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Speaker 1: Spreading in with beck Attilly and Tanya Brad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody. I am so late today and everyone's just

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Speaker 1: patient with me. As always, we have so much to

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Speaker 1: talk about. We're just chopping at the bit. That's why

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Speaker 1: talk about. I know we had to wrap in one hour.

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Speaker 1: Well I moved one hour, so I moved. We got this.

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Speaker 1: I am moved back into my place last night. But

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Speaker 1: all my came this morning, like they were delivering all

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Speaker 1: my stuff that's been in storage. Um and Phoebe had

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Speaker 1: diarrhea all last night. So I literally think I slept

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Speaker 1: an hour because every thirty minute she was like crying

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Speaker 1: and it's really sad. I feel horrible for her. She's

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Speaker 1: really been through it. I guess I haven't haven't talked

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Speaker 1: but Phoebe a chocolate bar shan be admitted UM and

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Speaker 1: to the hospital was really traumatic. I cried. I thought

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Speaker 1: then now she has a diarrhea. So Phoebe's really been

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Speaker 1: testing from the chocolate. No, I think I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, but it's really gross, and she doesn't stand still.

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Speaker 1: She moved, so it's like, yeah, does that too, but

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Speaker 1: chocolate chocolate is really bad for dogs. Yeah that was bad,

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Speaker 1: but she she survived that. And then we moved on

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Speaker 1: to something new. So yeah, so that happened. And so

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Speaker 1: all the people are like at my house moving my

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Speaker 1: furniture and right now, so a little stressed about that.

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Speaker 1: But here we are priorities and well, you know, these

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Speaker 1: one week jobs are kind of hard to get in there.

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Speaker 1: But because they were supposed to come at eight and

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Speaker 1: they came at nine thirty, so my day was planned accordingly,

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Speaker 1: they just messed up. Okay, I'm not saying that I'm

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Speaker 1: never late. Actually pretty standard at the time you got

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Speaker 1: here today. Yeah, yeah, so anyway, um, you had a

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Speaker 1: big day. Yes, I know, we have to start with

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Speaker 1: the obvious. You guys, where do you go from here? Like,

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Speaker 1: where do I go from this point on? It would

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Speaker 1: have to be to me. It would have to be

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Speaker 1: Ellen Pompeo or Jennifer Aniston, but I don't that's that's

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Speaker 1: this was like and and he could not be cooler

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Speaker 1: I met Patrick Dempsey yesterday a k a. McK dreamy,

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Speaker 1: and the way that it happened though, was so legit

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Speaker 1: like because it was so much better than me going

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Speaker 1: out to him and being like, Hi, I'm a huge fan,

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Speaker 1: you know. So We're at this charity softball game and

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Speaker 1: it's how California is strong, and it's it's an amazing

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Speaker 1: cause it's for all, like the California tragedies and and um,

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Speaker 1: they basically support they give money to people that are

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Speaker 1: So how did you get involved in the first place?

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Speaker 1: They do this celebrity softball game. This is only the

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Speaker 1: second one that they did so last year was the

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Speaker 1: first one obviously, Um, and they sell tickets. It's at

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Speaker 1: Pepperdine and all the money raised goes to the charity,

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Speaker 1: and so they have I don't even know how I

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Speaker 1: got asked, to be honest, because it was just like

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Speaker 1: looked over at Chris and I go, Patrick Deps is here,

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Speaker 1: and he goes, oh, I know him, I'll introduce you,

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Speaker 1: She's on the morning show It Kiss with Brian and

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Speaker 1: um uh. He's like, no, nice to meet you. And

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Speaker 1: podcast called Scrubbing In It's all about Gray's anatomy and

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Speaker 1: he said award winning. Chris said about yeah, he said

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Speaker 1: propose to me, like you proposed to Meredith and Elevator.

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Speaker 1: Chris left us, So then I was like I can't

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Speaker 1: I don't understand. I don't. I don't. I don't understand

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00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 1: ever complaining about a gig like that, or having to

424
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:30,440
Speaker 1: leave a gig like that. Many do. So maybe I'm

425
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 1: just completely in the wrong or in the dark, but

426
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 1: it seems like a great gig to me. I'm so upset.

427
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 1: It's like it's just another like punch in the gut,

428
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 1: you know, And it feels like so unfair to people

429
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 1: who especially with someone that had such a huge role.

430
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 1: It feels so unfair as viewers that all of a sudden,

431
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:55,280
Speaker 1: this person has just gone. It's like we've talked on

432
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 1: this show, but what is his happy ending? Because we like,

433
00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 1: does he end up with Meredith? Like what happens there?

434
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 1: Like over If I were writing, that's how I'd write

435
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: it off. So like it's the series finale and everything's

436
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: done after this, and wait, I thought we were doing

437
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,880
Speaker 1: if they did an episode right now, like a farewell episode. Well,

438
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 1: we're the writer, so we can decide whatever we want.

439
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 1: But that's that's not that still could have happened if

440
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,639
Speaker 1: he was still in the show. Huh. I'm saying like,

441
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 1: if he wasn't leaving the show right now, that still

442
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 1: could have been a choice. Is that he ended up

443
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 1: with Meredith. But he's leaving. He's gone, So I'm saying like,

444
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 1: let's say they're they're ending him now he had to

445
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 1: do a farewell Okay, Still, then I would still have

446
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 1: him marry Meredith. It would be I'd say, he's not

447
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:45,960
Speaker 1: with Joe, sorry, Joe, the love of my life is

448
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:49,439
Speaker 1: Meredith Gray and they would get married, and then he

449
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 1: would decide that he wants to be a doctor without borders,

450
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 1: and then he would say I'm going to marry you,

451
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: and then I'm going to go and do my work.

452
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 1: And he goes and he does his work as a

453
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 1: doctor without borders. But that's another thing that would have

454
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: been very easy because he's working with Owen at this

455
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: new hospital. He could get talking to Owen about working

456
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 1: overseas in these medical military units and yeah, I want

457
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: to I want to be a doctor. That would have

458
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: been a great send off for him. But now it's

459
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 1: just gone, It's just over. But I'm saying, in the

460
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 1: last episode, Meredith gets dumb by you know, yet another guy,

461
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: and she's leaving the hospital and who's standing out there

462
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: in the season finale is Alex karev in like a tuxedo.

463
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 1: And I didn't know you were a team Meredith and Alex.

464
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:33,679
Speaker 1: I don't know that I am a hundred percent, but

465
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 1: I do like that as an ending. I like him

466
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 1: coming back in the finale. Or do you like Meredith

467
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 1: meeting Derek in heaven? Honestly, that's the only thing that say.

468
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 1: Maybe in the Titanic when they do the end scene

469
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: where they both like meet up again and like the

470
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: you know, afterlife or whatever, like my heart feels like

471
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 1: it can rest peacefully knowing they're together again. Maybe that's

472
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: what I'm not opposed to. Like felth, Yeah, maybe she's old.

473
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: It flashes forward to she's like so old, and then

474
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: she dreams, and then and then and then I've been

475
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: waiting for you. The elevator opens and Derek standing there. Okay, great.

