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Speaker 1: good marded everybody you're listening to the voice, come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now, one and all, it's Steve Harvey, got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Well all right, I've learned something and

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Speaker 1: it sharing time. And I am all ever appreciated. I

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Speaker 1: do appreciate God for all that he allows me to

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Speaker 1: learn in my life. One of the best lessons I've

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Speaker 1: learned is that hardship teaches you some great lessons. Challenges

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Speaker 1: brings about some of my best results. I think what

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is in every challenge and hardship,

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Speaker 1: every setback, I've learned something so so valuable. So here's

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Speaker 1: what I've You know, I've known this, but I've just

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Speaker 1: learned it at a different angle. Appreciation and gratitude is

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Speaker 1: the key to having more. Now. I don't know how

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Speaker 1: that sound to you, but I can't tell you how

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Speaker 1: true it is. God being fair and just as he

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Speaker 1: really is. He really is. He's a fair and a

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Speaker 1: just God. What's most beneficial to us is he happens

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Speaker 1: to be full of mercy and grace. And I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you something, man, I've probably benefited from his grace and

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Speaker 1: mercy more than anything else. I mean, really, man, if

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Speaker 1: genuine appreciation and gratitude has been the key to you

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Speaker 1: you don't have room enough to receive. If you look

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Speaker 1: which he is, why would he put more on you

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Speaker 1: You know, forget how rough it was, got that but

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Speaker 1: you made it. Forget what it sent you through, and

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Speaker 1: it hid made you feel you made it. Now, what

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Speaker 1: makes people give up and you hear about people committing suicide,

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Speaker 1: is they leave the God out of their life and

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Speaker 1: they start allowing that other voice to control. And if

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Speaker 1: it's really true that God never puts more on you

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Speaker 1: than you can bear, as long as you stay connected

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Speaker 1: to God, you can get through anything. But you lose

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Speaker 1: that connection, you lose that communication, you lose that relationship

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Speaker 1: with him. If you're not having a relationship with God,

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Speaker 1: then who you're having a relationship with Now it ain't

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Speaker 1: but two forces at work at all time. It's good

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Speaker 1: being as just and merciful as he is, put more

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Speaker 1: So listen, y'all again, your appreciation and gratitude is the

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Speaker 1: boys and girls, let me have your attention. Please try Jesus,

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Speaker 1: I don't care. But when you come from mind though. Now, No,

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Speaker 1: well I had to do. We were joking one day.

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Speaker 1: But let me ask you something though, a little man,

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Speaker 1: Why are your friends whooping my ass? What is I'm

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Speaker 1: And I'm grabbing what you think I ain't gonna grab.

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Speaker 1: Y'all don't know what the old man fight. Look Hey, hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: I just started kissing you, throw your in the all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you guys. Can't wait to see these matchups coming

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Speaker 1: though I don't know me hello rockaway being. I know

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Speaker 1: This one's from Tawanda and Seattle. She said, I just

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Speaker 1: I've been dating a man for two years. I'm twenty nine,

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Speaker 1: One night he even told me he was very fond

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Speaker 1: told him he loved you, and he says same hill, ditto,

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Speaker 1: to say, thank you, boomerang, yeah, stuff like that. You

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Speaker 1: does that mean? No? Tell me what that means. You

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Speaker 1: know we've been dating a year. Tell me what that means.

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Speaker 1: And then, secondly, when you say I'm wifey material, are

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Speaker 1: She's family for us, she really, yeah, yeah she is.

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Speaker 1: Let's go cad Dog because Brady, Brady, how are you doing? Man?

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Speaker 1: My name, my name is Dennis Man. I got a

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Speaker 1: Now I feel it, and I understand you your complaint

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Speaker 1: let's see now now now right there, and I'm not

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Speaker 1: It's come down there, you're lean old, put your private

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Speaker 1: And you understanding, they ain't no punk flying that didn't

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to come and get a halh cut.

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Speaker 1: I open you. I'm gonna open you up. Boy. Do

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Speaker 1: you want to stand here now? Now? You know? Now?

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Speaker 1: a bar? But shot good? You understand me. I hold what.

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Speaker 1: I ain't got no time saying damn out that. I

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Speaker 1: time you running your drum back. You're gonna come over

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Speaker 1: here too too straight. I bet you did. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: You feel me? You know what, man? I what is you? Man?

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Speaker 1: You'll come up hill? Yeah, come on, a pill can

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Speaker 1: recommnize yourself and you come up to you put your name? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna put my real name on my shirt. Thing.

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Speaker 1: You want to know what my real name? Man? That's

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Speaker 1: what's up. That's then you might want to you want

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Speaker 1: Like then the name on the shirt is nephew Tommy

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Speaker 1: When you go to the barbershop and you get your

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Speaker 1: And you can't move your hands now, you man, you

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Speaker 1: I'm nasty. That's nasty, creak nasty. You gotta wear a mask.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know how. Yeah, exactly called. I

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Speaker 1: with a chair. Okay, that is the message, all right,

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Speaker 1: thinking nephew. Coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: Brandy will be a very special guest right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're stuck

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00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 1: in the sabins right now, so we're just letting him

425
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: vent real quick. That's yeah. What's up, Brandy? How are

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Speaker 1: you doing? What's up? Girl? How are you feeling? I

427
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: feel all right. I'm happy to be talking to y'all today.

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Speaker 1: We'll welcome back. We're gonna get to it. Then let's go. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: that's promise. We got a special guest this morning, Platinum

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Speaker 1: Recording All this family member of the show. We had

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Speaker 1: her own recently to let you know that her album

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Speaker 1: was coming out, and we played a single Shirley Steve

433
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Speaker 1: absolutely and now the album is out, we're here to

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Speaker 1: talk about it. Grammy nominated Superstar Actress, Worldwide performer, Ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, the one and only Brandy Boy. How you

436
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: being It's sound sensitive, but to see jel you know

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00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Thank you all for having me bad

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Speaker 1: well good good? How how's your family? My family, We're

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00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: very We're very blessed. We're sticking it together, you know,

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00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: adjusting to you know how the world has definitely changed,

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00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: but we're taking a day by day. But we're together.

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00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: That's what matters, well, we find. So we got to

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Speaker 1: tell us about B seven though, Brandy, you got you

444
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 1: have to tell us about that, Okay, I would love

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Speaker 1: to tell you about it. This is my seventh studio album, yes,

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00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 1: and this is my UM. I haven't had an album

447
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: out in eight years, so this album is very very

448
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: because I needed to get my music in the right place.

449
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: I really needed to partner up with with people that

450
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: respected me and respected my music and respect it, you know,

451
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 1: just everything about me, and I finally got to that

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00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: place would be one. You know, I have my own

453
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: label now and so UM, I just feel like my

454
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 1: creativity it's free and I was able to create a

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00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: body of work that I could be so proud of.

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00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: It's it's very rooted in R and B, but super abstract,

457
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Speaker 1: and I feel like, you know, this is an album

458
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: forever everyone. You know, everybody can find something on this

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00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: album that they can love, and it's it's my truth.

