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Speaker 1: the King, Welcome to the day? Was shut up? Froggy?

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Speaker 1: How was your night last night, Danielle? That was good? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Gandhi great, yeah, Froggy was very good? Straight night. How

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Speaker 1: It was nice. Hey, scary for you? You get to

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Speaker 1: All right, let's start in Turkey. The death toll from

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Speaker 1: Lebron James is now the NBA's all time leading scorer.

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Speaker 1: you're telling me as senior executive producer, Yes, sir, we

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Speaker 1: here's the workaround. So apparently they they quote unquote fixed

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Speaker 1: Gracious said, she's on the way to work and try it.

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Speaker 1: I love her blazer? Oh hey thanks? How about God?

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Speaker 1: All right? If you are celebrating your birthday today, you

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Speaker 1: celebrate with Anderson packins Cecily Strong. Happy birthday, everybody. Capricorn,

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Speaker 1: there is magic surrounding you. Open your eyes to all

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Speaker 1: that could be. Your day is a six Aquarius, go wild,

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Speaker 1: eight Taurus. Meditate to ground yourself. You're pushing yourself too far.

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Speaker 1: and I ask for help. People are waiting to come

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Speaker 1: No one diddles with anyone do if you had to

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Speaker 1: This is my point. We can't even talk about it.

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Speaker 1: there's a little pub right next door. I think you

417
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Speaker 1: shot a video there. Probably I've done I've done a

418
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Speaker 1: lot of things in a lot of pubs. The Mercedes

419
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420
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Speaker 1: trance with cutting edge to sign that whispers. Take a picture,

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423
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Speaker 1: l Strand in the Morning Show, when you're sick, you

424
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426
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427
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428
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Speaker 1: Comeback season. US is directed Come on, Wake Up, Wake

429
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: Up History and in the Morning. Yeah. The story in

430
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 1: the New York Post is kind of fascinating. It is

431
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:18,400
Speaker 1: um inside the rampant culture of sex at ABC News. Look,

432
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: you know, we don't work there, and at least it's

433
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:24,920
Speaker 1: not the rampant culture of sex here in iHeart not

434
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 1: that we no article. And look, you know, I don't

435
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 1: know if they're exaggerating or what, I whatever. I didn't

436
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 1: want to read a lot into it, but they're saying,

437
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: you know, because those two people that were Good Morning America,

438
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 1: they were doing each other. I forget their names, I

439
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 1: mean who cares? Okay? And then apparently he was also

440
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: doing some other people there at ABC News. Allegedly they're

441
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 1: still they're not working there anymore, but they still seem

442
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: to be together. Okay, well good, looks like it. The

443
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: thing is, when you start, you know, dipping dipping it

444
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 1: in at work, it could cause problem, cause problems. Someone

445
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 1: actually said a text earlier saying, hey, what people that

446
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 1: work at sex who cares? Well? I tell you what

447
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,439
Speaker 1: you're saying that until it becomes a problem, because you know,

448
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 1: the priority here at work and anywhere at work is

449
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: work and working for your paycheck and working for your

450
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,719
Speaker 1: career and working for results. And then if if sex

451
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: and relationships get in a way, that could be an issue. Yeah, right, absolutely,

452
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 1: ask Matt Lower. No, no, no no, I'm not trying to

453
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,439
Speaker 1: make fun of it, but yeah, that was a big,

454
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 1: big thing, right yeah, different network. Hold on without using

455
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: your name, Hello, sir, how are you? Or ma'am? Hy okay?

456
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: Hy okay? Is this her real name? Oh? Hello, Vicky, Hey,

457
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 1: how are you? We're doing well? So I saw your

458
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: text as well. You said you've been actually you've been

459
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 1: dating someone at work for eight months. No one there

460
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 1: knows and but so you know, as long as someone

461
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 1: knows you're you're saying, so far, so good. Everything's working

462
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 1: out for you too. Every thing is great surprisingly, But yeah,

463
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,360
Speaker 1: we've actually worked together for about three or four years, right,

464
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: and we just connected maybe last spring or summer, and

465
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: it's going super well. Yeah, good for you. I mean, look,

466
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 1: you you find love in the strangest places sometime, and

467
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: I'm not knocking that, but do you see how there

468
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: is a possibility if there's a problem, it could crash

469
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: and burn, it could affect a lot of people. Or

470
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: are you guys pretty much safe with your set up there?

471
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: It's been pretty good so far. We did have one

472
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 1: disagreement that happened because of work stuff, and it was

473
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: really hard to keep it under wraps and not let

474
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: anybody know that there was something going on. But other

475
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: than that, but actually, I quit my job last week

476
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: and today is my very last day. So it's really

477
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 1: exciting I get to talk to you guys. Well, is

478
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: it because of the relationship? Was that part of your

479
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: your thought process and quitting your job It has nothing

480
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: to do with the relationship, but it will help definitely.

481
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 1: But it's just my mental health was taking a toll.

482
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: It was affecting relationships in my family, and okay, I

483
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: just felt it gives the best decision for me. I

484
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 1: had another great job. That Yeah, that was going to

485
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 1: be My question was going to be if the relationship

486
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: got really serious, would one of you leave to make

487
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: it work? But you don't have to do that now,

488
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 1: so we're good. Yeah. So now that you're leaving, I mean,

489
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 1: do you think he's gonna or she? I don't know

490
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:24,919
Speaker 1: who you're dating it? Are they going to open up

491
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 1: to everyone and say, hey, by the way, for three

492
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: years we've been dating or eight months or whatever, oh

493
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 1: and you guys never knew? Or is it gonna stay

494
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: and remain a secret. I think it's going to remain

495
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: a secret for a little bit because he doesn't want

496
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:42,199
Speaker 1: people to think that I'm leaving because of him. But

497
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 1: he doesn't want that pressure on him. So I totally understand.

498
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: And it's been a very understanding relationship. So it worked out.

499
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: And isn't half the fun keeping it the secret and

500
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 1: sneaking around? Ye? Honestly, yes, wait, hold on, hold on,

501
00:26:54,400 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: hold on, hoggy. That was a very quick interaction, just

502
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 1: being honest one do you peeven sometimes that's the thrill

503
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 1: of keeping it a secret and kind of ducking and

504
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: driving everybody is part of the fun. Once everybody knows,

505
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: then everybody starts talking about you. Puts more pressure on

506
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 1: your relationship. It's better off when nobody knows. So, Vicky,

507
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: you're saying that that was the excitement a little bit. Yeah,

508
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: it's true because actually it started off as like cooking

509
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: up and you know, we talked about We're like, oh,

510
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: this kid affects you know, everything at work. But then

511
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: we started hitting it off and hanging out and um

512
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: I turned into something more. But we just kept it

513
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: a secret, and yeah, it definitely was a huge thrill. Well, look,

514
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 1: you know, no matter what happens, I just you listen

515
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 1: to us. You're part of the family. I want nothing

516
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: but great things for you, and I'm I'm hoping that

517
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 1: everything works out. What about your new You have a

518
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: new job already or you're just waiting to find one.

519
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: What's going on? Yep, got a new job and you're

520
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 1: not working at ABC News are you know? But it's

521
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: awesome you have a new job. Cool. Look, it's it's

522
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,360
Speaker 1: great talking to you and thank you for listening to us,

523
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: and and uh, I hope you're I hope you're happy.

524
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: That's all at the end of the day that we

525
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: hope for it, right, I am very happy. Thank you

526
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: so much, Elvis and everyone. I appreciate you. All right,

527
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 1: have a great day, Vicky not your real name, and

528
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 1: that's okay, take care and thanks for listening to us.

529
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: And there you go. Wow, don't even talk about that

530
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: Ruby Tuesday scandal that you got involved, Condhi. I used

531
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 1: to date a guy who worked at Ruby Tuesday until

532
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: he was fired for a salad bar scam. The salad

533
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: bar nobody knew. I never told anyone we were doating break.

534
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 1: Did you break up with him because of the salad

535
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: bar scam? Oh for sure. I Mean the whole thing

536
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: was justicaol. What did he do with the salad box?

537
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: So you used to go ahead, Well, a lot of people,

538
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: a lot of people went down for this, okay. So

539
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 1: if people came in and just got a salad bar

540
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: and a drink, you could print that receipt multiple times

541
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: and then never actually run it through the system, right,

542
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: So a lot of people would just drop that receipt

543
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: and keep the cash. If they paid the cash so

544
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 1: that was the scam he got bus did for it.

545
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. It sounds like you're dating a dangerous guy,

546
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: so it does not in any way. I thought he

547
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 1: took his junk out and put it in the salad bar.

548
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 1: Oh God to the salad bar. I'm like, oh, what

549
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: are you doing? It was a cash grab. There you go. Anyway,

550
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: New York post a great story about ABC News. Look,

551
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's all alleged whatever, but I think

552
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: we should have a rule here. Don't get laid where

553
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: you get paid. Don't dip your pen in the ink exactly. Sorry, Okay,

554
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: are we okay with that? Yeah? Very okay. There's no

555
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: one here I want to do anyway. We're safe. Text

556
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: Elvis and the team at fifty standard Data and messaging

557
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: rates may apply. Elvis Duran in the morning show watch TV.

558
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: Would I watch the rest of Pamela and you love it?

559
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: I loved it? It was so great. What about you

560
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: gandhid you go out? I spent the day in the city. Actually,

561
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: I went out during the daytime get lunch with Kimberly

562
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: Kim Kim Kim, Jimmy Kim. I love her, We all

563
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: love her. She sent me a text if you're lunch,

564
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 1: She said, I love Gondhi. You're so lucky to have her.

565
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, bitch is lucky to have me. Let's

566
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: be honest. We're a lucky We are lucky. I am

567
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 1: lucky to have We're very, very blessed to have each other.

568
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: Some of you more than when she did anyone else.

569
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: Go out if you count going to the Motor Vehicle Services?

570
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: That were you the hottest one there? I actually scary

571
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: when he wants to feel good about himself, he goes

572
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 1: to the DMV just hangs out. Um. By the way,

573
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: I got to send a little hello to Ryan driving

574
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: the Uber today. He is the same birthday as me,

575
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 1: August fifth, Happy birthday almost Ryan. Anyway. Because of Ryan,

576
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: we got this great stuff from Dunkin Donuts or from Duncan. Sorry,

577
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: I tell you those raps are good, really good. The

578
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,959
Speaker 1: breakfast rap. Did you enjoy yours? Nate, I haven't had one.

579
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: You better hurry, you better hurry because I hate a

580
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: couple of them. Almost all gone. They're really good. Yeah,

581
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: what I love about Duncan And I knew that they

582
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: had the app, but I never really understood how serious.

583
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: This Duncan app is like the other day I said, Alex,

584
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 1: I need some I need some coffee, Honey, I need

585
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: some iced coffee. He isn't okay. So we went to Duncan.

586
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: He's like, uh, I'm go get into the drive room,

587
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: he said, dude, I just walk in. I said, okay,

588
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: there's a line. He said, no for you, he said,

589
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: I went on the app. I went on the Duncan App.

590
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: I just go to that line on the left and

591
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: I got there. There it was Elvis. I alas the

592
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: order was ready to go. I love using that down

593
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: the shore in the summertime because the line at the

594
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 1: Duncan that's like right on the main strip is always

595
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: so crazy and I'm like, oh no, I'm not for me,

596
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: It's not I want to walk around you know someone

597
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: that Brownie Batter donut, that Cupid's Choice heart shaped donuts.

