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Speaker 2: How embarrassing is love when it goes wrong in front

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Speaker 2: of everyone? Hey, welcome to the black Outs podcast, your

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Speaker 2: And also a very special day. Is your birthday?

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Speaker 2: And of course, you know, if you've never heard the show, Hi,

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Speaker 2: I'm Rod, I'm caring. Our greatest responsibility is to serve

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Speaker 2: The sharing of bias and false news has become all

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Speaker 3: But I wonder if there's like April Fool's Day porn.

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Speaker 2: Illustration of a woman telling the man, I turned in

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Speaker 5: One thing, A deal do ain't never raped me, you

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Speaker 3: And now you can raise someone with.

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Speaker 3: You know, no dick.

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Speaker 3: Attention's overrated as fuck. Clown can't pay no bills of attention.

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Speaker 2: Most people are stupid, so you end up interacting with

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Speaker 3: Their guns, and that's it.

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Speaker 2: It's like you can apply this altruism and logic to

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Speaker 3: I mean, now, you like having your gun.

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Speaker 2: You like that, You like that you can feel like

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Speaker 3: We don't even let kids drinking till their tenty one.

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Speaker 2: We don't even let kids voting to the eighteen, but

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I just I think a lot of this stuff,

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Speaker 2: You know I mean all that all that apology ship

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Speaker 2: what the fuck was that?

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Speaker 5: Dog?

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Speaker 3: You got us out here looking stupid?

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Speaker 5: Right, people gonna be out here fucking protesting us.

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Speaker 4: Like I said, you said what you said, but you

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Speaker 3: Down, right, So when they come for y'all a sudden

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Speaker 3: I just thought just interesting.

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Speaker 5: I read that, and I was really made me think

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Speaker 4: and you know, being in corporate America is just stressful enough.

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Speaker 5: And then y'all deal.

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Speaker 4: With with microaggression, bullshit and the place where you really

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Speaker 5: But it is so the older you, the older.

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Speaker 4: I've gotten, the better I've just all right, particularly my face,

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Speaker 4: So I've gotten better to quote unquote have more of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well this is less about that more about online stuff.

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Speaker 4: Right, But you know what's real, the hurt, the pain,

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Speaker 5: The confrontation is real.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 2: Also people are looking for people are looking online for solutions.

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Speaker 2: The shit that I think, honestly take it starts offline,

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, yeah, that's a true statement, particularly if you're like me.

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Speaker 4: I'm a lot better as I've gotten old, as I've

446
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 4: gotten older, But when I was younger, I used to

447
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 4: be a people pleaser. And I'm talking about to the

448
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 4: point where people you would just flat just use me

449
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:38,199
Speaker 4: and abuse me very bad. And if you're somebody like that,

450
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 4: you seek these things. You seek people approval, you see,

451
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 4: you want everybody like you. You know, you do things

452
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 4: to go out of your way when you actually shouldn't.

453
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Speaker 1: Uh.

454
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Speaker 4: And it's one of those things to where instead of

455
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 4: you realizing, I know, for me, instead of me realizing

456
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 4: that I was the problem, I would get mad at

457
00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 4: other people it's not their fault. And once I decided, hey,

458
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 4: I'm the common factor in all this, I removed myself.

459
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:12,959
Speaker 4: I restructured my life, and now I don't mind saying

460
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 4: we can't be cool. You know, I might not tell

461
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 4: you that, but I'm like, hey, we can live in

462
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 4: the same universe and be all right.

463
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

464
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Speaker 2: I think also, especially with online communities, there's also like

465
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 2: a community of people where the socialization and the reward

466
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 2: structure of the relationships are about reacting to shit. Yes,

467
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 2: so it's like this thing happened, you didn't react.

468
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 3: This way to this thing.

469
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 2: Therefore you don't care about this thing, or you don't

470
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 2: care about me, or you don't care about this relationship

471
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,919
Speaker 2: or whatever, and people check each other on that, like

472
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 2: they think that that currency applies to life. But the

473
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 2: thing is bad. Shit never stops happening. So you exhaust

474
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 2: yourself and a lot of it becomes performative because it's

475
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 2: like you have to be x amount of mad about

476
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 2: blank that you worry about blank, and it becomes this

477
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: thing where you didn't talk about this, You didn't say

478
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 2: that when you talked about it, you talk about as

479
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 2: long as you talked about this, you didn't do this

480
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 2: thing like And so I do think there's people that

481
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 2: find themselves kind of trapped in a structure of I

482
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 2: have to consistently be talking about and reacting to shit

483
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: all the time, and especially when it's something that happens

484
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 2: to you, like it affects your group. You know how

485
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 2: many black people in just the last year or so

486
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 2: have you seen be Like, man, I can't keep reacting

487
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 2: to all this like black death, all this videos of

488
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,199
Speaker 2: people getting killed by the police and shit, like I

489
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:48,239
Speaker 2: can't be up for this every day because it'll I

490
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 2: have to concentrate on some of the good things. I

491
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 2: have to concentrate on some things for my personal sanity

492
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 2: or also I drive myself insane.

493
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Speaker 3: Yes you will.

494
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Speaker 4: Like I said, everybody's different, and they body. I feel

495
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 4: like it's all for mental health.

496
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,719
Speaker 5: I know me and how I function.

497
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 4: I tapped out a lot of that shit a long

498
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 4: time ago. It don't meet I don't care. But I'm

499
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 4: not watching no video. You know that's just me. I

500
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 4: don't have to see it to believe it. I don't

501
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 4: have to hear it to believe it. You know, everybody's different.

502
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 4: But watching that stuff and watching somebody's life slowly goes away,

503
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 4: it chips at you. You can't sit here and tell

504
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 4: me that it does not slowly chip at you, because

505
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 4: the person dying is real, and I think everybody responds

506
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 4: to that differently. So I can see some people getting

507
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 4: to the point where they just I will still respond

508
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 4: to things, but I can't respond to everything, and a

509
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 4: lot of times for your own mental health and people

510
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 4: that's like, if you're not outraged about everything, you're not

511
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 4: outraged about anything, And that's not a true statement.

512
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 2: I'm slowly learning that not reacting doesn't mean I'm okay

513
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 2: with things. It just means I'm choosing their rise above it.

514
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 2: I'm choosing to take the lesson they has served and

515
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 2: learned from it, choosing to be the bigger person. I'm

516
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 2: choosing my piece of mind because it's what I truly need.

517
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 2: I don't need more drama. I don't need people making

518
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 2: me feel like I'm not good enough. I don't need

519
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 2: fights and arguments and fake connections. I'm slowly learning that

520
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 2: sometimes not saying anything, it all says everything correct. Yeah,

521
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 2: I mean, that's definitely a that's definitely a thing. It

522
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 2: comes with maturity, man, especially in personal relationships like that,

523
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 2: because there's been times where like someone pisses me off

524
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I can air this nigga out if

525
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 2: I want to, and everybody will side with me, because

526
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,360
Speaker 2: everybody will be like, yes, that was fucked up, blah blah.

527
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 3: That's what the anger tells you in your head.

528
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 2: But it's not the truth, right because you almost every

529
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 2: human being you interact with, especially if you find them

530
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 2: to be reasonable, if you have a relationship with them,

531
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 2: they have their side of things and you got yours.

532
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 2: And most people ain't really interested in litigating who was

533
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 2: right and wrong anyway that and there's gonna always be

534
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 2: somebody that doesn't think you were right, so you will

535
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 2: have done nothing but air it out your dirty laundry,

536
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,360
Speaker 2: air it out their dirty laundry for no reason, because

537
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 2: most people aren't gonna be like that was clearly wrong.

538
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 2: Most people are about as faithful to morality as the

539
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 2: people they like. So if people like you more, guess

540
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 2: what they gonna see YOUU side of it. If people

541
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 2: like them more, they gonna see they side of it.

542
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 2: If people you know, the contrary, Nigga's gonna gonna pick

543
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 2: the contrarian point of view, Like all you did was

544
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 2: just exhaust a bunch of energy to a bunch of

545
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 2: people that ultimately don't give a fuck.

546
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 5: They don't care you are a form of entertainment.

547
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, we used to have stuff like people would talk

548
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 2: bad about us on the podcast, and I mean it's

549
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 2: like I said, it's a maturity thing because there used

550
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 2: to be times I'm like I need to confront this issue.

551
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:36,919
Speaker 2: I need to tell people out side of this stuff

552
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 2: like this is fucked up. And ultimately it's like everybody

553
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 2: that that fuck with you and that that sees the

554
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 2: fucked upness of it, they already know, like they're already like, yeah,

555
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 2: you're right, and we know you're right.

556
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 3: We saw what happened.

557
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 2: And everybody that don't fuck with you and don't agree

558
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: with you, guess what they just they not fucking with

559
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 2: you and not agree with you, right, so changes right,

560
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 2: even if they feel like you got a point, they

561
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 2: never gonna come to you and be like you got

562
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 2: a point. Man, I actually used to feel this way,

563
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: but now I feel that way about you for the

564
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 2: most part. They not gonna fuck with you still. That's

565
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 2: just kind of how it is. And in the meantime,

566
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: at the center of all this, you've expended all this

567
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,199
Speaker 2: wasted energy, right that you could have been using for

568
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 2: yourself and.

569
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 4: Putting it into positive things and just enjoying life, because

570
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 4: a lot of times you can get so wrapped up

571
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 4: in stuff that it's small and simple things that happen

572
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 4: around you, and actually joyous things that happen around you,

573
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 4: but you can be so wrapped up in your own

574
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 4: world you'll miss these joyous things because you're so focused

575
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 4: on pulling that you're energy, your time, and your effort

576
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 4: into something that's not fruitful. And a lot of times

577
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 4: a simple conversation most of the time can actually end

578
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 4: and squash a lot of confrontation that you have with

579
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 4: most people.

580
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 2: I'm slowly learning that reacting to things that upset you

581
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 2: give someone else's power over your emotions. You can't control

582
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 2: what others do, but you can't control how you respond

583
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 2: and how you handle, how you perceive it, and how

584
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,719
Speaker 2: much of it you want to take personally. I'm slowly

585
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 2: learning that most of the time, these situations say nothing

586
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 2: about you and a lot about the other person. I'm

587
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 2: slowly learning that maybe all these disappointments are just there

588
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 2: to teach us how to love ourselves, because that will

589
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 2: be the armor and the shield we need against the

590
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 2: people who try to bring us down.

591
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 3: That's true too, man.

592
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 2: I feel like, especially being able to do this podcast

593
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 2: and like it has taught me some I've had more

594
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 2: time to be able to love on myself and take

595
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 2: care of myself and think about, you know, how I

596
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 2: want to react to things and think like and to

597
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 2: have like a level of confidence that I definitely that

598
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 2: you just don't get when you're being worn down by

599
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 2: the world every single day, and it does put a

600
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 2: lot of shit into perspective. Well, I'm just like that's

601
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 2: not important or I'm not gonna let this thing get

602
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 2: to me. It's not as big a deal as I

603
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 2: thought it was. You know, stuff like that, when you

604
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 2: know it would have been a time where I would

605
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 2: have been angry about something, or sad about something or

606
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 2: disappointed about something. It doesn't mean you don't feel those emotions,

607
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 2: but not to the point that they interrupt my life,

608
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 2: Like it used to feel that way with certain things,

609
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 2: where I'm like, why can't I make this person understand?

610
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 2: And then you get to a point where like, I'm

611
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 2: a good person. I do the best I can.

612
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 3: I'm you know, I.

613
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 2: Operate the way I operate be and everybody ain't gonna

614
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 2: be friends me and everybody ain't gonna get along, and

615
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 2: I can only control my side of that.

616
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 4: Right and particularly if you know that you are a

617
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 4: reasonable and logical person.

618
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 3: Everyone thinks they are though.

619
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Speaker 5: That's true.

620
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 4: That's true, that's true. Yeah, And that goes back to

621
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 4: most people are assholes. I will continue to say that

622
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 4: everybody thinks they're a good person, even a lot of

623
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 4: times when they're not. But you know, from my perspective,

624
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 4: I can I said that from you from my perspective

625
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 4: if I know I acted reasonably, because sometimes I'm like, oh, yeah,

626
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 4: I fucked up, Yeah that was me. That was me,

627
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 4: you know, But you have to have a sider you

628
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 4: that understand you fucked up. But you have some people

629
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 4: that they're fucking nunatics where they go everything is everybody

630
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 4: else's fault. And I never do nothing wrong because I

631
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 4: am always right because it's about me.

632
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 5: You're insane, you know, does just keep that? People don't

633
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 5: want admit that.

634
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 4: And when you come against people like that, when you

635
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 4: have that's what said, you can't have a conversation. You

636
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 4: can have a conversation with most people don't squash it,

637
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 4: but people like that you can't have a conversation with

638
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 4: because they've already determined that they're right and you wrong,

639
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 4: and you got to let that shit go.

640
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think also it's an ugly thing for

641
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 2: people to hear because a lot of times people feel

642
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 2: when people say stuff like this to other people, it's

643
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 2: normally to be dismissive, correct, like, oh, well you chose

644
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 2: to be offended by that or some shit like that,

645
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 2: And you're like, now you're trying to belittle mindfucking emotions

646
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 2: in my.

647
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 3: Humanity, like it doesn't count and all that stuff.

648
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 2: And I don't think it's about that, but I do

649
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 2: think you controlling your reactions and controlling the the way

650
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 2: you react to things and perceive things. That is on

651
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 2: your side of the things you get to do in

652
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 2: your life, you get to control that. And a lot

653
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 2: of times, you know, we should always be allowed to

654
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 2: be human, But a lot of times you have to

655
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 2: look at why you're repeating to certain patterns. Yes, you know,

656
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 2: like if every six months, we're gonna every three to

657
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 2: four months, we're gonna have a the Breakfast Club did

658
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: an interview that was terrible and everyone needs to boycott

659
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: them and shut them down. And why are they even

660
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 2: on the radio If every three months we're gonna have that,

661
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 2: I don't need to be involved because they're not going anywhere.

662
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter what they say, and ultimately what they

663
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 2: say is just their opinions.