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Speaker 1: That's it's it's UM. I'm very very honored to UM

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Speaker 1: to put it out. I just feel it's really really

462
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Speaker 1: good about it. We love you, You're yeah. I don't

463
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Speaker 1: I don't know if people understand, especially in music today,

464
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Speaker 1: how prolific it is to have seven albums. I mean,

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Speaker 1: if you look at the world of music today, it

466
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Speaker 1: is so difficult to see album number two or three.

467
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Speaker 1: When you're talking to somebody who's releasing album numbers, these albums,

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Speaker 1: thank you these you know, this is you know, we

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00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: talked about eight, ten, twelve tracks, and seven of them. Girl, please,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. I'm I'm very blessed to still

471
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Speaker 1: have you know, the passion that I have for music,

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00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: and like, I don't know where I would be without

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Speaker 1: my music. And I'm just I'm just so happy to

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Speaker 1: be doing it again and um and and working with

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Speaker 1: the kind of people that I was able to work

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Speaker 1: with on this album. Just so many great writers and

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00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: great producers. I'm just very blessed to get to get

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Speaker 1: another chance to do this again. So well, I could say,

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Speaker 1: as a true Brandy fan, your fans have been waiting

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Speaker 1: for you. So whatever, album, whatever, you do it again

481
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: and again, We're right here. Wait, no, you maybe girl

482
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: so much. Steve Harvey nation out to get the album

483
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: because it's dropping now. When when they listened to the album, Brandy,

484
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 1: what do you want them? What's the takeaway? What? What

485
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: do you hope they get from this? Well? I want

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Speaker 1: them to. I want them to love the music, and

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00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 1: I want them to uh understand my truth and also

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00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: see their truth and in my songs, I want them

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00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: to relate to to what I experience. And you know,

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Speaker 1: if you just love quality music, you know, oh get

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Speaker 1: B seven. It's it's it's quality and it's from the heart.

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Speaker 1: You know, your voice does sound amazing, Brandy, Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it. And you see me with your daughter.

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00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: I am. She's on this album. My daughter is featured

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Speaker 1: on a song called high Heels Yes, and it's it's

496
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: about It's an empowering song standing firm in your own

497
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Speaker 1: skin and you know, just growing into your best self.

498
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Speaker 1: And it was just such a treat to work with her,

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Speaker 1: just to really see her blossom into this, you know,

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Speaker 1: beautiful musician. And of course I want her to take

501
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 1: us a loan though, because I don't want her in

502
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: his business too fast. I'm miss something. She's Yes, Brandy,

503
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: Brandy girl is eighteen. She's eighteen. You gotta be kidding me.

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00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 1: She is. But the time went by so fast. To

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00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: be too, it goes by. But she is eighteen, and

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00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: I still treated like to eleven. When did you discover

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00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: she could sing? Brandy all very young? When she was

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00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 1: around five, you know, she was she was belding and

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00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:30,399
Speaker 1: you know, doing her barbarado and you know, but now

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00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: she's coming, really coming into her own. And I had

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Speaker 1: a little studio here at the house, so she's always

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00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 1: working on her music and writing her songs. But you know,

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00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm super overprotective. I don't. I don't

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00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: want her to go so fast and getting into this

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00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 1: business because you know, I just want her to develop

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00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 1: more as a person and m and get you know,

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00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 1: tougher skin before she really really gets out there. Yeah,

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00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: because you were in the business very young, yourself, very young,

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00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,439
Speaker 1: and I had to go through a lot, So I don't.

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00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 1: I don't want her to go through what I went through. Well,

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00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: thank god she has you. Yeah, thank you, thank you,

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00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: thank god. Okay. The name of the album Everybody is

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Speaker 1: B seven seven B seven Steve Harvey Nation. Let's download

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Speaker 1: B seven. Thank Brandy for all the hits over the years.

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Speaker 1: Thank you girl. What okay? Thank you? Coming up next

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00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 1: our own residence singer. He is a great voice to

527
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: the one and only Jay Anthony Brown is gonna murder

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00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 1: another hit that's coming up with twenty minutes after wrote

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Speaker 1: it off. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey

530
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Well, last Friday, you know, we asked you

531
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Speaker 1: guys to vote at Steve Harvey FM on Facebook for

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00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: which song you want a j Anthony Brown to finish

533
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: and murder the hit? So Jay tell us which one. Well,

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00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 1: the votes came in and it was unanimous that we

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00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: finished the Will Smith song men in Black and we

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00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: don't want you back. I like to thank my crew,

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Speaker 1: I wonder White, Ralph Hawkins Junior and myself and BG together, Yes, sir,

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Speaker 1: jake me and in black and all forget me not, Yeah,

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00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 1: forgive me not. You think the truth Russia forgive me Yeah,

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00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 1: I don't get me here. Well, I ain't seen men

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00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: in black. You have not seen one, no man, But

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00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 1: you've heard the song. Though you've heard the song I

543
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 1: heard Russian. It's the same track, same track, same track,

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00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: same track. But I want you, I want you to

545
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: check out your boys flow. I mean it's it's seamless, okay,

546
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: but go here. Though I love it. I love all

547
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 1: this murder the head from it be from the Jab.

548
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: You never really had a back and that's the back.

549
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 1: And really need the morals up our country back. So

550
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 1: take the differ from me, Jack ain't feet. With other

551
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 1: lines and tone, we could not believe you really are

552
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: a horrible bread and we got a lot of fruit.

553
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: Hate to day that you were born talking at us.

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00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 1: Keep the Bible of God. It's the only one we

555
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: need to guide us. And we'll be let you bum

556
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 1: because you won't be mins. You will beat this your

557
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: veins on the ignorance. So we want to say, don't

558
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,439
Speaker 1: come back, and you better get ready for the Black

559
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 1: Lives Matter attack. We ain't don't you don't und you

560
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 1: just just you ain't never did nothing right any cabinet

561
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: carsons only not white tweeting dude while in the old

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00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: whole room. It's coming. So just getting then in your

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00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 1: hands up with a wickness of all your sickness. You're

564
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: a liar, a victor. Minds countries over seeds really can't believe. Yeah,

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00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: I'm be and that's me. Then you say, with a

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Speaker 1: winning ticket, you know what I mean, come me and

567
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,399
Speaker 1: around here just picking on you. So would you leave?

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00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 1: That's the Please just tick my pince say goodbye. Yeah,

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00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 1: we don't want you. Wow, I'm I'm convinced now, I'm

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00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: totally convinced. What Man, Jay are the two geniuses on

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00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,760
Speaker 1: the show. I'm convinced that right there that that was greatness.

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00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 1: I mean, Jay, great look around if you look around

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00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 1: the show to blow your lip coming up in dirty

574
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: running after the hold. I'm glad y'all too, trying to

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00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: make y'all little ragged ass feel good. About yourself over.

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey will be right back. You're listening to Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Mourning Show. According to the Black Information Network, hundreds

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00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 1: of mourners gathered at the Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta

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Speaker 1: to bid farewell to Congressman John Lewis. Three presidents spoke

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Speaker 1: at the funeral of the late civil rights icon. Three presidents.

