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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and I Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. We're a day later

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Speaker 1: than usual, but we are here. We out here. He's

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Speaker 1: Din's here, Mark's here here. Yeah. Wow, the squad is

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Speaker 1: back together. Feels good. I'll fall on the sword. I

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Speaker 1: couldn't do it yesterday. I'm almost here. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I mean that does happen, but normally it's we kind

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Speaker 1: of discuss like, oh, are we good on Monday? Normally

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Speaker 1: it works, but I mean, you know we're able to move.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean you're busy or you just couldn't

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Speaker 1: do it. I had other obligations yesterday. She was a busy,

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Speaker 1: busy gal. She's a working a businesswoman. Businesswoman, yeah, doing business. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: modern woman. Yeah. I'll literally say that, and it makes

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Speaker 1: no no, like makes no sense in the context that

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Speaker 1: it's in. I know, well, I mean I feel like

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Speaker 1: it can work. However, you throw it in like no

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Speaker 1: one can really argue it, and they're like, okay, are

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Speaker 1: you still upselling me? Um, I'm getting over it seeing

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Speaker 1: my face, you're feeling over a little more over it

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Speaker 1: than you did last night when you ignored me. No,

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Speaker 1: because I feel like, um, right now, in this season

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Speaker 1: of life, I just need to love on you. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I need. That is exactly what I need. And that's

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Speaker 1: what I was gonna say, because I'm going through some

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Speaker 1: things and I you know, I I do feel I

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Speaker 1: know that having a podcast and being on social media

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Speaker 1: and having a following, like you understand like that it

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Speaker 1: is our lives and what is expected of us. But

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Speaker 1: there are times in life where I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to share everything going on in my life because

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Speaker 1: there are certain things that I do want to keep

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Speaker 1: private and that feel important to keep private. So like,

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Speaker 1: if you all feel like I'm not opening up or

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Speaker 1: sharing everything about my life, I'm not like I'm but

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Speaker 1: it also might take time totally. And I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: there might be a time where I maybe go back

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Speaker 1: to this time and say, like, this is what I

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Speaker 1: was going through and this is why I felt this way.

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Speaker 1: But during this time right now, I'm just not um

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Speaker 1: as open as I guess I have been in the past,

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Speaker 1: and I think, um, you know, there's multiple reasons for that,

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Speaker 1: but I don't want I noticed that everyone was very supportive.

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Speaker 1: I got like, very emotional while looking at the scrubbing

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Speaker 1: and Facebook group and everyone commenting hearts on my photo.

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Speaker 1: Like it was a lot for me, like to process

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Speaker 1: that I had that kind of support. So thank you

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Speaker 1: all so much. Also, you have to understand too, because

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Speaker 1: I obviously I know what's going on. Um. Everyone just

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Speaker 1: loves you and just wants you to be happy and

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Speaker 1: feel good. So I think, at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: just know that. UM, just know that. So in this season,

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Speaker 1: I just need to love and be a light in

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Speaker 1: your life. And I was I got mad at you.

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Speaker 1: I was mad at you for probably twenty four hours

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Speaker 1: or for thirty six hours, maybe maybe two days. And

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Speaker 1: to be honest, I had no idea, Like I had

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Speaker 1: Because the way Becca deals with things down she just

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Speaker 1: shuts down. And I like to talk things out. So

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Speaker 1: if I said something or gave an opinion or something

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Speaker 1: whatever I did that that tacked you off, Becca just

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Speaker 1: shuts me out and she doesn't talk to me about it,

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Speaker 1: and that drives me crazy. It makes me so angry.

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Speaker 1: So then I fight fire with fire and I just

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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, fine, you don't want to talk to me,

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Speaker 1: by yeah, But she didn't really address it that way

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Speaker 1: to what started. Because I gave my opinion about something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But you disagreed with something that I did, and I

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Speaker 1: honestly didn't. I didn't harbor or have any bad feelings

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Speaker 1: And so I didn't felt the shift. I think you

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Speaker 1: of like didn't. That's why I prefaced it by saying,

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. I took it with that. This

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Speaker 1: is what I'm learning. This is a big thing that

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Speaker 1: I'm learning because I think it would have helped a

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Speaker 1: But just because that's how I would react doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: more sensitive to like if they're if they're sensitive or

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Speaker 1: gentle with that and be like, that's not how I

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Speaker 1: And I think just in general life, like how dealing

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Speaker 1: that's not really that's not true love. That's not being like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So anyways, I'm learning about that. So for me last night, well, no,

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Speaker 1: so I texted Baca during the day and I said, hey,

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Speaker 1: that's when it started. I facetimed her and she didn't answer,

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Speaker 1: Then the next day, uh, Tanya was like face time

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Speaker 1: me and then she FaceTime to me and I didn't answer,

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Speaker 1: get that. I really get that feeling, thank you, But

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Speaker 1: so I said, I said, what's up Hollish church. She

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Speaker 1: and so then I asked about, Oh, your pastor's daughter

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Speaker 1: Hope you're good. I hope you still don't hate me.

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Speaker 1: How's it going? Like maybe just a couple of texts? Okay? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hours go by, like two hours, two hours. I just

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Speaker 1: It's like I did something wrong. What did I do? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's exactly everything you've done. But literally I'm like, okay, okay,

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422
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Speaker 1: of days. Ryan. If, like Ryan isn't how you meet

423
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Speaker 1: your future husband, then I don't know how it's going

424
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Speaker 1: to happen. Like he is putting in the work, he's

425
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 1: like using his powers for guys. He's in some wrong

426
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Speaker 1: common Netflix if people seem to like by the way,

427
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Speaker 1: and I haven't seen it, but people set it up.

428
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: It's called set it up. Yeah, this guy's cut. Is

429
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: he British? No, he kind of looks like he'd be British.

430
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 1: You're right, do y'all see it? Yeah, he's from Austin, Texas.

431
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: But it is how you look at somebody to think

432
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Speaker 1: I think that guy's Australian. Yeah, there is a look.

433
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Speaker 1: That guy looks British to me. Glenn Powe, I think

434
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,639
Speaker 1: that's a British name. And he's cute. Though we have

435
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 1: so much to cover, we have some friends in common too.

436
00:23:55,400 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 1: Um who um, so you know actually Marissa, yes, she uh,

437
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: he's good friends like Nick Jonas and that whole crew.

438
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:09,640
Speaker 1: So they all those are your people. Oh yeah, this

439
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: is exciting. We'll have to get to this in a

440
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Speaker 1: minute because we want to talk about a d T

441
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: and how you can protect your home. But Tiny said

442
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Speaker 1: the single worst text that anyone's ever sent in the

443
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Speaker 1: history of texts. Fantastic. It's like, to a boy, the

444
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 1: epitome of you, of me. It literally literally is. And

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Speaker 1: you know what, though, I'm so d gaff right now,

446
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 1: Like I literally can you let people know what decaff means?

447
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Speaker 1: People know what I mean? Listen what I mean? I

448
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Speaker 1: didn't I heard that? Don't give up f Yeah. Um,

449
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: I'm in this kind of Um, I'm putting myself out there.

