1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: Welcome to an all new episode of her playbook, presented 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: by Kendra Scott. Game Day Just got Personal. Find your 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 1: winning look at Kendra Scott, where team spirit meets personal style. 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: Shop jewelry, accessories and more at your New York area 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: Kendra Scott store or online at Kendrascott dot com. My 6 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: guest today, I am thrilled to be joined by a 7 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: three time Olympian and American track and field athlete specializing 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: in the high jump. Please welcome to the show, Vashdie Cunningham. 9 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining me today. 10 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 2: Vashti, thank you for having me. I'm really excited to 11 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: be here. 12 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to talk to you, and we got 13 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: to start with some recent news. Obviously, you recently jumped 14 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: a season best one point nine to seven meters to 15 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: win the twenty twenty five Track and Field Outdoor Championship 16 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 1: in the high jump. This marked your seventh national title, 17 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: earning you a trip to next month's Worlds in Tokyo, Japan, 18 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: which is incredible. I know this season has had a 19 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: lot of ups and downs for you, but how rewarding 20 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: was that moment. 21 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 2: That moment was just a blessing. This season started out 22 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,680 Speaker 2: really slow. It's been a rough one at that I 23 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: can say, But I think that being able to jump 24 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 2: the standard at the World or at the US Championships 25 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 2: was just a huge moment for me. 26 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you mentioned jumping the standard and how much 27 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: adversity you've gone through this season. Talk a little bit 28 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 1: about kind of the differences that you've seen in your 29 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: own performances this year as opposed to years past. 30 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 2: I often joke with my friends this season, They're like, 31 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,559 Speaker 2: how's your season going, And I'm like, this has actually 32 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 2: been my worst season as a professional in my career. 33 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 2: I'm used to jumping the standard at the first competition 34 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: of the year and then like playing get safe throughout 35 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 2: the rest of the season, knowing that I'm secured, But 36 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 2: this has just been a little bit of a different season. 37 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 2: I think God has definitely matured me throughout this season 38 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 2: and shown me that I need to rely on Him 39 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: rather than my own ability. But getting the standard at 40 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: that meet was like such a prime, prime thing for 41 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 2: me to do for my encouragement and just moving forward 42 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: to know that, like, just because the season started out 43 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:13,079 Speaker 2: slow doesn't mean it's going to finish slow, right, And. 44 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: I mean that's got to be such an incredible mental 45 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: challenge for you as an athlete, as somebody who's used 46 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: to challenging your body physically, going through that mental challenge 47 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: and that mental adversity of navigating Okay, I'm somebody who's 48 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: used to performing at such a high level and who's 49 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: used to kind of my expectation is the standard, and 50 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: now having to strive to achieve that is a different, 51 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: different game a bit. 52 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Definitely, the mental aspect of it all has 53 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 2: been an uncomfortable space for me to navigate. I've never 54 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 2: really experienced on success so consistently in gay career until 55 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 2: twenty twenty five, and it's really taught me to just 56 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 2: shift the attention to God and what his intentions are 57 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 2: and what his word says about how he knows exactly 58 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 2: what we're going through and how he's concerned for us. 59 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 2: And so that's been like my only peace throughout the 60 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 2: whole season is knowing that he knows where I'm at 61 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 2: and that every good and perfect gift comes from Him. 62 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 1: Now, you are no stranger to the athlete mentality. Your 63 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: family is very athletic. Your mom was a ballet dancer, 64 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: your dad, Randall Cunningham played sixteen seasons a quarterback in 65 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: the NFL. Giants fans very familiar with his tenure with 66 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: the Eagles. Having that mentality and that environment. 67 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 2: To grow up in. 68 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: How do you think that shaped you as an athlete? 69 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: I think that it's shaped so much of me and 70 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 2: the way that I think, the way that I train, 71 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 2: the way that I recover mentally from certain things. I 72 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 2: definitely use my dad as much as I can from 73 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 2: his past experience to what even what he goes through now, 74 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 2: because is your career never ends. Just because you're not 75 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 2: playing or you're not competing doesn't mean that your legacy ends. 76 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: And so he's taught me so many things about when 77 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 2: he was at the top and he was starting and 78 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: he was playing, shifting to when he was benched, and 79 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 2: shifting to when he was booed by his own crowd. 