Speaker 1: Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio. Hi y'all, I'm Julie.
Speaker 2: Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the
Speaker 2: Other Side.
Speaker 1: Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with
Speaker 1: everything on the other side.
Speaker 2: Yes, we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic,
Speaker 2: or to some the invisible world, life is going to
Speaker 2: be more fun and much more serene.
Speaker 1: Uh heck, yes it can, because let's be honest, br in,
Speaker 1: earth school is hard.
Speaker 2: In fact, you taught me that let's crush Earth school together.
Speaker 1: Well, hello, my witchy, oh pooh boy, did you have
Speaker 1: some trivia for me today? But we'll get that in
Speaker 1: the second. How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm doing great, my off, and how are you well?
Speaker 1: It first starts you blew my damn mind. Yes, you're
Speaker 1: in the house. This is actually the first time I
Speaker 1: recorded from our primary residence. So after eighteen long ass
Speaker 1: months of congratulations being untethered, we are in our home.
Speaker 1: So I'm in the casita. I'm about fifteen paces away
Speaker 1: from the tombstones that I found about eight nine months ago.
Speaker 1: But I have to just share with everybody. You blew
Speaker 1: my mind. And maybe everybody knows this, but you and
Speaker 1: I were talking about our moms, and like, my mom
Speaker 1: was way in she loved pork chops. It was her thing,
Speaker 1: and she liked it with mint jelly, all this kind
Speaker 1: of stuff. And you share that you just gone back
Speaker 1: to Wisconsin to see your mom and she made you
Speaker 1: a pork chop. And then you said, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't understand why, because you know, pigs don't have livers,
Speaker 1: and so that means everything you eat has all the
Speaker 1: toxins of what they eat with what they ate. And
Speaker 1: then our conversation continued for a good fifteen minutes, and
Speaker 1: then you looked at me and said, Okay, I just
Speaker 1: have to say I can't get over the fact that
Speaker 1: you just dropped on me that pigs don't have livers.
Speaker 1: I did not know that until now. That seems like
Speaker 1: a design flaw and that is bullshit. And on top
Speaker 1: of it, I shared with you that Patricia told Susanna
Speaker 1: and I not to eat chicken because they're stupid, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fuck can I eat?
Speaker 2: This is what she took away from our truly meaningful
Speaker 2: prowing conversation. She comes back with, wait a minute.
Speaker 1: I can't wait a minute. They should have livers.
Speaker 2: So we are infantreat today, y'all. That's all I got
Speaker 2: to say. Here we go.
Speaker 1: Okay, So we are re re recording because this is
Speaker 1: re reincarnation and it's and we're rereading because you know, listen,
Speaker 1: we've talked about reincarnation before. Let's be honest, this probably
Speaker 1: will be the last time either. But had some really
Speaker 1: good questions and and of course I call them really good.
Speaker 1: Brenda rolls her eyes at me half the time when
Speaker 1: I say that, so it's totally fucking true.
Speaker 2: I'm always entertained.
Speaker 1: Well, entertainment is pretty much all I bring to the show.
Speaker 1: So so we had I thought some really great questions
Speaker 1: and and honestly, I just found it really important to
Speaker 1: share with everybody that pigs don't have livers. It might
Speaker 1: make you rethink.
Speaker 2: That's awesome, all.
Speaker 1: Of your barbecue people in the Southwest, in Kansas City,
Speaker 1: in South Carolina. So anyway, just Sharon and Karen there,
Speaker 1: So I think we should talk about re reincarnation. Where
Speaker 1: are you doing? Your eyes are all over everybody else
Speaker 1: wants you to know. I think Brenda s's a ghost.
Speaker 2: I do not see a ghost. I just wanted to
Speaker 2: make sure that my microphone is good because I don't
Speaker 2: see my little stuff moving.
Speaker 1: I see you little stuff moving just fine. Here, I'll
Speaker 1: tell you if it doesn't work. Speaking of little ghost.
Speaker 1: So our first night in the house, I was actually
Speaker 1: staying at the rental. The first night Suzanne slept in
Speaker 1: the house and the next day because I had like
Speaker 1: some weird fever thing that hit me, and uh, it
Speaker 1: was so weird, by the way, it's like hot as hell,
Speaker 1: But then the chills, and the next day I was fine.
