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Speaker 1: It's time the realistic ros conversations go down on Big

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Speaker 1: Facts Friday, a lot from our Heart Studios.

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Speaker 2: You know what it is, Big Facts Friday with DJ Screen,

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Speaker 2: Big Bank, Baby Jade.

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Speaker 3: Shot Jones and Big Homie Kodak with the police glasses.

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Speaker 1: Police glasses. Damn, that's what.

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Speaker 4: Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all down playing that man. The man looked like a marine.

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Speaker 3: Seriously, where that come from? And what inspired that? You

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Speaker 3: left the gloves for the for the police classes?

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Speaker 5: Nah?

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Speaker 2: I still, you know, I like the alternate things. You know,

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Speaker 2: I've always had. I've had these in the car since

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Speaker 2: last year. But you know I had the regular ones,

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Speaker 2: but these is the alternates.

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Speaker 3: I think Kodak just slowly making his way to being

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Speaker 3: a wrestler. He is ain't gonna stop.

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Speaker 2: I am crying, Hey man, I'm gonn getting Paul Hayman

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Speaker 2: on one day, you know, Yeah, Paul Haman a goat here,

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Speaker 2: a talker.

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Speaker 1: You like Bobby the Brain Heene you remember you hold

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Speaker 1: bro Ho Cogan that's it in the Rock, Yeah to

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Speaker 1: the Rock too. He just came back Triple WrestleMania. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I heard. What's up with everybody else? What we're doing?

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Speaker 1: How we're feeling.

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Speaker 3: Right, bigger ass head, you feel meet a lot on

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Speaker 3: your mind?

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Speaker 2: Got you eric on today? Yeah she was feeling good.

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Speaker 2: She was toxic too.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not bro.

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Speaker 1: I love you. I love you like instance and smoke weed.

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Speaker 5: I don't smoke weed anymore.

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Speaker 1: Today.

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Speaker 5: No, I just don't smoke weed anymore. I haven't smoked weed.

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Speaker 6: Well, I hit a butt a few times, but I

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Speaker 6: haven't like just past, I didn't smoke for twenty I

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Speaker 6: haven't smoked consistently since twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 5: Was that like November twenty? Are you serious? I swear

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Speaker 5: to god she ain't.

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Speaker 1: She just slowed down for sure.

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Speaker 5: No, I stopped smoking.

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Speaker 1: What made you stop? You?

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Speaker 5: Oddly?

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Speaker 6: I just got tired of everything seeming bleary like I

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Speaker 6: like I couldn't see, like nothing was clear, Like when

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Speaker 6: I drive a chance to school.

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Speaker 5: I didn't feel like the sky was clear like some ship,

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Speaker 5: but nothing was clear. I wanted to feel clear again?

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Speaker 1: Are you Jojo? Come on? Come sit down, Jojo? That

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Speaker 1: Jojo comes it down? Get Jojo. Can y'all make sure

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Speaker 1: y'all put the camera on Jojo? You gotta honorary guess

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Speaker 1: you got another?

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Speaker 3: No, we bring Jojo? Can you bring a mike, Mike filter,

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Speaker 3: get your mic filter, get your mic filter. We need Jojo.

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Speaker 1: You're not going home today? Whatever, let me get him

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Speaker 1: micro a camera right, Mike, Yeah, get the camera right.

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Speaker 1: We'll still keep going. We'll still keep going since Oka

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Speaker 1: j six fifty five. Okay, we got us a good

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Speaker 1: sixty what? Uh? What? What? What? What?

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Speaker 3: What's up with Jayfore we even get to when we

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Speaker 3: know that.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm just playing, I'm showing. I was just

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Speaker 6: taking the ship one time. I'm just getting a whole

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Speaker 6: bunch of ship. I'm together that I needed to do.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry about the smacking, but this milky way is

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Speaker 6: motherfucking delicious.

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Speaker 1: Smacking of the curson which one both.

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Speaker 5: About the costal work. It's okay, So I'm I'm uh yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, big homemade Jojo in the.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I never said you.

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Speaker 1: Better come on in here.

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Speaker 5: She wanted to be her daughter so bad her face back.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: So you get a camera right, the camera on point.

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Speaker 1: We're good. Oh yeah, we came right.

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Speaker 3: What about Okay, word word word, Time for the word.

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Speaker 3: What's the word today of the day? Big fast Friday.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So the word of the day. It's sadistic.

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Speaker 6: Everybody ready, this distinct dick stick?

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Speaker 1: What that mean?

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Speaker 5: This dick did this? Dick did it? This dick did it?

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Speaker 1: What's the word statistic?

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Speaker 5: Sodistic?

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Speaker 1: This thick?

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Speaker 5: Okay, you said suck this dick? You know what dick is?

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Speaker 6: A cuse word? I just said, sucking dick in the middle.

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Speaker 1: You want to what a kid to say?

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Speaker 5: It's a word perfect.

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Speaker 7: I don't let my daughter say periods period.

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Speaker 5: I just think that she don't need to be saying.

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Speaker 6: That because that's a grown bitch was saying, like period.

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Speaker 6: It's disrespectful, Like, don't say I don't have at all

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Speaker 6: cussing at school. Yeah, because when a little when I

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Speaker 6: look I feel the same way because I look at it,

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Speaker 6: like when the little girl says that means like.

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Speaker 5: Stopped playing with me.

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Speaker 6: Like that's what she's really trying to say in little

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like don't do that because I slapped.

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Speaker 1: Period. Look at me.

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Speaker 5: That's what chance I mean when she say that to me,

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Speaker 5: like being stop playing with me.

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Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go, let's go. Cake.

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Speaker 5: Okay, the spirit of David has.

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Speaker 1: Spoken, Oh no, the stiff of David for.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, man, my boy, bank over there, giving these holes

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Speaker 5: hope continue in the tradition.

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Speaker 6: Okay, but anyway, sudistic. Sadistic is the word reckless.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I can't wait till we graduate. Like Joe Jo, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's get him around. The show is so family friendly,

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Speaker 1: Ni come here and do this ship.

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Speaker 6: Yeah they don't got syndicated. That's what I feel like,

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Speaker 6: so big ups to them. Okay, So the word of

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Speaker 6: the day, it is sadistic. The textbook definition is obtaining

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Speaker 6: pleasure from hurting other people and making them suffer physically

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Speaker 6: and mentally. The urban German definition is to derive pleasure

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Speaker 6: or enjoyment from another's pain or extreme cruelty.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of sadistic basically hater.

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Speaker 5: That's what I know. I don't know. Sadistic is way

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Speaker 5: deeper than like a hater is in.

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Speaker 1: That family with narcissistic.

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Speaker 6: Well, I feel like haters will do something. Haters to

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Speaker 6: do something to you to make you hurt and then

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Speaker 6: get But but but a hater, a hater, A hater

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Speaker 6: is just a hater. A hater ain't trying to put

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Speaker 6: in an extra effort to make you suffer like a

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Speaker 6: nigga that's trying to make you suffer is somebody Yeah

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Speaker 6: that like, that's that's way deeper going.

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Speaker 5: So you can have a hater, though you have a hater.

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Speaker 7: He hated on what you got, and he plying on you,

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Speaker 7: and he waited for you to leave work so he

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Speaker 2: Somebody that don't hate you, He loathes you, he despies you.

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Speaker 1: Sadistic is like a judish. I don't even want you.

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Speaker 1: I don't even want you to be alive.

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Speaker 5: Okay, it could be a type of a type of hater.

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Speaker 6: Definitely like a hater, let me, let me, I got

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Speaker 6: a perfect fucking I got a perfect freaking example.

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Speaker 5: Oh don't don't stop cursing now.

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Speaker 6: Like a hater, a hater will shoot you, but a

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Speaker 6: sadistic person will chop your body parts, put him in

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Speaker 6: a pot with bleach, cook him, eat him, and then

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Speaker 6: spit him back out.

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Speaker 1: So basically, what you're saying is the nigga who killed

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Speaker 1: this nipsystic, he kicked that boy that was more than

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Speaker 1: you just want to flick pain fuck you. Basically, yeah, damn,

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Speaker 1: that's cold. What is it? Sadistic?

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Speaker 5: Sadistic? Sadistic?

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Speaker 6: I have a question. So they're not the one that's

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Speaker 6: inflicting the pain.

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Speaker 5: They just catch joy off of it.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, they both, Yeah, they would prefer to do it sadistic,

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Speaker 8: they say, sadistic mentality, you know, like sadistic is a adjective, right.

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Speaker 5: A sadistic person, A sadistic.

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Speaker 1: Person, hey man, keep and we don't even talk about this.

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Speaker 1: I see I see, yeah, I see you going on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right that my wife got.

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Speaker 5: These, that's all right. But yeah, like like it's a

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Speaker 5: come on, bro.

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Speaker 1: Bobby, go ahead, soul the podcast, Hello to the podcast,

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Speaker 1: and it's Bobby, Hello podcast.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So, like a sadistic a hater is just like

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Speaker 6: just I don't like this nigga, But a sadistic person

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Speaker 6: is like, I don't like this nigga. I hope his

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Speaker 6: and then they sit back and laugh at that kind

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Speaker 3: You feel like a sadistic person too, is somebody who

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Speaker 3: I'm going to do this to this person. I plant

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Speaker 3: to see for this person to be fucked up, right,

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Speaker 3: But I hater could just hate from behind the screen

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Speaker 3: or something like that, and don't never do nothing, I.

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Speaker 6: Ever seen y'all ever seen that movie where the white

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Speaker 6: lady was the babysitter to the people and the nigga

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Speaker 6: from Ghostbusters was working in the house, the black nigga

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Speaker 6: from Ghostbusters was working in the house.

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Speaker 5: No, so it was.

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Speaker 6: It was a real movie. It was a white lady,

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Speaker 6: she was her her husband was a guy to collegist.

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Speaker 5: What happened in the movie The hand of Role.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, oh yeah, exactly seeing it, well, I was gonna

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Speaker 9: say that was now she was sadistic, Yeah, she was.

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Speaker 7: But I think everything that we've been talking about has

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Speaker 7: been like physical, But I think sadistic is also like

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Speaker 7: a mental thing too, Like you can abuse somebody verbally, yeah,

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Speaker 7: and then you can get some type of thrill off

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Speaker 7: of that too. Yeah, And I think that that's sadistic

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Speaker 7: and people probably deal with that all the time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: You know who I feel like has the consistent sadistic

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Speaker 6: relationship baby mama's and baby daddy's.

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Speaker 1: For sure.

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Speaker 5: It depends.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm just saying it depends on the type of

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Speaker 5: It is because some of them just beata, some.

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Speaker 1: Of them do be's saying that's the most where we're

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Speaker 1: from that's the most time you see a woman or

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Speaker 1: a man trying to inflict emotional physical purpose for Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: the purpose.

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Speaker 5: But I didn't have pure hate in their heart.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean you could say.

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Speaker 5: It ain't even hate, it's just I.

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Speaker 1: Want you to feel me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well I don't even I don't even want to

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Speaker 7: just say baby, baby daddy.

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Speaker 5: I think any woman or man.

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Speaker 7: Who broke up, like especially these days, like they can't

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Speaker 7: wait to try to put some of your face. That's

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Speaker 7: where like the cheap that's why women cheat back all

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Speaker 7: the time. That's why dudes be smashing their coworkers and

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Speaker 5: So I think it's deeferent than just my baby mom

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Speaker 5: baby daddy. But I do you know that.

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Speaker 6: There's a lot of toxic sadistic I guess relationships with

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Speaker 6: baby mom and baby daddies. So do you think that

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Speaker 6: that toxic and sadistic are parallel.

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Speaker 2: Yes, not necessarily the same. They're in the same house,

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Speaker 2: they're not in the same room.

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Speaker 5: Again, just toxic.

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Speaker 1: You might not act on this, yeh.

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Speaker 2: Act That's why I said they are in the same house.

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Speaker 6: Do you think that toxic people are sadistic and they

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Speaker 5: Nah, because you can.

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Speaker 2: Be toxic and not sadistic, but you can't be sadistic

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Speaker 3: And sadistic is a little more finite too, Like if

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Speaker 7: Yeah, because like if you toxic and say you trying

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Speaker 7: you not, You're not. You don't get joy out of

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Speaker 6: But sadistic people are also trying to prove points too.

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Speaker 7: But but the definition says that that they get joy

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: So what I'm saying is is that if a toxic

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Speaker 5: They know they're getting.

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Speaker 6: Point, but they to a certain extent they are because

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Speaker 6: once they that's just like that's just like it that's

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Speaker 5: That's not statistic.

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Speaker 7: I think that is sadistic. But I don't I don't

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Speaker 7: I did that, like stop playing with me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's that's pleasure.

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Speaker 1: But do y'all think, do y'all think?

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Speaker 5: What do you think?

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Speaker 1: Do y'all think a man can make you cheat if

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Speaker 5: Cheating When you say make you cheat, what you mean I'm.

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Speaker 1: Saying like, how could you get like at the end

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Speaker 5: That right or you been wanting to want you do that.

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Speaker 1: That's just your characters.

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Speaker 6: But then again, it goes back to like being a

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Speaker 6: like bitch is getting they look back like your mama,

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Speaker 6: that's how they handle the ship, then you don't know

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Speaker 6: no better. That's just like goes back to the discussion

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Speaker 6: we always have about busting out windows and beating niggas

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Speaker 5: Know to do. Well.

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Speaker 7: I can say that I never seen that in my family,

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Speaker 7: and I still did it. I did came out well,

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Speaker 7: I was busted through windows, I was cheating bag, I.

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Speaker 1: Was Did you see that in your environment?

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Speaker 5: No, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I just it just was in it was.

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Speaker 5: But go back to what you were saying.

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Speaker 7: I also think that like even if it's not a

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Speaker 7: you have to grow as a woman. You know, Yeah,

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Speaker 7: you can have that mindset at that time but if

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Speaker 5: Thirties and still go through that.

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Speaker 7: But it takes everybody a different time frame to mature.

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Speaker 7: So it's just when you get to that point to

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Speaker 7: like I ain't gonna be doing all that, Like I'm

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Speaker 7: too old for that. I think when you get to

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Speaker 6: But.

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Speaker 5: They tell you a lot.

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Speaker 3: When you google the most sadistic people in history, it

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Speaker 3: gets a little deeper, like the most sadistic people, I'm

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Speaker 3: up there, dude, though they.

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Speaker 2: Trump can't act on anything that would make him sadistic.

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Speaker 3: They got Dracula, they got Jeffrey Dahmer. Yeah, so they

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Speaker 5: And serial killers and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like dictators, Yeah, like John Wayne Gacy.

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Speaker 3: What I said, I think some of the ship y'all said,

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Speaker 3: it's like just toxic, sure, but is it sadistic? Sadistic

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Speaker 6: Up, the people who would prefer to cut you up

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Speaker 6: instead of shooting you are the people that go and

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Speaker 6: do like mass shootings.

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Speaker 1: You know what, especially school the obit.

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Speaker 5: I mean, damn the the dictionary.

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Speaker 6: Yes, the textbook definition of statistic again is obtains pleasure

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Speaker 6: And the urban Gerban definition is to derive pleasure or

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Speaker 1: That's like rapist. Yeah, we're talking about some ship. We're

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Speaker 1: trying to make regular niggas they just.

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Speaker 2: What you're talking about them? People got something else going.

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Speaker 2: You mentioned earlier about like wrestling ship. It was a

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Speaker 2: wrestling named new Jack. He's wrestling e c W. He

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Speaker 2: was fucking sadistic. He's the ship that would get niggas

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Speaker 2: in jail. No, no, no, no, no, he really went

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Speaker 2: to jail for this ship.

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Speaker 5: You know he used to like he was a wrestler

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Speaker 5: did Yeah, he was like what he did.

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Speaker 2: That, He would like stab niggas in the forehead with

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Speaker 2: a fucking nail, like real, Yes, he's his face is scarred.

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Speaker 1: He died now, but his face was scarred up from

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Speaker 1: doing that ship.

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Speaker 5: Way to himself.

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Speaker 2: No, he would do it to other people. But yeah, sadistic,

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Speaker 2: sadistic as a motherfucker. I can see it was something.

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Speaker 2: It was, it was something like the whole it was.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I know nobody stadistic, but I think.

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Speaker 5: That's a good thing because that means your circle clean,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, if you did, like you probably know, could you

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Speaker 7: be freeing?

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Speaker 5: You know somebody you could call they just want to

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Speaker 5: that's just going, that's going.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about about that. It's that, It's that

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Speaker 1: I knew some people like that. That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Isn't that not to go back to the same ship?

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Speaker 3: Isn't that Bishop and Juice, I don't know, was a bitch.

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Speaker 1: Playing the nigga went with the move. He would sadistic.

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Speaker 5: Want sistic was Tony was a savage. He kills his friend,

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Speaker 1: B I told you don't do that. You had to die,

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Speaker 1: and then behind my back you've been like, bro, all

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Speaker 1: I need your blessing.

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Speaker 5: I got crave me.

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Speaker 1: You don't marry my sister. Fucking my sister and all

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Speaker 1: this I ain't telling you about.

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Speaker 5: You know, And you know I slicked like I am

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Speaker 5: in love with my sister too.

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Speaker 6: Right like he.

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Speaker 5: Like, you know my sister is really my bitch. No, no,

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Speaker 5: don't put it on that man.

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Speaker 1: Infatuated.

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Speaker 5: No, that's big, faster fast listen.

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Speaker 1: That man with that man, he felt like his sister

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Speaker 1: Nothing else. I don't feel he knew, he knew his

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Speaker 6: No, that was in the case, but he really he

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Speaker 6: gonna keep this ship all the way, Man, I don't

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Speaker 1: No, he just wanted her to stay.

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Speaker 8: Bro.

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Speaker 1: He just looked at her.

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Speaker 5: One of my favorite movies.

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Speaker 1: Bro. He looked at her. He looked at her further

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Speaker 1: in this room, like I see you, Kodak is something

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Speaker 1: you'll never see yourself. I see Jay, something you'll never

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Speaker 1: stream shy jojo. I see y'all something y'all could never see. Yus,

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Speaker 1: I see the most for y'all, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: And he just wanted to thrive on that the way he.

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Speaker 5: Get that, but he was obsessed with her.

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Speaker 1: He was assessed with her peerness. I don't think you

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Speaker 5: He was like, what, yeah, because she was doing all

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Speaker 1: Know she did that At the end when she started

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Speaker 1: busting to him, he was like what hell.

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Speaker 5: No he no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 6: No, got movie, we're gonna do that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's.

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Speaker 1: You never seen the movie.

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Speaker 5: I don't remember. You've never seen you ever seen?

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Speaker 6: I don't remember. I seen it one time, like a requirement,

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Speaker 6: have you ever seen? Have you ever seen the Godfather

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Speaker 6: of New Jack City? Good fellas anything?

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Speaker 5: New Jack City?

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Speaker 3: I know, like you got in my head you can

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Speaker 2: That's like Godfather's most Hello. You know who Rannie from

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Speaker 2: Players Club? What Ronnie from Players Club? Which one is running.

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Speaker 6: The the one that started off? Old girl was gonna

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Speaker 5: Motherfuckers?

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Speaker 1: Get down that Ronnie was sedition.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you got to use what you got to get ship.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like the nigga scarface, that's

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Speaker 1: why you pushed them people away because what y'all what

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Speaker 1: y'all The part that y'all missed in the movie was.

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Speaker 1: They showed his weakness. His mom and his sister was

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Speaker 1: his weakness. Anything else, I'm hot about it, but my

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Speaker 1: that's period that into my life. She got manning, man,

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Speaker 1: I know what kund of you. You tain't count of

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Speaker 1: me a killer? You this you that leave my sister alone,

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Speaker 1: they'll go date a corporate nigga. Because I see her

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Speaker 7: The relationship was weird. You didn't think like the way

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Speaker 1: You didn't think that I feel the same way about

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Speaker 1: my sister.

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Speaker 5: No, you don't. I know you don't. I do know

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Speaker 5: you do not.

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Speaker 1: Do I feel the same way that listens Let me

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Speaker 1: woman in my life. Then I feel like y'all could be.

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00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 1: I love you as a husband, but you're my sister.

446
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 1: You're not understanding what I'm saying. When you're when you're

447
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 1: a man's man like, you feel like you're a protector

448
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 1: over any woman that's around you. So I see you

449
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 1: as I want to love you the way I want

450
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 1: to set the bar for love for you. The way

451
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: I love you, Jay, you shouldn't go outside of that.

452
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 1: You shouldn't date a man that don't love you the

453
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,360
Speaker 1: way I love you. And I'm just your brother. Yeah,

454
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 1: you get what I'm.

455
00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,879
Speaker 6: Saying, Like like like that's the that's the that's the

456
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 6: ultimate love right there, and that's how it's supposed.

457
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: To be, and that's how he feels the way I

458
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 1: see you.

459
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 5: More than that though, I'm telling you.

460
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:12,879
Speaker 3: Bro, I think it's just y'all remember, because it's a

461
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 3: long ass movie and it's been a few years. But

462
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 3: what part of it makes y'all feel like it was more.

463
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,439
Speaker 1: Kind at the end? Though? What part it was just

464
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 1: too hard?

465
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 5: It was too it was too close.

466
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 6: No, it's been a few parts, like okay, right before

467
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 6: he went to the car dealership, like when he went

468
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 6: when he went to the house and he was taking

469
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 6: his mom and the money and he gave his mom

470
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 6: didn't want the money, and then he gave her the money,

471
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 6: and then they were talking and this and that, like

472
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 6: when he went by.

473
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:45,239
Speaker 1: The house, it's my baby, listen, take this money. Make

474
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: sure you buy herself. She tripped.

475
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 5: It's all he did.

476
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: Go ahead.

477
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 5: I can't help it. I can't I want to know. Like, no,

478
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,679
Speaker 5: it was just like all throughout the movie, it was

479
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 5: just like his obsession with her was over the top.

480
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 1: Is it obsession of protection?

481
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,879
Speaker 5: It was obsession. I know something, I know protection.

482
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: Say this. Let me say this. Let me say this.

483
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 1: When you're protecting somebody from the world that they are

484
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: green to, it's gonna look like obsession.

485
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 5: No, that's cool, that's cool. I overly get that. I

486
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 5: overly get that.

487
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 6: But protection from a world that they're green to is

488
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 6: different from when.

489
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 1: I when I when I when I saw you in

490
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 1: the house, I told you, hey, take this money, go

491
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: have fun. I'm not telling you to come get in

492
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: my mix. I'm in the streets where it is cut

493
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 1: through that this nigga you dance with the didn't even

494
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 1: get you on powder, didn't even have you fucked up.

495
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: I'm telling you go go go mingle with some ducks.

496
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 5: No that No, that's cool. But it's it is. It

497
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 5: was more to it than that.

498
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 1: I'm telling you.

499
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 5: It was weird. I think we're gonna have to watch

500
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 5: it over. I'm like, we're.

501
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 6: Gonna have to We're gonna have to pinpoint, like, hey,

502
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 6: freeze the movie. I'm gonna have to get my pointer

503
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 6: say this just when the ship fucked up, just where

504
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 6: it's where that this is where he did.

505
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 2: And there was a line in the movie where she says,

506
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 2: you want to fuck me Tony?

507
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 1: Is that it? And I don't remember that, but but

508
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: that Nigga looking at it like what he No.

509
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 6: He was looking like that because that nigga was high

510
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,400
Speaker 6: out of his mind and was about.

511
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 5: To fall off. Oh my god, I'm about to go

512
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 5: home and watch this chat.

513
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: Okay, got the movies you watch any day.

514
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 6: Okay, I'm gonna watch because I need to see what

515
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 6: you're feeling.

516
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: Open the door. My food is out there. But yeah,

517
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, what I'm seeing is

518
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 1: that he just was overprotective of his So it's on Hulu.

519
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 1: That was the only thing he had that was pure

520
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 1: in his life. He said that, like, this is the

521
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: only he told his brother. No, bro, he told that

522
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 1: Nigga was the name many No, Bro, this is the

523
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: only thing that's left that's pure from me. Yeah, so

524
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,920
Speaker 1: I'm overprotected of this. So it may seem awkward and weird,

525
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: because Bro, all I seen was bullshit. But my mom

526
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 1: and my sister is all I got left to make

527
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 1: me feel like the world is Why do you think

528
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: she said that though I'm scared of not, I do

529
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 1: remember that. Why do you think she said that.

530
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 6: She was acting like it because he was overprotected?

531
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: She said that because when she was in the starn

532
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 1: paddle with the nigga he busted get your ass out

533
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: of there. Then he killed her husband, which was my friend.

534
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: And I know ain't shit. He got nothing but bitches.

535
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: So she like, damn, bro, is it that you want me?

536
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: And I can see what other women that's in the know,

537
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: not y'all, but you know she's will keep your hands

538
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 1: to yourself. Brown women. Most women feel as if though

539
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 1: every man wants them because they protect them, like like

540
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: shots out.

541
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 5: I disagree.

542
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me say this. Shoutside the courtney shouts

543
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: out to my wife Shannte. They tell me straight up, like, bro,

544
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 1: you're so nice that you'll make a woman think you

545
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: want them because how you treat women, Because I embrace women,

546
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 1: like when JoJo's Joji, what you're doing, baby hug? Sit

547
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: it out? Some women take that ship. Isn't he ain't

548
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 1: like me? You know That's just how I am with women.

549
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: But precious feel like everybody That's what I'm saying. They

550
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: deserve to be love a woman. Some women to take

551
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: that is he liked me good.

552
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 6: But I feel like, but I feel like, and I

553
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 6: could be wrong, and I'm probably gonna get flat for

554
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 6: this or whatever, but I feel like women that take

555
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 6: those simple gestures as being more than what it is

556
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 6: are weak.

557
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 3: Or not.

558
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: Say let me say, let me say that. Jay, I'm sorry. No,

559
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 1: it's not insecure. It's not weakness. Don't take that. It's

560
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 1: just not normal. These niggas is bitches. They don't know

561
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: how to treat women. So you get a man and

562
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: know how to treat a woman and be like, hey,

563
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: y'all good, make sure you're protected. That ship draws, because

564
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: that's what all women want. They want to they serve everything.

565
00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: So when you do that as a friend, it can

566
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 1: get misconstrued because they.

567
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 2: Don't get this off because you you tie that action

568
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 2: to an emotion.

569
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 1: So if this niggas being nice to you, you tie

570
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 1: that action to an emotion.

571
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, this niggas being nice to you. Even if y'all

572
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 2: just y'all just friends and y'all just it's nothing.

573
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 5: Really, what kind of niggas y'all be around?

574
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: No, Jay, you think about it, you damn the a nigga.

575
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 1: I'm just being real. So you be around niggas and

576
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,919
Speaker 1: you receive love from niggas differently than other women do

577
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: that don't be around niggas. So when they be around,

578
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: they be around niggas that they dating only, and the

579
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: nigga be bitches. So they come around a man like, no,

580
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 1: you're good. What's that? WO call you five times? What

581
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: you doing? You made it home? Some women take that different,

582
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: and I think.

583
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 2: That is like if I'm kicking it with a chicken,

584
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 2: she's you don't care about come over like she cooking

585
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 2: and clean and every time she come.

586
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: Over like this is normal to you? What you're doing

587
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: all this for you?

588
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 5: Like and some ship, I'm hungry.

589
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: You're gonna cook every time you go over a nigga

590
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 1: fool that.

591
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 5: If I cook, I'm not cooking at no house though.

592
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:03,239
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I say you go over

593
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 2: the nigga house and you cook every time you go

594
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 2: over there.

595
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 5: He's gonna start thinking like me, well he should.

596
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 6: Exactly, But what if what if you don't that, There's

597
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 6: no way I won't be cooking nowhere?

598
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 5: Girls going to.

599
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: Cook one time when Jay get quiet, she kind of

600
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: get it, like I get it. I know that she's

601
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: just so used to all her partners because we don't

602
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 1: look at Jade's female, even though she is, she gets dicked.

603
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: She but we look at this our sis, the homie.

604
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, it's our homie, so we

605
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: treat her as that.

606
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 6: So it's I guess because I'm used to just always

607
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 6: being most of the time the only girl.

608
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: So but and you're protecting, you're provided for you this

609
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: year that you're this and this. But a woman, a

610
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: feminine woman that meets a man that they never get

611
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: this type of ship and they see like, hey make

612
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 1: sure John, walk John to a car, make sure she good,

613
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: make sure she's good. Sure Jojo this, Hey joj you

614
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,479
Speaker 1: made at home. Women gonna take that shit in a

615
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: different route instead of a man that's being a man.

616
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: You've been in my presence. I gotta make sure you're good.

617
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: That's any real man. Yeah, it's so many suckers out

618
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: here to make these women feel like that's not the norm.

619
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: So when I do it, it feel like bank like me,

620
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 1: that is true. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like

621
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 1: is he trying to what is it? I'm confused, No, bitch,

622
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: I'm just a man. You know what I'm saying. I

623
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: probably will fuck you, but the spirit of David, I

624
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 1: probably no. I bush your side though I just threw

625
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: that I bush your side. It's on you on my watch.

626
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: That's how men look. Man looking at this at the

627
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,959
Speaker 1: end of the day, you on my watch. So I'm

628
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna see it all the way through. If

629
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: you out with me, get home safe, get back to

630
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: your baby, say get back to the chance, say get

631
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: back to little Jojo safe, and then that's my my

632
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: My mission ain't complete. And if you came out with me,

633
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: my mission ain't complete till you get back home. Then

634
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: we started another day tomorrow. But women, take that, is

635
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 1: he care about me? Girl, because that's not that's not common.

636
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: It's not that that's not coming, Thank you, bro, it's

637
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: not coming. But it's like to me, I could be

638
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: in the call my wife on the way home, get

639
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: my dicks up by my wife or whatever. Nashtally she

640
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: we about to do something, check on Jojo. Make sure yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,

641
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: all right, go ahead. You know what I'm saying because

642
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: just because at the end of the day you was

643
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: on my watch right that.

644
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 2: It's kind of like like like like in the South,

645
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 2: if I dropped Jojoe off, I'm gonna make sure she

646
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 2: walk in the house before I drive off. In other spots,

647
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 2: like in New York, that's not as common. Nigga, I

648
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 2: dropped you off one time, and what I did.

649
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 5: There's somebody right in there. You left her, that girl,

650
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 5: I was.

651
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 1: Already in here.

652
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,479
Speaker 5: See, we were just good. We was just good. Now,

653
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 5: don't get up here.

654
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 7: I have to tell you that I said, I had

655
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 7: to tell you about that the intern we had at

656
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 7: the show. She was leaving and you left her and

657
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 7: her Uber was out here and she she was waiting

658
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 7: for twenty minutes outside waiting for Uber.

659
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: I feel like men are supposed to protect women. It's

660
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: just how I was raised, you know what I'm saying.

661
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: I don't know how the other nigga made. These niggas.

662
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 1: Niggas want to push it. They want to push it

663
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: to no real they want to split. I gotta dick.

664
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: I don't want to split, you know what I'm saying.

665
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: So a woman, a woman, I want her to feel

666
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: like a woman. I want her to feel as if though, So, nigga,

667
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 1: I'm really really really fucking the game up for these niggas.

668
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: So when it be like, damn if my friend could

669
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 1: treat me this way while my dude not show you

670
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: your worth, you know what I'm saying, Like you're a queen.

671
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 7: So do you think that that's ever gonna change evolve?

672
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 7: Like men will go back to being me?

673
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 1: Women got demand Moore?

674
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's what you think. You think?

675
00:32:56,280 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 6: I think I think that's a good point. Women start

676
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 6: laying up with these brokens.

677
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: No, but you gotta let the nigga know what you

678
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: used to, even if you got it from a friend.

679
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: You gotta let nigga know what you used to. Like, damn,

680
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: bro you ain't open the door like my friend open

681
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: it over open it.

682
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 5: You ain't gotta say it me.

683
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 6: I just stepped back, like if I'm walking, step back

684
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 6: like I don't touch the door.

685
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 5: Now you gotta start calling these niggas.

686
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 1: Out like I got pissed, I get wrong. I don't

687
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: know what to do. But I've been trying to hold

688
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 1: this ship for just go and we're.

689
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 3: Gonna start random thoughts, all right, So y'all gonna move

690
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 3: withoil you get back all alright, like that big Fast Friday.

691
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 3: So so break down random thoughts for JoJo's.

692
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 6: All right, So random thoughts is when we go around

693
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 6: and everybody just give a random thought.

694
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, So do you have a random thought

695
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 5: in your head?

696
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: Give her an example shot, I.

697
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 7: Mean a random thought, right, okay, you know, yeah, okay,

698
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 7: so give me some time to like think of a

699
00:33:58,680 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 7: random thought.

700
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 6: All right, So I'll start. My random thought is do

701
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 6: pigs have orgasms?

702
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 5: They do? Yeah? Do they have? You never seen two pigs? Fuck?

703
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 5: No ever? Never? No, I never you never seen two pigs.

704
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,280
Speaker 5: I've never seen two pigs have sex.

705
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 6: But I was just wonder like do pigs and animals

706
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 6: in general, like do they have orgasms?

707
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 5: Because I've watched Yes, you've never seen horses? Fuck that.

708
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 5: I don't know I've seen that.

709
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 6: But I'm talking about like the woman like that, the

710
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 6: not the woman, but like the female gay horses. No,

711
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 6: the female animal, dude, the female animal have orgasms of course,

712
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,439
Speaker 6: like the male is ship.

713
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 5: They got to well.

714
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 2: The bad the bad thing about animals orgasms like sometimes

715
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 2: like the male dying, like in the animal kingdom, like

716
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 2: spiders kill the nigga like when they're done praying mantis

717
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 2: just killed the nigga, like when they done.

718
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 6: So oh yeah, some animals like when they have an orgasm,

719
00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 6: that's the end of their life.

720
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's some animal like spider.

721
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 5: But that's like what is it the black widow or

722
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:05,880
Speaker 5: they kill them or something.

723
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 6: I thought, well, I thought the woman after she make

724
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 6: her the woman spider. You saying woman, the female spider

725
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,800
Speaker 6: after she had the kids.

726
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but woman, a woman is a human.

727
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 6: But like after the female spider have kids, she will

728
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 6: wrap herself up so the kids can like eat her.

729
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's weird. Let wrapped herself up?

730
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:29,760
Speaker 1: She would.

731
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, bees testicles explode after they they orgasms.

732
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 5: But what about the women, I mean, what about the female?

733
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,720
Speaker 1: Well, in the animal kingdom the human.

734
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 2: Does the female animals have orgasms? No, because they fucked

735
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 2: for reproduction. They don't fuck for pleasure.

736
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 5: How you know, are you an animal?

737
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 2: Yes, we are animals. We're just a species of animal

738
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 2: that's called human.

739
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 5: Okay, so then we have orgasms.

740
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 3: But orgasms is different from all what do you call it?

741
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,280
Speaker 3: I guess ejaculation and coming and stuff.

742
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:03,720
Speaker 5: It's the female.

743
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 1: All the animals have to no, just.

744
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 5: The guy normally because if you watch animals have sex.

745
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 3: But that would that would mess up the whole theory.

746
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 3: That would mess up the whole theory of animals. And

747
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 3: that's basically not.

748
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 6: Really because because in Layman's terms, when you're having sex

749
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 6: and you have an orgasm, and orgasm is a climax

750
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 6: and the end result of the climax is the release

751
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 6: of the fluid.

752
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 3: You can without having an orgasm. You can not have

753
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 3: an orgasm male or female. Correct, it's called dry orgasm.

754
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 6: I don't know, but I don't think if it happens

755
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 6: like that for female, because I've never done it and

756
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,919
Speaker 6: I had an orgasm, I would think that they play

757
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 6: a part for the female.

758
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 5: Maybe I never known it and not like orgasm with me.

759
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 2: And that's what seeming retention is like you can come

760
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 2: and not like, don't be no lequal.

761
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 6: That's how that's that's an oxymoron called hold on. I

762
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 6: mean you seeman retention means you hold the semen. You

763
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 6: hold it, you're not releasing it.

764
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: But you can have that organ you can still, but

765
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:10,439
Speaker 1: it's nothing there.

766
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 3: They don't they I'm saying not one hundred percent of

767
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 3: the time. They don't have to be joined together. You

768
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 3: can have an ejaculation.

769
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: What's what you think, do you aulation without orgasm?

770
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 5: That you can have a you can without having an orgasm? Yeah,

771
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 5: for sure, men can't.

772
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:32,399
Speaker 1: Women can't too.

773
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 5: I've never done that. It's not as.

774
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 3: Satisfying well a woman if a woman start getting real

775
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 3: wet and creaming and doing all this crazy.

776
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,879
Speaker 7: Wait hold on, yeah, wait, because I don't think I've

777
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 7: had like an orgasm.

778
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 5: Your body has never never had My body has never

779
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 5: a lot of women, not from like.

780
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: A lot of women. Or I'm trying to say, really.

781
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 6: Oh my god, do you know what you're missing? Have

782
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 6: you done it to yourself? You've never made yourself have

783
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 6: an orgasm?

784
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 7: I guess so yeah, Like, yeah, but it's not not from.

785
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 5: You've never had like a dick orgasm. I've never had

786
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 5: that neither.

787
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: What.

788
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've never had that either.

789
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

790
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 6: I've never You've never not once time, never ever ever

791
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 6: in life, Like, oh my god, neither one of you.

792
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 5: No, wow, but I've.

793
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 6: Never I just sucked me up with that one, like

794
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 6: I was not prepared, Like I can't feel like it

795
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 6: is not a reason why, but this ship is equivalent

796
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 6: to me learning like that Santa Claus didn't exist, Like

797
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 6: I'm blown away right now.

798
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 3: But only reason why. There's a reason why. That means

799
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 3: you're too much.

800
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 5: No, even before I started master that, I don't even

801
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 5: matterbate that much either. I don't ask at it all.

802
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:02,920
Speaker 1: You said you have orgasms.

803
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 6: I just I have orgasms. But it's like off of

804
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 6: oral sex.

805
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 5: I've never had like I've had like life shattering orgasms

806
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 5: from dick. Shout out on you. I wish.

807
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,760
Speaker 6: That's why I'm like, I'm wishing I could, like I could.

808
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 6: It's somebody that I could like transmute that to y'all, like.

809
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 5: Trade muted like because I don't know.

810
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know what I'm so it's not like

811
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 6: I'm like, I just.

812
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 1: Wish you know what you missed.

813
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:38,240
Speaker 2: Jojo you enough. No, you don't need to be getting

814
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 2: cred that gave you that. If you're busting out windows now,

815
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 2: say you you're gonna relapse.

816
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 6: So you busted out a window from a nigga that

817
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 6: never gave you an orgasm, I.

818
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:56,280
Speaker 5: Am busting window. I broke into his house with no orgasm,

819
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 5: but it wasn't because his dick was good it was

820
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 5: because he had sucked up.

821
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 6: You're talking about orgasms, but okay, what's so my random

822
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 6: thought was really just do pigs have orgasms?

823
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 5: And I guess.

824
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 6: Right is how can you get a man to let

825
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 6: you get an orgasm?

826
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 5: That's rid of thought. You gotta get a nigga that

827
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 5: knows how to funk like I do crazy sex before.

828
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:42,439
Speaker 5: It just hasn't gotten to the point of like, yeah,

829
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:45,959
Speaker 5: right to where like I'm gonna you know.

830
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 6: But like bro, like the person I mean I've had.

831
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 6: I guess I've had it too.

832
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: Because you didn't trust.

833
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 5: Them here man, like, I cannot believe this. Just send

834
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 5: me the number. Look at Jojo, just share him.

835
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 1: You need to go to Tokyo Valentino be there that.

836
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 5: That's another artificial ship. She needs a real dick. Oh yeah,

837
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:17,440
Speaker 5: I've been downstairs what not. I didn't do anything.

838
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 6: I just watched people and they have like the little

839
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 6: y'all know what we should do.

840
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 5: We should do a big fact trip there.

841
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 6: And fucking and fucking what And I don't know, like

842
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 6: down there like.

843
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 5: Or something. No, they have rooms down there where it's

844
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 5: like you can watch porn, you know.

845
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 6: They have like little rooms, little cubicles. You can watch

846
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 6: like porn in the little cubicles.

847
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 5: I thought you can have sex.

848
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: I wasn't there for that part.

849
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 5: I wasn't there for that part. I never seen people

850
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 5: have sex down there.

851
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 6: Now I got y'all talking about it's like you can

852
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 6: go downstairs and watch actual live people fucking.

853
00:41:58,360 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 5: I haven't seen it. I haven't seen it.

854
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: Yes, you can, allegedly.

855
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 6: What's that place talking about?

856
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 1: That's the whorehouse.

857
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 5: Got some good breakfast took? How you know? That's what

858
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 5: I know?

859
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 6: Niggas that I mean, they do a lot of stuff

860
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 6: over there, Like they said, the food down there is

861
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 6: like a one almost like comparable to cheetah type ship.

862
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 5: I need to go. Let's go.

863
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 6: Let's yeah, we too known to just be out there

864
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 6: and trapeze like that.

865
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 5: Who else is known? No, Yeah, I think it'd be fun.

866
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 5: Freaking I think it'll be fun.

867
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 6: I think up there going on, let me see what's doing.

868
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 6: From my understanding that the parts your like clothes, and

869
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 6: then once you go pass apart, everyone is like nude.

870
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 6: That like, so it's like naked once you go pass apart.

871
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 6: Jju is like, yeah, you have to go in there

872
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 6: and you gotta.

873
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 5: That's like us and ship.

874
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 6: They give you a body scrub, they do everything like

875
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:09,839
Speaker 6: that ship is a ship.

876
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 7: So allegedly you go in there and get undressed, put

877
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 7: a roll bone, take a shower, put a rope. Allegedly

878
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,240
Speaker 7: put a roll but take a shower, put a rollbone.

879
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 7: Going there and then it's like a full room of

880
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 7: just people having sex. Passwords to the rooms where like

881
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 7: with windows where you can watch people having sex. And

882
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 7: then there's rooms with like big huge beds and swings

883
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 7: and stuff where a lot of people can have sex.

884
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 5: It sounds exotic.

885
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, they offer uh yeah, you know, they offer safe

886
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 7: sex in every place. Allegedly it's it's a club and

887
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 7: you have to have a membership. So actually when you

888
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:52,720
Speaker 7: walk in, allegedly it's a club, I'm gonna keep saying.

889
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 5: Allegedly because it's alleged.

890
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:57,280
Speaker 7: Alleged you walk in, I don't know, it's a club,

891
00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 7: and then you gotta go through the room and then

892
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 7: allowed paperwork and all that stuff.

893
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 6: Allegedly are you're talking about trapeze? It's on pun industrial.

894
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 1: Oh is that the old dirty rats.

895
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 5: Down the street?

896
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: That's just.

897
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 5: Let me find out you be there.

898
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 1: The dirty rats thinking it was a strip club, like

899
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 1: this is a little everybody that way you want to

900
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 1: do it?

901
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, we don't talk about blind random thought, a.

902
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: Random m random.

903
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 3: That.

904
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 5: I couldn't think of anything.

905
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 1: It's it's on me. Yeah, damn random thought, random thought.

906
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 5: Can I come back?

907
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: Damn? What do blind people see? What do blind people see?

908
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 5: It depends on when they went blind.

909
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: I agree with that. It depends when they was born blind.

910
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 6: If they were born blind, they don't see ship. It's

911
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 6: just do they see like the color black?

912
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 1: Like what do they know what the color black is? Though?

913
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 1: Have we ever asked the blind brother? No, it's Steven

914
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 1: want on.

915
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 5: The phone, not Stevie.

916
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 6: Stevie used to be able to see or was that

917
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 6: Jamie Fox? I mean, yeah, Rachel I.

918
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 5: Think was born blind. He was a little boy in

919
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:18,280
Speaker 5: the movie. He was a little boy. Yeah, you're right,

920
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:18,959
Speaker 5: my mind can't.

921
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 6: And they put that that that that stuff, that thick,

922
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 6: greased stuff that looked like vaciline on his eyes for.

923
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 2: The movie, you know, like I'm an expert on blind people. Ship,

924
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm just learning.

925
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 4: No.

926
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 5: For the movie, it was it's called Save.

927
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 6: It's called Save. Yeah, they put it on his eyes.

928
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,439
Speaker 6: That was a good random thought. Okay, so my random thought.

929
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 6: So I want to think about my random thought.

930
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 5: So scream you and go with you.

931
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: I don't really be having good random but we're talking

932
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: about animals and ship. That just random. They came across

933
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: my head, Like you think like animals and.

934
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 3: They hate on each other, for sure, I think they do.

935
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 1: It's called crabs in the bucket.

936
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 5: I think they hate.

937
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, get your You be seeing like the deer rolling

938
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 1: and packs and they be saying like they be holding.

939
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 5: The mamas that.

940
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, just see.

941
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,479
Speaker 6: Just think about when you see dogs and they start

942
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 6: barking at each other or bird.

943
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, smoke, yeah, the trailer and do we have a

944
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,840
Speaker 1: major smoke? Birds? Birds when it's not enough bread crumbs.

945
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,919
Speaker 6: Yeah, y'all ain't never seen that movie that just came

946
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:49,320
Speaker 6: out with the birds bird box. It was a cartoon

947
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 6: movie and they share a sandwich. Tell my guy, babies,

948
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 6: go see that.

949
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,399
Speaker 1: It was like a Pixar Join something. Yeah.

950
00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:57,720
Speaker 5: That ship was funny.

951
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 1: They were trying to get my brother.

952
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 5: Yes, that was my great migrate. I don't know like that. Yeah, so.

953
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 6: You going back now, go ahead on you. I'm waiting

954
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 6: on you. Go ahead, my full.

955
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 5: Mine. Do pigs have orgasms? That's how we got the organs,

956
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 5: That's how we got to the sex talk.

957
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:27,800
Speaker 6: Damn, I think pigs with their tails.

