WEBVTT - Call It with Mom & Dad 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:15.600 Hello, Hello, Hello, Call It Crew, and welcome to another 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:19.919 episode of Call It what It Is. And yes, you 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:23.639 are correct. I did the hello, hello, hello, which I 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:27.320 really probably shouldn't have because it is Jessica Capshaw's signature 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:30.800 intro to this podcast. But she can't be with us today. 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:36.080 Usually our schedules time out super perfect with each other 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:40.680 and we get to make sure that we get to 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:42.800 make this podcast for you guys. But this week is 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:46.239 a huge episode for Joe Wilson on Gray's Anatomy. I 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:48.880 can't say what it is, but I'm filming every single 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:52.559 day except today, and she happened to be working today, 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:57.520 so it felt like, yes, my work wife can't be 0:00:57.640 --> 0:01:02.200 here today, is it time to bring my side piece? 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:07.240 And I felt like yes it was, And who is 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:12.360 that side piece? That's Matthew Allen, my husband. So Matthew Allan, 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:14.160 welcome to the pod. 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:15.920 Thank you, thank you. 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:17.920 How are you feeling about this because we did we've 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:19.920 talked about this. First off, I have to say that 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:22.200 I when I found outjess couldn't do it, I went 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:25.040 into the kitchen yes, and I just I didn't even ask. 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:28.039 I just said to you, you're doing the podcast on Wednesday. 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:29.600 I was talking to my mom at the time. 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:32.200 Yeah yeah, and I said, you're just you're doing it, goodbye, 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:34.240 And then Jessica thought maybe she could do it. So 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:36.319 I came in later and I said, you're fired. You're 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:37.160 not doing it right. 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:41.800 Yeah. I was looking forward to it, but very intimidated 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:42.440 the moment. 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:44.000 You tell yeah yeah, yeah. So I said, don't worry, 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:47.240 you're not needed, goodbye, And then we realized that Jessica 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:49.200 really couldn't do it. So you are here today. 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:52.440 I'm here to support. I'm here to fill some very 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:56.160 big shoes, some big heels, some giant heels. Yeah, okay, 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:57.520 I'm excited to be here. 0:01:57.720 --> 0:01:59.040 You're nervous, though, I am. 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:02.080 I've been nervous all morning, to be honest. Yeah. You 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:05.600 guys make it looks, you know, so so seamless, and 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:08.320 you do yeah, and like a well oiled machine. So 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:10.640 I don't want to step on anyone's toes and. 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:12.320 Like, no, no, you're already the. 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:16.799 Virus the ship off up track, which I tend to do. 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:21.240 I hope I can offer some unfiltered advice, male advice. 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:23.080 Yes, that's why you're here. 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:24.840 Thanks for having me, of course. 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:26.400 Now I think we have to back it up a 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:28.640 little bit because I let's talk about the promo that 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:30.680 I sent out talking about you. 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:33.239 One said get in the car. 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:35.640 So yeah, yeah, So here's what happened to talk about. 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:39.360 iHeart was like, well, let's promote Matt and Camilla coming 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:41.959 on the show together. And I was like, great, love it. Kyle, 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:45.960 our social media guru, put together this little thing and 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:48.480 this picture of me getting to the car and you 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:50.480 behind me in the car. It was all thank you 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:54.160 to me, and and he's I said, well, let's make 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:56.200 something cute and funny, and I said, let's do that 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.919 mean girls quote get in the car, loser we're going shopping, 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:00.960 but like make it, get in the car, lows we're 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:03.480 going potting. And then like that's that like funny, play 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:06.600 on it and everyone will know that. Senate to Matt 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:09.520 text it because he was downstairs. I was upstairs, couldn't 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:11.560 be ballwed to walk downstairs. I said, oh my god, 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:14.160 look at this. It's so cute. Zero response from you 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:14.560 on it. 