Speaker 1: I mean, my body like got rid of whatever the
Speaker 1: hell that was evicted it. But the next day she
Speaker 1: said to me, she goes, I think I heard somebody
Speaker 1: upstairs bouncing a ball. I'm like, that was for you.
Speaker 2: What was their name night? Did you have a little
Speaker 2: sit down powwow with them?
Speaker 1: Well, I haven't heard it. It could have been a
Speaker 1: passer buyer, or it could have just been a noise
Speaker 1: in the house. Had nothing to do with ghosts. But
Speaker 1: don't tell Suzanne again, she tells everybody, we have a
Speaker 1: ghost that bounces a ball. Kobe, that'd be awesome. It
Speaker 1: goes to Kobe in her little house, be fantastic. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll put up a hoop for him. Okay, So I
Speaker 1: think what we should quickly do just to get gained
Speaker 1: a little bit of composure here. It's a little soon
Speaker 1: for a break, but I think we should do it,
Speaker 1: and I think we should come back full force re reincarnation.
Speaker 1: So I'm calling a break and will be right back everybody. Okay, y'all,
Speaker 1: I just said, okay, we're back.
Speaker 2: Just for the record, I'm very composed that.
Speaker 1: That was like, that was like a thorn. No wait,
Speaker 1: who shoots like shit out of their fingers? Like what
Speaker 1: it's like, that's what you did, Brenda call? She was
Speaker 1: doing one instead of going three two one, she was
Speaker 1: one two three and with three fingers. She kind of
Speaker 1: like whipped her fingers at the camera like she's like
Speaker 1: shooting me with a flame of some sort. All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: we're back to apparently the Julian Brenda comedy Show with
Speaker 1: really not a whole lot of content. So re Reincarnation,
Speaker 1: we had some really great questions, and so I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go ahead and start with the question because this one
Speaker 1: utterly fascinates me, and I kind of changed the question
Speaker 1: around to make it my version of it, but it
Speaker 1: is the factive.
Speaker 2: Basically, you had a question.
Speaker 1: I didn't. I just changed a few words. I have
Speaker 1: done that before. So it's like somebody asked talking about
Speaker 1: myself and a third person. So the question was do
Speaker 1: we choose our birthday suit? Like when we're reincarnating, do
Speaker 1: we choose our gender? Do we choose our ethnicity? Where
Speaker 1: we live? You know, where we're meant to be born?
Speaker 1: And I found it really interesting because you know, and
Speaker 1: I've shared this so many times, I shared it in
Speaker 1: different contexts, So in this context, I'll share it in
Speaker 1: a different way, which was when Jade Luna, you know,
Speaker 1: did my five past life five lives that affect this one.
Speaker 1: I think that ghost with the with the bouncing of
Speaker 1: balls around, uh fucking with me in my casita. But
Speaker 1: what was interesting about those five past live carbac lives
Speaker 1: that are affecting this one is four of them I
Speaker 1: was a woman. And of those four, I was a woman,
Speaker 1: and one I was from India, so there's a the
Speaker 1: birthday suit female but different cultures. And then the other
Speaker 1: one I was I would like to say, a very tall,
Speaker 1: handsome black man in Africa, because I think I was
Speaker 1: handsome during that I'm just going to say out loud,
Speaker 1: and that's awesome. And and and here's the thing. I
Speaker 1: love it. I want to live them all I've written.
Speaker 1: I may have, but I think it's amazing. Probably why
Speaker 1: I'm not like a racist person because I think I've
Speaker 1: been them all. Also I'm a decent human, so I
Speaker 1: wouldn't do be that way anyway. But I but I
Speaker 1: think it's an interesting question. Brand do you what do
Speaker 1: you like? Why?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: How how does that happen? Do we choose?
Speaker 2: Well? My understanding is that to get it's often referred
Speaker 2: to as getting back on the wheel. So when we
Speaker 2: get back on the wheel to be served back to
Speaker 2: Earth school, like to be re enrolled in Earth school.
