WEBVTT - Mr. and Mrs. 90 Day Fiancé

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<v Speaker 1>Miss Spelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, I grew up in this in Hollywood. I've

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<v Speaker 1>met every A list, celebrities, movie star and I am

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<v Speaker 1>freaking out right now.

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<v Speaker 2>You're very sweet, same is very mutual.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, like you have no idea seeing you

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I have to take a shameless selfie via

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<v Speaker 1>zoom after this just bits healthy because I grew up

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<v Speaker 1>watching you. We both group watching you, so and oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, so am I sorry? I know you as Alexi?

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<v Speaker 1>But am I supposed to call you Alex?

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever you want? It works both, please, I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Alexis good, Yeah, Alex, he's more official.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I don't want to be official. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be your friend. I'm just gonna call you.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody here.

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<v Speaker 4>The kids over here closed me out, but because they

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<v Speaker 4>don't know that it means dad or daddy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, so, I guess I can't say it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know your mouf Lauren. Am I allowed to call him? God?

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<v Speaker 1>You can do it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Would that be like Abbi?

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<v Speaker 4>Then well he doesn't have that kind of aspect. It's

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<v Speaker 4>just it's just.

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<v Speaker 1>That RN. Did the kids call you Ema? Yeah? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, so my son's best friend. I'm Jewish, but

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<v Speaker 1>my son's best friend his mom, dad and Emma, and

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, I love friend Emma too. When when his

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<v Speaker 1>best friend comes over, I'm like, okay, I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 1>All of their friends they call it, just call me up.

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<v Speaker 3>Just that's my.

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<v Speaker 1>Name, that's your moniker, that's that's just your name. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's so interesting. Yeah, because we were at shabbat at

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<v Speaker 1>their house last Friday, and and we were having dinner

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm saying Emma, Emma and his friend, my son

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<v Speaker 1>fan his friend comes from whispers in my ear. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you know my mom's real name? I said, don't shame

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<v Speaker 1>me at shabbat. Nope, she's Ema. I've been watching ninety

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<v Speaker 1>Day Fiance. I want to say, like forever, literally forever,

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<v Speaker 1>but your storyline, like you were the two that I

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<v Speaker 1>really connected with. I find you the most relatable and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I think like Lauren specifically your journey

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<v Speaker 1>and just you guys had pregnancies very fast one year.

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<v Speaker 1>I can relate to that. I have five now, but

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<v Speaker 1>my first four it was like I bang them out

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like, that's wild you did it said,

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<v Speaker 1>being no pun intended.

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<v Speaker 2>But people like cause they know we're on TV. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, don't you guys own a TV. And

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<v Speaker 2>we're like, we did, We don't watch ourself that we

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<v Speaker 2>own a TV.

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<v Speaker 1>We never watch yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>We watched our baby specials because he recorded.

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<v Speaker 3>Them on his phone on an episode.

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<v Speaker 4>We get like sometimes you get like tagged in some

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<v Speaker 4>clip or some little part here and there on social media,

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<v Speaker 4>but we never sat down.

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<v Speaker 1>That is wild, Okay. I can't believe she is so old.

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<v Speaker 3>He's very old.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like he's in kindergarten.

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<v Speaker 3>He always thinks and analyzes everything.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just said to Alex the other day, Shy

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<v Speaker 2>is so much like you in the sense that he

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<v Speaker 2>is smart and analyzes things and overthinks thing. And he's

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<v Speaker 2>like me in the sense that he's scared of everything.

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<v Speaker 2>And Astra and Ari are fearless like you and stubborn

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<v Speaker 2>like you, but the life of the party and sent

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<v Speaker 2>our attention like me.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, wow, you're right. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, that's what happens. They're always in an unusual

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<v Speaker 1>not always the perfect blend of both parties. It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, see what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm terrified for the teenage years, be terrified.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody, and everybody says it's going to get harder, going

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<v Speaker 4>to be tough for old issues.

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<v Speaker 3>You have now smaller issues than you're gonna have bigger issues.

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<v Speaker 1>Can people ever say to you? I'm just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I can relate to you. So people always will say

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<v Speaker 1>to me, and these are comments, and I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to look at these. But since my four

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<v Speaker 1>younger ones were born on reality TV, people always say,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you have so many kids? Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>keep having kids? Do they say that to you guys

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<v Speaker 1>with three kids back to back?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean sometimes I guess I don't know. They ask why.

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<v Speaker 3>So I.

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<v Speaker 4>Saw some comments because again we don't read it too much,

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<v Speaker 4>but sometimes it does go and you do get to

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<v Speaker 4>see it.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people say we did it for TV. We just

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<v Speaker 3>is for TV, and and it's fascinating to me that

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<v Speaker 3>somebody would think that. And then on the flip side

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<v Speaker 3>of it, now I feel like people can't do crazy

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<v Speaker 3>shit like that just for TV. Go possible. Some people

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<v Speaker 3>do stuff like that just for TV.

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<v Speaker 1>Noah, you would have at this point, you would have

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<v Speaker 1>ai that shit just to like, you know, you can

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<v Speaker 1>do so much now, you wouldn't have had to go

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<v Speaker 1>through it if it was just for TV.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, though, she became much quicker than we were expecting.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we were we wanted the boys to be close

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<v Speaker 2>in age, and we were going to wait a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>and I remember poking my head up, I'll be like,

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<v Speaker 2>we have an issue and he was like, well, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm pregnant and I was like five months

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<v Speaker 2>postpartum from ashures. Oh, so if she came when she

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<v Speaker 2>was meant to come, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why we have three very quickly. But then you

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<v Speaker 1>finally got your girl, Yes we did. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you believe in even numbers. I like even numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm bummed guy of five if I yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>got pregnant with Bo when I was forty four, so

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<v Speaker 1>probably if I could have had another one, I would have.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone feel free to judge me for saying that, But

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like you want one more?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, at this point, she can't have anymore because we did.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, No, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>We wanted to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>We wanted to go for one more and I ended

