1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us on. 2 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: Air with Ryan Seacrest. 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 3: So yeah, you can call in, you can send us 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 3: a text for one to two seven, or you can 5 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 3: email us. But for some reason, I don't know why. 6 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 3: I mean, he's email your first choice to communicate with 7 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,159 Speaker 3: some money. 8 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 2: I find it easy. 9 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 3: I remember when business like business was only done via 10 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 3: email and personal was done via text. Now there's so 11 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 3: much business done via text. 12 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 4: And now with Instagram DMS like listeners can reach us anywhere. 13 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: Which is great. So here's some feedback. We got the email. 14 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 3: You matter if I read something. 15 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 4: I've already read this one because I've already responded to 16 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 4: Thomas he emailed me. 17 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 3: So Thomas writes to Siciny, have you ever listened to 18 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 3: yourself and heard how many times you say the word? 19 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 5: Like? 20 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 3: Some of these can be candid. I mean, you know, 21 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 3: you probably don't know if you are speaking. You probably 22 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,279 Speaker 3: don't realize how many times you say om are like. 23 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 2: Oh, I say so much? Do you? 24 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 3: Yes? I don't think I say I don't think I'm 25 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 3: an umor I. 26 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 5: Don't notice I'm on you. But do you know what 27 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 5: I do? Notice that you say a lot is one 28 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 5: hundred percent. 29 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 3: You're welcome. 30 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: He does no. 31 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 6: Oh, yeah, that's like you're like, that's like your it's 32 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 6: your Christ's response. 33 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 5: Yeah, like you're you know, I'm with you, or that's your. 34 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 3: Version of being silent on this show. 35 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 7: Yeah. 36 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, we ask you something and you just open your eyes. 37 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, what we do have is an audio. Ah, 38 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 3: So what did you say? How do you What did 39 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 3: you reply? 40 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 2: Well, he says you it like is a verb? You 41 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 2: use it? 42 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 4: You use it as a verb and an adverb. You 43 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 4: often use it more than once in the same sentence. 44 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 4: The Kardashian sisters do the same thing. 45 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 5: An adverb. What's an adverb? 46 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 3: I know? 47 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: It's very It was like English lesson. So I responded 48 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 2: to him and I said, you know what, I do 49 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 2: use the word like. 50 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 4: I feel like I do it all the time because 51 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 4: I speak the way my whole life. And I told 52 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 4: him that I've been watching the Kardashians for many years, 53 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 4: and ironically I find them, I don't know, relatable because 54 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 4: they talk like me. 55 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 3: It's still irony there. 56 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 2: I guess it's normal for me. 57 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 3: Well, my mother used to correct me when I would 58 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 3: say like growing up, she would stop me when I'd 59 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 3: say mom, and they were like, all going to like 60 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 3: this party and like this weekend. 61 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 4: It's a California thing too, and it's bother me when 62 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 4: I hear people using it. 63 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 3: It does. If you notice it and then you hear 64 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 3: people do it, then it does start to bother you 65 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 3: after a while. It's frequent. 66 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 4: It was funny because we were and then we've been 67 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 4: going back and forth and he. 68 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 2: Was just like, I don't mean it. 69 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 3: He was just like, what I know. 70 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 4: He's like, I don't mean it as He's like, I 71 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 4: don't mean it to be a jab. 72 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: So it's probably a generational thing. He's like, I'm fifty 73 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 2: two and he's like, and I love your show. He's like, 74 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 2: I'm a loyal listener. So we love you, Thomas, thank 75 00:02:58,440 --> 00:02:59,239 Speaker 2: you for writing it. 76 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 4: And so he's a sweetheart. And I told him to 77 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 4: call in and he gave us his number, so maybe 78 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 4: we will give him a call and chat with him. 79 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 2: But he was very sweet. 80 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 3: Let's see what B says. B says, I'm addicted to 81 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 3: your segment second Date Update. I can relate to it 82 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 3: because I'm single. I like to know if you'll do 83 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 3: it twice or three times a week, rather than once 84 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 3: a week. I enjoy listening all the time, wishing you 85 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 3: more success in twenty twenty three. Why don't know we could? Yeah, 86 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 3: I mean, look, if people need help in the Second 87 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 3: Date Update area, It's interesting. You know when we first 88 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 3: started doing Second Date Update, they really disappointed me. 89 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have an issue with it. 90 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I still don't like them. 91 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 3: I don't like them. I just felt like at the 92 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 3: beginning we were doing more harm than good with whoever 93 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 3: was reaching out to us. Now, I feel like we've 94 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 3: gotten to a place of seeking a little peace of 95 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 3: mind and satisfaction in what people are looking for. What 96 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 3: is it, Tonya? 97 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 5: More harm than good? Roses is more harm than good? 98 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 5: What do you talk about? Second Update is at least answers. 99 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 2: I concur. 100 00:03:55,720 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 3: But we can all just like like I'm disagreeing, Like yeah, 101 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 3: but thank you. B Fadra says to Ryan, I heard 102 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 3: you talking about Meghan and Harry and how you didn't 103 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 3: like it, and you're going to stop after episode two. 104 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 3: Please finish the documentary before you judge it. I'm just 105 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 3: saying that interesting. I was seeing it all in the news, 106 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 3: Judg mcjudger. But you're right, I do need to see 107 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 3: it through finishing it really, because. 108 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 6: If you didn't like what you saw, why would you continue. Well, 109 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 6: she has a. 110 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 3: Point, she says, I've changed my view. I'm empathetic on 111 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 3: what they went through, and it is true there is 112 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 3: you know what, She's right. 113 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 4: The abuse they took from the media was extensive. I 114 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 4: really believe that if Ryan, Tanya and Sisney finish it, 115 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 4: they would appreciate and respect what Harry and Meghan did. 116 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 3: No, I I finished it. There's lack of respect. I 117 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 3: think that what I was saying was I was seeing 118 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 3: all that a lot at once, right. I saw him 119 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 3: on Anderson Cooper, I saw him on GMA. I saw 120 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:56,919 Speaker 3: him and then I happened to be watching documentary, just 121 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:59,679 Speaker 3: trying to take it all in so fair point favor, 122 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 3: fair and and I will. 123 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 6: And it wasn't that we didn't respect it. I think 124 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 6: it was the I think a lot of people are 125 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 6: grappling with the idea of the fact that they wanted 126 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 6: privacy and then it's like every other news article and 127 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 6: you know, documentary and it's just a lot. 128 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 3: But if you I did see something very very striking 129 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 3: about how Harry saw what was happening to his girlfriend 130 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 3: and how she was being treated, and he felt like 131 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 3: if that was having her HERT was having other people 132 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 3: by media, and so he you know, he was, So, 133 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 3: you're right, Fader, I will I actually will finish that. Yeah, 134 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 3: thank you for reaching out, I thank you for emailing. 135 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 3: Is this something you want to talk about here? 136 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 2: I kind of feel like I'm sticking to a sleep 137 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 2: theme this week. 138 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 4: I don't know why these articles just keep popping up, 139 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 4: but I was reading this last night and it kind 140 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 4: of reminded me how I used to dream so vividly, 141 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 4: especially when I was pregnant. I used to have dreams 142 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 4: of my exes. I used to have dreams of Michael 143 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 4: cheating on me. I used to have like just and 144 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 4: it kind of was because there was so much on 145 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 4: my mind at all times. But I read this article 146 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 4: night specifically about how have you ever woken up from 147 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 4: a dream and you've been cheated on by your partner? 