1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and iHeart Radio Podcast. 2 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 2: All right, ladies, we are back with another Headlines episode. 3 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,319 Speaker 3: Kat you'll be mean? 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: What I do? 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 4: I know, guys, it's fine, everything's fine, All is well, 6 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 4: all as well. 7 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 3: I'm still on this show. You know. I just really 8 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 3: much to some. 9 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: People's true, you are still on the show, which is 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: just I can't. 11 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 3: Here's the deal. 12 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 1: I can't either think people still don't fully understand our 13 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: dynamic like us three, like I really think because I 14 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: look at it, like, oh, I just think people think 15 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: I'm being mean too, because we were trying to figure 16 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:43,959 Speaker 1: out what that comment meant. And I was like, they 17 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: think I'm being mean to y'all, like I'm being a 18 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: mean girl to y'all. Oh, I read it differently, I 19 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: think so, because that clip was me going what you want. 20 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 2: To think to look you know what I mean, I 21 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 2: thought it was. I thought it was. 22 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 3: I mean, it could be mixed all it. 23 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do think people and so I really 24 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: do think that that's part of it. 25 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh no, I really. 26 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: Wasn't like being mean to them, and I don't think 27 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: they're taking it that way. 28 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 4: Listen to the whole episode well, that's my thing. You 29 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 4: really do have to listen for context. But yeah, it's fine. 30 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 4: I will I'll say two things. 31 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: I got a dm uh from this, and actually, really 32 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 2: I appreciate anybody that comes in. Like sometimes people will 33 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 2: say they don't like it when we talk over each 34 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 2: other or which I get it, and that's just I 35 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 2: have the same problem even enacting during movies. It's like 36 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: the sound guy would be like, hey, and I'm like, 37 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 2: that's just how people talk, you know, and it's to 38 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 2: make it more natural, and I'm sorry, I'll try better. 39 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 2: But I love getting constructive criticism say it that way, 40 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 2: because that is that's how I like the I don't 41 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 2: like the mean comments. I like when someone's like, hey, 42 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 2: this kind of bothers me, or hey, but someone said 43 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 2: which I actually thought was funny, but she said, you've 44 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 2: been really rude to Kristen lately, and I was like 45 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 2: have I was like, sometimes I feel like I get 46 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 2: on Catherine more, you know, but it's not I go 47 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 2: not because I think, like you spoke about Kristen radio, 48 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: not everyone should have the same. So we kind of 49 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 2: play into the like if you have an opinion, I 50 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 2: might go against your opinion to have more of a conversation, 51 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: not because I'm trying to be rude or trying to 52 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: That's what I make versa a dynamic. But I also 53 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 2: think sometimes my tone can be taken when I'm not 54 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 2: trying to be a certain way. 55 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 4: Because I said, oh, interesting, I don't feel that way 56 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 4: at all, so I said I'm so sorry. 57 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 2: And then earlier day when we were podcasting, I cut 58 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 2: you off and I was like, shit, that's going to 59 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,959 Speaker 2: be taken like that I was being rude or something, 60 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: and I just I don't even say sorry for tones, 61 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 2: and I just. 62 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 3: That's why I'm saying. 63 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: I don't think people understand that we're not taking it, 64 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: you know, like it's just how our like again, like 65 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 1: me and you, debating is what we do, we'll do 66 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: in real life, you know. So it's like whatever we're 67 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 1: doing here and gluting talking over each other is because 68 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 1: it's so natural and so like, let's talk about it, 69 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: especially we're talking about headlines or you know or whatever 70 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: it is, like we just like to hear everybody's opinion, 71 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: we like, so we truly like to debate. We love 72 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 1: to debate. We have such fun debates. So well that's 73 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: what I like to debate more than others. 74 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 2: But I do want to speak to one of the 75 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 2: comments that was in the no and I'm not talking 76 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 2: about her. Listen the lady that always says sound about you, 77 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 2: Oh lady, she's going to be on the podcast until 78 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 2: she doesn't want to be on the podcast. 79 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 3: Me. Yes, yeah. 80 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 2: Well I also was just like, great, thanks, lady. I 81 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 2: love all of y'all's opinions. You know I fought for you, Catherine. 82 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 3: I'm still here, then you're still here that I'm sure 83 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 3: I fight for my friends. Okay, really good. 84 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 2: So, but I think the one of the comments that 85 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: bothered me the most is was around this headline story 86 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 2: where it's she's she made a comment and it's not 87 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: that bothered me Again, I'm taking every comment on and going, okay, 88 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 2: let's dissect this, how can we? Because I don't want 89 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 2: to be perceived this way. The comment was something about, 90 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 2: not verbatim, but she dislikes podcasts nowadays because people just 91 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 2: go on to gossip and talk badly about other people, 92 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 2: which I then engaged with because I'm like, that's actually 93 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 2: not like a lot of our episodes are about healing 94 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 2: and talking through our own personal struggles like I was 95 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 2: making fun of myself for the majority of that episode, 96 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: and I took a lot of pleasure making. 