450
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 1: I want to be out there. I want you know

451
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Speaker 1: what I mean. Like, I'm in a good headspace, but

452
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Speaker 1: I'm also in Like, so I got rid of all

453
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Speaker 1: my dating apps. Oh that's a kind of what launched

454
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Speaker 1: this hole. You got rid of them? Done, because you

455
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 1: know what, I'm gonna meet my guy in the wild,

456
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: a modern woman in the wild. We were saying, or

457
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 1: did we say this on the podcast, or was that

458
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 1: before we started. Tanya will throw out the term modern

459
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Speaker 1: woman in any circumstance. I feel like I did asana

460
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Speaker 1: last week with you, didn't I oh, saying like you

461
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 1: were throwing out random modern Yeah. I was like, I

462
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think I can do it, like

463
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: I might last for three minutes, and she's like three

464
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: minutes that's child's play where modern women like, it's no,

465
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with the fact I'm about

466
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:47,480
Speaker 1: to pass out, all right talking then we'll tell you

467
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: about that tech. But it starts with her leading all

468
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 1: of her dating apps and go from there. Um, you

469
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Speaker 1: speaking of a d T you were moving soon into

470
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Speaker 1: a place by yourself, I know, for the first time

471
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Speaker 1: ever ever you like, I mean, I know this is

472
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: a sponsor for the podcast, but genuinely like, are you

473
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: looking into a because I, um, this is like so embarrassing.

474
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 1: I'm very naive to the security um department of things,

475
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Speaker 1: Like I don't know how it works, Like is there

476
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Speaker 1: a camera at your door? Do you put it? Is

477
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Speaker 1: there an alarm in your home? Well? This is all

478
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Speaker 1: stuff you can find out about the A d T

479
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Speaker 1: Go app is really going to be for you? I think, Yeah, Um,

480
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Speaker 1: so if your home is not an a d T home,

481
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 1: you need to be getting a d D and help

482
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Speaker 1: protect against break ins, fire, carbon monoxide. I think everyone

483
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: thinks alarm systems are for like break ins, like no

484
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 1: one thinks about the other things that can happen. Um.

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Speaker 1: And for a limited time, you can get a d

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Speaker 1: dollar day. And a d T is the finest security

489
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Speaker 1: company to help keep you safe at first, not the

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Speaker 1: fine it's the finest, so the first first security company

491
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Speaker 1: and the finest to help keep you safe at home

492
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Speaker 1: and when you're on the go. With the new a

493
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: d T Go app which Mark was mentioning, um, it

494
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 1: includes family locator, automatic check ins, safe driving reports. It

495
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 1: even includes an S O S button with seven emergency

496
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Speaker 1: response and you get a d T Go with the

497
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Speaker 1: purchase of any security system. They've taken that home security

498
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Speaker 1: that they're expanding it different elements of your life where

499
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: it's all about keeping you safe wherever you are, which

500
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: is very important to me. Yes, yeah, I mean honestly,

501
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: I my sisters are planning on moving out of my

502
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:36,439
Speaker 1: place soon and there is a sense of having people

503
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 1: there with you that gives you a sense of security.

504
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 1: But I think moving into a new place by yourself,

505
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: you're like, Okay, I want to feel safe when I

506
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 1: go to sleep at night, and anybody in this building,

507
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 1: I don't know anybody in the neighborhood. Yeah. I have

508
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: a d T at my house in Monrovia, and uh,

509
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 1: we've got that sign in the front the names. I

510
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: look out the window and I see the guy with

511
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Speaker 1: the five o'clock shadow in the little burglar man can

512
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 1: see as a sign. He keeps on walking. Why would

513
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: you even try? Why would you even go to a T?

514
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: Wonder if I could get a sign for my condo, like,

515
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Speaker 1: just have it at my front door. Sticks, Yeah, a

516
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Speaker 1: sticker let them know. Yeah, that's actually not a bad idea. Um.

517
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Speaker 1: So if you go to a d T dot com

518
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Speaker 1: slash podcast to take advantage of a d T is

519
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Speaker 1: a lowest right. Um And I did illegal. I love

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Speaker 1: this part. Oh yeah, I did the legal part with

521
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Speaker 1: thirty six months monitoring, contractor intermination installation fees apply. Excluse

522
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523
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Speaker 1: License is available at dot com Yeah, that's so amazing

524
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Speaker 1: that part of commercials. Whenever I had to do whenever

525
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Speaker 1: I have to do illegal, they had to speed up

526
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Speaker 1: my voice because I can't do it that fast. Yeah. Wow,

527
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: that was impressive. Yeah. Okay, so a DT dot com

528
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: slash podcast. Um, okay, I'm looking at our segment list

529
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 1: and with glimpower, which confused me because I thought it

530
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: was going cam ball. There's a what is that? I mean,

531
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: I know I know what that is, but like, why

532
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 1: is that just randomly written on the show? Know you

533
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: want us to talk about, Well, it's Beyonce's Have you

534
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: read her Vogue magazine? You need to it is. We

535
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: are modern women and she is our queen. She is

536
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: the queen of all queens, that modern woman. Yes, the

537
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: fact that she said FOPA and Vogues September issue is

538
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: everything I needed in my life and more like truly, truly, truly.

539
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: So she talks about, I mean it s tucks a

540
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 1: lot of things, social issues and m raising her daughters

541
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: and um the first man that the first African American

542
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: man to shoot a Vogue cover was this Vogue cover

543
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: for Beyonce. I was five years of the magazine. Crazy

544
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: modern woman. She wanted it done so that she made

545
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: it happen. He's young too, should we Since we translated diff,

546
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: maybe we should translate poopa in case anyone doesn't know

547
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: what it's like. Just like a little fopa. You know

548
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 1: it stands for something though, Oh what you don't know?

549
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: That fat upper pelvic area. People don't usually say pelvic.

550
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: But we cleaned it up right, Thank you, thank you.

551
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: This is a clean podcast. I had no idea. Yeah,

552
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: I just learned an acronym the other day that I

553
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: had no idea. Was an acronym a club sandwich. It's

554
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 1: like cobb salad is an acronym too. Well, let me

555
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 1: do my first. It stands for chicken lettuce under bacon,

556
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: club sandwich. Wow, so fopa, what is um? It's eat cobb.

557
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: But that's how you remember the ingredients. It's egg, avocado, tomato, chicken, onion, bacon,

558
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 1: blue cheese. We call that a backronym. That's where you

559
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Speaker 1: come up with it after the words like podcast for example,

560
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Speaker 1: playable on demand, broadcast back to foopa, back to more

561
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: important issue either payable on demand, It came from the

562
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 1: iPod and then they came up with yam afterwards. Wow,

563
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: my mind is okay. Anyway, So Beyonce it talked, I

564
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: think that's that. So yeah, I mean I think everyone's

565
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: experienced a food pat sometime in their life, right food

566
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: right now? I mean yeah, yeah, same my fops, like

567
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: I didn't even have twins and I gotta rocking my

568
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: foopa hard. Okay, So tells them about this text. Oh yeah, yeah,

569
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: So I got off. I can't remember what day this was.

570
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: When did you leave for New York? Well, Thursday night, okay, yeah,

571
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:44,239
Speaker 1: because I know you were unavailable to me. Um, so

572
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: it was Thursday. So I was just kind of like

573
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: going through you know, I'm just like going through the

574
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,479
Speaker 1: like going through my closets, getting you know, just just

575
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: cleaning up. I need you to come help me clean

576
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: my room again. Happy to it brings me joy. So

577
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, these dating apps are

578
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: not serving me anymore. They're really not. They're just a distraction.

