1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:01,640 Speaker 1: Look Mayre. 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 2: Oh, I see you look over there is that culture. Yes, wow, lost. 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: Culture did dull lost culturistas calling? 4 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 2: All right, bo, now we both have some topical things 5 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 2: to discuss. 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: We do. I think you have the more pertinent thing, 7 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: which is that you went to the big festival. Tell 8 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 1: us about that. 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: I wish to go to the festival, and I did 10 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: go to the festival, the festival being in the Coachello 11 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: Day Festival. Yes, I went. I had. It was the 12 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 2: first time I ever went. I'm back from the desert. 13 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: I'm gonna call my experience a nine out of ten. 14 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: Wow. 15 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 2: It was really wonderful in that like it was a 16 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 2: new experience and it was many good experiences. I will 17 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 2: say it rotated between being the worst moments of my 18 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 2: life and then like it was like an hour of 19 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 2: the best and then two minutes of the worst, like 20 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 2: when you're in like very So then that nine at ten, 21 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 2: that just brought it down to a nine. But I 22 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 2: experienced much culture there. Rosalia is unbelievable. I mean it's 23 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 2: just insane. 24 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:04,559 Speaker 1: Yeah. 25 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 2: And then I saw the Chemical Brothers. Do you know 26 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 2: about them? 27 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 1: Yeah? The Chemical Brothers are true classic irk, the true icon. 28 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: Chemical have been around. 29 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I sort of got into a state and then 30 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: watched them and it was really amazing. Muna absolutely killed it. 31 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 2: It was so boy genius came out. It was unbelievable. 32 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 2: The one thing I'll say is, and I don't even 33 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 2: know whether or not it's like, I don't think so honey, 34 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: but the Frank of it all, the Frank Ocean of 35 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 2: it all. Right, So I was there very much experiencing 36 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 2: the Frank Ocean breakdown as it was happening, and I 37 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 2: would say it was almost too confusing and concerning to 38 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 2: be I don't think so Honey level, because there was 39 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 2: so clearly something wrong and something going on that he 40 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 2: just was that late, was that lame, and then left 41 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: that abruptly. It was just I felt bad for everyone 42 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 2: that really went to that music festival just to see him, 43 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: which was a lot of people. It felt like, right, 44 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 2: it wasn't a good vibe. 45 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: I haven't quite dissected this for myself yet, but it 46 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: just I feel like as a viewing public, we have 47 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: seen a version of this happen, not at this scale. 48 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: Maybe it's Coachella, but you know, I feel like there 49 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: are experiences where I've seen an artist I won't name names. 50 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: I've seen an artist like really like, you know, when 51 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: that does happen, it's like you can't really like jeer 52 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: and boo because it's like, Okay, that person, there's something 53 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 1: going on that we can't really weigh in on, and 54 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: that's okay, and maybe that maybe that's the situation for Frank. 55 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, there was no jeering or booing. It was more 56 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 2: of sort of just like thousands and thousands of people 57 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: sort of being like oh hmmm, yeah, yeah, and then 58 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 2: we all kind of left. They built a roller, not 59 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 2: a real skate ring. They built an ice skating rink 60 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 2: for his performance on the stage, and then had to 61 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 2: melt the ice skating rink and break it down because 62 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 2: he decided he didn't want it, and then came out 63 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 2: and sang I think between five and six songs, but 64 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 2: with long breaks in between. 65 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: It was odd. 66 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 2: And also, you know, there's only three headliners and one 67 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 2: of them is like rare. Then it's kind of like, 68 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 2: oh and it's the Sunday night, so then it ends 69 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 2: on a bad note. But overall it was really fun. 70 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 2: Black Pink was in the area. They were very fun. 71 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 2: Those girls really they do have choreo down, and that's 72 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 2: actually a rural culture. Number nineteen Black Black Pink. Those 73 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: girls they really do have choreo down. The four of 74 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: them together, they simply dance and sync. They really do. 75 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: I love that this was your first music festival. I've 76 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: only been to one. It was at the now defunct 77 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: Mile High Music Festival in two thousand and nine. This 78 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: was years ago, and I have not gone back since 79 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: you did break your known new gay men policy. I 80 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: do want to point out you didn't meet some new 81 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: gay people, and I feel like you've betrayed your own values. 82 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: Okay, first of all, criticism from you. First of all, 83 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 2: I don't need any policing from you. Okay, just just 84 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: before you get into this right now and then tradition 85 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 2: into whatever it is you having gone. I don't need 86 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: the criticism from you. I can reinstate and game not 87 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 2: criticize it at any pace. No, because you have a tone, 88 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 2: you really don't have it. 89 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 1: To know, there's no tone. I'm pretty neutral, I feel, but. 90 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 2: Okay, well now so far so neutral. Now, what's going 91 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 2: on with you bo i? 92 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: This just happened before we went on the zoom. There 93 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: is something going on with gay men in my life 94 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: who I might have gone on one date with that 95 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: you know, was perfectly mid fine mid maybe not gone 96 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: on a date with, maybe skipped to like the saucier 97 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: parts and skip the date altogether. 98 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 2: Sometimes you skip right from the meeting to the sauciness. 99 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 2: And that's gay culture, unfortunately. 100 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: And that's gay culture. But there's there, there are men 101 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: from all of these buckets who are in the last 102 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 1: week reaching out to be like, Hey, will you host 103 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 1: a gala for my work or something? 104 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 2: And I'm like, I ay, gala. 105 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: Not a gay gala, but like they'll work at some 106 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, they'll work at some company, and they go, 107 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 1: we have this meeting, this is like retreats adjacent thing, 108 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: and they'll be like, will you host it? And I'm like, 109 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. I haven't heard from you. 110 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: This is how you're gonna zombie me. I don't think so, honey, 111 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: This is not my I don't think so honey. That'll 112 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,239 Speaker 1: I have a totally different thing that feels also pertinent. 113 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 2: But I don't know. 114 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:35,679 Speaker 1: I'm just noticing that and I have to unfortunately dig 115 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: further down into no new gay men policy for myself, 116 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: right that's. 117 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 2: Just because the thing that feels like is happening with 118 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: you is that you meet a new gay men and 119 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 2: suddenly they're asking me to host a gala. And I 120 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 2: know that all the girls out there listening to this 121 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 2: are sort of understanding they said meta, they're asking me 122 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 2: to host their gala, and I'm sure no one's going 123 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 2: to feel extremely specifically targeted by this and listening. 124 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: I never said that this was a universal experience. I 125 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: understand this to be pretty unique. I just think it 126 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: seems universal on the other end, where the unifying gay 127 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 1: experience right now is to ask Bowen Yanko Gala to 128 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: host your gala and I don't think I can do it. 129 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 2: And have you said no to all galas? 130 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: I have not said no to all gallas. No, no, no, 131 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm not ruling out gallas. I'm just noticing that there 132 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: is this uptick of gallas. 133 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this is galaus season. It's it's galas season. 134 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: People are sort of getting out their best galla gowns. 135 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: When is the met Gala again? I think it's in 136 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: two weeks. 137 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 2: Oh that's so soon. See what I'm saying. It's gala season, 138 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 2: So we've sort of come out of Facy season and 139 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 2: into Gala season. Mercury is going back in retrograde and 140 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 2: a mistake there, no mistake. And can I just clarify 141 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 2: I don't like gay men still since the beginning of 142 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 2: this year. I don't like gay men anymore. I'm just 143 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 2: willing to tolerate them in small groups. But you should 144 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 2: have seen me at Coachella. But you would have been 145 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 2: very well you went to Coachella. Yeah, well, a gay 146 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 2: man would sort of approach and I would sort of 147 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 2: do this. Mm hmm. 148 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: You say over there, move in, You'll go over there? 149 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:00,239 Speaker 2: Now? 150 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: Move in? Is the slowgan? 151 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 2: Yeah? Keep it moving, oh yeah, keep it moving. Tweaker. 152 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: But here's the thing. So we've both had our experiences 153 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,559 Speaker 2: at festivals in Gallas, which so far is the title 154 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 2: of app Festivals and Gallas. But basically what's happening now 155 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 2: is this is a moment in time for the podcast 156 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 2: and for the culture at large. 157 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: I would say, bo absolutely, and I think it's relevant 158 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: to bring up like our sort of general social malaise 159 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 1: between you and I. I'm just like, I don't really 160 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: want to like engage too much with people right now. 161 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: What I will do is completely withdraw, retreat in a 162 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 1: healthy way, and watch everything our guest has been in. 163 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: Literally watch every interview that is on YouTube of our gap. 164 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: Because you described it as ASMR. It's ASMR. There's just 165 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: something so it feels like aqua for it feels like 166 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: something like an ointment. It feels like something that can heal. 167 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? 168 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 2: I one hundred percent to can I say. I think 169 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 2: I've said this on the podcast before, but if you 170 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: ever want to feel safe, just sit yourself down in 171 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 2: front of the work of our guests and you will 172 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 2: feel taken care of, You will feel healed, you will 173 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 2: feel entertained. And isn't that what you want out there? 174 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 2: If you're listening to this podcast right now, do you 175 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 2: not want to be entertained. If that's not the case, 176 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 2: then don't watch our guest work. I mean, I don't 177 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 2: know what to say. I said last week on the podcast. 178 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. 179 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 2: If you're not ready for a fucking ten, then turn 180 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 2: off the Melanielinsky Project. If you're not ready for a ten. 181 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: This is one of the coolest days we've had on 182 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 2: the podcast so far. I can't believe it's just going 183 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 2: to be a Wednesday drop. It doesn't follow weeks of fanfare. 184 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 2: It's just going to be something we give to the 185 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 2: readers on a Wednesday. These lucky fuckers, I am so excited. 186 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 2: I mean, it's like literally fruitless to list all the credits. 187 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 2: What you need to know, right, true, is that our 188 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 2: guest is absolute as gay men say, we would know 189 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,719 Speaker 2: because we don't talk to them anymore. But turning the 190 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 2: party diva's down, we need a triage. These divas that 191 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 2: are collapsing on all sides of our guests on Yellow 192 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 2: Jackets on showtime just a true legend. 193 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: Bo a true legend, I gosh. I mean the irony 194 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: is that her work is healing, even though recently of 195 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: late it is brutal, extremely violent between yellow Jackets, between candy, 196 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 1: between the last of us. People are dying left on 197 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: these shows, left and right, and our guest is dying. 198 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: Our guest is dying constantly by entities by either you know, 199 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: a mushroom guy or Jessica Biel. You just you never know. 200 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 2: What would be worse. Well, I guess we can ask 201 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 2: our guests. 202 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 1: Well, we'll ask our guests, who is it worse to 203 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: be murdered by? That'll be the first question. We're so 204 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 1: honored and thrilled she is here. I briefly got to 205 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,680 Speaker 1: meet her earlier this last year. It was the highlight 206 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: of the Emmys night for me. I was like, I 207 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:05,679 Speaker 1: don't care what happens. I got to meet her, I 208 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: got to meet Jason, I got to meet Tanya, I 209 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 1: got to meet Julia, I met every I got to 210 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:11,719 Speaker 1: meet Oh my god, everybody. Oh my god. It was 211 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 1: so stuck, especially our guest Christina was there. I couldn't 212 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: believe it. We're so so thrilled. Wow. Everyone, please welcome 213 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 1: into your ears me Lyn. 214 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 3: Wow, Oh my god, you guys, that's such a nice introduction. 215 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 3: I can't believe it. 216 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 2: Well, we had to basically, after we tortured you with 217 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,839 Speaker 2: the mic setup we had, we had to do some. 218 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 3: Sorry I tortured you with the mic set up. No, 219 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 3: I was not prepared with all the different things. I'm 220 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 3: so bad at it. 221 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 1: It's our responsibility to educate and we didn't do that, 222 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: and I think we we failed you and Doug. Thank 223 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 1: god for Doug. Doug was able to swoop in and 224 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: save the day. 225 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, Doug did a wonderful job. Everybody educated me. It 226 00:10:58,200 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 3: was my fault only. 227 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 2: No, we're putting this to you now. Who was it 228 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 2: worse to be murdered by a sea of mushroom people? 229 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 2: Are Jessica Biale? 230 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: Probably a sea of mushroom people? 231 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 2: Yeah? 232 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was more technical. I mean, Jessica, we choreographed 233 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 3: like a big fight scene that we had to do together, 234 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 3: and it was it was very heartbreaking and difficult, but 235 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 3: it was also kind of an incredible experience. Anytime you 236 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 3: get to work with Jessica bial it's pretty amazing. I 237 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:28,719 Speaker 3: really love her. 238 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 2: You love Jessica bial that's. 239 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 1: I love really good to know. 240 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 3: I absolutely love her. And as an actor, she's so 241 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 3: exciting to work with. There's so much happening. Yeah, I 242 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 3: love her. 243 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 2: She's underrated. 