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Speaker 1: would it be weird for you if lover boy wanted

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00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,679
Speaker 1: to smell your ass or wanted you to fart in

425
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 1: his face? Dude, we're so like that's pretty. I don't

426
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 1: know if, And it's crazy because I've got an ass

427
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:36,880
Speaker 1: also have the last night he spread my ass open,

428
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,120
Speaker 1: so I was like, you know, we had like five

429
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 1: courses the fun you doing? I know, I gotta give

430
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 1: up the ass because we had dinner. But I honestly

431
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 1: thought I was gonna fart last night. I kept trying

432
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 1: to like flip over all rough, like no funk my

433
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 1: face because I thought I was gonna fart. But I

434
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 1: I only say this because, like, now that I've been

435
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 1: dating him so long, I feel like I could be like, Nigga,

436
00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:00,639
Speaker 1: you tripping, But also I can't because you ain't not

437
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,919
Speaker 1: about to sniff no other bitches farts. I mean, I

438
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,919
Speaker 1: just think it's you need to smell a fart, you

439
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,159
Speaker 1: smell in mind. I mean, it's just it's like, is

440
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 1: it a smelly fart? Is it like a like? Is

441
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: it like? What kind of fart is it? I think

442
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 1: I think the same way we had to talk about

443
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,920
Speaker 1: the different kinds of weird thing is I can understand

444
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 1: thank you dirty panties only because female musk. It's it

445
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 1: doesn't like a fishy smell is bad, of course, but

446
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 1: I ain't like we're not a pussy sweat and I

447
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,160
Speaker 1: don't think that it smells bad at all. I think

448
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 1: it just smells like, I mean, a sweaty pussy. Though

449
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,160
Speaker 1: it is different. I think that that's panties all day.

450
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying, dirty panties. I feel like

451
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 1: it's not that weird, but a little bit that's ship, bro,

452
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't think so I brought it.

453
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:49,439
Speaker 1: I wanted to actually bring this into um, something that

454
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 1: a lot of females may have experienced and not and

455
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what it is. So although we're talking

456
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,679
Speaker 1: about farts right now, UM, I want you all to

457
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 1: know your pussy could fart too. And so I looks

458
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 1: that up and that's actually called queefing. Um it can

459
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 1: actually it can actually also be called a vart. So

460
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 1: fart would it be? Um? And this is actually the

461
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 1: result of trapped uh. It's so this is a result

462
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: of a trapped pocket of air getting pushed out of

463
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 1: the vagina. So this happens a lot when you're having

464
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 1: sex and maybe they're going too fast or too hard

465
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: and if their dick comes out and goes back in there,

466
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 1: allowing air to go in there. And so a lot

467
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 1: of times this happens, UM, and you fart. And I

468
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,880
Speaker 1: want a lot of women to know that this isn't

469
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,199
Speaker 1: something to be embarrassed about. UM. I think a lot

470
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: of men at this point know that what a vart is? Right?

471
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: What was Go ahead and start and make that pussy

472
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: and make your pussy fart. That's what that song said. Yeah,

473
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 1: I actually want to read something I didn't tell you

474
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: about this, But when I read when you sent me

475
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: the outline or whatever. I read something once I don't

476
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 1: remember where I read it, Snapple cap who knows, And

477
00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 1: it said that if you blow inside of a vagina

478
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: could kill somebody. Did you hear that? Never listen to this.

479
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: It is very true, but a very rare occurrence when

480
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 1: air is blown or forcedly directed into a vagina without

481
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: allowing any air to escape, and air embolism, the abnormal

482
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 1: presence of air in a cardio cardiovascular system could form,

483
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: which is fatal. Women who are more at risk for

484
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: this or unlikely for this unlikely possibility. I can't read anyway,

485
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 1: you could die a very large amount of air where

486
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 1: to be blown or forced into your vaginal canal. Yes,

487
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 1: it's possible, to answer your brother stream closing blockage kind

488
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 1: of like how you can't blow air into us um

489
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: the veins or what is it like, Ivy, you can't

490
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 1: blow your You can't do that? I remember, girl, So

491
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 1: if you ever want to, you know what I'm saying,

492
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:53,360
Speaker 1: a great way to do this. I'm watching a lot

493
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: of mind Hunter. You know what I'm saying for him?

494
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: Like you like the bitch eater Posty, put your hands

495
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 1: around the hole and then be like, don't know what happened,

496
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: you know, I just I really doubt her heart stop,

497
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,400
Speaker 1: I'm playing like your mom. We were watching TV and

498
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, all of us sudden by Karen.

