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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Kara, good morning, Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you, good morning? I'm good. How are you?

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Speaker 2: I We're doing well. So what's here? What's going on

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Speaker 2: with this guy? Mike?

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Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us kind of everything? Get us

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Speaker 1: all set up here? How did you meet? Tell us

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Speaker 1: about any dance that you've been on? And then why

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Speaker 1: do you think you might uh? Why you think he

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Speaker 1: might be ghosting you? Sure?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know I met him at a bar. His

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Speaker 3: his friends came up to my friends. We started chatting.

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Speaker 3: I thought he was super cute, and you know, he

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Speaker 3: asked for my number before I left the bar. And

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Speaker 3: then you know, the next morning he asked me out.

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Speaker 3: I was super excited. And then you know, a couple

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Speaker 3: days later, we we made, you know, went out on

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Speaker 3: a date at this really really nice Italian restaurant.

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Speaker 2: I had the best time. I had a great time.

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Speaker 2: He's super funny.

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Speaker 3: But you know, like I haven't, I haven't heard from

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Speaker 3: him since since we left, So I don't I don't

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Speaker 3: know what's going on. I don't know what I did.

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Speaker 3: I thought we had an amazing time. I mean, we

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Speaker 3: just I just have no idea.

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Speaker 2: You just like totally completely ghosted me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Right, So you reflect on this date, it sounds

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Speaker 1: like and you have thought about it, as most people

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Speaker 1: They're like, well, what could have gone wrong here? And

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Speaker 1: you really don't think anything happened that was weird or

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Speaker 1: I mean you left the date, Kara, thinking that you

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I thought it went really well in terms of dates.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we had a great time. I definitely thought

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Speaker 3: just have not heard from him.

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Speaker 2: You don't understand.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's frustrating and many of us have been there.

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Speaker 1: So let's see if we can figure this out. We're

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Speaker 1: going to call this guy Mike, see if we can

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Speaker 1: get him on the phone. We're gonna ask some questions

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Speaker 1: for you. You'll be on the phone at the same time.

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Speaker 1: At some point you're welcoming jumping on the call, and

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Speaker 1: you know, our hope is that we can straighten this

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Speaker 1: out and then set you guys up on another date

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Speaker 1: that we pay for all right, all right, sounds good.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to play one song and we'll come back

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Speaker 1: and do and hang on, Caara, Let's find out what's

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Speaker 1: going on Part two of waiting on the phone after

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Speaker 1: Rema back in two minutes and we'll figure it all

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Speaker 1: out or not.

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Speaker 2: Fred's show Remma is on the Frend.

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Speaker 1: Show almost an hour commercial free right now, Hey, Kara,

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Speaker 1: all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 2: Let's call this Mike.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you met you actually met out in the

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Speaker 1: wild and which is which is unheard of these days,

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Speaker 1: but he got your number, he called you. You went

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Speaker 1: on this this great day to the Italian spot. He

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Speaker 1: thought everything was really successful. But you have not heard

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just I just don't understand. The date went

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Speaker 4: really well. So okay, well let's see if we can

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Speaker 4: figure it out. Right now, Good luck, Kara thinks hi

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Speaker 4: is his Mike. Yeah, Hey Mike, good morning. My name

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Speaker 4: is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 2: Is it okay? If we chat for just a couple

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Speaker 5: Uh yeah, yeah, I only have like a few minutes,

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Speaker 1: Well that's fine, that's well, we won't take up too

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Speaker 1: to it. We're calling on behalf of a woman I

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Speaker 1: guess that you met out in public named Kara, and

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, so she reached out to us and she

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Speaker 2: So why haven't you reached out to Kara? Mike?

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, everything was great, like she probably said.

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Speaker 2: Up until we were wrapping up dinner.

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Speaker 5: Then they's a big issue, which was well, the waiter

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Speaker 5: came and asked, you know, before she brought the check

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Speaker 5: if we wanted anything else, and Kara decides to or

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Speaker 2: Wow, there's something wrong with that.

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Speaker 5: I mean, like I bought a dinner, which I don't

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, I paid for it. Oh you had to

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I paid for the whole check. I mean,

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm never going out with the date. Who

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Speaker 5: does that? I'm never going out with this girl again?

