1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: We could be reading. 6 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: Your letter live on the air, just like we're going 7 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you 8 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. 9 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 3: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time. 10 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,800 Speaker 3: We got it for you here it is Strawberry Letter. 11 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 2: Thank you, nephew. 12 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: Subject. I know what I saw, Dear Stephen Shirley. My 13 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: husband gaslights me whenever he is in trouble. I have 14 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 1: caught him talking to a woman on his phone, and 15 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 1: I saw his car was parked close to his ex 16 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: girlfriend's house, but not in front of it. 17 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 2: When he was on the phone with a woman. 18 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: He said he was trying to calm the woman down 19 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: because his brother broke up with her. I heard him 20 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: tell the woman that she spoiled and it's the sex 21 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: that got her so hooked. Why would he tell his 22 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: brother's ex girl that he was clearly talking about them, 23 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: having said her falling for him. He denied everything and 24 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: deleted her info from his phone, so I could not 25 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: call her. His brother even lied for him. Then there's 26 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,479 Speaker 1: a time when his car was parked by his ex's house. 27 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: He said that there's a bar and a convenience store 28 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 1: by his ex's house, so I can assume that he 29 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 1: was visiting her, but he wasn't. I'm no fool, but 30 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: he continues to treat me like I am stupid. The 31 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: final straw was when I walked in on him with 32 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: his pants down his knees to his knees with his 33 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 1: phone in his hand. I know for a fact he 34 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: was taking pictures of his manhood to send to a woman. 35 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 1: But he said he had a reaction to laundry detergent 36 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: and he was itching down there, so he used I 37 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: knew you were going to high five this one, so 38 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: he used the camera on his phone to see if 39 00:01:53,320 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: maybe some ants were since see maybe if some ants 40 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: were down there. 41 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 2: I just rolled my eyes and walked out. 42 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: The next day, I saw four pictures he'd taken with 43 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: his manhood in his hand. I know what I saw, 44 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 1: and I was right from the jump. He keeps telling 45 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: me that I want him to be the bad guy, 46 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: so I come up with stories in my head and 47 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: believe them. Really now, he said, I want him to 48 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: be a cheater. I want him to be a cheater, 49 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: but he's not. I am tired of his games. How 50 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: do I get my husband to be honest with me? 51 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: Face exists? I mean, he's not going to be honest 52 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: with you. 53 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 2: He's just not. 54 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,239 Speaker 1: He's had several opportunities you cited them in the letter, 55 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: several opportunities to come clean and tell you the truth, 56 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: but he just won't do it. He had a lie 57 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: for every single situation you caught him in. Some men 58 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: just lie just because they can. You know, lying works 59 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: for them because whoever they're lying to, their wives or 60 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:08,519 Speaker 1: partners or whatever, believe what they tell them. Other men 61 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: lie because they can't take a woman's fury when she 62 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 1: catches him or even suspects him. They say, we can't 63 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: handle the truth, but they can't handle our reaction to 64 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: the truth. 65 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 2: That's all it is. We still want to hear it. 66 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: They want to do whatever they want, then come back 67 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 1: and lie to us and our faces like we're stupid. 68 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: They don't know whether we can handle the truth or not. 69 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: Why don't they know that? Because they don't tell us 70 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: the truth, they lie they're big and bad enough to cheat, 71 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: but you know, too scared to admit it when. 72 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 2: They get caught red handed. 73 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: And we know they're lying, that's the thing. They know it. 74 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 1: Most women that I know hate liars. We're not stupid. 75 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: We know what we saw, just like you know what 76 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: you saw, and we can put two and two together 77 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: rather quickly. But for some reason, men they don't believe 78 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: it when we tell them we want the truth, the 79 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: truth matters. They just keep trying us until we explode. 80 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: Then we explode, they call us crazy. You see see 81 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: how this works? 82 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 2: Do I sound bitter? Do I sound patty? Right now? 83 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 2: I feel good though, I feel good about it. I'm 84 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 2: not mad. 85 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 3: I feel good about it. 86 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: At least I told you the truth. I'm not high 87 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 1: fiving your husband for lying. This may not have answered 88 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:32,559 Speaker 1: your question. I don't know, but I sure feel better. 