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Speaker 1: We're talking, just three real presidents. Yes, President Clinton. President

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Speaker 1: President Obama delivered the yes. Yes. He spoke about bloody

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Speaker 1: Sunday when Congressman Lewis and other protesters were beaten by

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Speaker 1: police in Selma fifty five years ago. President Obama also

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00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: spoke about voter suppression. Take a listen. We may no

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00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: longer have to guess the number of jelly means in

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00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 1: the jar in order to cast a ballot. But even

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Speaker 1: as we sit here, there are those in power who

589
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 1: are doing their darnedest to discourage people from voting, by

590
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Speaker 1: closing polling locations and targeting minorities and students with restrictive

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Speaker 1: idea laws, and attacking our voting rights with surgical precision,

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Speaker 1: even undermining the postal service in the run up to

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Speaker 1: an election that's gonna be dependent on mail in ballots

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Speaker 1: so people don't get sick. That's the president that a

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Speaker 1: miss him. We do. President Jimmy Carter also sent his

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Speaker 1: condolences and a proclamation. So it was just a beautiful

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00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: service in everything. President Obama also reminded Americans to be villagent,

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Speaker 1: vigilant against the dark occurrence of this country's history. I saw, Jennifer,

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00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: if you don't if you don't vote, now, there's something

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00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 1: seriously wrong with you. Really, it really is something. No, really, man,

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00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 1: that's that's a true statement. This we're we're we're at

602
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: the critical juncture for our culture. See, this is critical

603
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: juncture for our culture. Look at the Black Lives Matter movement.

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00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 1: Look at the things that the people are saying who

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Speaker 1: are against the movement. In Arkansas, man, this white person

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00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: was out there holding the sign say black lives matter.

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Speaker 1: They recorded how many whites drove by him, saying stuff

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Speaker 1: like put that sign down, you're white, white women, white

609
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: lives matter too. See, they've missed the whole point of

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Speaker 1: what black lives matter is. So what we've got to

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00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: do is we have to prove that black lives matter

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Speaker 1: in a way that we've never shown him before or

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Speaker 1: and that's at the polls. We got the vote many

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Speaker 1: because we can do something about this that's happening to

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Speaker 1: us from this president, this diverseed, this divisiveness that he's spewing,

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Speaker 1: this talking about the suburbs saving us from the Fair

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Speaker 1: Housing Act lawder he wants to resis in trying to

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Speaker 1: get rid of Obamacare, trying to don't he don't care

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Speaker 1: nothing about pre existing conditions. We have an opportunity to

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Speaker 1: do something about this, and we have to get the

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Speaker 1: job done. We have to vote. And like President Obama

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Speaker 1: just said, they've closed so many polls in neighborhoods that

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Speaker 1: serve black people and condense sixteen polling places into one.

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Speaker 1: That's to discourage you as a voter. And now this

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Speaker 1: president is talking about the mail and vote could open

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Speaker 1: us our election up to fraud. No, it can't. You

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00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 1: can still only vote once. Then he's talking about we

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Speaker 1: should move the election back until people can vote safely.

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Speaker 1: Hey man, do that? No? No, if he was a dictator, yes,

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Speaker 1: they had an election in a civil war. And so

631
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Speaker 1: you know every war, every yea, every situations, the election

632
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Speaker 1: has gone on. But you know, pemic, right, if I

633
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Speaker 1: knew an ass what was coming. I delay it. I

634
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: really would it legalize black? You know what I mean.

635
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 1: That's what it seemed like we're trying to do, like

636
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: we're trying to legalize right drama. Well day, Steve ntil

637
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: the November third election, So please go to when we

638
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 1: all vote and register, get registered and let your voice

639
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,720
Speaker 1: be heard. Okay, Coming up next, we're gonna switch gears.

640
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy is here with today's praying phone call. Right

641
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Steve Morning Show. Coming up at

642
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.

643
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today, subject I asked a

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00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 1: married woman to marry me. M No, you can do that.

645
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: You can do it. Yeah, you can do it. You

646
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: just asked though, wait till you hear the letter. But

647
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 1: first and nephew is here with today's praying phone call.

648
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: What do you have for us today? Nap on this Friday?

649
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: Quetting stiles? All right, quetting stile. Everybody has one when

650
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 1: they get married. What do you have? You have a

651
00:44:55,440 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 1: wedding Si, No, Tommy, the word is wetting tweaty stiles

652
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 1: at your wedding, Carl, No, I had a wedding, Tom Tom,

653
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Speaker 1: listen to me if you hit what whetty? What whitty wedding?

654
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Speaker 1: Niles in the back. I get real close to saying

655
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Speaker 1: you need your hold on yourself. I got it. I

656
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: got a minute. Wait a minute, everybody, just wait? Okay, wow,

657
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Speaker 1: what time? No, we don't go with your boy ladies

658
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: and gentlemen sweating. Just just just just just just just play,

659
00:45:54,000 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: just play lay it. Hello, I'm trying to reach Calmon. Please.

660
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: Oh who's calling? This is the half styles? Sorenzo? Oh? Great, Gray, Hey,

661
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: we were waiting for you. Hold on a second, I'll getter. Hello. Hi,

662
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 1: is this is this Calmon? Yes? Hi? How are you good? Great? Listen? Um?

663
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: This is a half style that's I'm supposed to be

664
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: there to do your hair for the wedding. Hey? Are

665
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: you lost? Uh? No, I do have a good of them.

666
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 1: Just there's something that has come up and I kind

667
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: of need to discuss some things with you. Are you

668
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: kidding me? Let me ask your wait? You know I'm

669
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: getting married in four hours, right, I do know, I

670
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 1: do know. Let me ask you this, what time actually

671
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 1: is the wedding? Is it at five or six? The

672
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 1: wedding is at five? Okay? Um? What have you done

673
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: to your hair so far? Nothing? You have to hair.

674
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm waiting for you to put weave in my on

675
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 1: my head right, um, oh god, dear, no, you're on

676
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 1: your way. Right. This is a joke. No, this is

677
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 1: not a joke. I've got I've called my mama, fine,

678
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 1: tell him to come here. I don't have a stylars today.

679
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: You came highly recommend it, and I've already given you

680
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 1: a deposit. You should be on your way. I do

681
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: understand that dollar, and I don't mind giving you your

682
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 1: deposit back. I'm no, that's no, that's not what I want.

683
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: I need you here to do my hair. I have

684
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 1: no one here to do my hair. I've already paid you.

685
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 1: I understand this, Dear, Calm down, listen, this is what

686
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 1: I want to do. Okay. I do have someone that

687
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 1: I can send that it's going to do an outstanding

688
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: job for you. Okay, But I'm not I've gotten into

689
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 1: a spat with Oliver, and I just it. It's a

690
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: very hair is Oliver. Oliver is my friend, and we've

691
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:37,720
Speaker 1: gotten now are you kidding me? It's been a serious, serious,

692
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: serious blow up. This is the most important day of

693
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: my life and you're not coming to do my hair.

694
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 1: You're not taking care of your business because you've gotten

695
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: into a fight with your boyfriend. Listen, I'm not going

696
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: to go back and forth with you about this. I've god,

697
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: I have argued with him all night. I'm not going

698
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: to go back and forth and argue with you as well. Yeah,

699
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 1: I have to argue with me when I need it

700
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 1: for you to be here. I understand that, and I'm

701
00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: going to send someone there. Any one of the most

702
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 1: on professional stylist I have ever met in my life.