958
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 5: Though.

959
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: What is happening mine is in the after life. Can

960
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 1: you fuck somebody that you left on earth?

961
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 5: Yes? You can you? Yes?

962
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think that's what it's.

963
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 6: Called incubus and succubists and spirit wives, spirit husband.

964
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: I think that's how you catch a CD, not spiritually

965
00:47:53,080 --> 00:48:01,919
Speaker 1: transmitted disease that hour. But if you if you ain't heaven,

966
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 1: I don't think you got no disease.

967
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,760
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying, put that on the shirt.

968
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: If you pass right and it's a bit you ain't,

969
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 1: you ain't you ain't get a chance to funk while

970
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: you were here and you come to her dream on

971
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 1: the fuck her? Is that right?

972
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 6: No, because she's gonna be dreaming about it and doing

973
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 6: it with you. Okay, Now if you just hump her

974
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 6: and she just in there sleep and don't know.

975
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: What about you? Do women? Do women? Do women have

976
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: wet dreams like calming their dreams? Yeah?

977
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm very much so.

978
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: If I came in your dream and I passed away

979
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 1: and fucked in your dream. I think that's legitimate, right, yeah,

980
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: so yeah, so niggas getting pussing out, but pussy, I know,

981
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: to get some pussy. That's why I want to know.

982
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:54,240
Speaker 6: See, he's a he's a different he's a different type

983
00:48:54,239 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 6: because usually those types of spirits are obsessive and overprotective.

984
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:04,800
Speaker 6: Not well, not even overprotective. Usually those types of spirits

985
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 6: are and you can read up on this, I'm not capping.

986
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:12,840
Speaker 6: They're possessive and they have the power to affect like

987
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 6: a lot.

988
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 5: Of things, like.

989
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 6: Engaging with those types of spirits on a regular basis,

990
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 6: depending upon like what the situation is, like, just like

991
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 6: I was just telling y'all earlier, Like it's been people

992
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 6: that have had like supernatural experiences, sexual experiences with spirits

993
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 6: and shit, and then they fucked around and like with

994
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 6: their husband or their real boyfriend or whatever, got pregnant

995
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 6: and the spirit came and you know, like fucked with

996
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 6: their baby, like and they like lost a kid and

997
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 6: had a miscarrit shit like that. Like shit like that

998
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 6: is nothing to play with, Like, and I know people

999
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 6: some people don't believe in that, and they say, oh,

1000
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 6: that's bullshit whatever whatever, But that shit is not a game.

1001
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 6: That shit is not a game at all at all.

1002
00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:58,280
Speaker 5: So I just had.

1003
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: How did my random thoughts just take a turn with

1004
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: what Jay was just saying?

1005
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 5: She was educating us on your random.

1006
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:14,320
Speaker 1: I ain't get that. What I'm asking is.

1007
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 5: Getting vagina.

1008
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, still busting nuts?

1009
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 5: Absolutely?

1010
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know he is.

1011
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 5: They was too freaky and is.

1012
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: His whole still again? Please?

1013
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 5: I am you know they are like are these rhetorical questions?

1014
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 1: How do you gotta feel? No, I can't let them

1015
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 1: whole like puss. They want to get chantas on too.

1016
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 1: Other than that, yeah, ye down amount of time we're

1017
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 1: doing this ship for the coach.

1018
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 5: That's over?

1019
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 1: Do you think what you think is weird? If if

1020
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 1: you if you had a wet dream like two three

1021
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 1: times a week, No, mm hmmm. I'm saying, even though

1022
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: you got a dude now like he fucking you and

1023
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 1: then you got a wet dream you dream about Dave,

1024
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,959
Speaker 1: ain't got you know what I'm saying.

1025
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 5: Oh, they've hit that ship. No, they've never hit this.

1026
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 5: He would know, but he didn't know.

1027
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 1: I know they look little, sir, But what I'm saying, whoever, they.

1028
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 5: Would have plastered that ship.

1029
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, whoever, Joe, like the nigga. Let me

1030
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: ask you something.

1031
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 5: What's some big Daddy?

1032
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: Could you be with a woman? Kodak scream? Could you

1033
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:38,280
Speaker 1: be a woman?

1034
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 5: Could you be with a woman that was.

1035
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 2: Let him get you?

1036
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 1: Could you be with a woman that was devastated by

1037
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: her X or her baby ship that devastated.

1038
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 5: Over there death, over there death or they were still alive?

1039
00:51:57,120 --> 00:52:00,800
Speaker 1: Oh this nigg is still alive both Oh hell no, no, no.

1040
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,920
Speaker 6: Devastated like that, there's no point of even been in

1041
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 6: a relationship.

1042
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 2: She's devastated because our relationship here is on this nigga.

1043
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 5: I disagree with that.

1044
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 6: I disagree with It depends like if he passed away, yes,

1045
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 6: but like if it's like he's alive and she's just devastated.

1046
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 1: What happened?

1047
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:19,919
Speaker 3: You asking me? You asking me? Could I be Will Smith? Basically? Yeah,

1048
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 3: I know I couldnot.

1049
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:23,919
Speaker 6: If the nigga's dead, that's a totally different ball game.

1050
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:25,319
Speaker 6: I feel like I feel like.

1051
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 1: Saying she's saying, she's saying Jada was devastated when Pop passed.

1052
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:30,720
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

1053
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 6: But I feel like I feel like those women also

1054
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 6: deserve love And if you funk with her.

1055
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:39,399
Speaker 5: Just listen.

1056
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 1: You digging the grave up and get your ass in

1057
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: there too. What that nigga gone? Oh that's gone. No, No,

1058
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 1: I ain't no, no, how the fun I'm being a

1059
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 1: relationship with with the motherfucker that love another motherfucker more

1060
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: than me.

1061
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, but listen to what I'm saying.

1062
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 1: I'm just for the time.

1063
00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 5: Men, think how you how you'll and the nigga's dad

1064
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 5: at the end of the day.

1065
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:09,839
Speaker 1: So you said I'm gonna funk you and you're gonna

1066
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 1: go in the bathroom and cry about this nigga?

1067
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:14,799
Speaker 5: No you stream that's extreme.

1068
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 1: At the end of the day. Listen, Listen, listen, listen.

1069
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 1: May he rest in peace. But you mind, now forget that.

1070
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 1: How you still hurt by something else outside of me?

1071
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: That mean I don't have to for you before you

1072
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: exempt that from your life.

1073
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 5: That's not You can be sad.

1074
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 6: You can be sad by this somebody, when somebody is

1075
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 6: when somebody is a major part of your life, you

1076
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 6: don't just you don't just.

1077
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 5: Forget like thin about.

1078
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: I can't deal with a woman if I don't have

1079
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 1: all of it, y'all. Not y'all not. I'm just being real.

1080
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 3: Y'all not flipping it around that if y'all nigga was

1081
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 3: boohooing in the corner, falling out over another bit, y'all

1082
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 3: wouldn't feeling.

1083
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 5: He wouldn't be my nigga. That's what I say.

1084
00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 6: If I if I but listen, listen, I'm I feel

1085
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 6: like it's to a certain extent though, because if you

1086
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 6: if you've lost somebody that's been a major part of

1087
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:12,440
Speaker 6: your life and you're grieving, I can I can understand that, and.

1088
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,439
Speaker 5: If I love you like that, I'm here to help

1089
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:16,800
Speaker 5: you try to get past that.

1090
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 3: I'm thinking now, I think we're thinking particularly not just

1091
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 3: a dude, but if you was a dude you was

1092
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 3: with and all that type of ship that you.

1093
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:29,399
Speaker 1: Didn't get over him, You ain't over him. You cried

1094
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 1: like you wish you and me instead of him, that

1095
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: type of ship like.

1096
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 3: That.

1097
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,360
Speaker 6: Did I meet you before or after he passed? It

1098
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 6: doesn't matter, Yes it does, it does matter.

1099
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 5: It does matter.

1100
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 6: So if you with if you with your new guy

1101
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 6: right now, and then the ex of you, if I

1102
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 6: met you before he passed, if we were together.

1103
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: Your dude and your baby daddy passed and you just

1104
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 1: struggled wow, y'all together.

1105
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 6: Baby daddy and exes are two different things. Yeah, because

1106
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 6: because a lot of that sadness from the baby daddy death.

1107
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: Okay, your ex, your X that you love, that your first,

1108
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 1: your first love. But me and you were married now

1109
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:14,959
Speaker 1: and you just scrumbled about this nigga distract whatever the fuck,

1110
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 1: and now I gotta deal with it. I gotta pet

1111
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 1: you up by another nigga. Yeah, I see what he's saying.

1112
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 6: I mean because I feel like I feel like you

1113
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 6: should have some level of compassion.

1114
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:30,479
Speaker 1: Going because we're worried about our house.

1115
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 2: We worried about our house all the time, nigga, is

1116
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 2: time that we could be spending our house.

1117
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 5: No, I believe.

1118
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 6: I feel like I feel like everybody should be given

1119
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 6: the proper amount of time and space to grieve, especially

1120
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 6: if it was somebody.

1121
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:49,800
Speaker 1: That, well, how you grieving something that's not no, that

1122
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 1: has a that that doesn't have any bearing on you.

1123
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 1: Just telling me before he passed nigga, it's us now

1124
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 1: he passed away. You mad and saying that don't mean

1125
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 1: the nigga to die If it's funny, hey man, but

1126
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:04,399
Speaker 1: that's if it's fucky as fucky. If I say fuck

1127
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: this bitch, hey she got Hey man, God, call that home.

1128
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm crying. I'm not I go cry in the cart.

1129
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 6: That's what I was gonna say. I was gonna say

1130
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 6: that like the proper way to grieve. Of course, the

1131
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 6: person would know that you're like sad or whatever the person,

1132
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 6: but I wouldn't be sitting here crying on my dude

1133
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 6: about another dude. I go to the homegirl and cry

1134
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 6: to her.

1135
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 5: But I'm not gonna let but you still have to

1136
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 5: get that ship out because if not you should you.

1137
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you what's gonna happen.

1138
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: You ain't mine. If you weren't mine, you ain't thinking

1139
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:39,879
Speaker 1: about no nother nigga, nothing that goes on with him.

1140
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 1: That's how I feel. I could be wrong at the

1141
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 1: end of the day. If something happened to any of

1142
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 1: my ex I'm gonna give a fuck because I'm with Chante.

1143
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 1: I love her. Hey man, that it's fucked up with

1144
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:54,440
Speaker 1: see some flowers. Let her let her initihape sense the

1145
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:56,839
Speaker 1: flowers to the family. Man, make sure they folk good

1146
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 1: or whatever. Let her initiape. Other than that, Hey man,

1147
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: I don't know them folks because I'm not gonna put

1148
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 1: no strain on the living, but had some dead ship.

1149
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 5: Now I get what you're saying, and I totally understand that.

1150
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 1: It is very deep. It is at the end of

1151
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:12,839
Speaker 1: the day. It's almost like at the end of the day,

1152
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 1: it builds an insecurity in your man. He's like, do

1153
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 1: you feel like that was your man? And I'm just

1154
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 1: a feeling. That's how nigga look at it.

1155
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 3: Look at it like looking like there's a similar situation

1156
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 3: if you're with somebody who got somebody who got a

1157
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 3: long prison bit.

1158
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: Maybe ain't supposed to come home. Now what happens when

1159
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: this person that you love so much send him home? Yeah,

1160
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 1: come home? What you're gonna do, Yeah, you're gonna kick me.

1161
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 1: See now you get it. What he's saying is, Okay,

1162
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 1: if I meet you, you got your nigga, he got

1163
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:47,800
Speaker 1: a he got a dug. The nigga you loved, who

1164
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: got your heart, he got twenty years your life. He

1165
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: on his seven year I meet you. You've been staying down,

1166
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: but now you try to venture out. Now you're with me.

1167
00:57:57,560 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 1: Now you're telling me you loved me. But then trump'sent

1168
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 1: home because the COVID on his ninth year. Where did

1169
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 1: that leave me? Who do you love?

1170
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 5: Who do you love?

1171
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: That's the same thing as him. If your nigga passed

1172
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 1: and you did say it about him, if God gave

1173
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 1: you an ultimatum in your dream, hey, we can take

1174
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: this nigga and bring him back. What you choose, nigga,

1175
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: feel like she gon you this nigga. She's too sad

1176
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: about this nigga. Right, let the horns off.

1177
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 5: Okay, let me ask you what the with the twenty

1178
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 5: years ship?

1179
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 1: Right?

1180
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 5: What was the understanding when I met you? What you

1181
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 5: mean you already told him in twenty years?

1182
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: Oh? Look what?

1183
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 3: What?

1184
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 1: What was? What was I understanding was? Hey, I've been

1185
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 1: in a relationship. I've been trying to find myself since

1186
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: my dude been gonna. I love him. But now you're

1187
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 1: saying you love me right, and we've built the family,

1188
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 1: built something. Now butt it on the way home, not knowing.

1189
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 1: I'm just fuck you to your boy, get out taking him. No,

1190
00:58:55,960 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, fuck that nigga. Baby's us. Oh, nowt

1191
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 1: to fu you, hey, baby sending it him. I got

1192
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 1: a hummer on and send that nigga some money. That's

1193
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:07,919
Speaker 1: different because I'm supporting what you got go. I'm saying,

1194
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 1: we're starting to new us. Fuck him. M what Most

1195
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 1: women try to act like they're doing, but a player

1196
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 1: like me'll be like, nah, here I sending go see that.

1197
00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: Take the man kid to see him. I'm making sure

1198
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: I know I don't get in the rim of thinking

1199
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:26,959
Speaker 1: that you're my bitch because this is your nigga. Yeah,

1200
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: but when you start saying like it's funk all that

1201
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 1: or fuck that, it's us and then he passed away,

1202
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: now you just so bit. You can't eat, you can't sleep. Hey, man, bitch,

1203
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: you need to go on and die with him. I'm

1204
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:42,480
Speaker 1: just being one hundred because you.

1205
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 5: Feel that way too.

1206
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 3: Streen.

1207
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, you acting like you want to be with them,

1208
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: you want to go with them, because I'm supposed to

1209
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 1: be your happiness. You're supposed to be fulfeel like, damn,

1210
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 1: I hate that for the kid. Honey, Let's go to

1211
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: the let's go let's go to the funeral and make

1212
00:59:57,120 --> 01:00:00,040
Speaker 1: sure his people is good, and then we go do

1213
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: that with a good face. You're not destruct This is

1214
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: not fucking with your life. This is fuck with your life.

1215
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: Is gonna fuck with our life because I'm a part

1216
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: of you. And I gotta console you about another nigga. No,

1217
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it.

1218
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 5: I guess I see that point.

1219
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 1: That's the only way, Jade. I'm sorry, I understand what

1220
01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 1: you're trying to say.

1221
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:24,800
Speaker 6: No, no, we we we're on the same page with that.

1222
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 6: But what I'm saying is because I've seen this happen before.

1223
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 6: It's been I've seen situations where the same ship took place,

1224
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 6: the same shit occurred, but the nigga and the bitch.

1225
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 6: I've seen niggas have bitches die, and I've seen bitches

1226
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 6: have niggas die, and the person there are other person, significant,

1227
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 6: other person or whatever made it uncomfortable for them to

1228
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 6: feel like they could have any type of emotion about

1229
01:00:55,120 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 6: the ship. And then that that that uncomfortability about having

1230
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 6: any type of emotion about the ship turned into resentment

1231
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 6: later on down the line with that person because they

1232
01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 6: felt like, Hey, if you love me, I should be

1233
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 6: able to come to you and discuss anything with you

1234
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 6: about how I'm feeling about any kind of situation.

1235
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 3: I think it's any type of emotion versus consistent overbearing.

1236
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not talking about that.

1237
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 1: I'm not talking But at the end of the day,

1238
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, it's a limit to that ship. Okay,

1239
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: I spent for you. You you shared something with this person.

1240
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: Don't cry your emotion the way they can touch your emotion.

1241
01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:44,160
Speaker 1: That mean I ain't touching on the right way. That's

1242
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 1: how that's not true. That's how I look at it, though, Queen.

1243
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, if I me, if

1244
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 1: I come into your life and win a relationship, like,

1245
01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 1: shouldn't they been that crowd about nobody in life, no friends,

1246
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 1: no nothing, Because.

1247
01:01:57,160 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 5: I got you that don't even I don't.

1248
01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:06,960
Speaker 1: But I'm talking. I'm gonna tell you. First understand, we.

1249
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 2: Said, we said that you've been not croyd of one

1250
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 2: of your exes, and when they die with you in

1251
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 2: a whole.

1252
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:13,800
Speaker 1: New relationship, that's not fair. And I just but but

1253
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 1: this is what this is of the day. But you've

1254
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: been telling me fuck him when he was a lot.

1255
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 5: But when people die, that ship changes the whole ball game.

1256
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 5: Bang what they've been saying him.

1257
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And the nigga died, you crying,

1258
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 1: and you may hey, so really it's fuck me.

1259
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 5: No, it does not mean that.

1260
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 1: Hey, this may sound ignorant, and what I'm saying. But

1261
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 1: the thing about it is, like I just told you

1262
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 1: in this conversation, when I'm around women, no matter what

1263
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 1: type of woman it is, it could be my mom,

1264
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: my sister, your mom, your sister, my friends, my family,

1265
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna protect them for women, right, But when I

1266
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 1: claim you, it's my woman. Like Chante, you've been not

1267
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 1: cry by nonother nigga. You've been not even up set.

1268
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 1: You better be like ship. That ship that's life.

1269
01:02:59,200 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 5: Somewhere else.

1270
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:01,520
Speaker 1: Did you better to be the strongest bitch in life

1271
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 1: when they come down to another nigga. You read another

1272
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 1: nigga that they dated, Well, do you do know that

1273
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 1: my wife would destroyed by day? She still sucked up.

1274
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 1: That's different say a nigga that you dealt with. But

1275
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 1: you better find the strength find you better find this strip.

1276
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:23,720
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because this this nigga is

1277
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: gnaed in voice.

1278
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 3: So what I'm just I'm just curious. This is some bullshit,

1279
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 3: but I gotta do it. The night that Pop passed

1280
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 3: and Jada was there with Will, how do y'all think

1281
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 3: that went?

1282
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 5: She was crying, she was sad.

1283
01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 1: What did Will do? I just want to understand it.

1284
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 5: He consoled her. You know exactly, Will did everything that

1285
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 5: he's been doing.

1286
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:49,000
Speaker 3: Will, I'm sorry. I'm sorry about your loss the nigga

1287
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:50,880
Speaker 3: that your love of you. I'm sorry about the love

1288
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 3: of your life. You're holding this person and crying on

1289
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 3: your shoulder. I am sorry about the love of your life.

1290
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 5: Okay.

1291
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 1: So the thing about it, though he always felt kind

1292
01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: of secondarily secondary.

1293
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,920
Speaker 5: About it, is that well knew what he signed up

1294
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 5: for before he thank you, And then I also want

1295
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 5: to say, like, when that day came, he already knew.

1296
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 5: Let me get out of the way.

1297
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 1: This a bitch.

1298
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:18,320
Speaker 7: I personally think that if a man does that and

1299
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 7: takes it upon himself to console his girl that's crying

1300
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 7: of another man, then that is a very good man,

1301
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 7: a powerful man.

1302
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: That's a good man. In the moment after that, after that,

1303
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 1: after that, you're gonna think about it. Why, let me

1304
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:38,600
Speaker 1: tell you us about us and tell you something about women. Girl, buddy, homie,

1305
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 1: let me tell you something about women. What they do

1306
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:47,480
Speaker 1: is the things they won't They won't in the moment afterwards,

1307
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: after they see you actually do it, they hold you

1308
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 1: against it, hold that against you. Let me thank you, bro,

1309
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:56,600
Speaker 1: Like Okay, the bit should be, Like, I can't believe

1310
01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 1: this nigga was pet me up about another nigga. You're

1311
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: a dut that's how women do. They want you to

1312
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: do it, but when you do it, they see it

1313
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 1: for what it is after they healed, Like, you know,

1314
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 1: I can't believe this nigga really was crying with me

1315
01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:11,800
Speaker 1: about this nigga.

1316
01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:14,240
Speaker 5: I don't expect the nigga see me.

1317
01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 1: Hold on, see me fella, Me bitch gonna respect it

1318
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: in the long run, Like, boy, this nigga really cares

1319
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 1: because this nigga, this nigga was mad at me by

1320
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 1: a dead nigga. This nigga love me. He crazy. But

1321
01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: a nigga that phone for what burned out ship makes sense? Though.

1322
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 1: Let me say something. Let me say something. If I

1323
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:46,840
Speaker 1: was trying to be an understand Like I say, Ben,

1324
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 1: if you had two kids by two different men, right,

1325
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,480
Speaker 1: and but me and you together on our second kid

1326
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 1: and you got another baby that and I let you

1327
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 1: go in a room at Augur with another nigga. Hold,

1328
01:05:57,240 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 1: let me finish this. I let you go in the

1329
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 1: room and Ugu with another nigga, Like, because I'm understanding,

1330
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 1: that's your baby, dad, that's what most women won't like.

1331
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 1: This is my baby dad with co parenting. So a

1332
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 1: nigga be like I understanding out of that. You look

1333
01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 1: at him as a whole instead of Hey, tell that

1334
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 1: fuck nigga call me by this baby.

1335
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 5: Because he's in because the baby's in my household.

1336
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 1: Now listen all with baby nowiga, you don't talking about

1337
01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:19,360
Speaker 1: bitch about now, you don't put how can I let

1338
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:21,200
Speaker 1: you get in your feelings and put my bitch in

1339
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 1: a feelings and I gotta go through that. I gotta

1340
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:24,680
Speaker 1: go through what you.

1341
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 5: Attitude with you.

1342
01:06:27,680 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 2: This nigga is affecting our household. You don't know, nigga

1343
01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 2: need to affect effect what's going on? You care because

1344
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 2: it's my house.

1345
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:37,920
Speaker 1: If this nigga can, if this nigga affect your feelings,

1346
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 1: then you care about him. No nigga want to feel

1347
01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 1: like he's a bitch. Care about another nigga. I wouldn't give.

1348
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 2: And that's no man, that's like, that's like a woman

1349
01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 2: making your nigga sad as here this nigga, this woman

1350
01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 2: hurt his fucking feelings and he come home sad as

1351
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:51,120
Speaker 2: a big.

1352
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:54,040
Speaker 1: Why are you crying? Oh God, I'm Shirley, what's your name?

1353
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:55,840
Speaker 1: Right there? Put it? Putting my guard because he looked

1354
01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:58,840
Speaker 1: at she want to say something, She want to say something?

1355
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,560
Speaker 1: Is that native? What's you think?

1356
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 4: Now?

1357
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 1: Oh? Lord?

1358
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 5: What you think? What you think?

1359
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 3: You? You?

1360
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 5: He hear you.

1361
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 4: I personally have multiple men and I don't know about

1362
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:24,000
Speaker 4: each other. So I don't think it's a problem if

1363
01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 4: he wants to console me.

