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Speaker 1: With Alexi Napola and Marissa Patton, an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready to che mi amiga? Are you ready

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Speaker 2: to tease me?

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Speaker 1: William's making me a cogy so I can you know?

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Speaker 2: I'm not drinking at all. I can't drink.

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Speaker 1: So this show's called Cogy's and achievement to remember.

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Speaker 2: All you do the Giam? May you drink the cogies?

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Speaker 2: How about that? Okay? At least for today?

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Speaker 3: So, Hi guys, We're so excited to be back with

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Speaker 3: you another week. I hope you really enjoyed our podcast

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Speaker 3: last week. And we're getting more comfortable and better at

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Speaker 3: this every single week, and we're so excited to chiat

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Speaker 3: me I once again this week.

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Speaker 2: What do you have There have any questions for me? Marasoon? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I always have questions for you, and I know you

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Speaker 1: have answers for me.

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Speaker 2: That is so true.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk to you about something because I

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Speaker 1: feel like we never talk about this much because we

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Speaker 1: try to always move on and be positive and keep

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Speaker 1: it going and keep it moving. But are there is

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Speaker 1: there anything that you wish you hadn't done or hadn't

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Speaker 1: said that you wish you could take back from you know,

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Speaker 1: past seasons.

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Speaker 3: I always regret what I don't say, if that's possible, right,

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Speaker 3: because you probably feel like I say.

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Speaker 2: It all right, But no, I look back.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, I could have said this, I

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Speaker 3: could have said that. Oh my god, I forgot to

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Speaker 3: say this, So you know, I actually regret I didn't

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Speaker 3: say I needed to say more, right, And like sometimes

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Speaker 3: also like we're in the moment so we kind of

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Speaker 3: like don't see it or feel it, but then after

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Speaker 3: you watch yourself back right, and you're like, oh God,

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Speaker 3: like this is going to be people are not going

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Speaker 3: to understand why.

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Speaker 2: I said this.

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Speaker 3: But you know, it's hard to go back and you know,

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Speaker 3: I don't like to drill it so much and you

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Speaker 3: like freaking out.

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Speaker 1: But no, I think every human being on the planet

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Speaker 1: looks back at every argument or every discussion they had

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Speaker 1: and said, God, I wish i'd said that. Now it

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Speaker 1: came to me now I'm thinking of it. I wish

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Speaker 1: i'd remember in that moment.

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Speaker 3: Right, But are there any like storylines, for example, that

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Speaker 3: you can think about that you shared and then after

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Speaker 3: you were like, oh God, like why did I say this?

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Speaker 2: I do, I do, I do, I do, I do?

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Speaker 2: I mean me, I want to know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So do you remember when my mom first got

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Speaker 1: out of the hospital and she was, you know, doing better,

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Speaker 1: and I thought she was doing so much better, and

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Speaker 1: she kept saying to me, I want to film, I

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Speaker 1: want to film. I don't even think she understood what

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Speaker 1: we did that little scene, you remember, the little rock

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Speaker 1: I think she wasn't ready for that. It was hard,

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Speaker 1: and I wish I hadn't done it.

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Speaker 2: No, but it was you. You were doing it right.

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Speaker 2: You were doing it for her.

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Speaker 4: I should have been smarter and thought, you know what, now,

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Speaker 4: it's not the time. It's really not the time. But

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Speaker 2: You believe that, and you wanted to believe that.

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Speaker 1: Yah, I did right.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, you did what your heart told

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Speaker 4: Just going to snap out of it and be like,

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Speaker 2: And you know, in the end, well, she's very proud

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't want to see you crying because

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Speaker 2: And I can talk authartic for you. Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 3: I will always be grateful for that because I think

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Speaker 3: us you don't you don't say things about your family,

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Speaker 2: Been really overcame it. I feel like I always wanted

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Speaker 3: Wanted to do it, but there was something inside me

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Speaker 3: just not like telling me no, no, no, no. It's

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Speaker 3: So that's why I our family of course, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I had a lot and they're not there anymore. And

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Speaker 3: now we're free and we speak her mind because the

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Speaker 3: NOI Penny Dancia, that has a lot to do with it,

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Speaker 3: and that even makes me think about like, for example,

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Speaker 2: But I wasn't part of that. Do you remember me

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Speaker 3: Because you know, I know in my mind I was

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Speaker 3: falling apart after Frankie's accident. But then I looked back

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Speaker 3: I don't know it was Joanna or one of the girls.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was Joanna and we were in The Bahamas

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Speaker 3: Yes, she says, but you see, there I go again,

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Speaker 2: So in my case, I've never regretted. I've never regretted

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Speaker 2: what I've said. No, of course not.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, at least offending here or saying

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Speaker 1: You standing there in that scene, I actually wasn't.

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Speaker 2: It was weird how they did that whole thing.

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Speaker 3: Right, because I don't remember, right, I don't remember either

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Speaker 3: being in that scene. But again there goes what I

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Speaker 3: I'm always very confident about what I say so, and

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Speaker 3: I'll keep on saying it. But like, looking back, I

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Speaker 3: have said, you know, as far as that went, you know,

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Speaker 3: I mean at that moment, obviously I wasn't there, like

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Speaker 2: How that all played out.

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Speaker 3: But sometimes I look back, even like in the New

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Speaker 3: said that, and it's kind of like, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: We all have those moments, yea, because the personal prend bombayo.

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Speaker 3: Yes, when I'm moving on, we have a lot of

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Speaker 1: I can't like listen the news is like NonStop. I

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Speaker 1: can't even keep up with it. The relationship like it's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, kind of we've come down a bock in.

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Speaker 1: The day when we were like you know, when we

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Speaker 3: Like well we're still We're always going to be free, yeah,

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Speaker 3: because we're free spirit.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: I'm moving through all the girls in the news and thinking, oh,

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Speaker 2: I love that. That's so fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, well, you know we we still look great.

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Speaker 3: I mean I want to speak for both of us.

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Speaker 3: We still look good.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: the next topic that I want to talk about, which

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Speaker 1: Because everybody media like a filter exactly. The filter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's like a little doll face.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's not even you, bro, Like it's not you,

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Speaker 2: Right, So it's filters and it's you.

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Speaker 2: You know, we want to maintain them. We're on TV.

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Speaker 2: Get shit about that, right. So that's what I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: But what I'm really concerned about are the younger generations

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Speaker 3: that are really looking to people, hopefully not to us

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Speaker 3: because we're not really influencing like fifteen year olds, but

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Speaker 3: you know, they're looking at somebody like Kylie Jenner, you know,

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Speaker 3: and then that must be the cool thing to do.

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Speaker 2: Right, So how do you feel about that?

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Speaker 2: And honestly, this has been going on since the eighties.

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Speaker 3: But you know what scares me here.

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Speaker 2: You know, I get it.

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Speaker 3: You know, everybody wants to look good, you know, and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, young women and women our age too, because it

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Speaker 2: For for everyone. I think it will be okay. So

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Speaker 3: think that Kylie Jenner owes an apology? Do you think

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Speaker 1: What for making money off of lipstick?

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Speaker 2: No for kind of like studying the trend.

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Speaker 3: No good for her, Like that's actually I love that

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Speaker 2: Obviously how to do your business.

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Speaker 1: But what an apology for what?

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Speaker 3: Because people are saying she benefited so she did her

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Speaker 1: Know, and then she well, so what I was saying

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Speaker 3: But listen, Marisol, it existed only with the celebrities.

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Speaker 3: In Hollywood, they all are doing it, are like in

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Speaker 1: Yeah they are. But back in the day, we had

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Speaker 3: And nowadays, I think just because of social media, I mean,

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Speaker 3: there's so many of them, right, There's so many influencers nowadays,

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Speaker 1: I don't think so either.

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Speaker 3: No, that was well, you know how I feel about apology,

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Speaker 2: Read about this. And I'm like, I can't believe people

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Speaker 3: Make like a public apology like for what I mean

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Speaker 3: Well, they've done that about some of her sisters too,

439
00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:40,200
Speaker 3: and they're still not you know.

440
00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:44,120
Speaker 2: Owning it. But you know, I think she's a younger one.

441
00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:46,639
Speaker 1: She doesn't. I don't think she needs to apologize for anything.

442
00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:50,800
Speaker 1: We're all doing it. Everybody's doing things me neither sometimes

443
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:53,680
Speaker 1: starting yeah if it makes you feel good.

444
00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:53,679
Speaker 4: You know.

445
00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,199
Speaker 3: And I feel like it has a lot to do

446
00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:58,199
Speaker 3: with the parents, you know, So if you you know,

447
00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:01,440
Speaker 3: how is a parent you know, hey, or taking their daughter,

448
00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:05,119
Speaker 3: you know, to a cause, to a dermatologist to get

449
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:09,720
Speaker 3: lip injections or fillers under eighteen, or even paying for

450
00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:13,320
Speaker 3: it because they're pretty expensive, like after eighteen. So you know,

451
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:16,199
Speaker 3: I want to blame the parent a lot because I

452
00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,040
Speaker 3: you know, I just don't think that any fifteen or

453
00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:19,960
Speaker 3: sixteen year old has access to, you know, that kind

454
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,280
Speaker 3: of money, or just driving themselves to a doctor and

455
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:25,320
Speaker 3: showing up at home with new lips and the parents

456
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 3: not reacting, Hey, mom, so what do you like?

457
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,159
Speaker 1: What do you think of my new lips?

458
00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:33,400
Speaker 2: Sorry? Kylie? We love you, Kylie.

459
00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:35,800
Speaker 3: I have boys, so I don't have to worry about it,

460
00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:37,000
Speaker 3: and my stepdaughters are good.

461
00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:37,960
Speaker 2: They're not in ten Yether.

462
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,440
Speaker 1: Alexia, by the way, I know you love all Hispanic

463
00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 1: celebrity news because you're way up in that info and

464
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:49,840
Speaker 1: you know all these people, Alejandro, Sandy Forward.

465
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 2: And Nita.

466
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:57,679
Speaker 3: I would totally love them together because I actually like

467
00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:01,119
Speaker 3: know them separately, Like Alejanda songs was on my cover,

468
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 3: so I had like, the opportunity.

469
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:04,440
Speaker 1: Has not been on your cover?

470
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 3: Right? And what would have been if I would have

471
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:08,639
Speaker 3: still had the magazine all these years?

472
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,399
Speaker 1: Exactly possibility?

473
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 3: But I yes, so yeah, So I had the pleasure

474
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:15,959
Speaker 3: of working with Alejandro and meeting him.

475
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 2: First off.

476
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 3: I was always a fan because I think he composes

477
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 3: the most beautiful music, and I love Spanish songs.

478
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 2: I love the lyrics.

479
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 3: I feel like the words in Spanish are more meaningful

480
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 3: on their songs and more romantic, obsessed.

481
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 2: And songs like I knew him since I so cute.

482
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 3: He's adorable, and he's just as cute like in person

483
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:37,040
Speaker 3: like I would say him in Castatua. He would always

484
00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 3: say he was always so in shock that I was

485
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 3: like fanning on him because he's like, I look so American.

486
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 2: He would be like, who are you? Who's this green

487
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 2: gay like fanning on me?

488
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:49,840
Speaker 3: And I was like, you know, I'm like, oh, Spini

489
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,120
Speaker 3: and whatever. So he always like found it like really amusing.

490
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 3: But anyways, and I love Shakira, uh so I I

491
00:21:56,760 --> 00:22:00,640
Speaker 3: could see them being a couple. But I just it's

492
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 3: really interesting how there's no proof of any of this

493
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 3: and people already talking about it and they're going with it.

494
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 1: You know how the chievement you know, I know, look at.

495
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 2: Yeah right now we're about them.

496
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: But I like it. Can you imagine the music that

497
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,920
Speaker 1: those two collaborate on in the future, Like what what

498
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:21,159
Speaker 1: are we?

