1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: How do you know if you have a needy partner? 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: It's a jew will show. I mean, sometimes it's very obvious, right, 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: and sometimes you might wonder if it's just you who 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: thinks they're needy, because every time they're like, hey, I 5 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: like you, you're like, get off gross Victoria. Well, there's 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: one psychologist whose study is going viral about signs that 7 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: your partner is needy. So here are the top signs 8 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: that they say you can tell if your partner is needy. 9 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: They act jealous or possessive. They say it's okay to 10 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: feel jealous from time to time, yet consistent jealousy and 11 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: possessiveness are surefire waste to damage trust in a relationship. 12 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: This could range from discouraging friendships to monitoring your texts 13 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: or repeatedly accusing you of flirting and innocent scenarios. I 14 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: would go on to say, that's also kind of abusive. Yeah, yeah, 15 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: I don't know that I would call that needy so much. 16 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 2: I don't think. 17 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, jealousy and needy are too like different emotions. 18 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, ironically, your partner might suffer from jealousy doue to 19 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: the fear that you'll break their true but in reality, 20 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: the lack of trust they have in you is what 21 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: ultimately drives you away, trapped because you're being surveiled all 22 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: the time. Trust me, I've been there. 23 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 3: But why why do you stay in those moments? 24 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 4: Why do I? 25 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, any I mean for you, I mean, anybody 26 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 3: might relate to that. But if you know you're being 27 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 3: surveiled like that, why do you stay? 28 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: Because well, it used to be because that's what I 29 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 1: knew from relationships for me as a child, and then 30 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 1: grew up and I was an enabler, so I made 31 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: it okay. Instead of being like, hey, not cool, Yeah 32 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: it's wrong, I actually think it's a love. Yeah exactly, 33 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: that makes sense. Actually, yeah, you are the love. You 34 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 1: taps into the fear from your childhood and then you 35 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 1: just stay because you're scared and you don't even know it. 36 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 1: But anyway, I've since learned my lessons since that time, 37 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's fun. Now I'd be like, hey, man, 38 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: get here, not cool. Here is another sign. They say 39 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: that you can tell if your partner's needy. They watch 40 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 1: your every move. Also kind of creepy in that one, 41 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: but they say, similar to blowing up your phone, needy 42 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: partner might also watch your every move. It could range 43 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: from going through your email, just stalking your social media activity, 44 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: and even checking your location constantly. Again, if you haven't 45 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 1: betrayed them or broken their trust, the behavior is just 46 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 1: isn't warranted or healthy. 47 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know if it's a needy list function. 48 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 3: Usually means that you want their attention, right, not that 49 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 3: you're trying to completely under like, uncover everything they're doing, 50 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 3: control everything. 51 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:38,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Here's another one. They lean on you for everything. 52 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: It says life is hard enough, so when you're dating 53 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: someone who constantly relies on you for practically everything, it 54 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,959 Speaker 1: can feel draining. From emotional support to decision making, planning, 55 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: and even chore completion. A needy partner's lofty expectations can 56 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 1: make them seem more like a child than a significant other. 57 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 3: Okay, now this is needy. 58 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a good example of what would be 59 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: qualified as needy. 60 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 3: I will say, this conversation is making me feel very 61 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 3: less needy than I thought I was. So guess what 62 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 3: not needy? 63 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 6: Healthy? 64 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 1: Over here? I'm study that's going viral about how you 65 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:16,959 Speaker 1: can tell if your partner is needy. They disregard your boundaries. 66 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: Says you should be allowed and even encouraged to have 67 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: boundaries in your relationship, Yet needy partners often have trouble 68 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: respecting them. Perhaps you value personal space, but they keep 69 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 1: barging in and intruding your alone time, or they may 70 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: try to interfere in your outside relationships and isolate you 71 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: from other people in your life. Again the isolation part, Yeah, 72 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: that moves into the abusive territory. This says, regardless of 73 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: I was done, boundary crossing is a major red flag. 74 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 7: I've experienced a lot of this too, and I think 75 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 7: part of it might be just being young, and you know, 76 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 7: you haven't dealt with your own issues, so you're not 77 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 7: aware of what you're feeding into, and so you find 78 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 7: yourself in these situations where you're feeling guilty. 79 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 5: About wanting boundaries. 80 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 8: Yeah. 81 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like now as you get older, you're like, oh, no, 82 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 7: it's okay to not have somebody reading every text that 83 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 7: you sent for the day find out what you were 84 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:06,279 Speaker 7: saying to your cowork. 85 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 1: You feel bad because you want them to be happy, 86 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: so you allow them to intrude on your boundary. When 87 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: you have to learn to be okay with having a 88 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: boundary and then being perfectly okay if someone is upset 89 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: about that bound. 90 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 7: And creating trust where you can have that boundary and 91 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 7: still trust each other. 92 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 3: I don't know if you're ever going to be okay. 93 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 3: If you're somebody is upset about the boundary. You got 94 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 3: to have a conversation about the boundary. But I'm not 95 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 3: going to sleep. If you're mad at me for having 96 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 3: a boundary, we're having a conversation. 97 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:36,359 Speaker 1: They need constant validation. That's another way to tell if 98 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 1: someone's needy. 99 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: On this list that are needed. 100 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: Someone struggles with anxiety or not. We can all use 101 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 1: a bit of research from time to time, but it's 102 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: not fair to burden your significant other with constant demands 103 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: on your for validation. 104 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 3: Yeah that sounds but if you're like this is cute, right, 105 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 3: or you still love me? 106 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 1: Right? 107 00:04:55,400 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 7: If I was a butterfly, you would I'm still. 108 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 9: Now. 109 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 1: And the number one thing they say you can tell 110 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: if you have a needy partner is they blow up 111 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: your phone constantly. Even though communication forms the backbone of 112 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: stable relationships, it's totally possible to go overboard too. If 113 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: you're at work with families, spending time with friends, and 114 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: your partner just starts bombarding you with text or calls 115 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: to sign that they're needy. Plus if you don't get 116 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 1: back to them right away, they become upset or angry. 117 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, but if you're the person who is blowing up 118 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 9: my phone, what do you think that's making me feel like? 119 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 3: Other than please stop blowing up my phone? 120 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 9: Right? 121 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 3: Do you also not get the vibe I'm not vibuing 122 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 3: with that? 123 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 1: Do you realize you're being annoying? 124 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 5: Self awareness? 125 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 3: Usually, you know, because anxiety takes over your body at 126 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 3: that moment. 127 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 1: But yeah, usually those type of people that will do 128 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 1: that are the type of people that if you blow 129 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,679 Speaker 1: up their phone, they'd be mad at you. 130 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 7: It's another jubile phone frame Mornings on the twenties. 131 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, it Speedeekins with dot Com delivery for Shin 132 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: and I just wonder where you want me to put 133 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 1: the goats. 134 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 8: The light down? 135 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, just where you want me to put them? 136 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: And nobody's home to accept the delivery. It said that 137 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 1: needed a signature, but I got other deliveries to make, 138 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: so just let me know where to you know, put 139 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: them in. None, I'll just you know, you want them 140 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 1: in the backyard where you want the goats. 141 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 10: Wait wait, wait, wait a minute, wait wait wait, I 142 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 10: didn't order. 143 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:41,239 Speaker 11: From you guys. 144 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: Sorry about that. These guys, hey, shut it, I don't 145 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 1: I wish I knew how to train these guys would 146 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 1: be quiet. They're very hold on. Let me get out 147 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,359 Speaker 1: of the truck real quick. Yeah, so where do you 148 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: want to They're very loud, but you already know that. 149 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 5: I mean you are twelve. 150 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 151 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 10: I did not order any goats. Yeah, I ordered bags 152 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 10: from you guys. I ordered like twelve garden toats. No 153 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 10: like the bags. 154 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: Yeah no, hold on, yeah, let me let me go check. 155 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: Let me get the invoice out of the truck here 156 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: one second, there they go. Yeah, no, says right here 157 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: twelve uh garden Garden goats. 158 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no no. 159 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 12: I'm pulling up my email right now. 160 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: Shut that little one keeps looking at me and shut it. 161 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: Please hold on, let me get of the carga. What's it? 162 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:37,119 Speaker 3: What are you talking about? 