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<v Speaker 2>up having a hysterectomy instead. A few months ago. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>We thought about it then we.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, thought hard about it, and we ended up talking,

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<v Speaker 4>you cannot have anymore if you try to get pregnant

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<v Speaker 4>again and deliver another baby, it's like fifty to fifty

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<v Speaker 4>then both to be not gonna make it.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, it's just.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I have like twin girls our luck. So

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<v Speaker 2>we quit while we were.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did you freeze your eggs?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, she didn't freeze her eggs, but she has

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<v Speaker 3>I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>No, that's also something that the doctor said, you get

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<v Speaker 4>take out her eggs. They out my stuff and put

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<v Speaker 4>it in somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I carry really well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, technically that's why we're still we have our hands

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<v Speaker 4>full for now.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, I've only offered this to one other person,

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<v Speaker 1>but I am your biggest fan, so I'm offering it

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<v Speaker 1>to you guys as well. I loved being pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I felt like a beached whale.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I mean not that part, but I know

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<v Speaker 1>I watched you not enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's so sick and so miserable and hot, and

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<v Speaker 2>just like, oh, I hated it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I liked being pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>I liked wearing body con dresses and like having the

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<v Speaker 2>bump and putting my hand there and feeling the baby.

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<v Speaker 2>But I had easiest pregnancies, but the deliveries were hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like breaking out and hot and like wide,

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<v Speaker 2>and with Ari, I had ges tational diabetes and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm much happier now.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that sounds very normal.

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<v Speaker 3>It's normal.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I keep telling her always too, because you know,

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<v Speaker 4>she thinks that every time she has any kind of

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<v Speaker 4>issue or whatever, she's like, oh, this is insane, and

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<v Speaker 4>like it's normal. People have things, everybody. I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>pregnancies in general are considered like to be something simple

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<v Speaker 4>and like it's not to get pregnant and deliver a baby.

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<v Speaker 4>It's such a huge thing. It's like, oh, yeah, she's pregnant,

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<v Speaker 4>you'll have a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>It's super casptable.

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<v Speaker 2>But then when you're hitting and then you experience like

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<v Speaker 2>difficulties with you, you're like, wow, it's really not that easy.

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<v Speaker 2>And the things women go through it's not just physical,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a mental it's emotional. It's bouncing back. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>like my hair is like falling out, stelling clumps my

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<v Speaker 2>hormones are all over and it's just like.

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<v Speaker 1>A mess, Alex, the things we have to deal with

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<v Speaker 1>this woman.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you're so you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Keeping your mouth set now, why.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, you saw my.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we were just having a conversation about carpool and

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, you know, Lauren, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>the carpool system.

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<v Speaker 4>It started this week, so I don't know yet know,

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<v Speaker 4>but got what I was trying to say that the

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<v Speaker 4>husband on the flip side is supporting and doing that

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<v Speaker 4>also deals with this stuff, you know, with the hormonal

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<v Speaker 4>crazy wife sometimes is not happy at the moment, and

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<v Speaker 4>and and it's fine as well.

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<v Speaker 3>We deal with it and it's great and we do

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<v Speaker 3>it with look.

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<v Speaker 1>Mostly mostly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>You assume just like it's that the mom does everything

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<v Speaker 2>soccer mom.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, our.

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<v Speaker 4>Kids went to this this temple pre pre care day

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<v Speaker 4>care place. I knew everything in there. I knew I

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<v Speaker 4>was I was the king there in there. But it's

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<v Speaker 4>happy to see me I go again.

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<v Speaker 3>But now.

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<v Speaker 4>He could do knowing all the first time that I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know, and you just started so I was asking, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I need to know everything to give me a schedule.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing three different schools by the way, yes, we.

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<v Speaker 4>Have three different schools, so it's it's complicated and timing needs.

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<v Speaker 3>To be perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>I am the free so far.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel ill prepared.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, it's that's so funny. It's always it's

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<v Speaker 1>always the dads that when they get to school, they're like.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone loves me going there's the mom and he's just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you feel like you don't want to be the

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<v Speaker 1>better one.

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<v Speaker 2>We're like, it's it's so everything, yeah, because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>see you that much.

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<v Speaker 1>So when Alex comes, well.

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<v Speaker 4>For the first couple of years, I did all the

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<v Speaker 4>job ofs and pickups because she was always pregnant and

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<v Speaker 4>she couldn't left the kids into the car seats and stuff. Though,

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<v Speaker 4>oh well, the first three years, what you do the

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<v Speaker 4>first three years? I did all drop offs and all

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<v Speaker 4>the pickups for all the kids first three years until

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<v Speaker 4>you recovered from ari and then from your surgery that

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<v Speaker 4>you did them on makeup. So I did all the

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<v Speaker 4>jobs and pickups for three years.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh, I did. I'm with you, m I have

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<v Speaker 1>to put you onto these leggings. I am totally obsessed

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<v Speaker 1>with right now. They are from this brand called Tona,

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<v Speaker 1>and here's a fun fact. The designer behind them also

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<v Speaker 1>created Lulu Lemon, so yeah, you know they're legit. These

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<v Speaker 1>leggings are next level, buttery solved, super flattering, and seriously comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>They give you just the right amount of support where

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<v Speaker 1>you needed well. So I started off wearing mine for

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<v Speaker 1>casual days out, but honestly, now I basically live in

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<v Speaker 1>them and I'm not mad at it. And here's what

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<v Speaker 1>know what I see on the show, But.

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<v Speaker 2>We both grew up in traditional households where like the

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<v Speaker 2>dad's work, but also the moms worked, but also our

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<v Speaker 2>moms cooked, clean, did laundry, chuck the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>So when we got together.

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<v Speaker 2>It just it kind of happened very naturally. That I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>we both worked and then I took on cooking. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't like to cook, but I do it, cooking, clean,

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<v Speaker 2>doing laundry. That man could be standing in the laundry

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<v Speaker 2>room and still not know that it's the laundry room.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's the only thing I don't know. Cleaning and cooking,

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<v Speaker 4>also laundry.