476
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: My send off for Alex would be I always was.

477
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 1: I honestly was always rooting for the Izzy and Alex storyline,

478
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 1: so I would have him he went to find Izzy

479
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: again because he just she never left his mind like that,

480
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: like that, because well, so many people we've tragically lost,

481
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: so you assume they're not there, they're gone. But she's alive.

482
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,679
Speaker 1: So is Joe just going to be? But is she

483
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 1: gonna is there gonna be a break up she next season?

484
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 1: Is she gonna be moving on from Alex? Like it's

485
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: all it's all up in the air. Yeah, I'm like

486
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 1: nervous that they're going to give some lame like reason

487
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 1: that he's going or is Joe now gonna date I

488
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: don't even know his name on the show, um link,

489
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: but he's having a baby with al But that I

490
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: feel like that when that, I mean they are married.

491
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,439
Speaker 1: Joe and Alex are married and his character is just

492
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: visiting his mom, so she can't move on eventually eventually

493
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 1: perhaps Wait, so it was Alex not in the like

494
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: the Winter finale? I don't remember, I know, I can't remember.

495
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 1: I need to go back and watch the Winter finale?

496
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: Was was that the one with with Meredith trial? That

497
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,159
Speaker 1: was the Winter finale? I think there was one or

498
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,400
Speaker 1: two after that? Okay, maybe nothing? Well, remember the bar

499
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: crashed down. The ceiling car drove into the bar. I

500
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: think it crashed or whatever. But was Alex in there?

501
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 1: I have no idea. I don't want him to die

502
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: because I really feel like he could make a comeback

503
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: and be there at the finale. That'd be great. I'm

504
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: just really say I felt it like I couldn't even

505
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: I didn't know whatever, being more text in my life, Like,

506
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,959
Speaker 1: I was like, this is actually kind of sad how

507
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: much text messages? Like God. On Friday when the news broke,

508
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: Like are you okay? I was like, yes, I'm upset,

509
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: but okay. Well, and I hope he's okay too. I

510
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 1: hope just I know us to like obviously more than

511
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 1: us as viewers watching a show, we hope he as

512
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 1: a human being, is as a husband than a father

513
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: of five kids. Yeah. Um, but it's definitely a loss.

514
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: And I think that scrubbing it would be the perfect

515
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 1: place to do his exit interview. I couldn't agree more.

516
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: Does he have Instagram? I think Justin Chambers official or

517
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: official Justin Chambers. I just turned my home on my

518
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: phone off. All right, let's take another break. What else

519
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: we have to talk about? I have something to talk about.

520
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: Tell me being on the Bachelor. We have to talk

521
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: about that. That's actually good. I would like your take

522
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 1: on that. Yeah, to actually, by the way, this could

523
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 1: be happening. Everybody. We may be on red alert because

524
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: this could be happening. We'll tell you about that next. Okay. So,

525
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: I feel like I have been saying bachelor, bachelor, bachelor

526
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: for since I've been on and known you, and you're

527
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 1: always I am still poo pooing it because of the

528
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 1: reason I gave you from the beginning, which is I

529
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: I can't even date one guy, and I think he's

530
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: dating other people potentially could be dating other people. Dating

531
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 1: a guy and knowing that he's dating other people that

532
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 1: I actually see, I think would gut me, like truly

533
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 1: it would you see me? I know, yeah, I see that.

534
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 1: I know what you're saying. How did you deal with that?

535
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: Did you feel compared seditive? Because you don't seem like

536
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: the type that would feel terribly competitive. I'm so competitive,

537
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: but I'm cool. You know I can hand I can

538
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: keep it surface, Ben season. I felt a lot of emotions. Yeah,

539
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: I was jealous. I didn't like like he would come

540
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 1: grab someone and walk away and I was like, yeah,

541
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: like and you know it was Lauren who he ended

542
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: up choosing, and he was so like you could from

543
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,919
Speaker 1: like early on you could feel how into her he was.

544
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: So it was like painful when they would um you

545
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 1: would see them in a group, and I can't even

546
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: think that the person that I'm dating is dating other people.

547
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: All I'm saying you'd be great, that's clear. I honestly

548
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 1: feel like you'd be very like a very hand to

549
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: be type, like very like wear your heart on your

550
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 1: sleeve like you have you struggle with it. Everyone can

551
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: relate because most people would feel that way in that setting,

552
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: and I feel like it would. It would also totally

553
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 1: depend on who the guy is, right, and that's another factor.

554
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: Let's bring everybody up to speed. So this came up

555
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 1: in the Morning Show last week with Seacrest and I

556
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: forgot how it came out. I don't know, but he

557
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: was the one that really was like Pilot Pete was

558
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: on Pilot Pete on the Morning Show and then he

559
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: was like, Tanya, what is the deal? Why does she

560
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: go in the bast because it seems perfect. You had

561
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: some concerns, but then it kind of progressed from there.

562
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: Because Amy sugar Man, who produces this show and all

563
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: a suite of podcasts for our radio. She's actually gotten

564
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: a couple of people on that show, so she has

565
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: the power to do this. So we talked to her

566
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: and then and then tomorrow we're gonna have Rob Mills

567
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 1: from ABC on. But it seems like we're all going

568
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 1: in the right direction here and that this really could happen.

569
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: So you're concerned is dating. If you don't like the lead,

570
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: that's your concern. But I feel like you will like

571
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: the lead. I think you'd like the lead into a

572
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 1: crowd of people. They're choosing some pretty high quality dudes.

573
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: But like, let's look at the last three, right, what

574
00:29:55,440 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: I date Peter the Pilot. Yes, yes, he came up

575
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: up to you in a bar and it was just

576
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: y'all too, and he hit on a who was after

577
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 1: him before him? Was Colton? You said, you were like, because,

578
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: ok okay, who was it? Par Colton? No? Okay, really, yes,

579
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 1: who was before? Because you know him now at the time,

580
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: I know that's I could still know this person. Now

581
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: when they introduced Nick Vial, I'm sure you were not

582
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm sure you're like, oh, handsome. Let's

583
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,719
Speaker 1: see what we got here. I think that whoever it is,

584
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: Ben Higgins Christ souls, yes, you you would say yes

585
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: to more the bachelors than you would say no. And

586
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: also I feel like, if not, your pickiness is starting

587
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 1: to get in the way. As we brought up before,

588
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: no no, no, no no, this guy is an eligible bachelor.

589
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: Where you were like, what about crystals that and then

590
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: the moment passed, Well, it was there, it happened, it's there,

591
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: And I think he's living in l A now, so

592
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: that could be cute. Just saying I think whoever the

593
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: lead is, you would develop feeling for him just from

594
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: spending so much time with him. Others eyes, if you

595
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: don't spend time with him for a second, forty eight

596
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: hours and I was there the whole eight weeks with Crystals,

597
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: I probably spent forty eight hours total with that. That's

598
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: not a long time, not stop together together. Yeah, I mean,

599
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,479
Speaker 1: I see what you're saying, but I think TA follows easily.

