Speaker 1: It's time the realistic ros conversations go down on Big
Speaker 1: Facts Friday, a lot from our Heart Studios.
Speaker 2: You know what it is, Big Facts Friday with DJ Screen,
Speaker 2: Big Bank, Baby Jade.
Speaker 3: Shot Jones and Big Homie Kodak with the police glasses.
Speaker 1: Police glasses. Damn, that's what.
Speaker 4: Y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all down playing that man. The man looked like a marine.
Speaker 3: Seriously, where that come from? And what inspired that? You
Speaker 3: left the gloves for the for the police classes?
Speaker 5: Nah?
Speaker 2: I still, you know, I like the alternate things. You know,
Speaker 2: I've always had. I've had these in the car since
Speaker 2: last year. But you know I had the regular ones,
Speaker 2: but these is the alternates.
Speaker 3: I think Kodak just slowly making his way to being
Speaker 3: a wrestler. He is ain't gonna stop.
Speaker 2: I am crying, Hey man, I'm gonn getting Paul Hayman
Speaker 2: on one day, you know, Yeah, Paul Haman a goat here,
Speaker 2: a talker.
Speaker 1: You like Bobby the Brain Heene you remember you hold
Speaker 1: bro Ho Cogan that's it in the Rock, Yeah to
Speaker 1: the Rock too. He just came back Triple WrestleMania. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I heard. What's up with everybody else? What we're doing?
Speaker 1: How we're feeling.
Speaker 3: Right, bigger ass head, you feel meet a lot on
Speaker 3: your mind?
Speaker 2: Got you eric on today? Yeah she was feeling good.
Speaker 2: She was toxic too.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not bro.
Speaker 1: I love you. I love you like instance and smoke weed.
Speaker 5: I don't smoke weed anymore.
Speaker 1: Today.
Speaker 5: No, I just don't smoke weed anymore. I haven't smoked weed.
Speaker 6: Well, I hit a butt a few times, but I
Speaker 6: haven't like just past, I didn't smoke for twenty I
Speaker 6: haven't smoked consistently since twenty twenty two.
Speaker 5: Was that like November twenty? Are you serious? I swear
Speaker 5: to god she ain't.
Speaker 1: She just slowed down for sure.
Speaker 5: No, I stopped smoking.
Speaker 1: What made you stop? You?
Speaker 5: Oddly?
Speaker 6: I just got tired of everything seeming bleary like I
Speaker 6: like I couldn't see, like nothing was clear, Like when
Speaker 6: I drive a chance to school.
Speaker 5: I didn't feel like the sky was clear like some ship,
Speaker 5: but nothing was clear. I wanted to feel clear again?
Speaker 1: Are you Jojo? Come on? Come sit down, Jojo? That
Speaker 1: Jojo comes it down? Get Jojo. Can y'all make sure
Speaker 1: y'all put the camera on Jojo? You gotta honorary guess
Speaker 1: you got another?
Speaker 3: No, we bring Jojo? Can you bring a mike, Mike filter,
Speaker 3: get your mic filter, get your mic filter. We need Jojo.
Speaker 1: You're not going home today? Whatever, let me get him
Speaker 1: micro a camera right, Mike, Yeah, get the camera right.
Speaker 1: We'll still keep going. We'll still keep going since Oka
Speaker 1: j six fifty five. Okay, we got us a good
Speaker 1: sixty what? Uh? What? What? What? What?
Speaker 3: What's up with Jayfore we even get to when we
Speaker 3: know that.
Speaker 6: I mean, I'm just playing, I'm showing. I was just
Speaker 6: taking the ship one time. I'm just getting a whole
Speaker 6: bunch of ship. I'm together that I needed to do.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry about the smacking, but this milky way is
Speaker 6: motherfucking delicious.
Speaker 1: Smacking of the curson which one both.
Speaker 5: About the costal work. It's okay, So I'm I'm uh yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, big homemade Jojo in the.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I never said you.
Speaker 1: Better come on in here.
Speaker 5: She wanted to be her daughter so bad her face back.
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: So you get a camera right, the camera on point.
Speaker 1: We're good. Oh yeah, we came right.
Speaker 3: What about Okay, word word word, Time for the word.
Speaker 3: What's the word today of the day? Big fast Friday.
Speaker 5: Okay, So the word of the day. It's sadistic.
Speaker 6: Everybody ready, this distinct dick stick?
Speaker 1: What that mean?
Speaker 5: This dick did this? Dick did it? This dick did it?
Speaker 1: What's the word statistic?
Speaker 5: Sodistic?
Speaker 1: This thick?
Speaker 5: Okay, you said suck this dick? You know what dick is?
Speaker 6: A cuse word? I just said, sucking dick in the middle.
Speaker 1: You want to what a kid to say?
Speaker 5: It's a word perfect.
Speaker 7: I don't let my daughter say periods period.
Speaker 5: I just think that she don't need to be saying.
Speaker 6: That because that's a grown bitch was saying, like period.
Speaker 6: It's disrespectful, Like, don't say I don't have at all
Speaker 6: cussing at school. Yeah, because when a little when I
Speaker 6: look I feel the same way because I look at it,
Speaker 6: like when the little girl says that means like.
Speaker 5: Stopped playing with me.
Speaker 6: Like that's what she's really trying to say in little
Speaker 6: kids terms.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like don't do that because I slapped.
Speaker 1: Period. Look at me.
Speaker 5: That's what chance I mean when she say that to me,
Speaker 5: like being stop playing with me.
Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go, let's go. Cake.
Speaker 5: Okay, the spirit of David has.
Speaker 1: Spoken, Oh no, the stiff of David for.
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, my boy, bank over there, giving these holes
Speaker 5: hope continue in the tradition.
Speaker 6: Okay, but anyway, sudistic. Sadistic is the word reckless.
Speaker 1: Sorry, I can't wait till we graduate. Like Joe Jo, Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's get him around. The show is so family friendly,
Speaker 1: Ni come here and do this ship.
Speaker 6: Yeah they don't got syndicated. That's what I feel like,
Speaker 6: so big ups to them. Okay, So the word of
Speaker 6: the day, it is sadistic. The textbook definition is obtaining
Speaker 6: pleasure from hurting other people and making them suffer physically
Speaker 6: and mentally. The urban German definition is to derive pleasure
Speaker 6: or enjoyment from another's pain or extreme cruelty.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of sadistic basically hater.
Speaker 5: That's what I know. I don't know. Sadistic is way
Speaker 5: deeper than like a hater is in.
Speaker 1: That family with narcissistic.
Speaker 6: Well, I feel like haters will do something. Haters to
Speaker 6: do something to you to make you hurt and then
Speaker 6: get But but but a hater, a hater, A hater
Speaker 6: is just a hater. A hater ain't trying to put
Speaker 6: in an extra effort to make you suffer like a
Speaker 6: nigga that's trying to make you suffer is somebody Yeah
Speaker 6: that like, that's that's way deeper going.
Speaker 5: So you can have a hater, though you have a hater.
Speaker 7: He hated on what you got, and he plying on you,
Speaker 7: and he waited for you to leave work so he
Speaker 7: can pull up on you.
Speaker 2: Somebody that don't hate you, He loathes you, he despies you.
Speaker 1: Sadistic is like a judish. I don't even want you.
Speaker 1: I don't even want you to be alive.
Speaker 5: Okay, it could be a type of a type of hater.
Speaker 6: Definitely like a hater, let me, let me, I got
Speaker 6: a perfect fucking I got a perfect freaking example.
Speaker 5: Oh don't don't stop cursing now.
Speaker 6: Like a hater, a hater will shoot you, but a
Speaker 6: sadistic person will chop your body parts, put him in
Speaker 6: a pot with bleach, cook him, eat him, and then
Speaker 6: spit him back out.
Speaker 1: So basically, what you're saying is the nigga who killed
Speaker 1: this nipsystic, he kicked that boy that was more than
Speaker 1: you just want to flick pain fuck you. Basically, yeah, damn,
Speaker 1: that's cold. What is it? Sadistic?
Speaker 5: Sadistic? Sadistic?
Speaker 6: I have a question. So they're not the one that's
Speaker 6: inflicting the pain.
Speaker 5: They just catch joy off of it.
Speaker 8: Yeah, they both, Yeah, they would prefer to do it sadistic,
Speaker 8: they say, sadistic mentality, you know, like sadistic is a adjective, right.
Speaker 5: A sadistic person, A sadistic.
Speaker 1: Person, hey man, keep and we don't even talk about this.
Speaker 1: I see I see, yeah, I see you going on.
Speaker 1: Yeah right that my wife got.
Speaker 5: These, that's all right. But yeah, like like it's a
Speaker 5: come on, bro.
Speaker 1: Bobby, go ahead, soul the podcast, Hello to the podcast,
Speaker 1: and it's Bobby, Hello podcast.
Speaker 6: Okay, So, like a sadistic a hater is just like
Speaker 6: just I don't like this nigga, But a sadistic person
Speaker 6: is like, I don't like this nigga. I hope his
Speaker 6: mother dies and he falls down and breaks his leg
Speaker 6: and then they sit back and laugh at that kind
Speaker 6: of shit.
Speaker 3: You feel like a sadistic person too, is somebody who
Speaker 3: acts on it, like I don't like this person, so
Speaker 3: I'm going to do this to this person. I plant
Speaker 3: to see for this person to be fucked up, right,
Speaker 3: But I hater could just hate from behind the screen
Speaker 3: or something like that, and don't never do nothing, I.
Speaker 6: Ever seen y'all ever seen that movie where the white
Speaker 6: lady was the babysitter to the people and the nigga
Speaker 6: from Ghostbusters was working in the house, the black nigga
Speaker 6: from Ghostbusters was working in the house.
Speaker 5: No, so it was.
Speaker 6: It was a real movie. It was a white lady,
Speaker 6: she was her her husband was a guy to collegist.
Speaker 5: What happened in the movie The hand of Role.
Speaker 9: Yeah, oh yeah, exactly seeing it, well, I was gonna
Speaker 9: say that was now she was sadistic, Yeah, she was.
Speaker 7: But I think everything that we've been talking about has
Speaker 7: been like physical, But I think sadistic is also like
Speaker 7: a mental thing too, Like you can abuse somebody verbally, yeah,
Speaker 7: and then you can get some type of thrill off
Speaker 7: of that too. Yeah, And I think that that's sadistic
Speaker 7: and people probably deal with that all the time.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: You know who I feel like has the consistent sadistic
Speaker 6: relationship baby mama's and baby daddy's.
Speaker 1: For sure.
Speaker 5: It depends.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm just saying it depends on the type of
Speaker 6: baby mama baby daddy.
Speaker 5: It is because some of them just beata, some.
Speaker 1: Of them do be's saying that's the most where we're
Speaker 1: from that's the most time you see a woman or
Speaker 1: a man trying to inflict emotional physical purpose for Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: the purpose.
Speaker 5: But I didn't have pure hate in their heart.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean you could say.
Speaker 5: It ain't even hate, it's just I.
Speaker 1: Want you to feel me.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, well I don't even I don't even want to
Speaker 7: just say baby, baby daddy.
Speaker 5: I think any woman or man.
Speaker 7: Who broke up, like especially these days, like they can't
Speaker 7: wait to try to put some of your face. That's
Speaker 7: where like the cheap that's why women cheat back all
Speaker 7: the time. That's why dudes be smashing their coworkers and
Speaker 7: stuff like that.
Speaker 5: So I think it's deeferent than just my baby mom
Speaker 5: baby daddy. But I do you know that.
Speaker 6: There's a lot of toxic sadistic I guess relationships with
Speaker 6: baby mom and baby daddies. So do you think that
Speaker 6: that toxic and sadistic are parallel.
Speaker 2: Yes, not necessarily the same. They're in the same house,
Speaker 2: they're not in the same room.
Speaker 5: Again, just toxic.
Speaker 1: You might not act on this, yeh.
Speaker 2: Act That's why I said they are in the same house.
Speaker 2: They're not in the same room. But people are are toxic.
Speaker 6: Do you think that toxic people are sadistic and they
Speaker 6: just don't realize it.
Speaker 5: Nah, because you can.
Speaker 2: Be toxic and not sadistic, but you can't be sadistic
Speaker 2: and not toxic.
Speaker 3: And sadistic is a little more finite too, Like if
Speaker 3: you're sadistic, it's gonna take you a lot to get
Speaker 3: out of that. You could be toxic and not be
Speaker 3: toxic six months from now.
Speaker 7: Yeah, because like if you toxic and say you trying
Speaker 7: to get your look back, and you get your look back,
Speaker 7: you not, You're not. You don't get joy out of
Speaker 7: making them hurt because but you don't get joy off
Speaker 7: of Yeah, you don't get joy off of them feeling
Speaker 7: bad about it. You just want to prove a point,
Speaker 7: Like yeah, nah, I could do it.
Speaker 6: But sadistic people are also trying to prove points too.
Speaker 7: But but the definition says that that they get joy
Speaker 7: off of that person's pain.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 7: So what I'm saying is is that if a toxic
Speaker 7: person cheats back and has sex with somebody, they're not
Speaker 7: getting satisfaction out of their pain.
Speaker 5: They know they're getting.
Speaker 6: Point, but they to a certain extent they are because
Speaker 6: once they that's just like that's just like it that's
Speaker 6: just like, that's just like if I'm fucking with a nigga,
Speaker 6: or I used to fuck with a nigga and he
Speaker 6: cheated and I decided to cheat back, and this nigga
Speaker 6: finds out, or I make this nigga find out that
Speaker 6: I cheated back, and he flips out because I know
Speaker 6: that like he still loves me or whatever, And I'm
Speaker 6: giggling on the inside because I know I just had
Speaker 6: the power to hurt this nigga because he cared about
Speaker 6: me fucking back on him.
Speaker 5: That's not statistic.
Speaker 7: I think that is sadistic. But I don't I don't
Speaker 7: think that that happens all the time. I think that
Speaker 7: sometimes women do that to be like, yeah, a nigga,
Speaker 7: I did that, like stop playing with me.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's that's pleasure.
Speaker 1: But do y'all think, do y'all think?
Speaker 5: What do you think?
Speaker 1: Do y'all think a man can make you cheat if
Speaker 1: you're if you're not a.
Speaker 5: Cheating When you say make you cheat, what you mean I'm.
Speaker 1: Saying like, how could you get like at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, you don't want to cheat back? Why
Speaker 1: we feel like a real woman to just leave you
Speaker 1: before she cheat back. Oh yeah, definitely, Yeah, you ben
Speaker 1: would do.
Speaker 5: That right or you been wanting to want you do that.
Speaker 1: That's just your characters.
Speaker 6: But then again, it goes back to like being a
Speaker 6: product of your environment, because if that's all you've seen,
Speaker 6: like bitch is getting they look back like your mama,
Speaker 6: your grandma, and your auntie, your sister, your cousin, everybody,
Speaker 6: that's how they handle the ship, then you don't know
Speaker 6: no better. That's just like goes back to the discussion
Speaker 6: we always have about busting out windows and beating niggas
Speaker 6: up and doing all that. If that's all you've ever
Speaker 6: seen from every bitch in your family, that's all you're gonna.
Speaker 5: Know to do. Well.
Speaker 7: I can say that I never seen that in my family,
Speaker 7: and I still did it. I did came out well,
Speaker 7: I was busted through windows, I was cheating bag, I.
Speaker 1: Was Did you see that in your environment?
Speaker 5: No, I didn't.
Speaker 1: I just it just was in it was.
Speaker 5: But go back to what you were saying.
Speaker 7: I also think that like even if it's not a
Speaker 7: product of your environment, or you're a product of your environment,
Speaker 7: you have to grow as a woman. You know, Yeah,
Speaker 7: you can have that mindset at that time but if
Speaker 7: you in your twenties, and you may still even be
Speaker 7: in your.
Speaker 5: Thirties and still go through that.
Speaker 7: But it takes everybody a different time frame to mature.
Speaker 7: So it's just when you get to that point to
Speaker 7: where you like, I'm not about to be cheating on you,
Speaker 7: like I ain't gonna be doing all that, Like I'm
Speaker 7: too old for that. I think when you get to
Speaker 7: that point, then yeah.
Speaker 6: But.
Speaker 5: They tell you a lot.
Speaker 3: When you google the most sadistic people in history, it
Speaker 3: gets a little deeper, like the most sadistic people, I'm
Speaker 3: up there, dude, though they.
Speaker 2: Trump can't act on anything that would make him sadistic.
Speaker 3: They got Dracula, they got Jeffrey Dahmer. Yeah, so they
Speaker 3: got like dictators.
Speaker 5: And serial killers and.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like dictators, Yeah, like John Wayne Gacy.
Speaker 3: What I said, I think some of the ship y'all said,
Speaker 3: it's like just toxic, sure, but is it sadistic? Sadistic
Speaker 3: is like the people who the people I feel like
Speaker 3: they wake.