499
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,199
Speaker 1: So that's our kick of the week. I want to

500
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,679
Speaker 1: go ahead and we're gonna get into our horrible decision

501
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 1: and this is gonna take you up the show because

502
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 1: we ain't shap and I'm sorry. We got a lot

503
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: of niggas to talk about. So you sent in some

504
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: homemail by the way, the white guy question, um, what

505
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: was the other one? The woman in d C and

506
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: something else. We read them on the Patreon episode, so

507
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 1: you guys can catch them there. Um. So the horrible

508
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 1: decision for this week is same ship, different Dick. And

509
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: I wanted to say this because we've messed with a

510
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: plethora of men. Um, we absolutely bit. I guess I

511
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: guess if anybody, I must have been more different types

512
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,360
Speaker 1: of niggas than you because but to me, though they've

513
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: all been black, they've been different bitch. Okay, I mean

514
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: they all had sleeping well so so we have. So

515
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,199
Speaker 1: the listeners have heard me talk about lawyer Bay and

516
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: now I have a felling bay um. And of course

517
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: y'all know I talked girl. Somebody wrote me and was like,

518
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 1: I'm better than all three of them lakers you had.

519
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: So so I wanted to talk about kind of kind

520
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 1: of the different types of men that we've talked to,

521
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 1: What has steered us away from some of the men

522
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: we maybe have talked to in the past, um, and

523
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: what has what has attracted us to new men. So

524
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: I guess we can kind of talk about you a

525
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: little bit. We talked about me and you know my

526
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: different types right now, So you went from Dayton Niles

527
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: and um hoods to now dating white foreigners. So so

528
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 1: I want to talk about, like everyone knows about lover boy.

529
00:26:58,680 --> 00:26:59,959
Speaker 1: We're not gonna sit here and spend all the time

530
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: how you like accents and all that, now, but what

531
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: were the different type of men that you dated prior

532
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 1: to him? Let me just say this about foreigners period. Um.

533
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: It's not an accident thing. I make the joke. But so,

534
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened where I wanted to kind

535
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 1: of go outside of my box, which was only black men.

536
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 1: I had nothing to do with not wanting to date

537
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 1: black men anymore. It's just like I always felt like

538
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: I just limited myself, like I wouldn't even look or

539
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: kiss a white dude. I remember, Yeah, So what happened

540
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: was I went on maybe a few dates with white

541
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 1: American guys, and I just felt like they were racist

542
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: and they don't get shipped and they haven't seen anything

543
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,479
Speaker 1: in their lives. So that's why I really believe in

544
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: my heart that I can't go outside of like white

545
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: euro white or anything or even like South American Latino dudes.

546
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 1: I'm just speaking from art Black here because I feel

547
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: like white American dudes just ask me dumb shit. So

548
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: how is it sewn in your head? Do they put

549
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: a needle in your head? Make a shot up? And like?

550
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 1: And so you don't get these questions from foreign white men,

551
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: not that I don't get them, but either they they're

552
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: not dumb questions or I mean, because a lot of

553
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 1: my conversations are about niggas ship like should I was

554
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: out dinner last night with boy talking about fucking black

555
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 1: people and Meek Male and injustice in the systems. We

556
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: went to Andrew Schultz's comedy show the other night and

557
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: there was a dude making act like jokes about how

558
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,479
Speaker 1: his African side comes out as American side comes out,

559
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 1: and he was like, I totally get it. I understand.

560
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: I've seen black people in Yarpe. I've been through these things.

561
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 1: I see different types of people. American dudes just see

562
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: this black white thing, whereas foreign or see the rest

563
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 1: of the world. You're not just black here. You could

564
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: be black everywhere else. And like I rever a guy

565
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: I dated from Slovenia, funny it's where Trump's wife's from.

566
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: He said to me. I was like, have you ever

567
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: been with a black girl? And he wrote me back

568
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: with a question mark and genuinely was confused. He was like, oh, well,

569
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: never African. But girls that are black, yes, like dark

570
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,040
Speaker 1: dark skin, like black French girls, because he thought of

571
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: what I meant was African when I said black. He's like,

572
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: anybody could be black. That's how he really thought of it.

573
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: He didn't even think African. And I just like that

574
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: they have that about them. Um, the guys I used

575
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:14,479
Speaker 1: to take before, we're yeah, but see. And what I

576
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: don't want to do is make this even a race

577
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: thing because just like you said, well, you've dated a

578
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: lot of the same guys. I actually want to talk

579
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: about the different because because even though I've dated black guys,

580
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying I remember, which you remember

581
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 1: when I when we used to go out back in

582
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: the day, which I had a dread and gold radar. Okay,

583
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: if we both had dreads, were like, oh, I want him.