600
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 1: That's true. And the produce, I mean, listen, no matter

601
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 1: who the guy is, they make him seem like he's

602
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: literally the best guy in the world for you. He

603
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 1: smells good, he looks good. He dressed as well. He's

604
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: in a tuxedo. Yeah, he's giving out roses. His breath

605
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 1: always smells good. And you're surrounded by women who also

606
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:03,959
Speaker 1: want him, and I think that's going to get your

607
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 1: competitive fire going. That also might be the downfall for

608
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 1: Tanya in the Yeah, that would. I would not like that.

609
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: The two things that worried me about Tanya going on

610
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: The Bachelor and their minor I think they're minor and

611
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: we should overlook them, but they are the competition with

612
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: other girls because she's not a competitor against other women,

613
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: which I guess I'm not in that way either, Like,

614
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: but I'm not even competitive in anything, you know, I

615
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: mean like in sports. I'm like, like I don't even

616
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 1: have that. Like what about like board games? Really, like

617
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: I'd like to play them for fun, like it's fun,

618
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: but like in the Mornings, is way into it, Okay,

619
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 1: I don't get how you just play things for fun?

620
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: Who cares? Who wins? Oh my gosh, it's very important. Um.

621
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: And then the emotional aspect of like wanting someone whose

622
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: attention is on so many other people. That would But

623
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: I think we can build you up to be a

624
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: strong to hand to go in and name we can

625
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 1: prepy you, train you ultimate because the ultimate goal, right

626
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: isn't for her to land at the Bachelor. The ultimate

627
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: goal is for her to be the Bachelor at the

628
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: following season. Don't you think, Yeah, that would be ideal,

629
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: That would be something, and that would be something very interesting.

630
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: Because I've also never dated multiple people at once. I

631
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: feel like that would be an emotional that would be

632
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 1: an emotional wreck on myself, like what I have. I

633
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: never had feelings for two people at the same time. Well,

634
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: I've heard being the lead is like way harder than

635
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: being one of the cast or whatever, just because it's

636
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 1: so emotional. But I think I say, I say, the

637
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 1: goal is we get you on. If you fall for

638
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 1: him and it works out with him, awesome. But the

639
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: second goal, bachelorette, third goal, I like, if we can

640
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: figure out a way logistically to keep her on the

641
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: morning show some maybe it's from the mansion, maybe she

642
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: gets the past to leave in the morning. I don't

643
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: know what it is. But if this is because we're

644
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: not gonna want her to leave the morning show for

645
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:12,280
Speaker 1: eight weeks or ten weeks, eight weeks total, that's insane.

646
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: That's not going to fly with the powers that But

647
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 1: if we coul figure out a way to keep her involved,

648
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 1: there could be a great cross promotion for both. You know,

649
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: that would be the benefit. If there's a benefit die

650
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: Heart Radio, then they're all four, so we can keep

651
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,760
Speaker 1: her on the radio, and then the Bachelor's constant promotion

652
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: for Kiss in the Morning show. Then I think everybody's

653
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: a winner. I would be shocked if they did that.

654
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: But they don't even want to have a TV in

655
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 1: the house, so they're pretty you know, that could be

656
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 1: the deal breaker then, yeah, because they'll give her up

657
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 1: for eight weeks to find love. No. It's actually really

658
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: like Ryan's face when he found that out, because Amy

659
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: called this morning and she told him that I would

660
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 1: have to be gone for eight weeks, and he literally

661
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 1: was like, well then, no, like, you're not leaving. You're

662
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:55,840
Speaker 1: not going to leave the show for eight weeks. And

663
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: I was like, no, that's actually really sweet, thank you,

664
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 1: not even to find up and he was like, well

665
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: that it's up to you, and I kind of gave

666
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 1: me this look. I was like, what if there's a

667
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: microphone in her room at the mansion, do you get

668
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,840
Speaker 1: a room at the mansion while you're with like multiple people,

669
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: Like I think you honestly you would be so happy

670
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: to make friends with the girls. But I think that

671
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,399
Speaker 1: would be the part that's hard because if you liked

672
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: the guy that much, but you're also really friends with

673
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 1: the girls, which I know you would be, it's like

674
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: a weird that's a housing situation seems like my favorite

675
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: part of being a story. But if you don't, if

676
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:33,320
Speaker 1: you're a room where you're going to do a studio,

677
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: they're not going to install a student. She was a

678
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 1: closet in there somewhere. There's probably a production room somewhere

679
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 1: that they that it's probably closet. All you need is

680
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,959
Speaker 1: a closet. Yeah. I just think it would be weird

681
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,439
Speaker 1: that they don't let anyone else work and they're like, well,

682
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: well we have a microphone for time. Can you imagine

683
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 1: the other women, like what's her deal the radio every day?

684
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: Like I had to quit my job because I'm a

685
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: content creator to don't get my cell phone and she's

686
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: in the radio. I don't get it. Yeah, that would

687
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: be you guys, That is us projecting. They might not

688
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: be that way. I think once they get to know you,

689
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: I think they would love you. It's a lot. It's

690
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: a lot. It's a lot. I mean, I feel good

691
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: about it, but I really I've been saying, I got

692
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: a train you to really be just like emotion emotionally detached.

693
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: I know, but I feel like I could be less

694
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 1: emotional than I am. But then you're not. What if

695
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: we just gave her some edibles and we just you know,

696
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: level that show, no matter what format? What would that

697
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: do to me? Should we just do a Facebook live

698
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: of tany trying in edible and that records would I've

699
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 1: actually was considering it because the ones that make use

700
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:56,720
Speaker 1: like sleepy time ones because I had trouble sleeping last week. Um,

701
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: so I was considering it. Yeah, but not what is it?

702
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 1: Is it edible? We'll see b D gummies at the

703
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: same nothing, that's nothing we would want to watch CBD.

704
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: CDD would just be getting sleepy. That's not to say,

705
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:12,800
Speaker 1: what's an edible edible? Well has weed the active ingredient,

706
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 1: and that's the CBD gummy very different. So if you

707
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 1: were like I took an edible and it was CBD,

708
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 1: that'd be disappointing. So it's edible would make me high? Yeah,

709
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: that's the No. I don't think. No, it's not the

710
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: fact that it's not legal. And when we're just at

711
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,439
Speaker 1: home and we just did a Facebook live and it's

712
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 1: just us. Have you eaten one? Yeah? Really, what's it

713
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: due to you? But I only will literally I took

714
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: one one time, and it is different than the sleepy gummies.

715
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 1: This is not a sleepy gummy. This is a so

716
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 1: what is it? Like my shoulder hurts and as not working,

717
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: Like what do you actually physically eat? Like, what is it?

718
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 1: It's a gummy? Oh, they're all gummies, well butter and

719
00:37:55,840 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: stuff they have CBD. Yeah, yeah, I'm ever done any

720
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: of that. I just have taken It's like five milligrams.

721
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: And the one time I took the whole one, it

722
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: was the first time I'd ever done any sort of anything,

723
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: Like I had never smoked anything. I was so paranoid

724
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 1: that my brain was never going to go back to

725
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 1: how it normally thought. But I was just creative. I

726
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: was like thinking about things like coming up with ideas.

