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Speaker 1: Rooking jew bowls second dat date. Bowling alleys are a
Speaker 1: great way to go on a date. I often find
Speaker 1: myself hanging around bowling allies all the time just to
Speaker 1: help women on their form. Yeah, help correct them. I
Speaker 1: might not even know them. I just come from behind him,
Speaker 1: just go hey, you throw the ball like this. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you get slapped, but sometimes you get a phone number.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I put a bully ball in your
Speaker 1: face if I was there. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm
Speaker 1: looking for. And Melissa, who's on the phone right now,
Speaker 1: went to a bowling alley on her first date, but
Speaker 1: now she's not getting a call back. Melissa, what's up? Hi?
Speaker 1: How are you? Did you actually know this guy before
Speaker 1: you went to the bowling alley or did he just
Speaker 1: show up there and do my special trick to meet you?
Speaker 1: Oh no, he didn't. He didn't do your special trink um.
Speaker 1: I didn't know him, my eyes. He met him through
Speaker 1: some friends. Okay, So it was the bowling alley, the
Speaker 1: first time you actually laid eyes on each other. Yes,
Speaker 1: it was. We texted a couple of times, like about
Speaker 1: where we were going to meet and stuff, but that
Speaker 1: was the first time we saw each other. Okay, And
Speaker 1: what's his name? Jay? Jay? All right, and tell us
Speaker 1: a little bit about the date. Why do you think
Speaker 1: you're not getting to call back? I honestly don't know. Guys,
Speaker 1: Like the date was kind of great or so I thought,
Speaker 1: like we got there, it was a really cool place.
Speaker 1: It was bowling in beers. You know, it was a
Speaker 1: good time. Like we were cheering each other on. You know,
Speaker 1: we were bowling. I'm not that good at bowling, but
Speaker 1: neither was he. Like we were both like kind of
Speaker 1: like mediocre, but it was fun. Okay, Okay, So he
Speaker 1: wasn't like some extreme bowling enthusiasts that would like put
Speaker 1: you down or not date you because you got a
Speaker 1: couple of you know, he was mad because he was
Speaker 1: not doing that great job himself. I mean, can you
Speaker 1: remember like a moment where you're like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: really going well. Well, the whole date was going really well,
Speaker 1: But I do remember a moment where I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: I hope I didn't like screw this up, Like it
Speaker 1: just kind of got a little weird. It got kind
Speaker 1: of out of hand. Weird at a bowling alley can
Speaker 1: never be good. So we were like we were playing,
Speaker 1: we were bowling around, you know, we had took a
Speaker 1: little break and we started talking. We're talking about playing
Speaker 1: some bets on the game, you know, and just like
Speaker 1: that's like, oh, I bet a dollar you can hit
Speaker 1: a strike, or like I bet that at five dollars
Speaker 1: you can't chug this beer and like less than a
Speaker 1: minute and stuff like that. Yeah, it sounds funny. I'm yeah,
Speaker 1: it was playful and I'm always down for a bet,
Speaker 1: Like I don't back down. Okay, So he bet me too,
Speaker 1: you know, to lick the inside of one of the
Speaker 1: bowling shoes. Oh my god, well are you in like
Speaker 1: fifth grade? I know. At first I was like what
Speaker 1: the hell, Like did I do this? I want to
Speaker 1: see him down, you know, So I was like I
Speaker 1: kind of have to please tell me you didn't actually
Speaker 1: do that. I absolutely did it. Oh god, I thought
Speaker 1: he would think I was cool. We've done a lot
Speaker 1: of second date updates. I've got to say, this is
Speaker 1: the filthiest thing I've ever heard happen. Don't They prayed them?
Speaker 1: They sprayed the shoes. You know, what did it taste like?
Speaker 1: I think, Okay, now that's disgusting. I'm not gonna say that.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It honestly kind of tasted like a
Speaker 1: wet sock, like a foggy sock. It was. I think
Speaker 1: you're kind of badass for doing it. Yeah, exactly, that's
Speaker 1: what I was thinking he would think. But what did
Speaker 1: he do after you did it? Oh, he was cracking up.
Speaker 1: He thought it was the funniest thing in the world.