Speaker 2: And it takes while right because we have to integrate
Speaker 2: our lessons, our challenges, our understanding of how our gifts
Speaker 2: landed or influenced other people or situations, or how when
Speaker 2: we held back our gifts, how that had its consequences
Speaker 2: as well, or you know, when we weren't at our best,
Speaker 2: like what were the consequences? How can we integrate? And
Speaker 2: it's not for punishment, for it's for understanding how are
Speaker 2: how we can take responsibility and prepare ourselves to execute
Speaker 2: our sole plan with more elegance in our next time
Speaker 2: on the wheel, right, next time we line up to
Speaker 2: come back to Earth School, to return to Earth School.
Speaker 2: So with that is the foundation you would have an
Speaker 2: understanding for Okay, I was a man in this life
Speaker 2: in whatever culture continent.
Speaker 1: It's a very tall, handsome black man in Africa.
Speaker 2: Like that, right, that's an absolutely legit version, right, So like,
Speaker 2: what did I what was my experience in that? What
Speaker 2: did I integrate from that? How could I have executed
Speaker 2: that better? Or how would that you know, the cultural
Speaker 2: implications of that be transcended into other cultural situations. And
Speaker 2: these are things, excuse me, I would have. These are
Speaker 2: conversations I would take into consideration as I'm signing up
Speaker 2: to return to Earth School, you know, maybe a couple
Speaker 2: generations later, so that it kind of you know, I
Speaker 2: think of it as a big algorithm in the sky,
Speaker 2: right that says, hey, you need these specifications on your
Speaker 2: next turn on the wheel. Then that's going to put
Speaker 2: you at this place in line, and you'll be You'll
Speaker 2: be incarnated, you know, re enrolled in Earth School during
Speaker 2: this time period where we anticipate this situation going on globally, locally,
Speaker 2: you'll have this socio economic entrance. We know that where
Speaker 2: you go is really up to you and the volition
Speaker 2: and the challenges or whatever it is circumstances around you
Speaker 2: that are collective because those things all play in to
Speaker 2: how you experience Earth School. So these are things that
Speaker 2: are all taking into consideration and what you have agreed to,
Speaker 2: what you have signed up for, Like I want to
Speaker 2: dial learning more about this up. I want to dial
Speaker 2: Learning about this down because I feel like I really
Speaker 2: address that or I need more recovery time in this topic.
Speaker 2: So don't really put me in that situation, you know,
Speaker 2: things like that.
Speaker 1: Or I'm so fascinating, so then okay.
Speaker 2: But it also it also I just want to say,
Speaker 2: it also depends, like when we're negotiating this what we're
Speaker 2: going to really take on full on, It also depends
Speaker 2: who we are, Like you know, who's enrolling with us,
Speaker 2: what kind of support will I have? Who am I
Speaker 2: going to take with me? Who will I be reunited with?
Speaker 2: Who is going to be a new influence that It
Speaker 2: could be a challenge, It could be a supporter like
Speaker 2: how am I going to dance with that? And how
Speaker 2: will I recognize them, and you know that. And you
Speaker 2: don't get all those answers. You get all those answers
Speaker 2: in the spirit world, but they don't all come with
Speaker 2: you consciously into our school. So that's the really interesting part.
Speaker 1: That is utterly fascinating actually, because it's like a well,
Speaker 1: it's a.
Speaker 2: Dance, right, it is a dance.
Speaker 1: It's a dance, And it is because I think about
Speaker 1: at least the lives that I'm the lives I'm aware of.
Speaker 1: I do believe I've had lots far more than five,
Speaker 1: and how that and I wonder the same thing for you,
Speaker 1: and how that integrates who we are today and you know,
Speaker 1: our intersection into this world too, right, Like, so you
Speaker 1: kind of look at all of that. But it's funny
Speaker 1: because the ones that I am aware of, I also
Speaker 1: know how incredibly it's funny even though the lessons from
Speaker 1: those past lives are not at least the lessons that
Speaker 1: were expressed to me were not about my gender or
Speaker 1: my culture escape color, you know. But I've shared before.
Speaker 1: I remember the first time I went to Indian and
Speaker 1: I walked off the plane in Della and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's so good to be home, and and that was
Speaker 1: such a tell for me. But but it is interesting
Speaker 1: that that we have to weave kind of you know,
Speaker 1: through this. And you know, I have to tell you
Speaker 1: another thing that's interesting, and it's not so much about
Speaker 1: gender or ethnicity. But you know, I'd shared before one
Speaker 1: of a past life was Egyptian days and I committed suicide.