148 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 3: Sure, okay, and you're so relieved it wasn't real. You 149 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,559 Speaker 3: actually felt like it was real in your heart's pounding. 150 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, your heart's pounding. 151 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 4: You wake up and it feels so really you're almost 152 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 4: actually mad at them. 153 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 2: When you wake up, You're like you. 154 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 3: Know what that's and even in the dream, I've told 155 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 3: myself in the dream, this is not. 156 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 2: A dream, yeah, and you know it's yeah, you know, like, 157 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 2: this is not. 158 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 3: A dream, this is real, so you don't think it's 159 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 3: a dream. And then you wake up and you're angry 160 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 3: and your heart's pounding and it was a dream and 161 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 3: you're so relieved too. 162 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 2: Exactly. 163 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 4: So this article kind of dissected why this happens to us, 164 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 4: or why. 165 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 2: We dream that we're being cheated on, is. 166 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:40,919 Speaker 3: Because it's in the back of our mind that we 167 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 3: think it's going to happen. 168 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 4: No, it actually has nothing to do with it. Well, 169 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 4: it maybe, but it usually doesn't have anything to do 170 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 4: with that. It has to do with your own insecurities 171 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 4: about not necessarily being cheated on. 172 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 2: It could be anything. 173 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 4: It could be career insecurities, it could be life insecurities, 174 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 4: it could be anything that's just. 175 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 3: One of the insecurities that it manifests itself into your 176 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 3: dream program exactly. 177 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 4: On the other hand, though, it could have something to 178 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 4: do with your relationship and it could be something that's missing, 179 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 4: maybe that you want your partner, uh, maybe that there's 180 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 4: that your partner is not providing. 181 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 3: Okay, so you have that dream, you wake up, your 182 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 3: heart is pounding. Do you tell them you have that dream? Oh? 183 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 3: Yeah I do, Yeah, Tanya, would you tell them you 184 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 3: had that dream? 185 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, I've Actually I can't remember what it was, but 186 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 6: I remember I had a dream where Robbie did something 187 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 6: and I woke up like angry at him. 188 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 5: Like I was like, I can't shake it. I know 189 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 5: it's this is like not real. 190 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:34,119 Speaker 3: But aren't you so glad it wasn't real? 191 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, but I can't shake the feeling of being so angry, like. 192 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 3: Because the chemicals have been released inside of you, running 193 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 3: through your bloodstream. 194 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 4: It takes a minute, It almost takes like the whole 195 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 4: morning or like a day to kind of get over it. 196 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 4: But so if you're in a relationship, those are kind 197 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 4: of the reasons why you dream. Then if you're single, 198 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 4: it's slightly less upsetting, but it represents dishonesty. So if 199 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 4: you've recently lied it to a friend, or if you 200 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 4: felt like you've been lied too, you may dream that 201 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 4: you're being cheated on. And of course, the most common 202 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 4: reason for this dream is if you've been cheated on before. 203 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 4: And these people are the ones that keep having the 204 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 4: reoccurring dream of being cheated on, and that just is 205 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 4: something that you just can't shake for most people, and 206 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 4: you have to kind of rebuild that trust from the 207 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 4: past and figure out how you can get past that. 208 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 3: Dreams are a double edged sword, right, And I feel 209 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 3: like my dream programming department has no shortage of insecurities 210 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 3: they can create dream episodes from. 211 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 5: Yeah. 212 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 6: Right, It's very interesting because you really can find out 213 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 6: a lot about your subconscious and what you're thinking. Because 214 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 6: I remember I was having this dream that my teeth 215 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 6: were falling out, and I talked to my therapist about 216 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 6: it and it got to the root of it, and 217 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 6: it was all basically because I was letting my I 218 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 6: was letting my physical needs for my body, like I 219 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:45,439 Speaker 6: wasn't working out as much and I wasn't taking care 220 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 6: of myself like I used to. And that was like 221 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 6: manifesting in my subconscious through my dreams with my teeth 222 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:50,959 Speaker 6: falling out. 223 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 3: So my doctor said, don't have as much salt before 224 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 3: you go to sleep. That'll help calm the dreams down. 225 00:08:57,960 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 3: So think about your salt intake before you go to sleep. 226 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 2: That's interesting. 227 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 3: I'm just telling you. 228 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 2: How much salt. Were you. 229 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 3: I wasn't having salt. That's the problem. He's just saying, 230 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 3: if you have salt before you go to sleep, might 231 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 3: calm down, Like, I don't even take salt. 232 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 8: I know. 233 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: I was like, you barely have anything. 234 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 3: I used sumac? Is sumac causing bad dreams? 235 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 6: No? 236 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 4: He doesn't. 237 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 6: You would like have fish, like sitting in a pile 238 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 6: of salt that gets sent to the table. 239 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 3: No, that's now. That was a lunch. We were out 240 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,079 Speaker 3: in Las Vegas. We were celebrating our iHeartRadio music festival, 241 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 3: and that was salt encrusted, right, So it was different. 242 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 3: Do you remember where it came. 243 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 5: From the sea? 244 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 3: The Adriatic? 245 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 5: Oh that? 246 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 2: How do you remember that? 247 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 5: And you can't remember who was on the show last week? 248 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 3: Because my brain works in that way. Wow, it works 249 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 3: in that way. The Adriatic Sea. I remember he told 250 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 3: us about the fisherman. Remember that and his. 251 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 5: Eyes looked like the Adriatic sea. 252 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 3: That's right, How can you remember that? 253 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 2: Tell Robbie that's. 254 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 3: Going to be in the back of your mind tonight 255 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 3: when you go to sleep. Don't have salt. 256 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 2: On air with a Ryan Seacret. 257 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:03,079 Speaker 3: Ruby, are you engaged? 258 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 9: No? 259 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 4: It still I'm still my god, Ryan's the pressure the 260 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 4: are you engaged? 261 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 7: Well? 262 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 3: What's going on with this dude? He doesn't he hear 263 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 3: about this all the time on the air, and I 264 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 3: wouldn't you think that would help him move along? 265 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 10: He has heard and he just laughs and he's like, 266 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 10: don't worry, coming soon. 267 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 9: But I'm like a movie, what does that mean? 268 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 6: Uh? 269 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 3: Okay, So she's not engaged. Mom, if you're listening, Ruby, 270 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 3: still not engain with this guy. 271 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 5: Of a saint eight years. I'm at three and I'm like. 272 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 2: I know the ringwatch could technically work for both of 273 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 2: you at this point, honey. 274 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 3: Do you think it's time right now? 275 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 276 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 3: And do you think that that's on his mind? Yeah, 277 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 3: to get married. We're talking about correct. 278 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: Oh, like skip the engagement, just e lope? 279 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 5: No, no, no no. 280 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 3: So you're telling me that twenty three is the year. 281 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 3: If he waits another year, you're out time. 282 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, girl, Ruby. 283 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 3: In year eighteen. 284 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 5: Eight years and you have the patients of the same See. 285 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 4: Y'all you all were giving me craft for ultimatums and 286 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 4: now look at you. 287 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 3: The fifth Avatar will be released and she's still wait for. 288 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 5: The fifth one. Oh no, wait, no, No, it's a 289 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 5: third one. 290 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:23,960 Speaker 3: It's the second one. 291 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 5: No, the second one's out now. 292 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 3: Yes, but the third Okay, I was I. 293 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 2: Was talking about a lot, but she was saying longer 294 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 2: time from now. 295 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 3: Project fifty. Yeah. Okay, So Ruby, what is it you're planning? 