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Speaker 1: Miss Spelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: you guys, I grew up in this in Hollywood. I've

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Speaker 1: met every A list, celebrities, movie star and I am

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Speaker 1: freaking out right now.

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Speaker 2: You're very sweet, same is very mutual.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, like you have no idea seeing you

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Speaker 1: right now. I have to take a shameless selfie via

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Speaker 1: zoom after this just bits healthy because I grew up

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Speaker 1: watching you. We both group watching you, so and oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, so am I sorry? I know you as Alexi?

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Speaker 1: But am I supposed to call you Alex?

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Speaker 3: Whatever you want? It works both, please, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Alexis good, Yeah, Alex, he's more official.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't want to be official. I want to

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Speaker 1: be your friend. I'm just gonna call you.

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Speaker 3: Everybody here.

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Speaker 4: The kids over here closed me out, but because they

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Speaker 4: don't know that it means dad or daddy.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so, I guess I can't say it. I don't

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Speaker 1: know your mouf Lauren. Am I allowed to call him? God?

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Speaker 1: You can do it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Would that be like Abbi?

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Speaker 4: Then well he doesn't have that kind of aspect. It's

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Speaker 4: just it's just.

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Speaker 1: That RN. Did the kids call you Ema? Yeah? Oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, so my son's best friend. I'm Jewish, but

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Speaker 1: my son's best friend his mom, dad and Emma, and

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Speaker 1: so yeah, I love friend Emma too. When when his

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Speaker 1: best friend comes over, I'm like, okay, I'll take it.

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Speaker 1: All of their friends they call it, just call me up.

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Speaker 3: Just that's my.

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Speaker 1: Name, that's your moniker, that's that's just your name. But

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Speaker 1: it's so interesting. Yeah, because we were at shabbat at

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Speaker 1: their house last Friday, and and we were having dinner

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Speaker 1: and I'm saying Emma, Emma and his friend, my son

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Speaker 1: fan his friend comes from whispers in my ear. Do

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Speaker 1: you know my mom's real name? I said, don't shame

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Speaker 1: me at shabbat. Nope, she's Ema. I've been watching ninety

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Speaker 1: Day Fiance. I want to say, like forever, literally forever,

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Speaker 1: but your storyline, like you were the two that I

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Speaker 1: really connected with. I find you the most relatable and

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I think like Lauren specifically your journey

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Speaker 1: and just you guys had pregnancies very fast one year.

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Speaker 1: I can relate to that. I have five now, but

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Speaker 1: my first four it was like I bang them out

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Speaker 1: and it was like, that's wild you did it said,

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Speaker 1: being no pun intended.

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Speaker 2: But people like cause they know we're on TV. And

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Speaker 2: I was like, don't you guys own a TV. And

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Speaker 2: we're like, we did, We don't watch ourself that we

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Speaker 2: own a TV.

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Speaker 1: We never watch yourself.

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Speaker 2: We watched our baby specials because he recorded.

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Speaker 3: Them on his phone on an episode.

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Speaker 4: We get like sometimes you get like tagged in some

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Speaker 4: but we never sat down.

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Speaker 1: That is wild, Okay. I can't believe she is so old.

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Speaker 3: He's very old.

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Speaker 1: And he's like he's in kindergarten.

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Speaker 3: He always thinks and analyzes everything.

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Speaker 2: And I just said to Alex the other day, Shy

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Speaker 2: like me in the sense that he's scared of everything.

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Speaker 2: And Astra and Ari are fearless like you and stubborn

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Speaker 1: And he was like, wow, you're right. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I know, that's what happens. They're always in an unusual

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Speaker 1: not always the perfect blend of both parties. It's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, see what happens.

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Speaker 2: I'm terrified for the teenage years, be terrified.

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Speaker 4: Everybody, and everybody says it's going to get harder, going

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Speaker 3: You have now smaller issues than you're gonna have bigger issues.

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Speaker 1: Can people ever say to you? I'm just feel like

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Speaker 1: I can relate to you. So people always will say

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Speaker 1: younger ones were born on reality TV, people always say,

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Speaker 1: why do you have so many kids? Why do you

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Speaker 3: I mean sometimes I guess I don't know. They ask why.

