1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: There was things that Gila said on her wedding day 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:05,559 Speaker 1: that she did to manifest the relationship. And there was 3 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: things that I did that I really want to share 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:09,319 Speaker 1: and I knowe you someone and talked about that too. 5 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: Gila talked about how she read all about love a 6 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: lot and made a list of the things she wants 7 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: and a partner. Not only did I do that, I 8 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: even said it on horrible what I wanted him to 9 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: look like, the music. 10 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 2: How we would travel did and all of that happened. 11 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 1: I used to listen to I don't have the exact one, 12 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: a YouTube of a frequency of manifesting a partner before 13 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: I was going to sleep. 14 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 2: It was a love. 15 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 3: Frequent little motherfucking witch. You think that has some witchy 16 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 3: ash shit. You listen to a frequency of manifestations of. 17 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 2: A man, not really a man, but love. Okay, so witch. 18 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: But while when he came into my life, it wasn't 19 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 1: an active pursuit in the Breonda way. I know Brionda's 20 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: got her things, she's doing right now right. It was 21 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: just more of me changing my frame of thinking because 22 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: I was a real negative, really really bad I'm not 23 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: gonna have this. I'm not gonna have this, I'm not 24 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: gonna have this. Also update what made me think about 25 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,279 Speaker 1: that too? I did that partnership with the linguistic braces inside, 26 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: took them off. I'm about to get regular braces and 27 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: I literally they're eight grands. I was damn near crying 28 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: in the office yesterday. I was like, I get what 29 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: if I don't finish this? What if I can't finish this? 30 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: What if I can't finish this? And the lady told 31 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: me throw with it on this that she googles me, 32 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: and she was like, I saw all those nice things 33 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: you have in no way that your thinking hasn't been positive. 34 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: You need to start thinking of the things you want 35 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 1: for your health. 36 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 4: Okay. 37 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: The same way, she's like, what about weight? Do you 38 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: do this to yourself when you want to lose weight 39 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: or when you want to stop drinking, or when you 40 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: want to eat healthier? Do you say I'm not gonna 41 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: be able to keep that up? And I was like, 42 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: oh my god, I do. Like every time I'm like 43 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: oh this dieeding, go last or whatever. She's like, all 44 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: of how you talk to yourself is dictating this, right. Okay, 45 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: you can do it for money in business, you can 46 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: do it for your teeth, like you're going to fucking last. Like, 47 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 1: don't thing that you're not going to do it. You 48 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: paying this money, you were going to finish, see the 49 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: finish line. And I really am like dictating all back 50 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: to love because I just have been meeting people that 51 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: are happier in their situations, and I think all of them. 52 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 2: Have that attitude. 53 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: Anyone I know right now that's happy in love, is 54 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: happy about their was happy about their life, their circumstances. 55 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 3: Being alone, I want to say that a hundred times, 56 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 3: being happy alone. And I don't mean being happy that 57 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 3: you're single. I mean being happy when you're out. That's 58 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 3: all I've been talking about. Bro, It's a real thing. 59 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 3: I'm glad. I'm just to a point where like even 60 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 3: like the fun I've been having with my roster, my partners, 61 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 3: my lovers, knowing last year I was crying or being 62 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 3: triggered by even being touched by men, like the trauma 63 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 3: from getting over that last relationship. I'm in a such 64 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: a weird place right now. And I just wrote I 65 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:01,519 Speaker 3: just actually made a post on it on Instagram, and 66 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:02,519 Speaker 3: so many girls were. 67 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 2: Like, girl, I'm in the same place. 68 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 4: I want to. 69 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 3: Read the three things that my mind went through where 70 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 3: I'm at right now with with love, especially hearing you 71 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 3: talk about manifesting love. Okay, I said, welcome to the 72 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 3: slide show of my current hypocritical takes you may hear 73 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 3: on current or upcoming episodes. 