Speaker 1: I don't know if he was laughing with me or
Speaker 1: at me, like he was cracking up, but he I
Speaker 1: don't know, Like he hasn't called me. We haven't they
Speaker 1: planned for a second date, So I'm thinking that was it.
Speaker 1: But then I thought, like I was, okay, I thought
Speaker 1: we were having a moment. Did you guys kiss? Okay?
Speaker 1: So no, I mean we didn't kiss. But where there
Speaker 1: were moments like when we were getting ready to leave,
Speaker 1: he walked me out, you know, you're waiting he caught
Speaker 1: me an ooper and everything. Yeah, that's where there were
Speaker 1: so many moments I thought he was gonna kiss me,
Speaker 1: but I'm sure he was thinking about the shoe, because
Speaker 1: I was thinking about the shoe, Like, is he gonna
Speaker 1: want to kiss me? So you guys didn't kiss No,
Speaker 1: I didn't get my kids. Come on, that's out there.
Speaker 1: He's the one that dared her. He dared me exactly
Speaker 1: if you bring it up and you can't handle the
Speaker 1: actual truth of what happens, and that's on you. And
Speaker 1: have you heard anything from him since your date? No?
Speaker 1: I text him the day after the day, just like,
Speaker 1: you know, Hey, what's up. I had a great time
Speaker 1: last night, thanks for taking me out. Just thanking him.
Speaker 1: I made a little joke about the shoe thing. Think
Speaker 1: I said something like I used the whole bottle of
Speaker 1: listerine or something. I don't know what I said, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I was like, I'm all good my breast. Okay,
Speaker 1: Like he didn't text me back. Do you think it's
Speaker 1: the shoe looking that did you? In? Did just listen
Speaker 1: to yourself? Well, I don't know. Like my friend said
Speaker 1: that he was a ladies man, Okay, Okay, so it
Speaker 1: could be like seventy percent shoe thirty percent he's a
Speaker 1: ladies man, and he's just like has other girls. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know how many dates I've been
Speaker 1: on where I like, if I just wouldn't have licked
Speaker 1: that damn shoe, I wouldn't have been in this position
Speaker 1: right now. All right, we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call him and get your second day update. All right,
Speaker 1: thank you, hang looking jubil in the morning. Second if
Speaker 1: you're just tuning in for the second date update, Melissa
Speaker 1: the Shoe Liquor is on the phone with us. And
Speaker 1: Melissa went out on a date with a guy named Jay.
Speaker 1: They went bowling, They had a fun time, and at
Speaker 1: some point they were making bets with each other and
Speaker 1: he bet her to lick a bowling shoe, the inside
Speaker 1: of a bowling shoe, and she did it. And like
Speaker 1: I said earlier, this makes today's second day update the
Speaker 1: most disgusting in the history of second day updates. We've
Speaker 1: heard a lot of really bad things. So she licked
Speaker 1: the inside of the bowling shoe, and she thinks that
Speaker 1: that's the reason she's not getting a call back. Maybe
Speaker 1: it grossed him out too much. Although he did bet
Speaker 1: her to do it, she hasn't heard from him in
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. So we're about to get him
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out if that is the
Speaker 1: reason he's not calling her back. Melissa, you got the
Speaker 1: shoe out of your mouth. You're ready to do this? Yes,
Speaker 1: it's out of my mouth and I'm ready. And I
Speaker 1: think that's the reason he's not calling you back. It's
Speaker 1: so unfair because guys always say I want a guy's girl,
Speaker 1: and then you give him a guy's girl, and then
Speaker 1: they decide they don't want that. Yeah. I wouldn't even
Speaker 1: hang out with them, my dude friends if he did this.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello. Hi is Jay there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is Jay. Who's this? This is Jewil from brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. How are you wait? From
Speaker 1: the radio show? Yeah? What's up? Man? How are you doing? Okay?
Speaker 1: What's up with you? Not much? I'm just chilling. I
Speaker 1: wanted to give you a call because we actually received
Speaker 1: an email about you, about me. Yeah, it's from a
Speaker 1: girl that you went out on a date with. Are
Speaker 1: you serious right now? I am. Her name is Melissa.
