1 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Adam, 2 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. Hello, Hello, what's going on with 3 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: this woman? Jen? I gotta know? How did you meet? 4 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates you've been on, and then 5 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,760 Speaker 1: what's happening now and how we can help. Okay, sounds good. 6 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: I met Jen on Hinge. I think you've probably heard 7 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: of that. Oh, I'm vaguely familiar with the the app Hinge. Yeah, 8 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: and I'll be honest. 9 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: I thought she was hot in her photos, so I 10 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 2: was like, let's let's, you know, we chat it briefly 11 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 2: and I set up a date. I'm pretty easy to 12 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 2: get a we want to get some drinks and go 13 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: to a comedy show. 14 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: Okay, and let's see it. By the way, on the 15 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: dating apps, that's what we're doing here. We're hot or 16 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: not on the dating apps. I mean, you know, you 17 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: can dig into the prompts and the bio if you 18 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: want to, but like, no one's looking at where you 19 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: went to college really well, and they may see if 20 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,279 Speaker 1: you're hot. Like once, if I see some and I'm 21 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: attracted to that, I might read some of the words 22 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:07,119 Speaker 1: the profile, but usually no, So you were attracted to her, 23 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: and you plan this day with an activity, even a 24 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: comedy show. 25 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, exactly. I felt like it went really well. 26 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 2: She you know, we got along, we have a lot 27 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: of things in common. And I even made her laugh. 28 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:26,479 Speaker 2: You know that's always I know, that's always good if 29 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 2: she's laughing. Okay, So everything went really well, and I 30 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 2: just like, I can't. She kind of goes with me 31 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 2: now and I'm like. 32 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 3: Uh wow, I can't really wrap my head around. 33 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 2: This one because I didn't. I don't know what I did, 34 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: made wrong or anything like that. There was no awkward moment. 35 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, look at this guy. Look at this guy. 36 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: He you know, he matches with a woman. He plans 37 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: more than just a drink state, which I'm guilty of. 38 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: I'm so guilty of that drink state. That's what I did. 39 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: Nothing creative, Okay, No, I mean, the first date is 40 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: a drink state, but then maybe second date we include 41 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: some form of activity. But this guy, like really thought 42 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: about a comedy show, drinks. You know, he was attracted 43 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: to her, he said, the conversation, the chemistry was good. 44 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: But you have not heard from Jen since the date. 45 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: You want to know why that would bother most people. 46 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: So let's call let's call Jen. We're gonna see what's 47 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: going on and hopefully straightened things out and then set 48 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: you guys up on another date that we pay for. Okay, Yeah, 49 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: sounds great. Let's see what's up. Part two of waiting 50 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: by the phone right after this song Billy Eilis Don't 51 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: move back in two minutes Fret' Show, Billy Eilich, The 52 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: French Show. Is Hi, welcome to Friday. Glad you're here, Adam, Yeah, 53 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Jen. You met on a dating app, 54 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: you planned a date, you went, you went to a 55 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: comedy show. You felt like the conversation was good. You 56 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: were attracted to her, you were excited to see her 57 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 1: again for a second date. But now you can't get 58 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: a hold of her. She's not responding to you. You're 59 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 1: not answering the phones, and you want to know why, Like, 60 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: what happened? How do we go from a good date 61 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: and now I can't get a hold of this person? Yeah? 62 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, all right, let's call Jen now, 63 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: good luck at him? 64 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 2: Thank you? Hello? 65 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: Hi? Is this Jen? 66 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? 67 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: Jen? Hi, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling 68 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: from the Fred's Show. The morning radio show, and I 69 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are on the radio 70 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: right now, and I would need your permission to continue 71 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: with the call. Can which chat for just a second 72 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: on the show. You can hang up anytime? Yeah, okay, 73 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: well good? Oh thank you? Yeah again, I'm gonna take 74 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: that as a guess. But we're calling on behalf of 75 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 1: a guy named Adam who says he matched with you 76 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: recently on a dating app and you, guys went out. 77 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: Do you remember a date with him? 78 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? 79 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 3: I agree? 80 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, he called us and he was describing he 81 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: thought you were very attractive, and he thought that he 82 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: planned a great date and he felt like the date 83 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: went well, and he said that he made you laugh 84 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: and the conversation was good and all these things. But 85 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: he says he can't get a hold of you now 86 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: and it's bugging him. He feels like he's being ghosted. 87 00:03:56,200 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: Is that what is happening? Yeah? 88 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 4: Kind of. I mean, look, he seemed fun like before 89 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 4: we met, everything in cool. 90 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 3: He's been cool. 91 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 4: I just okay. So basically he said we were to 92 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 4: go to a comedy show, right, which was fine, comedy, Yeah, 93 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 4: But we get there and it's an opening like night 94 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 4: and I was like, okay. 95 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: Then he told me that he was trying to like 96 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: perform in it, and then he did. Oh so this 97 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: wasn't like we didn't go see Dave Chappelle or something 98 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: like we didn't go to we didn't go to that 99 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 1: Nate Brigates or whatever guy we we you know, this 100 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: was Sebastian Maniscal. Like this guy he was the comedy show. Yeah, 101 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: I'm already uncomfortable. Yeah, and he didn't do well, like 102 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 1: oh no, so he goes out there nobody laughs at him. Well, 103 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: it was worse than that because people. 