244 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: She's very undergraded. Extremely Yeah, you were saying she was giving. 245 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 1: She's one of those actors who gives something different on 246 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: every take. It's like a Juliette Lewis kind of thing 247 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 1: where it's like, oh my gosh, nothing. 248 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 3: Is to Juliet Lewis. Nothing except for Juliet Lewis is 249 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 3: a Juliet Lewis experience. It's just that you're just kind 250 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 3: of witnessing and you're just like what's going to happen? Wait, 251 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 3: it's so amazing. But yeah, Jess definitely like give something different, 252 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 3: is very very present, very connected. It's really it's great. 253 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: The whole last episode of Candy Matt, have you seen it? 254 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: I mean no, it's scary, it's gory. Like I think. 255 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 2: The thing is the thing is that you'd like it. 256 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 2: With everything, I at least peek in. Okay, I at 257 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 2: least peek in on everything. But that's been my thing 258 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: with Yellow Jackets is it is. As I'm sure you 259 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 2: know from working quite extensively on the project, it is 260 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 2: what i'd refer to a brutal and relentless show. 261 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 3: I know I've heard you talk about it on the podcast. 262 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 2: I can't. 263 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 3: I love it. I I'd love this podcast. My friend 264 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 3: Matt told me once that, you guys, he's wonderful. He's 265 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 3: been one of my best friend since we're fifteen years 266 00:12:56,640 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 3: old in New Plymouth, New Zealand. Oh cool, and he 267 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 3: lives here in Los Angeles now, thank god. But he 268 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 3: was like, I can't believe you don't listen to that. 269 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 3: He was like, it's so weird to me that you 270 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 3: don't listen to last called Touristas I was like, I'm 271 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 3: not really like a podcast person, and he was like, 272 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:17,839 Speaker 3: well that's okay, full judgment. He really judged me for it. 273 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 3: So then I started just to tell Matt like, you know, 274 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 3: I gave it a chance, and then I was in love, obsisted. 275 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 3: I had to go back into the archives. 276 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're not going to archives. 277 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 3: He is quite far back into the archives, like it 278 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 3: was all I would listen. Oh no, yeah, no, it's great. 279 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 3: There has not been a bad episode. 280 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: I see that. That is the big claim we've had 281 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 1: over three hundred. 282 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 2: They're okay, sure, we're not talking about Meleylansky's filmography here 283 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 2: where there's actually no bad things. I was just no, 284 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I was actually just reading an interview with 285 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 2: you in my in my research, but you were saying 286 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 2: your number one thing is to pick good scripts or 287 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 2: things that you think have the potential to be lasting, 288 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 2: or a project you want to be a part of, 289 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 2: and not necessarily like looking what the role is for me, 290 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 2: et cetera. You said you got that advice from Matt Damon, 291 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 2: and I wonder like when that changes for you, when 292 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 2: it bridges from being like I'm a working actor, I'm 293 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 2: really just trying to get the next job to when 294 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 2: you can be more discerning and when you can feel 295 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 2: like you can actually like, you know, key into the 296 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 2: things that you think are substantial. Like, do you remember 297 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 2: when that point was. 298 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 3: I mean, I tried to do that even when I 299 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 3: didn't have very many options. I you know, even just 300 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 3: auditioning for things. I tried to not audition for things 301 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 3: that I didn't feel somewhat passionate about. I didn't always 302 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 3: have that option. There were times when I just needed 303 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 3: to work like everybody. But then at a certain point, 304 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 3: I think it was like after the movie I did 305 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 3: with Matt Damon, I did a couple of other movies 306 00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 3: that year that were well received, and things kind of 307 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 3: shifted a little bit after that, and I get to 308 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 3: be a bit more picky. So I was lucky to 309 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 3: have just gotten that great advice from Matt Damon. 310 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 2: Well, thank god for Matt Damon on set. Thank God 311 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 2: he's going to be kicked. I picture Mat Damon in 312 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 2: my mind. I like, let me tell you something. Is 313 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 2: he running the room. 314 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 3: No, he's very charismatic, but he's not. He's kind of 315 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 3: the only famous person that I've ever been around where 316 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 3: you don't know when he's into the room, like you 317 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 3: can kind of sneak up behind you on the shoulder 318 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 3: and you're like, oh, Matt Damon. Everyone else there's sort 319 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 3: of like a thing of feeling and people kind of 320 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 3: like but he can just he can kind of be 321 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 3: undetected in a way that a lot of other famous 322 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 3: people can't. 323 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 2: He should work in a hunted have. 324 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 1: I s. 325 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 2: Amazing, very incredible. 326 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: This is truly the most like I or ely anecdote 327 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 1: I can say right now. But I can confirm this 328 00:15:56,520 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: because I literally this was last week. I walked into work. 329 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: I walked onto the eighth floor of work. We share 330 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: the same floor as Seth Myers. He must have been 331 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 1: there to promote air. But literally, I like walk, i 332 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: walk out, I say hi to some crew guys. I'm 333 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: like hey, what's up, Hey, what's up? And then out 334 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: of nowhere, he like bounds out of the hallway, taps 335 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: me on the shoulder says, hey, how's it going man. 336 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: I was like, oh hey, I was like, oh, just 337 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: some I was like, that's some guy who works here. 338 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: I was like, wait, no, that was that was Matt Damon. 339 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 1: And it was that thing of like he just kind 340 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: of like is able to like blend into the sort 341 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 1: of ambient aspect of whatever space he's in. And I'm like, 342 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: that is impressive. That is truly amazing. 343 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 3: It is really impressive. And I think it's why he's 344 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 3: kind of both like movie stat and character actor, because 345 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 3: he can like disappear into a role in a way 346 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 3: that like so many famous people can't. 347 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll never forget true, like Goodwill Hunting, Like, it's 348 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 2: so funny that he does like sort of disappear in 349 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 2: my everyday life because Goodwill Hunting just remember like him 350 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:05,360 Speaker 2: on screen and his like side bang, Remember that Iconic's 351 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 2: nineties side bang they would all have, and He's. 352 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 1: Like him and Leo were really yeah, oh yeah, they were. 353 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,360 Speaker 2: Kings something like sort of flop hair. And of course 354 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,679 Speaker 2: I don't use flop as a pejorative here, and flop 355 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 2: is not being used in a derogatory way. I'm using 356 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 2: simply as to describe the shape of their hair, which 357 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 2: I'm sort of doing right now in the Zoom. But 358 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 2: that was like peak nineties hair. It was like that 359 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,919 Speaker 2: like sort of Dawson's Creek, but elevated to an Oscar 360 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 2: caliber film. You really couldn't do better than that. And 361 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 2: for someone who really blends into a room, even a 362 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 2: studio eight h aro on sets of films, he absolutely 363 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 2: explodes off the screen. And we celebrate Matt Damon for that, 364 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 2: and we want to announce that Matt Damon is a finalist. 365 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 2: Oh my god, really he's a finalist. Congrats Matt. This 366 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 2: is the biggest honor of your career. 367 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:55,439 Speaker 3: I'm sure it's probably up there you think. 368 00:17:55,960 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's very nice, Melanie. We're gonna get some returns 369 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 1: by the end of the episode. But I think there's 370 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: a really good shot that you are a finalist as well. 371 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 2: Know you're a finalist. Do you know what it means 372 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:16,399 Speaker 2: to be a finalist? 373 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 3: I do know what it means. 374 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 2: It's a new term. Okay, great, because it's in the lexicon. 375 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:23,959 Speaker 3: No, it's a brand new tune. But I listen, I 376 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 3: heard it. I heard you talking about it. 377 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 2: Let's talk about let's. 378 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 3: Talk about it. I know that Dacy Kadden. 379 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 2: Is she's a finalist. She's going to be Thrilled's gonna 380 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 2: be yeah, absolutely, she's going to be thrilled to hear 381 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 2: you say her name out loud. You first of all, 382 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 2: let's let's stop it right there, because here's the thing. 383 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 2: I think people often forget that you have this accent 384 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 2: because you are a master of dialects. But then you 385 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 2: do a spittake and almost spit off your coffee as 386 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 2: I'm saying that. But the thing is, it is true, 387 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 2: Like how did you get so good at this? 388 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,440 Speaker 3: I just watched a lot of movies, really said, I'm 389 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:01,879 Speaker 3: good at it. 390 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 2: So it's not like intensive, like like speech and dialect 391 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 2: training at university. 392 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,199 Speaker 3: No, I never waked it. I went to university for 393 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 3: a year. Did go to university for a year, No, 394 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:16,160 Speaker 3: I did say. But there was sometimes when I would 395 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 3: have a dialect coach on set for a job, and 396 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 3: I would try to get as much information from them 397 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 3: as I could about other accents so I could. 398 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 1: Like Alabama, it was so perfectly keyed in for that. 399 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 3: Thank you. We had a dialect coach for that who 400 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 3: was wonderful. 401 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: Her name was always helpful. 402 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 3: She was concerned, she was concerned about the accent, getting 403 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 3: the accent right. 404 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:40,679 Speaker 1: I don't know about her, y'all. 405 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 2: I don't know about Melanie. Lynskey said that. 406 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 3: She's always been very supportive. 407 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 2: I'm sure. 408 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, she cried we saw each other at the Emmys 409 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 3: and she burst into tears. 410 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 1: What Oh yeah. I was like, look where. 411 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 3: We both are. We're both nominated, I know. I was like, 412 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 3: you have an oscar. 413 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 2: We got to get you one of those. 414 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 3: You've been in this position before. But it was so 415 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 3: sweet that she was like moved by it and like 416 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 3: happy for me. It was really sweet. Sweet. 417 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:14,920 Speaker 2: We love reesing this house. 418 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 3: Oh, she's so good. 419 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:18,959 Speaker 2: You have to have so many like old friends, like 420 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,640 Speaker 2: from starting out, because I mean, let's just say it started. 421 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 2: It all started with Heavenly Creatures, which was your first time. 422 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 3: Acting, my first time acting like like traditionally yeah, outside 423 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 3: of like a school play or local theater. 424 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that was what ninety five. 425 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 3: We filmed it in ninety three and it came out 426 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:39,119 Speaker 3: in ninety four, right, Yeah, I was fifteen when I 427 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 3: did it. 428 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 1: Wow. 429 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:44,360 Speaker 2: And so that's you and Kate Winslet, and she's sort 430 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 2: of iconically still around. We actually just saw her in 431 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 2: Avatar to the Way of Water. 432 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 3: Oh, who did you talk about It's the first time 433 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 3: I wanted to see that movie was after you talked 434 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 3: about it. 435 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 2: Suddenly, Yeah, you don't have an interesting Avatar? 436 00:20:58,600 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 3: No, sorry, I don't. 437 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: That's okay, no problem. I don't know. 438 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 3: I don't understand it. It's hard for me to connet. 439 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:09,640 Speaker 2: Sure you're not one with the no so many billions 440 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 2: are It's okay, I don't. 441 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 3: So many billions. Yes, they don't need me. 442 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 2: But I would imagine it's like this thing of like 443 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:18,880 Speaker 2: you'll be at an event or something like like let's 444 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,119 Speaker 2: say that Emmys or Critics Choice or whatever it is, 445 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 2: and you'll look around and you'll be like, oh, I 446 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 2: know I've known that person for like thirty years. 447 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:29,199 Speaker 3: In some cases, yes, yeah, that does happen. I know 448 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 3: it's so weird. 449 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:34,360 Speaker 1: Okay, it's so old. No, no, no, but that's it's 450 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: just that like for you to describe the scene and 451 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,160 Speaker 1: don't look up where you're like throwing kills at Leo 452 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 1: right like he walks back in with Kate Blanchette. You're 453 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: like for you to say that, like Kate Blanchette being 454 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,400 Speaker 1: in the room was comforting to you, that like, oh 455 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 1: my gosh, this is my old friend. For Kate Blanchette 456 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 1: to be this comforting presence because of your friendship over 457 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 1: the years, I think that's like where it's sort of 458 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,439 Speaker 1: all sort of it cashes in, like these relationships that 459 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: you've built for you know, such a long time. 460 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I could not believe what my brain was telling 461 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 3: me that day, Like, thank God for Kate. It's gonna 462 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 3: be the one. It's gonna keep me calm and make 463 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 3: me feel safe and okay, because I didn't know Adam McKay, 464 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 3: I didn't know Leo, you know, nobody. 465 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 1: Those first day of work. 466 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 3: It was my first day of work. 467 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: Oh wow wow. 468 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's very grateful. Yeah, I know, so scary. 469 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 1: I love that scene so much. And by the way, 470 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 1: this is the big question that I wanted to ask 471 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 1: you for a very long time, which is like I 472 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: think you've said multiple times that your acting is is 473 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: very instinctual. You're you know, you're not as precise as 474 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: you would say other actors might be about like Okay, 475 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,159 Speaker 1: it's gonna be this and then this and this and 476 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 1: then this is there's no like sequential thing to it. Yeah, 477 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: and yet I always find your performance is so precise 478 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 1: and specific and like even even in yellow Jackets like 479 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 1: last week, where you know, you know, your daughter's like, 480 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 1: so you killed a guy and then you're like, yeah, 481 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 1: well no, like you just the face journey there is 482 00:22:59,520 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 1: already so. 483 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 2: Great. 