachelor and The Bachelors when 646 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: Instagram and the twitters of the world became really popular. 647 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,240 Speaker 1: So a lot of those guys that are my season 648 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 1: still don't have that big following because it didn't exist 649 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 1: and on our intention, I mean, we had a blast, right, 650 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 1: you said it, right. Some people went to just have 651 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 1: a good experience, which I think is really probably the 652 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 1: reason to do it, and then if you fall in 653 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: off great, Um. But I never ever remember a conversation 654 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,560 Speaker 1: existing during during during my time on the Bachelort with 655 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,720 Speaker 1: any of the guys thinking oh, after this, I'm gonna 656 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,960 Speaker 1: promote this and have this. That wasn't even a conversation 657 00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 1: the same year. So it's just like, really, you know, 658 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 1: it's just so different now it was for well season though. 659 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 1: Any guys during your season, We're like, if I don't 660 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 1: end up with our at least I'm going to make 661 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 1: money off Instagram. I never heard, I never heard what. 662 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,600 Speaker 1: I never heard of a social influencer before. And then 663 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 1: everyone was like, that's my job. Now I'm moving to 664 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: l a take pictures. Wait, but hold Like, so now 665 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 1: you watch because I think I think it happens to 666 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,760 Speaker 1: all of us. We and jaded, We think that our 667 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 1: season was the best or whatever. Um, and then you 668 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 1: start watching the show and you're like, God, I hate 669 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: these people. I mean, there's been other seasons. I liked 670 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 1: Joe Joe's season. I did also like Caitlyn season. Um. Um, 671 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 1: then I liked your season two. Honestly, I nick a 672 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 1: few times, so I think I expected more from him 673 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,760 Speaker 1: as the Bachelor, because I've met him only like lines 674 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: in real life. But I thought, I don't know, I 675 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,240 Speaker 1: just I feel like they didn't have the right goals 676 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,319 Speaker 1: there for him. I think that was the problem. But 677 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 1: I was disappointed by that season, and then say, with 678 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 1: Rachel's season, that's just how I felt recently, How do 679 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,720 Speaker 1: you feel about like those new guys from Rachel's season? 680 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:44,879 Speaker 1: Just as a whole, I wouldn't have been Like when 681 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 1: I watched Paradise, I was like, I wouldn't have been 682 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 1: into any of these guys. Like I had met ben 683 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 1: Zie you know, the past, and he had like such 684 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 1: a great personality. So I was like, why are they 685 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: making him like only talk about his job because he 686 00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 1: did talk about his dog life and no one really 687 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 1: liked him. And I'm like, to me, he was like 688 00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:04,239 Speaker 1: one of the best in the cutest guys there. So 689 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: I thought that was funny. I know, I remember sitting 690 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: Behy in the bar asking all the girls, who's the 691 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 1: hottest guy here? And unfortunately why unfortunately because you were undatable? 692 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, well, I thought you were going to 693 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 1: be the Bachelor. I literally bet Charles about it, and 694 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 1: I lost that that oh I'm sorry, was positive about it. Yeah, 695 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,600 Speaker 1: I didn't happen time. Don't run around now. Uh yeah, 696 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 1: always a bridesmaid, never a bride here. But but I 697 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 1: remember asking everybody, and literally everyone said, Benzi is the 698 00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:44,359 Speaker 1: best looking guy here. We know how you feel about Dean. 699 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 1: Uh he is a beautiful man. I will I will 700 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:51,600 Speaker 1: be the first to admit that would in a second. 701 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:53,880 Speaker 1: He bats those big blue eyes at you, and he 702 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,840 Speaker 1: was like, well all right, but he doesn't watch his 703 00:35:55,840 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 1: hands and still creas me out Erica. We really I don't. 704 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. We have to tell the audience this. Okay. 705 00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: So when we were in Vegas, people were like, okay, 706 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,359 Speaker 1: people were like, no, well said, would you rather lick 707 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,879 Speaker 1: a poker chip that's been played with all day long 708 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:16,320 Speaker 1: or put Dean's unwashed finger in your mouth? He doesn't, 709 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,720 Speaker 1: he doesn't take he doesn't wash his hands after dudues. 710 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 1: I know, so let's just say it. So I was like, 711 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,840 Speaker 1: of course, I was like, I'm gonna put Dean's finger 712 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,600 Speaker 1: in my mouth, and and You're like the only reason 713 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,320 Speaker 1: that anybody would choose that is because of his face, 714 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 1: and that's wrong, right If it was just I don't 715 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 1: know if it was any other guy put his finger 716 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 1: in my mouth. We were at Starbucks and he was 717 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,479 Speaker 1: just being funny and like did that? You know people 718 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 1: stick their finger in your mouth and they go like whatever. 719 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:54,800 Speaker 1: Now you're patient zero and you haven't had a solid 720 00:36:55,200 --> 00:37:01,360 Speaker 1: movement since a ton from to day, from kissing to 721 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 1: your recent engagement, which we're so happy about. Um, thank 722 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 1: you for coming on the Almost Famous podcast, Ashley Wells, 723 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 1: and I appreciate you. Hey, good luck coming up. Yeah, 724 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: you're appreciate Thank you. So Erica has a big day 725 00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 1: coming up. Um. As she plans for that big day, 726 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 1: she's going to be using a registry that we appreciate, 727 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 1: and I hope and I will point her her because 728 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 1: she'll be listening to Zola. Ashley tell Erica and all 729 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,320 Speaker 1: of our beautiful listeners out there about Zola. Zola is 730 00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:38,360 Speaker 1: a wedding registry that will do anything for love. 