579
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: I sit there and I flipped through guys like I

580
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: flipped through magazine, and like, I'm over it. That's not

581
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 1: what I want. I want that distraction. So I get

582
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: off all the apps. But then I saw that I

583
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 1: had this one conversation open with this guy, and so

584
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: I like lobbed in my number, didn't really like care.

585
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: You know, here's like you said, I'm deleting my apps,

586
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,479
Speaker 1: but here's my number, like the case, here's my number. Whatever.

587
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: So and by the way side, no, I don't know

588
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: if I'm even off the apps. I just deleted them off.

589
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean you're off them. Yeah, but I realized

590
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 1: it's very difficult to get off of them. I don't

591
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: know how. It doesn't matter if they're deleted. Who cares.

592
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: But then, like my profile lives on Yeah, I think

593
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: my pro I think my profiles were on there when

594
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: I was in a relationship with Robert. Like, I don't

595
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: like that. I just deleted them all. I didn't need them.

596
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: So I was just like whatever, Yeah, but I don't

597
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: like that my profile just like lives. But if you're

598
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: not swiping, you're not going to match with anybody, true,

599
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 1: But like yeah, but maybe they see you when they

600
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: find you on Instagram or okay, all right, positive glass

601
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: apple Okay. Anyway, So I give this guy since guy

602
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: my number and I don't really think anything of it.

603
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 1: He didn't text me, and I was like whatever, so um.

604
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: The next day, my mom came to pick me up

605
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Speaker 1: to go to the condo. We were doing inspections on Friday,

606
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: and so she came to pick me up and she

607
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: text me and she's like, hey, I'm downstairs, and so

608
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: I said, hey, give me ten. My smooth move just

609
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: kicked in. Be right down. So I go down, get

610
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Speaker 1: in the car. Mom doesn't give a beat. I was like,

611
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Speaker 1: thank you, sorry that took us along, Like, I don't

612
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Speaker 1: know why, just didn't work. When I was like, it

613
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: usually happens right when I wake up. Literally didn't even

614
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: think the late smooth move. Ye do the inspection. Everything's

615
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: chill at home at night. It's Friday and night. I

616
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: obviously I wasn't doing anything, and I like, go through

617
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: my phone. I'm trying to go through my phone now

618
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: because I'm realizing I don't text people back and then

619
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,239
Speaker 1: I do it before I go to bed. So I'm

620
00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: like looking through my phone. I see this like number

621
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Speaker 1: that I like. It was like an unsaved number. I

622
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: look at it and it was the text that I

623
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: had sent to my mom that I sent to the

624
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 1: random number that was this guy because it just said, hey,

625
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: this is my number. How do you have been that guy?

626
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 1: I can't confirm your number, responded, here was my number,

627
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: and then you responded, I'll be down in ten minutes.

628
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: The smooth move just kicked in. No he never responded no, no.

629
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Speaker 1: If I got that, I'd be like, was that for me?

630
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Speaker 1: Or like something? He just never responded, just nothing, just

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Speaker 1: crickets this early four times, it never stops being hilarious.

632
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Speaker 1: What would y'all, honestly, what would y'all you reach out

633
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: to a girl? I mean, I feel like y'all would

634
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: have been like, that's funny. Yeah, yeah, that would have

635
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: been the best thing ever. I would have been so

636
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: excited you would respond and said like, I don't think

637
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: this was meant for me. That's what I would have said.

638
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 1: I would have said more details, please? Are you looking

639
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 1: for consistency? That in a nutshell? Right? I was like, so,

640
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 1: I'm not upset about it because I'm just kind of

641
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:19,479
Speaker 1: like that what happened? Call that one a loss, called

642
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:21,879
Speaker 1: a wash. As a modern woman, you can just walk

643
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 1: away with your hands clean, literally hopefully hopefully, can you believe?

644
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, Also, we should mention that Tanya

645
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: went to the meeting. I was just about to bring

646
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 1: that up. That was really cute. How was it looks

647
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 1: so fun. Just the thing that makes me happy is

648
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 1: that these like people are just like making friends, Like

649
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: this is their comment. Like it's almost like like when

650
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: you're in college and you join like the like musical

651
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: Synergy club or whatever club you want to join, and

652
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: you like make friends that you have like a common thing.

653
00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:00,399
Speaker 1: This podcast is like they're common, they're common interests. Yeah,

654
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 1: and every school has a musical Sanity club. I was

655
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,720
Speaker 1: going to bring that up, but but whatever. Your chess

656
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 1: chess is like the things. But it's like so cute

657
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 1: and like they have like all these food and head

658
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: they brought Dr Pepper and Honor of Becca like like

659
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: twelve pack or is that what it's called twelve pack

660
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 1: for these things, And I'm so sweet. Like I looked

661
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: over at the all the stuff that they had and

662
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 1: they're like, do you want some fruit? We have fruit.

663
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 1: We know you like fruit. And then I saw I

664
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: look over and I was like, oh, I see, and

665
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 1: they're like we brought Dr Pepper, Rebecca. That is so nice.

666
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: So you're right, people are meeting people, they're making friends

667
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: through this podcast and of the two of you love that. Yeah,

668
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: it's it's really, it's like, really brings me so much

669
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: joy when I see people reaching out to people who

670
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: are new to a city or looking for friends, or

671
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: kind of going through a hard time with their friends

672
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: and they're like struggling. And to see these strangers essentially

673
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: reaching out to each other is like, A really, I

674
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: didn't expect it when we started the podcast Face a Group.

675
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: Like it's exceeded any expectations I even had. So it's

676
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 1: really cool. I'm so glad you got to go. I

677
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 1: want to go really enjoy where in my car. Okay,

678
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm ready to part with her. I've really

679
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 1: been enjoying. I know, I texted back over the weekend.

680
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: I go, I can't tell if it's funny or sad

681
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 1: that I'm spending the majority of my weekend with cardboard cuts. Well,

682
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 1: it's like a teeters yeah, go either way how you

683
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: look at it. But I'm very excited to have my Fania.

684
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: So what do you is going to do? Maybe she

685
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,399
Speaker 1: can help me clean out my closet and clean I'm

686
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 1: not sure it's going to be as good the real thing,

687
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:47,919
Speaker 1: but oh yeah, I need the real thing. Actually, um,

688
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: but like we have to go to the next one. Okay, yeah,

689
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: I want to. Yeah, I think it just spent as

690
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 1: much time as I wanted to because that was a

691
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: whole another issue, parking by the beach is like a beach. Yeah,

692
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: it is a beach. Might as well uber, Yeah, next

693
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 1: time we know, UM, let's talk about sugar bar hair,

694
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: sugar bar her um. I feel like I one of

695
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 1: the questions I actually get asked a lot and I

696
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: see it a lot on the podcast group is do

697
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:19,280
Speaker 1: has anyone actually tried sugar bear hair You've seen a results?