Speaker 1: And I tell you, what's so fascinating, what is happening?
Speaker 2: So remember the languaging. I died by suicide that much.
Speaker 1: I died by suicide in that lifetime, thank you. But
Speaker 1: I tell you what I've been facing. A lot of
Speaker 1: kind of around me are a lot of people who
Speaker 1: have attempted or have actually succeeded. And it's a really
Speaker 1: interesting perspective to have have on it. And it feels
Speaker 1: like part of my role was to actually have really
Speaker 1: open and honest conversations with people, like fearless conversations. It's
Speaker 1: it's just an interesting thing. What the past lives, how
Speaker 1: they you know, can't affect us like that. It also
Speaker 1: makes you wonder, you know, part of the whole birthday
Speaker 1: suit thing is the gender part is coming back, you know,
Speaker 1: to be gay. Mm hmm, right, it's because I'm here
Speaker 1: to tell you I didn't pick it, Yeah, like it
Speaker 1: was not a choice. You mean, I agree to it,
Speaker 1: but it's not like I didn't pick it on earth
Speaker 1: being like, oh, I want to freak everybody out, including
Speaker 1: myself in the early nineties and be you know, like
Speaker 1: I'm like a freak on the side of the road.
Speaker 1: It's like that is it was not a choice. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's part of that you choose, you chose before.
Speaker 2: Right, right. You know, it's funny I've had to me
Speaker 2: it's it's interesting to see how or to wonder, like
Speaker 2: how will this feed into your next algorithm? Like when
Speaker 2: you think, you know, having that contract, agreeing to it
Speaker 2: to this life experience, right, because when you think of it,
Speaker 2: you think of like, you know, when you go to
Speaker 2: some restaurants and there's like a lot of pages on
Speaker 2: the menu. And you go to some restaurants and there's
Speaker 2: like you know, it's one page and there's only like,
Speaker 2: you know, maybe ten items, you know, when the appetite, right,
Speaker 2: that's like.
Speaker 1: The dumpling restaurant here, it's like ten things versus cheesecay
Speaker 1: factory and it's like four hundred pages exactly.
Speaker 2: So you know, depending the more advanced. The more you
Speaker 2: are in our school, a soul school, really, you would
Speaker 2: have fewer selections for challenges. That doesn't mean you wouldn't
Speaker 2: go back to serve as a guide for someone else.
Speaker 1: For I totally want to be a guide. I kind
Speaker 1: of want to bring.
Speaker 2: And well, look, the truth is, our school is hard,
Speaker 2: right son, you had a ship. Even if you come back,
Speaker 2: even if you come back as I'm going to help
Speaker 2: this person, I'm coming back, you know, to be you
Speaker 2: know your you know Robin to your Batman, I still
Speaker 2: have my school agenda. Like there's no there's no hall
Speaker 2: pass for that. But you know, hopefully if I make
Speaker 2: that choice, I'm still advancing my soul and I still
Speaker 2: get challenges, and you know, we want these challenges. Otherwise
Speaker 2: there's not I would just.
Speaker 1: Like the challenge without the temptation of a kit kat.
Speaker 1: That's all. Like, just let me just be like a
Speaker 1: little guide. And I would like to be the joy
Speaker 1: guide if I can requests.
Speaker 2: That takes a lot more lifetimes.
Speaker 1: Okay, But so I want to be serious again, which
Speaker 1: is hard for me, but is so if you look
Speaker 1: at how the world is right now, there is there's
Speaker 1: it's like it's like everything that was bad feels worse.
Speaker 1: So when it comes to let's talk about this country
Speaker 1: in particular, so we see that, you know, there's huge
Speaker 1: forces about you know, women not being able to choose
Speaker 1: or have dominion over their their body or if it
Speaker 1: is even you know, more tax from a racial standpoint
Speaker 1: or from you know, any any other is getting attacked
Speaker 1: more than they ever have.
Speaker 2: And so.
Speaker 1: Like, are these just new souls that are dicks that
Speaker 1: are like coming out at everybody? Or like is it
Speaker 1: like I'm trying, like because there's times I look at
Speaker 1: this and I'm like, well, what the fuck's the plan be?
Speaker 1: Cause it's it's uh or is that the plan? Well?
Speaker 2: Remember that please Earth School Adventures. When you sit at
Speaker 2: that negotiating table for a couple decks, aides saying what
Speaker 2: are you signing up for? Right, because time doesn't exist
Speaker 2: in the spirit world. So when you're sitting there negotiating,
Speaker 2: it's an endless menu. So it's an endless menu and
Speaker 2: you get to go through everything, go what do I
Speaker 2: want this to be my foundation? Do I want that
Speaker 2: to be my foundation? Well? Am I signing up to
Speaker 2: be rebellious? Compliant? You know, like there's a plan that's
Speaker 2: going to land you at the perfect spot to have
Speaker 2: the experience that your soul needs. That says, am I
Speaker 2: going to be subservient? Am I going to be a
Speaker 2: rock star? And you know, like take up all suck
Speaker 2: the air out of the room, and take up.
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift like she picked all the right boxes. She
Speaker 1: should say out loud, she picked a lot of good boxes.
Speaker 1: So it's interesting that you say that. I was just
Speaker 1: reading a story about a guy who works for antiques
Speaker 1: roadshow and there was a something that came up and
Speaker 1: had this carved bone and it was like a pendant
Speaker 1: and like beautiful calligraphy on it. And the guy who
Speaker 1: was the expert is probably my age, not tall, but
Speaker 1: a handsome black man, and he said, he goes, this
Speaker 1: is from he goes, this is the ship's name. This
Speaker 1: was from a slave trade, and it was in the
Speaker 1: late seventeen hundreds. And he said, I refuse to give
Speaker 1: you a value to it, because this was the most
Speaker 1: heinous thing that could have ever been done to another
Speaker 1: human being, is to trade them like they were an object.
Speaker 1: And I will not give you a value to this.
Speaker 1: And the woman who had it, a little karen ish,
Speaker 1: got a little pissy about it because she's a Karen.
Speaker 1: But he was like holding so steadfast to it. I
Speaker 1: love this guy, Like I'm like, I'm with you, man,
Speaker 1: so with you like that should I don't know where
Speaker 1: it should go, but it shouldn't be bought because that
Speaker 1: was the whole problem in the first place, was that's
Speaker 1: exchanged exchanged, right, And so there's just like so many
Speaker 1: things that that come up, and I don't know, maybe
Speaker 1: I need to check out more and quit looking at
Speaker 1: things so closely, but.
Speaker 2: Well, no, I mean, I do think it's important to
Speaker 2: take in consideration to have the bigger view of humanity
Speaker 2: that says, isn't that interesting? Because oftentimes when we I'm
Speaker 2: not saying, things aren't upsetting and absolutely heart wrenching or
Speaker 2: abhorrent or you know, all kinds of things that are
Speaker 2: so hard to consume. However, when we dive deeper into
Speaker 2: someone's personal experience, you're like, oh, that's really interesting. Your
Speaker 2: soul gate your soul chose that path, right. I can
Speaker 2: see I can see how you got there. I can
Speaker 2: see your wayward worries. But you know, like you just
Speaker 2: you have more compassion for their humanity. It's not you know,
Speaker 2: condoning doesn't change perhaps your position, but you're like, our
Speaker 2: school is hard, it's dicey out there, and we have
Speaker 2: to do a better job or we get to to me,
Speaker 2: the option that's being presented is can we still work
Speaker 2: together in a way. That's like the host who said,
Speaker 2: I cannot give you a price for this because it
Speaker 2: goes against how I value humans. My expertise is in
Speaker 2: valuing these objects, but that has nothing to do with
Speaker 2: how I value humans. Those are two different worlds and
Speaker 2: they will never meet. Right, But I'm sure he didn't
Speaker 2: insult her while he said that, Right, he wasn't a
Speaker 2: personal attack on her when he said that. I'm assuming.
Speaker 1: No, he wasn't attacking her at all.
Speaker 2: But that's my point. And then maybe having this conversation
Speaker 2: like I'm so curious how this object came to you
Speaker 2: or you know, something like that, like that.