74 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 4: Number One, I'm single only because I find it. 75 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 3: Really hard to even like someone, but also I want 76 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 3: a serious relationship. But I'm also having a lot of 77 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: fun being single. Two I really like my alone time. 78 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 3: So while i'd love a boyfriend who is close because 79 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 3: I want to cuddle during my free time, I also 80 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:33,799 Speaker 3: want someone in long distance so I don't have to 81 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 3: have them around all the time. Number Three, roster is 82 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 3: currently full of people that I don't see myself being 83 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 3: in a relationship with, although I'm seeking a relationship, a 84 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 3: serious relationship. However, since my roster is full, I'm not 85 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 3: interested in dating or getting to meet anyone new. And 86 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 3: I'm really was like a crazy no shit, So yes, 87 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 3: a serious relationship would be nice. I know, like we've 88 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 3: even been talking like Triple D. 89 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 4: That's going to be his nickname, y'all. 90 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 3: So Triple D was from my past who I really liked, 91 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 3: but he had a person at the time. He got single, 92 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 3: then I got in my relationship, then he disappeared off 93 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 3: the face of the earth. Just found him immediately, bitch. 94 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 3: The day we found him, he said, come tomorrow. Came 95 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 3: two days later because I already had someone planned. So 96 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 3: I went two days later and literally stayed with him 97 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 3: for two days. And I was like, this is We're like, 98 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 3: We're just there and immediately, even though I'm in my 99 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 3: mind like ooh, I like this, nigga, mm, I'm like primary. 100 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 4: I'm immediately liked. I would love for this. 101 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 3: To be maybe my primary, but I don't want him 102 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 3: marry Mandy. 103 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no relationship talk. 104 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 1: You know how every time you click on TikTok and 105 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: it's like a bitch on there and she's like, your 106 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 1: man is going to be intentional. He is going to 107 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: come to you and say, I want You're gonna be this. 108 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 1: He is gonna let you know where you stand. He's 109 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 1: gonna da da da da dad. Let me tell you something. 110 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: This is twenty twenty four. This is a new era 111 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: of dating. Niggas just don't know until they fucking start 112 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: to know. 113 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 3: I mean so, but no, no, no, And to be 114 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 3: honest though, that's what I'm not into right now, like 115 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 3: to me if I am, which is why I'm looking 116 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 3: at everyone that No, I'm not into waiting for someone 117 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 3: to tell. 118 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 4: Me I'm theirs or there. 119 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 2: I'm not talking about waiting. 120 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: But let me just yeah clarify that, because when I 121 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: say niggas don't know until they know, I also be 122 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: went into. We kind of kind of go through these motions. 123 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: For example, before you fuck upbody, it's this weird representative 124 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,119 Speaker 1: like we've been talking about, right me, Well, I believe 125 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: you know in the first few dates. 126 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 2: I think most people. 127 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:36,239 Speaker 1: I think men are nicer, more consistent in communication and talking. 128 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 1: I literally talk about this in the book. I said, 129 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 1: before the pussy game, everything is all good, right, and 130 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: then once they get the pussy, things start to like 131 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,359 Speaker 1: mellow out. Men are so focused on getting pussy, and 132 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: the whole time we're so focused on making sure they're 133 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: worth the pussy. I think it takes a little bit 134 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 1: of time to figure out if someone's a fit, and 135 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 1: I think that we put so much pressure on what 136 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: that time looks like. For example, we're not dating around 137 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: because we're so folks we as, and women are not 138 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: dating around because we're so focused on making sure that 139 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: guy is good, that guy's dating around, and kind of 140 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: still learning how to see what women out of those 141 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 1: women are someone that's more special. You were saying you 142 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: don't like that. That seems like a waiting game, but 143 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: in reality, we all do that. I realized I was 144 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: going out in most relationships I was in, I was 145 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: happy with the person I was dating, but every time 146 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 1: I went out, I kind of looked for something better. 