698
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 1: I personally love it. It tastes delicious. It's very easy

699
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: for me to eat since I struggle with um swallowing pills. Yeah,

700
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 1: you're a big yeah. Um. Healthy hair is very important

701
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: to me, as well as being able to have a

702
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:38,919
Speaker 1: chewable vitamin UM. And then I just remember the first

703
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: time I ever tried it, I was like, this is

704
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 1: too good to be true and how am I only

705
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 1: supposed to stuff it too? But really, if you can

706
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:50,319
Speaker 1: picture any celebrity that you follow on Instagram with amazing hair,

707
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm guaranteeing you that they probably have used or do use,

708
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 1: sugar Bear hair. Um. It's a best seller on Amazon

709
00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: has thousands of reviews. And the thing is this is

710
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: as much vitamin A as four cups of broccoli, as

711
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: much vitamin C as one cup of cranberries, as much

712
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: vitamin B twelve as four organic eggs. Um. I think

713
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 1: it's hard sometimes to tell when your hair is growing

714
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: because it's kind of a slower process. But my eyebrows

715
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 1: I remember, like my like things were growing quicker like that.

716
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 1: You can that are more noticeable. So when people ask

717
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: do they work, I'm always very quick to say, like, yeah,

718
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: I noticed it that it was working. Um. The nutrient

719
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: nutrients and sugar Bear hair fans also found that their

720
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Speaker 1: nails and skin quality approved over time, which is also

721
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: very I have heard that it's all connected hair, skin

722
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:48,280
Speaker 1: and nails. Yeah. Um, so go to sugar Bear Hair

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Speaker 1: dot Com slash Rebecca for beautiful hair and a healthier

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Speaker 1: you that sugar Bear Hair dot Com slash Becca one

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00:39:55,560 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: more time sugar Bear Hair dot Com slash before we

726
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 1: get to the email as anything else we need to cover,

727
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: Let's see we hit Jason Tartick Glenn Powell. Tanya is

728
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: going to see an angel therapist. Yeah, I think you

729
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 1: might want to come. What is that she's supposed to

730
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:21,839
Speaker 1: help you with like manifesting. You're something supreme, supreme manifestation.

731
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: So long story short. Christie is one of one of

732
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 1: our neighbors. Christie is friends with her and I saw

733
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: her the other day and she was like, you are

734
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: going to love Lisa. You have to meet her. She

735
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: speaks to angels. She's not like a like what are

736
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: they called, talked to dead people. She doesn't talk to

737
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: like she doesn't read your cards or whatever. Um, but

738
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: it's supposed to like she said, it changed, Christie said

739
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: changed her life. So I'm meeting with her on Friday. Wow,

740
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm so intrigued. I thought angels were dead people. Mark,

741
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: You're so naive. I'm sorry I did. I thought your

742
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 1: guardian angels like somebody who's passed on. But I think

743
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: an angel is like the spirit that in your soul,

744
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: but it's never been in a person, will it be someday?

745
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: Our angels associated with faith, so like angels are associated

746
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 1: with faith? And then like, I don't know, it's like

747
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: a medium. I can't really give you answers until I

748
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,320
Speaker 1: like me. Yeah, I'm curious. I'm very interested. This is

749
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: interesting because I don't know. But all I know is

750
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: that Chrissy said, it's going to change my life? Yeah? Wow, Um,

751
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: I just read we I saw an article today about

752
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 1: Jennifer Aniston open to a Friend's reboot, which her quote

753
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: is very good. Do you have the quote there? No,

754
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,439
Speaker 1: I don't have it, get it, but um, it's really good.

755
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: I thought it was very promising. Yeah, it sounded hopeful,

756
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: like that was the first time where she made me

757
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,399
Speaker 1: feel like it could happen, she said. Before the show ended,

758
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: people were asking if we were coming back. Courtney and

759
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 1: Lisa and I talked about it. I fantasize about it.

760
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 1: It really was the greatest job I ever had. I

761
00:41:58,280 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: don't know what it would look like today, but you

762
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: ever know, so many shows are being successfully rebooted. I

763
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: mean look at Will and Grace. Tiny is not a

764
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: fan and Grace. Oh yeah, I haven't watched. I never

765
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 1: like was huge. I didn't watch it the first time around.

766
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:14,800
Speaker 1: But it was always one of my wife's favorite shows.

767
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: And I've mentioned this before. I always knew she was watching.

768
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: She always watches a sitcom before bed, as many of

769
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 1: us do you watch friends before bed? Still Gray is

770
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: usually right now, it's weird, it's kind of heavy, isn't it?

771
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 1: Like I feel like the point is to watch the light.

772
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: When you've seen it, it doesn't really affect You'll watch

773
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: Friends or Everyone Loves Raymond or How I Met Your

774
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 1: Mother or one of these lights sitcoms, and I can

775
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 1: always tell well in Grace because the bed would vibrate

776
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: from her giggle. He always laughed a lot hard at

777
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: Will and Grace than anything else, and so she would

778
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: show me certain things. I would think, we're really funny,

779
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: and it was really funny. And then they brought it

780
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: back and it's They're like, we'll bring it back for

781
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: ten episodes, you know what, We'll bring it back for

782
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 1: a whole season. How about two seasons? So it's doing well,

783
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: it's back is doing well, and it's back like indefinitely now. Yeah.

784
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 1: So if Will and Grace could do it, I would.

785
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 1: I feel like Friends could do. Although they'll be old

786
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 1: and gray now, which is different. They're not all old

787
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: and great. Okay. Matt le Blanc is just him, I know,

788
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 1: but I think he was like the hot actor, like

789
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: it would be hot as hell about Matt Perrys. I

790
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: haven't seen I mean, I haven't seen these people, but

791
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:21,280
Speaker 1: it's silver Fox Matt le Blanc. I don't know. Should

792
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: you go for him where every conversation come around. The

793
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: best thing though, is instead of her being like no,

794
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 1: like she goes shrugs or shoulders like all right. I

795
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: mean I would enjoy it the comedy that comes out

796
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,479
Speaker 1: of him. Did you watch the Bachelotte finale last night? Yeah?

797
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,800
Speaker 1: Oh you're saying I didn't watch. It was just tired.

798
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:48,240
Speaker 1: I'm tired from it. Oh so emotionally a lot because

799
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 1: of Blake. Yeah, the Blake up, thank you, thank you everybody.

800
00:43:55,160 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: It was silent for a sect, but I'm stealing that. Yeah,

801
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 1: it was emotional, but you loved it, right you You

802
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: talked about how when he did propose, it was very emotional. Yeah.

803
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 1: I love love, so I just love watching like I

804
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: don't care. You could be two dogs falling in love

805
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 1: and I could be so happy watching it. Lady in

806
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: the Tramp, Yeah, that's funny because I I wish that

807
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 1: I watched from that perspective. But I'm just sitting there

808
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:29,280
Speaker 1: like eyes rolling, like, oh this is so jeezy. Really,

809
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 1: I haven't watched it. I haven't watched it. Might be

810
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: it might be different for me, but that's because you've

811
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: been there and maybe and I'm like, not super I

812
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: love I do love love, but I think having been

813
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:45,879
Speaker 1: in that situation and thinking about how involved so many

814
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 1: other people are in the process, you know, I think

815
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,319
Speaker 1: in my head I'm a little like jaded from like

816
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: watching it with like totally like an open mind and

817
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 1: being like, oh, this is like so I don't know,

818
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 1: you're watching it with red colored glasses or what's the same,

819
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: but that hopefully right, good try? That was a good try.