584
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: That's what I wanted at the point where I wouldn't

585
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: even look at anyone else that didn't have dreads. And

586
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 1: this may have been just us coming from Florida. Bitch,

587
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 1: if you had dreads. And I'm not gonna say, I'm

588
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 1: gonna sit and you guys that don't know what a

589
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: dog is, that's a car sitting on very high don't. Yeah,

590
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: So my too good here bitch back in the day

591
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: was high before I got up to nowhere. Used to

592
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: write it on the car. So girl. So my boyfriend

593
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: tenth grade in high school had permanent golds two to

594
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: the top um uh bottom grill golds and rode a

595
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 1: Chevy and Paula on twenty two that you heard every

596
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: time he came to campus. He was a senior. I

597
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: was never cut the corners. It was just you know,

598
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: he had to go slow. Um. And so that was

599
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: in high school, and then I just felt like as

600
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: I got to my senior year, I'll say, is when

601
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: I started not only dealing with older guys. I had

602
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 1: a Magic player and a Warriors as a senior in

603
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: high school. You remember the one I used to go, Um,

604
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to say his name, but the one

605
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: I used to see and that played for the Magic

606
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: This is my senior year anyways, And you know the

607
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: other one, Oh oh not him. No, So there was

608
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: another Magic player, but I was like twenty by that time.

609
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: Look like, I'll show you a picture. Anyways, So he

610
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: still play ball. He went overseas and now he doesn't

611
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: play ball. Um. But and then of course I had

612
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 1: the other NBA player which I've talked about on the show,

613
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 1: that wanted me to piss on him and um, and

614
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: so I feel like just dealing with them, I was

615
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: introduced to different things. So I was being flown out.

616
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:21,479
Speaker 1: I was seeing the world at this point. I grew

617
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: up in a single parent household me and a trip

618
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: to us was going to Daytona or Coco. My mom

619
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: couldn't afford to put us on a plane. And so

620
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: when I started dealing with these guys who had money

621
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: and who wanted to see me, they put me on

622
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 1: a flight and I was able to literally see the

623
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: fucking world. Um, and then from there to it escalated. Bitch,

624
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: I'd have had a diplomat of a country a bitch

625
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 1: and had an African that had his own business, and

626
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: so I was used to seeing guys make money legally

627
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: and have a lot of it. So I guess that

628
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: kind of steered me away from dealing with villas, um

629
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: cameras or drug dealers, and so, I mean, it's so crazy,

630
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: it's funny. I have to say this because I know

631
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: it's a very popular thing now, but when I was

632
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: working with her niggas, scamming wasn't a thing. And honestly,

633
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: I feel like scamming is so morally wrong, which is

634
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: so funny, because drugs, I'm just like, oh no, like

635
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: that's not a big deal. I buy them. But also

636
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if I was never I don't really

637
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: know if I ever was talking to someone that had

638
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: like trap houses, like feeding crackheads and keeping them down.

639
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: Like to me, it was always just like, oh, you

640
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: sell weed, you sell some coke to some rich people, whatever.

641
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: It wasn't a big deal. But scamming is like a

642
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: hustle to me that I don't think I could ever

643
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 1: get with No, I can't. I don't agree with it,

644
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 1: although I'm not gonna lie to you, which um living

645
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: in New York City, I need to find me in Brooklyn,

646
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 1: NYGOA because I want these Louis Baton shoes and want

647
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: did you see those games and say you hate motherfucker's

648
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: rob people, but you definitely want to buy some? I

649
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 1: sure do so, But I mean I think it's just weird.

650
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 1: So even having guys approached me with the question do

651
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: you date regular guys? Um, I like, to me, it's

652
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: a big thing with confidence. Um. So if a guy

653
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: approaches me like, but you don't regular guys, can you

654
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: talk to me? To me, I feel like you're already

655
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 1: putting yourself below me or you feel like you don't

656
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: have what it takes to date me, And so that's

657
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: an automatic turn off. Like I've dated like some waiters

658
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: or bartenders since I moved to New York and like

659
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: they just had that fucking I say, I don't know

660
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: what it is. Bro Like, oh word, okay, you're you working?

661
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: Like that's so if you're an exact go for you,

662
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: so you know what I work late tonight, but I

663
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: want to come check you anyway, go on with the game.

664
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: So I say this to say, aside from color, I

665
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of us women date a wide

666
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: variety of men, I guess, so to speak. And so

667
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: what would say if you had to list maybe five.

668
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: We won't make a list of twenty, because lord knows

669
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: we could probably get that far. But if you could

670
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 1: list of five, list five careers types, whatever type of

671
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: guys you've dated, who have been your top five to

672
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: enjoy the most that I want like and what made

673
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: the difference. So I'll say, mind so that you can

674
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: get an idea of what I'm talking about. So I've

675
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: got mine DJ. You know who that is, of course,

676
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: NBA player. Um, I've had a director of a government organization,

677
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: a diplomat, and a rapper. I'll say those are Those

678
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: are the five different types of guys that i've kind

679
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: of dress some name now and I noticed I like

680
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 1: them the most because they're those fast thinkers they are.

681
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: They give me really good perspective. People in corporate America,

682
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,800
Speaker 1: like you and I do give each other good advice,

683
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: but it's the same advice. And I feel like when

684
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: you talk to someone that's outside of your world. They

685
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 1: just think of something else you would. It's so weird

686
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: because I don't think you realize although we work in corporate.