727
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: Really but I didn't. Yeah, but I took it at

728
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: night and I was just wide away. I was like

729
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: on one, but it was like fun. Whatever it would

730
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: have been much more fun if it was during the

731
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: day or something. So then if I if I'm like

732
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 1: having a hard time relaxing, I'll take half of a

733
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: five and that makes me just chill and then I

734
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 1: fall asleep, which is great, But that's not edible. It's edible. Confused,

735
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: Are you confused? Well, I am someone I've never done

736
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,320
Speaker 1: any of this stuff either, but I know the CBDs

737
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 1: are very minor, and I would take a CBD. I

738
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't be CBD S or CBD would help you rely

739
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 1: act if you were like couldn't calm down, like after

740
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: the Patrick Dempsey High CBD probably would have been nice

741
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: for it would have been nice, yea, But apparently it

742
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: makes you look really tired if the next day some

743
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: of them if you take them, So I like, don't

744
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: do it unless I'm like can't calm like relax. Interesting,

745
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 1: that's you've never been drunk. Yeah, yeah, a lot of drunk,

746
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 1: but yeah, no, I've never been high. I tried weed

747
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 1: in the high school, but like I couldn't actually smoke it,

748
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: like I don't know, I like coughed it. I felt

749
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 1: like I was burning my throat and so I didn't

750
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 1: like it. So I think I did one you don't know,

751
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 1: we call it puff tray, and that was it. And

752
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,840
Speaker 1: that's the only time I ever smoked any weed in

753
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 1: my life. I just and I didn't like it. I

754
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: didn't like the pain, and so I was like, I'm

755
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,879
Speaker 1: not gonna try this again. One time a girl said

756
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: she had a CBD pen so and I didn't even know, like,

757
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,959
Speaker 1: I've never smoked a cigarette or anything, so I didn't

758
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: know how to properly inhale. So I go and I

759
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 1: just take a huge inhale and I start choking, like aggressively,

760
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 1: and then she's like, oh, it's like half d HC

761
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: and half CBD. And then they, I guess they say

762
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,280
Speaker 1: if you cough more, the more you cough, the higher

763
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: you'll get. But I ended up being okay. I didn't

764
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,879
Speaker 1: feel really anything, but I was like, I never want

765
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: to smoke anything. I've no desire to smoke. Oh, so

766
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 1: hence the edible. Yeah, okay, have you been high other times? No,

767
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 1: the first time I've I took like the full edible,

768
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:34,919
Speaker 1: that's the only time I've ever I've never really liked

769
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: anything that kind of made me. I mean, I have

770
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: been very drunk out of my control, but um, not

771
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: as many times as it probably seems. What's sorry for

772
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 1: the ignorance of this question. How what how does being

773
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: high compared to being drunk? Well, being high is like

774
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: to me, it was more relaxing. Drunk is like, yeah,

775
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: like you don't you know it's not gonna end while

776
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:04,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna wake up not feeling great. It's not. It's

777
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 1: it's weird because you wake up and you're like, I

778
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 1: did this to myself, like no one else did this.

779
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: Paint calls me this pain except I did, like I

780
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 1: chose this. Yeah, it's weird. It's weird because I like

781
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: don't have any desire to be high, but I enjoy

782
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: being drunk. Oh that's funny. I don't. I only will,

783
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: I really only drink and I don't drink at home

784
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,439
Speaker 1: like I'm never like, oh I would. I'm not someone

785
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: who loves a glass of wine like I just I

786
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 1: drink socially if I'm any events, just to like chill

787
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,760
Speaker 1: and relax. But I don't. I haven't been drunk drunk

788
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 1: in a minute, which is good. No hangovers, ye brutal. Well,

789
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: I've never been either, so that was interesting. Thank you.

790
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: Less Easton has an issue we need to discuss that

791
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 1: he's gotten permission from his wife to discuss. But permission

792
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: had to be sought, so that should make it extra intrigued.

793
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 1: I know, I'm ry intrigued. We have an email from

794
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: Megan and that's all coming up. I have a really

795
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: cute story about a listener who messaged me. It was

796
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: it was a cute little like back and forth. So

797
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: much to get to it. And we have to wrap

798
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 1: soon because Tanya said we have to do it an hour.

799
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: Didn't you tell me? Fine? All right, Eastern you had

800
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 1: to seek seek permission to bring this up. Well, it's

801
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: a it's a sensitive topics. I wanted to make sure

802
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: I wasn't crossing any boundaries before. Um, she's going on

803
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 1: the rooftops and shouting this. Uh so, so here's here's

804
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 1: some data I want to hear you guys with where

805
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 1: Um Alison, my lovely wife, Allison and I have been

806
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 1: married for two years going on three. Thank you, and

807
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: um we uh, you know, the topic of kids comes

808
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 1: up often when you're when you're newly married, and uh,

809
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: we we're leaning towards not wanting them, but we we've

810
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: been going we you know, we're not hard on that decision. Um,

811
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 1: but we keep so we've been talking about um uh sorry,

812
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to I don't want to get too blue

813
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 1: on this, but um, the thing is is, uh, Alison

814
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 1: has endometriosis. That's it's a a very painful condition that

815
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: a lot of women have. And um, we found that

816
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 1: when she was on birth control, it made it so

817
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 1: much worse, so much worse. And then and she had

818
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 1: an I U D for a long time, uh, and

819
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 1: that made it worse too. So she's just didn't say

820
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: I U D feels like it's the way to go. Yeah,

821
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: you know that that made it almost worse than the

822
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: daily work control. So she's just not been Like my

823
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: attitude was, I don't want you to have to take

824
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: something that makes you this. It gives you this much pain,

825
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 1: it is not worth it. So um, so your boy

826
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: has been using condoms for you, you know, you know. Um,

827
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: but the thing we we were talking about this the

828
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:19,439
Speaker 1: other day. First of all, I just I think it's

829
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 1: so up. The state of birth control is so upsetting

830
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: to me, so upsetting. And I know this has been

831
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: brought up a bunch, but like, if you like gave

832
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 1: men the same like symptoms that women get. It would

833
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 1: just like it would like never flat you know what

834
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: I mean, like like dudes never want to wear condoms.

835
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 1: And it's like I don't know a ninetieth of the

836
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: discomfort of for real, and and I and I like

837
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 1: using condoms is fine, it's fine. I like it. But

838
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: but you know, we did discuss the other day. Yes,

839
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 1: you're right, I agree with you know you feel me

840
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: feel me? Uh uh, we did discuss the day. I

841
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 1: was like, hey, you know, I'm if we don't have

842
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: if we're not gonna, we're not I have kids. How

843
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: about how much do you go to the vasectomy route?

844
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: How about that? Yeah, why don't you do that? Because

845
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: the problem is now we're like, well what if we

846
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: change our minds and reverse it? See I thought that too.

847
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: And Mark, I mean Mark, I hope you don't mind

848
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 1: me speaking at it, not at all. You've you've done this.