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Speaker 4: Saw some comments because again we don't read it too much,

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Speaker 3: Some people say we did it for TV. We just

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Speaker 3: of it, now I feel like people can't do crazy

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Speaker 3: shit like that just for TV. Go possible. Some people

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Speaker 1: Noah, you would have at this point, you would have

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Speaker 1: ai that shit just to like, you know, you can

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Speaker 2: Sorry, though, she became much quicker than we were expecting.

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Speaker 2: Like we were we wanted the boys to be close

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Speaker 2: and I remember poking my head up, I'll be like,

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Speaker 2: was like, I'm pregnant and I was like five months

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Speaker 2: postpartum from ashures. Oh, so if she came when she

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Speaker 1: That's why we have three very quickly. But then you

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Speaker 1: finally got your girl, Yes we did. But I don't

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Speaker 1: know if you believe in even numbers. I like even numbers.

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Speaker 1: So I'm bummed guy of five if I yeah, I

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Speaker 1: got pregnant with Bo when I was forty four, so

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Speaker 1: probably if I could have had another one, I would have.

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Speaker 1: Everyone feel free to judge me for saying that, But

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Speaker 1: do you feel like you want one more?

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Speaker 3: Well, at this point, she can't have anymore because we did.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, No, it's okay.

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Speaker 3: We wanted to do that.

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Speaker 2: We wanted to go for one more and I ended

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Speaker 2: up having a hysterectomy instead. A few months ago. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's okay, I'm good.

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Speaker 3: We thought about it then we.

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Speaker 4: You know, thought hard about it, and we ended up talking,

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Speaker 4: you cannot have anymore if you try to get pregnant

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Speaker 4: again and deliver another baby, it's like fifty to fifty

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Speaker 2: And then I have like twin girls our luck. So

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Speaker 2: we quit while we were.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did you freeze your eggs?

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Speaker 3: No, no, she didn't freeze her eggs, but she has

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Speaker 4: No, that's also something that the doctor said, you get

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Speaker 4: take out her eggs. They out my stuff and put

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Speaker 4: it in somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I carry really well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, technically that's why we're still we have our hands

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, I've only offered this to one other person,

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Speaker 1: but I am your biggest fan, so I'm offering it

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Speaker 1: to you guys as well. I loved being pregnant.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I felt like a beached whale.

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Speaker 1: I know, I mean not that part, but I know

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Speaker 2: But it's so sick and so miserable and hot, and

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Speaker 1: I mean I liked being pregnant.

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Speaker 2: I liked wearing body con dresses and like having the

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Speaker 2: But I had easiest pregnancies, but the deliveries were hard.

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Speaker 2: and with Ari, I had ges tational diabetes and you know,

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Speaker 2: but I'm much happier now.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that sounds very normal.

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Speaker 3: It's normal.

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Speaker 4: That's what I keep telling her always too, because you know,

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Speaker 4: like it's normal. People have things, everybody. I feel like

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Speaker 4: It's such a huge thing. It's like, oh, yeah, she's pregnant,

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Speaker 1: It's super casptable.

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Speaker 2: But then when you're hitting and then you experience like

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Speaker 2: And the things women go through it's not just physical,

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Speaker 2: hormones are all over and it's just like.

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Speaker 1: A mess, Alex, the things we have to deal with

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Speaker 2: No, you're so you're.

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Speaker 1: Keeping your mouth set now, why.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm trying.

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Speaker 4: It started this week, so I don't know yet know,

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Speaker 3: We deal with it and it's great and we do

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Speaker 1: Mostly mostly.

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Speaker 3: Yes, perfect.

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Speaker 2: You assume just like it's that the mom does everything

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Speaker 4: Kids went to this this temple pre pre care day

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Speaker 4: He could do knowing all the first time that I

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Speaker 4: I need to know everything to give me a schedule.

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Speaker 1: We're doing three different schools by the way, yes, we.

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Speaker 4: Have three different schools, so it's it's complicated and timing needs.