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<v Speaker 2>Though you don't do the dishes, you know inside.

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<v Speaker 1>You can put them in the dishwasher.

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<v Speaker 3>I do know. I put them in the that's doing dishes.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm also like with my Drette syndrome, very tight daoud

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<v Speaker 2>certain things like I like things lined up the way

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<v Speaker 2>it is, so he's done, but I always have to

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<v Speaker 2>fix it because.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just me.

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<v Speaker 4>Works in my benefits because now I can do It's

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<v Speaker 4>okay with me if I can do it right.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh. Do you feel like you don't like to

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<v Speaker 1>cook because you have to? Yeah, become a chore.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I do it every other day, and but we

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<v Speaker 2>cook in both because we have dinner and then I

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<v Speaker 2>have lunch to send for two kids and him, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I don't want to cook again.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I make probably what ten pounds of meat at

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<v Speaker 2>a time, like it lasts for two days.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>See your organized Ceei.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I don't have a lot of time during

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<v Speaker 2>the day and I don't enjoy.

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<v Speaker 4>It, and then all the worst leftovers goes to me,

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<v Speaker 4>the spoiled through old me, to the stuff that nobody

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<v Speaker 4>wants to eat anymore goes into my lunch box and

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<v Speaker 4>everything else you're thriving lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, I love how you just casually toss that in.

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<v Speaker 1>You make his lunch every day?

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<v Speaker 3>Ali, Yes, it amazing. Why not the best wife? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, if I was still married, we should have done

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<v Speaker 1>like wife swap. See what it would have been like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean sometimes I back my own lunch if I

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<v Speaker 4>finished them, and I just throw it in the lunch box.

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<v Speaker 3>But she exited in the morning, and she makes my coffee,

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<v Speaker 3>give me money, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Bring it to him every day, Yes, every day.

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<v Speaker 3>I know times I do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't deserve to be like put on that wall. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>not the fish.

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<v Speaker 1>You caught me? What what do you do for her?

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<v Speaker 3>What I do for her outside?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously you support the family and you work

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<v Speaker 1>in you're grab you.

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<v Speaker 2>We're married ten years. In a few weeks, I have

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<v Speaker 2>scratched his ass almost every single night.

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<v Speaker 1>What what did you to say you say it every

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<v Speaker 1>night you scratch his ass.

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<v Speaker 2>We lay in that and he like wiggles in and

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<v Speaker 2>he puts a touch like where my hands is like

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<v Speaker 2>it's just right there.

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<v Speaker 1>So I do I.

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<v Speaker 4>Just that's the key that married rubbed.

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<v Speaker 2>Scratch you as I asked, rubbed for like four days

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<v Speaker 2>in a rownd fun. He's like, all right, when I

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<v Speaker 2>do it, I do it cool. She does the one

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<v Speaker 2>thing here on my ass like this.

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<v Speaker 1>I R good, have no idea excited about this conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I am well to scratch the ass, yes, but good

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<v Speaker 1>lunch and that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>There's nothing much we need.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to take your coffee. So on the weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>what happens on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>On the weekend, I usually cook breakfast.

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<v Speaker 1>He a good cook.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he can cook anything like he whips it up

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<v Speaker 2>and it's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to follow to a tea.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't just like mixed up. I make the coffee though, usually.

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<v Speaker 3>So I mean today I made your coffee. You didn't

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<v Speaker 3>feel like, yeah, I made you one time. One time.

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<v Speaker 2>Most of the time, it's I always wake up early

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<v Speaker 2>to go to the bathroom. It's like clockwork every single

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<v Speaker 2>day at five time to go to the bathroom and

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<v Speaker 2>then I can't go back to sleep, and then the

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<v Speaker 2>kids hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, Emma, emma, are you up?

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<v Speaker 2>I am now, so they they always call me first

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<v Speaker 2>every day between six and six thirty, they're up.

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<v Speaker 1>None of them sleep with you, guys, correct. No.

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<v Speaker 4>From the beginning, that was one of the rules that

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<v Speaker 4>we were very good about.

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<v Speaker 1>That you both agreed on or was that your rule?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean in the beginning she didn't agree on it,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was the right rule.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Four months, I mean they were like in a maadcinet

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<v Speaker 2>and then it's four months at.

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<v Speaker 1>Them and they're correct.

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<v Speaker 4>The first three months, yeah, they were in our room,

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<v Speaker 4>but in the best and that in the little thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Next year I did inside the bad.

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<v Speaker 2>But like when they were babies, if they had a

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<v Speaker 2>really rough night, they would come into our room.

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<v Speaker 1>We still had that there, so but they don't.

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<v Speaker 2>We did have recently family sleepover though, got question. I

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<v Speaker 2>had a family sleepover with the kids because they tossed and.

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<v Speaker 1>Turned family sleepover in your own house.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, for the first time all three of them.

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<v Speaker 2>We put on a movie and had a movie snack

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<v Speaker 2>and did a family sleepover and Alex five minutes later

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<v Speaker 2>is like, I'm good is left in there? Because they

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<v Speaker 2>just tossed and turned and I got kicked in.

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<v Speaker 1>And they always end up the other way. Yes, but

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<v Speaker 1>they started vertical and ended up horizontal. I don't know how.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how. Oh my gosh. So when my

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<v Speaker 1>husband and I were married, that was his rule as well,

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<v Speaker 1>that not have the kids in bed. Obviously, same thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for six months we put them in their room,

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<v Speaker 1>their crib and sleep train them and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>But share the same room. Even our daughter. They we

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<v Speaker 2>have like, yeah, we have a bed. It's like a

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<v Speaker 2>corner bed and then it has a fundule. She wants

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<v Speaker 2>to sleep with my boys, her boys. My boys, come on, boys,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>She the boss. Oh my god. She was satu, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean. I see the photos of your videos

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<v Speaker 1>and you doing her hair.

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<v Speaker 3>And I am doing her hair.