97 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 5: Fun of myself. It was last I don't listen back 98 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 5: I laugh, So you guys, I needed that laugh. Like 99 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 5: that episode brought me. I was teed up, just like joy. 100 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: Is streaming down my the rest of the day. 101 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 3: I just felt like, in such a good mood, we 102 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: had such a boy. 103 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: If I was that mean, I wouldn't be laughing about 104 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not that terrible a person. 105 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 2: Right, But I think when we come on here and 106 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 2: like in the past, yes, there have been times that 107 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 2: where I've even misspoken in ways that I don't like 108 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 2: to speak about people, or how I spoke didn't come 109 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: from a good place. And of course we've got headlines 110 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 2: today that are about people, this, that, and the other. 111 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 2: So how do we differentiate from because I don't want 112 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 2: it to feel that way judgmental or just opening it 113 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 2: up as a gossiping and taking, because that's kind of well, if. 114 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 1: You're talking about a headline, it's all kind of gossip though, right, 115 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: I mean the definition of gossip. I mean, we it is, 116 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: I just you know, so it's kind of on the 117 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 1: other hand of that, like, I know she's saying that 118 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: as a negative thing, but if we're going to be 119 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: talking about headlines at all, essentially it's all gossip. 120 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, And because we don't know, I think all I 121 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 3: have got it Like if. 122 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 1: That just kind of made me, well, it depends on 123 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: how you're so then how do we talk about a 124 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: headline and it not be gossip? 125 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 4: To me? It feels like we're teeing it up for 126 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 4: bigger discussions, Like that's the way I was saying, is an 127 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:14,239 Speaker 4: opportunity to be like, wow, I've never right, I've never 128 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 4: actually thought of that, or that's a situation I've never 129 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:21,119 Speaker 4: been in, and you know, more well rounded thinking looking 130 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 4: up the definition of gossip. I'm not trying to be 131 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 4: like you know, el Woods in this moment. I just 132 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 4: really do like when. 133 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 2: I think it's something where where I look at it 134 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,919 Speaker 2: now again, I have not done this perfectly in the past. 135 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 2: I think where I look at now is just a 136 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: conversation up for debate about our thoughts on it. I 137 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 2: think again, where I have not done it perfectly and 138 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 2: well in the past is I've said things that don't 139 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 2: reflect how I want to speak about certain people, sure, 140 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: which is why I do better and try better and 141 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 2: learn again. 142 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: I do want to defend us a little bit in 143 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: the sense that and that person. At the same time, 144 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: the definition of gossip is talking about someone who is 145 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: not present. So by definition, there's no way to talk 146 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 1: about headlines and not or your husband for that matter, 147 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: particularly exactly be talking aboo talking gossip, especially about their 148 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: personal life, behavior or circumstances. 149 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 3: It often involves behavior that is unverified. 150 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: So my whole point is we see it as a negative, 151 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: and I think we can be careful about how what 152 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: we say and what we you know, and not be judgmental. 153 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, even though this 154 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: commenter meant it in a negative way, there's no way 155 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: to talk about headlines and it not be gossip. 156 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 4: Also, the headlines are written as gossips. It's all right, 157 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 4: well they are gossip. They're not present when I can 158 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 4: take it much right, true? 159 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am present for the one that came out though, 160 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 2: five days ago about Jana Kramer defense Adam Zandler officiating. 161 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 3: Oh nice, good for you. Shout out to Adam, shout 162 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 3: out to good Yeah. I was like, that was a nice. 163 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I love him so anyways, Yeah, but yes, 164 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 2: here we go, okay. 165 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 3: So carefully, let's go into it. 166 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 2: We go into it with a conversation, not with a negative. 167 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: And I think we did well on the Taylor Swift 168 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: thing even, I mean the wedding. I think that we 169 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: did a good job of just you know, was a 170 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: negative burying me in that exactly. Yeah, just being mean 171 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: girls to each other. 172 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 3: Will you'll ever be is mean to me soon? 173 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 2: Brittany Cartwright, Ax's longtime publicist after cozy Jax Taylor pool picks. 174 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 2: It all started when photo surface of Jax Taylor getting 175 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 2: cozy with Lori Krebs, the longtime publicist who had represented 176 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 2: both him and Brittany for years, during his birthday tip 177 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 2: to Porta vadda, they showed photos showing Jacks and Laurie hugging, 178 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 2: hanging out in the pool, and spending time together, feeling 179 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 2: rumors that though two are romantically involved. After Laurie gave 180 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 2: Brittany a heads up that the photos were about to 181 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 2: be published, Brittany decided to end their professional relationship after 182 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 2: more than a decade of working together. Sources to say 183 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 2: Brittany is more hurt by Laurie than Jack's calling the 184 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 2: situation of betrayal because Laurie had always had also become 185 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 2: a close friend. Do you think Brittany has every right 186 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 2: to be upset or are Jax and Laurie technically free 187 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:14,199 Speaker 2: to date since the marriage is over. 188 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 3: Both? 189 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: I think they have every right to Now, I'm like, wait, whatever, 190 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: it's fine. No, I think they have the right to 191 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: do what they want to do. But when you make decisions, 192 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 1: decisions also have consequences. So if that's worth it for them, 193 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 1: then that's fine, and that's worth it for them, But 194 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 1: she also has the right to be upset about it. 195 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 3: In my opinion, yeah, I would agree. 196 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 2: I if you're Brittany, would you be more upset with 197 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 2: your ex or Laurie? Probably Laurie because Laurie is the 198 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 2: one I still have the relationship with. I mean, I'm 199 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 2: not happy with either, but an next I don't know. 200 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 2: I think I also value friendship so deeply, like friends 201 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 2: have become my family. So ten year working relationship in 202 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 2: that way, it's like a pretty intimate relationship is friends. 203 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 2: I mean, you guys know your manager ish, you know, 204 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 2: like you go through all that too, so you just 205 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 2: know more than the average person knows, and so that 206 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 2: would really that would be really hurtful to me. I 207 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 2: think I would for sure be upset with the publicist, 208 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 2: because again, if you're working together, I want to believe 209 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 2: that My hope in belief is that Brittany knew that 210 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 2: they were already in a relationship, like I make up, 211 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 2: I make up that she called and was like, hey, 212 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 2: you know, we talked and this happened, and we are 213 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 2: seeing each other and I love you and I'm sorry 214 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 2: and I still want to represent you, and that then 215 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 2: you know, then they get caught with this photo because 216 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 2: if she called her, I do appreciate the fact that 217 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 2: it was a heads up. That would have felt worse 218 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 2: if it was a blodeide, Oh for sure. You know, 219 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 2: like if she didn't call, that would if there was 220 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 2: no picture, would she have called? Well, that's what I 221 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 2: hope that there was, like right already a previous conversation. 222 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 3: Was it even confirmed that they're in a relationship. 223 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 2: No, it's just that they were right, I mean, but yeah, 224 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 2: I mean that would that would hurt and I would 225 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 2: hope that there would have been a call before all 226 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 2: of that even serviced. 227 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, I just hate it because you can't 228 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 4: help who you love. I really believe that too, And 229 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:35,079 Speaker 4: you know, there's been I can think of relationships that 230 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 4: I've had that have been you just can't help it, 231 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 4: you know, like when you you are connected to someone 232 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 4: or magnetic to someone, it just is what it is. 233 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 4: I just that's a really tricky situation and just friendship wise, 234 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 4: I'd just be really hurt. That's just me though, because 235 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:53,719 Speaker 4: We've talked about this a lot of times, like I'm 236 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 4: not the girl that's like if I've kissed someone, they're 237 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 4: off limits to all my friends, you know, But you're 238 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 4: the one that's. 239 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 3: Like, hey, he would be really great for you, and. 240 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 4: You know, and I just it's yeah, I just I think, 241 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 4: especially in that kind of like working relationship, you have 242 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,839 Speaker 4: to feel so deeply protected by that person, whether it's 243 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 4: management or pr, publicist. 244 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 3: Whatever, you have to feel really protected. 245 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 4: And if that is a line that feels a little off, 246 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 4: then you probably don't feel super safe and protected. 247 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 3: That might be a tricky. 248 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 2: I just think it's all the work before and again, 249 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 2: you can't help who you end up having a relationship with, 250 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:33,439 Speaker 2: especially being so close in a working relationship. But we 251 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 2: and I'll say this, like in like a long time ago, 252 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 2: was an acquaintance of someone that I knew, I started 253 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 2: to date the other person. I made sure there that 254 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 2: person had a conversation with the person before, so that 255 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 2: way they knew because I didn't want it to feel 256 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 2: like a blind side. And like, I think they have 257 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 2: a right to know. Yeah, because I have had experiences 258 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 2: with this person in the past. Yeah, so I think 259 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 2: something needs to be spoken about beforehand, because I wouldn't 260 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 2: want them to find out without either one of us 261 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:06,439 Speaker 2: saying something. 