WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Bowling Alley Shoe Licker

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jew bowls second dat date. Bowling alleys are a

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<v Speaker 1>great way to go on a date. I often find

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<v Speaker 1>myself hanging around bowling allies all the time just to

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<v Speaker 1>help women on their form. Yeah, help correct them. I

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<v Speaker 1>might not even know them. I just come from behind him,

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<v Speaker 1>just go hey, you throw the ball like this. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you get slapped, but sometimes you get a phone number.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I put a bully ball in your

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<v Speaker 1>face if I was there. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking for. And Melissa, who's on the phone right now,

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<v Speaker 1>went to a bowling alley on her first date, but

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<v Speaker 1>now she's not getting a call back. Melissa, what's up? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? Did you actually know this guy before

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<v Speaker 1>you went to the bowling alley or did he just

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<v Speaker 1>show up there and do my special trick to meet you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, he didn't. He didn't do your special trink um.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know him, my eyes. He met him through

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<v Speaker 1>some friends. Okay, So it was the bowling alley, the

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<v Speaker 1>first time you actually laid eyes on each other. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it was. We texted a couple of times, like about

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<v Speaker 1>where we were going to meet and stuff, but that

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<v Speaker 1>was the first time we saw each other. Okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>what's his name? Jay? Jay? All right, and tell us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about the date. Why do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you're not getting to call back? I honestly don't know. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Like the date was kind of great or so I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>like we got there, it was a really cool place.

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<v Speaker 1>It was bowling in beers. You know, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>good time. Like we were cheering each other on. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we were bowling. I'm not that good at bowling, but

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<v Speaker 1>neither was he. Like we were both like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like mediocre, but it was fun. Okay, Okay, So he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like some extreme bowling enthusiasts that would like put

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<v Speaker 1>you down or not date you because you got a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of you know, he was mad because he was

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<v Speaker 1>not doing that great job himself. I mean, can you

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<v Speaker 1>remember like a moment where you're like, oh, this is

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<v Speaker 1>really going well. Well, the whole date was going really well,

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<v Speaker 1>But I do remember a moment where I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope I didn't like screw this up, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of got a little weird. It got kind

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<v Speaker 1>of out of hand. Weird at a bowling alley can

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<v Speaker 1>never be good. So we were like we were playing,

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<v Speaker 1>we were bowling around, you know, we had took a

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<v Speaker 1>little break and we started talking. We're talking about playing

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<v Speaker 1>some bets on the game, you know, and just like

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<v Speaker 1>that's like, oh, I bet a dollar you can hit

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<v Speaker 1>a strike, or like I bet that at five dollars

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<v Speaker 1>you can't chug this beer and like less than a

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<v Speaker 1>minute and stuff like that. Yeah, it sounds funny. I'm yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was playful and I'm always down for a bet,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't back down. Okay, So he bet me too,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to lick the inside of one of the

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<v Speaker 1>bowling shoes. Oh my god, well are you in like

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<v Speaker 1>fifth grade? I know. At first I was like what

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<v Speaker 1>the hell, Like did I do this? I want to

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<v Speaker 1>see him down, you know, So I was like I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of have to please tell me you didn't actually

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I absolutely did it. Oh god, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>he would think I was cool. We've done a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of second date updates. I've got to say, this is

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<v Speaker 1>the filthiest thing I've ever heard happen. Don't They prayed them?

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<v Speaker 1>They sprayed the shoes. You know, what did it taste like?

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<v Speaker 1>I think, Okay, now that's disgusting. I'm not gonna say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It honestly kind of tasted like a

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<v Speaker 1>wet sock, like a foggy sock. It was. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you're kind of badass for doing it. Yeah, exactly, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I was thinking he would think. But what did

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<v Speaker 1>he do after you did it? Oh, he was cracking up.