296 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 9: Well, I was trying to plan my thretha. My sister 297 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 9: was actually celebration. 298 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 10: Yes, so it's kind of like, you know, paying homage 299 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 10: to the King Sennetta, which is like a tradition. 300 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 9: I didn't get to have a King Sennetta, so it 301 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 9: was kind of going. 302 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 3: To be my time to you know, is it trent common? 303 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 10: It's not as common, but my second had one. Yeah, 304 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 10: so it was. It was it was just fun and 305 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:00,959 Speaker 10: it was like I want one, I need one, but. 306 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 2: Wait, your sister had one. And then your sister says, 307 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 2: she's been plowing for you. 308 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 10: Yes, and now we're what like a week away, and 309 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 10: she she was she kept telling me like, we're gonna 310 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 10: lock it in, we're gonna get this venue, we're going 311 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 10: to do this, We're gonna and now it's she dropped 312 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 10: the ball. 313 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 5: She did. 314 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 3: This is the problem with people. This is the problem 315 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:23,199 Speaker 3: people balls. Honestly, you really can't on anybody but you, 316 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 3: not even your family, because they disappoint they really do. 317 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 3: Balls are dropped everywhere, you know what. I was talking 318 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 3: to friend this the other day about this too. No 319 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 3: follow through friends, Where's to follow through? People follow through? 320 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 3: Want something done, you gotta do it your This is 321 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 3: why I don't stay at anybody's house. 322 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 2: I hate staying at people's houses. 323 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 3: I just I don't. I don't know, but it makes 324 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 3: me uncomfortable. 325 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 2: I'd stay your house though, you your guest. 326 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 3: People disappointed. 327 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 2: You put a robout. 328 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 3: A little mint when I give you a bill? Why 329 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 3: why did you not have a kingsna? 330 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 9: So my parents gave me the option. 331 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 10: They're like, you can have a king Signetta, or you 332 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 10: can take a trip, like maybe go to Mexico. 333 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 9: And I didn't get either. 334 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 3: Actually they kind of played me. I didn't get engagement. 335 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 3: I didn't think it's near now. 336 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 9: Middle child for sure. 337 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 3: So Ruby, can't you be candid with your sister and say, hey, 338 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 3: what is going on? It's a week out, it's too late. 339 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 9: We actually haven't really talked about it. 340 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 10: She got back from Columbia and she was like so 341 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 10: happy because she got back from vacation and She's just like. 342 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 9: Hey, like, hasn't really mentioned it? 343 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 10: And I'm just like please, I'm just like, how can 344 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 10: we like have a conversation and how can I express 345 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 10: that I'm frustrated, But I'm also not trying to be 346 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 10: like Ara Zilla. 347 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 3: You know, which is it? Here's the thing, It's something 348 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 3: you don't want to know. 349 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 6: I think this is good because she's gonna feel bad. 350 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 6: She's probably already feeling bad, and you're gonna be engaged soon. 351 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 6: You're gonna need her to like do all the wedding stuff. 352 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe don't. Yeah, I don't rock the boat. 353 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,079 Speaker 9: I don't think I would trust her with wedding stuff. 354 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think so either. And you know what, 355 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 3: you can't rely on family. That's what this tells you. Friends, family, 356 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 3: No follow through. Man, this guy, he's still walking around 357 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 3: with a ring in his pocket, no follow to. There 358 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 3: is a new study in psychology today that has determined 359 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 3: the precise number of kids that makes a person happiest. Sistney, 360 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 3: You're will not be able to weigh in on this. 361 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 2: That was gonna guess, but I guess, okay, I guess 362 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: my numbers off. 363 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 3: Well guess. 364 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 4: Well, that's not three, so two, no, oh, you want 365 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 4: to guess zero. 366 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 3: One one. The data strongly indicates that parents of one 367 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 3: child are happier than people with no kids or more 368 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 3: than one kid. 369 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 4: Interesting, I can't see that because you can still kind 370 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 4: of like have your life. 371 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 2: Sort of speak. One child is a lot easier than 372 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 2: two or three. 373 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 3: So that's better. What's better for the kids. 374 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 4: It's true the kids, well, you have play dates and 375 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 4: friends us. 376 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 3: But if the parents are happy, then the kid might 377 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 3: be happier too, right, because it's all sort of derivative 378 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 3: in the way that the demeanor is around the house. 379 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 3: If you keep the happiness there, then you have a 380 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 3: happy baby, all right. Today's quote everything we say at 381 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 3: funerals should be said at birthday parties. Instead, we leave 382 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 3: so much of love unspoken. 383 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 4: Wait, so I've never experienced this. I was like, what, 384 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 4: I've actually never had just one kid. I just realized that. 385 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 3: You get them headlines with Tanya rad Well. 386 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 6: Guests visiting Disneyland in July won't be able to enjoy 387 00:15:55,400 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 6: several classic attractions due to scheduled refurbishments starting July, with 388 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 6: Alis in Wonderland, Soaring around the World, and the Disneyland 389 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 6: Monorail will be closed to guests. No reopen date has 390 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 6: been announced. And Hey the Metrolink, which offers train services 391 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 6: between La Riverside, Orange, San Bernardino, and Ventura counties, is 392 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 6: bringing back its popular fifteen dollars Summer Day Pass. 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The majority will be the first in 400 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 6: their families to attend college, many of the first and 401 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 6: their families to graduate from high school. 402 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 5: On air with Ryan Seacrest. 403 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 3: What's safe and unsafe with these health trends you've been 404 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 3: seeing on TikTok sisiny, do you want to run through these? 405 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 406 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 4: So, some of these are safe, some of these are not. 407 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:07,360 Speaker 4: Some of these are so. Using egg whites to remove black. 408 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 3: Heads, so how do you even do that? 409 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 4: You put the egg whites on a strip of tissue paper, 410 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:12,959 Speaker 4: and then you put that over your zip for fifteen minutes, 411 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 4: hold on. 412 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:18,640 Speaker 3: Egg white over tissue paper on this Does that work? 413 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:20,959 Speaker 4: So they say that it'll start prior to harden. I'm 414 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 4: assuming it gets all sticking hard. And then no, they 415 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 4: say it's not safe. You could get salmonella and it's 416 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 4: mostly water anyways, so it won't work nearly as well 417 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 4: as a product designed for this. 418 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 3: Where do people come up with the stuff that they 419 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 3: post about and say this works? 420 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:38,239 Speaker 2: Teenagers that are bored in their bedrooms? Like, what are 421 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 2: we doing? Eating your Christmas tree? 422 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:43,439 Speaker 3: Eating Christmas? 423 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 2: You've heard me correctly, eating your Christmas tree. 424 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:49,919 Speaker 4: The idea is to make tea or seasoning from different 425 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 4: parts of your tree, rather than just throwing it out. 426 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 3: So actually, I will tell you. I read. I read 427 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,439 Speaker 3: that making tea from the pine needles is okay as 428 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 3: long as you're tree has not been treated. 429 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 4: Well, it's not safe. It may have been treated with 430 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 4: pesticides or chemicals. 