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Speaker 3: To be perfect.

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Speaker 2: I am the free so far.

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Speaker 3: I feel ill prepared.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's that's so funny. It's always it's

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Speaker 1: always the dads that when they get to school, they're like.

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Speaker 2: Everyone loves me going there's the mom and he's just.

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Speaker 1: Like you feel like you don't want to be the

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Speaker 2: We're like, it's it's so everything, yeah, because I don't

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Speaker 1: So when Alex comes, well.

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Speaker 4: For the first couple of years, I did all the

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Speaker 4: oh well, the first three years, what you do the

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Speaker 4: you recovered from ari and then from your surgery that

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Speaker 4: But that's the only thing I don't know. Cleaning and cooking,

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Speaker 2: Though you don't do the dishes, you know inside.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. Do you feel like you don't like to

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Speaker 2: Hey, I do it every other day, and but we

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Speaker 2: I just I don't have a lot of time during

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Speaker 4: It, and then all the worst leftovers goes to me,

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Speaker 1: Wait, I love how you just casually toss that in.

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Speaker 1: You make his lunch every day?

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Speaker 3: Ali, Yes, it amazing. Why not the best wife? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean sometimes I back my own lunch if I

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Speaker 3: But she exited in the morning, and she makes my coffee,

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Speaker 1: Bring it to him every day, Yes, every day.

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Speaker 3: I know times I do it.

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Speaker 2: I didn't deserve to be like put on that wall. Okay,

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Speaker 2: not the fish.

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Speaker 1: You caught me? What what do you do for her?

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Speaker 3: What I do for her outside?

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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously you support the family and you work

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Speaker 2: We're married ten years. In a few weeks, I have

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Speaker 2: scratched his ass almost every single night.

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Speaker 1: What what did you to say you say it every

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Speaker 2: We lay in that and he like wiggles in and

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Speaker 1: So I do I.

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Speaker 4: Just that's the key that married rubbed.

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Speaker 1: I am well to scratch the ass, yes, but good

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Speaker 1: lunch and that's it.

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Speaker 3: There's nothing much we need.

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Speaker 1: You want to take your coffee. So on the weekend,

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Speaker 1: what happens on the weekend.

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Speaker 4: On the weekend, I usually cook breakfast.

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Speaker 1: He a good cook.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he can cook anything like he whips it up

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Speaker 1: I have to follow to a tea.

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Speaker 2: I can't just like mixed up. I make the coffee though, usually.

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Speaker 3: So I mean today I made your coffee. You didn't

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Speaker 3: feel like, yeah, I made you one time. One time.

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Speaker 2: Most of the time, it's I always wake up early

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Speaker 1: Me, Emma, emma, are you up?

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Speaker 2: I am now, so they they always call me first

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Speaker 2: every day between six and six thirty, they're up.

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Speaker 1: None of them sleep with you, guys, correct. No.

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Speaker 4: From the beginning, that was one of the rules that

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Speaker 1: That you both agreed on or was that your rule?

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Speaker 2: Four months, I mean they were like in a maadcinet

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Speaker 4: The first three months, yeah, they were in our room,

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Speaker 4: Next year I did inside the bad.

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Speaker 2: But like when they were babies, if they had a

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Speaker 2: We did have recently family sleepover though, got question. I

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Speaker 1: Turned family sleepover in your own house.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, for the first time all three of them.

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Speaker 2: We put on a movie and had a movie snack

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Speaker 2: is like, I'm good is left in there? Because they

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Speaker 1: And they always end up the other way. Yes, but

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Speaker 1: you know, for six months we put them in their room,

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Speaker 2: But share the same room. Even our daughter. They we

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Speaker 2: have like, yeah, we have a bed. It's like a

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Speaker 2: to sleep with my boys, her boys. My boys, come on, boys,

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Speaker 2: let's go to bed.

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Speaker 1: She the boss. Oh my god. She was satu, what

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Speaker 1: do you mean. I see the photos of your videos

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Speaker 1: and you doing her hair.

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Speaker 3: And I am doing her hair.