484 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,479 Speaker 1: And I find it so interesting that you that this 485 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 1: comes so naturally to you, and that is that is 486 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: like a true mark of your skill. I guess I think. 487 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 3: People just have different ways of working. Like I remember 488 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 3: once I was on a flight and I was sitting 489 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 3: next to somebody who was like highlighting all the different 490 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,679 Speaker 3: lines in their script with a different color highlighter and 491 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 3: then going over their lines, and like I could see 492 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 3: her choosing the gestures she was going to make like 493 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 3: when she did the lines, and like practicing the same 494 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 3: gesture like over and over on the line, and I 495 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 3: just was like, isn't that interesting? Like it took everything 496 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 3: in me to not just turn around and watch, because 497 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 3: it's such a different process to really like map it 498 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 3: out in that way. I don't know, I just have 499 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,479 Speaker 3: to let it happen. And it can be challenging if 500 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 3: you're working with an actor who's not like giving a. 501 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,719 Speaker 1: Lot, because see, of course it's not collaborative. 502 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,159 Speaker 3: It's not collaborative, and you can feel like you're kind 503 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 3: of running uphill and doing too much in that case. 504 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 3: But I really do like to just see what happens 505 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 3: when we get there. 506 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 2: Can you imagine like being on a plane or whatever, 507 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:09,880 Speaker 2: and you have your script and you're sort of highlighting 508 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 2: your script and you're rehearsing your gestures, and then you 509 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 2: look over and Melanie Lensky is sort of staring at you, 510 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:22,400 Speaker 2: like perplexed, like like like, oh no, I'm I'm rehearsing 511 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,439 Speaker 2: my big gestures. This is not what. 512 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 3: Judgment no judgment on It's just so different, you know. 513 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 3: I just was fascinated by the process, Like that's a 514 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 3: lot of wood. 515 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, one time I was. I was working with someone 516 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 2: one time who it was very clear was not going 517 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 2: to look at me during the scene, but they were 518 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 2: sort of looking where they were going to look and 519 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 2: like doing They were sort of doing like a picture 520 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 2: for the camera, but it was not acting. They were 521 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 2: sort of giving just like pictures for the camera like 522 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 2: they were doing. And then there was me sort of 523 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,400 Speaker 2: sing there but like that, I guess that happens. That's 524 00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 2: that's film acting for some people. I'm sure they were 525 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 2: very eas to edit. Later. Probably the editor probably was like, oh, 526 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:08,479 Speaker 2: this dream a series of pictures for me to put together. 527 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 3: I know I feel bad for editors. 528 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 1: No, no, no, but I feel like all of your things. 529 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 1: I feel like you do have this continuity with all 530 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 1: your scenes too, like oh, like the left arm was 531 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,879 Speaker 1: up and the left arm was up in the next 532 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:23,400 Speaker 1: in the next cut or something. 533 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:27,640 Speaker 3: That's editing. That's the hard work of editors, because I'm 534 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 3: never paying attention to that. It's terrible, terrible. 535 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 2: The script supervisors are like, Melanie, your left arm wasn't 536 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,719 Speaker 2: up in the air on that one. We needed We 537 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 2: need you back to where you were, queen. 538 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I try. 539 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 1: But so you're just one highlighter. 540 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, speaking of your older stuff, like we were 541 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 2: talking about ever After, as I'm sure you heard because 542 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 2: we were talking about Drew Barrymore on the show. 543 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 3: Yes I did. 544 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 2: That was that your appearance on Drew Barrymore was so 545 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 2: and obviously it went viral online, like you and Jason 546 00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 2: being there together. Yeah, but I just wanted to say, 547 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 2: like you guys like that, it's beyond adorable. It's just 548 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 2: like aspirational, especially as people out here who who now 549 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 2: have like no new gay men rules because of our 550 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,679 Speaker 2: own recent or storied like you know, attempts to make 551 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 2: relationships happen and stuff. What I was really like moved 552 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,159 Speaker 2: by and heartened by and made me feel hope again. 553 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 2: Was you know, the bravery with which he came forward 554 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 2: and was like sitting there and was like, yeah, like 555 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,400 Speaker 2: I had a lot of problems. I was really struggling, 556 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 2: and then I met the love of my life and 557 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 2: I decided to better myself for that person. And I 558 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 2: just like, I was so inspired by that, because not 559 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 2: everyone is like that. What was the response that you 560 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 2: guys got from that? And what was it? I don't 561 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 2: know if that was something that you guys had talked about, 562 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 2: much like you probably intrinsically knew, but then there you are, 563 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,640 Speaker 2: like hearing him do this and really pouring his heart 564 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 2: out and putting it out there. I was like, I 565 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:57,680 Speaker 2: wonder what that felt like. 566 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 3: I was so surprised. He and I I've had a 567 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 3: lot of conversations about everything because we've had to in therapy, 568 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,879 Speaker 3: but I didn't know he was going to talk about that, 569 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 3: and it's not something that he has talked about publicly 570 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 3: a whole lot, and neither has drew until very recently. 571 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 3: And you know, I've been on I've known her for 572 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 3: so many years and been on the journey with her 573 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 3: of her process towards getting to this point in her 574 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 3: life and the same with Jason, Like it wasn't an 575 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 3: easy road, and I just in that moment felt kind 576 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 3: of overwhelmed with pride and love for both of them 577 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 3: that they're sitting there and they're in such good places 578 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:39,439 Speaker 3: in their life and they're really like kind and responsible people, 579 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 3: and it just that they were talking to each other 580 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 3: about it. I just it was almost too much in 581 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,359 Speaker 3: the moment for me to process. I just had to 582 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,439 Speaker 3: kind of be like, oh, this is lovely. And then 583 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 3: later I was like, oh, I was such a huge 584 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 3: I had to go and do another talk show afterwards. 585 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,439 Speaker 3: And I just didn't want to leave her, Like she 586 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 3: came into our dressing room and kicked your shoes off 587 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 3: when we were all sitting on the sofa just kind 588 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 3: of like huddled, and I just was like, I don't 589 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 3: want to leave this little cocoon. She's so special. 590 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, she ain't coming into any rooms and you're 591 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 2: not noticing that's because she immediately climbs up next to you. 592 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're just. 593 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 2: Like chin on hand, Yeah, yeah, eyeball to eyeball. I 594 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 2: love it. 595 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:29,680 Speaker 3: I love it. 596 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 2: It's everyone. It's like it's like people that you can 597 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,439 Speaker 2: tell she's known for years, and also people that you 598 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,479 Speaker 2: know she's just met, like Chloe from Choe and Hallie 599 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 2: was on her show, and I swear to god, I 600 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 2: just saw a screenshot of the video and it's literally 601 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 2: Drew like sitting on the chair with that was like, 602 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 2: I love it, and everyone's just on board. 603 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 3: It's so sweet. It's the boy. 604 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 1: That was a really beautiful moment and you and you two, 605 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 1: I don't know it was He's dropping off the kids 606 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: at school right now. It's like, this is aspirational. It's 607 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 1: what Matt was saying. It's like, you know, I are 608 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: so jaded right now and we're just like what do 609 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 1: we what are we doing? 610 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 3: But it's nice to see. 611 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 1: It's nice to see like a perfect example of this 612 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: out in the world. 613 00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 3: I mean, there have been times in my life where 614 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,239 Speaker 3: I've tried, I've had to give myself a break and 615 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 3: say no, no new news. Yeah very well, but you 616 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 3: know it's difficult if you're like single and you're it's like, well, 617 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 3: you know, how bad could it be? But you know 618 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 3: it's a process and you're both so young, you're so so. 619 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 1: Much life getting up there. 620 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 3: That's coach Ella. I went once and I just kept 621 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,680 Speaker 3: saying to my husband at the time, Jimmy, please remind 622 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 3: me take a picture of what I look like right 623 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 3: now and how miserable I am. So anytime if they 624 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 3: I want to do this again, and you can show 625 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 3: me the picture and say no. Yeah, yeah, I never forgot. 626 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 2: I was yeah. 627 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 3: I just was like, you have to tell me it 628 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 3: was too hot. 629 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 2: It was like, yeah, I was gonna ask was it 630 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 2: the heat, was the respiratory situation? Was it the crowds? 631 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 1: Like what, Yeah, it was the crowds. 632 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 3: I don't like the crowds. 633 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 634 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 3: I felt very old. And at the time I was 635 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 3: like it was like the first year of Coachella, so 636 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 3: I was really yeah yeah, but it was like when 637 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 3: it was I think it was in May still at 638 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 3: that point, like it was too much. 639 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, so hot. 640 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 2: When you're walking up, you see like the they have 641 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 2: all the old rosters of who used to headline the festival, 642 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 2: and it's like it's funny because it's like the first 643 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 2: year is literally like tool and Muse and raised against 644 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 2: the machine, and now it's like black Pink Ariana Grande. 645 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 2: You can tell they're they're making it much more pop, 646 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 2: which is what's gonna get me to go because, to 647 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 2: be honest with you, like it's whenever these like breakdowns 648 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 2: of like who's playing the festivals come out, I'm not 649 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 2: cool in terms of my music tastes, like I don't 650 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 2: know like all bands, it's like I don't know who 651 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 2: like DJ Blaze Stink is, you know what I mean, Like, 652 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 2: I don't. I didn't know what any of this shit was. 653 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 2: I didn't even know who the Chemical Brothers were. And 654 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 2: here's my sister saying they're an iconic, legendary group. But 655 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 2: that is true, that is true. But I had an 656 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 2: amazing time at their show. Wow. They were actually the 657 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 2: highlight of the whole thing for me, I think, but 658 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 2: it's just fun. Yeah, it was really really amazing. I 659 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 2: was also helped, I was, I was aided by Chemicals myself, 660 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 2: but there I was sort of like, really the visuals 661 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 2: were insane, like highly recommend But now I feel insane 662 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 2: because I'm like the last person saying that, because apparently 663 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,480 Speaker 2: I'm the last person on earth who doesn't know who 664 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 2: they are. But no, I think in the future my 665 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 2: rule will be if I really love at least one 666 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 2: of the headliners, I'll consider it, you know what I mean? Yeah, 667 00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 2: But then it's like because then it's like I'm not 668 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:00,959 Speaker 2: just gonna go to go because I agree with you. 669 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 2: I wish I wish I had taken a picture of 670 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 2: my miserable moments, because then I'd be like, ah, yes, 671 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 2: the part where we have to get in and everyone 672 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 2: was screaming at each other. That's not something you want 673 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 2: to go back to. 674 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 3: Sure, I think I had the opposite balance of you. 675 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 3: I had like two minutes of joy and like fifty 676 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 3: eight minutes of misery per hour. Yeah, it was no good, 677 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 3: no good. 678 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 1: Well, then what's the ideal live music scenario for Milanie Lindsky? 679 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: Like what is your dream thing? 680 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 2: Oh? 681 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 3: God, it's all old, you know, like when please years ago, 682 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 3: when the Pixies like did the tour where they were 683 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 3: playing all of Doolittle, that was amazing, and then they 684 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,959 Speaker 3: would do like very random songs for the encore. But 685 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 3: now Kim Deal isn't in the Pixies anymore, so it's 686 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 3: a little bit different. I don't know, I haven't seen 687 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 3: live music for so long, right, so. 688 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 2: Long have you been on Kelly Clarkson's show? 689 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:57,640 Speaker 3: No, I haven't wait, I. 690 00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 1: Saw you I'm Sorry'm getting. 691 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to go on Kelly Clarkson, She's got 692 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 2: new music out. 693 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 3: I love Kelly Cladson. 694 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:08,400 Speaker 1: You. 695 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 2: I feel like you guys would have an incredible talk. 696 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 3: I would. I would love it sometimes if I need 697 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,240 Speaker 3: to have a cry, like you just have tears inside 698 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:21,680 Speaker 3: that need to come out and watch her performance of piece. 699 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 3: But she was heavily pregnant. I think she did it 700 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 3: on American Idol and she like can't get through it 701 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 3: and she's breaking. 702 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 2: Down, and I'm just like that song is kind of 703 00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 2: haunted now. And yeah, so she wrote the song about 704 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 2: like finally filming, she had a man in her life 705 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 2: who would like not bail and take care of ask 706 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 2: for money, their daughter asked for money, et cetera. And 707 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, now we have this reality 708 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 2: which is very much the haunted version of that. But 709 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 2: I am excited about a divorce album from her. I 710 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 2: have to say me too. 711 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 3: I can't wait. 712 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 2: Whenever anyone can sort of figure that, figure it out 713 00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 2: enough to like put it into the music. That's very exciting, 714 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 2: especially my sort of own era that I'm experiencing right now. 715 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 2: She announced even what the lyrics we're going to be 716 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 2: and I was just like, thank God, at least, at 717 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 2: least I'll have more of an outlet. Now. 718 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's good. You need to have those songs that 719 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 3: you could listen to and you're going through it. 720 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,080 Speaker 2: But I think you guys have a great chat. Just 721 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:20,840 Speaker 2: putting that out there for the publicists. 