664
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 3: It doesn't affect my life.

665
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 2: And honestly, most people are gonna continue to keep listening

666
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 2: to watching.

667
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 3: Even though I don't.

668
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 2: Yes, they are, so every time they do something it

669
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 2: will be newsworthy because there's a lot of people either

670
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 2: lying or a lot of people that to in for

671
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 2: the car Wreck episodes while saying that they shouldn't do

672
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 2: them right.

673
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 3: But the only time you click play on that YouTube video.

674
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: The only time you share it, the only time you

675
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 2: talk about it, the only time you raise them up

676
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 2: is when something fucked up happens. I mean, I don't

677
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 2: know how many episodes they do a week or a year,

678
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 2: but let's say they do two hundred if one hundred

679
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 2: and seventy five of those interviews and all that stuff

680
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 2: go fine by most standards, like nothing controversial happens. They

681
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 2: do a good interview, maybe they say some quote unquote questionable,

682
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 2: problematic shit, but not enough for people to get mad.

683
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 2: But they have five interviews a year that piss everybody off.

684
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 2: The five interviews a year are the ones that keep

685
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 2: the one hundred and whatever boring interviews.

686
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 3: That's what keeps them floating. Yep, you know what I mean.

687
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 3: I've and like I had to understand that.

688
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 2: I start understanding that till like last year, and I'm like, oh, yeah,

689
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 2: why is everybody so mad about blankety blank when they're

690
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 2: like nothing's going to be done about them? But also

691
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 2: that Nigga gets to say his stupid ass opinion and

692
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 2: you have to step back and be like, that's his

693
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 2: stupid ass opinion. But it doesn't have to affect mine.

694
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 2: You know, it doesn't have to make me mad, it

695
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 2: doesn't have to make me react. It doesn't like we

696
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 2: knew they were stupid before this shit started. You can

697
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 2: think they're stupid, you can think they're brilliant. You can

698
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: do whatever you want to. But the reaction part is

699
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 2: on you. You know what I mean, all the histrionics,

700
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,879
Speaker 2: all the we not gonna do this, that, and the other.

701
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 2: I just think I've been trying to approach things like

702
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 2: that because the unspoken part of this is all this

703
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 2: acting out and shit, it gets to you. It's energy

704
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 2: that you're giving up for things that should matter to you.

705
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 2: Your home life, your diet, your exercise, your planning out

706
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 2: for you know, your business shit, your your career, your

707
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 2: job stuff, your you know, your family time, like all

708
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 2: the stuff that we just expend this energy and the

709
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 2: energy we're all finite resources. You spend that energy all day,

710
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 2: you know, making a point about something that people don't

711
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: really want to listen to, and.

712
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 3: Then bam, you get home. You got a headache. You're like,

713
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 3: where does headache come?

714
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: Right?

715
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 4: You get home, you're sick, you get home, you're burning

716
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 4: a fever. Like because that stuff actually physically affects your body, right,

717
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 4: and you know, and for me, it's just one of

718
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 4: those things where I deal with enough of stuff in

719
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 4: real life, you know, and it's one of those things.

720
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 4: But I'm not gonna be stressed out about something if

721
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 4: I think about it long enough, at the end of

722
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 4: the day, ain't gonna motherfucking matter.

723
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then also taking it back to real life

724
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 2: quote unquote the personal that's also kind of a Zen approach,

725
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 2: but it's kind of how you have to deal with.

726
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 3: Personal shit too, Yes, sir, you know what I mean.

727
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 2: You have somebody that gets mad at you, you have

728
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 2: somebody that confronts you about some shit and that you're like, hey,

729
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 2: that's not what happened whatever. At some point, there's nothing

730
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 2: I can do, right, and so I gotta let that

731
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 2: person go through whatever the fuck they going through. I

732
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 2: can only control my side of it, Like, I'm not

733
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 2: gonna escalate it. I'm not gonna get the physical about it.

734
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna harass you, I'm not gonna.

735
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 3: Seek you out.

736
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna fucking like, nah, you work through whatever

737
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 2: the fuck you gotta work through, and I'll be here

738
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 2: chilling the way I was chilling before whenever you arrive.

739
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 2: But I've controlled I've done the part that I can do.

740
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 2: You know, that's an important think lesson to learn. It's

741
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 2: just you learn it when you learn it.

742
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 4: Right, And different people learn at different ages and different

743
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 4: people learn at different times. And yeah, I try my

744
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 4: best in most situations to really approach things like that,

745
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 4: because no, I can't control you, But what I can control.

746
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 5: Is how I respond to you.

747
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 4: What I can control is how much of my life

748
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 4: do I invest in you.

749
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 5: That's what I can control.

750
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 4: Because I even have like real life family members to

751
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 4: be on that bullshit, I'd be like, I'm good.

752
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 2: Right, And what's wild for me is that a lot

753
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 2: of this realization for me, you seems so silly to say,

754
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 2: but I'm so serious, came from from Lipstick Alley man.

755
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 2: When you just see like the I remember when people

756
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 2: had that Bourbon Bos shit and that there was like

757
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 2: threads on listick Alley that people were like linking to

758
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 2: and screenshotting, and they were mad at Listic, like don't

759
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 2: talk about me, motherfucker. And I'm like, wow, like you

760
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 2: know they're gonna talk about you anyway. Yes, you can

761
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 2: either react or don't react that's the only choices you get.

762
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 2: But it's not like they're just gonna laugh at the

763
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 2: fact that you reacted, you know, like and they're gonna

764
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 2: be like, and the reason your business is over here

765
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 2: is because either we know it or someone said it

766
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 2: or something like this, Like we're just laughing at you,

767
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: the way you laugh at love and hip hop every Monday,

768
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 2: you know. And it's I'm not saying that it's not

769
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 2: cruel or whatever.

770
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 3: I'm sure I mean.

771
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 2: And you know, as someone who's been the sub you know,

772
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:53,320
Speaker 2: what we do for a living, we've been the subject

773
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 2: of people that have either been trolled or been cruel

774
00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:00,320
Speaker 2: or been like you know, the most unconscious, meanest version

775
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 2: of like how they feel about you or whatever. And

776
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 2: you just have to learn, like at some point, like

777
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 2: I can either fight fight, feed this, feed this, or

778
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 2: not feed it, you know. And I think that's one

779
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 2: of the things that happens also just in life.

780
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 3: You either feed that shit or you cannot feed that shit.

781
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 3: You know.

782
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 2: Like, Oh, me and this person when I play basketball,

783
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 2: we talked me and justin talking about this all the

784
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 2: time on pregame. I have a positive attitude of the

785
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 2: basketball court for most part, and it's but it's mostly

786
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 2: just because I want to have a good time, and

787
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 2: so I bring it into the room with me rather

788
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 2: than let the room dictate how I'm gonna feel that day. Come,

789
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, So I'll like, I'll tell justin.

790
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 2: I know it sounds some hippie shit, but I mean it.

791
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: It's like we all have big ass like spears around us,

792
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 2: like our spear of influence, and I try to keep

793
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:56,280
Speaker 2: mind positive, and I think our energies affect other people's energies,

794
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 2: and we bring in a positive energy you normally can

795
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 2: you can take some it's negative and turn them positive.

796
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 3: You know.

797
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 2: It's like it's kind of like how people online can

798
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 2: feel one way, but when they meet you in real life,

799
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 2: they don't say that shit because they can feel it.

800
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 4: They like, this.

801
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 2: Person is not the bad guy I painted them to

802
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 2: be in my head. But I need them to be

803
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 2: that because whatever's not happening in my life, I need enemies.

804
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 3: I need bad people.

805
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 2: I need someone to blame everything, or I need somebody

806
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 2: to I need to look at your opinions and match

807
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,840
Speaker 2: them up to mind and take you to task for them,

808
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 2: and shit like that. When the end of the day,

809
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 2: it's like, there's only so much you can do, only

810
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 2: so much you can do. And what I've realized, particularly

811
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 2: about life and living, if you live long enough, somebody's

812
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 2: gonna always have something to say about you.

813
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 5: But the fact that you breathe, somebody's.

814
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 4: Gonna always have something positive or negative to say about you.

815
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 4: And a lot of people have not come to the

816
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 4: realization that a lot of the negative shit people say

817
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 4: about you, you have to let it go because a

818
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 4: lot of the energy that you wasted to that negativity

819
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 4: is in that is spent into something that is not

820
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 4: for you. And a lot of times when you waste

821
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,760
Speaker 4: energy searching and seeking and calling people out and causing

822
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 4: these confrontations with people off of something negative that they

823
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 4: said about you, all it does it feeds that negativity

824
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 4: and it affects your life. It makes you sad and

825
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 4: makes you depressed because you're feeding into a lot of

826
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 4: that negative energy. So I had to learn that people

827
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 4: are going to talk about me no matter what. I

828
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 4: can't control what they say. I can't control what they do.

829
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 4: I can't control that. And since I can't control that,

830
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 4: what I can control is how I respond to those things.

831
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, also the you make that person powerful when you

832
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 2: center on the fact that they don't approve, or they

833
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 2: don't interact, or they won't let you know whatever, like

834
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 2: their judgment of you, You make them powerful, right.

835
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: You know.

836
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 2: It's like how people use guilt as a weapon, as

837
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 2: folks like you didn't do this, you didn't do that. Okay, Well,

838
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 2: then think I'm a bad person. You know what, because

839
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 2: if that's what you need to think, you need to

840
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 2: look at me and think that I'm some type of

841
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 2: bad person, your enemy. I'm fucked up, I'm not perfect,

842
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 2: I'm flagged. Think that because you'll find freedom in that.

843
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 2: But more importantly, I have found freedom knowing that I

844
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,359
Speaker 2: did the best I could and you just didn't like it,

845
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 2: you know. And when I realized that, it's not just

846
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 2: for me, by the way, it's it's how I've tried

847
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 2: to view other people, you know. It's why you know,

848
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 2: to some people, they might think I'm more forgiving or whatever,

849
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 2: but I'm not really just it's not evenbout being more forgiven.

850
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 2: It's just about the idea of like how much power

851
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 2: am I gonna give one person?

852
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 5: Come out?

853
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

854
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 2: Like, oh, so and so got to be the speaker

855
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 2: at this event and not and they didn't pick so

856
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 2: and so. How much power am I gonna give this

857
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 2: one person. I can't give them all the power, you

858
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 2: know what I mean. I have to at some point,

859
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 2: I have to be like, well, that's a choice that

860
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 2: was made and I'm still gonna make my black ass

861
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 2: life the best I can.

862
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 3: You know.

863
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 2: The other thing I would bring up, I remember when

864
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: I used to my last job I had, and I

865
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 2: remember talking about this on the show at the time,

866
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 2: and I didn't have the words for it at the time,

867
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 2: but I think I do now, which is that I

868
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 2: hated that job. It's very depression, is very demeaning, but

869
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 2: I just changed my attitude about it, you know, Like

870
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: I would go to work and I would be like, well,

871
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be positive despite the fact that everyone else

872
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 2: at this job hates his job. It wasn't just me,

873
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 2: you know. My boss acted like he hated his job.

874
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,320
Speaker 2: No one there loved what they were doing. Nobody, And

875
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 2: I think it freaked people out a little bit because

876
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 2: we would get like, hey, we have emergency over time

877
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,800
Speaker 2: this weekend. We have to do this thing for the weekend,

878
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 2: and it's gonna be this much people required and everybody.

879
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 2: If we do it, it could be anywhere from five to

880
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 2: eight hours. Da da da dah over time blah blah.

881
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 2: And we get this email and you can look down

882
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 2: the roller cubicles and everything.

883
00:42:58,560 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 3: Everybody's like, fuck.

884
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,760
Speaker 5: Mm on my weekend.

885
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not gonna be able to do something Saturday morning.

886
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 3: I'm not you know.

887
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 2: You know, people try to ask out, Oh, I want

888
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 2: to do this day, I want to do that thing,

889
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 2: and so I and I hated it too. I mean,

890
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. But then I just remember one

891
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 2: time they asked, and I was like, wouldn't in my

892
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 2: head this is exactly I went, wouldn't it be funny

893
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: if I really wanted to come in and do this work,

894
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,959
Speaker 2: I would kind of be trolling people because I don't

895
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 2: really want to do it. But I'm gonna just make

896
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 2: it positive. So I was started being like, hey, we

897
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 2: get to work Saturday, man, I get to see y'all

898
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 2: extra day.

899
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 3: I can't wait.

900
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 2: And they would laugh, you know, cause they I was joking, correct,

901
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,439
Speaker 2: But it also made it more of a positive thing,

902
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I started bringing in like

903
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 2: Chick fil a Mini biscuits. I bring in donuts sometimes.

904
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 2: So now not in addition to like coming in at

905
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 2: seven o'clock on a Saturday, I'm getting up at like

906
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 2: six fifteen on a Saturday or whatever, leaving hours of

907
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 2: six fifteen, stopping by Chick fil A, ordering Chick fil

908
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,439
Speaker 2: a biscuits enough for the six seven whatever.

909
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 3: People showed up and just like everybody here.

910
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 2: Have a biscuit you want, you want, And people were like,

911
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 2: you know what, thanks, you know what I mean, because

912
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 2: we gotta be there anyway. We are getting paid time

913
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:20,799
Speaker 2: and a half, you know, which was you know, good

914
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 2: people need the money and stuff and the and it's

915
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 2: not like if we do a shitty job, we're gonna

916
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 2: be any We'll just be in there next weekend. Let's

917
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 2: just come in there and do the best we can.

918
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: And so I've changed it in my mind to be

919
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 2: a positive thing. And uh, and it didn't happen like

920
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 2: it's probably like once every two or three months we'd

921
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,399
Speaker 2: have to do one of these Saturdays. But every time

922
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 2: I was just like, fuck it, yes, I'm doing it.

923
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 2: I uh, we're gonna have a good time and whatnot.

924
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 2: And and you know, I could tell from my coworkers.

925
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 2: I could tell from even the boss that they was

926
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 2: appreciative of the fact that it was like, yeah.

927
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 3: We don't have to be miserable.

928
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 2: You know, we had a conference call we used to do,

929
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 2: would call from India and so they would speak English,

930
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 2: but they had Indian accents, right, you know, you know

931
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 2: we're looking at through report, my friend, you know like that, right,

932
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 2: And so I had a.

933
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 3: Positive attitude about it.

934
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 2: But the people at my job, they were very xenophobic,

935
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 2: very xenophobic.

936
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 3: And you know, I.

937
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 2: Brought it up in the in the comngress call a

938
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 2: couple of times because then like after the commerce cam,

939
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 2: we had like another five minutes of all the American

940
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 2: workers just shitting on the Indian workers.

941
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 3: Like I can't understand nothing. They be saying da da

942
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 3: da da. And I said, I can understandish, I said this.

943
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 2: I said, the same way I can understand person with

944
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 2: a Southern accent, like they just got an accent. But

945
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 2: we know what they're talking about because we're all talking

946
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 2: about the same shit at work. I don't understand why

947
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 2: y'all can't understand. And my thing was, oh, they just

948
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 2: have a negative attitude. They don't want to understand them.

949
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 2: They want to go. These people are different, they're working

950
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 2: for less money than us, they're taking our jobs, you know,

951
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 2: that kind of shit. And that was the end all

952
00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 2: be all of it. So I actually became the lion

953
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 2: hunt for the meeting. As if I learned how to

954
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 2: speak like fucking bangla that shiit or whatever, I didn't.

955
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,320
Speaker 3: They were just speaking English with an accent.

956
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 2: I just just I just was determined not to let

957
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 2: it be a negative experience. So I would go in

958
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 2: the meeting and be like, uh, you know, they were like,

959
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 2: you know, we do have the reports. They would just

960
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 2: be there by five or whatever, and they'd be like,

961
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,439
Speaker 2: what do you say? What like they hit the mute

962
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 2: on there and look at me like what do you say?

963
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 2: What kind of And I'm like, y'all know, y'all.

964
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 3: Understood that shit. But I'd like, yeah, they're gonna have

965
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 3: the reports. They'll be in about five. You know.

966
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 2: Every once while he gets on with a thick accent,

967
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:33,919
Speaker 2: you like, hey, can you repeat that again?

968
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,359
Speaker 3: You know? And when I say can I repeat? Can

969
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 3: they repeat that thing again?

970
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 2: They would mute out side of the conversation, look at me

971
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 2: make a face like don't you hate this. I'm like, nah,

972
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 2: it's it's a little reprieve from my desk job.

973
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 5: You got to be here.

974
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 2: I got thirty minutes to come in here. We're actually

975
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 2: accomplishing something. This is gonna make our jobs easier. The

976
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 2: better they understand what we do, the better we understand

977
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 2: what they do. You know, because they had, you know,

978
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 2: the different places in the countries, so they work in

979
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 2: a different shift. We come in the morning, boom, They

980
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 2: already did all that stuff. They did it the way

981
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 2: we wanted to. It was all a positive experience to me.

982
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 2: But I really am convinced it is just an attitude change.

983
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: It wasn't a It wasn't some like oh these you know,

984
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 2: like our rock is the is that the Indian whisper? No,

985
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 2: it wasn't that, you know. But yeah, back on this

986
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 2: when they said you gotta love take that. I'm slowly

987
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 2: learning that maybe all these disappointments are just that to

988
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 2: teachers how to love ourselves, because that will be the

989
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 2: armor in the shield we need against people try to

990
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 2: bring us down. They will save us when people try

991
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 2: to shake our confidence or when they try to make

992
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 2: us feel like we're worthless. I'm slowly learning that even

993
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 2: if I react, it won't change anything. It won't make

994
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:46,240
Speaker 2: people suddenly love me and respect me, and it won't

995
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 2: magically change their minds.

996
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 3: That's a word. Sometimes it's better to just let things be,

997
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 3: let people go.

998
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 2: Don't fight for closure, don't ask for explanations, don't chase

999
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 2: answers that don't expect people to understand where you're coming from.

1000
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 5: Come on, don't fight for closure.

1001
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 4: It is there's so many people out there listening to

1002
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:06,879
Speaker 4: my voice right now. You have given somebody control over

1003
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 4: your life because I'm.

1004
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 5: Being guilty of this.

1005
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,840
Speaker 4: Because you won't motherfucking closure, get your ass up and

1006
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 4: god damn shut that door and move on with your

1007
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 4: motherfucking life, because there will never.

1008
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,719
Speaker 5: Give you the closure that you won't. You won't close it.

1009
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 5: I will.

1010
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:23,800
Speaker 4: There's a lot of doors that I've had to close,

1011
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 4: a lot of windows that I've had to close in

1012
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 4: my life because I said, I can't be sitting here

1013
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 4: fucking waiting on you to give me some closure and

1014
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:35,320
Speaker 4: to apologize. I got to do it for myself. Sometimes

1015
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 4: that closure is you, because you act like they're the

1016
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 4: only person that can move and shift the situation. You

1017
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 4: can too, and I'm saying this because I know people

1018
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 4: listen to my voice. Right now, you're hurting and you're

1019
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,839
Speaker 4: in pain for various different things because somebody has done

1020
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 4: something to you.

1021
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 5: Get your ass up and close it.

1022
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 3: Yourself, right, and not to mention.

1023
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 2: Like people that are emotionally manipulative and emotionally abusive, they

1024
00:48:59,040 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 2: know what they're doing.

1025
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 3: They take the.

1026
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 2: Closure from you, right, you know what I mean. They

1027
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 2: want to make sure that you don't get it because

1028
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 2: they know that people need that or we feel like

1029
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 2: we need that. But closure is you know, closure is

1030
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: what you make it.

1031
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 5: It's what you make it.

1032
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 2: I might not get that conversation I feel I deserve.

1033
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 2: I might not get that reasoning. I might not get

1034
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,280
Speaker 2: the chance to discuss whatever went wrong.

1035
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 3: It's what I make it. It's where I choose to

1036
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:24,600
Speaker 3: put it down.

1037
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 2: So if I say, look, I've done everything I can

1038
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 2: with this, I'm putting it down.

1039
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 3: I'm not throwing back. That was it.

1040
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 2: That was the closure. You know, people really rely on

1041
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 2: that shit. They come back to you months later, they

1042
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,280
Speaker 2: come back to you and say, shit like nothing ever happened.

1043
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 2: Nah fuck that it was done when you decided that

1044
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 2: you didn't want to participate in what we were done

1045
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 2: then and while you were gone, I closed it. I

1046
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 2: had I got my closure. You gotta figure out how

1047
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 2: to get yours, because I'm not gonna let it. Like

1048
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 2: I said, I don't want to give you that power

1049
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 2: because as long as I'm seeking something from you, I

1050
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 2: a always You'll always have power in my life. And

1051
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:03,959
Speaker 2: that's one of the reasons people don't want to give

1052
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 2: you closure. That's one of the reason people don't want

1053
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,800
Speaker 2: to have those the conversations we all talk about needing

1054
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 2: all That's one of the reason they don't want to

1055
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 2: give it to you because then you are fucking around

1056
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,240
Speaker 2: them and not need something from them.

1057
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 3: As long as you need that closure, then you need me,

1058
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 3: you know. So yeah, I peace it is closed. You know,

1059
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:23,359
Speaker 3: do your thing right.

1060
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 4: And going back to something you said before about the

1061
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:30,879
Speaker 4: manipulation you know, and I'm saying this from personal relationships

1062
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 4: and relationships family members. It's one of those things where

1063
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,280
Speaker 4: like you've be in situation and somebody will say something

1064
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 4: sideways to you or say something very negative to you,

1065
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 4: and a lot of times the family members sometimes.

1066
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 5: Are some of the people that you need to close

1067
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 5: those doors on.

1068
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 4: You need to close the doors quicker on them, a

1069
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 4: lot of times faster than anybody else, because they know you,

1070
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 4: and they will keep stringing you along, and they will

1071
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 4: keep sucking up your life, and they will keep messing

1072
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 4: with your children's life and all this stuff.

1073
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 5: Sometimes you got to close them doors.

1074
00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 4: But like, I got shit to do, and I will not.

1075
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 4: I'm tired do you talk about my weight every time

1076
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 4: I see you. I'm tired of you talk about how

1077
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 4: I dress my kids and how my kids hair is combed,

1078
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:08,959
Speaker 4: or how you don't like my natural hair.

1079
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 5: I'm tired of that. Like, you have to get to

1080
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 5: the point.

1081
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 4: Where you actually close the door and don't allow them

1082
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 4: to have that power.

1083
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 2: And it doesn't always have to be something negative, No,

1084
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,879
Speaker 2: it doesn't. I mean, cause, like I said, people I've

1085
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: done I've seen people do this thing where they do

1086
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 2: something fucked up to you. They don't talk about it,

1087
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 2: they don't want to whatever. Write six months later it's hey,

1088
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 2: what's up how you doing? It's a oh man, you

1089
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 2: coming to this party?

1090
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:38,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, bruh. We don't talk.

1091
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:42,359
Speaker 2: We're not friends, and like we're not cool. You you

1092
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? You did something fucked up.

1093
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 2: We never had a conversation about it. We like, we

1094
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:51,439
Speaker 2: don't communicate like that. You just move on and wipe

1095
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 2: the slate clean and whatever. I can't expect or wait

1096
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 2: on that from you, and I don't want to set

1097
00:51:56,600 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 2: myself up for that again, so I control my actions now.

1098
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 2: So it's like, all right, cool, you pop back up.

1099
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 2: I'm not really fucking with you. I'm not angry at you.

1100
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 2: There's no animosity. I'm not trying to do anything to you.

1101
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 2: I wanna fight you. I'm not gonna talk bad about you.

1102
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 5: Nope.

1103
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 3: But I don't have to allow you back in my life.

1104
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 3: I see how you operate. We're cool.

1105
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 2: That's like, I'm good on that. That's kind of what

1106
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:21,800
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Like the power you give somebody is because

1107
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 2: there's other people that would be like, oh my god,

1108
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 2: you're speaking again. This is the opportunity for us to

1109
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 2: eventually get to the discussion where we can figure out

1110
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 2: what happened. No, No, that's just giving them the power back.

1111
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 4: Right, And also it's one of those things. But the

1112
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 4: transaction doesn't always have to be a negative transaction, Like

1113
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 4: you can actually still be at peace and cool with

1114
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 4: the person at the end of the transaction, particularly if

1115
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 4: you are the one that dig the closure.

1116
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm slowly learning that life is better live when

1117
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 2: you don't center it on what's happening around you and

1118
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:54,279
Speaker 2: centering on what's happening inside you instead, come on, work

1119
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 2: on yourself, and you're in a peace, and you'll come

1120
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 2: to unders realize that not reacting every little thing that

1121
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 2: bothers you is the first ingredient living a happy and

1122
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 2: healthy life. Yeah, man, I just I think that's a

1123
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 2: big part of it. I think, you know, when you

1124
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 2: add in social media to it, and how there's a

1125
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 2: social capital in reacting all the time and everything gotta

1126
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 2: be like a dramatic fucking like, let me write seventeen

1127
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 2: paragraphs about yeah, why this thing happened or whatnot, Like

1128
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:24,280
Speaker 2: you know, that's something to it. Also, I do value

1129
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 2: the platform we have so a lot of conversations. I'm

1130
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 2: able to take here and talk to you about it

1131
00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 2: and react with our audience.

1132
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 3: And I don't feel as.

1133
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 2: Like there's so many people trying to make sure there's

1134
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 2: a misunderstanding, you know, as opposed to you know, sometimes

1135
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 2: the social media sometimes when people you don't know and

1136
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 2: all the shit you don't have as much leeway.

1137
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 3: But you know, I'm glad to have this.

1138
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 2: We're very fortunate to be able to come here and

1139
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 2: say that kind of you know, to be like, this

1140
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 2: is how I feel about.

1141
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 4: This thing, right, and everything that you're reading is true

1142
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 4: because doing a.

1143
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 5: Lot of these ys we've been talking about will actually make.

1144
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 4: You a better person. And you know what you'll start doing.

1145
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 4: You'll start being happier, You'll start considering your health, You'll

1146
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 4: start being more intimate with your mate or your significant other.

1147
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 4: You'll start spending more time with your kids. You'll actually

1148
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 4: go reach out and start you'll have time for family

1149
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 4: members that you really love that you don't get to

1150
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 4: talk to. You know, your old aunts and uncles that

1151
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 4: ain't on Facebook or Twitter, and the only way you

1152
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:26,919
Speaker 4: can communicate with.

1153
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 5: Them you have to take your ass over there and

1154
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 5: see them.

1155
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 4: You can find the time to do that now because

1156
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 4: you're not putting the energy into fruitless conversations and into

1157
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 4: fruitless relationships.

1158
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 5: Well.

1159
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 3: Also, just.

1160
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 2: There's a level of like you just have to accept

1161
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 2: that shit just ain't fair, right, It's just not gonna

1162
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 2: work out every time. It's not a sitcom, it's not

1163
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 2: a We all learned a lesson and thirty minutes later

1164
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 2: it's neatly wrapped up.

1165
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 3: A lot of.

1166
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 2: Times, it's just people are broken, fragile, you know, amorphous things,

1167
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,279
Speaker 2: and we have to accept that like in each other.

1168
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,839
Speaker 2: So it's like, you know what, we're not gonna talk

1169
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:05,840
Speaker 2: about it, and it's fine.

1170
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 3: Fuck it. Like you you don't want talk about it.

1171
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:10,359
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna stop my life and wait for it.

1172
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna you know, you got you still talking

1173
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:15,319
Speaker 2: shit about me. You know what, I'm gonna move on

1174
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 2: for me and you let you be stuck there talking

1175
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 2: shit about me because you need that. Like sometimes, you know,

1176
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 2: I had to realize that with certain folks who I

1177
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 2: was like, oh, this person needs whatever it is that

1178
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:28,359
Speaker 2: they think about me, They need that to be true

1179
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 2: for them to consider themselves a good person, right because

1180
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,360
Speaker 2: they don't like me and they got to justify somehow,

1181
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 2: and they gonna have a hard time because guess what,

1182
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:36,520
Speaker 2: I'm a.