687
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: It's so funny a lot of people who know me

688
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: view me as an entrepreneur. And I don't think you

689
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: even view yourself as an entrepreneur yet not. But what

690
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: this is that we're doing, what we're creating irepreneurs, like

691
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 1: you know, just talking a lot of way about Patreon

692
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: and ads and giving up half of our money to

693
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,240
Speaker 1: be part of a network, and like just hearing different

694
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 1: perspectives someone that has a successful business. It's great And

695
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,479
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed dating entrepreneurs the most. And I noticed

696
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,879
Speaker 1: a trend um second. I would say our lawyers. I've

697
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: been with a lot of um should I forgot lawyer

698
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: athletes now where you know it's not basketball, but that

699
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 1: in a few years we didn't talk. I was dating

700
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 1: like I really am like a fan of like a

701
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 1: soccer player body. Yeah they're too small. Yeah, I liked

702
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: dating athletes. Um, I would say after that is government workers.

703
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 1: So people that are like I don't know, just someone

704
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 1: that's got that like super strict whether it'd be like

705
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: military which I would never date again. Um, I was

706
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: gonna say USBs, I don't know, and then after that

707
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: I'd say entertainment industry, so not like rappers, but like

708
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 1: if people that are producing are all around or doing shows,

709
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,800
Speaker 1: because I mean in the club right, But above all,

710
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: I think that the athlete attraction, which is why I

711
00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:00,040
Speaker 1: get it for you, is you're they're so committed of

712
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 1: their bodies and this thing, and they have a craft, right,

713
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: they have a town. When you date someone, they don't

714
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: have a talent. So when you date an athlete, they do,

715
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 1: and they've either got fame for it, or they're admired

716
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: for it, or it's something that's so special about them

717
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:16,760
Speaker 1: that nobody else has. You're telling me that other people

718
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: can kick a ball like you and not be at

719
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: work today. No, No, it's just that I can suck

720
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: the diferen believe I'm gonna say this. I kind of

721
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: enjoyed the athletes schedule. I hated it well when I

722
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 1: was dating, Like the day of a game, had to

723
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: take a nap. Is off for summer. You've got a

724
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: lot of fucking travel time which I can join you on,

725
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: which is fun, And I don't know, like it's a

726
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: different lifestyle, something new to talk about. UM. I don't

727
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: know for women that are always like seeking these guys

728
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: like athletes, rappers and entertainers, there is one thing if

729
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 1: you have a regular lifestyle, it's gonna be very hard

730
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 1: to be with somebody like that, which is so and

731
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 1: I want to talk about that because I feel like

732
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 1: that's why I have gone away from dealing with athletes,

733
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: um or anyone with those type of schedules. UM. And

734
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: I want to let you guys know. So as you

735
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 1: guys know, I'm now working in finance and I'm a

736
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:12,399
Speaker 1: full time student, so I have responsibilities to not only work,

737
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: but to attend class. And these guys do want you

738
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: to be available. So when I was a bartender, Oh,

739
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,720
Speaker 1: who's easy, bitch, gave up my ship hopped on a flight,

740
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 1: and so we would insulted in how men I'll meet now? Yeah,

741
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: they hate that you're not available. They hate that they

742
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: can't see you when they want to see you. And

743
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: then that's another thing, you can't really see them when

744
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: you want to see them. You have anything is I

745
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 1: was talking to Oh, it wasn't love a boy, Maybe

746
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 1: it was, and we were talking about was Kalifa's girlfriend.

747
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: She's so hot, how she's hot whatever, And I was like, oh,

748
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: she's a stylist. Starts laughing and we're like, oh, what

749
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: did she do before before him? Right? Because you I

750
00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 1: mean every single picture she has with him whatever beautiful, right.

751
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: But I'm saying every single picture she has with him

752
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: because she's with him. So you have to drop your life.

753
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: So that means you have to literally commit to this

754
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: ship because there might be a girl that nigga met

755
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 1: that has nine to five, that it's an average girl

756
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: and he's like, you're great, but I want to take

757
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 1: you all over the where with me and you can't.

758
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 1: And what level headed chick is gonna fucking really drop

759
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: their ship for someone and no assurance if they're going

760
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: to have anything when they come home, you know, a

761
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 1: karuchi things like that. So I think the girls that

762
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 1: seek these dudes cannot be the average girl. You really

763
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: have to be the girl that plans your own ship

764
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: because you might have to get up and go with

765
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 1: a nigga. When I was dating you know who who

766
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: you hooked me up with? Oh god, now he um,

767
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: I remember there would be times where he'd hit me

768
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: up the day before. Actually he's done it since he's yeah,

769
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,320
Speaker 1: and like, come with me? Yeah, do you want to

770
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: come with me to a cabin tomorrow? What? Or like yeah?