820
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 1: Um so yeah, I don't know. Every time I watched it,

821
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 1: I just some kind of like giggle because I'm like,

822
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: this is it's sweet, Like I'm not like and then

823
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 1: I like seeing them on after the final rose and

824
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: you can it's always very clear like if they're like

825
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: you can see like that they're just madly in love.

826
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 1: I think they're going to last. I like them together,

827
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 1: like I think they have I feel like she I

828
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: almost feel. In fact, Colton and Jason made the comment

829
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: like Garrett had no idea what he was doing the

830
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: whole show, like he it was so foreign to him

831
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 1: that he was just like he was there because he

832
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 1: wanted me with Becket, Like it was very much like

833
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 1: he had no idea what he was going into, which

834
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: I like, like hearing that and watching him, I'm like,

835
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: he was just normal to dude. Yeah, so yeah, I'm

836
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 1: happy for them. I'm I'm gonna go home and watch

837
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 1: the finale today. I'll have more of an idea. But

838
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 1: everyone seemed very excited and like, I mean, obviously the

839
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 1: Blake fans are sad about that. But who would you

840
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:05,359
Speaker 1: like to see as the next Bachelor? Ben Higgins. I

841
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: think we'd all be on board. I could get behind

842
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: them going back for Peter, get behind that too. Yeah,

843
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 1: do you like the old school this season that I

844
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: was just like, oh my gosh, you would be an

845
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 1: amazing bachelor. Not Jason, clearly, like Jason would be a

846
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: good bachelor, but uh, I think that Colton could have

847
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that they had Colton go on Paradise. Sorry

848
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:36,879
Speaker 1: that's a spoiler, but if you didn't know that then

849
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: I think it's out there. Yeah. Um, I'm surprised that

850
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 1: they had him go in Paradise because I thought that

851
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 1: he could be a good candidate to be the Bachelor.

852
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: He's a good story being the virgin. But didn't. Um,

853
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: but Nick Vole was on the Paradise and then yeah,

854
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: but it was like, wasn't it separate or was it

855
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: that close off Paradise and went straight to being the Bachelor?

856
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. There's just a lot of drama with

857
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,319
Speaker 1: the Colton and Tia thing that makes me think that

858
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 1: if they had wanted him to be the Bachelor, they

859
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,359
Speaker 1: would have edited. They want to have had that whole thing.

860
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: That's an interesting point that did make me a little.

861
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: I didn't like that stuff, I know, That's what I'm saying.

862
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: So I'm kind of like he could have been if

863
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 1: they wanted him to. But I don't think so. Danny Babies,

864
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: I think that the girls would be psycho. I want

865
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 1: to throw a vote in for Ben Higgins because I was.

866
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 1: I was here late last night doing the almost Famous

867
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: podcast with him and Ashley. I and Ben was on

868
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,720
Speaker 1: Skype from Denver and at one point I was treated

869
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 1: to a shirt. He took a shirt off and he's

870
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: smoking a corn cob pie past. Please do we see?

871
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,720
Speaker 1: Do we see any petorial? He went to a picture

872
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: of meeting fried Pickles at the fair, embarrassing as exciting.

873
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 1: Wait do we see you can't see nipple, but you

874
00:47:56,160 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: can see shoulders. You can see those shoulders. He shared

875
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: that he has a nightly pipe that he takes in

876
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 1: tobacco pipe. Not wacky tobaccy, just regular tobacco. He's been

877
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: doing it since college, every night, every night, and U

878
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:15,919
Speaker 1: it looks I don't know for certain it's a corn

879
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: cob pipe, but it definitely looks like something. Is he

880
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: always shirtless? Behind a shirtless Ben Higgins me out he's

881
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:26,359
Speaker 1: not always shirtless. I love Ben Higgins. He's the best

882
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 1: him to be happy, and I don't know if the

883
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: Bachelor is like his, you know, journey to love. He

884
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: said he wasn't only shirtless, he's It was very hot

885
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: in Denver last night and he was in a room

886
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 1: with Americ conditioning. He said he was totally naked. I

887
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: think he was just shirtless. But girl can dream, you

888
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: guys ben Higgins hot. Yeah, he's like I'm a married man,

889
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 1: I see. I feel like he's low key inno. Since

890
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: that he is so like kind and you kind of

891
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: notice him like you're like, oh, he's so cute, but

892
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: then like once you get to know him, like he

893
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: can dance, he's funny. He has like a lot more

894
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: to him than like him just being like sweet Ben Higgins. Yeah,

895
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,320
Speaker 1: he's like an onion. We're peeling a fat, lots of layers.

896
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 1: He's a very nice guy. I like Ben a lot. Yeah,

897
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 1: he's a great guy. That means a lot coming from Marks.

898
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: Not a positive thing about another day. That's true. When

899
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 1: we're in there, you're very critical of men. I have

900
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: high standards for Tanya rat which I and we have

901
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 1: talked about this because she's like, I am tired of everyone.

902
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: Just what would you say if I said I wanted

903
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: to date Ben Higgins? I don't. I don't actually don't

904
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: mind that I could pick I could pick the worm

905
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,919
Speaker 1: out of that salad and still the salad. Yeah, that's

906
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: like a little fly on the salad. Just depends a

907
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 1: really sweet guy. Like just the time I've spent with him.

908
00:49:56,440 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 1: I just really like him. Okay, I like Dean too.

909
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 1: Not for you, Yeah, no, okay, Deans like my like

910
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 1: I feel like he would be like my little brother. Yeah, dey,

911
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: sweet guy though. Yeah, he's the best. Okay, we have

912
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: to get the emails before we do. Um. Ben got

913
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:18,520
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914
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915
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916
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Speaker 1: It's like a daily facial. It's so soothing. Alright, quotes emails,

956
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: but the first a couple of people sending quotes for

957
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,080
Speaker 1: your Tania. Megan saw it. Tweets you wanted to share

958
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 1: with you. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Do

959
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:13,839
Speaker 1: you know what else there is? Trash? There's a lot

960
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:16,240
Speaker 1: of trash in the sea. Made me think of Tina's

961
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,799
Speaker 1: random quotes. That's so true. That's actually a good one.

962
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: Leah gave a friend some good advice that she feels

963
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 1: like she wanted to share with everybody. She considered an

964
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: it Tania moment. She told her friend, if people can't

965
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 1: see your potential during the race, they shouldn't be able

966
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 1: to cheer you onto the finish line. Wow, that's good.

967
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: You know. That's like you don't say no to being

968
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: a maybe, say no to being somebody's maybe. I think

969
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 1: I said he to being treated like a maybe. But yeah,

970
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: it's good as that. Jason Tartic Okay, well, here arc

971
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 1: of the relationship has happened on this podcast. Wow, they

972
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 1: went through the make up, the break up. It all

973
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:05,879
Speaker 1: happened because I've been treating like a maybe. It's like yes, no,

974
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: he should be excited for the opportunity to spend ex.

975
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: We have a lot of random topics in the emails today.

976
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: It is not a lot of relationship stuff. It's very

977
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,360
Speaker 1: random stuff. Like Kayless, she's twenty two, works at a

978
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 1: small office. Occasionally her boss and one other guy comes in,

979
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 1: but usually she's alone in the office. The other day

980
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: she went to make a sandwich and a good chunk

981
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,799
Speaker 1: of her turkey slices were gone. She was outraged, the

982
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 1: same level of outrage that Ross on Friends Tad when

983
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 1: he found that his boss ate a sandwich. I texted

984
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,399
Speaker 1: my boss and the only other person who ever comes

985
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: in the office and said, did someone eat my turkey

986
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:43,319
Speaker 1: slices I left in the fridge? I just want to

987
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: make sure no one's breaking in and stealing our food.