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So what you 748 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 1: gotta do if you are an engaged couple or you 749 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 1: know anyone who is engaged in looking for the perfect 750 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,759 Speaker 1: wedding registry, They're gonna have to head to Zola z 751 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:46,840 Speaker 1: o l a dot com slash almost famous for details. 752 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,880 Speaker 1: That is Zola slash almost famous and they will receive 753 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:55,200 Speaker 1: fifty dollars when they register under almost famous almost famous. 754 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,839 Speaker 1: How cool is that? Hey, everybody, this is our last 755 00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:01,120 Speaker 1: segment with Wells Adams. He uh, it's been a special 756 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 1: guest to thank you for coming in to day Wells. 757 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,319 Speaker 1: We want to talk real quick. Um, all of us 758 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 1: are in Los Angeles because I just participated and one 759 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 1: of the most fun shows I have ever been a 760 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,439 Speaker 1: part of, and that was lip Sync Battle this week. 761 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,279 Speaker 1: So I was on Lipsync Battle this week. Ashley and 762 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 1: Welles were there to watch. Um, we're there from emotional 763 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 1: and mortal support. Was that it because I needed a 764 00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:23,400 Speaker 1: lot of it. I sold myself to this show. I 765 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,319 Speaker 1: want to when this show comes out, I think it's 766 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 1: gonna be in February. Um, people better be ready to 767 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: see some things happening. Um that I don't know if 768 00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:34,399 Speaker 1: I want to watch back well as as a man 769 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 1: who was in the stands watching it, it was truly 770 00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 1: a beautiful sight to behold. I still had eyeliner on 771 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 1: my eyes this morning. I think you should have kept 772 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 1: it on. There's nothing I'd like more than guyliner. Really. 773 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well you look damn good in it. I 774 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 1: don't know. But anyways, Uh, last night was so amazing 775 00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 1: seeing you perform. I absolutely lost my mind. And then 776 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,080 Speaker 1: I also got to stand next to Christi t in, 777 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,600 Speaker 1: which is pretty great. I became a friend with was 778 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:16,640 Speaker 1: gonna one up you there, best friends because we both 779 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 1: have bunnyans. That's why she gave me her number, because 780 00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,600 Speaker 1: we both have bunyans. Remember we had a Vegas conversation 781 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 1: we did. So my sister is convinced that guys don't 782 00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,279 Speaker 1: like they like me for a little bit and then 783 00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:30,520 Speaker 1: they see my bunnyans and then they're like, oh, never mind. 784 00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,439 Speaker 1: And she was like, Actuley Wells and Jerry just saw 785 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,839 Speaker 1: your bunny ins and then it was I from there. 786 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,840 Speaker 1: So Christie, no, not at all. I think it was 787 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:46,360 Speaker 1: when she told me that her favorite. I told Wells 788 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 1: last night that I'm really thankful that I told him 789 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 1: that and that it was aired. Because Isaac Hansen d 790 00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 1: m me on Twitter this week. He was like, hey, Ashley, 791 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 1: what shall we coming to? Like? Can I get you 792 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,800 Speaker 1: tickets and passes? I'm like, what is what is my life? 793 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:02,880 Speaker 1: But anyway back to you yesterday. What's so awesome is 794 00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,800 Speaker 1: that like when you dance and you do the creepy 795 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: higgie and I Instagram story it. I get so many 796 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:11,280 Speaker 1: comments that are like, I'm so glad that you're showing 797 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 1: this other side of Ben and that he's just like 798 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,280 Speaker 1: kind of free, Um, because when you were on the Bachelor, 799 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,360 Speaker 1: he was like more stiff, but now he's just showing 800 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,680 Speaker 1: his fun side. I'm glad that everybody is starting to 801 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,200 Speaker 1: learn that about you. I guess I him too. Yeah, 802 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,520 Speaker 1: I mean that's it is. That show really allowed me, 803 00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,400 Speaker 1: I think last night, or just um, to loosen up, 804 00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:32,480 Speaker 1: to be free. The Bachelor's a weird experience. And we're 805 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 1: gonna talk to somebody here coming up who actually found 806 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,440 Speaker 1: love on the Bachelor. But the Bachelor's hard because you 807 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,359 Speaker 1: are pursuing a longtime, lifetime partner, like a long time 808 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 1: and being the batchler stressful. And I think I took 809 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:47,040 Speaker 1: it very serious because it felt very serious to me, 810 00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,439 Speaker 1: as you should. Yeah, but now coming off of it's 811 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,400 Speaker 1: like I do in a in a way which I 812 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 1: had more fun, laughed a little bit, more, loosened up 813 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,719 Speaker 1: a little bit. I just couldn't. I really, I mean 814 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 1: I just I literally could never get in a space 815 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 1: in that show where I felt comfortable just being me, 816 00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:07,920 Speaker 1: And I guess it took um. Well, thank you so 817 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,320 Speaker 1: much for coming to town, thank you for your support 818 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:12,480 Speaker 1: last night, thank you for coming on the podcast today. 819 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:16,720 Speaker 1: We appreciate it well as Adams, everybody. I'm not done. 820 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 1: I think, guys, I've had like the best two weekends 821 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,320 Speaker 1: with you guys. It's just I love you so much. 822 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 1: Last night was just another night, whereas like my life 823 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 1: is awesome, Like we have such a good time together, 824 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:31,120 Speaker 1: so good we have, we have the greatest friends. It's 825 00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,040 Speaker 1: really great. We we've had a blast and it's been 826 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 1: it's been real fun. It's not Bachelor fun. It's not 827 00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,160 Speaker 1: it's not this. I mean, obviously we're doing things that 828 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,560 Speaker 1: are pretty cool and come from being on the show. 829 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 1: But it's just like good memories that our friendship memories 830 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,319 Speaker 1: and not fake. And I think that's the best part 831 00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 1: about the last couple of weekends. Peter sin a text 832 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:52,880 Speaker 1: out to our group after the vaguest tragedy last night 833 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:54,359 Speaker 1: and just said, hey, I want to let you guys 834 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 1: all know last week and it was a great memory 835 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:58,239 Speaker 1: for me. Um it was amazing to be with all 836 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,680 Speaker 1: of you and I love you guys. And he ended 837 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:02,440 Speaker 1: it with I love you guys, and that I think 838 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,320 Speaker 1: that's coming from a place where it's genuine, legitimate and authentic. 