431 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 3: If you know your tree is not treated, it's just 432 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 3: like putting rosemary in your tea. How do you know, Well, 433 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 3: I don't know how you know. I didn't see where 434 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 3: you got your tree. But if you know, if you 435 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:17,240 Speaker 3: go your own tree and you chop it down and 436 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 3: you put pesticides on it, and you can make tree tea. 437 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:21,879 Speaker 5: I've been wanting to try this one. 438 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 4: Potato slices in socks to remove toxins. TikTokers are putting 439 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,679 Speaker 4: slices of potatoes in their socks when they go to sleep, 440 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 4: and since they turn black, people think it's proof that 441 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 4: they are removing the toxins. 442 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 2: So is it safe? Sure, but it's really not doing anything. 443 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 3: Is he doing anything? 444 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 5: They turned black? 445 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 3: But potatoes turn black, don't they? Yeah. 446 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 6: I saw TikToker put some on her socks and sleep, 447 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 6: and then also took some and put them in a 448 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 6: sock and just like left them on the in the 449 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:54,959 Speaker 6: bed next to her and showed us both the potatoes 450 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 6: and the ones that were in her feet were black 451 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 6: and the ones that were not on her feet were 452 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 6: not black. Many, So I think this is true. 453 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 2: Why don't you try it? I will report back. 454 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 5: Yeah. 455 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 4: Skin cycling This applies to your night time skincare routine 456 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:16,120 Speaker 4: and involves rotating different products with certain ingredients, so you're 457 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 4: resting your skin. 458 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 2: On certain days. Is it safe? Yes? And it seems 459 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:21,640 Speaker 2: to be good for your skin. 460 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 3: It is amazing how you can get on TikTok and 461 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 3: just continue to go and go and go once you start. So, Tony, 462 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:31,640 Speaker 3: what kind of potato you gonna put in your sock tonight? 463 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 3: I'm so curious. 464 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 6: It's you're supposed to use one of those. I think 465 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 6: it's a Yukon gold. Get a standard, Just slap a potato. 466 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 3: I got a bunch of the cardiage. Go to the 467 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:43,919 Speaker 3: grocery store and get a Yukon gold. So this is 468 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 3: a moment where we try and find out why someone's 469 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 3: disappeared on you after going out with them. It doesn't 470 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 3: make a lot of sense, but you want the peace 471 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,639 Speaker 3: of mind to know that's a second date update. So anyway, 472 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 3: Catherine reaches out and she's like, hey, listen, I went 473 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 3: out with the guy I've had a crush on for 474 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 3: a long time. But here's the thing, I have no 475 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 3: idea idea if it was a date or not. I 476 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 3: think it would be cute if you guys called him 477 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 3: to find out for me. Okay, have you been in 478 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:11,479 Speaker 3: a situation Tony when you were dating you know, if 479 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 3: it was a date or not. 480 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 2: I'll remember that guy. 481 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 6: Yes, and it was so horrific because I, like I remember, 482 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 6: showed up to work out a big pimple, so I 483 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:20,360 Speaker 6: was wearing like zip cream to work. 484 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 5: I was prepping for this date. 485 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 6: I got all dressed up by ubered because I thought 486 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 6: I was gonna get drunk and like make out with him. 487 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 5: And it was not a date. He ordered tea and 488 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:33,680 Speaker 5: it was work or tea. 489 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, that nice conversation. The other day we sat next 490 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 3: to somebody that was on a date and one person 491 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 3: was having wine and one was having tea, and I 492 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 3: couldn't stop eavesdropping, and I couldn't get past the fact 493 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 3: that I felt like the person having the tea was 494 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 3: not really into the guy. Mm hmm, all right. So anyway, 495 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 3: Catherine is on the line with us. Now, Catherine, thanks 496 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:58,439 Speaker 3: for coming on. So, uh, why what what's confusing about this? 497 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 3: Why do you think it could not be a date? 498 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 1: Well, it's complicated because of our history a little bit. 499 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: So he is. So my sister is two years older 500 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: than me, and we grew up in the Bay Area 501 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,199 Speaker 1: together and they were like childhood friends, like you know, 502 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 1: always over at each other's houses. And I was basically 503 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 1: like the little sister that had a crush on him. 504 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 1: My whole life basically. So now we both live in La, 505 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: so whenever we run into each other, I you know, 506 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:30,880 Speaker 1: we're always like, oh, you know, we should hang out, 507 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 1: but it never happens because it's La. So I actually 508 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 1: the other day was scrolling on a hinge and I 509 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: saw him, so I decided to like his profile and 510 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: we ended up matching, which was incredible, and he messaged 511 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: me saying, well, I guess this is our excuse to 512 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,439 Speaker 1: like finally hang out. And we did, and we know, 513 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,479 Speaker 1: we went and got drinks, we went for a walk 514 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 1: and we hung up for a long time and it 515 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: was a good date. Right, it was amazing, And I 516 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 1: mean he even like, you know, my evidence is that 517 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: like this is a date, and everything was. The waitress 518 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,960 Speaker 1: gave him the bill and he instantly grabbed it and 519 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: he paid it. 520 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,439 Speaker 3: So here's the thing. If you go, okay, if you 521 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 3: if you say very cutely, this is our excuse to 522 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:18,679 Speaker 3: hang out, then you go out for drinks, then you 523 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,680 Speaker 3: go for a walk. If you don't want it to 524 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 3: be a date, you say friend or power or buddy, 525 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 3: or you talk about other women or something like you 526 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 3: make it clear. Well, I think necessarily, like if he 527 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 3: didn't want you to think that you were on a date. 528 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 3: I think you would have been clear, right you want 529 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,679 Speaker 3: to right, Well. 530 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 1: We didn't like there was no you know, we never 531 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 1: held hands or anything, which was weird because it was 532 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,439 Speaker 1: a walk. So I feel like that would be like 533 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 1: a great time to do that. Yeah, and then we 534 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 1: also didn't kill me, not the. 535 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,719 Speaker 3: First time, and clearest isn't if you were out with 536 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 3: somebody like that. In those situations when you make it 537 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 3: clear that you want, I mean, somehow you cue them 538 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:53,919 Speaker 3: that this is friendly. 539 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 2: Yes, I would start talking about another guy. That's always 540 00:22:58,800 --> 00:22:59,640 Speaker 2: like that would. 541 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 3: Be Can I get some relationship advice from you? 542 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 2: Exactly? 543 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 3: Like I feel like you could help me out in 544 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 3: this situation, like some subtlety like that. So but listen, that's. 545 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 2: Just so none of that happened, right. 546 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 1: No, No, I mean we've been texting it like, no, 547 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: there were no like friend zone comment. 548 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 11: Okay, okay, no, how. 549 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 1: Texting exactly? Yeah, but I mean the texting has been sweet, 550 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 1: but I wouldn't say it's been like flirty, you know, 551 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,919 Speaker 1: like it's I feel like it's like fifty to fifty 552 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: on who initiates, you. 553 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 3: Know, hold on one second, let's just find out. We're 554 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,680 Speaker 3: gonna get his number, we're gonna call him and go 555 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 3: on the air. Second date update, let's find out if 556 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 3: this is platonic or if this lifelong friendship or lifelong relationship. 557 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 3: It's going to be a relationship. But he didn't give 558 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 3: her a cue, he or she You didn't give a 559 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,879 Speaker 3: cue either. I guess Catherine to say that you thought 560 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 3: this was a date. He didn't help you, like understand 561 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 3: whether it was a date or a friendly hangout. I 562 00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 3: just think that if you want it to not be 563 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 3: a date, somebody's going to be queuing somebody exactly right, 564 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 3: you don't let it hang. 565 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 1: I feel like we were just like we were both 566 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,440 Speaker 1: feeling it out as like what I'm thinking. 567 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 2: How long has it been? To ask, how long has 568 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 2: it been. 569 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 1: Since this it's been? I would say it's probably been 570 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 1: like a week, like a week and a half probably. 571 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 2: Since we no initiation of like let's hang out again. 