722 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 3: Okay, wonderful, Maybe they'll do something Jonah about it. Jonah. 723 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,840 Speaker 3: Jonah's so sweet, He's so wonderful. 724 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,799 Speaker 2: We love Jonah already. Jonah from id PR shout out 725 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 2: to him. 726 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:35,280 Speaker 3: He's the greatest. 727 00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:36,839 Speaker 2: We want to ask you the question that we ask 728 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 2: every single one of our guests, sort of the touchstone 729 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 2: of last culture rasus. Jonah says he's on it. Jonah 730 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 2: is Melanie Lynsky on all right, So Melanie Lynsky, what 731 00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,440 Speaker 2: was the culture that me you say culture was for you? 732 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:56,759 Speaker 3: I have been agonizing over this question because obviously, as 733 00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,399 Speaker 3: such a huge reader, I knew I I was going 734 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 3: to be asked. As a child, I didn't really consume 735 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 3: very much culture. My parents were not the kinds of 736 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,800 Speaker 3: appearance who would like take us to movies or anything 737 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 3: like that. I remember we got to see et and 738 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 3: that was kind of it. So then my brother and 739 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 3: I were like, ET, we've seen e T. We're so excited. 740 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,240 Speaker 2: Scary though you think. 741 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:24,279 Speaker 3: I didn't find it very scary. 742 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:28,719 Speaker 2: That's sort of where in the woods, like where you're like, no, 743 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,719 Speaker 2: I like ET, and I'm like, I'm terrified of EUT. 744 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,680 Speaker 2: That's what makes me not able to stomach anything. 745 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 1: I know. 746 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,279 Speaker 3: I love it. It's very charming that you're so scared of. 747 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 3: It's so sweet everything, it's so cute. But I guess 748 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 3: I would say like when I got to an age 749 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:47,760 Speaker 3: where I was able to start like seeing stuff myself 750 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 3: and just going to the video store and getting things out, 751 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 3: like David Lynch. Twin Peaks a huge thing for me, 752 00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 3: and then I saw all every David Lynch movie and 753 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,440 Speaker 3: I was like, this is it, Like this is what 754 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,399 Speaker 3: I want to do. I was so I was in 755 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 3: love with sheryln Fenn, like in love and just the 756 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,880 Speaker 3: show was everything. And then I got into directors. I 757 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 3: just started getting really into directors when I was like 758 00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 3: thirteen and seeing like all of Mike Lee and Jane Campion, 759 00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:25,799 Speaker 3: I was super into. So it was kind of that. 760 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 3: And then also I got very into music because my 761 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 3: best friend Clear Buchanan made me a mixtape from records 762 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,880 Speaker 3: that her brothers had brought home from university, and it 763 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 3: was like The Smiths and The Cure and like a 764 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 3: lot of like britpop bands, and then I got very 765 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 3: into music and yeah, so I guess it was that 766 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,800 Speaker 3: that time in my life was very formative. 767 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:51,879 Speaker 1: That all makes sense. And I feel like you're you're 768 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 1: such a director driven actor too. 769 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 3: Yeah I did love a director. Yeah. 770 00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:57,920 Speaker 2: I was going to say, is there any director that 771 00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:02,319 Speaker 2: like you were like coming up really loving that then 772 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:06,440 Speaker 2: you actualized actually working with like and if you can yeah, 773 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 2: I can imagine. Could you name a couple. 774 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:14,280 Speaker 3: Steven Soderboog, Yeah, that was like major my life dream. 775 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:14,759 Speaker 1: Yeah. 776 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. I saw Six Lives and videotape and I was like, 777 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,760 Speaker 3: oh my god, this is the best movie ever made. 778 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 3: When I was a teenager, I just was like, this 779 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 3: is incredible and I love Sorry, I have like weird 780 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 3: allergies and I feel like my voice sounds so weird 781 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 3: now I'm right. 782 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 1: There with you. 783 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and also it's allergy season. So that's the thing 784 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:37,160 Speaker 2: about eyes shut is if you have them, probably everyone 785 00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:37,520 Speaker 2: has them. 786 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:38,760 Speaker 1: And that's every real culture. 787 00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 2: That's real culture. Number thirty allergies. 788 00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 1: If you have these, if you have everyone everyone else 789 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: has them. 790 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,880 Speaker 3: I love that it's allergy season and Gala season. 791 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:53,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, bad timing, not good allergies, Dallas festivals, all 792 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: all all concurring. It's really all ocurring. 793 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 2: People are supposed to appear with this, with these ninuses, 794 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 2: I don't think so. M The thing about Steven Soderberg too, 795 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 2: which I love, is it's like he's got like such 796 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,960 Speaker 2: a strong visual style and like he is, but the 797 00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 2: stories that he tells are all really different, like he 798 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,480 Speaker 2: works in very different worlds, like when you consider like 799 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:17,279 Speaker 2: Aaron Brockovic and also traffic and also like Magic Mic. 800 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 1: It's it's it's very yes. 801 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 2: Very much so, and it's it's like some of those 802 00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 2: movies are protagonist driven, some are very much ensemble driven, 803 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 2: but it all feels like there's a control over the 804 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:34,839 Speaker 2: material and always also very rewatchable so much, you know, 805 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:40,680 Speaker 2: the very specific world's very grounded, but also managing like 806 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:45,360 Speaker 2: definitely very specific, like iconography as well, like for Julia 807 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,080 Speaker 2: Roberts to feel like a real person in Aaron Brockovic, 808 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,800 Speaker 2: which obviously was a quarter requirement because she was still 809 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 2: to be larger than life, but existing in the world 810 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:58,840 Speaker 2: like it's he's just he's one of the greats. I say, obviously, 811 00:38:58,880 --> 00:38:59,720 Speaker 2: the answer is duh. 812 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,680 Speaker 3: He is one of the greats. And the experience of 813 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,760 Speaker 3: working with him was it lived up to my expectations, 814 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 3: which were insane. My expectations were crazy. 815 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,399 Speaker 2: Right, and in the way of like you think he's 816 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 2: going to have like really interesting things to say to 817 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,840 Speaker 2: you as an actor, he's going to be in control. 818 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:18,560 Speaker 2: Like when you say you have high expectations, what do 819 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:18,920 Speaker 2: you mean. 820 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,920 Speaker 3: I just was like, this is something that I've wanted 821 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,520 Speaker 3: since I knew I wanted to be an actor, to 822 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,880 Speaker 3: work with this person, and I don't know what this 823 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 3: experience has to be for me to not be disappointed 824 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:34,400 Speaker 3: on some level, Like it's it's every it's my life 825 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,920 Speaker 3: dream and it's about to happen, right, And then he 826 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 3: surpassed it. I mean, he just was like so collaborative. 827 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,880 Speaker 3: You go into the room to start blocking something and 828 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,479 Speaker 3: he'd be like, it doesn't have to be this room, 829 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 3: Like does this feel right? You know? It was so 830 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:53,239 Speaker 3: like open to moving things around and improv and just 831 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 3: like not a lot of compliments. I hate compliments. 832 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 2: You hate compliments really complements. 833 00:39:58,840 --> 00:39:59,920 Speaker 3: I hate compliments. 834 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 1: It feels like we're so sorry for complimenting you. It's okay. 835 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,720 Speaker 3: I sat through it and it was very very sweet. 836 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:06,680 Speaker 1: But that work. 837 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,239 Speaker 3: Like when I'm working with some you know, the thing 838 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,239 Speaker 3: where directors come up and they're like, oh my god, 839 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,000 Speaker 3: beautiful when you did that, say oh, I don't. I 840 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:15,720 Speaker 3: hate it. I just want to feel like a grip, 841 00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,280 Speaker 3: like if I do something wrong, like if the camera 842 00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,000 Speaker 3: move isn't right, like then you'll tell like the grip 843 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:22,880 Speaker 3: like hey, just that one little moment, you got to 844 00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 3: smooth that out. 845 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:24,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. 846 00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 3: I don't want to feel and the rest. 847 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:27,759 Speaker 1: Of the crew I hear you. 848 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:29,799 Speaker 2: I hear you. So it's like it's this thing of 849 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,239 Speaker 2: you don't want to feel like the part of the 850 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:37,520 Speaker 2: production that needs that, because it's it's like, yeah, but 851 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,320 Speaker 2: there is this idea though, like that when you're an actor. 852 00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 2: I guess many directors and many other people on set think, oh, 853 00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,799 Speaker 2: this person probably needs that because they are being vulnerable 854 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 2: slash emotional or on the negative side of that, like 855 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 2: they might have an ego we have to cater too. Yeah, 856 00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 2: got it. 857 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the worst feeling to feel handled that is 858 00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,880 Speaker 1: my worst feeling like in any sort of professional setting. 859 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,759 Speaker 3: Oh, I can't stand. 860 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,239 Speaker 1: It completely completely. 861 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 3: Somebody like trying to like bring you things all the time, 862 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 3: walking into the bathroom, like things that you're doing everyday 863 00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 3: life without dying. You know you should be able to do. 864 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 1: That also exactly. Someone someone work called me, like a 865 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,600 Speaker 1: pa at work called me, you're so amazing, Like do 866 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 1: you want anything? I was like, no, like I don't 867 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 1: know a banana if we have one, a crafty and 868 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,680 Speaker 1: she was like, you're so maintenance. I was like, no, 869 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 1: I'm no, I'm not. I promise you I'm not. I'm 870 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,279 Speaker 1: just I'm okay. 871 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:31,640 Speaker 2: He's not, he's not. 872 00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go, there you go. No, I'm not, 873 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:35,359 Speaker 1: I'm not not at all. 874 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 2: But then you are like you are, like, who else 875 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:41,720 Speaker 2: are you dealing with? That's like, yes, I need this, Yeah. 876 00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,320 Speaker 3: But there are some but there are some people. 877 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. It's true for Steven Sodaberg to be like, 878 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,399 Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be this room that I've never 879 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,799 Speaker 1: gotten that before. I'm like, oh, you be anywhere. 880 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:55,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, just like where what feels right, what feels good? Wow, 881 00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 3: it's so fun, it's just fun. 882 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 2: Oh go bo. 883 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,280 Speaker 1: Yes, I was gonna quickly ask what what was Jamie 884 00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 1: Babbitt like on but I'm are I know it was 885 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,400 Speaker 1: like years and years ago, but Jimmy Babbitt, But I'm 886 00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 1: a cheerleader. No, but because because she was, it was 887 00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,759 Speaker 1: well she but she's she directed to some episodes the 888 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 1: first season of North from Queens and I was just like, 889 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,880 Speaker 1: oh my god, that's that's Jamie and but like, but 890 00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm a cheerleader, like and I didn't. I hadn't rewatched 891 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,880 Speaker 1: it until the Pandemic until Lockdown, and I was like, 892 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 1: this is such an important movie, Like look at everybody 893 00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:39,080 Speaker 1: on this cast. It's you, It's like Natasha, It's it's clear, 894 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:42,920 Speaker 1: it's ru Paul, It's like all these amazing people. I'm like, 895 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:44,640 Speaker 1: what was what was that set? 896 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 2: Like? I wonder it. 897 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:49,279 Speaker 3: Was absolutely crazy. We were all like twenty one years 898 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,279 Speaker 3: old and crazy people. Was like we wrap at five 899 00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:55,319 Speaker 3: am and then go like stat a partty like have 900 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 3: a party until Jimmy like it was we were absolutely 901 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:03,879 Speaker 3: it was really fun. But Jamie was so wonderful even then, 902 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:05,799 Speaker 3: like she was super young too, and she was like 903 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,839 Speaker 3: very in control of everything. And I've worked with her 904 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 3: since she directed a couple of episodes of the show 905 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:15,120 Speaker 3: Girl Boss that I did, and one day we wrapped 906 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 3: before lunch, like she's so on top of it. 907 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, oh lunch. 908 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:21,520 Speaker 2: I know. 909 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 3: She's amazing just making decisions and yeah it was lunchtime 910 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,439 Speaker 3: and they were like, that's a wrap and that's never 911 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:32,360 Speaker 3: happened before. She's so like capable and decisive and she 912 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 3: keeps things moving but everyone's having a good time. So 913 00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,359 Speaker 3: the energy is high, you know. The energy, but I'm 914 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,840 Speaker 3: a cheerleader is like crazy because of who like what 915 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,680 Speaker 3: she brings to it. I love her, love her. 916 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,439 Speaker 2: Because you mentioned Jane Campion, did you get to meet 917 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:49,800 Speaker 2: because we were actually at the Critics Choice Awards. So 918 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,719 Speaker 2: Bowe and I were at the Critics Choice Awards the 919 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,120 Speaker 2: night that you won for Yellow Jackets, and we're very 920 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,840 Speaker 2: excited and we were sitting there and we sort of 921 00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:58,840 Speaker 2: got and I'm just going to say wasted by the 922 00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,400 Speaker 2: end of that night, appeared like everyone else in that 923 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,440 Speaker 2: room did too. But I do sort of remember Jane 924 00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:08,640 Speaker 2: Campion winning the awards, and I wonder because you mentioned her, 925 00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 2: did you get to meet Jane Campion that night? 926 00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:12,800 Speaker 3: I did? That was the night that I made. 927 00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 2: That was the night that you met her. 928 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, the connection was made. 929 00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 1: Hellar. 