Speaker 1: Do you remember going on a date with Melissa? Oh? Oh, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I do, all right. I figure she'd probably be easy
Speaker 1: to remember because she licked a shoe, a bowling shoe
Speaker 1: while you guys are out. She told you that, Yes
Speaker 1: she did. We actually talked to her about your date,
Speaker 1: and she's confused because she's been trying to get a
Speaker 1: hold of you for a second date. But you're not
Speaker 1: calling her back. Oh yo, I could believe she told
Speaker 1: you about the shoe. Yeah she did. Hey, I can't
Speaker 1: believe she admitted to doing that either. Man, that was crazy.
Speaker 1: I would have told nobody that you're the one that
Speaker 1: dared her to lick the shoe. You've got to take
Speaker 1: some responsibility. Yeah, but I didn't tell him. Go tell
Speaker 1: anybody about it. That's like it's something you, you know,
Speaker 1: take to your grave, right, I almost exited the inside
Speaker 1: the whole of a bowling ball. You might actually do it, yeah, dude,
Speaker 1: I think Yeah, I think you stopped at the appropriate time.
Speaker 1: Or maybe actually I think it went too far, but
Speaker 1: it was open to Auntie, but we stopped right there. Wow. Um,
Speaker 1: so what's the reason you're not calling her back? Do
Speaker 1: you don't want to see her again? Let's just put
Speaker 1: it like this, I date my fash old lady, and
Speaker 1: certain things are red flags. And I can tell pretty
Speaker 1: easily when I can't and can't trust somebody. Okay, oh wait,
Speaker 1: so you're saying you don't think you can trust her. No,
Speaker 1: I couldn't trust any fun I could throw. Why do
Speaker 1: you say that? Because what happened at the bullet alley.
Speaker 1: You can't trust her because she licked you. I would think, Hey,
Speaker 1: if I dared somebody liquor shoe and they did it,
Speaker 1: they would have all my trust, you know what. She
Speaker 1: had points for that. She was doing good up until
Speaker 1: this other moment that happened and maybe changed my entire
Speaker 1: perspective on him. What happened, all right, so we would
Speaker 1: close it out. We're about to get out of there,
Speaker 1: and she ran to the bathroom real quick, you know,
Speaker 1: And I said, okay, cool, I'm gonna go to ticket
Speaker 1: shoes and check them back in with the front desk.
Speaker 1: So as I'm dropping the shoes off, the cash it
Speaker 1: guy leaned into and say, hey, you know that's your
Speaker 1: girlfriend or whatever. I'm like, you know, like no, I know,
Speaker 1: like not yet, you know. It's kind of joking with him,
Speaker 1: and he was like, well, she might be dodging a bullet, man,
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? So he didn't tell me
Speaker 1: he was watching the bowl the whole time, and while
Speaker 1: while I was setting up my shot, he saw her
Speaker 1: pick up my phone and it actually started going through
Speaker 1: my phone. What exactly how could he tell that that
Speaker 1: was your phone from all the way back at the
Speaker 1: bowling desk. No, he said he saw her do it
Speaker 1: five was six times, and only did it why my
Speaker 1: back was turned? Oh what really? And you didn't like
Speaker 1: think to ask her about it or anything. It was
Speaker 1: the first date if it was a girlfriend, cool, We
Speaker 1: didn't have it out right through the day, but the
Speaker 1: first date and you're already going through my phone? So
Speaker 1: you believe this dude that you don't know who said
Speaker 1: she was going through your phone? Yeah? Hell yeah? If anything,
Speaker 1: he was looking out for me. If the unwritten rule
Speaker 1: guys look out for guys, he helped me dutch a bullet. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, she seemed really cool when we talked to her.
Speaker 1: You don't think that there could be another explanation like
Speaker 1: she accidentally picked up your phone instead of hers five
Speaker 1: or six times with my back turn. No, and what
Speaker 1: she did in some straight shady I don't need that
Speaker 1: in my life. I'm curious if she was actually going
Speaker 1: through your phone though. I want to know the answer
Speaker 1: to that, and why I don't really know that. I
Speaker 1: mean she did in the first Dame, what do you
Speaker 1: think will happened on the second? Why? I just say
Speaker 1: that because I want to ask her, and I forgot
Speaker 1: to let you know that she's actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening to this conversation. Yo, No way, Melissa, Melissa
Speaker 1: is still there. Okay, Wow, Okay, I thought you were.
