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Speaker 1: The second date up date, Brooke, I have a question. Okay,

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Speaker 1: looking back on your dating history, how many boyfriends roughly,

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Speaker 1: would you say you stole away from your friends?

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Speaker 2: None?

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, don't use that I was too ugly excuse?

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Speaker 3: Again No, I did get asked for their number a lot,

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Speaker 2: You were aware your friends. Yeah, they'd be like hey,

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Speaker 3: They'd hit were hitting on me, and then they'd be like,

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Speaker 3: your friend's really cute.

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Speaker 1: They're like, man, Okay, you were the stepping stone.

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Speaker 2: I was much shorter and not as gorgeous as they.

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Speaker 1: Okay, again, I said that the too ugly excuse you keep.

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Speaker 1: We've heard it, you lived it. Can we just get

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Speaker 1: past it? Can we just asked me.

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Speaker 3: You asked me, and you wanted an answer, then you

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Speaker 3: get mad at the answer, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: I only asked because one of our listeners is thinking

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Speaker 1: of going out with the guy that her friend went

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Speaker 1: out with previously. Oh. Interesting, But there's a twist to

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Speaker 1: it and we're going to find that out soon. But

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Speaker 1: first let's talk to Maya. Maya, how you doing?

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Speaker 2: Oh hi, oh hi, Maya.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I want to know about your

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Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of tea. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: us how it all happened.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's all kind of like intertwined, so you'll get

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Speaker 4: both in one story. Okay, this was a couple of

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Speaker 4: mine in my own business. I get a call from

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Speaker 4: going on this Tinder date in like literally twenty minutes.

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Speaker 4: Any chance you can just swing by and do like

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Speaker 4: Then I can just like extract her, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, yeah, like play dumb, like, oh, I never meant

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Speaker 2: It's a good wellness check, yeah, you know, make sure

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Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, girl, I got you. Let me get

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Speaker 4: these tampons and I'll head right over.

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Speaker 1: Perfect. Okay, a little t m I on that, But

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Speaker 1: that's all right, So let's focus. Let's focus more on

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Speaker 1: the dating situation and less on what's happening to your bodies?

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Speaker 1: So you go to this place and meet up with

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I do the oh hi, and we're acting

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Speaker 2: Thing, are you guys? Like at a coffee shop? Where

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Speaker 4: It was like at a bar. There was like a

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, did you clock the guy's reaction when you

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Speaker 4: No, he seemed not bothered by it. It seemed like

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Speaker 4: I feel like it's good to I think it's good

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so wait, did your friend need rescuing from this guy?

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Speaker 4: No? Well, okay, so I thought it was just going

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Speaker 4: To joy, I'm going to join right okay? And I

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Speaker 1: You're a great friend.

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Speaker 2: Was she not filling him then?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't. Here's the thing, I definitely didn't

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Speaker 1: Finn. Okay, all right, okay, so you and Finn were

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Speaker 4: You didn't get his name mobile no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 4: So I we go our separate ways. I didn't act

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Speaker 4: So a couple of days later, I talked to my

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Speaker 1: And yeah, but you're saying that you felt fireworks happening

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Speaker 4: get his number. No, I didn't do anything. I'm just

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I don't know if I feel really

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Speaker 2: Because because we don't have the friends blessing? Is that?

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Speaker 1: Why? Right, there's that she hasn't gotten the green light

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Speaker 2: Right, it's going to be a totally But why wouldn't

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Speaker 1: And if she can't forgive you, then it's always easy

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Speaker 1: an update. You know what best friends do. They show

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Speaker 1: That's right, and if that doesn't go well, they'll swoop

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Speaker 1: in and date that guy for that doesn't feel good, Alexis,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure Brooke would do that for you any guy

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Speaker 2: I've seen Alexis's type. But yeah, quite a mess.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, text you back, you'll be bitter, But a beautiful

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Speaker 1: friendship between you two, they really are. See that's what

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Speaker 1: date the other night. She observed, she supported, and now

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Speaker 1: Oh god, you know typical best friends stuff, as women

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Speaker 2: Oh you don't think a guy would do this?

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Speaker 1: Never, Oh you did not have an roommate model who

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you did it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but you're still friends, and that's that's the

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Speaker 1: For now, feel good about this, Maya.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, that was mostly Brook that probably trying to swoop

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Speaker 1: in on that was very rude. I get that, but no,

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Speaker 4: Well, and to be fair, I didn't say she was

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Speaker 1: Okay, hopefully she doesn't hear this.

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Speaker 1: And remember the friend does not know that we're doing this,

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Speaker 2: The guy doesn't know that we have his number. No,

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Finn? Yeah? Who's this? Hey?