703
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: I cannot even believe you're doing this. Listen. I'm trying

704
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 1: to deal with you on a professional level, but you're

705
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,839
Speaker 1: not because you're not here. I understand that, and I'm

706
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 1: not trying to to to rain on your parade. And

707
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:16,800
Speaker 1: my professionalism went out the window when you called to

708
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 1: say that you couldn't make it because you were in

709
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: an argument with your boyfriend. Well, I'm not gonna do

710
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 1: is go back and forth with you. If somebody to

711
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:26,919
Speaker 1: find him, fine, I'm telling her to come. Where is everybody? Mama?

712
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 1: Please get him to the phone. Oh boyd, listen, what

713
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: have you done to your hair thing? Okay? Has it

714
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: been washed? Yes, okay, so it's just waiting. Is that

715
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: what's going on? Yes, that's what's going on. Have you

716
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 1: been done? Have you been under the dryer at all? No? Okay,

717
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: so is it still? Damn? What are you asking me questions?

718
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: You're very I'm trying to get someone I bring when

719
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: I send someone, and I want to send them in there. Yes,

720
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 1: I'm sitting here with wet hair. Has your hair? Has

721
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,320
Speaker 1: your makeup been done yet? No? I'm waiting for you

722
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: to do my hair. I cannot believe this. Why are

723
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 1: you asking me these questions? Hold on, Oliver, I'm not

724
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: gonna go. I'm Oliver, I'm not Oh my god, I'm

725
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: not gonna say this. This is crazy. I'm not going

726
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 1: to now. Let me take care of the club. I'm

727
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 1: not going. Hello, are you kidding me? Listen? Is there

728
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: anyway you could possibly push the wedding back to seven?

729
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 1: You are crazy? You want me to change my time

730
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,800
Speaker 1: because you're in an argument with your boyfriend. Listen, this

731
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,879
Speaker 1: is the first time this is You are the most

732
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 1: unprofessional thalist I've ever met in my life. And trust me, Darling,

733
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: I will put the word out about you. No, no, no,

734
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 1: I will make sure that you never ever do business again.

735
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:47,320
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Now, what you're not gonna do? You

736
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 1: don't curse at me. You're not going You're not gonna

737
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:52,799
Speaker 1: go one in my day. I understand. There no reason

738
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 1: to be mad. I'm the one that should be upset.

739
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 1: It's my day. You're not gonna talk to me like

740
00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: this here, talk to you any kind of way I

741
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: want to you call ruining money day. Hold on a second.

742
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 1: So you got this talking crazy to me, and I'm

743
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: not going to go with it. And I'm not what

744
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it sitting listen, talk to me

745
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: craz No, you didn't call me a I'm not going

746
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: to sit here and let you talk to me. No,

747
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:15,919
Speaker 1: you know what I wish you were coming to this church.

748
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: I got your listen. I'm not gonna sit here and

749
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: go back and forth with you. Now. I got someone

750
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: I can send in there to get your hat done.

751
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: Do you want it or do you not? Who are

752
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:29,240
Speaker 1: you sending? I am sending? Listen. I will be sending

753
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:32,320
Speaker 1: my assistant. And she does. She watched his head. She's

754
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 1: been instructed what to do. Don't worry, she'll get it

755
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 1: to do you want me to let her shampoo girl

756
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: fill my hair on my wedding. Look do you want

757
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 1: How are you kidding me? I'm of a play. No,

758
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: you need to be talking to me, not all of her.

759
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: I understand. Listen, let me take the racial voice, said

760
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 1: her voice at me. I can do whatever the hell

761
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,840
Speaker 1: I want to is you have ruined my wedding day. No,

762
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 1: I am not. I'm trying to get your wedding day together. Now.

763
00:50:56,960 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 1: I'm going to send this one shampoo girl to do

764
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 1: my hair. Cynthia is very good. She will be there

765
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 1: at five o'clock. We will have you read running starts

766
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 1: at five o'clock. I don't know what to say. What

767
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: you need to be saying? Is he on your pay?

768
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna Cynthia with me. I don't want Cynthia to

769
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: do my hair. I didn't pay Cynthia to do my hair.

770
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: I pay you to do my hair. You have to

771
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 1: bring Oliver with you. You need to come on, Oliver.

772
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 1: Do you want to go? Oh? Oh my god? Do

773
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: you want to just go with me? Okay, listen, I

774
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 1: have one more thing I need to say. You have

775
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 1: to say to me. The only thing you need to

776
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: be saying to me is that you and Oliver are

777
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: on your way. Yeah, about to ruin the most important

778
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 1: day of my life. I am not on your head. Yes,

779
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 1: I'm now Are you on your head? Yes or no? Yes?

780
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: And I have one more thing I need to say.

781
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 1: But where do you want to say? Listen, don't don't

782
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 1: come for me. Boy, you got to spit it out.

783
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: This is Matthew tom Me from the Steve Alby Morning Show.

784
00:51:54,360 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 1: You just got pranked by all your bridemaids. Oh my god,

785
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 1: I am going to I don't believe they did this.

786
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: That's why I can't sign on TA and I'm kicking

787
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 1: your todd was not funny, not today. This is the

788
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: last thing I needed today. Do you know what they

789
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: wanted me? They wanted me to get you yesterday. I

790
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:30,360
Speaker 1: said no, We're waiting till the wedding day. Under so

791
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 1: much pressure. I got one more thing. I gotta ask you,

792
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,879
Speaker 1: by what is what is the baddest I'm talking about

793
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:41,400
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Baby, Wow, come on only to Junius is here? Only?

795
00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: Tis only two? Not on her wedding day? Tommy, Oh,

796
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: you're gonna go get him. You gotta get him on

797
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: the dated means something that means something to everybody. All right, Matthew,

798
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:22,720
Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up next today, Strawberry Letter for today

799
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 1: the subject I asked a married woman to marry me.

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00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to

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00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:33,840
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00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:17,240
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00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:24,360
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00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:28,160
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814
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. Okay, buggle up

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00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here.

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00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,919
Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter, all right, nephew. It says

817
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: I asked a married woman to marry me. That is

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Speaker 1: the subject. I asked a married woman to marry me,

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00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. For the past ten years, I have

820
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 1: lived with a really good female friend. Over the years,

821
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: we've shared a bed at times, and we've had sex

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Speaker 1: when it was convenient. Other than that, it was more

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Speaker 1: of a room roommate type of arrangement. She dated other

824
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 1: men and I dated other women. When we were at home,

825
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,320
Speaker 1: we were best friends that happened to sleep in the

826
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 1: same bed sometimes. We never had our boyfriends or girlfriends

827
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Speaker 1: sleep over. And I was thinking this is a perfect setup.

828
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: But my roommate flipped the switch and got married last month.

829
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:21,800
Speaker 1: She told me that her husband lives in another country

830
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: and she's been in a long distance relationship for a year.

