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Speaker 1: Looking for the perfect birthday or anniversary gift or a

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Speaker 1: Rooking jew bowls second dat date. Bowling alleys are a

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Speaker 1: great way to go on a date. I often find

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Speaker 1: myself hanging around bowling allies all the time just to

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Speaker 1: help women on their form. Yeah, help correct them. I

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Speaker 1: might not even know them. I just come from behind him,

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Speaker 1: just go hey, you throw the ball like this. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: you get slapped, but sometimes you get a phone number.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I put a bully ball in your

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Speaker 1: face if I was there. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm

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Speaker 1: looking for. And Melissa, who's on the phone right now,

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Speaker 1: went to a bowling alley on her first date, but

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Speaker 1: now she's not getting a call back. Melissa, what's up? Hi?

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Speaker 1: How are you? Did you actually know this guy before

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Speaker 1: you went to the bowling alley or did he just

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Speaker 1: show up there and do my special trick to meet you?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, he didn't. He didn't do your special trink um.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know him, my eyes. He met him through

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Speaker 1: some friends. Okay, So it was the bowling alley, the

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Speaker 1: first time you actually laid eyes on each other. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it was. We texted a couple of times, like about

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Speaker 1: where we were going to meet and stuff, but that

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Speaker 1: was the first time we saw each other. Okay, And

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Speaker 1: what's his name? Jay? Jay? All right, and tell us

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Speaker 1: a little bit about the date. Why do you think

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Speaker 1: you're not getting to call back? I honestly don't know. Guys,

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Speaker 1: Like the date was kind of great or so I thought,

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Speaker 1: like we got there, it was a really cool place.

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Speaker 1: It was bowling in beers. You know, it was a

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Speaker 1: good time. Like we were cheering each other on. You know,

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Speaker 1: we were bowling. I'm not that good at bowling, but

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Speaker 1: neither was he. Like we were both like kind of

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Speaker 1: like mediocre, but it was fun. Okay, Okay, So he

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Speaker 1: wasn't like some extreme bowling enthusiasts that would like put

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Speaker 1: you down or not date you because you got a

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Speaker 1: couple of you know, he was mad because he was

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Speaker 1: not doing that great job himself. I mean, can you

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Speaker 1: remember like a moment where you're like, oh, this is

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Speaker 1: really going well. Well, the whole date was going really well,

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Speaker 1: But I do remember a moment where I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I hope I didn't like screw this up, Like it

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Speaker 1: just kind of got a little weird. It got kind

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Speaker 1: never be good. So we were like we were playing,

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Speaker 1: we were bowling around, you know, we had took a

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Speaker 1: little break and we started talking. We're talking about playing

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Speaker 1: some bets on the game, you know, and just like

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Speaker 1: that's like, oh, I bet a dollar you can hit

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Speaker 1: a strike, or like I bet that at five dollars

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Speaker 1: you can't chug this beer and like less than a

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Speaker 1: minute and stuff like that. Yeah, it sounds funny. I'm yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was playful and I'm always down for a bet,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't back down. Okay, So he bet me too,

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Speaker 1: you know, to lick the inside of one of the

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Speaker 1: bowling shoes. Oh my god, well are you in like

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Speaker 1: fifth grade? I know. At first I was like what

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Speaker 1: the hell, Like did I do this? I want to

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Speaker 1: do that. I absolutely did it. Oh god, I thought

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Speaker 1: he would think I was cool. We've done a lot

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Speaker 1: of second date updates. I've got to say, this is

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Speaker 1: the filthiest thing I've ever heard happen. Don't They prayed them?

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Speaker 1: They sprayed the shoes. You know, what did it taste like?

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Speaker 1: I think, Okay, now that's disgusting. I'm not gonna say that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It honestly kind of tasted like a

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Speaker 1: you're kind of badass for doing it. Yeah, exactly, that's

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Speaker 1: what I was thinking he would think. But what did

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Speaker 1: he do after you did it? Oh, he was cracking up.

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Speaker 1: He thought it was the funniest thing in the world.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he was laughing with me or

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Speaker 1: don't know, Like he hasn't called me. We haven't they

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Speaker 1: planned for a second date, So I'm thinking that was it.

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Speaker 1: But then I thought, like I was, okay, I thought

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Speaker 1: So no, I mean we didn't kiss. But where there

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Speaker 1: were moments like when we were getting ready to leave,

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Speaker 1: he walked me out, you know, you're waiting he caught

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Speaker 1: me an ooper and everything. Yeah, that's where there were

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Speaker 1: so many moments I thought he was gonna kiss me,

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Speaker 1: but I'm sure he was thinking about the shoe, because

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Speaker 1: I didn't get my kids. Come on, that's out there.

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Speaker 1: He's the one that dared her. He dared me exactly

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Speaker 1: if you bring it up and you can't handle the

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Speaker 1: actual truth of what happens, and that's on you. And

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Speaker 1: have you heard anything from him since your date? No?

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Speaker 1: I text him the day after the day, just like,

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Speaker 1: you know, Hey, what's up. I had a great time

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Speaker 1: last night, thanks for taking me out. Just thanking him.