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Speaker 2: But she listens to him, and if they know, she

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Speaker 4: I get a door growing up, first door. Hun So

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Speaker 4: if you want more sleepovers, you can help them. I'll

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Speaker 4: stay down here on the coach, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Because they do. They grow so fast,

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Speaker 1: you know, now we do.

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Speaker 2: We have three different carpools, and Shy.

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Speaker 1: You can't.

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Speaker 2: I can't even get out of the car, so it

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Speaker 2: like thank god my daughter still runs me and Astra

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Speaker 1: I know they all change at different ages. Look at her.

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Speaker 1: You know what I love about the two of you

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Speaker 1: I can tell what each of you are thinking saying

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Speaker 3: I said, Okay, you can do this.

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Speaker 4: Now that I know, they're not used to sleeping in

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Speaker 2: So once in the sleep over sleepover, we also do

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Speaker 2: we have a rook where I'm doing the squats.

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Speaker 1: The three of kids and me.

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Speaker 2: We hold hands and we do twenty squats and then

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Speaker 4: Finally started. I do this every day for years already.

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Speaker 4: I come home, I tag off my clothes and that's

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Speaker 3: But now they finally started working out.

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Speaker 2: Then they love it. But they have to have their thought.

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Speaker 2: They can't have clothes on, and.

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Speaker 3: They know it.

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Speaker 1: Does it? Does it bother you? When he puts like

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Speaker 3: My Instagram, and.

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Speaker 2: Just like give the people what they want, that's what

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Speaker 1: The funny thing is, and you know I'm I'm into men,

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Speaker 1: you no offense. You have a great body. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I me and girls girl, and like she's my jam,

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: I think there's such a misconception about having serge classic surgery.

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Speaker 2: You have the momm you make over, you have surg

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Speaker 1: I am coming up to two.

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Speaker 2: Years already since my surgery, and I loved I would

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Speaker 1: I do pilates five days a week.

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Speaker 2: Then I do this family workout, and I'm always on

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Speaker 2: the go, like I'm never just sitting because if I do,

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Speaker 2: it's like the vacuum then sees me, or this fish

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Speaker 1: Like there's always.

448
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Speaker 2: Something to do, you know. But I mommy makeover doctor,

449
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 2: it was a tough wor I mean for me for

450
00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 2: the first month, I was living my best life.

451
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,160
Speaker 1: I would like here, but I wasn't here.

452
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 3: So it's enough.

453
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 1: He'll turn me through quickly, exactly what you had done

454
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Speaker 1: for our listeners that don't know what a mommy make

455
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Speaker 1: over is.

456
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 2: So for my mommy makeover, I did a tummy tup.

457
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 2: I had a Donald dice fasis and since I was

458
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Speaker 2: under I figured I might as well. I ended up

459
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Speaker 2: doing a three sixty lightpo It was a little bit

460
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 2: on my chin, my arms, upper back, lower back, and thighs,

461
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 2: and then I took that fat ended up that transfer

462
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 2: to my booths, which didn't hold. So in that aspect,

463
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 2: I'm back to square one.

464
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 3: That that was all that going to do.

465
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Speaker 1: When she I mean, Alex, you seemed pretty traditional. So

466
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Speaker 1: when she mentioned to you that she was interested in

467
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Speaker 1: doing this, what was your response?

468
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, to be honest, she mentioned it way

469
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 4: before we ever had kids. Like from the moment we

470
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Speaker 4: started like being.

471
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Speaker 1: Serious, much like one day we have kids.

472
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Speaker 3: I'm having mom makeover.

473
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 4: So like back then, years ago, I just like brushed

474
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Speaker 4: it off and I kind of knew that she's gonna

475
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 4: do it.

476
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 3: At some point I tried to convince her against it.

477
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 3: I didn't want her to do it.

478
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,719
Speaker 4: I wanted her to just because because before the mommy makeover,

479
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 4: she went into like a.

480
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 3: Whole like a wellness, wellness life changing style things. She

481
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 3: started working out.

482
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 4: We started, both of us because I until that also

483
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 4: wasn't like too much into it.

484
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 3: We started looking into food what's healthy? What's healthy? We

485
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 3: started working out more.