163 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: I did not order. 164 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 10: No, I didn't order any goats. I ordered garden toats like. 165 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 4: The bag, yeah, got the did not order any goats 166 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 4: I ordered. 167 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 3: What's that? 168 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 10: I'm trying to find the email right now of my receipt. 169 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 10: I can't find it back. 170 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 3: I got these twelve does. 171 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: I can't keep them in my truck all day, lady like, 172 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: I just need to get them out here and get 173 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: on the road. 174 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 12: I have nowhere to keep what are you talking about? 175 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 10: I have nowhere to keep going. 176 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: Oh ow. 177 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 4: Ow ow it. 178 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: One of your goats just bit my hand. 179 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 11: Not mine. 180 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 13: I'm I didn't. 181 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just gonna put them in the backyard, and 182 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: and you know what I have mind. 183 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 12: Please not do that. 184 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:32,959 Speaker 10: I have been, sir, sir, I have been tending this 185 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 10: guarded for years. I have things back there that they 186 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 10: will destroy, that they will rip apart, that they will 187 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 10: absolutely eat. 188 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: Parts of my body that they're going to destroy if 189 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: I don't get them out of my truck right this instant, 190 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: and half half of mine. 191 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 10: I'm sorry to get out of your truck and get 192 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 10: a new job, because I did. 193 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 4: Not order any goat. 194 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 1: I'm unloading them right now and in the backyard. 195 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 12: I'm not home right now. Please do not do that. 196 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 10: I did not order any of these, which keeps these I'm. 197 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: Not a farm that you do have a really nice garden. 198 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 1: I gotta say it's beauty. It's a beauty. 199 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 10: Save you leave my home and take your animals with 200 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 10: you immediately. 201 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 3: There. 202 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: I mean, they're your animals, and that one of them. 203 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 13: I need a number for your supervisor. 204 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: I need a number for your supervisor because I cannot. 205 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 4: Wait. Dude, are they Are they in. 206 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 9: Right now? 207 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: I have to ask. 208 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 10: I'm so sorry, I have to ask, are you stupid? 209 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:51,439 Speaker 10: Because I had the animal? 210 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 4: What are they call? 211 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: You know? What what is it called? When the sounds 212 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: of the bleeding, it's really loud with all the hold 213 00:09:58,120 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 1: on one second, I'm just gonna go. Yeah, I got 214 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: let me close the gate and go around the side 215 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: so I can get back to the car. 216 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:06,079 Speaker 10: Because here at my house and my garden. 217 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:08,119 Speaker 12: Get this out of my backyard. 218 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 3: What are you doing? 219 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 10: For the last time, I did not order goats. I 220 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 10: ordered totes, twelve garden tots. You are now bringing animals 221 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 10: into my backyards. They're my entire garden. 222 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, my day, and they're eating everything. You're just looking 223 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: at you right now. They're eating everything. 224 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 10: No, get out of my house. 225 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: Hey, Samantha, this is actually Jewel from the Jewel Show 226 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: doing a phone rank on you and your husband. I'll 227 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 1: set you up. 228 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 10: I'm sorry. 229 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: What it's a joke. He said that you ordered a 230 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:45,719 Speaker 1: bunch of totes from this garden company that you use, 231 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: and you wanted to mess with you. 232 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 10: Oh my god, I'm going to kill him. 233 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 4: I'm going to kill him and I'm going to kill you. 234 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 13: Oh my god. 235 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: Wake up every morning with Jubile Phone Franks weekday mornings 236 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: on the twenties. Give us three minutes and we'll give 237 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: you everything you need to know for the day, brought 238 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: to you by Muckle shut Bingo in Auburn your home 239 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: from Machino. 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So there's this one 258 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 3: girl who was there and she looked up at the 259 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 3: screen and it had shown that she had brought multiple dates. 260 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 3: It was actually a girl that brought multiple dates to 261 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 3: Top Golf. So the last three times she'd been there, 262 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 3: she was there with the different dude. And so she's like, wow, 263 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 3: you track all of this. They had all the names, 264 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 3: they had all of everything. And so now that those 265 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 3: screens could be public, you're people. I don't know if 266 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 3: they're doing it intentionally. 267 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: Or if you're a member with them or something. 268 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 3: It does happen to be a member or I get 269 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 3: that though. 270 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 9: You have to have like a card that's right, you do, 271 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 9: huh to access like this purchase. 272 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 3: Basically, yeah, I'm not a side piece. I don't know. 273 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 3: I'm I'm just kidding. I love Top Golf, but I 274 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 3: don't remember. Yeah, but just be careful out there. Another 275 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 3: thing you need to be careful of is spam text. 276 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 3: So when you get a spam text. Do you ever 277 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 3: respond to stop in hopes that these spams will go away? 278 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 5: Yes? 279 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 9: No, you got to respond with like whatever they're asking for, no, 280 00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 9: and then ask more questions so you keep them. 281 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: On the I'm here is my social security number? What's 282 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: your name? 283 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 3: Conversation with they you guys are all clearly victims because no. 284 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 3: The answer is you do nothing. If you're getting like 285 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,439 Speaker 3: text messages from a company that you work with, or 286 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 3: it's like you're getting like ads from I don't know, 287 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 3: Trader Joe's because you shop there all the time and 288 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 3: you don't want to get those anymore, then you reply stop. 289 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 3: But if you supply stop to some random spam text, 290 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 3: now you're telling them that there's a real person and 291 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:29,680 Speaker 3: now you've been targeted even more. 292 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,839 Speaker 9: So should you respond This is a bot, so you 293 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 9: shouldn't respond at all. 294 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 5: The moral of the story here is ignored. 295 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 3: Why can't you just do that? She's like, well, what 296 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 3: about what about this? Can I send them a pick? 297 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 4: I want to do that. 298 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 3: I'd ask their name for. 299 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: The bots, but the. 300 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 3: Bots, Hey look at this. 301 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: Hey you've been pre approved for your home MORTGAGEGGE. 302 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 3: I bet you let this live in her home. Wow. 303 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 14: Wow. 304 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 3: Okay. 305 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: Lastly, the spammers to stop there, like, geez, we never 306 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: want to text that number. 307 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 14: I'm like no. 308 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 3: The new trend in bars in Japan is that they 309 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 3: are now not letting anybody over the age of thirty 310 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 3: nine into the bar. They are aged saving on the 311 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 3: opposite side of the spectrum. So if you're twenty to 312 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 3: thirty nine, you can go to this one bar in particular. 313 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 3: But it's starting to like pick up steam to make 314 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 3: them like cool bars, so nobody under the age of 315 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 3: thirty nine is allowed in. 316 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 9: I mean, I did get in trouble by the bartender 317 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 9: the other day and she made a comment to the 318 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 9: guys hitting at the other cross of the bar, saying like, wow, 319 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 9: I wish we could change the age like to thirty. 320 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: Five here you do. Why did the bartender get mad 321 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: at you? 322 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 9: Well, Tori, because I threw a dollar over the ledge. 323 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: Oh this play, Oh that's where you were throwing the 324 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: dollars down to your friends. But the bartender thought you 325 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: were throwing it to them or something. 326 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 9: Yes, and I wasn't, And she was like, you're not. 327 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 9: I had a lot to throw anything from up there, 328 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 9: and I was like Okay, I'm so sorry, and then 329 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 9: my friends camp and she sake. 330 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: She made a comment saying she wished she could turn 331 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: the age. 332 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 9: Of thirty five, and I'm like, well, I wouldn't be here, 333 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 9: but neither would half tea boy here. 334 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 3: You know what, she's got a point A thirty and 335 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 3: up bar is something I would go to. What the 336 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 3: heck I can't get into one of those? Well that 337 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 3: would just not be our night. 338 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think they do have thirty and up bars? 339 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 3: Did they really? 340 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? I'm pretty sure if you go to Applebee's or like, 341 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 1: can you go in the bar section, that's where they're at, 342 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: you know a good point? 343 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 3: Well there they got cheese stick, so up a. That 344 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 3: is what's trending. First Date follow Up powered by the 345 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 3: Advocates Injury Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. 346 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: Mari is on the phone today for a first day 347 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Evan. 348 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and 349 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and 350 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: maybe get her a second date. But before we do that, Mari, 351 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 1: tell us about your date with Evan. How long has 352 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 1: it been since you talked. 