831
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Speaker 1: She told me that her husband can't get a visa renewed,

832
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: so he cannot come back into the US right now.

833
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 1: I was really hurt to find out that she'd gotten

834
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 1: married on me, and she casually told me like it

835
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,879
Speaker 1: was no big deal. It broke my heart and made

836
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 1: me realize that I'm in love with her. She's also

837
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 1: been going through in vitro fertilization IVF to have a

838
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: baby because she's forty and really wants a child. I

839
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 1: was supportive of all of that, and last year I

840
00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: told her that i'd father her child. She brought that

841
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 1: up and told me she wants to go ahead with

842
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 1: her IVF and still have me donate sperm as the

843
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:10,320
Speaker 1: father since her husband is stuck in another country indefinitely.

844
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 1: I want to be the father of the baby and

845
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: her husband. So I made an impulsive move and I

846
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,919
Speaker 1: went and brought her a ring, bought her a ring,

847
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: and I asked her to marry me. She said she

848
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 1: does love me and she would think about it. My

849
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 1: life will not be the same if she leaves me.

850
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, Am I wrong for doing this? Now? What

851
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 1: if I'm just jealous and not in love? Wow? This

852
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: relationship right here, it's really crazy? Okay her dumb? Can

853
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: you get you're just in it for convenience anyway you said?

854
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys have been friends with benefits for

855
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:51,359
Speaker 1: ten years. Ten years. Let me put it this way,

856
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,880
Speaker 1: You've just been using each other's bodies, never even talked

857
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 1: once about a future dating, moving out. Nothing. You guys

858
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:02,800
Speaker 1: are just there sleeping together when it's convenient. She's forty

859
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:06,760
Speaker 1: years old, still doing this, So what was she supposed

860
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: to do? Just stay there and entertain you, sleep with

861
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 1: you when it was convenient for another ten years. Listen,

862
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: life goes on, people change all the time, and that's

863
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 1: exactly what she did. She moved on, well sort of, okay,

864
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: yes and no, she moved on because she did say

865
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 1: she think about your proposal. Right, it just gets crazier

866
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: and crazier, and she wants your sperm for her baby

867
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 1: because her husband is out of the country indefinitely. What

868
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 1: all right? I think you know, regarding the ring and everything,

869
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 1: I think you got kind of scared because your normal

870
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 1: is about to change. No more free, convenient sex for you,

871
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: so you did get impulsive and go out and buy

872
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 1: her a ring. I don't think this is gonna work

873
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: for the simple fact that she's already married. That's a

874
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 1: But then you know, you guys don't look at each

875
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: other that way. I mean, it takes something drastic to

876
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: happen like this for you to come to your senses.

877
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:11,480
Speaker 1: And you don't even know if that's really what's going on.

878
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: You two people are confused. It's been convenient and like

879
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 1: this for so long. You're confused. Now you don't know

880
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: how to accept the change. So I don't know you

881
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 1: know what's going to happen in the future because she

882
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: is married. She didn't talk about divorce. She just said

883
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 1: she's think about it. But the whole baby and sperm

884
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 1: thing from you, this letter is crazy. That's all I

885
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: gotta say. Steve, Wow, I don't know how to address

886
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: this letter is to accept, to just honestly tell you all,

887
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 1: I don't believe this letter. I really don't. Oh, I

888
00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 1: believe he wrote it, but there's so many things in

889
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: the letter that I don't think is really valid. Been

890
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 1: dating this lady for tenue, you live with her. She's

891
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 1: a good friend. Y'all share bed at times, y'all have

892
00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 1: sex when it's convenient. Other than that, it's more like

893
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 1: a roommate type arrangement. And then you go right back

894
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 1: and say she dated other men. I dated other women,

895
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: but when we were home, we were best friends that

896
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: happened to sleep in the same bed sometimes. We've never

897
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 1: had boyfriends and girlfriends sleepover. I was thinking it's a

898
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 1: perfect setup, so he said it was. She told me

899
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 1: that her husband lives in another country. She's been a long,

900
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:42,280
Speaker 1: just relationship for a year. She told me that her

901
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: husband can't get his visa renews, so he can't come

902
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 1: back to the US. Right now, What where the hell

903
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: did that come from? Our just right out the damn letter,

904
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: you were just talking about how convenient it was, what

905
00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 1: it good, what it was, how y'all don't br your

906
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 1: girlfriend boyfriends over, and you were thinking of perblack dinner.

907
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 1: Then she told me her husband live in another country.

908
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 1: Keep it right. It's a damn lie. We'll have part

909
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

910
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject I asked a

911
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: married woman to marry me. We'll get back into it

912
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve,

913
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: come on, let's recap if we can. Today's crazy Strawberry Letter.

914
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: This subject I asked to marry a married woman to

915
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: marry me. I asked a married woman to marry me.

916
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:41,360
Speaker 1: I think this letter a bunch of bullcrap. I really

917
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: really do. Man, Either way, I don't I don't doubt that,

918
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 1: he wrote the letter. I don't doubt nothing he said.

919
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: He lived with it is what he thought was just

920
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: a really good friend. They sleep together, share bad at times,

921
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 1: never had their boyfriend girlfriends over. You know, we just

922
01:00:57,080 --> 01:01:00,920
Speaker 1: roommates that type of arrangement. You know, she dated other

923
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 1: me and I dated other women. You know, and huh,

924
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: you know when we at home, were the best of

925
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: friends to have him to sleep in the same bed.

926
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 1: But my roommate flipped a switch and got married last month.

927
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 1: She told me her husband lives in another country and

928
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 1: she's been a long Just what now he got a

929
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 1: stupid boy and can't get his visory nude so he

930
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 1: cannot come back into the US right now? Definitely boy,

931
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:33,920
Speaker 1: Then here he go. I was really hurt to find

932
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 1: out she got married on me, and she casually told

933
01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: me like it was no big deal. That's cause brother,

934
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: you getting played. I think the whole marriage was a lot.

935
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:48,480
Speaker 1: It broke your heart, and it made me realize that

936
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm in love with her. What ten years, dude, ten years.

937
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: It don't take no man ten years to know a

938
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 1: damn It don't take no woman ten years to know nothing.

939
01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 1: It don't take a damn child. A child can learn

940
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: how to walk in less than ten years. You can

941
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 1: get potty trained in less than ten years. You can

942
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 1: learn how to drive a car in less than ten years.

943
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:20,560
Speaker 1: You can find a boyfriend in less than ten years.

944
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:25,840
Speaker 1: You can boy you know, ten years. She's also been

945
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 1: going through in vitro fertilization to have a baby because

946
01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 1: she really wants a child. She's forty. I was supported

947
01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 1: of all that. Last year. I told her I'd father

948
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: her child. She bought that up and told me she

949
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 1: ready to go ahead and have me donate to sperm

950
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: as the father since her husband is still stuck in

951
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: another country. Infinitely, I want to be the father of

952
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 1: the baby and her husband. So I made an impulsive

953
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 1: move and I went on and bought a ring, asked

954
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:01,520
Speaker 1: her to marry me. She said she does love me,

955
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 1: and she would think about it. You can't be married

956
01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:12,520
Speaker 1: and think about it. Dog, Listen to me. My life

957
01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 1: will never be the same as she leaves me. Stephen Shelley,

958
01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 1: I wrong for doing this now. And what if I'm

959
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: jealous and not in love? Hey, stupid, listen to me.