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:17.560 Did any respond No, you didn't any response. I didn't 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:20.440 do like a a haha, No, not even a haha. 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:22.400 That was nothing. It was like radio science. So I 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:25.760 was like whatever. Obviously he loves it. He thinks it's incredible. 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:28.960 And then Jessica text me in the morning and she said, 0:03:29.080 --> 0:03:31.399 did you reprove this right? 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:31.880 Yes? 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:33.480 And so I was like, what is she? 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:33.720 Like? 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:36.440 Why is she asking if I approved it? And then 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:42.800 I realized maybe not everyone knows that quote and thinks 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:46.160 I'm actually just calling you a loser, right right? And 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:48.080 so I text jess I said, do you know this 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:50.640 mean girl's quote? She was like, definitely not. I thought 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:52.800 you allegit calling him a loser. So then I went 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:55.440 up to you and I said, did you have any 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:58.200 idea this was from a movie? And you said. 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:01.240 Nope, nope. I just thought you were calling me a loser. 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:04.080 And I was totally down to you know. 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:07.240 This is what I don't understand. You really thought that 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:09.680 I was calling you a loser. Like if you had 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:11.760 said that to me, I would even like, get upstairs 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:13.080 right now, we need to have a conversation. 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:16.320 What I thought it was. You know, it was supposed 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:19.600 to be, you know, in good humor, and I was 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:22.720 along for the ride. But I mean, that's supportive husband, right. 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:25.599 It was very supportive, even though I didn't get the joke. 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:30.240 So supportive but now that I get. 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:35.960 The joke of it, Okay. So so then I said 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:38.640 to you, you know you're going to come today, and 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:41.480 I said, we're going to do this really cool podcast. 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:44.360 We're gonna talk about relationships and dating and like maybe 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:46.840 even sex and maybe we'll just get into all this stuff. 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.400 And then what was your first question that you had 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:50.400 right after I said that? 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:57.520 Honestly, yeah, I asked if the chair that I'm going 0:04:57.560 --> 0:05:03.520 to be sitting in there will support my back. Yeah, 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:05.520 it was an honest question because it was I know, 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:08.400 this is a long period of time, and I, yeah, 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:10.240 when I commit to something, I got to think of, Like, 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:12.560 I don't know, my back hurts all the time, I'm 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:15.120 tired all the time. He's a complaints You hear me 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:17.000 complain about all the time. So I just wanted to 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:18.640 make sure that it was going to be a miserable 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:20.359 experience for you, as. 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:21.960 Well as as you and the listeners. 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:25.120 Yeah, I don't need to hear me grunting and groaning 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:27.240 every time I readjust myself. 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:29.080 This is true. But I was trying to set up 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:32.760 this like kind of sexy mood, right, and then you 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:35.880 killed it by saying, is my background hurt. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.440 When I'm sitting I just immediately got a little nervous 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:39.880 where my mind went. 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:43.520 I think that we need to tell the story because 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:46.359 it's a perfect example of maybe a time you should 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:50.960 have listened to me, Okay, how your back ended up 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.440 being in the disaster that it is. 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:56.799 Now, of all the things they don't want to hear about. 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:57.880 This, they're going to hear about it. 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:02.320 Yes, you saw you saw it coming. Long story short, 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:06.680 I did one of those Spartan obstacle course basically American, 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:12.400 and I had injured my back, you know, a few 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:14.159 days prior. But I was like, I can push through. 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:16.599 No, no, no, hang on, I feel like you're already telling 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:18.400 a little bit of a lie. Oh, here we go, 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:21.960 because the truth is that did you train really hard? 