353 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 13: To him four days our date was, So. 354 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: You're getting ghosted already, are you sure? 355 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 13: I feel like if you don't follow up the day 356 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 13: after a date, they're never going to text you. 357 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 1: Oh. 358 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 3: I mean usually you do get to follow up. 359 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 9: But yeah, but it's pretty see but I will say, 360 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 9: but like, what if he's just busy or like things 361 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 9: just got ato crazy. 362 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 13: I don't know. I think four days is a little 363 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 13: bit too long to leave the morning I did follow 364 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 13: up with him after, so to not get a response to. 365 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, right, So tell us about the date. 366 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 13: It was amazing, like honestly too good to be true 367 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 13: for a first date. Maybe We went to this cozy, 368 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 13: little candle light restaurant. It was so cute, one of 369 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 13: those cozy boosts where you there's no way to not touch, 370 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 13: so our knees are touching, we're drinking wine, we're sharing 371 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 13: app Oh. I think we both I know. It felt 372 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 13: so romantic and so just calm, which I think is 373 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 13: odd for a first date. You don't always feel so steady. 374 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 13: You feel nervous, But there was just this like calmness 375 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 13: about the whole night, No like worry about eye contacting 376 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 13: we just felt so connected. It felt safe, honestly, and yeah, 377 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,679 Speaker 13: we're sharing food, and I think we both kind of 378 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 13: acknowledged that this could be something. We kissed at the 379 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 13: end of the night and it was just sweet. It 380 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 13: wasn't rush or for no awkward like will they won't 381 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 13: say it just it all sucks, so right. 382 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:56,399 Speaker 3: Well, what could the problem be? 383 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 15: Then? 384 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 3: I mean, that does sound great, and especially if you 385 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 3: guys are feeling safe and that it is not easy 386 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 3: to come by. So what could have happened? 387 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,119 Speaker 13: The only thing that I can think of, And I 388 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 13: think that the would be a silly reason not to 389 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 13: text me back. But he said that he was going 390 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 13: to be snowboarding the next day, so he needed to 391 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 13: leave at eleven. We were having so much. 392 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 2: Fun and at eleven, I don't know, I'm. 393 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 13: Just feeling kind of silly, so I kind of put 394 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 13: my hands on my head and I'm like, if you 395 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 13: go home right now, you're never going to see me again. 396 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 13: And but it works like he stayed for like a 397 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 13: bit longer. He ended up leaving at midnight, was so 398 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 13: like not too late, but he kissed me goodbye and 399 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:51,440 Speaker 13: he said that he would call, and the next day 400 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,400 Speaker 13: I texted him and I was just like, I can't 401 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 13: wait to hear about all the adventure, like have fun snowboarding. 402 00:18:58,960 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 8: And that was four days ago. 403 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 1: Oh and I got on that. 404 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 16: Okay, maybe he's like on a boy's trip, like a 405 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 16: boy's trip, no board. 406 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 3: But did he tell you he was going on a 407 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,120 Speaker 3: boy's trip or was it just like a day? 408 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 14: Well? 409 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 13: I assumed it was true. The weekend and she has 410 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 13: a full time job. 411 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Okay, Marie is on the phone and 412 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 1: she's getting ghosted by a dude named Evan. So we're 413 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 1: about to call him anancyfa tell us why he's ghosting 414 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: her and maybe get her a second date. But before 415 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 1: we do that, Mari, why don't you break down your 416 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 1: date with Evan again for us real quick? 417 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 13: So I land on the first date with Evan. It 418 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 13: was really calm, quiet, romantic, intimate, so sweet, we kished. 419 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 13: I asked him to stay out past his bedtime, and 420 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 13: now he hasn't called me back. 421 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 3: Oh bad influence. 422 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 1: Well are you ready for us to call him and 423 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 1: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you? 424 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 12: Yeah? 425 00:19:57,080 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak 426 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 1: to Evan. Please, Hey, Evan, how are you? This is 427 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. 428 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 3: Hi, Evan, I'm Nina. 429 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:18,239 Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubel. What's up? 430 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,199 Speaker 6: Did the radio show? No way? Yeah? 431 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to The Jubel Show before? 432 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 3: I have? 433 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 6: Actually? Yeah? 434 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 1: Okay, here, I've streamed it, like on your phone or anything, 435 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:37,880 Speaker 1: because you can stream it too. Side note show, That's 436 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 1: not why i'm calling. I'm calling today because we do 437 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: a second on the show called the First Day follow Up, 438 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 1: where if you go out on a date with somebody 439 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: and they end up ghosting you, they can email us 440 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: to get you on the phone and ask why you're 441 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 1: ghosting them. And we got an email about you, Evan. 442 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 6: You really? 443 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 12: Okay? 444 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: Any idea who would email us asking us to call 445 00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 1: you to find out why you're ghosting them? 446 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 15: I mean, I have an idea, but I want to 447 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 15: hear what you got to say. 448 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 3: Okay. 449 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 6: Her name is Mari, like okay. 450 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 1: Okay, and you went out on a date with her 451 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: about four days ago. 452 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:15,360 Speaker 6: I did. 453 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 15: Yeah, But I'm not. This is funny. I'm not ghosting anybody. 454 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:23,360 Speaker 15: I disslocated my shoulder snowboarding recently. 455 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 1: Oh no, okay, so you're not ghosting Mark? 456 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean no, I dissipated my shoulder and wife 457 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 15: got pretty bad. 458 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:33,439 Speaker 6: I've been healing. 459 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 15: But she emailed you guys saying I've been ghosting her 460 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:36,439 Speaker 15: for four days. 461 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you've just been healing up because you hurt 462 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 1: your shoulder. 463 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I mean it was a pretty bad accident. 464 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 3: I'm sorry about your accident. But she did text. 465 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 6: You, Yeah she did. But I've been healing from an 466 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 6: injury for four days, like, I don't. I don't know, 467 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 6: I don't. I haven't even responded to my mom, you know. 468 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:59,479 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well did you like her? 469 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 3: Well can you handle that right now? You've been healing 470 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 3: for four days? 471 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I like her, but. 472 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 15: This is kind of feeling weird, feeling like a little 473 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 15: ganged up on and h this is you know, I 474 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 15: don't think four days is a long time. 475 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,440 Speaker 1: Well, if you're feeling ganged up on right now, Evan, 476 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: Marie is on the phone and wants to talk to. 477 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,400 Speaker 4: You, She's she's here. 478 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 1: Yep, she wants to talk to you. 479 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 6: Hi, Evan, Hey, what's up. 480 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 13: I'm sorry to hear about your snowboarding injury. 481 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 12: But you ignored my text. 482 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm sorry. 483 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 15: I'm injured though, and I've been dealing with a lot. 484 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 13: Oh maybe do you need some talk? Could come over? 485 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 3: Maybe? 486 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 4: What? 487 00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 6: No, No, I'm not what snow? 488 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 13: This what? 489 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 15: No, I'm I'm thank you that I appreciate your concern 490 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 15: and why to take care of me. But I'm I'm 491 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 15: really best when I heal on my own by myself. 492 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 6: Can buy it? I mean, it's not I'm not. 493 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 15: I'm not trying to be funny like it's now, that's 494 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:18,920 Speaker 15: just who I am. 495 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 6: Okay, you guys are laughing at me too. 496 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 1: You know, if you sound like you're very awkward about 497 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 1: this situation, you don't want her to come over and 498 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 1: help you. 499 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 15: No, would you want someone to come over after a 500 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 15: first date while you're liking the worst situation in life? Like, 501 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 15: I don't look good, I probably haven't showered, not gonna 502 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 15: lie like. 503 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 13: I mean, if you're hurting, I want to be there 504 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 13: to help you. That's what happens in a relationship. 505 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:45,919 Speaker 4: I can. 506 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 13: I don't care. 507 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 15: You're not say you're you're really sweet, but we're not 508 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 15: in a relationship. 509 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,400 Speaker 6: And I feel weird talking about this. Other radio front 510 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 6: of strangers. 511 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 13: I know that, but that's where we're heading, isn't it. 512 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 15: Like you could have sent me another text and I 513 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,919 Speaker 15: could have probably gotten, like, you know, through like the 514 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,919 Speaker 15: cloudedness of being on meds, probably been like upfront and 515 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 15: been like, hey, maybe in a couple of weeks. Like, honestly, 516 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 15: I don't think I'm ready to go on a date 517 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 15: for a really long time. I'm not in a good 518 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,679 Speaker 15: place right now, like I'm in pain, I'm on meds, 519 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 15: I'm not myself. 