1364
01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 1: Oh that's different, now shouts out, and now that's different.

1365
01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 1: What I'm saying. I'm saying if you're in a committed

1366
01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 1: relationship with someone who has.

1367
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:45,040
Speaker 7: An I got something to say. Go ahead, okay, Because

1368
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:48,840
Speaker 7: if this man is consoling his girl for crying over

1369
01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 7: another man, why would you automatically assume that he's a bitch?

1370
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:55,040
Speaker 1: Number You wouldn't assume it in the moment because in

1371
01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 1: the moment, that's what you want to be consoled. But

1372
01:07:57,400 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 1: when you look down the line, like damn bitch, okay,

1373
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:02,400
Speaker 1: how women are?

1374
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:03,840
Speaker 5: Okay? Boom? That's number one.

1375
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 6: Number two is is what is the reason why the

1376
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:09,200
Speaker 6: man can't console his girl?

1377
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:14,240
Speaker 1: Hold on, I gotta set boundaries, like y'all, you know

1378
01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 1: that's the word they say in therapy boundaries. I gotta

1379
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,559
Speaker 1: set boundaries. At the end of the day, if I'm

1380
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 1: your man, there's only one man. There's only one queen

1381
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 1: on the board, I mean one king on the board

1382
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:26,960
Speaker 1: of chest. So at the end of the day, hey,

1383
01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 1: I gotta look at the effect he could have had

1384
01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 1: on your life if you was still living. Niggas don't

1385
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:34,880
Speaker 1: think on one track? How women do men think? All

1386
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 1: around the board? So what was going on? Why you crying?

1387
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:39,519
Speaker 5: Are you think? Bitches don't think like that?

1388
01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:42,040
Speaker 1: They do what I'm saying? What why are you crying?

1389
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:42,599
Speaker 5: Okay?

1390
01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:45,759
Speaker 1: So if my bitch, if a bitch of X bitches

1391
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:48,240
Speaker 1: I dealt with die chante, don want me to be

1392
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:54,080
Speaker 1: the man of steel. She gonna want me to be

1393
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:57,160
Speaker 1: the don't pay for no, no nothing. Maybe I know

1394
01:08:57,240 --> 01:08:58,920
Speaker 1: you said you can cry, man, I ain't stunning that

1395
01:08:59,360 --> 01:09:03,000
Speaker 1: it be hard, okay, So.

1396
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:05,840
Speaker 5: What if it wasn't a What if it wasn't to

1397
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 5: do that you had relationship with?

1398
01:09:07,040 --> 01:09:08,920
Speaker 1: It's different. I just I just explained it. That's different.

1399
01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:10,520
Speaker 1: That's your friends are friends.

1400
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 5: Okay, But then X can be a friend.

1401
01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:17,760
Speaker 7: When you're an ex, right, sometimes you chang okay, but

1402
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:22,680
Speaker 7: get me out ahead. When people break up all the time,

1403
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 7: they do not break up because the relationship was bad.

1404
01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 7: Sometimes they just be like, this didn't work. It's better

1405
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 7: off if we just remain friends, friends like this, ain't this?

1406
01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:33,240
Speaker 5: Ain't it like?

1407
01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 7: And then they keep they keep in touch with each

1408
01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 7: other and there's nothing else, is no wish together again.

1409
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:40,320
Speaker 1: It's like that.

1410
01:09:40,760 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 3: Let's let's bring let's let's bring some closer to this

1411
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:47,599
Speaker 3: by asking this right, So to the women here, y'all

1412
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:50,760
Speaker 3: are comfortable or y'all can accept being number two?

1413
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 8: What is that?

1414
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:55,240
Speaker 1: It's just all number two conversations.

1415
01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 5: Number two that does not make sense.

1416
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 6: But women women, women do don't mind being number two.

1417
01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 6: You know how many women like I.

1418
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:18,280
Speaker 1: Got you on that. Let me say, I'm so sorry.

1419
01:10:18,360 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry you guys, I'm so sorry. But if

1420
01:10:22,840 --> 01:10:25,400
Speaker 1: you got a nigga that could soole you behind any

1421
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:28,680
Speaker 1: nigga downfall, he could be in jail, he could be

1422
01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:33,639
Speaker 1: now now. Now. If you're dude, if I just met

1423
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:35,080
Speaker 1: you and you got to do it, that's locked up

1424
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 1: here him. Encourage you to keep him because I'm a

1425
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:39,400
Speaker 1: nigga like that. Keep him up. You know what I'm saying.

1426
01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:41,400
Speaker 1: If I meet you and your dude locked up and

1427
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:44,240
Speaker 1: start fucking you. Hey, you make sure that nigga good.

1428
01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:45,560
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I ain't gonna get in

1429
01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:49,040
Speaker 1: the way of that that turns you might be all

1430
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 1: that nigga. Guys, that turned into some sucker ship. But

1431
01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:54,320
Speaker 1: if I'm in a relationship with you and your ex

1432
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 1: go to jail, bit, you better not seeing him ship

1433
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:57,640
Speaker 1: because we already in a relationship.

1434
01:10:58,040 --> 01:10:59,599
Speaker 5: I agree with that, you know what I'm saying.

1435
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 1: But if I meet you, I meet you grieving. You're

1436
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 1: a grieving widow. I got it. I kind of got

1437
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 1: a consult. I'm saying. If I'm already a relationship, we

1438
01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 1: already built in relationship ten twenty years, five years, whatever,

1439
01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:15,200
Speaker 1: and a nigga died and you crying, you finna get

1440
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: beat there here, that's different.

1441
01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 5: I'm crying. That's different. I think that lady. Just go

1442
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 5: to your friends. Just go cry to your friends.

1443
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 7: Okay, let me as this then. Okay, so you brought

1444
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:27,040
Speaker 7: up the baby daddy and y'all getting into it. Nah,

1445
01:11:27,200 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 7: this is mine whatever?

1446
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:28,360
Speaker 5: Whatever?

1447
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:31,760
Speaker 7: Okay, Now you want the woman, your girl to hold

1448
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:33,640
Speaker 7: you down when you going through crazy asshit with your

1449
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 7: baby mama, because it's a whole bunch of crazy ast baby.

1450
01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 5: I'm saying, like.

1451
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,439
Speaker 6: Men in general with baby mamas, they have crazy ass

1452
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 6: baby mamas who be yelling, screaming, and stressing men out.

1453
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 1: But most of the time when niggas go through shit

1454
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:46,840
Speaker 1: with their baby mama, like man, that'd be crazy, but

1455
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:49,760
Speaker 1: they don't make it go against their relationship.

1456
01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 5: Okay, but men argue, women cry, men get mad, men yell.

1457
01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:54,960
Speaker 5: They all man.

1458
01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:58,120
Speaker 6: But I'm gonna say I'm upset, and we will yell

1459
01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 6: and scream or cry, So you gotta compare that.

1460
01:12:01,479 --> 01:12:03,880
Speaker 1: So we'll cry when they give a fuck. Though I

1461
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: know a bunch of women don't never cry, like fuck him,

1462
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:11,840
Speaker 1: fuck this bitch ass nigga. Man, most women be like,

1463
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:14,280
Speaker 1: fuck that bitch ass nigga. Ain't never cry. Women who

1464
01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 1: cry they either want to be with that nigga. They

1465
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,240
Speaker 1: hate that they didn't work out they did. I love him,

1466
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 1: I want him.

1467
01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:20,960
Speaker 5: We talk about them, the.

1468
01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:24,479
Speaker 6: Ones whom motions only came when you care.

1469
01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:28,040
Speaker 5: Okay, So when you when you get mad because you care, No, you.

1470
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 1: Only if you get mad enough to cry, you care

1471
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 1: about that person. I'm not. I don't seen women get

1472
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:37,439
Speaker 1: mad enough. I'm mad all right, I'm finna act out anger.

1473
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:39,400
Speaker 1: I'm ana bust you one the fuck you shoot at

1474
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: you whatever. That don't mean I care. Women that crying

1475
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:45,120
Speaker 1: and get in the emotions and the feminine energy is

1476
01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:47,680
Speaker 1: because she care about that person and she hate that

1477
01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:49,360
Speaker 1: it went the way it went too many?

1478
01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 5: So what does men have to do to show that

1479
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:51,880
Speaker 5: he cared?

1480
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:55,160
Speaker 7: What you mean like if he if okay, woman cries,

1481
01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:57,919
Speaker 7: you say a woman cries, that means she cares entertained.

1482
01:12:58,120 --> 01:13:01,719
Speaker 1: If the nigga entertaining, he cared. Agree, if a nigga

1483
01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:04,240
Speaker 1: entertained in any type of way, he care. If I

1484
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 1: have a baby mama, she called me about anything? Hey, man,

1485
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:09,439
Speaker 1: gonna figure that out. Don't call me about that. I'm

1486
01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:12,160
Speaker 1: not entertaining it. I'm not even talking to you about

1487
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:13,640
Speaker 1: nothing that gotten them to do it. Me and you.

1488
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:17,280
Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm gonna let you know. That's a real nigga. Like, hey,

1489
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:20,479
Speaker 1: when I when I start interacting with you one on one,

1490
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:20,920
Speaker 1: I care.

1491
01:13:22,080 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just think that that's real tough though.

1492
01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:27,040
Speaker 7: Well, I think it's easy on your on your side

1493
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,280
Speaker 7: because you have a wife, But what about people who

1494
01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:29,800
Speaker 7: aren't married.

1495
01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:31,200
Speaker 5: Boyfriend and girlfriend, baby.

1496
01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 1: Mama, boy friend and girlfriend. Still, Hey, I'm gonna draw

1497
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 1: the line in and saying, hey men, you don't need

1498
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:36,840
Speaker 1: to talk. Whatever it is to need to be done,

1499
01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:38,679
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna be a father whatever

1500
01:13:38,680 --> 01:13:42,680
Speaker 1: I need to do, but talk to call Shoy, call

1501
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:44,720
Speaker 1: ja ja. Gonna make sure my kid good. Bitch me

1502
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:46,479
Speaker 1: and you don't have to have conversation that.

1503
01:13:46,520 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 5: Ain't happening, that ain't happening.

1504
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:51,560
Speaker 1: To a bitch that won't you a bit you in

1505
01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 1: ho ho ho ho. I'm glad you said that. A

1506
01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 1: bitch who won't something best for the child. It don't

1507
01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:58,680
Speaker 1: matter how it get done. Bitch, you want me, You

1508
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 1: want to hear my voice, You want to him out bing,

1509
01:14:01,160 --> 01:14:03,479
Speaker 1: that's what you want to talk to me. You ubsessed

1510
01:14:03,520 --> 01:14:07,800
Speaker 1: with me? Hope. No, No, I know it's no matter

1511
01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:08,559
Speaker 1: who talking.

1512
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:11,240
Speaker 6: No, I'm gonna say I'm with you at a certain

1513
01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:13,200
Speaker 6: point because i know, okay, I only could go off

1514
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:16,400
Speaker 6: of what I've experienced. I know if my daughter dad

1515
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:18,720
Speaker 6: start dating somebody and he like, go talk to her

1516
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 6: or whatever. You know what I'm saying, because we've been beefing,

1517
01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:22,320
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna care. I'm gonna look at her like

1518
01:14:22,320 --> 01:14:23,040
Speaker 6: she's my sister wife.

1519
01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 5: Anyway. So I'm not gonna care who I have to

1520
01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:24,680
Speaker 5: talk to.

1521
01:14:25,040 --> 01:14:27,560
Speaker 6: But I'm just speaking for the average girl, like she

1522
01:14:27,680 --> 01:14:30,360
Speaker 6: gonna look at it like I didn't talk to my

1523
01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 6: child's father.

1524
01:14:30,960 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 5: I don't even talk to the person.

1525
01:14:33,080 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 1: I just had a conversation with my homegirl. Her daughter's

1526
01:14:35,080 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 1: thirteen years old, have a full relationship with her dad.

1527
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:39,800
Speaker 1: Why the fuck you need to talk to this man.

1528
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:40,679
Speaker 5: No, you really don't.

1529
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:42,240
Speaker 1: You want to talk to this man because you like him.

1530
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:44,280
Speaker 1: At thirteen, the end of the day, there's nothing for

1531
01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:45,439
Speaker 1: me and you to talk about it.

1532
01:14:45,600 --> 01:14:47,479
Speaker 7: So I would say, age, okay, so we're now we're

1533
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:49,639
Speaker 7: getting to an age thing because now thirteen, when you're

1534
01:14:49,640 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 7: able to talk and have a phone to do all

1535
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:54,120
Speaker 7: that on your own, then yes, But for toddlers, and.

1536
01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 5: I know, I know, Nah, I can't.

1537
01:14:57,120 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 6: I can't even say that because I know, I know, Like, Okay,

1538
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:04,679
Speaker 6: I I got I got friends, and I got niggas

1539
01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 6: that have kids that are fucking four or five, six, seven,

1540
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 6: eight years old, but they have phones. So I'm like

1541
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 6: the middle person to their situation because like I gotta

1542
01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:23,519
Speaker 6: agree with with black, with what black it's saying, because

1543
01:15:23,520 --> 01:15:25,920
Speaker 6: at the end of the day, like, if y'all aren't together,

1544
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:28,719
Speaker 6: if y'all don't have no dealings, if y'all quote unquote

1545
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:31,400
Speaker 6: can't stand each other or whatever, then what is there

1546
01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:32,000
Speaker 6: to talk about.

1547
01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:40,720
Speaker 1: Let's contact this company. It's not it's realistic on your

1548
01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:42,760
Speaker 1: part because you want to still run my life because

1549
01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:44,200
Speaker 1: you got a baby by me. You want to be

1550
01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:45,800
Speaker 1: in my life because you got a baby by me

1551
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:48,439
Speaker 1: for some why, I don't know.

1552
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 5: Why, but that happens. So it's like, it's never gonna

1553
01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:51,599
Speaker 5: happen at.

1554
01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: The end of the day. How you're gonna be my bitch?

1555
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:55,679
Speaker 1: Feeling like this is a nigga that's in a relationship

1556
01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:57,760
Speaker 1: with you, feeling seeing that type of energy that you

1557
01:15:57,840 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 1: feel like, but you just want to talk to this nigga.

1558
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:01,519
Speaker 1: That's how a nigga feel like. But you just want

1559
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:03,640
Speaker 1: to talk to nig all you gotta do is call him,

1560
01:16:03,920 --> 01:16:06,720
Speaker 1: call ja. If it's funny, baby bit you can we

1561
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:08,679
Speaker 1: can figure out how to make sure this baby okay.

1562
01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 1: If you want to talk to me, Oh, you want

1563
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 1: to disagree because I don't like you for one, No,

1564
01:16:13,120 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 1: I agree with that.

1565
01:16:13,960 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 2: That's that's like, that's like the baby dad is that

1566
01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:19,000
Speaker 2: want to do all the extra ship when they ain't

1567
01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:20,599
Speaker 2: been fucking with this kid the whole time, but they

1568
01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 2: want to see the baby.

1569
01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 1: Mama, Oh, I want to see my son. You want

1570
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:23,400
Speaker 1: to see that.

1571
01:16:23,439 --> 01:16:24,880
Speaker 5: You want to see her? Nigga that say that you

1572
01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 5: don't give talk about that kid? Yeah, I think it

1573
01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:30,320
Speaker 5: all depends. I think it depends on the age of

1574
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:30,840
Speaker 5: the child.

1575
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:34,000
Speaker 6: Because chance seven so a lot of stuff that if

1576
01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:36,679
Speaker 6: I tell her call her daddy and they had that conversation,

1577
01:16:36,760 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, So we don't really have

1578
01:16:38,840 --> 01:16:41,800
Speaker 6: to have that much conversation. I think that if the

1579
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 6: dad is one of those people that's just dating different

1580
01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:47,800
Speaker 6: women like all the time, and every other week it's

1581
01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:49,200
Speaker 6: a different girls, Like why do I have to talk

1582
01:16:49,200 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 6: to this one girl?

1583
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:52,759
Speaker 5: But if it's in a long time.

1584
01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:54,920
Speaker 1: You raise the girls, erase the girls out. He raised

1585
01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:57,320
Speaker 1: the girls out. What if he say, hey, shay me

1586
01:16:57,360 --> 01:16:59,760
Speaker 1: and you, Hey, well we had what we had on

1587
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 1: to talk to you about. Ship, bitch, I really don't

1588
01:17:02,280 --> 01:17:07,280
Speaker 1: like you let my mama about my baby. Most women

1589
01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:10,640
Speaker 1: feel like, Nigga, we we laid down had this at

1590
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:14,800
Speaker 1: that point. That's true. Something Most women like, we had

1591
01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:17,160
Speaker 1: this baby so bit you really want to ruin my

1592
01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:20,000
Speaker 1: what's the name of the word of to day? You

1593
01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:23,200
Speaker 1: really want to be sedested, You want to cause me bitch,

1594
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:24,760
Speaker 1: you want to call me playing, you want to talk

1595
01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:27,240
Speaker 1: to me, and you know I don't like you yet.

1596
01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:29,559
Speaker 6: No, I think that it's just a compromise, like talking

1597
01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:31,200
Speaker 6: to the mom. Is nothing wrong with talking to the mom,

1598
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:32,720
Speaker 6: because it's just don't nobody want to.

1599
01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 1: Ever talk to whoever talked to my brother? You don't

1600
01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:37,560
Speaker 1: need to talk. We just need a middle mass that

1601
01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 1: agree with.

1602
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:48,760
Speaker 5: Oil spell thirteen. What that's that's them gummies.

1603
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:53,880
Speaker 1: Vote provoke times.

1604
01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 7: I think that I think that what you're saying, I agree.

1605
01:17:59,880 --> 01:18:02,639
Speaker 7: I wish that my man could be like, oh, talk

1606
01:18:02,720 --> 01:18:04,679
Speaker 7: to my girl, to the baby mama. What I'm saying

1607
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 7: is I just really think that this is that's like unrealistic.

1608
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:15,600
Speaker 10: Because the feelings is not people feelings, but women be

1609
01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:18,879
Speaker 10: in their feelings like women be they feelings.

1610
01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:21,760
Speaker 6: And on top of that, you're thinking, like, why the

1611
01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 6: im going to talk to this bitch that bitch I

1612
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:26,240
Speaker 6: don't know that bitch, okay, but around my kids. So

1613
01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:28,480
Speaker 6: now I'm not You're not gonna go see my son.

1614
01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:31,519
Speaker 1: But let's flip that. But you my bitch saying this,

1615
01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:32,559
Speaker 1: how for the feel?

1616
01:18:33,600 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 5: And then you're not saying you might been saying that.

1617
01:18:36,160 --> 01:18:38,080
Speaker 1: You don't want to talk to his baby mama, I

1618
01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 1: mean his wife about your child? How I supposed to feel?

1619
01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:42,760
Speaker 1: If you want this nigga gone.

1620
01:18:42,920 --> 01:18:45,280
Speaker 5: And you got this and you got the baby, you

1621
01:18:45,280 --> 01:18:46,439
Speaker 5: don't understand what you're doing.

1622
01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:48,400
Speaker 1: What you're doing is you're putting a strain of your

1623
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:50,280
Speaker 1: relationship because how you feel about this nigga.

1624
01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 5: Is it about the nigga?

1625
01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:55,200
Speaker 1: What is it about it? Is it about the baby?

1626
01:18:55,240 --> 01:18:56,080
Speaker 1: You're gonna compromise.

1627
01:18:56,600 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 5: If it's about the baby, you're gonna make sure that.

1628
01:18:58,600 --> 01:19:02,160
Speaker 5: I think that it's a pride things sometimes hold up.

1629
01:19:02,120 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 1: But pride come from you caring about that nigga.

1630
01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:06,719
Speaker 5: Nah nah.

1631
01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:12,800
Speaker 1: Along with Karen hold up this therapist right here, Jojo.

1632
01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:15,000
Speaker 6: I think that it's just it's just it's just about

1633
01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:17,519
Speaker 6: becoming an adult and then meeting the other person, like

1634
01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:19,240
Speaker 6: meeting a woman. Like if you meet the girl and

1635
01:19:19,320 --> 01:19:21,280
Speaker 6: y'all talking, y'all have this relationship, you really don't need

1636
01:19:21,320 --> 01:19:22,400
Speaker 6: the nigga at that point.

1637
01:19:22,439 --> 01:19:23,760
Speaker 5: You could just have a relationship with her.

1638
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:26,760
Speaker 6: But if you don't meet no real mom is gonna

1639
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:28,760
Speaker 6: want somebody that they ain't never met around their child.

1640
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 5: Facts.

1641
01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:31,840
Speaker 1: But the thing about it is you. But if a

1642
01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:35,000
Speaker 1: nigga you feel like your judge, the character is so good.

1643
01:19:35,040 --> 01:19:36,560
Speaker 1: If you meet a nigga, you feel like this is

1644
01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:38,439
Speaker 1: a nigga, you don't give a fuck how he feel

1645
01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 1: about the nigga you bring around your child.

1646
01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:41,160
Speaker 5: Oh shit, right?

1647
01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:42,400
Speaker 1: Being one.

1648
01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:50,559
Speaker 5: That that is because I mean, it's an evil double standard.

1649
01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:55,800
Speaker 6: I though I do right, because it's like if I

1650
01:19:55,920 --> 01:19:58,360
Speaker 6: meet somebody and I say that they could be around Chance,

1651
01:19:58,360 --> 01:20:00,120
Speaker 6: it's cool. I'm not calling Chance there to be like

1652
01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 6: is it cool if Chance met so and so? But

1653
01:20:02,800 --> 01:20:05,960
Speaker 6: if he have her around somebody, You're gonna flip the out.

1654
01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:06,760
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna flip.

1655
01:20:06,840 --> 01:20:07,519
Speaker 5: I'm you know.

1656
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:14,920
Speaker 1: What to school? To school?

1657
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:19,400
Speaker 5: I'm a flip. I'm a flip. I'm not gonna flip,

1658
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:20,559
Speaker 5: but flip the question.

1659
01:20:20,880 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 7: It just depends like like, if it's a random female

1660
01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:27,120
Speaker 7: around my kids, then yes, I am a flipping.

1661
01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:28,200
Speaker 1: What's random though?

1662
01:20:28,680 --> 01:20:32,360
Speaker 6: Because why don't we trust the father's judgment on who

1663
01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:39,240
Speaker 6: that who should be? So some females a random bitch?

1664
01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:42,840
Speaker 6: Is any bitch that any bitch? Any bitch?

1665
01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:47,360
Speaker 7: So I say like somebody, I say, like someone that

1666
01:20:47,479 --> 01:20:50,680
Speaker 7: you like fucking on and y'all don't have nothing going on,

1667
01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:53,160
Speaker 7: like you keep like you bring a bitch around that

1668
01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:55,559
Speaker 7: you fucking don't bring.

1669
01:20:56,080 --> 01:20:58,760
Speaker 5: Don't bring a different one, different girl around my child

1670
01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 5: every time. I think that's weird.

1671
01:21:01,160 --> 01:21:03,800
Speaker 6: But if it's somebody that you're in a relationship, if

1672
01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:05,479
Speaker 6: you're in a relationship, that's different.