147 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 4: I don't know why. 148 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 1: It was always back there. I probably did that with 149 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: everyone but scissors and right now everyone, even when obey, 150 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: I would look at go out and be like and 151 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 1: I kind of just compare them to my partner. And 152 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,720 Speaker 1: I really don't know why, but my brain was always looking. 153 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: I just don't think that intentionality is exactly black and white. 154 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: I think there's a point when intentionality starts. I think 155 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: we all are dating, we're all on these apps. There's 156 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: a lot of people. This is not fucking nineteen sixty four, 157 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: when you went out with one person and even if 158 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: they were just okay, you pushed it forward. I think 159 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 1: we've got to kind of like, like, really wait and 160 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: see if this is a fit first. And there's so 161 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: many rules that we're putting on top of these people 162 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 1: and dropping them if they don't fit. 163 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 3: So that's the thing, and that's where maybe, and I 164 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 3: don't know where my tribe is the women that feel 165 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 3: the way I do. I'm me and my friends do 166 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 3: not actually operate that way. So I like all of 167 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 3: dating around. No, no, no, you said women, we focus 168 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 3: and we allow men to do that. No, like my 169 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 3: friends bitch. Every time we hit on the phone, we like, bitch. 170 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 3: I can't keep up. 171 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 2: What's it, dalla? 172 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: That's what I'm telling you that my friends and I do. 173 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: I do not think that's an average woman. No, I 174 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: think the average dominum stating one. 175 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 3: No, you just got a little taste of the Horrible 176 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 3: Decisions Patreon, But why it's that there? 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Hey, guys, you got decisions. 185 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 2: Since I'm dressed like a porn star. 186 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, welcome back for an episode of You've Got 187 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: the D. 188 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 3: You got the D is crazy? You've got the D 189 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 3: is crazy. 190 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 2: You've got the D and I want it bigger. 191 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 4: The fact that. 192 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 3: Are these two different color lenses? Or is there blood 193 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 3: flowing through it? First of all, they're cool, it's what 194 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 3: they are. Sorry, you don't understand fast Sean. But also 195 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 3: you you like blood, so they they're giving like a bitch. 196 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 4: You ate a girl out while she was on a period. 197 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 2: My glasses giving. 198 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: I gave a girl a period, had mandy. Yeah, this 199 00:08:59,080 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: is your problem. 200 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 3: If you are watching this on Patreon, please please tell 201 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 3: me whether you agree with it. Looked like blood is 202 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 3: splattered on the frame. 203 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 2: M bitches. 204 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: I mean now, so my birthday party accident, I invited 205 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: one intention. 206 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 3: You didn't accidentally do nothing? Stop stop all, Hey, hey. 207 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: I invited a little too many people. It's now hit 208 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: a capacity. I thought, oh, this is why Weezy redigged 209 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: on my invite. 210 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 3: She said that's not true. Yep, No, that's why. Okay, chancity, 211 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 3: I was one of the ones that got cut off. Mandy, 212 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 3: you are absolutely welcome. 213 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 1: That's not true. That's the only reason I said is 214 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: because I was like. Mandy was like, okay, I know 215 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: we can't record on your birthday. 216 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 2: Bitch, but what about the day after? 217 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: And I was like, fuck because all my friends is 218 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: flying in and it's their last day. 219 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 2: So I know. 220 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 3: Benny was like, bitch, but you better have all your 221 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 3: friends on the podcast and my cousin Anna make all 222 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 3: of them work. Yeah, we'll be a feed would have 223 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 3: been a fun recap and I wanted to belong to 224 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 3: Maybe we could still make it. 225 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 2: Worry, it just can't be. Okay anyway, hold. 226 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 4: On, go back. You invited all the bitches you ate, pussy. 