499
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:29,239
Speaker 3: They already collaborations, right, they already have two great and

500
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:43,920
Speaker 3: you know whata you naughty Susia? Yeah, they would probably

501
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,439
Speaker 3: like that to know. So, No, they have amazing songs already.

502
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 3: But what I'm trying to tell you is is scary

503
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 3: my friend, like they put two and two just because

504
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 3: again Instagram, which you know how I feel about that.

505
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 3: That's another topic another day. So he apparently commented on

506
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:02,719
Speaker 3: her Instagram that happy birthday, you know to my friends,

507
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:03,440
Speaker 3: and oh that.

508
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 2: Was on her Instagram. Yeah, I thought it.

509
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: He sent her like a love letter, and I was like,

510
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 1: how this love letter h was on her Instagram.

511
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 3: He actually he left her a loving note for on

512
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 3: her birthday, says SHACKI the years go by and here

513
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 3: we continue orbiting and this very cosmic friendship that life

514
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:20,680
Speaker 3: gave us.

515
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 2: I congratulate you, don't celebrate you.

516
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 3: And I love you like raspy that he has this

517
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,679
Speaker 3: sexy voice he has. So you know, the truth is

518
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 3: that they've been good friends, right, They've been good friends

519
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 3: through all these years.

520
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 2: They have two songs together, they've been in each other.

521
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 1: It's a great basis for a relationship, by the way.

522
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 2: Of course.

523
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 3: So with that being said, you totally support them these

524
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,640
Speaker 3: two going out if that would be the case.

525
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 1: Of course, if he's so into her and he's going

526
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:52,479
Speaker 1: to make her happy, and clearly she's I mean, who

527
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 1: wouldn't me and him?

528
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 2: He's adorable. Yeah, I like it, and so is she.

529
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 2: You know, I think that sometimes.

530
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 3: You have to go, you know, like things like that

531
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 3: just have to happen in our lives to actually come

532
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 3: back at a later time, which would be a good

533
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 3: time for them everything. Yeah, you know, And so I

534
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 3: really believe that friendship is a good thing and it's key,

535
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 3: like in any relationship, and the fact that they were

536
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 3: good friends before and all the fans love them to

537
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 3: be together. The songs were like a hit every single time.

538
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 3: I'm actually happy for them, and I never think it's

539
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 3: either too early for her to day or think it's

540
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 3: the perfect time.

541
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 2: We love.

542
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 3: So No, that's very important. It's a very popular Dejo saying.

543
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: Translate that into English. But I think one version is no.

544
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 2: I think the.

545
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: English version is way more vulgar than the Spanish version.

546
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 1: But the version is to get over someone is to

547
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 1: get under someone.

548
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 2: Oh that's Marisol's version.

549
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 1: By the way, that's not listen.

550
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 2: Well I'm not going to listen. I do you like

551
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: to like nail?

552
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 3: One? Nail takes in Spanish, it sounds it sounds hotter

553
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 3: and harder in Spanish.

554
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,879
Speaker 1: The English version is vulgar, but in English that's what

555
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: it translates to to get over someone is to get

556
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 1: under somebody else.

557
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 2: Right, Well, whatever you're thinking about, whatever it.

558
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 3: Is, she deserves it because you know, Pique has actually

559
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 3: caused a lot of pain in her life, and it's

560
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,679
Speaker 3: very unfortunate because you know they have two kids. But

561
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 3: the truth is that she you know, sometimes when you're

562
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 3: going through this in life, you need you need that

563
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 3: support system, and you need love and you need a friend.

564
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 2: And I feel like he's that guy.

565
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: Well, I hope Alejando loves her death. That makes her

566
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 1: feel like a queen and is everything that our husbands

567
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: make us feel. I hope she gets all of that.

568
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 2: I think she will. I think she will salute to that.

569
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 3: Wait, and I also hear the buying a mansion in Miami.

570
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 3: Everybody wants to buy a mansion in Miami. Have don't

571
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 3: you think we need to become realtors?