930 00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 3: She was so sweet, she was so wonderful, very nice 931 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,399 Speaker 3: to me. It was a big moment for me. Yeah. 932 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:28,719 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well to be honest, and we talked about 933 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 1: on the pod the next the next episode from from that, 934 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:34,960 Speaker 1: from that Awards night, it was like Matt basically had 935 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:36,839 Speaker 1: to like re educate me because I was like, oh 936 00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 1: my god, like Melanie Link and like I hadn't started 937 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,600 Speaker 1: watching Yellow Jackets at that point, and I was like 938 00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,759 Speaker 1: that was such a special moment. And then Matt was like, no, 939 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 1: you've seen like she is. This is Melanie Lynsky, the 940 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,799 Speaker 1: character actress like of our time, and like just was 941 00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:50,560 Speaker 1: walking me through it, and I was like, oh my god. 942 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 2: That's right, No you are. I mean, like that's this 943 00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,840 Speaker 2: is the thing is. It's like it's if you're someone 944 00:44:55,880 --> 00:45:00,879 Speaker 2: who watches movies and like it consumes like film and television, 945 00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 2: and you're like our age, you know what I mean, 946 00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:08,239 Speaker 2: Like you are a part of so many things and 947 00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,279 Speaker 2: that has to be I wonder if you ever like 948 00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:14,279 Speaker 2: look at your resume and you're just like do you 949 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,600 Speaker 2: have vivid memories of everything or like, are you someone 950 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,279 Speaker 2: that like, do you journal, do you keep things like? 951 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,680 Speaker 2: Because you have such a vast body of work and 952 00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,840 Speaker 2: it's all so diverse and so different, and so you 953 00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:29,479 Speaker 2: probably have people coming up to you all the time 954 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,040 Speaker 2: and saying a different thing. I would imagine now as 955 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,640 Speaker 2: of late, it's a lot of yellow jackets because it's 956 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 2: this moment, it's this like cultural phenomenon. But I wonder 957 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 2: about when you look back, like if you have like 958 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:46,200 Speaker 2: not total recall, but good recall about the types of 959 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 2: things you've done, because it is it's crazy. 960 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,440 Speaker 3: Oh thank you. I mean it is kind of crazy 961 00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:55,440 Speaker 3: to have been doing something for thirty years, yeah, and 962 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,840 Speaker 3: just look back and go, oh my god, it's just crazy. 963 00:45:59,160 --> 00:45:59,759 Speaker 2: Yeah. 964 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:01,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I read an interview a while 965 00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:04,480 Speaker 3: ago where somebody was kind of like blah blah blah 966 00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,840 Speaker 3: her career up until this point and now she's doing 967 00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,719 Speaker 3: all these great things, and I was like, hang on 968 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:13,080 Speaker 3: a minute. Yeah, I was so proud to be a 969 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 3: working actor. I was so proud to make a living 970 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,319 Speaker 3: as an actor and just to be doing things and 971 00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:23,400 Speaker 3: things that have like resonated sometimes not always, but you know, 972 00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 3: I feel I feel really proud of like my career 973 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,080 Speaker 3: before this point, you know. 974 00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:32,279 Speaker 2: Yes, I mean and thin, and even in trying to 975 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 2: be a working actor now and trying to do it now, 976 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 2: like it's you know, there's this dream of like wanting 977 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,200 Speaker 2: to like build out, and I really feel like that's 978 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 2: how you get good, you know what I mean is 979 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,880 Speaker 2: by doing a lot of different types of things and 980 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,560 Speaker 2: having a lot of different types of experiences. And I 981 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,600 Speaker 2: guess the idea is that work begets more work if 982 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,920 Speaker 2: you show up and you feel like you were on 983 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,440 Speaker 2: time and did the job. And that probably is what 984 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:02,200 Speaker 2: leads you to this idea of like I'm just here 985 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:05,000 Speaker 2: a part of the community of the set, like not 986 00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:08,440 Speaker 2: needing compliments, not being that actor because you have from 987 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 2: the very beginning been like functional in these films and 988 00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 2: so you get to show up and that probably over 989 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,279 Speaker 2: time makes you ready to be number one on a 990 00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:21,640 Speaker 2: call sheet on a huge show like this, And I wonder, like, 991 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 2: is the experience really that different now from then, Like 992 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,000 Speaker 2: now that you are number one in a call sheet 993 00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,719 Speaker 2: and you are like the quote unquote star of this ensemble, 994 00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,959 Speaker 2: even though like it is very much an ensemble very much. Yeah, yeah, 995 00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:39,880 Speaker 2: but like you do occupy like that role, and so 996 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,640 Speaker 2: I wonder, like, is that a little bit odd for 997 00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:44,920 Speaker 2: you as someone that's always been a character actor or are 998 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 2: you just not see it like that. 999 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 3: I don't really see it like that, because the experience 1000 00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,680 Speaker 3: of going to work is the same, right, and you know, 1001 00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 3: it's just going to work and doing the work in 1002 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,839 Speaker 3: the same way. I don't know. I think maybe because 1003 00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,120 Speaker 3: I've been like twenty five on a call sheet and 1004 00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:06,239 Speaker 3: number sixteen on a call sheet thousands of times, I 1005 00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:09,319 Speaker 3: don't really pay that much attention to that. I don't 1006 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:10,240 Speaker 3: have like an. 1007 00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,960 Speaker 2: Ego, not even an ego thing. I just know, like 1008 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,759 Speaker 2: as a choice of responsibility thing, sometimes there is this 1009 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 2: idea of like leadership, you know what I mean. 1010 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 3: I guess that's what I do feel a responsibility, especially 1011 00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:24,279 Speaker 3: because there's like younger actors on our show totally who 1012 00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,759 Speaker 3: I want to know are having a good experience, and 1013 00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:30,480 Speaker 3: I feel a responsibility like for the crew and stuff 1014 00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,280 Speaker 3: like that to make sure everybody's days are going smoothly 1015 00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:36,360 Speaker 3: and everybody's happy and wants to come back next season 1016 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:39,080 Speaker 3: and stuff like that. Obviously it's not all up to me, 1017 00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:42,600 Speaker 3: but yeah, I do feel more because I also noticed 1018 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:45,080 Speaker 3: in the past, when I was a supporting actor, working 1019 00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,279 Speaker 3: with the people who would make sure everybody was comfortable, 1020 00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:51,440 Speaker 3: everybody was happy. It was always a big deal to me. 1021 00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:53,279 Speaker 1: But you can tell. I mean, even when you won 1022 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: that night at the Critics' Choice, it was like it 1023 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,840 Speaker 1: was that whole like your whole section is erupted for 1024 00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:00,480 Speaker 1: you and especially the youngers. 1025 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,760 Speaker 3: I know it makes me cry to even think about. 1026 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 1: It's beautiful, but that's a real thing, though. 1027 00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:10,120 Speaker 2: I would imagine that you know it's you, Tawny, Juliet 1028 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,759 Speaker 2: and Christina. The four of you have all worked for 1029 00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:16,799 Speaker 2: a very long time, some incredibly famously, So I mean, 1030 00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:20,480 Speaker 2: like not just you, but Christina Ricci and Juliet Lewis. 1031 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,320 Speaker 2: Like I don't know Tawny from like I don't know 1032 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,319 Speaker 2: if she was working as a child or anything, but 1033 00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:31,120 Speaker 2: like Christina and Juliette were massive, massive icons. Like yeah, 1034 00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 2: and so I was watching something with the four of you, 1035 00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:37,400 Speaker 2: it kind of came up like that. Watching a younger 1036 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:41,319 Speaker 2: generation of actresses or of younger actors is sort of 1037 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,719 Speaker 2: wild now in twenty twenty three, as opposed to when 1038 00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 2: y'all were doing it in the nineties, because and you 1039 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,600 Speaker 2: and I saw something kind of flickered across Christina's eyes 1040 00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,239 Speaker 2: in particular, like maybe she had like been through it, 1041 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,240 Speaker 2: and I was like, and of course, you know Juliette, 1042 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,799 Speaker 2: we know she's lived quite alife, and so it's like 1043 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:01,920 Speaker 2: the types of treatment must be so much better now, 1044 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,640 Speaker 2: and so that must be like something that's top of mind. 1045 00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:05,960 Speaker 2: When you say, like you want to make sure the 1046 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,360 Speaker 2: younger actors are having a good time and like that 1047 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 2: their experience is good. It probably is because as actresses 1048 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,239 Speaker 2: it had to be like kind of the school of 1049 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:14,680 Speaker 2: hard knocks there for quite a while. 1050 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:18,799 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I mean it was like so rough sometimes, yeah, 1051 00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,719 Speaker 3: and also like for me to find my voice on 1052 00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,080 Speaker 3: set and feel like it was okay for me to 1053 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,719 Speaker 3: have an opinion or kind of push back a little 1054 00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:29,600 Speaker 3: bit if someone gave me a note I didn't like. 1055 00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:33,120 Speaker 3: My instincts are always very strong, so if somebody tries 1056 00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,880 Speaker 3: to direct me away from them, I don't have any training. 1057 00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,160 Speaker 3: I don't know how to do that, so I will 1058 00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,799 Speaker 3: kind of fight to stay on the path that my 1059 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,640 Speaker 3: instincts are telling me to stay on in the performance. 1060 00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:48,080 Speaker 3: But it was tough, you know, And then like weird 1061 00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:51,400 Speaker 3: harassment and you know, like it was just not a 1062 00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:55,320 Speaker 3: fun time. Sometimes sometimes it was wonderful, but sometimes it wasn't. 1063 00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,920 Speaker 3: And so I, you know, I was hopeful that the 1064 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:02,000 Speaker 3: set of Yellow Jackets would not be like that. But 1065 00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,640 Speaker 3: just in case, I said to them, like, please come 1066 00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:06,880 Speaker 3: to me, come to me for anything. I'll go to 1067 00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:08,880 Speaker 3: the producers for you. I'll go to the producers with 1068 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,440 Speaker 3: you whatever you need. And they've all kind of been 1069 00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:17,400 Speaker 3: like thanks, like fine, they're fine. It's such a different generation, 1070 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:20,439 Speaker 3: like they're handling it themselves. There's no thing of them 1071 00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:22,440 Speaker 3: being like, oh is it okay for me to say this. 1072 00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:24,600 Speaker 3: They're all like I don't like this. I don't like that. 1073 00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:29,600 Speaker 3: Here's what I need And it's amazing. It's so exciting. Yeah, 1074 00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:30,360 Speaker 3: I love it. 1075 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,640 Speaker 1: Still so meaningful for you to, like, I don't know, 1076 00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:36,800 Speaker 1: like lay that groundwork down or just set that tone 1077 00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 1: in case there is someone who is like I don't 1078 00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,000 Speaker 1: really know how to address the situation. 1079 00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:44,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, just in case. It's always scary to know, like 1080 00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 3: who can you go to? What's okay if something is wrong? 1081 00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 3: So yeah, none of them have needed me, but I'm 1082 00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:53,040 Speaker 3: still here if they do. 1083 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:55,960 Speaker 2: They're all really cool, like whenever we're around them because 1084 00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:59,040 Speaker 2: I feel like we pop up around them a lot, 1085 00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:03,200 Speaker 2: like you know, a lot. Yeah, we see the two 1086 00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,600 Speaker 2: of them a lot, just for whatever reason that events 1087 00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 2: and stuff. We actually like raged with them that night 1088 00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:09,560 Speaker 2: at the Critics Choice Awards, and I'm telling you we 1089 00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:12,080 Speaker 2: were we were we were dancing in this area where 1090 00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:16,360 Speaker 2: also Jane Campion was dancing and she was tearing she 1091 00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,440 Speaker 2: was getting down, and I remember we were just like, wow, 1092 00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:21,759 Speaker 2: like that's where I live. Was like, that's really Jane 1093 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,520 Speaker 2: Campion tearing it up. I was like, I mean, she's 1094 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:28,680 Speaker 2: in a huge moment. But yeah, we always see them, 1095 00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,399 Speaker 2: and they they do like have like all of them 1096 00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:33,960 Speaker 2: have this like just cool factor. And I'm like, you 1097 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:39,640 Speaker 2: guys are the stars of Yellow Jackets, aren't you. 1098 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:41,840 Speaker 3: Col They are all so cool, like so cool. 1099 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:42,439 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1100 00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:45,680 Speaker 3: I really do feel like the mom I feel like, 1101 00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 3: I'm like, is everything okay? 1102 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:47,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1103 00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:51,080 Speaker 2: Do you enjoy like gnarly shows like this, because you're 1104 00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,520 Speaker 2: appearing in several of them currently at the moment, I mean, 1105 00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:56,359 Speaker 2: you got like fucked up in the Last of Us 1106 00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 2: Alert and then Yellow Jackets is such a gnarly show. 1107 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,520 Speaker 2: Do you like, are you someone that consumes stuff? Like that, 1108 00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:05,440 Speaker 2: and are you able to sign up for products like 1109 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:07,360 Speaker 2: that and be like, oh, yeah, today we're killing somebody. 1110 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:12,520 Speaker 3: I guess so. I mean, I watch all kinds of stuff, 1111 00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:15,319 Speaker 3: don't I don't get scared easily. I don't have any 1112 00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:18,799 Speaker 3: adrenal function, so I don't get I don't like I 1113 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:23,319 Speaker 3: literally I like, yeah, I should be on atention or 1114 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 3: to stopterone or something like that. Jason tries to scare 1115 00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:32,480 Speaker 3: me all the time, and he can't hid. I just go, oh, 1116 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,120 Speaker 3: it's really weird. Like he'll hide in a dark corner 1117 00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:37,080 Speaker 3: and then come like bursting out. 1118 00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:40,000 Speaker 2: Oh. He is one of those, isn't he. 1119 00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:45,760 Speaker 3: He is a jugster. He's a frustrated prankster. I can't 1120 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:49,000 Speaker 3: speak prank so I don't have a reaction if so, 1121 00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:50,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't have a thing where I'm 1122 00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:53,759 Speaker 3: like scared about particular things. On Candy, it was like 1123 00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:57,520 Speaker 3: really sad just knowing that somebody had actually gone through that, yeah, 1124 00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 3: and just thinking about just emotion a little baby being 1125 00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:05,160 Speaker 3: in the house while it happened, and just one awful 1126 00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,760 Speaker 3: thing for her family, and just you know, I felt 1127 00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,759 Speaker 3: like a responsibility on that one to try to get 1128 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,000 Speaker 3: it as right as I could with the amount of 1129 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:16,200 Speaker 3: information I had, But the scary stuff is just kind 1130 00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:16,680 Speaker 3: of fun. 1131 00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I always feel like I could act 1132 00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:22,520 Speaker 2: in one but couldn't watch one. I always feel like 1133 00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,279 Speaker 2: like I could probably do that because like you see that, 1134 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,520 Speaker 2: you see like the nuts and bolts of it all, 1135 00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:31,280 Speaker 2: but like watching it, I literally I physically have pain 1136 00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:33,200 Speaker 2: because like. 1137 00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,520 Speaker 3: On the Last of Us there's this guy, like there's 1138 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,719 Speaker 3: this big, huge floature creature who comes out and he's 1139 00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:40,840 Speaker 3: so huge and scary, and then i'd see him in 1140 00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:44,480 Speaker 3: between takes with his Fiji water like someone's beating him 1141 00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,799 Speaker 3: as little, you know, because it's so hot in there, 1142 00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:48,480 Speaker 3: and he was like almost passing out. 1143 00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:49,600 Speaker 1: Oh oh, and. 1144 00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:51,120 Speaker 3: So he had to like have his little SIPs of 1145 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:54,680 Speaker 3: water and it was really sweet and endearing. And then 1146 00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:56,480 Speaker 3: you can't be scared after you see that. 1147 00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,880 Speaker 1: No, No, especially if if Jason's one of the mushroom. 