572 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 1: No, tex No, nobody's a really chill guy though, So 573 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,439 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just nervous. 574 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 3: Here's a deal. He's chilling right now. On hold, so 575 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:29,239 Speaker 3: be very quiet. I'm going to bring him up. We're 576 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 3: gonna see we can find out. Okay, just listening. 577 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: Thank you guys. 578 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 3: All right, Hello Mike. Hello, Hey Mike, it's Ryan Seacrests. 579 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 3: You're on the radio with us right now on the air. 580 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 3: Thanks for hanging on. How you doing, I'm good? How 581 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 3: are you doing well? Thanks? So, Mike, we're calling about 582 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 3: a woman named Catherine. I guess you've known for quite 583 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 3: a while through your families. 584 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I do know Katherine and. 585 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 3: Great, So tell me about you and Catherine your relationship. 586 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 8: So, I mean, basically, you know, like through mutual friends 587 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,160 Speaker 8: and families. We've known each other for a long time 588 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 8: and we just recently hung out. 589 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 3: I don't know if she told you. She did tell me. Yeah, 590 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 3: we actually did speak to Catherine. She's on the line 591 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 3: right now listening to you. So let me just cut 592 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,880 Speaker 3: to it. Mike. Since you know that she's spoken with us, 593 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 3: are you interested in Catherine romantically or you just being 594 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,400 Speaker 3: a good friend? Because it seems like on the date 595 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 3: you went out, On the night you went out, it 596 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 3: was left unknown. 597 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 8: I mean maybe, I mean, if she wants it to 598 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 8: be a date, I guess it was a date. I 599 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 8: don't know, Like I don't like to put label. 600 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 3: What did you go into it thinking? And how did 601 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 3: you leave thinking? 602 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 8: I mean again, you know, if she didn't want it 603 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 8: to be a date, then I guess it wasn't. I mean, 604 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 8: I'd be happy to have it as a date, you know, 605 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 8: like I just don't like to have you know. 606 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,640 Speaker 3: We were right, He's open to it being a date, 607 00:25:58,640 --> 00:25:59,960 Speaker 3: which is why he didn't make it clear it wasn't 608 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:04,160 Speaker 3: date exactly. So Catherine is listening now, Mike, Mike, why 609 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 3: don't you just ask her out? 610 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 8: I mean, Catherine, if if you'd like to go on 611 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 8: a date and call it a date, I would love to. 612 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,159 Speaker 8: I mean, we we've known each other for so long, 613 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,439 Speaker 8: and like I think it would be awesome. 614 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:23,679 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yeah I would. Yeah, I'm I'm so happy. 615 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 1: I felt a little crazy. I've just like been going 616 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,919 Speaker 1: back and forth, and I'm just I'm so happy to 617 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 1: hear that we had the same feelings, you know, yeah. 618 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 8: I mean god, I mean, like you we've known each 619 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 8: other for so long. I mean I was I didn't 620 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 8: want to put anything on it, you know, and if 621 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,439 Speaker 8: you were cool with it being a date, then I 622 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 8: guess it was a date. And I think we should 623 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 8: actually go on an official date though. 624 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 3: Nice, all right, well this one's going to work out, Okay, 625 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:51,200 Speaker 3: very excited. 626 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 8: Awesome, that's great. 627 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: So Catherine you're in Oh yeah, no, I'm and I'm 628 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: I'm so happy. Thank you. 629 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:05,960 Speaker 3: You guys all happily ever after each other. All right. 630 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 3: But he sounded like Matt Money Smith. Is that I'm 631 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,880 Speaker 3: thinking of Money the sports guy? 632 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:12,120 Speaker 9: I know he sounded yeah. 633 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 3: I was like, wait, is this Matt Money? So that's 634 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,360 Speaker 3: what was going on. He did kind of want it 635 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,199 Speaker 3: to be a date if she wanted it to be 636 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 3: a date, which she did say. 637 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 2: He was very chill. I can feel the chillness from him. Yeah, 638 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,200 Speaker 2: he's very laid back. Why was that cringe? 639 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 6: Because it's like we've all had these, like countless amount 640 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 6: of times have had these conversations, but hearing them publicly 641 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 6: on the radio was like, so, I don't know, it's cringe. 642 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 5: It like takes me back. 643 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 4: That. 644 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I even though I'm enthusiastic, I'm cringing. 645 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 12: Guys, let them be on air with Ryan Seacres, Bellicod Money, 646 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 12: How are you hid? 647 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 3: How are you I'm doing? Thank you? So tell me 648 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,479 Speaker 3: you don't want to bring your boyfriend to a wedding. 649 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 7: Yes, that's correct, Ryan, Yeah, boyfriend. So he's invited, but 650 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,159 Speaker 7: I'm not quite sure whant to bring him because my 651 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 7: ex will be at the wedding. 652 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 3: And it was your college friend. He's your ex single. 653 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,119 Speaker 7: Yeah, he's a single. Yeah, he was single at the moment, 654 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:27,120 Speaker 7: my boyfriend. 655 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 4: I don't tell him that it's your just move on. 656 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,440 Speaker 4: Don't tell me your boyfriend or ex boyfriend. 657 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,400 Speaker 7: He already knows, he's aware, he's aware of the yeah, 658 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 7: because he would recognize him and everything. 659 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 3: So I've done, I've I've lived through this. I actually 660 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 3: made a mistake. So why was that something? And an 661 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:51,959 Speaker 3: ex of mine was there and I introduced my current 662 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 3: to my ex, but I didn't say my girlfriend. I 663 00:28:54,560 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 3: said her name. Oh no, And I'm like why, and 664 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 3: I'm in the carment. What's wrong? It's like nothing, nothing. 665 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 3: I'm trying to figure out, racking my brain, like what happened. 666 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 3: She's like, when you introduced me to x you just 667 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 3: said my name. You didn't say girlfriend. I'm like I did. 668 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 3: I didn't realize Oh no, no, I mean the x 669 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 3: K News. She was with me, but I just said 670 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 3: her name instead of saying, this is my girlfriend. 671 00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 2: I feel like. 672 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 5: It's implied, no, you need to hear. 673 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 3: But it was like the craziest thing. I'm like, what, 674 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 3: and you know when you're I don't know, maybe it's 675 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 3: just me or some guys, Like I'm really trying to 676 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 3: figure out what's wrong, Like nothing should be wrong. And 677 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 3: then were you guys. 678 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 7: Dating my my ex. 679 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 1: For six years? 680 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 7: Yeah? 681 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 3: Six years? Yeah, I think that you should be. I mean, 682 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 3: you don't still have feelings for him, do you? 683 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 7: No, No, there's zero feelings. I mean we broke up amably. 684 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 2: And so I think it's I think together or anything. 685 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 4: It is worse if your current boyfriend doesn't go, because 686 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 4: then he's gonna find out later sure, like, oh, well 687 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 4: you didn't want me to go to the wedding and. 688 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 3: Because of yours if you've moved on and he's moved on, 689 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 3: I think it's fine. You're an adult. 690 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, true, I guess. I just think that it would 691 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,239 Speaker 7: create problems and bring up insecurities on his end. So 692 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 7: I was trying to just avoid the situation in general 693 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:28,960 Speaker 7: and sort of tell him that I didn't get up 694 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 7: plus one. 695 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 8: For the while. 696 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 4: I think that's so much worse, worse because the truth 697 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 4: is always going to come out. 698 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, your boyfriend needs to have boots on the ground. 699 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 2: The truth is always going to. 700 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 4: Come out, and he's going to be more mad when 701 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 4: he finds out that you lied. 702 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, that's true. I guess it's smarter you can 703 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 7: hold the fight afterwards. 704 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's probably gonna feel great. He's got you on 705 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,480 Speaker 2: his arm, he's he's with you. 706 00:30:56,160 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 7: Yeah. That that that makes sense, that that I do 707 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 7: the best often and tell the truth and just be 708 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 7: super transparent. 709 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 3: All right, Well, good luck with this one. Thanks for 710 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 3: calling Bella. 