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Speaker 1: You don't well, maybe you do know me. My name

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Speaker 2: Hey, Finn, you're on the show right, Welcome? Why I

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Speaker 4: Who.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, do you remember you went out on a

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean it sounds like the friend hung

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Speaker 5: Was your name Maya?

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Speaker 1: How did that date go? In your eyes? Like, what

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Speaker 5: We were all just sort of having a good time

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Speaker 4: Pay Like, what did you guys say your name was?

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Speaker 1: Again?

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Speaker 5: Why is this happening?

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you're having a good day already.

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Speaker 1: Some Irish coffees this morning. Yeah, to answer your original question,

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Speaker 1: remember we're broken Jeffrey in the morning, and the reason

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Speaker 2: Hola, how do I ask this? It's part of a

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Speaker 2: second date update, But it's okay.

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Speaker 1: So you know your date, like, you had the friend

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Speaker 1: of the friend of Maya? Right?

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Speaker 5: it's kind of weird. You don't usually go on dates

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Speaker 2: Like a mom, Like, what do you mean, especially.

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Speaker 1: With my friend?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? You know, she's kind of cool. We sort of

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Speaker 5: We went to like the movies and did my light

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you're like dating Caitlyn right now?

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Speaker 5: If I could have kept my mom, I'm from meeting her.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that Maya knew that either, or did she.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I really don't know what that is going

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, wow, Maya, thank you for that beautiful reason.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't have said it any better myself. But then

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think she was dating him. I obviously

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Speaker 1: Why we didn't know any of this.

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Speaker 2: We thought that you were talking to Caitlyn at all.

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Speaker 2: We thought that you were totally single and available to.

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Speaker 5: Move to another town change my name.

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Speaker 1: Why wouldn't Caitlyn want her friend to note about that.

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Speaker 4: Owe doesn't want her friend to go do this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but if she knew they were dating. I mean,

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Speaker 4: I mean fair enough. I don't know. I mean, it

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I think she saw the connection happening

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Speaker 2: And what's funny is Caitlyn also read it right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but Caitlyn did I think called dibbs based on

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Speaker 4: If he's not into it because he's with my friend,

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Speaker 2: Well, and think of it as a benefit.

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Speaker 3: You're going to be taking off of her emergency list

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Speaker 3: on the future day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my god, this is going to be so

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Speaker 1: Are you to your friend.

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Speaker 5: No, can I explain it?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm going if I already know, if she's

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe you guys can sit down all together and

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Speaker 1: explain it and figure it out. When we send you

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Speaker 1: out on another date. We would pay for three people

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Speaker 2: Why are you laughing? You said it was a good times.

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Speaker 4: It was when it wasn't all awkward. Now it sounds terrible.

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Speaker 3: You just add alcohol to that and I'm sure it'll

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Speaker 1: We can see you and Caitlyn at different tables and

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Speaker 1: we'll have Finn go back and forth. Just sit down

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it'll be like miss.

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Speaker 2: You are a strange mansion.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: Whatever you've been doing this morning, do less of it.

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Speaker 1: I figure before you meet up with Caitlin.

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Speaker 5: I've been working five am.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what co operation all right, Well, it

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Speaker 2: They said no, they said no.

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Speaker 4: To that. That's crazy. Also, he seems like he's on something.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so clearly Maya's being sarcastic. She can't wait

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Speaker 1: never ends and weird. A lot of the texts are

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Speaker 1: coming from Brooks phone number, interested in. Uh yeah, you

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Speaker 1: the air like Finn, some like random stone or degenerate,

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Speaker 1: but off the air, you're like, oh, Finn. I dated

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Speaker 1: to see Radio INSIGHT's latest article that I'm the ninety

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Speaker 2: I dated a dozen Finns when I was like twenty three.

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Speaker 2: Been there, done that, Do not need them.

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Speaker 1: Mama has experienced with me.

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Speaker 2: You are so weird.

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Speaker 1: A lot of text men on this one, so it's

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Speaker 2: That is not a healthy friendship.

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Speaker 1: Ah, yeah at all. I know they're keeping secret from

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Mike I'm hoping that we get an update from

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Speaker 2: Somebody date of what if he's still dating Caitlin do.

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Speaker 1: Why don't we ask her to make the awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 1: call to her friend on the air. It could happen

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Speaker 1: like a disaster. Yeah, maybe not.

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Speaker 1: Disasters are our bread and butter. Yeah that year. So

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Speaker 1: if you're a disaster walking around out there, email the show.

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Speaker 1: We'll call that person who isn't calling you back. And

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Speaker 1: check out all of our disaster second date updates wherever

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning