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Speaker 1: say when you know, you just know. In the bathroom world,
Speaker 1: they say, when you gotta go, you gotta go. Okay,
Speaker 1: also true. Yeah, in the Christmas world, they say, let
Speaker 1: it snow, Let it snow, Let it snow. Aren't we
Speaker 1: going to rhyme the entire segment or I'm just saying
Speaker 1: there's lots of great sayings out there, okay about knowing
Speaker 1: and going and snowing. I'm sure there's something about growing,
Speaker 1: let it going. Yeah, there we go. But one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, John he's on the phone with us because
Speaker 1: he said he had one of those feelings during his
Speaker 1: date where he just knew something was special about the
Speaker 1: woman he was withal I love. That's why he contacted us.
Speaker 1: What's up, Johnny. Thanks for having me you guys, I
Speaker 1: really appreciate it. So I love these romantic stories but
Speaker 1: there's also it makes me so nervous because there's so
Speaker 1: much on the line. Like with normal second dators, they're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we went out once, they're not calling me back. You know,
Speaker 1: you don't lose a whole lot. But Johnny, it sounds
Speaker 1: like you're already invested. Yeah, I just felt this strong connection.
Speaker 1: Her name's Maya. By the way, we met on the
Speaker 1: dating app. We didn't ask for her name name like
Speaker 1: nameless people played by our rules, So sorry, her name's Maya.
Speaker 1: That's cool. Yeah, we met on one of the dating
Speaker 1: apps and then Mike instantly. She just had such a
Speaker 1: unique look. This is something that I really liked. She
Speaker 1: didn't have perfect teeth, and I really like that. Like, okay,
Speaker 1: you like crooked teeth, Yeah, exactly. You should go to
Speaker 1: England sometime, man, you love it over there. I mean
Speaker 1: it just shows to me that like she's not ranch,
Speaker 1: she didn't have like dental work done, she's not too
Speaker 1: full of herself, she's not boogie you know, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: and she's not caught up in like aesthetics or you
Speaker 1: know whatever. Or she doesn't have a dental plan yeah
Speaker 1: that too. Who knows, or she likes her teeth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it could be that simple. So what did you and
Speaker 1: Maya do for your date? So it was supposed to
Speaker 1: just like a quick coffee date, you know, but it
Speaker 1: went so well. We just bonded. We kept talking about
Speaker 1: how our parents used to take us to baseball games,
Speaker 1: and it might have even meant that we were at
Speaker 1: a couple of the same games and just never even
Speaker 1: knew it. Oh that's cute. Yeah, it was really I
Speaker 1: don't know. I really liked it, and we ended up
Speaker 1: hanging out even more then, Like afterwards, I was like,
Speaker 1: do you want to just kind of go to the park.
Speaker 1: So we went to the park. We rented a tandem
Speaker 1: bikes and yeah, she's like really into it. I mean,
Speaker 1: tandem bikes always sound like they're a romantic idea, but
Speaker 1: I don't know if they're actually romantic in practice. Because
Speaker 1: I think about riding a bike and sweating and heavy breathing.
Speaker 1: I think it's cute, but like two minutes in, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, okay, this is about it was it was
Speaker 1: it romantic, Johnny? I think the idea of it was
Speaker 1: more romantic, Like I had fun because I was with her.
Speaker 1: But to be honest, like now that you say it
Speaker 1: like I was sitting in the back and she was
Speaker 1: in the front. Okay, good call. Why is that a
Speaker 1: good call? Did you don't want the girls sitting behind you? One,
Speaker 1: you can't see a round a dude very well, right,
Speaker 1: because you guys are taller typically and two exactly like
Speaker 1: you just you don't know, like if you have like
Speaker 1: a crack sweat or something like, you just don't need
Speaker 1: to be concentrated on that for the entire time. I mean,
Speaker 1: your pants are hanging down too low. Maybe you're like
Speaker 1: little Harry Crack is hanging out. I don't know. There's
Speaker 1: just a lot of variables there, and smart to put
Speaker 1: the girl in front. I have a feeling that you
Speaker 1: have some experience with I mean, I've thought this out
Speaker 1: I have so Okay, So how did it go? On
Speaker 1: the tandem bike? So we were peddling around the park
Speaker 1: and this group of teenagers are there and they started
Speaker 1: kind of making fun of our tandem bike. And what
Speaker 1: do you say at someone that's like mean about a
Speaker 1: tandem bike? Ha ha, you found love? What kind of
Speaker 1: insults could you possibly throw? I think they're just unhappy
Speaker 1: people in their own lives, you know. But when we
Speaker 1: circled around. Then we ran into them again, and I
Speaker 1: kind of felt like I have to depend her on it.