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<v Speaker 2>But she listens to him, and if they know, she

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<v Speaker 2>laughs at me and he says no, She's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I get a door growing up, first door. Hun So

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<v Speaker 4>if you want more sleepovers, you can help them. I'll

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<v Speaker 4>stay down here on the coach, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. Because they do. They grow so fast,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, now we do.

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<v Speaker 2>We have three different carpools, and Shy.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even get out of the car, so it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't come running to me anymore. And like you don't

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<v Speaker 2>realize that it's going to be the last day of

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<v Speaker 2>him running to you or running to you or something

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<v Speaker 2>like thank god my daughter still runs me and Astra

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<v Speaker 2>still runs me. But Shy, like I can't, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>realize it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know they all change at different ages. Look at her.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I love about the two of you

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<v Speaker 1>is you always express so much in your faces, like

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell what each of you are thinking saying

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<v Speaker 1>a word.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, Okay, you can do this.

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<v Speaker 4>Now that I know, they're not used to sleeping in

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<v Speaker 4>our beds, so it's not going to become something they're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna come every day.

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<v Speaker 2>So once in the sleep over sleepover, we also do

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<v Speaker 2>family workouts every day. Now, wow, God, b Alex comes

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<v Speaker 2>home and the kids get so excited. They all take

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<v Speaker 2>their clothes off and they're all in their underwear and

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<v Speaker 2>we have a rook where I'm doing the squats.

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<v Speaker 1>The three of kids and me.

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<v Speaker 2>We hold hands and we do twenty squats and then

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<v Speaker 2>we swap to do twenty push ups and we do

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<v Speaker 2>twenty crunches and we all like rotate the site and

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<v Speaker 2>they love it.

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<v Speaker 4>Finally started. I do this every day for years already.

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<v Speaker 4>I come home, I tag off my clothes and that's

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<v Speaker 4>what I do. I get a little push a bar

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<v Speaker 4>and a little thing and I do like a twenty

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<v Speaker 4>five minute workout And the kids always just play and

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<v Speaker 4>jump on me and bother me.

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<v Speaker 3>But now they finally started working out.

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<v Speaker 2>Then they love it. But they have to have their thought.

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<v Speaker 2>They can't have clothes on, and.

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<v Speaker 3>They know it.

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<v Speaker 1>Does it? Does it bother you? When he puts like

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<v Speaker 1>thirst trap pictures on social media, like on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>My Instagram, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Just like give the people what they want, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>they want. Like, honestly, I know he's attractive. I know

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<v Speaker 2>he's a good body. He works very hard. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>The funny thing is, and you know I'm I'm into men,

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<v Speaker 1>not women, But I honestly would rather like see a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of Lauren in a bathing suit any day over

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<v Speaker 1>you no offense. You have a great body. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I me and girls girl, and like she's my jam,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's such a misconception about having serge classic surgery.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, yeah, yeah, tell me about your mom you makeover.

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<v Speaker 1>So but where I can go to get one pain it? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>You have the momm you make over, you have surg

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<v Speaker 2>We have to maintain it.

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<v Speaker 1>I am coming up to two.

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<v Speaker 2>Years already since my surgery, and I loved I would

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<v Speaker 2>do it again. It was the best decision I made

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<v Speaker 2>for myself, for my kids, for my family, like it

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<v Speaker 2>was such a boost. But again, I work out also

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<v Speaker 2>every day.

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<v Speaker 1>I do pilates five days a week.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I do this family workout, and I'm always on

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<v Speaker 2>the go, like I'm never just sitting because if I do,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like the vacuum then sees me, or this fish

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<v Speaker 2>is staring at me and I gotta clean it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's always.

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<v Speaker 2>Something to do, you know. But I mommy makeover doctor,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a tough wor I mean for me for

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<v Speaker 2>the first month, I was living my best life.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like here, but I wasn't here.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's enough.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll turn me through quickly, exactly what you had done

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<v Speaker 1>for our listeners that don't know what a mommy make

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<v Speaker 1>over is.

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<v Speaker 2>So for my mommy makeover, I did a tummy tup.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a Donald dice fasis and since I was

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<v Speaker 2>under I figured I might as well. I ended up

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<v Speaker 2>doing a three sixty lightpo It was a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>on my chin, my arms, upper back, lower back, and thighs,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I took that fat ended up that transfer

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<v Speaker 2>to my booths, which didn't hold. So in that aspect,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm back to square one.

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<v Speaker 3>That that was all that going to do.

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<v Speaker 1>When she I mean, Alex, you seemed pretty traditional. So

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<v Speaker 1>when she mentioned to you that she was interested in

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<v Speaker 1>doing this, what was your response?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, to be honest, she mentioned it way

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<v Speaker 4>before we ever had kids. Like from the moment we

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<v Speaker 4>started like being.

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<v Speaker 1>Serious, much like one day we have kids.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm having mom makeover.

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<v Speaker 4>So like back then, years ago, I just like brushed

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<v Speaker 4>it off and I kind of knew that she's gonna

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<v Speaker 4>do it.

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<v Speaker 3>At some point I tried to convince her against it.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want her to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted her to just because because before the mommy makeover,

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<v Speaker 4>she went into like a.

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<v Speaker 3>Whole like a wellness, wellness life changing style things. She

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<v Speaker 3>started working out.

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<v Speaker 4>We started, both of us because I until that also

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't like too much into it.

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<v Speaker 3>We started looking into food what's healthy? What's healthy? We

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<v Speaker 3>started working out more.

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<v Speaker 2>I lost twenty five or twenty six pounds in a year,

0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:36.760
<v Speaker 2>and she was doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>So for me, I was like, just keep doing that.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not gonna want the like me the mom makeover

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<v Speaker 4>or want to do nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>But then we went I had like a drip that

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<v Speaker 2>and also I did had they have that since my

0:25:48.720 --> 0:25:52.600
<v Speaker 2>muscles just were so far separated and I wasn't comfortable,

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<v Speaker 2>and if I was under her mind as well, and

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<v Speaker 2>she wanted.