227 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: No, I invited one girl, the last pussy a her, 228 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 1: the one the girl that I said was she was 229 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: sexy and I like her, and she was like, y'all 230 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 1: will call me enough. She's invited intentionally. Now let's just 231 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: say the name is Alexa. 232 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 4: By the way, on Patreon, add that in the notes. 233 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 3: We need the update on that bitch, because I don't 234 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 3: think any of us no she was still around. We 235 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 3: need the update on how she around, Say bitch, I 236 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 3: don't know what to say. Okay, okay, so let me 237 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:38,719 Speaker 3: give y'all a little bit of tea before we get 238 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 3: to our YGD. So, all I know is I'm doing 239 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 3: thirty fifth Thursday party in my house. I thought my 240 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 3: house could fit about fifty people. My mom says forty, 241 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 3: My homegirl says sixty five, My nigga said fifty. But anyway, 242 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:56,559 Speaker 3: so seventy RSVP'd. But I don't think they're all gonna come. 243 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 2: So whatever. 244 00:10:58,200 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 1: It is a Tuesday in La, so maybe everybody else. 245 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: But anyway, basically I leted her. Great when you go 246 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: through party four and you click the names, yes, I 247 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 1: can say how the name is saved in your phone. 248 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:16,079 Speaker 1: So I just thought this particular let's just say, Alexa 249 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: was the Alexa that I fucked. 250 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 2: It's not or don't know it is. 251 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: The opposite is an Alexa from work, but it's an 252 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 1: Alexa I fucked. Okay, this girl that I fucked literally, Oh, 253 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 1: I'll read you this sex. 254 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 3: Oh god, this is how I know I fucked up. 255 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: Hold on, let me tape in her name. 256 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: Oh hey, girly, it's been a long while since we've talked, 257 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: but I felt so excited to see your message pop up, 258 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 1: and as far as invites go, I cannot wait to 259 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: see you and ex said boyfriend name here really looking forward. Also, 260 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: I saw Mom's cooking is on the invite. Can't believe 261 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: we haven't talked him six months and I get to 262 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 1: meet Mom's LMAO. 263 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 2: Hyped as fuck. 264 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,079 Speaker 1: First of all, bitch, I don't even know I invited you. 265 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 1: I thought I was inviting Alexa from work. I invited 266 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: Alexa from field, and now I'm stuck. 267 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 3: You could always just give her the capacity excuse as well. 268 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do that, even though that's a real thing. 269 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it because now it's like, damn, bitch, 270 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 1: I ain't hit you back. 271 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:26,839 Speaker 3: She doesn't come, She's definitely coming, you. 272 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 2: Know how I know she does. Maybe I'm a nasey ask. 273 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 3: Maybe you could fuck all the bitches when you previously 274 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 3: sleep fuck you can fuck all of them on your birthday. 275 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: No, I'm good, But what I will tell you is 276 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 1: the party ends at midnight, and so I need a 277 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 1: good midnight till one o'clock talking about people that were there, 278 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: you know, like the debrief. 279 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 2: When the party's done, you be like, bitch, you seen 280 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 2: so and so she was acting a meth That's what 281 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 2: I need. 282 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: I need everybody to get out so I can talk 283 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 1: shit about them when they leave. 284 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 2: Unless they got me a good gift, then. 285 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 3: I won't okay, and then you gonna eat akuchi from 286 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 3: two to three. 287 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:02,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll see what happens. 288 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 3: It's also my mom is starting to make this very 289 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 3: much about her, and it's uh, it wouldn't be miss. 290 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:09,079 Speaker 4: Julis she did it. 291 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 1: She's like, well, I didn't know I was on the fly. 292 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 1: I was just doing it to be fun and cute 293 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: and cheeky. 294 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 2: Mom's cooking. Who knows sushi? This bitch is like, now 295 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 2: I need to know what I'll be prepping. I need 296 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 2: to know. 297 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: I need a new wig. I want a lace front. 298 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: I would like to try a glued lace front. 299 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 3: But you know what, the fact that you ain't get 300 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 3: your mama to the car, go ahead and get her 301 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 3: that lace week or like. 302 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 4: Give her a lace she wanted to glue down, bitch, 303 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 4: so get it. 304 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 3: It's air Mandy, you better call tay or a Tokyo 305 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 3: style the whoeverd be doing CARDI b here, girl, you 306 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 3: gotta do to ma la. 307 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 2: I don't know who's talking to my mama. Listen, listen. 