839 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 1: It's just saying, hey, like we've experienced some awesome stuff 840 00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:13,240 Speaker 1: let's not forget that in the face of a terrible tragedy. Um, 841 00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 1: because we're becoming real solid friends and last night your 842 00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:20,520 Speaker 1: support there was incredible, So thank you for your support, 843 00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 1: UM and Wells, thanks for coming almost fame of podcast. 844 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:30,560 Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Really enhanced the episode. So the guests 845 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:35,080 Speaker 1: that has found love on the Bachelor franchise, one of 846 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 1: our favorite people from the Bachelor franchise is now on 847 00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:42,680 Speaker 1: the line. We got Carly Wadell, who is no longer 848 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 1: Carly what else she is Carly Bess car But I will, 849 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:52,120 Speaker 1: I will. Wait, you haven't changed it yet, No, but 850 00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,560 Speaker 1: I am going to. I'm just like the thought of 851 00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 1: doing it. It's like a lot of paperwork. Really, you're 852 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 1: already in my phone as Carl of Ascid. It makes 853 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:04,400 Speaker 1: me smile. Well, I think like the world should know me. 854 00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,200 Speaker 1: Is that I'll just legally do it, like before I 855 00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:10,239 Speaker 1: have this baby come out of me. Okay, well let's 856 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,319 Speaker 1: start with that. I was gonna start with your soccer story, 857 00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:13,880 Speaker 1: but I feel like we should talk about the baby. 858 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:17,120 Speaker 1: How has your first you know, you're in your second trimester, 859 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:21,719 Speaker 1: well into it now, halfway You're halfway there. Yeah, isn't 860 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:26,840 Speaker 1: that crazy showing? You know, I'm not really Every single 861 00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: time I see people are like, oh my gosh, you're 862 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,560 Speaker 1: not showing at all. But I feel like I'm showing 863 00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,399 Speaker 1: and I don't think I really am. So what point 864 00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 1: I mean? This is? This is something I need to learn. 865 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:39,400 Speaker 1: At what point in pregnancy do people start to show? 866 00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:43,440 Speaker 1: I think it's well, I think it depends on your body, 867 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,320 Speaker 1: and it depends on if you've had a baby before 868 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,480 Speaker 1: you show earlier the second go round. But obviously I haven't, 869 00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 1: so I'm twenty weeks right now and I'm like just 870 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,239 Speaker 1: starting to show. But it also kind of looks like 871 00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 1: just drink a lot of beer last Well that was 872 00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,279 Speaker 1: the time. I guess now the time not to do that. 873 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,080 Speaker 1: So you're making up for by having a baby or 874 00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,799 Speaker 1: are you ready for this? Are you ready to be 875 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,920 Speaker 1: a mother? Um? I mean yeah, I kind of already am. 876 00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 1: So that's a good point, yes, to tell us about that? 877 00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:16,839 Speaker 1: How is that transition? It's it's nuts, like boys are 878 00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:21,799 Speaker 1: a lot, but it's also really fun. Evan and I like, 879 00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:26,440 Speaker 1: didn't you know, live together with the boys before uh 880 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: we got married? So now we're all kind of figuring 881 00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,800 Speaker 1: out how to live together, which is like a wild 882 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:35,319 Speaker 1: and crazy experience. We're mostly I'm like, the dishes don't 883 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,480 Speaker 1: get clean when they're sitting in the sink, Guys, they 884 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:42,440 Speaker 1: get clean in the dishwasher. But then a lot of 885 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 1: like also just fun and laughter and it's great. So Evan, 886 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,319 Speaker 1: bro how I mean, So tell us a little bit 887 00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,719 Speaker 1: about the situation the family dynamic here. Evan has had 888 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:56,080 Speaker 1: how many kids previous to you? Three kids to three boys, 889 00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 1: so you're gonna have a four person household. But this 890 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:01,560 Speaker 1: is a girl. But this is a girl, So I 891 00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,279 Speaker 1: need to know how good of a father you think 892 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,520 Speaker 1: Evan's gonna be for a girl, because I literally think 893 00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,719 Speaker 1: he was born to be a father of a girl. 894 00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I know he he like every single time, 895 00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,440 Speaker 1: even like last night, Like the baby moves around like 896 00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,720 Speaker 1: a lot at night when I lay down, and so 897 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:19,440 Speaker 1: last night I was like, O, can you put your 898 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 1: hands like she's moving a lot, And every single time 899 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: he puts his hand on my stomach, she moved more, 900 00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:27,120 Speaker 1: which I think is like wild, like she loves him already, 901 00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,400 Speaker 1: but he like teared up and he's like I'm so excited, 902 00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 1: Like he can't wait, he went out and like bought 903 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:37,320 Speaker 1: this whole thing and said, like, daddy's a little girl already, 904 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:41,160 Speaker 1: and just like over the moon. What a little mushball 905 00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:44,560 Speaker 1: he is. I know, he totally is. He's like way 906 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,440 Speaker 1: more sensitive and way more machine than me. So I 907 00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:50,400 Speaker 1: know that he's he thinks he's going to be the disciplinarian, 908 00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,680 Speaker 1: and I know he's just gonna be like, you can 909 00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,080 Speaker 1: have whatever you want, just like I am with my dogs. 910 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 1: Like I know what he's going to do. So how 911 00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,759 Speaker 1: are the brothers going to