Speaker 6: Up, the people who would prefer to cut you up
Speaker 6: instead of shooting you are the people that go and
Speaker 6: do like mass shootings.
Speaker 1: You know what, especially school the obit.
Speaker 5: I mean, damn the the dictionary.
Speaker 6: Yes, the textbook definition of statistic again is obtains pleasure
Speaker 6: from hurting other people and making them suffer physically and mentally.
Speaker 6: And the urban Gerban definition is to derive pleasure or
Speaker 6: enjoyment from paying a k a extreme.
Speaker 1: That's like rapist. Yeah, we're talking about some ship. We're
Speaker 1: trying to make regular niggas they just.
Speaker 2: What you're talking about them? People got something else going.
Speaker 2: You mentioned earlier about like wrestling ship. It was a
Speaker 2: wrestling named new Jack. He's wrestling e c W. He
Speaker 2: was fucking sadistic. He's the ship that would get niggas
Speaker 2: in jail. No, no, no, no, no, he really went
Speaker 2: to jail for this ship.
Speaker 5: You know he used to like he was a wrestler
Speaker 5: did Yeah, he was like what he did.
Speaker 2: That, He would like stab niggas in the forehead with
Speaker 2: a fucking nail, like real, Yes, he's his face is scarred.
Speaker 1: He died now, but his face was scarred up from
Speaker 1: doing that ship.
Speaker 5: Way to himself.
Speaker 2: No, he would do it to other people. But yeah, sadistic,
Speaker 2: sadistic as a motherfucker. I can see it was something.
Speaker 2: It was, it was something like the whole it was.
Speaker 1: I don't think I know nobody stadistic, but I think.
Speaker 5: That's a good thing because that means your circle clean,
Speaker 5: your circle clean.
Speaker 7: Yeah, if you did, like you probably know, could you
Speaker 7: be freeing?
Speaker 5: You know somebody you could call they just want to
Speaker 5: that's just going, that's going.
Speaker 1: I don't know about about that. It's that, It's that
Speaker 1: I knew some people like that. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Isn't that not to go back to the same ship?
Speaker 3: Isn't that Bishop and Juice, I don't know, was a bitch.
Speaker 1: Playing the nigga went with the move. He would sadistic.
Speaker 5: Want sistic was Tony was a savage. He kills his friend,
Speaker 5: his sister.
Speaker 1: B I told you don't do that. You had to die,
Speaker 1: and then behind my back you've been like, bro, all
Speaker 1: just side. I love your sister. I want to brother,
Speaker 1: I need your blessing.
Speaker 5: I got crave me.
Speaker 1: You don't marry my sister. Fucking my sister and all
Speaker 1: this I ain't telling you about.
Speaker 5: You know, And you know I slicked like I am
Speaker 5: in love with my sister too.
Speaker 6: Right like he.
Speaker 5: Like, you know my sister is really my bitch. No, no,
Speaker 5: don't put it on that man.
Speaker 1: Infatuated.
Speaker 5: No, that's big, faster fast listen.
Speaker 1: That man with that man, he felt like his sister
Speaker 1: was the only thing in his life that was pure.
Speaker 1: Nothing else. I don't feel he knew, he knew his
Speaker 1: own boat and bullshit. He just felt like, you're the
Speaker 1: only thing that's closest to pure in my life.
Speaker 6: No, that was in the case, but he really he
Speaker 6: if we if we if we just gonna just want
Speaker 6: her to all the way, to want to if we're
Speaker 6: gonna keep this ship all the way, Man, I don't
Speaker 6: watch this ship nineteen hundred thousand.
Speaker 1: No, he just wanted her to stay.
Speaker 8: Bro.
Speaker 1: He just looked at her.
Speaker 5: One of my favorite movies.
Speaker 1: Bro. He looked at her. He looked at her further
Speaker 1: than she saw herself. And that's how I do Everybody
Speaker 1: in this room, like I see you, Kodak is something
Speaker 1: you'll never see yourself. I see Jay, something you'll never
Speaker 1: stream shy jojo. I see y'all something y'all could never see. Yus,
Speaker 1: I see the most for y'all, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And he just wanted to thrive on that the way he.
Speaker 5: Get that, but he was obsessed with her.
Speaker 1: He was assessed with her peerness. I don't think you
Speaker 1: want to fuck doing all that.
Speaker 5: He was like, what, yeah, because she was doing all
Speaker 5: that in front of other people.
Speaker 1: Know she did that At the end when she started
Speaker 1: busting to him, he was like what hell.
Speaker 5: No he no, no, no, no.
Speaker 6: No, got movie, we're gonna do that?
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's.
Speaker 1: You never seen the movie.
Speaker 5: I don't remember. You've never seen you ever seen?
Speaker 6: I don't remember. I seen it one time, like a requirement,
Speaker 6: have you ever seen? Have you ever seen the Godfather
Speaker 6: of New Jack City? Good fellas anything?
Speaker 5: New Jack City?
Speaker 3: I know, like you got in my head you can
Speaker 3: get by without, but you got to see Godfather's scarface.
Speaker 2: That's like Godfather's most Hello. You know who Rannie from
Speaker 2: Players Club? What Ronnie from Players Club? Which one is running.
Speaker 6: The the one that started off? Old girl was gonna
Speaker 6: get raped and she was with it?
Speaker 5: Motherfuckers?
Speaker 1: Get down that Ronnie was sedition.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you got to use what you got to get ship.
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like the nigga scarface, that's
Speaker 1: why you pushed them people away because what y'all what
Speaker 1: y'all The part that y'all missed in the movie was.
Speaker 1: They showed his weakness. His mom and his sister was
Speaker 1: his weakness. Anything else, I'm hot about it, but my
Speaker 1: mom and my sisters. I seen that this is something
Speaker 1: that's period that into my life. She got manning, man,
Speaker 1: I know what kund of you. You tain't count of
Speaker 1: me a killer? You this you that leave my sister alone,
Speaker 1: they'll go date a corporate nigga. Because I see her
Speaker 1: as pure. I don't think the man wont to it.
Speaker 7: The relationship was weird. You didn't think like the way
Speaker 7: he was weird, his attachmentary.
Speaker 1: You didn't think that I feel the same way about
Speaker 1: my sister.
Speaker 5: No, you don't. I know you don't. I do know
Speaker 5: you do not.
Speaker 1: Do I feel the same way that listens Let me
Speaker 1: say so, I feel that the same way about every
Speaker 1: woman in my life. Then I feel like y'all could be.
Speaker 1: I love you as a husband, but you're my sister.
Speaker 1: You're not understanding what I'm saying. When you're when you're
Speaker 1: a man's man like, you feel like you're a protector
Speaker 1: over any woman that's around you. So I see you
Speaker 1: as I want to love you the way I want
Speaker 1: to set the bar for love for you. The way
Speaker 1: I love you, Jay, you shouldn't go outside of that.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't date a man that don't love you the
Speaker 1: way I love you. And I'm just your brother. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm.
Speaker 6: Saying, Like like like that's the that's the that's the
Speaker 6: ultimate love right there, and that's how it's supposed.
Speaker 1: To be, and that's how he feels the way I
Speaker 1: see you.
Speaker 5: More than that though, I'm telling you.
Speaker 3: Bro, I think it's just y'all remember, because it's a
Speaker 3: long ass movie and it's been a few years. But
Speaker 3: what part of it makes y'all feel like it was more.
Speaker 1: Kind at the end? Though? What part it was just
Speaker 1: too hard?
Speaker 5: It was too it was too close.
Speaker 6: No, it's been a few parts, like okay, right before
Speaker 6: he went to the car dealership, like when he went
Speaker 6: when he went to the house and he was taking
Speaker 6: his mom and the money and he gave his mom
Speaker 6: didn't want the money, and then he gave her the money,
Speaker 6: and then they were talking and this and that, like
Speaker 6: when he went by.
Speaker 1: The house, it's my baby, listen, take this money. Make
Speaker 1: sure you buy herself. She tripped.
Speaker 5: It's all he did.
Speaker 1: Go ahead.
Speaker 5: I can't help it. I can't I want to know. Like, no,
Speaker 5: it was just like all throughout the movie, it was
Speaker 5: just like his obsession with her was over the top.
Speaker 1: Is it obsession of protection?
Speaker 5: It was obsession. I know something, I know protection.
Speaker 1: Say this. Let me say this. Let me say this.
Speaker 1: When you're protecting somebody from the world that they are
Speaker 1: green to, it's gonna look like obsession.
Speaker 5: No, that's cool, that's cool. I overly get that. I
Speaker 5: overly get that.
Speaker 6: But protection from a world that they're green to is
Speaker 6: different from when.
Speaker 1: I when I when I when I saw you in
Speaker 1: the house, I told you, hey, take this money, go
Speaker 1: have fun. I'm not telling you to come get in
Speaker 1: my mix. I'm in the streets where it is cut
Speaker 1: through that this nigga you dance with the didn't even
Speaker 1: get you on powder, didn't even have you fucked up.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you go go go mingle with some ducks.
Speaker 5: No that No, that's cool. But it's it is. It
Speaker 5: was more to it than that.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you.
Speaker 5: It was weird. I think we're gonna have to watch
Speaker 5: it over. I'm like, we're.
Speaker 6: Gonna have to We're gonna have to pinpoint, like, hey,
Speaker 6: freeze the movie. I'm gonna have to get my pointer
Speaker 6: say this just when the ship fucked up, just where
Speaker 6: it's where that this is where he did.
Speaker 2: And there was a line in the movie where she says,
Speaker 2: you want to fuck me Tony?
Speaker 1: Is that it? And I don't remember that, but but
Speaker 1: that Nigga looking at it like what he No.
Speaker 6: He was looking like that because that nigga was high
Speaker 6: out of his mind and was about.
Speaker 5: To fall off. Oh my god, I'm about to go
Speaker 5: home and watch this chat.
Speaker 1: Okay, got the movies you watch any day.
Speaker 6: Okay, I'm gonna watch because I need to see what
Speaker 6: you're feeling.
Speaker 1: Open the door. My food is out there. But yeah,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, what I'm seeing is
Speaker 1: that he just was overprotective of his So it's on Hulu.
Speaker 1: That was the only thing he had that was pure
Speaker 1: in his life. He said that, like, this is the
Speaker 1: only he told his brother. No, bro, he told that
Speaker 1: Nigga was the name many No, Bro, this is the
Speaker 1: only thing that's left that's pure from me. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I'm overprotected of this. So it may seem awkward and weird,
Speaker 1: because Bro, all I seen was bullshit. But my mom
Speaker 1: and my sister is all I got left to make
Speaker 1: me feel like the world is Why do you think
Speaker 1: she said that though I'm scared of not, I do
Speaker 1: remember that. Why do you think she said that.
Speaker 6: She was acting like it because he was overprotected?
Speaker 1: She said that because when she was in the starn
Speaker 1: paddle with the nigga he busted get your ass out
Speaker 1: of there. Then he killed her husband, which was my friend.
Speaker 1: And I know ain't shit. He got nothing but bitches.
Speaker 1: So she like, damn, bro, is it that you want me?
Speaker 1: And I can see what other women that's in the know,
Speaker 1: not y'all, but you know she's will keep your hands
Speaker 1: to yourself. Brown women. Most women feel as if though
Speaker 1: every man wants them because they protect them, like like
Speaker 1: shots out.
Speaker 5: I disagree.
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me say this. Shoutside the courtney shouts
Speaker 1: out to my wife Shannte. They tell me straight up, like, bro,
Speaker 1: you're so nice that you'll make a woman think you
Speaker 1: want them because how you treat women, Because I embrace women,
Speaker 1: like when JoJo's Joji, what you're doing, baby hug? Sit
Speaker 1: it out? Some women take that ship. Isn't he ain't
Speaker 1: like me? You know That's just how I am with women.
Speaker 1: But precious feel like everybody That's what I'm saying. They
Speaker 1: deserve to be love a woman. Some women to take
Speaker 1: that is he liked me good.
Speaker 6: But I feel like, but I feel like, and I
Speaker 6: could be wrong, and I'm probably gonna get flat for
Speaker 6: this or whatever, but I feel like women that take
Speaker 6: those simple gestures as being more than what it is
Speaker 6: are weak.
Speaker 3: Or not.
Speaker 1: Say let me say, let me say that. Jay, I'm sorry. No,
Speaker 1: it's not insecure. It's not weakness. Don't take that. It's
Speaker 1: just not normal. These niggas is bitches. They don't know
Speaker 1: how to treat women. So you get a man and
Speaker 1: know how to treat a woman and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: y'all good, make sure you're protected. That ship draws, because
Speaker 1: that's what all women want. They want to they serve everything.
Speaker 1: So when you do that as a friend, it can
Speaker 1: get misconstrued because they.
Speaker 2: Don't get this off because you you tie that action
Speaker 2: to an emotion.
Speaker 1: So if this niggas being nice to you, you tie
Speaker 1: that action to an emotion.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this niggas being nice to you. Even if y'all
Speaker 2: just y'all just friends and y'all just it's nothing.
Speaker 5: Really, what kind of niggas y'all be around?
Speaker 1: No, Jay, you think about it, you damn the a nigga.
Speaker 1: I'm just being real. So you be around niggas and
Speaker 1: you receive love from niggas differently than other women do
Speaker 1: that don't be around niggas. So when they be around,
Speaker 1: they be around niggas that they dating only, and the
Speaker 1: nigga be bitches. So they come around a man like, no,
Speaker 1: you're good. What's that? WO call you five times? What
Speaker 1: you doing? You made it home? Some women take that different,
Speaker 1: and I think.
Speaker 2: That is like if I'm kicking it with a chicken,
Speaker 2: she's you don't care about come over like she cooking
Speaker 2: and clean and every time she come.
Speaker 1: Over like this is normal to you? What you're doing
Speaker 1: all this for you?
Speaker 5: Like and some ship, I'm hungry.
Speaker 1: You're gonna cook every time you go over a nigga
Speaker 1: fool that.
Speaker 5: If I cook, I'm not cooking at no house though.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I say you go over
Speaker 2: the nigga house and you cook every time you go
Speaker 2: over there.
Speaker 5: He's gonna start thinking like me, well he should.
Speaker 6: Exactly, But what if what if you don't that, There's
Speaker 6: no way I won't be cooking nowhere?
Speaker 5: Girls going to.
Speaker 1: Cook one time when Jay get quiet, she kind of
Speaker 1: get it, like I get it. I know that she's
Speaker 1: just so used to all her partners because we don't
Speaker 1: look at Jade's female, even though she is, she gets dicked.
Speaker 1: She but we look at this our sis, the homie.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, it's our homie, so we
Speaker 1: treat her as that.
Speaker 6: So it's I guess because I'm used to just always
Speaker 6: being most of the time the only girl.
Speaker 1: So but and you're protecting, you're provided for you this
Speaker 1: year that you're this and this. But a woman, a
Speaker 1: feminine woman that meets a man that they never get
Speaker 1: this type of ship and they see like, hey make
Speaker 1: sure John, walk John to a car, make sure she good,
Speaker 1: make sure she's good. Sure Jojo this, Hey joj you
Speaker 1: made at home. Women gonna take that shit in a
Speaker 1: different route instead of a man that's being a man.
Speaker 1: You've been in my presence. I gotta make sure you're good.
Speaker 1: That's any real man. Yeah, it's so many suckers out
Speaker 1: here to make these women feel like that's not the norm.
Speaker 1: So when I do it, it feel like bank like me,
Speaker 1: that is true. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: is he trying to what is it? I'm confused, No, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm just a man. You know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: probably will fuck you, but the spirit of David, I
Speaker 1: probably no. I bush your side though I just threw
Speaker 1: that I bush your side. It's on you on my watch.
Speaker 1: That's how men look. Man looking at this at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, you on my watch. So I'm
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna see it all the way through. If
Speaker 1: you out with me, get home safe, get back to
Speaker 1: your baby, say get back to the chance, say get
Speaker 1: back to little Jojo safe, and then that's my my
Speaker 1: My mission ain't complete. And if you came out with me,
Speaker 1: my mission ain't complete till you get back home. Then
Speaker 1: we started another day tomorrow. But women, take that, is
Speaker 1: he care about me? Girl, because that's not that's not common.
Speaker 1: It's not that that's not coming, Thank you, bro, it's
Speaker 1: not coming. But it's like to me, I could be
Speaker 1: in the call my wife on the way home, get
Speaker 1: my dicks up by my wife or whatever. Nashtally she
Speaker 1: we about to do something, check on Jojo. Make sure yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, go ahead. You know what I'm saying because
Speaker 1: just because at the end of the day you was
Speaker 1: on my watch right that.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like like like like in the South,
Speaker 2: if I dropped Jojoe off, I'm gonna make sure she
Speaker 2: walk in the house before I drive off. In other spots,
Speaker 2: like in New York, that's not as common. Nigga, I
Speaker 2: dropped you off one time, and what I did.