486
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 2: I lost twenty five or twenty six pounds in a year,

487
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 2: and she was doing it.

488
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 4: So for me, I was like, just keep doing that.

489
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 4: You're not gonna want the like me the mom makeover

490
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 4: or want to do nothing.

491
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 2: But then we went I had like a drip that

492
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 2: and also I did had they have that since my

493
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 2: muscles just were so far separated and I wasn't comfortable,

494
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 2: and if I was under her mind as well, and

495
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:55,880
Speaker 2: she wanted.

496
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Speaker 4: Book healthy, that was eighty percent of the sort do

497
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 4: still want.

498
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:06,400
Speaker 2: I still want implants, but for health reasons I've been

499
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: advised not to. So for now, you know, I'm just blending.

500
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 1: They're overrated. Let me tell you your your fashionable. The

501
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: clothes just don't fit the same after implants, That's what

502
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: I hear. Yeah, Like if I had to do it

503
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: over again, I would never have gotten my boobs done. Billy. Yeah.

504
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: But now they've been in there, I've had two surgeries

505
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: and it's like I'm told if I take them out,

506
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: the skin will just be like completely saggy. Like it

507
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 1: is amazing.

508
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 2: Though we have a phenomenal He's like a guru, really.

509
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 1: Really Okay, well into your d MS and find out

510
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 1: just slam. He doesn't.

511
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 2: He doesn't explant every single day he's been mush.

512
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: Do you realize that one day, just because I've been

513
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 1: through it, that your children will see the reality shows,

514
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: they will see your journey, they will see their journey

515
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: when they were young, and they will see your fights.

516
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 2: So we are just getting to that point where Shy

517
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 2: started asking are we on TV? Because we've never spoken

518
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 2: to them about it. They know our friends that the

519
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 2: cameras come, they know we call all the producers of

520
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 2: our uncles and yeah, and I had the same and

521
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 2: we don't have tablets in our house or anything. So

522
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 2: I haven't really I mean, I knew it's gonna happen,

523
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 2: but I see it in mind mind. I'm thinking like ten,

524
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 2: maybe twenty years from now, we're going to be able

525
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 2: to say like we were the cool parents, like the

526
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 2: cool grandparents, you know.

527
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: So I haven't really thought about.

528
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 4: I mean them yet. I think I think about it.

529
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 4: I think, yeah, I told you I thought about it.

530
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 4: I hope they are okay with it, That's all I

531
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,439
Speaker 4: can say. I mean, I just you know they're not

532
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 4: going to say, oh, why did you do this to us.

533
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 2: I also think that for us, they will.

534
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 4: Even if they don't mean it, they're going to say

535
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,400
Speaker 4: to us, and it's gonna upset us, even if they

536
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,479
Speaker 4: don't really at some point we're going to have an

537
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 4: argument about something with with with any of them and

538
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 4: they go, oh, you did this, Like they're going to

539
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 4: use it against us at some point.

540
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: It's shack.

541
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 2: But I will say, for us, it's really truly what

542
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 2: you see is what you get, Like, we don't fabricate anything.

543
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 2: We don't we're I'm told, we'll just say like we're

544
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 2: really just Laurena Alex.

545
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 1: Really I can tell. And maybe because I've done reality TV,

546
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: Like when I watch you guys, it feels completely authentic,

547
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 1: and I think that's why I relate it to you

548
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: so much. But yeah, it's starts. Here's where it starts.

549
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: And your kids aren't at this age yet, but they'll

550
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: start to come home. I mean you said that, are

551
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:59,719
Speaker 1: we on TV? Because it's the parents that will recognize you,

552
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 1: and then they will tell the kids, And I'm like,

553
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: why are they telling the kids?

554
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 4: And the kids parents in their classes watch the show

555
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 4: with their kids and then the kids see shy or

556
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 4: USA or whatever on TV and then they come to

557
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 4: school the next band they ask him, oh, I saw

558
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 4: you on TV. And so then shot comes back and

559
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 4: I said, are you on TV? And we're like, no, no,

560
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 4: that's that's nothing. We're able to brush it off for now,

561
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 4: but not for long.