572
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 2: Bro money in the house or you want the money

573
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 2: to buy the mansion?

574
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: No, we want the commission right right, That's what I'm saying.

575
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 1: I mean the minimum for a house, like at least

576
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 1: twenty But I.

577
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 3: Don't understand how you're like not even really divorced yet

578
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,239
Speaker 3: or I don't know if she could have already been

579
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 3: legally divorced, I don't think so, because I would have

580
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:23,719
Speaker 3: been like, I don't think.

581
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 1: I don't think they were married. Were they married? I

582
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: think they were just partners.

583
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 3: They were hold on Okay, they were never married. Okay, okay,

584
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 3: but you know.

585
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 1: What's free freestyle, ready to go, move on.

586
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:41,159
Speaker 3: Well, legally yes, but when you have two kids, it

587
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 3: changes your life. You're always married to the person, whether

588
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 3: you signed that piece of paper or not.

589
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: They're always going to have like that tie not that

590
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,919
Speaker 2: which contra tie together.

591
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 1: Sorry, where did they live together?

592
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 3: They lived in Barcelona. They lived in Barcelona, and that's

593
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 3: you know. And I don't know if you're familiar, but

594
00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 3: the Spanish media and pania, the Spanish me that drives

595
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 3: their artists and their celebrities out of their country because

596
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 3: it's so intense.

597
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,479
Speaker 2: They like follow these people lot paparazzi.

598
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 3: And tangai medio like outside your door, just like vihilando.

599
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 3: There is like the vigilance, like twenty four to seven.

600
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 3: So I'm sure that she's much happier here with her kids,

601
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 3: you know, in Miami. And I know we talked about

602
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 3: that last week and our podcast. We touched on that vaguely,

603
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 3: but yeah, I mean she's really, you know, making the

604
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 3: news in our community and like in our world and

605
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 3: the Hispanic world because she's somebody that's very much loved

606
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 3: and she's a woman, and you know, we love to

607
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 3: support our women, you know, especially when they're going through

608
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,640
Speaker 3: such a tough time in their lives right now.

609
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 2: But we love that there's a little bit of love

610
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,959
Speaker 2: in her, in her home and in her heart and

611
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,439
Speaker 2: in her life right now. You know, you and I

612
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: are in love with love.

613
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, we love love.

614
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think that love just makes everything better.

615
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 3: So if you're really going through something tough, I think

616
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 3: the only thing, like the only thing that really saves

617
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 3: you is love.

618
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:02,199
Speaker 2: Love is there.

619
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: I'm kind of love from a friend, love from a

620
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: family member, Romantic love, that's your children's.

621
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 2: Love, children's love. Yeah, another kind of love.

622
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.

623
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 2: Who else are we going to talk about?

624
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 1: Do you know about Christiano Ronaldo and Georgina Rodriguez and

625
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 1: the seven year itch that is apparently looming over them?

626
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 2: Yes? Well, first of all, do you believe in that

627
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 2: seven year itch? Im trying to think of a relationship

628
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 2: I had that last years?

629
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: Please say no, I think there's other factors that could

630
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: be at play and something talking.

631
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 2: Because I'm like six and a half with Todd.

632
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 3: You know, we're not legally married, but in a relationship

633
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 3: because you Knowiano and Georgina are not married.

634
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 2: Either design and they have five kids.

635
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 3: No what, they have two together there and he had

636
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,239
Speaker 3: three from before and then they have to fight.

637
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 1: I thought all five were them together.

638
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 2: No, they have two together.

639
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 3: But apparently she was very much into her family life

640
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 3: before and now she has a new show called Georgina

641
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 3: on Netflix, which, by the way, he participates a lot

642
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 3: in it. I was kind of shocked to see that

643
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 3: that he, you know, had such a big role and

644
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 3: he was, you know, he was so invested in the

645
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 3: show as well.

646
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: People do a lot for the almighty dollar.

647
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 3: Apparently the show may have gone a little bit to

648
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:35,479
Speaker 3: her ego. Do you think the shows like this can

649
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 3: affect our egos?

