WEBVTT - RIP Rob Reiner

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome home, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>This is episode of Native Lampid where we gave it

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<v Speaker 1>to you straight no chaser this holiday season. I am

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<v Speaker 1>your co host Tiffany Cross here with Angela Rye, but

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<v Speaker 1>Kari Sellers and Andrew Gillum. That's right, ladies, first back

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<v Speaker 1>in the lead, chare and we got a busy show

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<v Speaker 1>for y'allday, what are we talking about, guys.

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<v Speaker 3>So much?

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<v Speaker 4>We have some tragedy that of course struck Brown University's

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<v Speaker 4>campus with two students dying summing critical condition. And my godsend,

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<v Speaker 4>happens to be a student there at Brown University, plays

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<v Speaker 4>on the football team, but is an academic on academic scholarship.

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<v Speaker 4>And he will join us today. His name is f

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<v Speaker 4>Ali Ho.

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<v Speaker 3>He'll join us to talk about that shooting that is devastating.

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<v Speaker 5>We're going to definitely keep them in our prayers. I

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<v Speaker 5>just want to take a point of personal privilege here

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<v Speaker 5>before we get too far down in this and give

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<v Speaker 5>a shout out to the South Carolina State Bulldog Bos

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<v Speaker 5>who are there HBCU national champions. I think it's necessary

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<v Speaker 5>for me to say that with UH. With Andrew Gillham

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<v Speaker 5>on this podcast as well, I think we all need

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<v Speaker 5>to give credence to Chenness Burry and the Sacon State Bulldogs.

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<v Speaker 5>I was in Atlanta this past weekend beat preview A

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<v Speaker 5>and M along those same lines. We're going to keep

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<v Speaker 5>it in the football family and talk about something that

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<v Speaker 5>has kind of shocked the cultural world. Coach Sharone Moore, UH,

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<v Speaker 5>coach at University of Michigan. He crashed out a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit and UH we'll talk about all the dynamics around

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<v Speaker 5>his what is now infamous cash crash out as the

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<v Speaker 5>first African American head coach in the history of University

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<v Speaker 5>of Michigan football.

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<v Speaker 3>You can also say cash out, he's cashed out as

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<v Speaker 3>well as.

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<v Speaker 5>Get say that he out of cash.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's too Andrew.

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<v Speaker 2>What you got?

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<v Speaker 6>That's true?

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 6>The tragedy's unfortunately continued this week, and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 6>reflect just for a moment on I think someone who

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<v Speaker 6>was mutually known to a number of us, Rob Reiner,

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<v Speaker 6>his wife Michelle, and they're untimely and very tragic passing.

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<v Speaker 6>Just to reflect a little bit on some I think

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<v Speaker 6>interesting interconnections that different ones of us may have.

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<v Speaker 1>We do want to kick off the show with Rob Reiner. Andrew,

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<v Speaker 1>you and I both had a personal relationship with I

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<v Speaker 1>and Michelle, and on our production call when we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the show, you shared that you guys had lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe breakfast when you were on the campaign trail,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've certainly broken bread with them. But want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear your story about your time and just really quickly

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<v Speaker 1>before so our viewers know. This week, Rob Reiner and

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<v Speaker 1>his wife Michelle were found deceased in their home in

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<v Speaker 1>their Los Angeles home, and what came out later this

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<v Speaker 1>week is that their son Nick is being charged with

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<v Speaker 1>those murders. So very tragic story all around, and even

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<v Speaker 1>our ignorant ass, remorseless ass president weighed in on it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would love for us to just first focus

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<v Speaker 1>on the beautiful life and the beautiful person that Rob

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<v Speaker 1>Reiner was, he and his lovely wife Michelle. So, Andrew,

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<v Speaker 1>what was your experience with.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, me had actually for those who who know me

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<v Speaker 6>maybe followed the campaign a little bit, you know that

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<v Speaker 6>Norman Lear and I were very close. I worked for

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<v Speaker 6>the organization he founded, People for the American Way and

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<v Speaker 6>people for the American Way Foundation for all the years

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<v Speaker 6>of my early career working and movement work, and got

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<v Speaker 6>very close to Norman and his wife Lynn. And as

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<v Speaker 6>a result of that, if you knew Norman, then you

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<v Speaker 6>knew Rob because Norman in some ways kind of discovered

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<v Speaker 6>him even though Carl rein Or his father, was already

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<v Speaker 6>in the entertainment business. He tells his story of playing

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<v Speaker 6>jacks with one of Norman's daughters, one of his older daughters,

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<v Speaker 6>and Norman reflecting to Carl, you know, hey, that kid's

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<v Speaker 6>kind of funny, and Carl basically saying that kid, no,

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<v Speaker 6>he's a mute. He doesn't talk. You know, his father,

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<v Speaker 6>Carl didn't really observe him as being someone who could

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<v Speaker 6>really be a participant in this very outwardly facing business

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<v Speaker 6>of entertainment, and Norman saw something different, ended up, of course,

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<v Speaker 6>casting him for the role that so many of us

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<v Speaker 6>came to know him as. And that was me head

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<v Speaker 6>from all in the family show that you know, we

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<v Speaker 6>probably could debate this another time that I would question

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<v Speaker 6>whether or not could even take liftoff in today's environment.

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<v Speaker 6>It just held such a vivid mirror up to the

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<v Speaker 6>country through the use of satire about the kind of

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<v Speaker 6>overt discrimination and racism that existed, and Rob played a

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<v Speaker 6>very memorable role as sort of the liberal student and

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<v Speaker 6>the son in law to Archie Bunker. That again, I

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<v Speaker 6>think held up a really important vivid mirror mirror to

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<v Speaker 6>the country to see itself reflected. But through satire, which

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<v Speaker 6>I think is sometimes the best way of helping us

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<v Speaker 6>reckon with some of the more difficult issues in our community.

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<v Speaker 6>We got Rob was a mainstay around people for the

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<v Speaker 6>American Waves events that we would all hold each year

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<v Speaker 6>in Los Angeles. And actually during the campaign, my campaign

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<v Speaker 6>for governor, I made a number of trips out to

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<v Speaker 6>Los Angeles and on one of those occasions got to

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<v Speaker 6>sit down with Rob and Norman Lear for lunch. And

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<v Speaker 6>you know, frankly, it was a very welcome actually after

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<v Speaker 6>giving him a quick update of the race, of a

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<v Speaker 6>very welcome distraction from the race for governor, just watching

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<v Speaker 6>them and listening to them and laughing. But a personality

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<v Speaker 6>that's just so big, a heart that's so big, a

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<v Speaker 6>man who cared so big. I didn't know Michelle, as

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<v Speaker 6>you know as well, but could only imagine that a

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<v Speaker 6>person with such a huge heart, could only find his

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<v Speaker 6>match in someone with equally as large a heart.

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<v Speaker 5>And so.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, prayers up for him in his family and

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<v Speaker 6>the very tragic circumstances surrounding his passing in Tiffany, I

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<v Speaker 6>know you also had your experiences with them, and I

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<v Speaker 6>love to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I want to be celebratory of his life because

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<v Speaker 1>he was such a staple in my life before we

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<v Speaker 1>even had a chance to meet. He was not, as

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<v Speaker 1>you said, the iconic character meathead on all in the family,

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<v Speaker 1>but he also like my early, my earliest movies that

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<v Speaker 1>I was so addicted to. He was a producer, so

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<v Speaker 1>stand by me, that was one of my favorite movies,

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<v Speaker 1>The Princess Bride. I still know every line from that movie.

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<v Speaker 1>When Harry met Sally is one of the movies I

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<v Speaker 1>watch every Christmas. Misery of You Good Men, Ghost of Mississippi.

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<v Speaker 1>He was so conscious and so talented, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>just really enjoyed when I got a chance to put

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<v Speaker 1>a face to the name and a personality to this

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<v Speaker 1>person who had shaped my childhood, much of my childhood.

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<v Speaker 2>But the sad part of this is so.

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<v Speaker 1>When I this is probably twenty eighteen, I was in

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<v Speaker 1>La and Rob knew I was going to be there,

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<v Speaker 1>and he asked if I wanted to come out to

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<v Speaker 1>Brentwood and have lunch with him and his wife Michelle,

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<v Speaker 1>or if I want to come to their home and

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<v Speaker 1>have dinner. And so because of my schedule, we ended

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<v Speaker 1>up having lunch and we had the most wonderful time.

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<v Speaker 1>I will honor their privacy about some of the teams

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<v Speaker 1>they shared, but the crazy parties. They were talking to

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<v Speaker 1>me about their son Nick and how many problems and

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<v Speaker 1>how many challenges they were having and who knew you

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<v Speaker 1>know that years later that you know he would be

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<v Speaker 1>charged with their murders, which is so sad. But they

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<v Speaker 1>were asking how I grew up. I was telling them,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were kind of debating between them about how

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<v Speaker 1>to handle their son, and it was just so awful.

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<v Speaker 1>Another one of my favorite shows is Curb Your Enthusiasm

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<v Speaker 1>with Larry David. It is just an amazing show. I

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<v Speaker 1>think in my younger years I was like, Larry David

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<v Speaker 1>is an asshole, and my older years, I'm like, Larry

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<v Speaker 1>David had it right. So when I watched now, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a completely different take. And so Rob and Larry

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<v Speaker 1>David are really close friends, and I was telling them

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<v Speaker 1>how much I love Curb Your Enthusiasm. And there's an

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<v Speaker 1>episode where they go out to dinner. Larry David and

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<v Speaker 1>his wife Cheryl played by Cheryl Hines. They go to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner with another couple and so this other couple they

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<v Speaker 1>treat Larry and his wife to dinner and Larry thanks

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<v Speaker 1>the man. He says, you know, thank you so much

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner. And the wife is there and she's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well what about me? And he's like, yo, okay, like

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<v Speaker 1>what about you. I thanked your husband. He paid for dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, well, we paid for dinner. It's our money.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, you don't work. Is your husband's money.

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<v Speaker 1>And it gets into this whole thing. So when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling Rob and Michelle's story, and Michelle's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he based that episode on us, that happened with.

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<v Speaker 6>Us, and.

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<v Speaker 2>He only thanksout.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just I love their whole like friend crew,

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<v Speaker 1>their friendship. And he was such a wonderful man when

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<v Speaker 1>I got my show. He was so celebratory. He was

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<v Speaker 1>always on joy sale Joy read, and he also had

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<v Speaker 1>a close friendship. So I just honor his talent and

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<v Speaker 1>so much of his life that he lived on screen

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<v Speaker 1>behind the camera, but also as a really good patriot

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<v Speaker 1>in today's society and all the things that he did,

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<v Speaker 1>he supported so many causes that benefit the greater good,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I want us to focus on that and

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<v Speaker 1>highlight that. But I do know, Angela, we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about on the call that it was really disgusting to

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<v Speaker 1>see Donald Trump post on truth Social. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's worth really revisiting what he said, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>just really ugly things that Donald Trump said because he's

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<v Speaker 1>a child, a petulant child, and so I know you

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<v Speaker 1>were really upset by that, Angela.

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<v Speaker 2>So curious your thoughts about all of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I hate to do this, but just to

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<v Speaker 4>refresh the viewers recollection or actually give them some window

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<v Speaker 4>into the soul of who this man is who now

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<v Speaker 4>sits in the chair as commander in chief of this union,

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<v Speaker 4>I think should actually roll the clip.

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<v Speaker 6>A number of Republicans have denounced your statement on True's

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<v Speaker 6>Social after the murder of Rob Reiner.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you stand by that post?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I wasn't a fan of his at all. He

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<v Speaker 8>was a deranged person as far as Trump is concerned.

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<v Speaker 8>He said he knew it was false affect. It is

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<v Speaker 8>the exact opposite that I was a friend of Russia

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<v Speaker 8>controlled by Russia. You know, it was the Russia hoax.

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<v Speaker 8>He was one of the people behind it. I think

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<v Speaker 8>he heard himself in career wise, he became like a

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<v Speaker 8>deranged person Trump derangement syndrome. So I was not a

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<v Speaker 8>fan of Rob Reiner at all in any way, shape

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<v Speaker 8>or form.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought he was very bad for our country.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so tif you normally say the cheese stands alone,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's normally about somebody standing on the side of righteousness.

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<v Speaker 4>This cheese cheesy nut is standing, you know, clearly, like

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<v Speaker 4>not even the fact that he could use the words

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<v Speaker 4>deranged after the type of killing, like gruesome murder they suffered,

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<v Speaker 4>as is alleged, I think is so unfortunate.

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<v Speaker 3>And this country is run by this man who.

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<v Speaker 4>Will get out regularly promote information that it has no

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<v Speaker 4>you know foundation. In fact, he will sound so callous. Actually,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm actually surprised about what he said about Brown, because

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<v Speaker 4>at least he found some compassion for Brown students and

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<v Speaker 4>for the people who suffer that tragedy on the campus.

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<v Speaker 4>But it is remarkable to me the things that come

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<v Speaker 4>out of his mouth, and I know that at some

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<v Speaker 4>point I should stop being surprised, but there just is

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<v Speaker 4>no floor, you know, there is just absolutely no floor.

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<v Speaker 4>So for people to be suffering like this during the

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<v Speaker 4>holiday season or at all, and then for him to

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<v Speaker 4>say anything about some Trump derangement syndrome, which is a

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<v Speaker 4>completely made up met I mean, it's just anyway. I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to play that because, you know, it's shocking to

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<v Speaker 4>me that there's someone who could be the commander in

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<v Speaker 4>chief and say something so ugly, even in times when

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<v Speaker 4>people really disagree, you never wish death on anyone.

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<v Speaker 3>These are things that we know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't just think their Christian principles certainly rooted in

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<v Speaker 4>the church, but there are people that just find and

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<v Speaker 4>tap into their humanity and he just cannot do that.

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<v Speaker 4>So I wanted to play that because I think it's

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<v Speaker 4>interesting that they gave him an opportunity to say, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what, I went too far in truth social you

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<v Speaker 4>know what, I should have done something different, and he

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<v Speaker 4>just doubled down into bs.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, it's a great it's not a great, but

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<v Speaker 6>it's interesting to contrast that to how Rob Reiner responded

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<v Speaker 6>to the death of Charlie Kirk with such great humanity,

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<v Speaker 6>and even though on opposite sides of probably every side

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<v Speaker 6>of most issues political still have the human compassion, the

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<v Speaker 6>human awareness, the human experience to say, this should not

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<v Speaker 6>have happened, and it shouldn't happen to anybody, regardless of

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<v Speaker 6>where we stand on the political divide. But that's just

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<v Speaker 6>you who. That's who Rob Reiner was, and this is

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<v Speaker 6>who Donald Trump is. He's a megalomaniac and in every condition,

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<v Speaker 6>in every situation, he's got to figure out how to

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<v Speaker 6>make it about himself. And I think that that is

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know how far medicine goes and sort of

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<v Speaker 6>handicapping that kind of a condition, but I do think

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<v Speaker 6>that there's something the synapses are not all working, they're

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<v Speaker 6>not all flaring, that caused you to deepen into your

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<v Speaker 6>humanity when every situation has to be somehow converted to

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<v Speaker 6>being about you, no matter what it is.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm just listening. I it's it's hard to dive

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<v Speaker 5>into a discussion as robust as this because I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>have the personal relationship with Rob Ryiner, and uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's fascinating to see the individuals in your orbit,

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<v Speaker 5>because I was questioning whether or not his death would

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<v Speaker 5>actually break through the fourth wall, because you know, all

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<v Speaker 5>in the family was a little bit before my time.

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<v Speaker 5>I did love him in Woofle Wall Street. I think

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<v Speaker 5>that that was probably the best acting scene I've ever

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<v Speaker 5>seen in my life with he and Leeho DiCaprio and

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<v Speaker 5>they're discussing the expense report. Yeah, and it's just it

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<v Speaker 5>was like a room full of amazing actors in that space.

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<v Speaker 5>But to hear you all talk about it shows that

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<v Speaker 5>it did kind of break through that fourth wall, that

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<v Speaker 5>it has permeated more mainstream thought because of his impact,

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<v Speaker 5>and I think that that is symblematic or emblematic of

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<v Speaker 5>his impact. That's kind of first. Second, I do think

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<v Speaker 5>it's death highlights two political issues that I would love

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<v Speaker 5>to hear you all's input on. One is the role

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<v Speaker 5>of or how we discuss and talk about mental health

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<v Speaker 5>in his country, whether or not it's Rob's son, or

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<v Speaker 5>whether or not it's the heavy dose of psychopathy that

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<v Speaker 5>our president suffers from, and how we address it and

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<v Speaker 5>the narcissism. I would talked about this on CNN the

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<v Speaker 5>other night and got a bunch of doctors who you know,

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of black doctors were saying that the word

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<v Speaker 5>you missed Bokari is narcissism, and we don't really talk

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<v Speaker 5>about it enough. I don't talk about it enough in

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<v Speaker 5>association with him. I try to stay away from diagnosing

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<v Speaker 5>people with mental health issues because I'm sure I can

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<v Speaker 5>be diagnosed with enough. But I do think it highlights

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<v Speaker 5>both of those things. And then the other issue is

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<v Speaker 5>I am fascinated by the role of Christian nationalism or

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<v Speaker 5>Christian conservatism or white evangelical Christianity, whichever one of those,

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<v Speaker 5>or however you want to couch it, and they're coddling

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<v Speaker 5>of Donald Trump. And I love to hear you guys

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<v Speaker 5>dig into it, because you know, you have somebody who

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<v Speaker 5>has a prayer counsel, you have somebody who has that

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<v Speaker 5>Christian nationalist whatever, however you want to phrase it. And

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what the correct definition of it is.

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<v Speaker 5>But he has that block of this country behind him,

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<v Speaker 5>and yet he doesn't have that walk that we would

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<v Speaker 5>all aspire to have. He's not on the same journey

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<v Speaker 5>that we would even though we fail. I mean I

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<v Speaker 5>fail every day I wake up. You know, that's a

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<v Speaker 5>part of that journey. How does that work politically? And

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<v Speaker 5>how does that? How do we how do we crack

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<v Speaker 5>into that? Do we crack into that? Is it worth

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<v Speaker 5>cracking into it? Or do you all see that as

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<v Speaker 5>not an issue as you look at Rob Ryer's death,

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<v Speaker 5>because that's the first thing, or one of the first things,

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<v Speaker 5>because I didn't have a personal relationship that I thought

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<v Speaker 5>was all of these Christian conservatives supporting a man who

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<v Speaker 5>literally has no ethos. It's two Corinthians.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's never been in Bible school in his life.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is something that the media calls them.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't call them Christians or evangelicals, and the data

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<v Speaker 1>supports that. You know, the and for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you said white evangelicals vacari because for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time the white was silent. They would just say evangelicals.

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<v Speaker 1>The white was silent, but the hypocrisy was loud. During

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<v Speaker 1>Trump's first term. I'm sure you guys know this. The

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<v Speaker 1>number of Americans who identified as evangelicals expanded under his

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<v Speaker 1>first term, firmly in his corners.

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<v Speaker 2>In twenty sixteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Now more than eighty percent of white evangelicals voted for

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<v Speaker 1>Donald Trump in the last election. In twenty twenty four,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know, I think of all the black women

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<v Speaker 1>who are you know, Christian toten Bible toten deacon board

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<v Speaker 1>members in people in the pews every Sunday, and that

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<v Speaker 1>group has never been referred to as evangelicals. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think research came out from Pew that reported sixty nine

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<v Speaker 1>percent of these white evangelicals say they only attend religious

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<v Speaker 1>services two or three times a year or less, emphasis

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<v Speaker 1>on the or less. So I wonder what did they

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<v Speaker 1>do to earn this title of evangelicals or Christians?

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<v Speaker 5>Well maybe, I mean I look at the like, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>in the South, Andrew's in the South. And one of

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<v Speaker 5>the things I can tell you about being in the

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<v Speaker 5>South is we all have that one first Baptist church

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<v Speaker 5>that's white town does downtown and it's all white. It's

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<v Speaker 5>literally all white and a negro insight, right. And then

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<v Speaker 5>you got a Baptist church that's probably like in the

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<v Speaker 5>black side of town. That's huge, right. And I'm talking

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<v Speaker 5>about the fact that these the people who go to

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<v Speaker 5>First Baptists in the heart of every southern city downtown,

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<v Speaker 5>ninety eight percent of them still voted for Donald Trump.

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<v Speaker 5>Now we can call them whatever we want to, and

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<v Speaker 5>that that is kind of our if we're ever And

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<v Speaker 5>this is a bold statement for me to make, and

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<v Speaker 5>this is indicative of this Rob Ryner situation. And this

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<v Speaker 5>is where this is. This is how I take the

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<v Speaker 5>pressure off of the four of us and changing the world,

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<v Speaker 5>because I say, the country will never change unless white

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<v Speaker 5>male evangelicals want it to. And I just firmly believe

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<v Speaker 5>that no matter how much we push a prad the

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<v Speaker 5>country will never change its direction, of course, unless white

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<v Speaker 5>male evangelicals wanted to. And I look at these individuals

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<v Speaker 5>still standing behind this man who went to the depths

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<v Speaker 5>of hell to talk about somebody who had the heart

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<v Speaker 5>that you all described in the terms that he did, you.

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<v Speaker 6>Know, Butcury, I sort of when I hear the term evangelical,

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<v Speaker 6>to me, it has much more of a political connotation

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<v Speaker 6>than it does a religious one. And part of this

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<v Speaker 6>for me probably comes out of the you know, the

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<v Speaker 6>movement helmed by the radical right, the quote radical right

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<v Speaker 6>evangelicals who were attempting to transform frankly take hostage Christianity

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<v Speaker 6>religious religiosity in this country and bastardize it into a

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<v Speaker 6>political terminology that they could then convert religious believers, Christian believer,

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<v Speaker 6>Christian white religious believers into a political commodity. They were

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<v Speaker 6>evolved into a vote block that was largely intended one

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<v Speaker 6>to further codifyde and white male supremacy in the family

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<v Speaker 6>and in community, and moreover, to then control the bodies

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<v Speaker 6>of their women, white women largely, but women writ large

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<v Speaker 6>because the impact was cast so broadly on all women

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<v Speaker 6>and their reproductive rights. They organized, you know, through the

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<v Speaker 6>seventies and early eighties on television as many of us,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, sort of recall, and were largely weaponized during

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<v Speaker 6>the Reagan administration to again advance a political electoral outcome.

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<v Speaker 6>And so I don't give them the grace, the credit,

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<v Speaker 6>the merit of having religious favor on their side, or

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<v Speaker 6>even deep religious beliefs on their side. I see control,

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<v Speaker 6>I see white male supremacy, and I see the bastard

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<v Speaker 6>of real faith. Uh in favor of creating a political

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<v Speaker 6>block that could be negotiated with, can be moved, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>from from here to there, largely on the Republican side,

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<v Speaker 6>to to stretch their muscle in the context of primaries

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<v Speaker 6>to produce a candidate who would move their political agenda

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<v Speaker 6>and I think that that's what the You know, so

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<v Speaker 6>the people who who sort of began this conversation on

0:21:26.880 --> 0:21:30.640
<v Speaker 6>the right actually hope to hope to achieve was a

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<v Speaker 6>political heavyweight and not a religious test, not even a

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<v Speaker 6>faith test, not not the production of a more religious

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<v Speaker 6>or god faithful country. They wanted a more white male

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<v Speaker 6>uh hegemonist society, and they weaponized and then bastardized faith

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<v Speaker 6>to achieve that end. So they don't get real credit

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<v Speaker 6>with me. It is a political term as far as

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<v Speaker 6>I'm concerned. And where where people who might consider themselves

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<v Speaker 6>truly faithful on the right come down in this sort

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<v Speaker 6>of equation, in my opinion, is that they have made

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<v Speaker 6>their peace with being in common cause over the issue

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<v Speaker 6>largely of reproductive health and of controlling women's bodies uh

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<v Speaker 6>and frankly making illegal abortions aside from that issue. Can't,

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<v Speaker 6>I can't. They're not organizing for the poor, they're not

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<v Speaker 6>rallying behind the the health and well being of children.

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<v Speaker 5>They're not doing they're doing.

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<v Speaker 6>They're not doing it to others as you would have

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<v Speaker 6>them builty. They're not doing any of that. All the

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<v Speaker 6>verses that we know of, they don't live that life.

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<v Speaker 6>They're a political commodity traded back and forth on the

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<v Speaker 6>on the on the on the on the conservative right.

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<v Speaker 6>As far as I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Concerned, yeah, I think now is a good time since

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<v Speaker 4>we probably will not crack the code on uh white

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<v Speaker 4>evangelicals in white Christian nationalism today. But what we do

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<v Speaker 4>know is that their Plan A may not work, and

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<v Speaker 4>so there's Plan B A little pun intended. As we

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<v Speaker 4>transitioned to Sharon Moore, who was rumored to have door

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<v Speaker 4>dashed some plan be over to his mistress at the

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<v Speaker 4>University of Michigan. He, of course, is the head football

0:23:24.560 --> 0:23:29.960
<v Speaker 4>coach at the school, was recently fired after the relationship

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<v Speaker 4>that she previously concealed and he definitely concealed throughout the duration,

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<v Speaker 4>was discovered from the University of Michigan. She broke up with,

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<v Speaker 4>as reported the coach on December eighth, and then told

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<v Speaker 4>the University of Michigan about the relationship on December tenth.

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<v Speaker 4>He was fired. He had some moments Bakari wants to

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<v Speaker 4>talk about, and I want to talk about if she

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<v Speaker 4>should be fired, because people right now are talking about

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<v Speaker 4>whether or not a subordinate should be fired in this circumstance.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'd love to hear y'all thoughts on this.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a little bit of white mess, a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>of black mess, we'll call a little bit of.

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<v Speaker 3>But it is a mess.

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<v Speaker 4>And we were talking about mental health earlier, so all

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<v Speaker 4>jokes society also had a really severe breakdown.

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<v Speaker 3>It looks like my thre man.

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<v Speaker 5>No, he did.

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<v Speaker 3>Threatening her life.

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<v Speaker 5>He didn't have no severe mental break. It was a

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<v Speaker 5>butter knife that man took him. It was Tiffany. He

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<v Speaker 5>was playing game the.

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<v Speaker 4>Way you shouldn't thrown nobody's life. You shouldn't threaten to

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<v Speaker 4>take hers.

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<v Speaker 5>Can I can I ask all a question? Yes, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>he took out a butter knife andry. That man wasn't seriously,

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<v Speaker 5>he wasn't about to do nothing. Have y'all ever have

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<v Speaker 5>y'all have y'all ever been in a relationship where either

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<v Speaker 5>you crashed out of the other person crashed out. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>I want to hear about it. Can you talk about it?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I want to talk about this black man and

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<v Speaker 4>I can talk about it.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm much more interested in but Car's question.

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<v Speaker 5>About we're talking about she should be fired in a minute.

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<v Speaker 5>But I want to hear about the crash outs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I can talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I let me just say first, I'm never the aggressor,

0:25:19.359 --> 0:25:23.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I didn't and I don't know, okay anyway,

0:25:24.800 --> 0:25:30.960
<v Speaker 1>anyway energy, if you aggress I'm not when I'm arguing

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>So it depends what your crash out looks like.

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<v Speaker 1>When I'm in argument with a man and it's only

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<v Speaker 1>been one person to make me move this way, I

0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:43.280
<v Speaker 1>don't yell, I don't curse. I'm not you know, like,

0:25:43.320 --> 0:25:47.919
<v Speaker 1>it's not one of those like situations where you know,

0:25:47.960 --> 0:25:50.480
<v Speaker 1>we got Jahen playing in the background and I'm throwing

0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:52.280
<v Speaker 1>ship out on the lawn or anything like that.

0:25:52.560 --> 0:25:54.439
<v Speaker 3>I have thrown stuff I see, I don't do.

0:25:54.480 --> 0:25:56.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm not violent. It's nothing like that.

0:25:56.800 --> 0:25:57.600
<v Speaker 3>I was not violent.

0:25:57.680 --> 0:26:01.000
<v Speaker 1>I am going to hit you in the place that

0:26:01.080 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 1>it hurts the most, in the most calming way. And

0:26:04.840 --> 0:26:10.280
<v Speaker 1>so this guy, he was not very nice to me,

0:26:11.119 --> 0:26:15.280
<v Speaker 1>and he did something that I he was just not

0:26:15.359 --> 0:26:17.639
<v Speaker 1>nice to me. Angela knows the whole story. So he

0:26:17.800 --> 0:26:20.360
<v Speaker 1>just wasn't a nice person to me. And we were fighting,

0:26:20.920 --> 0:26:23.359
<v Speaker 1>and he was divorced and he had a really touchy

0:26:23.400 --> 0:26:28.120
<v Speaker 1>relationship with his kids, and amidst this fight, I said

0:26:28.200 --> 0:26:30.960
<v Speaker 1>maybe that's why your own kids don't even like you.

0:26:31.520 --> 0:26:33.640
<v Speaker 1>And that was probably the worst thing I could say

0:26:34.359 --> 0:26:37.040
<v Speaker 1>to him. Well, it was the worst thing I could say.

0:26:37.560 --> 0:26:40.000
<v Speaker 1>It was a wound that he has shared with me,

0:26:40.880 --> 0:26:42.760
<v Speaker 1>and I'm not trying to excuse it. I would just

0:26:42.800 --> 0:26:45.440
<v Speaker 1>say there was months and months and months of him

0:26:45.560 --> 0:26:49.240
<v Speaker 1>hurting me and so then when I lashed out, that's

0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:51.840
<v Speaker 1>how I did it. So that's my version of crashing out.

0:26:52.720 --> 0:26:56.080
<v Speaker 1>I think it's different if somebody pulls a knife, butter

0:26:56.160 --> 0:26:58.920
<v Speaker 1>or otherwise on somebody. I think that kind of crash

0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:01.399
<v Speaker 1>out is a little different. I know angel does not

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:05.800
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about crashing out, but I want to ask,

0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:06.320
<v Speaker 1>and I think this.

0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:08.479
<v Speaker 2>If y'all have an opinion, that's fine. But I kind

0:27:08.480 --> 0:27:08.920
<v Speaker 2>of feel like.

0:27:08.840 --> 0:27:11.439
<v Speaker 1>This is a question specific to Angela because I know

0:27:11.480 --> 0:27:13.720
<v Speaker 1>I have thoughts. When you hear about this kind of

0:27:13.760 --> 0:27:18.320
<v Speaker 1>crash out, does it make a difference to you? Because

0:27:18.359 --> 0:27:20.440
<v Speaker 1>I know what I want to know is the wife

0:27:20.520 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 1>white or black woman? That's my point. So when you

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:29.040
<v Speaker 1>know that, does it make a difference on how you

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:31.000
<v Speaker 1>respond or how you feel about the situation.

0:27:31.960 --> 0:27:33.400
<v Speaker 3>Oh, that's no comment.

0:27:36.320 --> 0:27:40.560
<v Speaker 5>Advertising. I'll just say this is.

0:27:42.800 --> 0:27:45.480
<v Speaker 3>What I will This is what fight the power. This

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:46.920
<v Speaker 3>is what I will say. And I got my black

0:27:47.000 --> 0:27:47.640
<v Speaker 3>leather on to day.

0:27:47.640 --> 0:27:50.640
<v Speaker 4>At least it's vegan leather, but I got it, you.

0:27:50.600 --> 0:27:56.120
<v Speaker 3>Know, thank you. I will just say that what troubles

0:27:56.160 --> 0:27:58.480
<v Speaker 3>me about this story in particular, and I think there's

0:27:58.760 --> 0:27:59.840
<v Speaker 3>historical context.

0:28:00.760 --> 0:28:02.480
<v Speaker 4>I said to somebody the other day, I was like,

0:28:02.520 --> 0:28:05.320
<v Speaker 4>this might be the first time I've ever agreed with doctor.

0:28:05.119 --> 0:28:09.880
<v Speaker 3>Umar on some stuff, but like, it just feels like.

0:28:11.280 --> 0:28:15.560
<v Speaker 4>Black women in the same position as this subordinate at

0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:18.520
<v Speaker 4>school would not be would not have the same protection

0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:21.640
<v Speaker 4>by the school. I do not believe even based on

0:28:21.680 --> 0:28:24.760
<v Speaker 4>what's the policy they have listed. The policy they put

0:28:24.760 --> 0:28:27.560
<v Speaker 4>in place after the provost at the school was sexually

0:28:27.560 --> 0:28:31.439
<v Speaker 4>harassing women is policy number twoh one point ninety seven.

0:28:31.960 --> 0:28:35.480
<v Speaker 4>And in that policy they require that if you're in

0:28:35.520 --> 0:28:40.080
<v Speaker 4>a relationship with the subordinate, the supervisor must report the relationship. Well,

0:28:40.160 --> 0:28:42.720
<v Speaker 4>he denied the relationship, and so did this subordinate. But

0:28:42.840 --> 0:28:46.880
<v Speaker 4>she actively concealed text messages and denied the relationship. I

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 4>don't know what happened for her to break up with him,

0:28:49.680 --> 0:28:52.479
<v Speaker 4>but I just think that in these situations.

0:28:51.800 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 3>I want to know more. I want to know more

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:54.600
<v Speaker 3>about what happened.

0:28:54.600 --> 0:28:57.560
<v Speaker 4>I'm not justifying his violent behavior at all, but I'm

0:28:57.680 --> 0:29:01.240
<v Speaker 4>very curious to know, you know what, like, did she

0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:01.880
<v Speaker 4>threaten him?

0:29:01.920 --> 0:29:03.360
<v Speaker 3>Was this an extortion moment?

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:06.400
<v Speaker 4>Was like what happened to make her say now I'm

0:29:06.440 --> 0:29:09.920
<v Speaker 4>gonna report this relationship after denying it? And then two,

0:29:10.080 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 4>I just feel like, again, if a black woman were

0:29:13.160 --> 0:29:16.560
<v Speaker 4>in the same position, One, she wouldn't have got that

0:29:17.080 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 4>fifty five raise this young lady got.

0:29:19.840 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 3>And two I think that she would have been fired.

0:29:25.240 --> 0:29:27.560
<v Speaker 1>To the lawyer, Yes, go ahead, what you just read,

0:29:27.600 --> 0:29:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Angela said, the supervisor must disclose the relationship. Errol, The

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:37.560
<v Speaker 1>onus is on the supervisor. So I don't see wrongdoing

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:38.680
<v Speaker 1>in her part legally.

0:29:39.640 --> 0:29:40.160
<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, no.

0:29:40.960 --> 0:29:42.600
<v Speaker 4>This is the part of me and Barcaria are arguing

0:29:42.600 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 4>about because I'm saying that that is true. That is

0:29:45.800 --> 0:29:48.080
<v Speaker 4>what their policy says. It's not the law. That's what

0:29:48.160 --> 0:29:52.240
<v Speaker 4>University of Michigan's policy is. But if you're confronted about

0:29:52.480 --> 0:29:56.440
<v Speaker 4>an alleged relationship and you deny said relationship, and you

0:29:56.520 --> 0:30:00.160
<v Speaker 4>also concealed text messages they went through her phone, So

0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:02.800
<v Speaker 4>when you do all of that, you are actively doing

0:30:02.840 --> 0:30:05.000
<v Speaker 4>something wrong. I think she should be penalized, whether it's

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:06.680
<v Speaker 4>the suspension or something.

0:30:06.720 --> 0:30:08.920
<v Speaker 3>I think that she should be penalized too, I really do.

0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 4>I'm not saying he shouldn't be fired, he should be fired,

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:14.120
<v Speaker 4>but I'm saying there should be some type of penalty

0:30:14.360 --> 0:30:16.000
<v Speaker 4>for involvement in the relationship.

0:30:16.360 --> 0:30:19.200
<v Speaker 5>They're two different things too, I hear you, Tiffany. But

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:22.040
<v Speaker 5>the first thing is Angels talking about something that falls

0:30:22.080 --> 0:30:26.000
<v Speaker 5>outside of outside of that ordinance that she read, because

0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:29.360
<v Speaker 5>she's talking about impeding some type of internal investigation or

0:30:29.360 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 5>obstructing it, which the young lady clearly did. However, she

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 5>eventually came back and rectified all of that and told

0:30:37.920 --> 0:30:40.000
<v Speaker 5>her truth and brought receipts and all those other type

0:30:40.000 --> 0:30:42.920
<v Speaker 5>of things. But it's very difficult to in this word.

0:30:42.960 --> 0:30:44.760
<v Speaker 5>I know we're going to get crucified or I am

0:30:44.880 --> 0:30:47.160
<v Speaker 5>in the comments for using this word and describing her,

0:30:47.280 --> 0:30:50.040
<v Speaker 5>but this is an accurate legal term in describing her

0:30:50.040 --> 0:30:53.160
<v Speaker 5>in this situation. You cannot fire the victim of any

0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:56.479
<v Speaker 5>type of sexual harassment or improper relationship in this setting.

0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:58.480
<v Speaker 5>You just simply cannot. They already gonna have to pay her.

0:30:59.520 --> 0:31:02.239
<v Speaker 5>Firing her looks like some form of retribution, and if

0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:03.920
<v Speaker 5>I was advising him. I'd just be like, you keep

0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:06.200
<v Speaker 5>her along. The other thing is I think a black

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:08.480
<v Speaker 5>woman would have got to raise because apparently it was

0:31:08.520 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 5>that good that he was handing out raises and everything else.

0:31:11.120 --> 0:31:14.720
<v Speaker 5>So he ain't get no approval. He was like, he

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:18.840
<v Speaker 5>was like, man, this box is amazing. He goes. So

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:21.680
<v Speaker 5>that's that's my opinion. But andrew back to my question,

0:31:21.720 --> 0:31:23.760
<v Speaker 5>which was the best question asked on this show in

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:26.440
<v Speaker 5>a long time. I've actually crashed out once with my

0:31:26.520 --> 0:31:29.120
<v Speaker 5>current wife. She made me mad. She went down the

0:31:29.160 --> 0:31:31.000
<v Speaker 5>homecoming that's not even her homecoming back.

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:32.160
<v Speaker 3>She made me mad.

0:31:33.000 --> 0:31:35.720
<v Speaker 5>Argument. Yeah, she went to more House spelling because you know,

0:31:35.760 --> 0:31:37.520
<v Speaker 5>her whole family went down there, and she's like, we

0:31:37.600 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 5>going to the club and all this other stuff. We

0:31:39.240 --> 0:31:41.880
<v Speaker 5>had been arguing, arguing, arguing, and I punched a hole

0:31:41.920 --> 0:31:43.160
<v Speaker 5>in the wall, okay.

0:31:43.440 --> 0:31:44.280
<v Speaker 2>In front of her.

0:31:44.920 --> 0:31:47.280
<v Speaker 5>No, she was gone. We were on the phone. I

0:31:47.360 --> 0:31:49.000
<v Speaker 5>hung up and punched the hole in the wall, not

0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:50.440
<v Speaker 5>with her not around.

0:31:50.520 --> 0:31:52.480
<v Speaker 3>I hope your hand hurt too. I hope your hand

0:31:52.520 --> 0:31:53.880
<v Speaker 3>hurt really, But.

0:31:53.840 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 2>What was the anger? What drove you to that reaction?

0:32:00.720 --> 0:32:02.760
<v Speaker 5>But I was like, I'm not I didn't go because

0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 5>I hadn't been because we had an awful homecoming experience

0:32:05.080 --> 0:32:06.440
<v Speaker 5>the first time I took her, which is a whole

0:32:06.520 --> 0:32:09.000
<v Speaker 5>nother episode because for you all who haven't been to

0:32:09.040 --> 0:32:12.640
<v Speaker 5>an HBCU homecoming, we fought all night long over that

0:32:12.680 --> 0:32:15.360
<v Speaker 5>one question you should never ask at an HBCU homecoming

0:32:15.520 --> 0:32:16.960
<v Speaker 5>if you didn't go, which.

0:32:16.760 --> 0:32:17.920
<v Speaker 6>Is did you mess with her?

0:32:18.000 --> 0:32:20.960
<v Speaker 5>Who is that? Did you mess yet? Exactly? Please? Cause

0:32:20.960 --> 0:32:23.800
<v Speaker 5>they give they give hugs that are different at HB

0:32:25.280 --> 0:32:26.840
<v Speaker 5>So I didn't go back for a long period of time,

0:32:26.880 --> 0:32:28.960
<v Speaker 5>but she went with her sisters whatever, and then I

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:31.040
<v Speaker 5>punched a hole in the wall. We ended up breaking

0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:33.120
<v Speaker 5>up after that, but we got back together after some time.

0:32:33.400 --> 0:32:35.880
<v Speaker 1>But I'm confused with her. Then you punched the hole

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:38.160
<v Speaker 1>in the wall? Why was it that she was at homecoming?

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:40.360
<v Speaker 1>Was it that she was there to spite you? Was

0:32:40.400 --> 0:32:42.320
<v Speaker 1>it that she might have run into some dudes and

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:43.440
<v Speaker 1>they might have hollered at her?

0:32:43.960 --> 0:32:47.880
<v Speaker 5>The above, all of the above, And when you're irrational,

0:32:47.920 --> 0:32:50.640
<v Speaker 5>you're irrational and it makes no sense, and then you

0:32:50.680 --> 0:32:52.280
<v Speaker 5>wake up in the morning you're like, I got this

0:32:52.360 --> 0:32:53.040
<v Speaker 5>hole in the wall.

0:32:53.640 --> 0:32:54.680
<v Speaker 6>I got a passion thing.

0:32:55.600 --> 0:32:58.200
<v Speaker 5>So that was funny. No, I make sure there was

0:32:58.200 --> 0:33:02.040
<v Speaker 5>no stud right there. I wasn't silly. Uh. And then

0:33:02.080 --> 0:33:03.000
<v Speaker 5>I got crashed out.

0:33:02.880 --> 0:33:07.280
<v Speaker 6>On load load no load, daring walls here.

0:33:08.040 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 5>And then I got crashed out on one time. I'm

0:33:10.680 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 5>not gonna say who, but in college one time, my

0:33:14.120 --> 0:33:17.480
<v Speaker 5>senior year, my good friend Jared Lodhuk, Uh, my my

0:33:17.520 --> 0:33:19.760
<v Speaker 5>ex girlfriend came in the house and she was like,

0:33:19.760 --> 0:33:20.880
<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna just go back here.

0:33:21.520 --> 0:33:21.720
<v Speaker 6>Uh.

0:33:21.840 --> 0:33:24.160
<v Speaker 5>She had been mad at me for something, probably because

0:33:24.160 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 5>I was too good of an American, and she put

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:30.120
<v Speaker 5>all my clothes. She put all my clothes in the tub.

0:33:30.160 --> 0:33:32.600
<v Speaker 5>And when Jared walked back there, my entire closet, she

0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 5>had bleach out, and he like he stopped her. He

0:33:35.360 --> 0:33:37.360
<v Speaker 5>stopped her from pouring bleach on my clothes.

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:39.120
<v Speaker 6>But oh my god, but I.

0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:41.240
<v Speaker 5>Did have I did it. When I got home, I

0:33:41.280 --> 0:33:44.400
<v Speaker 5>was like, why are all my clothes in the tub?

0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:46.960
<v Speaker 5>And he was like, you're lucky. It almost got worse

0:33:47.000 --> 0:33:49.680
<v Speaker 5>than this. So shut out to my brother for for

0:33:49.800 --> 0:33:51.760
<v Speaker 5>saving me on that infamous crash out moment.

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.440
<v Speaker 6>Did you want to share? Did you want to share yours? No?

0:33:56.520 --> 0:33:56.880
<v Speaker 3>I don't.

0:33:56.920 --> 0:33:59.520
<v Speaker 4>I wanted to talk about this white woman and this

0:33:59.680 --> 0:34:02.240
<v Speaker 4>black man and what happened as a result because his

0:34:02.320 --> 0:34:04.239
<v Speaker 4>crash I was severe. He went to jail. I had

0:34:04.280 --> 0:34:06.920
<v Speaker 4>never been to jail. I never threatened violence on anybody.

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:09.920
<v Speaker 1>I will say I had a respond to something about

0:34:10.000 --> 0:34:12.800
<v Speaker 1>with the white man. And because I'm still a little confused,

0:34:13.239 --> 0:34:14.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you. You tell me what I got wrong.

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 1>He's married, she works at the school doing what do

0:34:19.600 --> 0:34:20.400
<v Speaker 1>we know what she does?

0:34:20.920 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 4>She's an assistant mistress.

0:34:25.960 --> 0:34:30.120
<v Speaker 1>She's talking about the mistress. Is she his administrative assistant?

0:34:30.400 --> 0:34:31.600
<v Speaker 5>Yes, executive assistant.

0:34:31.680 --> 0:34:33.000
<v Speaker 2>She's his executive assistant.

0:34:33.120 --> 0:34:36.560
<v Speaker 1>These two start having an affair, and you said that

0:34:36.680 --> 0:34:39.800
<v Speaker 1>he sent he uh uber eats her a Plan B.

0:34:40.239 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 2>Like, how did all this blow up?

0:34:42.120 --> 0:34:42.319
<v Speaker 9>No?

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:44.600
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, so they that is what is rumored.

0:34:44.640 --> 0:34:46.480
<v Speaker 4>I don't have any fact on that, but it is

0:34:46.520 --> 0:34:50.319
<v Speaker 4>interesting because they're saying how this relationship was discovered, right

0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:52.960
<v Speaker 4>that there was a door dash or some type of

0:34:53.080 --> 0:34:56.600
<v Speaker 4>order of Plan B to the office and it was

0:34:56.640 --> 0:34:58.840
<v Speaker 4>discovered in that way. I know that's ignorant, but it

0:34:58.880 --> 0:35:01.560
<v Speaker 4>makes it tracks because this whole thing is ignorant. She

0:35:01.760 --> 0:35:05.160
<v Speaker 4>was an administrative assistant in the athletic department. You see

0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:07.640
<v Speaker 4>him like on the field with her talking to her

0:35:08.520 --> 0:35:10.000
<v Speaker 4>if that was the practice or a game. I think

0:35:10.000 --> 0:35:12.799
<v Speaker 4>it was a break before a game. But they were

0:35:12.800 --> 0:35:15.600
<v Speaker 4>in a relationship and it's been ongoing for at least

0:35:15.680 --> 0:35:16.080
<v Speaker 4>a year.

0:35:16.239 --> 0:35:17.239
<v Speaker 3>It's been like.

0:35:17.400 --> 0:35:19.200
<v Speaker 5>Okay, but it was. It was one of those things.

0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 5>It was a well known secret, well known, well known secrets. Yeah,

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:26.440
<v Speaker 5>open secret, Like they would walk around on campus together.

0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:29.200
<v Speaker 5>The football players would would kind of pick on they

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:31.400
<v Speaker 5>would talk about it, pick on him about it. It

0:35:31.440 --> 0:35:33.640
<v Speaker 5>was a well known secret. Her father is actually the

0:35:33.680 --> 0:35:35.480
<v Speaker 5>executive scout for the Chicago Bears.

0:35:35.680 --> 0:35:39.239
<v Speaker 3>How about that? How about that? So so I think

0:35:39.280 --> 0:35:39.960
<v Speaker 3>that's why I'm thinking.

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:42.520
<v Speaker 4>I think that this is far more nefarious than what

0:35:42.680 --> 0:35:43.640
<v Speaker 4>is alleged.

0:35:44.440 --> 0:35:47.040
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I was gonna say, this just goes deep

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:48.680
<v Speaker 5>and deep water here and we can this is a

0:35:48.680 --> 0:35:51.440
<v Speaker 5>mini pod. When I got elected and when I got

0:35:51.440 --> 0:35:55.160
<v Speaker 5>elected in two thousand and six, one of my family

0:35:55.200 --> 0:35:59.600
<v Speaker 5>friends who is a very well known former.

0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:03.719
<v Speaker 4>Remember, wait, but Carr, you're add tip did you get

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:05.400
<v Speaker 4>clarity on this on this storyline?

0:36:05.440 --> 0:36:08.080
<v Speaker 2>Though still I'm sure how it all blew up.

0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:12.680
<v Speaker 5>But I was this ties in tied together. No, no, no,

0:36:13.320 --> 0:36:15.120
<v Speaker 5>because I'm not gonna mention his name, but yeah, but

0:36:15.160 --> 0:36:17.359
<v Speaker 5>he was. He's very popular, very well known, very well

0:36:17.400 --> 0:36:20.319
<v Speaker 5>known politician, but he's a close family friend. And he

0:36:20.520 --> 0:36:22.680
<v Speaker 5>told me when I got elected, he said, you never

0:36:22.880 --> 0:36:26.680
<v Speaker 5>hire anyone that's attractive. And he said, either you are

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 5>sleeping with him or people think you're sleeping with him.

0:36:30.000 --> 0:36:32.360
<v Speaker 5>And I know that that probably is one of the

0:36:32.440 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 5>more misogynistic, sexist type of ideals. I was looking at

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:39.440
<v Speaker 5>my friend Ben Watson his He was talking about his

0:36:39.440 --> 0:36:42.239
<v Speaker 5>college football coach. Ben is a great guy, played tight

0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:44.239
<v Speaker 5>end at the at the Georgia Bulldogs played in the

0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:46.719
<v Speaker 5>NFL twenty years and he said his college football coach

0:36:46.760 --> 0:36:49.200
<v Speaker 5>would not get in the elevator with the woman by himself.

0:36:50.080 --> 0:36:53.040
<v Speaker 5>And I know that's an outdated but so that's my

0:36:53.160 --> 0:36:55.439
<v Speaker 5>question to y'all. And I don't know if Andrew heard

0:36:55.480 --> 0:36:56.760
<v Speaker 5>anything similar. It doesn't.

0:36:57.680 --> 0:36:59.880
<v Speaker 6>I was supposed to hire a mother figure for my

0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:02.720
<v Speaker 6>off and I sure did, Angela Whitaker.

0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:03.920
<v Speaker 7>Love her to death.

0:37:04.320 --> 0:37:08.239
<v Speaker 6>She's a preacher and uh uh and was my EA.

0:37:08.360 --> 0:37:14.480
<v Speaker 6>And she had the discernment of Jesus' first acolyte. You know,

0:37:14.680 --> 0:37:17.560
<v Speaker 6>if you will calling office for I mean I had honestly,

0:37:17.560 --> 0:37:20.320
<v Speaker 6>when I first got elected, I had people who missed

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:24.799
<v Speaker 6>us a contestant, Come bring her fold out book, walk

0:37:24.920 --> 0:37:27.000
<v Speaker 6>me through the pictures, and when she got crowned.

0:37:27.000 --> 0:37:27.359
<v Speaker 5>This is that.

0:37:27.800 --> 0:37:30.280
<v Speaker 6>I mean, my my aid was in for every meeting

0:37:30.320 --> 0:37:33.480
<v Speaker 6>that she was suspicious of. Uh, sat right there in

0:37:33.520 --> 0:37:33.919
<v Speaker 6>the room.

0:37:34.840 --> 0:37:35.560
<v Speaker 5>Job you give her?

0:37:40.160 --> 0:37:49.200
<v Speaker 6>There were no jobs out, none, but car you hilarious,

0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:52.120
<v Speaker 6>you really are. I'm I'm not following you down into

0:37:52.239 --> 0:37:54.920
<v Speaker 6>any of those drains, however, But the point is is

0:37:54.960 --> 0:37:58.080
<v Speaker 6>that yes, it was stated, and then it was like, okay,

0:37:58.440 --> 0:38:02.399
<v Speaker 6>my progressive self, we cannot state this anywhere. But there

0:38:02.400 --> 0:38:06.680
<v Speaker 6>were operating rules that were not stated around much of

0:38:06.880 --> 0:38:10.080
<v Speaker 6>you know, much of those kinds of things. And I

0:38:10.080 --> 0:38:12.359
<v Speaker 6>do think it's unfortunate, but I have to tell you,

0:38:12.440 --> 0:38:15.560
<v Speaker 6>almost to a t, every one of those instances that

0:38:15.640 --> 0:38:20.000
<v Speaker 6>she was suspicious about could have very easily become something else,

0:38:20.040 --> 0:38:22.759
<v Speaker 6>because in the moment when she's not there is when

0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:26.160
<v Speaker 6>the unterappropriate comment gets made to you or the overture.

0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:28.520
<v Speaker 6>You know, you sense the overture being made and you

0:38:28.680 --> 0:38:31.120
<v Speaker 6>have to have discipline around to avoid it or to

0:38:31.160 --> 0:38:34.560
<v Speaker 6>walk through that door. So the truth is that even

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 6>though it's probably not popular, and it certainly isn't anybody's

0:38:38.719 --> 0:38:42.680
<v Speaker 6>hr book to do this. Most of those instincts around

0:38:43.719 --> 0:38:45.720
<v Speaker 6>not doing that, it is probably the right instinct.

0:38:46.080 --> 0:38:47.160
<v Speaker 2>That's not I agree.

0:38:47.800 --> 0:38:52.040
<v Speaker 4>I think I agree it's very unfair. I don't think

0:38:52.080 --> 0:38:55.480
<v Speaker 4>it's fair either, But I'm gonna tell y'all. Like one,

0:38:55.560 --> 0:38:58.520
<v Speaker 4>there's like very traditional church stuff around this. So like

0:38:58.640 --> 0:39:01.160
<v Speaker 4>growing up, like high school away I started going to

0:39:01.160 --> 0:39:03.719
<v Speaker 4>coaching church. In high school, we were told like you

0:39:03.800 --> 0:39:06.359
<v Speaker 4>date in groups, you know, you go in groups. And

0:39:06.400 --> 0:39:09.520
<v Speaker 4>even after that, like you don't do if you like,

0:39:09.560 --> 0:39:11.439
<v Speaker 4>if you meet with a.

0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:13.279
<v Speaker 3>Pastor or an elder, a deacon, you meet with the

0:39:13.320 --> 0:39:13.880
<v Speaker 3>door open.

0:39:14.280 --> 0:39:16.400
<v Speaker 4>Like there are some things that people do not because

0:39:16.400 --> 0:39:20.080
<v Speaker 4>it's biblical, but just because it's wisdom. And I think that,

0:39:20.200 --> 0:39:22.080
<v Speaker 4>you know, there are a lot of especially young folks,

0:39:22.080 --> 0:39:24.239
<v Speaker 4>are like all of that sounds crazy, but like even

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:26.919
<v Speaker 4>when I started my CBC job, the first CBC meeting

0:39:27.000 --> 0:39:29.080
<v Speaker 4>I went to, I had on like it was my

0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:30.880
<v Speaker 4>favorite DVF dress.

0:39:30.920 --> 0:39:32.319
<v Speaker 3>It was black and.

0:39:32.239 --> 0:39:35.240
<v Speaker 4>If it was form fitting, but it wasn't like yes,

0:39:35.360 --> 0:39:36.960
<v Speaker 4>it was, well, it was right to the knee, like

0:39:37.000 --> 0:39:37.359
<v Speaker 4>right at.

0:39:37.280 --> 0:39:40.360
<v Speaker 5>The did you have to jump up and down?

0:39:41.160 --> 0:39:43.600
<v Speaker 3>Shut up? No, just wait a minute, let me make

0:39:43.640 --> 0:39:44.240
<v Speaker 3>my point.

0:39:44.520 --> 0:39:47.120
<v Speaker 4>So the thing is it was form fitting, but it

0:39:47.160 --> 0:39:48.160
<v Speaker 4>wasn't skin tight.

0:39:48.760 --> 0:39:51.879
<v Speaker 3>The women members that left.

0:39:51.600 --> 0:39:54.200
<v Speaker 4>That meeting and how they described what I had on,

0:39:54.320 --> 0:39:57.720
<v Speaker 4>you would think that my ass was out at the club,

0:39:57.880 --> 0:40:00.719
<v Speaker 4>boobs booted, ever at the sea through like it was

0:40:00.760 --> 0:40:03.120
<v Speaker 4>so bad and you know what was behind that. I

0:40:03.200 --> 0:40:05.120
<v Speaker 4>was so offended at first when it was reported back

0:40:05.160 --> 0:40:07.799
<v Speaker 4>to me by Patrice Willoughby, who was the edy before me.

0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:10.000
<v Speaker 4>But she was saying, you know, the members really want

0:40:10.040 --> 0:40:11.759
<v Speaker 4>to make sure that you cover up. You know, the

0:40:11.800 --> 0:40:14.120
<v Speaker 4>women are and they were trying to protect me from

0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:14.520
<v Speaker 4>the men.

0:40:15.280 --> 0:40:19.000
<v Speaker 3>So it's there is something about it that is.

0:40:20.640 --> 0:40:24.239
<v Speaker 4>Frustrating, that is remarkably unfair, but also it comes from

0:40:24.280 --> 0:40:25.520
<v Speaker 4>a place of protection.

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:27.040
<v Speaker 3>For the most part.

0:40:27.040 --> 0:40:28.080
<v Speaker 4>I ain't going to speak for all of them, but

0:40:28.120 --> 0:40:30.040
<v Speaker 4>I know in my experiences that absolutely came.

0:40:29.920 --> 0:40:33.960
<v Speaker 5>From go ahead.

0:40:34.320 --> 0:40:36.439
<v Speaker 1>I think that's so unfair, and if that were the case,

0:40:36.480 --> 0:40:38.160
<v Speaker 1>that Angela wouldn't have been hired for any of the

0:40:38.239 --> 0:40:41.080
<v Speaker 1>jobs that she had on Capitol Hill. I also don't

0:40:41.120 --> 0:40:44.640
<v Speaker 1>think that those comments are always rooted in protection. Sometimes

0:40:44.680 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 1>there is like an animus towards younger women who look

0:40:48.600 --> 0:40:52.040
<v Speaker 1>a certain way, and you can feel you can feel that,

0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:55.840
<v Speaker 1>and it doesn't come from a good place all the time. Furthermore,

0:40:57.200 --> 0:40:59.840
<v Speaker 1>it's discrimination, like you're discriminating against some.

0:41:00.200 --> 0:41:02.600
<v Speaker 2>And I think it says more about the higher than.

0:41:02.520 --> 0:41:07.200
<v Speaker 1>It does the potential employee that you cannot handle a

0:41:07.239 --> 0:41:11.280
<v Speaker 1>situation like attractive people can be attractive and smart and capable.

0:41:11.640 --> 0:41:14.239
<v Speaker 1>So if whoever was doing, you know, mister Clever's hiring

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 1>Congressman Emmanuel Cleaver from Missouri, who is the executive director

0:41:17.680 --> 0:41:20.040
<v Speaker 1>or the CBC at the time, Andel chair or the

0:41:20.120 --> 0:41:23.240
<v Speaker 1>chair forgive me the chair of the CBC when Angel

0:41:23.320 --> 0:41:26.320
<v Speaker 1>was ed, imagine I'm saying like, no, no, no, mystically,

0:41:26.320 --> 0:41:28.680
<v Speaker 1>but she can't work for you, but she's too attractive,

0:41:28.719 --> 0:41:31.480
<v Speaker 1>Like that would not have been fair to.

0:41:31.880 --> 0:41:35.280
<v Speaker 6>But the facts are is that attractive people are not losing.

0:41:35.440 --> 0:41:36.600
<v Speaker 6>They're the ones who are large.

0:41:36.600 --> 0:41:37.319
<v Speaker 2>But we don't know that.

0:41:37.440 --> 0:41:42.359
<v Speaker 6>Studies, no, no, no, no, no. Studies studies attraction identify that

0:41:42.719 --> 0:41:44.960
<v Speaker 6>the more attractive you are, the more likely you are

0:41:45.000 --> 0:41:48.040
<v Speaker 6>to be hired, the higher paid you are, so on

0:41:48.080 --> 0:41:50.399
<v Speaker 6>and so on and so on. So in truth, even

0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:54.440
<v Speaker 6>though we may have some of these layers on our associations,

0:41:54.440 --> 0:41:57.560
<v Speaker 6>the truth is is that people who are attractive who

0:41:57.560 --> 0:42:02.200
<v Speaker 6>are largely you know, thinner who I mean, they're winning by.

0:42:02.200 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna tell you yes, Andrew every point, there was

0:42:05.080 --> 0:42:08.359
<v Speaker 4>some women who were like, how did you get your job?

0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:08.920
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:42:09.520 --> 0:42:12.000
<v Speaker 5>I was about to say, I mean the perception, the perception,

0:42:12.520 --> 0:42:13.840
<v Speaker 5>but you must have been doing something.

0:42:14.280 --> 0:42:15.920
<v Speaker 3>So then let me tell you what my answer was.

0:42:15.960 --> 0:42:17.880
<v Speaker 4>Back, and young people, I encourage you to try this

0:42:18.000 --> 0:42:20.319
<v Speaker 4>at home, I said, back, not the same way you

0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:21.120
<v Speaker 4>got yours?

0:42:21.520 --> 0:42:29.280
<v Speaker 1>Young fun that way, like that is the surest fastest

0:42:29.320 --> 0:42:31.920
<v Speaker 1>way to alienate yourself. Like watch your mouth when you're

0:42:31.920 --> 0:42:34.760
<v Speaker 1>talking to people asking you. You are a young person

0:42:34.840 --> 0:42:38.680
<v Speaker 1>trying to find your question. I agree that question is well,

0:42:38.760 --> 0:42:41.360
<v Speaker 1>the implication of the question is in appropriate.

0:42:41.440 --> 0:42:43.040
<v Speaker 4>It was the way they even said it. I know

0:42:43.080 --> 0:42:45.239
<v Speaker 4>it was like, oh, how did you get your job?

0:42:45.680 --> 0:42:46.200
<v Speaker 3>Not the same way?

0:42:46.239 --> 0:42:50.839
<v Speaker 1>You disrespectful to you and they yeah, But I hope

0:42:50.840 --> 0:42:53.040
<v Speaker 1>that younger people can navigate that space a little better.

0:42:53.160 --> 0:42:55.960
<v Speaker 1>Here's the advice I would offer young women, and something

0:42:56.120 --> 0:42:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know. I wouldn't I would

0:42:58.600 --> 0:43:02.040
<v Speaker 1>not encourage that kind of tone from younger people trying

0:43:02.080 --> 0:43:04.560
<v Speaker 1>to navigate their way. This is the advice I would

0:43:04.600 --> 0:43:07.759
<v Speaker 1>offer that I had to learn myself because a lot

0:43:07.760 --> 0:43:12.799
<v Speaker 1>of people, sometimes older men come to in quotations help

0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:16.680
<v Speaker 1>younger women, younger attractive women, and they come under the

0:43:16.719 --> 0:43:19.479
<v Speaker 1>guise of mentorship or under the GUIDs that I'm trying

0:43:19.520 --> 0:43:22.759
<v Speaker 1>to help you, and they have bad intentions. And then

0:43:22.800 --> 0:43:25.840
<v Speaker 1>you're met with this group of more established older women

0:43:26.080 --> 0:43:28.000
<v Speaker 1>who are looking at you saying things like, well, how

0:43:28.000 --> 0:43:30.040
<v Speaker 1>did you get your job? You know, and you can

0:43:30.040 --> 0:43:32.640
<v Speaker 1>feel lonely as this young person trying to find your way.

0:43:32.800 --> 0:43:35.160
<v Speaker 1>You know, both both sides are trying to attack you

0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:37.719
<v Speaker 1>from a very negative way. Here's what I had to learn.

0:43:38.280 --> 0:43:40.279
<v Speaker 1>So a guy told me this. He's like, look, you're

0:43:40.320 --> 0:43:43.360
<v Speaker 1>a young attractive woman in DC. People are going to

0:43:43.360 --> 0:43:45.800
<v Speaker 1>try to you know, if your go if your intention

0:43:45.920 --> 0:43:47.279
<v Speaker 1>is I'm never going to talk to you because you're

0:43:47.280 --> 0:43:49.480
<v Speaker 1>trying to sleep with me. Like you, it would be

0:43:49.840 --> 0:43:52.120
<v Speaker 1>hard for you to navigate. You have to learn how

0:43:52.120 --> 0:43:54.840
<v Speaker 1>to navigate those situations. So things I did, and I

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:57.799
<v Speaker 1>offer this to young women. One, there's no reason for

0:43:57.880 --> 0:44:01.160
<v Speaker 1>us to meet for drinks or dinner. If somebody wants

0:44:01.200 --> 0:44:04.960
<v Speaker 1>to help you have breakfast, let's meet for breakfast. See

0:44:04.960 --> 0:44:07.479
<v Speaker 1>if the chief of staff or somebody or coffee, even

0:44:08.120 --> 0:44:10.160
<v Speaker 1>see if somebody can join you, you know, say I

0:44:10.200 --> 0:44:13.960
<v Speaker 1>really you know, your chief of staff or your home ever,

0:44:14.000 --> 0:44:16.000
<v Speaker 1>if it's not a member on Capitol Hill, but somebody else,

0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:18.000
<v Speaker 1>like I would love to learn from them as well,

0:44:19.040 --> 0:44:20.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, Or is it possible if I bring a

0:44:20.520 --> 0:44:22.440
<v Speaker 1>friend of law because she could really benefit from your

0:44:22.520 --> 0:44:25.920
<v Speaker 1>tutelage anything like that. I think for women who Angela

0:44:26.000 --> 0:44:28.880
<v Speaker 1>says it comes from protection, I didn't always experience it

0:44:28.920 --> 0:44:33.200
<v Speaker 1>as protection. I think for women who respond that way, unfortunately,

0:44:33.239 --> 0:44:36.560
<v Speaker 1>like you're not in a place to battle with them

0:44:36.600 --> 0:44:39.719
<v Speaker 1>on equal footing. So I think a better or one

0:44:39.719 --> 0:44:44.320
<v Speaker 1>way I would suggest responding is to show your talent,

0:44:44.560 --> 0:44:47.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, like actually answer the question, say, oh I

0:44:47.480 --> 0:44:50.560
<v Speaker 1>graduated top of my class. I'm from Spellman. I you know,

0:44:50.680 --> 0:44:53.160
<v Speaker 1>intern for this person. That person. I'd really love to

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:56.000
<v Speaker 1>pursue law. I hope to be an executive director one day.

0:44:56.000 --> 0:44:57.759
<v Speaker 1>Would love to bend your ear if you have time

0:44:57.840 --> 0:44:59.880
<v Speaker 1>to hear from me to me and let me do

0:45:00.120 --> 0:45:03.759
<v Speaker 1>agree to me. That is a little more belittling, but

0:45:03.800 --> 0:45:05.799
<v Speaker 1>also because me as an older person, if I talk

0:45:05.880 --> 0:45:08.319
<v Speaker 1>to a younger person that way and they responded, now

0:45:08.400 --> 0:45:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel embarrassed. Now, I feel embarrassed that I was

0:45:11.040 --> 0:45:13.200
<v Speaker 1>trying to be a vits to this young girl and

0:45:13.320 --> 0:45:16.719
<v Speaker 1>she responded with an appropriate answer that gave me her

0:45:16.760 --> 0:45:19.280
<v Speaker 1>resume that showed that she more than earned the job,

0:45:19.719 --> 0:45:21.160
<v Speaker 1>and she just happened to be attractive.

0:45:21.239 --> 0:45:24.280
<v Speaker 5>She's still at gonna like this, she.

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:28.760
<v Speaker 2>Does your one. That's not true, Beakari.

0:45:28.800 --> 0:45:31.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that about It pitched women against women,

0:45:31.760 --> 0:45:34.440
<v Speaker 1>and I just hate that attitude. But they would give

0:45:34.680 --> 0:45:37.759
<v Speaker 1>practice to these young people to carry yourself with a

0:45:37.800 --> 0:45:38.560
<v Speaker 1>certain demeanor.

0:45:39.000 --> 0:45:42.280
<v Speaker 6>You knowsition in the conversation. Y'all are people who actually

0:45:42.320 --> 0:45:44.600
<v Speaker 6>genuinely mean to help you along the way, which I

0:45:44.680 --> 0:45:48.239
<v Speaker 6>have to say are they're plentiful in the process. And

0:45:49.239 --> 0:45:52.000
<v Speaker 6>sometimes the experiences you might get from some of those

0:45:52.000 --> 0:45:55.640
<v Speaker 6>people is that because they're they're either they're set up

0:45:55.640 --> 0:45:58.920
<v Speaker 6>to to to being where they are has already been

0:45:58.960 --> 0:46:02.080
<v Speaker 6>tainted by someone, or their experiences so far have have

0:46:02.200 --> 0:46:05.239
<v Speaker 6>caused them to have doubt around your intentions so much

0:46:05.520 --> 0:46:08.920
<v Speaker 6>that there becomes this rejection of decent people who are

0:46:08.960 --> 0:46:11.480
<v Speaker 6>really just trying to help you navigate the situation, not

0:46:11.480 --> 0:46:13.600
<v Speaker 6>trying to get in your bands are offended by the

0:46:14.239 --> 0:46:18.920
<v Speaker 6>very suggestion that that's their intent, and you find yourself

0:46:19.000 --> 0:46:21.040
<v Speaker 6>up the creek without a pedal because you decided to

0:46:21.080 --> 0:46:26.000
<v Speaker 6>put everybody in the same box. That wasn't the but

0:46:26.120 --> 0:46:26.760
<v Speaker 6>was it the intent?