1673
01:21:05,760 --> 01:21:08,599
Speaker 1: I would have to you got you got a little

1674
01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 1: boy shoulder, I don't care.

1675
01:21:10,320 --> 01:21:11,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's different, but a little girl.

1676
01:21:14,200 --> 01:21:16,120
Speaker 6: I think that when it come to girls, just you know,

1677
01:21:16,600 --> 01:21:18,559
Speaker 6: if it's a girl that you like, for real serious

1678
01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:20,600
Speaker 6: with and this is your girlfriend, then but.

1679
01:21:20,800 --> 01:21:25,360
Speaker 1: Thar you Hey, hey, hey, shy, I want you to

1680
01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:28,400
Speaker 1: talk to my girl. He's gonna already know this is girl,

1681
01:21:29,240 --> 01:21:31,559
Speaker 1: you know, random bitch. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. But at

1682
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:34,280
Speaker 1: the end of the day, most women still feel as

1683
01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:37,839
Speaker 1: if though they want to be statistic about the situation,

1684
01:21:38,960 --> 01:21:42,280
Speaker 1: UH inflict pain on you because I want to be

1685
01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:44,599
Speaker 1: a pest in your life. And at the same time,

1686
01:21:44,880 --> 01:21:46,439
Speaker 1: you're not norm what you're doing. You think you're being

1687
01:21:46,439 --> 01:21:47,559
Speaker 1: a piss in this nigga life.

1688
01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:50,759
Speaker 5: You're really make your dude your nigga away.

1689
01:21:51,200 --> 01:21:53,760
Speaker 6: You know that's a that's a big f I mean,

1690
01:21:53,840 --> 01:21:55,760
Speaker 6: I would I would love for it to be that way.

1691
01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:57,479
Speaker 6: I would love for it to be that way. I

1692
01:21:57,479 --> 01:21:59,360
Speaker 6: don't want my man talking to no female anyway.

1693
01:22:00,200 --> 01:22:01,920
Speaker 1: And the thing about me and the thing about it

1694
01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:04,040
Speaker 1: is the thing about it is what you're not understanding

1695
01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:07,720
Speaker 1: is every nigga can eventually be in the position that

1696
01:22:07,840 --> 01:22:10,120
Speaker 1: your baby dadds in. So if I'm in a relationship

1697
01:22:10,120 --> 01:22:12,880
Speaker 1: with you, right, I can be an x too in

1698
01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:16,080
Speaker 1: my mind. So when you show me how you're having this, nigga, hey,

1699
01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:18,760
Speaker 1: that's how you have you know what I'm saying. So

1700
01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:21,840
Speaker 1: what you're doing is you you still on trial. You're

1701
01:22:21,880 --> 01:22:25,400
Speaker 1: still showing me your characteristic of your traits. So really,

1702
01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:27,320
Speaker 1: then who ain't ship Because just because I love you,

1703
01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna console you, but I still can disagree

1704
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:32,120
Speaker 1: with you and love you at the same time. It's

1705
01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:34,560
Speaker 1: really that's wrong. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, That

1706
01:22:34,600 --> 01:22:35,960
Speaker 1: man ain't dead and then a man trying to take

1707
01:22:36,000 --> 01:22:37,920
Speaker 1: your kid and you making the hold out for this

1708
01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:40,599
Speaker 1: nigga because you you love you in love with this nigga.

1709
01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:45,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it happens all the time. Damn that sucks.

1710
01:22:47,920 --> 01:22:49,400
Speaker 5: So bitches is sadistic.

1711
01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:53,840
Speaker 1: When it comes down, they still won't you know what I'm.

1712
01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:57,240
Speaker 6: Saying, And if you keep being sadistic, you're gonna end

1713
01:22:57,320 --> 01:23:05,040
Speaker 6: up a statistic Okay, okay, before.

1714
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:09,559
Speaker 1: We go left, I ain't I don't got all answers,

1715
01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:12,760
Speaker 1: like sway, I don't got all answers, but I do

1716
01:23:12,960 --> 01:23:16,400
Speaker 1: got this answer. I know how I feel if I

1717
01:23:16,520 --> 01:23:18,599
Speaker 1: was in a relationship with you, in love with you, Jones.

1718
01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 1: I love this bitch man. It's my bitch. I gonna

1719
01:23:21,000 --> 01:23:23,559
Speaker 1: make sure a kid good whatever she know, I got her.

1720
01:23:23,760 --> 01:23:26,320
Speaker 1: And then you get mad one month because this niggadn't

1721
01:23:26,320 --> 01:23:28,280
Speaker 1: send this little two twenty he's supposed to send their money.

1722
01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:33,720
Speaker 5: Wait, hold on right now, because that shit pisses me off.

1723
01:23:33,760 --> 01:23:36,360
Speaker 1: Okay, but the babies. But but the thing about it

1724
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:38,360
Speaker 1: is the baby is taking care of. Bitch. You just

1725
01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:40,240
Speaker 1: want to make you just want to You want a

1726
01:23:40,280 --> 01:23:43,040
Speaker 1: conversation with this nigga. We don't even need the two twenty.

1727
01:23:43,080 --> 01:23:45,360
Speaker 1: We can get it whenever. You know what I'm saying.

1728
01:23:45,360 --> 01:23:47,479
Speaker 1: All Right, this ship is on record. We're gonna get

1729
01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:49,120
Speaker 1: the money. But bitch, you want to be on this

1730
01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:49,680
Speaker 1: nigga line?

1731
01:23:49,760 --> 01:23:50,960
Speaker 5: How about this, What about that?

1732
01:23:51,040 --> 01:23:51,599
Speaker 1: In my mind?

1733
01:23:51,680 --> 01:23:54,639
Speaker 5: Okay, well how about this? What if she okay, say

1734
01:23:54,800 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 5: she don't need the money?

1735
01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:59,439
Speaker 7: Right, But it's a simple fact that like, because sometimes

1736
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:01,560
Speaker 7: I can't pissed off when I think about like a

1737
01:24:01,640 --> 01:24:03,559
Speaker 7: nigga not taking care of his kids, are taking care

1738
01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:06,800
Speaker 7: of his responsibilities. So sometimes if I'm like going off,

1739
01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:08,760
Speaker 7: it's because I'm like, I'm just frustrated with you.

1740
01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:10,719
Speaker 5: Like, nigga, God, did you look over the blessing?

1741
01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:13,280
Speaker 1: You're looking over your blessing God and them put another

1742
01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:16,559
Speaker 1: nigga that space. Fuck him right? You look, now you're

1743
01:24:16,560 --> 01:24:20,519
Speaker 1: gonna make me feel away God sent me and you're

1744
01:24:20,560 --> 01:24:24,719
Speaker 1: not acknowledging your blessing. Yea, So now gonna be fucked

1745
01:24:24,760 --> 01:24:27,800
Speaker 1: you and the baby and him and y'all deal with that. Now.

1746
01:24:27,960 --> 01:24:30,880
Speaker 1: It's like me and the nigga wrong. But bitch, I

1747
01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:33,200
Speaker 1: was trying to stand in position. But you want something

1748
01:24:33,200 --> 01:24:34,080
Speaker 1: from this nigga.

1749
01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:38,320
Speaker 5: That I'm breaking that he's not gonna give. I think

1750
01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:40,439
Speaker 5: I messed up in a relationship like that before.

1751
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:42,639
Speaker 2: A lot of women because because.

1752
01:24:44,760 --> 01:24:49,200
Speaker 1: Up, let's go, Joe, Joe, let's go. Baby.

1753
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:51,040
Speaker 7: You know it's got, I got, I got, I got

1754
01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:54,760
Speaker 7: some more so what if, like, well, what if no

1755
01:24:54,880 --> 01:24:55,160
Speaker 7: for real?

1756
01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:57,640
Speaker 5: Because say, she don't eat it. She got it. She

1757
01:24:57,760 --> 01:25:00,280
Speaker 5: got a man that's doing all of that right, but

1758
01:25:01,080 --> 01:25:05,160
Speaker 5: it's not it's not his child, so she doesn't.

1759
01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:10,040
Speaker 6: She feels kind of like, yeah, so it's like it

1760
01:25:10,080 --> 01:25:11,760
Speaker 6: ain't even appreciate you for doing that.

1761
01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:12,799
Speaker 5: But you shouldn't.

1762
01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:14,960
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have to understand that. I understand it. But

1763
01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:17,200
Speaker 1: at the end of the I don't know where y'all powerize.

1764
01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:19,960
Speaker 1: That's y'all don't know where y'all powers lie. At the

1765
01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:22,000
Speaker 1: end of the the only reason why you're frustrated is

1766
01:25:22,040 --> 01:25:24,200
Speaker 1: because it's something you want. You want to be thought

1767
01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:27,720
Speaker 1: of of this man. Hold let me finish, please, end

1768
01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:30,760
Speaker 1: of the day. The thing is, you want the best

1769
01:25:30,760 --> 01:25:33,200
Speaker 1: for your child, right if your child is getting the best,

1770
01:25:34,240 --> 01:25:35,960
Speaker 1: just because she's not getting from him, you want to

1771
01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:38,360
Speaker 1: be thought of by this man. You're trying to push

1772
01:25:38,439 --> 01:25:40,479
Speaker 1: him to be a father that he's not. He's a bitch.

1773
01:25:40,760 --> 01:25:42,960
Speaker 1: Fuck him. I want the best for my child. That's

1774
01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:45,360
Speaker 1: what I pray for. That's what she's getting. So why

1775
01:25:45,400 --> 01:25:49,160
Speaker 1: the fuck am my man of a pussy? I think

1776
01:25:49,280 --> 01:25:52,000
Speaker 1: because I like him a little bit more I think

1777
01:25:52,120 --> 01:25:56,000
Speaker 1: I'm telling you the way.

1778
01:25:56,080 --> 01:25:57,840
Speaker 7: The other way is because I'm in a situation like

1779
01:25:57,920 --> 01:26:00,920
Speaker 7: that and I don't want my fucking babyaddy, But I

1780
01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:04,600
Speaker 7: get angry when he's supposed to do something and he

1781
01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:06,479
Speaker 7: don't do it. And I know that I'm raising a

1782
01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:10,759
Speaker 7: kid by myself, and it's like we had this baby,

1783
01:26:11,320 --> 01:26:13,160
Speaker 7: send the motherfucking funds.

1784
01:26:14,160 --> 01:26:15,720
Speaker 1: But you don't know. But at the end of the day,

1785
01:26:15,840 --> 01:26:18,679
Speaker 1: we look at life like like if there's everybody's life

1786
01:26:18,720 --> 01:26:20,960
Speaker 1: and life is lifing on everybody. We don't know. This

1787
01:26:21,040 --> 01:26:23,040
Speaker 1: man ain't gonna tell you shit fucked up this month.

1788
01:26:23,400 --> 01:26:24,920
Speaker 1: We don't know. At the end of the day, you

1789
01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:27,639
Speaker 1: know how much power it is in understanding. You be like, hey,

1790
01:26:27,720 --> 01:26:29,640
Speaker 1: I know shit been rough out here to send it

1791
01:26:29,680 --> 01:26:32,799
Speaker 1: when you can. A person that's not in their feelings

1792
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:35,639
Speaker 1: gonna be more understanding. Person that's in their feelings don't

1793
01:26:35,680 --> 01:26:38,720
Speaker 1: have no understanding. Person that's in their feeling don't have

1794
01:26:38,760 --> 01:26:42,040
Speaker 1: no understanding. That's why they're upset in their feelings. Like, hey,

1795
01:26:42,320 --> 01:26:44,080
Speaker 1: I know this nigga love his daughter. At the end

1796
01:26:44,080 --> 01:26:46,720
Speaker 1: of the days, something has to be different in its

1797
01:26:46,760 --> 01:26:48,400
Speaker 1: life this month that he ain't sitting the money.

1798
01:26:49,160 --> 01:26:51,320
Speaker 5: I just think it's communication. I was gonna say that you.

1799
01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:54,679
Speaker 1: Communicate with a bitch on don't life?

1800
01:26:56,160 --> 01:26:57,040
Speaker 5: Who are gonna talk to?

1801
01:26:57,800 --> 01:27:00,800
Speaker 1: How we need to put in the Somebody need to

1802
01:27:00,840 --> 01:27:02,719
Speaker 1: be in the middle of Jade mont due Banks. Somebody

1803
01:27:02,840 --> 01:27:03,120
Speaker 1: need this.

1804
01:27:04,840 --> 01:27:04,880
Speaker 3: Have?

1805
01:27:05,920 --> 01:27:07,760
Speaker 5: I mean, how would she have? What did you say?

1806
01:27:08,280 --> 01:27:10,720
Speaker 5: Understanding if there's no communication.

1807
01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:14,880
Speaker 1: Understanding is he's never been late. He's always did as

1808
01:27:15,360 --> 01:27:18,080
Speaker 1: he just didn't do. Hold on. The understanding is the

1809
01:27:18,200 --> 01:27:19,320
Speaker 1: type of nigga he is?

1810
01:27:19,520 --> 01:27:22,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, but if he's always been late, then you shouldn't

1811
01:27:22,040 --> 01:27:24,920
Speaker 6: have been mad from the beginning because because this nigga

1812
01:27:25,040 --> 01:27:25,799
Speaker 6: ain't never.

1813
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:28,360
Speaker 1: Understanding is what type of you got? One thing about it?

1814
01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:31,880
Speaker 1: Everybody showed you who they are, indirectly or directly, no

1815
01:27:31,960 --> 01:27:35,120
Speaker 1: matter what, am I right or wrong? Everyone? So if

1816
01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:37,719
Speaker 1: you judge the person off of their perspective and their character,

1817
01:27:38,000 --> 01:27:40,640
Speaker 1: how you mad? I know what you're capable of.

1818
01:27:41,920 --> 01:27:43,559
Speaker 5: I think it's about being frushrat.

1819
01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:45,360
Speaker 1: I know what you came. If I know you love

1820
01:27:45,400 --> 01:27:47,320
Speaker 1: your daughter, why am I frustrated? Because I know you

1821
01:27:47,439 --> 01:27:48,840
Speaker 1: must ain't got it. He loved daughter.

1822
01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:50,960
Speaker 5: Let me lay it out. Let me let me lay

1823
01:27:51,000 --> 01:27:57,640
Speaker 5: it out. So so this is a lot. But I have.

1824
01:27:59,479 --> 01:28:03,400
Speaker 5: My daughter is a secret. She's a secret baby. Okay,

1825
01:28:04,080 --> 01:28:05,120
Speaker 5: So that.

1826
01:28:05,360 --> 01:28:08,840
Speaker 7: Side, the only communication that's going on is with me

1827
01:28:09,479 --> 01:28:13,120
Speaker 7: and him because them the only people who know what's

1828
01:28:13,200 --> 01:28:13,560
Speaker 7: going on.

1829
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:16,360
Speaker 1: But I'm glad you said that, Jojo. And I don't

1830
01:28:16,360 --> 01:28:18,320
Speaker 1: want to be a bullshit nigga. But at the end

1831
01:28:18,360 --> 01:28:21,479
Speaker 1: of the day, if you laid down and had a

1832
01:28:21,600 --> 01:28:22,600
Speaker 1: secret baby, no.

1833
01:28:22,640 --> 01:28:24,439
Speaker 5: No, no, and it started off, it didn't start off.

1834
01:28:24,439 --> 01:28:26,600
Speaker 1: Being a secret didn't start. So let me let me

1835
01:28:26,920 --> 01:28:30,679
Speaker 1: run it down. Hello, Jay, run it down, Running down, Jojo,

1836
01:28:30,720 --> 01:28:33,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna get this. We goulda get into the nitty gritty.

1837
01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:39,519
Speaker 1: I'm glad you said. I'm I'm gonna sit back. Everybody

1838
01:28:39,560 --> 01:28:41,880
Speaker 1: said that this is therapistition. One on one. Let's go, Jojo.

1839
01:28:43,280 --> 01:28:46,840
Speaker 5: So I had I was having relations with this man.

1840
01:28:47,160 --> 01:28:50,000
Speaker 1: Okay, he was married in a relationship, he.

1841
01:28:50,200 --> 01:28:51,559
Speaker 5: Was off limits okay.

1842
01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:57,080
Speaker 6: And I got pregnant okay, okay, Yeah, once that happened,

1843
01:28:57,200 --> 01:28:58,120
Speaker 6: we had an agreement.

1844
01:28:58,360 --> 01:28:59,080
Speaker 1: What's the agreement.

1845
01:28:59,160 --> 01:29:02,880
Speaker 7: The agreement was is do what you're gonna do, take

1846
01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:04,040
Speaker 7: care of what you need to take of. Actually, the

1847
01:29:04,080 --> 01:29:06,639
Speaker 7: agreement is just to take care of child care.

1848
01:29:07,439 --> 01:29:09,759
Speaker 5: That was the agreement. And did he slip on that anywhere,

1849
01:29:10,760 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 5: it's slip all the damn time.

1850
01:29:12,520 --> 01:29:14,479
Speaker 1: Okay, but you know we go ups and down. Go ahead,

1851
01:29:14,479 --> 01:29:15,479
Speaker 1: we have ups and downs.

1852
01:29:15,360 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 5: Line, Okay, So therefore there.

1853
01:29:19,080 --> 01:29:22,320
Speaker 1: Are most of times he fucked up.

1854
01:29:22,680 --> 01:29:30,320
Speaker 7: Like so so my daughter's seven, I will say if

1855
01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:34,320
Speaker 7: he was consistent and not saying he was consistent a

1856
01:29:34,439 --> 01:29:36,080
Speaker 7: month after month after month. But if I was to

1857
01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:38,680
Speaker 7: put all consistency together, how long it will be? I

1858
01:29:38,720 --> 01:29:42,360
Speaker 7: would say two years maybe out of seven out of seven,

1859
01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:46,880
Speaker 7: but go ahead. So sometimes so even if I am

1860
01:29:46,960 --> 01:29:49,120
Speaker 7: in a relationship or I do have a man that

1861
01:29:49,479 --> 01:29:51,920
Speaker 7: that steps up and does what he needs to do

1862
01:29:52,080 --> 01:29:55,519
Speaker 7: for my daughter, me personally, who I am, I don't

1863
01:29:55,560 --> 01:29:58,120
Speaker 7: feel like it's their obligation to do that. And I'm

1864
01:29:58,160 --> 01:30:01,320
Speaker 7: not going to ask either, And especially if you're paying

1865
01:30:01,360 --> 01:30:03,920
Speaker 7: for everything else, and I already know that the one

1866
01:30:04,120 --> 01:30:06,479
Speaker 7: thing that you're paying for is this child care.

1867
01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:08,760
Speaker 5: I'm expecting for you to pay that one damn thing.

1868
01:30:08,960 --> 01:30:10,240
Speaker 1: Okay, let me ask you something.

1869
01:30:10,600 --> 01:30:11,680
Speaker 5: So now I'm frustrated.

1870
01:30:11,800 --> 01:30:17,120
Speaker 1: So you're frustrated because like you're frustrated because this dude,

1871
01:30:17,479 --> 01:30:19,599
Speaker 1: hold up from beginning when y'all first going to give

1872
01:30:19,600 --> 01:30:21,800
Speaker 1: you to have a baby. Was he excited? Did he

1873
01:30:21,840 --> 01:30:22,720
Speaker 1: want to have the baby? Yes?

1874
01:30:22,840 --> 01:30:22,960
Speaker 4: Or no?

1875
01:30:24,200 --> 01:30:28,200
Speaker 1: Let's be honest. He was in the middle, Okay, so

1876
01:30:28,360 --> 01:30:30,439
Speaker 1: basically forced me to be a baby dad. I'm just

1877
01:30:30,520 --> 01:30:32,800
Speaker 1: being wander you. Let's be know. Hold on, if I'm

1878
01:30:32,840 --> 01:30:34,560
Speaker 1: in the middle, that may I don't want it. In

1879
01:30:34,640 --> 01:30:36,880
Speaker 1: the middle, is I don't want it? He never? He

1880
01:30:37,040 --> 01:30:39,880
Speaker 1: never feelings if I'm in the middle, I don't want it.

1881
01:30:39,920 --> 01:30:40,200
Speaker 5: He never.

1882
01:30:40,560 --> 01:30:42,400
Speaker 1: I'm happy, I'm not. Ain't no in the middle of this.

1883
01:30:42,479 --> 01:30:44,760
Speaker 5: He never told me. He never told me to get

1884
01:30:44,800 --> 01:30:45,240
Speaker 5: an abortion.

1885
01:30:45,800 --> 01:30:47,640
Speaker 1: Nobody want to say that because that that's that's like

1886
01:30:47,680 --> 01:30:51,240
Speaker 1: the ultimate. If I'm in the middle, I don't want it. Right,

1887
01:30:51,880 --> 01:30:52,360
Speaker 1: If I'm in the.

1888
01:30:52,360 --> 01:30:57,680
Speaker 5: Middle, okay, okay, got you? Now want to the next

1889
01:30:57,680 --> 01:30:58,200
Speaker 5: one because.

1890
01:30:59,560 --> 01:31:01,600
Speaker 1: I got you? Okay. So when I when I do

1891
01:31:01,840 --> 01:31:05,200
Speaker 1: try to at least put initiative and understand that this

1892
01:31:05,360 --> 01:31:07,720
Speaker 1: is mine, this is mine. That for one, that's a

1893
01:31:07,760 --> 01:31:10,880
Speaker 1: stand up guy, because most niggas who don't who be

1894
01:31:10,960 --> 01:31:12,920
Speaker 1: in the middle, don't deal with the bitch or the baby.

1895
01:31:13,120 --> 01:31:15,760
Speaker 1: Am I right or wrong? Most niggas? So if I'm

1896
01:31:15,840 --> 01:31:18,439
Speaker 1: still trying to make any type of agreement that I

1897
01:31:18,560 --> 01:31:21,400
Speaker 1: pay child's pay, or whatever. And I'm not advocating for

1898
01:31:21,479 --> 01:31:23,839
Speaker 1: debt beats. If I have a child's mind, I don't.

1899
01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:27,120
Speaker 5: Give a fuck who nobody real just real shit people.

1900
01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:29,360
Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to tell you is, at the

1901
01:31:29,479 --> 01:31:32,240
Speaker 1: end of the day, you say, God have sent you

1902
01:31:32,760 --> 01:31:35,040
Speaker 1: dudes like the dudes you're with now that take care

1903
01:31:35,040 --> 01:31:37,160
Speaker 1: of you, your help, take care of you, your family

1904
01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:39,599
Speaker 1: because you a hustler, hands off to use a hustler

1905
01:31:40,320 --> 01:31:42,599
Speaker 1: help you with your daughter, right, am I? Right? Okay?

1906
01:31:42,760 --> 01:31:45,200
Speaker 1: So where's the pressure coming from a nigga who's in

1907
01:31:45,240 --> 01:31:46,120
Speaker 1: the middle fuck him?

1908
01:31:46,760 --> 01:31:46,880
Speaker 5: Right?