771
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,919
Speaker 1: Or even guy, you want to come to Portland? Want

772
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 1: to come to Memphis? It's always a whack ass cities. No,

773
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to come to them, asked him once.

774
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: And I was like take me with Are you with you?

775
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,839
Speaker 1: And he's like, oh, I don't know. I'm like, because

776
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 1: the bitches are late, that's why you won't take me.

777
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 1: I was telling lover boy. He likes you know, he's

778
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: always going in the next games. I was like, oh,

779
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: the Cavaliers are playing lest Yeah, it was my We like,

780
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 1: what are you gonna take me to the game. He's like, well,

781
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 1: this one, I just got a lot of friends. But

782
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 1: you know we could do another one. Like when the

783
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: magic come we all know friends. No one wants to

784
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: see the magic back. I want to see Lebron football playing.

785
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: As you heard what that guy said about him. What

786
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 1: so you know Lebron was riding the train. Oh yeah,

787
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: and so he pushed the camera away and he said,

788
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 1: I didn't have my lotze yet this morning. I don't

789
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: blame that dude, I don't. That's one thing I'd love

790
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,760
Speaker 1: about New Yorkers. People said that guy was being phony.

791
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: I believe him. Sure he knew he played basketball, not football.

792
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 1: But dude, if I'm fucking commuting, I don't give a

793
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,919
Speaker 1: funk who's on the train. If I'm just thinking next

794
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,399
Speaker 1: to somebody that I like, but not a big deal

795
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 1: to me, Nicki Minaj. So if that bitch put the

796
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 1: camera on me at eight o'clock in the morning, ship

797
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: or fucking commuting home, I'd be like, bitch, I don't

798
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: fun the pink print that you know, Michael Rappapart was

799
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 1: like Lebron over here thinking he in Disneyland. Bro. They

800
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 1: rode the train like it was a fucking amusement park,

801
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, na, we get on this ship

802
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: every day. So I wanted to so as we're talking about, um,

803
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 1: these different guys. I know, I mentioned it in the

804
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,720
Speaker 1: beginning of the episode, and so I want your advice.

805
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: And you know, I never asked your advice for Ship

806
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 1: because I really don't give a funk what you have

807
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: to say. UM, but I want your advice on this

808
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:32,720
Speaker 1: on Felon Felon Bay because you have dealt with felons

809
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: prior in your life. I want how much for you?

810
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: I'm not your advice because it's not like you give

811
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 1: good advice and don't give a funk about what you

812
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 1: gotta say. And now you date a lot of niggas

813
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: has been in jail. So what would be your advice

814
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: to me and our listeners, UM for someone dealing with

815
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 1: someone who has had time UM and someone who you

816
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: may not. I know I don't see long term, but

817
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 1: I've I've really enjoyed his company. So do you have

818
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: any advice to do? I just leave it. I don't

819
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: think you should stop dating him, but I just think

820
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: that you could accept disappointment, possibly only because you gotta

821
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: be okay with the fact that maybe what was he

822
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 1: to jail for gun charges? Did he kill somebody? I

823
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,760
Speaker 1: asked him that, and somehow we got away from the question.

824
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think he killed anyone though,

825
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: like a year gun was at sixteen, he got locked

826
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 1: up till nineteen, got out and got locked up from

827
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 1: twenty to five. Okay, if somebody someone, how do is

828
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: he now? If someone keeps making the same mistakes, I

829
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,959
Speaker 1: don't know, because the thing is like all you're gonna

830
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: do next is something that you know how to do,

831
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 1: right if you're not prepared to quote unquote hold somebody down,

832
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: meaning that you're gonna have to deal with the fact

833
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: that they may work at a Chipotle like you said,

834
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 1: and I like some bullshit job. If you can't accept

835
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 1: that and you don't like the idea of it, after

836
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: six months, when that poppy love baby bluesh it is gone,

837
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: that's gonna be your nigga? Now? Is that something that

838
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: I should let him know up front? I mean, I

839
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: wish we had a felon sitting in front of us,

840
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 1: but um, is that something that I should let no

841
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: like listen, I'm not alride a die bitch like you know,

842
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: like or should I just let it be like lave

843
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: right out like I told him already? This is the

844
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 1: first Like I'm making an exception. I've never talked to

845
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: someone who's done jail time. Um, I don't know, like

846
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: real jail time, like he spent a month. I don't

847
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: know if you owe him that yet. Okay, just like

848
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 1: men or women, they don't know each other. Like if

849
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: you don't, if you're you're not gonna know how deep

850
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: you fall for him. Dude, you might want to do

851
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: these things for him, and that's what happens to him,

852
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 1: and that's what happened to me. But he asked me

853
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 1: what I want for Christmas? That's kind of movie. Why

854
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: he gotta steal my Christmas gifts? See saying you see

855
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 1: you see free, you see why he got john he

856
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 1: made money? How No, that's the thing. If you're encouraging

857
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 1: and accepting gifts, when that nigga goes to jail, you're

858
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 1: not gonna be cool with it. So that's gonna be

859
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,280
Speaker 1: the thing. You've got to decide, which you know, playing

860
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 1: field you're gonna have with it. Are you gonna think

861
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 1: it's cool that he can sell drugs? Are you gonna

862
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: be okay with it? Are you gonna to be chill

863
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: with getting the gifts and enjoying his drug money and

864
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,439
Speaker 1: then just cut him off that simmer. I don't think

865
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 1: he sells drugs. Let's not assume his money comes from drugs.

