1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: I've been with him for a decade, and now he 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: repulses me. I'm a female thirty two and my now 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 1: ex male forty have been together just over a decade 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: and have three kids together. From the beginning of our relationship, 5 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: he cheated on me a lot with all of my 6 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: close friends and anyone connected to us. 7 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 2: Sounds like a great dude, sounds like a nice guy. 8 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: Great start. 9 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: I was stupid enough to stick around, and honestly, there 10 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,639 Speaker 1: wasn't any signs or behaviors that showed he was anything 11 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: but faithful and loving for about two years now, except 12 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 1: for the beginning part. Well, yesterday I saw something pop 13 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: up on one of his devices and I spent all 14 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: night thinking about it and ended up going through his phone. 15 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 1: And you know when I say, when you go through 16 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 1: someone's phone, better be prepared for the relationship to be over. Yep, 17 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: regardless of what you find or not. By the way, 18 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: this comes from Deep Understanding thirty two on the R 19 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: slash Ookey Storytime, Separate It and this is this is 20 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: one of our own. 21 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 2: This is an R slash Okay storytime. This our slash. 22 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,959 Speaker 1: You know, judge me all you want. I'm glad I did. 23 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: I found out that when he goes to work, he 24 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: works away. He has been meeting up with call girls 25 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: and paying them for slappy doppies or rodgs, so roughly 26 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: two hundred to five hundred dollars each time. 27 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,759 Speaker 2: Yo. That's is that expensive? Or is that is that 28 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 2: going to market? 29 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:16,759 Speaker 1: Market race? 30 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: Is that market I don't think that's market rate. 31 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. He could get it for free, that's true. 32 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: You get it for free, girl. 33 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 2: Market market rate for sloppy toppies gotta be like, it 34 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 2: can't be it can't be five. It's gotta be like Yeah, 35 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 2: Jellybus says it depends on the area. Any any uh 36 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 2: sex workers in the chat know what the going market 37 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 2: is the market rate is. 38 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 3: I recently found out someone that I know used to 39 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 3: be a spicy sleep worker and would for like fifteen bucks. 40 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: She's under selling. 41 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I seen. 42 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 3: Fifteen bucks. This is while back and like the nineties 43 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 3: or early two thousands. 44 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 2: Damn, that's someone we. 45 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 3: Know, No, someone I know. 46 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 2: Wow, Yeah, I feel like that's below markt Baite. Yeah, 47 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 2: definitely fifteen bucks out of. 48 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: I mean even with inflation, even in the day, I know. 49 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 2: Yea, even in the nineties. 50 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: I only went back a year before I stopped looking 51 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: and saw he had been doing this the whole time. 52 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 1: I think he meets them on Facebook dating. I can't 53 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: be sure because I've seen that on his phone and 54 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 1: I'm just connecting the dots. How gross is that? I'm 55 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: actually repulsed. I also have seen well over fifty women 56 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: on his snapchat with daily chat all schmextual. Oh my 57 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: wo there were women who were having housing trouble. He 58 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: was sending money to anything you can think of. This 59 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:41,679 Speaker 1: man was doing it. 60 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 2: Oh wow. Really just helping the unhoused population. 61 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: I hate him so much. 62 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:47,679 Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta help or you can't. 63 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry to our okay fan. 64 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: What you're sorry that he's putting people up in houses 65 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 2: is helping people on the streets. Yeah, I have a 66 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 2: more stable life. 67 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 1: Including hiring a girl to share around with his mates. 68 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: This man sucks so much. 69 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:05,639 Speaker 2: He's just giving them free drinks. 70 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: Who I'm pretty sure have wives. Yes, we are broken 71 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 1: up and I am sorting things out to move. But 72 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: the reason I'm writing this is because I know there's 73 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 1: some poor girl out there with a heart full of 74 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 1: love to give, and there are men who you think 75 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: will change and they will get the happy ever after, 76 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: But respect yourself and your time. They are not worth 77 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: the damage they will cause you in the long run. 78 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: I held on to hope that never existed, and I 79 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: know now that it was me seeing someone who wasn't 80 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: there be better than me? You deserve it now. I 81 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 1: don't know what lies ahead for me, but I'm excited, scared, 82 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: and I feel free. I will be free, my God. 83 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: And that's the end of that story. 84 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 2: Oh, Emma Worm Queen's Night says, I know a couple. 85 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 2: They charged three hundred dollars an hour Canadian that's for 86 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 2: two people. 87 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 1: Oh, I think it's I know a couple. Not I 88 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: know a couple. 