520 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 6: Don't take it personally, but maybe not do this to 521 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 6: the next person I think you need to. 522 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 13: Maybe wait, I can just come over like I don't 523 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 13: mean a lot. 524 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 6: Oh no, no, thank you. 525 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 17: I'm made a. 526 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 13: Really good chicken noodle soup. And my dad was in 527 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 13: an accident when I was a kid. I know how 528 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:43,439 Speaker 13: to take care of people. 529 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:50,679 Speaker 3: Uh huh. 530 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 13: And you said that you didn't text your mom back. 531 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 13: I can text her for you. 532 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 12: I can handle all that for you. Just give me 533 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 12: your mom's number. 534 00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,919 Speaker 3: Oh oh no, no boundaries? 535 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,639 Speaker 6: Yeah, is this are you being serious? Are you just 536 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 6: like doing this for show? At this point, I'm being serious. 537 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 12: I love you and you're hurt. I want to beat it. 538 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 1: Hey, I gotta go, Marie. Oh no, yeah, he's gone. 539 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 1: He hung up, Mari, mariy. 540 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 13: Sorry, that's just how he is. 541 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,640 Speaker 8: Guys, but you hurt. 542 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 12: We'll go out in a couple of weeks and it'll 543 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:32,880 Speaker 12: be good. 544 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,120 Speaker 13: Thank you so much for getting us back in con. 545 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 3: Do you have a good friend you can call? I 546 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,879 Speaker 3: think it's a time to have a conversation with somebody 547 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 3: that can just, you know, really flesh this out with. 548 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 5: You and have an honest conversation. 549 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 13: What do you mean. 550 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 4: Jubile's first day fall? 551 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 13: What am I some sort of a mentally challenged airhead? 552 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: No, not even I didn't say that. 553 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 4: It was like, why am I even listening to you? 554 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 13: To begin with your virgin who can't dry? 555 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:09,200 Speaker 1: It's time for America's favorite trivia game, You versus Victoria. 556 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 1: Your chance to take on Victoria Ramirez in the game 557 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,800 Speaker 1: of Trivia for John Mulaney tickets and let's meet today's 558 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 1: contestant for you verus Victoria. Chris. How you doing, Chris? 559 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 4: I'm good? 560 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,880 Speaker 1: Thanks sweet? Are you ready to go or what? I'm ready? 561 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 4: You go? 562 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 3: Chris? You have a very nice boys. 563 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 1: I was wondering what was going on with Victoria? She 564 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 1: was like her eyes got all like dreamy and she 565 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: was like looking up into the sky. I was like, 566 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 1: what is like is she. 567 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 5: Takes something and herself trying to spit some games? 568 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: It was all it was, is Chris, your voice mesmerized 569 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 1: with the early morning game. 570 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:46,959 Speaker 16: Right? 571 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 3: But that was like last time I said that. I 572 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:50,919 Speaker 3: think there was. 573 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: Like you like, thanks, I'm sixteen. My voice just changed. 574 00:26:58,880 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 5: Chris? 575 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 1: Are you are you man of legal age? 576 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 13: Yes? 577 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 1: I actually just turned forty like a week ago. 578 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 5: There, Well, not too old for her, Yeah, not for 579 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 5: me though. 580 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 1: Nina's all that all right, cool, my turn on. All right, 581 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: we're gonna send Victoria out of the studio, and while 582 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: she's leaving, Chris with the hot voice. Here we go 583 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 1: thirty seconds. Answer as many questions as possible in the 584 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 1: sexiest way that you can. If you don't know when, 585 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 1: just say passed and Victoria has to beat you outright 586 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 1: to win? 587 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 4: Right, gotcha? 588 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,440 Speaker 1: Okay, here we go, Chris. Your time starts. Now. 589 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 3: What is the smallest country in the world by land area? 590 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 7: Pass? 591 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,159 Speaker 3: What female artist became the first woman inducted into the 592 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 3: Rock and Roll. 593 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:49,360 Speaker 1: Hall of Fame, Oh. 594 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:51,159 Speaker 5: Madonna? 595 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 3: What architectural style is Notre Dame Cathedral, best known. 596 00:27:54,840 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 14: For oh uh. 597 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 3: Which language has the longest continuously used written history. 598 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 5: English? 599 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 1: All right, we'll bring Victoria back in my studio if 600 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 1: I can get her to look at me. Yeah, these 601 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,880 Speaker 1: are hard, all right, Victoria's like looking down at her phone. 602 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 1: I can get her to cheating. Yeah, all right, And Chris, 603 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,359 Speaker 1: while Victoria get settled and put her headphones on and stuff. 604 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,879 Speaker 1: I have a question for you. It's a very personal question. 605 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 4: What's that? 606 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,919 Speaker 1: Have you ever streamed the Jebel Show before? Run any device? 607 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 4: I stream you guys all the time. 608 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: Actually answer Chris, get any harder? All the guys out 609 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 1: there listening that are like man, I wish it could 610 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: be like Chris, because Chris called up and he's got 611 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,959 Speaker 1: both Venina and Victoria hitting on him, and he definitely 612 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 1: gets all the ladies. You know why streaming the Jewel. 613 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 5: Show there it is you hear that? Fella's all you 614 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 5: gotta do is get that. 615 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,719 Speaker 1: I heeart media app, the radio app or say it right, 616 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 1: I don't know, Yeah, yeah, I heart radio apps. Stream 617 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: it and you can get anybody that you want. Hey, 618 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 1: Chris is proof? 619 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 13: Yeah? 620 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 5: All right? 621 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 1: Thirty seconds answers any questions. This is possible if you 622 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: don't know when, just say pass and Victoria you have 623 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,959 Speaker 1: to beat Chris outright to when are you ready? Yeah? Yes, 624 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 1: all right, Chris, you can tell Victoria when to go. 625 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 3: Go. What is the smallest country in the world by 626 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 3: land area? I nope, it passed. What female artists became 627 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 3: the first woman inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall 628 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 3: of Fame? Ooh oohs what what architectural Stuffeifele is Notre 629 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 3: Dame Cathedral, best known for Oh wait. 630 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 9: I don't know back like I know this one. Oh wait, 631 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 9: it's like it's like a wait, it's like it's like 632 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 9: a what's like a jacket, like a like a crap 633 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 9: crap crap crap crap. 634 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 12: No, no, wait next. 635 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 3: Pas, Oh, you're wrong, right dression? Which language has the 636 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 3: longest continuously used written history? 637 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 9: Okay, I wanted that question English? No? 638 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 3: Wait wait wait wait wait what was the question? 639 00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 9: Wait? 640 00:29:58,280 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 1: Wait wait wait? 641 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 3: Which language has the longest continuously used written history? 642 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 1: Your a glyphics? All right, let's send it over to 643 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 1: the scoreboard and see how you guys did with our scoreboard. 644 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 1: Our producer free it was a barn burner. 645 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 5: We had Chris with nine and Victoria with nine. 646 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:20,160 Speaker 1: Whoa zero zero tie, Chris, that means you won. Congratulations 647 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: you beat Victoria Street. Yeah you did. Victoria had three 648 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 1: in a row, but now she's back to zero. 649 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 3: I'm really excited about that Street. 650 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: Who if she's gonna get smashed by anybody at this 651 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 1: game something? 652 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, we better be funny now. 653 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 7: Well, I actually faced Victoria over a year ago, and 654 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 7: these questions have got so much harder. 655 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, so he smashed you twice. 656 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 5: I did beat her the first time. Yeah, exactly. 657 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 4: Wow. 658 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 1: I think Victoria's perfectly fine with this loss. All right, Chris, 659 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: you did get John and Lady tickets or playing. Let's 660 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 1: get the answers now in Nina. 661 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 3: The smallest country in the world by land area is 662 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 3: Vatican City. Oh, Aretha Franklin was the first woman inducted 663 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 3: into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. I apologize 664 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 3: for that. You were actually going in the right direction 665 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 3: with this one, Victoria. Gothic architecture is the style that 666 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 3: Notre Dame is, and then Chinese is the longest continuously 667 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 3: used written language. That's cool. 668 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, agorphics are pretty old. 669 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 9: Though, right, Wait, how was are you joking me? 670 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 5: No, I mean they are. 671 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 3: I just don't earth they're still used. 672 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: How is it Chinese? 673 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 4: The wrong? 674 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 9: The longest said, I feel like heroglyphics like hieroglyphics, people. 675 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:39,959 Speaker 5: Aren't using those. 676 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's nobody who's still writing that. They're still they're 677 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 1: still writing Chinese. 678 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 3: Yes I did, I said continuously, I still use hieroglyphic. 679 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 9: Yes, So that should have been my street could have 680 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 9: been continued. 681 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 7: Okays been training me, and I will say, maybe that 682 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 7: may be the loss in the communication between that. 683 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do see he's over there, and it does 684 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 1: look like. 685 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 3: It's time to catch a cheater. 