866
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,280
Speaker 1: Do you think? I don't know, but to my knowledge,

867
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 1: he said he's steered away from drugs because that's the

868
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: easiest way to go back in and he's still in probation.

869
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 1: I don't think he scams. You can't pay rent because

870
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: you gammer cards. I don't know. I know he's not

871
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 1: an escort because his dick ish medium, So I mean

872
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: no job fucking eight year prison ay and medium dick.

873
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think, and I think the nice

874
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: thing about what's happening to you is that you can

875
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 1: acknowledge that you just like him for him. And that's

876
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,280
Speaker 1: some I do, and and it's and it's weird because

877
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,839
Speaker 1: even on a sexual level, I don't even think it's

878
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 1: all the way here say all the time that you

879
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: would seven because he has a neck tat or faced hat.

880
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: So but it's weird because even when when I met

881
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: and I said, we would even talk about him anymore.

882
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: But um, when I met him, he was broke, he

883
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:09,799
Speaker 1: had diying bags in his Timberland boots. He did he

884
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: was in the streets, and so that is kind of

885
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: and of course he was an up and coming rapper.

886
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: It was everything I said against, and it's why I

887
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 1: never saw anything but sex with him. I didn't want

888
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 1: to take it fur there. He had great conversation, he's

889
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,720
Speaker 1: a great individual, like he makes me laugh, he's funny,

890
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,240
Speaker 1: he's great to be around. But because of those reasons,

891
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,319
Speaker 1: I was like, this isn't someone I can see myself.

892
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: I'm not even telling you to cut the dude off

893
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: because I don't think you should, because I know a

894
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 1: lot of people gonna hear this and be like, oh,

895
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: give him a chance. I'm not saying that you shouldn't.

896
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that you need to make You need

897
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 1: to make an educated guest on his life style. I know,

898
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: but like it's crazy because someone spent ten years of

899
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: his twenty eight year old life in jail. I know.

900
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 1: That's most of his adult life. And I've been thinking

901
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 1: about this, I know. So it's something that every time

902
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 1: we talked, is gonna be excited to be out and

903
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: fucking bitches and things like that? Is he gonna be

904
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: a headache for you? Like you need to just I'm

905
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: trying to get him to go to the pretty Ricky

906
00:44:56,120 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: conslet with me. I'm hopefully him, But you don't be

907
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: getting free ship you see. You see what I'm talking about.

908
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: See even the producers like, bro, the shade is real,

909
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: very serious. What are you gonna be okay with? And

910
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: you have to ask yourself this dude, listen to me,

911
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 1: if I had to tell you that I was gonna

912
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: be waiting for Lovaby that long the day I met him.

913
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, I wouldn't have done this, but my feelings

914
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: got too deep. So like now I just want to

915
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 1: make sure that in the next relationship, got like if

916
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: I have to over God forbid, that I know what

917
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 1: I'm doing next time. And I'm looking at the things

918
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 1: that I'm taking the guesses like I'm understanding the situation

919
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: and I'm I'm preparing myself right, I don't. I don't know.

920
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 1: I think it's something. I'm just really how much time

921
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 1: do you spend with him? A week? One week he

922
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 1: came over three times, and I was like, three times

923
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: a week for me is a lot, Like have you

924
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: been to his place? No? He keeps telling me like

925
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 1: you kind of my place next time, and it's just

926
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 1: like he claiming he got a foot on and I'm

927
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 1: just like that ain't all friend. He just moved in

928
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: maybe two and a half months ago, so this is

929
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: and he's one stop for me on the train, so

930
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 1: he's in my neighborhood. I mean, I don't know where

931
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: I mean and I am And but jail Nigg is

932
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: gonna feed you the best lines, bro, that's the only thing.