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<v Speaker 4>Book healthy, that was eighty percent of the sort do

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<v Speaker 4>still want.

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<v Speaker 2>I still want implants, but for health reasons I've been

0:26:06.480 --> 0:26:11.320
<v Speaker 2>advised not to. So for now, you know, I'm just blending.

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:20.919
<v Speaker 1>They're overrated. Let me tell you your your fashionable. The

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:24.000
<v Speaker 1>clothes just don't fit the same after implants, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I hear. Yeah, Like if I had to do it

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<v Speaker 1>over again, I would never have gotten my boobs done. Billy. Yeah.

0:26:31.920 --> 0:26:35.080
<v Speaker 1>But now they've been in there, I've had two surgeries

0:26:35.119 --> 0:26:37.480
<v Speaker 1>and it's like I'm told if I take them out,

0:26:37.840 --> 0:26:41.119
<v Speaker 1>the skin will just be like completely saggy. Like it

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing.

0:26:42.720 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 2>Though we have a phenomenal He's like a guru, really.

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<v Speaker 1>Really Okay, well into your d MS and find out

0:26:50.880 --> 0:26:53.399
<v Speaker 1>just slam. He doesn't.

0:26:53.280 --> 0:26:56.760
<v Speaker 2>He doesn't explant every single day he's been mush.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you realize that one day, just because I've been

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:06.080
<v Speaker 1>through it, that your children will see the reality shows,

0:27:06.640 --> 0:27:09.080
<v Speaker 1>they will see your journey, they will see their journey

0:27:09.080 --> 0:27:12.800
<v Speaker 1>when they were young, and they will see your fights.

0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:17.880
<v Speaker 2>So we are just getting to that point where Shy

0:27:18.119 --> 0:27:22.200
<v Speaker 2>started asking are we on TV? Because we've never spoken

0:27:22.240 --> 0:27:24.119
<v Speaker 2>to them about it. They know our friends that the

0:27:24.200 --> 0:27:27.639
<v Speaker 2>cameras come, they know we call all the producers of

0:27:27.680 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 2>our uncles and yeah, and I had the same and

0:27:32.119 --> 0:27:35.159
<v Speaker 2>we don't have tablets in our house or anything. So

0:27:35.840 --> 0:27:37.800
<v Speaker 2>I haven't really I mean, I knew it's gonna happen,

0:27:37.880 --> 0:27:40.520
<v Speaker 2>but I see it in mind mind. I'm thinking like ten,

0:27:40.600 --> 0:27:42.520
<v Speaker 2>maybe twenty years from now, we're going to be able

0:27:42.520 --> 0:27:44.760
<v Speaker 2>to say like we were the cool parents, like the

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:46.199
<v Speaker 2>cool grandparents, you know.

0:27:46.760 --> 0:27:48.520
<v Speaker 1>So I haven't really thought about.

0:27:49.240 --> 0:27:52.439
<v Speaker 4>I mean them yet. I think I think about it.

0:27:52.480 --> 0:27:55.000
<v Speaker 4>I think, yeah, I told you I thought about it.

0:27:55.119 --> 0:27:57.480
<v Speaker 4>I hope they are okay with it, That's all I

0:27:57.520 --> 0:28:00.439
<v Speaker 4>can say. I mean, I just you know they're not

0:28:00.480 --> 0:28:02.400
<v Speaker 4>going to say, oh, why did you do this to us.

0:28:02.520 --> 0:28:04.640
<v Speaker 2>I also think that for us, they will.

0:28:06.760 --> 0:28:09.200
<v Speaker 4>Even if they don't mean it, they're going to say

0:28:09.320 --> 0:28:11.400
<v Speaker 4>to us, and it's gonna upset us, even if they

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:14.479
<v Speaker 4>don't really at some point we're going to have an

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:17.280
<v Speaker 4>argument about something with with with any of them and

0:28:17.280 --> 0:28:19.119
<v Speaker 4>they go, oh, you did this, Like they're going to

0:28:19.240 --> 0:28:20.480
<v Speaker 4>use it against us at some point.

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 1>It's shack.

0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 2>But I will say, for us, it's really truly what

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:28.159
<v Speaker 2>you see is what you get, Like, we don't fabricate anything.

0:28:28.280 --> 0:28:30.800
<v Speaker 2>We don't we're I'm told, we'll just say like we're

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:33.560
<v Speaker 2>really just Laurena Alex.

0:28:33.680 --> 0:28:39.080
<v Speaker 1>Really I can tell. And maybe because I've done reality TV,

0:28:39.400 --> 0:28:43.600
<v Speaker 1>Like when I watch you guys, it feels completely authentic,

0:28:43.720 --> 0:28:45.320
<v Speaker 1>and I think that's why I relate it to you

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:49.720
<v Speaker 1>so much. But yeah, it's starts. Here's where it starts.

0:28:49.800 --> 0:28:52.320
<v Speaker 1>And your kids aren't at this age yet, but they'll

0:28:52.360 --> 0:28:55.280
<v Speaker 1>start to come home. I mean you said that, are

0:28:55.320 --> 0:28:59.719
<v Speaker 1>we on TV? Because it's the parents that will recognize you,

0:29:00.160 --> 0:29:01.920
<v Speaker 1>and then they will tell the kids, And I'm like,

0:29:02.080 --> 0:29:03.880
<v Speaker 1>why are they telling the kids?

0:29:04.080 --> 0:29:08.400
<v Speaker 4>And the kids parents in their classes watch the show

0:29:08.680 --> 0:29:11.600
<v Speaker 4>with their kids and then the kids see shy or

0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:13.720
<v Speaker 4>USA or whatever on TV and then they come to

0:29:13.760 --> 0:29:15.360
<v Speaker 4>school the next band they ask him, oh, I saw

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:17.480
<v Speaker 4>you on TV. And so then shot comes back and

0:29:17.480 --> 0:29:19.480
<v Speaker 4>I said, are you on TV? And we're like, no, no,

0:29:19.600 --> 0:29:23.080
<v Speaker 4>that's that's nothing. We're able to brush it off for now,

0:29:23.240 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 4>but not for long.