650
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: I think it. I think it's very important to have

651
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: a very good partner, and somebody always has to take

652
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 1: a back seat. And at this.

653
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 3: Point, if they went on start, no, no, no, no,

654
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 3: she's been taking the back seat.

655
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 2: And I'm saying is and you and I can understand this.

656
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: You know, even in our lower level of popularity, we

657
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 1: can't do this unless our partners take a little bit

658
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: of a back seat and let us do our thing right.

659
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 1: Somebody always has to be a little quieter and let

660
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: the other one shine. But now that she has a spotlight,

661
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: that's hard. There's two people driving in the front seat,

662
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 1: and that takes a very special, special dynamic for that

663
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 1: kind of thing to work.

664
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 2: And well, I felt like, uh huh.

665
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: Also, I think she's been with him since she was

666
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: twenty one and she's twenty two. Well, they've only been

667
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: together seven years. But I mean, truthfully, I feel like

668
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: the only reason why he went for her was because

669
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: she was someone that was not known and you know,

670
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: she was young, and he actually, I've read in interviews

671
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: that he thought it was never going to work out

672
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: because of the age difference.

673
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 2: I mean it's not big. I think it's like eight

674
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 2: years or ten years.

675
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 3: Something like that, but you know it's significant when it's

676
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 3: like you're twenty two years old and the guy's thirty one.

677
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 3: You know, it depends. But she was a very mature

678
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 3: girl according to him. I mean, this guy is like

679
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 3: huge to a different level. He's like the most popular

680
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 3: person in this planet pretty much, right, So she's never

681
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 3: going to compete with that, That's right. I don't care

682
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 3: how many reality shows she has and what she becomes,

683
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 3: She's never going to be him. And I think that

684
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 3: that's a problem that a lot of couples have because

685
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 3: we start competing with each other, even without wanting to write,

686
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 3: because there's room for everyone. And like he's a major

687
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 3: like soccer star, she's never going to do that, like

688
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 3: she could never play sacer, right. But what I'm trying

689
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 3: to say is like she you know sometimes and you

690
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 3: kind of think about us, right, So it's kind of

691
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 3: like you're married to someone that's always in the spotlight

692
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 3: and it's all about him. But then all of a sudden,

693
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 3: you're like, you know what, maybe I can do something,

694
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 3: and I want to feel good about myself too.

695
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 2: So she did.

696
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 3: She tried it, and she liked it, and now it

697
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 3: could be like it's affecting her ego a little bit

698
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 3: because she's like, you know what, you're famous, but guess what,

699
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 3: I'm famous too, you know, and I have a show.

700
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,479
Speaker 1: It's very difficult of two people chasing fame and in

701
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: the same driver's seat. It's very difficult. Someone has to say,

702
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: come and let the other one shine. And you know

703
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 1: he's big, like you said, so, I think it's a

704
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: combination of of Also, seven years. She started with him

705
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: when she was very young. If I look back at

706
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: the man I married when I was twenty seven, I

707
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: would not marry him again today. I wouldn't even marry

708
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: the man I married when I was forty.

709
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 2: We keep on a middle. Seven years is nothing. I mean,

710
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 2: are you kidding?

711
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 3: She's Mary to like the most famous person and good

712
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 3: looking and an athlete in the star.

713
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 2: I mean, what that's not enough for her?

714
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: You can get tired.

715
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 2: What is she tired? People go, I think he's getting tired.

716
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: Maybe okay, maybe he's getting tired bored. Somebody's getting tired

717
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 1: and bored.

718
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 2: We know that.

719
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: We just don't know who it is. Somebody is Apparently

720
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: we don't know. We're just guessing.

721
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 3: Maybe we the truth is, we never know. But because

722
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 3: we're public people, you know, we we we can know.

723
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 3: There's a thing called right social media. And apparently they

724
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 3: posted a picture both of them yesterday like very cuddly,

725
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 3: and it was like cheers to love, like you know,

726
00:32:59,000 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 3: with that caption.

727
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 2: So it's called damage control one hundred percent.

