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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show.

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Speaker 2: Can we just talk about something interesting that I saw

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Speaker 2: this in the news and Gandhi and I were talking

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Speaker 2: about it. I cannot say enough men do not understand

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Speaker 2: what women go through in life. And I know that's

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Speaker 2: a very broad statement. I have a very dear friend

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Speaker 2: who's going through some reproductive issues whatever, and I see

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Speaker 2: the hell she's going through and the hell her body

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Speaker 2: is going through, and I'm like, God, guys don't understand.

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Speaker 3: Most of them don't.

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Speaker 2: There's a guy in California who is suing the hospital,

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Speaker 2: a hospital for over sixty six hundred million dollars because

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Speaker 2: they encouraged him to watch his wife's sea section.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, do you want to explain this story?

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Speaker 4: Yes, he filed this lawsuit because he said, like you said,

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Speaker 4: they encouraged him to watch it, and after he said

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Speaker 4: it made him crack. He developed a psychotic illness and

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Speaker 4: he's never going to be the same again because it

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Speaker 4: was so traumatizing having to see something like that when

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Speaker 4: he didn't want to right.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And did he also include in there, I'll probably

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Speaker 2: never want to have sex with my wife again because I.

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Speaker 3: Saw he's an idiot he is, and he's suing for

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Speaker 3: six and forty three million dollars.

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Speaker 1: May force him there no encouraged. Okay, so this is stupid.

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Speaker 2: It is stupid, But look at what she went through,

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Speaker 2: and he's the one suing. She went through a sea section,

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Speaker 2: and they make it as painless as possible.

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Speaker 1: I know, but it's sure. I'm they're not going to

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Speaker 1: cut you open without.

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Speaker 2: Drugs exactly, but you think about the trauma of going

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Speaker 2: through it with or without drugs.

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Speaker 3: Look at what she went through, and he's the way.

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Speaker 3: I watch him open her up and take my new

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Speaker 3: more baby out.

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Speaker 4: My friend had a sea section and she said they

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Speaker 4: are There are literally times where your organs are sitting

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Speaker 4: next to you. Yeah, Like they just take everything out,

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Speaker 4: take out a baby, and put it back, and it's

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Speaker 4: a much harder recovery process than having a vaginal bird.

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Speaker 4: I can't imagine any of it. But I also can't

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Speaker 4: imagine my partner being like, this was so much harder on.

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Speaker 3: Me and it was on you.

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Speaker 5: Kill you.

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine if they have your parts out on

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Speaker 1: a table, it's like the game offer as oh where

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Speaker 1: does this go?

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Speaker 3: I don't remember that it's where it came.

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Speaker 4: From, and that's just that's just childbirth.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 4: Then you take it to periods, which I don't think

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Speaker 4: people can ever understand. Sometimes I don't understand what other

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Speaker 4: women are going through. And then birth control, which I

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Speaker 4: don't care what anybody says. Birth control is so difficult

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Speaker 4: to deal with for a lot of people. He can

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Speaker 4: spike your blood pressure, give you blood clots, make you

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Speaker 4: have mood swings, like I know when I was taking

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Speaker 4: birth control.

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Speaker 6: I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I am a very moody person. I'm

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Speaker 4: pretty much stable as far as my moods go. But

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Speaker 4: when I was taking birth control, I could feel the

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Speaker 4: Friday before I was going to get my period, I

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Speaker 4: was just emotional about everything. Right, I would get angry,

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Speaker 4: I would get sad, all of these things. And you're

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Speaker 4: doing all of this, yes, just for your body, of course,

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Speaker 4: but also you would like your partner in all of

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Speaker 4: this to have some empathy and understand what's going on.

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Speaker 1: And then once it's all over, Oh you're not having

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Speaker 1: children anymore, let's put you through menopause.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's roll you through there.

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Speaker 1: And bloating and this and that in crankiness and you know,

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Speaker 1: feeling like crap all the time, and I'm like, dude,

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Speaker 1: why can't they just be a button that you push.

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Speaker 2: I'm done, there's nothing. And my mom and God rest

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Speaker 2: her soul. She went through awful UTI issues and I

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Speaker 2: mean so Gandhi kind of scratched on scratch the surface

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Speaker 2: a little bit. If you have a partner in life

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Speaker 2: that is totally empathetic for what you're going through and

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Speaker 2: understands the science behind what you're going through, and they

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Speaker 2: can help maneuver, help you maneuver around it and sometimes

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Speaker 2: be smart enough to maneuver around it themselves and like

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Speaker 2: not say the wrong things.