686 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 6: Only on the. 687 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 1: Jubile Show, Mary is on the phone today for to 688 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,400 Speaker 1: catch a cheater and she thinks that her boyfriend of 689 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: three years named Scott might be messing around. So we'll 690 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:18,480 Speaker 1: see if we can help her out. Mary sucks to 691 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 1: come on the show this way. But what's up? Why 692 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 1: do you think Scott might be cheating on you? 693 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 9: Oh? 694 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 12: Man, Yeah, you're right, just suck. 695 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 11: So basically, Scott has or had this work trip that 696 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 11: was having in Vegas, and you know, we've known about 697 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 11: it for months. I was actually really excited about it. 698 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 1: So you're going to go with him to the work. 699 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 12: Yeah, we're gonna go together. 700 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 11: It was like kind of team building stuff too, So 701 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 11: there was like, you know, fun dinners and spostas Vegas. 702 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 5: It's still Vegas. 703 00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 4: It would be fun. 704 00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 11: So you know, obviously I want to go and look 705 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 11: forward to oh and the company tage for everything. So okay, right, However, 706 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,520 Speaker 11: I you know, I actually broke my leg pretty bad 707 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 11: about a month ago, so I've been super laid up, 708 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 11: and obviously I can't you know, walk around big his 709 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,880 Speaker 11: own crutch it that'd be miserable. 710 00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:22,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I was like, honey, I'll go next year. 711 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 11: It's gonna be early thing. It's fine, Go have fun 712 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 11: with your friends, because then he works with some of 713 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 11: his like really good buddies and. 714 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 2: So so obviously I was like, you can't miss it. 715 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 2: Like I'm fine, I'm fine, right, But you know, ever 716 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 2: since he's been. 717 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 11: Back, like things have been been a little weird between us, 718 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 11: and there's just. 719 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 2: Like a few things that happened that I. 720 00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:48,240 Speaker 3: Was like, really okay, like what happened? 721 00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 2: Okay, So basically like for the last day of the conference, 722 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 2: he didn't like answer his phone at all, which wanted 723 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 2: super weird because you're at a work list. 724 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 4: And two he's. 725 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 11: Like super anal about having his phone all the time, 726 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,280 Speaker 11: and you know, like he got home. When he got home, 727 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 11: I asked him about it and he's like, oh, it died. 728 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,440 Speaker 11: I was too busy, and I was like it just 729 00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 11: like I don't know, it seemed really shady. 730 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: Right, Okay, Yeah, that's kind of weird if you're in 731 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 1: Vegas or something like that and your significant other is 732 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:20,800 Speaker 1: not reachable. 733 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,520 Speaker 3: But isn't that kind of what you do? 734 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 2: And like usually like if he's a way on work, 735 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 2: staff will FaceTime me like before bed and be like, hey, Bib, 736 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 2: good night. 737 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 11: I think I wish you were in this awesome hotelvert 738 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 11: you know, like something ye. And you know it's weird 739 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 11: because since he's been back, you know, I noticed there's 740 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 11: phone that you know, he's been getting text messages from 741 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 11: somebody called Vegas Buddy. 742 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,840 Speaker 1: It just Vegas Buddy, yep, like. 743 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 11: Cute little inside jokes makes you already. 744 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 1: Oh so you actually read some of the messages, Well, 745 00:34:58,280 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 1: I did. 746 00:34:58,760 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 3: I know. 747 00:34:59,000 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 12: I'm terrible. 748 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,359 Speaker 3: You're not terrible. It's his faulty made you do it. 749 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 1: Okay, So texting somebody named Vegas buddy, and I miss 750 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:07,280 Speaker 1: you already. 751 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 12: That's not okay, and then it gets worse. 752 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 1: What okay? 753 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 11: Yeah, he's also not side note, he's not usually like 754 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:19,120 Speaker 11: super active on social media, but lately he's been like 755 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 11: liking this girl's like pictures all over the place, and 756 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 11: you know, he never talks about her. I definitely don't 757 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:29,759 Speaker 11: recognize her for his job, and I don't want to 758 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 11: keep nagging him about it. 759 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 12: So I just, you know, didn't ask about it. 760 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:40,360 Speaker 11: But like, all of this together just feels really weird. 761 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,799 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, i'd be in her ms right now. 762 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 12: Oh yeah, I'm not crazy for this. 763 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 3: No, already, that's it. And liking the photos now you 764 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:52,920 Speaker 3: see who it is? This is this he's sloppy. That's stupid. Like, 765 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:55,319 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, you're. 766 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 12: Hiding something and she busted. 767 00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 3: Come on, no, I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. 768 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,400 Speaker 1: It's always this obvious to me, crazy, it seems very obvious. 769 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 1: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater And 770 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,320 Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, Mary is on the phone 771 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,399 Speaker 1: and she suspects that her boyfriend of three years named 772 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 1: Scott might be cheating. So we're about to call him 773 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 1: and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's 774 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 1: a rewards member at and say that every single month, 775 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 1: we choose one lucky rewards member who gets free flowers 776 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 1: delivered from our flooral department, and we'll see if he 777 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 1: sends those to his girlfriend Mary or to somebody else. 778 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 1: But first, Mary, why don't you break down your situation 779 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: for us again quickly? 780 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:31,279 Speaker 12: Yeah? 781 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,840 Speaker 11: So, basically, Scott had a work trip in Vegas that 782 00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 11: we're both super pumped for. Unfortunately I broke my leg 783 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 11: cannot go on the trip, and since then he's been 784 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 11: acting super shady, getting text messages from his new Vegas 785 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:51,800 Speaker 11: Betty and being weird on social media. And he didn't 786 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,399 Speaker 11: call me, Like, he didn't call the good night. He's 787 00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:55,959 Speaker 11: like getting after his text right away. 788 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,280 Speaker 3: Well, one of the texts that you read from Vegas 789 00:36:58,280 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 3: buddy was miss you already. 790 00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:03,279 Speaker 11: Yeah, so one of the text messages he got from 791 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,800 Speaker 11: his biggest buddy was like miss you already. 792 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 12: You can't wait till next time? 793 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:07,879 Speaker 14: Now? 794 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's shady. 795 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 3: Nope, there are you ready for. 796 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 1: Us to call him? 797 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:12,840 Speaker 4: Nope? 798 00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 1: I guess So here we go. Hello, Hey, this is 799 00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 1: Corbett calling from I was looking for our rewards card 800 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 1: member name Scott. 801 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is Scott. 802 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,400 Speaker 1: Hi Scott. Please don't hang up. This is not a 803 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 1: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling with a big congratulations, 804 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:41,440 Speaker 1: thank you so much for shopping with us. 805 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 5: You're this month's winner. 806 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,360 Speaker 1: What, well, maybe you don't know. Every single month, we 807 00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:49,839 Speaker 1: choose one Rewards Card member randomly that wins a free 808 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:51,719 Speaker 1: gift from us, and this month you've won thirty six 809 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: long stam red roses, a box of candy or chocolate, 810 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:55,759 Speaker 1: and a car to be delivered to anybody that you 811 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 1: want with in the fifty United States, absolutely free. 812 00:37:59,400 --> 00:37:59,680 Speaker 8: Sure. 813 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:03,359 Speaker 14: Okay, yeah, but let me ask you a question really quick. 814 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:11,840 Speaker 14: Huh yeah, heads and tails uh tails tails taials. Okay, 815 00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:13,799 Speaker 14: so let me just look up an address really quick. 816 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 14: Never mind about that first one just a second. 817 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 1: Oh all right, Well, do you know the first and 818 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 1: last name of the person that you want. 819 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:21,919 Speaker 3: Us to call? 820 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:23,359 Speaker 4: Yeah? 821 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,799 Speaker 14: Oh, I only have the first name. Okay, never mind, 822 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 14: let's just yeah, let's just go to the first girl. 823 00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,400 Speaker 14: That's fine, I'll switch okay. 824 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 1: Oh oh, so he was choosing between I see, okay, yeah, 825 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 1: so the first girl, what was her name? 826 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's Emily. 827 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,520 Speaker 12: Uh are you kidding me? 828 00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 17: Scott. 829 00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:48,800 Speaker 12: Seriously, two girls. 830 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:53,759 Speaker 1: Hey Scott, this is the Jubile Show. It's a radio show. Actually, yeah, Hi, 831 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. My name is Jubell. And 832 00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:57,719 Speaker 1: we do a segment called to Catch a Teeter where 833 00:38:57,719 --> 00:38:59,439 Speaker 1: if you think your significant other might be messing around 834 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,120 Speaker 1: you see you, they say flowers to and that is 835 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,360 Speaker 1: your girlfriend of three years Mary on the phone. 836 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:04,440 Speaker 12: Wow. 837 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 14: What oh god? Okay, so there's there's no flowers. 838 00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 1: You're you're I'm on the radio. Yeah, but I think 839 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 1: that's right. 840 00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 12: Now, Yeah, all right, what the going on? 841 00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 3: Who's Emily? 842 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 4: Oh? 843 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:27,160 Speaker 1: A friend? 