933
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: They're gonna make you feel like the only girl in

934
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: the world and so special. But he he doesn't. I mean,

935
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,919
Speaker 1: we started off very, very honest with each other, like

936
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: I mean, girl like, I didn't even gonn tell you

937
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 1: like bitch came over. The first two times he brought

938
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: up seven and I said, listen, how how did he

939
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: figure out? He was wearing Vans? So he was like, yo,

940
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: that nigga wear vands. I can wear Vands. And he

941
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 1: was like, Yo, you heard this nigga, this nigga album

942
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,840
Speaker 1: he was talking about, talking about him like he really

943
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: likes him, and I'm just like, But the third night

944
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:38,799
Speaker 1: he came over and brought that nigga up, I was

945
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 1: just like, listen, I'm gonna be honest with you. We

946
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: cannot sit here and talk about this nigga. He was like, damn,

947
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 1: you got something to this nig I was like, okay,

948
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:48,760
Speaker 1: it's just awkward. And I think that I was sucking

949
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 1: the nigga like for a long time. Can you not

950
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 1: like bring him up? It makes me feel awkward. And

951
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:54,760
Speaker 1: so I was honest with him because I just felt

952
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 1: talking about him every time he come over. It's weird. So,

953
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: I mean we've been really trans parent with each other,

954
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: UM as far as um who were having sex with

955
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 1: all of that. So it's been it's been were you

956
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: the homemail for this week? I think that was the homemail? Like, bitch,

957
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,280
Speaker 1: what do I do? I'm dealing with a felon? Um,

958
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:13,800
Speaker 1: I'm just I don't know. I think you got to

959
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: write it out. I just think that you have to

960
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 1: have expectations with this. It's just like, if if a

961
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 1: chick was dating a rapper, what should you expect? If

962
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:22,839
Speaker 1: a girl was dating a negative you in the club?

963
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 1: What should you expect? If you're dating a felon? What

964
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: should you expect? That's a good way to look at it, right,

965
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: because because I do treat people differently, like wanting the worst,

966
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: because you don't. It's not about expecting the worst. It's

967
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: just like, okay, you could happen. Just acknowledge that this

968
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:40,959
Speaker 1: maybe some of the best you ever says you can't

969
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: breathe this, Clara Nember, I mean Clara Clara's fuck. Anyways,

970
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 1: I guess we did um kind of a lot of rambling,

971
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: But I hope you guys kind of enjoyed. We don't

972
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,320
Speaker 1: really we kind of talked about some hole ship, but

973
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,839
Speaker 1: not too much ho ship. But I mean, shop you

974
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 1: you've had your ass wide open the other night, so

975
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: I guess that was exciting and you amos parted in

976
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 1: this face. Um, I don't know. We're gonna go ahead

977
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: and try to give you guys, um more episodes of

978
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: just Us, because it seems like you guys have been

979
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: asking for it. I hope you enjoyed kind of this

980
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:14,399
Speaker 1: episode and we kind of went all over the place it.

981
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So next week we have a trans man

982
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: who came onto the show, so it'll be really interesting.

983
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: And then the week after that, y'all motherfucker's will see

984
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: us at the live show. Shout out to Cast. Yeah, bitch,

985
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 1: it's in two weeks. You're not ready, are you know?

986
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 1: You're not ready at all. I want to give a

987
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: huge shout out to Cast sound Web. They are sponsoring

988
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:38,360
Speaker 1: our live show. Also, a lot of y'all motherfucker's in

989
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: New York are starting podcasting. She don't be booking, but

990
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: I actually look here I go. I was about to

991
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 1: be like, um, we're at a great studio. It's very affordable. Um.

992
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 1: A lot of people give us compliments on our sound.

993
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 1: So if you guys are looking to start a podcast, um,

994
00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: we will go ahead and include their information in the

995
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:03,359
Speaker 1: description of this episode, and you guys can check them out,

996
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,800
Speaker 1: look at their prices, and come over here in Bookts

997
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn right off the ail train, bitch, so it's accessible.

998
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 1: Um and yeah, so shout out again to cast Salma.

999
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 1: I was gonna mention something about the show. Oh yeah,

1000
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 1: if you guys want to just you know, be in

1001
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: our lives a little bit. Mandy and I were talking

1002
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: about what are we gonna wear for this show, and man,

1003
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 1: he's like, I kind of want to do with the

1004
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: corporate look to had I already bought my office, so

1005
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 1: I hope you're not asking for advice. Go ahead. I

1006
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,320
Speaker 1: want to wear a tea and jeans. Okay, so we's

1007
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: gonna wear a T shirt and jeans. I feel like

1008
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 1: I'm always in bodysuits and I look thought e I'm

1009
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: the fucking so I'm gonna be I'm gonna be more classic.

1010
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: I want to wear like I just want to feel relaxed,

1011
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 1: and I feel like if I'm too dressed up that

1012
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 1: I'll overdo it in my own head. And I just

1013
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 1: feel like if I'm wearing a teen jeans and heels,

1014
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 1: and I'll feel but you're gonna be sexy. And also

1015
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: speaking of heels, I want to let your hoss know

1016
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 1: if y'all are on CEP time or fashionably late or

1017
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 1: whatever the case, maybe we have oversold the amount of

1018
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 1: tickets two seats, so there is standing room, um, and

1019
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 1: so I want to let you guys know that the

1020
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 1: doors will open at seven the show will start promptly

1021
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: at eight pm. We do have to start on time,

1022
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 1: so if you guys are looking for a seat, I

1023
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 1: do want to let you guys know please show up

1024
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 1: early as there is standing room. So bitch, if you

1025
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 1: want to look cute, to wear your heels, but you

1026
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 1: know you might show up late, you might want to

1027
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: bring a pair of slides and your god damn purse. Um.