562
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and and oh gosh, and my kids have

563
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: seen the fights, and it's things I didn't think about

564
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: because I was My husband and I were the same way,

565
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: completely authentic, and if we got into a fight, the

566
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: cameras rolled, and you know, I didn't believe in hiding things.

567
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 1: And you know now they see that on social media

568
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: and they see the clips and they're like horrified. But

569
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: I'm talking like my like seventeen and eighteen year old,

570
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: not my younger ones, but it like what.

571
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 3: Do what do you do? What do you acpt with them?

572
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: And sometimes they still get like my eight year old

573
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: he was born on TV and always called him monkey.

574
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: I still call him Monkey's name's Liam. He allows me to,

575
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: but well he gets recognized even without me sometimes and

576
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: people be like are you monkey? And I'm like, oh

577
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 1: my god, I'm sorry, dude. When she's okay with it.

578
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: It was my daughter Stella, who's seventeen now that at

579
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: one point she said, why do you put us on TV?

580
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 3: Why do you?

581
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: And I said, I was telling my story. That was

582
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: my journey, and it gave us. Honestly, I always loved

583
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 1: doing reality TV because I got a chance to do

584
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: things with my kids and be with my kids more

585
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: than I would have if I had to go somewhere

586
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 1: else and do another show or another type of job.

587
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 1: So I enjoyed those years. But she's I said, it

588
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: was my story to tell in my journey, and I

589
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: hope you understand that. One day and everything I put

590
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: out there, I felt the need to do it for me,

591
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: and she goes, but it's not your would she say,

592
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: but it's not your job to tell my story. Oh

593
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: that's when I was like, oh, And I said, you know,

594
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: it was when you were younger, and you know, I'm

595
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: sorry you feel that way, And she said, so you.

596
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: And she even said about this podcast when I first started,

597
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: You're going to be talking about like your life and

598
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: our lives that affects us at school. And I said,

599
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: you know what, in the position I'm in, people talk

600
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: about us no matter what, So I'd rather have them

601
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: here from me.

602
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 2: My version it's so true. It doesn't come from the source,

603
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 2: and it's not real. And that's where the problem is

604
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 2: with social media and everything. Everything just gets twisted and

605
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 2: turned like apparently Alex is divorcing me and leaving me

606
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 2: and taking the kids.

607
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: I read that weekly. O hee. That's why I didn't

608
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: even ask about divorce because I know it's not true.

609
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 2: It did come from the source, then it's not true.

610
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 2: So I respect the whole podcast thing. I do, but.

611
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 3: Basically she's saying, there's no easy way to do with.

612
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: It with the kids start, but you guys should do

613
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: a podcast.

614
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 3: Oh I cannot answer the question. See I can do questions.

615
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 2: Then I just just the two of you talk, right,

616
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 2: just talk. Yeah.

617
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: I became even a bigger fan in this last hour

618
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: just hearing you guys together, like you're telling the spectacular

619
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: and you have control and you know on TV they edit.

620
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 1: Do you ever see I know you don't see the episodes,

621
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: but you've given the option to see the episodes before

622
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 1: they air.

623
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 3: No, no, not before they are No, we don't know

624
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 3: what it's going. I air like.

625
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 1: Episode and hear what we look like what it air

626
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: is like in the end.

627
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 4: In general, sometimes you know, like still after THEIRS, I

628
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 4: still don't know exactly how they showed what because you

629
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 4: know it's it's it's all true and it all happened, but.

630
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: They make it right. That's what you don't know, and

631
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 1: it can take out of context.

632
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, a little bit of context gets lost sometimes, which

633
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 4: is fine.

634
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 3: It is what it is. But you know, you never

635
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 3: know how you're going to look in Yeah.

636
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: So happily ever after every Sunday it's airing now. I

637
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: have seen some fights. I've seen some like and I

638
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: never even see you guys fight. You know what I

639
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: like best? I like best when you had your own show.