Speaker 1: She worked for apparently a family that collected said objects
Speaker 1: and bought this from them, and not knowing exactly what
Speaker 1: it was that she says, so yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: So Karen said, But I do think it's to me
Speaker 2: when when the birthday suits and the school journey that
Speaker 2: we've been on are so different and could collide. How
Speaker 2: do we take that opposition and see if we can
Speaker 2: find a pass path to peace? So that says I
Speaker 2: don't have to agree with you, but I can stay
Speaker 2: where I am and acknowledge your humanity even though I
Speaker 2: don't understand.
Speaker 1: It absolutely, and that right, and that feels like that's
Speaker 1: been lost to me. I think it's lost.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's it's it's it's a little
Speaker 2: intense right now, which is why it's our school is hard.
Speaker 2: And one of the channel Jesus are like, Okay, Brenda,
Speaker 2: breathe and stop your mind. It's not helping. Drop into
Speaker 2: your heart and remember we are more like than we
Speaker 2: are different.
Speaker 1: And the other thing is I go like nerdy elf
Speaker 1: and say, just math tells us we're going to have
Speaker 1: more problems because there's more people. I mean, for real,
Speaker 1: just look at the shirt numbers.
Speaker 2: But the thing about that is as humanity, I parsonally
Speaker 2: don't interact with more people just because there are more people, right?
Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: No, But I think that there is a collectiveness that happens.
Speaker 1: I think there's no doubt what I'm thinking of than
Speaker 1: anything now.
Speaker 2: And I do agree, I do agree with that for real,
Speaker 2: but I do think sometimes people get rubbed up about
Speaker 2: stuff like I'm like, that's not even in your lanth
Speaker 2: that's it doesn't It's a stupid Internet.
Speaker 1: I'm just going to say it out loud, It's the
Speaker 1: fucking Internet. And on that note, we're going to take
Speaker 1: a quick break because I have another second part to
Speaker 1: the re reincarnation question.
Speaker 3: Okay, bye bye bye everybody.
Speaker 1: Okay, magic Witchy Paige just brought us back. Okay, So
Speaker 1: I have to confess Brenda thought that I'd already pivoted
Speaker 1: to this, to the second part of the question when
Speaker 1: I got ahead of myself, and I didn't tell y y'all, y'all, y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all that I did pivot. So ye y'all, y e
Speaker 1: apostrophe lll ye y'all. So what is wrong with me
Speaker 1: is helpless?
Speaker 2: Many helpless.
Speaker 1: There's something. I'm going to blame it on the stars. Okay,
Speaker 1: something's going on in the sky. I don't know, because
Speaker 1: I got none else to blame for being so crazy.
Speaker 1: So here's the second part of what the question was,
Speaker 1: and it does it's very much a part of kind
Speaker 1: of where we left off in the last segment, but
Speaker 1: the question was do people reincartnate to become wor and
Speaker 1: her reference was an historical figure, which I think most
Speaker 1: of us, I hope all of us can agree, is
Speaker 1: like a Hitler, like bad guy. I mean, please, don't
Speaker 1: argue with me. He was a bad guy. You didn't
Speaker 1: say anything for the record.
Speaker 2: Well, but so, oh my god, no, this is this
Speaker 2: is what I'm gonna say. Think about. For a lot
Speaker 2: of people, family members, like they there's strife within families,
Speaker 2: whether it's your mom, your sibling, your father and aunt
Speaker 2: and uncle and grandfather, you know whatever. I talked to
Speaker 2: someone who had a brutal kindergarten teacher, like brutal kindergarten teacher,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, wow, that is hard. How do you
Speaker 2: find a crappy kindergarten teacher? Like? Right, However, in any
Speaker 2: of those situations, and I'm going to take Hitler off
Speaker 2: the table, but in those situations, the invitation is to
Speaker 2: find your resilience, your inner strength, your true expression, because
Speaker 2: you've had contrast, and that's really the gift of it.
Speaker 2: And so oftentimes in those family reviews, the spirit, you know,
Speaker 2: the spirits are together and they'll be like Oh my god,
Speaker 2: it was so hard to be so hard on you.
Speaker 2: It was I love you so much, and that's how
Speaker 2: I came to support you on this our school journey.