0:29:25.680 --> 0:29:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, and and oh gosh, and my kids have

0:29:29.640 --> 0:29:32.200
<v Speaker 1>seen the fights, and it's things I didn't think about

0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 1>because I was My husband and I were the same way,

0:29:35.200 --> 0:29:37.800
<v Speaker 1>completely authentic, and if we got into a fight, the

0:29:37.840 --> 0:29:41.520
<v Speaker 1>cameras rolled, and you know, I didn't believe in hiding things.

0:29:42.040 --> 0:29:45.360
<v Speaker 1>And you know now they see that on social media

0:29:45.520 --> 0:29:47.960
<v Speaker 1>and they see the clips and they're like horrified. But

0:29:48.000 --> 0:29:50.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking like my like seventeen and eighteen year old,

0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:53.560
<v Speaker 1>not my younger ones, but it like what.

0:29:53.520 --> 0:29:57.200
<v Speaker 3>Do what do you do? What do you acpt with them?

0:29:57.600 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 1>And sometimes they still get like my eight year old

0:30:01.520 --> 0:30:04.360
<v Speaker 1>he was born on TV and always called him monkey.

0:30:04.400 --> 0:30:07.120
<v Speaker 1>I still call him Monkey's name's Liam. He allows me to,

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 1>but well he gets recognized even without me sometimes and

0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:14.640
<v Speaker 1>people be like are you monkey? And I'm like, oh

0:30:14.720 --> 0:30:19.280
<v Speaker 1>my god, I'm sorry, dude. When she's okay with it.

0:30:19.480 --> 0:30:23.480
<v Speaker 1>It was my daughter Stella, who's seventeen now that at

0:30:23.560 --> 0:30:28.000
<v Speaker 1>one point she said, why do you put us on TV?

0:30:28.080 --> 0:30:28.360
<v Speaker 3>Why do you?

0:30:28.480 --> 0:30:31.520
<v Speaker 1>And I said, I was telling my story. That was

0:30:31.640 --> 0:30:36.960
<v Speaker 1>my journey, and it gave us. Honestly, I always loved

0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:40.080
<v Speaker 1>doing reality TV because I got a chance to do

0:30:40.200 --> 0:30:42.240
<v Speaker 1>things with my kids and be with my kids more

0:30:42.280 --> 0:30:44.080
<v Speaker 1>than I would have if I had to go somewhere

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:46.160
<v Speaker 1>else and do another show or another type of job.

0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:50.640
<v Speaker 1>So I enjoyed those years. But she's I said, it

0:30:50.720 --> 0:30:53.520
<v Speaker 1>was my story to tell in my journey, and I

0:30:53.680 --> 0:30:57.000
<v Speaker 1>hope you understand that. One day and everything I put

0:30:57.080 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 1>out there, I felt the need to do it for me,

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:04.680
<v Speaker 1>and she goes, but it's not your would she say,

0:31:05.520 --> 0:31:09.920
<v Speaker 1>but it's not your job to tell my story. Oh

0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:13.760
<v Speaker 1>that's when I was like, oh, And I said, you know,

0:31:14.000 --> 0:31:17.320
<v Speaker 1>it was when you were younger, and you know, I'm

0:31:17.320 --> 0:31:19.760
<v Speaker 1>sorry you feel that way, And she said, so you.

0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 1>And she even said about this podcast when I first started,

0:31:22.680 --> 0:31:25.080
<v Speaker 1>You're going to be talking about like your life and

0:31:25.200 --> 0:31:28.280
<v Speaker 1>our lives that affects us at school. And I said,

0:31:28.800 --> 0:31:31.920
<v Speaker 1>you know what, in the position I'm in, people talk

0:31:31.960 --> 0:31:34.840
<v Speaker 1>about us no matter what, So I'd rather have them

0:31:34.960 --> 0:31:36.120
<v Speaker 1>here from me.

0:31:36.800 --> 0:31:40.960
<v Speaker 2>My version it's so true. It doesn't come from the source,

0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:43.840
<v Speaker 2>and it's not real. And that's where the problem is

0:31:43.880 --> 0:31:47.840
<v Speaker 2>with social media and everything. Everything just gets twisted and

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:50.560
<v Speaker 2>turned like apparently Alex is divorcing me and leaving me

0:31:50.840 --> 0:31:51.720
<v Speaker 2>and taking the kids.

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:56.760
<v Speaker 1>I read that weekly. O hee. That's why I didn't

0:31:56.760 --> 0:31:59.080
<v Speaker 1>even ask about divorce because I know it's not true.

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:02.360
<v Speaker 2>It did come from the source, then it's not true.

0:32:02.520 --> 0:32:05.320
<v Speaker 2>So I respect the whole podcast thing. I do, but.

0:32:05.480 --> 0:32:07.760
<v Speaker 3>Basically she's saying, there's no easy way to do with.

0:32:07.840 --> 0:32:10.640
<v Speaker 1>It with the kids start, but you guys should do

0:32:10.680 --> 0:32:11.320
<v Speaker 1>a podcast.

0:32:12.520 --> 0:32:19.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh I cannot answer the question. See I can do questions.

0:32:19.240 --> 0:32:22.400
<v Speaker 2>Then I just just the two of you talk, right,

0:32:22.680 --> 0:32:23.520
<v Speaker 2>just talk. Yeah.

0:32:27.120 --> 0:32:29.640
<v Speaker 1>I became even a bigger fan in this last hour

0:32:30.160 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 1>just hearing you guys together, like you're telling the spectacular

0:32:36.360 --> 0:32:40.120
<v Speaker 1>and you have control and you know on TV they edit.

0:32:40.400 --> 0:32:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever see I know you don't see the episodes,

0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:45.200
<v Speaker 1>but you've given the option to see the episodes before

0:32:45.240 --> 0:32:45.560
<v Speaker 1>they air.