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<v Speaker 1>He thought it was the funniest thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he was laughing with me or

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<v Speaker 1>at me, like he was cracking up, but he I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Like he hasn't called me. We haven't they

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<v Speaker 1>planned for a second date, So I'm thinking that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I thought, like I was, okay, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>we were having a moment. Did you guys kiss? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So no, I mean we didn't kiss. But where there

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<v Speaker 1>were moments like when we were getting ready to leave,

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<v Speaker 1>he walked me out, you know, you're waiting he caught

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<v Speaker 1>me an ooper and everything. Yeah, that's where there were

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<v Speaker 1>so many moments I thought he was gonna kiss me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm sure he was thinking about the shoe, because

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about the shoe, Like, is he gonna

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<v Speaker 1>want to kiss me? So you guys didn't kiss No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get my kids. Come on, that's out there.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the one that dared her. He dared me exactly

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<v Speaker 1>if you bring it up and you can't handle the

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<v Speaker 1>actual truth of what happens, and that's on you. And

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<v Speaker 1>have you heard anything from him since your date? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I text him the day after the day, just like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Hey, what's up. I had a great time

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<v Speaker 1>last night, thanks for taking me out. Just thanking him.

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<v Speaker 1>I made a little joke about the shoe thing. Think

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<v Speaker 1>I said something like I used the whole bottle of

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<v Speaker 1>listerine or something. I don't know what I said, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was like, I'm all good my breast. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he didn't text me back. Do you think it's

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<v Speaker 1>the shoe looking that did you? In? Did just listen

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<v Speaker 1>to yourself? Well, I don't know. Like my friend said

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<v Speaker 1>that he was a ladies man, Okay, Okay, so it

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<v Speaker 1>could be like seventy percent shoe thirty percent he's a

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<v Speaker 1>ladies man, and he's just like has other girls. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know how many dates I've been

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<v Speaker 1>on where I like, if I just wouldn't have licked

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<v Speaker 1>that damn shoe, I wouldn't have been in this position

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<v Speaker 1>right now. All right, we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call him and get your second day update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, hang looking jubil in the morning. Second if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just tuning in for the second date update, Melissa

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<v Speaker 1>the Shoe Liquor is on the phone with us. And

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<v Speaker 1>Melissa went out on a date with a guy named Jay.

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<v Speaker 1>They went bowling, They had a fun time, and at

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<v Speaker 1>some point they were making bets with each other and

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<v Speaker 1>he bet her to lick a bowling shoe, the inside

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<v Speaker 1>of a bowling shoe, and she did it. And like

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<v Speaker 1>I said earlier, this makes today's second day update the

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<v Speaker 1>most disgusting in the history of second day updates. We've

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<v Speaker 1>heard a lot of really bad things. So she licked

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<v Speaker 1>the inside of the bowling shoe, and she thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>that's the reason she's not getting a call back. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it grossed him out too much. Although he did bet

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<v Speaker 1>her to do it, she hasn't heard from him in

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks. So we're about to get him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and find out if that is the

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<v Speaker 1>reason he's not calling her back. Melissa, you got the

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<v Speaker 1>shoe out of your mouth. You're ready to do this? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's out of my mouth and I'm ready. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's the reason he's not calling you back. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so unfair because guys always say I want a guy's girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you give him a guy's girl, and then

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<v Speaker 1>they decide they don't want that. Yeah. I wouldn't even

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with them, my dude friends if he did this.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go. Hello. Hi is Jay there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Jay. Who's this? This is Jewil from brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the Morning. How are you wait? From

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show? Yeah? What's up? Man? How are you doing? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up with you? Not much? I'm just chilling. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to give you a call because we actually received

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<v Speaker 1>an email about you, about me. Yeah, it's from a

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<v Speaker 1>girl that you went out on a date with. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious right now? I am. Her name is Melissa.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember going on a date with Melissa? Oh? Oh, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I do, all right. I figure she'd probably be easy

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<v Speaker 1>to remember because she licked a shoe, a bowling shoe