844 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:28,239 Speaker 4: What do you mean? 845 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 1: How many girls are there? 846 00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:30,359 Speaker 4: Yeah? 847 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:34,319 Speaker 17: This is bull Scott. Do not ever you're gonna do 848 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,800 Speaker 17: like stop. You come back from Vegas. You don't answer 849 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:39,520 Speaker 17: your phone while you're there, you don't call. 850 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:39,960 Speaker 12: Me good night. 851 00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 17: You you're super shady about your you know, social media 852 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,800 Speaker 17: and Instagram. And then and then you're texting your Vegas buddy. 853 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,040 Speaker 12: You what is going on? 854 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 9: You? 855 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 4: Let me look at my phone. You What the hell 856 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 4: are you doing? Mary? 857 00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:00,320 Speaker 17: Well, you're doing so stupid. You have somebody called Vegas buddy. 858 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,920 Speaker 17: They miss you already. Come on, at least give him 859 00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,200 Speaker 17: a like a believable name. 860 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 12: I feel like Bob so and so is wrong with you? 861 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:16,640 Speaker 12: You're so dumb and what you're you're splitting a bouquet flowers? 862 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,120 Speaker 12: Like who this other person that you're sending it to? 863 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,600 Speaker 12: It's not me? You don't know her last name? Like 864 00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,239 Speaker 12: what are you doing? Who is that? 865 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:29,439 Speaker 4: What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Mary, you know that. 866 00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 12: We've been together three years. That does not apply. I 867 00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:34,880 Speaker 12: want to know the truth. 868 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:41,680 Speaker 14: Oh God, I gotta be honest, Mary. Some stuff happened 869 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:44,399 Speaker 14: when I was on the workship in Vegas. All right, 870 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,719 Speaker 14: we've got we got a little uh, we got a 871 00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 14: little wild. And I met this girl and we partied 872 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 14: for a few nights, and and that was the one 873 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 14: I was going to send flowers to. 874 00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:57,160 Speaker 1: That's that's Emily. 875 00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 17: I'm I'm sorry, okay, okay, so so that's Emily. 876 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:07,200 Speaker 8: But he's the other girl. What the guy? The other 877 00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:13,000 Speaker 8: girl was a dancer at a strip club. And uh yeah, 878 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,239 Speaker 8: I didn't I didn't know. I didn't know her last name. 879 00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:20,959 Speaker 17: Class he's got real real classic Vegas here. 880 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 12: Wow Wow, dude. 881 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,239 Speaker 17: Let me let me just get this straight. Well, you're 882 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 17: in Vegas, you cheat on me with some girl named Emily, 883 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:35,280 Speaker 17: and then you're round with some stripper and I'm home. 884 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,720 Speaker 4: I mean I didn't I didn't round that. That didn't happen. 885 00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,919 Speaker 12: But I mean, you know, shut up, Scott, shut up. 886 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 17: I'm home by myself with a broken leg, you know, 887 00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 17: worried about you. 888 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,800 Speaker 12: What if something happened? Doesn't work? You always just to 889 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 12: this phone. 890 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:51,160 Speaker 8: He always answers this. 891 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 12: Phone, like you dude, move being together three years like 892 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 12: you are. 893 00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:59,040 Speaker 4: You're such a piece of wow. 894 00:41:59,239 --> 00:41:59,480 Speaker 2: You know what? 895 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,160 Speaker 12: Good luck with your stripper friends? 896 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:02,239 Speaker 9: Like good? 897 00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 4: Like, nothing happened, Mary, nothing here? You know? 898 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:07,920 Speaker 12: No, just shut up. 899 00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 1: Nothing happened with the stripper and the other girl, or 900 00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:12,920 Speaker 1: something happened with the other girl, but not the stripper. 901 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:14,440 Speaker 12: You said you had. 902 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:15,320 Speaker 4: What happened? 903 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 12: You're back tidling like just just you have no game? Okay, 904 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 12: a wild Mary? 905 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:21,839 Speaker 1: Oh wow? 906 00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,760 Speaker 12: And you're doing what I didn't. 907 00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 1: Know you did. 908 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:30,320 Speaker 12: I don't know you obviously, I like, don't, I don't 909 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:30,680 Speaker 12: do it. 910 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 11: It was Vegas, man, you know, Nope, I've been to Vegas, dude, 911 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,719 Speaker 11: and I'm not strippers and doing drugs. 912 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:44,080 Speaker 12: You know what I'm done, and I'm telling it. Your mom, 913 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:46,920 Speaker 12: you know what. I'm going to call your mom and 914 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,680 Speaker 12: I'm gonna tell her about all of this. We're done. 915 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 6: We are done. 916 00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:58,960 Speaker 4: Don't call much like the. 917 00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:01,800 Speaker 9: Jubile shows to catch a cheater. 918 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 1: One of the world's most hated celebrities just bought a 919 00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:08,839 Speaker 1: full page ad in the Wall Street Journal to say 920 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,960 Speaker 1: my bad. And some people are calling it a huge 921 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,600 Speaker 1: step for them, and others are saying it's just another 922 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,319 Speaker 1: PR stunt and we shouldn't believe them. I'll give you 923 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 1: one hint on who it is. They made Taylor Swift famous. 924 00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:27,479 Speaker 1: Oh yes, talking about Kanye West. People are talking about 925 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:29,359 Speaker 1: to say, because Kanye West took out a full, paid, 926 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 1: full page ad in the Wall Street Journal to say 927 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 1: that he's sorry, are the things that he's done? 928 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:37,759 Speaker 3: Well, at least he picked the Wall Street Journal And 929 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:39,839 Speaker 3: it wasn't like People Magazine or something like that. 930 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 9: You know. 931 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,239 Speaker 1: I was like thinking, like, why the Wall Street Journal. 932 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:46,400 Speaker 1: Nobody's gonna read that. Very different reactions to that. 933 00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,080 Speaker 5: I'm here for financial advice. 934 00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:52,000 Speaker 1: We'll go over what Kanye said in his apology and 935 00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:53,719 Speaker 1: you can see if you agree. Text in four one 936 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:55,839 Speaker 1: oh six one. That's four one o six one. Let 937 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,920 Speaker 1: us know if you think that he's sincere, or if 938 00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 1: you're like some other people and just saying it's another 939 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,560 Speaker 1: publicity stunt and the next page will be something terrible 940 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,560 Speaker 1: that he takes out in the Wall Street Journal. But 941 00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,319 Speaker 1: here's what Kanye West said twenty five years ago. I 942 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,640 Speaker 1: was in a car accident that broke my jaw and 943 00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:13,880 Speaker 1: caused injury to the right frontal lobe of my brain. 944 00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:16,760 Speaker 1: At the time, the focus was on the visible damage, 945 00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 1: the fracture of the swelling and immediately an immediate physical trauma. 946 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,319 Speaker 1: The deeper injury, the one inside my skull, went unnoticed. 947 00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,120 Speaker 1: In that fractured state, I gravitated toward the most destructive 948 00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,920 Speaker 1: symbol I could find, the swastika, and even sold T 949 00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:32,440 Speaker 1: shirts bearing it. Remember when Kanye West was selling those 950 00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 1: T shirts. That was insane. One of the difficult aspects 951 00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:39,840 Speaker 1: of having bipolar type one are the disconnected moments, which 952 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,480 Speaker 1: many of them I cannot recall, that led to poor 953 00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 1: judgment and reckless behavior, and oftentimes feel like an out 954 00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 1: of body experience. I regret and am deeply mortified by 955 00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:52,280 Speaker 1: my actions in that state, and am committed to accountability, 956 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 1: treatment and meaningful change. It does not excuse what I did. 957 00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:58,279 Speaker 1: Though I'm not a Nazi or an anti Semite. I 958 00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:01,680 Speaker 1: love the Jewish people Black community, which held me down 959 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:03,840 Speaker 1: through all the highs and lows of the darkest times. 960 00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:07,120 Speaker 1: The Black community is unquestionably the foundation of who I am, 961 00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 1: and I'm so sorry to have let you down. I 962 00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:12,360 Speaker 1: love us ps I still made Taylor swol famous. It 963 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:16,680 Speaker 1: says that in there, Yeah You're at We're going over 964 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 1: Kanye West's apology page that he just took out in 965 00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,839 Speaker 1: the Wall Street Journal. He says, in early twenty twenty five, 966 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,480 Speaker 1: I fell into a four month long manic episode of psychotic, 967 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:30,040 Speaker 1: paranoid and impulsive behavior that destroyed my life. As the 968 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,920 Speaker 1: situation became increasingly unsustainable, there were times I didn't want 969 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,960 Speaker 1: to be here anymore. Having bipolar disorder is a state 970 00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,680 Speaker 1: of constant mental illness. When you go into a manic episode, 971 00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,319 Speaker 1: you were ill at that point, and when you were 972 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,719 Speaker 1: not in an episode, you were completely normal, and that's 973 00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,239 Speaker 1: when the wreckage from the illness hits the hardest, hitting 974 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,360 Speaker 1: rock bottom. A few months ago, my wife encouraged me 975 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,320 Speaker 1: to finally get help. It says I found comfort and 976 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 1: Reddit forums, of all places, Kanye West is on Reddit, 977 00:45:55,719 --> 00:46:00,360 Speaker 1: hanging out in the forums. That's crazy. Different people speaking 978 00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,279 Speaker 1: of being manic or depressive in episodes and of a 979 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 1: similar nature. I read their stories and realized that I 980 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 1: wasn't alone. My words as a leader in the community 981 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,759 Speaker 1: have a global impact and influence. In my mania, I 982 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,160 Speaker 1: lost complete side of that. As I find my new 983 00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:18,200 Speaker 1: baseline and new center through effective regime of medication, therapy, exercise, 984 00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,280 Speaker 1: and clean living, I have a new found, much needed clarity. 985 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,520 Speaker 1: I'm pouring my energy into positive, meaningful art, music, clothing design, 986 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,960 Speaker 1: and other ideas to help the world. I'm not asking 987 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 1: for sympathy or free pass, though I aspire to earn 988 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,879 Speaker 1: your forgiveness. I write today to simply ask for your 989 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:37,640 Speaker 1: patience and understanding as I find my way home with love. YEA. 990 00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:40,480 Speaker 1: Some people are saying that's just another publicity stunt. We 991 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,879 Speaker 1: shouldn't believe him. Some people are saying it's a good move. 992 00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:46,320 Speaker 5: I think it's extremely healthy and helpful. 