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Speaker 1: I made a little joke about the shoe thing. Think

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Speaker 1: listerine or something. I don't know what I said, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I was like, I'm all good my breast. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Like he didn't text me back. Do you think it's

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Speaker 1: the shoe looking that did you? In? Did just listen

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Speaker 1: to yourself? Well, I don't know. Like my friend said

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Speaker 1: that he was a ladies man, Okay, Okay, so it

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Speaker 1: could be like seventy percent shoe thirty percent he's a

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know how many dates I've been

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Speaker 1: on where I like, if I just wouldn't have licked

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Speaker 1: right now. All right, we'll play a song, come back,

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Speaker 1: call him and get your second day update. All right,

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Speaker 1: thank you, hang looking jubil in the morning. Second if

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Speaker 1: you're just tuning in for the second date update, Melissa

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Speaker 1: the Shoe Liquor is on the phone with us. And

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Speaker 1: Melissa went out on a date with a guy named Jay.

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Speaker 1: They went bowling, They had a fun time, and at

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Speaker 1: some point they were making bets with each other and

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Speaker 1: he bet her to lick a bowling shoe, the inside

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Speaker 1: I said earlier, this makes today's second day update the

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Speaker 1: heard a lot of really bad things. So she licked

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Speaker 1: that's the reason she's not getting a call back. Maybe

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Speaker 1: it grossed him out too much. Although he did bet

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Speaker 1: her to do it, she hasn't heard from him in

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Speaker 1: reason he's not calling her back. Melissa, you got the

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Speaker 1: shoe out of your mouth. You're ready to do this? Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's out of my mouth and I'm ready. And I

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Speaker 1: think that's the reason he's not calling you back. It's

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Speaker 1: so unfair because guys always say I want a guy's girl,

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Speaker 1: and then you give him a guy's girl, and then

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Speaker 1: they decide they don't want that. Yeah. I wouldn't even

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello. Hi is Jay there? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is Jay. Who's this? This is Jewil from brook

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Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. How are you wait? From

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Speaker 1: the radio show? Yeah? What's up? Man? How are you doing? Okay?

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Speaker 1: What's up with you? Not much? I'm just chilling. I

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Speaker 1: wanted to give you a call because we actually received

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Speaker 1: an email about you, about me. Yeah, it's from a

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Speaker 1: girl that you went out on a date with. Are

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Speaker 1: you serious right now? I am. Her name is Melissa.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember going on a date with Melissa? Oh? Oh, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do, all right. I figure she'd probably be easy

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Speaker 1: to remember because she licked a shoe, a bowling shoe

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Speaker 1: while you guys are out. She told you that, Yes

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Speaker 1: she did. We actually talked to her about your date,

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Speaker 1: and she's confused because she's been trying to get a

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Speaker 1: hold of you for a second date. But you're not

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Speaker 1: calling her back. Oh yo, I could believe she told

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Speaker 1: you about the shoe. Yeah she did. Hey, I can't

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Speaker 1: dared her to lick the shoe. You've got to take

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Speaker 1: some responsibility. Yeah, but I didn't tell him. Go tell

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Speaker 1: take to your grave, right, I almost exited the inside

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Speaker 1: the whole of a bowling ball. You might actually do it, yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: it was open to Auntie, but we stopped right there. Wow. Um,

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Speaker 1: so what's the reason you're not calling her back? Do

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Speaker 1: you don't want to see her again? Let's just put

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Speaker 1: it like this, I date my fash old lady, and

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Speaker 1: certain things are red flags. And I can tell pretty

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Speaker 1: so you're saying you don't think you can trust her. No,

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Speaker 1: I couldn't trust any fun I could throw. Why do

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Speaker 1: you say that? Because what happened at the bullet alley.

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Speaker 1: You can't trust her because she licked you. I would think, Hey,

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Speaker 1: they would have all my trust, you know what. She

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Speaker 1: And I said, okay, cool, I'm gonna go to ticket

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Speaker 1: So as I'm dropping the shoes off, the cash it

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Speaker 1: guy leaned into and say, hey, you know that's your

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Speaker 1: girlfriend or whatever. I'm like, you know, like no, I know,

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Speaker 1: like not yet, you know. It's kind of joking with him,

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Speaker 1: and he was like, well, she might be dodging a bullet, man,

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about? So he didn't tell me

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Speaker 1: he was watching the bowl the whole time, and while

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Speaker 1: while I was setting up my shot, he saw her

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Speaker 1: pick up my phone and it actually started going through

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Speaker 1: my phone. What exactly how could he tell that that

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Speaker 1: was your phone from all the way back at the

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Speaker 1: bowling desk. No, he said he saw her do it

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Speaker 1: five was six times, and only did it why my

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Speaker 1: back was turned? Oh what really? And you didn't like

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Speaker 1: think to ask her about it or anything. It was

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Speaker 1: the first date if it was a girlfriend, cool, We

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Speaker 1: didn't have it out right through the day, but the

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Speaker 1: first date and you're already going through my phone? So

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Speaker 1: you believe this dude that you don't know who said

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Speaker 1: she was going through your phone? Yeah? Hell yeah? If anything,

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Speaker 1: he was looking out for me. If the unwritten rule

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Speaker 1: guys look out for guys, he helped me dutch a bullet. So,

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Speaker 1: I mean, she seemed really cool when we talked to her.

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Speaker 1: You don't think that there could be another explanation like

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Speaker 1: she accidentally picked up your phone instead of hers five

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Speaker 1: or six times with my back turn. No, and what

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Speaker 1: she did in some straight shady I don't need that

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Speaker 1: I am not sneaky at all. You got it all

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Speaker 1: That was? It was you looking at my messages? I mean,

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Speaker 1: Why are you going back to my phone again? Five

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Speaker 1: Why are you picking up my phone? That's that's the

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