1909
01:31:47,920 --> 01:31:49,960
Speaker 1: That's so when when you when you make it feel

1910
01:31:50,040 --> 01:31:51,880
Speaker 1: like that, you're in your feel about him. You're in

1911
01:31:51,960 --> 01:31:53,760
Speaker 1: your feelings about him. It ain't got no do to

1912
01:31:53,840 --> 01:31:56,080
Speaker 1: the baby, because the well being is a child. She good.

1913
01:31:56,160 --> 01:31:58,840
Speaker 1: I see this baby, she's perfect. When I see her,

1914
01:31:58,880 --> 01:32:01,240
Speaker 1: she's perfect everything. She's never out of place, her hair's done,

1915
01:32:01,320 --> 01:32:04,400
Speaker 1: she's sharp, she's good, she's smart, she's not missing nothing.

1916
01:32:05,280 --> 01:32:08,479
Speaker 1: She's great. So basically is you want to put pressure

1917
01:32:08,479 --> 01:32:10,559
Speaker 1: on this nigga because what he should do right?

1918
01:32:11,479 --> 01:32:11,639
Speaker 5: Right?

1919
01:32:12,280 --> 01:32:13,479
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, if I was

1920
01:32:13,520 --> 01:32:14,880
Speaker 1: in a relationship with you, how would you think I

1921
01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:18,160
Speaker 1: feel about that, and I'm telling you how I would feel.

1922
01:32:18,360 --> 01:32:20,920
Speaker 1: I see this baby's good. Bitch, you must won't. You

1923
01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:24,400
Speaker 1: must want conversation with this nigga because I know the

1924
01:32:24,439 --> 01:32:27,439
Speaker 1: baby good. If it's about the baby, she good. Whenever

1925
01:32:27,439 --> 01:32:29,600
Speaker 1: he come back around, cool, that's extra Other than that

1926
01:32:29,800 --> 01:32:33,760
Speaker 1: she's good. Anything you're doing extra net Hey, you want

1927
01:32:33,800 --> 01:32:34,840
Speaker 1: attention from this nigga.

1928
01:32:36,080 --> 01:32:38,320
Speaker 5: But that's what the man thinks though.

1929
01:32:38,479 --> 01:32:41,639
Speaker 1: That's what it is. Because make me understand you can't

1930
01:32:41,640 --> 01:32:42,800
Speaker 1: maybe be something that I'm not.

1931
01:32:43,160 --> 01:32:45,880
Speaker 7: Because you're because you're laying out my situation. You're telling

1932
01:32:45,960 --> 01:32:47,680
Speaker 7: me like I care about the nigga. I'm telling you

1933
01:32:47,720 --> 01:32:48,560
Speaker 7: I don't give a fuck about that.

1934
01:32:48,640 --> 01:32:50,160
Speaker 1: But you may not know you do. No, no, no,

1935
01:32:50,240 --> 01:32:52,479
Speaker 1: I know at the end of the day, is it

1936
01:32:52,560 --> 01:32:53,559
Speaker 1: about the baby or the nigga?

1937
01:32:53,800 --> 01:32:56,519
Speaker 5: It's about the money that I need to pay. But

1938
01:32:58,120 --> 01:32:58,760
Speaker 5: I don't tell him.

1939
01:32:58,840 --> 01:33:00,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what she's saying as you make it work.

1940
01:33:01,040 --> 01:33:04,040
Speaker 1: But you want this nigga to take his part, so.

1941
01:33:04,280 --> 01:33:06,519
Speaker 5: At least because you agree to it.

1942
01:33:06,720 --> 01:33:08,760
Speaker 1: Okay, but I agree to it and I flow to

1943
01:33:08,800 --> 01:33:11,479
Speaker 1: it of it. But God sends you another plan. But

1944
01:33:11,600 --> 01:33:14,960
Speaker 1: God sent you another plan. What's the issue, and we're

1945
01:33:14,960 --> 01:33:17,439
Speaker 1: gonna recognize our blessings or we're gonna stress about some

1946
01:33:17,520 --> 01:33:18,160
Speaker 1: ship that don't matter.

1947
01:33:18,240 --> 01:33:20,200
Speaker 6: So you think another thing is you don't want the

1948
01:33:20,280 --> 01:33:21,720
Speaker 6: other person to feel obligated.

1949
01:33:22,280 --> 01:33:24,559
Speaker 1: You feel this is what come with me, Jo.

1950
01:33:26,200 --> 01:33:27,680
Speaker 5: I think that's how I need to look at it.

1951
01:33:28,400 --> 01:33:31,400
Speaker 5: I totally agree with that, But it's still like, as you.

1952
01:33:31,439 --> 01:33:34,519
Speaker 6: Know, a woman, right, an independent woman, independent woman. I

1953
01:33:34,680 --> 01:33:37,240
Speaker 6: never want somebody to feel like I ain't feeling like now,

1954
01:33:37,320 --> 01:33:38,320
Speaker 6: this is what comes with me.

1955
01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:40,160
Speaker 1: If I meet you and you got a little girl,

1956
01:33:40,200 --> 01:33:42,200
Speaker 1: you got a chance, and I meet you, hey man

1957
01:33:42,240 --> 01:33:44,760
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, really fuck him. This

1958
01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:47,240
Speaker 1: is my baby and you my bitch. Okay, I don't

1959
01:33:47,280 --> 01:33:50,880
Speaker 1: even I'm just saying most men feel like, fuck him

1960
01:33:52,479 --> 01:33:55,920
Speaker 1: if I take on you, taking on y'all, DNA look

1961
01:33:55,920 --> 01:33:59,360
Speaker 1: at it too. Whatever he do is extra battling. Nigga

1962
01:33:59,439 --> 01:34:01,320
Speaker 1: fin that if it, make sure you be back at

1963
01:34:01,360 --> 01:34:04,880
Speaker 1: nine O'clockigga, it's my baby. Now, I'm taking your bitch

1964
01:34:04,920 --> 01:34:05,400
Speaker 1: on your baby.

1965
01:34:05,680 --> 01:34:07,080
Speaker 5: I think that goes into like.

1966
01:34:09,360 --> 01:34:10,360
Speaker 1: Just what it is, bro.

1967
01:34:10,880 --> 01:34:13,960
Speaker 3: I think I've never no, that's what I never thought

1968
01:34:14,000 --> 01:34:16,000
Speaker 3: of it like that that extreme and just not want

1969
01:34:16,080 --> 01:34:18,200
Speaker 3: to deal with it, even though I ain't always pro this,

1970
01:34:18,320 --> 01:34:19,960
Speaker 3: but that's what all the courtship is for you.

1971
01:34:20,160 --> 01:34:22,400
Speaker 1: But you know you're taking away from the man that's

1972
01:34:22,439 --> 01:34:24,599
Speaker 1: trying to love you though by dealing with this man.

1973
01:34:25,520 --> 01:34:27,280
Speaker 5: You know, I don't I don't argue.

1974
01:34:27,439 --> 01:34:29,360
Speaker 7: I don't argue with him in front of in front

1975
01:34:29,360 --> 01:34:31,360
Speaker 7: of him or anything like that, but it and I

1976
01:34:31,439 --> 01:34:35,040
Speaker 7: don't argue, but sometimes I do feel sometimes, but not

1977
01:34:35,280 --> 01:34:38,479
Speaker 7: not recently. Recently, I've gotten to a point where I'm like, fuck.

1978
01:34:38,360 --> 01:34:41,120
Speaker 1: This nigga, Like, you know how bad it feel to

1979
01:34:41,200 --> 01:34:43,800
Speaker 1: a man and know another man can frustrate his bitch.

1980
01:34:44,160 --> 01:34:47,920
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to get you out to see. Man, understand,

1981
01:34:48,640 --> 01:34:51,080
Speaker 1: if I can see my woman being frustrated by another nigga,

1982
01:34:51,120 --> 01:34:51,720
Speaker 1: that means you care.

1983
01:34:52,240 --> 01:34:55,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, well you didn't care, But I don't think it's

1984
01:34:55,680 --> 01:34:56,080
Speaker 5: you're about.

1985
01:34:56,640 --> 01:35:00,240
Speaker 1: If I can frustrate you, you care. Yeah, let me

1986
01:35:00,320 --> 01:35:03,120
Speaker 1: tell you something. There's no man in the road can

1987
01:35:03,160 --> 01:35:10,439
Speaker 1: frustrate Chante in no type of way. She gonna be

1988
01:35:10,520 --> 01:35:12,679
Speaker 1: like that nigga stupid? What the fuck is he talking about?

1989
01:35:13,800 --> 01:35:17,519
Speaker 1: Bust a head? Baby? You not feinlinga frustrate my bitch?

1990
01:35:17,680 --> 01:35:21,320
Speaker 1: To what I see she's down behind another man. You

1991
01:35:21,439 --> 01:35:23,439
Speaker 1: know how you know what to take from a man? Yes,

1992
01:35:24,000 --> 01:35:24,400
Speaker 1: and you don't.

1993
01:35:24,479 --> 01:35:27,280
Speaker 7: That's what I'm saying, Like, we don't realize it, and

1994
01:35:27,360 --> 01:35:29,640
Speaker 7: we don't realize that that in that time, but you

1995
01:35:29,680 --> 01:35:30,280
Speaker 7: don't know something.

1996
01:35:30,920 --> 01:35:33,559
Speaker 5: I do feel like I do feel like that that.

1997
01:35:33,640 --> 01:35:37,599
Speaker 7: Has something to do with being in your soft girl era,

1998
01:35:38,520 --> 01:35:40,760
Speaker 7: because stop trying to be so hard, stop trying to

1999
01:35:40,800 --> 01:35:43,120
Speaker 7: hold stop being independent, stop trying to hold everything down,

2000
01:35:43,160 --> 01:35:43,800
Speaker 7: figure everything out.

2001
01:35:43,800 --> 01:35:45,160
Speaker 5: If you got a man, let him do that. No,

2002
01:35:45,320 --> 01:35:47,240
Speaker 5: I'm one hundred percent with you right there.

2003
01:35:48,200 --> 01:35:51,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, So I'm thinking that that's the part find it,

2004
01:35:51,560 --> 01:35:54,240
Speaker 7: trying to be in that feminine Ara era to have

2005
01:35:54,400 --> 01:35:56,960
Speaker 7: that man do that so I don't have to get frustrated.

2006
01:35:57,400 --> 01:35:59,880
Speaker 7: But being a woman, a strong woman, a single mom

2007
01:36:00,080 --> 01:36:06,519
Speaker 7: that's trying to figure it out, you know, I calculate woman.

2008
01:36:07,040 --> 01:36:09,200
Speaker 1: You're a strong woman in that aspect of having your being,

2009
01:36:09,280 --> 01:36:11,599
Speaker 1: but you're astra strong woman when it comes to mentally,

2010
01:36:11,800 --> 01:36:13,400
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, if you don't

2011
01:36:13,400 --> 01:36:15,639
Speaker 1: see ship for what it is, then you're not strong.

2012
01:36:16,040 --> 01:36:19,880
Speaker 1: You're still kind of weak. You're still exercising women emotions.

2013
01:36:20,439 --> 01:36:22,080
Speaker 1: I think that when you become a strong woman. You

2014
01:36:22,120 --> 01:36:25,759
Speaker 1: become a strong woman. Hey nigga, you was a mistake.

2015
01:36:25,880 --> 01:36:27,280
Speaker 1: So whatever it is, I'm not going to prove you

2016
01:36:27,360 --> 01:36:29,240
Speaker 1: of your daughter. I'm not gonna do that whenever you

2017
01:36:29,320 --> 01:36:31,479
Speaker 1: come around. That's what it is. You're extra. But she's

2018
01:36:31,560 --> 01:36:33,719
Speaker 1: being loved by me. She been loved by my spouse,

2019
01:36:33,920 --> 01:36:35,439
Speaker 1: she been loved by my parents, she been loved by

2020
01:36:35,479 --> 01:36:38,479
Speaker 1: her siblings. She's being loved. Whatever you do is extra.

2021
01:36:38,560 --> 01:36:40,920
Speaker 1: We're not gonna take away from our house for you.

2022
01:36:41,880 --> 01:36:43,800
Speaker 1: We're not gonna bring none of your negative energy in

2023
01:36:43,840 --> 01:36:45,200
Speaker 1: our house because of you. Fuck you.

2024
01:36:45,479 --> 01:36:54,519
Speaker 5: It ain't extra saying I need it, you.

2025
01:36:54,560 --> 01:36:55,840
Speaker 1: Feel like you need it. But at the end of

2026
01:36:55,880 --> 01:36:58,360
Speaker 1: the day, do God do God not always make a

2027
01:36:58,360 --> 01:37:05,080
Speaker 1: way for Jojo? Yes, all right, don't situation the court

2028
01:37:05,120 --> 01:37:08,800
Speaker 1: ship I tried. I'm not tripping though. God makes a

2029
01:37:08,880 --> 01:37:11,840
Speaker 1: way like you. Y'all are never shlacking whenever time I

2030
01:37:11,880 --> 01:37:14,360
Speaker 1: see you, whenever I see the baby, y'all are never slacking.

2031
01:37:14,680 --> 01:37:16,640
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, the things that's

2032
01:37:16,800 --> 01:37:19,800
Speaker 1: extra still what you want. You you looking at it

2033
01:37:19,880 --> 01:37:22,040
Speaker 1: as if I could be doing this. If I don't

2034
01:37:22,080 --> 01:37:24,160
Speaker 1: do this, hey man, it may be this is we

2035
01:37:24,280 --> 01:37:26,800
Speaker 1: can't pray for strength and don't want to go through

2036
01:37:26,880 --> 01:37:29,240
Speaker 1: nothing to test it. Fact, and that's the truth. We

2037
01:37:29,320 --> 01:37:31,560
Speaker 1: can't pray for nothing and don't want it to be

2038
01:37:31,680 --> 01:37:33,960
Speaker 1: tested to see if we really need it, bro, And

2039
01:37:34,080 --> 01:37:35,840
Speaker 1: that's just real. Ship. So you've been praying to be

2040
01:37:35,920 --> 01:37:37,800
Speaker 1: a strong woman. You are a strong woman, and my

2041
01:37:37,880 --> 01:37:40,000
Speaker 1: hat's off to you. But you gotta recognize that you

2042
01:37:40,120 --> 01:37:42,000
Speaker 1: are really strong and you don't need nothing to make

2043
01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:44,320
Speaker 1: you weak. All of these are all of these are

2044
01:37:44,439 --> 01:37:47,720
Speaker 1: weak energies looking at a nigga that whatever he is,

2045
01:37:47,800 --> 01:37:50,720
Speaker 1: he is so one thing about it. I'm gonna keep

2046
01:37:50,720 --> 01:37:52,840
Speaker 1: it one hunding with you. And he could be what

2047
01:37:53,040 --> 01:37:57,800
Speaker 1: is it? I could be being sadistic knowing the way

2048
01:37:57,840 --> 01:37:59,640
Speaker 1: you feel when I don't do something. But when you

2049
01:37:59,720 --> 01:38:01,519
Speaker 1: show me you don't have no emotion, that's gonna make

2050
01:38:01,560 --> 01:38:02,000
Speaker 1: me do more.

2051
01:38:03,120 --> 01:38:03,880
Speaker 5: No, I agree with that.

2052
01:38:04,040 --> 01:38:06,559
Speaker 1: When you show me it's not needed, it's not nothing,

2053
01:38:06,640 --> 01:38:12,720
Speaker 1: then I'm an extra coming because we like that.

2054
01:38:12,920 --> 01:38:16,960
Speaker 6: Because if if you're showing a nigga that he's gonna be,

2055
01:38:17,160 --> 01:38:18,720
Speaker 6: he's gonna be able to get a reaction out of

2056
01:38:18,760 --> 01:38:21,759
Speaker 6: you when he doesn't do He's gonna pull your strings

2057
01:38:21,920 --> 01:38:25,400
Speaker 6: and not do whenever he wants to see you, whenever

2058
01:38:25,479 --> 01:38:26,519
Speaker 6: he wants to see you move.

2059
01:38:27,280 --> 01:38:28,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I like that.

2060
01:38:28,240 --> 01:38:28,960
Speaker 5: That's what niggas do.

2061
01:38:29,280 --> 01:38:32,200
Speaker 1: That's what I think.

2062
01:38:32,320 --> 01:38:33,040
Speaker 5: I think they're right.

2063
01:38:33,200 --> 01:38:35,040
Speaker 6: I think for me, I used to because he knows

2064
01:38:35,080 --> 01:38:37,920
Speaker 6: that he can control you like that by not doing

2065
01:38:38,200 --> 01:38:39,960
Speaker 6: like all he has to do is not do some ship,

2066
01:38:40,439 --> 01:38:42,240
Speaker 6: even if he was gonna do it, or even if

2067
01:38:42,280 --> 01:38:44,200
Speaker 6: he has the means to do it, or whatever, if

2068
01:38:44,280 --> 01:38:46,560
Speaker 6: he feels like fucking with you, He's not gonna do

2069
01:38:46,640 --> 01:38:48,240
Speaker 6: it just to see what you do, just to watch

2070
01:38:48,280 --> 01:38:48,719
Speaker 6: you squirm.

2071
01:38:49,800 --> 01:38:51,720
Speaker 1: It's as simple as this. Take her to work every

2072
01:38:52,439 --> 01:38:54,599
Speaker 1: I mean, she goes, she gonna break at one o'clock.

2073
01:38:54,800 --> 01:38:57,160
Speaker 1: If I don't call her by one o seven or

2074
01:38:57,200 --> 01:39:01,960
Speaker 1: one team, she gonna call me looking different because it's

2075
01:39:01,960 --> 01:39:05,679
Speaker 1: something she expects. Like I know how to invoke the energy.

2076
01:39:05,720 --> 01:39:08,439
Speaker 1: I know how to invoke the reaction to say, I

2077
01:39:08,479 --> 01:39:10,439
Speaker 1: don't call when she get off work, and if she

2078
01:39:10,520 --> 01:39:12,439
Speaker 1: get off at five, I don't call about five thirty

2079
01:39:12,479 --> 01:39:16,040
Speaker 1: six o'clock, she looking like, what's up? Man? You know

2080
01:39:16,080 --> 01:39:18,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. When she gonna face hey, may I'll

2081
01:39:18,360 --> 01:39:20,200
Speaker 1: be I gotta make up some man, I just feel like,

2082
01:39:20,640 --> 01:39:23,519
Speaker 1: whatever it is, did I say, I know I've created

2083
01:39:24,000 --> 01:39:26,040
Speaker 1: vice versa. So if I if I don't pay the

2084
01:39:26,439 --> 01:39:29,080
Speaker 1: daycare this this month, I know, Joji are gonna be tripping.

2085
01:39:31,160 --> 01:39:33,840
Speaker 1: It's just like real shit, It's just like you're giving

2086
01:39:33,840 --> 01:39:34,639
Speaker 1: a nigga power.

2087
01:39:34,880 --> 01:39:35,439
Speaker 5: It's just like the.

2088
01:39:35,479 --> 01:39:38,720
Speaker 6: Pavlov experiment how they train the dog to fucking want

2089
01:39:38,760 --> 01:39:42,000
Speaker 6: to eat, like if they if they like, they train

2090
01:39:42,120 --> 01:39:44,720
Speaker 6: the dog where they ring the bell and they ring

2091
01:39:44,840 --> 01:39:47,360
Speaker 6: the bell and put the food out. They did that

2092
01:39:47,560 --> 01:39:51,000
Speaker 6: for however long, so now the dog associates ringing the

2093
01:39:51,040 --> 01:39:53,600
Speaker 6: bell with eating. So when they ring the bell, the

2094
01:39:53,680 --> 01:39:56,680
Speaker 6: dog knows okay, it starts salivating because it knows it's

2095
01:39:56,720 --> 01:39:59,439
Speaker 6: time to eat. If you show a nigga that that

2096
01:39:59,560 --> 01:40:01,840
Speaker 6: that's what it's gonna make you move or make you

2097
01:40:01,920 --> 01:40:05,000
Speaker 6: squirm or make you flip out or whatever, then the

2098
01:40:05,080 --> 01:40:08,000
Speaker 6: nigga's gonna ring the bell, not do the shit and

2099
01:40:08,160 --> 01:40:12,840
Speaker 6: watch you fucking react. But I think I think for me, Jojo,

2100
01:40:12,920 --> 01:40:15,240
Speaker 6: because I've been where you are, like frustrated and shit

2101
01:40:15,320 --> 01:40:16,920
Speaker 6: like that. I just got to the point my mom

2102
01:40:17,040 --> 01:40:19,600
Speaker 6: actually had to like check me. My mom and like

2103
01:40:19,680 --> 01:40:21,120
Speaker 6: back in the down was dating is one guy that

2104
01:40:21,280 --> 01:40:23,479
Speaker 6: was just like shy, I can't deal with this, like

2105
01:40:23,640 --> 01:40:25,920
Speaker 6: you just keep bitching about your baby daddy, and he

2106
01:40:25,960 --> 01:40:27,720
Speaker 6: didn't want to hear no more. Then I was just

2107
01:40:27,760 --> 01:40:29,600
Speaker 6: talking to my mom and she really got me to

2108
01:40:29,680 --> 01:40:33,240
Speaker 6: get to the point where it's just like stop reacting,

2109
01:40:33,520 --> 01:40:35,680
Speaker 6: like stop being mad. You really don't know what this

2110
01:40:35,760 --> 01:40:38,400
Speaker 6: person is going through. You really don't know, so just

2111
01:40:38,479 --> 01:40:41,040
Speaker 6: stop being like that, like just stop always having something

2112
01:40:41,080 --> 01:40:42,640
Speaker 6: to say, Like I'm tired of hearing about it.

2113
01:40:42,640 --> 01:40:44,720
Speaker 5: Every day we get on the phone. I keep hearing this, this, this,

2114
01:40:44,800 --> 01:40:46,080
Speaker 5: and this. My mom was even telling me that.

2115
01:40:46,439 --> 01:40:48,040
Speaker 6: So I got to the point where I just had

2116
01:40:48,120 --> 01:40:50,240
Speaker 6: to look at it as the glass was half four

2117
01:40:50,360 --> 01:40:52,880
Speaker 6: versus half empty, and I start thinking about like, Okay,

2118
01:40:53,000 --> 01:40:54,600
Speaker 6: well they do have a good relationship.

2119
01:40:54,840 --> 01:40:55,680
Speaker 5: He does love her.

2120
01:40:56,080 --> 01:40:59,080
Speaker 6: Could I push the thing to want him to do more? Absolutely?

2121
01:40:59,160 --> 01:41:00,920
Speaker 6: But I think she if he turned it around, he

2122
01:41:00,960 --> 01:41:01,800
Speaker 6: could want me to do more.

2123
01:41:01,880 --> 01:41:04,160
Speaker 5: You get what I'm saying. So I would say this,

2124
01:41:04,479 --> 01:41:07,800
Speaker 5: I haven't talked to that nigga in two months, and

2125
01:41:07,840 --> 01:41:09,479
Speaker 5: now I think it's crazy for a person not to

2126
01:41:09,560 --> 01:41:10,320
Speaker 5: talk to the child.