Speaker 1: I am not sneaky at all. You got it all
Speaker 1: along that story, his side of the story. It is
Speaker 1: not how it looks. It's not what it seems like. Really,
Speaker 1: So you weren't going through his phone, I mean, not
Speaker 1: like that. It's not like I hacked into his phone
Speaker 1: and was looking through every little detail. No wait, Melissa,
Speaker 1: I was like standing up for you. You actually were
Speaker 1: looking at his phone when it's gay Listen. I was
Speaker 1: sitting there, he's bowling his phone buzz loud as hell.
Speaker 1: I just feel happened to look over and it's right there.
Speaker 1: I can it's you. I'm not blind. I can see
Speaker 1: what it says. So just leave it there. You don't
Speaker 1: pick it up and then start reading all his messages.
Speaker 1: I just well, I saw I saw a name and
Speaker 1: it looked like a female's name. I think it was
Speaker 1: Sammy or something like that, and I just leaned the
Speaker 1: phone over to see what's The text said, he's the
Speaker 1: one who has the message right there on the screen,
Speaker 1: and it said are we still on for some matter?
Speaker 1: Are you still picking me up? Something like that? Like
Speaker 1: at nine, like right after our date. It was really
Speaker 1: it was weird. So I was just like, what what's that?
Speaker 1: That was? It was you looking at my messages? I mean,
Speaker 1: but your messages were sitting next to me, so I
Speaker 1: looked over. I wasn't trying to be sneaky or anything
Speaker 1: like we're having a good time, all right, all right? Cool?
Speaker 1: So all right, so you saw something on my phone?
Speaker 1: Why are you going back to my phone again? Five
Speaker 1: or six times after that, did you picking up my phone?
Speaker 1: It was not. It was like two or three times.
Speaker 1: Why are you picking up my phone? That's that's the
Speaker 1: point I'm trying to get you. Why are you picking
Speaker 1: up my phone? It kept going off like the whoever
Speaker 1: that girl was, she kept texting you. So I'm just
Speaker 1: trying Okay, wait, you the phone monitor or something. No,
Speaker 1: but me and you are on a date, and I
Speaker 1: want to know if you're involved with someone else. I
Speaker 1: know you're really I'm sure you know your own damn
Speaker 1: reputation and died shorty. That's none of your business when together. Look,
Speaker 1: you have a reputation. You know your reputation. I know it,
Speaker 1: our friends know it. You're a ladies man, So don't
Speaker 1: act like it's all out of the blue. Why a
Speaker 1: female because I'm sure they've done it in the past,
Speaker 1: looks over and checks your phone, especially if they're on
Speaker 1: a date with you and your phone's just getting blown up.
Speaker 1: I think anybody with you that Actually it was my
Speaker 1: phone and you were sitting down and I'm bowling and
Speaker 1: my phone's just going out. Buzz buzz, buzz, buzz buzz.
Speaker 1: You can't tell me you wouldn't look over, like who's
Speaker 1: hitting her up so much? Who wasn't over It's like, yo, yo,
Speaker 1: do you hear what you're saying right now? All right?
Speaker 1: You know what you say? I would never go through
Speaker 1: somebody's phone. Will We're on a date, a first date
Speaker 1: at that, Well, that's you. I want to know who
Speaker 1: I'm your craziness and trying to tell me what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do on a date. I'm not trying to rationalize it.
Speaker 1: I think any sane person would do what I did.
Speaker 1: And I'm not like mad that I did it. I
Speaker 1: don't feel bad for doing it. I was just I
Speaker 1: wanted to know who you were, what was going on
Speaker 1: with you, And if I talk something suspicious, then I'm
Speaker 1: gonna look into it. I don't really blame her. I mean,
Speaker 1: she's just trying to look out for herself a little
Speaker 1: bit more like buzz buzz buzz buzz buzz. Like for you,
Speaker 1: you had two dates planned in the same night, Jay,
Speaker 1: I mean you kind of had a point, all right.
Speaker 1: All right, wait, all right, look about we about like
Speaker 1: just squashed all that nonsense. Let me tell you this
Speaker 1: right here. The name that came up Sammy. That's a dude.
Speaker 1: That's a dude, Sammy, really guy Sammy. In his phone,
Speaker 1: it was spelled s A M M. I no guy
Speaker 1: spelled Sammy like that. That's a girl, Sammy for a guy.