89 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 2: That's all I can say. I feel good. 90 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 4: See you sure Lord have mercy. I was looking at you. 91 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 4: I was looking at you on this zoom. 92 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 3: I was going, what's wrong? 93 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 2: Whatever? 94 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 3: You ain't trying to help nobody. They all lie. They 95 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 3: lie when they know Because we want the truth, We'll 96 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 3: take the truth. No you can't. 97 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 4: We can No, you can't. No, you can't. Now, see 98 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 4: I gotta change my whole answer. No, And I was 99 00:04:56,320 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 4: gonna try to help the lady, but no, how do 100 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 4: I get my husband to be honest with me? See, ladies, 101 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 4: well let's take a trip down the dog side. What 102 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 4: y'all need to be asking yourselves is not how can 103 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 4: I get my husband to be honest with me? You 104 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:19,480 Speaker 4: need to. 105 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 3: Ask yourself is why would he be honest with me? 106 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 4: There has to be a reason, you know, ladies, men 107 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 4: don't do nothing without a reason. 108 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 3: There has to be a reason. So now I'm gonna 109 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:33,679 Speaker 3: walk you through. 110 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 4: This letter filled with reasons. Reasons. Now, the latter is, 111 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 4: I know what I saw. The husband gaslights me whenever 112 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 4: he's in trouble. I caught him talking to a woman 113 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 4: on his phone. I saw his car was parked to 114 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 4: his girlfriend's house, but not in front of it. Now, 115 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 4: when he was on the phone with a woman, he 116 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 4: said he was trying to calm the woman down because 117 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 4: his brother broke up with him. I heard him tell 118 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 4: the woman she spoiled and it's the sex that got 119 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 4: her so hooked. Why would he tell his brother's ex 120 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 4: girl that because he was trying to keep them together. 121 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 4: His brother confided in him that she just tripping and 122 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 4: that you know, they was going through some stuff, and 123 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 4: he said, man, I'll be handling my business real well 124 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 4: with it, and that that's all it is right now. Man, 125 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 4: I think we just more in a sexual relationship than 126 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:35,119 Speaker 4: anything else. 127 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 3: But she won't mope. 128 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 2: All right, Hang on, Steve, Hang on. 129 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 130 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today Strawberry Letters, subject, 131 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: I know what I saw right after this. 132 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 2: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 133 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 5: Hey, it's Carla Farroll that old mop and bucket aside? 134 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 5: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? 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Get yours today and mop 142 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 5: smarter with the Swiffer Power Mop. 143 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 144 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: The subject is I know what I saw? 145 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 4: You know this is a letter about Shirley says, a 146 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 4: man lies because we can't tell the truth. We just 147 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 4: lie all the time. You know, the women won't the truth? 148 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 4: And why can't y'all just be honest with us? It's 149 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 4: the question at the end of this thing, why can't 150 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 4: my husband just be honest with me? My question to 151 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 4: what women need to be asking is why would he 152 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 4: be honest? Because see and then Shirley says, because we 153 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 4: want the truth. And then you say that what men 154 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 4: always say, Well, you can't handle the truth, and you can't. 155 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 3: You can't. And Shirley's also right about we don't like 156 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 3: you all's reaction. 157 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 4: And the reason we say you can't handle the truth 158 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 4: is because your reaction is not gonna be one that 159 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 4: we want, a one that will lead to a healthy 160 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 4: conversation exchange. It's gonna be filled with rage, name calling, 161 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 4: hot throwing all of that. Now, my clothes in the 162 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:42,959 Speaker 4: driveway on fire, you the key to car, and all 163 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 4: this year, see what the car got to do with 164 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 4: you burning my clothes up. I'm gonna buy something else 165 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,839 Speaker 4: and go over there. Anyway, So let's go over this letter. 166 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 4: She heard her man on the phone talking to a 167 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 4: woman to try to calm him down because his brother 168 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 4: broke up with it. I heard him tell the woman 169 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 4: he spoiled, she spoiled and the sex got her hook. 170 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 4: Why would he tell his brother's ex that he was 171 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 4: clearly talking about them having sex and falling for her. 172 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 3: Then he would have said. 173 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 4: You know, you know why, you know, you know what 174 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 4: you hooked on girl, you know how I'll put it 175 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 4: on you. But you didn't hear that. I think he 176 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 4: might have could have been trying to save the brother's relationship, 177 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 4: so that one is a little shaky. 