be? Oh my gosh, they're 912 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:06,480 Speaker 1: so excited. They're really good with little kids, like especially 913 00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:11,440 Speaker 1: the middle of child Lamb is like he loves babies 914 00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 1: just like Evan does. And so every single time we're 915 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,359 Speaker 1: around a baby, he's like going over and playing with 916 00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,239 Speaker 1: it and holding it and loving on it. And they're 917 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,359 Speaker 1: just gonna be They're gonna do that. I gotta ask 918 00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:24,920 Speaker 1: you because I mean, I don't I think your situation 919 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,480 Speaker 1: is such a beautiful story. I mean, it is such 920 00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:30,080 Speaker 1: an amazing story from from start to finish. How you 921 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:33,239 Speaker 1: met you met on this show. But it is a 922 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,239 Speaker 1: little weird, but it is. It's really cool that that 923 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:37,759 Speaker 1: um life can work its way out this way. I 924 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 1: need to know though the transition um to having children, 925 00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,040 Speaker 1: to bringing kids into your life to being a mother, 926 00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:46,319 Speaker 1: right you you are kind of a you know, you 927 00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 1: are telling the boys now it sounds like, hey, pick 928 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:51,719 Speaker 1: up your your dirty clothes, wash the dishes. Um, how 929 00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:54,040 Speaker 1: has that been for you personally and and for you 930 00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:58,480 Speaker 1: and Evan as a couple. Um? Yeah, I feel like 931 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:02,400 Speaker 1: we I kind of didn't know my role coming in, 932 00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:04,840 Speaker 1: and so I think we're kind of trying to figure 933 00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:07,680 Speaker 1: out like what my role is. Like most I go 934 00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,200 Speaker 1: to Evan and I'm like, can you can you tell 935 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,520 Speaker 1: them to clean up? Or can you tell them to 936 00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:16,280 Speaker 1: do this? And now I'm kind of transitioning to be like, okay, guys, 937 00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:19,279 Speaker 1: like we know each other very well. Now it's time 938 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 1: to take your trash out of the car. But I mean, 939 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:26,719 Speaker 1: it's it's been interesting. It's been kind of a whirlwind. 940 00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:30,880 Speaker 1: Like I've at first just kind of felt like like 941 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:34,120 Speaker 1: I didn't really know my place, and now you know, 942 00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:38,560 Speaker 1: we moved into a new place altogether. It's new for everybody. 943 00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:42,400 Speaker 1: I think that kind of helps because it's, you know, 944 00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,879 Speaker 1: it's new for everybody, and no one really knows they're 945 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:47,680 Speaker 1: place in this new house, so we're just kind of 946 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 1: figuring it out altogether, which I think is really important. 947 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,239 Speaker 1: But I mean, it's been a whirlwind, it's been We've 948 00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:56,640 Speaker 1: had hard times, we've had fantastic times. I think this 949 00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:58,320 Speaker 1: thing is we just kind of hold hands as a 950 00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 1: family and just get through it. That's awesome, that's great. Yeah, 951 00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 1: I mean, is that's it. I have zero doubt that 952 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:08,600 Speaker 1: it would be difficult. Um, but difficulty isn't always bad, right, 953 00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:13,400 Speaker 1: and it brings us all way closer to hey, Carly. Um. So, 954 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 1: Jay just had a baby. I think she's gonna be 955 00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:19,280 Speaker 1: six weeks on Thursday. Also, then the most beautiful baby 956 00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,200 Speaker 1: I've ever seen, Like what I mean, of course Jade 957 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,920 Speaker 1: and Tanner would have a beautiful baby. Look at they're 958 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:31,400 Speaker 1: just beautiful people. When I when I saw the baby 959 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,880 Speaker 1: for the first time, of course, started crying, and I'm like, 960 00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,520 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm gonna be obsessed with my own child 961 00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:39,080 Speaker 1: and I want my own children, and but like I 962 00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:42,160 Speaker 1: don't really get like the Google Gaga over kids. I 963 00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:46,600 Speaker 1: get that way about dogs. Um yeah, So but then 964 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,719 Speaker 1: when I saw Jade and Tanner's baby and heard that 965 00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,400 Speaker 1: they had it, like I just started crying, and I 966 00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,880 Speaker 1: feel so attached to this child as I will feel 967 00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,759 Speaker 1: as yours because you know, I saw you guys me, 968 00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:58,600 Speaker 1: I saw you guys just get engaged. I was there 969 00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:00,800 Speaker 1: when you got married and now they had a baby, 970 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:03,839 Speaker 1: and um, it was funny because with Jane Tanner, all 971 00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,480 Speaker 1: of us were actually on vacation together when they conceived. 972 00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:12,000 Speaker 1: So cool. So cool. So has Jade given you any 973 00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,560 Speaker 1: advice for like childbirth or just getting through this pregnancy 974 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 1: and how it is to have an infant, Well, like, 975 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:23,600 Speaker 1: you know, Jade did it completely naturally. She's she's a 976 00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,759 Speaker 1: wonder woman. Like I'm going in and getting all the 977 00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:31,080 Speaker 1: drugs that they could possibly give me. I was like, Jade, 978 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,440 Speaker 1: you're a wonder woman. You're the bravest person I know. 979 00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,680 Speaker 1: Like I'm going to do the opposite of what you 980 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:39,359 Speaker 1: did because I'm terrified. Like Jade was so calm even 981 00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:43,000 Speaker 1: going into like the idea of having a baby. She 982 00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:46,239 Speaker 1: loved the idea that I've always been like terrified of 983 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:49,799 Speaker 1: like coming out of me. I don't know what about 984 00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:54,280 Speaker 1: that would terrify you. We were at Jade's baby shower 985 00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,760 Speaker 1: and we were talking about the horror of giving birth, 986 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:02,560 Speaker 1: and Carly was sitting across me with a very suspicious face, 987 00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:07,359 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay. Then I looked down at her 988 00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,000 Speaker 1: drink and there was just water in it, and I 989 00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,480 Speaker 1: really pissed her off by calling it out. You called 990 00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:18,279 Speaker 1: it out, actually, she was like, Carly no. Her Nick 991 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:22,440 Speaker 1: Lauren were like, hey, Carly, if you found the champagne 992 00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:25,120 Speaker 1: and bring dude, then we won't tell everybody that you're pregnant. 