598
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: I love it. Anyway. You also get excl exclusive points

599
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 1: and things with this app. So the Duncan app. Thank

600
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: you Duncan. Thank you Ryan for ubering the Duncan to

601
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: us today. I appreciate it. So. Uh. Last night I

602
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 1: had great dinner up in Harlem at Cumtato. Is it

603
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: Ktano is Tonto content content contento, Oh my god, Peruvian

604
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: food fantastic. And then um, I went to this place

605
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: on Houston Street called Amilio's Blato and what a family.

606
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: They worked their asses off. By the way, Emilio was there,

607
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: the son Emilio Junior, Anthony in the kitchen, Oh my god,

608
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: gave me the best hug ever. Their their mom, beautiful,

609
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: beautiful lady. I love them all. Anyway, we had a

610
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: great dinner, bunch of guys, bunch. We had nine veal

611
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: palms at the table. Which one was this big nine? Yeah,

612
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: my cos those little little veals never knew it hit

613
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 1: him a little baby blue eyes. Eat me a lot

614
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: of wine. But anyway, thank you to the Vtolo family

615
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: and that place was awesome. Always wanted to go, Scary

616
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: has been going for years. I didn't know how did

617
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: you get in, Man, that's a tough reservation. I know someone,

618
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: Oh you know, yeah, people, Michael, Michael Vitiello and his

619
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: crazy Italian friends. It was a good night. Can we

620
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: get back to I hate going from such a wonderful,

621
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: wonderful restaurant to talk about Ruby Tuesday again, but oh

622
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: Heyally Tuesday was great. Do you know when you talked

623
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 1: about the big salad bar debacle? Yeah, and the scandal. Yeah,

624
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? People are texting in

625
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: about Ruby Tuesday in the salad bar. Really, See, I

626
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: never really trusted salad bars to begin with. And I'm

627
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 1: not saying Ruby Tuesday is a bad salad bar. I

628
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: don't even if Ruby Tuesdays in these still around. I

629
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: think they are like two. Well, I never was a

630
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: salad bar fan because I don't trust other people like

631
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: digging around. Sure, right, but uh yeah we heard some stories.

632
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't and after a pandemic, I will never touch

633
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: touch up salad bar. Getting near a salad the salad

634
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: bar in general is really a scandalous plan because that

635
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: sneeze guard is at a certain height. But let's be honest,

636
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: the people sneezing in the salad bars are kids, and

637
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 1: they're all under that sneeze gar, so there's no guarding

638
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 1: of the sneeze no guard. Yeah. Yeah, someone said something

639
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: about I'm not gonna say the name of the restaurant,

640
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 1: but someone dropped a colostomy bag and in the salad

641
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: bar book Secrets of the Salad you know what it

642
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: could be a great story. Yeah straight, Nate, don't you

643
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: hate And I don't know if this is like a

644
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: Pennsylvania thing because they have that that chocolate pudding in

645
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: the salad bar. Oh don't you at that stake place?

646
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: When I go to a sizzler. When I go to

647
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 1: a salad bar and there's any intermingling of the food

648
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: in the salad bar, I can't touch. Yeah. I hate

649
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: when one lettuce is in another, or there's carrots in

650
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: the queue, I can't. I can't do it well because

651
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: it's proof that someone was there before you. Yeah, they've sellied.

652
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 1: And then that chocolate pudding gets everywhere and somebody drops

653
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: the green peas and ye disgusting. I tell you. Well,

654
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 1: when we're in college, I mean, sizzlers all we could afford,

655
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,240
Speaker 1: you know. And and even then we'd have one person

656
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 1: go through the salad bar and the rest of us

657
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 1: to kind of like eat off their places. You need

658
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 1: like the salad bar police that like they do portions

659
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: it out for you. Don't we had a salad bar attendant, Yes,

660
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 1: someone would stand there kind of monitoring what was going on. Good,

661
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: But that's the fix. Nate's totally right. If you just

662
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 1: put glass up and have somebody serve people. The salad

663
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: bar can live. What's up, Scottie. The last time I

664
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: was at Sizzler, which I used to frequent, I don't know,

665
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,800
Speaker 1: there is no we don't need any lawsuits from Sisson.

666
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: No no no, no, no no no no. I was watching this woman.

667
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: She went up there and she sampled all the salad dressing.

668
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 1: She took the spoon that was in there, tasted it

669
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: off the spoon and put the spoon back in. Okay,

670
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 1: I saw it. Yeah, I don't know. I think you know.

671
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 1: We learned some lessons during pandemic. One of them was

672
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: never ever, and I remember saying this, never ever, ever, Well,

673
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: I ever shake a hand again, and then you know,

674
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: here we are shaking licking each other again. So all

675
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 1: back to normal. It's all back to abnormal if you

676
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: think about it until somebody sneezes are coughs, and then

677
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: everyone starts yelling COVID com scary sneezing yesterday, and he

678
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: was going to comment, what's up, Scary. I used to

679
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: love the Vegas Buffet, but now not so much. I

680
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: don't know. For some reason, I just don't like people

681
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,879
Speaker 1: with their trays sliding across and you just don't know

682
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: what random hand is gonna get a fried chicken. I know,

683
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,240
Speaker 1: I know, but you go to those bills great buffets

684
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: where they have all you can eat, like Alaskan keen

685
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 1: crab claws. I'm like, good god man, those things are

686
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 1: I think he still did we lose all the king

687
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: crabs on the planet like several months ago? Oh? Yeah,

688
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: like a billion of them went missing. Yeah, they're they're all.

689
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,959
Speaker 1: I think they're all at Baccio in Las Vegas because

690
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 1: they knew what I was coming. Hey, who's on the

691
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,840
Speaker 1: phone today? Is it the one and only Diamond Diamond?

692
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: What are people calling about today? What? What kind of

693
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: mood are people in out there? What's the hashtag mood?

694
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: People are just calling and say Hi, Oh, hey, tell

695
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 1: the show. I said, Hey, I'm like okay, great and

696
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: then they hang up. Okay, very different. Hey, so are

697
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 1: you you kind of hint hinted yesterday that you have them?

698
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: Are you definitely a ticket holder for Beyonce concert? Oh,

699
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: without a doubt. Oh it's going down. But I don't

700
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: even know if we really want to talk about this.

701
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: I'm might be late to work the day after just

702
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,720
Speaker 1: putting it out there. Hey, it's you, It's you're our sister.

703
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: If you want to go enjoy the Beyonce concert, I'm

704
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 1: going in DC. It's on a Sunday night. That's not okay.

705
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 1: What I mean? What wrong is take a personal day? Yeah?

706
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 1: What Wrongma? Is your program director? What's your issue? I

707
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 1: went to the super Bowl and it didn't end until

708
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,280
Speaker 1: like eleven thirty at night. I got home at three am,

709
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: and I got up into the show the next time. Well,

710
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I'm not coming in time. I'm

711
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 1: getting on the highway. I don't want you to. I

712
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 1: don't want you to like put yourself in danger's way.

713
00:37:58,080 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: So I mean, if you need to take today, I'll

714
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: take to day. Take the day off. No, I think

715
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 1: I'd rather come in without a voice and annoy everyone.

716
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,280
Speaker 1: Talk about the shot. Be honest, you're annoying with a voice.

717
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: There's always that. I want you to do what makes

718
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,879
Speaker 1: you comfortable, because I know that Beyonce concert is something

719
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 1: that you've been fantasizing about, and you get to go.

720
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: You get to go. I know I know you deserve it.

721
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 1: You deserve it. All right, all right, all right, we'll

722
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: check here with you again if you want to just

723
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: talk to Diamond. She's always taking your calls at eight

724
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: hundred two four two zero one hundred in her own

725
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 1: little private room over there. We do have a one

726
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 1: thousand dollars free Monty phone tap on the way thanks

727
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 1: to Crown Royal. Before that, though, we get into the

728
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:38,919
Speaker 1: three things we need to know, Gandhi, what is going

729
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 1: on all right? Earlier this week, we reported on the

730
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 1: twenty six year old NYPD officer who was shot in

731
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 1: a botched Brooklyn robbery over the weekend. Sadly, Adid Fayaz,

732
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 1: a father of two, died yesterday evening. A thirty eight

733
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 1: year old suspect was arrested and handcuffed using Fayaz's handcuffs.

734
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: Officials added, we wanted him to know that what he

735
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 1: did to that officer and the officers cuffs were on him.

736
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: It's symbol. The man in custody has been charged with

737
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 1: murder and attempted robbery. She's very, very sad. A Memphis

738
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: police officer is now catching even more heat after he

739
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: repeated reportedly texted photos of Tyree Nichols after he was

740
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: beaten by police. Video footage of Nichols being arrested last month,

741
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: showed officers repeatedly kicking, hitting, and tasing him before propping

742
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,839
Speaker 1: him up against a police car. In the footage, one

743
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 1: officer can be seen taking pictures on his cell phone.

744
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 1: Nichols died in the hospital after the beating. On Tuesday,

745
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: the state released Memphis police documents that show officer Demetrius

746
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: Hailey admitted to sending a photograph of Nichols to at

747
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: least five people. When a tragically sad story gets more

748
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: and more tragically, said right, she's disgusting, all right, and finally,

749
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 1: pay attention if you drive an older model Honda. Honda

750
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 1: is issuing a do not drive warning for several of

751
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 1: their vehicle models equipped with a faulty airbag inflator. Scary

752
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 1: don't you have like Ane just got rid of? Okay?

753
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 1: The company says around eighty two hundred cars with defective

754
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: Takata Alpha driver's side airbags are on the road. They

755
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: say those inflators can actually rupture in the event of

756
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: a crash, sending dangerous and potentially deadly metal fragments toward

757
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: the driver's face. The models that may have unrepaired airbags

758
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: are Honda, Accord, Civic, CRV, Odyssey Pilot and Accuras TL

759
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: and CL vehicles made between two thousand and one and

760
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: two thousand and three. Owners of the cars included in

761
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 1: the recall notice can get them repaired free of charge,

762
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: with additional details available. You just go to Honda News

763
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: dot com and those are your three things. I love

764
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 1: that blazer you're wearing today, Danielle. Yes, this is my

765
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: favorite blazer. Do you have a meeting or something today?

766
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:37,399
Speaker 1: I don't. Everyone keeps asking me, hope you get the job. Yeah, yeah,

767
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: we're all rooting for you. Just say this is a

768
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: sign that I need to brush my hair more before

769
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 1: I come to work dressed nicely, even Danielle, always look

770
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: on all right, your Crown Royal one thousand dollars free

771
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:51,319
Speaker 1: money phone tap on the way, the free money phone

772
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: tap you were collared one hundred you just one is

773
00:40:54,080 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: coming up next? Or the elvister and them show free

774
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: money phone tap, No purchase necessary. Boyd in Canada on Tanna,

775
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: New Mexico, Washington and where We're inhibited. For more info

776
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 1: and rules, called to Elvestran dotcom. Slash contests in in

777
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 1: the morning show. We need a new captain, not me.

778
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm just eating. Know what are you eating? Donuts? Queens?

779
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 1: When did you get and got the little hole? The

780
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 1: little donut hole? Ohunchin the chocolate chocolate. Those are good. Yeah,

781
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: those are my favorite. Yeah. I don't know where we're

782
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 1: having a little technical melt down here because I mean, Scottie,

783
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: what's what's going on? You were you were busy eating

784
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: Duncan donuts in the hallway and I give up. I

785
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:41,240
Speaker 1: know we're off like twenty five seconds. I was just hiding.

786
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 1: I have no I have no excuse. I'm sorry. Really,

787
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 1: do you want to change your sign back to zero days?

788
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: I just did already. Yeah. He has a sign that

789
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,879
Speaker 1: there says, uh, how many days it's been, says he's

790
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:56,280
Speaker 1: had dead air. Yeah, he just moved it back to zero.

791
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 1: That's so funny. That's what they have in the show

792
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:01,439
Speaker 1: from how many days with about incident like where people

793
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: have been killed and stuff, and they have to always

794
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: change I had it as high as ten. Yeah, you're

795
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: up to ten days with no day yet something days?

796
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: But why do we work on another zero day? Yeah?

797
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, really another ten days? Hey, By the way,

798
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if you caught yesterday's fifteen minute morning

799
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: show podcast. But actually I received some texts overnight in

800
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: this morning on our text system. Here you can text

801
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: us at fifty five. By the way, listen, Wow, I

802
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: really enjoyed the podcast. I really enjoyed getting to know

803
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: Scotty b Really God, it was so outrageous. I actually

804
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: texted friends and family to listen to it. Did I did,

805
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: so embarrassed. These are the people I work with. Oh so, Scotty,

806
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 1: without getting too graphy, claims that he was driving in

807
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 1: his car right and he passed gas. He accidentally inhaled

808
00:42:55,760 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: it and vomited. Yes, do you know? The day after,

809
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, is that really what happened? I mean it is,

810
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: wasn't keeping it real? Why did you inhale it? Because

811
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: you were I was yawning. I was so tired that

812
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: I was yawning at that particular moment. So he passed

813
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 1: gas and I ate it and yawned. He yawned and

814
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 1: actually he ingested. I guess I wouldn't say it. Does

815
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: that mean it came out twice? Then? If I ate it,

816
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. Man recycling recycling away. So yeah, oh okay,

817
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 1: moving on the fifteen minute Morning show podcast. It's a

818
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 1: lot different than what we do here. Oh my god.

819
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, he's like the modern day version of human

820
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: centerpede centipede, remember that, moving, Yeah, moving, I'm moving on

821
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:50,879
Speaker 1: the morning. But we love you, Scotty, thank you. Let's

822
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 1: go for a let's go for a note dead air

823
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: for the rest of the show. Matthew Hussey's on his way,

824
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: And we haven't had Matthew Hussy on the show in

825
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: a long time, whereas we used to stay down south.

826
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 1: I'm to Sunday's right. Frog, have we figured out? Are

827
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 1: we at the end of this Jennifer Lopez, Ben Affleck

828
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:13,359
Speaker 1: Grammy's story yet? Wow? Now there's an like a mouth

829
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 1: at what is it called it? It's a lip reader,

830
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: lip reader that's come forward and said that he knows

831
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,919
Speaker 1: exactly what was said. So what happened? So at one

832
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 1: point during the night they went over to them, you know,

833
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: you saw them on the camera and Ben had whispered

834
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: something into Jennifer's ear and then all of a sudden

835
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: you see her kind of be like something to him,

836
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: and then he kind of gives the stank face, and

837
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: everybody was like, oh, do they have a fight? What's

838
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: going on? But what this interpreter said was that he

839
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: leans over whispers in her ear, and she looks at

840
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: him and says, stop, look more friendly, look motivated. And

841
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: then he looked at her and was like, I might.

842
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: So that's what went down there. I don't I love

843
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 1: to look on her face when she realized that. You know,

844
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: there are cameras here at the Grammys. Look, we love

845
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 1: Jenner fal Lopez. I love them to death. But you know,

846
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:02,879
Speaker 1: when you are, especially when you are Jennifer Lopez and

847
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: you're at any function like that, the cameras are on you,

848
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,760
Speaker 1: on you. Can you imagine living in that fish bowl Nope,

849
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 1: where you go to an event that you probably don't

850
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 1: want to be at anyway, and then you realize everything

851
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: you do, everything you say, there's lip readers trying to

852
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:22,359
Speaker 1: figure out what you're saying. I mean, that is not

853
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:23,719
Speaker 1: the life I want to live. Do you want to

854
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: live that life? Our lives right now? What are you

855
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: talking about? Look around the studio. That is true there.

856
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: It is becoming that no knowing. I know, but people

857
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:34,240
Speaker 1: don't care what we're saying. I didn't take the social

858
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: yesterday and post a bunch of pictures from the Grammys,

859
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 1: And she wrote you always a great night with my love,

860
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 1: my husband whatever. So people are like, she's trying to

861
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 1: save face. But the controversy is, it wasn't just that

862
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 1: one moment him. Through the entire night he looked like

863
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: a hostage, like there was something going on me. He

864
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,439
Speaker 1: didn't feel well. He just well, here's what some people

865
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 1: were saying, And this made total sense to me. He

866
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 1: has been in recovery for alcoholism before, right, we all

867
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: know he whatever. It cannot be easy sitting in a

868
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: room with people drinking all over the place, and you

869
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 1: know what I mean, And maybe he was uncomfortable. Maybe

870
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: it's uncomfortable situation for him. So I don't know. We

871
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 1: don't know, so you know, and maybe he just didn't

872
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 1: want to be there to him that stuff. I wasn't

873
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: like whatever, you know what, you know, I gotta people

874
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 1: always say, God, you know you guys, I bet you could.

875
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: You could get to go to all these awards, and

876
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 1: we could, but we could have been at the Grammys,

877
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 1: I guess, But I have no desire. Yeah, I just

878
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 1: want to stay home with the dogs and watch Pamela Anderson.