1183
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 3: Likable lass nigga, and you really are.

1184
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 2: It's gonna be real fucking difficult to convince the world

1185
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:46,799
Speaker 2: that I ain't shit when everybody has had positive interactions

1186
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 2: and why cause I can control that. That's all I

1187
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 2: can control that, you know, my side of it, how

1188
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,799
Speaker 2: people perceive it. I can't control that, you know what

1189
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 2: people agendas are, can't control that. I can only control

1190
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 2: what I do with my next breath every day.

1191
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 3: That's the only thing I get to control.

1192
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:06,319
Speaker 2: And like I said, realizing that shit really helped me

1193
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 2: in life because there was shit. Like I remember, I

1194
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 2: used to be like if someone used our hashtag, talk

1195
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 2: shit about it and be like, man, why would you

1196
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 2: do that? Like just and trying to understand that, not

1197
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 2: trying to like demean them, to seek them out, not

1198
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 2: to fight them, but you would talk to I would

1199
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:23,919
Speaker 2: talk to the person and I would be like, wow,

1200
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 2: there really was nothing I could do that. Like they

1201
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 2: just were like fuck you, fuck everything. I don't like you,

1202
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 2: da da da, And I'm like, why did I care?

1203
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,319
Speaker 2: Like the next step was, well why do I care?

1204
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:37,399
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? I want to be loved,

1205
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 2: I want to be like I mean, I'm human being.

1206
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to nobody. I don't want to cause

1207
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,919
Speaker 2: any animaity and someone's life. But at the same time,

1208
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:48,720
Speaker 2: why do I care about the people that you can't

1209
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:51,320
Speaker 2: get because you looking at them and there's a bunch

1210
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 2: of people that you know, you do get there's a

1211
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 2: bunch of love in your life that you're looking right past,

1212
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:00,320
Speaker 2: obsessing over this one motherfucker, And that's the ship that

1213
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:00,800
Speaker 2: you get.

1214
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 3: Robbed of your energy and your time. You know.

1215
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 2: We went out to eat this morning for Kara's birthday,

1216
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 2: for brunch and kind of last night for dinner, but

1217
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 2: for a brunch. We went out and uh we met

1218
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 2: a fan. It was cool, you know what I mean, Like, uh,

1219
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 2: he came over and was like, Hey, I don't mean

1220
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 2: to up y'all's breakfast.

1221
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 3: But do y'all have a podcast?

1222
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 2: I was like, that's an odd question to ask, Yes

1223
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 2: we do, Yes, why indeed, sir, you know? And he

1224
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 2: was and he was like, yeah, I'm a big fan.

1225
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 2: And we got to like talk to him for a

1226
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 2: little bit. We took a picture with him.

1227
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 5: Parents.

1228
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 2: Yeah I meant to really put that picture. I promise

1229
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 2: tonight I want to post a picture tag him to it.

1230
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 2: I don't know how I fucking forgot that quick, but yeah,

1231
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 2: we took like a picture together and everything, and it

1232
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 2: was like a cool moment. And that's the kind of

1233
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 2: ship that you look past when you worried about why

1234
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 2: troll x thirty seven or why this nigga fifteenth account

1235
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 2: he just invented is still calling you a whack ass

1236
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 2: nigga whatever, Like that's the kind of shit that people.

1237
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 2: Those people are hoping that they rob you of that joy,

1238
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 2: because that's the whole point of what they do, is

1239
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 2: to rob you of that moment, and that reaction they

1240
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 2: get is the only satisfaction they get out of it.

1241
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 3: You know, I try to control my reactions.

1242
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:24,920
Speaker 2: To where if it ain't fun for me, then I

1243
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 2: don't react, like because I'll react to shit all the time.

1244
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 2: If I'm controlled, you know what I mean, if I

1245
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 2: can make a joke out of it, Oh, like, there's

1246
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 2: nothing better, there's no swee or release then saying something

1247
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 2: funny to somebody right before you block them, No, there's

1248
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 2: nothing better. Everyone should try it. I don't know if

1249
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 2: you guys have done it yet. Y'all should all tried

1250
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 2: at least once, just so. I mean, I don't maybe

1251
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 2: other people don't have a lot of people coming at them,

1252
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 2: but you know, someone says some you know, I say

1253
00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 2: something like, uh, well look man, if you don't think

1254
00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 2: black lives matter, then kiss my ass, and somebody's like, well,

1255
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 2: black lives matter, about the kids in Chicago, and I'll

1256
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 2: be like, well what about the guns and Wakanda block

1257
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 2: that's a good feeling.

1258
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 5: So oh my sweet Soul, that's my favorite one.

1259
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, like something like that. Got it.

1260
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 2: But in general, though, nah, I don't want you to

1261
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 2: rob my energy. You just a thief of energy, dog, yes, you,

1262
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 2: and you only get.

1263
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 5: So much because the thing is that hurt people hurt people.

1264
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 5: That shit is real.

1265
00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 4: People say that's a quote unquote cliche, but that's real.

1266
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 4: A lot of times they're trying to rob from you

1267
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 4: because something has been robbed from them. And what I've

1268
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 4: come to the place too, is that I realized that

1269
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 4: sometimes just your existence you intimidate people. Just you being

1270
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 4: around people intimidate people, and people just gonna have a

1271
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 4: problem with you, and if you really ask them, they

1272
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 4: don't have no reason.

1273
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 5: Somebody told me to my they were like, just because

1274
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 5: you you, oh bitch, I can't do nothing about that,

1275
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 5: all right.

1276
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 4: And I washed my hands of it, right, you know,

1277
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 4: like I because because I was like you, I had

1278
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 4: to know.

1279
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 5: Now I'm like, fuck it, you don't. I don't give

1280
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 5: a fuck now, you know.

1281
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 4: I had to get to the point where I had

1282
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 4: to separate myself there and close those doors and not

1283
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 4: look for approval because I can't give you that much

1284
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:02,920
Speaker 4: control over my life.

1285
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 2: And if we admit that everybody's flawed, then if any

1286
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 2: person obsesses about finding a flaw in somebody, they will

1287
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 2: find it.

1288
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 5: Yes they will.

1289
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:14,600
Speaker 2: That's the that's the realization that that I had, you know,

1290
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 2: a while back.

1291
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 3: It's just well, of course you're looking for it, you

1292
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 3: know what I mean?

1293
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:22,200
Speaker 2: Like you can, I can tell you a reason to

1294
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 2: dislike everybody that's doing their fucking best. But if you're

1295
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 2: gonna be that critical of other people, be that critical

1296
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 2: of yourself, because I guarantee you whatever the fucking criticism

1297
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 2: you have of that person, you don't get to control.

1298
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:35,480
Speaker 3: You can.

1299
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 2: You can control the shit that you find flawed in yourself.

1300
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 2: And if you don't want to accept anyone else's flaws,

1301
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 2: you don't accept anybody else, you know, not being being

1302
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 2: anything less than perfect, then apply that shit to yourself

1303
01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 2: and see if you see if you pass your own tests.

1304
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 2: Because most people don't like when you meet them.

1305
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 3: People that got.

1306
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:55,120
Speaker 2: All they got is something fucked up to say about

1307
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 2: everyone and everything and all that it's like nigga, look

1308
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 2: at you though, you know what I mean. I mean,

1309
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,520
Speaker 2: But like I said, I also realized at some point

1310
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 2: that that's that's those people's fun.

1311
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 3: Correct, that's what they get, that's they fun for a

1312
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 3: lot of times.

1313
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 2: Like you know, my whole thing is I point out

1314
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 2: that this TV show is terrible and that TV show

1315
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 2: is terrible. That's also how they have fun. And it's

1316
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 2: not my fun, but it's how they have fun. So

1317
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 2: I had to let them slide to But yeah, anyway,

1318
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 2: I just thought that was a great article. Man, it's

1319
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 2: a random show. Let's see what else is going on today.

1320
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 2: Snoop Dogg scored his first number one top gospel album.

1321
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 5: I've been hearing that on the low.

1322
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 4: A lot of people have been saying it's flaming moj

1323
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 4: just I haven't heard none of it.

1324
01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:40,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't listen to gospel music.

1325
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 4: So can you play something from Oh?

1326
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 3: I don't, not even Snoop, not even for Snoop.

1327
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 5: I just want to hear it.

1328
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 2: I hate all gospel music except for I smile, And

1329
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 2: that's ironically.

1330
01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 3: I don't like gospel music, y'all.

1331
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 5: I didn't say you have to like it.

1332
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 2: I don't want to listen to it, all right, I'll

1333
01:01:57,520 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 2: try to find it for your birthday.

1334
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 3: Thank you're looking for it.

1335
01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 2: But man, I heard it because even good gospel music

1336
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 2: is still corny. I mean because it's I mean, it's

1337
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 2: impossible not to be talking about not saying.

1338
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 3: It's all the not cool shit. You know what I mean?

1339
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:15,480
Speaker 5: Right, yeah, it is.

1340
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 2: It's all the not cool shit. Snoop Dog resents Bible

1341
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 2: of Love. Which song you want to hear? Thank you, Lord,

1342
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 2: love you God, Love for God. I always got something

1343
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 2: to say. Defeat it in the name of Jesus, Going Home, Saved, Sunshine,

1344
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:42,439
Speaker 2: feel Good, Sunrise, pure gold paid new wave?

1345
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 3: God, damn? How long is this ship? Thirty two songs?

1346
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 3: The fuck?

1347
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 5: I didn't know? Like I said, I wanted.

1348
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 3: To hear it. Take a know. Between one and thirty two?

1349
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 5: Somebody said new wave, do do new wave? Whatever new

1350
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 5: wave is?

1351
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 2: Number is that y'all been listening to this ship? Well

1352
01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 2: there's number one new wave featured Malley Music.

1353
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 4: M hm.

1354
01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:17,120
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

1355
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 5: I'm in an intro, a change for the better. I'm

1356
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 5: reading your letter.

1357
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 6: There's love on the pages, leg right wrong shame song,

1358
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 6: your grace sufficient.

1359
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 3: Shame with just the one y'all picked to put me

1360
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:55,800
Speaker 3: to sleep. I know, be crunk, I know.

1361
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:59,600
Speaker 2: I mean, oh my god, that was ours that y'all

1362
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 2: got one chance, And that's the one y'all went with.

1363
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 3: All right, because I didn't know he got one with

1364
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 3: Charlie Wilson.

1365
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 5: That's seen that one.

1366
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:23,479
Speaker 3: It's even on this ship. It's just one more day.

1367
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:28,200
Speaker 5: Charlie has kept me.

1368
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 2: First of all, let me just say I knew I

1369
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 2: could go to Charlie Wilson. Come on, I knew that

1370
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 2: in my soul like I didn't need to double check

1371
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 2: that way. I can't believe y'all suggested something without not

1372
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 2: to Charlie.

1373
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:47,720
Speaker 5: Y'all should have told me Charlie Wilson was on here,

1374
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 5: we'd have played that one.

1375
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 3: That's that's a damn chain.

1376
01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 2: Y'all really let us down today.

1377
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 5: Tell the story my horse.

1378
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 1: On my face.

1379
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 3: You may.

1380
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 5: Do for me.

1381
01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 3: God. So wait, it's no soprano.

1382
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 2: It's up just like Kirk wrangling, because right he hasn't

1383
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,480
Speaker 2: done ship on the song yet.

1384
01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 3: It's he ain't even doing what Kirk do. Now, somebody

1385
01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 3: out there safe? Just one month day? How many days?

1386
01:05:55,160 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 3: Give me one more day? Two? A four hours.

1387
01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 5: It's just one more day.

1388
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 3: That the Lord?

1389
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 1: Can I take this show?

1390
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 3: One solar rotation? You don't know the surround?

1391
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 5: You can.

1392
01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:48,920
Speaker 3: Actually one solar votation is a yeah, I apologize. I

1393
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 3: mean one earth spinning round? What is its new? Even

1394
01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 3: on these are y'all? Is that wise number one?

1395
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 5: You know what that that?

1396
01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 3: I don't fuck it up?

1397
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 4: That's why it's probably number one.

1398
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 2: It's like a playlist. He ain't even on this ship.

1399
01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 2: What y'all talking about?

1400
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:19,600
Speaker 3: What? Snoop out here? Still scheming? Boy? That's why is

1401
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:20,920
Speaker 3: number one?

1402
01:07:20,160 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 4: How the hell they get the number one gospel album?

1403
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 3: Right?

1404
01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 2: You know, been out here sitting and messing up everything

1405
01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 2: with them raps. You know, he don't know how to

1406
01:07:28,200 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 2: rap clean.

1407
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:33,200
Speaker 3: Girl, Give me one more day up in that puss

1408
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 3: say it's.

1409
01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:37,840
Speaker 5: There. I've been telling you guys like no, Snoop, Snoopy,

1410
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 5: you know, Snoop, we can't do.

1411
01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 2: That d O double jizzle, women slipping on that Christal

1412
01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:44,440
Speaker 2: woking on that chronic and you know, I thought the

1413
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:45,280
Speaker 2: drizzling it was like.

1414
01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:49,640
Speaker 4: The choir can't the choir can't do that one? Come on, Snoop,

1415
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:51,600
Speaker 4: don't you want to be number one gospel album?

1416
01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 3: I'm surprised he didn't go about snoop gott it God, Yes,

1417
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:57,439
Speaker 3: it's the g O double D.

1418
01:07:57,960 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 5: Wait a minute, playing it for Melbourne.

1419
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:04,720
Speaker 3: I only got one D. What you're doing? Snip back

1420
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 3: up off these and you tease and say Jesus please?

1421
01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 3: Oh man. Anyway, good luck to everybody involved with that project.

1422
01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 5: Ah what I gave thinking that's why I was number one?

1423
01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:20,799
Speaker 2: Then, oh that must be and Ohio fertility clinic failure

1424
01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 2: destroyed four thousand embryos, far more than first thought.

1425
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:27,719
Speaker 3: That's a lot of sperm.

1426
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:30,200
Speaker 5: So they didn't destroy the sperm.

1427
01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 3: I mean, sorry, eggs. That's a lot of eggs.