Speaker 1: I can't let soun like call her a loser or
Speaker 1: anything like that, or us I threw a stick at
Speaker 1: one of them. What do you threw a stick at
Speaker 1: the teenagers? Just scared them, not to injure them. Nobody
Speaker 1: was injured. I mean I would have gone with just
Speaker 1: ignoring them because they're teenagers. But I'm sure they'll never
Speaker 1: call it anybody on a tandem bike again. Scare them
Speaker 1: to the core. Yes, So how did this date end?
Speaker 1: So basically we just rode around for a little bit more,
Speaker 1: called it a day, but we kept in touch why
Speaker 1: a text like I really felt a strong connection. And
Speaker 1: then she said she was going to go out of
Speaker 1: town for a few days to be with our folks. OK.
Speaker 1: For now, it's been two weeks and I haven't heard
Speaker 1: anything back. I'm almost wondering, did I scare her away
Speaker 1: when I threw the stick more than the kids. I
Speaker 1: could be I mean either that, or I mean it
Speaker 1: could be just a as she didn't feel as strongly
Speaker 1: as you did. You know, sometimes people have a hard
Speaker 1: time judging that when they're overly interested, right, was there
Speaker 1: like a kiss or a hug at the end of
Speaker 1: the date. There was a hug and a kiss on
Speaker 1: the cheek. That's sweet. That's always a good sign. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it was a day date. You know, it's kind
Speaker 1: of weird to go in for a full makeout session
Speaker 1: on a day date. Yeah, speak for yourself, Brokay, parks
Speaker 1: make you excited, apparently, yeah you do not? So. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: here's what we're gonna do for you, Johnny. We're gonna
Speaker 1: play a song. We'll come back and we'll call Maya
Speaker 1: and we'll try and get you your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hold on, all right, if you're just tuning
Speaker 1: in for the second date update, We're on the phone
Speaker 1: with a guy named Johnny. And Johnny sounds like you're
Speaker 1: all American guy. Yeah, for sure. I mean, he loves baseball,
Speaker 1: he loves tandem bikes, he loves throwing sticks at rowdy
Speaker 1: teens and public parks. Come on, But most of all,
Speaker 1: Johnny likes a woman named Maya who we met online
Speaker 1: and had an instant connection with. He wants to know
Speaker 1: why she's not calling him back. And Johnny, have you
Speaker 1: considered that maybe she met a guy with a bigger
Speaker 1: bike or Jeffrey, it's out the size of the bike. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's how you drive it. Okay, maybe maybe got with
Speaker 1: a bigger stick then Okay, we had a tandem bike.
Speaker 1: That's a pretty big bike. Real good point. Try fitting
Speaker 1: that bike into her trunk. Yeah, but Johnny, you know
Speaker 1: I am rooting for you in this. I just want
Speaker 1: to let you know I really hope that you get
Speaker 1: another date with this girl, and I hope that it
Speaker 1: just comes to the fact where she said that she
Speaker 1: was going to visit her parents, and maybe she extended
Speaker 1: her stay for two weeks and that's why she hasn't
Speaker 1: called you, Like I haven't felt this way about anybody
Speaker 1: in a long time. So hopefully that's the case. I mean,
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and get you back on that tandem
Speaker 1: bike yours crossed. Yeah, Yeah, that'd be sad. Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. I'm down the number. Hello, Hi, can
Speaker 1: I speak to Maya? Please? Hi? Yes, speaking Hi Maya.