262 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 263 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: I just think that's why there's an and the like. Again, 264 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: they can have that relationship and you can't fault them 265 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: for that. But also she doesn't need to stick around 266 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 1: for it. She doesn't need to still be working with 267 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: you know, like now there's boundaries that have to be Oh, 268 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 1: I would not want to still be working exactly. That's 269 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: linked with my ex Like, no, you just can't. You 270 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: can't move on in the same way. 271 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 4: No. 272 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: I mean remember one of the publicists we had to 273 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 2: fire because she was doing drugs and that was a 274 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 2: big no no for me on my Yeah, yeah, and 275 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:42,959 Speaker 2: it was just like this is not how I even 276 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 2: want to be forgot about that. Yeah you know, so yeah, 277 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 2: and we had to let go of that person. No, 278 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 2: Nicole pres Kruger is the best publicist ever who she 279 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 2: takes me for pro bono most times. But she didn't 280 00:13:56,360 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 2: say that doesn't know, yes, but yeah, so I yeah, 281 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 2: that would be that would be hurtful. Guys, this is 282 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: one headline that I'm having hard time figuring out. The 283 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: I don't know how to say it, Cyclo parasite outbreak. 284 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 2: You were the one that told me about this because 285 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 2: I was hurting another day and she's like, oh, don't 286 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 2: you know? Yeah, I had no clue that there was 287 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 2: a explosive diarrhea naucha floating gas parasite going around spreads 288 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 2: from consuming containmented food. 289 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 3: Federals. 290 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 2: Federal officials have confirmed sixteen hundred plus cases of the 291 00:14:56,360 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 2: explosive diarrhea parasites spreading across states. Michigan had more cases 292 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 2: than any other state. Shout out, but forty four hospitalizations 293 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 2: show that heating food to one hundred and fifty eight 294 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 2: degrees or higher kills the parasite wash hands. I mean, 295 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 2: what are we thinking, guys? 296 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: Hunt are always parasites though, and like it doesn't every 297 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: person that's don't. I'm a little confused why this is 298 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 1: any different. 299 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 3: I can't. 300 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 4: I always I'm not trying to be conspiracy here, but 301 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 4: I'm always like, what's the angle, because I do think 302 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 4: it could we could have more cases of it this 303 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 4: year or reported cases, but it exists all of the time. Yeah, 304 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 4: and I do think I mean, the internet has gotten good. 305 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 4: Sometimes the Internet gets good to me when it's like, 306 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 4: you know, five Daughters Bakery that's local to us. Here 307 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 4: was like no one ever got a parasite from eating this, 308 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 4: you know, like everyone's really taking their marketing to another level, 309 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 4: which I can appreciate. I just it's like, I think 310 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 4: they've narrowed it down to certain foods seem to be 311 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 4: more heavily contaminated than others, like raspberries, lettuces, whatever. So 312 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 4: now they're like, don't eat a salad, don't eat fruit, 313 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 4: and I'm. 314 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 3: Literally my kids ate that yesterday, raspberries and a salad. 315 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 4: I'm also like there's a lot of us out there 316 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 4: looking for the opportunity to not order the salad. 317 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 1: And I've seen everyone posting though, like what what what 318 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: is it on? 319 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 3: I really could use some parasite. 320 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 4: Have you'll seen those like, well, the other day I 321 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 4: literally thought I was like, how two thousands of me that, 322 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 4: I'm like, you could could take you down. 323 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 2: There's been no confirmed us. No, it's just I don't 324 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 2: want to laugh about it. No, no, no, I don't know, 325 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 2: but there is. It's lasting a really long time. So 326 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 2: there's no way it is to money. That's dangerous to 327 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 2: have diarrhea though, Oh no, for sure it is. Why 328 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 2: is the word diarrhea consistently? 329 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 1: I always know if it's that, Like Cayden comes home 330 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: yester day and was like so and so and his 331 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: dad has the parasite and I'm like, they have diarrhea. 332 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 3: Everyone has diarrhea. He's like, no, they've been stuck in 333 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 3: the back. Anybody it's that so. 334 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 1: Now, so anytime anyone has diarrhea, all of a sudden, 335 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 1: they have that. 336 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 4: Okay, So I am very like we just speak life 337 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 4: and health over our family. You know, I'm not a 338 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 4: medical panicer, but you guys just have been reported. It's 339 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 4: just in for anchorwoman creamer. So the other so yesterday, 340 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:20,640 Speaker 4: I'm out of my like I do this green shot 341 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 4: every single morning, and I'm out of it. I'm waiting 342 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 4: for the shipment, like standing by my door, and so 343 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I'll just try this fiber powder 344 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 4: somebody else sent to me forgot that. I put it 345 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 4: in my smoothie right morning, shake, right. So by two 346 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 4: pm yesterday I was like, is there a parasite among 347 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 4: so panicked? 