0:32:46.760 --> 0:32:50.040
<v Speaker 3>No, no, not before they are No, we don't know

0:32:50.120 --> 0:32:51.120
<v Speaker 3>what it's going. I air like.

0:32:52.800 --> 0:32:56.280
<v Speaker 1>Episode and hear what we look like what it air

0:32:56.360 --> 0:32:57.120
<v Speaker 1>is like in the end.

0:32:57.280 --> 0:33:00.720
<v Speaker 4>In general, sometimes you know, like still after THEIRS, I

0:33:00.760 --> 0:33:03.440
<v Speaker 4>still don't know exactly how they showed what because you

0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:06.320
<v Speaker 4>know it's it's it's all true and it all happened, but.

0:33:07.880 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 1>They make it right. That's what you don't know, and

0:33:13.120 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 1>it can take out of context.

0:33:15.000 --> 0:33:18.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, a little bit of context gets lost sometimes, which

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:19.360
<v Speaker 4>is fine.

0:33:19.440 --> 0:33:21.040
<v Speaker 3>It is what it is. But you know, you never

0:33:21.160 --> 0:33:23.080
<v Speaker 3>know how you're going to look in Yeah.

0:33:23.520 --> 0:33:29.240
<v Speaker 1>So happily ever after every Sunday it's airing now. I

0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:33.360
<v Speaker 1>have seen some fights. I've seen some like and I

0:33:33.440 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 1>never even see you guys fight. You know what I

0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:38.480
<v Speaker 1>like best? I like best when you had your own show.

0:33:39.920 --> 0:33:44.400
<v Speaker 1>I was really sad they didn't continue with that name. Yeah,

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:47.600
<v Speaker 1>because that's that's why I wanted to see. Because you know,

0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:51.120
<v Speaker 1>when you watch ninety Day Fiance Happily ever after, you

0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:53.600
<v Speaker 1>know both of them, you have your favorite couples and

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:56.520
<v Speaker 1>pillow talk, but you like, you had your own show

0:33:56.640 --> 0:33:58.720
<v Speaker 1>and your you're my favorite couple. And I was like,

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:00.800
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I want to see this go on

0:34:01.000 --> 0:34:01.480
<v Speaker 1>and on and on.

0:34:02.040 --> 0:34:05.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to manifest Lauren and Alex the other way,

0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 2>oh man, the other way.

0:34:07.560 --> 0:34:08.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that that we have.

0:34:09.200 --> 0:34:12.160
<v Speaker 1>We've had some talks about a move.

0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Just we're trying to figure out which one, and I'm

0:34:17.480 --> 0:34:20.080
<v Speaker 2>trying to manifest to Lauren and Alex the other way.

0:34:20.440 --> 0:34:22.240
<v Speaker 4>That means we're going to have to go to Israel

0:34:22.360 --> 0:34:26.280
<v Speaker 4>right by the other's.

0:34:25.520 --> 0:34:27.279
<v Speaker 1>What's the other place? Can you move to? L A

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I'll produce this show.

0:34:29.239 --> 0:34:31.040
<v Speaker 3>Oh right.

0:34:31.280 --> 0:34:33.960
<v Speaker 2>Either we go somewhere where we don't know somebody and

0:34:34.040 --> 0:34:37.480
<v Speaker 2>we can like enjoy life and experience it together, or

0:34:37.600 --> 0:34:39.600
<v Speaker 2>we go somewhere where it's like here but we have

0:34:39.800 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 2>all the support and struggles and family and friends, go

0:34:44.200 --> 0:34:44.760
<v Speaker 2>to Israel.

0:34:44.960 --> 0:34:47.319
<v Speaker 1>I was nervous when you guys were going to move there.

0:34:47.560 --> 0:34:49.839
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't Oh oh my god. We were just there

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:52.480
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't want to leave it. Really, I've never been.

0:34:52.520 --> 0:34:53.279
<v Speaker 1>I've always wanted to go.

0:34:54.480 --> 0:34:57.680
<v Speaker 3>It's amazing, it's amazing. But the problem with this is

0:34:57.880 --> 0:34:58.480
<v Speaker 3>still damage.

0:34:59.320 --> 0:35:00.759
<v Speaker 1>It's like I'm stopping us.

0:35:00.920 --> 0:35:02.200
<v Speaker 3>It's more expensive than Miami.

0:35:02.800 --> 0:35:10.360
<v Speaker 1>What is that true? Yes, Okay, Miami's expensive, Israel's expensive.

0:35:10.520 --> 0:35:16.440
<v Speaker 1>So what about I think Lauren and Alexi go to Hollywood.

0:35:17.800 --> 0:35:18.400
<v Speaker 3>Expensive to.

0:35:19.880 --> 0:35:21.600
<v Speaker 1>No more than Miami.

0:35:23.200 --> 0:35:25.920
<v Speaker 2>Yes, we could definitely do it. California doesn't know we

0:35:26.000 --> 0:35:27.440
<v Speaker 2>want to go like somewhere we see you.

0:35:27.480 --> 0:35:29.239
<v Speaker 1>Guys like a little bit of a simple life, Like

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I want to see you guys on a farm with

0:35:30.680 --> 0:35:36.520
<v Speaker 1>the three kids. We can't. You just tell me the

0:35:36.600 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 1>other place that you were thinking about. I can't play anyone.

0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:44.399
<v Speaker 1>We've never been and we've been talk about it. There's

0:35:44.440 --> 0:35:45.239
<v Speaker 1>two places.

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:50.600
<v Speaker 3>I don't know why comes up.

0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:52.640
<v Speaker 2>There's a big Jewish community. We have a lot of

0:35:52.680 --> 0:35:57.840
<v Speaker 2>people visited there. And also it's like affordable and family friendly.