178 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 3: That one was a little shaky. 179 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 4: He denied everything and deleted her from his phone so 180 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 4: I could not call her. 181 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I can see where you're going. 182 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 4: Why don't I be able to call her brother's wife 183 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 4: because his brother's girlfriend that they broke up. Because he 184 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 4: don't want you doubling back trying to undo nothing, he said, 185 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 4: It is probably why he deleted the number. 186 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 3: You see that. I think it was brilliant of him 187 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 3: to delete that number. 188 00:09:56,240 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 4: The absolutely brilliant because guess what was gonna do? 189 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:02,719 Speaker 3: Just what he thought you was gonna try to call her? 190 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 4: The question you need to know is why he won't 191 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 4: be honest. 192 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:08,439 Speaker 3: All right. 193 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 4: Now, the next move you said was that was the 194 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 4: time his car was parked by his exits house. He 195 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 4: said that there's a bar and a convenience store by 196 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 4: his exitit house, so I can assume. 197 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 3: That he was visiting her, but he wasn't. 198 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 4: I'm no fooling. He continues to treat me like I'm stupid. Okay, 199 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 4: now that was another brilliant move. He parked his car 200 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 4: by her house, like in between the convenience store and 201 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 4: the bar, but not at her house. So when you 202 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 4: drove by, I saw his car. His lie was I 203 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 4: was in the bar, but there was no parking and 204 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 4: that's why I parked. And I've been going to that 205 00:10:56,040 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 4: bar when I was dating. Hum another excell a lie. 206 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 4: And what you don't have that he was in the 207 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:07,959 Speaker 4: house high five dogs. Now I'm gonna tell you where 208 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 4: he messed up at. He was doing good. These are 209 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 4: two good lies that he told. These were actually pretty 210 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 4: well thought out. But here's the one. Then she said 211 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 4: when she called his brother that the brother even lied 212 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 4: for him. Okay, brothers stick together, so that's her not okay, anyway, 213 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:29,199 Speaker 4: I'm sounding discombotulated, but I'm trying to find what I'm saying. 214 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. 215 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:34,839 Speaker 4: The final straw was when I walked in on him 216 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 4: with his pants down to his knees. 217 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 3: This food right here, man, you ain't locking those with you? 218 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,839 Speaker 4: And then where you standing up with your pants around 219 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 4: your knees like you five going to the bath froom, 220 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 4: got his pants down round his knees with his phone 221 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 4: in his hand. I know for a fact he was 222 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,320 Speaker 4: taking a picture of his manhood to see into a woman. 223 00:11:58,360 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 3: But he said that here we go. 224 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 4: He had a reaction to the laundry detergent and he 225 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 4: was itching down there. That was an excellent line. Here 226 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 4: where he messed up at This is why I was 227 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 4: shame of him. So he used a camera on his 228 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 4: phone to see if maybe some ants was. 229 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 3: Down there or by you was doing all right with 230 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 3: the laundry detergent? 231 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 4: What you talking about? You got some phones to see 232 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 4: if it was some ants down there. 233 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 3: Some ants get on inside your drawers. 234 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 4: See now that's why you done took line to Now 235 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 4: you deserve to be busted. Now I'm on her side. Sit, 236 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 4: stupid lie. You had told old dumb ass lie. You 237 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 4: did good with the laundry, Detergent. 238 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 3: You get your camera to see if it's some ants 239 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 3: down there. Boy, I just rolled my eyes and walked out. 240 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 4: The Next day, I saw four pictures he taken with 241 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 4: his manhood in his hand. Boy, he must have really 242 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 4: been trying to zoom in on them hands. I know 243 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 4: what I saw, and I was right from the jump. 244 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 4: He keep telling me that I want him to be 245 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 4: the bad guy and come up his stories and come 246 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 4: up with them stories in my head till I believe them. 247 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 4: He said he want. I want him to be a cheat, 248 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 4: and he's not. I'm tired of his game. How do 249 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 4: I get my hoosband to be honest with me? I'm 250 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 4: just gonna hear you right now. Yeah, y'all, marriage is over, 251 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 4: and it's over because of some aunts and in his pants. 252 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 4: You ought to leave him just for that, all right? 253 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 254 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry 255 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. 256 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 2: Free never sounded Maundre Detergent was fine, tell you, junior. 257 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,839 Speaker 1: With sports talk coming up next right after this, you're 258 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show,