104 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 4: Were like brewing him and heckling him. 105 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: Like. 106 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 4: It wasn't just it was bad, like it was offensive, like. 107 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,799 Speaker 1: In what way? It was like sexist? It was racist? Whoa, 108 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: oh cool, first date. I'm going to do the comedy. 109 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to run the chance that I bomb, and 110 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: then I'm also going to be racist and sexist in 111 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 1: front of this woman who I'm for whom I'm trying 112 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: to make an impression. Wow. And you said people were 113 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: booing him. 114 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, they were booing him. 115 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: Somebody were throwing food at him. Wow and not great. Yeah, 116 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: let me bring Adam And I forgot to mention that 117 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: Adam is here. I'm extremely forgetful and I'm sorry about that. Adam. 118 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 1: You said you went to a comedy show. You didn't 119 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: mention that you were the comedy show. 120 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 3: I'm here, Jim, this. 121 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 4: Is this is Are you doing your seat now? 122 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: This is an overreaction. 123 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 124 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 2: Absolutely, I was working on a new set, so like 125 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 2: I was just practicing my crowd work. Yeah, it's it's 126 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 2: just my might have not landed. 127 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: It wasn't working with the crowd. I mean, dude, so 128 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:25,799 Speaker 1: you go up there and tell racist and sex's jokes, 129 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: you get booed, and this is all in a first date. 130 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I look, if you guys were married or like, 131 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: knew each other and she knew what she was getting into, 132 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: that's one thing. But do you realize you embarrass her too? 133 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: I again, overreaction. 134 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 3: This is not my fault that the crowd her, or 135 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 3: you don't have a good sense of humor. 136 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: Like dark humor, this is good, Jane. It's your fault. 137 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: It's your fault, it's the audience's fault. Look, when I 138 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: say something, if you don't last, it's your fault. 139 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 2: Everybody knows that what I said was I kind of 140 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 2: regret saying all this when I get a Netflix deal. 141 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 3: This is just like how Jerry Seinfeld and Dave Chappelle 142 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 3: had to practice. 143 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: Before they got really good. So I don't see the problem. 144 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: Do you think they took women to their practice sets? Maybe? 145 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe they didn't. They're they're funny though, Yeah, 146 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:16,119 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's a very it's a very bold 147 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: thing to do, especially if you're if your approach he's 148 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 1: a little bit controversial. 149 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 3: This is just normal stuff that people do these days. 150 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 3: I don't understand you, just Jen, Why do It's just 151 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 3: a character? 152 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 2: Like I was just putting on a character. 153 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: It's just a character, Jen, listen to this guy. 154 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 4: Oh the character? 155 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: Wow? Why are we playing characters on the first date 156 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: to know someone? That's what I mean? Yourself, right, Like, 157 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: you plan this date Adam to be the center of attention, 158 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: and unfortunately you took a big gamble and you lost. 159 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: Because maybe maybe if you had gone up there and 160 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: killed it, she would have been impressed. But I allus 161 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: would argue that the first date is a chance to 162 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: like sit down and talk and make it about the 163 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: other person, and you made it about you and it failed. 164 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 3: I didn't just get there and go up on stage. 165 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 3: That's the thing, Jen, you're overreacting like you had fun. 166 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: I saw you laugh. 167 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: I mean, were you laughing at how are you we 168 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 1: laughing out of misery? Out of discomfort? Were you laughing 169 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: at him? If I was laughing at alder and it said, 170 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: it was because it was incredibly uncomfortable, like it is, 171 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: not because I thought it was funny. Yeah, that's a 172 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: that's a pretty wild, wild move. All right. Look, I'm 173 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: gonna ask the question, Jen. I think I know the answer. 174 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: But would you enjoy going out with Adam again? Let's 175 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: say we don't do that. Let's say we actually do 176 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: like a like a dinner and you know, we don't 177 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: do another comedy show, don't go or something? Yeah, right right, 178 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: we don't do another wacky stand a bit. Yeah, I'm good. Adam, 179 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: by the way, a racist and sexist? I mean, like, 180 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: why would you Why wouldn't she assume that you're not 181 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: racist and sexist if you're up there doing this stuff. 182 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: It's just a shame. 183 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: And she's not aisticated enough to get my humor. 184 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: That's what it is. It's a sophistication issue. It definitely 185 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 1: is not a hurrying though Okay, I would ask you 186 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 1: for a joke, but I'm not. I'm not going to 187 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: do that. No, we really, I'm afraid. Actually I'm not 188 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: going to put Jen through that again. So all right, 189 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 1: Jen's not interested, Adam, Look good luck out there, man. 190 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: I can't wait for the special. Let me know where 191 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: it airs. 192 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 2: I will definitely send you an email. 193 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report is next nine hundred and fifty bucks. 194 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: You can wait if you can be Kiki at five 195 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: pop Culture Questions. Well, next Fred Show.