960
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 1: You in love and you are jealous, and you said it.

961
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,280
Speaker 1: What if I'm just jealous and not in love. See,

962
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 1: let me tell you what's happened, y'all. He only want

963
01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 1: her now called somebody else got her? Or I think

964
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 1: she's playing him and they really got no husband, and

965
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 1: then got tired of that arrangement and then told him

966
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 1: she had one, so now you want her, called somebody

967
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 1: else want her? And then in the letter she turned

968
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 1: around she only want you for your sperm. I don't

969
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:54,160
Speaker 1: really think she mard. I think she just told you

970
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 1: that because when you said, will you married me, she said,

971
01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 1: I think about it. You can have a husband and

972
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 1: think about this and this whole damn visa story and

973
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 1: in vitro and you gonna volunteer the sperm. And look, man,

974
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 1: she'd been wanting this baby the whole whole time. She's

975
01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:17,919
Speaker 1: been wanting you to do it. She trying to play

976
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 1: it off like she don't want to get married. That's

977
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 1: why she casually said I have a husband now, and

978
01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: your dumb ass went, what now you went and bought

979
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:28,720
Speaker 1: the ring that she didn't thought about it. Now suppose

980
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: she'd come back and tell you, you know what, I

981
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 1: am gonna marry you. But the clicker is supposed she

982
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: does this. I just told you, I was getting married

983
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 1: to see what you was gonna do. I can't put

984
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:45,120
Speaker 1: it past her. That'll be good. Then he'll see if

985
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 1: he's really in love with her or just jealous jealous? Right,

986
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 1: whatever happens, dog, you got whatever coming to you. It's

987
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: gonna come to you now. Why don't you just say, hey, look,

988
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 1: I love you. I've known it for a while. I'm

989
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:06,439
Speaker 1: too old to play these games. I don't want nobody else. Yeah,

990
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: I want to marry you. Let's go. And if she

991
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 1: go down to that courthouse and get married, then you

992
01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:15,760
Speaker 1: know goodn't here? Well it wasn't nobody else. But do

993
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 1: you really won't it anyway? Right? Or don't you? He's

994
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 1: been pranked? Yeah? This is ugly. Dog, you got played.

995
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: You got played with that, I got somebody. Well that's

996
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: it man, you got played, pimp. Yeah, welcome to the ride.

997
01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:42,439
Speaker 1: Ever been played? Ever been played? Junior? Yeah? Yeah? Ever

998
01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:48,439
Speaker 1: been played? Tommy? Of course a hundred times. Ever been played? Jay?

999
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 1: Why are you sing me? Bade me think about it?

1000
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:06,160
Speaker 1: You were finely? Yeah? Who happened? That's how you learn

1001
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 1: from your mistakes? Was with me tonight before out with

1002
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:20,360
Speaker 1: the other dude? Yeah? Really, Junior? Happened. Yeah, happened that, Junior.

1003
01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 1: I didn't have that. Listen, dude, the other dude came

1004
01:06:25,200 --> 01:06:37,240
Speaker 1: to pick her up and she left. Okay, checkmate, Jay, Okay.

1005
01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey

1006
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and please don't forget to

1007
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. I'm coming

1008
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 1: up at forty six minutes after the hour Sports Talk

1009
01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:53,919
Speaker 1: with Junior. Right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1010
01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:57,800
Speaker 1: All right, come on, Junior, Junior is here with today's

1011
01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 1: sports talk. You know what, Shirley, you asked? It is

1012
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 1: for us talk today. A basketball is back. Oh no,

1013
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 1: we got something to watch your TV man. Look at this.

1014
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 1: The NBA restart is back from the Disney bubble in Orlando.

1015
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 1: Now this is awesome. Though. The players, the coaches, and

1016
01:07:16,360 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: the team have committed to using the restart as a

1017
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 1: chance to shine light on a lot of the social injustices.

1018
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:26,920
Speaker 1: So some players had the words peace, equality, say their

1019
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 1: names freedom on the back of a jerseys Love Man.

1020
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 1: Is that was nice? I mean the Utah Jazz, the

1021
01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 1: New Orleans Pelicans, Lakers, Clippers, coaches, referees. They knelt in

1022
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:43,440
Speaker 1: solidarity during the national anthem that that the anthem was playing,

1023
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 1: and they knelt. I just see it. I hope he did.

1024
01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 1: I hope he did. Hope he gonna say something about it. Oh,

1025
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:52,760
Speaker 1: you know he is. He gonna have to say something

1026
01:07:53,360 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 1: that I do have one complaint. Yeah, that's that, James.

1027
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 1: It's gonna be genius. Go ahead, all happy that day

1028
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 1: playing Bone. But it was a lot to read. I mean,

1029
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:18,559
Speaker 1: it was a lot to read. But I hate him. Yeah. Well,

1030
01:08:18,600 --> 01:08:20,719
Speaker 1: there was a video to play before the game showing

1031
01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:23,920
Speaker 1: the players take your part in various protests, and then

1032
01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:28,800
Speaker 1: they had the Black Lives Matter logo on the court floor. Yes,

1033
01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 1: I mean, is fully committed to this too. Man, got

1034
01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:39,040
Speaker 1: some more games happening today. We got the Orlando Magic

1035
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:42,800
Speaker 1: and the Brooklyn next Day playing the Memphis Portland Trail

1036
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 1: Bases Day playing Phoenix Suns, Washington Whitches's Day play. We

1037
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:50,120
Speaker 1: just got games. Yeah, well we got them games. Celtics,

1038
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: Bucks is playing Kings, Yeah, Kings, and the Spurs is

1039
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 1: playing and he's the one I'm nervous about. The Rockets

1040
01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:01,919
Speaker 1: and the Mavericks. Lord, let's not start off the restart

1041
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 1: wrong the restart man, we just need this win. Come

1042
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:11,240
Speaker 1: on Hard and come on Russell. We just want one win.

1043
01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:16,840
Speaker 1: Sod is back. We need this one win. We just

1044
01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 1: need to start right, it's the restart. We get the dog.

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Speaker 1: It's just one game, Junior. Yeah, which I know how

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Speaker 1: the Rockets where see they love one than they gone.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna start. But I'm telling right, Russell Westbrook gonna

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Speaker 1: snatch hard and be it live on TV watching that

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Speaker 1: mask off, and you can't talk to Russell Westbrook like

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Speaker 1: you talk to everybody else. He's not gonna take that.

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Speaker 1: Uh no, he is not gonna take that funny Junior,

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Speaker 1: No he's not. I'll tell you can get that whole

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Speaker 1: everybody gonna see it. What your ever gonna see your

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Speaker 1: whole face because he gonna take that whole. Bid back

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Speaker 1: to the locker, say something to Russell if you want

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Speaker 1: to better, talk to p J. Tucker like that. But

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Speaker 1: don't talk to Russell. You don't care how many shots

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Speaker 1: he missed. Don't talk to dude right there? All right,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Junior. Coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: some trending entertainment news right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: show in today's trending entertainment news. Some good news. Tamar

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Speaker 1: Braxton breaks her silence on her suicide attempt. She released

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Speaker 1: a statement saying that she is on the path to healing.