348 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 3: It's not. I'm fine. 349 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 4: What is tricky though, which I will say on a 350 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 4: serious note, did those suffering from the parasite? It can 351 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:48,119 Speaker 4: go weeks to months, which is twa months if you 352 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 4: are an employed person. That is really tricky. You know, 353 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 4: like a lot of people have to go to work. 354 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:55,679 Speaker 3: What do you mean months? Like even a month of 355 00:17:55,760 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 3: diarrhea explosive and that does matter because regular diary exposed. Well, 356 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 3: I'm not trying to make a night of it. 357 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 4: It's just like guys, explosive comes with a sense of urgency, 358 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 4: not the diarrhea and itself doesn't. But when you think 359 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 4: that you could be sitting in a board meeting, no way, 360 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 4: that's a certain live episode. 361 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 3: So I do I hate it? 362 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 4: And and that you're just trying to eat healthy and 363 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 4: this is how you get it. 364 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a question. Is there going to be 365 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 2: a vaccine? You think that is not going to be linked. 366 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 4: Many of people have already said that there is a 367 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 4: few in the works, and so that has put up 368 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 4: a red flag. 369 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: They were also saying that about the ticks and stuff 370 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 1: though this summer with the whole scare of how the 371 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 1: ticks were worse than they're coming out with a lime vaccine. 372 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 1: But then that kind of died down, so I think, 373 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,400 Speaker 1: you know, I like to wait a minute and see, 374 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 1: because like there's always hysteria around something, and then it 375 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: kind of like. 376 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 3: I just think they're fizzling, which is good. 377 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 4: As a mom that buys a lot of groceries and 378 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 4: a lot of organic veggies and fruits, I feel like 379 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:55,959 Speaker 4: the parasite has done more for my grocery build than 380 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 4: any administration ever has. So so strawberries are a deep 381 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 4: distown right now. In raspberries and lettuces I think were 382 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 4: one of the top. 383 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 3: I just heard. Fruits and vegetables. 384 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're saying to cook most of it, but really, 385 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:11,120 Speaker 2: I mean that's all we eat so much vegetables over. 386 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,199 Speaker 3: Here and so much fruit for us, literally all the 387 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 3: healthy stuff. Yeah. 388 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, and so you have to wash. I mean obviously 389 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 2: we are. We always wash it. 390 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, there was but there's so many different ways. And 391 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 1: then are you washing it or not? Like I don't 392 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: even and. 393 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 2: Then some things get off pesticides but not parasites. Also, 394 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 2: at one point there was raspberries and lettuces. There's something 395 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 2: else too, but not those were two that I would 396 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 2: say that definitely red flags for us at our home. 397 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 3: So throw the raspberries away. 398 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 4: I mean we haven't, but okay, you can also make 399 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 4: preserves really well because if you cook it it helps. 400 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 4: Talk about at one point they were saying, just causes explosive. 401 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 3: That was what I read this thing yesterday. I had 402 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 3: French wraps supream, which was ago, yes, but I had 403 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,120 Speaker 3: massive okay, so. 404 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 4: Talk about was like, okay, we're gonna limit the ingredients 405 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 4: we put in. But then I read this thing yesterday. 406 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,479 Speaker 4: It made me laugh so hard. It said, you know, 407 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 4: people everywhere taco bells causing diarrhea, and taco bell is 408 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 4: going we'll limit our ingredients, and other people are saying, 409 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 4: you know, leave talk bell your damn mouth. 410 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 3: This has always been our issue. 411 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 2: You know. 412 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, it is bag salad mixes, fresh herbs, basil, cilantro, parsley, raspberries, blackberries, 413 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 4: and leafy greens this just in from our news anchor. 414 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 2: Well, that's depressing. Blackberries and raspberries is our favorite in 415 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 2: the house. Same roman bag, salad mixes, fresh herbs, basil slam. 416 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 2: I mean that bottom part. I think we're off there, 417 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 2: leafy greens. Okay. Well, in other news, the Haunta virus 418 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 2: has apparently been officially closed. 419 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 3: This is the cruise ship virus. Yes, I wanna say 420 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 3: that got Mike. Fizzled quick. 421 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 2: That fizzled. That one actually worried me. 422 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 3: It did, mean ru Well, it. 423 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 2: Scared and I think it was because it was connected. 424 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:54,920 Speaker 2: You know how COVID started on. 425 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 3: A cruise ship. 426 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: Well, the hysteria did it just really hit hard. That's 427 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: why I was like, let it see if it fizzles 428 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: for a minute. Because that really fizzled. Thankfully. 429 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very thankful of that. But I had a 430 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 2: little scare because I freaked out. So I was cleaning 431 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 2: the we got a blower one of those whatever, yeah, 432 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 2: leaf floors, So there was a bunch of you know, 433 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 2: we lived by a very wooded area, so we have 434 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 2: a lot of mice. I mean I hear them all 435 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 2: the time in our attic, like they're just they're there. 