1428
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,800
Speaker 5: They didn't destroy they.

1429
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 2: Know it destroyed four thousand embryos, which is more than

1430
01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:38,880
Speaker 2: they first thought it was.

1431
01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:41,720
Speaker 5: Oh, so were they not supposed.

1432
01:08:41,280 --> 01:08:42,719
Speaker 3: To They weren't.

1433
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:45,719
Speaker 2: It's a fertility clinic. No, they weren't supposed to destroy

1434
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:46,280
Speaker 2: any embryo.

1435
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 5: Okay, that's that's.

1436
01:08:48,120 --> 01:08:50,760
Speaker 2: Literally the opposite of what a fertility clinic does.

1437
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:52,320
Speaker 5: Just doesn't get his sense.

1438
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:57,719
Speaker 2: I'm with you now, New York a fertility you Sweet

1439
01:08:57,760 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 2: Summer Child and fertility clinic outside Cleveland admitted Tuesday, I.

1440
01:09:04,920 --> 01:09:06,799
Speaker 5: Was trying to put it together it didn't make no.

1441
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:11,559
Speaker 2: Sense, admitted Tuesday that the failure to its freezer system

1442
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:14,280
Speaker 2: was far more worse than originally thought.

1443
01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:17,200
Speaker 5: Oh so they had a deep freezing. That ship was like,

1444
01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:17,719
Speaker 5: I'm broke.

1445
01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 2: Nearly a thousand patients who have learned now that four

1446
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:23,760
Speaker 2: thousand eggs and embryos were destroyed. March third, and a

1447
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:27,720
Speaker 2: new letter the Patients University Hospitals apologize again, saying the

1448
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 2: remote a large system on the take designated to alert

1449
01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:33,680
Speaker 2: a HU employe, a uh play employee to change its

1450
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:35,080
Speaker 2: like temperature settings was off.

1451
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 4: Oh oh, and this is gonna mess people up because

1452
01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:41,280
Speaker 4: lot of times people do that and they save them.

1453
01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 2: And wow, they fried them eggs they did.

1454
01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 5: I guess the man is gonna be over easy.

1455
01:09:51,680 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 3: I guess I guess that.

1456
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 2: Or as anti Bushit advocates will say, the worst massacre

1457
01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 2: in us A history, I don't even know. I said,

1458
01:10:07,320 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 2: that's not even a punt.

1459
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:10,720
Speaker 4: All right, I mean, what are they supposed to be

1460
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 4: sun side up about the situation.

1461
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:20,680
Speaker 3: Well, it's probably pretty hard for them to get over it.

1462
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:30,800
Speaker 5: This situation had them scrambling.

1463
01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:40,560
Speaker 2: No, it cares good to see you coming out of

1464
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 2: your shell, all right.

1465
01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 3: I meant.

1466
01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 5: I wonder how many egg whites that had to use.

1467
01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 3: It is your birthday, thank you?

1468
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:17,599
Speaker 2: You know? Oh wait, that was one. Actually, I wonder

1469
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:19,600
Speaker 2: how they found out, how the press found out. I

1470
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:21,519
Speaker 2: think somebody told the told them.

1471
01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:23,760
Speaker 5: I don't know, maybe they had somebody to come and

1472
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:24,280
Speaker 5: poach it.

1473
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:35,559
Speaker 2: I was thinking they might have had a trader, you know,

1474
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:50,839
Speaker 2: a real eggs Benedict Arnold. At any rate, hospital officials

1475
01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:53,320
Speaker 2: said they don't know who turned the remote alarm off

1476
01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 2: or how long it was disabled. They also said they

1477
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 2: were aware of the take in question, need a preventative maintenance.

1478
01:11:58,520 --> 01:12:00,679
Speaker 2: Some of the eggs that have been or there since

1479
01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 2: the nineteen eighties, who I know them?

1480
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:03,240
Speaker 5: People?

1481
01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:07,719
Speaker 2: Imagine you weren't those rich, like rich people that pay

1482
01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:10,400
Speaker 2: like like, well, I'm so rich. Just in case y'all

1483
01:12:10,439 --> 01:12:13,679
Speaker 2: invent technology where I could be born again to put

1484
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:17,040
Speaker 2: into a clone, take my embryos now and then storm

1485
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:20,640
Speaker 2: here and then three thousand years when we come up

1486
01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 2: with the right technology, I will live forever.

1487
01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:25,480
Speaker 3: And then they'd be like, well, actually.

1488
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 2: You would have lived forever, except for you know, we

1489
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:36,799
Speaker 2: had accidentally left the heat on one day, so are bad?

1490
01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:37,360
Speaker 3: Are right? Now?

1491
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:39,400
Speaker 2: We do not know whether it's mechanical or human or

1492
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:43,440
Speaker 2: a combination, said the chairman of the Department of Obstetrics

1493
01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:44,760
Speaker 2: and got Ecology.

1494
01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:56,679
Speaker 4: Well, IgGs do have an expiration date. I could help myself, y'all.

1495
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:57,879
Speaker 3: You are shaking the cart.

1496
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:05,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, they should have got the sea through cartons so

1497
01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:07,240
Speaker 4: they could have seen if the eggs had cracked.

1498
01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:17,559
Speaker 3: I guess I guess that counts.

1499
01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:19,519
Speaker 5: I don't know it does I like to get the

1500
01:13:19,560 --> 01:13:20,640
Speaker 5: sea through cartons.

1501
01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 2: Okay, anyway, they lost a lot of people's eggs.

1502
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 3: Let's just move on. I just thought this is cute.

1503
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:38,760
Speaker 2: This isn't really, this is apropos of nothing, And if

1504
01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 2: you're not in the chat, it probably really means even less.

1505
01:13:43,080 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 3: To you than it's gonna mean to the people in

1506
01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:45,759
Speaker 3: the chat.

1507
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 2: But I don't give a fuck because our show we

1508
01:13:47,800 --> 01:13:52,880
Speaker 2: could do whatever the fuck we want because Prescott Pharmaceuticals

1509
01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:54,640
Speaker 2: or whatever it was don't own us.

1510
01:13:54,880 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 3: Claire Channel don't own.

1511
01:13:56,000 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 5: Us, so you don't. I was like, what the hell

1512
01:13:57,840 --> 01:13:58,439
Speaker 5: was reading?

1513
01:13:59,120 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 2: We could do it as we will with our black

1514
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:04,920
Speaker 2: ass sell. I just thought this was fucking adorable. Someone

1515
01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:08,080
Speaker 2: took doctor SEUs put it to migos walking like I

1516
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:11,839
Speaker 2: talk it yes, but they did walk it in my pocket.

1517
01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:13,080
Speaker 3: It's so good.

1518
01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:17,320
Speaker 2: They got the book and they flipping pages with the beat. Okay,

1519
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 2: and I'm playing the whole thing.

1520
01:14:20,200 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 3: It's too it's too adorable.

1521
01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:28,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, Doc sous hey, let me go. It's a pockets

1522
01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:32,320
Speaker 1: in my pocket. Walk it in my pocket. Walk it

1523
01:14:32,439 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 1: in my Okay, walking in my pocket, Walking in my pocket,

1524
01:14:36,960 --> 01:14:39,759
Speaker 1: Walk it in my pocket, Walk it in my pocket,

1525
01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:44,920
Speaker 1: in my pocket, in my pocket. Pepper peple killing. There's

1526
01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:47,960
Speaker 1: a bisket in your basket, or neural in your girl

1527
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:51,600
Speaker 1: or in your cost some terms of something. There's a

1528
01:14:51,720 --> 01:14:54,840
Speaker 1: jerk in the cutain. Some terms of deeple killing. There's

1529
01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:57,799
Speaker 1: a up behind the clock handing that Zepp from the shelf.

1530
01:14:57,920 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 1: I have talked to myself. I said that on the shelf.

1531
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:03,439
Speaker 3: I have talked to him myself. That's the guy in

1532
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:04,439
Speaker 3: that house I live in.

1533
01:15:04,479 --> 01:15:06,840
Speaker 1: There's a nigga in the seat and the XEP but

1534
01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:09,400
Speaker 1: been the left and they're nice. I really think I'm

1535
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 1: about Some of them are friendly, like that you gotta

1536
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:14,280
Speaker 1: been the back, but that you gotta win the battle.

1537
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 1: Some are friendly, some are not. My sable on the

1538
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:20,240
Speaker 1: table when the gear under the chair, but that botho

1539
01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:22,760
Speaker 1: on the sofa and I wishee it wasn't there from

1540
01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:25,040
Speaker 1: those numbers in the cupboards. Yeah, the fun that I

1541
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:27,400
Speaker 1: have about But that new person on my too per

1542
01:15:27,439 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 1: see him, I could do without. And that one I'm

1543
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:32,720
Speaker 1: really scared of is the bug under the world. The

1544
01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:33,960
Speaker 1: one I'm really scared of.

1545
01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:37,720
Speaker 3: It's the bug under the bug in the chimney.

1546
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:40,599
Speaker 1: Like him off and it makes me kind of nervous.

1547
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:43,240
Speaker 1: On the zastle stew on the park gifts up on

1548
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:45,800
Speaker 1: the steps. They are great to have a wow. There

1549
01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:48,719
Speaker 1: are many many other other friends that I found.

1550
01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 3: That's the tailler and.

1551
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:53,240
Speaker 1: The miller, the Geller and the geller feller and the

1552
01:15:53,320 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 1: dweller and the zellar and the cellar from the ceiling

1553
01:15:56,280 --> 01:15:58,880
Speaker 1: on the cilly and the zellar in my shower shell

1554
01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 1: pillows on my to hours.

1555
01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:04,479
Speaker 3: I don't care people believe it. That's the kind of.

1556
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:06,880
Speaker 1: Never leave it.

1557
01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:08,400
Speaker 3: You can't come, you're forbidden.

1558
01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 5: Care people leave it. That's the kind of house living.

1559
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:16,679
Speaker 1: Never leave it. You can get it in my pocket.

1560
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:23,960
Speaker 1: There's a pocket in my pocket, then my pocket, walk

1561
01:16:24,000 --> 01:16:26,599
Speaker 1: it in my pocket, walking, give up pocket.

1562
01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 3: There's a bucket in my pocket. So that was amazing.

1563
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:37,880
Speaker 2: Oh I love being black, so what's crock?

1564
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 3: I can never you can never trade being black, dog like.

1565
01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:44,400
Speaker 5: I wish doctor Sus like that. I don't remember rized

1566
01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 5: the ship did.

1567
01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:48,760
Speaker 3: That's how they got us. Just keep choosing black, keep

1568
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:49,320
Speaker 3: coming back.

1569
01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:52,719
Speaker 2: Black people are so innovative. Doctor who knew Doctor Seuss

1570
01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:53,960
Speaker 2: had bars like that though?

1571
01:16:54,160 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 4: Right?

1572
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:56,840
Speaker 2: I didn't know if rhyme like that, Like they even

1573
01:16:56,880 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 2: had the end rhymes. A couple of times, I'm like,

1574
01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:00,360
Speaker 2: word is he?

1575
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 3: Are we doing this?

1576
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:08,439
Speaker 5: Suits? Suits? Oo, Mama, they're gonna make around. That's gonna

1577
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:09,519
Speaker 5: be throwing up the charts.

1578
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:10,040
Speaker 3: I know.

1579
01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 2: All right, guys, let's get to our games. I didn't

1580
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:19,320
Speaker 2: do that one, sorry earlier.

1581
01:17:19,400 --> 01:17:28,040
Speaker 3: Let's do this one. Sorry.

1582
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:32,439
Speaker 2: Just fucking with those black people with just fucking with

1583
01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:36,880
Speaker 2: those blacks. We're just fucking with fucking with black people.

1584
01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 3: That's right, guys. Time to play the game that we

1585
01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:41,880
Speaker 3: all hate to play. It's fucking with black people. The game.

1586
01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:43,519
Speaker 2: We go all around the globe, we find different articles

1587
01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:45,360
Speaker 2: make us feel fuck with the will sign points scortes

1588
01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:48,240
Speaker 2: zero one hundred animals to twenty five today's contestants.

1589
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:53,200
Speaker 3: Everybody, Let's see who's fucking with us, now, fucking with me?

1590
01:17:53,280 --> 01:17:53,479
Speaker 5: Now?

1591
01:17:55,200 --> 01:17:56,000
Speaker 3: Fuck blacks.

1592
01:17:57,800 --> 01:18:01,360
Speaker 2: College under fire for refusal to discipline girl's racist posts.

1593
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:03,439
Speaker 5: Uh.

1594
01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:07,120
Speaker 2: Michigan College is under fire for refusing to take action

1595
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:10,800
Speaker 2: against a female student whose social media accounts are reportedly

1596
01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:12,160
Speaker 2: littered with racist taunts.

1597
01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:18,160
Speaker 3: Are you trying to tell me a young white woman.

1598
01:18:19,120 --> 01:18:23,559
Speaker 2: Would ever be so foul as to say racist things

1599
01:18:23,600 --> 01:18:24,400
Speaker 2: on social media?

1600
01:18:25,120 --> 01:18:26,240
Speaker 5: Tell us how you read to feel.

1601
01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:31,479
Speaker 3: I don't know if I can believe that Karen. I

1602
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:31,880
Speaker 3: don't know.

1603
01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:37,640
Speaker 2: I mean, she might be innocent, Karen, she could have

1604
01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:39,719
Speaker 2: been frames could be all an inside job.

1605
01:18:41,360 --> 01:18:47,400
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Do you think she did it? Oh? Wow, okay,

1606
01:18:47,680 --> 01:18:52,759
Speaker 3: all right, I think mm hmm. I wonder what fift.

1607
01:18:55,000 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 5: I don't know, but she.

1608
01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:01,920
Speaker 3: Did that. I think that's what he thinks.

1609
01:19:02,200 --> 01:19:05,519
Speaker 2: Michigan State University students condemned the school's officials for what

1610
01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:08,960
Speaker 2: they believe has been an inadequate response to posts by

1611
01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:14,160
Speaker 2: sophomore Jillian Kirk, who includes one reportedly saying which includes

1612
01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:17,839
Speaker 2: one from proportedly saying God Bless America, fuck the Blacks.

1613
01:19:19,240 --> 01:19:21,960
Speaker 2: Another tweet Kirk allegedly uses the N word and once

1614
01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:26,759
Speaker 2: wrote fuck niggers. I'm so over it. Her Twitter account

1615
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:27,759
Speaker 2: has since been deleted.

1616
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:31,759
Speaker 3: Wonder why your whole account? Her whole account?

1617
01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:34,200
Speaker 2: School officials is you a statement Wednesday to the news

1618
01:19:34,200 --> 01:19:37,760
Speaker 2: site saying they don't condone racial harassment or bullying, but

1619
01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:39,720
Speaker 2: they do not get to control at what every member

1620
01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:43,080
Speaker 2: of that community says. Kirk's post first starts circulating on

1621
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:47,280
Speaker 2: social media when freshman Mayana Folks shared several tasteless screenshots

1622
01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:50,679
Speaker 2: Tuesday from Kirk's accounts. Let's play a game. It's called

1623
01:19:50,680 --> 01:19:53,200
Speaker 2: how many retweets does this girl need before MSU kicks

1624
01:19:53,200 --> 01:19:55,960
Speaker 2: her out? In the screen, Grass Kirk appeared to be

1625
01:19:56,040 --> 01:19:58,640
Speaker 2: claim she used to bully retards and called a man

1626
01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:01,400
Speaker 2: the N word. Kirk response to the back last Thursday,

1627
01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:04,400
Speaker 2: saying she apologized for the inappropriate social media posts I made.

1628
01:20:04,720 --> 01:20:08,480
Speaker 2: Folks said she shared Kirk's posts because if she was frustrated,

1629
01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:10,880
Speaker 2: there weren't any consequences at the two complaints with fire

1630
01:20:10,920 --> 01:20:13,200
Speaker 2: against her. I just don't believe people like her should

1631
01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:15,400
Speaker 2: be allowed the privilege of becoming as successful and be

1632
01:20:15,479 --> 01:20:18,679
Speaker 2: in a position of power. Also, MSU is legally allowed

1633
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 2: to kick her out, but they chose not to. Yeah, well,

1634
01:20:22,240 --> 01:20:23,240
Speaker 2: let me tell you something.

1635
01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:27,839
Speaker 3: Folks, welcome to the suspension. Your ass is getting off campus.

1636
01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:31,880
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, up here noticing racism, and you know that's

1637
01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:34,599
Speaker 2: the only thing we as black people are not supposed

1638
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 2: to be able to do.

1639
01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:39,559
Speaker 3: Your ass is gone. Okay. I don't know what made

1640
01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:40,719
Speaker 3: you think you could take this happen.

1641
01:20:41,040 --> 01:20:44,080
Speaker 2: Honestly, Well you out here just out in white women

1642
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:46,160
Speaker 2: as racists and thinking you're supposed to be allowed to

1643
01:20:46,160 --> 01:20:47,479
Speaker 2: be on the campus of Michigan State.

1644
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:49,920
Speaker 3: Pack your shit, buddy.

1645
01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:53,600
Speaker 2: She said Kirk's posts are not her first offense and

1646
01:20:53,600 --> 01:20:56,720
Speaker 2: that she will continue to pressure administrators to consider disciplinary

1647
01:20:56,760 --> 01:21:01,120
Speaker 2: action against Kirk. Well, now she's a poor why victim,

1648
01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:04,400
Speaker 2: and you're harassment your target, and harassment to her ain't

1649
01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:07,599
Speaker 2: doing nothing but bringing her down. And I'm not gonna

1650
01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:09,559
Speaker 2: stand for it, and I know Karen's not either.

1651
01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:11,760
Speaker 3: That's right, Careen.

1652
01:21:12,840 --> 01:21:13,880
Speaker 5: I did not agree to this.

1653
01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:16,960
Speaker 2: She should be required to do some sort of diversity

1654
01:21:16,960 --> 01:21:20,719
Speaker 2: training to attend this university. The post says, I mean she,

1655
01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:23,559
Speaker 2: she told the post. Actions like this with our consequences

1656
01:21:23,560 --> 01:21:26,599
Speaker 2: are unacceptable because people begin to realize nothing will happen.

1657
01:21:26,400 --> 01:21:28,760
Speaker 5: To them, nothing won't And she's still gonna go off

1658
01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 5: and be successful. She wait, woman a.

1659
01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:31,400
Speaker 3: Right, MS, you don't care.

1660
01:21:31,439 --> 01:21:33,439
Speaker 2: They just talk a good game, not even really a

1661
01:21:33,439 --> 01:21:39,880
Speaker 2: good game, but they just talking zero to one hundred Karen. Okay,

1662
01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 2: Karen goes to one hundred. I'm gonna go with one

1663
01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:42,840
Speaker 2: hundred as well.

1664
01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 3: I will match her one hundred.

1665
01:21:44,560 --> 01:21:44,920
Speaker 5: Thank you.

1666
01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:45,519
Speaker 6: Uh.

1667
01:21:45,680 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 2: South Carolina school board member busted for telling black women

1668
01:21:49,360 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 2: to go back to Africa.

1669
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 5: Oh they love that trop y'all need to get little

1670
01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:54,639
Speaker 5: bit more creative.

1671
01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:56,880
Speaker 2: Well, I think they're trying to get more specific. If

1672
01:21:56,880 --> 01:21:58,360
Speaker 2: we just fill out this damn census.

1673
01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:02,479
Speaker 5: Where in Africa, you know, right, Africa in the country, right.

1674
01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:06,280
Speaker 2: Go back to North Sudan. Oh, thank you, that is

1675
01:22:06,320 --> 01:22:09,960
Speaker 2: where I'm from. I didn't know you knew? Well, I care, Okay,

1676
01:22:09,960 --> 01:22:12,559
Speaker 2: I look up the DNA history of everyone. I tell

1677
01:22:12,560 --> 01:22:15,560
Speaker 2: her to go back to Africa. Citing poor health, a

1678
01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:19,639
Speaker 2: South Carolina school board member abruptly resigned his position over

1679
01:22:19,680 --> 01:22:22,160
Speaker 2: the weekend after he was busted from making racist comments

1680
01:22:22,200 --> 01:22:22,799
Speaker 2: on Facebook.

1681
01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:25,080
Speaker 4: Yeah you got poor health. Now he ain't have poor

1682
01:22:25,080 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 4: healthful you made that comment.

1683
01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:31,200
Speaker 3: You say something so racist, you just start coughing that call.

1684
01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:33,280
Speaker 3: Why don't you go back to Africa? You're poor?

1685
01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 2: Oh?

1686
01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:38,559
Speaker 3: Man, I'm gonna have to resign.

1687
01:22:38,840 --> 01:22:41,519
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have Oh boy, this is a big one, Okay,

1688
01:22:42,720 --> 01:22:44,960
Speaker 2: then telling the black woman and complaining that she should

1689
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:45,639
Speaker 2: go back to Africa.

1690
01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 3: According to WISTV.

1691
01:22:49,560 --> 01:22:53,519
Speaker 2: Lexington One School District board member Grady Harmon responded to

1692
01:22:53,560 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 2: a post on a Facebook page called The Newly Pressed, stating,

1693
01:22:57,320 --> 01:22:59,040
Speaker 2: why is it okay for every race to be proud

1694
01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:00,639
Speaker 2: of their heriage exceptfuble white people?

1695
01:23:02,040 --> 01:23:03,000
Speaker 3: I wonder why.

1696
01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:06,719
Speaker 5: White people do race? Everybody else dies.

1697
01:23:07,040 --> 01:23:09,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I just say, look up some white pride

1698
01:23:09,920 --> 01:23:11,840
Speaker 2: organizations and you tell me what your problem is.

1699
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:12,599
Speaker 5: Other people die.

1700
01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:17,080
Speaker 4: Oppression happens, happens through our history in tournament camps.

1701
01:23:17,120 --> 01:23:18,000
Speaker 5: That's what happens.

1702
01:23:19,080 --> 01:23:25,200
Speaker 2: All I'm saying, Karen, look up, look all the organizations.

1703
01:23:25,320 --> 01:23:28,479
Speaker 2: I mean, because they exist, right these. Look up all

1704
01:23:28,479 --> 01:23:30,360
Speaker 2: the organizations dedicated to white pride.

1705
01:23:31,400 --> 01:23:34,559
Speaker 5: Tell me what they're about racism.

1706
01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:35,680
Speaker 3: I'm not asking you.

1707
01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 2: This is retord, but I'm not even talking racism. I'm

1708
01:23:40,320 --> 01:23:44,960
Speaker 2: doing further than that. Like Black pride is like, hey,

1709
01:23:45,439 --> 01:23:46,280
Speaker 2: you're beautiful.

1710
01:23:47,439 --> 01:23:47,679
Speaker 5: Hey.

1711
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:51,200
Speaker 3: The world tries to tell you're ugly, but you're not ugly. Hey.

1712
01:23:51,280 --> 01:23:54,160
Speaker 2: The world tries to say that, you know, your melani makes.

1713
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:56,280
Speaker 2: The more meling you have, the less attractive you are.

1714
01:23:57,080 --> 01:23:59,719
Speaker 2: The world calls you stupid. They say you're not able

1715
01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:02,160
Speaker 2: to be educated. They say you shouldn't be They call

1716
01:24:02,240 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 2: you lazy, unemployable. Will have pride in your blackness, that's

1717
01:24:06,200 --> 01:24:09,559
Speaker 2: not true. That's what black pride is, you know what

1718
01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:12,320
Speaker 2: I mean. It's combating stereotypes things of this nature. Right,

1719
01:24:13,680 --> 01:24:16,439
Speaker 2: White pride is we should have our own country where

1720
01:24:16,479 --> 01:24:18,439
Speaker 2: no brown people are allowed to live.

1721
01:24:23,880 --> 01:24:25,400
Speaker 3: One of these things is not like the others.

1722
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:31,719
Speaker 2: You know, like you can't, can't, can't use that example

1723
01:24:31,880 --> 01:24:36,160
Speaker 2: on everything, Like it's do you we have perfect organization.

1724
01:24:36,200 --> 01:24:37,559
Speaker 2: You can go look up and be like, this is

1725
01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:40,840
Speaker 2: what white pride means. So this is why we can't.

1726
01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:43,760
Speaker 2: We're not a quote unquote allowed to be pride prideful.

1727
01:24:44,439 --> 01:24:47,280
Speaker 2: You know what about German pride? Are we like advocating

1728
01:24:47,320 --> 01:24:49,200
Speaker 2: for German Conda?

1729
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:50,920
Speaker 3: Everybody had guns.

1730
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:56,080
Speaker 2: Right, that's the only thing. Well, Wakanda, we have black pride. Wakanda.

1731
01:24:56,120 --> 01:24:57,240
Speaker 2: Everybody had guns.

1732
01:24:57,320 --> 01:25:00,160
Speaker 3: But y'all not woke. Say I don't understand other than no,

1733
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:02,439
Speaker 3: but yeah.

1734
01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 2: According to the report, other commenters arg you with Harmon, who

1735
01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:09,320
Speaker 2: had sister leaders comments, but not before screenshots is responsible

1736
01:25:09,320 --> 01:25:16,880
Speaker 2: shared on social media. Screenshots off Forever, Yes, they are

1737
01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:20,560
Speaker 2: screenshots off Forever.

1738
01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:24,479
Speaker 3: Get that.

1739
01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:30,639
Speaker 2: I never done that before. The first person to do that,

1740
01:25:30,880 --> 01:25:33,680
Speaker 2: the Diamonds off Ever. Screenshots Offever. I feel like that

1741
01:25:33,720 --> 01:25:35,920
Speaker 2: should have already, so should make a parody video with

1742
01:25:35,960 --> 01:25:40,160
Speaker 2: a song and everything. I feel like screenshots off Forever

1743
01:25:40,320 --> 01:25:42,400
Speaker 2: is a jam already.

1744
01:25:41,960 --> 01:25:44,479
Speaker 5: And it hasn't even.

1745
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:45,679
Speaker 3: Been invented yet.

1746
01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:52,960
Speaker 2: But I mean I feel like we we already, uh right,

1747
01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:57,160
Speaker 2: I feel like we're already there, So let's just go.

1748
01:25:57,120 --> 01:26:04,920
Speaker 3: Ahead and mock that up, guys. Uh shot.

1749
01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:09,880
Speaker 2: Oh, I cracked me up, guys, even if y'all don't

1750
01:26:09,880 --> 01:26:18,719
Speaker 2: get it, but uh suh. But yeah, he got sick

1751
01:26:18,760 --> 01:26:21,280
Speaker 2: after this. I had to quit his job because you know,

1752
01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:24,519
Speaker 2: he said some things and the screenshots told the truth.

1753
01:26:25,960 --> 01:26:27,680
Speaker 2: You know, it wouldn't have been those screenshots. He could

1754
01:26:27,720 --> 01:26:30,280
Speaker 2: just deleted them them post social media post. Guess what

1755
01:26:30,320 --> 01:26:33,000
Speaker 2: he would have done not been sick and came to work.

1756
01:26:32,840 --> 01:26:35,160
Speaker 5: On Monday, right.

1757
01:26:36,560 --> 01:26:38,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I can't be the only one thinking that

1758
01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:41,000
Speaker 2: if the motherfucking evidence wouldn't have still been on Twitter

1759
01:26:41,040 --> 01:26:43,439
Speaker 2: and ship, his white ass would have been shown up

1760
01:26:43,439 --> 01:26:46,679
Speaker 2: to work, like what tweets I why I would never

1761
01:26:46,800 --> 01:26:48,880
Speaker 2: say something go back to Africa?

1762
01:26:48,960 --> 01:26:51,560
Speaker 5: Who do you think I am?

1763
01:26:51,600 --> 01:26:52,599
Speaker 3: I would never.

1764
01:26:54,040 --> 01:26:56,519
Speaker 5: I have black family members, all right?

1765
01:26:56,520 --> 01:27:01,320
Speaker 2: If some of my best slaves are black, okay, sow,

1766
01:27:02,240 --> 01:27:05,360
Speaker 2: oh man, some of my favorite dead civil rights figures

1767
01:27:05,360 --> 01:27:09,360
Speaker 2: are black, and I take exception to you implying anything else.

1768
01:27:10,920 --> 01:27:14,280
Speaker 2: And then that black woman pulled out screenshots off forever.

1769
01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:17,200
Speaker 5: Come on, they.

1770
01:27:17,240 --> 01:27:20,599
Speaker 2: Won't leave in the night, have no fear that they

1771
01:27:20,760 --> 01:27:22,640
Speaker 2: might desert me.

1772
01:27:26,280 --> 01:27:33,519
Speaker 4: Come on, screenshots are forever, hey, shots forever.

1773
01:27:34,240 --> 01:27:37,800
Speaker 3: I'm here for that, oh man. Mm hmm hmmm.

1774
01:27:38,400 --> 01:27:41,840
Speaker 2: But yeah, good luck to him in his new endeavors,

1775
01:27:41,920 --> 01:27:43,639
Speaker 2: because I'm sure he'll land on his feet because he's

1776
01:27:43,640 --> 01:27:47,479
Speaker 2: a white man. Right, so I'm sure, uh so all

1777
01:27:47,600 --> 01:27:50,599
Speaker 2: court going to according to plan, he'll he'll be managing

1778
01:27:50,920 --> 01:27:54,679
Speaker 2: a business of that involves managing people that are brown

1779
01:27:54,680 --> 01:27:57,840
Speaker 2: and black at some point. Yes, But yeah, he said

1780
01:27:57,840 --> 01:27:59,680
Speaker 2: those personal reasons, which include out of his health and

1781
01:27:59,720 --> 01:28:01,320
Speaker 2: the health his immediate family members.

1782
01:28:01,120 --> 01:28:03,920
Speaker 3: Why he had to leave. Damn everybody sick because he racist.

1783
01:28:04,760 --> 01:28:06,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, everybody is sick because they got to answered the

1784
01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:07,439
Speaker 5: questions too.

1785
01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:09,720
Speaker 3: That racism made my wife come down with cancer. We

1786
01:28:09,720 --> 01:28:11,040
Speaker 3: gotta go. I gotta go.

1787
01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:13,360
Speaker 5: It's no racism sickness going around.

1788
01:28:13,439 --> 01:28:15,640
Speaker 4: Y'all better cover it up, y'all, y'all gonna get that

1789
01:28:15,720 --> 01:28:16,400
Speaker 4: racism flu.

1790
01:28:16,680 --> 01:28:17,880
Speaker 3: But honey, I'm feeling fine.

1791
01:28:17,880 --> 01:28:20,599
Speaker 2: I didn't say anything racist. Pitch you sick. I mean,

1792
01:28:21,840 --> 01:28:23,680
Speaker 2: I guess we're both sick. It's like we both got

1793
01:28:23,720 --> 01:28:24,400
Speaker 2: it's going around.

1794
01:28:24,439 --> 01:28:25,400
Speaker 5: You can't go to work?

1795
01:28:25,920 --> 01:28:27,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, just say that. You know that.

1796
01:28:27,720 --> 01:28:29,840
Speaker 2: You know what else that means, because I will also

1797
01:28:29,880 --> 01:28:32,080
Speaker 2: bet money. He tried to ride it out, and the

1798
01:28:32,080 --> 01:28:35,840
Speaker 2: school boy was like, nah, dog right, it's a no.

1799
01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:39,280
Speaker 2: Well I can't. I don't want to get fired. I

1800
01:28:39,320 --> 01:28:42,320
Speaker 2: can't have that on my record. I mean, you can resign,

1801
01:28:42,720 --> 01:28:46,120
Speaker 2: but you definitely can't bring your racist ass back up.

1802
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:49,680
Speaker 5: In here because we don't want to do with the backlash.

1803
01:28:49,920 --> 01:28:52,280
Speaker 3: Hulk Hogan says, oh wait, one hundred from me.

1804
01:28:52,600 --> 01:28:55,639
Speaker 2: Yes, Hulk Hogan says, he owes all wrestlers and apology,

1805
01:28:55,720 --> 01:28:56,679
Speaker 2: not just the black ones.

1806
01:28:59,360 --> 01:29:00,000
Speaker 3: All apologies.

1807
01:29:00,400 --> 01:29:02,200
Speaker 5: Y'all.

1808
01:29:02,200 --> 01:29:02,559
Speaker 3: Listen.

1809
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:04,640
Speaker 2: I might have said black people are niggers, but I

1810
01:29:04,680 --> 01:29:06,960
Speaker 2: want to apologize first and foremost to the white people.

1811
01:29:06,960 --> 01:29:09,759
Speaker 2: To add her here, they need to say that. Okay,

1812
01:29:10,439 --> 01:29:12,880
Speaker 2: the precious white little snowflake ears.

1813
01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:15,320
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry to disappoint y'all.

1814
01:29:17,160 --> 01:29:20,280
Speaker 2: Uh yep, Holkogan says all wrestlers he owes an apology

1815
01:29:20,320 --> 01:29:21,840
Speaker 2: for his past use of the N word.

1816
01:29:22,400 --> 01:29:24,200
Speaker 3: Said it shouldn't just be black guys.

1817
01:29:24,200 --> 01:29:27,680
Speaker 2: He has to say sorry to he Yeah, he was

1818
01:29:27,680 --> 01:29:29,680
Speaker 2: at LAX and wanted to get his starts on the

1819
01:29:29,760 --> 01:29:31,599
Speaker 2: w W Hall of Fame, and then they got asked

1820
01:29:31,600 --> 01:29:35,800
Speaker 2: about that and he supposed if before he can be reinstated.

1821
01:29:35,880 --> 01:29:39,719
Speaker 2: Mark Henry Said, who was also a wrestler, said Hogan

1822
01:29:39,840 --> 01:29:43,760
Speaker 2: need to apologize to the black performers, and Hogan was like,

1823
01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:47,120
Speaker 2: I agreed, I need to apologize, but I need to

1824
01:29:47,120 --> 01:29:50,479
Speaker 2: do it across the board. I totally agree with him,

1825
01:29:50,479 --> 01:29:53,360
Speaker 2: not to the black wrestlers, to all the wrestlers. That

1826
01:29:53,400 --> 01:29:55,599
Speaker 2: what I said was way out of line. I'm forever

1827
01:29:55,680 --> 01:29:56,280
Speaker 2: sorry for that.

1828
01:29:57,320 --> 01:29:58,960
Speaker 5: He didn't defend the white wrestler, So what the fuck

1829
01:29:59,000 --> 01:29:59,799
Speaker 5: are we talking about?

1830
01:30:01,160 --> 01:30:01,400
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1831
01:30:01,560 --> 01:30:05,080
Speaker 2: Also, it's funny, right a black person is telling you

1832
01:30:05,120 --> 01:30:09,240
Speaker 2: how they feel about a thing and what actions you

1833
01:30:09,280 --> 01:30:12,719
Speaker 2: need to take to address it, and you go, I'll

1834
01:30:12,760 --> 01:30:14,360
Speaker 2: take it from here, buddy.

1835
01:30:14,760 --> 01:30:16,760
Speaker 3: I think I know how to do an apology.

1836
01:30:17,040 --> 01:30:19,760
Speaker 4: Right, because we're never heard, like we can actually tell

1837
01:30:19,760 --> 01:30:20,679
Speaker 4: you how to fix the issue.

1838
01:30:20,680 --> 01:30:22,800
Speaker 5: You'd be like, I know better, fuck it.

1839
01:30:23,520 --> 01:30:26,000
Speaker 3: Yep, I just thought it was funny, but yeah.

1840
01:30:25,640 --> 01:30:29,360
Speaker 4: That always happens, and didn't wonder why they still mad? Yes, motherfucker,

1841
01:30:29,360 --> 01:30:33,519
Speaker 4: because we told you and you didn't listen. All right?

1842
01:30:34,000 --> 01:30:39,760
Speaker 2: One hundred as well, Brooklyn Museum welcomes two new curators

1843
01:30:40,120 --> 01:30:41,600
Speaker 2: for African art.

1844
01:30:43,120 --> 01:30:47,960
Speaker 3: That's good news, right, we always use more curators.

1845
01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:51,479
Speaker 4: These are the people that actually walk around again, do

1846
01:30:51,520 --> 01:30:53,080
Speaker 4: the exhibits and tell you what it's about.

1847
01:30:53,160 --> 01:30:56,719
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, that curators I think they like also decide

1848
01:30:56,760 --> 01:30:57,519
Speaker 2: what goes in the.

1849
01:30:57,479 --> 01:31:01,960
Speaker 3: Field in the museum, Okay, things of that nature.

1850
01:31:02,479 --> 01:31:06,120
Speaker 5: So experts, right, I'm assuming that's what they are.

1851
01:31:06,920 --> 01:31:08,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1852
01:31:08,240 --> 01:31:14,519
Speaker 2: Christian wind Miller, Luna will Well rethink the Brooklyn Museum's

1853
01:31:14,520 --> 01:31:18,960
Speaker 2: extensive African art collection, organized new temporary installations, and Drew

1854
01:31:19,120 --> 01:31:22,639
Speaker 2: Sawyer will oversee the photography collection. You imagine this role

1855
01:31:22,640 --> 01:31:29,080
Speaker 2: within the museum. See good news. So finally some good

1856
01:31:29,120 --> 01:31:30,960
Speaker 2: news on fucking with black people.

1857
01:31:31,000 --> 01:31:34,519
Speaker 3: Right? Why are you shaking your head like that care

1858
01:31:34,800 --> 01:31:35,360
Speaker 3: what's wrong?

1859
01:31:35,360 --> 01:31:36,559
Speaker 5: Because it ain't here for nothing?

1860
01:31:36,680 --> 01:31:39,360
Speaker 3: What's up on your birthday? You will act this.

1861
01:31:39,360 --> 01:31:43,519
Speaker 5: Way the segment. Don't change you because my birthday.

1862
01:31:43,960 --> 01:31:45,720
Speaker 3: I mean, are you not in the chat? You're not

1863
01:31:45,760 --> 01:31:46,200
Speaker 3: in the chat?

1864
01:31:46,240 --> 01:31:48,559
Speaker 2: You just hold now on Facebook, just chilling doing your thing,

1865
01:31:48,640 --> 01:31:51,519
Speaker 2: playing games. Okay, we have a serious podcast run over

1866
01:31:51,520 --> 01:31:52,320
Speaker 2: here birthday.

1867
01:31:52,040 --> 01:31:56,599
Speaker 3: Or night, so let's get back in the chat. Yeah,

1868
01:31:56,640 --> 01:31:57,120
Speaker 3: so yeah.

1869
01:31:57,120 --> 01:32:00,000
Speaker 2: The Brooklyn Museum just announced appointment to two new curators.

1870
01:32:00,520 --> 01:32:04,120
Speaker 2: Christin wind Miller Luner, a curator a historian of African

1871
01:32:04,360 --> 01:32:07,559
Speaker 2: arts and Architecture, has been appointed to the Seals Family

1872
01:32:07,880 --> 01:32:12,000
Speaker 2: Consultation Consulting Curator African Art, and Drew Sawyer has an

1873
01:32:12,000 --> 01:32:17,880
Speaker 2: appointed Philip Leonian and Edith Rosenbaum Leonian Curator of Photography.

1874
01:32:18,479 --> 01:32:20,760
Speaker 5: So good news, gonna go over where?

1875
01:32:21,320 --> 01:32:23,679
Speaker 3: Well while with big go over whel camp? What forever

1876
01:32:23,800 --> 01:32:25,080
Speaker 3: could you be referring.

1877
01:32:24,720 --> 01:32:30,040
Speaker 5: To these folks is white? What? Now? See?

1878
01:32:30,040 --> 01:32:31,640
Speaker 2: I've been looking at this article the whole time. I

1879
01:32:31,680 --> 01:32:35,120
Speaker 2: didn't even notice that because I don't see race. Okay,

1880
01:32:35,400 --> 01:32:37,280
Speaker 2: like I don't see race so much. I don't even

1881
01:32:37,320 --> 01:32:39,120
Speaker 2: know what the Fast Furious movies are about.

1882
01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:41,960
Speaker 4: Okay, they're gonna suck around to get some vibranium and

1883
01:32:41,960 --> 01:32:42,839
Speaker 4: gonna get it stolen.

1884
01:32:43,120 --> 01:32:45,880
Speaker 3: I don't understand Talla Dagon Knights. I watched the whole movie.

1885
01:32:45,920 --> 01:32:46,600
Speaker 3: I said, what is this?

1886
01:32:46,880 --> 01:32:49,200
Speaker 2: It's there were certain scenes that are just missing from

1887
01:32:49,240 --> 01:32:52,720
Speaker 2: my memory because I don't see race. Okay, that, yes, Cam,

1888
01:32:53,360 --> 01:32:55,240
Speaker 2: it happens for some of us. It's not hung up

1889
01:32:55,240 --> 01:32:59,880
Speaker 2: on making everything about race. Okay, who are you? Where's

1890
01:32:59,880 --> 01:33:01,880
Speaker 2: my I'm just saying.

1891
01:33:02,680 --> 01:33:04,120
Speaker 5: You know, you need to pick up some of that

1892
01:33:04,200 --> 01:33:05,120
Speaker 5: notion beside you.

1893
01:33:05,520 --> 01:33:07,759
Speaker 3: I'm good. No, I don't need no lotion. I'm not. Actually,

1894
01:33:07,840 --> 01:33:09,080
Speaker 3: I'm saying I'm above all this.

1895
01:33:09,160 --> 01:33:11,640
Speaker 2: I don't see race some of you people, so I

1896
01:33:11,640 --> 01:33:13,679
Speaker 2: could not have possibly known these people were white.

1897
01:33:14,360 --> 01:33:16,200
Speaker 5: You look at the pits. What does we talk about?

