Speaker 1: Ooh in for a treat today we got an update update.
Speaker 1: Heyh circle Jeffrey in the morning. Now, the way these
Speaker 1: work is we want to make sure everybody's on the
Speaker 1: same page because honestly, we need to re listen to
Speaker 1: this stuff. When jeff tells us, oh, you know that
Speaker 1: couple that was on the show six months ago, they're back,
Speaker 1: We're like, yeah, don't. We don't remember what happened.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we're going to replay the original episode when
Speaker 1: they were on, and then after we're going to have
Speaker 1: them back on the phone and tell us what's happened
Speaker 1: since what's sense? So you got to stick around through
Speaker 1: the whole thing on this one. And comments we love those.
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Speaker 3: way from Germany to a vacation in Norway and listening
Speaker 3: to this while on the bus the best.
Speaker 1: Time killer ever. It is such a foreign thought for
Speaker 1: us in the in the States, like to be able
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Speaker 4: I know, so cool. Are the most annoying person on
Speaker 4: the train because you're laughing so much.
Speaker 1: I love it. All Right, let's get this update update
Speaker 1: started right now.
Speaker 4: We've all heard the famous cliche it's like Christmas in July. Well,
Speaker 4: we're literally doing it.
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 4: Because we did a second date call back in December
Speaker 4: featuring two potential lovers who met at a work holiday party,
Speaker 4: and even though that night didn't go the way they
Speaker 4: planned and frankly our call with them didn't go much better,
Speaker 4: somehow we've got them both back on the phone for
Speaker 4: a very surprising second date. Update update it's a Christmas
Speaker 4: in July special and it happens next second date Updated
Speaker 4: Alexis is there one sentence a random guy could say
Speaker 4: to you that would make you instantly want to kiss him?
Speaker 4: Write the gentlemen other than ma'am, can I get your
Speaker 4: license and registration? Please? Oh he's gonna get you.
Speaker 3: What about ask you for like my Starbucks order?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: You know that's simple? Buying me a coffee that changes? Okay,
Speaker 1: I thought you had a higher price than that espressover ice.
Speaker 4: I've said, wow. I don't know about that move. But
Speaker 4: one of our listeners says he was taught something that
Speaker 4: he claims can get any member of the opposite sex
Speaker 4: to go in for the kiss right after you meet them.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, after you meet them right when you meet them.
Speaker 4: That's I don't believe this. I'm curious to find out
Speaker 4: what it is. So let's talk to Joseph. Now, Joseph,
Speaker 4: you gotta be careful because we all might try to
Speaker 4: kiss you once we hear it. But tell us about
Speaker 4: this move that you learned.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, I want to make this a parent I
Speaker 2: want to make this known right now. I didn't even
Speaker 2: develop this. This came from a female friend of mine.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah.
Speaker 2: She said, if you've been making eye contact with the
Speaker 2: woman you know at a bar or any been, or
Speaker 2: maybe a party, all you have to do is welcome
Speaker 2: to her, and you have to be non chalant, look
Speaker 2: at him and say, hey, you're pretty. You want to
Speaker 2: make out, with the attitude of not really wanting to
Speaker 2: and don't care.
Speaker 4: Hey you're pretty, want to make out.
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you it is hard to imagine
Speaker 1: this work.
Speaker 3: No, okay, if you're attracted to the personnel works. If attracted,
Speaker 3: it's not gonna works.
Speaker 4: How did you feel hearing that word of advice from
Speaker 4: your friend?
Speaker 2: It was horrible. I was so comfortable. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is never work. I'm gonna get slapped.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so despite your better logic, you tried it.
Speaker 2: We did. We did because she said nine out of
Speaker 2: ten times, they'll go for it. So she was like,
Speaker 2: you know, we're going to go to a holiday party
Speaker 2: or her job, a work event.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, work, it's not his.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hurry, it's hurry.
Speaker 4: But still she's brought the guy.
Speaker 1: I wish this happened at our holiday parties.
Speaker 4: How many people work at her Yeah, at her office
Speaker 4: or wherever she.
Speaker 2: Is, man, it's like hundreds, hundreds.