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:26.039 Oh? I forgot that I didn't train that. Okay, I 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:28.040 didn't train the way that I should have, but I 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:31.560 really thought that I could handle it. I thought I 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:33.640 could wing it. I had done one before, but I 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:35.479 trained a lot for it, so this one I was like, 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:37.600 let's just do it. It was supposed to be a 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:40.680 motivation for me to you know, get back into shape. 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.719 And so you and I saw that you were in 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:47.160 like a wing. It kind of mood with it, and 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:50.680 I said to you, I see you winging it happening, 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:53.520 and you're gonna really this is going to be disaster, 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:57.200 going to hurt yourself, and you're like, don't worry baby. 0:06:58.120 --> 0:06:58.320 Yeah. 0:06:58.400 --> 0:06:58.599 Yeah. 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:02.040 And then on the second obstacle, I threw it out 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:06.960 again completely, like real bad. Yeah, but I still pushed through. 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:09.200 I know, I pushed through all the right of the 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:11.880 end and damage did even more than I. Yeah, it 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:14.840 was terrible at the beginning. So but I finished the race. 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:18.320 You finished the race, and then you came home and 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:21.520 you basically couldn't move and you were probably the only 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:24.840 person that's given yourself scoliosis. 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:29.000 Basically by the time I got home from the race, Yeah, 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:31.720 it was a two hour drive from San Diego. I 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:33.920 couldn't move. I had to be wheeled out of the car, 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:36.880 and yeah, I was flat on my back for recast. 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:39.840 So this is the the back has been part is 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:41.600 kind of the third wheel in our relationship. 0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:47.440 It has been the giant elephant that's always in the room. Yeah. 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.040 So I mean it was a legit question when the 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:51.440 chairs would be comfortable today. 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:54.080 So yeah, that was the first thing I thought of 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:56.080 just because I wanted to, you know, make it good 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:57.280 for you. It had nothing to do with it. 0:07:57.320 --> 0:07:58.640 And you're feeling I'm good. 0:07:58.680 --> 0:07:59.000 I'm good. 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:01.040 I think we can I think we can set the 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.240 mood with this. I think that we can break the 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:10.680 ice also with just asking each other a couple icebreaker questions. 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:16.600 Okay, a simple one. Okay, okay, we just saw this recently. 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:17.600 Yeah, what is it. 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:25.240 In the substance? Would you take the substance if given 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:25.720 the chance. 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:29.720 I've given the chance. I think that you For those 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:32.800 who don't know, this is a movie about somebody Denimore 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:36.760 taking the substance and basically a younger version of herself 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:40.840 ends up living, coming out of her body, literally out 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:43.640 of her back and living, and they have to they. 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:45.240 If they came out of my bag, I'd be done. 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:47.680 First off, you don't have a back for it to 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:49.840 come out of, so that you're out of there's no 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:52.720 option for you. You wouldn't get offered it for me. Okay, 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:57.400 I gotta say, I don't understand the why you would 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:01.480 take it because you don't get to experience the younger you. 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:03.679 You're just off for a week. Although I do love 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:05.480 a nap, so it's like I know. 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:07.520 Wait, hang on, now, I'm thanking you wake up well 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:08.240 rested after this. 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:10.920 Maybe you do because you've had a whole week off 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:13.559 with the kids. Do I need a young Well, let me. 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:17.360 Ask you factoring kids into this, well you that's me. 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:19.360 I'm taking the substance. It's like, I have a week 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:22.839 off from like lunches and shit. I don't know. 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:24.800 Bonus, that's not kind of nice. 