711 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,760 Speaker 7: Thank you so much, Bryan, thank you guys. 712 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 3: Okay, bye, we have to come back to this. 713 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 6: We have to put a pin in and we have 714 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 6: to come back to it because this is we can 715 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 6: answer right now. 716 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 5: We have time. 717 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 4: How long were you with the current girlfriend that you 718 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 4: just introduced your name? 719 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, you well I don't think anybody's been two years, 720 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,680 Speaker 3: so probably like a year. That was a joke, but 721 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:29,720 Speaker 3: probably a year. 722 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 4: A year, and you did not say this is my girlfriend, 723 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 4: I'd be I would be hold on. 724 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 3: But it's not like I don't ever do it. It's 725 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 3: just I didn't happen to say it that. 726 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 2: Recause it was your ex No, it was No, I 727 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 2: didn't even know. 728 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 3: I that's the problem. 729 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 5: We should know. You should have been explicit about this 730 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 5: is my girl. 731 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 2: No, yeah, you blew it. 732 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 3: Well, I obviously learned that at dinner afterwards, I'm like, 733 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 3: what is going on? No one's talking. 734 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 5: I've I've been there before. I've totally been there room. 735 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 3: I'm like, why is no one talking? Meaning there's only 736 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 3: two of us and I'm not talking and you're not 737 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 3: talking because you know, I say what what? And see 738 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 3: this is the thing though I didn't even realize it. Yeah, 739 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 3: and I realized that's an issue. 740 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 4: Well, no, because she's not going to make a scene 741 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 4: there classy by the way, And so she waited. 742 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 2: Until you were alone make a scene with me. Obviously. 743 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 3: Well the Restaurant'm like, this is a great place. This 744 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 3: suld be fun. Well, we never go to this restaurant. 745 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 9: I'm I'm on her side. 746 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 3: Well, I was like, fine, I'm sorry, got it noted 747 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 3: that every time you need to say that this is. 748 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 6: My ever friend, blah dy blah, especially to the ex. 749 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 2: Oh, especially to the ex Okay. 750 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 3: I heard it the first time. I don't need an echo. 751 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 3: You guys sound like I need it twice, three times. 752 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 2: You've brought it up. 753 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 3: You guys brought me here this morning. All y'all's fault. Okay, Marie. 754 00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 3: So you're in a situation where you don't like the 755 00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 3: guy your sister is. 756 00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 11: Dating exactly a bit of a critic of whine. 757 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 3: Have you spent time with him? 758 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 11: Yeah, So, just to give you a little backstory, my 759 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 11: sister's been dating him for about six months, and the 760 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 11: first time we met him, I even got kind of 761 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 11: the wrong idea because he came over for a family 762 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 11: party and brought nothing with him, which, you know, it 763 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 11: could just be the way my family is, but we 764 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 11: were raised to always bring something and make a good impression. 765 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 11: So like all my past boyfriends up are a wine 766 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 11: or flowers or something. So right off the bat, I 767 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 11: was like, Hm, I don't know about this guy. But 768 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,200 Speaker 11: then as more time went on, I just kind of 769 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 11: like observed him and I saw he doesn't help clean 770 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 11: up around after dinner, he doesn't helps at the table. 771 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 11: I know it might just because he's new, but you know, 772 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,000 Speaker 11: I would think he would ask at things if we 773 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 11: wanted help or anything. And on top of that, he's 774 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 11: just he makes some inappropriate comments sometimes nothing I really 775 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 11: want to get into that much. But he'll like make 776 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 11: jokes about my sister for us, and we're just kind 777 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 11: of like, well, you just met her, you know, what 778 00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 11: are you What are you joking about? So he just 779 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 11: kind of the wrong way, and I was wondering what 780 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 11: you guys think I should do about that. 781 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 3: Well, isn't this one of those things where she's got 782 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,840 Speaker 3: to see it first? Yeah, like she's got to see it, 783 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 3: yeah first, I think otherwise it can become complicated between 784 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,680 Speaker 3: you and your sister if you're telling her what you 785 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,280 Speaker 3: think before she has a chance to see it herself. Sisney, 786 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:18,839 Speaker 3: what do you think? 787 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 2: How does he treat her? 788 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 11: Like I said, it's fine, you know, like nothing I'm 789 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 11: alarmed about. But he doesn't help out, which makes me think, 790 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 11: you know, if they were to go long term, he 791 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,919 Speaker 11: wouldn't be helpful around the house. And like I said, 792 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:32,880 Speaker 11: he makes jokes about her and stuff. So, like I 793 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,399 Speaker 11: I've seen nothing, but I think with her he's very 794 00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 11: good looking. So I think she's a little blindsided almost. 795 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:40,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. 796 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 4: I'm kind of on the fence here because if he's 797 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 4: making her happy and he's not harmed to her, you 798 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 4: know he's not like toxic in any way towards her. 799 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:54,840 Speaker 4: You got to just suck it up and just maybe 800 00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,760 Speaker 4: he's maybe you'll come around, you know, and maybe you'll 801 00:34:58,040 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 4: learn to love him. 802 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 11: It'll take a while, not helping out. Now, what is 803 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 11: she going to do down the road? 804 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,920 Speaker 2: You know, I all could just kind of be passive aggressive. 805 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 5: I'd be like, are you gonna help passive aggressive? 806 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 7: No? 807 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 3: I would. I would give this some time. I would 808 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 3: give this some time because it feels like she'll see 809 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 3: it too. But I don't think you could jump in 810 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,399 Speaker 3: with your opinion too strongly right away, or. 811 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 2: It's just going to cause a divide. 812 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 3: All right, Marie, Well, thank you for calling. Do you 813 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 3: think you've ever been not liked by someone's sibling or 814 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 3: parents that you've dated. 815 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:33,920 Speaker 4: No, No, have you. 816 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 3: I'm trying to think back. 817 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 2: No, I feel like everyone's liked you. 818 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 3: I'm usually really close to their parents. You're like heeady, 819 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,919 Speaker 3: but I'm like I usually I usually get along really 820 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,839 Speaker 3: well with their moms because they're my. 821 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 2: Age, close to it. 822 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:54,399 Speaker 3: We like the same music. 823 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 2: Like you said it, I didn't. 824 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 3: I knew what you were thinking. And that was a joke. 825 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,359 Speaker 3: So this was last week on Friday. If you were here, 826 00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,360 Speaker 3: you'll remember this. If not, follow me here. We stumbled 827 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,960 Speaker 3: into the different pronunciations of words that we have said 828 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 3: one million times on this show. And it's funny how 829 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,600 Speaker 3: sometimes things just strike you or they stand out to you, 830 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 3: Like forever, Tonny, when you said both, that stands out both, right? 831 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 3: When I say wolf, it's it's like it stands out wolves, wolves, right, wolf, wolf, wolf, wolf? 832 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,760 Speaker 3: Wolf is a wolf. It's a wolf. 833 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 2: Wolf, it's a wolf. 834 00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,839 Speaker 3: It's a wolf. Oh, it's both, it's a wolf. Yeah. 835 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,480 Speaker 3: How do you what you say the animal name wolf? Wolf? 836 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 3: Say together? Both the people go together, they do what 837 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 3: they go together? Both both both and wolf both. 838 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 5: We also say umbrella. Weird You say. 839 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:55,880 Speaker 3: Umbrella, umbrella? What do you say umbrella? It's an umbrella's umbrella. Okay. 840 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,799 Speaker 6: When he first said it, he said umbrella, my umbrella. 841 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,799 Speaker 3: Sydney, you said earlier, how to go, how to go? 842 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,160 Speaker 3: How to go? How to go? How to go? How 843 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,960 Speaker 3: to go? To had to go? You had to go? 844 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 9: I had to go? 845 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 3: How to go? You know what? When you gotta go? 846 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,880 Speaker 3: You gotta go to go? Ia go? How did it go? 847 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 3: I had to go? I don't know what you said. 848 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 3: So anyway, we got into this and we rabbit holed it. 849 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:22,319 Speaker 2: Grocery. 