1148 00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,959 Speaker 1: If Jason's a clicker, then you're like, oh, that's that's 1149 00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:03,480 Speaker 1: my guy. 1150 00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:07,080 Speaker 2: He's basically a clicker. My husband's basically a clicker. It's 1151 00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:10,280 Speaker 2: actually a really colchre number one hundred. My husband's basically. 1152 00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,960 Speaker 1: My husband's basically a clicker. I want to talk video 1153 00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:14,959 Speaker 1: games next time I see you, guys, if I would 1154 00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:16,640 Speaker 1: love to talk video games with Jason because I know 1155 00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:17,160 Speaker 1: he plays. 1156 00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:19,680 Speaker 3: He's a little Sam all right, I'll switch off and 1157 00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:25,759 Speaker 3: look up into the ceiling. No, no, no, That's what 1158 00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:30,359 Speaker 3: I do when he talks about video games. I'm like, yeah, 1159 00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,000 Speaker 3: he is a he loves video games. 1160 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:32,680 Speaker 2: Did he plays? 1161 00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:35,640 Speaker 3: Yes, he did. It's his favorite video game ever. 1162 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:36,279 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 1163 00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:38,160 Speaker 3: He was like, you have to do it. When they 1164 00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:39,960 Speaker 3: asked me to do it, he was like, you have 1165 00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:41,640 Speaker 3: to no questions asked. 1166 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:45,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, listen. It makes sense because Matt, I remember the 1167 00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:47,760 Speaker 1: first time I heard of The Last of Us, which 1168 00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 1: was you and I were coming back from a story 1169 00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:52,920 Speaker 1: Pirates show and Eric Gerson was in the car. There 1170 00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,680 Speaker 1: was there's this trade show called E three every summer 1171 00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:59,160 Speaker 1: and it's like twenty twelve, twenty thirteen or something and 1172 00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,239 Speaker 1: Eric are from Airic. Person turns to me, he goes, 1173 00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,520 Speaker 1: they just announced this game at E three. It's being 1174 00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:07,759 Speaker 1: called the Citizen Kane of video games in terms of 1175 00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,280 Speaker 1: like the narrative, and they're like, it's called The Last 1176 00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:13,600 Speaker 1: of Us. They did motion capture on it. It's gonna 1177 00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,040 Speaker 1: be amazing and it was like really, and then I 1178 00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,880 Speaker 1: didn't play it until much later. But like the journey 1179 00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:20,680 Speaker 1: for the Last, like the Last of Us has been 1180 00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:24,160 Speaker 1: like on people's minds for like over a decade at 1181 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:26,279 Speaker 1: this point, and like, I'm sure you know all this 1182 00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:28,480 Speaker 1: at this point, but like I probably think that it 1183 00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:31,320 Speaker 1: was probably you weren't hampered by like all of the 1184 00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:34,840 Speaker 1: fan the fan wait, the fan fare around it, Like 1185 00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:36,640 Speaker 1: you were just able to go into this role, this 1186 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,759 Speaker 1: new role for the show and be like let me 1187 00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,840 Speaker 1: just you know, let me just like start from scratch 1188 00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:43,680 Speaker 1: and I don't have to like be beholden too like 1189 00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:47,160 Speaker 1: a prior performance necessarily. Maybe Yeah, I. 1190 00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,279 Speaker 3: Was very grateful for that. I was like, thank god, 1191 00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:52,160 Speaker 3: it's a new character. And also Craig wrote it for me, 1192 00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:55,160 Speaker 3: the creator of the show. He said I've written this 1193 00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:58,560 Speaker 3: path for you, which was so lovely. So then I 1194 00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 3: also felt like he knew what he was going to get. 1195 00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:04,760 Speaker 3: You know, sometimes it's scary to the audition for things, 1196 00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:09,120 Speaker 3: but also I hate auditioning, so it's worse to have 1197 00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:13,040 Speaker 3: to audition. Yeah, it's not the best. I'm very bad 1198 00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:13,319 Speaker 3: at it. 1199 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:17,640 Speaker 2: Do you feel that you feel not auditioning I'm really bad. 1200 00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:19,720 Speaker 2: What do you think is it do you do you 1201 00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:23,880 Speaker 2: struggle like with the lines in the audition or do 1202 00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 2: you feel like, like what is it with with auditioning? 1203 00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:30,400 Speaker 3: For you, it's just the pressure put on the one performance, 1204 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,560 Speaker 3: Like you can't be close with it. You can't see 1205 00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:36,840 Speaker 3: what happens, Like you have to make a decision and 1206 00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:40,720 Speaker 3: commit to something and give like a thing and guess 1207 00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:43,240 Speaker 3: what they want. And it's like you can't just like 1208 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:45,400 Speaker 3: do your first take and have it be the thing 1209 00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:47,880 Speaker 3: that comes out right and be like okay, well, like 1210 00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:49,560 Speaker 3: work with that a little bit. 1211 00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:51,640 Speaker 2: But I would imagine that you probably only have to 1212 00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:53,960 Speaker 2: audition for like the big stuff, right, Like there's probably 1213 00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,120 Speaker 2: a lot. You probably do get a ton of offers, 1214 00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,440 Speaker 2: Like when's last time you did like a self tape? 1215 00:57:58,600 --> 00:57:59,600 Speaker 2: You don't do self tapes. 1216 00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:06,120 Speaker 3: I mean it's been a few years. Thankful. Those are misery. 1217 00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:07,680 Speaker 2: They're they're really terrible, thank you. 1218 00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:10,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's rough. 1219 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:14,520 Speaker 2: And the experience of just putting yourself on tape not 1220 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,320 Speaker 2: knowing what they're gonna want, without the ability to get 1221 00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:19,720 Speaker 2: notes and anything. It's just a completely different thing. It's 1222 00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:23,360 Speaker 2: weird that our industry has like been okay obviously that 1223 00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 2: we've had because of the pandemic, But like I can't 1224 00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:29,040 Speaker 2: even stress enough how like much more fun it is 1225 00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:34,560 Speaker 2: and how much more complete and you know secure you 1226 00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:37,360 Speaker 2: can feel when you at least like have the opportunity 1227 00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:39,720 Speaker 2: to connect with like someone involved in the movie or 1228 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,040 Speaker 2: cast indrector and take a note and actually I feel 1229 00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,320 Speaker 2: like you acted that day and didn't just like guess 1230 00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:47,200 Speaker 2: at how you wanted to appear on your little phone. 1231 00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:49,680 Speaker 3: The guessing is so hard. And then also when you 1232 00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:52,479 Speaker 3: walk into an audition, it's over, like, yeah, you don't 1233 00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:55,960 Speaker 3: have anything to do. You don't have to then you know, 1234 00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:58,000 Speaker 3: try to figure out how to load it and send 1235 00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:00,400 Speaker 3: it and choose, go through all your takes and choose 1236 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:03,400 Speaker 3: the take. Yeah, I will say my ex husband was 1237 00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:07,040 Speaker 3: it is very very good at doing self tapes, Like, yeah, 1238 00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,520 Speaker 3: he would he's a wonderful actor. He would never have 1239 00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,960 Speaker 3: read the script. He would be like brutial with the notes. 1240 00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 3: It really tough, like so intense. We would always get 1241 00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:21,120 Speaker 3: in a fight, but he was always right, like he 1242 00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,560 Speaker 3: just had an instinct about it. And then we would 1243 00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:28,360 Speaker 3: I got so many jobs from self tapes that Jimmy made. Wow, yeah, 1244 00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:31,960 Speaker 3: I got the informant I got when when I got 1245 00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,640 Speaker 3: like all these great movies from and when we broke out, 1246 00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 3: my agent was like, do you think he could think? 1247 00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:42,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. A couple of times I did ask him, 1248 00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:44,840 Speaker 3: I said, would you mind him coming to do the 1249 00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:48,760 Speaker 3: self tape? He was very gracious about it. But he's 1250 00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:51,000 Speaker 3: very like I don't know, he was, he's kind of 1251 00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,160 Speaker 3: a master. He does it for everybody as well, like 1252 00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:55,920 Speaker 3: a lot of our friends oople have him. Yeah, he 1253 00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,400 Speaker 3: like gets people jobs from his self tapes. 1254 00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:02,640 Speaker 1: Skill the informant because then Matt wouldn't be able to 1255 01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:03,760 Speaker 1: tell you that that advice. 1256 01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, there you go exactly. Yeah. 1257 01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,360 Speaker 2: I always the finding the person that you're like that 1258 01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:13,600 Speaker 2: you feel comfortable enough to ask to like put you 1259 01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:14,360 Speaker 2: on a self tape. 1260 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:18,480 Speaker 1: It's so it might as well be a marriage proposal. Yeah, yeah, 1261 01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:21,400 Speaker 1: it's it's so much. It's huge. 1262 01:00:21,480 --> 01:00:24,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. And also doing it and a couple is frustrating too, 1263 01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:26,959 Speaker 2: because like I remember when my ex Jared and would 1264 01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:29,640 Speaker 2: would put me on tape, especially during during the pandemic 1265 01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:32,400 Speaker 2: or like right before. Like it's like that thing of 1266 01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,160 Speaker 2: when you you go back and watch the clips of 1267 01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,920 Speaker 2: what you've done on your phone. You literally see the 1268 01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,440 Speaker 2: worst version of yourself because there you are, like stressed 1269 01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:42,880 Speaker 2: out about to do a self tape, and he would 1270 01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:44,920 Speaker 2: just say something like, okay, so what do you think 1271 01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:46,200 Speaker 2: about and I would just be like, no, we have 1272 01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:47,360 Speaker 2: to just do it. We have to just do it. 1273 01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:51,640 Speaker 2: And just like you're here, you're watching yourself be horrible 1274 01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:54,240 Speaker 2: to deal with. And then you're like, oh no, now 1275 01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:56,640 Speaker 2: I have just like all this archived footage of me 1276 01:00:56,800 --> 01:01:02,320 Speaker 2: like at my worst, like stressed, trying to act nasty 1277 01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:03,120 Speaker 2: to my boyfriend. 1278 01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:06,480 Speaker 3: Oh it's awful, It's terrible. 1279 01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:11,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, rible, terrible. So what are you watching now? 1280 01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:13,920 Speaker 2: What's what's inspiring you nowadays? 1281 01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:15,600 Speaker 3: I'm watching poker Face. 1282 01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:18,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're a good watcher. You're always you're always posting 1283 01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:19,800 Speaker 2: about what you're what you're watching. 1284 01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:24,600 Speaker 3: I try to be supportive. It's so good. Natasha's so funny. 1285 01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:25,840 Speaker 3: She's so funny. 1286 01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:29,000 Speaker 2: Sheecock is nailing it. Lately. I just watched see the 1287 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:33,160 Speaker 2: first two episodes of Missus Davis with our favorite in 1288 01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:34,440 Speaker 2: the world, Betty Gilpin. 1289 01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,760 Speaker 3: I worship her, absolutely worship her. 1290 01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:38,920 Speaker 2: Isn't she amazing? 1291 01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:41,120 Speaker 3: She is amazing. 1292 01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:43,800 Speaker 2: You're gonna love this show. It's it's like a whack 1293 01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:47,240 Speaker 2: of show. It's it's Damon Lindelof. But yes, I think 1294 01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:50,080 Speaker 2: it's the funniest he's ever been. Like it's really sort 1295 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:53,560 Speaker 2: of like a surreal like comedy in a way. It's 1296 01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,320 Speaker 2: it's it's I can't even really explain what it's about. 1297 01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,000 Speaker 2: I would just like emphasize that everyone should really give 1298 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:00,440 Speaker 2: this one a shot. I think this going to be 1299 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:04,000 Speaker 2: four episodes out like on four twenty, which is a 1300 01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:07,440 Speaker 2: great day to start watching this show. And it's it's 1301 01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:09,760 Speaker 2: really big for the stoner community. But Betty is one 1302 01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:13,320 Speaker 2: of those actors that just like everything she does feels 1303 01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:17,240 Speaker 2: brand new. It's it's sort of sort of maybe it's 1304 01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:21,520 Speaker 2: even similar to what you're saying of like you know, instinctually, 1305 01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:25,320 Speaker 2: like it feels like you can't fuck with whatever she's 1306 01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:27,960 Speaker 2: doing because it's as it always feels very natural to 1307 01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:32,560 Speaker 2: her and very singular to her, and you know, it's 1308 01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:35,880 Speaker 2: it's giving character actor as lead actress in that way 1309 01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:37,560 Speaker 2: that you love to see, you know. 1310 01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:40,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it and it is like that because I 1311 01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:41,920 Speaker 3: worked with mac Marin and I was like, can you 1312 01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:45,200 Speaker 3: tell me everything about what she was Bitty Gilben, because 1313 01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:47,520 Speaker 3: I worship her. I want to know, and he told 1314 01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:50,480 Speaker 3: me like, oh my god, it's incredible. You never know 1315 01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:53,480 Speaker 3: what she's going to do. Like the instincts are on fire, 1316 01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:57,080 Speaker 3: and she's just like this thing that's like the connection. 1317 01:02:57,400 --> 01:02:59,600 Speaker 3: Like he just was like, it's one of the greatest 1318 01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:01,680 Speaker 3: things you could ever experience. 1319 01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:04,240 Speaker 1: Have you read her book? 1320 01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:05,479 Speaker 3: Yes? 1321 01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:05,760 Speaker 2: I have. 1322 01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:11,760 Speaker 3: It's so I mean, I just like, she's absolutely incredible. 1323 01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:13,000 Speaker 3: I just love her. 1324 01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:16,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you get along grade. 1325 01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:17,240 Speaker 2: Do you guys know each other. 1326 01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:20,960 Speaker 3: I've met her a couple of times. I actually years ago, 1327 01:03:21,120 --> 01:03:24,360 Speaker 3: I saw her in like an off, off off Broadway play. 1328 01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:26,320 Speaker 3: I found out it was a very early thing that 1329 01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:29,560 Speaker 3: she did, and I just it was as though there 1330 01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,760 Speaker 3: was like a huge spotlight on her and everyone else 1331 01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,560 Speaker 3: on stage just kind of like blurred away. Sorry to 1332 01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:38,480 Speaker 3: all those people. I'm sure they're great, but I just 1333 01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:43,640 Speaker 3: was like, who is that? Like she is magnificent. And 1334 01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:47,160 Speaker 3: I've kind of followed her career since then. I'll be like, 1335 01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:48,560 Speaker 3: oh my god, it's the girl from the play. It's 1336 01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:50,040 Speaker 3: the girl from the play. And then I did get 1337 01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:52,040 Speaker 3: to meet her a few years ago, and I just 1338 01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,880 Speaker 3: was like, I'm weirdly obsessed with you. 1339 01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:57,960 Speaker 2: We need that project, we need we need you guys 1340 01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:04,560 Speaker 2: to get really Oh my god, now I'm dropping everything 1341 01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:05,400 Speaker 2: to write the vehicle. 1342 01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:07,680 Speaker 1: I know, I know we'll get to typing. 1343 01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,280 Speaker 2: Man, Oh my god, wait me And that's me and 1344 01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:12,480 Speaker 2: Bowen's first feature that we were at col writes together. 1345 01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:16,960 Speaker 2: But it's not even for us. Well, we can play 1346 01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:19,960 Speaker 2: tiny part. We'll poke our head out of a window 1347 01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:26,160 Speaker 2: and go like, oh no, perfect, that'll be our That'll 1348 01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:37,080 Speaker 2: be our contribution. Okay, Bowen, Yane, what do you think 1349 01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:38,440 Speaker 2: should we move to I don't think so, honey. 