988
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 1: And then my boss texting back and said me it

989
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 1: was only a little. It was more than a little little.

990
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,400
Speaker 1: It was more than a little. Maybe I'm overreacting, but

991
00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:55,279
Speaker 1: what would you do? Should I not keep food in

992
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: the office anymore or ask him not to take my food.

993
00:54:57,600 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: Love you guys, love the podcast. That is a unique

994
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: dilemma that we've not dealt with here before. This is

995
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: turkey theft is the title of the even. Yeah, I

996
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,799
Speaker 1: really can't get behind this one because I've stolen food

997
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 1: from people. You have from the office phrase, but like

998
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: a blueberry, like a handful of blueberries here, a handful

999
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 1: of blueberries. Out of how many people don't bring a

1000
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 1: vat of blueberries, probably a good percentage of them. But

1001
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 1: the thing, what's it called the packet that you buy?

1002
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 1: That's not that big for someone to be taking a handful.

1003
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 1: And I'm not like digging my hand in there and

1004
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 1: getting like the but it's gross. It's your fingers. You're

1005
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:37,319
Speaker 1: putting your fingers in there. I don't believe that this

1006
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:41,839
Speaker 1: guy opened her sandwich and took the turkey. I think

1007
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: there were slices in there and bread in there, like

1008
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 1: she had the fixings. And yeah, oh, I was like,

1009
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:53,240
Speaker 1: it's extracting turkey from the sandy. Chapter is made actually

1010
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 1: like bring like a Monday morning a loaf of bread

1011
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: and packet of turkey. And I think about which is

1012
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:00,399
Speaker 1: like what I do. I'll buy like my the milk,

1013
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:02,839
Speaker 1: my blueberries, my packets of stuff, and I just leave

1014
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 1: it in the fridge here and I put all together

1015
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 1: when I come in. So you're in favor of stealing

1016
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 1: food from office fridges, I mean, if it's there, wow,

1017
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:13,439
Speaker 1: I don't agree. I mean, I'm not gonna go eat

1018
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 1: like somebody's left over dinner from the night before. But

1019
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 1: if there's some like unlabeled fruit from just partake. So

1020
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 1: if it was true that a label line that said

1021
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 1: Tom's or something, you know, this is somebody's food, Simon's food.

1022
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 1: You wouldn't do that, or would you know if they

1023
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 1: if they're weird to put a label on it, I

1024
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 1: wouldn't eat like post it or something. Guys, that's a

1025
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,959
Speaker 1: weird if you're working in an office to label things

1026
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,760
Speaker 1: so that people know that it's yours, like, that's very normal.

1027
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 1: The only reason you should label food in the fridge

1028
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 1: is if it's for everybody, you put a sign on

1029
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:48,360
Speaker 1: that says help yourself, Help yourself. Otherwise that is somebody's

1030
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 1: personal food that is so unexpected that you're all shoulder shrug.

1031
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 1: I don't condone the stealing of food like tiny does.

1032
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:58,560
Speaker 1: But if I put something in the fridge, I assume

1033
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 1: someone's going to have a bite. Yeah, I assume that.

1034
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:05,360
Speaker 1: I'm a that's so yeah, that's so unfortunately. I'm like,

1035
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 1: I'm sure somebody's used my almond milk. I'm sure someone's

1036
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 1: used my almond milk and taking some of my book.

1037
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 1: That was wrong of them to use your almond milk.

1038
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 1: And it's wrong of you to steal their blueberries. It's

1039
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 1: not a communal fridge. I will say, I feel better

1040
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: that he didn't take it out of her sandwich, like

1041
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 1: like like picture was so funny. So do we have

1042
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 1: any Tani doesn't care, But Becca, do you have the

1043
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: advice for her? I would say just be like, hey, um,

1044
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 1: if I put food in the fridge, like that's mine,

1045
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 1: like please don't take Here's what I do because I

1046
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: don't trust these fridges, because I work with Tanya rad Sorry,

1047
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 1: made my sandwich the night before. I bring it in

1048
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:50,960
Speaker 1: a lunch box, one of those ice blocks in the

1049
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 1: lunch box so it doesn't get bad. It's just like

1050
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: when you went to school, he made a lunch back

1051
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 1: to lunch. I would do the same thing, not only

1052
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 1: because I wouldn't want people stealing it, but what if

1053
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 1: they're tampering. There could be tampering. I don't like tampering

1054
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: with food. Right, and Tanya swears she has clean hands,

1055
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 1: but we don't know that. We don't know that she

1056
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 1: didn't come right from the bathroom straight to your not

1057
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:14,280
Speaker 1: reaching into the blueberries. I'm gently like doing this, so

1058
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 1: the story and now you're pouring them into your palm.

1059
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 1: I don't We don't know. If you're pouring them, that's

1060
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 1: taking quite a bit. If you're just pouring that, that's true.

1061
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:25,919
Speaker 1: It's hard to control the flow of the I would

1062
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 1: pack a lunch and bring it. Yes, that's our advice

1063
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 1: to you. Here's another office question from Kara. I'm having

1064
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: an issue at work. I'm twenty four, a work in

1065
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:39,440
Speaker 1: manufacturing and managed forty people, modern woman. Most of them

1066
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: are male. Most of them are older than me. During

1067
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: my first week in intern invited me out to drink

1068
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:45,760
Speaker 1: with some coworkers, so I went. The next day, my

1069
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:47,920
Speaker 1: bost said, you know what, it's not smart to socialize

1070
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 1: with people that are beneath you. That you managed to,

1071
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 1: don't do that again. Okay, I've been there over a year. Now,

1072
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 1: I've got good relationships with people I managed, and every

1073
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: week they invite me out for drinks and I politely decline.

1074
00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 1: But the mail managers in the same position, is me

1075
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:03,240
Speaker 1: go out for drinks with the people they manage all

1076
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 1: the time. My boss has never told them not to

1077
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 1: do You think my boss is holding me to a

1078
00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 1: different standard because I'm the only girl. Should I go

1079
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 1: out to Drakes next time, regardless of what my boss

1080
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: may think. Also, I've been dating to my boy Ford

1081
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,440
Speaker 1: for four years. I'm not single and everybody knows it.

1082
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 1: That's not the issue. Oh that's interesting. Yeah, I think

1083
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 1: we I think we can acknowledge this double standard. Right.

1084
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 1: The question is what does she do about it? Does

1085
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 1: she talk to the boss about it? Does she ignore

1086
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:35,960
Speaker 1: the advice? I wonder if so. I wonder if the

1087
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 1: boss has told the male managers not to do it

1088
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 1: and they're just like doing it anyway. Of course he

1089
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:46,560
Speaker 1: didn't tell the male managers not to do it. That's wrong.