Speaker 1: My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm hoping you have a second
Speaker 1: to talk with us. Okay, we're doing something called the
Speaker 1: Second Date Update. It's a segment we do on our
Speaker 1: show where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you
Speaker 1: can email us and we'll reach out to that person
Speaker 1: for you to try and figure out the reason why. Yeah. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you're calling me then, yes, that's how this works.
Speaker 1: And I'm calling you about a guy that you recently
Speaker 1: went out with. His name's Johnny. Oh okay, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to read your emotions and I'm having a hard
Speaker 1: time here. What did you think about Johnny? Um? I
Speaker 1: don't know. It was fine, m Yeah, because Johnny told
Speaker 1: us about your date a little bit, because he mentioned
Speaker 1: you guys got coffee together and went so well. According
Speaker 1: to him, that you went to a park and rode
Speaker 1: some tandem bikes and was that fun. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: the coffee was nice. Um, he told you a lot huh. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean he had a lot of kind things to
Speaker 1: say about you. He really thinks that you're a really
Speaker 1: special person. That's nice. I don't This is just weird
Speaker 1: for me that he told you about our date. I
Speaker 1: understand that he didn't share anything too personal. I mean,
Speaker 1: he just really wants to understand why you guys haven't
Speaker 1: gone out again. I mean, was there an incident that happened,
Speaker 1: or did he say something kind of weird or off pudding?
Speaker 1: I don't know if he told you that whole thing
Speaker 1: with the teenagers, Like there were these kids that were
Speaker 1: kind of giving us a bad time. Yeah, he told
Speaker 1: us about that, and then he threw a stick at
Speaker 1: them to defend your honor. Oh he told you that? Okay? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did that impress you? No, trying to beat up teenagers
Speaker 1: with a stick. Oh, you are quick to violence. I
Speaker 1: think I want another day. Yeah. I think I think
Speaker 1: he actually kind of regretted that a little bit, like
Speaker 1: he knew that that was maybe silly that he did that,
Speaker 1: but he wasn't trying to hurt anyone. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: it was like super weird when he did it. And
Speaker 1: then like we both like baseball and his throw was
Speaker 1: really wimpy. That was a more awkward part. To be
Speaker 1: honest with you, really, I mean that was a little throw.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I will say growing up playing baseball,
Speaker 1: it is kind of a manly sign if a guy
Speaker 1: can throw a base or a girl, like anybody like
Speaker 1: I would agree. Like watching someone who's bad at throwing
Speaker 1: a baseball throw it is maybe the most I mean,
Speaker 1: it's an instant turn off, like a limp wrist, a
Speaker 1: weird elbow, respect is gone, or like a weird grunt,
Speaker 1: like yeah, but give him a break. He was on
Speaker 1: a bicycle when he was throwing, right, it is, But
Speaker 1: is that really a reason to not call a guy
Speaker 1: back for a date? Well? No, I mean after we
Speaker 1: said goodbye, I was getting in my car and I
Speaker 1: saw him jogging back to the park, so I thought
Speaker 1: that he might go beat up one of the teenagers
Speaker 1: or something. No, no, please don't tell me he did that.