728
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 3: You know that, my friend, you know, you're like the

729
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 3: pr grewus, so you know that was damage control one

730
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 3: hundred percent. And if you look at his face, he

731
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 3: feels even like uncomfortable. Right, But I bet you she

732
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 3: made us that a space bro no no, no super

733
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 3: incomoo and she probably said you better do this, and

734
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 3: we're doing this, feelies.

735
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 2: You're gonna post it and this is your castion.

736
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: So yeah, and this is what you're gonna say, right,

737
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,719
Speaker 1: and you're gonna like my comments.

738
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I do have to defend them because it's

739
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 3: something that's you know, like how stressful a reality show

740
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 3: like this could be.

741
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: You know about them and their family.

742
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 3: You know, they have five kids, so you know, I

743
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 3: think that one of the things that he probably was

744
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,719
Speaker 3: like that turned them on about her and that he

745
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 3: loved about her was the fact that she loved the

746
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 3: family and wanted to have kids and it was all

747
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 3: about him. She was like always like, you know, obviously

748
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 3: following him and wherever his game were and just being

749
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 3: like that mom and family woman. And then now all

750
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 3: of a sudden her life has changed, where all the

751
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 3: attention and cameras aren't her, and.

752
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 2: It's kind of like she's pushing back her role. That's

753
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 2: a lot woman, a twenty eight.

754
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: Year old to have five kids, that has to be

755
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: very stressful.

756
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 2: Choice, you know what I mean. It was her choice.

757
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 2: She knew she was dating, you know what I mean.

758
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 2: She was an aloey at the Bucci store, like she was.

759
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 2: She was like, this is like a story that happens

760
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 2: to like one out of a million women marathon.

761
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 3: Like she went from taking the bus after work, you know,

762
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 3: taking a lot of the woos like back home to

763
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 3: like Christian Ronaldo Ronaldo picking her up in a Bugatti,

764
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 3: Like are you kidding me? Like she knew what she

765
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 3: signed up for, so it's kind of like and she decided,

766
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 3: but so like obviously it's like a gift that women have,

767
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 3: so that's how she got them. And then fast forward

768
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:57,280
Speaker 3: seven years later. I don't even think it's the amount

769
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 3: of years. I just think it's like the experiences that

770
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 3: she's had. Now they moved to Saudi Arabia where he's

771
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:02,760
Speaker 3: going to be playing.

772
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 1: You know, it is not an easy life for a woman.

773
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: Saudi Arabia is very strict.

774
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 3: Well, it's not an easy life for him either, you know,

775
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 3: he has to like play soccer every single day and

776
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:15,919
Speaker 3: maintain this whole family.

777
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: Right, Well, so everyone's under a lot of pressure, even's

778
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: Carleton and Rhea. That's a pretty cushy place.

779
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 3: But I man, who do you date after Critiano Ronaldo?

780
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,919
Speaker 3: I know we can date whoever he wants, but who

781
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 3: is she going to date? Honestly, you know, that's not

782
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 3: our problem. I don't care what's your answer. No, it's

783
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 3: not my problem. But we're like just talking about it,

784
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 3: you know, I mean, I don't know. I'm not saying

785
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 3: who's right. I'm not like saying like to pick sides.

786
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 3: You know, obviously in every relationship there's two sides of

787
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 3: the story. This is all like what we're seeing or

788
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 3: like what we know about. But you know, I think

789
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 3: it's hard for for both of them. I think it's

790
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 3: hard being him and I think it's hard being her. Now,

791
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 3: like this is what she signed up to do.

792
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, there's a lot of factors playing into this

793
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 1: that are very stressful. Shows, Fame, Saudi, five kids, you know,

794
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 1: seven years, you're only twenty eight, that's a lot.

795
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 2: That's a lot, you know, I.

796
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 3: Think that that's what what happens you know with and

797
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 3: that's why there's you know, people split up because you

798
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 3: know what was originally you know, a great plan for

799
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 3: you at the moment and everything was you know, beautiful,

800
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 3: Like after you're like, okay, this is like not what

801
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 3: I want.