1028
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: And that's kind of all the information I think we

1029
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: want to share. Do you have any other information you

1030
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: want to give our listeners before we sign out? So

1031
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 1: send me your remedies for my dose. All right, this

1032
00:50:35,560 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 1: has been yet another episode of horrible decisions. Hollow you

1033
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 1: put you're trusting the nigga stupid hole? How you think

1034
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: God he won't suck your best friend, then your sister

1035
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 1: a lie to y'all, then school y'all get mad. If

1036
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 1: it's homeboys do y'all. He's a nigga. Don't let him

1037
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:19,439
Speaker 1: fool y'all. They all dogs, that's what they do. Said,

1038
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna stop to the ship they pull and get

1039
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: your own ship. That's what you do. And don't worry

1040
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 1: about him boy, his yous man. You make him sweat

1041
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:31,439
Speaker 1: doves on your ship and you ride by music high

1042
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: as hell too. He's watching you, lusting with his bit.

1043
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 1: You find at him, not at him, keep right and

1044
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: you see him later because I want to stop by

1045
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 1: when he sees you off the chain looking good to

1046
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 1: you even got his bitch wanna freak you. You don't

1047
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: trust no little no, No, you can't trust no nigga.

1048
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: No no, I don't trust no little no. No. You

1049
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 1: can't trust no mother no, nick no, you don't trust

1050
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 1: no will no no, you can't trull no nigga no No,

1051
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: don't trust no liv no no, you can't trust no

1052
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: mother no. Get no. Now when he comes open up,

1053
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: let him freak. You do all the things freaky things

1054
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 1: bitch can't do from the back to the side just

1055
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 1: right and tighten up, ripping down ships while then get

1056
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 1: him gonna put him out. Nigga, get gone. She's the

1057
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: one cousin blowing up your cell phone. I'm over you. Yeah,

1058
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,320
Speaker 1: you have to learn the hard way. I get the

1059
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: fool about what your might have to say, because you'll

1060
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 1: see I'm a queen in the end though, you see

1061
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,720
Speaker 1: what you're gonna be in the ear broke, don't win nothing,

1062
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 1: win nothing, stuck in the hood while I'm straight looking love.

1063
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 1: They're living real good. So trust, don't make a fucking

1064
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 1: nigga get your own ship to let him know that

1065
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 1: he's fucking with a raw bit with her head on

1066
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: the shoulder, nose hot goals and when the sounder, let

1067
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 1: a motherfucker get gone. Don't trust no lile, no no,

1068
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: you can't trust no nigga. No no, I don't trust

1069
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 1: no lile no no, you can't trust no. Mother No,

1070
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: don't don't trust no willing no, no, you can't trust

1071
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 1: no nigga. No no, you don't trust no willing no, no,

1072
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: you can't trust no mother. No, you don't trusting the

1073
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 1: nigger dumpy, Ain't that podcast? Nigga ain't ship you put.

1074
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: Don't trusting the nigga Dumpy. Ain't me that podcast? Figga

1075
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 1: ain't ship you put? Don't rusting the nigga Dumpy. Don't

1076
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: you know that fodcast? Nigga ain't ship you put? Don't

1077
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 1: trusting a nigga dump. Ain't she that podcast? Cigga ain't ship?

1078
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 1: Oh you be gave them? How I'm feeling that hole

1079
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: dan Nigga, don't mean you no good? Oh you begave him?

1080
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: How I'm feeling that hole D. Nigga don't mean you

1081
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: no good? Oh you became them? How I'm feeling that

1082
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 1: hole D Nigga don't mean you no good or you

1083
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: became him? How? Don't feel at home? And nigga don't

1084
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:55,279
Speaker 1: mean you no good? Don't nigga don't trust no niggle,

1085
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:59,280
Speaker 1: don't trust non't nigga na trumk no nigga, No no nigga,

1086
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 1: don't trust no mid natures no nickajain't trust no mother

1087
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:07,280
Speaker 1: knows We don't don't trust no mill, don't run no nigga.

1088
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: Jain't trust no nigga, don't run no nick. Don't trust

1089
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: no living da true no nickerdae trust no mother no

1090
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:18,280
Speaker 1: no you don't trust no Milla no no, you can't

1091
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: trust no nigga no no, I don't trust no Milling

1092
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 1: no no, you can't trust no mother no Nick don't

1093
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: you don't trust no Willing no oh no, you can't

1094
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: trust no nigga no no, I don't trust no Milling

1095
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:57,240
Speaker 1: no no, you can't trust no mother no, Wi no

1096
00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 1: no