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Speaker 5: Who I mean, who orders three meals when after I

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Speaker 2: I've gone out with people before.

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Speaker 1: I guess I knew them, but they were like, oh, hey,

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Speaker 1: I need to grab something for my sister, or I

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Speaker 2: I got it. And not on a first date by

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Speaker 1: These are people that I knew, but like, I'm not

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Speaker 2: I'm so forgetful.

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Speaker 1: Cara, you ordered three additional meals for this man to

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Speaker 3: At the beginning of the date, he said, order whatever

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Speaker 2: That's what I did.

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Speaker 1: That's not what that That doesn't mean to order the

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Speaker 2: You know, girl, girl got to eat. So I'm not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean this is really that's how you interpret that.

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Speaker 2: I was caught up in the moment.

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Speaker 3: I was having a great time, and you know, I

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Speaker 2: There's three fall on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's probably another sixty bucks easy on top

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Speaker 2: You know, it was just.

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Speaker 3: Really good food and I was having a great time,

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Speaker 3: and you know, I don't know he's that order whatever

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Speaker 2: That's a man and a whole week.

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Speaker 1: Like if you if you loved it that much, Karen,

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Speaker 1: I mean, and then you went and ordered one hundred

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Speaker 2: You know what can I say? I'm just I'm just

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Speaker 3: I was feeling comfortable and I was having a good

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Speaker 2: What she ordered the food during dinner, like the extra

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 3: Okay? No?

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Speaker 2: What who orders four meals? She wanted she wanted to

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Speaker 2: taste everything. Then she takes it off to go.

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Speaker 1: Then you know what, if you're gonna do something like that,

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Speaker 2: The point is not to like eat a ton of food.

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Speaker 2: The point is to get to know someone. Oh you

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Speaker 2: get to know this food too. You know that food good?

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Speaker 2: You can you know what, go back, go back with a.

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Speaker 1: Friend or something like nor nobody does the kara You

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Speaker 1: gotta know that is really don't that's that's extending yourself

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I will. It was delicious, It was great food.

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Speaker 2: And I had a good time.

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Speaker 2: You seem like a nice person, but that's rude. You

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Speaker 3: I didn't really see.

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Speaker 2: great time, you were good. Order whatever I wanted I did.

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Speaker 1: I think we all know what that means, which is

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Speaker 2: Being, not the emperor's feest, right like, if.

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Speaker 1: You want whatever, you want to stay, get a steak

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Speaker 2: Of the meal, not the other three, not four meals.

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Speaker 5: And when the waiter asked if she wanted anything else,

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Speaker 5: I think he was talking about the dirt.

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Speaker 1: Probably was, Well, he probably did. He's a money He

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Speaker 1: can't go on a date for another munk, right because

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Speaker 1: of this. He gotta get paid first, all right, Mike, Look,

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Speaker 1: she seems like a nice person. She was into you.

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Speaker 1: Let's say that she doesn't pull that stunt again. Would

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Speaker 1: you go out with her another time? And we'll pay,

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it up to it. Well, I'm putting

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Speaker 1: a limit on it. I'm giving I'm giving you a check.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, it's like a gift certificate. Otherwise's leading order the

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Speaker 1: whole menu, and I'm not to pay for it.

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Speaker 5: You know. That's a nice offer, But I have trust

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Speaker 5: issues and she broke like my trust, you know, and

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Speaker 5: I can't trust that I could go on another date

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Speaker 5: with her and she won't do the same thing.

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Speaker 2: Yes, wild, she.

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Speaker 5: Could go on day with somebody else and they could

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Speaker 5: buy her like.

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Speaker 2: You know, six meals. Yeah, it's as wild care. Look,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. It's not gonna work out. I'm surprised. All right,

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Speaker 2: that's you know. I'll enjoy my Italian food by myself,

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Speaker 2: so I mean, yeah, says you got enough of it?

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Speaker 2: She probably? Are you still eating it? Yeah? It was delicious.

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Speaker 2: Woman hasn't had to pay for a meal in two weeks.

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Speaker 2: All right. Look, best of luck to both of you guys.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for your time. They are you