89 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 2: Oh, now they charge charge for five. 90 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: I know a couple of spicy workers. 91 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's not a like like clarify, 92 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 2: a couple of spicy sleep workers that charge three hundred 93 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 2: dollars or you know a pair, No, like a couple 94 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 2: like they're like a like a boyfriend girlfriend that charge 95 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 2: three hundred dollars an hour? 96 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: No wrong? 97 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 3: Does that have to be an hour? 98 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 2: Yeah? It can? It just be in fifteen minutes. 99 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 3: It canna be like like a minute. It takes forty 100 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 3: five seconds to take my celthes off. 101 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 2: But that's where this episode ends. So if you love us, 102 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: make sure to subscribe. We love you and see you tomorrow. 103 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. 104 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 4: Time for okop rewam. 105 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: I don't care about your heart attack. 106 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 2: My son's finger has a booboo, not the bull boom. 107 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 4: It was another wondrous day in the emergency room. People 108 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 4: running wild, trying to keep up frantic health employees talking 109 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 4: over each other. The emergency room is a mixture of 110 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 4: very severe patients in real risk of dying, and patients 111 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 4: who really don't have an emergency but they like coming 112 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 4: in here for who knows what reason, and everything in between, 113 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 4: just to be seen and loved. 114 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 2: My fingery deserves validation. 115 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 4: Now, we had a twenty three year old male who 116 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 4: dislocated his index finger in a sporting competition. He had 117 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,479 Speaker 4: nine other working fingers bro this man's fine. He came 118 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 4: in accompanied by his dad, the main antagonist in this 119 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 4: story foreshadowing. We attended to the sun and since we 120 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 4: are an expensive private hospital, we called the orthopedist to 121 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 4: come down and fix his finger. Meanwhile, the lad was 122 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,359 Speaker 4: given a painkiller to help with the pain while he 123 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 4: waited for a few minutes for his specialist to arrive. 124 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 2: That sounds like everything's going to plan. 125 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 4: Everything is going swimmingly so far as if on Q 126 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 4: in comes a man with horrendous chest pains. 127 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 2: And here's the thing. 128 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 4: In the emergency department, we treat every single chest pain 129 00:05:55,520 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 4: as guilty of being a heart attack until being proven innocent. Basically, like, 130 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 4: we just assume it's a heart attack from the jump. 131 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 2: The heart attacks are deadly. 132 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:08,359 Speaker 4: This is true, so we begin investigations. We had finished 133 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 4: taking a brief history and we were setting up the 134 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 4: electrodes to the EKG, which they use in case of 135 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 4: heart attack. At that point, entitled Dad strolls on up 136 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 4: to us and says, Hey. 137 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: My son is in a lot of pain. You can't 138 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: just ignore him like this. The guy has a heart attack. 139 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 2: Your son has a dislocated finger. 140 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 4: Priorities me, sir, your son was just giving medication to 141 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 4: aid with the pain and we cannot do anything more 142 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 4: for him. The specialist is on the way to get 143 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 4: the finger fixed. Entitled Dad, I know that, but you 144 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 4: must do something. You can't just leave him like that, 145 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 4: just off on his left on his own to defend himself. 146 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: They can't even point anywhere. 147 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 3: That guy doesn't know how to point who that guy is. 148 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 4: Now, the chief of the er, sir, we have a 149 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 4: much more urgent case here. Your son is perfectly fine, 150 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 4: and nobody but the orthopedist can fix his finger as 151 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 4: per hospital rules. 152 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 2: Makes sense. 153 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 4: That, of course, is unless you would be happy for 154 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 4: a non specialist to PLoP that old finger back into place, 155 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 4: and you accept the risk of attention by a non specialist. 156 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 4: Entitled dad, Well, uh no, but uh the chief of 157 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 4: the r wonderful. Now give us space, please, we are 158 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 4: trying to work on this potential heart attack. 159 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 2: At the heart attack. 160 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 4: Entitled dad huffed his way back to the orthopedic procedures 161 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 4: room his son was in. You might think walking into 162 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 4: a room of three doctors setting up an EKG machine 163 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 4: on a patient with an I'm in pain face would 164 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 4: give the man enough of a clue that priorities are priorities. 165 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 2: But no, no, no, this guy does not come again. 166 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 4: His son was way too precious to have a finger 167 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 4: Boo boo sideline for a man with chest pains and 168 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 4: a potential heart attack. Now, in case you were wondering 169 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 4: it all had an happy ending. The man with the 170 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 4: chest pains ended up not having a full blown heart attack, 171 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 4: and the twenty three year old got his finger fixed 172 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,559 Speaker 4: and will be competition ready in no time. 173 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: Happy endings all around, that's right,