Speaker 1: Did you follow him? Did you drive around to see? Well,
Speaker 1: I kind of found a tree and I hid behind
Speaker 1: it and I was looking and he did go back
Speaker 1: to the group, and I got kind of scared, but
Speaker 1: instead of fighting with them, started vaping with them. Did
Speaker 1: you go out with an undercover teenager? Didn't know it? Je,
Speaker 1: Are you joking? I'm not joking, you're joking. He what
Speaker 1: the teenagers and was like chilling with them and passing
Speaker 1: around make which is like super rawberry clouds. Bro. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, So wait, what do you yeah, what do
Speaker 1: you think like he went back to like apologize and
Speaker 1: then that turned into like a love session or I
Speaker 1: don't know if he's like actually a really young guy
Speaker 1: and he like knew them and he just lied on
Speaker 1: the dating app. Like I don't know. I don't know either, Maya,
Speaker 1: But I do know one way we can find out. Okay,
Speaker 1: we can just ask him directly, because I need to
Speaker 1: tell you he's been on the other line listening and
Speaker 1: he heard everything that you just said. He's on the phone. Yeah, Johnny, Hey, oh,
Speaker 1: you weren't supposed to see that. That's really embarrassing. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I did do everything she said, but it's not what
Speaker 1: it seems like. I just wanted to make sure I
Speaker 1: didn't scare them so much. So I just wanted to
Speaker 1: go apologize and like a peace treaty, just smoke a
Speaker 1: little weight. Yeah, is that really what happened? Yeah. I
Speaker 1: just felt bad that they might be scared, and I
Speaker 1: didn't want that to turn into like a psychological issue
Speaker 1: for them where they're scared of going to the park
Speaker 1: that old man on a tandem bike might throw a
Speaker 1: stick gets done, Maya, what do you think I mean? Okay, So, hi, Johnny, um,
Speaker 1: how old are you? Like legitimately the dame age on
Speaker 1: my dating app. I wouldn't lie about like everything is
Speaker 1: true that I will say now that she brings it up, Johnny,
Speaker 1: you do sound kind of young. Yeah, and you brought
Speaker 1: her to a coffee shop. You guys didn't have alcohol,
Speaker 1: Like that's another indication. Are you twenty one? Do you
Speaker 1: have TikTok? I have twenty one and I do have TikTok?
Speaker 1: So how old are you? Johnny? I'm twenty five? What
Speaker 1: year were you born? Ah, You're not going to trick
Speaker 1: me with this? Like, I don't want to feel like
Speaker 1: this guy who's lying, Like, well, if you're twenty five,
Speaker 1: then you'll know what year you were born. I can't
Speaker 1: do the math. I trust, I know. I can't do
Speaker 1: the math. It doesn't matter, Maya, where are you at
Speaker 1: with this? Do you believe him? I mean, if you're
Speaker 1: not a teenager, why are you just vaping with random teenagers?
Speaker 1: Do you threw a stick at It's a lot of
Speaker 1: good look for a twenty five year old, bro, they
Speaker 1: were older teens. Yeah. I don't think that argument has
Speaker 1: ever held up in a court. A loan. I just
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure that we're okay. You know, I
Speaker 1: did throw a stick at them. It didn't hit them.
Speaker 1: I did throw it with full force. That's nice. I
Speaker 1: wanted to go back and just just you know, talk
Speaker 1: to them like, Yo, that's not cool what you did
Speaker 1: to me either. I mean, if that's true, it's kind
Speaker 1: I mean, you've got that right, Maya. Okay, I've tried.
Speaker 1: I really try. Here, She's like, yeah, it's kind of creepy.
Speaker 1: I mean, but if he's not lying you, guys, it
Speaker 1: is nice to be with someone who can make a
Speaker 1: mistake and then fix it or apologize for it immediately.
Speaker 1: That's a mature thing, it is. That's true. Well, at
Speaker 1: this point, I need to ask you, Maya, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out on a second date with Johnny.
Speaker 1: You guys can vape together on a tandem bike and
Speaker 1: then we'll pay for it. Yeah, Cliffing, I truly do
Speaker 1: not want to get in trouble legally or whatever for
Speaker 1: dating a kid. I can't believe what I'm hearing here.
Speaker 1: What if he could prove his birth date? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't want him showing up with a fake ID. No,
Speaker 1: thank you literally the worst, Like, first of all, thank
Speaker 1: you for the youthful compliment, but no, no fake ID needed. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're just gonna have his mom come and bring his
Speaker 1: birth certificate and then we'll show you in Burson. That way,
Speaker 1: it'll be easy because he still lives with her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed, so sorry, Johnny. I guess no matter what
Speaker 1: we say, she's not going to believe your age, and
Speaker 1: that means no date. Yeah. I thought we had something.
Speaker 1: Maybe go talk to your bros. It'll make you feel better.
Speaker 1: We did at each other on PS. Four, so yeah,