1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Calm Down with Aaron and Carissa is a production of 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: I Heart Radio. Hey, so this was from our very 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: first episode of Calm Down where we interviewed Kevin Hart 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: and Hey, good thing. You know. We just were like, hey, 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 1: we're gonna get guests like this every week. So Kevin 6 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 1: and Haley for doing us as solid. This was an 7 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,240 Speaker 1: it seems like a long time ago, but it wasn't. 8 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 1: It does seem like a long time ago. And we 9 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: went there. I mean, we talked about sleeping in Pj's 10 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: sleeping in the nude, We talked about taking the l 11 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 1: and an argument with your partner. We talked about everything. Yeah, 12 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 1: he was so good about you know, hey, just sometimes 13 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: you just have to be like, hey, given, given, And 14 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: I loved this with him. You know, I don't know 15 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: a guy who's busier than him, maybe Michael Strahan, but 16 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: maintaining proper mental health despite you know, his crazy work schedule, 17 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: everything he's got going on. I love the insight he was. 18 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: He was awesome. Listen, the person is more interesting. So yes, 19 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: that's are just that. But we can hear and know 20 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: him all the time. But when you when you get 21 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 1: to know who who has a dog and who does it? 22 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: You know, dogs versus cats, underwear versus no draws. You know. No, 23 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: I'm home. I don't have on pants, So yeah, it's 24 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: different because I'm home this You're supposed to be comfortable 25 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: your home, but I don't even do that. My kids 26 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: aren't allowed to come to my office during the day 27 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: because I've been working home. And it's a gamble every 28 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: morning you busting here. It could be pants or not. 29 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: You know that. And I told you guys that several times. 30 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: Because I'm running late for a lot of these meetings, 31 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: a lot of these zooms and stuff. Sometimes I just 32 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: get out of bed and hall as downstairs. I'm a 33 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: nude sleeper. See this is information. Yeah, because things just 34 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: set with clothes. Oh my god, wait is it? Is 35 00:01:55,560 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: it for a climate control situation? No, it's because my body. Great. 36 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: Well that's why I feel you. I mean I've seen it, 37 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: but I mean my wife's understand what's going on here 38 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: every night. But how lucky you are? One roll over 39 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: like the boom, maybe hanging all over that. Nothing's rolling 40 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 1: over here. I mean things are proportionate like I. I 41 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: like it when you do. The old Kate Winslet Titanic 42 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: like waves. That feels like a lot of work. It's 43 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: a cat's cradle in the bed, and we're not I 44 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: want to just give you my whole Grow up. Okay, 45 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 1: grow up, it's extremely immature. Grow up. It's a bed. 46 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: There's blankets there for a reason. All right, are you 47 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: get out of bed in the morning. It's time to 48 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: get dressed. It's time to get undressed. That's the whole 49 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 1: purpose of getting in the bed. Nobody wants to sleep 50 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: next to a woman would have turtleneck on, and a 51 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: woman don't want to sleep next to a guy with 52 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: corduroy is on. That would hurt, especially if you are naked. 53 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: Now we've got chafing. There's a whole situation happening here. Alright, 54 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: you're told, but oh, I need to You have four 55 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 1: beautiful babies, and that's why he has them because he 56 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: sleeps exactly. So we need to get going. Life honestly, 57 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 1: has has gravitated to more clothes as the nag. She's 58 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 1: a thousand percent more more dressed than she's ever been today. 59 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: That's what we're sure you. Alright, I guess okay, I 60 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: love so I'm obsessed with the name Hendrix. I love 61 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: Jimmy Hendrix. Whatever I know your son's names Hendrix. Where 62 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: was the name derived from? Jimmy. I'm always curious about 63 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: name naming a child because they're stuck with it forever. 64 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: My name came from a Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition because 65 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: I was the third kid, and my my mom's like, 66 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: I don't care, just name or something, and so my 67 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: dad's like, I got a name, and so that's where 68 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: my name came from. I can say honestly, I am 69 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: not responsible for any of the names of my kids. Uh. 70 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: It's one of those things where I feel like, you know, um, 71 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: throughout a pregnancy, a woman finds excitement in so much 72 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: and and the naming process and figuring out is one 73 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: of those things I'm there to support. Uh. The list 74 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: of names and the journey of how and why has 75 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: always been one of I just sat through and it's 76 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: whatever you want, I'm gonna go. Hendricks. My my ex wife, Tori, 77 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 1: she's a massive Jimi Hendricks fan. She wanted to play 78 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: with the h uh and the h h because our 79 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: daughter heaven Uh is heaven Lee Heart altogether, Heavenly Heart. 80 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm not responsible for that. And my son is Hendricks, 81 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: Kevin Hart once again, not responsible for that and my 82 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 1: kids now uh Kori my Heart and Kensled cash Heart 83 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: all great names. Not responsible for Linium. I can't. I 84 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 1: can't take the credit for not one name, not one name. 85 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,679 Speaker 1: But I feel like he you're really good at picking 86 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 1: your battles with this, because I had a girlfriend that 87 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,919 Speaker 1: just had a new baby and it was a whole 88 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:05,359 Speaker 1: like we were calling him the last name for a while. 