849
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm proud it's been a decade. Mark is like a

850
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 1: vasectomy seller, like he is like such a fan of promoter. Yeah.

851
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 1: I actually texted Mark and all I said was I

852
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: think about getting vasectomy. He's like, do it best? I

853
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 1: wouldn't say that it wasn't best iver made because I

854
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:37,879
Speaker 1: have two beautiful girls, we don't want any more kids.

855
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 1: Your situation is different, and Allison's health situation. It makes

856
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: it interesting as well. But what percentage are you I

857
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: don't we don't want kids, I'd say, like, I'd say

858
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 1: seventy thirties. I think you got to be at least

859
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,760
Speaker 1: before you actually have a vasectomy. They're not that easy

860
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 1: to reverse. It's not just flipping a switch. Because the

861
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: research I did was there's an episode of Seinfeld where

862
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: they get vasectomies and they go back and forth within

863
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 1: the same day several times and aways that wasn't accurate.

864
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 1: But so it's not as reversible as they make it seem, right,

865
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:10,839
Speaker 1: Like what if you can you save your sperm? Can

866
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 1: you like, like how we freeze our eggs, can you

867
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 1: freeze some sperm? So if the time does come that

868
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 1: you guys want and then you get your vasectomy and

869
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: if you do want kids, you can just PLoP some

870
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 1: in her. I was, well, romantic pop some and I

871
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 1: should be still between that. We did consider that, and

872
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: it's expensive to do that. The thing store to store, Yeah,

873
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: just you know, and I was like, hey, when I'm

874
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: just putting some typewere in the freezer. You know, you

875
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: need some science. Yeah there's there's science and stuffing goes

876
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 1: with that. But but that, I mean, that is an

877
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: option because because of frandometriosis, there's more it's more than

878
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: likely we're going to have to go some you know,

879
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: IVF style route. How effective are vasectomies? They're like nine

880
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 1: I think I think if you do everything you're supposed

881
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,359
Speaker 1: to do, like you're supposed to get checked a couple

882
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: of times just to sure that they got everything taken

883
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 1: care of down there, I think they're very very effective.

884
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,919
Speaker 1: Like Ye's gonna say, maybe you get one. If they're

885
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 1: like effective, then like maybe it happens, and then then

886
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 1: that's and that's what it's meant to be. You know,

887
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: I didn't talk about that. I was like, you know,

888
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 1: maybe maybe we just put in God's Yeah, but um,

889
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's it's it's a it's a weird

890
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 1: it's a weird thing. And I just like I just

891
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: got upset thinking that, you know, Eastern brings up a

892
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 1: bigger issue and that is like you look on your

893
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: face that this soap box is coming out and you're

894
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 1: gonna step. I'm gonna step on it the state of

895
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: birth control. But I want to hear the rest of

896
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: what of what he's what in what where this is going.

897
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 1: I'm going in the same room. I'm just like I

898
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: was thinking, like you guys have ade decision, right, we

899
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: have not made a decision like our in our in

900
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 1: decision has pumped the brakes on the vasectomy conversation. But

901
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:58,239
Speaker 1: is it you pumping them or is it her? It's

902
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 1: it's both equal seventy do you think? Yeah? I think so.

903
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 1: I think actually text right now and see what. But

904
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: I will say she does need to sign off on

905
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: this because my doctor may let me know that my

906
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 1: wife had to sign off on this. Guys, can I

907
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: go sneak off and just get a vasectomy and the

908
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 1: wife doesn't so she had to go in and actually

909
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 1: sign papers for it. And I'm not sure everybody is

910
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 1: like that, but that's how in my eurology office. And

911
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: yes I'm ten years syle, Thank you very much, urologist.

912
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 1: And I do want to say, well, he text his wife.

913
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: If if you are in a relationship with a guy

914
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: and you are done having kids and he is not

915
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: wanting to give vasectomy, tell him to man up. It

916
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,919
Speaker 1: is not a big deal. It is outpatient. You walk

917
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,879
Speaker 1: right out into the lobby to your waiting family. You're

918
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: not supposed to drive home because you have some you know,

919
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 1: anesthesia or whatever. But that's it. There's no I was.

920
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: I sat in a chair that night with PAS on

921
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: my groin, and the next morning I was fine. I

922
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,280
Speaker 1: kept waiting for the pain to happen, and it didn't happen.

923
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: Maybe everyone's different, but I had very little pain from it.

924
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:02,720
Speaker 1: A couple of days later, I ran up the stairs.

925
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, literally to be running up the stairs.

926
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 1: How soon can you get back on the job. If

927
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, they'll tell you that. I

928
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 1: think it's six weeks, right, Oh, that's actually longer than

929
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: No big deal everything about it. So, guys, why did

930
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: you get your tubes tied or whatever? It's a major invasive,

931
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: So enough of that. I won't just get on the pill.

932
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,399
Speaker 1: Why don't just get just go in and do it, dude,

933
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 1: it's so simple, it's so easy. Guys who don't want

934
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 1: to do it are just big busses. I don't I

935
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: don't want to like knock anyone that takes the pill.

936
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: And enjoys it. I'm just saying that, like every single

937
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: woman I've dated has been like, all right, I'm going

938
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: to take the pill and I'm not going to enjoy it.

939
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, no, no, like no one's ever.

940
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: It's just it's so disruptive hormonally. I feel like it's

941
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: so disruptive hormonally. I was on it for I don't

942
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: even know how many years, maybe three or four years,

943
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: four years, and I hated it. I hated it so

944
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 1: much I don't want to go back on it ever again. Also,

945
00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: isn't there a way, like I've never been one that

946
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: tracked this, but where you can track because there's certain

947
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:06,359
Speaker 1: periods where you can't. We're like, you can't get pregnant, right, Yeah,

948
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 1: it's it's fourteen days after your well I believe. I'm

949
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:11,799
Speaker 1: not a doctor, so that's could be wrong, But what

950
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: I believe is it's fourteen days. I don't think it's

951
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 1: fourteen days after you after your first day of your period.

952
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 1: I think it's a lot shorter than that. No, No No, no,

953
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:22,839
Speaker 1: it's that window. It's it's that like twenty four hours.

954
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, though, it's a small window when you

955
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 1: can get what you like. It's you get your period, Like, okay,

956
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 1: I got my period on Friday, So counting from Friday.

957
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 1: Fourteen days from Friday is when I'm ovulating for like

958
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:39,439
Speaker 1: a twenty four span or whatever, it's twenty four hours

959
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: something like that. I think you have one day that

960
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: you can obulately. Yeah, I think. So, it's like it's

961
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 1: when you're it's when the egg is like traveling or so,

962
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: it's like in a certain spot they how people don't

963
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 1: come here for their medical act. But I was going

964
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 1: to say, there's like travelers in that way does this

965
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 1: but that way she's not having to do something that

966
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: you want. You don't have to commit to a vasectomy,

967
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,840
Speaker 1: and you're able to just do what you want without

968
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: the fear of yeah, you know, I understand there's there's

969
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: like there's still risk. Obviously Alison did text me like

970
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 1: no kids, okay, okay. So this is Ovulation typically occurs

971
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 1: two weeks before menstruation, so that means during an average

972
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: twenty eight day cycle, ovulation would occur around date fourteen,

973
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 1: midway through the menstrual cycle. But obviously longer cycles would

974
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 1: put ovulation further back than fourteen, so it just depends

975
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 1: on your cycle and the second is effective. And from

976
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:39,840
Speaker 1: what the real the cursory google I did it. It

977
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: seems the longer you go after you get the sectomy,

978
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: the longer you go before reversing at the like less likely.