0:46:27.000 --> 0:46:28.680
<v Speaker 3>So I guess that's men and women.

0:46:30.680 --> 0:46:33.040
<v Speaker 5>I can only imagine the opportunities I missed just from

0:46:33.080 --> 0:46:34.719
<v Speaker 5>being handsome. I mean, it's.

0:46:36.680 --> 0:46:39.959
<v Speaker 6>But this show was not one of them, and that's good.

0:46:41.000 --> 0:46:42.080
<v Speaker 5>Uh uh.

0:46:43.120 --> 0:46:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean you've you've had Angela is intentional about mentoring

0:46:47.239 --> 0:46:48.800
<v Speaker 1>young people in a way that will make all of

0:46:48.880 --> 0:46:51.960
<v Speaker 1>us feel guilty because I don't have the capacity that

0:46:52.000 --> 0:46:53.600
<v Speaker 1>she does. But she devotes so much time to these

0:46:53.640 --> 0:46:56.400
<v Speaker 1>young people. You guys have all talked to PDP, but

0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:58.680
<v Speaker 1>you run the program like you. It's it's a difference

0:46:58.719 --> 0:47:01.000
<v Speaker 1>between me popping in to talk to them.

0:47:00.920 --> 0:47:02.920
<v Speaker 3>Versus I just appreciate it. They do too.

0:47:03.640 --> 0:47:06.080
<v Speaker 1>But you have had young people and that say, I

0:47:06.239 --> 0:47:09.920
<v Speaker 1>bore witness once. But you had young people come out

0:47:09.920 --> 0:47:12.600
<v Speaker 1>their mouth the wrong way to you. Not it's like subtle,

0:47:13.000 --> 0:47:15.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's like you just won one little inch

0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:19.120
<v Speaker 1>too far, and it does not endear them to you.

0:47:19.120 --> 0:47:21.040
<v Speaker 3>You know, it actually does.

0:47:21.200 --> 0:47:23.000
<v Speaker 4>There's one in particular she's gonna be mad at me

0:47:23.120 --> 0:47:25.120
<v Speaker 4>for saying it. Not the one, but this one that

0:47:25.160 --> 0:47:28.279
<v Speaker 4>comes to mind. I actually appreciate the combative ones the

0:47:28.320 --> 0:47:31.000
<v Speaker 4>most in the program because it gives me an opportunity.

0:47:31.080 --> 0:47:31.440
<v Speaker 3>It does.

0:47:31.520 --> 0:47:33.960
<v Speaker 4>It gives me an opportunity to guide a little more.

0:47:34.160 --> 0:47:36.080
<v Speaker 4>I know what it feels like to be froggy and leap.

0:47:36.120 --> 0:47:38.520
<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying. There's one in particular right now, Morgan.

0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:41.839
<v Speaker 3>I love you. But Morgan is in the program right now,

0:47:41.840 --> 0:47:45.000
<v Speaker 3>and Morgan is always she's she's she's feisty and passionate,

0:47:45.000 --> 0:47:46.760
<v Speaker 3>and I know it's not directed at me.

0:47:50.600 --> 0:47:53.320
<v Speaker 2>Yes, you do what you did? I don't remember.

0:47:53.360 --> 0:47:55.839
<v Speaker 1>It was some girl and she was It was one

0:47:55.840 --> 0:47:58.400
<v Speaker 1>of the sessions and she says something out of pocket.

0:47:58.480 --> 0:48:00.560
<v Speaker 5>We need to revisit this topic. This is a good one.

0:48:01.160 --> 0:48:04.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't memory. We can table a baby my memory

0:48:04.920 --> 0:48:09.759
<v Speaker 1>and Jack Candela like the girl left the group. The

0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:12.040
<v Speaker 1>girl ended up leaving, but the girl, so we can.

0:48:11.920 --> 0:48:14.560
<v Speaker 4>Do we can add to the Christmas thing, the Grinch

0:48:14.560 --> 0:48:16.600
<v Speaker 4>who stole the Grinch who stole?

0:48:16.840 --> 0:48:21.880
<v Speaker 3>Uh your PDP opportunity. But yeah, we just we go.

0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:27.640
<v Speaker 4>We're gonna focus on opportunity, I guess. But yes, speaking

0:48:27.719 --> 0:48:30.800
<v Speaker 4>of young people, we of course know on a Saturday

0:48:30.800 --> 0:48:34.640
<v Speaker 4>note that, Uh, there was a really tragic shooting this

0:48:34.680 --> 0:48:38.600
<v Speaker 4>past week at Brown University and it hit really close

0:48:38.640 --> 0:48:40.480
<v Speaker 4>to home. I know Tiff has someone who's like a

0:48:40.520 --> 0:48:43.520
<v Speaker 4>nephew to her. This at the school and my god son,

0:48:43.560 --> 0:48:44.720
<v Speaker 4>I call him godson nephew.

0:48:44.960 --> 0:48:45.160
<v Speaker 5>F A.

0:48:45.320 --> 0:48:50.600
<v Speaker 4>Alijo attends Brown University and was right near where all

0:48:50.600 --> 0:48:52.839
<v Speaker 4>the activity was taking place, heard the gunshots.

0:48:53.280 --> 0:48:53.440
<v Speaker 10>Uh.

0:48:53.560 --> 0:48:55.359
<v Speaker 3>He joins us today to talk about his.

0:48:55.400 --> 0:48:58.160
<v Speaker 4>Experience at Brown before and after the shooting, which I

0:48:58.160 --> 0:49:02.120
<v Speaker 4>think is important. As joins us and Nick brings him

0:49:02.120 --> 0:49:05.600
<v Speaker 4>in the studio, I will just say one of my

0:49:05.680 --> 0:49:08.319
<v Speaker 4>favorite things to say about Fa is he is a

0:49:08.400 --> 0:49:12.560
<v Speaker 4>computer science with an engineering student, but he plays. He walks,

0:49:12.719 --> 0:49:14.960
<v Speaker 4>walked onto the football team at Brown. He is not

0:49:15.000 --> 0:49:18.399
<v Speaker 4>on football scholarship, he's on academic scholarship. But I love

0:49:18.440 --> 0:49:21.040
<v Speaker 4>that he is multi talented and multifaceted.

0:49:21.640 --> 0:49:24.319
<v Speaker 5>And just just a note for the viewing audience, I'm

0:49:24.360 --> 0:49:28.160
<v Speaker 5>going to bow out of this conversation because we have

0:49:28.200 --> 0:49:31.440
<v Speaker 5>some it's an ongoing investigation into this matter, and we

0:49:31.440 --> 0:49:33.840
<v Speaker 5>don't have a lot of answers, and there are a

0:49:33.880 --> 0:49:40.239
<v Speaker 5>lot of victims that will be represented in this matter

0:49:40.280 --> 0:49:43.800
<v Speaker 5>in my firm may be involved. So I'm going to

0:49:43.840 --> 0:49:46.480
<v Speaker 5>bow out just to keep the integrity of the investigation

0:49:46.520 --> 0:49:48.719
<v Speaker 5>where it should be. But shout out to this young man.

0:49:55.239 --> 0:50:00.320
<v Speaker 4>Nobody knows, so Fa, thank you so much much for

0:50:00.400 --> 0:50:06.319
<v Speaker 4>joining us today. I know that Saturday was a crazy experience.

0:50:07.239 --> 0:50:09.160
<v Speaker 3>I was very worried. Your mom was very worried.

0:50:09.200 --> 0:50:11.959
<v Speaker 4>Can you talk a little bit about what you saw,

0:50:12.120 --> 0:50:13.839
<v Speaker 4>what you heard in your experience?

0:50:15.880 --> 0:50:19.360
<v Speaker 9>For sure, it was crazy. It's hard to put it

0:50:19.360 --> 0:50:23.000
<v Speaker 9>in the words, the totality of the experience. But I

0:50:24.320 --> 0:50:27.320
<v Speaker 9>was studying in the library. We call it the sidelines,

0:50:27.400 --> 0:50:30.520
<v Speaker 9>the sciences library. I was studying up all the way

0:50:30.520 --> 0:50:35.520
<v Speaker 9>on the thirteenth floor and this and the first thing

0:50:35.560 --> 0:50:38.040
<v Speaker 9>that happened was a girl came up to the window

0:50:38.160 --> 0:50:40.360
<v Speaker 9>right next to me. She peered out the window and

0:50:40.400 --> 0:50:44.279
<v Speaker 9>she gasped, and then she walked away. And I didn't

0:50:44.320 --> 0:50:45.880
<v Speaker 9>know what was going on because I was studying.

0:50:45.880 --> 0:50:47.799
<v Speaker 11>I hadn't been on my phone or anything, so I

0:50:47.840 --> 0:50:49.440
<v Speaker 11>just went back to my work. I was wondering, why

0:50:49.480 --> 0:50:52.520
<v Speaker 11>did she gas? And then some more people came up

0:50:52.560 --> 0:50:55.120
<v Speaker 11>and they taught me, and they were like when it

0:50:55.160 --> 0:50:56.560
<v Speaker 11>was one of my friends, and she taught me and

0:50:56.600 --> 0:51:02.560
<v Speaker 11>she was like, somebody, somebody got shot and I and

0:51:02.640 --> 0:51:06.080
<v Speaker 11>I stood up, and at first it didn't really process it,

0:51:06.360 --> 0:51:09.640
<v Speaker 11>almost like didn't sigger that much of a reaction for me,

0:51:09.800 --> 0:51:13.080
<v Speaker 11>just because that's something, unfortunately that I've heard more than

0:51:13.120 --> 0:51:16.759
<v Speaker 11>once before. But when I got up and I looked

0:51:16.760 --> 0:51:21.000
<v Speaker 11>out the window, I saw not only I saw somebody

0:51:21.120 --> 0:51:26.319
<v Speaker 11>on the ground and medical responses caring for them, but

0:51:26.800 --> 0:51:31.000
<v Speaker 11>I also saw probably seven or eight police cars on

0:51:31.080 --> 0:51:34.200
<v Speaker 11>the on the side of the street, so I knew

0:51:34.200 --> 0:51:38.200
<v Speaker 11>it was something a little bit more serious. I texted,

0:51:38.320 --> 0:51:42.200
<v Speaker 11>started texting, I texted my mom, I texted some of

0:51:42.239 --> 0:51:45.560
<v Speaker 11>my closest friends, my teammates, my roommates, just to make

0:51:45.600 --> 0:51:48.279
<v Speaker 11>sure they were okay. And then as I kept looking

0:51:48.280 --> 0:51:52.200
<v Speaker 11>out the window, I saw I started to see people

0:51:52.960 --> 0:51:55.600
<v Speaker 11>kind of running around, like police officers running around in

0:51:55.600 --> 0:51:58.640
<v Speaker 11>the perimeter of the library and this area where this

0:51:58.680 --> 0:52:02.440
<v Speaker 11>person was on the ground, and I and people everybody

0:52:02.480 --> 0:52:06.440
<v Speaker 11>started talking about it and what we came to realize

0:52:06.560 --> 0:52:08.840
<v Speaker 11>that it was an active shooter, and it was somebody

0:52:08.880 --> 0:52:12.120
<v Speaker 11>who was trying to keep shooting and keep hurting more people,

0:52:12.920 --> 0:52:15.080
<v Speaker 11>not just a one time incident.

0:52:15.920 --> 0:52:20.800
<v Speaker 9>So as the time went on, we I saw people

0:52:20.880 --> 0:52:26.040
<v Speaker 9>still running around. I didn't see anything else out the window,

0:52:26.080 --> 0:52:28.839
<v Speaker 9>but as you could go around the library, I saw

0:52:28.920 --> 0:52:32.760
<v Speaker 9>a Bayer Street, which is like the biggest busiest street

0:52:33.200 --> 0:52:35.879
<v Speaker 9>on our campus. It was cop cars all the way

0:52:35.920 --> 0:52:38.080
<v Speaker 9>up the street, literally as far as I could see.

0:52:39.400 --> 0:52:42.239
<v Speaker 9>And then even that's a north south street, even on

0:52:42.280 --> 0:52:46.239
<v Speaker 9>the east and west besides there was cop cars. I

0:52:46.280 --> 0:52:48.919
<v Speaker 9>heard a report that they pulled in all the cop

0:52:48.960 --> 0:52:51.440
<v Speaker 9>cars and Providence and then started even pulling in some

0:52:51.520 --> 0:52:55.480
<v Speaker 9>from around the city just because of the searts that

0:52:55.560 --> 0:52:57.400
<v Speaker 9>was going on, and they were trying to find the person.

0:53:00.080 --> 0:53:05.320
<v Speaker 9>So after that, the students on the floor hour was

0:53:05.360 --> 0:53:07.160
<v Speaker 9>with It was maybe twenty or twenty five of us

0:53:07.680 --> 0:53:11.080
<v Speaker 9>decided to barricade the doors. We heard a report that

0:53:11.160 --> 0:53:13.000
<v Speaker 9>maybe the shooter was because they were running it was

0:53:13.080 --> 0:53:15.080
<v Speaker 9>running around. We heard a report that maybe they came

0:53:15.120 --> 0:53:17.600
<v Speaker 9>in the bottom floor of the library. So we were

0:53:17.600 --> 0:53:21.400
<v Speaker 9>still on the thirteenth floor. I didn't feel super personally

0:53:21.440 --> 0:53:24.080
<v Speaker 9>threatened in that moment, but it was still good. We

0:53:24.160 --> 0:53:30.600
<v Speaker 9>barricaded the doors and took our own safety precautions. After

0:53:30.680 --> 0:53:36.440
<v Speaker 9>maybe an hour or an hour and a half, excuse me,

0:53:38.760 --> 0:53:41.759
<v Speaker 9>we heard that the police were coming in to evacuate

0:53:41.800 --> 0:53:44.839
<v Speaker 9>and search the building, the sciences library that I was in,

0:53:44.960 --> 0:53:47.960
<v Speaker 9>and they were going up four by four, so I

0:53:49.800 --> 0:53:51.600
<v Speaker 9>we heard that they were going up four by four,

0:53:52.040 --> 0:53:56.879
<v Speaker 9>and maybe a few floors down we heard at least

0:53:56.920 --> 0:54:00.239
<v Speaker 9>I heard the police yell knock on the door door,

0:54:00.280 --> 0:54:00.520
<v Speaker 9>but a.