Speaker 1: They throw actually cool parties.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: So it was like an open bar. And she said,
Speaker 2: you know, a lot of two girls work with her
Speaker 2: at her company. So I was like, okay, you know,
Speaker 2: with the skepticism, you know. And she also told me that,
Speaker 2: you know, we didn't have to hang hang around each other,
Speaker 2: just get out there mingle, and that's what we did.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because I was worried that you were going
Speaker 1: to look like the boyfriend you know everyone, Yeah, how
Speaker 1: are you there?
Speaker 2: People?
Speaker 1: How are you with hundreds? When you go to those
Speaker 1: big ones and nobody asks you, you don't know, because
Speaker 1: what department do you work in?
Speaker 4: Yeah? So you you just went to the party and
Speaker 4: first cute girl you saw, you just walked right up
Speaker 4: to her and used the line.
Speaker 2: Oh no, not how that happened? I was I was
Speaker 2: standing around for at least an hour and a half,
Speaker 2: just I was nervous.
Speaker 4: Think about this, meeting someone for the first time who's
Speaker 4: attractive as a little nerve wrecking. The first kiss is
Speaker 4: always nerve wrecking. Doing them at the same time.
Speaker 1: In like a public event. You can't just go to
Speaker 1: your bedroom.
Speaker 5: You're in and you better not have eaten any of
Speaker 5: the appetizers because you want to have good breath.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So like, at what point did you actually try
Speaker 4: it or did you.
Speaker 2: Get there when the drinks came and this is an
Speaker 2: open bar, the courage juice came in and I spotted
Speaker 2: this really really cute girl and I went up to
Speaker 2: her and I gave the line, and she was like,
Speaker 2: you know what, it's the holidays, why not shut And
Speaker 2: she grabbed me by the hand, led me to a
Speaker 2: quiet corner and we made out.
Speaker 1: No, oh my god, it wasn't even just like a
Speaker 1: quick kiss or anything.
Speaker 4: She no, we made another location to kiss. That's kind
Speaker 4: of cool. I freaking work.
Speaker 2: It was crazy.
Speaker 1: You gave a kick out. At what point did you
Speaker 1: learn her name.
Speaker 4: In the middle of it? Yeah? Did you get the name?
Speaker 2: She did give me the name. Her name was Katrina. Okay, okay,
Speaker 2: we talked like ten to fifteen minutes after our makeouts.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, so you made a connection.
Speaker 4: All the hard stuff out of the way.
Speaker 1: But then what then?
Speaker 4: Answered like, do you how many other women? How many
Speaker 4: other women do you use this on at the work party?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: No, it was it was just her and she gave
Speaker 2: me her number and it was like wow. I was like,
Speaker 2: I can't believe that actually worked.
Speaker 1: Did you guys get to connect? Did you talk after?
Speaker 1: Have you texted or anything?
Speaker 2: It was like here and there so some okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: just a little bit.
Speaker 4: Maybe she feels awkward for making out with somebody at
Speaker 4: her own work party.
Speaker 1: A woman who leads a man into a corner is
Speaker 1: not embarrassed.
Speaker 4: Yeah, after an hour and a half of drinking. I mean,
Speaker 4: what about what does your friends say about her co worker? Like,
Speaker 4: did you tell her what happened?
Speaker 2: Kind of? I told my friend at the move work
Speaker 2: and she was like, oh my god, who was it?
Speaker 2: But I didn't want to say because you know, I
Speaker 2: didn't want to like have it weird for her, like
Speaker 2: at her company, what.
Speaker 1: She brought you and told you to do it. I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: there's so many people that work there. She may not
Speaker 1: even know her. She could be a plus one of somebody.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's a good point. There's a lot of Okay,
Speaker 4: so your friend doesn't know who it is, and you've
Speaker 4: been trying to reach Katrina for how long?
Speaker 2: A second?
Speaker 4: Now a little second?
Speaker 1: Oa, Well, actually have a date and see if there's
Speaker 1: like a real connection there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, a sober date. Are starting sober man? That doesn't
Speaker 4: sound very funny. Okay, maybe not sommer, but a date. Yeah, Well,
Speaker 4: we'll try and arrange something for you with you and
Speaker 4: Katrina when we come back. Get you your second date
Speaker 4: update right after this hold on second date update.
Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 1: right after you here part two.
Speaker 4: Today we learned about a hot dating hack yeah, well
Speaker 4: kind of yeah, short of where apparently if you go
Speaker 4: up to any woman with a nonchalant attitude and casually
Speaker 4: say hey, you're cute, you want to make out a
Speaker 4: lot of times if they're single, they'll say yes to that. Wow,
Speaker 4: and maybe even if they're not single, if you for
Speaker 4: it the right way.
Speaker 5: Currently, Jeff isn't nonchalant enough because nobody in this room
Speaker 5: is making out with him.
Speaker 1: Yet I'm saying I.
Speaker 4: I did not do it right. But no, The thing is,
Speaker 4: we never asked what do you do if the response
Speaker 4: back is no?
Speaker 1: Or what?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Or just something besides yes? Who are you?
Speaker 1: You were embarrassed and you shy away.
Speaker 4: But that's not a good look.
Speaker 1: You hope that you never see them again.
Speaker 4: Let's ask our listener, Joseph, if any of our listeners
Speaker 4: want to try this move for themselves, what are you
Speaker 4: supposed to say to a rejection?
Speaker 2: Well, if they say no, yeah, problem, just find me
Speaker 2: when you're ready.
Speaker 1: Oh, no problem, just find me when you're Oh my.
Speaker 4: God, that's so that's awesome because then you really don't care.
Speaker 4: You're like, okay, I to change your mind.
Speaker 1: I would have said me neither. I don't want to hear.
Speaker 5: I was asking you, By the way, can we not
Speaker 5: call him out on this as a move that he
Speaker 5: like or that it was even a bet like when.
Speaker 4: She picks up be like the trick worked on you.
Speaker 1: The thing is is that he really likes her. That's
Speaker 1: why we're calling.
Speaker 4: Why are you looking at me for that? Alexis is
Speaker 4: the one that usually ruins these constant Kathy over there,
Speaker 4: drop all the show.
Speaker 1: You are so self aware.
Speaker 4: Here, all right, Alexis, pipe down, We're going to call
Speaker 4: this girl. Don't ruin this for us. Here we go.
Speaker 2: Hello.
Speaker 4: Hey, is this Katrina?
Speaker 2: Yes, it's Katrina.
Speaker 1: Okay, morning, Hey Katrina, great question.
Speaker 4: This is a morning show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 4: in the Morning, and we are very very eager to
Speaker 4: talk to you. You want to do a second date
Speaker 4: or something?
Speaker 2: Wow? Okay, how did you reach me? This is kind
Speaker 2: of odd.
Speaker 4: It's hard to answer that because we got an email
Speaker 4: from one of our listeners that you recently at a
Speaker 4: holiday party named Joseph.
Speaker 2: Oh Joseph. Okay, yep, I remember him.
Speaker 1: How would you describe him flat out?
Speaker 4: I guess I describe him as a liar? Liar? You
Speaker 4: lies a lot, I'm a liar. No, he just completely
Speaker 4: lied to me.
Speaker 2: I met him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you had such a brief interaction with this.
Speaker 4: Guy, at least according to him what we've heard.
Speaker 2: Oh, so we told you all about it. Well, about.
Speaker 4: So I don't know if this is what Joseph told you,
Speaker 4: but we ended up making out. Not usually the order
Speaker 4: in which I do things, but we made out and
Speaker 4: then we had a talk. You don't normally do it
Speaker 4: that way, that's how we do it, so no, I
Speaker 4: do not definitely different for me. But then tells me
Speaker 4: he works at my company. Someone's like, what are you
Speaker 4: doing here?
Speaker 2: I don't recognize you.
Speaker 4: So I looked him up and there is no record
Speaker 4: of this guy working at my company.
Speaker 1: I don't know why he said that.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's been very Sometimes my friends help meet people
Speaker 3: at the bar, and you could just make stuff up
Speaker 3: and then you don't think you're gonna end up liking them,
Speaker 3: but you've already made up like, oh, yeah, I work
Speaker 3: in whatever.