850 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,759 Speaker 3: I say grocery, Sisney and Tony say grocery store. Well, 851 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:29,680 Speaker 3: guess what Harvard is. 852 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,720 Speaker 2: Chimed in hav Oh what is Harvard? 853 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:35,399 Speaker 3: Now, don't ask that they know it all. They did 854 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:40,320 Speaker 3: a dialect survey just for us, and the survey found 855 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 3: out fifty two of Americans say grocery and say grocery, 856 00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 3: so it's almost an even split. 857 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 4: But look heavily in the East and Midwest they say grocery. 858 00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 4: So it is an east coast west coast thing because. 859 00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 3: I grew up on the East coast in Georgia, and 860 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:03,400 Speaker 3: we say grocery. All right. Then yesterday we got into garage. 861 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:08,799 Speaker 3: You say garage, garage, No, it's garage. Well, fifty one 862 00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 3: percent of Americans say garage, thirty seven percent say garage, 863 00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 3: and ten percent use them both. So here's some other 864 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,040 Speaker 3: things I found interesting though. How do you say the 865 00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,279 Speaker 3: stuff that you put on pancakes? 866 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:30,480 Speaker 2: Syrup syrup, syrup, syrupy. 867 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,000 Speaker 5: Syrup, syrup, maple syrup. 868 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:36,040 Speaker 3: Syrup, syrup. So Sysney says syrup tany you say syrup. 869 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 3: Oh my God, this is the best ever. What is it? 870 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:40,760 Speaker 5: Syrup? 871 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 3: Right? 872 00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 2: Syrup? 873 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 3: Forty nine percent of people in America say syrup, thirty 874 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:50,640 Speaker 3: four percent say syrup, and thirteen percent say syrup. 875 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:55,880 Speaker 5: Thirteen percent ya, syrup. 876 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,960 Speaker 2: That I just think so hard to say syrup syrup? 877 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:03,640 Speaker 3: A right? Do you say there's another one that salted 878 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:05,320 Speaker 3: ice cream flavor? 879 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:06,919 Speaker 2: Oh the tan? 880 00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:07,800 Speaker 5: No caramel? 881 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:14,520 Speaker 2: Caramel caramel? You say caramel caramel? Yeah, I done it. 882 00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 2: I don't say caramel, caramel, caramel, Tanya, caramel caramel. 883 00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:24,520 Speaker 3: Thirty eight percent of American say caramel caramel, thirty caramel 884 00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 3: caramel both. How about the thing you used to get 885 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,680 Speaker 3: fifteen percent off discount? 886 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:33,360 Speaker 2: Oh, coupon? 887 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:38,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, a coupon, A coupon, coupon or a coupon. 888 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 4: No, a coupon, couponquon, coupon, No coupon, that coupon, coupon. 889 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:48,359 Speaker 3: Coupon sixty six percent of American sake coupon, thirty three 890 00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:49,320 Speaker 3: percent sake coupon. 891 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,239 Speaker 2: What do you say, root. 892 00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:56,400 Speaker 3: Route? I say routes or root I say coupon. 893 00:39:56,600 --> 00:40:00,000 Speaker 5: Okay, concierge, concierge, concierge. 894 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:04,080 Speaker 3: Oh, okay, that's on the Harvard list. What about route 895 00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 3: or root? 896 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,839 Speaker 2: The route, the route? What route are you taking? 897 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:13,680 Speaker 3: I say route, I say route route. What about data 898 00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 3: or data? 899 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 2: I say data? 900 00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:17,760 Speaker 3: Say data? 901 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 2: I say data because the wireless commercial s, Yeah, they 902 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:20,680 Speaker 2: all say data too. 903 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:21,239 Speaker 9: That's how I look. 904 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:29,960 Speaker 3: I run into people that say what about the data? Alright? 905 00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,400 Speaker 3: And finally, how about the clothes you sleep in? What 906 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 3: do you call those? 907 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,360 Speaker 5: Oh, pajamas, pajamas, Yeah, pajamas. 908 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 3: We're gonna have a pajama party. Jammys, okay, tubs. What 909 00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 3: do you say for the things you sleep in? Underwear? 910 00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 7: Oh? 911 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing, I'd say pajamas. Second, naked pajamas. 912 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 3: Forty six people say pajamas, fifty say pajamas. 913 00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:58,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 914 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 3: Thinking about it, they get confused. 915 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:02,040 Speaker 2: Pajamas. 916 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,799 Speaker 3: Which would I like to come up for some pajamas 917 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:05,480 Speaker 3: and pizza. 918 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 2: I'm having a pajama party. 919 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:11,320 Speaker 3: Yes, bring your data and we'll go through a thumb 920 00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:13,840 Speaker 3: through it. I feel like there's three members of the 921 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 3: show that should really pay attention to the engagement ring 922 00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 3: conversation that we are about to have here. One of 923 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:23,680 Speaker 3: those people, it's Ruby, who works in the back room 924 00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,759 Speaker 3: because she's been waiting for fifteen twenty years now for 925 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:30,600 Speaker 3: her boyfriend to propose. And the other is Tanya, who's 926 00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,920 Speaker 3: made it clear this is the year that she probably 927 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:36,440 Speaker 3: takes the next step. And I think the quiet one 928 00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,400 Speaker 3: in the corner should also pay attention. 929 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:40,160 Speaker 2: Right, because he's the one that's probably gonna have to 930 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 2: purchase one. 931 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:43,880 Speaker 3: Our engineer, Jeffrey Thubbs, that's right, Tubbs. What do you 932 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:47,480 Speaker 3: know about engagement rings? Not a lot? Right, This is 933 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,879 Speaker 3: made for you. This is a perfect segment. I'm all here, 934 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:55,720 Speaker 3: all there, there's a tell, so I guess and I'm gonna, 935 00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,359 Speaker 3: you know, sort of weave, bob and weave my way 936 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 3: through this. But to throw off the scent tubs nice. 937 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,480 Speaker 3: But are you one of those people who always imagined 938 00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:08,440 Speaker 3: what your engagement ring looks like? Or are you non traditionalists? 939 00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,799 Speaker 3: Do you want to help pick it out and design it? 940 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,880 Speaker 3: What are most people? What do they do to most people? 941 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,800 Speaker 3: Are they in on it or not in on it? Ruby? 942 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:17,320 Speaker 9: I think it depends. 943 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:20,400 Speaker 10: Like when it comes to millennials and Gen z, they 944 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:23,359 Speaker 10: are more likely to actually want to know what kind 945 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 10: of ring they're going to get. They want to be 946 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 10: a part of the process, so they want to go 947 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,920 Speaker 10: check out rings, see what you know styles they like, 948 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,920 Speaker 10: but they're also opting for more non traditional rings, so 949 00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:35,840 Speaker 10: not necessarily a diamond. 950 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,120 Speaker 3: Okay, so it's just any other kind of ring, right, 951 00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:40,320 Speaker 3: What about no jewelry and just a tattoo. 952 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, that's an option as well. 953 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:43,920 Speaker 5: Jason Kennedy did that. 954 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember that story. He was way ahead of 955 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:50,799 Speaker 3: the curve, dame trendsetter to what other? And again this 956 00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:54,719 Speaker 3: is flying blind? What other kinds of stones or jewels 957 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,480 Speaker 3: could you give as an engagement ring? 958 00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:00,960 Speaker 10: So some of the more popular ones are like emeralds, sapphires, 959 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:06,360 Speaker 10: or even pairing like a smaller diamond with an emerald 960 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:07,000 Speaker 10: or a sapphire. 961 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:07,840 Speaker 2: That would be pretty. 962 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,600 Speaker 5: Didn't Megan Fox do that? 963 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:11,680 Speaker 2: Yes? I think? 964 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:11,839 Speaker 8: So. 965 00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:14,840 Speaker 3: Do you like surprise as ruby? 966 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:15,799 Speaker 2: I do? 967 00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 9: I like a surprise. 968 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,640 Speaker 3: But you guys are collaborating on the ring. 969 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:21,320 Speaker 9: Now we did go look at rings. 970 00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,279 Speaker 10: Yeah, so he kind of knows what style I would like, 971 00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 10: but I didn't pick the one. 972 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 2: Would you want a ruby or is that too cliche? Uh? 973 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,320 Speaker 3: Tanya? Do you want to be a part of it design? 