2127
01:41:10,520 --> 01:41:13,040
Speaker 7: Well, he don't talk even when there was communication. He

2128
01:41:13,160 --> 01:41:16,479
Speaker 7: never talked to the child. He would just we would

2129
01:41:16,479 --> 01:41:21,439
Speaker 7: talk like send the funds, like that's it, so that

2130
01:41:21,760 --> 01:41:24,160
Speaker 7: that was it. So sometimes I get I used to

2131
01:41:24,360 --> 01:41:26,840
Speaker 7: not anymore, but I did get frustrated. And the reason

2132
01:41:26,840 --> 01:41:29,240
Speaker 7: why I brought that up is because I just wanted to.

2133
01:41:29,479 --> 01:41:32,240
Speaker 7: I had a different outlook on wanting a man and

2134
01:41:32,600 --> 01:41:34,360
Speaker 7: just wanted him to do what he needed to do.

2135
01:41:34,960 --> 01:41:37,840
Speaker 7: And I gotten to a point to where like we

2136
01:41:37,920 --> 01:41:40,640
Speaker 7: didn't really argue a lot, like it wasn't toxic or

2137
01:41:40,680 --> 01:41:43,280
Speaker 7: anything like that. But sometimes I did get frustrated and

2138
01:41:43,360 --> 01:41:45,439
Speaker 7: I felt the frustration because like damn, nigga, like just

2139
01:41:45,520 --> 01:41:46,840
Speaker 7: do what you want to do, like I mean, do

2140
01:41:46,920 --> 01:41:48,200
Speaker 7: what you're supposed to do type of thing.

2141
01:41:48,640 --> 01:41:56,360
Speaker 5: But I but I've scaled back and just I think, yeah, if.

2142
01:41:56,240 --> 01:42:00,439
Speaker 1: You don't, I'm saying that, none, that's cool. When you single,

2143
01:42:00,680 --> 01:42:02,400
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, you can be a toxic

2144
01:42:02,760 --> 01:42:06,320
Speaker 1: and what is it sistics you want to be. But

2145
01:42:06,400 --> 01:42:09,599
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship, you gotta understand how you're

2146
01:42:09,640 --> 01:42:11,680
Speaker 1: making you're putting on a person that's trying to love

2147
01:42:11,760 --> 01:42:14,600
Speaker 1: you unconditionally, you know what I'm saying. Then you not

2148
01:42:14,800 --> 01:42:17,679
Speaker 1: understanding because a man ain't gonna come tell you because

2149
01:42:17,720 --> 01:42:19,800
Speaker 1: of pride, Like I just feel like you little you

2150
01:42:19,880 --> 01:42:22,160
Speaker 1: bet you be on your baby daddy dick too much, Nigga,

2151
01:42:22,160 --> 01:42:24,200
Speaker 1: ain't finna never say that. He's gonna make it another

2152
01:42:24,360 --> 01:42:27,000
Speaker 1: reason why he don't fuck with you because he don't

2153
01:42:27,000 --> 01:42:29,200
Speaker 1: want to look like I'm hating on your baby dad relationship.

2154
01:42:29,520 --> 01:42:31,040
Speaker 1: So now I got to push away from you on

2155
01:42:31,120 --> 01:42:32,639
Speaker 1: some ship that you don't even know why. I'm pushing

2156
01:42:32,720 --> 01:42:35,960
Speaker 1: away because you're making me feel a way about theseus sass, Nigga,

2157
01:42:36,000 --> 01:42:38,040
Speaker 1: that don't matter. You need one of our life.

2158
01:42:38,400 --> 01:42:40,320
Speaker 6: I get what you're saying, but that shit ain't fair.

2159
01:42:40,680 --> 01:42:43,160
Speaker 6: That ship is not fair to us because tell us we.

2160
01:42:43,200 --> 01:42:45,120
Speaker 5: Don't damn know, just like y'all want us to tell you.

2161
01:42:45,680 --> 01:42:47,439
Speaker 5: I think it's I think it's the same I'm saying.

2162
01:42:47,439 --> 01:42:51,519
Speaker 5: I appreciate that. No, we don't know until somebody tell us.

2163
01:42:51,520 --> 01:42:52,280
Speaker 5: I think it's the same thing.

2164
01:42:52,320 --> 01:42:54,720
Speaker 6: It's like if you date a guy and every day

2165
01:42:54,800 --> 01:42:57,320
Speaker 6: he calling you or he tells he complaining about his

2166
01:42:57,400 --> 01:42:58,760
Speaker 6: baby mama, eventually.

2167
01:42:58,439 --> 01:42:59,680
Speaker 5: Gonna be like, I don't want to hear about this bitch,

2168
01:42:59,760 --> 01:43:06,479
Speaker 5: don't Yeah, oh yeah, the same thing, the same thing at.

2169
01:43:06,360 --> 01:43:08,400
Speaker 1: The end of the day, you don't want nobody nothing

2170
01:43:08,880 --> 01:43:12,040
Speaker 1: like Listen, it'll be a difference, my hope, we fucking

2171
01:43:12,400 --> 01:43:15,040
Speaker 1: it's different. But if I'm trying to make this ship one,

2172
01:43:15,160 --> 01:43:18,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to feel like nothing is important more

2173
01:43:18,439 --> 01:43:20,840
Speaker 1: important than you than me. Not your mama, your daddy,

2174
01:43:20,920 --> 01:43:24,280
Speaker 1: your just put your kids and God anything else. Bitch

2175
01:43:24,400 --> 01:43:27,880
Speaker 1: is God, your kids than me? Anything else that can

2176
01:43:27,920 --> 01:43:29,760
Speaker 1: make you touch your emotions. I gotta kind of sick

2177
01:43:29,800 --> 01:43:30,320
Speaker 1: and guess.

2178
01:43:30,200 --> 01:43:32,439
Speaker 5: That men are so prideful.

2179
01:43:33,520 --> 01:43:34,479
Speaker 1: Yes, so do me?

2180
01:43:34,600 --> 01:43:39,200
Speaker 6: The only one them to be able to affect your emotions? No,

2181
01:43:39,439 --> 01:43:41,960
Speaker 6: like the only like like the man that you're with,

2182
01:43:42,320 --> 01:43:43,760
Speaker 6: like you're he's supposed.

2183
01:43:43,439 --> 01:43:45,200
Speaker 1: To be the only person that can make you like

2184
01:43:45,479 --> 01:43:49,679
Speaker 1: to I feel like your family, your friends, and that ship.

2185
01:43:49,840 --> 01:43:54,560
Speaker 1: Not another man, if another man, if another man or

2186
01:43:54,840 --> 01:43:57,679
Speaker 1: X make it make you feel away, you're not mine totally.

2187
01:43:58,439 --> 01:43:59,760
Speaker 3: How do you think this ship will do with like

2188
01:43:59,840 --> 01:44:01,439
Speaker 3: a king and the queen? Like, do I think that

2189
01:44:01,560 --> 01:44:05,960
Speaker 3: that could happen? The king and the king thrones gonna be?

2190
01:44:06,080 --> 01:44:09,200
Speaker 3: Like what you're crying over, it's just the other prince down.

2191
01:44:09,040 --> 01:44:13,640
Speaker 1: There, a joker that doesn't even make sense. Some of

2192
01:44:13,720 --> 01:44:16,000
Speaker 1: this is just normal, common sense.

2193
01:44:18,120 --> 01:44:20,559
Speaker 5: Common sense ain't all the way common DJ.

2194
01:44:21,080 --> 01:44:22,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is that they operate out

2195
01:44:22,800 --> 01:44:24,760
Speaker 1: of emotional We gotta understand that. That's the reason why

2196
01:44:24,800 --> 01:44:28,240
Speaker 1: they have niggas like me, you kodak other men's to

2197
01:44:28,360 --> 01:44:30,320
Speaker 1: tell them to crack the code and give them the

2198
01:44:30,400 --> 01:44:31,800
Speaker 1: secrets of how niggas think.

2199
01:44:31,920 --> 01:44:36,200
Speaker 5: No facts that I don't be knowing. I ain't gonna lie.

2200
01:44:36,400 --> 01:44:37,760
Speaker 1: Because at the end of the day, I'm gonna tell

2201
01:44:37,760 --> 01:44:41,000
Speaker 1: the different between women, women and men. Most women feel

2202
01:44:41,120 --> 01:44:43,360
Speaker 1: like it should be how they think it should be

2203
01:44:43,400 --> 01:44:46,559
Speaker 1: instead of how it really is. That's the only disconnect

2204
01:44:46,600 --> 01:44:50,200
Speaker 1: between men and women. Women thinking of how things should be,

2205
01:44:50,320 --> 01:44:52,360
Speaker 1: how they think it should be in a relationship, how

2206
01:44:52,439 --> 01:44:54,600
Speaker 1: I think a relationship should go. That's how it be.

2207
01:44:54,680 --> 01:44:56,360
Speaker 1: That's why they get so upset with me. And when

2208
01:44:56,360 --> 01:44:59,520
Speaker 1: it's not like that. Their expectations, Yeah, it'd be expectations

2209
01:44:59,600 --> 01:45:02,800
Speaker 1: like you got think all women are little girls, and

2210
01:45:02,920 --> 01:45:05,680
Speaker 1: I know that sounds crazy. They never lose that, They

2211
01:45:05,760 --> 01:45:09,160
Speaker 1: never lose that little girl strong as being babied and

2212
01:45:09,280 --> 01:45:12,719
Speaker 1: being princess, and they never lose that. It never goes away.

2213
01:45:13,800 --> 01:45:16,240
Speaker 1: So you know you'ren't supposed to it never goes away.

2214
01:45:16,280 --> 01:45:22,439
Speaker 1: But you gotta have an understanding. It never goes away.

2215
01:45:22,560 --> 01:45:25,760
Speaker 1: It's like she's like, like my granddaughters are never wrong.

2216
01:45:25,840 --> 01:45:28,080
Speaker 1: My daughter, they're never wrong. You're a little girl. So

2217
01:45:28,160 --> 01:45:30,320
Speaker 1: what she and so what? Leave all alone? You know

2218
01:45:30,360 --> 01:45:33,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So you take that into a relationship too,

2219
01:45:34,200 --> 01:45:36,639
Speaker 1: not knowing you're dealing with a person with equal emotions

2220
01:45:36,760 --> 01:45:38,680
Speaker 1: is yours because I love you the same way and

2221
01:45:38,800 --> 01:45:40,479
Speaker 1: I just met you, but you ain't your dad. I

2222
01:45:40,800 --> 01:45:43,840
Speaker 1: don't got a goddamn prenciss you ass So I feel

2223
01:45:43,880 --> 01:45:47,200
Speaker 1: how I feel too, So then know what I'm saying.

2224
01:45:47,200 --> 01:45:51,080
Speaker 1: So then when the misunderstanding come, it's like you gotta understand.

2225
01:45:51,120 --> 01:45:54,720
Speaker 1: But I've seen women feel like a nigga supposed to

2226
01:45:55,720 --> 01:45:58,479
Speaker 1: adjust to exactly who they want them to be and

2227
01:45:58,560 --> 01:46:00,519
Speaker 1: then where you want them to Just this is just

2228
01:46:00,600 --> 01:46:03,920
Speaker 1: who I am. I've heard that a mean time. You

2229
01:46:03,960 --> 01:46:05,560
Speaker 1: can't accept me for me, but you want me to

2230
01:46:05,640 --> 01:46:08,200
Speaker 1: be different. This is crazy. Women feel like a man

2231
01:46:08,400 --> 01:46:10,439
Speaker 1: they supposed to be able to put their hand up

2232
01:46:10,439 --> 01:46:11,200
Speaker 1: a nigga back.

2233
01:46:13,920 --> 01:46:15,840
Speaker 5: Now because I'm laughing because screaming.

2234
01:46:15,880 --> 01:46:19,280
Speaker 6: I was having a conversation earlier, and what did you

2235
01:46:19,360 --> 01:46:22,040
Speaker 6: tell me like, it's not what you want, it's what

2236
01:46:22,160 --> 01:46:23,920
Speaker 6: you need. Because I was telling him about like guys

2237
01:46:24,000 --> 01:46:26,479
Speaker 6: or whatever. He was just like, it's not what you want,

2238
01:46:26,560 --> 01:46:27,439
Speaker 6: it's like what you need.

2239
01:46:27,600 --> 01:46:30,320
Speaker 1: But if you ask a woman exactly, Okay, I'm gonna

2240
01:46:30,320 --> 01:46:32,120
Speaker 1: ask every woman in this room. We're gonna go around,

2241
01:46:32,400 --> 01:46:35,479
Speaker 1: starting with Jojo to Jay, what is that you want

2242
01:46:35,640 --> 01:46:38,920
Speaker 1: in a relationship? First? The first thing, No, just period,

2243
01:46:38,920 --> 01:46:41,840
Speaker 1: What did you want a relationship want?

2244
01:46:42,040 --> 01:46:46,840
Speaker 6: Let's talk about I want loyalty. I want a god

2245
01:46:46,960 --> 01:46:49,400
Speaker 6: fearing man. I want him to be financially stable. I

2246
01:46:49,479 --> 01:46:53,520
Speaker 6: want him to be funny, family oriented.

2247
01:46:54,520 --> 01:46:56,240
Speaker 1: Some of those are these in my opinion.

2248
01:46:56,479 --> 01:47:01,560
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I said money, right, So what is it

2249
01:47:01,600 --> 01:47:02,040
Speaker 5: that you want?

2250
01:47:02,120 --> 01:47:02,320
Speaker 1: Jake?

2251
01:47:04,680 --> 01:47:08,280
Speaker 5: I definitely, I definitely need a nigga to be loyal

2252
01:47:08,360 --> 01:47:08,560
Speaker 5: to me.

2253
01:47:10,080 --> 01:47:11,080
Speaker 1: Hold, what's loyalty?

2254
01:47:11,600 --> 01:47:15,080
Speaker 5: Loyal is don't cross me, cross.

2255
01:47:14,920 --> 01:47:17,760
Speaker 1: You with dinner when other women's crossing it.

2256
01:47:17,960 --> 01:47:24,960
Speaker 6: Okay, go ahead, Jake, definitely gotta have that loyalty. And

2257
01:47:25,120 --> 01:47:30,240
Speaker 6: to me, loyalty is basically like having my best interest

2258
01:47:30,320 --> 01:47:34,240
Speaker 6: at heart and also having concern and consideration for my feelings.

2259
01:47:34,320 --> 01:47:36,360
Speaker 1: Okay, what is a quieterity? What do you have to

2260
01:47:36,439 --> 01:47:38,519
Speaker 1: have to even get your attention to be able to

2261
01:47:38,560 --> 01:47:40,080
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, what do you want

2262
01:47:40,120 --> 01:47:40,639
Speaker 1: from the man?

2263
01:47:45,160 --> 01:47:47,640
Speaker 6: I need a nigga that's like that I can be

2264
01:47:47,720 --> 01:47:50,360
Speaker 6: goofy with, Like a nigga that I can be funny

2265
01:47:50,400 --> 01:47:53,240
Speaker 6: with that you know, has a sense of humor. But

2266
01:47:53,320 --> 01:47:56,840
Speaker 6: I also need like a man, like a nigga is

2267
01:47:56,920 --> 01:48:03,160
Speaker 6: gonna be a man like Okay, you know what I'm saying, Yeah,

2268
01:48:03,320 --> 01:48:06,519
Speaker 6: like a nigga that is, you know, a nigga that's

2269
01:48:06,640 --> 01:48:10,320
Speaker 6: like like a man like that's gonna handle the business

2270
01:48:10,479 --> 01:48:14,519
Speaker 6: and that's gonna fucking like step on ship.

2271
01:48:14,720 --> 01:48:22,320
Speaker 5: And like you know what I'm saying, Like, what do

2272
01:48:22,479 --> 01:48:33,800
Speaker 5: I want? Do you want to do? I think for me,

2273
01:48:35,200 --> 01:48:40,719
Speaker 5: I will want security. I want security. I will want

2274
01:48:42,800 --> 01:48:46,360
Speaker 5: someone to be to give me reassurance.

2275
01:48:47,520 --> 01:48:51,680
Speaker 6: I will want someone financially stable, someone that could motivate me.

2276
01:48:52,680 --> 01:48:57,640
Speaker 5: I will want someone that that does have loyalty and

2277
01:48:58,080 --> 01:48:59,000
Speaker 5: put family first.

2278
01:49:00,000 --> 01:49:03,960
Speaker 1: I heard everything y'all just said, right, So if y'all

2279
01:49:04,040 --> 01:49:06,479
Speaker 1: get all that from one man, from your man, what

2280
01:49:06,640 --> 01:49:08,920
Speaker 1: you could be complete? This is yes no answer, yes

2281
01:49:09,080 --> 01:49:09,200
Speaker 1: or no?

2282
01:49:10,520 --> 01:49:11,080
Speaker 5: Be complete?

2283
01:49:11,240 --> 01:49:13,000
Speaker 1: Would you be complete? Like would you be able to

2284
01:49:13,120 --> 01:49:14,880
Speaker 1: deal with whatever come with him, if he gives you

2285
01:49:14,960 --> 01:49:17,760
Speaker 1: those things that you want, yes or no, yes, yes

2286
01:49:17,920 --> 01:49:21,280
Speaker 1: or no, yes, yes or no.

2287
01:49:24,439 --> 01:49:24,840
Speaker 5: I don't know.

2288
01:49:25,160 --> 01:49:27,280
Speaker 1: I don't okay, so that ain't what you want. You

2289
01:49:27,479 --> 01:49:29,680
Speaker 1: don't know what you want to you don't know what

2290
01:49:29,800 --> 01:49:30,120
Speaker 1: you want.

2291
01:49:30,200 --> 01:49:32,560
Speaker 6: Then, Like if a nigga okay, my thing is is

2292
01:49:32,600 --> 01:49:35,000
Speaker 6: like Okay, If a nigga is loyal, if a nigga

2293
01:49:35,040 --> 01:49:37,720
Speaker 6: standing on business, if a nigga stepping on ship, if

2294
01:49:37,760 --> 01:49:43,200
Speaker 6: a nigga is fucking like uplifting me and like helping

2295
01:49:43,640 --> 01:49:46,120
Speaker 6: and helping me and telling me that I can be

2296
01:49:46,200 --> 01:49:48,240
Speaker 6: a better person and doing what needs.

2297
01:49:48,040 --> 01:49:49,200
Speaker 5: To be done, all that kind of shit.

2298
01:49:50,280 --> 01:49:52,760
Speaker 6: If a nigga, like if I know that like this

2299
01:49:52,960 --> 01:49:55,200
Speaker 6: is a nigga, Like if this nigga explains to me

2300
01:49:55,400 --> 01:49:58,320
Speaker 6: like or it makes me feel like I can't play

2301
01:49:58,360 --> 01:50:02,800
Speaker 6: with him, okay, like he's a nigga a man, then

2302
01:50:03,040 --> 01:50:05,640
Speaker 6: that's all. Take whatever comes with him. I'm ready to

2303
01:50:05,720 --> 01:50:06,080
Speaker 6: deal with it.

2304
01:50:06,240 --> 01:50:07,800
Speaker 5: Well, I guess it depends on what's coming.

2305
01:50:08,000 --> 01:50:10,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying anything could come with that type of nigga.

2306
01:50:10,080 --> 01:50:11,640
Speaker 1: A nigga could come in your life and be the

2307
01:50:11,760 --> 01:50:15,360
Speaker 1: everything you ask God for. Within his character or his

2308
01:50:15,520 --> 01:50:18,719
Speaker 1: traits hold I mean his character is traits you cannot

2309
01:50:18,800 --> 01:50:20,000
Speaker 1: deal with character.

2310
01:50:20,520 --> 01:50:23,320
Speaker 5: Character character is a deal breaker for me, I'm gonna

2311
01:50:23,479 --> 01:50:23,880
Speaker 5: think so.

2312
01:50:24,040 --> 01:50:26,240
Speaker 3: But but he gives you everything you would and then

2313
01:50:26,320 --> 01:50:31,480
Speaker 3: also and also understanding character, but with more deal breakers.

2314
01:50:34,080 --> 01:50:38,439
Speaker 5: That a real man a nigga that I can't play with.

2315
01:50:40,720 --> 01:50:46,320
Speaker 1: A character character is I like other bitches, right, That's

2316
01:50:46,439 --> 01:50:48,400
Speaker 1: that's just my only flaw. I like other bitches.

2317
01:50:48,920 --> 01:50:53,280
Speaker 5: I believe that that goes under loyalty.

2318
01:50:56,000 --> 01:50:59,920
Speaker 1: Lads, that's unfaithful. Lawns is a different word. We are

2319
01:51:00,120 --> 01:51:00,759
Speaker 1: figured out.

2320
01:51:04,160 --> 01:51:05,479
Speaker 5: Successful men cheap.

2321
01:51:05,760 --> 01:51:07,400
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me let me say this, John, let

2322
01:51:07,439 --> 01:51:09,760
Speaker 1: me finish my point, please, y'all just made my point.

2323
01:51:10,040 --> 01:51:12,400
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, if you ask most

2324
01:51:12,439 --> 01:51:14,960
Speaker 1: women what they want, they got an ideal what they want,

2325
01:51:15,000 --> 01:51:16,800
Speaker 1: but they don't know what they want.

2326
01:51:16,960 --> 01:51:17,519
Speaker 5: And I agree that.

2327
01:51:17,800 --> 01:51:24,320
Speaker 1: I agree because relationship you get in a relationship with me, right,

2328
01:51:24,400 --> 01:51:26,680
Speaker 1: I can give you everything that your idea was, But

2329
01:51:26,760 --> 01:51:28,600
Speaker 1: then will get a relationship and you're fulfilled with that,

2330
01:51:28,840 --> 01:51:31,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna always think of something else that you want.

2331
01:51:31,680 --> 01:51:35,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I guess the better question. The better question

2332
01:51:35,200 --> 01:51:37,280
Speaker 5: will be like, what are the deal breaks?

2333
01:51:37,400 --> 01:51:40,760
Speaker 1: The deal breakers that you don't matter as much as

2334
01:51:40,960 --> 01:51:46,679
Speaker 1: what knowing what you want or need to know. There's

2335
01:51:46,760 --> 01:51:50,120
Speaker 1: no such thing as earlier. The reason why I've been

2336
01:51:50,680 --> 01:51:53,639
Speaker 1: and being with this woman for thirty years right because

2337
01:51:53,720 --> 01:51:55,920
Speaker 1: she has no deal breakings. When it comes to me,

2338
01:51:56,640 --> 01:51:59,479
Speaker 1: she get upset, she custs me out. She don't bust

2339
01:51:59,479 --> 01:52:01,120
Speaker 1: out my car, and she don't shot out my shot

2340
01:52:01,200 --> 01:52:03,920
Speaker 1: in my cars, shot in my crap trap spot chante

2341
01:52:04,120 --> 01:52:07,479
Speaker 1: is crazy. She just looked like that Jo shot sticks

2342
01:52:07,479 --> 01:52:09,600
Speaker 1: in my houses and ship. But at the end of

2343
01:52:09,720 --> 01:52:13,400
Speaker 1: the day, she's never once said she want to leave me,

2344
01:52:13,520 --> 01:52:16,160
Speaker 1: she wanted divorce or it's a deal breaker, that's all.