979
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 1: The worst part of getting them sect me. I will

980
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: say this, The worst part is that you have to

981
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: bring in a sample uh weeks later. And when I

982
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,439
Speaker 1: handed the woman at the desk my sample, she looks.

983
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,919
Speaker 1: I think her entire career path passed through her eyes

984
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: in that moment, like what have I done to be

985
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: sitting here collecting this sample from this dude? I felt

986
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: so badly for her because I was first of all,

987
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 1: I swear the look on her face was like, Okay,

988
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 1: another one, another day, another and there's a window that

989
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: you can have your egg fertilized. Okay, went down to

990
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: rabbit home quiet. I was looking at those googling. But

991
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:32,959
Speaker 1: but I'm serious about this whole thing, Like I don't

992
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 1: understand how we haven't come up with a solution like

993
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: a birth control pill for men, Like where did that happen?

994
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 1: But but like if it affects what, like we don't

995
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 1: necessarily want that for the man either, like you don't want, Like,

996
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 1: why can't they come up with something that doesn't make

997
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 1: everyone miserable? Understood? But the Eastern's point, it could do

998
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 1: anything to a guy. It would never sell it. You

999
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 1: could do anything. I got it. I can't even think

1000
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,799
Speaker 1: what that's the most innocuous the factor could possible. It

1001
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:04,319
Speaker 1: gives you a slight headache for two hours. No, not

1002
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 1: doing it, forget. I hate that. I have no pain threshold.

1003
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: Would never do it. When we just put up with

1004
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 1: this nonsense because that's the that's what we've created. True,

1005
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:16,320
Speaker 1: we really just and that's our cross to bear, not

1006
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:18,319
Speaker 1: being said. I'm a proud condom user. I've got the

1007
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: I've got the Amazon repeet button on there. I'll continue

1008
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: to Amazon. Sorry from I'm not getting Amazon. Who cares

1009
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: because you don't know how long they've been on the shelf.

1010
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: That could be an effective I'm like, oh, yeah, I

1011
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:31,959
Speaker 1: thought you were going to say we would. I should

1012
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:37,359
Speaker 1: get him from a uh what's a sponsor? We have something? No,

1013
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: just no, I want to get them from like your

1014
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: local drug store. Today I learned it should be interesting way.

1015
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: If it's faulty and it happened that way, then Nut's

1016
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: doesn't meant to be. I'm sorry. Like that episode of

1017
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,400
Speaker 1: Friends when Ross is like they should put it on

1018
00:53:55,480 --> 00:54:00,360
Speaker 1: the box and the like did they do it? And

1019
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: they have expiration dates and condoms? Well then I would

1020
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: tell you. But yeah, yeah, I think your final. Megan

1021
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 1: sents it's an email. I should like some advice. Who's

1022
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 1: up for giving back and some advice? Huh? I love

1023
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 1: advice for Megan. I need some advice about dating my

1024
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: friends high school X. We're now twenty four years old,

1025
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 1: so high school was a while ago. My friends from

1026
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 1: high school are all still best friends and we get

1027
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 1: together at least once a month, even though we no

1028
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 1: longer live near each other. Isn't that great? I love that? Yeah,

1029
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 1: the friend They're twenty four years old with the high

1030
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 1: schools together once a month no matter what. I recently

1031
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,760
Speaker 1: moved to a new city where James the X lives.

1032
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: We saw each other one night at a bar and

1033
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 1: talked for the rest of the night, and now we've

1034
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 1: been hanging out. He keeps trying to make moves and

1035
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: I do like him, but I keep saying I feel

1036
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 1: too uncomfortable because of the friend that used to date

1037
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: James that's in that high school group. I've talked to

1038
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:50,320
Speaker 1: the other friends and they think it shouldn't matter anymore

1039
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:51,839
Speaker 1: because of how long ago it was. What do I

1040
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 1: do in this situation? You want to go first telling

1041
00:54:54,920 --> 00:55:00,799
Speaker 1: you months quick? I I there's so many fish in

1042
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 1: the sea really that disregard listing? Yeah, by James, and

1043
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 1: I mean just for me, Like I wouldn't like if

1044
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 1: this is one of her really good friends that she

1045
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:14,839
Speaker 1: sees all the time, like I know the one time ago,

1046
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 1: and her friend probably doesn't care. But it's like, I

1047
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know. I wouldn't want to be

1048
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 1: making out with people that my one of my best

1049
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 1: friends did. Right, I've done it. I've dated someone my

1050
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:28,840
Speaker 1: one of my best friends stated, really it was awkward,

1051
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: but we got through it. Oh yeah, I would talk

1052
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: to your friend, I would say. I would say, hey,

1053
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 1: I randomly ran into James. I know it was in

1054
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 1: high school, but we're kind of like, we're kind of

1055
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: having a moment. But I wanted to talk to you

1056
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: to see if you if you if it bothered you

1057
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:48,319
Speaker 1: or not. Yeah, I would downplay it a bit. I'd

1058
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 1: be like into James, we hung a little bit. It

1059
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 1: was really nice, and I don't know, I feel like

1060
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind going on a day with him. But

1061
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 1: what do you think? And if she's like, if you

1062
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: you can tell, it's not like no matter what they say,

1063
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 1: you can tell a thing. And I think if she yeah,

1064
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 1: she um. But I think if she you know, if

1065
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:13,359
Speaker 1: she cares, then I think you back off and find

1066
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,280
Speaker 1: another fish in the sea. But I think if she's

1067
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 1: casual about it, then have your what do you call it? Pickle?

1068
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 1: Have your cake? And how do you pick Tell me

1069
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 1: about to have your pickle expression, it's like, have your pickle,

1070
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: don't let it lit your whistle, wet your whistle. Okay,

1071
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:42,839
Speaker 1: that your pickle, but don't let it wet your whistle. Yeah,

1072
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: rolls off the tongue does. Actually, it's not bad. It

1073
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: doesn't mean anything. We have a story. I have a

1074
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:52,399
Speaker 1: cute story. But really, you have ruled out everyone who's

1075
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: ever dated, every one of your friends. No, but I'm

1076
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 1: just saying no. I remember here trying to set you

1077
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,879
Speaker 1: up with Chris Souls, who I almost got engaged. I know,

1078
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't really totally think I would like that,

1079
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 1: but really no, I don't think so all we did

1080
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: was kids. We never did anything beyond that. And it's

1081
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: not because like you would be mad, like I know

1082
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: you would not care. But it's like, I don't know.