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Speaker 1: That is great news. Yes. Following her recent hospitalization after

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Speaker 1: she was found unresponsive in a hotel room, Tamar posted,

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Speaker 1: it was only God's grace and his mercy on my

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Speaker 1: attempt to end my pain and my life that I

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Speaker 1: am here to utilize my voice. She said that she

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Speaker 1: counts on most to be. What she counts on most

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Speaker 1: is to be a good mother, a good daughter, and

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Speaker 1: a good partner and a good sister. Yeah. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: greatness A really nice person man. Yeah, she's really a

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Speaker 1: nice person, man, Really, one on one, she is really

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Speaker 1: really a nice person. She's twitty, she's got great personality.

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Speaker 1: You know, I hate that people. I feel for anybody

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Speaker 1: that lets Satan rob them of their destiny. That's his

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Speaker 1: only mission. Yeah, he's the ultimate evil one. I'm just

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Speaker 1: glad she got back towards the light because she's really

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Speaker 1: really a cool person man. Yeah, definitely sure. And she

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Speaker 1: thanked everyone for their prayers and their well wishes. Yeah

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Speaker 1: she did. Um And In other news, this is sad

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Speaker 1: former presidential hopeful and Trump supporter Herman Kaine has passed

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Speaker 1: away from COVID nineteen. Herman Kane had been hospitalized for

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Speaker 1: more than a month with a coronavirus after attending the

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Speaker 1: president's ill faded Tulsa a rally without a mask. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Mister Kane, who made his fortune in the restaurant business,

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Speaker 1: sought the Republican nomination for the twenty and twelve election.

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Speaker 1: Room we all remember that, but suspended his kid name right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: over allegations of sexual misconduct, which he strongly denied. He's

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Speaker 1: been a supporter of President Trump for a while, and

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Speaker 1: he's been a strong supporter. Trump said he loved Herman

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Speaker 1: Kane and he was his friend. You got my condolence, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I don't. I don't wish I don't

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Speaker 1: wish death on nobody, nobody. I don't kill what you do. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 1: that's the same. I mean, you know, he got family,

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Speaker 1: he got kids, grandkids, you know, yeah, I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't care if you look man. You're not my enemy

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Speaker 1: because you're a Republican or conservative. Absolutely no. You know,

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Speaker 1: you become my enemy when you do something directed at me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when you're yeah, you know, but if you got different

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Speaker 1: belief or policy than me, you're not my enemy. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, like I always say, Look though, the golden

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Speaker 1: Eagle is the symbol of America. In order for an

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Speaker 1: eagle to fly properly, it needs a right wing and

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Speaker 1: a left wing. Right it don't fly with one wing partner.

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Speaker 1: So I don't mind a person having a different way

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Speaker 1: of going about it than me. You know. You know,

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Speaker 1: if you don't have values, that's one thing. But now

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Speaker 1: you can't enforce all of your values on me, no

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Speaker 1: more than I can force all of mine on you.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of what President George W. Bush said at

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Speaker 1: John Lewis's memorial Congressman John Lewis's memorial. He said that

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Speaker 1: he and John Lewis didn't always see eye to eye

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Speaker 1: on things. He said, but we're Americans, and that's why

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Speaker 1: we live in this country because we can agree to disagree. Y. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we can be on the wrong, you know, on different sides,

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Speaker 1: but it will come together, you know. So that's basically

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Speaker 1: what you're saying as well. Stud And see Donald Trump

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Speaker 1: is the direct opposite you either on his side or

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Speaker 1: guess just it or your enemy that Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: There was no reaching across the aisle with this guy.

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Speaker 1: That's why, once again we have a say soul in this.

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Speaker 1: The only reason your vote, the only way your vote

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Speaker 1: doesn't count, is if you don't cast it. Cast your

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Speaker 1: vote this November to go to when we all vote

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Speaker 1: dot org. If you're not a registered voter, go to

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Speaker 1: when we all vote dot org and registered who didn't

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Speaker 1: cast your vote? Then you voted for Trump. Trust me,

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Speaker 1: you did. Huh huh. That's how it works, man. We

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Speaker 1: gotta vote. We have to vote, all right. Coming up,

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Speaker 1: more music on some trending topics and headlines at twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to show, okay, Carlos.

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Speaker 1: So remember when we used to go to like slumber

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Speaker 1: parties and stuff. How much fun we used to have

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Speaker 1: go to parties with our friends, get together girls as

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Speaker 1: the house. Yes, yes, go ahead, if we stay all

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Speaker 1: night edia, talking, laughing, just sharing, just having a good day,

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Speaker 1: just a blast. Yeah. Well, a group of professional women

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Speaker 1: called Sister Diamonds has put together a fabulous event. It's

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Speaker 1: called the International Slumber Party, and it happens tomorrow, August first.

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Speaker 1: It is the first annual International Slumber Party. It happens tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Like I said August first, it's going to be where

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Speaker 1: more than ten thousand young women of color will come together.

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Speaker 1: They'll be virtual, of course because of COVID and everything,

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Speaker 1: but it's going to be an experience like no other.

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Speaker 1: The theme is don't sleep Okay. It's going to encourage

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Speaker 1: young women to celebrate their brilliant, their unique beauty, their

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Speaker 1: personal purpose. They'll have guest speakers, they'll have workshops virtual

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Speaker 1: virtually yeah, yeah, empowerment panels, a live DJ, a DJ

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Speaker 1: you know for the breaks and everything, and it's all

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Speaker 1: going to be I love this Part two in the

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Speaker 1: comfort of your own home. They'll have giveaways, virtual swag bags.

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Speaker 1: It's going to be nothing like you've ever experienced before.

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Speaker 1: It's for women all over the world. You do not

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Speaker 1: want to miss it. Please go to International slumber Party

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Speaker 1: dot com International slumber Party dot com to register today,

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Speaker 1: fund guaranteed and guess what it is all free? All right,

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Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening to show. According to

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Speaker 1: the Black Information Network, hundreds of mourners gathered at the

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Speaker 1: Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta to bid farewell to Congressman

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Speaker 1: John Lewis. Three President spoke at the funeral of the

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Speaker 1: late civil rights icon. Three presidents. We're talking three real presidents, Yes,

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Speaker 1: President Clinton, President President Obama delivered. Yes. Yes. He spoke

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Speaker 1: about bloody Sunday when Congressman Lewis and other protesters were

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Speaker 1: beaten by police in Selma fifty five years ago. President

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Speaker 1: Obama also spoke about voter suppression. Take a listen. We

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Speaker 1: may no longer have to guess the number of jelly

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Speaker 1: beans in the jar in order to cast a ballot.