1090
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 1: I agree. I agree with Tanya and I agree with

1091
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: that that's wrong. And I think there's still so much

1092
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:53,120
Speaker 1: of this in our work environment. Unfortunately. I think we're

1093
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: chipping away and we are making progress, But I think

1094
00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 1: there is a lot of double standards and a lot

1095
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 1: of this happening awe. And I mean I think my

1096
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 1: advice to Kara would be to just not listen and

1097
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 1: do what feels right to her. Yeah, I mean, I

1098
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:13,440
Speaker 1: don't think the idea that socializing with people beneath you,

1099
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:18,919
Speaker 1: like not in your position is wrong is so it's

1100
01:00:19,160 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 1: it's not so much of that. Like I feel like

1101
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 1: they don't want to a lot of people don't want

1102
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 1: you to like blur the lines between like boss and friends,

1103
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 1: you know, so they just I guess it would suggest

1104
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 1: you not doing that in general. Um, I think that

1105
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 1: it's weird to give advice to ignore your boss, because

1106
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 1: of course we don't want her to get fired. But

1107
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 1: I think maybe because it's been years, it's within the

1108
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 1: realm of acceptability, I think, to pick somebody up on

1109
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: this offer, and then if he says something to you again,

1110
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 1: you can say, it's interesting because I noticed so and

1111
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 1: so and so and so go out all the time,

1112
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:57,479
Speaker 1: so what's the difference. You know, not accused him of anything.

1113
01:00:57,520 --> 01:00:58,880
Speaker 1: You don't want to put him on the spot or anything,

1114
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 1: but you could kind of throw the quest to out

1115
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 1: there because I do. I think he's probably being I

1116
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 1: don't know why I'm giving this boss the benefit of

1117
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: the doubt. It's probably an overprotective situation since you're twenty

1118
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 1: four and these guys are a lot older than you,

1119
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 1: and he doesn't want any kind of weirdness because guys

1120
01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 1: drink and they become awful. Like I wonder if if

1121
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 1: he's just trying to protect her a little bit, which

1122
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 1: is inappropriate. She can handle herself, but it maybe comes

1123
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 1: from a good place, and maybe that's a way of

1124
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:24,000
Speaker 1: addressing it. So she should talk to him and just

1125
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 1: bring next time he brings it up if he brings

1126
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 1: it up again, and maybe he won't. Maybe things have

1127
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 1: changed in the past couple of years. But that's a

1128
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: tough situation, Brittany, She says, I'm one of two maids

1129
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 1: of honor and my friend's wedding. I've forked out lots

1130
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 1: of money between the bachelor party, now the shower coming up,

1131
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 1: myself and the other maids of honor. Uh, the other

1132
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 1: maid of honor. I guess I've done all the major

1133
01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: stuff and I'm now asking the other four brides maids

1134
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 1: of pitch in. But it's like pulling teeth. I'm pregnant.

1135
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to spend more money than I already

1136
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 1: have because it's been way more than I thought it

1137
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 1: was going to be. But they have money to help

1138
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 1: and then an offer. I've asked them twice to help,

1139
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:58,439
Speaker 1: and they've only offered to help with really cheap stuff

1140
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 1: like silverware and napkins. I was fighting to a girl

1141
01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 1: at work about this, and she says, they probably think

1142
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 1: the shower is the maid of honors job, but in

1143
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 1: the weddings I've seen in ben In, it's not just

1144
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 1: the maid of honor. It's always a joint effort of

1145
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 1: the bridal party. Am I wrong? What's the case? Who

1146
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 1: covers the shower is the maid of honors responsibility? Or

1147
01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 1: is it everybody's a sponsibility? Should divvy it up? What

1148
01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 1: do you think is moaning? Because it's just like I

1149
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:26,640
Speaker 1: feel like weddings are such a cause of fights I

1150
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:31,920
Speaker 1: know of, like dysfunction and has between families and bridesmaids

1151
01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 1: and sisters and brothers and uncles and aunts and everyone

1152
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 1: everyone involved. Like it it's so sad to me, and

1153
01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 1: it's not supposed to be about that, Like who knows

1154
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:48,920
Speaker 1: that there's it's like, well, you're supposed to do this

1155
01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 1: and you're supposed to do that. Well, there's no rules.

1156
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: It's not there's like a rule book. There's not like

1157
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: well there's etiquette, sure, but like I do think that

1158
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 1: she should have a talk with everyone and say, hey,

1159
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's expected that the maid of

1160
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:06,240
Speaker 1: honors is to throw the shower, but I could really

1161
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 1: use some help if if any of you are willing,

1162
01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 1: like just be honest about it, Like I would just

1163
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 1: say what you're feeling, and like let them know that

1164
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:16,480
Speaker 1: you don't have you're pregnant, you don't have the money

1165
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 1: to help out pitching as much as you like, and

1166
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 1: if they're part of this bridal party, like yeah, and

1167
01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 1: then you can tump on a different way and say

1168
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: like okay, well I can't help out. I can give

1169
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: more of my time, yeah, like maybe I can help

1170
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 1: with the guest list and like the responding to like

1171
01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:34,000
Speaker 1: who's coming and you know, organizing this and that. According

1172
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 1: to bride's dot Com, the only person who doesn't pay

1173
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 1: for the bachelorette party is the bride. Yeah. The bride'smaids

1174
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: and other gifts often ship in to cover the bride's

1175
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:45,480
Speaker 1: share as well as their own costs. So I think

1176
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 1: you're within your right task for this money from these people. Yeah,

1177
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 1: I'm sorry they're not being more forthcoming. I agree. I

1178
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:54,880
Speaker 1: think it's awkward, like obviously to have to like bring

1179
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 1: that up, but I do think that it's better than

1180
01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:01,280
Speaker 1: letting it frustrate you or like pause, the shower was

1181
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:07,320
Speaker 1: thrown by the family the husband's the bachelorette party, we're

1182
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 1: talking another shower coming up. Yeah, you're right, there's two

1183
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:13,080
Speaker 1: separate situations. The bachelorette party is debut up. I don't

1184
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 1: know about the shower with the mom of the groom's

1185
01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:18,080
Speaker 1: supposed to throw the shower. The shower is supposed to

1186
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:24,120
Speaker 1: be thrown by the family. Whose family the bride's family,

1187
01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 1: I mean, as whoever's hosting the show. I think a

1188
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 1: lot of people do like different things like sometimes and

1189
01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: people on multiple showers where it's like someone in the

1190
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 1: family or friends or I mean, I don't think it's

1191
01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 1: I'm sure back in the day there was like a

1192
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:42,040
Speaker 1: traditional way that it was done, but I think we've

1193
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 1: gotten to the point now where it's free for all.

1194
01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 1: Would she be overstepping to figure out what each person

1195
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: owes and send them a VENMO request. No, I would

1196
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 1: just have a conversation about it first and then say

1197
01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: that she was going to do that, and then and

1198
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: then make that more. That's fair, all right. Jordan is

1199
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 1: curious how old you guys were when you moved out

1200
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: of your house, because she's twenty five and she doesn't

1201
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 1: want to spend money renting. She just feels weird about

1202
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 1: living at home. She's trying to pay off her debts.

1203
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:11,680
Speaker 1: She feels like a total loser. Hopes she's not a

1204
01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 1: total total loser still living at home. How long did

1205
01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 1: you live at home? Ta? Honestly, I can't remember. I

1206
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: moved out. I moved out when I came back from college,

1207
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: and then I moved back in remember, because I was

1208
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 1: gonna Arizona. So I think I was like twenty five

1209
01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 1: at the time. Though yeah, I was yeah, so about this.