Speaker 1: I mean that makes sense, alexis like, or it's just easier, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's easier to say, yeah, I work here too.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Maybe you own stock in the company and in a
Speaker 4: way that's like financially responsible for our owner of the company.
Speaker 2: Yah.
Speaker 4: What was that CBS show Undercover Boss or something. It's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 4: I work here, and it's like, oh no, actually I
Speaker 4: own the whole thing. Maybe it's maybe some maybe some
Speaker 4: sort of like misunderstanding situation like that.
Speaker 2: It's okay, I highly doubt that was the case.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're just mad because he lied to you
Speaker 1: about working.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there was no reason for him too. So I
Speaker 4: don't know how to respond to this guy because I
Speaker 4: don't know who he is, because he's just the party.
Speaker 2: Is he some kind of pervert?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Why do you go to perverts? I mean, why don't
Speaker 1: you just text him?
Speaker 4: You don't have to text him or do anything like that,
Speaker 4: because actually Joseph is on the other line right now
Speaker 4: waiting to talk to you. Yeah, in a non pervy way.
Speaker 2: The whole time he's been listening.
Speaker 4: Oh god, no, it's because he likes you.
Speaker 2: Joseph tell her, Katrina, And I am so sorry. I
Speaker 2: just let me just start out with that. I want
Speaker 2: to apologize. I forgot that I did tell you those things,
Speaker 2: and I want to tell you where that's coming from.
Speaker 2: I'm not a pervert, I'm not a stalker, any creeople,
Speaker 2: nothing like that.
Speaker 4: Do you work there?
Speaker 2: I don't work there.
Speaker 1: Okay, I know, no, he just said that.
Speaker 2: All right, I'm going to tell you something. I'm going
Speaker 2: to be transparent. This came from a friend of mine
Speaker 2: who does work there, and she gave me a move.
Speaker 2: If I want to say it like that, as far
Speaker 2: as if I do this particular thing, if I say, hey,
Speaker 2: I think you're pretty, do you want to make out?
Speaker 2: I can make out with any woman at that party.
Speaker 1: It is a female friend that told him to do this.
Speaker 1: I think that's very important.
Speaker 4: Thanks Brook.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just went there specifically to test out.
Speaker 4: Your move when it was not his idea. His friend
Speaker 4: is the one who was encouraging him, because Joseph did
Speaker 4: not think was saying.
Speaker 1: No to a free holiday party with the open bar.
Speaker 1: I mean, my friend worked at a big company like Y.
Speaker 4: If you should be mad at anybody, be mad at
Speaker 4: Joseph's friend for pressuring him to kiss you female friends. Female.
Speaker 1: I do think that's so important.
Speaker 4: Okay, I have crashed parties before, that makes sense. Invited. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you didn't crash it, and the only was I worked there.
Speaker 4: That's it, right.
Speaker 1: You didn't Why about anything else, did you, Joseph? No? No, No,
Speaker 1: that was it.
Speaker 2: That was it, Because Katina, you could have on me
Speaker 2: the truth.
Speaker 4: No, not really, I came here to try out this
Speaker 4: line that my friend.
Speaker 1: Know about where you work?
Speaker 2: Not that part guess works. I guess it works. I
Speaker 2: got to admit it works. Okay, So I'm kind of curious.
Speaker 2: Would that line work if a girl tried it on
Speaker 2: a guy?
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I think it'd work even better.
Speaker 4: I think it would too. Actually, a hard part.
Speaker 1: Is going to be finding a guy who you actually
Speaker 1: want to make out with.
Speaker 4: Why are you asking that? To be honest, my boss
Speaker 4: is recently single and I had my.
Speaker 2: Eye on wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
Speaker 2: no no no no, no, no no no, that's not
Speaker 2: the way you.
Speaker 4: No, what's going yours? You want to try this on
Speaker 4: your boss?
Speaker 2: I would like to try it.
Speaker 4: I mean I'm not smart. Don't do that, trust me.
Speaker 4: I've tried a lot of moves on our bosses and
Speaker 4: none of them work. So it's I didn't think it's
Speaker 4: a good idea.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey hasn't gotten to raise it over five years.
Speaker 4: No, keep getting demoted, listen.