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<v Speaker 1>while you guys are out. She told you that, Yes

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<v Speaker 1>she did. We actually talked to her about your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's confused because she's been trying to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of you for a second date. But you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling her back. Oh yo, I could believe she told

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<v Speaker 1>you about the shoe. Yeah she did. Hey, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe she admitted to doing that either. Man, that was crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have told nobody that you're the one that

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<v Speaker 1>dared her to lick the shoe. You've got to take

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<v Speaker 1>some responsibility. Yeah, but I didn't tell him. Go tell

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<v Speaker 1>anybody about it. That's like it's something you, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>take to your grave, right, I almost exited the inside

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<v Speaker 1>the whole of a bowling ball. You might actually do it, yeah, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I think Yeah, I think you stopped at the appropriate time.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe actually I think it went too far, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was open to Auntie, but we stopped right there. Wow. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>so what's the reason you're not calling her back? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to see her again? Let's just put

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<v Speaker 1>it like this, I date my fash old lady, and

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<v Speaker 1>certain things are red flags. And I can tell pretty

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<v Speaker 1>easily when I can't and can't trust somebody. Okay, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're saying you don't think you can trust her. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't trust any fun I could throw. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you say that? Because what happened at the bullet alley.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't trust her because she licked you. I would think, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>if I dared somebody liquor shoe and they did it,

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<v Speaker 1>they would have all my trust, you know what. She

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<v Speaker 1>had points for that. She was doing good up until

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<v Speaker 1>this other moment that happened and maybe changed my entire

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<v Speaker 1>perspective on him. What happened, all right, so we would

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<v Speaker 1>close it out. We're about to get out of there,

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<v Speaker 1>and she ran to the bathroom real quick, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, okay, cool, I'm gonna go to ticket

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<v Speaker 1>shoes and check them back in with the front desk.

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<v Speaker 1>So as I'm dropping the shoes off, the cash it

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<v Speaker 1>guy leaned into and say, hey, you know that's your

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend or whatever. I'm like, you know, like no, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>like not yet, you know. It's kind of joking with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, well, she might be dodging a bullet, man,

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? So he didn't tell me

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<v Speaker 1>he was watching the bowl the whole time, and while

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<v Speaker 1>while I was setting up my shot, he saw her

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<v Speaker 1>pick up my phone and it actually started going through

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<v Speaker 1>my phone. What exactly how could he tell that that

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<v Speaker 1>was your phone from all the way back at the

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<v Speaker 1>bowling desk. No, he said he saw her do it

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<v Speaker 1>five was six times, and only did it why my

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<v Speaker 1>back was turned? Oh what really? And you didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>think to ask her about it or anything. It was

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<v Speaker 1>the first date if it was a girlfriend, cool, We

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have it out right through the day, but the

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<v Speaker 1>first date and you're already going through my phone? So

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<v Speaker 1>you believe this dude that you don't know who said

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<v Speaker 1>she was going through your phone? Yeah? Hell yeah? If anything,

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<v Speaker 1>he was looking out for me. If the unwritten rule

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<v Speaker 1>guys look out for guys, he helped me dutch a bullet. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she seemed really cool when we talked to her.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't think that there could be another explanation like

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<v Speaker 1>she accidentally picked up your phone instead of hers five

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<v Speaker 1>or six times with my back turn. No, and what

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<v Speaker 1>she did in some straight shady I don't need that

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<v Speaker 1>in my life. I'm curious if she was actually going

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<v Speaker 1>through your phone though. I want to know the answer

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<v Speaker 1>to that, and why I don't really know that. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean she did in the first Dame, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think will happened on the second? Why? I just say

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<v Speaker 1>that because I want to ask her, and I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>to let you know that she's actually on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening to this conversation. Yo, No way, Melissa, Melissa

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<v Speaker 1>is still there. Okay, Wow, Okay, I thought you were.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not sneaky at all. You got it all

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<v Speaker 1>along that story, his side of the story. It is

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<v Speaker 1>not how it looks. It's not what it seems like. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>So you weren't going through his phone, I mean, not

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<v Speaker 1>like that. It's not like I hacked into his phone

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<v Speaker 1>and was looking through every little detail. No wait, Melissa,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like standing up for you. You actually were

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<v Speaker 1>looking at his phone when it's gay Listen. I was

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there, he's bowling his phone buzz loud as hell.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel happened to look over and it's right there.

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<v Speaker 1>I can it's you. I'm not blind. I can see

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<v Speaker 1>what it says. So just leave it there. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>pick it up and then start reading all his messages.

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<v Speaker 1>I just well, I saw I saw a name and

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<v Speaker 1>it looked like a female's name. I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>Sammy or something like that, and I just leaned the

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<v Speaker 1>phone over to see what's The text said, he's the

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<v Speaker 1>one who has the message right there on the screen,

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<v Speaker 1>and it said are we still on for some matter?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you still picking me up? Something like that? Like

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<v Speaker 1>at nine, like right after our date. It was really

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<v Speaker 1>it was weird. So I was just like, what what's that?

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<v Speaker 1>That was? It was you looking at my messages? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but your messages were sitting next to me, so I

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<v Speaker 1>looked over. I wasn't trying to be sneaky or anything

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<v Speaker 1>like we're having a good time, all right, all right? Cool?

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<v Speaker 1>So all right, so you saw something on my phone?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you going back to my phone again? Five

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<v Speaker 1>or six times after that, did you picking up my phone?

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<v Speaker 1>It was not. It was like two or three times.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you picking up my phone? That's that's the

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<v Speaker 1>point I'm trying to get you. Why are you picking

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<v Speaker 1>up my phone? It kept going off like the whoever

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<v Speaker 1>that girl was, she kept texting you. So I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying Okay, wait, you the phone monitor or something. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but me and you are on a date, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know if you're involved with someone else. I

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<v Speaker 1>know you're really I'm sure you know your own damn

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<v Speaker 1>reputation and died shorty. That's none of your business when together. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a reputation. You know your reputation. I know it,

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<v Speaker 1>our friends know it. You're a ladies man, So don't

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<v Speaker 1>act like it's all out of the blue. Why a

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<v Speaker 1>female because I'm sure they've done it in the past,

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<v Speaker 1>looks over and checks your phone, especially if they're on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with you and your phone's just getting blown up.

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<v Speaker 1>I think anybody with you that Actually it was my

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<v Speaker 1>phone and you were sitting down and I'm bowling and

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<v Speaker 1>my phone's just going out. Buzz buzz, buzz, buzz buzz.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't tell me you wouldn't look over, like who's

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<v Speaker 1>hitting her up so much? Who wasn't over It's like, yo, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>do you hear what you're saying right now? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what you say? I would never go through

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's phone. Will We're on a date, a first date

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<v Speaker 1>at that, Well, that's you. I want to know who

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your craziness and trying to tell me what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do on a date. I'm not trying to rationalize it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think any sane person would do what I did.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not like mad that I did it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel bad for doing it. I was just I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know who you were, what was going on

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<v Speaker 1>with you, And if I talk something suspicious, then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna look into it. I don't really blame her. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just trying to look out for herself a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more like buzz buzz buzz buzz buzz. Like for you,

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<v Speaker 1>you had two dates planned in the same night, Jay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you kind of had a point, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, wait, all right, look about we about like

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<v Speaker 1>just squashed all that nonsense. Let me tell you this

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<v Speaker 1>right here. The name that came up Sammy. That's a dude.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a dude, Sammy, really guy Sammy. In his phone,

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<v Speaker 1>it was spelled s A M M. I no guy

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<v Speaker 1>spelled Sammy like that. That's a girl, Sammy for a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Sammy, sweetie. I know that. So it wasn't like

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<v Speaker 1>that in your phone. That's a girl. Okay, So all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so now now there's rules to how I have to

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<v Speaker 1>sell my boy's name in my phone. Okay, can you

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<v Speaker 1>get any further in my business? If Melissa, why did

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<v Speaker 1>you even call for a second date with this dude?