89 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,359 Speaker 1: We had to figure it out. Her husband didn't like. 90 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 1: But I love it. I mean, you're a guy. I know, 91 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: I've told you this before. I need to learn a 92 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 1: lot from especially how to grow that bank account, but 93 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: picking the battles with your wife, and I feel like 94 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: your latest special on Netflix did that as well, So 95 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 1: that's interesting. What other information do you have with picking 96 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 1: your battles with marriage, having the baby, the name, what's 97 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: in another key one that you will recommend. I don't 98 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: have any battles that I can that I can win. 99 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 1: I've I've done my fair share of up so at 100 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 1: this point, I'm I'm I'm just a white flag walking 101 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: al in the red. In your bank account, you're in overdraft, feeck, nothing, 102 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: no pushback. I mean I think that we should do 103 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: a house side kitchen, sure shoo, yes, whatever whatever those 104 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 1: things are. And when I do have a problem, and 105 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 1: I can be honest, it very far few and in between. 106 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: But if I do have a problem with something, because 107 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: it's so rare, there's never really a thing of where 108 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: I feel like, you know there, there needs to be 109 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: a presence that has to be felt, like we gotta 110 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: go to war. So I think that we do a 111 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: great job of respecting one another. But also I have 112 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 1: no problem with saying this is your domain, this is 113 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: this is your home. And if you're not comfortable in 114 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: this domain and you don't feel like you have the 115 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: tool that you need to be able to do what 116 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 1: you do at the best level possible, Uh, then I'm 117 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: messing up because you know these priority and your energy 118 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: is important. So that's that's my take on that. I 119 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 1: love that. And part of your interview with Jerry on 120 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: your podcast to be Named later was that when Jerry 121 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: was saying that spouses are like rescue dogs. Yes, it's 122 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: so true, and I have a rescue dog, and I'm 123 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: gonna be honest, I thought the stock I felt so 124 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: guilty about buying the first dog that I got a 125 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: rescue dog. I went to a breader. Well, I see, 126 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: so then you're gonna have to feel guilty and get 127 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: a rescue dog. So I the rescue doctor needs a 128 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: lot of attention. The one I bought. He's like, I'm 129 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: cool man of like strutting around this place. I'm doing 130 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: my thing. The rescue dogs like I need you, I 131 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: need you, I need you, I need you. So it 132 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: really resonated with me that spouses are like that. So, 133 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I I agree a thousand percent. There's so 134 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: much that you have to to learn. And by the way, 135 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: you know, I'm still I'm still learning. I'm forty one 136 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: uh and and you're you're you're constantly growing. But that partnership, 137 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: that that that friendship, you know, that ship has gotta 138 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: be worked. Marriages is fucking work your personal every day 139 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: three sixty five. And even if you're doing something that 140 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: you know allows you to get on the road and 141 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: come back, you're still with the same person. So you're 142 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: gonna have good days, bad days. But the beauty is 143 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: figuring out how to over come those days and still 144 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: get back to cool. That's that's the that's the hard task, 145 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: and I thing when you figured that out, then it 146 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: becomes a breeze for most. Well, I'm on my second marriage. 147 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: This one just happened a month ago, so I'm new 148 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 1: to the game. But thank you, sir, you would have 149 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 1: known that had I have been allowed to interview Haley 150 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: again with the heisman. I want to know about having 151 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: another baby at forty one because I'm older than you, 152 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: and I didn't know that the fun facts there forty two, 153 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: haven't had a kid. Need to work on it, obviously, 154 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: I need to get off the road and get into it. Now. 155 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: You need to get naked in bed. Apparently there's a 156 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: lot more to it than that. But apparently marble I 157 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 1: mean marble counters highways to gene But what is it 158 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: like having it? I mean, I know you have several kids, 159 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: but now another baby at forty one, especially when you're 160 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: just so I feel like accustomed your life, setting your ways. 161 00:08:56,040 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: Help It's it's I can say right now. The funniest 162 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: thing for me and my wife. Me and my wife 163 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: are right now. I knew, I knew it. I saw 164 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 1: the move. By the way, she's not flagging, she's not 165 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: like coming in the room to check on me. Because 166 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: it's time. She just has no respect for what I do. 167 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 1: Pants on, I hope just hi, man, just poke your 168 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: head in and say hi, just and this is how, 169 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: this is how you'll be able to like, this is 170 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: what you'll You'll see that I'm really telling the truth 171 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 1: because I'll say it in front of her. We laughed 172 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 1: so much now looking at what we used to be, 173 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: like me and my we and my wife, we were 174 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: we were road warriors. At one point it was a babe, 175 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: let's go. We're out with restaurants were lounges and clubs. 176 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:50,439 Speaker 1: We're on a plane where vacation. We're done. We're both 177 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: like we were really at one point living living our 178 00:09:55,280 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 1: best lives through travel and experience. And you know, then 179 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: the babies start to pile up right and you really, 180 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:08,199 Speaker 1: you really find yourself at a loss for words because 181 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: you don't know when it went bad. Where when did 182 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: we get here? Like like we can't past eight o'clock 183 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: eight pm. There's a there's a weird thing of who 184 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: falls asleep first, and and you know, the the changing 185 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: of the guard is now like my wife forever fell 186 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 1: asleep on me when I was in those stages when 187 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 1: I was a rabbit I used to get mad. God damn, 188 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: like you go to sleep, you're gonna sleep so fast 189 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 1: White eight thirty, you knocked out. And now now she's 190 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: built up this schedule, her bad time is a little later. 191 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: My wife could push to nine thirty, which is absurd. 192 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,199 Speaker 1: By the way, party nine thirty, not forty five. And 193 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: it's almost as if you're on drugs. I don't know 194 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 1: how she stays up this look. I don't know what 195 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: she's doing. You sit me down and you stopped talking 196 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 1: to me. I'm out. And we realized we were like 197 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: the kids fucked us up, like we we got nothing left. 198 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: We at the end of the day, we're so tired 199 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: from baby exchange, the conversations with the kids, to making 200 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: sure that the kids are at the extracurricular activities, to listening, 201 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: understanding attitudes versus no attitudes. Why aren't you eating? Why 202 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: don't you bathing? Brush your damn teeth? Did you go 203 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: do your homework? We've been in the house. So you 204 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 1: are so invested into your kids lives lives that you 205 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: don't have nothing else. So now we're at this point, 206 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: like where we I think we locate honey, are we 207 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: scheduling sex, and it's by the way, I'm fine, I'm fine. 208 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: It's not like it has to happen, you know, like 209 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: I'm not pressing the gas for that she is. So 210 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: if you know, if there's some time, okay, we should rest, 211 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:52,719 Speaker 1: we should build up enough energy for this time that happened. 212 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: But we are no longer who used to be, and 213 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 1: you just gotta accept that. You gotta roll with it. 214 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: You gotta you gotta love the you gotta love the 215 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 1: fact that you're getting older and that you're watching the 216 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 1: younger versions of yourselves. The best part so much about 217 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: your comedy special when you when your wife's like, I'm 218 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 1: gonna go out, and you're like, okay, yeah, no, look 219 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 1: I'm going out. You're like, I hope, yeah. We fun 220 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 1: fact found out that you're a big fan of Yellowstone, 221 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: which this one is. But you're not done right, You're 222 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: just catching up. Where are you? Tell me everything, Tell 223 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: me exactly where you are. I'm season four? What just happened? Um? 224 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 1: Season three? Okay, Yeah, I'm I'm I'm when, I'm when 225 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: it now got it is now it's now getting real 226 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: from the takeover, right, like you know, when after after 227 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: the brothers had that little spat and the brother ended 228 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: up killing what was the league guy from UM I 229 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: believe it was like the Indian, Yes, that that was it, 230 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 1: which is like the story is just so real because 231 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: I've traveled to these parts and I know how important 232 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: the land is, why the fight over the land becomes 233 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 1: what it becomes. But I also love the power that 234 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: Kevin Costner's character has, Like this man that has built this, 235 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 1: this ranch, this thing, this this big entity, the brand. 236 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: It's just such a big brand and he runs this 237 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:25,199 Speaker 1: town without running the town, and things have to go 238 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 1: through him, and if they don't, this consequences and the 239 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: people that are around it's almost it's like, I hate 240 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: to say it, this is like the mainstream version of 241 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 1: the cartel or or the drug the drug game in 242 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: in the black community. Like there's there's different levels to it. 243 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:47,679 Speaker 1: This is that, but the drugs are the land and 244 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: that's what you're trying to gain more access and that's 245 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:55,479 Speaker 1: what you want more of. So from the writing, the evolvement, 246 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: the characters, I just like it. I think all in all, 247 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 1: Like I've even been searching after the showrunners to see 248 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:04,079 Speaker 1: like how long is this ship going to last? A 249 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 1: low key. I'm like, they should stop it just so 250 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 1: I can go get the people that developed it and 251 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 1: have them come and do some things underneath umbrella because 252 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: it's so good. It's so good. Don't you even want 253 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 1: the damn coffee cup he holds like I tried to 254 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 1: find it for Christmas for my husband. It's that white 255 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: coffee good. I can say. I can say that that 256 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 1: show um and and through the pandemic, I went back 257 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: and I got back invested into Billions. Billions is a 258 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: good one too. Don't you want to sit down with 259 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 1: Wendy Rhodes so bad and just have her like just 260 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: totally get into your brain? And do you have to 261 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 1: watch it on close caption because I don't know what 262 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: the they're talking about half the time. Yeah, I watch 263 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: everything on clothes cap Everything everything has a clothes caption one. 264 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: And I'm more I'm more into the to the TV 265 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: just because you know, there's uh, there's just time to 266 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: to watch, time to really invest and and just be 267 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: a fan of great story evolvement. That's that's what I like. 268 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 1: How much do you love bath on yellow Stone? Stop it? 269 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: What do you mean? How much I love that She's 270 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 1: She's probably character second character in my opinion, Team Jamie 271 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: or Team Casey. Yeah, no one who likes Jamie. Who's 272 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: the person that likes He's disgusting. Anyways, I want to 273 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: be an extra on that show so bad. I want 274 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: to be a barrel girl. I'll do anything to be 275 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: who cares? There's so many opportunities. I better they knew 276 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: that they would easily implement your in that show. You 277 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: gotta be honest and put it out there. No one 278 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: cares a ship. I know you've got a million things 279 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: to do. We've talked about it. You'll have to go soon, um, 280 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: because you've got your family right down. Don't calm down, um. 281 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: But really, another thing that I deduced from your conversation 282 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: with Jerry, as you do a check in when you're 283 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 1: in the gym, how are you feeling today? What are 284 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: you doing? What's your vibe right now? A daily checking? 285 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 1: I'm into it. My My vibe is is extremely it's 286 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: extremely high in present. Um. That's that's this new kick 287 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 1: that I'm on, just being present, being mindful of myself 288 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 1: and my personal level of happiness. And I think when 289 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: you when you really are um into just taking care 290 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: of you, it gives you the opportunity to be a 291 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: better person for other people. Right And and I think 292 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: over my years of being so crazy, being so busy, 293 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 1: I got wrapped up into busy, busy, busy that that 294 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 1: I didn't check on me in my mornings. My mornings 295 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: are the time to dedicate, um, you know, me to me. 296 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: Like I can talk to myself before my trainers get there. 297 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: I can take a run, I can take a bike ride, 298 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: I can get on my role machine. There's so many 299 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 1: things I can do, but to where I lock in 300 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 1: to just me. And I know it may sound, you know, 301 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: an ideal, but talking to yourself and understanding yourself and 302 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 1: hearing yourself out. Uh, that's my new ship. And it's 303 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: and it's it's just making me. Uh, it's it's given 304 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: me more of a more of an uplifting and vibrant 305 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:28,119 Speaker 1: presence to date in my house and my surroundings and 306 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 1: my company. Um, I just find myself just being a 307 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: little more energized, a little more happy because I feel 308 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 1: like I'm constantly working on me as well and other things. 309 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: Another really fun episode for us, Aaron. As you know 310 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: Brian bum Gardner Kevin from the office. He was so awesome, 311 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 1: telling us about why the office is just as popular 312 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:53,360 Speaker 1: today as it was a decade ago. He also told 313 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 1: a really funny story about how no one knew who 314 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 1: they were, and his first time at the Golden Globes, 315 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 1: and a bunch of other things that we love. I 316 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 1: loved Howe. I think they were hammered right at some 317 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: point at some party or whatever. I mean, that was great. Yeah, 318 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 1: going to our first Emmy's together, which was like we were, 319 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: I mean, we really were. The Beverly Hill buildings. I 320 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 1: mean I told this story Oscar noon, Yes, reminded me 321 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 1: I had this little little bungalow house up in the 322 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,679 Speaker 1: Beverly what do they call it Beverly Hills p O 323 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: which which is the post office box that say, oh, 324 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 1: but you're really not in Beverly Hills, Like I don't, 325 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:40,919 Speaker 1: it doesn't mean anything. And that was the I was 326 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 1: the closest house to the Beverly Hilton for the Golden Globes. 327 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:47,159 Speaker 1: It was he was reminding me, was like, you know, 328 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 1: we showed up at the Golden Globes the first time 329 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: when Steve actually won in a Honda Civic. We should 330 00:18:56,040 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 1: love the front door me. David Demon who played Boy 331 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: and Oscar nun Yez and maybe one more. And it 332 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 1: was like we were like, where do we park? You 333 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: can't park? What are you talking about? There's no parking here. 334 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 1: And we were, oh, like David Dimmon like went in valet, 335 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: at Trader Vix or something about at the Starbucks and 336 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 1: like to our limit. Yeah, I guess, I mean, but 337 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 1: like we like that really was us. I can't I know. 338 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 1: It was like I um and all of those experiences 339 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: that us going to, you know, being together for such 340 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 1: a long time and starting that net and then you know, 341 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: when the sixtess started happening, it definitely made it that 342 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: much more rewarding. The globes is where everybody gets hammered, right, 343 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 1: that's that. Yeah, so you show up in a Honda Civic. 344 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, what do you remember? Where did 345 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:49,399 Speaker 1: you guys just say, let's go for it. This is 346 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: like our night out. Well and this this tells you 347 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 1: even more. Was that that year and this was all 348 00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 1: sort of sort of the turning point of the show. 349 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: Actually in a lot of ways, this was um midway. 350 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,879 Speaker 1: So it would like January, you know, end of December, 351 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 1: which would have been our second season. We were like struggling, 352 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 1: struggling to stay on the air, and really we were dead, 353 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 1: like four times before that. We weren't gonna go. And 354 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: then four year old Virgin came out and suddenly right 355 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:22,440 Speaker 1: before that we had the first Christmas episode we did, 356 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: which was the first time we went above ten million 357 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: viewers on a Thursday. That's kind of a big number. 358 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: And and Steve was nominated for a Golden Globe. The 359 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 1: show wasn't nominated, and we watched this is part of it. 360 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: We watched the ceremony. We weren't allowed inside. They wouldn't. 361 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: They were like, no, you're not You're not coming inside. 362 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:47,479 Speaker 1: The NBC had set up a there's all the parties 363 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:50,199 Speaker 1: that are going on in different areas of the wild, 364 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:54,360 Speaker 1: and their party was on the roof of the parking garage. 365 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 1: There's not a joke on the outdoor roof for the 366 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 1: parking garage. They had set up a tent and there 367 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: was party and we were there and we we all 368 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 1: drank a lot, like a lot lot, brown, red, purple, blue. 369 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 1: It was all the colors, all of the colors. And 370 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 1: then and he wasn't supposed to win. We thought, this 371 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 1: is our one party ever let's go come um and 372 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:27,160 Speaker 1: then Steve one and that that night, I will truly 373 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: I like that. That's just one of those nights. Like 374 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 1: I didn't even win any none of us want anything 375 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 1: Steve one, but he showed up afterward and we like 376 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: tackled him, and I mean it was it was a crazy, 377 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 1: crazy night. One of my favorite pictures of us, and 378 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 1: you could look it up. There was and I noticed 379 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: recently because I told this story to someone. I was 380 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,199 Speaker 1: reminding someone I think it was Jenni Fisher on on 381 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 1: the podcast, and I went and looked at the picture 382 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, you can't see it, but 383 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: they had um like the gigantic like chocolate fondue, you know, 384 00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:01,640 Speaker 1: found and I of course tried something dripped it right 385 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,360 Speaker 1: down the shirt just I mean just all the way 386 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 1: right down the shirt and and anyway, there was like 387 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 1: I think it's a TV guide like photo booth thing 388 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:11,959 Speaker 1: that they have, and Steve came up. He had he 389 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 1: had won, and it was like I will never forget 390 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: that night, and we all crammed. There was like twenty 391 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 1: of us crammed into the little photo booth and with 392 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 1: the chocolate on my thing. But I realized that in 393 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: the photo at least I kind of turned so yeah, 394 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 1: I'm like a side view, so you can't actually see 395 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 1: what an idiot I was. That's amazing. You mentioned that 396 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: that was a turning point for you guys, and prior 397 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 1: to that now hard to believe that you were struggling 398 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,479 Speaker 1: to even stay on air for you. Was there a 399 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 1: moment Brian where all of a sudden you realize I 400 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 1: can't go to the coffee shop to the restaurant to like, 401 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 1: oh this thing is is big. Now I'm here in 402 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 1: the Honda Civic is no longer. I can't drink all 403 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:57,679 Speaker 1: the colors back in the Honda Civic. Of course I 404 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 1: never would have done that. Um I it. You know, 405 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: it was gradual, I think for us because you know, 406 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: early on, um we were struggling and truly believed that 407 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 1: that we would be canceled. There was something that was 408 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 1: happening even early on that kind of gave us pause. 409 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 1: We didn't talk about it so much, but you know, 410 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: this was back, you know, fifteen years ago whatever, and 411 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:29,360 Speaker 1: Nielsen ratings that was the big thing, right, their little boxes. 412 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,439 Speaker 1: Have you ever met anyone with a Nielsen box? This 413 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:36,719 Speaker 1: always plagues me, who's got the box that there? That 414 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 1: is where I yes, that's right. So people say the 415 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: ratings and this many people watching, Well, it's really based 416 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 1: on some complicated formula of Wilson boxes. And your point 417 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 1: is exactly right that we sort of started having some 418 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 1: anecdotal evidence like college, and we sort of went no 419 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 1: one in college and a dorm as a guilt in box, 420 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 1: like no no one is sort of calculating that. I 421 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 1: think in spirits actually it works very similarly in a 422 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:15,400 Speaker 1: way like there's sometimes something becomes kind of uh, culty 423 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 1: or everyone's talking about it, but it's not reflected in 424 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 1: that way. I think that was kind of starting to 425 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: happen a little bit. This is actually a True Crimes podcast. 426 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: We've exposed the Nielsen box ratings. Mystery has been solved. 427 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:33,120 Speaker 1: There is no Nielsen box that cereal. That's right, um, 428 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 1: But I'll tell you so. It was definitely a gradual 429 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 1: and let's be honest, um, at the very least, I 430 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: have a distinctive head. Let's just put it that way. 431 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 1: And so there were times actually my favorite story that 432 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: I have not to hold it a really long time, 433 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: but I was shooting a movie someone afterward in John Krasinski, 434 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 1: my co star, was in the movie, and Mandy Moore 435 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,239 Speaker 1: was in the movie, and we were we were in 436 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: Canada and we were shooting at a sushi place. I 437 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 1: mean there's a long time ago, but still they were 438 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: John Krasinski and that was Mandy Moore. And we had 439 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 1: like three people come up to the table to ask 440 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 1: me to take a picture and they're sitting right now there, 441 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 1: They're sitting right No and no, it's like no one 442 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 1: sees them. So that happens um for me. But the 443 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 1: crazy thing is, which wasn't your question? Is that now 444 00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 1: the show? And and really the reason the idea about 445 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: doing the podcast now it was based on and it's funny. 446 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: We talked about it in like a true crime way. 447 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: I said, I want to do the podcast like it's 448 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: a true crime. And the question is this, why is 449 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 1: this show now that we haven't shot in seven years? 