Speaker 2: I don't even know how you guys are, so don't
Speaker 2: tell me what to do.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you got the idea from us, you know,
Speaker 1: from him Joseph.
Speaker 2: Joseph's got some.
Speaker 4: Smooth moves, and maybe I should well, are you going
Speaker 4: to kiss Joseph again? Because the whole reason that we're
Speaker 4: doing this call is because after you guys kissed, he
Speaker 4: felt like you had a really great connection and wanted
Speaker 4: to take it a little bit farther and go out
Speaker 4: on a real date, and we would pay for that
Speaker 4: date if you're willing to see him again.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, maybe Joseph could be my wingman. No, No,
Speaker 2: come on, I'm pouring out my heart here. I like you.
Speaker 2: I want to get to know you.
Speaker 4: You guys had a connection. Give it a chance with Joseph,
Speaker 4: and once that burns out, then you can go after
Speaker 4: your bar you go.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm willing to go on a friendly date
Speaker 2: as friends.
Speaker 4: As friends and friends.
Speaker 1: Do we cover friendly dates.
Speaker 4: We can change them dating tricks and tips.
Speaker 5: Dude, you went from kissing this woman in the first
Speaker 5: five seconds to now you're her friends.
Speaker 4: Absolute friends. Wingman.
Speaker 1: I've never been not this excited about friendship.
Speaker 3: In my life.
Speaker 1: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Okay, that was the end
Speaker 1: of the original second date that they were on. Man,
Speaker 1: now we do have to play just a quick commercial, okay,
Speaker 1: because we do have to pay for this show somehow,
Speaker 1: and we're going to be back right after this with
Speaker 1: both of them on the phone. See what's happened since
Speaker 1: stay here?
Speaker 4: Well that call was from last Christmas, and now we've
Speaker 4: got Joseph and Katrina back on the phone to give
Speaker 4: us an update.
Speaker 1: They're both here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Katrina, what's happened in the last like six to
Speaker 4: seven months since we last spoke.
Speaker 2: Well, we've actually moved in together.
Speaker 4: Wait wait what?
Speaker 1: Wait? Who you? Yeah? You and Joseph for you and
Speaker 1: your body.
Speaker 4: Joseph, you guys are together like that? Well he's laughing,
Speaker 4: not like together with're just his friend.
Speaker 1: That's why you're laughing. Oh you're laughing, Joseph, because we
Speaker 1: assumed you guys had a romantic thing.
Speaker 4: Okay, how did that happen? Well, actually, on the date,
Speaker 4: we found out that both our leases happened to be
Speaker 4: ending at the same time, my roommate was moving out,
Speaker 4: and so I.
Speaker 2: Was like, dude, why don't you just come live with me?
Speaker 2: We can check the money.
Speaker 4: We've already got this great rapport.
Speaker 1: Joseph, Are you cool with this?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: That must have been hard for you because the last
Speaker 4: time that we spoke, you seemed interested romantically in her
Speaker 4: and Katrina was the one saying you should be friends.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not gonna lie. At first, it wasn't easy,
Speaker 2: like especially when she was bringing guys over. Yeah, just
Speaker 2: as a male, we're kind of territorial, so I couldn't help.
Speaker 2: But the show just stop.
Speaker 1: Wait, so how did you get over it? How did
Speaker 1: you get over feelings for her?
Speaker 2: Oh? I guess it was her man like her actually
Speaker 2: being the best roommate I've ever like. The situation is amazing.
Speaker 2: Everything is always on point, on time. She's awesome.
Speaker 4: You could say two weeks of crying, Joseph, it's okay.
Speaker 4: You could say you cried for a long time. That's
Speaker 4: all right.
Speaker 1: It sounds like he's not.
Speaker 3: Over, but you don't never know.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: It sounds like you two are in a good place,
Speaker 4: and it's a really rare thing on this show to
Speaker 4: hear I got a friend for life out of a
Speaker 4: second date update?
Speaker 1: Why do I want another update in six months?
Speaker 4: That's really cool? But yeah, definitely keep us posting on
Speaker 4: what's going on in your lives. That's your second date
Speaker 4: update update. It's broken Jeffrey in the Morning