640
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: I was really sad they didn't continue with that name. Yeah,

641
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: because that's that's why I wanted to see. Because you know,

642
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: when you watch ninety Day Fiance Happily ever after, you

643
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: know both of them, you have your favorite couples and

644
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: pillow talk, but you like, you had your own show

645
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: and your you're my favorite couple. And I was like,

646
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I want to see this go on

647
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: and on and on.

648
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 2: I'm trying to manifest Lauren and Alex the other way,

649
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: oh man, the other way.

650
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, that that we have.

651
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: We've had some talks about a move.

652
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 2: Just we're trying to figure out which one, and I'm

653
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 2: trying to manifest to Lauren and Alex the other way.

654
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 4: That means we're going to have to go to Israel

655
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 4: right by the other's.

656
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: What's the other place? Can you move to? L A

657
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: I'll produce this show.

658
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 3: Oh right.

659
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 2: Either we go somewhere where we don't know somebody and

660
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 2: we can like enjoy life and experience it together, or

661
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 2: we go somewhere where it's like here but we have

662
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 2: all the support and struggles and family and friends, go

663
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:44,760
Speaker 2: to Israel.

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Speaker 1: I was nervous when you guys were going to move there.

665
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,839
Speaker 1: I wasn't Oh oh my god. We were just there

666
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 1: and I didn't want to leave it. Really, I've never been.

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Speaker 1: I've always wanted to go.

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Speaker 3: It's amazing, it's amazing. But the problem with this is

669
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Speaker 3: still damage.

670
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Speaker 1: It's like I'm stopping us.

671
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Speaker 3: It's more expensive than Miami.

672
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Speaker 1: What is that true? Yes, Okay, Miami's expensive, Israel's expensive.

673
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 1: So what about I think Lauren and Alexi go to Hollywood.

674
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Speaker 3: Expensive to.

675
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: No more than Miami.

676
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 2: Yes, we could definitely do it. California doesn't know we

677
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Speaker 2: want to go like somewhere we see you.

678
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Speaker 1: Guys like a little bit of a simple life, Like

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Speaker 1: I want to see you guys on a farm with

680
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Speaker 1: the three kids. We can't. You just tell me the

681
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: other place that you were thinking about. I can't play anyone.

682
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Speaker 1: We've never been and we've been talk about it. There's

683
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Speaker 1: two places.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why comes up.

685
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Speaker 2: There's a big Jewish community. We have a lot of

686
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 2: people visited there. And also it's like affordable and family friendly.

687
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 2: I've been doing all the chat cheepy teeing and conversations,

688
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 2: but being an expat and how to even start. We

689
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Speaker 2: just he wants like nature and I'm like not a

690
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 2: nature person, but I like the beach. But I also

691
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 2: need like cities. So that's where the problem comes. And

692
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Speaker 2: we don't have help, but we can enjoy life. I

693
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Speaker 2: think it's just like kind of a dream to be.

694
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Speaker 4: It's gonna happening quiet place somewhere and some island or

695
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Speaker 4: some small town with the little I will have some

696
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 4: animals over there.

697
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Speaker 1: The kind of animals.

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Speaker 3: Yeahs.

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Speaker 4: First of all, you need eggs and then to eat it,

700
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Speaker 4: and then maybe some some gold, you know, some milk

701
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Speaker 4: you make.

702
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna make goat. I make better, but I

703
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: don't make goats. Well, you're described, you're describing my life.

704
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 1: You hear that I raised my kids having chickens, goats, pigs,

705
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Speaker 1: go The chickens were great because I had younger ones

706
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Speaker 1: that wouldn't eat eggs. And I was like, okay, maybe

707
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: and if you have a little chicken mobile coop anywhere.

708
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: And I was like, hey, maybe if we get a

709
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: chicken and you can go and like see the chicken

710
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: and collect the eggs. He eats eggs now.

711
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Speaker 4: So I just want, like, like you said, simple life,

712
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 4: quite life without too much stress, the hustle and basle.

713
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 3: Maybe not forever, maybe for like that's.

714
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 1: Just one season. Yeah, I have so many. This season

715
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 1: you need to get worn and get worn on this farm.

716
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 4: This season defeats the purpose. Why no, not a few seasons?