450 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 1: Why is it bigger now? Yeah? Why why on the air? 451 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: And why is it? Why is it now not just 452 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: bigger than that? It's the It's the most watch show 453 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:03,679 Speaker 1: in television right now, like new shows, the Stranger Things, 454 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 1: all that, like hot new stuff. More people are consuming 455 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,200 Speaker 1: and watching the show now, and so it's like why 456 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 1: and what the answer is, I don't really you know, 457 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 1: but I think that the at least the smartest thing 458 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:23,439 Speaker 1: that I figured out is that when we were on set, 459 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 1: this was early on, when we were struggling, struggling, struggle, 460 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 1: there was a there was some stat that kept going 461 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 1: around and I don't remember what the number was, but 462 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 1: it was something like two hundred million people in America 463 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,400 Speaker 1: work in an office. So if we can get ten 464 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 1: of those people to watch, or five of those people 465 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 1: to watch, like we've got them, we're good, Like we're great. 466 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:51,880 Speaker 1: And I think that what we didn't realize was at 467 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 1: the time and through today that we were building a show. 468 00:26:56,240 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: Sure that that was about that, But the parallel between 469 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: an unreasonable boss who makes you do unreasonable things with 470 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 1: a group of people that you're not choosing to be with, 471 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 1: how well that translates to an unreasonable teacher who makes 472 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: you do unreasonable assignments sitting next to people you may 473 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: not choose to sit next to for year after year 474 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,919 Speaker 1: after year after year, And how the archetypes of the 475 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: characters are so universal that that sort of shared experience 476 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: of being a group of people against an unreasonable authority? 477 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,919 Speaker 1: Figure how well that translates? And I think, really that's 478 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,680 Speaker 1: that's the smartest answer for I think because now it's 479 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 1: like twelve year olds, thirteen year olds you brought up camp. 480 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,439 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm talking to twelve year olds now, and 481 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 1: it's like, why are you watching sexual harassment episode? That 482 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: is definitely not when the blow up doll comes in, 483 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,360 Speaker 1: you should not. Where are your parents? I'm gonna tell 484 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: you why I think it's so successful as a viewer 485 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:10,880 Speaker 1: and uh incredible supporter is could you guys say what 486 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:14,199 Speaker 1: we're now not allowed to say in any situation? And 487 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,159 Speaker 1: having I used to work in human resources, which I 488 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 1: had zero business working in human research. I would get 489 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: drunk on my lunch break. But it's this idea that 490 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 1: you can't do those things, but you guys would do them, 491 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 1: and so and also like breaking that still I'm in 492 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 1: TV and I don't is it the fourth wall? I 493 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 1: don't know what wall it is, any wall that you broke, 494 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,159 Speaker 1: and being able to look into the camera and have 495 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,160 Speaker 1: those testimonial moments and say all the things like that's 496 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: just the hilarity for me is doing and saying things 497 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 1: that we're not supposed to be saying or doing Yeah, well, Chris, 498 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: that really I mean this this is boggles to talk 499 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 1: exactly about what you're talking about, like how crazy society 500 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 1: and the world has become. And even then, you know 501 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: there was and by the way, this is all positive. 502 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 1: I'm not. Don't cancel me here. But we eventually had 503 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 1: to do sexual harassment seminars, right like at NBC Universal, 504 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 1: we were required to do sexual harassment seminars as a 505 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 1: cast at the whole cast. Oh my god, were you 506 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 1: guys in character as a group, as a whole no 507 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 1: everyone to do and it was like, you know, ninety minutes, 508 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: two hours, and it was once a year we had 509 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 1: to do that. They sit there and sign in and 510 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 1: all the stuff and no joke. The HR reps which 511 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: maybe it was you who came in and they showed 512 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 1: the videos. They were showing videos from our show with 513 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: the red haired girl, red haired girl. They're showing us 514 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 1: videos from what we can't do, and it's like, what 515 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 1: the and no one, no one would say like, okay, 516 00:29:55,720 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: this is ridiculous. And finishing up some of our highlights 517 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 1: of guests that we've had so far this year. On 518 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 1: the Calm Down podcast, Pat McAfee. Everyone loves him, everyone 519 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,960 Speaker 1: knows him, and we just talked about anything and everything, 520 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 1: his wife's awesome charities, and also leaving the NFL. There's 521 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 1: some great Peyton Manning stories in this episode as well. 522 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: When he was he became an entrepreneur at the young 523 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 1: age of five selling cigarettes. I mean it was un 524 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:29,560 Speaker 1: believe this guy. My face hurts so bad talking to him, 525 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 1: just from smiling so much. Teas and peas. How you 526 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 1: can use that phrase anywhere. This one was a must 527 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 1: listen because we got it accepted into the Pat McAfee 528 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: fan club like they loved us that So please listen 529 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,959 Speaker 1: to this one, have a laugh, get ready for your 530 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 1: face to hurt and enjoy. When did you know that 531 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: you were going to be good at this whole TV, hosting, radio, 532 00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 1: all of it. Well, that's very nice. I'm not gonna 533 00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 1: say sure that there are some days where I sound 534 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 1: like an absolute stooge what I'm talking about, Hey, Aaron, 535 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 1: I get myself and I don't know if this happens 536 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 1: to you guys, because you're so professional. Our show is not. 537 