0:54:00.480 --> 0:54:03.040
<v Speaker 7>Few fours down or Providence police were coming in.

0:54:05.160 --> 0:54:08.440
<v Speaker 9>And so I kind of knew that, okay, they're coming

0:54:08.560 --> 0:54:12.960
<v Speaker 9>up to our floor. And then maybe a few minutes later,

0:54:14.520 --> 0:54:18.080
<v Speaker 9>we heard somebody excuse me. We heard somebody knock on

0:54:18.120 --> 0:54:23.160
<v Speaker 9>the door, but they didn't say anything. So that caused

0:54:23.160 --> 0:54:25.960
<v Speaker 9>a lot of panic in the in the room. Everyone

0:54:26.000 --> 0:54:27.640
<v Speaker 9>went to the other side of the room because some

0:54:27.680 --> 0:54:29.960
<v Speaker 9>people thought, okay, maybe it was they shoot it.

0:54:30.040 --> 0:54:31.560
<v Speaker 7>It was coming in and trying to come up to

0:54:31.600 --> 0:54:32.040
<v Speaker 7>our floor.

0:54:34.560 --> 0:54:36.160
<v Speaker 9>That caused a lot of panic in the room, and

0:54:36.200 --> 0:54:38.520
<v Speaker 9>that was a lot of heightened emotions in that moment.

0:54:39.800 --> 0:54:45.200
<v Speaker 9>But a few maybe admitute or two later, through a

0:54:45.200 --> 0:54:50.240
<v Speaker 9>different door, the police came in announced themselves Providence police,

0:54:50.640 --> 0:54:54.000
<v Speaker 9>and they got us all the one side of the room,

0:54:54.080 --> 0:54:57.400
<v Speaker 9>made us count off to get a head count. That

0:54:57.640 --> 0:55:00.759
<v Speaker 9>thankfully let us grab our stuff for short period of

0:55:00.800 --> 0:55:03.959
<v Speaker 9>time our belongings and our computer and stuff like that,

0:55:04.360 --> 0:55:06.200
<v Speaker 9>and then they escorted us all the way down to

0:55:06.280 --> 0:55:06.760
<v Speaker 9>the basement.

0:55:07.360 --> 0:55:10.359
<v Speaker 4>EF I want to ask you really quick on just

0:55:10.400 --> 0:55:13.480
<v Speaker 4>on this point, on how you all responded to this

0:55:13.560 --> 0:55:15.240
<v Speaker 4>with One of the things you and I talked about

0:55:15.280 --> 0:55:18.520
<v Speaker 4>before is when I was growing up, we did drills

0:55:18.640 --> 0:55:20.239
<v Speaker 4>for fire and earthquake.

0:55:20.680 --> 0:55:22.480
<v Speaker 3>But when even when you were in high school, you

0:55:22.520 --> 0:55:26.200
<v Speaker 3>did a drill for shooting.

0:55:26.239 --> 0:55:29.120
<v Speaker 4>If a shooting happens at school, was it was it

0:55:29.400 --> 0:55:33.759
<v Speaker 4>remarkably different from what you learned at school. The response,

0:55:33.880 --> 0:55:35.759
<v Speaker 4>the way that you responded, the way you felt in

0:55:35.760 --> 0:55:40.160
<v Speaker 4>the moment, for sure it was.

0:55:40.440 --> 0:55:42.600
<v Speaker 7>It was a little bit different. I think.

0:55:44.080 --> 0:55:48.440
<v Speaker 9>One of the main differences that presented us, that presented

0:55:48.440 --> 0:55:52.480
<v Speaker 9>itself was the location of where I was in response

0:55:52.520 --> 0:55:54.680
<v Speaker 9>to the shooter. I think it would have been different

0:55:54.680 --> 0:55:56.960
<v Speaker 9>if I was on the if I was on the

0:55:56.960 --> 0:56:00.000
<v Speaker 9>bottom floor on the basement. Because we were on the

0:56:00.160 --> 0:56:08.480
<v Speaker 9>thirteenth floor, I think it didn't feel as dangerous, I

0:56:08.480 --> 0:56:11.000
<v Speaker 9>guess I could say, but I think a lot of

0:56:11.000 --> 0:56:13.760
<v Speaker 9>the same things came into play, like barricading the doors.

0:56:14.840 --> 0:56:17.840
<v Speaker 9>I think one thing that was different is none of

0:56:17.920 --> 0:56:22.799
<v Speaker 9>us were hiding necessarily, but I had. My roommate was

0:56:22.840 --> 0:56:25.680
<v Speaker 9>on the in the basement, so you walk in the library,

0:56:26.719 --> 0:56:30.239
<v Speaker 9>there's no door, and just walked down some steps into

0:56:30.280 --> 0:56:34.680
<v Speaker 9>the basement, and he described everybody was hiding in the basement.

0:56:36.800 --> 0:56:38.600
<v Speaker 9>So I think that was one of the main differences

0:56:38.640 --> 0:56:42.960
<v Speaker 9>that presented itself. But in terms of barricading the doors,

0:56:43.360 --> 0:56:45.799
<v Speaker 9>and then obviously when we heard noise is coming up,

0:56:46.440 --> 0:56:49.759
<v Speaker 9>those a lot of those other things came into play, and.

0:56:50.040 --> 0:56:54.919
<v Speaker 6>I'm curious to know one. Thank you for sharing your experience.

0:56:56.280 --> 0:56:59.239
<v Speaker 6>I remember how emotional my wife and I were when

0:56:59.800 --> 0:57:03.000
<v Speaker 6>we got the notice about our kids having to first

0:57:03.080 --> 0:57:07.680
<v Speaker 6>do active shooter drills. And I think the way in

0:57:07.719 --> 0:57:10.279
<v Speaker 6>which Angel and I grew up at that time and

0:57:10.320 --> 0:57:13.560
<v Speaker 6>at that period, because we weren't so exposed to active

0:57:13.560 --> 0:57:18.440
<v Speaker 6>shooter drills being a regular part of training. It really

0:57:19.280 --> 0:57:23.080
<v Speaker 6>messes with your mind when you hear about your kids

0:57:23.200 --> 0:57:25.440
<v Speaker 6>or people who you're very close to having to go

0:57:25.520 --> 0:57:28.920
<v Speaker 6>through that experience. One that I think you know, in

0:57:28.960 --> 0:57:31.240
<v Speaker 6>an ideal scenario, you would want to protect kids from.

0:57:31.280 --> 0:57:33.320
<v Speaker 6>You don't want my kids thinking about somebody coming into

0:57:33.360 --> 0:57:36.000
<v Speaker 6>a classroom with a gun to you know, to take

0:57:36.040 --> 0:57:39.440
<v Speaker 6>them out. But your you know, your lived experience is

0:57:39.480 --> 0:57:42.440
<v Speaker 6>a little bit different than what ours was in the

0:57:42.520 --> 0:57:45.120
<v Speaker 6>sense that I think you probably have, at least as

0:57:45.200 --> 0:57:47.640
<v Speaker 6>far as I've been able to read, maybe two classmates

0:57:48.040 --> 0:57:51.360
<v Speaker 6>who this was the second active shooter event that they

0:57:51.400 --> 0:57:55.040
<v Speaker 6>had been in in their lifetimes, which means twice before

0:57:55.160 --> 0:57:59.200
<v Speaker 6>they have been in this this kind of condition and scenario.

0:57:59.520 --> 0:58:02.400
<v Speaker 6>And I just under psychologically for you and your peers

0:58:02.440 --> 0:58:07.720
<v Speaker 6>whether or not is there a shock toa moments like this,

0:58:07.960 --> 0:58:11.720
<v Speaker 6>or does it do you fully anticipate that over the

0:58:11.760 --> 0:58:14.880
<v Speaker 6>course of your life and your educational experience, that this

0:58:15.040 --> 0:58:17.400
<v Speaker 6>is something that you and your peers are going to

0:58:17.480 --> 0:58:21.600
<v Speaker 6>have to deal with and that older folks probably like us,

0:58:21.640 --> 0:58:25.000
<v Speaker 6>ought to just get over, you know, the shock and

0:58:25.160 --> 0:58:29.000
<v Speaker 6>awe around active shooter drills having to be taught to

0:58:29.040 --> 0:58:32.400
<v Speaker 6>our children and embrace the fact that this is kind

0:58:32.400 --> 0:58:35.600
<v Speaker 6>of part of your lived experience now for your generation

0:58:35.640 --> 0:58:38.280
<v Speaker 6>and maybe those coming after you. Or is there still

0:58:38.280 --> 0:58:41.640
<v Speaker 6>a healthy rejection of this as an experience that you

0:58:41.720 --> 0:58:42.360
<v Speaker 6>have to go through.

0:58:42.360 --> 0:58:48.520
<v Speaker 7>I'm curious, for sure. I am.

0:58:50.280 --> 0:58:52.520
<v Speaker 9>There's a lot of merit to that. I think that

0:58:53.840 --> 0:58:58.560
<v Speaker 9>in the moment it was a shock, of course, However,

0:59:00.040 --> 0:59:02.120
<v Speaker 9>it really wasn't I don't think the shock that I

0:59:02.160 --> 0:59:04.360
<v Speaker 9>had was near the levels of the shot that.

0:59:04.440 --> 0:59:08.760
<v Speaker 7>Maybe my parents or you all met it might have had.

0:59:09.000 --> 0:59:13.120
<v Speaker 9>I think in high school we had one active shooter situation,

0:59:13.240 --> 0:59:16.160
<v Speaker 9>not directly on our campus but a few blocks away.

0:59:17.280 --> 0:59:20.320
<v Speaker 9>So even just that being in my lived experience before,

0:59:21.040 --> 0:59:23.040
<v Speaker 9>I think I heard that it was a shooter.

0:59:22.800 --> 0:59:26.040
<v Speaker 7>And I was like, wow, this is this is real.

0:59:26.680 --> 0:59:29.760
<v Speaker 9>Of course, you never expected to be your school, especially

0:59:29.760 --> 0:59:32.960
<v Speaker 9>a mass shooting and things. I don't want to describe

0:59:32.960 --> 0:59:36.360
<v Speaker 9>the numbers, but in the moment on Saturday, we numbers

0:59:36.360 --> 0:59:40.760
<v Speaker 9>were going around of casualties that were higher than what

0:59:40.840 --> 0:59:47.000
<v Speaker 9>the actual number ended up being. So that was that

0:59:47.040 --> 0:59:49.720
<v Speaker 9>part had a lot of shock because that's something that

0:59:49.800 --> 0:59:52.840
<v Speaker 9>you never experienced, you never expect to be you even

0:59:52.880 --> 0:59:56.280
<v Speaker 9>if you have heard it before. But I think the

0:59:56.920 --> 1:00:01.440
<v Speaker 9>totality of the experience it was shocking, and I didn't

1:00:01.440 --> 1:00:03.840
<v Speaker 9>expect it to happen for sure, but I think in

1:00:03.920 --> 1:00:06.480
<v Speaker 9>my head it was just it was kind of like, oh,

1:00:06.640 --> 1:00:10.840
<v Speaker 9>this is this is happening. It this is the next

1:00:10.880 --> 1:00:12.880
<v Speaker 9>one that happened. It was like it's it's like it

1:00:13.280 --> 1:00:17.000
<v Speaker 9>was almost like it had been enough time, it's pasted,

1:00:17.040 --> 1:00:19.200
<v Speaker 9>Like where this is the next one that's going on.

1:00:20.720 --> 1:00:24.160
<v Speaker 6>If that makes sense, Yeah, heartbreaking, but yes, it just

1:00:24.200 --> 1:00:24.600
<v Speaker 6>makes sense.

1:00:25.000 --> 1:00:27.080
<v Speaker 3>If do you feel safe for turning to school.

1:00:30.880 --> 1:00:32.040
<v Speaker 7>I think that.

1:00:33.880 --> 1:00:38.439
<v Speaker 9>In a month, a little over a month, I think

1:00:38.480 --> 1:00:40.640
<v Speaker 9>I would feel safe returning to school.

1:00:41.800 --> 1:00:44.200
<v Speaker 7>I think it's always going to be in the back

1:00:44.240 --> 1:00:44.800
<v Speaker 7>of your mind.

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<v Speaker 9>I hope that there'll be at least a little bit

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<v Speaker 9>of added security and things like that that go on

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<v Speaker 9>on campus. And I know that they're definitely going to

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<v Speaker 9>be changing things that changing things past this next winter break,

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<v Speaker 9>but I think I would feel safe. I think the

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<v Speaker 9>safety that I felt before this incident as a big

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<v Speaker 9>was was great. It was really strong, and I feel

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<v Speaker 9>like I felt safe walking around campus all hours of

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<v Speaker 9>the day, interacting with people, not not even just ground

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<v Speaker 9>students and faculty, but interacting with people in the Providence community.

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<v Speaker 9>I feel really safe to have not even walking around

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<v Speaker 9>downtown and going off campus, and I feel like that

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<v Speaker 9>isn't going to completely go away, but it will always

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<v Speaker 9>be in the back of your mind for sure. I

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<v Speaker 9>think I probably won't go out for as many walks

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<v Speaker 9>and stuff like that on my own, but I think

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<v Speaker 9>in the in the in the big picture, I'll feel safe,

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<v Speaker 9>especially because I feel like our community there's so much

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<v Speaker 9>you can do against somebody with a gun, but I

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<v Speaker 9>think our community is also going to be a lot

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<v Speaker 9>tighter and a lot stronger and willing to support each other.