993 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,560 Speaker 7: I know there's a lot of things that were said 994 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,440 Speaker 7: and done on his behalf that are unforgivable in a 995 00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,240 Speaker 7: lot of ways, but the fact that he's being open 996 00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:58,120 Speaker 7: and honest about seeking help and getting the medications and. 997 00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 5: The treatment that he needs. 998 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,239 Speaker 7: Yeah, I can only be positively, you know, supportive of 999 00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:04,839 Speaker 7: I hope he. 1000 00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 1: Stays on his medication, right. He stays on it, though, 1001 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,400 Speaker 1: because that's what happens with Kanye West, is he'll be 1002 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,760 Speaker 1: on his meds, he'll be fine, and then he goes 1003 00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,439 Speaker 1: often because I think he feels like they help him, 1004 00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,480 Speaker 1: they numb his creativity a bit. So then he'll go 1005 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,759 Speaker 1: to his ranch, go off his meds, and then just 1006 00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,600 Speaker 1: go completely on the bipolar. 1007 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 3: That's why he does need to earn everybody's forgiveness and 1008 00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:28,160 Speaker 3: earn that trust back by showing us that he can 1009 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,600 Speaker 3: consistently do that, because when he's not is when he's 1010 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 3: completely negligent and hurts a lot of people. So I 1011 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:39,600 Speaker 3: do appreciate him explaining himself, but that not to like 1012 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 3: poke holes in his story. But that accident that he 1013 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,719 Speaker 3: is referencing happened in the early two thousands, and then 1014 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:51,080 Speaker 3: it didn't It didn't like manifest until just a couple 1015 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:51,640 Speaker 3: of years ago. 1016 00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:55,520 Speaker 7: I mean, you know, if it's brain injury, I think 1017 00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 7: what he was referring to in there is that it 1018 00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,759 Speaker 7: was a brain injury that wasn't diagnosed. It was only 1019 00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,399 Speaker 7: the physical damage that was diagnosed and he was never 1020 00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 7: treated for it. And yeah, and if you have you know, 1021 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,719 Speaker 7: manic episodes and all those other things that are you know, 1022 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,239 Speaker 7: involved with obviously what he's been going through. It just 1023 00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,680 Speaker 7: kind of spirals and spirals and spirals. He's not taking 1024 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,960 Speaker 7: his meds, he's not taking taking any treating seriously, he's 1025 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:18,719 Speaker 7: just chaotic. 1026 00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:20,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of critics have pointed out that the 1027 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:24,719 Speaker 1: past apologies didn't prevent further behavior like that, so they're 1028 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:28,240 Speaker 1: hesitant to accept Kanye west apology in the Wall Street Journal. 1029 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,840 Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad that he did acknowledge though that people 1030 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:32,880 Speaker 3: do need to earn it. So like consistency is going 1031 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 3: to be everything. 1032 00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I liked about his apology, you know, 1033 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:39,120 Speaker 1: because yes, you can have actions that you can't control 1034 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:43,000 Speaker 1: really with your mental illness, but there are still your actions, right, Yeah, 1035 00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 1: Like I have complex PTSD. If I react in a 1036 00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,520 Speaker 1: way that I don't like to react, I'm not going 1037 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:49,440 Speaker 1: to be like, hey, you have to forgive me because 1038 00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:51,680 Speaker 1: I have this. It's like, I know that I have it. 1039 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,400 Speaker 1: It's my job to manage it. It doesn't give me a 1040 00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:54,359 Speaker 1: pass to be an a hole. 1041 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, right right, And. 1042 00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,280 Speaker 1: So I'm glad he didn't countability. Yeah, you guys should 1043 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,520 Speaker 1: just right off everything because of this. 1044 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,400 Speaker 9: But could you imagine if you were on Reddit and 1045 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,000 Speaker 9: you see Kanye what. 1046 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,799 Speaker 1: Reddit? I was kind of like cool, I'll be like, wait, 1047 00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 1: this is not is it not? Really? Is he on 1048 00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:19,200 Speaker 1: there as Kanye or sitting on a couch looking at 1049 00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:20,520 Speaker 1: Reddit all day? 1050 00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 7: Especially under an alias says I am Kanye West. 1051 00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:27,880 Speaker 1: You know you're not get off. Brought to you by 1052 00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,280 Speaker 1: my mufcles. She's been going auburn your home from Machino. 1053 00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:31,800 Speaker 1: It's time for Nina's what's trending? 1054 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:33,600 Speaker 3: Ladies? Are you wearing your Luluse today? 1055 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:34,440 Speaker 9: I'm sorry? 1056 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:37,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, better look check? Are you wearing your Lulu Lemons? 1057 00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm wearing. 1058 00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:40,200 Speaker 14: You are? 1059 00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,200 Speaker 3: I think this isn't exactly applied to yours, jubil, but 1060 00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:45,919 Speaker 3: they are in the news again. And I will tell 1061 00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,040 Speaker 3: you which collection you got to watch out for with 1062 00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 3: Lulu Lemon or you will be a headline what why? 1063 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,919 Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you in a second. I was good, 1064 00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:59,840 Speaker 3: but first, but first, did you experience any type of 1065 00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:03,320 Speaker 3: with your TikTok lately? Has your TikTok been acting up. 1066 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 1: He was out yesterday. 1067 00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:06,320 Speaker 3: Well you're having issues yesterday. 1068 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 1: I think mine was down for like three hours. 1069 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:12,000 Speaker 3: That your WiFi it was TikTok Okay, Well, I'm here 1070 00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:14,520 Speaker 3: to validate you. It was TikTok. And the reason for 1071 00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,279 Speaker 3: that is, if you have not heard, the US has 1072 00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 3: officially taken over its own TikTok. So now we've got 1073 00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:24,960 Speaker 3: our own screen. Yeah, dang, that's so true. It's backed 1074 00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:28,520 Speaker 3: by Oracle, and I guess they have this new safety 1075 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,240 Speaker 3: feature or people that are not people but a company 1076 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,759 Speaker 3: that's overseeing all the safety features. So during this transition, 1077 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:37,560 Speaker 3: there was all kinds of technical fallout with everybody's tiktoks. 1078 00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,279 Speaker 3: Which makes a lot of sense because the other day 1079 00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:40,840 Speaker 3: I was feeling really upset when I went on. It 1080 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,560 Speaker 3: was trying to tell me I wasn't the real Nina, 1081 00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 3: and I was like, what, I don't post enough for 1082 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:47,360 Speaker 3: this to even be an issue. 1083 00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:50,680 Speaker 1: So that's that it was reviewing all the posts. 1084 00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's because of this. 1085 00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:55,319 Speaker 5: They had they had to download new spyware onto the. 1086 00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,680 Speaker 1: Controlled justess in case you think our government doesn't also 1087 00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,520 Speaker 1: throw all the narratives and you see everything. That's what 1088 00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 1: they were doing. The US took it over. They're like, 1089 00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:06,000 Speaker 1: all right, let's go take down all the things we 1090 00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:06,440 Speaker 1: don't like. 1091 00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:09,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was part of it, the under review. 1092 00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:12,239 Speaker 9: Yeah, so they have under So now everything is under 1093 00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:13,800 Speaker 9: review because it's owned by the US. 1094 00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:15,719 Speaker 3: Well, it's supposed to be back in action right now. 1095 00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:18,160 Speaker 3: But if there's any other glitches that do pop up, 1096 00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,000 Speaker 3: or if you find your stuff under review, don't freak out. 1097 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,239 Speaker 3: Just know it's because the US owns it now and 1098 00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,640 Speaker 3: they're working out the king like the shadow bangs. 1099 00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:29,360 Speaker 5: I tried to delete my account yesterday. 1100 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,840 Speaker 7: Really, yeah, I was trying to delete it all day yesterday, 1101 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,279 Speaker 7: and let you do that because of I don't want 1102 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,439 Speaker 7: to be a conspiracy theorist, but I'm just not down 1103 00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:38,799 Speaker 7: with it. 1104 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:41,040 Speaker 5: So I started deleting it. 1105 00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,800 Speaker 7: And when I started deleting it, it kept giving it 1106 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,040 Speaker 7: said that it was sending me a code to finalize 1107 00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 7: the delete, and I never got the code, and so 1108 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,160 Speaker 7: I kept doing it, and it kept sending it saying 1109 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,040 Speaker 7: it was sending me the code, and then like fifteen 1110 00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 7: to thirty minutes later, it was sending me the code 1111 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,440 Speaker 7: saying it was only valid for five minutes, so it 1112 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:01,799 Speaker 7: was already expired and I'll in this. I was in 1113 00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,640 Speaker 7: this reepool all day yesterday and then finally had the 1114 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:06,680 Speaker 7: right code line lineup and I deleted it. 1115 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,040 Speaker 3: They made it so difficult. Actually, you're not the only person. 1116 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,040 Speaker 3: There was a whole article about how people were dropping 1117 00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,920 Speaker 3: off of TikTok because of whatever your conspiracy is that 1118 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:15,560 Speaker 3: you're thinking of. 1119 00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:20,600 Speaker 9: So I don't get We took over our version of 1120 00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,319 Speaker 9: TikTok because we said, like, we don't want people having 1121 00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:24,080 Speaker 9: like eyes on us. 1122 00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,319 Speaker 3: We only want our eyes on us. 1123 00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:29,160 Speaker 1: Now they don't trust our eyes only our government wants 1124 00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:31,280 Speaker 1: to track our citizens. We don't want another government tracking 1125 00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:31,840 Speaker 1: our citizens. 1126 00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:33,319 Speaker 3: But if I was another government, we as. 1127 00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,480 Speaker 1: A government, we want to track their citizens anyway, gohead. 1128 00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,600 Speaker 3: That makes sense now, But as citizens now, you're not 1129 00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:41,840 Speaker 3: sure that you want that tracked. 