Speaker 2: I supported your expansion, I supported your advancement because you
Speaker 2: had to fight so hard for yourself. So that's what
Speaker 2: I think is important to say. And I just want
Speaker 2: to also say, if you're hearing a lot of noise,
Speaker 2: we're having huge storms here and so you're hearing the
Speaker 2: sub pump, so I apologize. Yeah, we're going wind, so
Speaker 2: I will apologize for the wind. And I'm really happy
Speaker 2: that we have a some pump that's running so exactly.
Speaker 1: Well, it's just it's.
Speaker 2: So when you say, do people come back to be worse?
Speaker 2: Do the people take Sometimes if you're taking on a
Speaker 2: heart assignment, it's because you're going to go be a
Speaker 2: kind of a jerk, right, You're going to be that
Speaker 2: hard person in someone's life. I mean, sometimes addicts, you know,
Speaker 2: come in to help us remember how to surrender, right.
Speaker 1: Right right, just like you know. I think I may
Speaker 1: have talked about I forget the woman's name, but there
Speaker 1: was a woman in New York happened to be gay,
Speaker 1: by the way, but she is the reason why we
Speaker 1: have a bystander law, and she's the reason why we
Speaker 1: have nine to one one in the United States because
Speaker 1: of how brutally she was killed and how allegedly there
Speaker 1: were a number of people and now I've talked about
Speaker 1: this before that actually witnessed what was going on and
Speaker 1: they didn't do anything. And because of because of that incident,
Speaker 1: we now have bystander laws. If you see something happening
Speaker 1: and if you don't say, call authorities or do something
Speaker 1: like that, you are liable. You are liable.
Speaker 2: We need to take care of each other. We need
Speaker 2: to take care of each other. So you know that
Speaker 2: is as good or as bad relative at it. Well,
Speaker 2: it's like we'll see, we'll see, we'll see, right, Well
Speaker 2: it's not done yet. Was that horrific? Yeah, but we
Speaker 2: don't know if it was good or bad. And these
Speaker 2: are the things, these are the opportunities as souls that
Speaker 2: we can sign up for these hard courses in our school.
Speaker 2: Like people come in and like it's no problem because
Speaker 2: I can. I can come back around. It takes a
Speaker 2: while to get back on the wheel, but I'm good
Speaker 2: with that. I'm going to hold this negative energy, right,
Speaker 2: So I'm glad to.
Speaker 1: Know we have a break. I just want to go
Speaker 1: hang out with my mom and my aunt Marlane and
Speaker 1: whoever else joins later before I get there. So I
Speaker 1: don't want to go hang out.
Speaker 2: Yep, you get to hang out.
Speaker 1: I just want to hang out, you know, with like Charlie,
Speaker 1: my first cat, you know, just to hang out. That's
Speaker 1: all home.
Speaker 2: That's fanatic.
Speaker 1: Well, I just I think, I think right, reincarnation is
Speaker 1: I think one of the most intriguing and fascinating topics
Speaker 1: that I think people talk about because you can get
Speaker 1: into these juicy conversations, you know.
Speaker 2: And it's fun to wonder about, like why do I
Speaker 2: like this thing in my family nobody else likes right,
Speaker 2: or you know, well my whole family likes to do
Speaker 2: this and I'm not like that, you know, like you
Speaker 2: just wonder where did I get this? Where did it
Speaker 2: come from?
Speaker 1: Why am I the lone riager, the lone gay reager?
Speaker 1: Probably because I could handle it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, no kidding.
Speaker 1: I mean I think there's to these things. You know.
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, why why was I the one
Speaker 1: taking care of them?
Speaker 2: Mom?
Speaker 1: Because I could handle it, right, you know, And and
Speaker 1: handling all comes from this like really deep profound love
Speaker 1: of self and others, and that's about handling things. And
Speaker 1: I think that is what we have to remember when
Speaker 1: we're in these places going why the fuck I picked this?
Speaker 1: And it's like because you thought you could handle it,
Speaker 1: and you can. But it comes from that deep, profound
Speaker 1: place of love.