993 00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:31,680 Speaker 1: And I was like, terrible, It's absolutely terrible. She came 994 00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:33,600 Speaker 1: out with it like some few weeks later. I mean, 995 00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 1: I'm over it now, but I was. I was like, 996 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,920 Speaker 1: it was I didn't feel good that day at all, 997 00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,040 Speaker 1: Like it just took everything in me to even get 998 00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,839 Speaker 1: through the day. And then I was like, and I'm 999 00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,160 Speaker 1: also mating in a murder actually, but I'm not sure. Yeah, 1000 00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:52,000 Speaker 1: I mean, you smiled through the anger, do you do well? 1001 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,280 Speaker 1: I think Actuley just feels very close to the situation 1002 00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,120 Speaker 1: because she has seen I mean, that's a cool part 1003 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 1: about Paradise. Uh. You get an up close, in front 1004 00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,440 Speaker 1: of view at a love story, and you're one of 1005 00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:05,480 Speaker 1: the most beautiful love stories that any of us have 1006 00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,239 Speaker 1: have watched in the show. We're excited to see this 1007 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:10,239 Speaker 1: family dynamic come together. I think that's an exciting thing 1008 00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,440 Speaker 1: for us to see. It's it's it's interesting to me 1009 00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:15,120 Speaker 1: as I thought about your relationship with Evan coming into 1010 00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:18,440 Speaker 1: this show today. Is that the dynamic that now you're 1011 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:22,400 Speaker 1: a mother of um three sooner before? So my question is, 1012 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,080 Speaker 1: are you are you like a real life soccer mom now? 1013 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,000 Speaker 1: I mean, are you bringing kids around? Are you? Are 1014 00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:30,080 Speaker 1: you running them? Are your full time mother? I mean, 1015 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:35,959 Speaker 1: so I bought a soccer mom car, perfect good start. 1016 00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,759 Speaker 1: When we got together. I was like, Okay, I'm going 1017 00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,319 Speaker 1: to get a soccer mom car because I know, like 1018 00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:44,279 Speaker 1: I know, I'm gonna need it eventually, which that has 1019 00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,040 Speaker 1: become our family vehicle. I have a Nissan Rogue now, 1020 00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:51,960 Speaker 1: and I'm a full on soccer mom. I did too, 1021 00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:57,000 Speaker 1: but I'm you know, Evan still does the bulk of 1022 00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:59,879 Speaker 1: the picking up and the dropping off, especially since I'm 1023 00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:03,120 Speaker 1: in this, Like I was very sexy about my pregnancy 1024 00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:06,680 Speaker 1: so far. But I mean, you know, if Evan can't 1025 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,680 Speaker 1: pick somebody up, I'm there to pick him up. You know, 1026 00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 1: if Evan has meetings all the time and like one 1027 00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,279 Speaker 1: of the kids doesn't have school on Monday's ever, so 1028 00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:16,279 Speaker 1: like all hanging out with him on the you know, 1029 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,840 Speaker 1: on Monday. But I mean the kids like if I 1030 00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 1: show up at school, they also expect to see me 1031 00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:25,319 Speaker 1: at school. It's either you know, either or not. Like 1032 00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,440 Speaker 1: what's Harley doing here? It's always like Okay, hey Carley. Yeah, 1033 00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:30,080 Speaker 1: I mean that's great, and I mean it is. It's 1034 00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,919 Speaker 1: it's this awesome family that you guys are forming. Um, 1035 00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 1: we heard you have a really interesting story about a 1036 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,440 Speaker 1: soccer referee. Can you can you tell us about it? 1037 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:41,359 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. So the kids. Two of the kids 1038 00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:45,440 Speaker 1: are like super into soccer. It's their first year playing club, 1039 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:50,160 Speaker 1: um travel soccer, so it's even new for Evan, it's 1040 00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:54,000 Speaker 1: new for like two of the boys. And these parents 1041 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,880 Speaker 1: are just like, oh my god, they're so into it, 1042 00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 1: Like their life revolves around soccer. Like they don't even 1043 00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:04,200 Speaker 1: make plans on the weekend because they'll just throw soccer 1044 00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,040 Speaker 1: games in the next And we're like, okay, now we 1045 00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:08,200 Speaker 1: can't go out of town because we have two soccer games. 1046 00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:10,959 Speaker 1: And if you miss soccer games, they get so mad. 1047 00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:16,600 Speaker 1: So yesterday we're at this game and it's like the 1048 00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:21,320 Speaker 1: championship there's like five different tournaments, like a championship, and 1049 00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:25,960 Speaker 1: one of the kids who is the like team captain, 1050 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:30,200 Speaker 1: mom's son, and this other kid getting some like I 1051 00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,720 Speaker 1: don't know, but there's like a foul on the field. 1052 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,080 Speaker 1: So the rest, who I think it's probably eighteen years 1053 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:39,640 Speaker 1: old and these kids are twelve that are gives this 1054 00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:43,880 Speaker 1: kid a red card, which apparently is something you never 1055 00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:46,600 Speaker 1: ever do in club soccer when twelve year old Just like, 1056 00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:52,200 Speaker 1: who're dropping in here? And the parents we're like on fire. 1057 00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,400 Speaker 1: I've never seen like that. There was one guy that 1058 00:54:55,440 --> 00:55:00,400 Speaker 1: was screaming glad you're such as this mom was dreaming 1059 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:04,279 Speaker 1: like there's no red cards allowed in this this it's 1060 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:09,200 Speaker 1: like reds soccer. And so I guess what happened was 1061 00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,000 Speaker 1: one kid ran into the other kid, and the rest 1062 00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:15,960 Speaker 1: called a foul on him, and then the kid like 1063 00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,759 Speaker 1: cussed out the rest, and so then he pulled the 1064 00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:21,120 Speaker 1: red card. But we didn't know that. We just heard 1065 00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:24,640 Speaker 1: all these parents screaming, and so finally we find out 1066 00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:27,239 Speaker 1: that this kid is like cussing these people out there, 1067 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,600 Speaker 1: this ref out, and the mom of this kid is like, 1068 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:33,080 Speaker 1: I don't even know where he's learned to do something 1069 00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:39,440 Speaker 1: like that. He's just using colorful adjectives and I'm like, 1070 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:45,480 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, he learned from you. She sounds like 1071 00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,759 Speaker 1: he needs a curly and Evan in his life. He 1072 00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:52,120 Speaker 1: was the craziest thing. And We're just sitting there and 1073 00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,920 Speaker 1: of course, you know, I'm like shooting an Instagram story 1074 00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,640 Speaker 1: of the whole thing. Evan and I are just silent. 