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:26.800 Wait, I have a question for you back then. Hang on, 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:29.200 this isn't one of my two questions, but would you 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:34.400 want younger Camilla for a week every other week? To 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:35.080 be honest, I. 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:37.160 Mean, I'm gonna be honest. Younger Camilla is not making 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:39.840 the sandwiches, so she's not taking a break from those. 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:44.800 Old Camilla is also not making the sandwiches Younger. 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:45.880 Camilla making she's not either. 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:47.920 She's doing what she's doing. Do you know what I mean? 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:51.760 She's okay, she's just being amazing out in the world. 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:56.560 Yeah, I would be down to see what you Camilla is. 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.480 The truth is a wow. I don't know how I 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:01.360 feel about that. Okay, let me ask you a question. 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:03.520 What is the most annoying thing about me? 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:08.200 On the spot? So it's going to cause an argument. 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:16.560 Am I, Oh, yeah, you're a shotgun driver. What's a 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:19.400 shotgun when I'm driving you trying to drive from the 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:21.079 side from the shotgun spot? 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:24.760 Yeah, it does. No, We do argue over that. If 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:27.880 they did have another steering wheel for me, I would 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:28.480 appreciate it. 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:31.840 Ye, Like literally, driving with the kids is one thing, 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:34.400 but with the kids and you and I'm the one driving. 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:38.680 Yeah, yeah, I have to say that you drive like 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:42.719 a ninety year old who should not be on the 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:45.520 road and who has all the time in the world. 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:48.760 It is the most annoying version of driving. 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:51.679 I drive slow, but I feel like it's always a 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:55.160 safety thing, like I'm always aware of everybody. I'm protecting 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:55.800 my family. 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:57.960 I get that. But we don't. We usually get there 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:00.560 to the destination like the next day, you know what 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:01.880 I'm saying, like, Yeah, we don't. 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:04.520 It could be a heavy medium. But when I'm driving 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:08.800 and you're trying to drive, that's probably I'm getting worked 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:09.840 up just talking about it. 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:13.640 Don't worry about it. I honestly think that I listen. 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:16.080 I think I am another set of eyes on the 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:16.800 road helping. 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:22.480 That's what we're calling that. Sure, Yeah, yeah, that's what what. 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:24.439 I don't know if yours work that, Well. 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:28.080 I'm gonna go ahead and ask the same question back, what's. 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:29.000 The most annoying thing about you? 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:32.520 Yeah, I'm gonna bring up the back again. 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:33.920 No, I'm not going to bring up the back. There's 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:36.800 not going to be another thing. Don't worry the most 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:41.200 annoying Oh my god, you do. Matt is a dropper. 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:47.360 You're a dropper. You drop things that like, you don't 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:51.040 even you can't even believe that someone would drop like 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:51.960 you're I find. 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:56.120 Ways to drop things that it's impossible. How I drop that? 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:58.880 But yeah, no, it's almost it's almost supernatural. 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:01.160 Yeah. Yeah, so it's a talent. 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:04.719 Well, it's like a power that no one would want. 0:12:04.960 --> 0:12:08.120 Okay, do you want to tell them the carpet story? 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:10.280 Yeah, because this is oh my god, this is turning 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:12.760 into the biggest marriage pod right now. We just had 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:13.880 a new carpet. 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:16.480 Installed on our stairs, the only carpet. 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:18.040 That we've ever Okay, so Matt and I have never 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:20.160 like when we've moved into a home, we've never like 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:24.120 really invested in, Like, let's put wallpaper on the walls, 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:26.559 Let's change the carpet, Let's do this and that this 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:30.160 is the first home that we've really like deep dived into. 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:33.439 You've taken a lot of care, taking a lot of care. 