974 00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:38,160 Speaker 5: I'm not a part of it. Yeah, I'm not. 975 00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:39,320 Speaker 2: I'm not a part of it. 976 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 4: How do you know? 977 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 6: Because I've kind of like I had these conversations with 978 00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:49,480 Speaker 6: my girlfriends, and like on the podcast, people have been saying, 979 00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,840 Speaker 6: you should go, you should go, you should you know, 980 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 6: be a part of it, blah blah blah. And so 981 00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:58,560 Speaker 6: I've had those conversations and thought I should go, and 982 00:43:58,600 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 6: then I didn't go. 983 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,560 Speaker 3: I think the surprise here best route. What do you 984 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:03,279 Speaker 3: mean he already went? 985 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,719 Speaker 6: Well, no, like, we're not going like we decided, we're 986 00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,359 Speaker 6: not like going and looking and doing that. 987 00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:08,720 Speaker 5: We're not doing it together. 988 00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,799 Speaker 3: So how much of a conversation have you had just 989 00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:12,839 Speaker 3: bring us up to speed here? 990 00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:14,000 Speaker 5: What do you mean You've. 991 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:15,520 Speaker 3: Decided you're going to get engaged, but you're not going 992 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,120 Speaker 3: to go shouting for the ringers, waiting for the ring 993 00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:18,240 Speaker 3: to appear with the proposal. 994 00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 5: Well that's kind of how it goes. 995 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 3: I thought this was all supposed to be out of 996 00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 3: nowhere surprise. 997 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,400 Speaker 5: Well, you know, I'm not twenty anymore. 998 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 3: Mama's got some What what if he's listening? What if 999 00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:33,040 Speaker 3: he gets you a sapphire ring? It's fine, tubs? Have 1000 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:33,719 Speaker 3: you thought about this? 1001 00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:35,360 Speaker 5: I don't really know what a sapphire is? 1002 00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:39,799 Speaker 3: Do you even know what? The questions ask? No idea no, 1003 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:46,840 Speaker 3: all right, well, Blue Ruby, any more news on the 1004 00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 3: evolution of your situation? No, how many years it been. 1005 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:54,920 Speaker 10: We've known each other eight, dating for seven, officially solid 1006 00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 10: all my twenties. 1007 00:44:56,120 --> 00:45:00,520 Speaker 3: Basically, all right, well, stay tuned. So I guess the 1008 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:04,080 Speaker 3: gist here is we're going for non traditional rings. If 1009 00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,759 Speaker 3: you're thinking about getting engaged, there are other routes and 1010 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 3: avenues to do it, especially if you want to save 1011 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 3: some dope. Where's tubs Jeffrey Tubbs? Right here? Oh? Hot? 1012 00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:17,479 Speaker 3: In here? You are wearing a sweater. What else would 1013 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:18,120 Speaker 3: you like to point out? 1014 00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:18,520 Speaker 11: Thank you? 1015 00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 3: I am wearing sweater and an og boot. 1016 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 6: Look here, Oh, let me see the bug, Let me 1017 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:27,800 Speaker 6: see it? 1018 00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:29,920 Speaker 2: You the cute cutoffs. 1019 00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,520 Speaker 5: I'm trying to get Robbie to wear a pair, and 1020 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:32,279 Speaker 5: he won't do it. 1021 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:36,240 Speaker 3: There's selmon pictures of me from high school. I'll be inspired. 1022 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 3: Let me see another picture. So, if you just tuned in, 1023 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,560 Speaker 3: Sistany and Tany for three years have been hiding photos 1024 00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:47,040 Speaker 3: that they stole from a high school co student of mind, 1025 00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 3: what do you call them? So? When I went to 1026 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:48,879 Speaker 3: high school with. 1027 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:50,400 Speaker 5: High school colleagues? 1028 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 3: No, what like? How do you have these pictures? 1029 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:56,480 Speaker 2: You can see the scrap book in the background. 1030 00:45:56,560 --> 00:46:00,440 Speaker 3: It's all roughly, we need to call carry Roos and 1031 00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,080 Speaker 3: find out what she's doing with these in a step, I. 1032 00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,920 Speaker 5: Only have two photos. I think I got drunk at 1033 00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 5: lunch and just took two. So I took a bunch. 1034 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:08,480 Speaker 2: I have about forty five. 1035 00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:10,680 Speaker 3: You need to send those over. 1036 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,359 Speaker 2: I took them with the intent to give them to you. 1037 00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 3: I swear tiny's a picture of me and a girlfriend 1038 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 3: of mine from ninth grade. 1039 00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,399 Speaker 5: I feel like this girl was probably it was the game. 1040 00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,920 Speaker 2: This was the game that well, yeah, do you remember 1041 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:25,680 Speaker 2: this girl? 1042 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:28,959 Speaker 4: Well, girl, it was the biggest one of your friends 1043 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:30,840 Speaker 4: from high school, and this is some weird game that you. 1044 00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,000 Speaker 3: Really never know someone like that playing that game with 1045 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 3: the ball wrapped around your favorite game. No, you guys, 1046 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 3: all right, listen, let's come back to the show. Could 1047 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,120 Speaker 3: we say a nice sweater next time? Okay, it is 1048 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:45,480 Speaker 3: a nice one, all right, thanks. Chickens eggs shortage. So 1049 00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,360 Speaker 3: there's an egg shortage. We were talking about that a 1050 00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:51,120 Speaker 3: few minutes ago, and I guess you can. You're allowed 1051 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,400 Speaker 3: to have chicken coops in a lot of places in 1052 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,040 Speaker 3: your backyard in southern California, right, so's. 1053 00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,480 Speaker 4: They're permitted in most neighborhoods in Los Angeles under local law. 1054 00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 4: So as long as the chicken coops are at least thirty 1055 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:04,480 Speaker 4: five feet from neighboring structures and one hundred feet from 1056 00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:08,759 Speaker 4: those who have a rooster, you're good to go. But 1057 00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:11,400 Speaker 4: I don't know about all of this. I feel like 1058 00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:14,320 Speaker 4: this might turn into a little bit of a disaster. 1059 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:14,920 Speaker 2: Like if my. 1060 00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:18,360 Speaker 4: Neighbor starts, you know, it gets rooster, and that rooster 1061 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:21,240 Speaker 4: starts waking us up at three and the morester. 1062 00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,600 Speaker 3: Doesn't the rooster. Does the rooster have to be there 1063 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 3: for the chickens? How does the chicken get egged? 1064 00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,600 Speaker 2: I believe the rooster has to be involved every time. 1065 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:32,839 Speaker 4: Not not maybe every Actually, as a good question. 1066 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:34,360 Speaker 5: No, they both lay eggs. 1067 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 2: No, I don't think the rooster does not root. The 1068 00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:39,240 Speaker 2: rooster is the mail. 1069 00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 3: Could someone google the process of a chicken getting egged? 1070 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:49,000 Speaker 4: You basically, you're allowed one rooster, but the number of 1071 00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,680 Speaker 4: chickens allowed depends on the neighborhood regulations. 1072 00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,759 Speaker 3: So, but what if that neighbor. Okay, let's say the 1073 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:58,120 Speaker 3: neighbor is hatching fresh eggs over there in a coop 1074 00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:59,560 Speaker 3: and they brought them over to you in a basket. 1075 00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,320 Speaker 3: Eggs might be worth any sort of noise issue. Honestly, 1076 00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:05,759 Speaker 3: rush organic eggs. Think about that eggs. 1077 00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, that makes more sense, sure, because I paid twenty 1078 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,680 Speaker 4: four dollars the other day for two cases of an 1079 00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 4: eighteen package. 1080 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 5: Those egg carts are pricey these. 1081 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:16,120 Speaker 2: Day, they really are. 1082 00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,239 Speaker 3: So here's the deal. You don't need a rooster for 1083 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,280 Speaker 3: We've never really explored this. You don't need a rooster 1084 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,880 Speaker 3: for eggs. Hens will lay eggs without a rooster. 1085 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:24,360 Speaker 2: How does that happen? 1086 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,839 Speaker 3: Uh? Cool? Because the eggs don't have chicks in them, 1087 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,000 Speaker 3: so they're just eggs, right, So I guess if you 1088 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,400 Speaker 3: want a chick, you need a rooster. We just want Oh. 1089 00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess it's like us, like women, We have 1090 00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 6: a bunch of eggs that we just shed every month, 1091 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:38,680 Speaker 6: like our periods. 1092 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:43,160 Speaker 2: So we're eating period chicken eggs essentially. Ew O. 1093 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 3: When you think of it, like beater carton, that sounds 1094 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,120 Speaker 3: good to me. I'm gonna have the faux egg. My 1095 00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,280 Speaker 3: mother loves the good faux egg out of a carton. 1096 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,799 Speaker 3: She actually pretends that they're real eggs. She hides the 1097 00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:56,160 Speaker 3: carton all right, So there you go. So I think 1098 00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,399 Speaker 3: that you if you want, you can probably. I don't 1099 00:48:58,400 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 3: know if it saves you money in the long runner, 1100 00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,880 Speaker 3: but am but you get fresh organic eggs, which sounds exciting. 1101 00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 2: On Air with a Ryan Seacrest, all. 1102 00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,239 Speaker 3: Right, kids up me. That's gonna do it for USh. 1103 00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,800 Speaker 3: Tomorrow we're back with more sold out Taylor Swift tickets. 1104 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,960 Speaker 3: Have a great Tuesday. You're gonna get through it. Thanks 1105 00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:19,680 Speaker 3: for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure 1106 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 3: to subscribe it and we'll talk to you again tomorrow