1130 00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:43,920 Speaker 9: Well, I don't know if I'm another government watching what 1131 00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:44,839 Speaker 9: we're doing over here. 1132 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,640 Speaker 3: I'm just like, I mean, honestly, I care, guys, come 1133 00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,200 Speaker 3: watch me. I'm not doing anything, and you might like it. 1134 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 9: You're gonna find like fuzzy pandas on my feet, And funny, 1135 00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:55,080 Speaker 9: it wouldn't. 1136 00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:56,680 Speaker 1: Be the same like the same reason that most that 1137 00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:59,400 Speaker 1: aliens don't really make contact. They come down here, they 1138 00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,759 Speaker 1: swoop up one of us and they're like, wow, yeah, 1139 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,839 Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to the guys. The same 1140 00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:06,719 Speaker 1: thing with other countries are probably like, man, those Americans 1141 00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,160 Speaker 1: just leave them alone right. 1142 00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,799 Speaker 3: Now, our TikTok messed up. Don't want temper, you don't 1143 00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:16,879 Speaker 3: worry about it. Here, this will make you feel good. 1144 00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:19,799 Speaker 3: The cutest mom in laws have already been hanging out. 1145 00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,799 Speaker 3: Gotta love Andrea Swift and Donna Kelcey. They went to 1146 00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:26,239 Speaker 3: Park City, Utah together to go enjoy what's that one 1147 00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,960 Speaker 3: festival that's there right now, sun Dance. They went to 1148 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,320 Speaker 3: Sundance and there's all these really cute pictures of the moms. 1149 00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,279 Speaker 3: I'm not really not here for the moms, but these 1150 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,400 Speaker 3: two are really cute together. That's freaking cute, I know, 1151 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:37,520 Speaker 3: but I love that. 1152 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,280 Speaker 1: And that I was Kelsey's mom was on The Trader Show. 1153 00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:42,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, but that was so funny though, because some of 1154 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:45,480 Speaker 9: my friends who watch it, they're like, man, I never 1155 00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 9: thought that sweet old lady. First off, was Travis Kelsey's mom. 1156 00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,640 Speaker 9: Second off, that she was a Trader, And I was like, 1157 00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,440 Speaker 9: I don't know what this show is about or anything, 1158 00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:55,040 Speaker 9: but I was like, yikes, Yeah, she's stuck out because 1159 00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:56,600 Speaker 9: you know, everybody on that show is extra. 1160 00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 1: They find like Lisa, Renna and all these reality show people, 1161 00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 1: and then it was your grandma basically. 1162 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:08,040 Speaker 3: In the mid Yeah, she does seem cute. Okay. Now 1163 00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:11,000 Speaker 3: Lululemon is in the news again because their new Get 1164 00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,440 Speaker 3: Low collection apparently is sea through. I don't know how 1165 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,879 Speaker 3: they didn't get this figured out the first time. So 1166 00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,359 Speaker 3: people are saying that they are not squat proof. So 1167 00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:20,919 Speaker 3: if you're squatting or bending over, they are see through. 1168 00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:22,799 Speaker 3: So I guess that's how you do the test. You 1169 00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:25,080 Speaker 3: bend over and take check, you know, take a little 1170 00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,680 Speaker 3: look to see. But I don't know. I think this 1171 00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:29,399 Speaker 3: is kind of just part of their their jam. 1172 00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:32,239 Speaker 9: Now is it leggings and because sometimes they have like 1173 00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:36,160 Speaker 9: work pants, like my brothers wear their pants to work apparently, 1174 00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:38,040 Speaker 9: so is it like a work. 1175 00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:40,719 Speaker 3: It's their get Low collection, which is for working out. 1176 00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:41,839 Speaker 1: Okay, So it's more. 1177 00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 3: It features seamless technology to provide a sculpted look and feel, weightless, 1178 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:46,600 Speaker 3: fast drying fabric. 1179 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:47,680 Speaker 1: Yeah almost naked. 1180 00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:53,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, so some people might like it, but either way 1181 00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:57,080 Speaker 3: they've recalled it. It's not available online. 1182 00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:59,760 Speaker 1: When I've been at the gym before there's been somebody 1183 00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:01,520 Speaker 1: working on front of me who's having the same thing 1184 00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:03,680 Speaker 1: going on, and it's awkward. You're like, where do I look? 1185 00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:06,160 Speaker 1: Man Like yeah, Like I'm like, I don't want to look, 1186 00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,239 Speaker 1: but I can't look like It's like it was like, 1187 00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:12,600 Speaker 1: I'm right there, but I don't want to look because 1188 00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to look anyway. But then 1189 00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:16,200 Speaker 1: also it's it's kind of like you're at the gym too, 1190 00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:17,000 Speaker 1: so it was like gross. 1191 00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 5: And if you're on the cred like, where do you look? 1192 00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:19,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1193 00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:22,799 Speaker 3: Something, it's more awkward for all of you guys. I 1194 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,560 Speaker 3: mean if you're wearing them, who cares, That's what I mean. 1195 00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:27,760 Speaker 1: It's awkward for people looking at it, like I don't 1196 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:29,720 Speaker 1: like but I'm I have to be on this machine 1197 00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,520 Speaker 1: right here, and they're thinking it right there. I don't 1198 00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,600 Speaker 1: know where else to look. The problem is I know 1199 00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:38,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to wipe down the machinery, that's for sure. 1200 00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:42,440 Speaker 3: It just says so much money for these things too, 1201 00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:44,640 Speaker 3: so you want them to work. But anyway, that is 1202 00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:45,200 Speaker 3: what's trending. 1203 00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:48,200 Speaker 4: Jewbles dirty little Secret. 1204 00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:51,719 Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, how you doing? Hey? You have a dirty 1205 00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:55,480 Speaker 1: little secret. Yes, I do, sweet, What. 1206 00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:57,000 Speaker 4: Is it all right? 1207 00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:59,960 Speaker 18: So a few nights ago, me and my buddies got 1208 00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,200 Speaker 18: together to throw a surprise puddy for one of our friends. 1209 00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:07,560 Speaker 4: It was a thirtieth birthday we have. It was you know, 1210 00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:09,720 Speaker 4: I went back. I went to college with these guys 1211 00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,200 Speaker 4: back in the day. So we get together, we have 1212 00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:12,840 Speaker 4: a party. 1213 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,040 Speaker 18: I mean, we're getting super drunk, doing all crazy kinds 1214 00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:17,560 Speaker 18: of drugs like back in the day. 1215 00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,160 Speaker 6: Things get a little funky, you know. 1216 00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,840 Speaker 4: So you know, obviously the party started to getting packed. 1217 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,120 Speaker 6: My boys invite their girls over. 1218 00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:29,279 Speaker 4: You know, it starts getting you know, nice and fun 1219 00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:29,640 Speaker 4: in there. 1220 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:34,320 Speaker 18: Later that night, I'm in the backyard and what's crazy 1221 00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:36,359 Speaker 18: is my best friend's girls out there. 1222 00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:37,920 Speaker 4: She also had a few drinks. 1223 00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,400 Speaker 18: She's like hanging out next to me on a porch 1224 00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:44,080 Speaker 18: and whatnot, and out of nowhere, we end up making out. 1225 00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:46,520 Speaker 18: And I don't know what to tell my best friend 1226 00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:48,600 Speaker 18: at this point, you know, for me, awkward. 1227 00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,279 Speaker 4: But the thing is is she texted me because I 1228 00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:53,560 Speaker 4: don't know what to do right now. 1229 00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,360 Speaker 3: So you know, so she's still trying to make it happen. 1230 00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:58,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, she's just like being super friendly. 1231 00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,280 Speaker 6: Just text me back four for me softword. 1232 00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:04,160 Speaker 18: So I've been like, you know, just kind of going 1233 00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:06,480 Speaker 18: the law with the situation, but trying to be careful 1234 00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,799 Speaker 18: because she's my best friend's girl, you know. 1235 00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,239 Speaker 3: I mean yeah, I mean, can you just remind her 1236 00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:13,040 Speaker 3: that she's got a man and that he is your 1237 00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:13,520 Speaker 3: best friend? 1238 00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:14,719 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1239 00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:16,040 Speaker 4: I mean I can. 1240 00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:19,280 Speaker 18: But what's crazy is is that all I got on 1241 00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:22,560 Speaker 18: my boy last night. And the thing is is I 1242 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,400 Speaker 18: feel like he's starting to know. I don't know if 1243 00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,560 Speaker 18: he saw some messages between me and her, but he 1244 00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 18: was like, dude, me, you should hang out all together 1245 00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:32,880 Speaker 18: there with his girl. I don't know if he's kind 1246 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,480 Speaker 18: of hinting at a three summer whatnot, but that was 1247 00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,040 Speaker 18: the idea I started getting in my head. So so 1248 00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:41,240 Speaker 18: now I'm sitting here like what should I do? Should 1249 00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:43,840 Speaker 18: I just like go along with it? Just come out 1250 00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:45,800 Speaker 18: tell him and see if we can pull this off 1251 00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:48,840 Speaker 18: or not. You know, I'm thinking about it. 1252 00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:51,640 Speaker 3: It sounds like you are legitimate about it. I mean, 1253 00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:52,720 Speaker 3: could you do that? 1254 00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:53,280 Speaker 9: Like? 1255 00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:55,760 Speaker 6: Are you things? 1256 00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:00,160 Speaker 4: I could be a nice friendship anymore? You know what 1257 00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:02,200 Speaker 4: if she has look like me more like shame's like 1258 00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:04,360 Speaker 4: that get complicated me? I want to do it? 1259 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:05,760 Speaker 5: It's not going to affect me. 1260 00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:08,600 Speaker 16: I don't know if that my first thought, to be honest, 1261 00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:10,320 Speaker 16: it'd be like, I don't want to ruin my friendship 1262 00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:13,600 Speaker 16: with my friend. But a good second thought would be 1263 00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,560 Speaker 16: what if they like me more than my best friend? 1264 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,440 Speaker 4: Exactly? So right now, that's where I'm stuck. 1265 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:21,280 Speaker 6: I don't know. 1266 00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:24,720 Speaker 4: It's a hard decision. I gotta I'm thinking about it. 1267 00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:29,800 Speaker 1: I might do it all right. Well, whatever you decide, 1268 00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:35,280 Speaker 1: thank you for your real secret. 1269 00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,920 Speaker 3: What's your dirty little secret? 1270 00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:40,320 Speaker 5: Text you bol to four one oh six one