308 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 2: She ate she'd be on the Internet. 309 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,959 Speaker 3: She'd be liking, I post your mama, Yo, your mama 310 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 3: is on the gram and on the algorithm. 311 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 2: She said she wanted to wig with the lace on it. 312 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 3: My mom be saying sh to me like Mandy is 313 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 3: in a unique l. 314 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 5: Y magnetum something she just readsh like Mandy is doing 315 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 5: power in camp with tempest. 316 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 2: He kind of stays something to them. Yoga is so funny. 317 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 3: I know, I know she gonna she gonna operate that 318 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 3: party like it's her. 319 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 2: Oh, I know, curious. 320 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: And I told my mama, I almost you to say ship. 321 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: I hired there's a girl in like the kinkster world 322 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: that throws sex parties. And I was like, hey, could 323 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: I like hire you to just run my regular party? 324 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: And she was like, oh hell yeah, like I love horrible, 325 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 1: Like she premerved me to come on and she was like, yeah, 326 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: I could manage a party. 327 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 3: You and you the reason why our page ain't ever 328 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 3: gonna get on Shadow Band because they deleted your post 329 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 3: looking for a naked sushi model on the Decisions Decisions page. 330 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 3: They didn't bitch. We got flagged for it. 331 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 2: Oh well, I got one. 332 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 3: It said it looked like it came across like you 333 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 3: were soliciting sex. Mind you let me see you having parents. 334 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 2: The naked sushi girl hit me and it was like, 335 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: you want me to wear an underwear? Right? And I 336 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 2: was like, I mean, if you want. 337 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 3: To, you gonna have sushi on a Kouchi. 338 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: I feel like, is it naked? If it's sushi on 339 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 1: a leg, then no. 340 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 3: They normally have like a leaf, bro, they don't just 341 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 3: put it on the kuchi. 342 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 2: I mean we could put it on a leaf. I 343 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 2: don't want the leaf. Had to have another berrier. 344 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 4: You already got a leaf. Oh my god. 345 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 2: What is the big deal? 346 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 3: And then I want to put one of the salmon 347 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: rolls right on a nipple so we can eat it quick. 348 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 3: Now that's fine, a nipple is fine, but the kuchi 349 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 3: eat cup. 350 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 2: Okay, well you're eating fish anyway. 351 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 4: Oh my god. 352 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:00,239 Speaker 3: Guys, if you want us to answer your dilemma, your problem, 353 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 3: your drama, make sure you email us decisions pot at 354 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 3: gmail dot com. Now this one is a little tricky, 355 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 3: this one. The title is the baby is his? How 356 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 3: would you feel? By the way the way every other 357 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 3: motherfucking letter. Is y'all bitches dealing with y'all niggas having babies? 358 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 3: But it ain't sure this is becoming an epidemic. Bro shit, 359 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 3: here we go. Hey, ladies love the podcast and have 360 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 3: been a loyal listener for years. Mandy, I also love 361 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 3: selective Ignorance. I was so upset when bleep ended, but 362 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 3: selective ignorance one thousand percent makes up for it. 363 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: Thing. 364 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 4: Huh, I'm gonna out. Yeah, girl, we can bleep that. 365 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 4: You know, that's the thing of the past. 366 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 3: All right, I'm going to try my best to keep 367 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 3: this short, and she actually did a good job. 368 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 4: So my current boyfriend and I have been together for. 369 00:16:57,960 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 2: Some time now. 370 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 4: When we initially. 371 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 3: Started talking, we clicked immediately and fell head over heels 372 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 3: for each other. Imagine my surprise when I found out 373 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,119 Speaker 3: he was still messing with his ex. 374 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: Girl. 375 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 3: Fast forward, we semi stop speaking, but we end up 376 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 3: back with each other. This sounds like more of a 377 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 3: situationship than really together, But here we are this time around. 