1350 01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:41,200 Speaker 1: I think so. I think this is a great time 1351 01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:41,760 Speaker 1: to do that. 1352 01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:44,800 Speaker 2: Okay. So Melanie Lensky is joining us today on this 1353 01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:47,120 Speaker 2: episode of Last Cool Treestus, and it has come to 1354 01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:49,040 Speaker 2: the point in the episode where we do I don't 1355 01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:51,439 Speaker 2: think so, honey, which is our sifty second segment where 1356 01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:55,520 Speaker 2: you know, we really take the time to bring something 1357 01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:57,880 Speaker 2: down that sits up on a high perch and we 1358 01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:00,640 Speaker 2: pull it, pull it, pull it down. And I don't 1359 01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:02,440 Speaker 2: think so, honey. I do have a topic. I did 1360 01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:04,000 Speaker 2: mention it at the beginning, but I feel like I 1361 01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:05,960 Speaker 2: have to keep going on it because it really was. 1362 01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:09,480 Speaker 1: Wild Okay, all right, this is interesting. This is Matt Rogers' 1363 01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:11,240 Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey. His time starts now. 1364 01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:15,080 Speaker 2: I don't think so, honey. Frank Ocean and Coachella. Here's 1365 01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:19,040 Speaker 2: the thing. It's just that if you're allowed to be eccentric, okay, 1366 01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:21,560 Speaker 2: you're allowed to be hashtag going through it. But the 1367 01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:25,760 Speaker 2: fact is there was thousands and thousands of fans that 1368 01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,600 Speaker 2: came there to see you, and yes, I'm not even 1369 01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:30,960 Speaker 2: like maybe they had a good experience with it. I'm 1370 01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:32,960 Speaker 2: talking to some people that are like, no, it was 1371 01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:35,200 Speaker 2: actually beautiful. It is actually what I wanted from Frank. 1372 01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:37,600 Speaker 2: Dad gave us what we wanted. But a lot of 1373 01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:40,400 Speaker 2: people were kind of just like, here's the thing. If 1374 01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:43,360 Speaker 2: you wanted to see Frank and you wanted a good spot, 1375 01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:45,640 Speaker 2: you actually kind of had to post up very early 1376 01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:48,920 Speaker 2: and sit all the way through. Buyork now, Byork is 1377 01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:51,200 Speaker 2: someone that we love and are obsessed with, but Buorck 1378 01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:53,880 Speaker 2: was sort of doing the more experimental moment with orchestra, 1379 01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:57,760 Speaker 2: and I'm guessing that the Frank people may Buyork people. 1380 01:05:58,160 --> 01:06:00,000 Speaker 2: So that's kind of the way that Coachella is said up. 1381 01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:02,240 Speaker 2: And I don't think so, honey. That like, it's that 1382 01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:04,360 Speaker 2: difficult to get a spot. But look, when you're as 1383 01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,200 Speaker 2: popular as Frank Oshan, it's gonna be that difficult to 1384 01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:08,840 Speaker 2: get And when you're as popular as Frank Oshan, as 1385 01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:11,600 Speaker 2: Frank Ocean, you have to know that we have to 1386 01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:13,959 Speaker 2: honor the people in the crowd. I don't think so, honey. Also, 1387 01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:15,280 Speaker 2: the ice skating rink. 1388 01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:17,000 Speaker 1: And that's one minute. I didn't know about this ice 1389 01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:19,560 Speaker 1: skating rink until that's. Wow. 1390 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:23,720 Speaker 2: He had an ice skating rink built and they were 1391 01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:26,120 Speaker 2: had to melt it down before he went on stage. Well, 1392 01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:29,560 Speaker 2: there were professional ice skaters that had, I guess, practiced 1393 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:31,800 Speaker 2: for weeks and weeks to be a part of this performance, 1394 01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,160 Speaker 2: and then they came out with this excuse afterwards. Well 1395 01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:36,080 Speaker 2: they were like, well, Frank hurt his ankle and so 1396 01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:39,320 Speaker 2: couldn't do the the ice skating of it all. And 1397 01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:41,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, he didn't look like he hurt his ankle. 1398 01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:43,960 Speaker 2: I mean, he walked out on stage, he did the thing. 1399 01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,800 Speaker 2: I mean, look, I can't speculate on what actually happened, 1400 01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:50,120 Speaker 2: but I can say that the festival ended on a 1401 01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:54,360 Speaker 2: very dour, sour vibe because of all of it. It 1402 01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:56,840 Speaker 2: was just it was frustrating. And also I'll say this, 1403 01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:58,880 Speaker 2: and this will be the last thing I say about Coachella. 1404 01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:04,640 Speaker 2: So Blink Wind was added to the set list very late, 1405 01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:08,160 Speaker 2: and I think that, on face value, adding Blank twent 1406 01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:10,920 Speaker 2: eighty two into the mix is gonna feel very exciting. 1407 01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:14,040 Speaker 2: And then you sort of get there and you see 1408 01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:17,000 Speaker 2: Blank Twentity two performing, and you see the crowd at 1409 01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:19,480 Speaker 2: Blank twent eity two, and I can only describe it 1410 01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:22,680 Speaker 2: as kind of scary and haunted because it's a lot 1411 01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:27,120 Speaker 2: of straight guy's screaming. And I'll say this about the 1412 01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:30,240 Speaker 2: spoken word interludes in between the Blank Twentity two songs. 1413 01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:32,360 Speaker 2: It was a lot of yeah, if we did this now, 1414 01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:35,960 Speaker 2: we get canceled for this one, or like like still 1415 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:40,560 Speaker 2: kind of like humor about like eating each other's moms out, 1416 01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:42,160 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like that kind of like 1417 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,200 Speaker 2: boy humor from the nineties, And you watch it as 1418 01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:48,720 Speaker 2: a sort of queer adult and you're saying, hmm, if 1419 01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:51,919 Speaker 2: you're someone who like relentlessly needs to be like, yeah, 1420 01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:54,760 Speaker 2: we can't do this anymore. I remember the old days. 1421 01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,360 Speaker 2: It's like what you're explicitly kind of saying is that 1422 01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:59,840 Speaker 2: you're not cool. With the way things are now, or 1423 01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:03,240 Speaker 2: that you like really wish for a time where things 1424 01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:07,120 Speaker 2: were quote unquote different or quote unquote cooler. And I'm like, okay, so, 1425 01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:10,440 Speaker 2: like the intrinsic like thing that you're saying here is 1426 01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:13,640 Speaker 2: that you kind of like hate that, like diversity is 1427 01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,680 Speaker 2: a thing. It just felt a little intrinsically homophobic to me. 1428 01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:19,120 Speaker 2: And I can't explain it because they didn't say any 1429 01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:22,280 Speaker 2: homophobic things, but the energy was very giving. I'm not 1430 01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:23,040 Speaker 2: going over. 1431 01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:27,240 Speaker 1: There, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, well that's 1432 01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:27,759 Speaker 1: too bad. 1433 01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:30,559 Speaker 2: It's sort of like whenever an eminem song plays and 1434 01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:32,400 Speaker 2: you're like, oh yeah, and then you kind of are 1435 01:08:32,439 --> 01:08:33,120 Speaker 2: like no. 1436 01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:35,680 Speaker 1: I do think Blink was able to sort of like 1437 01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:39,599 Speaker 1: appeal to a wider sector of people. And I do 1438 01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:41,000 Speaker 1: feel like, maybe. 1439 01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:44,400 Speaker 2: Is that because there wasn't much more than that, you 1440 01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:46,360 Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like the monoculture kind of got 1441 01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:46,880 Speaker 2: us there. 1442 01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:49,559 Speaker 1: But I feel like they influenced so much. I don't know, 1443 01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:53,040 Speaker 1: Blink is interesting and maybe maybe we'll maybe we'll dissect 1444 01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:55,080 Speaker 1: it dissected a little bit more like I'm not here 1445 01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:55,840 Speaker 1: to yuck yums. 1446 01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:57,400 Speaker 2: And that was another thing I really didn't think so 1447 01:08:57,439 --> 01:08:59,280 Speaker 2: honey about the festival was like if you didn't like 1448 01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:02,200 Speaker 2: Black Pink, like, stop saying it's so loudly, like so 1449 01:09:02,240 --> 01:09:05,040 Speaker 2: many people are here to see Black Pink. I get it, 1450 01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:06,280 Speaker 2: Like every song is kind of. 1451 01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:07,840 Speaker 1: That's not what you're doing. That's not what you're doing. 1452 01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:09,880 Speaker 2: No, And I'm not looking out, I'm just saying, like 1453 01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:12,800 Speaker 2: what it's so funny and interesting to And this is 1454 01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:14,599 Speaker 2: like the monoculture of it all. It's like we all 1455 01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:17,040 Speaker 2: remember Blank, Wendy too, we all know all the words, 1456 01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:18,280 Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden. 1457 01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:20,959 Speaker 3: I don't remember. I don't think I could name the two. 1458 01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:24,400 Speaker 2: What's what's That's okay, that's okay, What's. 1459 01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:26,960 Speaker 1: All the small things? 1460 01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:31,120 Speaker 2: You know, all those guys, Yeah, all the small things. 1461 01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:34,320 Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, you remember it, and you're like, oh 1462 01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:37,360 Speaker 2: my god, of course this it's comfort food. And then 1463 01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:40,720 Speaker 2: you're like, oh wow. If I give given the option nowadays, 1464 01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:41,960 Speaker 2: this would not be my thing. 1465 01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 1: I understand. Yes, I think I think some music is 1466 01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:48,040 Speaker 1: like crystallized in amber. And I feel like, and look, 1467 01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:49,720 Speaker 1: Blank's come out with a lot of a lot of 1468 01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:53,120 Speaker 1: new stuff. That's great, but I feel like the connective 1469 01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:55,519 Speaker 1: thing for our generation to Blank is like something that 1470 01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:58,240 Speaker 1: was in the past. And I feel like their commentary 1471 01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:02,160 Speaker 1: on the past is we it was a different time 1472 01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:04,479 Speaker 1: back then. I think. I don't know. I wasn't there. 1473 01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:06,720 Speaker 1: I wasn't there for this this weekend. But that's the 1474 01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:09,519 Speaker 1: beauty of Coachella is that there is this nice little 1475 01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:12,439 Speaker 1: panoply of of of musical acts there. 1476 01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:15,479 Speaker 2: And that's the thing I'm not defending is that was 1477 01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:17,639 Speaker 2: like it was all ages. It was all different types 1478 01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:19,640 Speaker 2: of people, all different genres of music. And that I 1479 01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:22,880 Speaker 2: think is a good and positive thing. Is it's like 1480 01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:25,200 Speaker 2: you could like float over here and see Christina and 1481 01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:27,200 Speaker 2: the Queens, and you could float over here and see 1482 01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:29,479 Speaker 2: you know this and that and whatever. It's just like 1483 01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:32,040 Speaker 2: there was a lot of different communities there that added 1484 01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:34,639 Speaker 2: up to one big community. It was just the Blink 1485 01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:37,479 Speaker 2: twent eighty two was giving a little Halloween horror nights 1486 01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:41,719 Speaker 2: for me. It was giving a little you know, jump Scare, 1487 01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:45,839 Speaker 2: straight man, jump scared, No problem, right, win scare Melanie 1488 01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:48,479 Speaker 2: though no, because her adrenale levels are low. 1489 01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:52,640 Speaker 3: No, I have no adrenal function, so I wouldn't be like, ah, 1490 01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:55,280 Speaker 3: I would feel like it's creeping drate inside my. 1491 01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:58,799 Speaker 2: Body and then you would use it in your next project. 1492 01:10:59,040 --> 01:10:59,960 Speaker 3: It does sound scared. 1493 01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:03,240 Speaker 2: It was scary and also like we were. The second 1494 01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:06,000 Speaker 2: we walked into Coachella, this straight guy kind of ambled 1495 01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:08,080 Speaker 2: over a Dustin was like, you guys decided for Blank 1496 01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:11,000 Speaker 2: with any down and I was just like, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, 1497 01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:13,840 Speaker 2: no no no. I was like, oh, this is I'm 1498 01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:16,320 Speaker 2: trying to get to Muna. I was like, I was like, 1499 01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:19,520 Speaker 2: I'm trying to get some Muna girl and You're like yeah. 1500 01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:21,920 Speaker 2: And he started singing the song and I was like, oh, 1501 01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:24,840 Speaker 2: maybe that's actually much better in theory than practice. The 1502 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:27,040 Speaker 2: Blank twenty two show, and then I watched like a 1503 01:11:27,080 --> 01:11:29,719 Speaker 2: live stream later or like the video from the live stream, 1504 01:11:29,760 --> 01:11:32,519 Speaker 2: and like just people moshing in the crowd. 1505 01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:34,559 Speaker 1: I don't want to be around any mashing. 1506 01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:39,479 Speaker 2: I don't think so honey, mosh right right, very very 1507 01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:41,719 Speaker 2: very Witstock ninety nine, Yeah, yeah. 1508 01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:44,559 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm so happy to live in the now. Uh 1509 01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:45,599 Speaker 1: bon Yang. 1510 01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:47,519 Speaker 2: Are you excited about your atom? Think so honey? 1511 01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:50,599 Speaker 1: In Gallanies, Yes, And I'm gonna actually do a last 1512 01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:52,679 Speaker 1: minute pivot because I was gonna do it. I don't 1513 01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:56,240 Speaker 1: think so honey about how I wore a white button 1514 01:11:56,320 --> 01:11:59,639 Speaker 1: down shirt this week and someone called it stealth wealth 1515 01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:01,840 Speaker 1: and I was like, no, this this was from Uni clone. 1516 01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:05,080 Speaker 1: It was thirty dollars whatever. People stealth wealth is like 1517 01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:08,400 Speaker 1: has just been kind of introduced into the cultural conversation 1518 01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:10,760 Speaker 1: and people are people are sort of misusing it. 1519 01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:12,200 Speaker 2: Can you define stealth wealth. 1520 01:12:12,280 --> 01:12:16,720 Speaker 1: It's like logoless luxury clothing, which has you know, kind 1521 01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:19,559 Speaker 1: of been popularized by succession. Let's say like these rich 1522 01:12:19,560 --> 01:12:23,479 Speaker 1: people wear clothing that like the Row. It's the Row, 1523 01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:26,559 Speaker 1: it's Max Maara, and it's like, you know, people said 1524 01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:30,519 Speaker 1: Gwyneth was wearing stealth wealth clothes at the during an 1525 01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:35,479 Speaker 1: in court. So anyway, I wore white buttoned down shirt 1526 01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:37,320 Speaker 1: and some of someone's like, that's the little stealth wealthy. 1527 01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:38,479 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, this is this is. 1528 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:41,040 Speaker 2: Feels like someone someone learned to term and wanted to 1529 01:12:41,120 --> 01:12:43,200 Speaker 2: use it. That's what it feels like to me. 1530 01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:45,559 Speaker 1: But I have to I have something very relevant actually, 1531 01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:47,519 Speaker 1: and and I didn't and I totally forgot about this, 1532 01:12:47,560 --> 01:12:49,599 Speaker 1: but I would love to talk about it relevant. 1533 01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:52,479 Speaker 2: King Bow and Yang with his I don't think so, honey, 1534 01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:55,120 Speaker 2: on this week's episode, His time starts now. 1535 01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:58,280 Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey, Oh the wicked stills that 1536 01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:02,760 Speaker 1: are being shared are too dark in moody everybody. I 1537 01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:05,960 Speaker 1: promise you there will be light. The gaffers on this 1538 01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:08,400 Speaker 1: film are top notch. You will be able to see 1539 01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:11,000 Speaker 1: things when this movie comes out. Just you wait another 1540 01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:14,479 Speaker 1: eighteen months or so Thanksgiving twenty twenty four. You've got 1541 01:13:14,520 --> 01:13:16,960 Speaker 1: a long way to go. We don't. It's gonna be 1542 01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:20,000 Speaker 1: a marathon, not a sprint. So just like you know, 1543 01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:22,679 Speaker 1: look at the picture, go that's nice, and move along. 1544 01:13:22,720 --> 01:13:24,880 Speaker 1: You don't have to pick it apart and say thirty seconds, 1545 01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:27,840 Speaker 1: oh god, this movie, this movie looks this, that or 1546 01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:31,160 Speaker 1: the other. And guess what. We're shooting the exteriors, So 1547 01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:33,080 Speaker 1: there are gonna be all these drones. First of all, 1548 01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:36,120 Speaker 1: I don't think somebody drones on film sets. Get those 1549 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:39,840 Speaker 1: drones away from these exteriors. We don't get these drones 1550 01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:42,479 Speaker 1: taking photos of There's nothing anyone can do about these 1551 01:13:42,560 --> 01:13:46,400 Speaker 1: drones being flown into these exteriors, and it's kind of 1552 01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:49,920 Speaker 1: stressful and it feels just so invasive. I don't get 1553 01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:52,560 Speaker 1: those drones out of there. Stop taking the pictures of 1554 01:13:52,560 --> 01:13:54,679 Speaker 1: the Glinda dress and Munchkin Land. We don't need to 1555 01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:55,639 Speaker 1: show that just yet. 1556 01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:57,840 Speaker 2: And that's one minute. So you're confirming that was a 1557 01:13:57,880 --> 01:13:58,439 Speaker 2: real picture. 