1075 00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,120 Speaker 1: But then later was like, oh my gosh, I have 1076 00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:05,960 Speaker 1: to delete these ones. That's like people's faces because because 1077 00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,160 Speaker 1: at some point, you know, these parents are going to 1078 00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:11,400 Speaker 1: call Evan and be like, your kid is not allowed 1079 00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:17,680 Speaker 1: to play. But I mean, it was nuts like these parents. 1080 00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:21,080 Speaker 1: Like I was like, oh, yeah, I'm totally a soccer mom, 1081 00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,760 Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, I'm not. You're learning the ways. 1082 00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:26,560 Speaker 1: You know, Carly, we appreciate coming on the podcast, and 1083 00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:32,319 Speaker 1: it just seems like between soccer season, the addition of 1084 00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:34,920 Speaker 1: three kids into your life, a new husband, and a 1085 00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:36,960 Speaker 1: baby on the way, you have all the material for 1086 00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:40,040 Speaker 1: a really great song to be written, and I think 1087 00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:43,400 Speaker 1: you're just the person to do it very soon. Um, Carly, 1088 00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,279 Speaker 1: we appreciate you coming on the almost famous podcast telling 1089 00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,919 Speaker 1: us your story. We wish you the best of luck, 1090 00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:50,359 Speaker 1: and we will be calling you back as soon as 1091 00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,800 Speaker 1: this baby is born, um, and making sure to distract 1092 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:56,120 Speaker 1: you even more from the crazy life that you're now living. 1093 00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:58,799 Speaker 1: All right, Well, thanks guys, We'll talk to you later. 1094 00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 1: Thanks Carly. So, Carly is really busy in the fall. 1095 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:05,560 Speaker 1: And you know what happens in the fall? What a 1096 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:09,640 Speaker 1: new Fab Fit Fun box. Um, I'm telling you that's crazy, 1097 00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:11,799 Speaker 1: isn't it. We're coming in the fall season. It's soccer season, 1098 00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:16,160 Speaker 1: like Carly said. And while it's soccer season, everybody's running 1099 00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:17,240 Speaker 1: around all the time. You don't have a lot of 1100 00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:19,520 Speaker 1: time to go shopping for your your favorite goods, your 1101 00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 1: favorite items. But I tell you one way you can 1102 00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:24,840 Speaker 1: get them, and that's with Fab Fit Fun. Here's the deal. 1103 00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,520 Speaker 1: The seasonal Fall box is out there. All the products 1104 00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,480 Speaker 1: in this box are full size. You're not getting you 1105 00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,160 Speaker 1: a little samplers, No, this is the real deal. You 1106 00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,440 Speaker 1: get a girthy thing, a lotion, you get a scar 1107 00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,919 Speaker 1: you get your private gym bag. Can I talk about 1108 00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:42,920 Speaker 1: how comfy that scarf is? I mean, if you if 1109 00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,360 Speaker 1: you liked, if you like, it is so comfy, I 1110 00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:48,160 Speaker 1: decided I'm sleeping with it now in the regular and 1111 00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,640 Speaker 1: it's worth ninety eight dollars and it comes in a 1112 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:56,120 Speaker 1: box that's gonna be thirt Not true, that's not when 1113 00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,560 Speaker 1: you use our code. Why are you kidding me? Okay, 1114 00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:02,080 Speaker 1: here's the deal. So, as actually said, most of the 1115 00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:05,280 Speaker 1: time when you buy these boxes, it's the value inside 1116 00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:08,600 Speaker 1: these boxes are two plus. We're not kidding right. In 1117 00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:10,560 Speaker 1: addition to all the stuff that we just talked about 1118 00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,480 Speaker 1: and the comfy scarf that Ashley loves, you also get 1119 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,320 Speaker 1: one of Ashley's other favorite items, and that's hot and 1120 00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,480 Speaker 1: cold gel packs that she puts in her eyes. I 1121 00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:20,920 Speaker 1: just learned this about it. Yeah, you put them on 1122 00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 1: your eyes and it brings down the swelling or something. 1123 00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:25,400 Speaker 1: So this this box is a lot of value. We 1124 00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,360 Speaker 1: could go on and on about it. So if you 1125 00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:30,160 Speaker 1: like a fat fit Fun box, if you don't want 1126 00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:35,200 Speaker 1: to pay, that's okay because if you use the code 1127 00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:38,640 Speaker 1: almost famous, you get ten dollars off your first box. 1128 00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:41,040 Speaker 1: So go to fat fit Fun dot com with the 1129 00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:46,200 Speaker 1: cupon code almost famous. You're only gonna pay. That's a 1130 00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:49,480 Speaker 1: two value per box. It's worth it. Go do it. 1131 00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,800 Speaker 1: If you don't, you're gonna waste your money on something else. 1132 00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:55,080 Speaker 1: So so just buy a box. All right, you guys, 1133 00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,800 Speaker 1: we have one of the juiciest segments we've had on 1134 00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:02,440 Speaker 1: this podcast. We have a disguised caller, an anonymous caller 1135 00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:07,280 Speaker 1: that has information on one of Ari's girls. So we're 1136 00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,080 Speaker 1: going to get the dirt out of her and I 1137 00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:14,000 Speaker 1: am so excited. All Right, the callers online five. Her 1138 00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:19,040 Speaker 1: voice has been disguised. Bring her on. We'll call you 1139 00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:23,880 Speaker 1: Anonymous girl. Hello, anonymous girl. Hi, how are you guys? 1140 00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:27,840 Speaker 1: So please tell us who do you have information? On? News? 1141 00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,480 Speaker 1: But I mean when the show airs, everybody's going to 1142 00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:34,600 Speaker 1: know who she is because she's like the youngest one talking. 1143 00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:37,160 Speaker 1: But that's that's what I'm asking that, That's what I mean. 1144 00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:39,280 Speaker 1: I'm that's what I'm saying. Like he's thirty five, she's 1145 00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 1: twenty three. Why she's ready for love? That's my point. 