1083
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 1: I just your soul mate may have dated a friend

1084
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: of yours. You don't know that, not a friend, a

1085
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: best friend, somebody that's in your like core, Like I

1086
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, I get it, I do, I've

1087
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 1: been there. But it's like, especially if that person has

1088
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: moved on and is in a relationship, it's kind of like, alright,

1089
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 1: you don't get to like cover up. Yeah no, but

1090
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: it's not even has that like I know, like you

1091
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 1: literally would be like have at it was, Yeah, I think,

1092
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 1: But I don't think. I'm surprised this is coming from

1093
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 1: you with too many fishing to see angle, because I

1094
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 1: feel like your angle could be. It is so rare

1095
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 1: to really vibe with somebody, really vibe with somebody. You've

1096
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 1: got to make it work if you can. That's true.

1097
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: It's different when you're in this situation. If you feel

1098
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 1: feelings for someone, all all your rules that you thought

1099
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 1: you had kind of go out the window. Just the truth,

1100
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 1: that's true, that's true. Okay. If if Chris souls and

1101
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: I end up meaning and really just falling for each other.

1102
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:14,280
Speaker 1: I would potentially reconsider, I get. I don't know how.

1103
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:17,400
Speaker 1: I still don't know. It's weird, how it's weird. Oh

1104
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 1: the Christles, Yeah, oh, I have my funny bone, you know,

1105
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: Like I like that. All the past guys that I've

1106
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: dated in my life have only been inside my mouth.

1107
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 1: It's like, that's true. But yeah, but not my friends,

1108
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 1: Like not one of them has made out with Becca

1109
00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 1: that you know, I know, I how to present that

1110
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 1: you have? Not? You know Becca and Dr wad Dark,

1111
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I don't know personal our friends,

1112
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 1: I guess. I mean, that's it's not that far fetched.

1113
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: It's not like you're so weird for not wanting to

1114
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 1: hook up with your best friends past guys. Don't get

1115
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: us wrong. I just think if you met someone and

1116
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:14,040
Speaker 1: you had like an instant spark, you would consider it

1117
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 1: more than your love. Like let's say I met someone

1118
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:18,440
Speaker 1: at the garcery store and no, no, no, not, it

1119
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: was like somebody that was like your high school love,

1120
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 1: that one guy I won't say his name from high school.

1121
00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 1: Actually that's a good comparison. Great, So I didn't know

1122
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:27,479
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't I never saw him or whatever.

1123
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 1: And I meet him and I'm like, oh my god,

1124
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:31,480
Speaker 1: this guy's great. And then I come to find out, oh, shoot,

1125
00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 1: this is the same guy back at dated in high school.

1126
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: Maybe it would be different. Do high school relationships have

1127
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 1: an asterisk? What's an asterisk? Meaning? Are they different because

1128
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 1: they were high school? Are they somewhat less impactful than

1129
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 1: adult relationships? Are they less serious? I don't think so,

1130
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 1: because so many people marry their high school sweetheart. That's different.

1131
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: If it evolves into an adult relationship, that's different. But

1132
00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 1: if it ended in high school, it's And if you

1133
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 1: went out with somebody that Becca had as an adult,

1134
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: had a relationship with somebody in high school was like

1135
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: a training wheels relationship a little bit. I don't think

1136
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 1: I would give to if anybody did in one of

1137
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: my high school boyfriends. Well, there you go. That's a

1138
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 1: good example right there. No offense. Yeah, I mean I

1139
01:00:19,160 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 1: want to. I want to care. Oh, Ryan Compton, I

1140
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: love him. He's married, Okay, But what if he wasn't

1141
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: married and he wanted to go out with I don't know, Becca,

1142
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 1: your neighbor Aaron, I'd be okay, you'd be okay, yeah,

1143
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 1: it would you be happy for them? I would okay, okay,

1144
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 1: but what if just using Aaron that she has a boyfriend.

1145
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:46,919
Speaker 1: But uh, if Aaron went out with signor that would

1146
01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: not I would not not fly with me. Alright, Becca,

1147
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 1: what's your qute story? So I get him a d

1148
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 1: M from this girl who is a scrubber, and she

1149
01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:00,680
Speaker 1: said that her parents were from Shreeve part where I'm

1150
01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 1: from in Louisiana, but she never thought much about it

1151
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: because after college and they moved to Virginia and that's

1152
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 1: where she grew up. Whatever. So she was like, but

1153
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 1: my dad was telling a story and he said that

1154
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 1: he said like his friend Chris Tilly, which is my

1155
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 1: dad's name, And she goes wait, and so she finds

1156
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 1: a photo of my dad and myself and she's like,

1157
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 1: is this him? And he's like, yeah, that's him. So,

1158
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 1: you know, of course, I'm not sure if they were

1159
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 1: like best friends or just knew each other, you know,

1160
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 1: in passing. So I was on the phone with my

1161
01:01:29,760 --> 01:01:31,160
Speaker 1: mom and I was like, his dad with you. I

1162
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 1: was like, I just got this message, and um, this

1163
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 1: girl messaged me and said her dad brought you up

1164
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:37,920
Speaker 1: and my dad goes, It was so cute because my

1165
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: dad goes, that was my best friend in high school,

1166
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 1: and so he he was like, will you send my

1167
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: email and my phone number so I can get in

1168
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 1: touch with him, because it was just so keen. That

1169
01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 1: is so cute that they just lost touch. Well yeah,

1170
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 1: because they you know, they went to I don't know

1171
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 1: if they went to college together what, but they like yeah,

1172
01:01:58,320 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 1: and he was like, did he end up going back

1173
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: to school to become a doctor? And I was like, Dad,

1174
01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 1: his daughter must I don't know, but it was really

1175
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 1: that is really cute. It was like story why like

1176
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 1: so far you know, like so much has happened. They

1177
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: lived so far now, but it was cute. And my

1178
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:20,400
Speaker 1: dad like, my dad's kind of very not detached, but

1179
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 1: you know, he like has his friends, and guy and

1180
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 1: my mom have always just like been each other's best

1181
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 1: friend and they've done everything together, so I don't hear

1182
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: a lot about like friendships. So it was cute that

1183
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 1: he was not only just like, oh, yeah, I knew him,

1184
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 1: he was like, that was my he was my best friend.

1185
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 1: That it was really cute. And I bet those two

1186
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: guys back in the day when they were in high

1187
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 1: school together. They would love to know that their future

1188
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:49,439
Speaker 1: daughters this connections. That's pretty cool. My dad like still

1189
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 1: keeps in touch with his friends from medical school and

1190
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,480
Speaker 1: like college and stuff, and like he like literally made

1191
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 1: like a list of all of them to text him

1192
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 1: on New Year's Day, like Happy New Year and stuff.

1193
01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 1: He's like, it's like, so it's great. It's great. I

1194
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 1: love getting together with guys from then, and there's not

1195
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 1: that many I do, but when I do, it's just

1196
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 1: it's nothing's changed, time has not passed. It feels like

1197
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 1: time travel because wow, look at that guy. He's old now,

1198
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 1: and of course so am I. But it's just it's

1199
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 1: like you're in high school again. You have the same conversations,

1200
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 1: the same rhythms and everything. It's amazing, isn't it weird.