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<v Speaker 7>So I feel like that also adds to that.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm so grateful that you could join us today.

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<v Speaker 4>Means the world to me and definitely want you to

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<v Speaker 4>feel safe. So love you, god Son, Thank you, good.

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<v Speaker 5>Love, good luck, good luck.

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<v Speaker 7>We're proud of you too, Thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Wow, I just appreciate, appreciate you tapping into your

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<v Speaker 6>personal network and for FA being so willing to come

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<v Speaker 6>on and share that experience. It is I you know,

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<v Speaker 6>there's this there's a difference in generations, right because these

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<v Speaker 6>guys have to be built to really tolerate experiences that

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<v Speaker 6>are just you know, really beyond what I think I felt,

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<v Speaker 6>what I know I felt, you know, elementary middle high school.

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<v Speaker 6>That wasn't active shooter, wasn't my fear, you know, buying

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<v Speaker 6>large hurricanes and tornado. Who were our drills? You talked

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<v Speaker 6>about earthquakes, Angela and your experience and Florida. You know,

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<v Speaker 6>for a lot of us, it was getting the corner,

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<v Speaker 6>cover your head, get under your desk, you know, those

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<v Speaker 6>sorts of things in fear of tornadoes breaking out or

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<v Speaker 6>or or god forbid you being in a situation where

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<v Speaker 6>hurricane conditions started to whip up. But it wasn't this

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<v Speaker 6>kind of a situation. But each I guess, each generation

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<v Speaker 6>has to confront these things differently, and it's gonna take

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<v Speaker 6>me a long time before I think I accept you know,

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<v Speaker 6>active shooter drills and that kind of thing is being

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<v Speaker 6>regular and normal.

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<v Speaker 4>We had like gun violence that we were worried about,

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<v Speaker 4>but it was like drive by shootings and gang violence,

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<v Speaker 4>but for the most part it was targeted. We lost

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<v Speaker 4>somebody who was two years ahead of me in middle school.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it was her freshman year in high school,

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<v Speaker 4>but it was it was still rare, and I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>justifying it, but it's just like we did not prepare for,

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<v Speaker 4>Like how do you respond to a drive by or gunshots?

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<v Speaker 3>Like we just ran.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what we learned to run. But yeah, I just

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<v Speaker 4>I wish that this did not happen to fa I

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<v Speaker 4>was telling I camera, if I was telling y'all, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't think I told y'all this, But I was saying

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<v Speaker 4>to my mom the other day that earlier this year,

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<v Speaker 4>when he was starting at Brown, I was like, man,

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<v Speaker 4>I really wanted you to go to Howard. I hate

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<v Speaker 4>like't he didn't get enough scholarship money basically at Howard,

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<v Speaker 4>and Brown covered his tuition for the most part. And

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, well, it must have been God because

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<v Speaker 4>now they got to National Guard and Ice outside of Howard.

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<v Speaker 3>So we would have been so panicked. We would have

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<v Speaker 3>been so worried.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, like I would have had tip combined to

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<v Speaker 4>swoop you up right, like we would have been trying

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<v Speaker 4>to move completely different. And then when this happened, I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, what am Where is he safe?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 4>And I can't imagine the number of parents and aunties

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<v Speaker 4>and godparents and grandparents who were asking this question all

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<v Speaker 4>the time about their elementary school students, their middle school students,

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<v Speaker 4>their high school students and now college too, and it's

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<v Speaker 4>just it's just it's remarkable. I cannot imagine, like the

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<v Speaker 4>young man who wanted to become a brain surgeon because

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<v Speaker 4>he had brain surgery, losing his life on this campus

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<v Speaker 4>his freshman year.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just it's unbelievable.

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<v Speaker 4>So thank you all for carving out the time for

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<v Speaker 4>that and hopefully we can figure out what gun safety

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<v Speaker 4>really looks like in this country.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, every week we ask you guys to submit

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<v Speaker 1>your viewer questions comments. We love to hear from you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we say welcome home. It's with intention. So before

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<v Speaker 1>we get out of the show this week, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear from you what's on your mind. Let's hear

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<v Speaker 1>from a viewer.

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<v Speaker 10>My name is a Ken and I'm from Atlanta. The

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<v Speaker 10>term patriotism is a scam. Every time the government labels

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<v Speaker 10>people as unpatriotic, it's because critical thinking has prevented those

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<v Speaker 10>people from accepting a lie. The people against the wars

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<v Speaker 10>in Vietnam, Iraq, and Afghanistan and were labeled unpatriotic. All

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<v Speaker 10>those wars were based on lies. Let's be real. The

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<v Speaker 10>American government has been aligned to the American people since

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<v Speaker 10>July fourth, seventeen seventy six. In seventeen seventy six, the

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<v Speaker 10>American people were told to go west for free land.

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<v Speaker 10>But that land wasn't free. It came at the cost

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<v Speaker 10>of the genocide of the natives living on that land.

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<v Speaker 10>I would like to hear more troops like this from

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<v Speaker 10>the tunnel.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>He sounds like you ready to join the panel. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't have anything that had no. No, great, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>you got to roll another one.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank yeah, Thank you, Ken, And I echo everything he said.

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<v Speaker 1>In terms of patriotism, I kind of feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this a bit earlier and we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about evangelicals. A lot of these terms are rooted in

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<v Speaker 1>what white conservatives think, how they define patriotism. They would

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<v Speaker 1>rather have somebody who's an accused trader, somebody who had.

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<v Speaker 2>Hostile leaders of a hostile.

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<v Speaker 1>Nation in the Oval Office leaking American intelligence to Kisleyak

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<v Speaker 1>from Russia in the Oval Office, and this is the

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<v Speaker 1>person who they call their patriots. So, Kim, we couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>agree with you more. Thank you for taking the time

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<v Speaker 1>to send us a video.

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<v Speaker 6>I do accept the challenge that I think he threw down,

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<v Speaker 6>which is to interrogate intensely everything that we hear from

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<v Speaker 6>our government and frankly that we hear in society. I

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<v Speaker 6>think said, I think that's a fair challenge, not to

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<v Speaker 6>take things that sort of window window dressing and face

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<v Speaker 6>value that we interrogated.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree Lolo said this was our mini PI.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically, but We do have a mini pot coming out

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<v Speaker 1>this week, so be sure you check that out on Friday.

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<v Speaker 2>But let's get the call to action. Who's kicking us off?

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<v Speaker 12>Who cares about truth when the laws more than say it.

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<v Speaker 5>I got a call called at I think I'm stealing

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<v Speaker 5>what Angela said. Spend some time, and I talked to

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<v Speaker 5>a guy in the in the airport. He ran me

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<v Speaker 5>down in the airport. No, he didn't think I was

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<v Speaker 5>Andrew Gillen, but he actually ran me down in the

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<v Speaker 5>airport and he said he was talking to me about

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<v Speaker 5>how he's encouraging his family to teach about civil rights.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think that we need to spend some time

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<v Speaker 5>celebrating Kwanza. And the reason we need to celebrate Kwansa

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<v Speaker 5>is not to be militant, not to go through this

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<v Speaker 5>exercise of necessarily just trying to be different for the

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<v Speaker 5>sake of being different. And please God, don't do it

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<v Speaker 5>just to post on Instagram. But the just the the

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<v Speaker 5>the very fundamental tenets of Kwansa teach us what Angela

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<v Speaker 5>was talking about, which is to love yourself. And I

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<v Speaker 5>think that the com except of community, the concept of

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<v Speaker 5>loving yourself are all encapsulated in quansa. And so while

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<v Speaker 5>we're saying Happy Hanukkah, and while we're saying Merry Christmas,

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<v Speaker 5>I also want to say Happy Kwanza to those who celebrate.

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<v Speaker 5>And if you don't, it's worth just picking up a

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<v Speaker 5>book and reading about it a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Ay, I like it. I'll go next.

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<v Speaker 4>Since I got tag teamed in here, I found out

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<v Speaker 4>about this site. It's not updated for this year.

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<v Speaker 5>No, you should look at it on your private browser though,

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<v Speaker 5>because you don't want people to.

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<v Speaker 6>Speak whatsite to tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>Renee blew it renee blew It.

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<v Speaker 4>Started this concept called she Did That, and the tagline says,

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<v Speaker 4>when black women own businesses, when we all win. So

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<v Speaker 4>I started going, like looking through this site, and she

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<v Speaker 4>has this whole gift guide that she created for the

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<v Speaker 4>holidays last year, and it's it was a twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 4>four guide, but tif when I tell you, there are

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<v Speaker 4>some incredible hats and ear rings and head reps and

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<v Speaker 4>games and shoes and food and art, like I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>she has all of the things. That's seventy five black

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<v Speaker 4>women owned businesses and she did it also in twenty

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<v Speaker 4>twenty one, but twenty twenty four as the latest I

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<v Speaker 4>did click on a number of the sites to see

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<v Speaker 4>if they're still active. When I tell you I'm about

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<v Speaker 4>to burn a hole in my pocket, I don't need

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<v Speaker 4>but I want you all to please consider it's called

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<v Speaker 4>she did that dot co, not dot com.

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<v Speaker 3>She did that dot co.

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<v Speaker 4>But shout out to the sister for taking the time

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<v Speaker 4>to hand pick and curate these incredible businesses.

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<v Speaker 3>Paper goods. Wellness. You know, I can't wait to get.

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<v Speaker 6>To the bun bag.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, that's good, that's stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>We should get some stuff to wear, like when we

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<v Speaker 2>go to Detroit.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, yes, that's true.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what you know we need to do? Get

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<v Speaker 5>back to This is random but nothing, but we need

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<v Speaker 5>to get back to. Uh remember when Ebany used to

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<v Speaker 5>have all of the scholarships in the Is it anywhere?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you freeze or.

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<v Speaker 2>FROs Jesus Lord, help help for Macary?

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, yep, yep, yip yip gip just hushed.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Andrew, give to you hopefully McCary Andrew call to action.

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<v Speaker 6>I just the holidays is coming up. Everybody get out

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<v Speaker 6>a little bit more time on their hands. I just

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<v Speaker 6>encourage folks to spend time as best you can with family.

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<v Speaker 6>The ones you're born into, but also the ones that

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<v Speaker 6>you select. It doesn't it doesn't require a whole bunch

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<v Speaker 6>You don't need a whole bunch of money, a whole

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<v Speaker 6>bunch of much of anything to carve out that time

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<v Speaker 6>to spend with those folks. Because when the cars come

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<v Speaker 6>crashing in or you're at your moment of desperation or uh,

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<v Speaker 6>you just want to be with the people who love

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<v Speaker 6>you or or or or ride with you just because

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<v Speaker 6>you're you just the time to pay it forward into

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<v Speaker 6>those relationships so that your time of crisis isn't the

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<v Speaker 6>first time that they didn't heard from you in a

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<v Speaker 6>minute that you've paid some of that forward in don't

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<v Speaker 6>do it for that intention. I'm just simply saying, think

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<v Speaker 6>about the people who are your roight or dies and

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<v Speaker 6>pouring some time into that relationship while we can this

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<v Speaker 6>holiday season.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go last, and I'm being disobedient as you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are going through your ccas, I was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I to do this or not, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to My publisher will probably kill me. But because

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about loving ourselves, I want to tell

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<v Speaker 1>everyone that for the past I think year and a half,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe two years. I have been consumed with writing from

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<v Speaker 1>sun up to sundown. That's all I've been doing is writing.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I want to tell everybody my book will

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<v Speaker 1>be available for sale on January first, and it is

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<v Speaker 1>rooted yes, loving yourself. They told me not to say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, we'll make me an thouncen in January. But

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<v Speaker 1>I love that we were talking about this. It seems

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<v Speaker 1>right on time. It is rooted in loving ourselves. It

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<v Speaker 1>is a snapshot of everything black women are seeing, experiencing,

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<v Speaker 1>and feeling right now in this era of American rock.

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<v Speaker 1>It is not just about politics, although I include politics.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not just about policy, although I talk about that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is about our personhood, our humanity, our love,

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<v Speaker 1>our sisterhood. Angela's in the book, but Car is in

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<v Speaker 1>the book, Andrew's in the book. But it really is

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<v Speaker 1>a comprehensive, holistic look. And so I hope on January

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<v Speaker 1>first that people will find it. Well, that's when you'll

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<v Speaker 1>hear the title and see the book cover. So my

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<v Speaker 1>publishers won't be too upset that I said this today. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very very excited. Angela does not know, but she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be on my book tour with me somewhere I'm pulling. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll be in conversation somewhere. I have an idea where

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<v Speaker 1>I want us to be, but we'll talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>next year. So anyway, I beg you all on January first.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you how you can find the book and

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<v Speaker 1>all that, but it is support our She been working hard, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>bleeding on the pages.

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<v Speaker 6>So I give order you let me know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't know if RJ told you, but I

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<v Speaker 2>was texting her yesterday because.

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<v Speaker 6>I want so exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, good, I want us to do something.

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<v Speaker 6>When we were discussing the cities.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh good, okay, good, you're good.

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<v Speaker 6>You're discussed trying to.

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<v Speaker 2>God our other call action.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just say, we would ask our brethren out

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<v Speaker 1>there to please pray for Bacari and his WiFi situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Please, in the name of Jesus, the work, the Blood,

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<v Speaker 3>the blood.

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<v Speaker 1>Every week, my mama, we ask you the name of Jesus,

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<v Speaker 1>please get this man.

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<v Speaker 4>He blew off a dial up in twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh God, let him stop freezing. Oh God, let him

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<v Speaker 4>stop cutting on our comments and just being doing the

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<v Speaker 4>robottle gods the devil.

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<v Speaker 3>In the name of Jesus.

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<v Speaker 6>Hiyy oh Jesus. All right about, you're playing with God

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<v Speaker 6>and I got we're not.

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<v Speaker 4>Playing with Bacari because he's playing with us in Jesus

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<v Speaker 4>Mighty names.

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<v Speaker 2>Amen.

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<v Speaker 9>Amen.

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