378 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 3: I'm confident he is not messing with his ex no more, 379 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 3: and we never and oh and we even hear that 380 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 3: she's moved on. 381 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 2: Oh that's why he ain't messing with his ex was. 382 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 3: Still randomly calling me, hacks his socials randomly to do 383 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 3: little annoying things. 384 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: Between us, etc. 385 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 3: She refused us to see us happy, as she has 386 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 3: told other mutuals and the two of us when we 387 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 3: were previously in a love triangle. 388 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 4: However, we chose to just ignore her. 389 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 3: Fast forward, my boyfriend learns that she's pregnant through a friend. 390 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 3: We think to ourselves, we think to ourselves, thank god, 391 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 3: she can finally leave us alone. 392 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 4: She goes quiet for some time, but. 393 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:11,439 Speaker 3: Randomly called me in the fall and I ignored it. 394 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 3: Later on found out she was trying to prove to 395 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 3: her current boyfriend that she wasn't talking to my boyfriend anymore. 396 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 2: Oh love, Now can we are present day? 397 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 3: So many little details my boyfriend and I wonder why 398 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 3: was he even prevalent in their relationship or why didn't 399 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 3: she or her bird friend think sooner. 400 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:33,400 Speaker 4: Than it could be my exes? 401 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: Bitch. Also, you sound real delusional here. I'm not even 402 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 3: gonna hold you, and I know that you're a fan. 403 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 2: But girl. 404 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,879 Speaker 3: Girl, as my boyfriend and I put two and two together, 405 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:48,920 Speaker 3: and various instances between last year and now, we don't 406 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:52,399 Speaker 3: understand how it never crossed her mind that the baby 407 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 3: could possibly be my boyfriend, and I feel like this 408 00:18:56,320 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 3: could have been prevented. Oh like again, why were you 409 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 3: pregnant and still worried about us and bothering us? Or 410 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 3: when you found out you were Logically any woman would 411 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 3: think back to when they got pregnant and she should. 412 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 4: Have thought she was sleeping with two people at the time. 413 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 3: Hello, even more specific times that I won't go into 414 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 3: detail on. But again, how did you not consider this? 415 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:23,879 Speaker 4: Now? 416 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 3: My boyfriend and her are not on the same page 417 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 3: related to how to move forward, and their dynamic is trash. 418 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 3: Andy feels the news was sprung on him, but he 419 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 3: is being the most mature about it and it is 420 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 3: adding a lot more pressure to him. It sucks seeing 421 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:45,880 Speaker 3: how his world was turned upside down in what it's 422 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 3: doing to him. 423 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 4: Bitch, you sound. 424 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 3: Crazy, yeah, you, along with the hurt that it's caused 425 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 3: everyone embolmved, including myself. I don't know how to feel, 426 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 3: as this is a crazy ass situation, but also a 427 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 3: lot to conc I feel either way it goes adoption 428 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 3: or not, things may never be the same. I love 429 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 3: him a lot, but just the thought of a relationship 430 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 3: ending with draws is achy. How would you feel? What 431 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 3: would you do now? I will say, girl. 432 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 2: This letter reads like you are the side. 433 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 4: Girl. 434 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 3: This letter reads that, however you feel, y'all fed felt 435 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 3: head over heels, he's never stopped dealing with that ex girlfriend. 436 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 2: Bitch, I don't even see at a point where like, don't. 437 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:40,640 Speaker 4: This letter being written in. 438 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 3: Sounds like, bitch, you are throwed on this nigga and 439 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 3: you're believing whatever he's telling you. But there's a lot 440 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 3: coming to light, and bitch, you're still in delusion as 441 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 3: to where you stand in this man's life. 442 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,919 Speaker 2: Even if adoption, I'm like when she said that, I 443 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 2: was like. 444 00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 3: Oh, so, because they're not on the same page, adoption 445 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 3: might be the thing. 446 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 4: But also you think that that's an option only because 447 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 4: they're not on. 448 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 3: The same page. Like, how involved are you with the 449 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 3: conversations that they're having around this baby? 450 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 2: Not enough? 