1558 01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:02,400 Speaker 1: I am just confirming that there are drones that are 1559 01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:04,840 Speaker 1: taking photos of the set. Don't get me in trouble, Matt. 1560 01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:05,559 Speaker 1: That is not well. 1561 01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:07,920 Speaker 2: I can't possibly get you in trouble for some of the. 1562 01:14:08,360 --> 01:14:11,000 Speaker 1: Say it you're you're saying, you're saying that there's a 1563 01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:13,120 Speaker 1: possibility it could be AI generated. 1564 01:14:13,280 --> 01:14:15,760 Speaker 2: No get out, I think that. Well, I'll say this, 1565 01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:17,680 Speaker 2: I've seen a lot of good deep fakes. 1566 01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:21,519 Speaker 1: No, that's not what's going on. You can clearly see 1567 01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:25,320 Speaker 1: that that's Ariana Grande in a pink dress. No problem, 1568 01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:29,519 Speaker 1: would be another blond woman. No, no, no, no, we're 1569 01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:30,679 Speaker 1: not going to tell you that photo. 1570 01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:31,920 Speaker 2: You're confirming. 1571 01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:34,240 Speaker 1: All I'm saying is if a drone takes a photo 1572 01:14:34,280 --> 01:14:37,240 Speaker 1: of me this summer, I'm I'm bringing a gun to 1573 01:14:37,320 --> 01:14:41,000 Speaker 1: set and shooting it down. Okay, trust trust. 1574 01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:44,080 Speaker 2: Well that's another thing I'll let you just say on 1575 01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:46,880 Speaker 2: the podcast so you can be responsible. I'm saying we'll 1576 01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:52,120 Speaker 2: bring gun to set. Well, I will say that I'm 1577 01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:54,760 Speaker 2: of mixed minds about this because one, I don't think 1578 01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:57,680 Speaker 2: we need the pictures this early. I just think, like, 1579 01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:02,200 Speaker 2: let's let's like, I just think we should wait, like 1580 01:15:02,200 --> 01:15:04,680 Speaker 2: like we don't. It's the movie's not coming out for 1581 01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:06,519 Speaker 2: eighteen months, like we can wait. 1582 01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:08,880 Speaker 1: Well, same goes for these Gaga photos and Joker Fu 1583 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:10,920 Speaker 1: lead did. It's like, this movie's not coming out for 1584 01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:15,679 Speaker 1: another sixteen months, and we're all like, you know, so 1585 01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:19,280 Speaker 1: so grateful, mother, mother, mother, but like you now, just 1586 01:15:19,400 --> 01:15:22,160 Speaker 1: this is just mother, we say anyway. 1587 01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:24,240 Speaker 2: But I was excited about it. I was excited about 1588 01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:27,160 Speaker 2: the photos. I thought that they looked very wickedish. I thought, 1589 01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:29,240 Speaker 2: when I think, we get it in my head, I 1590 01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:32,000 Speaker 2: think exactly those pictures. I think, I think I saw 1591 01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:34,519 Speaker 2: Elpha but and Glinda in the photos, and I get it. 1592 01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:36,679 Speaker 2: I think people are just on edge after the Game 1593 01:15:36,680 --> 01:15:39,160 Speaker 2: of Thrones of it all and the sort of we're 1594 01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:42,720 Speaker 2: in sort of dark you know, cinematography times as of vight. 1595 01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:45,320 Speaker 2: You never know, even the highest budget things sometimes end 1596 01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:48,080 Speaker 2: up being dark. So people are just concerned things will. 1597 01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:50,000 Speaker 1: Be well lit. That's all I'm gonna say. That is 1598 01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:51,320 Speaker 1: my big spoiler from set. 1599 01:15:51,400 --> 01:15:55,200 Speaker 2: That is directly from the set. Everyone stop panicking, stop worrying. 1600 01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:58,600 Speaker 2: Bow and Yang, who who iconically plays Fanny in the 1601 01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:01,200 Speaker 2: film He is can we say. 1602 01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:03,400 Speaker 1: That, we can say that, and we can say that 1603 01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:06,360 Speaker 1: the name is is so silly really plays in the UK, 1604 01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:09,880 Speaker 1: people go, oh my god, Fanny, that's that's your name. 1605 01:16:10,080 --> 01:16:13,960 Speaker 1: Oh you know, They're like, it means pussy in British slang. 1606 01:16:14,120 --> 01:16:15,040 Speaker 1: Does it actually? 1607 01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:23,880 Speaker 3: Yes, Yeah, that's what we called Vagina's growing up. You're Fanny. Yeah, 1608 01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:24,280 Speaker 3: that's so. 1609 01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:27,760 Speaker 2: Funny because in American culture, Fanny is booty. 1610 01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:29,200 Speaker 3: I know, I know. 1611 01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:30,320 Speaker 2: Oh god. 1612 01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:34,679 Speaker 3: When I heard about a fanny pack, I was like, oh. 1613 01:16:37,080 --> 01:16:39,520 Speaker 1: What is that? I'm so confused. 1614 01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:42,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, but someone explained it to me. 1615 01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:48,320 Speaker 2: Wow, okay, well hopefully explaining something about why she doesn't 1616 01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:51,439 Speaker 2: like something in culture. Now is Melanie Lynsky? Are you 1617 01:16:51,439 --> 01:16:52,880 Speaker 2: ready to do? I don't think so, Honey. This is 1618 01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:54,920 Speaker 2: a moment in time for anyone that comes on the pod. 1619 01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:58,400 Speaker 3: No, I know, and I'm not ready. I'm so nervous. 1620 01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:02,639 Speaker 3: I don't recognize it. I think I have something, Okay, 1621 01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:05,160 Speaker 3: the fist. The first thing that popped into my mind 1622 01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:08,920 Speaker 3: was like the general disrespect that people have for renee 1623 01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:10,679 Speaker 3: Zo Wakers two Oscar Wins. 1624 01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:14,400 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well I was. 1625 01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:16,000 Speaker 3: Going to but then I was like, I don't know 1626 01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:18,400 Speaker 3: if I could talk about this for a minute, and like, 1627 01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:20,920 Speaker 3: is that how? I just feel like people don't respect 1628 01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:22,600 Speaker 3: her enough. But but then I. 1629 01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:26,280 Speaker 1: Pivoted a minute. Let me tell you something. 1630 01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:28,280 Speaker 2: First of all, let me just say right here on 1631 01:17:28,320 --> 01:17:31,719 Speaker 2: this podcast, we have always respected Renees Elgger always and Bowen. 1632 01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:34,080 Speaker 2: I know, I had an HBO Max podcast where we 1633 01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:36,280 Speaker 2: talked about movies and Bowen Yang came on a rene 1634 01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:41,200 Speaker 2: Es Elwigger themed episode, and we respect both those Oscar wins, 1635 01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:44,360 Speaker 2: even though I firmly believe the first one should have 1636 01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:47,280 Speaker 2: been for Chicago, and I think I do too. That's 1637 01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:50,080 Speaker 2: you know, that gets me in trouble with the Nicole Gays. 1638 01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:52,200 Speaker 2: But I believe the cole should have won the year 1639 01:17:52,240 --> 01:17:55,320 Speaker 2: before from one rush and so that's the great and 1640 01:17:55,360 --> 01:17:57,360 Speaker 2: I believe we're all kind of a kurf fluffel there, 1641 01:17:57,760 --> 01:18:02,799 Speaker 2: but you know, we respect Renees as having two wins, 1642 01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:03,680 Speaker 2: no matter what they're for. 1643 01:18:04,360 --> 01:18:07,560 Speaker 3: I mean, I think both those performances are iconic. But 1644 01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:10,880 Speaker 3: then I thought about something else that impacts my daily 1645 01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:14,120 Speaker 3: life that I would talk about. Okay, for a minute, 1646 01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:18,000 Speaker 3: It's maybe not as fun, it's more of a PSA. 1647 01:18:17,800 --> 01:18:21,880 Speaker 2: No we need the PSA. Melanie lives. I don't think so, honey. 1648 01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:23,680 Speaker 2: Her time starts now. 1649 01:18:24,280 --> 01:18:27,240 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't think so honey. Gum chewing. I'm sorry, 1650 01:18:27,479 --> 01:18:27,680 Speaker 3: I have. 1651 01:18:29,479 --> 01:18:30,160 Speaker 1: A condition. 1652 01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:33,600 Speaker 3: I cannot stand it. Like people come up to me 1653 01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:36,160 Speaker 3: smacking their gum and trying to have a conversation. I 1654 01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:38,760 Speaker 3: cannot hear a word you're saying. I'm floating up to 1655 01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:42,240 Speaker 3: the ceiling. It creates in the brain of somebody who 1656 01:18:42,240 --> 01:18:46,200 Speaker 3: has misophonia. It goes directly to your fight or flight response, 1657 01:18:46,400 --> 01:18:49,080 Speaker 3: so you want to run away or punch somebody. And 1658 01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:52,040 Speaker 3: I can't punch anybody. So I'm just sitting there waiting 1659 01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:55,120 Speaker 3: for my moment to leave, and in a full panic 1660 01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:58,400 Speaker 3: like it puts me. I saw somebody the other day 1661 01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:00,599 Speaker 3: in event. It was really wonderful see him. I hadn't 1662 01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:02,280 Speaker 3: seen him for a long time. A woman came up 1663 01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:05,200 Speaker 3: and stood next to him smacking away at gum, and 1664 01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:07,360 Speaker 3: I was like, now, I don't know, I don't know 1665 01:19:07,360 --> 01:19:08,960 Speaker 3: what he talked to me about. I don't know she 1666 01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:11,920 Speaker 3: talked to me about. And I should have like a 1667 01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:14,360 Speaker 3: little thing where I'm just like, I'm so sorry I 1668 01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:16,880 Speaker 3: have a condition. But then people also don't really take 1669 01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:19,679 Speaker 3: the condition seriously, and they kind of rolled their eyes 1670 01:19:19,680 --> 01:19:22,120 Speaker 3: and they're like, oh, you're sensitive, you're sensitive, but it's 1671 01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:24,400 Speaker 3: like an actual real thing. And I wish we could 1672 01:19:24,400 --> 01:19:25,160 Speaker 3: band gum. 1673 01:19:25,320 --> 01:19:29,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't think so, honey, gum chewing 1674 01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:32,840 Speaker 2: And that's one minute. Wow, this is now that you've 1675 01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:35,479 Speaker 2: put a face to this affliction. You've put a face 1676 01:19:35,520 --> 01:19:38,960 Speaker 2: into two things today, low adrenal function and misophony. And 1677 01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:42,240 Speaker 2: misophonia and those two things combined must be really hard 1678 01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:45,400 Speaker 2: because you've expressed wanting to punch someone chewing around you, 1679 01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:47,640 Speaker 2: but like you can't work up the adrenaline to do that. 1680 01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:50,400 Speaker 3: I don't have the energy to punch anymore, or the 1681 01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:53,760 Speaker 3: or the anes. 1682 01:19:54,680 --> 01:19:57,599 Speaker 1: The stimulus doesn't the stimulus can't land anywhere. It goes 1683 01:19:57,640 --> 01:19:58,120 Speaker 1: into the door. 1684 01:19:58,520 --> 01:20:00,840 Speaker 3: I just leave, like I just go, like I just 1685 01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:04,120 Speaker 3: have to kind of like take myself elsewhere. But people 1686 01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:07,920 Speaker 3: do it like it's like a personality trait, like we 1687 01:20:08,080 --> 01:20:10,840 Speaker 3: do it with so much like vigor. Yeah, and it's 1688 01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:14,719 Speaker 3: like it makes me it's so crazy. 1689 01:20:15,040 --> 01:20:16,080 Speaker 2: And you don't chew. 1690 01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:18,160 Speaker 3: Gum no, or if I do, I do it with 1691 01:20:18,200 --> 01:20:19,760 Speaker 3: my mouth closed like a. 1692 01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:24,439 Speaker 1: Sure sure, like a human being Melanie and I got 1693 01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:26,360 Speaker 1: a lot of flak one time for an episode. Don't 1694 01:20:26,360 --> 01:20:28,679 Speaker 1: listen to this. It's the second episode of the three 1695 01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:32,280 Speaker 1: Hundred Great Songs, the Great Global Songbook. We had lunch delivered. 1696 01:20:32,400 --> 01:20:34,160 Speaker 1: It was a six hour long recording session. We had 1697 01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:36,840 Speaker 1: lunch delivered in the middle of it, and we unfortunately 1698 01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:40,599 Speaker 1: we ate during the recording and he is chewing and 1699 01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:44,080 Speaker 1: people with mstphonia, who the readers, the katies with mistophonia 1700 01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:46,720 Speaker 1: really really where ups that? And we're we apologize to 1701 01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:50,519 Speaker 1: everyone for for that, for that moment, we really really 1702 01:20:50,520 --> 01:20:51,439 Speaker 1: feel this morning. 1703 01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:54,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, don't actually was about to listen to those episodes. 1704 01:20:54,880 --> 01:20:57,080 Speaker 1: No, no, listen to the first in the last one, 1705 01:20:57,080 --> 01:20:58,080 Speaker 1: but but not the second one. 1706 01:20:58,120 --> 01:20:59,360 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, good? 1707 01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:01,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, or you know what, give it a shot and 1708 01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:04,160 Speaker 2: maybe you'll come around. Maybe maybe you'll be like, you 1709 01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:06,200 Speaker 2: know what, with these guys, I actually can listen to 1710 01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:06,599 Speaker 2: them too. 1711 01:21:06,960 --> 01:21:11,280 Speaker 3: I I can't listen to anybody. There was a time 1712 01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:13,439 Speaker 3: I was with my sister and my husband and he 1713 01:21:13,520 --> 01:21:16,040 Speaker 3: ran into like a group of old friends, and my 1714 01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:19,679 Speaker 3: sister and I both just stood completely still the whole time, 1715 01:21:20,080 --> 01:21:22,440 Speaker 3: and then when the friends had left, we like collapsed 1716 01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:24,920 Speaker 3: we were like in such a panic. We were like 1717 01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:28,320 Speaker 3: giggling and screaming. And my husband was like, what happened? 1718 01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:31,080 Speaker 3: And we were like the gum, the gum, and she 1719 01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:34,920 Speaker 3: said who had gum? My sister was like, I don't 1720 01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:38,840 Speaker 3: even notice that who had gum? Like imagine thinking who 1721 01:21:38,920 --> 01:21:39,760 Speaker 3: had gum? 1722 01:21:40,479 --> 01:21:43,320 Speaker 2: So this is a family it's a family disorder of 1723 01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:44,719 Speaker 2: the misophonia. 1724 01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:49,400 Speaker 3: Genetic genetic thing I've heard. Yeah, my dad has it 1725 01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:50,320 Speaker 3: in my siblings. 1726 01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:53,400 Speaker 2: We now know, we now know, and we will do 1727 01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:55,240 Speaker 2: better in the het ture. I mean sometimes the thing 1728 01:21:55,320 --> 01:21:57,280 Speaker 2: is we do get so hungry that we must eat, 1729 01:21:57,360 --> 01:22:00,200 Speaker 2: but not on mic not anymore. And our mark he's 1730 01:22:00,200 --> 01:22:02,439 Speaker 2: out there with miscephonia. We see you, we hear you, 1731 01:22:02,520 --> 01:22:04,759 Speaker 2: we respect you, we love you, and we will do better. 1732 01:22:05,280 --> 01:22:06,799 Speaker 3: Oh that's so lovely. 1733 01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:09,960 Speaker 1: You have a leader in Melanie Lynsk. You know, thank you. 1734 01:22:10,160 --> 01:22:14,120 Speaker 2: Number one on the misceiphonia call sheet. I'll take it 1735 01:22:15,160 --> 01:22:19,160 Speaker 2: that a leader in this industry. Okay, So Yellow Jackets? 1736 01:22:19,280 --> 01:22:21,240 Speaker 2: Is it out on? Is it out on? Showtime? On 1737 01:22:21,320 --> 01:22:23,600 Speaker 2: Fridays and air Sundays? I love the when they do 1738 01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:27,320 Speaker 2: this iconic things show Time. Love of streaming and linear. 1739 01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:30,120 Speaker 3: You love it. It's confusing for me. I don't know 1740 01:22:30,160 --> 01:22:33,160 Speaker 3: when to tell people. It's just like it's out on 1741 01:22:33,200 --> 01:22:33,960 Speaker 3: the weekend. 1742 01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:36,880 Speaker 2: It's out on the weekend. You can watch it anytime. 1743 01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:40,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it'll definitely be out by Monday. 1744 01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:44,000 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, but I think you're streaming on Friday 1745 01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:46,360 Speaker 3: and then airing on Sunday. 1746 01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:50,280 Speaker 2: Yes, all right, perfect, Well we are I mean, bowen, 1747 01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:52,800 Speaker 2: let me come on. How do we even express what 1748 01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:55,320 Speaker 2: huge fans we are. We just believe you're one of 1749 01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:57,639 Speaker 2: the greatest out there, and we know you absolutely hate compliments, 1750 01:22:57,680 --> 01:22:59,519 Speaker 2: but we're not actually working with you right now, or 1751 01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:05,080 Speaker 2: actually we're actually a business professional. You're just the greatest 1752 01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:07,200 Speaker 2: and we're so we were so excited when you wanted 1753 01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:09,000 Speaker 2: to come on, and this is just the coolest. 1754 01:23:09,600 --> 01:23:12,760 Speaker 3: Well, thank you for indulging my dream of being on 1755 01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:16,479 Speaker 3: Less Culturistas. I love you both so much. You're both 1756 01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:19,680 Speaker 3: so so, so talented in so many different ways. I 1757 01:23:19,880 --> 01:23:23,280 Speaker 3: just like this podcast has brought me so much joy. 1758 01:23:23,439 --> 01:23:25,599 Speaker 3: Both of your acting has brought me so much joy. 1759 01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:28,920 Speaker 3: You as human beings bring me joy like this is 1760 01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:32,040 Speaker 3: really like a wonderful, wonderful experience. Thank you for putting 1761 01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:35,840 Speaker 3: up with my technical issues and my weird sinuses and 1762 01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:40,439 Speaker 3: my low adrenal function which is always Melanie. 1763 01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:44,000 Speaker 1: This was You are like our Steven Soderberg. We had 1764 01:23:44,160 --> 01:23:47,840 Speaker 1: the highest expectations and you you surpassed all of them. 1765 01:23:48,240 --> 01:23:50,040 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming. 1766 01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:51,559 Speaker 3: On, thank you for having me. 1767 01:23:52,520 --> 01:23:55,639 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, a moment in time, and Bow and Yang. 1768 01:23:55,680 --> 01:23:58,719 Speaker 2: We end every episode with the song oh. 1769 01:23:58,680 --> 01:24:08,200 Speaker 1: The all Things True care Trueing iye one last, You're right, 1770 01:24:08,920 --> 01:24:09,759 Speaker 1: that's tripe. 1771 01:24:10,960 --> 01:24:13,719 Speaker 2: And if you feel like being triggered or not, listen 1772 01:24:13,760 --> 01:24:17,880 Speaker 2: to blank one A two on all streaming platforms. 1773 01:24:17,920 --> 01:24:19,719 Speaker 1: Bye Bye,