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Speaker 1: But even as we sit here, there are those in

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Speaker 1: power who are doing their darndest to discourage people from voting,

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Speaker 1: by closing polling locations and targeting minorities and students with

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Speaker 1: restrictive idea laws, and attacking our voting rights with surgical precision,

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Speaker 1: even undermining the postal service in the run up to

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Speaker 1: an election that's gonna be dependent on mail in ballots

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Speaker 1: so people don't get sick. Woh, that's a president now

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Speaker 1: they miss him, we do. President Jimmy Carter also sent

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Speaker 1: his condolences and a proclamation, so it was just a

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Speaker 1: beautiful service and everything. President Obama also reminded Americans to

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Speaker 1: be villigent, vigilant against the dark occurrence of this country's history.

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Speaker 1: And I saw the beginning. I saw Jennifer J. Jay.

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Speaker 1: If you don't if you don't vote, now, there's something

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Speaker 1: seriously wrong with you. Really, that's that's a true statement. Well,

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Speaker 1: we are at a critical juncture for our culture. See,

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Speaker 1: this is critical juncture for our culture. Look at the

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Speaker 1: Black Lives Matter movement. Look at the things that the

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Speaker 1: people are saying who are against a movement. In Arkansas. Man,

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Speaker 1: this white person was out there holding the sign say

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Speaker 1: black lives matter. They recorded how many whites drove by him,

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Speaker 1: saying stuff like put that sign down, you're white, white women,

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Speaker 1: white lives matter too. See, they've missed the whole point

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Speaker 1: of what black lives matter is. So what we've got

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Speaker 1: to do is we have to prove that black lives

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Speaker 1: matter in a way that we've never shown him before.

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Speaker 1: And that's at the polls, because we can do something

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Speaker 1: about this that's happening to us from this president coming up.

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Speaker 1: It's our last break of the day. Ain't gonna be

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Speaker 1: no tip, Okay, there's no tip. Lead him chickaways and

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Speaker 1: drink at the dough. Okay, there's no there's no tip,

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Speaker 1: all right. Also coming up closing remarks from the one

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Speaker 1: and only, our fearless leader, Steve Harvey. That is coming

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Speaker 1: up at forty nine minutes after right after to this

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Speaker 1: you're listening show. All right, Here we are our last

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Speaker 1: break of the day of the week on this Friday. Wow,

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Speaker 1: a lot of things going on this week, but we

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Speaker 1: got we got going. Yes, I have a very important announcement.

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Speaker 1: If you are a privately owned fulfillment house kai where

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Speaker 1: THEMOFO dot com if your privately owned If you have

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Speaker 1: hotted and THEMOFO dot com. I think we can do

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Speaker 1: some business. Watch out there now, what is it fulfilming house? Okay,

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Speaker 1: what is that? Fulfilming houses where you tell us no,

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Speaker 1: fulfilming houses where you send your merchandise and they send

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Speaker 1: it out for you. You know, like right now, my

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Speaker 1: fulfilming house is fulfilled by Amazon. I'm using Amazon, but

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm starting to a lot of orders, so

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for a privately owned fulfilming house. You know,

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Speaker 1: not that Amazon is not working good, because it really is.

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Speaker 1: But I'd like to throw some business to a privately

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Speaker 1: hit me up at hotter than a mophone dot com.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to put some money in your pocket. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you got some wisdom? Gets on you? Now? Yeah? What

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Speaker 1: you got some wisdom somewhere? That's very close to an

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Speaker 1: idea I'll come up with Jay soon. Maybe you guys

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Speaker 1: couldn't do some business together. I have an interesting idea

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Speaker 1: that I was going to do. So anyway, Um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll have that talk. Listen. Um, this this election that's

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Speaker 1: coming that we're faced with. I don't want anybody to

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Speaker 1: sleep on the importance of what has to happen in November.

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Speaker 1: This is this is serious, y'all. This is serious. Don't

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Speaker 1: let the distractions get in the way. President Obama, when

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Speaker 1: he was speaking at Congressman Lewis's funeral, he talked about

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Speaker 1: how voter supe voter suppression is in full effect right now,

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Speaker 1: how they are closing polling places in neighborhoods of color

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Speaker 1: and condensing them down to one that's creating these long lines.

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Speaker 1: They are going to be some long lines this November,

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Speaker 1: make no mistake about it. But you can early vote,

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Speaker 1: which is just as important. You can earlier vote, and

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Speaker 1: then the people who cannot early vote when they go there,

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Speaker 1: they will be standing in regular lines. We've got to

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Speaker 1: be considered of those people. If you can early vote,

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Speaker 1: we have to early vote. But in order to early vote,

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Speaker 1: you have to be registered. But really, man, you have

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Speaker 1: to understand the significance of this. Stop saying that your

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Speaker 1: vote doesn't count, because it does. Every vote counts. The

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Speaker 1: only way your vote don't count is if you don't

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Speaker 1: cast it. Every vote counts, yours included. We need you

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Speaker 1: to vote. We need everybody to vote this year because

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Speaker 1: I just have to tell you, man, you're not going

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Speaker 1: to like another four years of this. You're just not. Look,

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Speaker 1: look what's happened has already been so many. First, we

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Speaker 1: have a president that tweets. We have a president that

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Speaker 1: doesn't care about the people he's leading. We have a

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Speaker 1: president who makes false state after false statement after false statement.

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Speaker 1: We have a president who's divisive. We have a president

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Speaker 1: in office where a white supremist group in hate groups

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Speaker 1: think they have a friend in the White House. We

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Speaker 1: have a president that does not care about the oppressed.

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Speaker 1: We have a president. Every time he takes up a cause,

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Speaker 1: if you notice carefully, it's got something to do with

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Speaker 1: people of color, Immigration, the kneeling, the Black Lives Matter,

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Speaker 1: all of this, Docta everything, every issue he takes up,

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Speaker 1: the ban on Muslims, every issue he takes up has

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Speaker 1: something to do with people of color. Why would you

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Speaker 1: not pay attention to this? Now? If you are non

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Speaker 1: African American and you are hearing me, I can't tell

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Speaker 1: you how gratifying it is is to see those of

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Speaker 1: you who are supporting the Black Lives Matter in protest,

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Speaker 1: whether it's silent, it's just making a donation, it's standing

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Speaker 1: out there with a sign. I can't tell you how

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Speaker 1: important that is. But I know this for a fact, man,

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Speaker 1: I know a lot of non African Americans that's sick

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Speaker 1: of this mess. Man, sick of this mess. Right here,

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Speaker 1: we cannot we cannot allow this to happen again. For

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Speaker 1: four years, he has done everything in his power to

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Speaker 1: divide us. And I'm telling you, in November, you have

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Speaker 1: a chance to do something about that. All you got

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Speaker 1: to do is vote, show everyone that black lives matter everywhere,

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Speaker 1: not just when it comes to police activity towards people

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Speaker 1: of color, not just when it comes to fair housing,

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Speaker 1: but when it comes to voting. We can help determine

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Speaker 1: who's in that White House in November. When we all

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Speaker 1: vote dot org. It's what you have to go to

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Speaker 1: sign up. When you learn things about it, share that information.

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Speaker 1: We got some business to take care of this November. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Do not sleep this election. This is a very very

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Speaker 1: important one. Are you not hearing what Barack Obama is saying?

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Speaker 1: It's serious, y'all. When we all vote dot org register now.

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