451 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:19,439 Speaker 4: Because she wrote in what's crazy is? She ended it 452 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 4: with too, how would you feel as if? 453 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 3: Like, to me, I'm not gonna lie, there's so many 454 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 3: holes in this that it does feel like even the 455 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 3: fact that you said my current boyfriend and I have 456 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 3: been together for some time now. Most people put timeframes 457 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 3: on that. I mean, no, I don't even think she 458 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 3: knows when to count it from. 459 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. Like that, let me tell 460 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 2: you how I would feel. 461 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure I'm going to marry my boyfriend and 462 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 3: I would leave him if he got a bitch. 463 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 2: Pregnant and I am in an open relationship. 464 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 3: Let's get that cloud on. I'm not gonna lie to 465 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 3: know that you got with your boyfriend and his ex 466 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 3: girlfriend was harassing your relationship and during this time, he 467 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 3: was fucking. 468 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 4: Her and got her pregnant. 469 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 3: And now you don't know what to do because y'all 470 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 3: were both in hopes that she was actually pregnant by 471 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 3: her boyfriend. 472 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 4: But now it's come to light that she actually could 473 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 4: be pregnant. 474 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,400 Speaker 3: By your man, and now y'all are having the conversations 475 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 3: on what happened. Then somebody take these fake glasses up, Tricky, 476 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say this to you, uh oh, and I'm 477 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 3: gonna hold your hand when I said, there are so 478 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 3: many other niggas period, and I know. 479 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 2: That you're in love with this one, so you can't 480 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 2: pass how it feels. 481 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:51,479 Speaker 3: She can't see passed it at all. 482 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 2: She love. There are other niggas. 483 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:57,639 Speaker 3: I want you to think of niggas like there's movies 484 00:22:57,680 --> 00:22:58,400 Speaker 3: on Netflix. 485 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 2: That's how many other niggas there are, bitch. 486 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 1: And you know how it just seems like, but I 487 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: love this one movie, bitch, Go get another nigga. 488 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 2: There's another movie you could fall in love with. 489 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 4: You you just ain't watched it yet. 490 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 491 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:18,160 Speaker 2: Oh, Sister Jesus says, honestly, marriage and love. 492 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,119 Speaker 1: Yes, I think that everybody listening to this show for 493 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: the last few years knows. I'm so happy and I'm 494 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:29,120 Speaker 1: so in love. Bitch, I have a line. Yeah, I don't. 495 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 3: I don't understand how there's so many whether it's lifestyle, 496 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 3: whether you got cheated on, whether it's a previous relationship 497 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 3: that wasn't all the way cut off before you got there. 498 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 3: I don't know how so many women are choosing to 499 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 3: stay with a man that is about to create a 500 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 3: family with another woman that's not you, while y'all are 501 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 3: supposed to be in a relationship. 502 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 2: Bitch, because you ain't f gonna go over there. She 503 00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 2: knew him. I'm behind you. 504 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 3: You had already said that she was harassing you. She 505 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 3: was going through his socials. She was blowing you up, 506 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:12,159 Speaker 3: like you and her don't have a healthy relationship together. 507 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 3: So now imagine him having to co parent with this 508 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 3: with this girl and you're in a relationship with him. 509 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 4: Is that really the time? 510 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 3: Is that the ghetto you want to live in, Like, 511 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 3: I don't need to be where they. 512 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: Want to fire someone. They need to sunset. You need 513 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,879 Speaker 1: to sunset on this relationship. There's a few things here. 514 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 3: I don't want sunsetting the relationship. 515 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: It's sunsetting means like slowly phasing it out of your life. 516 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 1: Maybe you feel like it's too hard to leave him. 517 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 1: I don't know what's drawing. 518 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 2: You to him. 519 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 1: I'm assuming it's his cock, but oh cock, I'm just 520 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just I can't I've never had a 521 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: dick like this, so it has to be the cock. 522 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 1: And all I'm going to say is I could only 523 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 1: think it's because you really can't. 524 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 2: Imagine yourself outside of it. 525 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 1: So like the only reason we try to improve and 526 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: stay loyal and do all this shit is because. 