717
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 4: Why needs no stress, no camera and nothing?

718
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 3: Why?

719
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:43,959
Speaker 1: Oh then what's the point?

720
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 3: Right?

721
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 1: Lauren and I are just doing practical.

722
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 3: Every practical too is you go to a place like this.

723
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 3: It's not expensive. You don't need this season. You can relax.

724
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: He wanted to like go to Thailand and like literally

725
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 1: go off the grid. And I'm like, never even been

726
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: he's been, I have not. I'd like to go there

727
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:08,879
Speaker 1: as well.

728
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 3: So God, I think it's in it the head of

729
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Speaker 3: like every.

730
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:13,919
Speaker 1: That's gonna happen.

731
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Speaker 2: I'm very spiritual and I'm very into like crystals and

732
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 2: pendulum and manifesting, and We've been talking about it for

733
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 2: so long that I think it's.

734
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: Going to happen, like, oh, manifest it.

735
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Speaker 2: I watch it even really talking about it. Just where

736
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Speaker 2: where in the world is over Barnecks so expensive we

737
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Speaker 2: would have been there.

738
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Speaker 1: Well. My only advice is I always wanted to do

739
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Speaker 1: something like that as well. Do it when the kids

740
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Speaker 1: are young, because when I mentioned now moving anywhere else,

741
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: they're still like, no, we have our friends, we can

742
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,840
Speaker 1: never leave La and exactly, so.

743
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 2: To do it, like but in the next two to

744
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Speaker 2: three years before they go into middle school, go for

745
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 2: a few years, come back and what about a.

746
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 1: Road trip cross country road trip. I'm trying to get

747
00:38:57,719 --> 00:38:59,280
Speaker 1: you to LA. I just want to meet you in person.

748
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Speaker 4: I have a job that I love that I work,

749
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Speaker 4: you know, I worked nine to five job. And if

750
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Speaker 4: I go somewhere he needs to be where I don't

751
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 4: have to do it. We have some stuff here that

752
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 4: that can give us some income and the place like

753
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 4: Costa Rica might be supportable enough for us.

754
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,760
Speaker 3: To just go and nothing.

755
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: But I'm down to come visit. Have you been to

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Speaker 1: l A Yeah you have Alex you have no, he

757
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Speaker 1: has a.

758
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 3: Long time only for like or we went to a ward.

759
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 2: We won the MTV Movie Award for like, the Unscripted

760
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 2: Award for Best Reality Romance instead.

761
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 1: Here, how did I miss this? Got this?

762
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 3: You know what? Look?

763
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you have it.

764
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,840
Speaker 2: And that it's for that's reality romance, Len and ALECTI

765
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 2: after the ninety.

766
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Speaker 3: Days, that's when we had our own show.

767
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was very pregnant, but oh my gosh, I

768
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Speaker 1: feel like that should be focused more on than the fish.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying.

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Speaker 3: We were gonna no, yeah, you're right.

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00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 4: I was going to buy those floating shelves. Yeah when

772
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 4: we first moved here. But then I don't know what

773
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 4: happened to it together fish.

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Speaker 1: They didn't get it down.

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Speaker 3: You remember we put something else? Oh right, we had

776
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Speaker 3: something there. Yeah, we had to have.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Well, thank you guys, Florida.

778
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Speaker 2: I coached about every Friday. You're more than welcome, and

779
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:41,439
Speaker 2: I mean a lot and butter almost every Friday.

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Speaker 1: My seven year old makes HOLLA and I'm so proud

781
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 1: of her. Amazing, So trying to sort them me on

782
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: getting into tradition. You're welcome any time.

783
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 4: Wait off.

784
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 1: Five of my kids and me absolutely break because you

785
00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: make like twelve pounds of meat. So you're you're you

786
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: got it covered. Okay, great, Well we'll be over for

787
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: Shabbat one one Friday night and maybe I'll give you

788
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 1: the night off and I'll scratch his ass. You're welcome.

789
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 3: Longer.

790
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 1: Hold on y, Thank you guys, thank you, so bye

791
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 1: bye bye bye