879
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: Especially when you're the spouse of someone that has to go.

880
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: Then you're like, oh, really, we gotta go to that thing, right,

881
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: And and he's been. He's probably been a million times.

882
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: They've done it a million times. For them, it's not

883
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: special anymore. It's kind of like, here we go again.

884
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 1: So like I kind of understand, you know where he's

885
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: coming from, and we don't know what's going on, and

886
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 1: we don't we don't know if they had a fight

887
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 1: before they got there, we don't could have. I actually

888
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: feel a little bad for her, Like Brandon has a

889
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 1: constant I'm pissed off face on. So if we were

890
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: in that situation, I can only imagine people would have

891
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 1: plenty of things to say. I don't know what celebrities

892
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 1: have to go through. I just I don't know. No thanks,

893
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: no thanks, But I do want to know what was happening.

894
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: Somebody tell me I would take their cash. I want

895
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 1: to make I want to make Jennifer Lopez's paycheck, but

896
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to go to the Grammys. Is there

897
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: a way to make that work? Where's the motto? She

898
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: worked hard for her much? So there's that you're talking

899
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 1: about magic Mike's last dance. Yes, I'm going tonight. Not

900
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: even a thong will be worn in this film. That's okay.

901
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:40,839
Speaker 1: There's shirtless people also, like Danielle. Yeah, does a man

902
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 1: in a thong really turn you on? Man? Not at all.

903
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: And to be honest, I do like the storyline of

904
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: the Magic Mic movies. They're always fun, They're always you know,

905
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 1: just it's a cool movie to go with your girlfriends.

906
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: Just have a night out. You know who in holler

907
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: at the screen, act like a bunch of idiots and

908
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: have fun. It's great, that's what it's for you're talking about.

909
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 1: You know, maybe ben Affleck didn't have that great of

910
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 1: a time at the social event because he's going through

911
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:11,400
Speaker 1: recovery whatever. Someone sent a text in saying, I'm in

912
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,319
Speaker 1: recovery and it is really annoying to be around drunk people.

913
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's funny, but other times you just want to

914
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: get the hell out. Yeah. I agree. Look, there are

915
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:21,919
Speaker 1: times when I'm out with my friends and they get

916
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: much more lit than me. I'm like looking at the door,

917
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 1: trying to get out of their facia. You like, I

918
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: don't want to be the one that had to drive

919
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: them all exactly, so I'm and I must imagine I'm

920
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: the same way to be around when I'm you know,

921
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: getting pretty, but you know, I don't know being in recovery.

922
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 1: I guess I'll be there one day, not today, Stop it.

923
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: Today's not today though. My favorite line I got I

924
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: picked a bad day to stop drinking anyway? Should we? Now,

925
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 1: let's not get into that quite yet. Let's move on

926
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: to something else. What do you want? What you want

927
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: to talk about? I can't we just talk about drinking now.

928
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the Crown Royal phone tap use your brain, man.

929
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: The last line is drink responsible text? What what does

930
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 1: it say? Okay? If my cat farted once and while

931
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 1: I was coughing, I inhaled it and started gagging. I

932
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: don't want to talk about that. I don't want to

933
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,240
Speaker 1: talk about people inhaling parts. We can't talk about alcohol.

934
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 1: What can we talk about? I can do entertainment. I

935
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: have some stories. Yeah, are there any farting stories in there? Oh? No,

936
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,719
Speaker 1: stop it. I'm trying to like, don't see it? Clear

937
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: the decks? Man, We're done. What are you betting on

938
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 1: for the Super Bowls? Changing the subject the Rihanna concert?

939
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 1: I can't wait. You know you can bet on what

940
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 1: color eyeshadow she will wear, whether a player will record

941
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: an octopus? What does that mean? Six touchdown and then

942
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 1: a two point conversion? Okay? And the length of the

943
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: national anthem under or over two minutes in five seconds?

944
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: Do we know who's singing it yet? Uh? No, I don't.

945
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 1: Does anyone know you? I'm sorry? Can you bing that? Yeah?

946
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: Remember being? Yes? Uh? People are betting on the length

947
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 1: of the word brave in the national anthem. It's Chris

948
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 1: Stapleton apparently. Oh yes, Froggy, that's cool one of your

949
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 1: country people, it is? Uh? Yeah? Will a player recorded

950
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 1: an octopus? We've heard that one. We'll both Jason and

951
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 1: Travis score a touchdown. I like this one. Which Anaheiser

952
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: Busch product will get the first commercial? Will it be

953
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: the classic? Will it be the class? See? Here's one.

954
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 1: It's weird about that. So if you work for Anheiser

955
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: Bush you could bet on that and make money. Okay?

956
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: What about Rihanna? Um? What song will she sing to

957
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: kick off at the halftime show? I think it's going

958
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: to be from Waconda Forever Lift Me Up. I think

959
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 1: I think she's gonna start slow and then build it

960
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: and the beatle drop and it'll get crazy. I love

961
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 1: her so much. I can't wait. You're saying, don't stop.

962
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: The music has the best odds twenty five percent. I

963
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,439
Speaker 1: love her? All right? Fine? Oh wait? Do we clear

964
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 1: the next Can we do the phone tap? Now? All right?

965
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,400
Speaker 1: Time for a phone tap? Have you got any money?

966
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, can't wait for the super Bowl. And

967
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: there is a commercial we want you to watch. It's

968
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:11,760
Speaker 1: the Crown Royal commercial. Let me ask you a question

969
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: and you will learn the answer during the Super Bowl.