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:35.920 Yes, And so we like we did the carpet on 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:39.360 the stairs, and it was we were like really admiring it, 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:42.520 like you know, we're having those annoying marriage conversations of like, god, 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:44.920 it's just like so soft on my feet. 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:48.800 Yes, all those Okay, it just looks so nice every time. 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:50.559 I love it from this angle. I love it from 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:51.080 this angle. 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:53.040 Yeah. Yeah. 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:55.960 I was carrying a hot, perfectly made cup of coffee 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:59.920 up the stairs. Yeah, and I tripped and spilt it. 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:01.520 All over about four. 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:05.560 Steps, two steps and the front of the next one. 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:08.800 Yeah. Yeah. Well what was interesting to me is like, 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:12.480 you know, like a regular sized coffee cup. Yeah, somehow 0:13:12.520 --> 0:13:15.480 you were able to like get two leaders of coffee. 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:18.360 It was like an entire two leaders had been poured 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:21.280 strategically on the carpet. Yeah. 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:24.680 Yeah. And just the image of you falling. You weren't 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:26.360 even falling down, falling up the side. 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:28.280 I fell up and I tripped and I did one 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:30.120 of those like kind of fall under your knee and 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:32.720 then kind of sit into it. Yeah, you sat and 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:36.120 it all happened so fast. Yeah, I was all by myself, 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:41.400 and the disappointment I had when I spilled that coffee 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:42.120 and that carpet. 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:45.720 I mean we could have gotten divorced over just that. 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:47.880 To be honest, I told the guy when he came 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:50.320 to fix it, please do this fast. We're on the brink. 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:52.960 Yeah. In fact, you were so upset over it that 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.160 we can't we should disclose that you put a towel 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:57.480 over the force. I couldn't look at it for three days, 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:59.240 and you're like, I can't even look at it. Yeah, 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:01.959 and you were like, don't look like. 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:04.680 Almost string to bother you. After a couple of days, 0:14:04.960 --> 0:14:07.120 you're being really cool at the beginning, and then the 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:08.840 next day it was like this is kind of boring 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:10.520 me a little bit. And then the next day it 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.320 was like this is really bothered me. And then by 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:14.840 day three you were so I was like you were 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:17.360 dead to me. Yeah. I couldn't even Yeah. 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:19.200 Yeah, the first day I was being cool about it. 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:21.200 You put this towel there and it was like we 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:23.760 were covering like blood from a dead body, and you're like, 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:25.000 don't look at it. It's too much. 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:26.160 You can't change. 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:28.920 And then so I did peak, and I'm like, it's 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:30.680 all good. And then by day three I was like, 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:33.200 you need to go see a doctor or something is 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:34.520 wrong with you. 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:38.240 Yeah, I hear about the drops. Ever since, I'm so 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:40.000 glad we spent so much time on my mind. 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:42.640 I mean, listen, it's you asked the question. The other 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:46.200 thing that does annoy me is you're sneezing. It's really 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:56.040 I feel like it's a little intention seeking. Okay, because okay, 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:58.800 let's call it what it is. Do you ever seeze 0:14:58.840 --> 0:14:59.840 just one single time? 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:04.800 I can't. I can't just sneeze one time. My body 0:15:04.800 --> 0:15:06.000 does not allow me to do that. 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:07.720 It's twelve sneeze is in a row. 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:10.000 It's not well. But I do sneeze more than the 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:10.720 average person. 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:14.240 Yes, And it's like literally getting mad at. 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:16.920 Me when I when I if I crossed the three 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:18.800 sneeze threshold. 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:21.240 Because it's not for some reason, no, because it's it 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.640 feels at that point it feels a little attention seeking, 0:15:26.840 --> 0:15:29.280 and it feels like, okay, everyone be quiet, well Dad, 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:31.880 the next five minutes will Dad finishes out sneeze and 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:33.840 it's like nobody else needs to do it but you. 