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Speaker 1: The Jubile Show on demand. What's a red flag that

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Speaker 1: you chose to ignore and then regret it later? Hey, Leah, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's a red flag you chose ignore and then regretted it?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Red flag I used to ignore was

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Speaker 1: communication issues. It's like a guy wasn't texting me back,

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Speaker 1: I would like text more, thinking that that would get

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Speaker 1: him to respond, and that is not the true. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: usually means they're not that interested, you know exactly. And

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Speaker 1: when I learned that, like my dating life change. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's good. That's a valuable lesson to learn. I've been

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Speaker 1: on the like, I've kind of been a push over

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Speaker 1: my life and I've had really bad relationships with my life.

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Speaker 1: But one thing that I always did was if someone

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Speaker 1: wasn't texting back, I'm like, well, clearly they're not interested,

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Speaker 1: and I would just stop texting them, right. But I've

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Speaker 1: been on the other end of that where I was

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Speaker 1: not interested at all, and I'm just like, dude, I

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Speaker 1: have not responded to a single message in months, and

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Speaker 1: still every couple mornings it's like, hey, good morning, how

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Speaker 1: are you are you going? I'm great until I heard

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Speaker 1: from you. Thanks for called eight eight three four, three

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Speaker 1: one six one text in four one h six one.

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Speaker 1: It's ridiculous internet questions and what is a red flag

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Speaker 1: you chose to ignore and then later regretted? Christian. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So back in my days of living in West Hollywood,

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Speaker 1: right when I started making like memes and content and

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Speaker 1: my page started taking off, I'll never forget. I was

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Speaker 1: walking it was a Sunday Funday and someone yelled out,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you Christian Snow? And I said, yes, right.

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Speaker 1: It was the first time I'd ever been recognized in

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Speaker 1: public for my content. Ended up becoming friends with this

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Speaker 1: person because I was so excited about it. Wrong every time,

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Speaker 1: like if there was like a night that I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to go out, or like a weekend that I

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Speaker 1: wasn't doing anything, it was like a, well, you know,

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Speaker 1: why aren't you responding? Or there would be subtweets and

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Speaker 1: things like that. And then when I started planning my move,

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Speaker 1: this person went on a complete rampage against me and

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Speaker 1: started reporting tweets of mine for like hateful content. Got

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Speaker 1: my Twitter permanently removed through matt because you were moving,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't furthering the relationship with them. Wow. They wanted

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Speaker 1: a full friendship, and I was like, I thought we

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Speaker 1: were just like cordial, you know, so you know when

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Speaker 1: people over show you they're true. Was you really got

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Speaker 1: to pay attention, you know, and it's okay to remove

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Speaker 1: yourself from a situation that you think might be ended

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Speaker 1: up being toxic and basically, who's a stalker? Sort of

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Speaker 1: a little bit. Yeah, I ended up having to talk

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Speaker 1: to lawyers and everything about it. I mean it was scary. Wow. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: calls eight eight three four three one six one textand

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Speaker 1: four one six one. It's ridiculous Internet questions. And today's

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Speaker 1: question is what they call him the business a doozy.

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Speaker 1: It's what is a red flag that you chose to

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Speaker 1: ignore and then later regretted it? Hey? Dan, Yeah, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's a red flag that you chose to ignore and

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Speaker 1: then regretted it later? It's actually kind of an incident, really,

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Speaker 1: And I saw a guy coming out of a bar

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Speaker 1: firing a gun into the air while I was pumping

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Speaker 1: gas at the gas station across the street. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: and get any red flagger than that. And as he's

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Speaker 1: running across the street towards the gas station, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'd better get out of here and I left, and

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Speaker 1: I always regretted not knowing what happened to the guy

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Speaker 1: and not happened an opposite. You paid attention to the

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Speaker 1: red flag. Good job, but then also you really wanted

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Speaker 1: to see what happened. Yeah, this is the right time

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Speaker 1: to have pomo. Okay, yeah, yeah, exactly, your phone moo

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Speaker 1: and this is really good. Thanks for your phone called

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Speaker 1: Dan one six one text in four one o six one.

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Speaker 1: What is a red flag? You chose to ignore and

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Speaker 1: later regretted it. This is a loaded question because I'm

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Speaker 1: allowed to ask my wife that question. Oh no, alex, Um,

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Speaker 1: well it's not you. It was an old co worker

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Speaker 1: that I became friends with, which was an uh oh,

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Speaker 1: because he became a really bad stock. Yeah, and so

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Speaker 1: it went on really bad. I was scared for a

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Speaker 1: long time. I was scared every time somebody knocked at

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Speaker 1: my door, Oh God, that it was him. He never

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Speaker 1: came over. I didn't know if you knew where I lived,

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Speaker 1: but I guarantee you he knew where I lived, of course,

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Speaker 1: And I was so scared that I had to act

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Speaker 1: like I was his friend, right like I had, because

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Speaker 1: I don't want to kishm off like he was like

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Speaker 1: almost forty no kids, never had a relationship longer than

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Speaker 1: six months, So red flags to even become friends with

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Speaker 1: him in the first place. All the red flag yeah

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Speaker 1: calls text end four one oh six one, Hey Jonah,

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Speaker 1: what red flag did you choose to ignore and later regret?

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Speaker 1: So there was my ax. Basically when we first got together.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she's she's really sexy, she had a career,

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Speaker 1: she was very successful. She had a son, which I

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Speaker 1: was cool with her son. But like right away when

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Speaker 1: we first got into the relationship, I saw this first

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Speaker 1: kind of meltdown episode and I was like, I remember

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Speaker 1: just having this sinking feeling immediately, like like I was

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Speaker 1: staring right at her red flag. And you know, we

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Speaker 1: started the relationship anyway, and it lasted for four years,

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Speaker 1: but that one first episode repeated itself again and again

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Speaker 1: and again, to the point that I was like going crazy.

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Speaker 1: What was the episode? Well, she would get really irrational

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Speaker 1: and she would perceive things and and then she would

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Speaker 1: she would get into this mode. It was just like

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Speaker 1: burn everything down, I don't care, watch out everything around. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, and we even talked about it. I was

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Speaker 1: really heavily emotionally invested in the whole thing for a

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Speaker 1: long time because I didn't want to, you know, leave

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Speaker 1: somebody with troubles. But kind of looking back, you know,

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Speaker 1: I saw it right, Yeah, I saw it right there

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Speaker 1: at the beginning. Yeah, I got to pay attention through.

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Speaker 1: And now will you ever avoid that red flag again?

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Speaker 1: I'd like to say I learned from my mistakes. I'm

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Speaker 1: not so sure. The Jebel Show on demand