2345
01:52:16,200 --> 01:52:19,280
Speaker 1: A man want that real and see the thing is

2346
01:52:19,360 --> 01:52:23,599
Speaker 1: that like fuck you, but but you don't.

2347
01:52:23,640 --> 01:52:25,439
Speaker 5: But you don't have any character issues.

2348
01:52:27,160 --> 01:52:29,120
Speaker 1: What you mean characters? The bond did everything you can do.

2349
01:52:29,240 --> 01:52:31,519
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying is okay, yeah, But but

2350
01:52:31,840 --> 01:52:35,679
Speaker 6: character character like cheating and doing all that ship Okay, cool,

2351
01:52:35,760 --> 01:52:38,880
Speaker 6: that's that's not you always gonna make sure that's not character.

2352
01:52:39,360 --> 01:52:41,639
Speaker 1: That's what y'all just said. I say, if a digger

2353
01:52:41,800 --> 01:52:46,040
Speaker 1: do everything that you said you want from a man, listen,

2354
01:52:46,280 --> 01:52:48,160
Speaker 1: a woman don't know what they want to they see

2355
01:52:48,200 --> 01:52:50,760
Speaker 1: another woman with it, Like now, chante want a farm,

2356
01:52:50,920 --> 01:52:53,080
Speaker 1: like I said, she sees Drinka Gates got a farm.

2357
01:52:53,360 --> 01:52:55,559
Speaker 1: She baby, I think we need to get a farm, right,

2358
01:52:56,600 --> 01:53:01,599
Speaker 1: farm like that. I'm just being real life. You can

2359
01:53:01,800 --> 01:53:04,240
Speaker 1: you can listen. She used to be. Hey, we don't

2360
01:53:04,240 --> 01:53:07,040
Speaker 1: spend time. Now I spend all the time. Hey you're

2361
01:53:07,040 --> 01:53:08,599
Speaker 1: coming out to late, now come in the house. Ear

2362
01:53:09,200 --> 01:53:11,960
Speaker 1: A woman gonna always find something else you can improve on.

2363
01:53:12,080 --> 01:53:14,200
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. They're never certified, but that's

2364
01:53:14,880 --> 01:53:16,800
Speaker 1: because they are. They are. They are what do you

2365
01:53:16,920 --> 01:53:20,840
Speaker 1: call what do you call it? They're possessive and I

2366
01:53:20,920 --> 01:53:24,200
Speaker 1: respect that. I love that, but I want that. But

2367
01:53:24,240 --> 01:53:26,040
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you don't know what

2368
01:53:26,200 --> 01:53:27,240
Speaker 1: you want till you want it.

2369
01:53:27,439 --> 01:53:28,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know what I want.

2370
01:53:29,320 --> 01:53:30,560
Speaker 1: You don't know what you want. You just know what

2371
01:53:30,640 --> 01:53:31,280
Speaker 1: you don't want.

2372
01:53:31,920 --> 01:53:32,800
Speaker 5: I know what I don't want.

2373
01:53:33,000 --> 01:53:34,560
Speaker 1: You don't know what you want till you want it.

2374
01:53:34,960 --> 01:53:37,280
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, I don't know what

2375
01:53:37,400 --> 01:53:38,400
Speaker 1: to say, bro No.

2376
01:53:38,560 --> 01:53:41,639
Speaker 7: But that's true though, because even in relationships, it's like, oh,

2377
01:53:41,720 --> 01:53:43,920
Speaker 7: it's going good, and then it's like this.

2378
01:53:44,080 --> 01:53:46,479
Speaker 5: Can change, or you can do this a little better,

2379
01:53:46,720 --> 01:53:51,000
Speaker 5: or always something Damn. That's a female thing.

2380
01:53:51,479 --> 01:53:53,960
Speaker 1: It is because a nigga know what he want.

2381
01:53:54,760 --> 01:53:55,240
Speaker 5: What do you want?

2382
01:53:55,560 --> 01:54:01,640
Speaker 1: Respect only and kouchie man puss this diamond does. Man,

2383
01:54:01,680 --> 01:54:04,479
Speaker 1: every bitch got puss it. Man, Niggas just want the bitch.

2384
01:54:04,360 --> 01:54:07,599
Speaker 5: Every The relationship you're talking about, yeah's gone.

2385
01:54:07,840 --> 01:54:09,680
Speaker 1: That sh it ain't nothing because if you respect me,

2386
01:54:10,439 --> 01:54:12,000
Speaker 1: if you respect me, you're gonna want to fuck me

2387
01:54:12,439 --> 01:54:15,560
Speaker 1: regardless what comes with what comes with respect respect me.

2388
01:54:15,720 --> 01:54:16,920
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, I don't have to

2389
01:54:16,960 --> 01:54:19,360
Speaker 1: worry about nothing when it comes down to you. I

2390
01:54:19,439 --> 01:54:21,400
Speaker 1: don't have to worry about you crying about no dead nigga.

2391
01:54:21,600 --> 01:54:24,280
Speaker 1: I don't have to worry about you about two hundred

2392
01:54:24,280 --> 01:54:25,960
Speaker 1: dollars a month. I don't have to worry about none

2393
01:54:25,960 --> 01:54:27,559
Speaker 1: of this ship. I don't have to worry about nothing

2394
01:54:27,680 --> 01:54:29,479
Speaker 1: when it comes down I know you got all faith

2395
01:54:29,560 --> 01:54:32,160
Speaker 1: in me, m hm in us. I don't have to

2396
01:54:32,200 --> 01:54:34,200
Speaker 1: worry about nothing when it comes down to us. I

2397
01:54:34,400 --> 01:54:36,600
Speaker 1: know you respect me or nothing to know. Hey, man,

2398
01:54:36,640 --> 01:54:38,400
Speaker 1: if he say, Babe, we're finna put it. We're finna

2399
01:54:38,400 --> 01:54:39,920
Speaker 1: put the house off for four closes. We're gonna sleep

2400
01:54:39,960 --> 01:54:41,920
Speaker 1: on the bridge. See month, you know we good up

2401
01:54:42,000 --> 01:54:42,640
Speaker 1: under that bridge.

2402
01:54:43,320 --> 01:54:43,680
Speaker 5: I don't know.

2403
01:54:44,280 --> 01:54:46,160
Speaker 1: I'm just keeping it one hundred. That's how. That's why

2404
01:54:46,240 --> 01:54:49,000
Speaker 1: bitches ain't married, ain't we nigga? That's why cause niggas

2405
01:54:49,000 --> 01:54:52,040
Speaker 1: don't feel Niggas can feel like, hey man, if worse

2406
01:54:52,120 --> 01:54:54,000
Speaker 1: come to word, shout a ready to fix peanut butter

2407
01:54:54,000 --> 01:54:55,840
Speaker 1: and jealous sound was up on the Brooklyn Bridge with me.

2408
01:54:56,200 --> 01:54:59,240
Speaker 1: That's what I gotta baby feel that. That's what marriage

2409
01:54:59,320 --> 01:55:01,920
Speaker 1: really about. If I can't feel that, you ain't for me.

2410
01:55:02,080 --> 01:55:05,440
Speaker 1: If I can't feel that, that's what locking it really about.

2411
01:55:05,560 --> 01:55:07,560
Speaker 1: If I'm with you, you think about it. If I'm

2412
01:55:07,600 --> 01:55:11,240
Speaker 1: with you knowing that it's a limitation or it's what

2413
01:55:11,440 --> 01:55:13,520
Speaker 1: it's a condition on it, I ain't gonna never be

2414
01:55:13,600 --> 01:55:18,640
Speaker 1: solid with you because I know if I do staying character,

2415
01:55:18,720 --> 01:55:19,920
Speaker 1: this shit gonna turn to something else.

2416
01:55:20,120 --> 01:55:21,000
Speaker 5: Some ask you a question.

2417
01:55:21,240 --> 01:55:25,280
Speaker 7: If somebody feels like they found a person, m hm, right,

2418
01:55:26,520 --> 01:55:28,800
Speaker 7: If you find your person, I assume you're gonna go

2419
01:55:28,960 --> 01:55:32,760
Speaker 7: through ups and downs, ups and downs. But if you

2420
01:55:33,000 --> 01:55:36,320
Speaker 7: decide to be down with somebody and you keep trying

2421
01:55:36,320 --> 01:55:39,760
Speaker 7: to make it work and it don't work because y'all

2422
01:55:39,840 --> 01:55:41,920
Speaker 7: keep feuding, does that mean you just gotta.

2423
01:55:41,720 --> 01:55:46,600
Speaker 1: Keep working a whole what's don't work though? What's don't work?

2424
01:55:47,080 --> 01:55:50,360
Speaker 7: Like, say, you in a relationship and you and it's

2425
01:55:50,560 --> 01:55:54,400
Speaker 7: just I don't know, Yeah, like maybe she's doing something

2426
01:55:54,440 --> 01:55:57,000
Speaker 7: he don't like. She's doing something that he doesn't like,

2427
01:55:57,080 --> 01:55:59,360
Speaker 7: and he's doing something that she doesn't like. But it's

2428
01:55:59,440 --> 01:56:02,680
Speaker 7: not enough for them to break up. But it's enough

2429
01:56:02,760 --> 01:56:05,560
Speaker 7: to cause problems in the relationship.

2430
01:56:06,520 --> 01:56:08,680
Speaker 1: But it's gonna be problems in that relationship. And friendship's

2431
01:56:08,680 --> 01:56:12,400
Speaker 1: problem in friendships. It's a problem in everything. And anytime

2432
01:56:12,520 --> 01:56:15,960
Speaker 1: two people, there's no two people alike, man, not even twins.

2433
01:56:16,080 --> 01:56:19,200
Speaker 1: There's no two personalities that match. You know what I'm saying.

2434
01:56:19,200 --> 01:56:20,720
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what you say. Me and

2435
01:56:20,800 --> 01:56:22,440
Speaker 1: you gonna we can sit in the room out there

2436
01:56:22,480 --> 01:56:24,400
Speaker 1: and talk about one hundred things we're gonna disagree on,

2437
01:56:24,560 --> 01:56:26,640
Speaker 1: like ten of it those hundred. That's just what it

2438
01:56:26,800 --> 01:56:29,120
Speaker 1: is though, even if we like minded, So that's what

2439
01:56:29,240 --> 01:56:32,000
Speaker 1: it is. It's just like, do you love me enough

2440
01:56:32,040 --> 01:56:36,600
Speaker 1: to respect my perspective? That's the whole thing.

2441
01:56:36,800 --> 01:56:40,640
Speaker 7: Do you trust me enough to receive your perspective? Do

2442
01:56:40,760 --> 01:56:42,880
Speaker 7: you trust me enough to tell me what your perspective

2443
01:56:43,040 --> 01:56:45,760
Speaker 7: is and let me hear you out.

2444
01:56:46,000 --> 01:56:47,480
Speaker 1: I do. At the end of the day, I'm the

2445
01:56:47,720 --> 01:56:50,680
Speaker 1: one thing about it me personally, I'm not finna lead

2446
01:56:50,720 --> 01:56:52,320
Speaker 1: nothing out because I don't want you to be able

2447
01:56:52,320 --> 01:56:54,200
Speaker 1: to say I tricked you or nothing. I want you

2448
01:56:54,200 --> 01:56:55,640
Speaker 1: to be like at the end of the day, he

2449
01:56:55,800 --> 01:56:58,000
Speaker 1: did say that, I'm gonna tell you up front, Hey,

2450
01:56:58,440 --> 01:57:01,240
Speaker 1: you call me ass niggas, I can't. I can't deal

2451
01:57:01,320 --> 01:57:05,840
Speaker 1: with that. Put that any ass nigga. Hope you're dead

2452
01:57:06,040 --> 01:57:08,480
Speaker 1: in minds, any of that type shit. I'm just telling

2453
01:57:08,520 --> 01:57:11,280
Speaker 1: you they don't do that. You know what I'm saying.

2454
01:57:11,360 --> 01:57:13,120
Speaker 1: Tell you all my vulnerable moments so we don't even

2455
01:57:13,120 --> 01:57:15,080
Speaker 1: have to go through that. I love you on condition.

2456
01:57:15,200 --> 01:57:17,760
Speaker 1: I'm with you one million percent. No matter what. I'm

2457
01:57:17,800 --> 01:57:20,960
Speaker 1: here to PreTect, provide whatever. I'm here to love you.

2458
01:57:21,040 --> 01:57:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm here to make you feel as a question. I'm

2459
01:57:23,280 --> 01:57:25,200
Speaker 1: here because I wouldn't deal with you if I didn't

2460
01:57:25,200 --> 01:57:27,120
Speaker 1: see you bigger than you see yourself. If you were

2461
01:57:27,200 --> 01:57:29,040
Speaker 1: the person that don't see you bigger than you see you,

2462
01:57:29,160 --> 01:57:32,280
Speaker 1: that's not your person. If that person ain't always on

2463
01:57:32,360 --> 01:57:34,400
Speaker 1: you trying to push you forward, that ain't your person.

2464
01:57:34,800 --> 01:57:38,320
Speaker 1: Because your person gotta see you way further than you

2465
01:57:38,400 --> 01:57:41,440
Speaker 1: see yourself. So if a nigga good with you, how

2466
01:57:41,480 --> 01:57:43,840
Speaker 1: you see you, you really don't fuck with you, fuck

2467
01:57:43,880 --> 01:57:44,520
Speaker 1: with your grouping.

2468
01:57:45,000 --> 01:57:47,920
Speaker 6: What if a man don't really know like his tics,

2469
01:57:48,040 --> 01:57:50,080
Speaker 6: like how you just said, Like if you say any

2470
01:57:50,160 --> 01:57:52,080
Speaker 6: of this pussy ass nigga or any of that to me,

2471
01:57:52,240 --> 01:57:53,720
Speaker 6: it's gonna make me tick. What if a man just

2472
01:57:53,840 --> 01:57:56,680
Speaker 6: like I don't know like my vulnerable moments nigga, No,

2473
01:57:58,040 --> 01:57:58,240
Speaker 6: but he.

2474
01:57:58,360 --> 01:58:00,120
Speaker 5: Just don't want to talk about it, you know, you

2475
01:58:00,200 --> 01:58:04,400
Speaker 5: know so what so so how does it? How does

2476
01:58:04,520 --> 01:58:08,080
Speaker 5: the what is it that a woman can do?

2477
01:58:08,520 --> 01:58:10,520
Speaker 7: I know it's probably nothing, I don't know, but to

2478
01:58:10,680 --> 01:58:15,080
Speaker 7: make a man feel safe enough or vulnerable enough to

2479
01:58:15,560 --> 01:58:16,560
Speaker 7: open up to her.

2480
01:58:16,640 --> 01:58:19,320
Speaker 1: Be a woman, understand what a woman is.

2481
01:58:21,920 --> 01:58:26,160
Speaker 5: It's like, okay, I ain't trying to talk about your ahead,

2482
01:58:27,160 --> 01:58:31,880
Speaker 5: but but you said being a woman, and you said

2483
01:58:31,920 --> 01:58:33,680
Speaker 5: be a woman, and I'm like, well, what's being a woman.

2484
01:58:33,920 --> 01:58:38,200
Speaker 6: So in my experiences, like dealing with niggas that have

2485
01:58:38,360 --> 01:58:41,400
Speaker 6: opened up to me in the past, it's really just

2486
01:58:41,520 --> 01:58:45,480
Speaker 6: about it's really just about being like a safe space.

2487
01:58:46,320 --> 01:58:50,880
Speaker 6: Like because because niggas nigga, like any anybody, it ain't

2488
01:58:50,920 --> 01:58:52,400
Speaker 6: even got to be a nigga. But anybody that you

2489
01:58:52,520 --> 01:58:56,000
Speaker 6: deal with, they know where they stand with you, and

2490
01:58:56,080 --> 01:58:58,360
Speaker 6: they know what their relationship is, and they know like

2491
01:58:58,920 --> 01:59:01,360
Speaker 6: basically what you're about and what you're there for and

2492
01:59:01,400 --> 01:59:03,760
Speaker 6: what your purpose is in their life for the most part.

2493
01:59:04,320 --> 01:59:07,920
Speaker 6: So when it comes when it comes to niggas, especially

2494
01:59:08,040 --> 01:59:11,880
Speaker 6: like when you're dealing with street niggas or any kind

2495
01:59:11,880 --> 01:59:16,920
Speaker 6: of nigga that has I don't want to say issues

2496
01:59:17,000 --> 01:59:22,120
Speaker 6: expressing their vulnerability, but has some sort of possible PTSD

2497
01:59:22,360 --> 01:59:26,000
Speaker 6: that is a subliminal blockage from preventing them from being

2498
01:59:26,080 --> 01:59:31,120
Speaker 6: able to open up and expose that vulnerability or whatever.

2499
01:59:32,240 --> 01:59:33,640
Speaker 5: It's just like you just have to.

2500
01:59:34,840 --> 01:59:37,840
Speaker 6: You just have to kind of like give them the

2501
01:59:37,960 --> 01:59:41,200
Speaker 6: setting that makes them feel comfortable to do it on

2502
01:59:41,280 --> 01:59:44,080
Speaker 6: their own. It's not anything that you can really say.

2503
01:59:44,160 --> 01:59:46,760
Speaker 6: It's not anything that you can really try to pull

2504
01:59:46,840 --> 01:59:48,200
Speaker 6: out of them or no shit like that, because if

2505
01:59:48,240 --> 01:59:49,920
Speaker 6: a nigga ain't ready to open up, a nigga's not

2506
01:59:50,040 --> 01:59:51,960
Speaker 6: goinna open up. I don't give a fuck what you do,

2507
01:59:52,080 --> 01:59:53,960
Speaker 6: what you say, who you are, or like none of

2508
01:59:54,000 --> 01:59:54,360
Speaker 6: that shit.

2509
01:59:54,800 --> 01:59:56,040
Speaker 5: It's like you just have to.

2510
01:59:56,960 --> 02:00:00,720
Speaker 6: You just have to provide them with that comfortability, and

2511
02:00:00,840 --> 02:00:03,240
Speaker 6: then it's gonna be little by little. It's gonna be

2512
02:00:03,280 --> 02:00:05,720
Speaker 6: a process. It's gonna be piece by piece, and then

2513
02:00:05,840 --> 02:00:07,920
Speaker 6: eventually they're gonna get to the point where they trust

2514
02:00:08,000 --> 02:00:11,560
Speaker 6: you enough to be able to know, like, Hey, I

2515
02:00:11,600 --> 02:00:13,880
Speaker 6: can tell this bitch my secrets and open up to

2516
02:00:13,960 --> 02:00:15,560
Speaker 6: her and tell her what I have going on, And

2517
02:00:15,680 --> 02:00:17,920
Speaker 6: I know for a fact that she's never gonna turn

2518
02:00:17,960 --> 02:00:19,120
Speaker 6: around and use this shit against me.

2519
02:00:22,720 --> 02:00:27,880
Speaker 1: Correct, But I guess she is a nigga at the

2520
02:00:28,040 --> 02:00:34,960
Speaker 1: end of the day. There's nothing softer to a man

2521
02:00:36,680 --> 02:00:39,960
Speaker 1: like his woman that's a soft woman. Women don't understand

2522
02:00:40,040 --> 02:00:44,480
Speaker 1: how much power there is in their feminine energy. When

2523
02:00:44,520 --> 02:00:47,120
Speaker 1: you try to match my energy, then I gotta show you, bitch,

2524
02:00:47,160 --> 02:00:48,040
Speaker 1: you ain't tough at me.

2525
02:00:48,480 --> 02:00:50,320
Speaker 5: It takes a certain type of man to bring out

2526
02:00:50,360 --> 02:00:51,280
Speaker 5: certain women feeling.

2527
02:00:51,400 --> 02:00:53,560
Speaker 1: So why are you dealing with this type of dude

2528
02:00:53,600 --> 02:00:55,520
Speaker 1: that can't bring it out of you? That would leave

2529
02:00:55,560 --> 02:00:57,840
Speaker 1: him alone. That's the whole thing. That's your first thing.

2530
02:00:57,960 --> 02:01:01,160
Speaker 1: If you don't feel if you don't feel mushy around

2531
02:01:01,200 --> 02:01:04,040
Speaker 1: this nigga, he ain't the one. If you come around

2532
02:01:04,080 --> 02:01:05,960
Speaker 1: the nigga, he make you feel like a little girl

2533
02:01:06,080 --> 02:01:08,240
Speaker 1: like your daddy and all your granddaddy make you feel,

2534
02:01:08,480 --> 02:01:11,040
Speaker 1: then you know that's the nigga. If you still, if

2535
02:01:11,080 --> 02:01:13,400
Speaker 1: you still feel like you gotta be hard, tough and

2536
02:01:13,480 --> 02:01:16,560
Speaker 1: god damn watch his back. He's a hope. Yeah, I'm

2537
02:01:16,640 --> 02:01:20,920
Speaker 1: just being one hundred like bitch gotta be able to

2538
02:01:20,960 --> 02:01:22,640
Speaker 1: be like I can get it. I can get drunk

2539
02:01:22,680 --> 02:01:26,200
Speaker 1: out my mind whatever I know around at the end

2540
02:01:26,200 --> 02:01:28,120
Speaker 1: of the day, and in the same way with a dude.

2541
02:01:28,160 --> 02:01:30,720
Speaker 1: A dude gotta feel like bro when I take my

2542
02:01:30,800 --> 02:01:32,480
Speaker 1: shoes off. I can be as soft as I want

2543
02:01:32,480 --> 02:01:34,440
Speaker 1: to be. I can shed tears. I can tell you

2544
02:01:34,560 --> 02:01:37,080
Speaker 1: my biggest, darkest secret. I can tell you my fears.

2545
02:01:37,400 --> 02:01:40,160
Speaker 1: I can tell you my insecurities and won't be just

2546
02:01:40,320 --> 02:01:43,360
Speaker 1: and you make me feel like a man inside of that.

2547
02:01:43,480 --> 02:01:46,840
Speaker 1: If I can't do that, you ain't mine. And I

2548
02:01:46,960 --> 02:01:48,720
Speaker 1: definitely can't do that. If you cry about a nigga

2549
02:01:48,720 --> 02:01:49,400
Speaker 1: who died.

2550
02:01:49,280 --> 02:01:54,960
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I mean I get it.

2551
02:01:55,080 --> 02:01:59,560
Speaker 1: I agree, good one. We're gonna return fast.

2552
02:01:59,640 --> 02:02:02,320
Speaker 3: Pied dot comsolute Jojo for pulling up you know what

2553
02:02:02,360 --> 02:02:04,800
Speaker 3: I'm saying, shopping it at what This is another legendary

2554
02:02:04,880 --> 02:02:05,960
Speaker 3: Big Facts Friday.

2555
02:02:06,760 --> 02:02:11,360
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