Speaker 5: There's somebody right in there. You left her, that girl,
Speaker 5: I was.
Speaker 1: Already in here.
Speaker 5: See, we were just good. We was just good. Now,
Speaker 5: don't get up here.
Speaker 7: I have to tell you that I said, I had
Speaker 7: to tell you about that the intern we had at
Speaker 7: the show. She was leaving and you left her and
Speaker 7: her Uber was out here and she she was waiting
Speaker 7: for twenty minutes outside waiting for Uber.
Speaker 1: I feel like men are supposed to protect women. It's
Speaker 1: just how I was raised, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I don't know how the other nigga made. These niggas.
Speaker 1: Niggas want to push it. They want to push it
Speaker 1: to no real they want to split. I gotta dick.
Speaker 1: I don't want to split, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So a woman, a woman, I want her to feel
Speaker 1: like a woman. I want her to feel as if though, So, nigga,
Speaker 1: I'm really really really fucking the game up for these niggas.
Speaker 1: So when it be like, damn if my friend could
Speaker 1: treat me this way while my dude not show you
Speaker 1: your worth, you know what I'm saying, Like you're a queen.
Speaker 7: So do you think that that's ever gonna change evolve?
Speaker 7: Like men will go back to being me?
Speaker 1: Women got demand Moore?
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's what you think. You think?
Speaker 6: I think I think that's a good point. Women start
Speaker 6: laying up with these brokens.
Speaker 1: No, but you gotta let the nigga know what you
Speaker 1: used to, even if you got it from a friend.
Speaker 1: You gotta let nigga know what you used to. Like, damn,
Speaker 1: bro you ain't open the door like my friend open
Speaker 1: it over open it.
Speaker 5: You ain't gotta say it me.
Speaker 6: I just stepped back, like if I'm walking, step back
Speaker 6: like I don't touch the door.
Speaker 5: Now you gotta start calling these niggas.
Speaker 1: Out like I got pissed, I get wrong. I don't
Speaker 1: know what to do. But I've been trying to hold
Speaker 1: this ship for just go and we're.
Speaker 3: Gonna start random thoughts, all right, So y'all gonna move
Speaker 3: withoil you get back all alright, like that big Fast Friday.
Speaker 3: So so break down random thoughts for JoJo's.
Speaker 6: All right, So random thoughts is when we go around
Speaker 6: and everybody just give a random thought.
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, So do you have a random thought
Speaker 5: in your head?
Speaker 1: Give her an example shot, I.
Speaker 7: Mean a random thought, right, okay, you know, yeah, okay,
Speaker 7: so give me some time to like think of a
Speaker 7: random thought.
Speaker 6: All right, So I'll start. My random thought is do
Speaker 6: pigs have orgasms?
Speaker 5: They do? Yeah? Do they have? You never seen two pigs? Fuck?
Speaker 5: No ever? Never? No, I never you never seen two pigs.
Speaker 5: I've never seen two pigs have sex.
Speaker 6: But I was just wonder like do pigs and animals
Speaker 6: in general, like do they have orgasms?
Speaker 5: Because I've watched Yes, you've never seen horses? Fuck that.
Speaker 5: I don't know I've seen that.
Speaker 6: But I'm talking about like the woman like that, the
Speaker 6: not the woman, but like the female gay horses. No,
Speaker 6: the female animal, dude, the female animal have orgasms of course,
Speaker 6: like the male is ship.
Speaker 5: They got to well.
Speaker 2: The bad the bad thing about animals orgasms like sometimes
Speaker 2: like the male dying, like in the animal kingdom, like
Speaker 2: spiders kill the nigga like when they're done praying mantis
Speaker 2: just killed the nigga, like when they done.
Speaker 6: So oh yeah, some animals like when they have an orgasm,
Speaker 6: that's the end of their life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's some animal like spider.
Speaker 5: But that's like what is it the black widow or
Speaker 5: they kill them or something.
Speaker 6: I thought, well, I thought the woman after she make
Speaker 6: her the woman spider. You saying woman, the female spider
Speaker 6: after she had the kids.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but woman, a woman is a human.
Speaker 6: But like after the female spider have kids, she will
Speaker 6: wrap herself up so the kids can like eat her.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's weird. Let wrapped herself up?
Speaker 1: She would.
Speaker 2: Yeah, bees testicles explode after they they orgasms.
Speaker 5: But what about the women, I mean, what about the female?
Speaker 1: Well, in the animal kingdom the human.
Speaker 2: Does the female animals have orgasms? No, because they fucked
Speaker 2: for reproduction. They don't fuck for pleasure.
Speaker 5: How you know, are you an animal?
Speaker 2: Yes, we are animals. We're just a species of animal
Speaker 2: that's called human.
Speaker 5: Okay, so then we have orgasms.
Speaker 3: But orgasms is different from all what do you call it?
Speaker 3: I guess ejaculation and coming and stuff.
Speaker 5: It's the female.
Speaker 1: All the animals have to no, just.
Speaker 5: The guy normally because if you watch animals have sex.
Speaker 3: But that would that would mess up the whole theory.
Speaker 3: That would mess up the whole theory of animals. And
Speaker 3: that's basically not.
Speaker 6: Really because because in Layman's terms, when you're having sex
Speaker 6: and you have an orgasm, and orgasm is a climax
Speaker 6: and the end result of the climax is the release
Speaker 6: of the fluid.
Speaker 3: You can without having an orgasm. You can not have
Speaker 3: an orgasm male or female. Correct, it's called dry orgasm.
Speaker 6: I don't know, but I don't think if it happens
Speaker 6: like that for female, because I've never done it and
Speaker 6: I had an orgasm, I would think that they play
Speaker 6: a part for the female.
Speaker 5: Maybe I never known it and not like orgasm with me.
Speaker 2: And that's what seeming retention is like you can come
Speaker 2: and not like, don't be no lequal.
Speaker 6: That's how that's that's an oxymoron called hold on. I
Speaker 6: mean you seeman retention means you hold the semen. You
Speaker 6: hold it, you're not releasing it.
Speaker 1: But you can have that organ you can still, but
Speaker 1: it's nothing there.
Speaker 3: They don't they I'm saying not one hundred percent of
Speaker 3: the time. They don't have to be joined together. You
Speaker 3: can have an ejaculation.
Speaker 1: What's what you think, do you aulation without orgasm?
Speaker 5: That you can have a you can without having an orgasm? Yeah,
Speaker 5: for sure, men can't.
Speaker 1: Women can't too.
Speaker 5: I've never done that. It's not as.
Speaker 3: Satisfying well a woman if a woman start getting real
Speaker 3: wet and creaming and doing all this crazy.
Speaker 7: Wait hold on, yeah, wait, because I don't think I've
Speaker 7: had like an orgasm.
Speaker 5: Your body has never never had My body has never
Speaker 5: a lot of women, not from like.
Speaker 1: A lot of women. Or I'm trying to say, really.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, do you know what you're missing? Have
Speaker 6: you done it to yourself? You've never made yourself have
Speaker 6: an orgasm?
Speaker 7: I guess so yeah, Like, yeah, but it's not not from.
Speaker 5: You've never had like a dick orgasm. I've never had
Speaker 5: that neither.
Speaker 1: What.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've never had that either.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
Speaker 6: I've never You've never not once time, never ever ever
Speaker 6: in life, Like, oh my god, neither one of you.
Speaker 5: No, wow, but I've.
Speaker 6: Never I just sucked me up with that one, like
Speaker 6: I was not prepared, Like I can't feel like it
Speaker 6: is not a reason why, but this ship is equivalent
Speaker 6: to me learning like that Santa Claus didn't exist, Like
Speaker 6: I'm blown away right now.
Speaker 3: But only reason why. There's a reason why. That means
Speaker 3: you're too much.
Speaker 5: No, even before I started master that, I don't even
Speaker 5: matterbate that much either. I don't ask at it all.
Speaker 1: You said you have orgasms.
Speaker 6: I just I have orgasms. But it's like off of
Speaker 6: oral sex.
Speaker 5: I've never had like I've had like life shattering orgasms
Speaker 5: from dick. Shout out on you. I wish.
Speaker 6: That's why I'm like, I'm wishing I could, like I could.
Speaker 6: It's somebody that I could like transmute that to y'all, like.
Speaker 5: Trade muted like because I don't know.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know what I'm so it's not like
Speaker 6: I'm like, I just.
Speaker 1: Wish you know what you missed.
Speaker 2: Jojo you enough. No, you don't need to be getting
Speaker 2: cred that gave you that. If you're busting out windows now,
Speaker 2: say you you're gonna relapse.
Speaker 6: So you busted out a window from a nigga that
Speaker 6: never gave you an orgasm, I.
Speaker 5: Am busting window. I broke into his house with no orgasm,
Speaker 5: but it wasn't because his dick was good it was
Speaker 5: because he had sucked up.
Speaker 6: You're talking about orgasms, but okay, what's so my random
Speaker 6: thought was really just do pigs have orgasms?
Speaker 5: And I guess.
Speaker 6: Right is how can you get a man to let
Speaker 6: you get an orgasm?
Speaker 5: That's rid of thought. You gotta get a nigga that
Speaker 5: knows how to funk like I do crazy sex before.
Speaker 5: It just hasn't gotten to the point of like, yeah,
Speaker 5: right to where like I'm gonna you know.
Speaker 6: But like bro, like the person I mean I've had.
Speaker 6: I guess I've had it too.
Speaker 1: Because you didn't trust.
Speaker 5: Them here man, like, I cannot believe this. Just send
Speaker 5: me the number. Look at Jojo, just share him.
Speaker 1: You need to go to Tokyo Valentino be there that.
Speaker 5: That's another artificial ship. She needs a real dick. Oh yeah,
Speaker 5: I've been downstairs what not. I didn't do anything.
Speaker 6: I just watched people and they have like the little
Speaker 6: y'all know what we should do.
Speaker 5: We should do a big fact trip there.
Speaker 6: And fucking and fucking what And I don't know, like
Speaker 6: down there like.
Speaker 5: Or something. No, they have rooms down there where it's
Speaker 5: like you can watch porn, you know.
Speaker 6: They have like little rooms, little cubicles. You can watch
Speaker 6: like porn in the little cubicles.
Speaker 5: I thought you can have sex.
Speaker 1: I wasn't there for that part.
Speaker 5: I wasn't there for that part. I never seen people
Speaker 5: have sex down there.
Speaker 6: Now I got y'all talking about it's like you can
Speaker 6: go downstairs and watch actual live people fucking.
Speaker 5: I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it.
Speaker 1: Yes, you can, allegedly.
Speaker 6: What's that place talking about?
Speaker 1: That's the whorehouse.
Speaker 5: Got some good breakfast took? How you know? That's what
Speaker 5: I know?
Speaker 6: Niggas that I mean, they do a lot of stuff
Speaker 6: over there, Like they said, the food down there is
Speaker 6: like a one almost like comparable to cheetah type ship.
Speaker 5: I need to go. Let's go.
Speaker 6: Let's yeah, we too known to just be out there
Speaker 6: and trapeze like that.
Speaker 5: Who else is known? No, Yeah, I think it'd be fun.
Speaker 5: Freaking I think it'll be fun.
Speaker 6: I think up there going on, let me see what's doing.
Speaker 6: From my understanding that the parts your like clothes, and
Speaker 6: then once you go pass apart, everyone is like nude.
Speaker 6: That like, so it's like naked once you go pass apart.
Speaker 6: Jju is like, yeah, you have to go in there
Speaker 6: and you gotta.
Speaker 5: That's like us and ship.
Speaker 6: They give you a body scrub, they do everything like
Speaker 6: that ship is a ship.
Speaker 7: So allegedly you go in there and get undressed, put
Speaker 7: a roll bone, take a shower, put a rope. Allegedly
Speaker 7: put a roll but take a shower, put a rollbone.
Speaker 7: Going there and then it's like a full room of
Speaker 7: just people having sex. Passwords to the rooms where like
Speaker 7: with windows where you can watch people having sex. And
Speaker 7: then there's rooms with like big huge beds and swings
Speaker 7: and stuff where a lot of people can have sex.
Speaker 5: It sounds exotic.
Speaker 7: Yeah, they offer uh yeah, you know, they offer safe
Speaker 7: sex in every place. Allegedly it's it's a club and
Speaker 7: you have to have a membership. So actually when you
Speaker 7: walk in, allegedly it's a club, I'm gonna keep saying.
Speaker 5: Allegedly because it's alleged.
Speaker 7: Alleged you walk in, I don't know, it's a club,
Speaker 7: and then you gotta go through the room and then
Speaker 7: allowed paperwork and all that stuff.
Speaker 6: Allegedly are you're talking about trapeze? It's on pun industrial.
Speaker 1: Oh is that the old dirty rats.
Speaker 5: Down the street?
Speaker 1: That's just.
Speaker 5: Let me find out you be there.
Speaker 1: The dirty rats thinking it was a strip club, like
Speaker 1: this is a little everybody that way you want to
Speaker 1: do it?
Speaker 5: Yeah, we don't talk about blind random thought, a.
Speaker 1: Random m random.
Speaker 3: That.
Speaker 5: I couldn't think of anything.
Speaker 1: It's it's on me. Yeah, damn random thought, random thought.
Speaker 5: Can I come back?
Speaker 1: Damn? What do blind people see? What do blind people see?
Speaker 5: It depends on when they went blind.
Speaker 1: I agree with that. It depends when they was born blind.
Speaker 6: If they were born blind, they don't see ship. It's
Speaker 6: just do they see like the color black?
Speaker 1: Like what do they know what the color black is? Though?
Speaker 1: Have we ever asked the blind brother? No, it's Steven
Speaker 1: want on.
Speaker 5: The phone, not Stevie.
Speaker 6: Stevie used to be able to see or was that
Speaker 6: Jamie Fox? I mean, yeah, Rachel I.
Speaker 5: Think was born blind. He was a little boy in
Speaker 5: the movie. He was a little boy. Yeah, you're right,
Speaker 5: my mind can't.
Speaker 6: And they put that that that that stuff, that thick,
Speaker 6: greased stuff that looked like vaciline on his eyes for.
Speaker 2: The movie, you know, like I'm an expert on blind people. Ship,
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm just learning.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 5: For the movie, it was it's called Save.
Speaker 6: It's called Save. Yeah, they put it on his eyes.
Speaker 6: That was a good random thought. Okay, so my random thought.
Speaker 6: So I want to think about my random thought.
Speaker 5: So scream you and go with you.
Speaker 1: I don't really be having good random but we're talking
Speaker 1: about animals and ship. That just random. They came across
Speaker 1: my head, Like you think like animals and.
Speaker 3: They hate on each other, for sure, I think they do.
Speaker 1: It's called crabs in the bucket.
Speaker 5: I think they hate.
Speaker 1: Yeah, get your You be seeing like the deer rolling
Speaker 1: and packs and they be saying like they be holding.
Speaker 5: The mamas that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just see.
Speaker 6: Just think about when you see dogs and they start
Speaker 6: barking at each other or bird.
Speaker 1: Yeah, smoke, yeah, the trailer and do we have a
Speaker 1: major smoke? Birds? Birds when it's not enough bread crumbs.
Speaker 6: Yeah, y'all ain't never seen that movie that just came
Speaker 6: out with the birds bird box. It was a cartoon
Speaker 6: movie and they share a sandwich. Tell my guy, babies,
Speaker 6: go see that.
Speaker 1: It was like a Pixar Join something. Yeah.
Speaker 5: That ship was funny.
Speaker 1: They were trying to get my brother.
Speaker 5: Yes, that was my great migrate. I don't know like that. Yeah, so.
Speaker 6: You going back now, go ahead on you. I'm waiting
Speaker 6: on you. Go ahead, my full.
Speaker 5: Mine. Do pigs have orgasms? That's how we got the organs,
Speaker 5: That's how we got to the sex talk.
Speaker 6: Damn, I think pigs with their tails.
Speaker 5: Though.
Speaker 1: What is happening mine is in the after life. Can
Speaker 1: you fuck somebody that you left on earth?
Speaker 5: Yes? You can you? Yes?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think that's what it's.
Speaker 6: Called incubus and succubists and spirit wives, spirit husband.
Speaker 1: I think that's how you catch a CD, not spiritually
Speaker 1: transmitted disease that hour. But if you if you ain't heaven,
Speaker 1: I don't think you got no disease.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying, put that on the shirt.
Speaker 1: If you pass right and it's a bit you ain't,
Speaker 1: you ain't you ain't get a chance to funk while
Speaker 1: you were here and you come to her dream on
Speaker 1: the fuck her? Is that right?