80 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 2: And so there's just so much that he's taught me 81 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 2: through the years of dealing with fans and dealing with 82 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 2: media and also staying sane at where I am actually 83 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 2: in the midst of all of it. 84 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: Your dad, I know, travels with you quite a bit 85 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 1: and coaches you as well. What's that dynamic been like. 86 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 2: Uh, It's definitely been something that I've had to mature 87 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 2: to find my true gratitude for it. You know when 88 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 2: you're seventeen eighteen years old and you're planning on going 89 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 2: to college and then you just turn professional and realize like, oh, 90 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: I'm going to be home. I'm not going to get 91 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 2: away from anything or have my own time to grow 92 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 2: as my own individual in a new state. It's definitely 93 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: been something that was like a learning curve for me. 94 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 2: I'm always I've always been with my dad and traveled 95 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 2: with him, but it was different when I graduated high 96 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 2: school and I'm starting to make money and I'm still 97 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 2: listening to him try to like, Okay, you need to 98 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 2: be home at nine pm and you need to focus 99 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 2: like this. You don't need to be doing this, you 100 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 2: don't need to be doing that. And I'm like, look, 101 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 2: if I were in college right now, you wouldn't be 102 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 2: able to tell me all these things. And so just 103 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 2: over the years, this is my now ninth year as 104 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 2: a professional. Over the years, I've really got to understand 105 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 2: that it's truly a blessing to be able to travel 106 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 2: with my dad and to just spend the quality time 107 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 2: that we do together. 108 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, it's of course too. When you see him, 109 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: he's your dad. I mean, sports fans zoom out and like, 110 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 1: this is the guy who's throwing Randy Moss touchdown passes 111 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: his rookie year. This is the guy who played with 112 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: Eagles for so long. You're like, this is my dad. 113 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 2: I don't want which I get. 114 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: That's such an interesting dynamic. You meant too for going college. 115 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: You turned down both volleyball and track and field scholarships 116 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 1: to go pro, immediately got a deal with Nike and 117 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 1: got that done. How hard was that decision for you 118 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: or was it hard? 119 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 2: It was a little bit more difficult for me than 120 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 2: it was for my dad and my mom. I think 121 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 2: my mom was in the direction of like, whatever you 122 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 2: want to do. But I really really loved volleyball, and 123 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 2: I really had dreams of just leaving Vegas, going off 124 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 2: on my own and just being able to be in 125 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 2: a program. And so it wasn't like an extremely hard decision. 126 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,479 Speaker 2: My dad put it on the table. He was like, 127 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 2: you can either make money now or you can make 128 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,480 Speaker 2: money in five years. And I was like, Okay, I'm 129 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 2: going to make money now. And looking back at it, 130 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 2: I sometimes miss volleyball. But I would never go back 131 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 2: and try and change anything about the way that God 132 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 2: brought this opportunity for me. Yeah, You've had so. 133 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: Many unique experiences through it, and you know a lot 134 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: of athletes will say, Okay, I'm going to do this 135 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: now while I can and go back and do school 136 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: later in life, which will always be an option. I'm 137 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: want to talk about your Olympic experiences. You've been to 138 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: the Olympic Games three different times, in Rio and sixteen 139 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: and Tokyo and twenty one in Paris, most recently in 140 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four. But Rio, that one really stands out 141 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 1: such a unique experience. You were eighteen years old, the 142 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: youngest US track and field athlete to make the team. 143 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 1: What was that Olympic Games like you like for you? 144 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: And was that what you expected? 145 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: That? That was an experience for sure. I had no 146 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 2: real experience of being on a world's team before. I 147 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 2: didn't even really know that I could have qualified for that. 148 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 2: It just like kind of happened earlier in the year. 149 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 2: I had a moment of success with the World Indoor 150 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: Championships where I was not even really looked at as 151 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 2: somebody who could have won until the week before or 152 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 2: when I had the US trials for that I ended 153 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 2: up winning and getting the standard and then being invited 154 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 2: last minute to come back and jump with for Worlds 155 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 2: and I ended up winning. And I had no idea 156 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 2: how big that would have been in that moment or 157 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 2: how it would have impacted my career as a high jumper, 158 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 2: And so going to the Olympics was something that I 159 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 2: was just hearing throughout the year. But when I got there, 160 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 2: I was so young, I was so shy. I didn't 161 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 2: know a single person besides my roommate, which was Sidney McLaughlin, 162 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 2: and we were both the youngest on the team, and 163 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 2: I just remember like we were just like two kids 164 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,439 Speaker 2: in this big world and we didn't know what to do, 165 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 2: what to expect, who to talk to. And that was 166 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 2: something that I remember because I have been now twice 167 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 2: since then and every experience is different. I remember like 168 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 2: taking these long hour drives to go hang out with 169 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 2: my family because I would just stay in the room 170 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 2: all day. And then I remember the competition. The competition 171 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 2: was crazy. The bar came in higher than I've ever 172 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 2: came in in a competition. I'd want to say, it 173 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 2: came in at maybe six feet or six', one and 174 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 2: that's usually like my second or third. Jump so it 175 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: was just a crazy. Experience but there's one moment THAT 176 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 2: i think about from that, competition and it was the prelim. 