1898
01:33:16,400 --> 01:33:20,360
Speaker 2: I just see two faces of human beings, guys. Okay,

1899
01:33:20,840 --> 01:33:23,439
Speaker 2: white and human beings should be allowed to do all

1900
01:33:23,479 --> 01:33:26,000
Speaker 2: things human. And I think you can all agree.

1901
01:33:25,760 --> 01:33:30,160
Speaker 5: That technically, yes, that's correct, exactly technically yes, but the

1902
01:33:30,160 --> 01:33:31,679
Speaker 5: reality of that is not true.

1903
01:33:32,160 --> 01:33:32,559
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

1904
01:33:33,800 --> 01:33:37,000
Speaker 2: Well, when I like a lot of you guys, your

1905
01:33:37,000 --> 01:33:40,360
Speaker 2: favorite athlete for the Olympics is Jackie joined the Cursey.

1906
01:33:41,680 --> 01:33:45,400
Speaker 2: I never saw her because I don't see race. I

1907
01:33:45,439 --> 01:33:46,680
Speaker 2: don't even know what she's hang us for.

1908
01:33:49,960 --> 01:33:55,200
Speaker 3: So who is you the so Yeah, they have pointed

1909
01:33:55,240 --> 01:33:55,960
Speaker 3: two white people.

1910
01:33:56,120 --> 01:33:59,839
Speaker 2: And I think people are upset by it because you know, yes, uh,

1911
01:34:00,160 --> 01:34:03,280
Speaker 2: you know everybody's feeling. They kill Margaret On when he said,

1912
01:34:03,320 --> 01:34:06,519
Speaker 2: how y'all ancestors get these artifacts? You think they pay

1913
01:34:06,640 --> 01:34:11,840
Speaker 2: for them. But I'm gonna tell you something. I think

1914
01:34:11,880 --> 01:34:17,479
Speaker 2: it's also it makes me curious if it's an endemic problem.

1915
01:34:18,000 --> 01:34:20,599
Speaker 2: I you know, what if like from the ground up

1916
01:34:20,800 --> 01:34:23,400
Speaker 2: of people being trained to be curators, who gets into

1917
01:34:23,520 --> 01:34:26,280
Speaker 2: who gets it, let in what social circles you have

1918
01:34:26,360 --> 01:34:28,160
Speaker 2: to be in. I wonder how big of a problem

1919
01:34:28,160 --> 01:34:30,360
Speaker 2: it is and if it's also dealing with that.

1920
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:32,160
Speaker 5: I can guarantee you it is.

1921
01:34:32,240 --> 01:34:34,880
Speaker 4: And I bet it's probably something that goes through the

1922
01:34:34,920 --> 01:34:38,280
Speaker 4: curators across the country and it's very very probably little

1923
01:34:38,360 --> 01:34:42,280
Speaker 4: to none are brown, you know, and you have African

1924
01:34:42,360 --> 01:34:45,720
Speaker 4: American art probably with no African American people.

1925
01:34:45,400 --> 01:34:47,439
Speaker 5: Actually making the decisions and their choices.

1926
01:34:48,360 --> 01:34:50,200
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, as long as we have a diversity

1927
01:34:50,240 --> 01:34:52,679
Speaker 2: of opinion, I feel like that is true diversity.

1928
01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:55,280
Speaker 5: Right, that's not a diversity of opinion.

1929
01:34:55,640 --> 01:34:59,400
Speaker 2: Karen, I'm looking at this picture. Okay, she's a brunette,

1930
01:34:59,439 --> 01:35:03,320
Speaker 2: he's a blonde. That's diversity. Okay, so I think, you know,

1931
01:35:03,400 --> 01:35:06,639
Speaker 2: before we start saying stuff like it's not diverse, well

1932
01:35:06,680 --> 01:35:09,680
Speaker 2: you have two white people with different colored eyes and

1933
01:35:09,760 --> 01:35:11,880
Speaker 2: different Oh they won't let me go live? What the fuck?

1934
01:35:12,640 --> 01:35:15,040
Speaker 2: Try to smoothly go to the next section. And I

1935
01:35:15,080 --> 01:35:17,320
Speaker 2: got the air that I can't go live. O.

1936
01:35:19,640 --> 01:35:20,280
Speaker 3: Let me try.

1937
01:35:20,160 --> 01:35:24,280
Speaker 2: Refreshing real quick and we'll start that. Oh my god,

1938
01:35:24,479 --> 01:35:25,280
Speaker 2: why does it do this?

1939
01:35:25,439 --> 01:35:28,479
Speaker 5: Can I have no idea? Have you contacted him about this?

1940
01:35:28,800 --> 01:35:31,360
Speaker 3: No, I have not do because.

1941
01:35:31,080 --> 01:35:32,240
Speaker 5: It's an ongoing issue.

1942
01:35:32,520 --> 01:35:33,400
Speaker 3: Yep yep.

1943
01:35:33,640 --> 01:35:38,000
Speaker 4: Yeah right, and we ain't on a free bait. We

1944
01:35:38,120 --> 01:35:39,959
Speaker 4: pay some motherfucking needs to work.

1945
01:35:40,200 --> 01:35:41,120
Speaker 3: Right, yep.

1946
01:35:41,280 --> 01:35:44,559
Speaker 2: I'll send him an email. I'm not doing anything different

1947
01:35:44,560 --> 01:35:45,360
Speaker 2: than a lot norly do.

1948
01:35:45,600 --> 01:35:49,040
Speaker 3: So I don't know. I was thinking maybe it's because

1949
01:35:49,040 --> 01:35:51,439
Speaker 3: the start time isn't the right time. I don't know.

1950
01:35:51,760 --> 01:35:52,800
Speaker 3: Try this one more time.

1951
01:35:55,080 --> 01:35:59,120
Speaker 2: Okay, it just said I was live. Nope, all right,

1952
01:35:59,200 --> 01:36:01,040
Speaker 2: let me try a new set real quick. Careen, give

1953
01:36:01,080 --> 01:36:01,960
Speaker 2: me one second and.

1954
01:36:03,479 --> 01:36:09,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, grief, mm hmmm the white man. That's how they

1955
01:36:09,200 --> 01:36:09,519
Speaker 3: did you?

1956
01:36:12,439 --> 01:36:12,800
Speaker 5: All right?

1957
01:36:13,040 --> 01:36:18,719
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, obviously it's it's uh, it obviously

1958
01:36:18,840 --> 01:36:21,599
Speaker 2: is not look good to the eye that some white

1959
01:36:21,600 --> 01:36:23,920
Speaker 2: people is in charge of curating the African art.

1960
01:36:24,080 --> 01:36:28,719
Speaker 3: I mean that's pretty pretty uh, you know, obvious to say.

1961
01:36:29,280 --> 01:36:32,040
Speaker 2: But also, like I said, I just wonder how big

1962
01:36:32,080 --> 01:36:35,800
Speaker 2: that problem goes, because normally by like that might really be.

1963
01:36:36,720 --> 01:36:40,400
Speaker 3: I wonder what the pickings are like? Are they slim pickings?

1964
01:36:40,479 --> 01:36:44,000
Speaker 3: Are they? Are they not? I don't know. Oh my god.

1965
01:36:44,000 --> 01:36:46,040
Speaker 3: It won't let me go live with the next session either.

1966
01:36:46,800 --> 01:36:48,439
Speaker 5: What what is happening is?

1967
01:36:48,520 --> 01:36:49,439
Speaker 3: What is going on?

1968
01:36:49,680 --> 01:36:53,640
Speaker 5: I have no idea. Yeah, this is a problem.

1969
01:36:54,080 --> 01:36:57,720
Speaker 2: Oh all right, let me pause this real quick. All right,

1970
01:36:57,760 --> 01:37:01,080
Speaker 2: so crowdcast just quit on us. We cannot do the

1971
01:37:01,160 --> 01:37:04,000
Speaker 2: live chat right now. Won't let us go live. I

1972
01:37:04,040 --> 01:37:06,920
Speaker 2: have to email them about technical difficulties. We'll figure it out.

1973
01:37:06,920 --> 01:37:09,200
Speaker 2: I'm holly pissed, and I'm sorry for all the people

1974
01:37:09,240 --> 01:37:11,679
Speaker 2: live that didn't get to finish the show out. We're

1975
01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:13,720
Speaker 2: just gonna go ahead and do soword ratchiness and end

1976
01:37:13,720 --> 01:37:15,680
Speaker 2: the episode, and I'm gonna email let me see if

1977
01:37:15,680 --> 01:37:40,560
Speaker 2: I can get somebody to work on this. Taiwan Samurai

1978
01:37:40,560 --> 01:37:44,559
Speaker 2: sworder Tacker has been jailed for seven years, a man

1979
01:37:44,600 --> 01:37:46,760
Speaker 2: who used a stolen samurai sword to attack a guard

1980
01:37:46,760 --> 01:37:51,679
Speaker 2: outside Taiwanese president sight ing wins office last year, carrying

1981
01:37:51,760 --> 01:37:55,000
Speaker 2: notes threatening to be had her was sentenced on Thursday,

1982
01:37:55,000 --> 01:37:58,400
Speaker 2: the seven years in prison for a tempted murder. Oh yeah,

1983
01:37:58,439 --> 01:37:59,800
Speaker 2: that's actually seemed like a short period.

1984
01:38:00,200 --> 01:38:00,639
Speaker 3: It does.

1985
01:38:00,880 --> 01:38:04,920
Speaker 2: Carrying the flag of China, Lu chang Yi slashed the

1986
01:38:04,920 --> 01:38:07,320
Speaker 2: military police guard who was trying to prevent him from

1987
01:38:07,400 --> 01:38:10,280
Speaker 2: entering the complex in the neck, hand and face area.

1988
01:38:10,520 --> 01:38:14,000
Speaker 2: Wo and then he got arrested. Lou is in detention

1989
01:38:14,240 --> 01:38:17,160
Speaker 2: since August eighteenth attack. He has said he wanted to

1990
01:38:17,200 --> 01:38:19,880
Speaker 2: fly the Chinese flag in the presidential office, and he

1991
01:38:20,000 --> 01:38:22,800
Speaker 2: was carrying a handwritten note threatened to be had to side.

1992
01:38:23,520 --> 01:38:26,439
Speaker 2: In the notes, prosecutor said, Lou also expressed the hope

1993
01:38:26,479 --> 01:38:28,679
Speaker 2: that Beijing will make Taiwana a part of China again.

1994
01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:32,439
Speaker 2: Beijing still sees self ruled Taiwana as part of his territory,

1995
01:38:32,439 --> 01:38:35,679
Speaker 2: awaiting reunification, even though they split in nineteen forty nine

1996
01:38:35,760 --> 01:38:39,519
Speaker 2: after a civil war. The island relations with China have

1997
01:38:39,600 --> 01:38:42,720
Speaker 2: deteriorated since Side took power in twenty sixteen, and she

1998
01:38:42,760 --> 01:38:45,200
Speaker 2: has refused to agree to Beijing stands that Taiwanda is

1999
01:38:45,240 --> 01:38:49,160
Speaker 2: part of one China. The defendant was aware that slashing

2000
01:38:49,240 --> 01:38:51,280
Speaker 2: another person in the neck was with a samar so

2001
01:38:51,320 --> 01:38:53,799
Speaker 2: it could cause death, but intentionally did it and inflict

2002
01:38:53,840 --> 01:38:56,400
Speaker 2: the physical and emotional injuries, the tai Paid District Court

2003
01:38:56,439 --> 01:39:00,000
Speaker 2: said in a verdict. Prosecutor said Lou tried to protect,

2004
01:39:00,120 --> 01:39:02,680
Speaker 2: portrayed himself as a martyr, and showed no remorse for

2005
01:39:02,720 --> 01:39:05,760
Speaker 2: the attack. Responding to the attempted murder charge, however, Lou

2006
01:39:05,840 --> 01:39:08,880
Speaker 2: denied that he tried to kill the guard. Lou fifty

2007
01:39:08,920 --> 01:39:12,120
Speaker 2: one was also convicted of five lesser charges, included theft,

2008
01:39:12,400 --> 01:39:14,639
Speaker 2: as he stole a Samari sword from a military history

2009
01:39:14,680 --> 01:39:17,280
Speaker 2: museum by smashing the display case with a hammer. He

2010
01:39:17,320 --> 01:39:20,200
Speaker 2: can upheal the ruling. The swords carved with the phrase

2011
01:39:20,439 --> 01:39:23,400
Speaker 2: Nanging battle. This sword killed one hundred and seven people.

2012
01:39:23,600 --> 01:39:26,200
Speaker 2: Oh and it's believed to have been used by several

2013
01:39:26,400 --> 01:39:30,520
Speaker 2: soldiers during the Danging massacre in nineteen thirty seven. The

2014
01:39:30,560 --> 01:39:33,800
Speaker 2: Presidential Office complex and its surroundings in the center of

2015
01:39:33,840 --> 01:39:37,599
Speaker 2: the capitol of Taipei have been the target of attacks before.

2016
01:39:37,600 --> 01:39:39,960
Speaker 2: In twenty fourteen, a driver tried to smash his vehicle

2017
01:39:39,960 --> 01:39:43,479
Speaker 2: into the front door the nearby presidential residents. Several months

2018
01:39:43,479 --> 01:39:45,880
Speaker 2: after man ran the huge truck through a bulletproof screen

2019
01:39:46,160 --> 01:39:48,160
Speaker 2: and into the main gate of the Presidential Office.

2020
01:39:48,280 --> 01:39:49,400
Speaker 5: Well damn yeah.

2021
01:39:49,439 --> 01:39:51,920
Speaker 2: They try all men too, but they trying to get

2022
01:39:51,920 --> 01:39:55,160
Speaker 2: this woman Hume right. All right, guys, that's it for today.

2023
01:39:55,280 --> 01:39:58,160
Speaker 2: Sorry about the technical difficulties. Hopefully it will be fixed

2024
01:39:58,160 --> 01:40:02,080
Speaker 2: by tomorrow when we should have Andy and Randolf of

2025
01:40:02,120 --> 01:40:05,280
Speaker 2: the Three Guys on podcast tomorrow, So see you guys

2026
01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:07,360
Speaker 2: at seven according if all things go right.

2027
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Speaker 3: Until then, I love you.