Speaker 2: And also knowing there are no accidents, like you're here,
Speaker 2: we're all here at this specific time. And I want
Speaker 2: to be really clear. Everybody thinks that the when they're
Speaker 2: on the planet it's the worst and the most challenging time,
Speaker 2: and it's not. Okay, it's true. Right, they all thought
Speaker 2: that it was going to be the end of the
Speaker 2: world because of some breakthrough technology.
Speaker 1: Huban missile crisis, right, imagine they all thought like they
Speaker 1: had like this day and age. Sadly, kids have to
Speaker 1: have shooter drills in school. I had tornado drills and
Speaker 1: my mother had drills like because they thought there was
Speaker 1: going to be you know, there's always the threat of
Speaker 1: the Cold War or some war or some something that
Speaker 1: was going to be the end of humanity. And yeah,
Speaker 1: I think you're right, Like we all think it's the
Speaker 1: worst of times, and there's moments that feel that way,
Speaker 1: But there's also moments that don't feel that way. And
Speaker 1: I think sometimes we get caught up right, it's like
Speaker 1: how we like, we tend to remember too much negativity
Speaker 1: and that forms so much of our point of view
Speaker 1: of either history or even the present, and and we
Speaker 1: don't remember the other. Like there's that weird overpowering that happens.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the stickiness at the right. They say sticky
Speaker 2: things stick in our brains, and the happiness is like,
Speaker 2: so it has no resistance to it, so it's not
Speaker 2: as sticky. So the negativity, which is why you know,
Speaker 2: when someone comes in to you know, kind of polkate
Speaker 2: you or challenge you, that's in sometimes traumatizing and sometimes
Speaker 2: fleeting ways, sometimes in really impactful ways. It doesn't mean
Speaker 2: it's not purposeful. So it was that bad. We'll see
Speaker 2: what are you going to do with it? That's the
Speaker 2: question on the table. What are you going to do?
Speaker 1: What are you going to do with it? And I
Speaker 1: will tell you one really interesting thing. And I and
Speaker 1: I'm sure that I think I'm really repetitive today because
Speaker 1: I know I've talked about this before, but I just
Speaker 1: want to I just wanted to give people to something
Speaker 1: to think about when you're if you're in that place
Speaker 1: of why am I here? Why is it so hard?
Speaker 1: Why did I pick this boy? I'm a dumbi ass,
Speaker 1: And because I've had that roll around in my head
Speaker 1: once or twice, but it's I will tell you the
Speaker 1: most powerful thing that I can do and that people
Speaker 1: have actually done for me, and that is to tell them,
Speaker 1: to remind them, whether I call them, I write them.
Speaker 1: I had the most beautiful texts a couple of weeks
Speaker 1: ago from a woman that used to work in my group,
Speaker 1: and she recalled the moment and how important it was,
Speaker 1: and she told me she was in tears writing the
Speaker 1: text when she came back from her husband's father's funeral,
Speaker 1: and I dropped everything and I went into the hall
Speaker 1: and I just hugged her and held her, and she goes,
Speaker 1: I just want to cry every time I tell somebody
Speaker 1: that story. And so I also liked, in turn, tell
Speaker 1: people about those moments that they change my life too.
Speaker 1: In their moments, sometimes they may not remember exactly, but
Speaker 1: those are actually the moments in the Book of Julie
Speaker 1: that count the highest. They're the big ones. They're the
Speaker 1: ones right that go to that deep, profound place of
Speaker 1: love of self and others, because if you don't love yourself,
Speaker 1: you cannot give. If you don't love others, you definitely
Speaker 1: can't give. And that is that deep, profound place. And
Speaker 1: so I just encourage everybody if you have that person
Speaker 1: or people that you want, like you know, I never
Speaker 1: told them how important that moment was to me. Maybe
Speaker 1: I should do that. Give it a whirl.
Speaker 2: Absolutely. So thanks for the questions everybody, including my health.
Speaker 1: I swear those were not mine. And I just said
Speaker 1: I just said birthday suit. That's the only thing I
Speaker 1: changed in the question.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, it's all good. So I hope that this
Speaker 2: was another look at reincarnation read re reincarnation. So thanks
Speaker 2: for listening to everybody, and remember our school is hard.
Speaker 1: Oh is it ever? Oh wait that someone I was
Speaker 1: supposed to say without the other side.
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Speaker 2: producer Maya Cole Howard, who guides us while we guide you.
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