527 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 2: We cannot see ourselves on the other side. 528 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: It's like a friend that's had a really tough breakup, 529 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 1: like and you and that bitchmen trying to break up 530 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 1: with that nigga for years. 531 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 2: You like, bruh, just go, but it's really too hard 532 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 2: for her to do. It's like leading a bad job. 533 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 4: Whatever it is. 534 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: You just wrote that whole thing for us to both 535 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 1: tell you, bitch, you even sound like the problem that 536 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 1: niggain't shit, and I'm not even saying it. 537 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 3: I feel like you ain't shit if you don't leave 538 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 3: you to me, it seems like this was more of 539 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:49,879 Speaker 3: a situation ship you. You were throwing off this nigga 540 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 3: and he was dipping and dabbling back in his ex koochy, 541 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:58,600 Speaker 3: and now she's pregnant, and I just feel like I'm 542 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 3: gonna be honest with you. 543 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 4: I don't feel like. 544 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 3: He's been honest with you, and you don't feel I don't. 545 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 3: I know he ain't been honest with you. Thank you 546 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 3: the fact that y'all are even filling in the holes 547 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 3: and going over timelines together. This is a hot ass 548 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:19,520 Speaker 3: ghetto mess. Whether she chooses to put it up for 549 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 3: adoption or not, whatever the case may be, you want 550 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 3: to live in. 551 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 2: That's another thing. 552 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't even know why you genuinely think that, 553 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 3: because him and her ain't together. She gonna go through 554 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,199 Speaker 3: a whole pregnancy and then just put the baby up 555 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:36,640 Speaker 3: for adoption? 556 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 2: Real, please she know him? 557 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 3: That's an ex And allegedly if she currently has another 558 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 3: boyfriend in the picture, why would they just not be 559 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 3: a family and your your boyfriend. 560 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 4: Just take care of it financially. 561 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 3: This seems like there's still a lot of holes this 562 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:57,159 Speaker 3: and I'm not talking about the hold like, there's just 563 00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,719 Speaker 3: a lot of holes in this. And it does seem 564 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 3: like you are being left in the dark. 565 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 1: You know not we left in the dark, bitch. You 566 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 1: left ship out because you ain't want us to judge. 567 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 1: But we judging with what you judge. 568 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 3: And you know I love you, thank you for listening 569 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 3: and supporting the pots. But this is ghetto and this 570 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,679 Speaker 3: is not the ghetto you want you. 571 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:22,920 Speaker 2: Sorry, Look, I'm tired of having to google y'all's emails. 572 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,200 Speaker 2: Just show me what you look. 573 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 3: You googling the emails is crazy if the story is 574 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 3: really okay, like not every person, but like, for example, 575 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 3: the one who was like, my. 576 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 2: Man might have a bitch pregnant right now we're waiting 577 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 2: on the results. I was like, hold on, Shamari. 578 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 3: I'm looking bitch y'all on Praage round two, y'all was like, 579 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 3: I can't find the article. 580 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 4: Put the article on patreons so we can keep. 581 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,719 Speaker 2: Bitch. I needed to see him, need to know what 582 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 2: it looked like when you get dumb. 583 00:27:55,760 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 3: Bruh, these niggas be schmitty. I'm ugly making these bitches 584 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:00,920 Speaker 3: so crazy. 585 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 1: I've gone crazy over in nigga too. And one of 586 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,119 Speaker 1: my homegirls was like, when I was going crazy, she 587 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,679 Speaker 1: was like, show me a picture, let me see him. 588 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 1: And I was like, because I know he ain't looked 589 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: good enough, but his dick was crazy. So I sent 590 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: her the dick and literally wrote back and was like, okay. 591 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 3: I told y'all that's why my niggas all be fine, 592 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 3: because if. 593 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 4: You cheat on me, I know what I signed up for. 594 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 2: What it was like the dick that I went crazy over. 595 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,639 Speaker 3: Hold on one second, for those of you subscribed on 596 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 3: the Patreon, this is the thing, a tube of moose. 597 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 2: That's how it was just the right girth. 598 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 4: Oh it was. 599 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 3: It filled me up. 600 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 1: But anyway, thank you so much for listening. 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