1201
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:19,920
Speaker 1: We just talked about how it's so different being in

1202
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 1: a relationship, but yeah, your friendships stay the same, you know,

1203
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: like those friendships and those people like Laura. We've been

1204
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 1: best for ins since freshman year of high school and

1205
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 1: she lives in Louisiana. But when we see each other,

1206
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 1: it's just like, you know, yeah, we still feel like

1207
01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 1: we're in high school. Like in a fun what um

1208
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:40,800
Speaker 1: your soul mates in life are your friends? I believe

1209
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 1: in that. I did too, because I'm like, those are

1210
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:47,280
Speaker 1: the ones that aren't going to go anywhere, you know,

1211
01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: They're the ones that can really count up. Yeah, men

1212
01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:53,680
Speaker 1: are so flighty. Do you have any update there? One

1213
01:03:53,760 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: day they're out no time and no news. They're not

1214
01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: really No news is not really good news. No news

1215
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 1: is just like just you know, keeping it Sanzy. I

1216
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:15,640
Speaker 1: was dying at someone posting in the group the perfect

1217
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: name for Tony san I'm so down with that. I

1218
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 1: like that name. Yeah, before we do give time of death,

1219
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 1: we should remind everybody that Almost Famous had their big

1220
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 1: live show over the weekend up in San Francisco. I

1221
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 1: know I wasn't there, but I heard it because I

1222
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:36,760
Speaker 1: had to edit it. But it really it sounded great.

1223
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 1: It sounded like a lot of fun, like really just

1224
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 1: a fun vibe, and I know the scrubbers will be

1225
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 1: at least as fun. So this is at the Marines

1226
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 1: in the World Theater in San Francisco. Ticket through Ticketmaster.

1227
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: The comments coming up. Now, it's February one, what is

1228
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 1: that one too and a half weeks? If you're coming

1229
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 1: to see us in San Francisco, stay at the Vice

1230
01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,480
Speaker 1: Wroy Hotel group. You won't be sorry, Hotel Zelos, Hotel Zeppelin,

1231
01:04:57,520 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 1: Hotel ze other all part of the Vice Wroy Hotel

1232
01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:01,560
Speaker 1: group and no treat you right. And then of course

1233
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 1: February at the Roxy in l A. That's sold out.

1234
01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:06,960
Speaker 1: Good luck getting tickets to that. We should look because

1235
01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: I don't like StubHub and stuff like our people. Is

1236
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:15,920
Speaker 1: there a resell value? I think thirty five? Now what

1237
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 1: are the ticket prices? I have no idea, but thank

1238
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 1: you for buying whatever. That's very nice of you to

1239
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:24,320
Speaker 1: spend your hard earned money on that. It's true. Yeah,

1240
01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, I'm like when we found out we were

1241
01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:29,960
Speaker 1: sold out the Rocks, I was like, I can't believe this.

1242
01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 1: Many people spend their money for this night. So cool.

1243
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 1: It is kind of crazy. I'm really looking forward to

1244
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 1: the night at the Roxy. I'm looking forward of both

1245
01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 1: of them. I'm so excited. I can't wait to talk

1246
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 1: and hear about how the almost famous one went, because

1247
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:48,000
Speaker 1: I was like, the first big I Heart Life show, right, yeah,

1248
01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: like in a theater like that. I know Jan has

1249
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,920
Speaker 1: done she did one here, I think, yeah, but those

1250
01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: aren't aired his podcast. They're kind of her own. Oh

1251
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:59,000
Speaker 1: it's just like a show. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So I'm excited.

1252
01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 1: The San Francisco show is on StubHub and selling for

1253
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 1: quite a bit of money. Is that still the like

1254
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Speaker 1: better seats are selling for quite a bit above retail

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Speaker 1: because I know there's still seats available, but I think

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01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 1: they're in the balcony and so I see. So if

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01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:15,320
Speaker 1: you want get that orchestra, you gotta get about the Roxy.

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Speaker 1: The Roxy is not on here yet. So interesting. Um,

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01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 1: when I was a kid, you know, I'm a big

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01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 1: Bruce Springsteen fan. This is a story that's just stupid. Um,

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Speaker 1: But there was an end of a show, end of

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01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 1: a song on the live helped me put out, and

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01:06:27,600 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 1: at the end of the show, he yells over the crowd,

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Speaker 1: he goes, thank you l A. It's been the greatest.

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Speaker 1: And I've always kind of kept that in my mind.

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01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 1: I always thinking that sometimes when I hear the end

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Speaker 1: of the song and a live constant and without thinking,

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Speaker 1: my man, thank you la, It's been the greatest. So recently,

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Speaker 1: just a couple of years ago, I was like, I

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Speaker 1: wonder what that's from, and then I heard it on

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01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:44,480
Speaker 1: Eastreet Radio and satellite radio, and I looked down and

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Speaker 1: it was at the Roxy in n I on that night.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna stand on that stage to say thank you,

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01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: l A. It's been the greatest and that's going to

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01:06:54,840 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 1: be such a moment for me. That's wait, this isna

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01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 1: be like super fussed. We discussed, We discussed. I don't know,

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01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:08,480
Speaker 1: want to give it away because it was such a

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01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: good idea from Becca our walkout song. Did we not discuss?

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01:07:12,160 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 1: What did we say? Did we say about Oh? I

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01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 1: think we made did say what it was? Did remember?

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01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: I don't know either. Oh I remember, Yeah, it's great.

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01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 1: But did we say it? Yeah? Oh? Just like that,

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01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:27,800
Speaker 1: just like that, like just right knowing that like the

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Speaker 1: song that I wrote about talking about a moment we

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01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 1: had Grammy on your vision board. But here we are.

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01:07:36,120 --> 01:07:39,720
Speaker 1: Here we are playing that bad Boy at Marine Stadium,

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01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 1: here loud and those theaters and walking out on stage.

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01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 1: That is going to be a moment for really the

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01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 1: theater next round though, talk you for shooting for stadium stadium?

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Speaker 1: Are you married or engaged in that? According to Okay,

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01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:10,680
Speaker 1: I said married by two right? This is that means

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01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 1: we're on track, We're on track because we put it

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01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 1: out there. It's all that's not happening right now. So

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01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:26,960
Speaker 1: it's kind of square oney right now. But that's one guy.

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01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 1: So we're not square one. We're just not square a hundred. Okay,

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01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:35,560
Speaker 1: we're somewhere in the twenties. Slow, you're you're doing like

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Speaker 1: one and a half, twenty to one and three. Yea O,

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Speaker 1: we'll see legally single another good title. Alright, legally it

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01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:54,719
Speaker 1: was pretty good. Yeah, all right, we're good. Anything else

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01:08:56,160 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 1: that hearts about to stop? Alex Parress type of death

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01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:11,320
Speaker 1: to thirty one twelve thirty one? Who are we really

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01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 1: stuck to it?