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<v Speaker 1>If you think that he's a player and like planning

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<v Speaker 1>dates after you? I spell thought the date went good,

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<v Speaker 1>and I asked my friends, like, do you guys know

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<v Speaker 1>anybody knew Sammy? And nobody knew a Sammy, So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it's nothing. Yeah, I didn't know that he knew

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<v Speaker 1>that I looked. I thought maybe would have affect the date.

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<v Speaker 1>I just got five guys. All right, Well, Jay, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to ask this question. Maybe I don't know the answer.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's right and wrong anymore? Jay, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go on a second date with Melissa?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it? But now really, yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm asking would you like to go out with her again?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you guys have the perfect foundation for

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<v Speaker 1>a great relationship. Nah, Chief, I'm a pass. But if

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<v Speaker 1>I need to way to check my phone messages, I

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<v Speaker 1>know who to call. I'm sorry, Melissa, no second date

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<v Speaker 1>for you. That's okay, guys, thanks for trying. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't sound like it was meant to be. No, ain't

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<v Speaker 1>that bad, you know what. I'm actually kind of glad

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<v Speaker 1>this happened, though I'm dodged a hell of a bullet. Man. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck to you both. Okay, thank you guys. All right, man,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you and Jay tell Sammy I said Hi. However

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<v Speaker 1>you spell her name, it's a dude, not a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>In the morning seven eight five nine two says that

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<v Speaker 1>girl has no concept of personal space. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>check somebody's phone the first time you meet them, And

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<v Speaker 1>then another text message that says I would do what

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<v Speaker 1>she did. I believe this guy is a liar. It's

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<v Speaker 1>very split on the text message board. About the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update right now if you missed it, Vanessa wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call a guy named Jay. They went out bowling

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<v Speaker 1>and they had fun whatever. There was an interesting moment

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<v Speaker 1>where she looked at shoe, but that's not like the

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<v Speaker 1>main focus here. The focus is on their first date.

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<v Speaker 1>A dude told him that he saw her checking his

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<v Speaker 1>phone repeatedly every time he would bowl repeatedly, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we got her on the phone. She didn't deny it.

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<v Speaker 1>She was checking his phone during the first date and

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<v Speaker 1>he ended up getting a text message from somebody named

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<v Speaker 1>Sammy at making plans a meet up later. She was thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a girl and they had plans later she still

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call him for a second date, which is interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>but anyway, she was like defending the fact that she

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<v Speaker 1>should be able to check his phone even on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. But come on, you're telling me if you

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<v Speaker 1>were sitting down at the seat and the phone buzz

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<v Speaker 1>and it was facing up, and you're on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl and it's from some dude name like Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>and Dan says hey, I'll pick you up at nine

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<v Speaker 1>to you wouldn't look down and then be like no,

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<v Speaker 1>I would just go off. It's probably a dude, huh,

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<v Speaker 1>make a joke about its huge. Yeah. I'd look at it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I wouldn't check the phone. I'd continue to

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<v Speaker 1>date and I'd let her do her thing, and then

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<v Speaker 1>later on I'd be like, hey, let me ask you

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<v Speaker 1>a question. Are you also dating somebody named Dan? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, why is it? Why would I be rational

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<v Speaker 1>like that? But people are. People are texting it at seven, eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five to nine two, saying it's completely acceptable to check

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's phone anytime. Even if it's the first date. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you agree? TEXTA seven eight, five nine two. Remember if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do a second date. Update I have

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<v Speaker 1>to do is email the show and we will call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who didn't call you back