Speaker 6: No, because she's gonna be dreaming about it and doing
Speaker 6: it with you. Okay, Now if you just hump her
Speaker 6: and she just in there sleep and don't know.
Speaker 1: What about you? Do women? Do women? Do women have
Speaker 1: wet dreams like calming their dreams? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm very much so.
Speaker 1: If I came in your dream and I passed away
Speaker 1: and fucked in your dream. I think that's legitimate, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: so yeah, so niggas getting pussing out, but pussy, I know,
Speaker 1: to get some pussy. That's why I want to know.
Speaker 6: See, he's a he's a different he's a different type
Speaker 6: because usually those types of spirits are obsessive and overprotective.
Speaker 6: Not well, not even overprotective. Usually those types of spirits
Speaker 6: are and you can read up on this, I'm not capping.
Speaker 6: They're possessive and they have the power to affect like
Speaker 6: a lot.
Speaker 5: Of things, like.
Speaker 6: Engaging with those types of spirits on a regular basis,
Speaker 6: depending upon like what the situation is, like, just like
Speaker 6: I was just telling y'all earlier, Like it's been people
Speaker 6: that have had like supernatural experiences, sexual experiences with spirits
Speaker 6: and shit, and then they fucked around and like with
Speaker 6: their husband or their real boyfriend or whatever, got pregnant
Speaker 6: and the spirit came and you know, like fucked with
Speaker 6: their baby, like and they like lost a kid and
Speaker 6: had a miscarrit shit like that. Like shit like that
Speaker 6: is nothing to play with, Like, and I know people
Speaker 6: some people don't believe in that, and they say, oh,
Speaker 6: that's bullshit whatever whatever, But that shit is not a game.
Speaker 6: That shit is not a game at all at all.
Speaker 5: So I just had.
Speaker 1: How did my random thoughts just take a turn with
Speaker 1: what Jay was just saying?
Speaker 5: She was educating us on your random.
Speaker 1: I ain't get that. What I'm asking is.
Speaker 5: Getting vagina.
Speaker 1: Yeah, still busting nuts?
Speaker 5: Absolutely?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know he is.
Speaker 5: They was too freaky and is.
Speaker 1: His whole still again? Please?
Speaker 5: I am you know they are like are these rhetorical questions?
Speaker 1: How do you gotta feel? No, I can't let them
Speaker 1: whole like puss. They want to get chantas on too.
Speaker 1: Other than that, yeah, ye down amount of time we're
Speaker 1: doing this ship for the coach.
Speaker 5: That's over?
Speaker 1: Do you think what you think is weird? If if
Speaker 1: you if you had a wet dream like two three
Speaker 1: times a week, No, mm hmmm. I'm saying, even though
Speaker 1: you got a dude now like he fucking you and
Speaker 1: then you got a wet dream you dream about Dave,
Speaker 1: ain't got you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Oh, they've hit that ship. No, they've never hit this.
Speaker 5: He would know, but he didn't know.
Speaker 1: I know they look little, sir, But what I'm saying, whoever, they.
Speaker 5: Would have plastered that ship.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, whoever, Joe, like the nigga. Let me
Speaker 1: ask you something.
Speaker 5: What's some big Daddy?
Speaker 1: Could you be with a woman? Kodak scream? Could you
Speaker 1: be a woman?
Speaker 5: Could you be with a woman that was.
Speaker 2: Let him get you?
Speaker 1: Could you be with a woman that was devastated by
Speaker 1: her X or her baby ship that devastated.
Speaker 5: Over there death, over there death or they were still alive?
Speaker 1: Oh this nigg is still alive both Oh hell no, no, no.
Speaker 6: Devastated like that, there's no point of even been in
Speaker 6: a relationship.
Speaker 2: She's devastated because our relationship here is on this nigga.
Speaker 5: I disagree with that.
Speaker 6: I disagree with It depends like if he passed away, yes,
Speaker 6: but like if it's like he's alive and she's just devastated.
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 3: You asking me? You asking me? Could I be Will Smith? Basically? Yeah,
Speaker 3: I know I couldnot.
Speaker 6: If the nigga's dead, that's a totally different ball game.
Speaker 6: I feel like I feel like.
Speaker 1: Saying she's saying, she's saying Jada was devastated when Pop passed.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: But I feel like I feel like those women also
Speaker 6: deserve love And if you funk with her.
Speaker 5: Just listen.
Speaker 1: You digging the grave up and get your ass in
Speaker 1: there too. What that nigga gone? Oh that's gone. No, No,
Speaker 1: I ain't no, no, how the fun I'm being a
Speaker 1: relationship with with the motherfucker that love another motherfucker more
Speaker 1: than me.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but listen to what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm just for the time.
Speaker 5: Men, think how you how you'll and the nigga's dad
Speaker 5: at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: So you said I'm gonna funk you and you're gonna
Speaker 1: go in the bathroom and cry about this nigga?
Speaker 5: No you stream that's extreme.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day. Listen, Listen, listen, listen.
Speaker 1: May he rest in peace. But you mind, now forget that.
Speaker 1: How you still hurt by something else outside of me?
Speaker 1: That mean I don't have to for you before you
Speaker 1: exempt that from your life.
Speaker 5: That's not You can be sad.
Speaker 6: You can be sad by this somebody, when somebody is
Speaker 6: when somebody is a major part of your life, you
Speaker 6: don't just you don't just.
Speaker 5: Forget like thin about.
Speaker 1: I can't deal with a woman if I don't have
Speaker 1: all of it, y'all. Not y'all not. I'm just being real.
Speaker 3: Y'all not flipping it around that if y'all nigga was
Speaker 3: boohooing in the corner, falling out over another bit, y'all
Speaker 3: wouldn't feeling.
Speaker 5: He wouldn't be my nigga. That's what I say.
Speaker 6: If I if I but listen, listen, I'm I feel
Speaker 6: like it's to a certain extent though, because if you
Speaker 6: if you've lost somebody that's been a major part of
Speaker 6: your life and you're grieving, I can I can understand that, and.
Speaker 5: If I love you like that, I'm here to help
Speaker 5: you try to get past that.
Speaker 3: I'm thinking now, I think we're thinking particularly not just
Speaker 3: a dude, but if you was a dude you was
Speaker 3: with and all that type of ship that you.
Speaker 1: Didn't get over him, You ain't over him. You cried
Speaker 1: like you wish you and me instead of him, that
Speaker 1: type of ship like.
Speaker 3: That.
Speaker 6: Did I meet you before or after he passed? It
Speaker 6: doesn't matter, Yes it does, it does matter.
Speaker 5: It does matter.
Speaker 6: So if you with if you with your new guy
Speaker 6: right now, and then the ex of you, if I
Speaker 6: met you before he passed, if we were together.
Speaker 1: Your dude and your baby daddy passed and you just
Speaker 1: struggled wow, y'all together.
Speaker 6: Baby daddy and exes are two different things. Yeah, because
Speaker 6: because a lot of that sadness from the baby daddy death.
Speaker 1: Okay, your ex, your X that you love, that your first,
Speaker 1: your first love. But me and you were married now
Speaker 1: and you just scrumbled about this nigga distract whatever the fuck,
Speaker 1: and now I gotta deal with it. I gotta pet
Speaker 1: you up by another nigga. Yeah, I see what he's saying.
Speaker 6: I mean because I feel like I feel like you
Speaker 6: should have some level of compassion.
Speaker 1: Going because we're worried about our house.
Speaker 2: We worried about our house all the time, nigga, is
Speaker 2: time that we could be spending our house.
Speaker 5: No, I believe.
Speaker 6: I feel like I feel like everybody should be given
Speaker 6: the proper amount of time and space to grieve, especially
Speaker 6: if it was somebody.
Speaker 1: That, well, how you grieving something that's not no, that
Speaker 1: has a that that doesn't have any bearing on you.
Speaker 1: Just telling me before he passed nigga, it's us now
Speaker 1: he passed away. You mad and saying that don't mean
Speaker 1: the nigga to die If it's funny, hey man, but
Speaker 1: that's if it's fucky as fucky. If I say fuck
Speaker 1: this bitch, hey she got Hey man, God, call that home.
Speaker 1: I'm crying. I'm not I go cry in the cart.
Speaker 6: That's what I was gonna say. I was gonna say
Speaker 6: that like the proper way to grieve. Of course, the
Speaker 6: person would know that you're like sad or whatever the person,
Speaker 6: but I wouldn't be sitting here crying on my dude
Speaker 6: about another dude. I go to the homegirl and cry
Speaker 6: to her.
Speaker 5: But I'm not gonna let but you still have to
Speaker 5: get that ship out because if not you should you.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you what's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: You ain't mine. If you weren't mine, you ain't thinking
Speaker 1: about no nother nigga, nothing that goes on with him.
Speaker 1: That's how I feel. I could be wrong at the
Speaker 1: end of the day. If something happened to any of
Speaker 1: my ex I'm gonna give a fuck because I'm with Chante.
Speaker 1: I love her. Hey man, that it's fucked up with
Speaker 1: see some flowers. Let her let her initihape sense the
Speaker 1: flowers to the family. Man, make sure they folk good
Speaker 1: or whatever. Let her initiape. Other than that, Hey man,
Speaker 1: I don't know them folks because I'm not gonna put
Speaker 1: no strain on the living, but had some dead ship.
Speaker 5: Now I get what you're saying, and I totally understand that.
Speaker 1: It is very deep. It is at the end of
Speaker 1: the day. It's almost like at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: it builds an insecurity in your man. He's like, do
Speaker 1: you feel like that was your man? And I'm just
Speaker 1: a feeling. That's how nigga look at it.
Speaker 3: Look at it like looking like there's a similar situation
Speaker 3: if you're with somebody who got somebody who got a
Speaker 3: long prison bit.
Speaker 1: Maybe ain't supposed to come home. Now what happens when
Speaker 1: this person that you love so much send him home? Yeah,
Speaker 1: come home? What you're gonna do, Yeah, you're gonna kick me.
Speaker 1: See now you get it. What he's saying is, Okay,
Speaker 1: if I meet you, you got your nigga, he got
Speaker 1: a he got a dug. The nigga you loved, who
Speaker 1: got your heart, he got twenty years your life. He
Speaker 1: on his seven year I meet you. You've been staying down,
Speaker 1: but now you try to venture out. Now you're with me.
Speaker 1: Now you're telling me you loved me. But then trump'sent
Speaker 1: home because the COVID on his ninth year. Where did
Speaker 1: that leave me? Who do you love?
Speaker 5: Who do you love?
Speaker 1: That's the same thing as him. If your nigga passed
Speaker 1: and you did say it about him, if God gave
Speaker 1: you an ultimatum in your dream, hey, we can take
Speaker 1: this nigga and bring him back. What you choose, nigga,
Speaker 1: feel like she gon you this nigga. She's too sad
Speaker 1: about this nigga. Right, let the horns off.
Speaker 5: Okay, let me ask you what the with the twenty
Speaker 5: years ship?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 5: What was the understanding when I met you? What you
Speaker 5: mean you already told him in twenty years?
Speaker 1: Oh? Look what?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 1: What was? What was I understanding was? Hey, I've been
Speaker 1: in a relationship. I've been trying to find myself since
Speaker 1: my dude been gonna. I love him. But now you're
Speaker 1: saying you love me right, and we've built the family,
Speaker 1: built something. Now butt it on the way home, not knowing.
Speaker 1: I'm just fuck you to your boy, get out taking him. No,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, fuck that nigga. Baby's us. Oh, nowt
Speaker 1: to fu you, hey, baby sending it him. I got
Speaker 1: a hummer on and send that nigga some money. That's
Speaker 1: different because I'm supporting what you got go. I'm saying,
Speaker 1: we're starting to new us. Fuck him. M what Most
Speaker 1: women try to act like they're doing, but a player
Speaker 1: like me'll be like, nah, here I sending go see that.
Speaker 1: Take the man kid to see him. I'm making sure
Speaker 1: I know I don't get in the rim of thinking
Speaker 1: that you're my bitch because this is your nigga. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but when you start saying like it's funk all that
Speaker 1: or fuck that, it's us and then he passed away,
Speaker 1: now you just so bit. You can't eat, you can't sleep. Hey, man, bitch,
Speaker 1: you need to go on and die with him. I'm
Speaker 1: just being one hundred because you.
Speaker 5: Feel that way too.
Speaker 3: Streen.
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, you acting like you want to be with them,
Speaker 1: you want to go with them, because I'm supposed to
Speaker 1: be your happiness. You're supposed to be fulfeel like, damn,
Speaker 1: I hate that for the kid. Honey, Let's go to
Speaker 1: the let's go let's go to the funeral and make
Speaker 1: sure his people is good, and then we go do
Speaker 1: that with a good face. You're not destruct This is
Speaker 1: not fucking with your life. This is fuck with your life.
Speaker 1: Is gonna fuck with our life because I'm a part
Speaker 1: of you. And I gotta console you about another nigga. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it.
Speaker 5: I guess I see that point.
Speaker 1: That's the only way, Jade. I'm sorry, I understand what
Speaker 1: you're trying to say.
Speaker 6: No, no, we we we're on the same page with that.
Speaker 6: But what I'm saying is because I've seen this happen before.
Speaker 6: It's been I've seen situations where the same ship took place,
Speaker 6: the same shit occurred, but the nigga and the bitch.
Speaker 6: I've seen niggas have bitches die, and I've seen bitches
Speaker 6: have niggas die, and the person there are other person, significant,
Speaker 6: other person or whatever made it uncomfortable for them to
Speaker 6: feel like they could have any type of emotion about
Speaker 6: the ship. And then that that that uncomfortability about having
Speaker 6: any type of emotion about the ship turned into resentment
Speaker 6: later on down the line with that person because they
Speaker 6: felt like, Hey, if you love me, I should be
Speaker 6: able to come to you and discuss anything with you
Speaker 6: about how I'm feeling about any kind of situation.
Speaker 3: I think it's any type of emotion versus consistent overbearing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not talking about that.
Speaker 1: I'm not talking But at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, it's a limit to that ship. Okay,
Speaker 1: I spent for you. You you shared something with this person.
Speaker 1: Don't cry your emotion the way they can touch your emotion.
Speaker 1: That mean I ain't touching on the right way. That's
Speaker 1: how that's not true. That's how I look at it, though, Queen.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, if I me, if
Speaker 1: I come into your life and win a relationship, like,
Speaker 1: shouldn't they been that crowd about nobody in life, no friends,
Speaker 1: no nothing, Because.
Speaker 5: I got you that don't even I don't.
Speaker 1: But I'm talking. I'm gonna tell you. First understand, we.
Speaker 2: Said, we said that you've been not croyd of one
Speaker 2: of your exes, and when they die with you in
Speaker 2: a whole.
Speaker 1: New relationship, that's not fair. And I just but but
Speaker 1: this is what this is of the day. But you've
Speaker 1: been telling me fuck him when he was a lot.
Speaker 5: But when people die, that ship changes the whole ball game.
Speaker 5: Bang what they've been saying him.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And the nigga died, you crying,
Speaker 1: and you may hey, so really it's fuck me.
Speaker 5: No, it does not mean that.
Speaker 1: Hey, this may sound ignorant, and what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: the thing about it is, like I just told you
Speaker 1: in this conversation, when I'm around women, no matter what
Speaker 1: type of woman it is, it could be my mom,
Speaker 1: my sister, your mom, your sister, my friends, my family,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna protect them for women, right, But when I
Speaker 1: claim you, it's my woman. Like Chante, you've been not
Speaker 1: cry by nonother nigga. You've been not even up set.
Speaker 1: You better be like ship. That ship that's life.
Speaker 5: Somewhere else.
Speaker 1: Did you better to be the strongest bitch in life
Speaker 1: when they come down to another nigga. You read another
Speaker 1: nigga that they dated, Well, do you do know that
Speaker 1: my wife would destroyed by day? She still sucked up.
Speaker 1: That's different say a nigga that you dealt with. But
Speaker 1: you better find the strength find you better find this strip.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because this this nigga is
Speaker 1: gnaed in voice.
Speaker 3: So what I'm just I'm just curious. This is some bullshit,
Speaker 3: but I gotta do it. The night that Pop passed
Speaker 3: and Jada was there with Will, how do y'all think
Speaker 3: that went?
Speaker 5: She was crying, she was sad.
Speaker 1: What did Will do? I just want to understand it.
Speaker 5: He consoled her. You know exactly, Will did everything that
Speaker 5: he's been doing.
Speaker 3: Will, I'm sorry. I'm sorry about your loss the nigga
Speaker 3: that your love of you. I'm sorry about the love
Speaker 3: of your life. You're holding this person and crying on
Speaker 3: your shoulder. I am sorry about the love of your life.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 1: So the thing about it, though he always felt kind
Speaker 1: of secondarily secondary.