1210
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 1: That's good, that's good, that's encouraging. But you're not a loser, Jordans.

1211
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 1: I moved out to San Diego at nineteen, but I

1212
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 1: lived with my sister and my brother in law, and

1213
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:47,080
Speaker 1: then I moved out from them and was on my

1214
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 1: own at three. I had a very gradual move out

1215
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:53,600
Speaker 1: like one summer when I was like twenty, moved up,

1216
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:55,320
Speaker 1: but then I moved back in, and then I moved

1217
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 1: in with I moved in with a guy, but literally

1218
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 1: like five blocks from my parents, So I has over

1219
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 1: for dinner every night, and I slept there a few

1220
01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 1: times a week. It was a very graduated cum bread crumby.

1221
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 1: So you know, I think everybody's got their own time

1222
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: and their own pace in their own life. Yeah, I'm saying, like,

1223
01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 1: if you have the opportunity and your parents are okay

1224
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 1: with you living and like while you save money and

1225
01:06:16,040 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 1: you're paying stuff off like that is you're very lucky

1226
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: to have that. Could be so happy that you did that.

1227
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 1: Be so happy. Don't feel like a loser. That's it's amazing.

1228
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 1: A lot of people would kill to have that. Yeah,

1229
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 1: you're like the opposite of a loser, and it's very commoner,

1230
01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 1: the opposite of loser. Jordan uh shout outs. Don't you

1231
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:37,280
Speaker 1: want to know what people are doing while they're listening

1232
01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:40,000
Speaker 1: while they're scrubbing in each week? Yeah? I always want

1233
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 1: to know. Sandra Green is driving across Arkansas right now,

1234
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 1: heading to her master's education class. She says she is

1235
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 1: an o g Becca Tilly fan, even though she knows

1236
01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:52,120
Speaker 1: she's really a Tanya. Oh. That was another funny thing

1237
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 1: at the meetup. They were like, I'm a Tania and

1238
01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:56,680
Speaker 1: she's like, well, I'm Abecca, and like I'm like, I'm

1239
01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 1: a this Becca, but I'm a this Tanya. It's so

1240
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: fun It's literally so funny. Chloe Wick is sitting in

1241
01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 1: the steam room in Waco, Texas, and she's concerned her

1242
01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: wireless headphones are gonna break because the steam is not

1243
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:12,800
Speaker 1: good with Kelsey Riley is taking her kids to her

1244
01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 1: mom's every morning. Her four year old daughter asks, Mommy,

1245
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:19,720
Speaker 1: are we listening to Becca Antonia today? Every morning? Only

1246
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 1: one a week, but every morning your daughter asks that question.

1247
01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:27,000
Speaker 1: Sierra Malloy sounds like an Irish name because she's in

1248
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:30,960
Speaker 1: Ireland right now. She's doing occupational therapy fieldwork in Dublin, Ireland.

1249
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 1: She graduates this month. And Abby Ala Welt is in Rochester, Illinois.

1250
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 1: And this is sweet, I thought, she says. She asked

1251
01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:39,880
Speaker 1: the question back to me because I said, what do

1252
01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:41,280
Speaker 1: you do while you're scrubbing in? She says, what do

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Speaker 1: I do? What do I do while I listen? I laugh?

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Speaker 1: I laughed, for sixty minutes straight. Okay, Um, we do

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Speaker 1: have some housekeeping to tend to. Okay, I have bad news.

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Speaker 1: I can't find my song that I wrote, but I'm

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01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 1: not giving up hope. I think it's on my external

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Speaker 1: hard drive. I mentioned it to Easton because I had

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Speaker 1: I had an old computer and I had Easton put

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Speaker 1: everything onto a hard drive, external hard drive for me.

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Speaker 1: So I think it's on the hard drive. I am

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Speaker 1: dedicated to finding it. I know it's out there. I

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Speaker 1: remember the title of it, which was called like that

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Speaker 1: Like that? Did y'all hear the I just I got so.

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Speaker 1: I just felt so much pressure on me because I

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Speaker 1: thought you were going to bring up the wrap and

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Speaker 1: I You're not gonna wrap today either rap but just

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Speaker 1: an old Nicki minaj or something. Fine, you have one

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Speaker 1: in your brain right now. I don't know. It might

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Speaker 1: come back to me. You probably know her song Starships

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Speaker 1: Momentum the rap partner. I'm gonna try different, Okay, So

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Speaker 1: I don't we do our thank you so we can

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Speaker 1: end with the rap because I like ending with the rap. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Bio Clarity Go to bio clarity dot Com

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Speaker 1: till um. But before we do go again, I just

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Speaker 1: want to say I love you so much. I love

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Speaker 1: you too. You mean the world to me. If I

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01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 1: ever do anything to make you think that I don't

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01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 1: have your best intentions and everything good for you at

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Speaker 1: the top of my mind, tell me, because you know

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01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: you mean the world. You mean the world to me too.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry that I shut out, shut you out. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I thought those were happy tears earlier. They were. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know they were happy tears, but also just a release. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm fine. I'm good. Like I don't want

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Speaker 1: everyone to think I'm like going through this dark time.

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Speaker 1: It's just I feel like a lot of people have

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Speaker 1: been like, Where's Becca. Why aren't we talking about Becca's

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Speaker 1: personal life? And I'm I'm not trying to like hide,

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Speaker 1: It's not like I'm trying to be like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: just want to keep everything to myself. It's just sometimes

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Speaker 1: I do have to think of of myself and think

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Speaker 1: of like what I'm willing to share, because I in

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Speaker 1: the past, up until this point, have just been an

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Speaker 1: open book and there's been times where that's hurt me.

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Speaker 1: So I'm being a little more cautious. So and that's

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Speaker 1: every right your own. That makes sense. You have every

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Speaker 1: right to do that, right, like you're acknowledging it. And um,

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Speaker 1: I just love you. I love you too, I love

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Speaker 1: all of you. Here we go, Becca, Okay, is it?

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Speaker 1: This one is full? The boys in the booming system

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Speaker 1: top down they see with the coolst system when they

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Speaker 1: pull up in the club, they'd be played en up,

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Speaker 1: got any you might kind of, don't you thought? Then

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Speaker 1: he got the right kind of he didn't, you know?

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Speaker 1: So he always in the air, but he never thought

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Speaker 1: out the little ship ship when you make a because

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Speaker 1: I'm on the limp. But that's the kind of dude

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Speaker 1: I was looking and you have to get it would

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Speaker 1: be I said, excuse me, you're a hell of a guy.

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Speaker 1: I mean my mind like ping fly, I mean so

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Speaker 1: shop at I'm loving you style you like he's looking

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Speaker 1: in the guy with the thing in his eye. That's

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Speaker 1: I'm good. Yeah, that was like way better than I

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Speaker 1: thought it was really Yeah, oh I felt like I

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Speaker 1: was rusty. Well you didn't get all performance stage with that,

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Speaker 1: but I loved it. Yeah, it's a great song. Alright,

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Speaker 1: I'm thoroughly impressed. Tonya was like my hype man. Ever.

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Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, don't go like like any context clues.

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Speaker 1: All right, Um, I'll call it Time of Death twelve thirteen. Ah,

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Speaker 1: i'me over hearing. Give me a modern woman.