970
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 1: What do instant mashed potatoes, peanut butter and canola oil

971
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 1: have in common? What about Hawaiian pizza, egg cartons, whoopee cushions,

972
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: peanut butter, ironing board pizza? Well, you know what, there's

973
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: nothing better than eating one off your ironing board. They

974
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 1: all have something in common. You'll find out during the

975
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 1: Crown Royal commercial during the Super Bowl. We love Crown Royal.

976
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: Remember to live generously. Life will treat you royally. That's

977
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 1: the Crown Royal way. Drink responsibly. Must be twenty one

978
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: or older. To win the Super Bowl, to win one,

979
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:52,800
Speaker 1: oh right now? To win oh yeah? To win a

980
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 1: thousand dollars with a Crown Royal free money phone type

981
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 1: if you're called on one hundred. You win it one

982
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 1: eight hundred two four two zero one hundred. That's eight

983
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 1: dred two part two zero one hundred. Scary, Who does

984
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:06,360
Speaker 1: the phone tap? I do? Here we go Elvis, Elvis

985
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: durand the Elvis Durand phone tap. All right, whose phone

986
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 1: tap is this? It's mine, Scary, So Scary Carolan wants

987
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: to play a phone tap on her friend Brenda. Brenda

988
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 1: planned this long ski weekend away with her girls, and

989
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 1: Carolyn thought it would be hilarious if I had called

990
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: Brenda as the manager of the lodge just a couple

991
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: of hours before they're supposed to drive up there. Wow. Yeah,

992
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: so that's what happens here. These phone taps always work

993
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: out really well because people get very mad when you

994
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: mess with their travel plans. I'm assuming, I'm assuming that's

995
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: what you're doing here. Absolutely all right, let's get into it.

996
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: Scary's phone tap. Let's listen to see what happens. Hell, yeah,

997
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Brenda cologne. Please. This is John Sorenson

998
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: at Dear Clara Chicandos. Yes, you didn't leave yet? No? Why?

999
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 1: Oh thank god? What's the problem? Um? We overbooked the

1000
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: Mountain this weekend. No, no, no no, no, no, don't tell

1001
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 1: me that. Yeah, I know it's unfortunate. I have six

1002
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 1: people getting ready, we have gear ready to go. When

1003
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 1: did you make this reservation? Ma'am? What's the matter? I'm aggravated,

1004
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 1: That's what's the matter. You're huffing and puffing into my phone. Yeah,

1005
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: I'm huffing and puffing. Is there a backup date that

1006
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:17,959
Speaker 1: you guys might know. We have this already booked, people

1007
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:22,240
Speaker 1: took days off from work. What kind of business is this, miss?

1008
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: I made a deposit already. You guys have had my money.

1009
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: I understand, and we will refund that deposit. That's at

1010
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 1: the point. I don't have a truck rented. Schedules were made,

1011
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: we have plans it. Why is it that I'm getting bumped.

1012
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: We're starting at the beginning of the alphabet, and your

1013
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: last name starts with C. No, no, you know what

1014
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 1: that's not going to be at your answer, because I've

1015
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: had mine booked already. Well, we're actually having a wedding

1016
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: party that they then they added my problem, those people

1017
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 1: will have to go and stay in a hotel someplace.

1018
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: You know. I'm scrambling the make room for twenty people

1019
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 1: for this wedding party, and that my problem. It shouldn't

1020
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 1: be your problem, but it's not my problem. I will

1021
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 1: be showing up there tonight. What I don't understand, though,

1022
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 1: is if I was to make this up to you

1023
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: in some way, like maybe you're not gonna make it up,

1024
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:04,600
Speaker 1: because do you understand we're all skiers looking forward to

1025
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: the good weekend? We are sinking up our schedules took

1026
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,000
Speaker 1: time up. I already have a wart expedition. I already rented,

1027
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 1: it's downstairs. Do you understand the accommodations we've been making

1028
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: planning for this trip. Yes, I understand. Then you can

1029
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 1: call somebody else up and tell them that you will

1030
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 1: get make it up to them. I have my condo

1031
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: this weekend. Actually you don't. When you came up here,

1032
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:24,759
Speaker 1: you're gonna find there's a sign on the door that

1033
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 1: says no vacancy. What do you mean I don't. I

1034
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 1: made this reservation. You go and you're putting me in

1035
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 1: another conduct. Your name is not going to be in

1036
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 1: the computer. Man, How can you go and do this

1037
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: to make Are you even a serious skier? Are you

1038
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 1: just gonna hang out at the wobbly barn or something.

1039
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 1: Excuse me? Do you understand nice ski out west and

1040
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: I'm doing? You say? Are you a ski serious gift?

1041
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: A street tier manager? I know what's going to happen.

1042
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: You hang out at the pickle barrel, you get all loopy.

1043
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: How are you? There's got to be a mountain manager.

1044
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: I do not know who the hell you are. But

1045
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,359
Speaker 1: do you not? Do you even dare try to tell

1046
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 1: me what we're doing or what we're intending to do.

1047
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 1: The pest that matter is you have how you deposits.

1048
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 1: We all have our ski. We are serious kers one

1049
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: or not. It doesn't matter because I already revenged. Miss

1050
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:07,320
Speaker 1: you're barking at me. Yeah, because you're telling me and

1051
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 1: trying least claring. You're gonna now try and tell me

1052
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 1: that I don't have a reservation because of letting cable

1053
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:16,400
Speaker 1: that roll here not to ski. The fact of the

1054
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 1: matter is I have my room reserved. I have never

1055
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: in all my life I travel for business. I travel

1056
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,319
Speaker 1: for work. I have never once been told and you've

1057
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:27,320
Speaker 1: never been bumped. You've never been bumped for anything. I

1058
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,760
Speaker 1: will tell you something. If I get bumped. I'm getting upgraded.