1146 00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:48,000 Speaker 1: And she was married last year and divorced within like 1147 00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:53,960 Speaker 1: six months. So okay, So I know her from high 1148 00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:58,280 Speaker 1: school and college. I lived next to her, um and 1149 00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:02,760 Speaker 1: our college apartment like runs in the same group of people. 1150 01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:08,360 Speaker 1: Um she before she went on she I mean, she's 1151 01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:10,680 Speaker 1: been talking about being on the Bachelor for years, Like 1152 01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:12,520 Speaker 1: that's just something she's always wanted to do, and so 1153 01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:15,160 Speaker 1: she made it very well known that she was going 1154 01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:20,040 Speaker 1: on to further her career and to become well known 1155 01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:23,240 Speaker 1: and be a part of like the Bachelor franchise, And 1156 01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:26,600 Speaker 1: she just wants people to know who she is and 1157 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:31,680 Speaker 1: to become almost famous. She wanted to become almost famous exactly. 1158 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:35,360 Speaker 1: She wants from almost famous. So, um, like, I know 1159 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:38,360 Speaker 1: the type of person she is, and she's whether she 1160 01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:40,320 Speaker 1: perceives herself as good or bad on the show. I 1161 01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:42,880 Speaker 1: don't think she cares. She just wants to be known. 1162 01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:47,080 Speaker 1: Do you think that she's going to get always attention 1163 01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:50,800 Speaker 1: in a big way? Yeah? Probably? Like I was hoping 1164 01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 1: that she was just kind of like be disguised and 1165 01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:55,680 Speaker 1: like fly under the radar and no one really knows 1166 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:58,200 Speaker 1: she wasn't she get kicked off people early. But I 1167 01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:00,080 Speaker 1: mean I know her better than that to know that 1168 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:04,600 Speaker 1: she is going to make herself known on this show. 1169 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:08,360 Speaker 1: Here's my question for you. There's obviously some some feelings 1170 01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,200 Speaker 1: here from you that you don't think she's she's ready 1171 01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:13,840 Speaker 1: for this, or she's not here for wait for it? 1172 01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:19,840 Speaker 1: The writer reason, Um, so, am I am I correct 1173 01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:22,680 Speaker 1: in saying that? Or do you yea know, you're correct, 1174 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:24,880 Speaker 1: You're this definitely correct. I mean, for the fact that 1175 01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:27,680 Speaker 1: she was married and divorced within the past year. I 1176 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:31,520 Speaker 1: just don't think that she should be trying like on 1177 01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:35,240 Speaker 1: a dating show, you know what I'm saying. And I mean, 1178 01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:39,720 Speaker 1: aris thirty five, she's twenty three. I don't. I just 1179 01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:41,560 Speaker 1: don't like he's really in this for a love, it 1180 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,840 Speaker 1: seems like, and she's not. I mean, I think I 1181 01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:48,400 Speaker 1: think the twelve year age, the twelve year age difference, 1182 01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:51,840 Speaker 1: I think the twelve year age difference is just fine. 1183 01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:54,440 Speaker 1: But I think if it's between a twenty three year 1184 01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:56,760 Speaker 1: old and thirty five year old, there's a big life 1185 01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:59,880 Speaker 1: gap in there. I think if they were thirty and 1186 01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,040 Speaker 1: forty two, then that's no biggie. Yeah, there's a big 1187 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:08,680 Speaker 1: maturity difference. And she has a marriage that lasted six months, 1188 01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:15,520 Speaker 1: and her ex husband's family is very wealthy and they're 1189 01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:19,280 Speaker 1: like prominent people from where we're from. And so I 1190 01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:23,400 Speaker 1: think she married him more for his name than for him, 1191 01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,280 Speaker 1: which is why I think it fails. And I and 1192 01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:27,200 Speaker 1: I honestly I'm sitting here talking to about I have 1193 01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:28,920 Speaker 1: no clue who this is that I don't even know 1194 01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:30,920 Speaker 1: who you are. You're an anonymous scholar. That's what I 1195 01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,840 Speaker 1: know your name as. I don't have any idea why 1196 01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:37,040 Speaker 1: they got a divorce. You know, marriages break and and 1197 01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:41,000 Speaker 1: and tragedy happens all the time, and that that's sad 1198 01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:44,200 Speaker 1: and it stinks, and I hope that through that good 1199 01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:47,120 Speaker 1: things can happen. However it is, it brings up a 1200 01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:48,880 Speaker 1: talk we've talked about a lot on the show, is 1201 01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:51,880 Speaker 1: how much time do you take post breakup to get 1202 01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:55,640 Speaker 1: back with somebody? Um? How is there a time period 1203 01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:59,800 Speaker 1: for healing? Um? I would imagine after a marriage to 1204 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,800 Speaker 1: a little bit harder to heal than it is just 1205 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,920 Speaker 1: after a normal breakup. It seems like this girl married 1206 01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:07,160 Speaker 1: for the wrong reasons, So I don't know if her 1207 01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:10,800 Speaker 1: post breakup like rest is going to be as long. 1208 01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:15,960 Speaker 1: But I know that they were high school sweethearts, so 1209 01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:18,960 Speaker 1: like obviously they did you know, like I'm sure they 1210 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,800 Speaker 1: loved each other and she's still like I was trying 1211 01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:24,000 Speaker 1: to get in contact with him up until she left, 1212 01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:26,840 Speaker 1: and so I don't know, like if anything happened there. 