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:35.720 So it feels like you're trying to have a moment. 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:43.360 I cannot. I'm not even I have allergies. I don't 0:15:43.440 --> 0:15:44.280 enjoy it. 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:48.560 It's I don't know, I understand, but it's getting worse 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:52.560 with age. I'm just big you. Okay, Well, we'll stop 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:54.400 the ice breaking because we're gonna end up breaking up 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:56.920 by the end of this EP. So okay. So the 0:15:56.960 --> 0:16:01.360 main question that everyone asked that came in was and 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:03.200 then we'll get into all the individual questions, but the 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:05.400 main question was how did you and I meet? 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:13.160 I'm we were. We were servers, really good servers, and 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:14.200 at a. 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:17.160 Sports bar, at a sports bar in Los Angeles. Do 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:18.760 you think I was actually really good? 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:22.640 No? No, you were. You were not good, But that's 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:25.640 why we bonded, being the really good server that I am. Yeah, 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:28.600 I you know I I you climbed the road. I 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:31.120 climbed through that company. I got a call from a 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:35.160 disgruntled customer complaining about a girl named Camilla that had 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:38.280 waited on them. I remember telling that I was going 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:39.360 to give her a talking Hey. 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:43.160 Yeah, yeah, little did they know that we've been smooching 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:46.960 behind the scenes. And when you're smooching, there's a there's 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:52.200 a there's an unspoken rule that you're not going to 0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:54.240 fire me. It's going to go no further than that 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:54.800 phone call. 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:56.240 But I assured them that I would. 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:57.960 Yeah, yeah, of course, good job. 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:00.000 But ironically, the fact that I picked up the phone 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:02.680 and they were calling about you, so yes. 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:06.600 Matt and I we waited tables together, prevented me from 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:10.720 getting fired. And then I think that one thing that's 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:12.840 interesting is do you remember helping me with my Grey's 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:13.600 Anatomy audition? 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:19.120 Do? Yeah? Ye? If he's dropping, I still haven't seen 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:21.840 my commission, don't worry about it. 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:38.919 Okay, let's get into these. Okay, you read Ruby. 0:17:39.480 --> 0:17:46.000 What was your first impression of Camilla? She made me laugh. 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:50.240 We laughed a lot, and I found that I'd never 0:17:51.000 --> 0:17:53.920 I'd never actually met a woman that I had laughed with. 0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:57.960 Yes, exactly right, Georgie. Who said I love you? First? 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:04.199 You or Camilla? Actually? Wait, I said that I had 0:18:04.200 --> 0:18:06.560 a crush on you first. You told me that you 0:18:06.600 --> 0:18:11.440 were falling for me? Yes, yeah, first, which is very cute. 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:13.680 Okay, how often do you make time for date night? 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:14.320 God? 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:16.640 As a parent, I find it, we find it hard. 0:18:17.480 --> 0:18:18.600 We find it really hard. 0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:20.600 Even when you have the time in the evenings. I 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:23.919 feel like by the time that five thirty six o'clock 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:29.560 rolls around, you know, when you're starting kid bedtime, you know, 0:18:29.640 --> 0:18:31.719 the air gets let out, you know, you get tired. 0:18:31.760 --> 0:18:34.840 And so date night is always yeah, a good movie. 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:38.240 And yeah, I mean they're talking about going out day nights. 0:18:38.280 --> 0:18:39.880 We don't. I mean we go out like I feel 0:18:39.880 --> 0:18:41.639 like once every couple of weeks we'll go out for 0:18:41.760 --> 0:18:42.560 like a date night. 0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:44.120 And we're going to use this as a date night. 0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:46.880 We've and yeah, so what we've done today because we're 0:18:46.920 --> 0:18:50.520 like when in Rome, right, no kids, We've bought our 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:53.200 bottle owned bottle of wine here with us and we're 0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:56.200 drinking rose out of our coffee mugs. And the reason 0:18:56.320 --> 0:18:59.880 is is because, as you guys know, did I trust 0:19:00.480 --> 0:19:03.359 to bring wine glasses around? 0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:04.600 That was my idea. 0:19:05.359 --> 0:19:09.119 No, listen, I told you dropped and we would have. 0:19:09.359 --> 0:19:11.680 You said no, stem exactly right, and you were right 0:19:11.720 --> 0:19:14.240 because you knew you'd be a dropper with it. We're 0:19:14.280 --> 0:19:17.159 using this as a date night. Okay, Mollie, have you 0:19:17.200 --> 0:19:19.520 two ever done couples therapy? Would you be open to 0:19:19.560 --> 0:19:22.880 it if needed? I think we're both hang on, we're 0:19:22.880 --> 0:19:26.119