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Speaker 3: You got a great partner, absolutely.

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Speaker 2: And you know that comes with anything, not only female issues,

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Speaker 2: but someone who's empathetic to what you're going through and

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Speaker 2: they actually, you know, walk that mile in your shoes. Absolutely,

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Speaker 2: you got a winner there. And if they aren't empathetic, yeah,

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Speaker 2: here's Elva. Elva had a sea section. Hi, Elva, Hi,

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Speaker 2: how are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing well? Sea sections?

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Speaker 2: How much fun are they pullase?

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Speaker 5: They are?

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Speaker 6: Definitely. First of all, I just want to say I

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Speaker 6: absolutely love you guys. Listen to you every morning. Teacher.

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Speaker 6: I drive to work about an hour and a half

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Speaker 6: every day and love you guys. You keep me see.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: On that note, yeah, definitely sea sections. Wow. Uh.

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Speaker 5: Six weeks after having my sea section with my firstborn son,

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Speaker 5: my appendix what it kicked the bucket. I guess they say,

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Speaker 5: once they take out all your organs, they put them back.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes it aggravates it and I had to get my

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Speaker 5: appendice removed six weeks actually happened my little guy, and

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Speaker 5: it was definitely no joke.

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Speaker 6: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Now do you have a partner that was totally supportive

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Speaker 2: of you in understanding what you were going through?

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Speaker 6: Oh? Yeah, absolutely, he was great.

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Speaker 5: I didn't want to go to the hospital and he

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Speaker 5: was like, Elvi, I think you have a kind of scientist.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, no way. I was like I'm fine.

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Speaker 5: Then I started using and he's like, I really think

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Speaker 5: you need to go to the hospital. He called my mother,

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Speaker 5: she came from my son and he dragged me and

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Speaker 5: the next day we had a block party with about

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Speaker 5: eighty people for my mother in law's sixtieth no fiftieth person.

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Speaker 6: I don't remember what she was, but yep, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So but back to the point that your husband is

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Speaker 2: totally totally empathetic with what you're going through, and in

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Speaker 2: any relationship, no matter what does circumstances, they need to

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Speaker 2: be locked into what you're going through. I look, it's

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Speaker 2: it's not easy always. Sometimes you got to stop your

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Speaker 2: life and look at theirs and go okay, look I

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Speaker 2: get what they're going through and be a part of

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Speaker 2: the solution and not the problem. So you heard the

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Speaker 2: story that godd he was talking about. This husband in

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Speaker 2: California is suing the hospital for over six hundred million

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Speaker 2: dollars because they allowed him to watch a C section crime.

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Speaker 6: River get over it to see because he really wanted to.

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Speaker 6: He wanted to experience the whole thing. He's like, if

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Speaker 6: this is what you're going through, I want to see it.

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Speaker 6: And they wouldn't allow you. They sheet up. If he

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Speaker 6: didn't sit down, they were throwing him at him, like

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Speaker 6: sit down.

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Speaker 1: Most of the time sea sections, I don't think they

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Speaker 1: allow you to look. I think they want you up

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Speaker 1: on top with your woman's head and not.

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Speaker 3: Down to the bottom.

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Speaker 2: They want your they want they want her head coming

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Speaker 2: out a window on the building and you have to

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Speaker 2: be outside with her head. That's all you get, A

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Speaker 2: little head outside you know what I'm saying exactly, Ela. Well,

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Speaker 2: how are you doing now though, How are you feeling?

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Speaker 2: How's your health?

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Speaker 5: Oh that's that perfectly fine, Thank goodness. I ended up

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Speaker 5: having another kid about three years later. That one was

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Speaker 5: in scheduled sea section.

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Speaker 6: I knew what to expect and it was fine, Thank goodness.

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Speaker 6: No other organs had to come out that time.

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Speaker 3: People don't understand, you know.

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Speaker 2: They unpack organs just like opening up the hood of

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Speaker 2: a car and pulling here's a carburetor.

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Speaker 4: It expens on the kurr.

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Speaker 3: Here you go, here's the radiator. Put it back when

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Speaker 3: you found it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you all right, el, but thank you have a

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Speaker 2: great drive, and thanks for listening to us every day.

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Speaker 3: Appreciate it. Good morning, honest