802
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: Reality is not always exactly what you envisioned.

803
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 3: No, La Gambia. You know every day, you know, nothing

804
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 3: is promised. Not everything is the same. There's a constant change,

805
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 3: and it's kind of like how you handle it. And

806
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 3: apparently they're not handling it very well because they've been

807
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 3: fighting a lot. So that's that's what I've heard, and

808
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 3: that's what I've read, and and that's their story.

809
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: Figure it out and we'll both end up happy, whether

810
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:52,839
Speaker 1: they're together or they or not, because you know, life

811
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 1: is short.

812
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, and if not, just move to Miami. Everybody ends

813
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 3: up here anyways.

814
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 2: Everybody ends up dating. Wait, don't we have a soccer

815
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 2: team here? He can complay for Miami.

816
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the kind of money they're paying in Saudi.

817
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: You start with a free Rose Royce. If you hit

818
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: a goal, the money's out of this world. We can't

819
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: even compete with that here.

820
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 3: Right, Well, I don't think he needs any more money, bro,

821
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 3: you know how much money this man hans a takwanda, like,

822
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 3: how much more do you want?

823
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 2: Well, hopefully he just wants to be happy.

824
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 1: I don't know any billionaire that said I'm good, I

825
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: can stop now.

826
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 3: I don't know either. But hopefully, you know, they can

827
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 3: work things out. Because there's five kids and and there's

828
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 3: a money more.

829
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 2: I think he's gonna have more kids. He looks like

830
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 2: he's a good dad. He looks like he enjoys his kids.

831
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 1: He's still really young. How old is he?

832
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,760
Speaker 2: He's in his thirties. They're both in her thirties. Yeah,

833
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 2: well she's still in her twenties, went on op. Yeah,

834
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 2: she's twenty nine now, so he must be like forty.

835
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 2: I mean there's an age difference.

836
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 3: But again I don't really think it's an age difference,

837
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 3: and I don't think it's seven year itch.

838
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 2: I just think that through.

839
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 3: Growing apart, Bro, they're growing apart, and like because of

840
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 3: these circumstances in their life right now.

841
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: Happens every day. Fame or no fame, money, no money

842
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: happens every day.

843
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 3: Anything else in your caby Sita in your head that

844
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 3: you want to talk about.

845
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 1: I mean, we always have plenty to talk about. I

846
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: know we're gonna hang up and you're gonna call me.

847
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: We're gonna keep talking because that's.

848
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 2: What we do.

849
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,720
Speaker 3: I should have said this, Well, what I really should

850
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 3: have said was that wait, but I didn't say this,

851
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 3: so you.

852
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 1: Don't hang up and then call me and say I

853
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 1: should have said this. Say it now.

854
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 2: I think I've talked to a lie.

855
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,320
Speaker 3: I'm out of words and and I can't wait to

856
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 3: talk to you again in five minutes.

857
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 2: Okay, too much, Mone.

858
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,240
Speaker 1: And tomorrow when I see you on Wednesday and Thursday

859
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: and Friday. Bro, it's always a pleasure. Thank you for

860
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: tuning in. I'm mega talk about all the things that

861
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: are ie. Pull forward, eye forward.

862
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 3: I like how you say more than I do, because

863
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 3: you like, I really feel it when you say it.

864
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 2: Say it again, my friend.

865
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: I my poor favor so our friend. Yesterday Dana was like,

866
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 1: you sound really good on the radio. I like, what

867
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,240
Speaker 1: are you trying to say? I have a face for radio.

868
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: I was so insult.

869
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 2: When it's been a ton of fun per usual, a

870
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:29,879
Speaker 2: ton of fun.

871
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: Can't wait to do this again, talk to you in

872
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:33,320
Speaker 1: five minutes.

873
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 2: I hope you guys are enjoying our topics.

874
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 3: If there's anything you want us to talk about, please

875
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 3: DM Barasol.

876
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 2: She loves the DM. DM you'll read it and answer

877
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 2: you right back.

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