Speaker 5: About it, is that well knew what he signed up
Speaker 5: for before he thank you, And then I also want
Speaker 5: to say, like, when that day came, he already knew.
Speaker 5: Let me get out of the way.
Speaker 1: This a bitch.
Speaker 7: I personally think that if a man does that and
Speaker 7: takes it upon himself to console his girl that's crying
Speaker 7: of another man, then that is a very good man,
Speaker 7: a powerful man.
Speaker 1: That's a good man. In the moment after that, after that,
Speaker 1: after that, you're gonna think about it. Why, let me
Speaker 1: tell you us about us and tell you something about women. Girl, buddy, homie,
Speaker 1: let me tell you something about women. What they do
Speaker 1: is the things they won't They won't in the moment afterwards,
Speaker 1: after they see you actually do it, they hold you
Speaker 1: against it, hold that against you. Let me thank you, bro,
Speaker 1: Like Okay, the bit should be, Like, I can't believe
Speaker 1: this nigga was pet me up about another nigga. You're
Speaker 1: a dut that's how women do. They want you to
Speaker 1: do it, but when you do it, they see it
Speaker 1: for what it is after they healed, Like, you know,
Speaker 1: I can't believe this nigga really was crying with me
Speaker 1: about this nigga.
Speaker 5: I don't expect the nigga see me.
Speaker 1: Hold on, see me fella, Me bitch gonna respect it
Speaker 1: in the long run, Like, boy, this nigga really cares
Speaker 1: because this nigga, this nigga was mad at me by
Speaker 1: a dead nigga. This nigga love me. He crazy. But
Speaker 1: a nigga that phone for what burned out ship makes sense? Though.
Speaker 1: Let me say something. Let me say something. If I
Speaker 1: was trying to be an understand Like I say, Ben,
Speaker 1: if you had two kids by two different men, right,
Speaker 1: and but me and you together on our second kid
Speaker 1: and you got another baby that and I let you
Speaker 1: go in a room at Augur with another nigga. Hold,
Speaker 1: let me finish this. I let you go in the
Speaker 1: room and Ugu with another nigga, Like, because I'm understanding,
Speaker 1: that's your baby, dad, that's what most women won't like.
Speaker 1: This is my baby dad with co parenting. So a
Speaker 1: nigga be like I understanding out of that. You look
Speaker 1: at him as a whole instead of Hey, tell that
Speaker 1: fuck nigga call me by this baby.
Speaker 5: Because he's in because the baby's in my household.
Speaker 1: Now listen all with baby nowiga, you don't talking about
Speaker 1: bitch about now, you don't put how can I let
Speaker 1: you get in your feelings and put my bitch in
Speaker 1: a feelings and I gotta go through that. I gotta
Speaker 1: go through what you.
Speaker 5: Attitude with you.
Speaker 2: This nigga is affecting our household. You don't know, nigga
Speaker 2: need to affect effect what's going on? You care because
Speaker 2: it's my house.
Speaker 1: If this nigga can, if this nigga affect your feelings,
Speaker 1: then you care about him. No nigga want to feel
Speaker 1: like he's a bitch. Care about another nigga. I wouldn't give.
Speaker 2: And that's no man, that's like, that's like a woman
Speaker 2: making your nigga sad as here this nigga, this woman
Speaker 2: hurt his fucking feelings and he come home sad as
Speaker 2: a big.
Speaker 1: Why are you crying? Oh God, I'm Shirley, what's your name?
Speaker 1: Right there? Put it? Putting my guard because he looked
Speaker 1: at she want to say something, She want to say something?
Speaker 1: Is that native? What's you think?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 1: Oh? Lord?
Speaker 5: What you think? What you think?
Speaker 3: You? You?
Speaker 5: He hear you.
Speaker 4: I personally have multiple men and I don't know about
Speaker 4: each other. So I don't think it's a problem if
Speaker 4: he wants to console me.
Speaker 1: Oh that's different, now shouts out, and now that's different.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying. I'm saying if you're in a committed
Speaker 1: relationship with someone who has.
Speaker 7: An I got something to say. Go ahead, okay, Because
Speaker 7: if this man is consoling his girl for crying over
Speaker 7: another man, why would you automatically assume that he's a bitch?
Speaker 1: Number You wouldn't assume it in the moment because in
Speaker 1: the moment, that's what you want to be consoled. But
Speaker 1: when you look down the line, like damn bitch, okay,
Speaker 1: how women are?
Speaker 5: Okay? Boom? That's number one.
Speaker 6: Number two is is what is the reason why the
Speaker 6: man can't console his girl?
Speaker 1: Hold on, I gotta set boundaries, like y'all, you know
Speaker 1: that's the word they say in therapy boundaries. I gotta
Speaker 1: set boundaries. At the end of the day, if I'm
Speaker 1: your man, there's only one man. There's only one queen
Speaker 1: on the board, I mean one king on the board
Speaker 1: of chest. So at the end of the day, hey,
Speaker 1: I gotta look at the effect he could have had
Speaker 1: on your life if you was still living. Niggas don't
Speaker 1: think on one track? How women do men think? All
Speaker 1: around the board? So what was going on? Why you crying?
Speaker 5: Are you think? Bitches don't think like that?
Speaker 1: They do what I'm saying? What why are you crying?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 1: So if my bitch, if a bitch of X bitches
Speaker 1: I dealt with die chante, don want me to be
Speaker 1: the man of steel. She gonna want me to be
Speaker 1: the don't pay for no, no nothing. Maybe I know
Speaker 1: you said you can cry, man, I ain't stunning that
Speaker 1: it be hard, okay, So.
Speaker 5: What if it wasn't a What if it wasn't to
Speaker 5: do that you had relationship with?
Speaker 1: It's different. I just I just explained it. That's different.
Speaker 1: That's your friends are friends.
Speaker 5: Okay, But then X can be a friend.
Speaker 7: When you're an ex, right, sometimes you chang okay, but
Speaker 7: get me out ahead. When people break up all the time,
Speaker 7: they do not break up because the relationship was bad.
Speaker 7: Sometimes they just be like, this didn't work. It's better
Speaker 7: off if we just remain friends, friends like this, ain't this?
Speaker 5: Ain't it like?
Speaker 7: And then they keep they keep in touch with each
Speaker 7: other and there's nothing else, is no wish together again.
Speaker 1: It's like that.
Speaker 3: Let's let's bring let's let's bring some closer to this
Speaker 3: by asking this right, So to the women here, y'all
Speaker 3: are comfortable or y'all can accept being number two?
Speaker 8: What is that?
Speaker 1: It's just all number two conversations.
Speaker 5: Number two that does not make sense.
Speaker 6: But women women, women do don't mind being number two.
Speaker 6: You know how many women like I.
Speaker 1: Got you on that. Let me say, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry you guys, I'm so sorry. But if
Speaker 1: you got a nigga that could soole you behind any
Speaker 1: nigga downfall, he could be in jail, he could be
Speaker 1: now now. Now. If you're dude, if I just met
Speaker 1: you and you got to do it, that's locked up
Speaker 1: here him. Encourage you to keep him because I'm a
Speaker 1: nigga like that. Keep him up. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If I meet you and your dude locked up and
Speaker 1: start fucking you. Hey, you make sure that nigga good.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I ain't gonna get in
Speaker 1: the way of that that turns you might be all
Speaker 1: that nigga. Guys, that turned into some sucker ship. But
Speaker 1: if I'm in a relationship with you and your ex
Speaker 1: go to jail, bit, you better not seeing him ship
Speaker 1: because we already in a relationship.
Speaker 5: I agree with that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But if I meet you, I meet you grieving. You're
Speaker 1: a grieving widow. I got it. I kind of got
Speaker 1: a consult. I'm saying. If I'm already a relationship, we
Speaker 1: already built in relationship ten twenty years, five years, whatever,
Speaker 1: and a nigga died and you crying, you finna get
Speaker 1: beat there here, that's different.
Speaker 5: I'm crying. That's different. I think that lady. Just go
Speaker 5: to your friends. Just go cry to your friends.
Speaker 7: Okay, let me as this then. Okay, so you brought
Speaker 7: up the baby daddy and y'all getting into it. Nah,
Speaker 7: this is mine whatever?
Speaker 5: Whatever?
Speaker 7: Okay, Now you want the woman, your girl to hold
Speaker 7: you down when you going through crazy asshit with your
Speaker 7: baby mama, because it's a whole bunch of crazy ast baby.
Speaker 5: I'm saying, like.
Speaker 6: Men in general with baby mamas, they have crazy ass
Speaker 6: baby mamas who be yelling, screaming, and stressing men out.
Speaker 1: But most of the time when niggas go through shit
Speaker 1: with their baby mama, like man, that'd be crazy, but
Speaker 1: they don't make it go against their relationship.
Speaker 5: Okay, but men argue, women cry, men get mad, men yell.
Speaker 5: They all man.
Speaker 6: But I'm gonna say I'm upset, and we will yell
Speaker 6: and scream or cry, So you gotta compare that.
Speaker 1: So we'll cry when they give a fuck. Though I
Speaker 1: know a bunch of women don't never cry, like fuck him,
Speaker 1: fuck this bitch ass nigga. Man, most women be like,
Speaker 1: fuck that bitch ass nigga. Ain't never cry. Women who
Speaker 1: cry they either want to be with that nigga. They
Speaker 1: hate that they didn't work out they did. I love him,
Speaker 1: I want him.
Speaker 5: We talk about them, the.
Speaker 6: Ones whom motions only came when you care.
Speaker 5: Okay, So when you when you get mad because you care, No, you.
Speaker 1: Only if you get mad enough to cry, you care
Speaker 1: about that person. I'm not. I don't seen women get
Speaker 1: mad enough. I'm mad all right, I'm finna act out anger.
Speaker 1: I'm ana bust you one the fuck you shoot at
Speaker 1: you whatever. That don't mean I care. Women that crying
Speaker 1: and get in the emotions and the feminine energy is
Speaker 1: because she care about that person and she hate that
Speaker 1: it went the way it went too many?
Speaker 5: So what does men have to do to show that
Speaker 5: he cared?
Speaker 7: What you mean like if he if okay, woman cries,
Speaker 7: you say a woman cries, that means she cares entertained.
Speaker 1: If the nigga entertaining, he cared. Agree, if a nigga
Speaker 1: entertained in any type of way, he care. If I
Speaker 1: have a baby mama, she called me about anything? Hey, man,
Speaker 1: gonna figure that out. Don't call me about that. I'm
Speaker 1: not entertaining it. I'm not even talking to you about
Speaker 1: nothing that gotten them to do it. Me and you.
Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm gonna let you know. That's a real nigga. Like, hey,
Speaker 1: when I when I start interacting with you one on one,
Speaker 1: I care.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just think that that's real tough though.
Speaker 7: Well, I think it's easy on your on your side
Speaker 7: because you have a wife, But what about people who
Speaker 7: aren't married.
Speaker 5: Boyfriend and girlfriend, baby.
Speaker 1: Mama, boy friend and girlfriend. Still, Hey, I'm gonna draw
Speaker 1: the line in and saying, hey men, you don't need
Speaker 1: to talk. Whatever it is to need to be done,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna be a father whatever
Speaker 1: I need to do, but talk to call Shoy, call
Speaker 1: ja ja. Gonna make sure my kid good. Bitch me
Speaker 1: and you don't have to have conversation that.
Speaker 5: Ain't happening, that ain't happening.
Speaker 1: To a bitch that won't you a bit you in
Speaker 1: ho ho ho ho. I'm glad you said that. A
Speaker 1: bitch who won't something best for the child. It don't
Speaker 1: matter how it get done. Bitch, you want me, You
Speaker 1: want to hear my voice, You want to him out bing,
Speaker 1: that's what you want to talk to me. You ubsessed
Speaker 1: with me? Hope. No, No, I know it's no matter
Speaker 1: who talking.
Speaker 6: No, I'm gonna say I'm with you at a certain
Speaker 6: point because i know, okay, I only could go off
Speaker 6: of what I've experienced. I know if my daughter dad
Speaker 6: start dating somebody and he like, go talk to her
Speaker 6: or whatever. You know what I'm saying, because we've been beefing,
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna care. I'm gonna look at her like
Speaker 6: she's my sister wife.
Speaker 5: Anyway. So I'm not gonna care who I have to
Speaker 5: talk to.
Speaker 6: But I'm just speaking for the average girl, like she
Speaker 6: gonna look at it like I didn't talk to my
Speaker 6: child's father.
Speaker 5: I don't even talk to the person.
Speaker 1: I just had a conversation with my homegirl. Her daughter's
Speaker 1: thirteen years old, have a full relationship with her dad.
Speaker 1: Why the fuck you need to talk to this man.
Speaker 5: No, you really don't.
Speaker 1: You want to talk to this man because you like him.
Speaker 1: At thirteen, the end of the day, there's nothing for
Speaker 1: me and you to talk about it.
Speaker 7: So I would say, age, okay, so we're now we're
Speaker 7: getting to an age thing because now thirteen, when you're
Speaker 7: able to talk and have a phone to do all
Speaker 7: that on your own, then yes, But for toddlers, and.
Speaker 5: I know, I know, Nah, I can't.
Speaker 6: I can't even say that because I know, I know, Like, Okay,
Speaker 6: I I got I got friends, and I got niggas
Speaker 6: that have kids that are fucking four or five, six, seven,
Speaker 6: eight years old, but they have phones. So I'm like
Speaker 6: the middle person to their situation because like I gotta
Speaker 6: agree with with black, with what black it's saying, because
Speaker 6: at the end of the day, like, if y'all aren't together,
Speaker 6: if y'all don't have no dealings, if y'all quote unquote
Speaker 6: can't stand each other or whatever, then what is there
Speaker 6: to talk about.
Speaker 1: Let's contact this company. It's not it's realistic on your
Speaker 1: part because you want to still run my life because
Speaker 1: you got a baby by me. You want to be
Speaker 1: in my life because you got a baby by me
Speaker 1: for some why, I don't know.
Speaker 5: Why, but that happens. So it's like, it's never gonna
Speaker 5: happen at.
Speaker 1: The end of the day. How you're gonna be my bitch?
Speaker 1: Feeling like this is a nigga that's in a relationship
Speaker 1: with you, feeling seeing that type of energy that you
Speaker 1: feel like, but you just want to talk to this nigga.
Speaker 1: That's how a nigga feel like. But you just want
Speaker 1: to talk to nig all you gotta do is call him,
Speaker 1: call ja. If it's funny, baby bit you can we
Speaker 1: can figure out how to make sure this baby okay.
Speaker 1: If you want to talk to me, Oh, you want
Speaker 1: to disagree because I don't like you for one, No,
Speaker 1: I agree with that.
Speaker 2: That's that's like, that's like the baby dad is that
Speaker 2: want to do all the extra ship when they ain't
Speaker 2: been fucking with this kid the whole time, but they
Speaker 2: want to see the baby.
Speaker 1: Mama, Oh, I want to see my son. You want
Speaker 1: to see that.
Speaker 5: You want to see her? Nigga that say that you
Speaker 5: don't give talk about that kid? Yeah, I think it
Speaker 5: all depends. I think it depends on the age of
Speaker 5: the child.
Speaker 6: Because chance seven so a lot of stuff that if
Speaker 6: I tell her call her daddy and they had that conversation,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, So we don't really have
Speaker 6: to have that much conversation. I think that if the
Speaker 6: dad is one of those people that's just dating different
Speaker 6: women like all the time, and every other week it's
Speaker 6: a different girls, Like why do I have to talk
Speaker 6: to this one girl?
Speaker 5: But if it's in a long time.
Speaker 1: You raise the girls, erase the girls out. He raised
Speaker 1: the girls out. What if he say, hey, shay me
Speaker 1: and you, Hey, well we had what we had on
Speaker 1: to talk to you about. Ship, bitch, I really don't
Speaker 1: like you let my mama about my baby. Most women
Speaker 1: feel like, Nigga, we we laid down had this at
Speaker 1: that point. That's true. Something Most women like, we had
Speaker 1: this baby so bit you really want to ruin my
Speaker 1: what's the name of the word of to day? You
Speaker 1: really want to be sedested, You want to cause me bitch,
Speaker 1: you want to call me playing, you want to talk
Speaker 1: to me, and you know I don't like you yet.
Speaker 6: No, I think that it's just a compromise, like talking
Speaker 6: to the mom. Is nothing wrong with talking to the mom,
Speaker 6: because it's just don't nobody want to.
Speaker 1: Ever talk to whoever talked to my brother? You don't
Speaker 1: need to talk. We just need a middle mass that
Speaker 1: agree with.
Speaker 5: Oil spell thirteen. What that's that's them gummies.
Speaker 1: Vote provoke times.
Speaker 7: I think that I think that what you're saying, I agree.
Speaker 7: I wish that my man could be like, oh, talk
Speaker 7: to my girl, to the baby mama. What I'm saying
Speaker 7: is I just really think that this is that's like unrealistic.
Speaker 10: Because the feelings is not people feelings, but women be
Speaker 10: in their feelings like women be they feelings.
Speaker 6: And on top of that, you're thinking, like, why the
Speaker 6: im going to talk to this bitch that bitch I
Speaker 6: don't know that bitch, okay, but around my kids. So
Speaker 6: now I'm not You're not gonna go see my son.
Speaker 1: But let's flip that. But you my bitch saying this,
Speaker 1: how for the feel?
Speaker 5: And then you're not saying you might been saying that.
Speaker 1: You don't want to talk to his baby mama, I
Speaker 1: mean his wife about your child? How I supposed to feel?
Speaker 1: If you want this nigga gone.
Speaker 5: And you got this and you got the baby, you
Speaker 5: don't understand what you're doing.
Speaker 1: What you're doing is you're putting a strain of your
Speaker 1: relationship because how you feel about this nigga.
Speaker 5: Is it about the nigga?
Speaker 1: What is it about it? Is it about the baby?
Speaker 1: You're gonna compromise.
Speaker 5: If it's about the baby, you're gonna make sure that.
Speaker 5: I think that it's a pride things sometimes hold up.
Speaker 1: But pride come from you caring about that nigga.
Speaker 5: Nah nah.
Speaker 1: Along with Karen hold up this therapist right here, Jojo.
Speaker 6: I think that it's just it's just it's just about
Speaker 6: becoming an adult and then meeting the other person, like
Speaker 6: meeting a woman. Like if you meet the girl and
Speaker 6: y'all talking, y'all have this relationship, you really don't need
Speaker 6: the nigga at that point.
Speaker 5: You could just have a relationship with her.
Speaker 6: But if you don't meet no real mom is gonna
Speaker 6: want somebody that they ain't never met around their child.
Speaker 5: Facts.
Speaker 1: But the thing about it is you. But if a
Speaker 1: nigga you feel like your judge, the character is so good.
Speaker 1: If you meet a nigga, you feel like this is
Speaker 1: a nigga, you don't give a fuck how he feel
Speaker 1: about the nigga you bring around your child.
Speaker 5: Oh shit, right?
Speaker 1: Being one.
Speaker 5: That that is because I mean, it's an evil double standard.
Speaker 6: I though I do right, because it's like if I
Speaker 6: meet somebody and I say that they could be around Chance,
Speaker 6: it's cool. I'm not calling Chance there to be like
Speaker 6: is it cool if Chance met so and so? But
Speaker 6: if he have her around somebody, You're gonna flip the out.
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna flip.
Speaker 5: I'm you know.
Speaker 1: What to school? To school?
Speaker 5: I'm a flip. I'm a flip. I'm not gonna flip,
Speaker 5: but flip the question.
Speaker 7: It just depends like like, if it's a random female
Speaker 7: around my kids, then yes, I am a flipping.
Speaker 1: What's random though?
Speaker 6: Because why don't we trust the father's judgment on who
Speaker 6: that who should be? So some females a random bitch?
Speaker 6: Is any bitch that any bitch? Any bitch?
Speaker 7: So I say like somebody, I say, like someone that
Speaker 7: you like fucking on and y'all don't have nothing going on,
Speaker 7: like you keep like you bring a bitch around that
Speaker 7: you fucking don't bring.
Speaker 5: Don't bring a different one, different girl around my child
Speaker 5: every time. I think that's weird.
Speaker 6: But if it's somebody that you're in a relationship, if
Speaker 6: you're in a relationship, that's different.
Speaker 1: I would have to you got you got a little
Speaker 1: boy shoulder, I don't care.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's different, but a little girl.
Speaker 6: I think that when it come to girls, just you know,
Speaker 6: if it's a girl that you like, for real serious
Speaker 6: with and this is your girlfriend, then but.
Speaker 1: Thar you Hey, hey, hey, shy, I want you to
Speaker 1: talk to my girl. He's gonna already know this is girl,
Speaker 1: you know, random bitch. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. But at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, most women still feel as
Speaker 1: if though they want to be statistic about the situation,
Speaker 1: UH inflict pain on you because I want to be
Speaker 1: a pest in your life. And at the same time,
Speaker 1: you're not norm what you're doing. You think you're being
Speaker 1: a piss in this nigga life.
Speaker 5: You're really make your dude your nigga away.
Speaker 6: You know that's a that's a big f I mean,
Speaker 6: I would I would love for it to be that way.
Speaker 6: I would love for it to be that way. I
Speaker 6: don't want my man talking to no female anyway.
Speaker 1: And the thing about me and the thing about it
Speaker 1: is the thing about it is what you're not understanding
Speaker 1: is every nigga can eventually be in the position that
Speaker 1: your baby dadds in. So if I'm in a relationship
Speaker 1: with you, right, I can be an x too in
Speaker 1: my mind. So when you show me how you're having this, nigga, hey,
Speaker 1: that's how you have you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: what you're doing is you you still on trial. You're
Speaker 1: still showing me your characteristic of your traits. So really,
Speaker 1: then who ain't ship Because just because I love you,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna console you, but I still can disagree
Speaker 1: with you and love you at the same time. It's
Speaker 1: really that's wrong. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, That
Speaker 1: man ain't dead and then a man trying to take
Speaker 1: your kid and you making the hold out for this
Speaker 1: nigga because you you love you in love with this nigga.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it happens all the time. Damn that sucks.
Speaker 5: So bitches is sadistic.
Speaker 1: When it comes down, they still won't you know what I'm.
Speaker 6: Saying, And if you keep being sadistic, you're gonna end
Speaker 6: up a statistic Okay, okay, before.
Speaker 1: We go left, I ain't I don't got all answers,
Speaker 1: like sway, I don't got all answers, but I do
Speaker 1: got this answer. I know how I feel if I
Speaker 1: was in a relationship with you, in love with you, Jones.
Speaker 1: I love this bitch man. It's my bitch. I gonna
Speaker 1: make sure a kid good whatever she know, I got her.
Speaker 1: And then you get mad one month because this niggadn't
Speaker 1: send this little two twenty he's supposed to send their money.
Speaker 5: Wait, hold on right now, because that shit pisses me off.
Speaker 1: Okay, but the babies. But but the thing about it
Speaker 1: is the baby is taking care of. Bitch. You just
Speaker 1: want to make you just want to You want a
Speaker 1: conversation with this nigga. We don't even need the two twenty.
Speaker 1: We can get it whenever. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: All Right, this ship is on record. We're gonna get
Speaker 1: the money. But bitch, you want to be on this
Speaker 1: nigga line?
Speaker 5: How about this, What about that?
Speaker 1: In my mind?
Speaker 5: Okay, well how about this? What if she okay, say
Speaker 5: she don't need the money?
Speaker 7: Right, But it's a simple fact that like, because sometimes
Speaker 7: I can't pissed off when I think about like a
Speaker 7: nigga not taking care of his kids, are taking care
Speaker 7: of his responsibilities. So sometimes if I'm like going off,
Speaker 7: it's because I'm like, I'm just frustrated with you.
Speaker 5: Like, nigga, God, did you look over the blessing?
Speaker 1: You're looking over your blessing God and them put another
Speaker 1: nigga that space. Fuck him right? You look, now you're
Speaker 1: gonna make me feel away God sent me and you're
Speaker 1: not acknowledging your blessing. Yea, So now gonna be fucked
Speaker 1: you and the baby and him and y'all deal with that. Now.
Speaker 1: It's like me and the nigga wrong. But bitch, I
Speaker 1: was trying to stand in position. But you want something
Speaker 1: from this nigga.
Speaker 5: That I'm breaking that he's not gonna give. I think
Speaker 5: I messed up in a relationship like that before.
Speaker 2: A lot of women because because.
Speaker 1: Up, let's go, Joe, Joe, let's go. Baby.
Speaker 7: You know it's got, I got, I got, I got
Speaker 7: some more so what if, like, well, what if no
Speaker 7: for real?
Speaker 5: Because say, she don't eat it. She got it. She
Speaker 5: got a man that's doing all of that right, but
Speaker 5: it's not it's not his child, so she doesn't.
Speaker 6: She feels kind of like, yeah, so it's like it
Speaker 6: ain't even appreciate you for doing that.
Speaker 5: But you shouldn't.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have to understand that. I understand it. But
Speaker 1: at the end of the I don't know where y'all powerize.
Speaker 1: That's y'all don't know where y'all powers lie. At the
Speaker 1: end of the the only reason why you're frustrated is
Speaker 1: because it's something you want. You want to be thought
Speaker 1: of of this man. Hold let me finish, please, end
Speaker 1: of the day. The thing is, you want the best
Speaker 1: for your child, right if your child is getting the best,
Speaker 1: just because she's not getting from him, you want to
Speaker 1: be thought of by this man. You're trying to push
Speaker 1: him to be a father that he's not. He's a bitch.
Speaker 1: Fuck him. I want the best for my child. That's
Speaker 1: what I pray for. That's what she's getting. So why
Speaker 1: the fuck am my man of a pussy? I think
Speaker 1: because I like him a little bit more I think
Speaker 1: I'm telling you the way.
Speaker 7: The other way is because I'm in a situation like
Speaker 7: that and I don't want my fucking babyaddy, But I
Speaker 7: get angry when he's supposed to do something and he
Speaker 7: don't do it. And I know that I'm raising a
Speaker 7: kid by myself, and it's like we had this baby,
Speaker 7: send the motherfucking funds.
Speaker 1: But you don't know. But at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: we look at life like like if there's everybody's life
Speaker 1: and life is lifing on everybody. We don't know. This
Speaker 1: man ain't gonna tell you shit fucked up this month.
Speaker 1: We don't know. At the end of the day, you
Speaker 1: know how much power it is in understanding. You be like, hey,
Speaker 1: I know shit been rough out here to send it
Speaker 1: when you can. A person that's not in their feelings
Speaker 1: gonna be more understanding. Person that's in their feelings don't
Speaker 1: have no understanding. Person that's in their feeling don't have
Speaker 1: no understanding. That's why they're upset in their feelings. Like, hey,
Speaker 1: I know this nigga love his daughter. At the end
Speaker 1: of the days, something has to be different in its
Speaker 1: life this month that he ain't sitting the money.
Speaker 5: I just think it's communication. I was gonna say that you.
Speaker 1: Communicate with a bitch on don't life?
Speaker 5: Who are gonna talk to?
Speaker 1: How we need to put in the Somebody need to
Speaker 1: be in the middle of Jade mont due Banks. Somebody
Speaker 1: need this.
Speaker 3: Have?
Speaker 5: I mean, how would she have? What did you say?
Speaker 5: Understanding if there's no communication.
Speaker 1: Understanding is he's never been late. He's always did as
Speaker 1: he just didn't do. Hold on. The understanding is the
Speaker 1: type of nigga he is?
Speaker 6: Yeah, but if he's always been late, then you shouldn't
Speaker 6: have been mad from the beginning because because this nigga
Speaker 6: ain't never.
Speaker 1: Understanding is what type of you got? One thing about it?
Speaker 1: Everybody showed you who they are, indirectly or directly, no
Speaker 1: matter what, am I right or wrong? Everyone? So if
Speaker 1: you judge the person off of their perspective and their character,
Speaker 1: how you mad? I know what you're capable of.
Speaker 5: I think it's about being frushrat.
Speaker 1: I know what you came. If I know you love
Speaker 1: your daughter, why am I frustrated? Because I know you
Speaker 1: must ain't got it. He loved daughter.
Speaker 5: Let me lay it out. Let me let me lay
Speaker 5: it out. So so this is a lot. But I have.
Speaker 5: My daughter is a secret. She's a secret baby. Okay,
Speaker 5: So that.
Speaker 7: Side, the only communication that's going on is with me
Speaker 7: and him because them the only people who know what's
Speaker 7: going on.
Speaker 1: But I'm glad you said that, Jojo. And I don't
Speaker 1: want to be a bullshit nigga. But at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, if you laid down and had a
Speaker 1: secret baby, no.
Speaker 5: No, no, and it started off, it didn't start off.
Speaker 1: Being a secret didn't start. So let me let me
Speaker 1: run it down. Hello, Jay, run it down, Running down, Jojo,
Speaker 1: We're gonna get this. We goulda get into the nitty gritty.
Speaker 1: I'm glad you said. I'm I'm gonna sit back. Everybody
Speaker 1: said that this is therapistition. One on one. Let's go, Jojo.
Speaker 5: So I had I was having relations with this man.
Speaker 1: Okay, he was married in a relationship, he.
Speaker 5: Was off limits okay.
Speaker 6: And I got pregnant okay, okay, Yeah, once that happened,
Speaker 6: we had an agreement.
Speaker 1: What's the agreement.
Speaker 7: The agreement was is do what you're gonna do, take
Speaker 7: care of what you need to take of. Actually, the
Speaker 7: agreement is just to take care of child care.
Speaker 5: That was the agreement. And did he slip on that anywhere,
Speaker 5: it's slip all the damn time.
Speaker 1: Okay, but you know we go ups and down. Go ahead,
Speaker 1: we have ups and downs.
Speaker 5: Line, Okay, So therefore there.
Speaker 1: Are most of times he fucked up.
Speaker 7: Like so so my daughter's seven, I will say if
Speaker 7: he was consistent and not saying he was consistent a
Speaker 7: month after month after month. But if I was to
Speaker 7: put all consistency together, how long it will be? I
Speaker 7: would say two years maybe out of seven out of seven,
Speaker 7: but go ahead. So sometimes so even if I am
Speaker 7: in a relationship or I do have a man that
Speaker 7: that steps up and does what he needs to do
Speaker 7: for my daughter, me personally, who I am, I don't
Speaker 7: feel like it's their obligation to do that. And I'm
Speaker 7: not going to ask either, And especially if you're paying
Speaker 7: for everything else, and I already know that the one
Speaker 7: thing that you're paying for is this child care.
Speaker 5: I'm expecting for you to pay that one damn thing.
Speaker 1: Okay, let me ask you something.
Speaker 5: So now I'm frustrated.
Speaker 1: So you're frustrated because like you're frustrated because this dude,
Speaker 1: hold up from beginning when y'all first going to give
Speaker 1: you to have a baby. Was he excited? Did he
Speaker 1: want to have the baby? Yes?
Speaker 4: Or no?
Speaker 1: Let's be honest. He was in the middle, Okay, so
Speaker 1: basically forced me to be a baby dad. I'm just
Speaker 1: being wander you. Let's be know. Hold on, if I'm
Speaker 1: in the middle, that may I don't want it. In
Speaker 1: the middle, is I don't want it? He never? He
Speaker 1: never feelings if I'm in the middle, I don't want it.
Speaker 5: He never.
Speaker 1: I'm happy, I'm not. Ain't no in the middle of this.
Speaker 5: He never told me. He never told me to get
Speaker 5: an abortion.
Speaker 1: Nobody want to say that because that that's that's like
Speaker 1: the ultimate. If I'm in the middle, I don't want it. Right,
Speaker 1: If I'm in the.
Speaker 5: Middle, okay, okay, got you? Now want to the next
Speaker 5: one because.
Speaker 1: I got you? Okay. So when I when I do
Speaker 1: try to at least put initiative and understand that this
Speaker 1: is mine, this is mine. That for one, that's a
Speaker 1: stand up guy, because most niggas who don't who be
Speaker 1: in the middle, don't deal with the bitch or the baby.
Speaker 1: Am I right or wrong? Most niggas? So if I'm
Speaker 1: still trying to make any type of agreement that I
Speaker 1: pay child's pay, or whatever. And I'm not advocating for
Speaker 1: debt beats. If I have a child's mind, I don't.
Speaker 5: Give a fuck who nobody real just real shit people.
Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to tell you is, at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, you say, God have sent you
Speaker 1: dudes like the dudes you're with now that take care
Speaker 1: of you, your help, take care of you, your family
Speaker 1: because you a hustler, hands off to use a hustler
Speaker 1: help you with your daughter, right, am I? Right? Okay?
Speaker 1: So where's the pressure coming from a nigga who's in
Speaker 1: the middle fuck him?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 1: That's so when when you when you make it feel
Speaker 1: like that, you're in your feel about him. You're in
Speaker 1: your feelings about him. It ain't got no do to
Speaker 1: the baby, because the well being is a child. She good.
Speaker 1: I see this baby, she's perfect. When I see her,
Speaker 1: she's perfect everything. She's never out of place, her hair's done,
Speaker 1: she's sharp, she's good, she's smart, she's not missing nothing.
Speaker 1: She's great. So basically is you want to put pressure
Speaker 1: on this nigga because what he should do right?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, if I was
Speaker 1: in a relationship with you, how would you think I
Speaker 1: feel about that, and I'm telling you how I would feel.
Speaker 1: I see this baby's good. Bitch, you must won't. You
Speaker 1: must want conversation with this nigga because I know the
Speaker 1: baby good. If it's about the baby, she good. Whenever
Speaker 1: he come back around, cool, that's extra Other than that
Speaker 1: she's good. Anything you're doing extra net Hey, you want
Speaker 1: attention from this nigga.
Speaker 5: But that's what the man thinks though.
Speaker 1: That's what it is. Because make me understand you can't
Speaker 1: maybe be something that I'm not.
Speaker 7: Because you're because you're laying out my situation. You're telling
Speaker 7: me like I care about the nigga. I'm telling you
Speaker 7: I don't give a fuck about that.
Speaker 1: But you may not know you do. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I know at the end of the day, is it
Speaker 1: about the baby or the nigga?
Speaker 5: It's about the money that I need to pay. But
Speaker 5: I don't tell him.
Speaker 1: I don't know what she's saying as you make it work.
Speaker 1: But you want this nigga to take his part, so.
Speaker 5: At least because you agree to it.
Speaker 1: Okay, but I agree to it and I flow to
Speaker 1: it of it. But God sends you another plan. But
Speaker 1: God sent you another plan. What's the issue, and we're
Speaker 1: gonna recognize our blessings or we're gonna stress about some
Speaker 1: ship that don't matter.
Speaker 6: So you think another thing is you don't want the
Speaker 6: other person to feel obligated.
Speaker 1: You feel this is what come with me, Jo.
Speaker 5: I think that's how I need to look at it.
Speaker 5: I totally agree with that, But it's still like, as you.
Speaker 6: Know, a woman, right, an independent woman, independent woman. I
Speaker 6: never want somebody to feel like I ain't feeling like now,
Speaker 6: this is what comes with me.
Speaker 1: If I meet you and you got a little girl,
Speaker 1: you got a chance, and I meet you, hey man
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, really fuck him. This
Speaker 1: is my baby and you my bitch. Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: even I'm just saying most men feel like, fuck him
Speaker 1: if I take on you, taking on y'all, DNA look
Speaker 1: at it too. Whatever he do is extra battling. Nigga
Speaker 1: fin that if it, make sure you be back at
Speaker 1: nine O'clockigga, it's my baby. Now, I'm taking your bitch
Speaker 1: on your baby.
Speaker 5: I think that goes into like.
Speaker 1: Just what it is, bro.
Speaker 3: I think I've never no, that's what I never thought
Speaker 3: of it like that that extreme and just not want
Speaker 3: to deal with it, even though I ain't always pro this,
Speaker 3: but that's what all the courtship is for you.
Speaker 1: But you know you're taking away from the man that's
Speaker 1: trying to love you though by dealing with this man.
Speaker 5: You know, I don't I don't argue.
Speaker 7: I don't argue with him in front of in front
Speaker 7: of him or anything like that, but it and I
Speaker 7: don't argue, but sometimes I do feel sometimes, but not
Speaker 7: not recently. Recently, I've gotten to a point where I'm like, fuck.
Speaker 1: This nigga, Like, you know how bad it feel to
Speaker 1: a man and know another man can frustrate his bitch.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to get you out to see. Man, understand,
Speaker 1: if I can see my woman being frustrated by another nigga,
Speaker 1: that means you care.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well you didn't care, But I don't think it's
Speaker 5: you're about.
Speaker 1: If I can frustrate you, you care. Yeah, let me
Speaker 1: tell you something. There's no man in the road can
Speaker 1: frustrate Chante in no type of way. She gonna be
Speaker 1: like that nigga stupid? What the fuck is he talking about?
Speaker 1: Bust a head? Baby? You not feinlinga frustrate my bitch?
Speaker 1: To what I see she's down behind another man. You
Speaker 1: know how you know what to take from a man? Yes,
Speaker 1: and you don't.
Speaker 7: That's what I'm saying, Like, we don't realize it, and
Speaker 7: we don't realize that that in that time, but you
Speaker 7: don't know something.
Speaker 5: I do feel like I do feel like that that.
Speaker 7: Has something to do with being in your soft girl era,
Speaker 7: because stop trying to be so hard, stop trying to
Speaker 7: hold stop being independent, stop trying to hold everything down,
Speaker 7: figure everything out.
Speaker 5: If you got a man, let him do that. No,
Speaker 5: I'm one hundred percent with you right there.
Speaker 7: Yeah, So I'm thinking that that's the part find it,
Speaker 7: trying to be in that feminine Ara era to have
Speaker 7: that man do that so I don't have to get frustrated.
Speaker 7: But being a woman, a strong woman, a single mom
Speaker 7: that's trying to figure it out, you know, I calculate woman.
Speaker 1: You're a strong woman in that aspect of having your being,
Speaker 1: but you're astra strong woman when it comes to mentally,
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, if you don't
Speaker 1: see ship for what it is, then you're not strong.
Speaker 1: You're still kind of weak. You're still exercising women emotions.
Speaker 1: I think that when you become a strong woman. You
Speaker 1: become a strong woman. Hey nigga, you was a mistake.
Speaker 1: So whatever it is, I'm not going to prove you
Speaker 1: of your daughter. I'm not gonna do that whenever you
Speaker 1: come around. That's what it is. You're extra. But she's
Speaker 1: being loved by me. She been loved by my spouse,
Speaker 1: she been loved by my parents, she been loved by
Speaker 1: her siblings. She's being loved. Whatever you do is extra.
Speaker 1: We're not gonna take away from our house for you.
Speaker 1: We're not gonna bring none of your negative energy in
Speaker 1: our house because of you. Fuck you.
Speaker 5: It ain't extra saying I need it, you.
Speaker 1: Feel like you need it. But at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, do God do God not always make a
Speaker 1: way for Jojo? Yes, all right, don't situation the court
Speaker 1: ship I tried. I'm not tripping though. God makes a
Speaker 1: way like you. Y'all are never shlacking whenever time I
Speaker 1: see you, whenever I see the baby, y'all are never slacking.
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, the things that's
Speaker 1: extra still what you want. You you looking at it
Speaker 1: as if I could be doing this. If I don't
Speaker 1: do this, hey man, it may be this is we
Speaker 1: can't pray for strength and don't want to go through
Speaker 1: nothing to test it. Fact, and that's the truth. We
Speaker 1: can't pray for nothing and don't want it to be
Speaker 1: tested to see if we really need it, bro, And
Speaker 1: that's just real. Ship. So you've been praying to be
Speaker 1: a strong woman. You are a strong woman, and my
Speaker 1: hat's off to you. But you gotta recognize that you
Speaker 1: are really strong and you don't need nothing to make
Speaker 1: you weak. All of these are all of these are
Speaker 1: weak energies looking at a nigga that whatever he is,
Speaker 1: he is so one thing about it. I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: it one hunding with you. And he could be what
Speaker 1: is it? I could be being sadistic knowing the way
Speaker 1: you feel when I don't do something. But when you
Speaker 1: show me you don't have no emotion, that's gonna make
Speaker 1: me do more.
Speaker 5: No, I agree with that.
Speaker 1: When you show me it's not needed, it's not nothing,
Speaker 1: then I'm an extra coming because we like that.
Speaker 6: Because if if you're showing a nigga that he's gonna be,
Speaker 6: he's gonna be able to get a reaction out of
Speaker 6: you when he doesn't do He's gonna pull your strings
Speaker 6: and not do whenever he wants to see you, whenever
Speaker 6: he wants to see you move.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I like that.
Speaker 5: That's what niggas do.
Speaker 1: That's what I think.
Speaker 5: I think they're right.
Speaker 6: I think for me, I used to because he knows
Speaker 6: that he can control you like that by not doing
Speaker 6: like all he has to do is not do some ship,
Speaker 6: even if he was gonna do it, or even if
Speaker 6: he has the means to do it, or whatever, if
Speaker 6: he feels like fucking with you, He's not gonna do
Speaker 6: it just to see what you do, just to watch
Speaker 6: you squirm.
Speaker 1: It's as simple as this. Take her to work every
Speaker 1: I mean, she goes, she gonna break at one o'clock.
Speaker 1: If I don't call her by one o seven or
Speaker 1: one team, she gonna call me looking different because it's
Speaker 1: something she expects. Like I know how to invoke the energy.
Speaker 1: I know how to invoke the reaction to say, I
Speaker 1: don't call when she get off work, and if she
Speaker 1: get off at five, I don't call about five thirty
Speaker 1: six o'clock, she looking like, what's up? Man? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. When she gonna face hey, may I'll
Speaker 1: be I gotta make up some man, I just feel like,
Speaker 1: whatever it is, did I say, I know I've created
Speaker 1: vice versa. So if I if I don't pay the
Speaker 1: daycare this this month, I know, Joji are gonna be tripping.
Speaker 1: It's just like real shit, It's just like you're giving
Speaker 1: a nigga power.
Speaker 5: It's just like the.
Speaker 6: Pavlov experiment how they train the dog to fucking want
Speaker 6: to eat, like if they if they like, they train
Speaker 6: the dog where they ring the bell and they ring
Speaker 6: the bell and put the food out. They did that
Speaker 6: for however long, so now the dog associates ringing the
Speaker 6: bell with eating. So when they ring the bell, the
Speaker 6: dog knows okay, it starts salivating because it knows it's
Speaker 6: time to eat. If you show a nigga that that
Speaker 6: that's what it's gonna make you move or make you
Speaker 6: squirm or make you flip out or whatever, then the
Speaker 6: nigga's gonna ring the bell, not do the shit and
Speaker 6: watch you fucking react. But I think I think for me, Jojo,
Speaker 6: because I've been where you are, like frustrated and shit
Speaker 6: like that. I just got to the point my mom
Speaker 6: actually had to like check me. My mom and like
Speaker 6: back in the down was dating is one guy that
Speaker 6: was just like shy, I can't deal with this, like
Speaker 6: you just keep bitching about your baby daddy, and he
Speaker 6: didn't want to hear no more. Then I was just
Speaker 6: talking to my mom and she really got me to
Speaker 6: get to the point where it's just like stop reacting,
Speaker 6: like stop being mad. You really don't know what this
Speaker 6: person is going through. You really don't know, so just
Speaker 6: stop being like that, like just stop always having something
Speaker 6: to say, Like I'm tired of hearing about it.
Speaker 5: Every day we get on the phone. I keep hearing this, this, this,
Speaker 5: and this. My mom was even telling me that.
Speaker 6: So I got to the point where I just had
Speaker 6: to look at it as the glass was half four
Speaker 6: versus half empty, and I start thinking about like, Okay,
Speaker 6: well they do have a good relationship.
Speaker 5: He does love her.
Speaker 6: Could I push the thing to want him to do more? Absolutely?
Speaker 6: But I think she if he turned it around, he
Speaker 6: could want me to do more.
Speaker 5: You get what I'm saying. So I would say this,
Speaker 5: I haven't talked to that nigga in two months, and
Speaker 5: now I think it's crazy for a person not to
Speaker 5: talk to the child.
Speaker 7: Well, he don't talk even when there was communication. He
Speaker 7: never talked to the child. He would just we would
Speaker 7: talk like send the funds, like that's it, so that
Speaker 7: that was it. So sometimes I get I used to
Speaker 7: not anymore, but I did get frustrated. And the reason
Speaker 7: why I brought that up is because I just wanted to.
Speaker 7: I had a different outlook on wanting a man and
Speaker 7: just wanted him to do what he needed to do.
Speaker 7: And I gotten to a point to where like we
Speaker 7: didn't really argue a lot, like it wasn't toxic or
Speaker 7: anything like that. But sometimes I did get frustrated and
Speaker 7: I felt the frustration because like damn, nigga, like just
Speaker 7: do what you want to do, like I mean, do
Speaker 7: what you're supposed to do type of thing.
Speaker 5: But I but I've scaled back and just I think, yeah, if.
Speaker 1: You don't, I'm saying that, none, that's cool. When you single,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, you can be a toxic
Speaker 1: and what is it sistics you want to be. But
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship, you gotta understand how you're
Speaker 1: making you're putting on a person that's trying to love
Speaker 1: you unconditionally, you know what I'm saying. Then you not
Speaker 1: understanding because a man ain't gonna come tell you because
Speaker 1: of pride, Like I just feel like you little you
Speaker 1: bet you be on your baby daddy dick too much, Nigga,
Speaker 1: ain't finna never say that. He's gonna make it another
Speaker 1: reason why he don't fuck with you because he don't
Speaker 1: want to look like I'm hating on your baby dad relationship.
Speaker 1: So now I got to push away from you on
Speaker 1: some ship that you don't even know why. I'm pushing
Speaker 1: away because you're making me feel a way about theseus sass, Nigga,
Speaker 1: that don't matter. You need one of our life.
Speaker 6: I get what you're saying, but that shit ain't fair.
Speaker 6: That ship is not fair to us because tell us we.
Speaker 5: Don't damn know, just like y'all want us to tell you.
Speaker 5: I think it's I think it's the same I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I appreciate that. No, we don't know until somebody tell us.
Speaker 5: I think it's the same thing.
Speaker 6: It's like if you date a guy and every day
Speaker 6: he calling you or he tells he complaining about his
Speaker 6: baby mama, eventually.
Speaker 5: Gonna be like, I don't want to hear about this bitch,
Speaker 5: don't Yeah, oh yeah, the same thing, the same thing at.
Speaker 1: The end of the day, you don't want nobody nothing
Speaker 1: like Listen, it'll be a difference, my hope, we fucking
Speaker 1: it's different. But if I'm trying to make this ship one,
Speaker 1: I don't want to feel like nothing is important more
Speaker 1: important than you than me. Not your mama, your daddy,
Speaker 1: your just put your kids and God anything else. Bitch
Speaker 1: is God, your kids than me? Anything else that can
Speaker 1: make you touch your emotions. I gotta kind of sick
Speaker 1: and guess.
Speaker 5: That men are so prideful.
Speaker 1: Yes, so do me?
Speaker 6: The only one them to be able to affect your emotions? No,
Speaker 6: like the only like like the man that you're with,
Speaker 6: like you're he's supposed.
Speaker 1: To be the only person that can make you like
Speaker 1: to I feel like your family, your friends, and that ship.
Speaker 1: Not another man, if another man, if another man or
Speaker 1: X make it make you feel away, you're not mine totally.
Speaker 3: How do you think this ship will do with like
Speaker 3: a king and the queen? Like, do I think that
Speaker 3: that could happen? The king and the king thrones gonna be?
Speaker 3: Like what you're crying over, it's just the other prince down.
Speaker 1: There, a joker that doesn't even make sense. Some of
Speaker 1: this is just normal, common sense.
Speaker 5: Common sense ain't all the way common DJ.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is that they operate out
Speaker 1: of emotional We gotta understand that. That's the reason why
Speaker 1: they have niggas like me, you kodak other men's to
Speaker 1: tell them to crack the code and give them the
Speaker 1: secrets of how niggas think.
Speaker 5: No facts that I don't be knowing. I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1: Because at the end of the day, I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: the different between women, women and men. Most women feel
Speaker 1: like it should be how they think it should be
Speaker 1: instead of how it really is. That's the only disconnect
Speaker 1: between men and women. Women thinking of how things should be,
Speaker 1: how they think it should be in a relationship, how
Speaker 1: I think a relationship should go. That's how it be.
Speaker 1: That's why they get so upset with me. And when
Speaker 1: it's not like that. Their expectations, Yeah, it'd be expectations
Speaker 1: like you got think all women are little girls, and
Speaker 1: I know that sounds crazy. They never lose that, They
Speaker 1: never lose that little girl strong as being babied and
Speaker 1: being princess, and they never lose that. It never goes away.
Speaker 1: So you know you'ren't supposed to it never goes away.
Speaker 1: But you gotta have an understanding. It never goes away.
Speaker 1: It's like she's like, like my granddaughters are never wrong.
Speaker 1: My daughter, they're never wrong. You're a little girl. So
Speaker 1: what she and so what? Leave all alone? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So you take that into a relationship too,
Speaker 1: not knowing you're dealing with a person with equal emotions
Speaker 1: is yours because I love you the same way and
Speaker 1: I just met you, but you ain't your dad. I
Speaker 1: don't got a goddamn prenciss you ass So I feel
Speaker 1: how I feel too, So then know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So then when the misunderstanding come, it's like you gotta understand.
Speaker 1: But I've seen women feel like a nigga supposed to
Speaker 1: adjust to exactly who they want them to be and
Speaker 1: then where you want them to Just this is just
Speaker 1: who I am. I've heard that a mean time. You
Speaker 1: can't accept me for me, but you want me to
Speaker 1: be different. This is crazy. Women feel like a man
Speaker 1: they supposed to be able to put their hand up
Speaker 1: a nigga back.
Speaker 5: Now because I'm laughing because screaming.