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 1: Our show is not blocked out right. There's ideas and 538 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 1: potential things that we could talk about and the boys. 539 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 1: That's why the boys are so talented. They can just 540 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 1: keep up with whatever, right, And I'm just it's basically 541 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 1: just the diaries of almost like a madman while I'm 542 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 1: doing the show, and there's sometimes where I get lost. 543 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm deep in it's something that how did 544 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: I get here? How the hell do I get out 545 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 1: of here? But I've just I've always enjoyed conversation. I've 546 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 1: always been incredibly curious too. Naturally, I'm a very curious person, 547 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 1: and I'm also like one of the most basic humans 548 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 1: of all time. If I like something, there's a really 549 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 1: good chance that a lot of people like. If I 550 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,760 Speaker 1: think something tastes good, there's a really good chance that 551 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 1: a lot of people enjoy the taste of it as well. 552 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:57,880 Speaker 1: So I'm like incredibly lucky. I'm incredibly curious. I like 553 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 1: to think of myself is not that intelligent, but I'm 554 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 1: pretty observant and my memory is pretty solid, so you 555 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 1: kind of piece all those things together. I still remember 556 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,920 Speaker 1: what it's like to be a fan of people that 557 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: talk and listen and shows and things like that. I 558 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 1: feel like I'm trying to talk to my friends whenever 559 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:14,400 Speaker 1: I'm on the show because my friends and I are 560 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 1: a dumb group of people, so you have to explain 561 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 1: a lot of things. But it's it's one of those 562 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 1: things where I've been very very lucky for the experiences 563 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 1: what I'm potentially good at, and uh yeah, I'm just 564 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 1: I'm very very lucky. But I appreciate that compliment coming 565 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: from you, and you, Aaron, because you guys are two 566 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 1: of the goats in this whole thing. You're very sweet. 567 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 1: We know we're just old, but it's just I'll let 568 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 1: you rip. Tom Brady is made looking old. Damn good. 569 00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 1: I'm over that old ship. I don't care anymore. Aaron, 570 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,480 Speaker 1: you killed us. I thought I gave you a great 571 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: intro to Chris. I don't know if you heard it 572 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 1: gave Aaron doesn't want to be um, you know, under 573 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 1: the spotlight. She's good in it, but she doesn't like it. 574 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 1: I like it. I'm like, do we have anything else? 575 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: Do we have any more time for some introest? Hey? 576 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:01,320 Speaker 1: By the way, speaking of some stat lines on one another, 577 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 1: you're May second, we're May fourth. You need to have 578 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: a we need to have a joint birthday party Sinco 579 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: de Mayo style. We have the same birthday. You're on 580 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: the second. I think we need to make this happen. 581 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:16,840 Speaker 1: Conswered by Don Julio. Yeah, on it. Hey, I'm sorry 582 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,239 Speaker 1: I missed all your guys birthdays. By the way, I've 583 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: been self writing mind so hard, Like by the time 584 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: May fourth comes, I'm normally passed out. Happy birthday, I 585 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 1: missed a lot of we're going to talk to you 586 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, I has a great month to be born. Stubborn. 587 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 1: Ass we're stubborn. I got so mad at my mom 588 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 1: well later on in life when I started drinking heavily 589 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 1: that she couldn't hold me in for the fifth because 590 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, how kick as would it have been to 591 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: have a Sinco de Mayo birthday. I was born one 592 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: eleven in the morning on May four, so she couldn't 593 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 1: hold me in so fast, so quickly her labor everything 594 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 1: was I was almost born in the dots in of 595 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 1: my parents car. It was a quick, quick, she's in, 596 00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 1: she's out delivery. That might Dad said, if I was 597 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: a boy, it was either going to be yes or 598 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 1: dots in. So there's no way she was holding me in. 599 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 1: Do you have a good delivery story? Because like May 600 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:12,319 Speaker 1: babies are crazy. Well, so, by the way, great to 601 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: hear that that there wasn't a long labor, you know 602 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,319 Speaker 1: what I mean that if it had been, you know, 603 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,399 Speaker 1: season Pisa are long labors out there. I've heard it 604 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,760 Speaker 1: is tough out there. And hopefully one day my wife 605 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,279 Speaker 1: and I will be able to have a child and 606 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 1: I'll be blessed with that and my kid will be 607 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,359 Speaker 1: a nightmare for sure. I am very scared of what 608 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 1: my child is potentially going to be a demon out there. Um. 609 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,319 Speaker 1: The only thing that's ever said about my labor is 610 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,480 Speaker 1: that my head was just so like I have a 611 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:45,280 Speaker 1: very large cranny, extra large helmet in the NFL, big hats, 612 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,360 Speaker 1: we're talking big. I guess I don't. I don't. I 613 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: don't really wear fitts. It's big. It's like seven and 614 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:58,319 Speaker 1: something eights whatever it is Ken who Kevin menshed with 615 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,040 Speaker 1: the Rangers back in the day when I worked baseball 616 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 1: for ESPNU, she was like a seven and a half. 617 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 1: It was like one of the biggest heads out there. Yeah, 618 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,759 Speaker 1: large cranium on me. And my mom says that it's 619 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 1: been this way since birth, so it's never talked about 620 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,520 Speaker 1: in a glowing like my birth It's always like when 621 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: I came into the world. It's always like that was 622 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,879 Speaker 1: a painful day and everything changed that day. But it's great. 