Speaker 1: It's Sammy, sweetie. I know that. So it wasn't like
Speaker 1: that in your phone. That's a girl. Okay, So all right,
Speaker 1: so now now there's rules to how I have to
Speaker 1: sell my boy's name in my phone. Okay, can you
Speaker 1: get any further in my business? If Melissa, why did
Speaker 1: you even call for a second date with this dude?
Speaker 1: If you think that he's a player and like planning
Speaker 1: dates after you? I spell thought the date went good,
Speaker 1: and I asked my friends, like, do you guys know
Speaker 1: anybody knew Sammy? And nobody knew a Sammy, So I'm like,
Speaker 1: maybe it's nothing. Yeah, I didn't know that he knew
Speaker 1: that I looked. I thought maybe would have affect the date.
Speaker 1: I just got five guys. All right, Well, Jay, I
Speaker 1: have to ask this question. Maybe I don't know the answer.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's right and wrong anymore? Jay, would
Speaker 1: you like to go on a second date with Melissa?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it? But now really, yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: I'm asking would you like to go out with her again?
Speaker 1: It sounds like you guys have the perfect foundation for
Speaker 1: a great relationship. Nah, Chief, I'm a pass. But if
Speaker 1: I need to way to check my phone messages, I
Speaker 1: know who to call. I'm sorry, Melissa, no second date
Speaker 1: for you. That's okay, guys, thanks for trying. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: doesn't sound like it was meant to be. No, ain't
Speaker 1: that bad, you know what. I'm actually kind of glad
Speaker 1: this happened, though I'm dodged a hell of a bullet. Man. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: good luck to you both. Okay, thank you guys. All right, man,
Speaker 1: thank you and Jay tell Sammy I said Hi. However
Speaker 1: you spell her name, it's a dude, not a girl.
Speaker 1: In the morning seven eight five nine two says that
Speaker 1: girl has no concept of personal space. I'm going to
Speaker 1: check somebody's phone the first time you meet them, And
Speaker 1: then another text message that says I would do what
Speaker 1: she did. I believe this guy is a liar. It's
Speaker 1: very split on the text message board. About the second
Speaker 1: date update right now if you missed it, Vanessa wanted
Speaker 1: to call a guy named Jay. They went out bowling
Speaker 1: and they had fun whatever. There was an interesting moment
Speaker 1: where she looked at shoe, but that's not like the
Speaker 1: main focus here. The focus is on their first date.
Speaker 1: A dude told him that he saw her checking his
Speaker 1: phone repeatedly every time he would bowl repeatedly, and then
Speaker 1: we got her on the phone. She didn't deny it.
Speaker 1: She was checking his phone during the first date and
Speaker 1: he ended up getting a text message from somebody named
Speaker 1: Sammy at making plans a meet up later. She was thinking,
Speaker 1: that's a girl and they had plans later she still
Speaker 1: wanted to call him for a second date, which is interesting,
Speaker 1: but anyway, she was like defending the fact that she
Speaker 1: should be able to check his phone even on a
Speaker 1: first date. But come on, you're telling me if you
Speaker 1: were sitting down at the seat and the phone buzz
Speaker 1: and it was facing up, and you're on a date
Speaker 1: with a girl and it's from some dude name like Dan,
Speaker 1: and Dan says hey, I'll pick you up at nine
Speaker 1: to you wouldn't look down and then be like no,
Speaker 1: I would just go off. It's probably a dude, huh,
Speaker 1: make a joke about its huge. Yeah. I'd look at it,
Speaker 1: and then I wouldn't check the phone. I'd continue to
Speaker 1: date and I'd let her do her thing, and then
Speaker 1: later on I'd be like, hey, let me ask you
Speaker 1: a question. Are you also dating somebody named Dan? I
Speaker 1: don't know, why is it? Why would I be rational
Speaker 1: like that? But people are. People are texting it at seven, eight,
Speaker 1: five to nine two, saying it's completely acceptable to check
Speaker 1: somebody's phone anytime. Even if it's the first date. Do
Speaker 1: you agree? TEXTA seven eight, five nine two. Remember if
Speaker 1: you want to do a second date. Update I have
Speaker 1: to do is email the show and we will call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back