Speaker 6: I was having a conversation earlier, and what did you
Speaker 6: tell me like, it's not what you want, it's what
Speaker 6: you need. Because I was telling him about like guys
Speaker 6: or whatever. He was just like, it's not what you want,
Speaker 6: it's like what you need.
Speaker 1: But if you ask a woman exactly, Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: ask every woman in this room. We're gonna go around,
Speaker 1: starting with Jojo to Jay, what is that you want
Speaker 1: in a relationship? First? The first thing, No, just period,
Speaker 1: What did you want a relationship want?
Speaker 6: Let's talk about I want loyalty. I want a god
Speaker 6: fearing man. I want him to be financially stable. I
Speaker 6: want him to be funny, family oriented.
Speaker 1: Some of those are these in my opinion.
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I said money, right, So what is it
Speaker 5: that you want?
Speaker 1: Jake?
Speaker 5: I definitely, I definitely need a nigga to be loyal
Speaker 5: to me.
Speaker 1: Hold, what's loyalty?
Speaker 5: Loyal is don't cross me, cross.
Speaker 1: You with dinner when other women's crossing it.
Speaker 6: Okay, go ahead, Jake, definitely gotta have that loyalty. And
Speaker 6: to me, loyalty is basically like having my best interest
Speaker 6: at heart and also having concern and consideration for my feelings.
Speaker 1: Okay, what is a quieterity? What do you have to
Speaker 1: have to even get your attention to be able to
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, what do you want
Speaker 1: from the man?
Speaker 6: I need a nigga that's like that I can be
Speaker 6: goofy with, Like a nigga that I can be funny
Speaker 6: with that you know, has a sense of humor. But
Speaker 6: I also need like a man, like a nigga is
Speaker 6: gonna be a man like Okay, you know what I'm saying, Yeah,
Speaker 6: like a nigga that is, you know, a nigga that's
Speaker 6: like like a man like that's gonna handle the business
Speaker 6: and that's gonna fucking like step on ship.
Speaker 5: And like you know what I'm saying, Like, what do
Speaker 5: I want? Do you want to do? I think for me,
Speaker 5: I will want security. I want security. I will want
Speaker 5: someone to be to give me reassurance.
Speaker 6: I will want someone financially stable, someone that could motivate me.
Speaker 5: I will want someone that that does have loyalty and
Speaker 5: put family first.
Speaker 1: I heard everything y'all just said, right, So if y'all
Speaker 1: get all that from one man, from your man, what
Speaker 1: you could be complete? This is yes no answer, yes
Speaker 1: or no?
Speaker 5: Be complete?
Speaker 1: Would you be complete? Like would you be able to
Speaker 1: deal with whatever come with him, if he gives you
Speaker 1: those things that you want, yes or no, yes, yes
Speaker 1: or no, yes, yes or no.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't okay, so that ain't what you want. You
Speaker 1: don't know what you want to you don't know what
Speaker 1: you want.
Speaker 6: Then, Like if a nigga okay, my thing is is
Speaker 6: like Okay, If a nigga is loyal, if a nigga
Speaker 6: standing on business, if a nigga stepping on ship, if
Speaker 6: a nigga is fucking like uplifting me and like helping
Speaker 6: and helping me and telling me that I can be
Speaker 6: a better person and doing what needs.
Speaker 5: To be done, all that kind of shit.
Speaker 6: If a nigga, like if I know that like this
Speaker 6: is a nigga, Like if this nigga explains to me
Speaker 6: like or it makes me feel like I can't play
Speaker 6: with him, okay, like he's a nigga a man, then
Speaker 6: that's all. Take whatever comes with him. I'm ready to
Speaker 6: deal with it.
Speaker 5: Well, I guess it depends on what's coming.
Speaker 1: I'm saying anything could come with that type of nigga.
Speaker 1: A nigga could come in your life and be the
Speaker 1: everything you ask God for. Within his character or his
Speaker 1: traits hold I mean his character is traits you cannot
Speaker 1: deal with character.
Speaker 5: Character character is a deal breaker for me, I'm gonna
Speaker 5: think so.
Speaker 3: But but he gives you everything you would and then
Speaker 3: also and also understanding character, but with more deal breakers.
Speaker 5: That a real man a nigga that I can't play with.
Speaker 1: A character character is I like other bitches, right, That's
Speaker 1: that's just my only flaw. I like other bitches.
Speaker 5: I believe that that goes under loyalty.
Speaker 1: Lads, that's unfaithful. Lawns is a different word. We are
Speaker 1: figured out.
Speaker 5: Successful men cheap.
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me let me say this, John, let
Speaker 1: me finish my point, please, y'all just made my point.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, if you ask most
Speaker 1: women what they want, they got an ideal what they want,
Speaker 1: but they don't know what they want.
Speaker 5: And I agree that.
Speaker 1: I agree because relationship you get in a relationship with me, right,
Speaker 1: I can give you everything that your idea was, But
Speaker 1: then will get a relationship and you're fulfilled with that,
Speaker 1: You're gonna always think of something else that you want.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I guess the better question. The better question
Speaker 5: will be like, what are the deal breaks?
Speaker 1: The deal breakers that you don't matter as much as
Speaker 1: what knowing what you want or need to know. There's
Speaker 1: no such thing as earlier. The reason why I've been
Speaker 1: and being with this woman for thirty years right because
Speaker 1: she has no deal breakings. When it comes to me,
Speaker 1: she get upset, she custs me out. She don't bust
Speaker 1: out my car, and she don't shot out my shot
Speaker 1: in my cars, shot in my crap trap spot chante
Speaker 1: is crazy. She just looked like that Jo shot sticks
Speaker 1: in my houses and ship. But at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, she's never once said she want to leave me,
Speaker 1: she wanted divorce or it's a deal breaker, that's all.
Speaker 1: A man want that real and see the thing is
Speaker 1: that like fuck you, but but you don't.
Speaker 5: But you don't have any character issues.
Speaker 1: What you mean characters? The bond did everything you can do.
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying is okay, yeah, But but
Speaker 6: character character like cheating and doing all that ship Okay, cool,
Speaker 6: that's that's not you always gonna make sure that's not character.
Speaker 1: That's what y'all just said. I say, if a digger
Speaker 1: do everything that you said you want from a man, listen,
Speaker 1: a woman don't know what they want to they see
Speaker 1: another woman with it, Like now, chante want a farm,
Speaker 1: like I said, she sees Drinka Gates got a farm.
Speaker 1: She baby, I think we need to get a farm, right,
Speaker 1: farm like that. I'm just being real life. You can
Speaker 1: you can listen. She used to be. Hey, we don't
Speaker 1: spend time. Now I spend all the time. Hey you're
Speaker 1: coming out to late, now come in the house. Ear
Speaker 1: A woman gonna always find something else you can improve on.
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. They're never certified, but that's
Speaker 1: because they are. They are. They are what do you
Speaker 1: call what do you call it? They're possessive and I
Speaker 1: respect that. I love that, but I want that. But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you don't know what
Speaker 1: you want till you want it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know what I want.
Speaker 1: You don't know what you want. You just know what
Speaker 1: you don't want.
Speaker 5: I know what I don't want.
Speaker 1: You don't know what you want till you want it.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, I don't know what
Speaker 1: to say, bro No.
Speaker 7: But that's true though, because even in relationships, it's like, oh,
Speaker 7: it's going good, and then it's like this.
Speaker 5: Can change, or you can do this a little better,
Speaker 5: or always something Damn. That's a female thing.
Speaker 1: It is because a nigga know what he want.
Speaker 5: What do you want?
Speaker 1: Respect only and kouchie man puss this diamond does. Man,
Speaker 1: every bitch got puss it. Man, Niggas just want the bitch.
Speaker 5: Every The relationship you're talking about, yeah's gone.
Speaker 1: That sh it ain't nothing because if you respect me,
Speaker 1: if you respect me, you're gonna want to fuck me
Speaker 1: regardless what comes with what comes with respect respect me.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, I don't have to
Speaker 1: worry about nothing when it comes down to you. I
Speaker 1: don't have to worry about you crying about no dead nigga.
Speaker 1: I don't have to worry about you about two hundred
Speaker 1: dollars a month. I don't have to worry about none
Speaker 1: of this ship. I don't have to worry about nothing
Speaker 1: when it comes down I know you got all faith
Speaker 1: in me, m hm in us. I don't have to
Speaker 1: worry about nothing when it comes down to us. I
Speaker 1: know you respect me or nothing to know. Hey, man,
Speaker 1: if he say, Babe, we're finna put it. We're finna
Speaker 1: put the house off for four closes. We're gonna sleep
Speaker 1: on the bridge. See month, you know we good up
Speaker 1: under that bridge.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm just keeping it one hundred. That's how. That's why
Speaker 1: bitches ain't married, ain't we nigga? That's why cause niggas
Speaker 1: don't feel Niggas can feel like, hey man, if worse
Speaker 1: come to word, shout a ready to fix peanut butter
Speaker 1: and jealous sound was up on the Brooklyn Bridge with me.
Speaker 1: That's what I gotta baby feel that. That's what marriage
Speaker 1: really about. If I can't feel that, you ain't for me.
Speaker 1: If I can't feel that, that's what locking it really about.
Speaker 1: If I'm with you, you think about it. If I'm
Speaker 1: with you knowing that it's a limitation or it's what
Speaker 1: it's a condition on it, I ain't gonna never be
Speaker 1: solid with you because I know if I do staying character,
Speaker 1: this shit gonna turn to something else.
Speaker 5: Some ask you a question.
Speaker 7: If somebody feels like they found a person, m hm, right,
Speaker 7: If you find your person, I assume you're gonna go
Speaker 7: through ups and downs, ups and downs. But if you
Speaker 7: decide to be down with somebody and you keep trying
Speaker 7: to make it work and it don't work because y'all
Speaker 7: keep feuding, does that mean you just gotta.
Speaker 1: Keep working a whole what's don't work though? What's don't work?
Speaker 7: Like, say, you in a relationship and you and it's
Speaker 7: just I don't know, Yeah, like maybe she's doing something
Speaker 7: he don't like. She's doing something that he doesn't like,
Speaker 7: and he's doing something that she doesn't like. But it's
Speaker 7: not enough for them to break up. But it's enough
Speaker 7: to cause problems in the relationship.
Speaker 1: But it's gonna be problems in that relationship. And friendship's
Speaker 1: problem in friendships. It's a problem in everything. And anytime
Speaker 1: two people, there's no two people alike, man, not even twins.
Speaker 1: There's no two personalities that match. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what you say. Me and
Speaker 1: you gonna we can sit in the room out there
Speaker 1: and talk about one hundred things we're gonna disagree on,
Speaker 1: like ten of it those hundred. That's just what it
Speaker 1: is though, even if we like minded, So that's what
Speaker 1: it is. It's just like, do you love me enough
Speaker 1: to respect my perspective? That's the whole thing.
Speaker 7: Do you trust me enough to receive your perspective? Do
Speaker 7: you trust me enough to tell me what your perspective
Speaker 7: is and let me hear you out.
Speaker 1: I do. At the end of the day, I'm the
Speaker 1: one thing about it me personally, I'm not finna lead
Speaker 1: nothing out because I don't want you to be able
Speaker 1: to say I tricked you or nothing. I want you
Speaker 1: to be like at the end of the day, he
Speaker 1: did say that, I'm gonna tell you up front, Hey,
Speaker 1: you call me ass niggas, I can't. I can't deal
Speaker 1: with that. Put that any ass nigga. Hope you're dead
Speaker 1: in minds, any of that type shit. I'm just telling
Speaker 1: you they don't do that. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Tell you all my vulnerable moments so we don't even
Speaker 1: have to go through that. I love you on condition.
Speaker 1: I'm with you one million percent. No matter what. I'm
Speaker 1: here to PreTect, provide whatever. I'm here to love you.
Speaker 1: I'm here to make you feel as a question. I'm
Speaker 1: here because I wouldn't deal with you if I didn't
Speaker 1: see you bigger than you see yourself. If you were
Speaker 1: the person that don't see you bigger than you see you,
Speaker 1: that's not your person. If that person ain't always on
Speaker 1: you trying to push you forward, that ain't your person.
Speaker 1: Because your person gotta see you way further than you
Speaker 1: see yourself. So if a nigga good with you, how
Speaker 1: you see you, you really don't fuck with you, fuck
Speaker 1: with your grouping.
Speaker 6: What if a man don't really know like his tics,
Speaker 6: like how you just said, Like if you say any
Speaker 6: of this pussy ass nigga or any of that to me,
Speaker 6: it's gonna make me tick. What if a man just
Speaker 6: like I don't know like my vulnerable moments nigga, No,
Speaker 6: but he.
Speaker 5: Just don't want to talk about it, you know, you
Speaker 5: know so what so so how does it? How does
Speaker 5: the what is it that a woman can do?
Speaker 7: I know it's probably nothing, I don't know, but to
Speaker 7: make a man feel safe enough or vulnerable enough to
Speaker 7: open up to her.
Speaker 1: Be a woman, understand what a woman is.
Speaker 5: It's like, okay, I ain't trying to talk about your ahead,
Speaker 5: but but you said being a woman, and you said
Speaker 5: be a woman, and I'm like, well, what's being a woman.
Speaker 6: So in my experiences, like dealing with niggas that have
Speaker 6: opened up to me in the past, it's really just
Speaker 6: about it's really just about being like a safe space.
Speaker 6: Like because because niggas nigga, like any anybody, it ain't
Speaker 6: even got to be a nigga. But anybody that you
Speaker 6: deal with, they know where they stand with you, and
Speaker 6: they know what their relationship is, and they know like
Speaker 6: basically what you're about and what you're there for and
Speaker 6: what your purpose is in their life for the most part.
Speaker 6: So when it comes when it comes to niggas, especially
Speaker 6: like when you're dealing with street niggas or any kind
Speaker 6: of nigga that has I don't want to say issues
Speaker 6: expressing their vulnerability, but has some sort of possible PTSD
Speaker 6: that is a subliminal blockage from preventing them from being
Speaker 6: able to open up and expose that vulnerability or whatever.
Speaker 5: It's just like you just have to.
Speaker 6: You just have to kind of like give them the
Speaker 6: setting that makes them feel comfortable to do it on
Speaker 6: their own. It's not anything that you can really say.
Speaker 6: It's not anything that you can really try to pull
Speaker 6: out of them or no shit like that, because if
Speaker 6: a nigga ain't ready to open up, a nigga's not
Speaker 6: goinna open up. I don't give a fuck what you do,
Speaker 6: what you say, who you are, or like none of
Speaker 6: that shit.
Speaker 5: It's like you just have to.
Speaker 6: You just have to provide them with that comfortability, and
Speaker 6: then it's gonna be little by little. It's gonna be
Speaker 6: a process. It's gonna be piece by piece, and then
Speaker 6: eventually they're gonna get to the point where they trust
Speaker 6: you enough to be able to know, like, Hey, I
Speaker 6: can tell this bitch my secrets and open up to
Speaker 6: her and tell her what I have going on, And
Speaker 6: I know for a fact that she's never gonna turn
Speaker 6: around and use this shit against me.
Speaker 1: Correct, But I guess she is a nigga at the
Speaker 1: end of the day. There's nothing softer to a man
Speaker 1: like his woman that's a soft woman. Women don't understand
Speaker 1: how much power there is in their feminine energy. When
Speaker 1: you try to match my energy, then I gotta show you, bitch,
Speaker 1: you ain't tough at me.
Speaker 5: It takes a certain type of man to bring out
Speaker 5: certain women feeling.
Speaker 1: So why are you dealing with this type of dude
Speaker 1: that can't bring it out of you? That would leave
Speaker 1: him alone. That's the whole thing. That's your first thing.
Speaker 1: If you don't feel if you don't feel mushy around
Speaker 1: this nigga, he ain't the one. If you come around
Speaker 1: the nigga, he make you feel like a little girl
Speaker 1: like your daddy and all your granddaddy make you feel,
Speaker 1: then you know that's the nigga. If you still, if
Speaker 1: you still feel like you gotta be hard, tough and
Speaker 1: god damn watch his back. He's a hope. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: just being one hundred like bitch gotta be able to
Speaker 1: be like I can get it. I can get drunk
Speaker 1: out my mind whatever I know around at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, and in the same way with a dude.
Speaker 1: A dude gotta feel like bro when I take my
Speaker 1: shoes off. I can be as soft as I want
Speaker 1: to be. I can shed tears. I can tell you
Speaker 1: my biggest, darkest secret. I can tell you my fears.
Speaker 1: I can tell you my insecurities and won't be just
Speaker 1: and you make me feel like a man inside of that.
Speaker 1: If I can't do that, you ain't mine. And I
Speaker 1: definitely can't do that. If you cry about a nigga
Speaker 1: who died.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I mean I get it.
Speaker 1: I agree, good one. We're gonna return fast.
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