177 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 2: ROUND i had two misses AND i had one more 178 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 2: attempt to make the height to go to the, finals 179 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 2: AND i hurt my ankle like the second, jump AND 180 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,560 Speaker 2: i had one more jump, left and AND i looked 181 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 2: at my dad AND i was, shaking AND i was so, 182 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,719 Speaker 2: scared AND i was, LIKE i don't know If i'm 183 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,959 Speaker 2: going to make. This AND i had all the pressure 184 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 2: of everybody telling, me like you're gonna be the youngest 185 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 2: gold medal and he was just told, me looked at, 186 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 2: me and he was like Trust. God and SO i 187 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 2: just took everything out of my mind AND i went 188 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 2: AND i, jumped AND i made it into the, finals 189 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 2: AND i was just, LIKE i don't even know what 190 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 2: to do after. THIS i felt LIKE i won the 191 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 2: competition AND i had a whole nother day of, jumping 192 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 2: but it was that was an experience That i'll never 193 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 2: forget that. 194 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: Is, Incredible AND i, mean what an incredible moment, too 195 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: of just a test of your mental strength and your 196 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: fortitude and that of SAYING i don't know IF i 197 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: can push, on and you, know whether people are competing 198 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: In Olympic games or just overwhelmed with life and, moments 199 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 1: there's those moments that we all realize where we, THINK 200 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 1: i CAN i handle, this CAN i take this? On 201 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: and you just got to push through and just trust 202 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: Like i'm okay with whatever the. Outcome, yeah what an incredible. Experience, 203 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 1: now you mentioned the standard often for fans listening to 204 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 1: the show or for listeners out there who are maybe 205 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 1: not as familiar with track and field and, go what 206 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: is the standard when it comes to high? 207 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 2: Jump, okay so the standard there's a standard for every. 208 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 2: Event for the, sprints you need to run a certain 209 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 2: time to even be qualified to make it to The 210 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 2: olympics or to The World. Championships for high, jump you 211 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 2: have to jump a certain height for the women one ninety. 212 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 2: Seven i'm gonna just say it's six feet. FIVE i 213 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 2: don't know what the change, is but that's like a 214 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 2: very high. Standard there's not many women in THE us 215 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 2: who jump six feet. Five i'm one of two women 216 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 2: who have The World championship. Standard the other women's high 217 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 2: jumper is actually not competing right, now So i'll be 218 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,319 Speaker 2: the only one from THE us going with the. Standard 219 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 2: but it's like the, aim that's where you. Aim you 220 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 2: look at that height for the whole season and you 221 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 2: try to achieve that just to have the weight off 222 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 2: of your, shoulders because if you don't achieve, that then 223 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 2: it goes down to a point, system and that all 224 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 2: matters about what type of competitions you're. 225 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 1: In, yeah, Yeah and that just kind of fluctuates each 226 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 1: time and each, competition and it puts a little bit 227 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: more pressure on some of the more nuanced. Moments, now you, 228 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: know your First Olympic, games you mentioned you were kind 229 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: of bright eyed and not quite sure what to take on. 230 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: There as you became more of a veteran in this, 231 00:11:56,080 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: space how did your role with you, KNOW teamu and 232 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: also with the way that you approach these events evolve 233 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: over the. 234 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 2: YEARS i think that my role kind of shifted a little. 235 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 2: BIT i, Mean i'm still like a really shy girl 236 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 2: when it comes to these big competitions and team. EVENTS 237 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 2: i feel like SINCE i didn't go to, COLLEGE i 238 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 2: missed out on meeting a lot of the professional athletes 239 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 2: and just knowing everybody when you come into the professional 240 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 2: side of. It So i'm a little bit shy when 241 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 2: it comes to being in the big group settings and 242 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 2: in the team, meetings LIKE i sit with the same 243 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 2: people WHERE i sit by, myself so that role kind 244 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 2: of never. CHANGED i never became like the team captain 245 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 2: or anything as of. Yet and then moving forward in the, 246 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: COMPETITIONS i feel like just being able to see the 247 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 2: girls THAT i jump against From, europe the girls From 248 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 2: australia over the course of, time and like getting to 249 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 2: know them outside of the competition has just made me 250 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 2: so much more comfortable AS i compete against. Them not 251 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 2: LIKE i get out there and we're talking and painting 252 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 2: nails or anything like, that BUT i look at them 253 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 2: And i'm, like we are going through the same. Thing 254 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 2: we have all of the pressure that this is the biggest. 255 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 2: Competition the whole world is watching The, olympics and it's 256 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 2: good to see a familiar face out. There. 