623 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,280 Speaker 1: I love my parents. I was born in mcgeese Women's 624 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 1: Hospital in Pittsburgh. Is your mom's name Sally? Yeah, Sally's 625 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 1: an angel, man beuty, what a great name like Sally 626 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,799 Speaker 1: Aaron and I love the movie Steel mcnoia's and I 627 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 1: just immediately think of Sally Fields and any woman named 628 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 1: Sally is just a sweet little angel. Well Sally and McAfee. 629 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 1: I mean, she is a sweet little angel. But she 630 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 1: does hold good. I mean she she huh, just teasing, 631 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 1: I said, you want to get into it. What's her 632 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 1: biggest grudge she holds against you? Besides the size of 633 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 1: your head? Well against me? I don't know her. Me 634 00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 1: and my mom are good. We have been good for 635 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 1: like the last fifteen years. You know. There was a 636 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,239 Speaker 1: time there though, where we hated. She hated me. I 637 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,919 Speaker 1: was very hateable. I understand that as I was trying 638 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,719 Speaker 1: to go through my entire high school life in existence. 639 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:13,280 Speaker 1: But were you like a partier or were you rebelled 640 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,439 Speaker 1: or you just you know, questioned authority? Why were you bad? Yeah? 641 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,280 Speaker 1: Me and being an authority not really necessarily the greatest. 642 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 1: My peers always seemed to like me. Teachers, principles, cops, 643 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 1: you name it. There's always seemed to be a little 644 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,879 Speaker 1: bit of a disagreement here because I would like to 645 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 1: talk about why they feel the way they feel and 646 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,319 Speaker 1: why I feel the way I feel. I just so 647 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,760 Speaker 1: happened to be a nine or a tenure who's probably 648 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: shouldn't be giving my, you know, my opinions on situation. 649 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 1: So my mom had to deal with a lot of that. 650 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 1: I had a I had a cigarette sales operation going 651 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:49,400 Speaker 1: in fifth grade where I would buy cigarettes for cents 652 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 1: and sell them for fifty cents. And I almost kind 653 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: of expelled and sent the boarding school for that. I mean, 654 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 1: my mom had to answer a lot of questions for me. 655 00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 1: It doesn't say businessman on Wikipedia for no reason, you 656 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 1: know how think this out to sign a plane Already? 657 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,879 Speaker 1: It was still in cigarettes at age five. So my mom, 658 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:06,359 Speaker 1: I don't know how old you are in fifth grade? 659 00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:08,239 Speaker 1: Is that? How old is that is that? I don't know. 660 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,680 Speaker 1: I think you're like twelve, yeah, because yeah, eleven, twelve, 661 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 1: because junior high you start like thirteen, fourteen. I don't 662 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,320 Speaker 1: know what do I know? I wanted extras. I just 663 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,640 Speaker 1: wanted extras. There's this grape juice that was came in 664 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,839 Speaker 1: this little uh, I forget what it was a taste grade. 665 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 1: It was like fifty cents though there was an extra 666 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 1: on top of lunch. And uh, my parents didn't make 667 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:27,960 Speaker 1: a lot of money obviously, like a lot of people, 668 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:29,760 Speaker 1: and I didn't want to ask them for the extras 669 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,239 Speaker 1: every day because the the lunch price was here's a buck, 670 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,440 Speaker 1: here's a buck, here's a buck. And I wanted extras 671 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 1: everybody's evening. So I started hustling, and uh, I started 672 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,480 Speaker 1: selling cigarettes for likes pop, I get them, I get 673 00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,240 Speaker 1: fifty cents in return. And my I was selling everybody 674 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,320 Speaker 1: seniors in high school all the way down to sixth graders. 675 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 1: You know. I was moving and so much so that 676 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,719 Speaker 1: I had a full carton. I actually moved all the 677 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 1: way up to like a cart and I had a 678 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 1: pretty good operation going. And then somebody ratted me out, 679 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:58,200 Speaker 1: and uh, but Sally, Sally went in there and said, 680 00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 1: isn't this a good thing? Though, Like, shouldn't be shouldn't 681 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,319 Speaker 1: we be potentially looking at the bright side of this year? 682 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:04,720 Speaker 1: Had to go to bat for me, but not everybody 683 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 1: felt that way. So I love my mom. She is sweet, 684 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 1: but she she will hate people too, which is awesome. 685 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,400 Speaker 1: That's good. I think I think you should be. I 686 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,839 Speaker 1: think you should be worried about someone that likes everyone. 687 00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:19,319 Speaker 1: You know, everyone give me. My mom always said this, Hey, 688 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:22,279 Speaker 1: chriss it, don't worry if people don't like you. You 689 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,440 Speaker 1: don't like everyone like well, that's a fair point, Kathy. 690 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,640 Speaker 1: So I always say that because people get so upset 691 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,800 Speaker 1: whenever people say, you know your things on the internet, 692 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,120 Speaker 1: and I used to kind of get upset as well. 693 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 1: But if you don't like me, there's a good chance 694 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like you like so well, this is 695 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,879 Speaker 1: a good thing. We've kind of encountered each other. We've 696 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 1: experienced each other. You don't like me, I don't know you. 697 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,799 Speaker 1: I hate you. Let's just keep it moving and have 698 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,839 Speaker 1: a good time. Is it's a great Wait a few 699 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 1: things with that, everybody, Happy holidays. Thank you guys so 700 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,720 Speaker 1: much for supporting us on this journey where we bumble 701 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 1: through and figure out how to even have a podcast. 702 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,040 Speaker 1: We've loved every minute of it, and we appreciate you 703 00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 1: have a safe and happy and healthy New Year, and 704 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 1: don't forget you know, if you need to tell people 705 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 1: at the Christmas dinner table or around the tree, or 706 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 1: if you're doing the whole face timing thing because you 707 00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 1: can't be with your loved ones, if someone's bothering you, 708 00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,400 Speaker 1: or if someone's telling a dramatic story, always go with 709 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 1: Calm Down, Just Calm Down. 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