436 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,679 Speaker 2: The other day, even Alan in the storage room. We 437 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 2: have mouse traps, mice traps whatever in there, and he 438 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 2: scared the shott of me with one of them, Like 439 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:36,160 Speaker 2: because it was dead right, you're saying this so casually. 440 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 3: That's normal when there's building around, Yeah, I know. 441 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, because our neighborhood kept getting blown up, like the 442 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 4: ground kept getting blown up, and so there would be mice. 443 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 4: We had one in our garage when we first moved, 444 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,360 Speaker 4: and we have we have one in our garage right now, 445 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 4: and it. 446 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 2: Is like I can't breathe, Yeah, like we have to. 447 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 2: We opened up our grill when we got back from 448 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 2: San Antonio, No, and there was a whole like my 449 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:57,120 Speaker 2: mouse family in there. So we're getting rid of our girl, 450 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,959 Speaker 2: say the least, because it's just it's too much damage done. 451 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,920 Speaker 3: But like, yeah, we've got like definitely have player wooded. Yeah, 452 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 3: but in our garage and. 453 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 2: We can't leave anything that it's like they will just 454 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 2: get into everything. Well, the kids will leave snacks and 455 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 2: stuff in bags, and so there was a wrap ton 456 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 2: of like mice, mice poop, mousepoop, whatever, and so I'm 457 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 2: cleaning it all out right some somewhere around all this 458 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 2: the hunt virus was like just starting and so I google, well, 459 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 2: how do you get it? 460 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 3: And it's from the frickin' poop? Yeah, And I was like, 461 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 3: oh my god. 462 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 2: I had like a forty five like the calendar countdown 463 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,880 Speaker 2: of like when my symptoms were going to possibly start, 464 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,199 Speaker 2: because I was like, I went into Alan and I 465 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 2: was like, I think. 466 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 3: I'm going to get it. 467 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 2: I was like, I've just been dealing with mouse poop 468 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 2: like and then it's like from like breathing it in, 469 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 2: like the moving in. Yeah, like if you're in an 470 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 2: attic and you got all this, and I mean my 471 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 2: garage doors were closed because I hadn't. I was so 472 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 2: scooping all the blope stuff. I mean it was disgusting. 473 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 2: We're fine, Why was I doing that? 474 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 3: But I was just starting to go. I was just 475 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 3: too clean. But yeah, so anyways, that was my but 476 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 3: we're good everything. So we were good from this parasite. 477 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 2: And Chat was like, do you know how many people 478 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 2: clean the attics and garages and like they're fine? 479 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 3: Well, and I also, you're fine. 480 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 4: I'm pinning that for a wind down episode the chat Chat. 481 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 4: I also am just like are you trying to gain traction? 482 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 4: With fear mongering, and so since we didn't bite on 483 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 4: the cruise ship that now you now you've appealed to 484 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,400 Speaker 4: all of our inner third graders and you're talking about 485 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 4: explosive diarrhea. 486 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 3: And so you know, talk about it. 487 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 1: I think people are seeing through that now though, I 488 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 1: kind of after how COVID was, just how it played out, 489 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: not that it wasn't real, not that it wasn't scary, 490 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,640 Speaker 1: not that it wasn't all the things, but the way 491 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 1: it played out and the scariness of it and the 492 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,199 Speaker 1: freaking out and all that. It's like, I feel like 493 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,880 Speaker 1: people can kind of see through the fear mongering at 494 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 1: first and then just kind of calmly. 495 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 3: I'm hoping that's how. 496 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 2: We're There are a lot of people explosively running to 497 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 2: the bathroom, so if anyone's running past you let them go. 498 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 3: It's real. And if they're sliding into first. 499 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,879 Speaker 2: Taylor Frankie Paul Slam's Mormon Wives co star Whitney love it. 500 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,920 Speaker 2: She says she's been waiting on my downfall since day one. 501 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 2: The drama between Taylor and Whitney doesn't seem to be 502 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 2: slown down. During a recent interview, Taylor called out Whitney, 503 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 2: saying she doesn't think Whitney has ever genuinely taken accountability 504 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 2: for the ways she's treated people. Taylor also claimed that 505 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 2: Whitney often plays the victim after conflicts and said that's 506 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 2: one of her biggest reasons their friendship fell apart. The 507 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 2: feud has continued to play out publicly, with both women 508 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 2: taking shots at each other through interviews on social media. 509 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 2: Fans have been divided over the drama, with some siding 510 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: with Taylor and others believing both women share the blame. Apparently, 511 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 2: Whitney unfollowed Taylor. 512 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 1: Thoughts, I have said this. I feel like, what's the 513 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: word ad nauseum? I feel like I have said this 514 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 1: so many times. 515 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 3: Well right now, a lot of people are not just yes, 516 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,680 Speaker 3: that's the right word. I mean, excuse yourself. 