0:35:57.960 --> 0:36:00.880
<v Speaker 2>I've been doing all the chat cheepy teeing and conversations,

0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:03.920
<v Speaker 2>but being an expat and how to even start. We

0:36:04.120 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 2>just he wants like nature and I'm like not a

0:36:06.680 --> 0:36:09.520
<v Speaker 2>nature person, but I like the beach. But I also

0:36:09.640 --> 0:36:11.960
<v Speaker 2>need like cities. So that's where the problem comes. And

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:14.560
<v Speaker 2>we don't have help, but we can enjoy life. I

0:36:14.640 --> 0:36:17.160
<v Speaker 2>think it's just like kind of a dream to be.

0:36:17.840 --> 0:36:24.759
<v Speaker 4>It's gonna happening quiet place somewhere and some island or

0:36:24.880 --> 0:36:28.520
<v Speaker 4>some small town with the little I will have some

0:36:28.719 --> 0:36:29.719
<v Speaker 4>animals over there.

0:36:30.280 --> 0:36:31.240
<v Speaker 1>The kind of animals.

0:36:31.960 --> 0:36:33.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeahs.

0:36:33.160 --> 0:36:35.560
<v Speaker 4>First of all, you need eggs and then to eat it,

0:36:36.239 --> 0:36:40.080
<v Speaker 4>and then maybe some some gold, you know, some milk

0:36:40.160 --> 0:36:40.520
<v Speaker 4>you make.

0:36:41.480 --> 0:36:44.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm gonna make goat. I make better, but I

0:36:44.719 --> 0:36:49.000
<v Speaker 1>don't make goats. Well, you're described, you're describing my life.

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<v Speaker 1>You hear that I raised my kids having chickens, goats, pigs,

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<v Speaker 1>go The chickens were great because I had younger ones

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<v Speaker 1>that wouldn't eat eggs. And I was like, okay, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>and if you have a little chicken mobile coop anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, hey, maybe if we get a

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<v Speaker 1>chicken and you can go and like see the chicken

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<v Speaker 1>and collect the eggs. He eats eggs now.

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<v Speaker 4>So I just want, like, like you said, simple life,

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<v Speaker 4>quite life without too much stress, the hustle and basle.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe not forever, maybe for like that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just one season. Yeah, I have so many. This season

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<v Speaker 1>you need to get worn and get worn on this farm.

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<v Speaker 4>This season defeats the purpose. Why no, not a few seasons?

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<v Speaker 4>Why needs no stress, no camera and nothing?

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<v Speaker 3>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh then what's the point?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren and I are just doing practical.

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<v Speaker 3>Every practical too is you go to a place like this.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not expensive. You don't need this season. You can relax.

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted to like go to Thailand and like literally

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<v Speaker 1>go off the grid. And I'm like, never even been

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<v Speaker 1>he's been, I have not. I'd like to go there

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<v Speaker 1>as well.

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<v Speaker 3>So God, I think it's in it the head of

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<v Speaker 3>like every.

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<v Speaker 1>That's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very spiritual and I'm very into like crystals and

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<v Speaker 2>pendulum and manifesting, and We've been talking about it for

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<v Speaker 2>so long that I think it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to happen, like, oh, manifest it.

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<v Speaker 2>I watch it even really talking about it. Just where

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<v Speaker 2>where in the world is over Barnecks so expensive we

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<v Speaker 2>would have been there.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. My only advice is I always wanted to do

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<v Speaker 1>something like that as well. Do it when the kids

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<v Speaker 1>are young, because when I mentioned now moving anywhere else,

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<v Speaker 1>they're still like, no, we have our friends, we can

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<v Speaker 1>never leave La and exactly, so.

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<v Speaker 2>To do it, like but in the next two to

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<v Speaker 2>three years before they go into middle school, go for

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<v Speaker 2>a few years, come back and what about a.

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<v Speaker 1>Road trip cross country road trip. I'm trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>you to LA. I just want to meet you in person.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a job that I love that I work,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I worked nine to five job. And if

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<v Speaker 4>I go somewhere he needs to be where I don't

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<v Speaker 4>have to do it. We have some stuff here that

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<v Speaker 4>that can give us some income and the place like

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<v Speaker 4>Costa Rica might be supportable enough for us.

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<v Speaker 3>To just go and nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm down to come visit. Have you been to

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<v Speaker 1>l A Yeah you have Alex you have no, he

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<v Speaker 1>has a.

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<v Speaker 3>Long time only for like or we went to a ward.

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<v Speaker 2>We won the MTV Movie Award for like, the Unscripted

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<v Speaker 2>Award for Best Reality Romance instead.

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<v Speaker 1>Here, how did I miss this? Got this?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? Look?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you have it.

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<v Speaker 2>And that it's for that's reality romance, Len and ALECTI

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<v Speaker 2>after the ninety.

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<v Speaker 3>Days, that's when we had our own show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was very pregnant, but oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that should be focused more on than the fish.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying.

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<v Speaker 3>We were gonna no, yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to buy those floating shelves. Yeah when

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<v Speaker 4>we first moved here. But then I don't know what

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<v Speaker 4>happened to it together fish.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't get it down.

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<v Speaker 3>You remember we put something else? Oh right, we had

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<v Speaker 3>something there. Yeah, we had to have.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Well, thank you guys, Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>I coached about every Friday. You're more than welcome, and

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<v Speaker 2>I mean a lot and butter almost every Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>My seven year old makes HOLLA and I'm so proud

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<v Speaker 1>of her. Amazing, So trying to sort them me on

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<v Speaker 1>getting into tradition. You're welcome any time.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait off.

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<v Speaker 1>Five of my kids and me absolutely break because you

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<v Speaker 1>make like twelve pounds of meat. So you're you're you

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<v Speaker 1>got it covered. Okay, great, Well we'll be over for

0:41:04.719 --> 0:41:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Shabbat one one Friday night and maybe I'll give you

0:41:07.560 --> 0:41:10.359
<v Speaker 1>the night off and I'll scratch his ass. You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 3>Longer.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on y, Thank you guys, thank you, so bye

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<v Speaker 1>bye bye bye