1213 01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,600 Speaker 1: But I mean, I am married currently and I know 1214 01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:32,680 Speaker 1: that if I got divorced, I would not do like 1215 01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:35,760 Speaker 1: three months later, decided to go an autition for the 1216 01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:38,439 Speaker 1: Bachelor to go and try and date someone who wants 1217 01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:41,480 Speaker 1: to get married. Like you know, I you need you 1218 01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:44,640 Speaker 1: need a healing You need healing time. You need time 1219 01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:46,680 Speaker 1: for yourself to kind of figure out who you are 1220 01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:49,720 Speaker 1: without this person you've just spent so much time with 1221 01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:52,960 Speaker 1: and been committed to. And I just don't think she 1222 01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:54,800 Speaker 1: took enough time. I mean, and the fact that she 1223 01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:57,120 Speaker 1: was like, she wasn't hiding it. She was being very 1224 01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:59,040 Speaker 1: open with people that she was going on to further 1225 01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:01,280 Speaker 1: her career and to become well known. What does she 1226 01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:02,840 Speaker 1: want to do with her career? I was gonna say, 1227 01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:04,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I've I did this. If I would have 1228 01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:06,120 Speaker 1: done this to further my career. Now I'm sitting in 1229 01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,320 Speaker 1: a studio talking with Ashley for a living. This is 1230 01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:14,280 Speaker 1: uh pretty cool. Big things have happened in my life. Yeah, 1231 01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:17,640 Speaker 1: what kind of career does she want? So? She um 1232 01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:21,640 Speaker 1: is a freelance model. She does like some modeling should 1233 01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:26,000 Speaker 1: share in Utah and where she's from. UM and then 1234 01:04:26,080 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 1: she has like the photography business that I mean, it's 1235 01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:33,320 Speaker 1: just all local. So everything she does is just locally 1236 01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:36,520 Speaker 1: so here's the all of our listeners out there. When 1237 01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:39,280 Speaker 1: our show starts airing, we'll be looking now for the 1238 01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,280 Speaker 1: twenty year old woman that gets out of the car 1239 01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:45,640 Speaker 1: with future social influencer as the job title under her name. 1240 01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:49,640 Speaker 1: Thank you anonymous caller for coming on UM the Almost 1241 01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:54,160 Speaker 1: Famous Podcast with Ashley and I to speak UM about 1242 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:57,280 Speaker 1: our new segment that will be airing once our season starts, 1243 01:04:57,840 --> 01:05:03,640 Speaker 1: The Right Reasons Police the Investing Asian starts now. Hey, 1244 01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:06,400 Speaker 1: thank you for coming on. So this has been an 1245 01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:08,040 Speaker 1: interesting show so far. I've had a lot of fun 1246 01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:11,440 Speaker 1: with it. UM. It's helped picked up my my spirits 1247 01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:14,320 Speaker 1: from a a tragedy that really did kind of bring 1248 01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:15,880 Speaker 1: us down. I'm sure once we walk out of the 1249 01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:19,840 Speaker 1: studio the news will show and and life will reality 1250 01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:21,480 Speaker 1: will start to sink in again. But it is good 1251 01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:24,280 Speaker 1: to take a few moments of our day to step away, 1252 01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:26,040 Speaker 1: laugh a little bit and have a little fun. And 1253 01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:28,480 Speaker 1: one of my favorite callers of the day was Erica Rose. 1254 01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:31,880 Speaker 1: And Erica Rose is a self proclaimed kicking or kissing 1255 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:34,440 Speaker 1: not kicking, I hope she's not kicking people. 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And I also want to take a second 1294 01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:38,400 Speaker 1: here because this is a podcast that I do invest 1295 01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:40,440 Speaker 1: a lot of time in, I do have a lot 1296 01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:42,320 Speaker 1: of fun with and I'm going to give a little 1297 01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:45,120 Speaker 1: shout out to something that launched this week that I've 1298 01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:47,800 Speaker 1: been working on. It's called Generous International. We operate as 1299 01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:51,320 Speaker 1: Generous Coffee Company. Generous Coffee Company is an organization that 1300 01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:55,840 Speaker 1: we purchase coffee from third world countries, we export it 1301 01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:59,520 Speaker 1: into the United States, we package and we ship uh 1302 01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:02,360 Speaker 1: from different locations United States. And when we sell this 1303 01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:04,919 Speaker 1: coffee and you can go to Generous Movement dot Com 1304 01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:07,840 Speaker 1: to buy the coffee. All profits from the sell of 1305 01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:10,880 Speaker 1: coffee are going back to organizations in these sord world 1306 01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:13,960 Speaker 1: countries that are investing in community development and sustainability plans. 1307 01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:16,400 Speaker 1: This is a passion project for me. It's one that 1308 01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:19,320 Speaker 1: I'm very excited about. UM. It's one that I feel 1309 01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:23,000 Speaker 1: called to. So if you drink coffee UM, and you 1310 01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:24,519 Speaker 1: want to make a difference, if you want to be 1311 01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:28,000 Speaker 1: generous UM with the choices that you make in your consumption, 1312 01:08:28,360 --> 01:08:32,120 Speaker 1: then please go to Generous Movement dot com and buy 1313 01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:35,519 Speaker 1: a bunch of bags of coffee today. With that, we 1314 01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:39,080 Speaker 1: want to think Erica Rose Wells Adams, the Twins and 1315 01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:44,800 Speaker 1: Lean Haley and Carly Waddell soon to be Bass But 1316 01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:47,680 Speaker 1: you know, for coming on the show today, it was 1317 01:08:48,120 --> 01:08:50,599 Speaker 1: it was a good way to take our minds off 1318 01:08:50,640 --> 01:08:52,519 Speaker 1: of a terrible tragedy. And like I said, please go 1319 01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:55,360 Speaker 1: to local blood bank and and make a difference and 1320 01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:57,760 Speaker 1: go check out those go fund means. Next week we're 1321 01:08:57,760 --> 01:08:59,479 Speaker 1: gonna have Vinny and we're gonna find out who the 1322 01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:01,120 Speaker 1: heck he is is, even though I totally know who 1323 01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:03,360 Speaker 1: he is, um, but a lot of questions he does 1324 01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:04,960 Speaker 1: have a lot of he has a lot of questions about. 1325 01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:08,200 Speaker 1: So Hey, everybody, this has been the almost Famous podcast. 1326 01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:14,479 Speaker 1: I've been I've been Ashley, and we appreciate you so much. Oh, 1327 01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:16,679 Speaker 1: we really really appreciate you. We thank you so much 1328 01:09:16,720 --> 01:09:19,680 Speaker 1: for all the kind in not kind reviews that you've 1329 01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:23,360 Speaker 1: been giving to us lately. Um, the iTunes reviews have 1330 01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:25,960 Speaker 1: been just so wonderful and we've been reading them all 1331 01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:28,200 Speaker 1: and we just thank you from the bottom of our hearts. 1332 01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:30,320 Speaker 1: Like we just don't understand how you guys like to 1333 01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:32,519 Speaker 1: listen to us, but we love that you do. I 1334 01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:33,960 Speaker 1: put a lot in on myself. I just got in 1335 01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:39,479 Speaker 1: there and started typing away. Thank you. Followed the Benn 1336 01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:42,680 Speaker 1: and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on iHeart Radio or 1337 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:45,000 Speaker 1: subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.