517 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 1: It's the social media that they are just they can't 518 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:21,439 Speaker 1: stop all of them, like their feuds online and the 519 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: way they attack each other. 520 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 3: And I love all of these women. This isn't against 521 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:25,680 Speaker 3: any of them. 522 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 1: It's just like we wouldn't know, we wouldn't be talking 523 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 1: about it if you stop doing it on social media. 524 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 1: But then again, it does make me go, why do 525 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 1: we keep doing all this on social media. 526 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 4: That's where I was going to go, Yeah, where do 527 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:42,120 Speaker 4: we feeding is that? It's does that create the popularity? 528 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 4: Is that become the identity? I mean in a lot 529 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 4: of reality TV shows, you get casted as a character. 530 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,360 Speaker 4: You fall into the trap of your stereotype or your 531 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 4: character whatever, and the feeding into it is how you 532 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 4: keep yourself notable and how you continue to get brand 533 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 4: deals and you know, you keep your popularity, whether it's good, 534 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 4: better and different. 535 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 1: And I don't want to feel that way about them 536 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 1: because I just think they all genuinely seem like precious women, 537 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: you know. But it's just like the more I see 538 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 1: on social media, I'm like, okay, guys, we've got to 539 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 1: grow up a little bit. 540 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,919 Speaker 4: But their life started, I understand, their friendship started on 541 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 4: social media, and it it. 542 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: Ends up hurting you know, it ends up hurting them 543 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 1: if they can just stop that cycle of just the 544 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: feud being all over the place, you know, because it's 545 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 1: like you're hurting someone and then you're just getting hurt 546 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: back and it's not you know, just stop that cycle, 547 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 1: just really. But as far as their feud goes, I mean, 548 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 1: who knows. You know, it's been back and forth. 549 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,360 Speaker 3: So what do you think you do in a friendship 550 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,640 Speaker 3: when it's like that online or just back and forth. 551 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,399 Speaker 2: Like it in general, Like it's like, at what point 552 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 2: do you is it? 553 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 3: Is it just done and you just got to walk 554 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 3: away from a friendship? 555 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's up to each person and 556 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: how much it's hurting you and taking up your you know, 557 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,919 Speaker 1: what is it doing to you in your life? Is 558 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 1: it affecting other parts of your life. 559 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 4: It's interesting because I feel like I've gained wisdom, more 560 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 4: friendship wisdom lately. Have you ever tried to explain friendship 561 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 4: to a ten year old? So much of what I've 562 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 4: said out loud, I'm. 563 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 3: Like, huh, I should really listen to that, you know. 564 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 4: Like and I would say my friendship circles are pretty 565 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 4: tight and cleaned up, like a couple have fallen away 566 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 4: over the last like I would say six years or so. 567 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 4: That a big blessing, you know, But it is. We're 568 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 4: not meant to be friends with every single person for sure, 569 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 4: So it's okay to just you know, we went through 570 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,120 Speaker 4: this in third grade quite a bit with Lovebug. 571 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 3: But I just. 572 00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 4: Remember looking at her and saying, it's Okay, you always 573 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 4: be kind to everyone, but you don't have to be 574 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,679 Speaker 4: friends with everyone, you know, Like it's okay to just 575 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 4: call it. Some people just don't get along. It's the 576 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 4: same thing in marriages, like there's just chemistry is sometimes 577 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,480 Speaker 4: not there, and that's okay. 578 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 1: On a friendship level too, I think some things can 579 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 1: be very draining too. And I think as I've gotten older, 580 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:05,159 Speaker 1: things I would have handled and tolerated when I was younger, 581 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,439 Speaker 1: in a different place in my life, and you know, 582 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,360 Speaker 1: I you know I could handle. But now, like I've 583 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 1: noticed with like a recent friendship, I'm like, I don't 584 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: have the energy for it. And that sounds terrible, but 585 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 1: like I have to put this boundary up because I 586 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,199 Speaker 1: am not in a place. Not that I'm in a 587 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 1: bad place, but like it starts to affect your life, 588 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: It starts to affect your home life. It starts to 589 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: and you kind of start recognizing, I need to put this, 590 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:30,920 Speaker 1: I need to block this a little bit. 591 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 2: Do you think, like looking back on friendships that have 592 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 2: been that have been fallouts that you've been back together with, 593 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 2: do you think it's always got that tarnish brokenness or 594 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 2: do you think there is like a full kind of 595 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 2: you know, like when someone breaks your trust or when 596 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 2: something's broken, is. 597 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 3: It fully repaired. 598 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 2: Or is it that that fallout kind of always there. 599 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 4: My very very very best friend and I had a 600 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 4: five year fallout. We didn't talk for five years, and 601 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 4: we are She's the love of my life. Sorry, sorry, Cramer. 