257 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah that is a huge stage because it is 258 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: literally the whole world. WATCHING i, mean you, know, here 259 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: guys when they win A Super, bowl say we're world, 260 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: champions but this is quite literally on the world. Stage 261 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: it's a whole another ballgame, NOW i. Know you, know 262 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: we talked about how much your dad is such a 263 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: support and a coach and a presence and it has you, 264 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: know followed your track and field. Career how much do 265 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 1: you remember about following his football? Career are you a 266 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 1: football fan still and did you you know what was 267 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: were some of your favorite memories growing up around that. 268 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 2: Environment, YES i definitely remember going to some of the 269 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 2: games WHEN i was younger and just seeing the way 270 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 2: that people light up when they saw, him and when 271 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 2: he would stop and sign or stop and take, pictures 272 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 2: and just the impact that he had on the fans 273 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:13,079 Speaker 2: and on, people like he still has the. Impact when 274 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 2: we came To, miami we were getting our rental car 275 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 2: and we were checking, out and the guy who checked 276 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 2: us out just lit up with like the brightest eyes 277 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 2: and he was, LIKE i was telling my kids about. 278 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 2: You AND i just look at my dad and like 279 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 2: not try to give him too much, attention But i'm, Like, 280 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 2: okay like you still got. It, Yeah i'm like you're that. 281 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 2: Guy but it's definitely it was definitely different growing. Up 282 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 2: LIKE i was, young AND i didn't go online and 283 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 2: watch his highlights all the time BECAUSE i had him coaching, 284 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 2: me AND i had him just raising me and my 285 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 2: brother at the, time and SO i definitely didn't understand 286 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 2: UNTIL i got to about like middle, school just how 287 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 2: incredible what he was doing. Was i'm still a football. 288 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 2: FAN i don't know if you want to know who 289 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 2: my team is BECAUSE i see all the giant stuff 290 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 2: in the. 291 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: BACKGROUND i, mean you gotta gotta gotta tell all. 292 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 2: Right all, RIGHT i mean this is. 293 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: Fair you, know this is friendly. EXPECTED i, mean you've 294 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: got to be your dad's spent the majority of his. 295 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: Career there a lot of memories there that totally is. 296 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: Fair and, listen The giants And eagles play twice a. 297 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: Year we'll, we'll we'll have fun with. 298 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 2: It, yeah Maybe i'll see you out there one of these, 299 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 2: days exactly. 300 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: Exactly it's got to be such a unique. Experience AND 301 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: i can imagine. Too you're so, young and again you're, 302 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: like this is my, dad and it's not until you 303 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 1: see it through somebody else's, eyes the guy giving you 304 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: the rental, car or the people lighting up when you see, 305 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 1: Him you're, like, wow this is this is the reaction 306 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: to the guy who you, know we're having dinner every 307 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: night and and he's making Sure i'm doing the best 308 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: in terms of my own homework and athlete and all 309 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: that kind of. Stuff as, you you, know have grown and, 310 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: evolved not just as an athlete but as a young 311 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: woman and all. That what are some of the things 312 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 1: that you wish you could tell your younger, self some 313 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: piece of advice that you've learned at this point in 314 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: your career that you, Think, wow HAD i known that 315 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: WHEN i was, sixteen, eighteen just getting started on this, 316 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: journey how beneficial that would be. 317 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 2: Something THAT i would tell my younger. SELF i think 318 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 2: THAT i would tell my younger self that the weight 319 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 2: of what everybody is saying does not. Change like who 320 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 2: you are and What god has for, you the plans 321 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 2: That god has for. You i've NEVER i wouldn't say 322 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 2: THAT i was ever somebody who really cared what people 323 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 2: had to, say but definitely coming in this into the, 324 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 2: Career LIKE i remember going to my First, Olympics like 325 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 2: there were so many people telling me, Like i'm going to, 326 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 2: win and so it was locked in my mind, that 327 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 2: like it doesn't matter If i'm eighteen years, OLD i 328 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 2: have to win because everybody's telling Me i'm gonna. Win 329 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 2: AND i have to AND i can't disappoint, them BUT 330 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 2: i would definitely tell myself That god's plan is so 331 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 2: much bigger than what my plan is for, myself and 332 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 2: the things That he can do are going to succeed 333 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 2: WHAT i even plan to. Do so that would be 334 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 2: my number one tip to my younger. 335 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 1: SELF i love that because so often we have such 336 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:24,239 Speaker 1: high expectations for, ourselves or we are so hard on 337 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: ourselves when we fall short of our own personal goals 338 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: or the goals that are loved ones set for. Us 339 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: but then when you zoom out and you look at 340 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 1: the bigger picture and, Realize, okay there's a lot more 341 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: to this story, here and it all makes sense in 342 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:39,679 Speaker 1: hindsight right exactly exactly. That Ashley, cunningham thank you so 343 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: much for taking the time. Today it has been such 344 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: a pleasure talking to, you And i'm wishing you nothing 345 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: but success as continue this journey and with worlds coming 346 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: up and all, that and we'll be. 347 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 2: Watching thank you so. MUCH i really had a great 348 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 2: time talking to you as. 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