602 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been different for me, for different people. 603 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 4: I just think the amount of ownership, Like when we 604 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 4: came back together and she said, I'm sorry for what 605 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 4: I said. I never wanted to hurt you. This is 606 00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 4: what I was going through, you know, And listen, in 607 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 4: that five year gap she got we actually call it 608 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 4: the five year gap. She got divorced. I then got divorced. Like, 609 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 4: it is really special to maintain a friendship even through 610 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 4: any amount of decades. That's why I think I treasure 611 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 4: you two so much too, because the amount of lives 612 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 4: that we've been through is kind of crazy. We've really 613 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:48,880 Speaker 4: dog years is fit into these relationships. But I really 614 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 4: do think with the right amount of ownership and the 615 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 4: right amount of accountability, it can be magical. I mean, 616 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 4: she literally we're the closest we've ever been, and just 617 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 4: understanding we were going through something I don't. But then 618 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 4: there's another one that I had had for the same 619 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 4: amount of time, and when it got cut off, it 620 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 4: was cut off, and I was I felt like a 621 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 4: little bit of a relief, you know. I don't think 622 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 4: it has to be do you think it has to be? 623 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 4: I think it's different for different people. Like there's one 624 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 4: that I haven't talked to in years, and I don't 625 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 4: think we'll ever talk again, and I don't have any 626 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 4: ill will anymore. I think we were young in our twenties, 627 00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 4: and but that kind of season is done, you know. Yeah, 628 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 4: And then there's others where there's been fallouts and apologies 629 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 4: and it's okay. 630 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah. 631 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 4: I do just think it is difficult too, because we 632 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 4: all do so much growing. It's hard. I mean, they 633 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 4: say a reason a season or a lifetime. Friends are 634 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 4: for a reason a season or a lifetime. I mean, 635 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 4: I'd like to think that we're all lifetimers at this point. 636 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 4: It just I can look back and see definitely seasons, 637 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 4: or that I attached because I was in an unhealthy 638 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 4: version of myself and so I attached to someone that 639 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 4: enabled that, or was you know. 640 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: Definitely reasons. You look back, you're like Oh, okay, you 641 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 1: know for sure. 642 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're really learning that right now. In our house. 643 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 4: There's a certain friendship that's been really difficult with love 644 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 4: and I. 645 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 3: I've just had to you. 646 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 4: Know, it's hard to not project your forty four year 647 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 4: old self onto a ten year old relationship. But also 648 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 4: like some pretty valuable lessons hard happening right here in 649 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 4: front of me. You know where I'm going. 650 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 3: It's okay. 651 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,719 Speaker 4: And we've talked a lot about guilty by association. You know, 652 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 4: just if that person is mean to somebody, then you 653 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 4: don't want them to think that you are too. 654 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 3: And I don't know. Friendships are not easy, but they 655 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 3: are just invaluable, you know. 656 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 2: Well, there's a good news headline, game changing saliva tests 657 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 2: can diagnose endometriosis in days rather than years. Two new 658 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 2: rapid tests, endosher and ENDO tests can drastically reduce the 659 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 2: wait time for a proper diagnosis of endometriosis from an 660 00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 2: average nine year weight to just days. So it was 661 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 2: approved by the UK's National Health system. Been called the 662 00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 2: game changing by experts in the field of endometriosis, which 663 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 2: is so incredible. So Undemetrius's effects around one in ten 664 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 2: women of reproductive age in the UK. It's a painful 665 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 2: condition where it sells like those in the womb grow 666 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 2: in other parts of the body. Perhaps worst of all, 667 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 2: the average weight time until a definite, definitive diagnosis this 668 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 2: is more than nine years. So for the women that 669 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,760 Speaker 2: are trying to be you know, having families like this 670 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 2: is huge news. Yeah, that's great headline. We know someone 671 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 2: that has it. 672 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well it's also like she didn't know for a 673 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 3: long time. 674 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 675 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 3: When you hear these. 676 00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: Like medical advancements, it's so like promising and it's like 677 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 1: so like, oh man, what are they going to find. 678 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 3: Next, and like that's so huge. 679 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: You know, that's such great news because I think that's 680 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 1: I don't know any stats, but I mean it's a 681 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 1: huge amount of why people can't have babies, right yeah. 682 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,840 Speaker 3: So yeah, and I also think our statistic is higher 683 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 3: here than the UK. 684 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,440 Speaker 2: Oh really, I wondered about ours. I'm not sure about ours, 685 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 2: but that is some good news headline. Yeah, and on 686 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 2: I love it for the women out there. All right, ladies, 687 00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 2: stay tuned in next week, right, bye bye bye.