1059
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 1: I do not get bumped. Well, your little miss Cinderella

1060
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 1: fantasy has come to an end, and now I want

1061
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:37,760
Speaker 1: a general menager of that mountain. I am the general manager.

1062
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: I'm taking your name off the computer as we speak.

1063
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 1: Hold on, Okay, you cut an attitude with me, and

1064
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,919
Speaker 1: I don't appreciate that. Okay, so I'll take you down.

1065
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,800
Speaker 1: This is also a recruited line. Okay, if this is

1066
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: an official If this is an official phone call, I

1067
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 1: will now also sue for discrimination. Okay, Caroline, Yes, I

1068
00:55:56,680 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 1: think you better call her. Hold on a second, Hello, Brenda. Yeah,

1069
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 1: what's harm you picking you up tonight? I'm picking up

1070
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: at five o'clock. Oh, I'm in the middle of switching

1071
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: a reservation. Okay, no, no, let me call you back, pleading, Brenda,

1072
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 1: don't change your reservation. You've been phone tapped challenge. Oh

1073
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 1: my god, you know what I know your voice. I

1074
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:28,080
Speaker 1: know this voice the free money phone tapp thanks to

1075
00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:31,720
Speaker 1: Crown Royal. Anyway, uh, Color one hundred, I do believe

1076
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: it's oh oh hello, Hello, Hello? Who's this Amanda? Hi, Amanda?

1077
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 1: How are how are you? I'll be better you tell

1078
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:54,800
Speaker 1: me I'm Color one hundred. Well, what are you doing that.

1079
00:56:54,920 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 1: Well you are sort of what, well, what do want

1080
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 1: to do? She is, Yeah, all right, yeah, we had

1081
00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:07,880
Speaker 1: a little technical snaffoo. But so why are you yelling?

1082
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 1: You want your own show? Go get your own show.

1083
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 1: You want a thousand dollars? Yeah, okay, I'm committing to it.

1084
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 1: You want a thousand dollars? Seriously? Yeah, yes, you better

1085
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 1: take it now before we change our mind. Yeah. I

1086
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 1: think I think we had someone else to the line,

1087
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 1: but you know, whatever the rules say, if there's a

1088
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 1: technical snaffoo, then we take another one hundredth callar. Yeah,

1089
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 1: whoever it is, thank you. So you have a thousand

1090
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 1: dollars on the way, Yeah you yeah, don't worry about it.

1091
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 1: That's okay. I'll take care of that behind the scenes.

1092
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: We'll hold on diamond. Who was who was calling one hundred?

1093
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 1: What was it? What was her name? It started with

1094
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: an Ah Angela. Find her okay, and I will take

1095
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 1: care of her too, Okay, all right, thousand dollars for everyone.

1096
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 1: Just call us now. We got the money. The money

1097
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: just grows on trees. You you enjoy your money, and

1098
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: thanks for listening to us. You deserve every penny of it.

1099
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: You're very welcome. Yeah, you know, hold on one a second.

1100
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 1: You're having a lucky day, by the way, let you know.

1101
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: All right, there you go. She was actually called her

1102
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 1: one on one. I lost. I lost called her. I've

1103
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 1: pushed the wrong button. Do they know who they were?

1104
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 1: Or no? Yeah, we know. Well we'll figure it out. Okay, Hey,

1105
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: at least I'm I'm confessing. Yeah, I'm confessing that my

1106
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 1: fat finger hit the wrong button. And when you confess

1107
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 1: to a crime, it doesn't count, right. No, I will

1108
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 1: pay work that just cost me. That just cost me

1109
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars, and I'll find the money. I'll find

1110
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 1: the money. It's okay, no more breakfast for us. I'm

1111
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 1: gonna sell my body to the Chinese businessmen down in Chinatown. OK,

1112
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: no problem, Scar, give them a thousand. Hey, thank you

1113
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 1: to Crown Royal. Thanks to them, we have at least

1114
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 1: one thousand of the two thousand dollars we just gave away.

1115
00:58:57,240 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: Please drink responsibly and there you go the free money

1116
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: phone tep. We have another one tomorrow, worth one thousand dollars.

1117
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 1: Taste so Goody Wendy's homestyle French toast sticks are so good.

1118
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 1: Some are saying they're better than your own mom's French toast,

1119
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 1: Perfectly crispy on the outside, perfectly fluffy on the inside,

1120
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: perfectly perfected every way. Try Wendy's homestyle French toast sticks

1121
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: today and see if they're better than your mom's. Matthew

1122
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 1: Hussy on the show a while I saw him walk

1123
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 1: down the hall lest you get him in here? Oh

1124
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 1: there he is, Hi, Matthew, that was a fast walk

1125
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 1: down the hall. Welcome back to the show. It's so

1126
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 1: nice to be back again. It's been literally is it

1127
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: really has? I mean, the pandemic kind of effed everything up,

1128
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: didn't it? It? Really? Did it? Really? Did you? Did

1129
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: you ever get COVID twice? I think? Do you want

1130
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: it again? The first time was fine, the second time

1131
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:57,520
Speaker 1: was bad. So you know, I coughed so hard I

1132
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: broke a rib. I kid you not. Oh my god,

1133
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: I know it's true. It's a real thing. I'm so

1134
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 1: glad you're here. We can talk about disease. Yeah, let's

1135
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 1: get into that again. Congratulations. I hear that you are

1136
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 1: getting married. I am in October. Yeah? Did she know this?

1137
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 1: She knows, she knows as of January last year. I

1138
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 1: think I proposed. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's been. It's been

1139
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,840
Speaker 1: kind of a trippy experience for me. I bet it

1140
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:27,120
Speaker 1: it would be here. Here's my question. I'm sure a

1141
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: lot of people are thinking this. We've always had you

1142
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:32,240
Speaker 1: on our show as a person who helps us maneuver

1143
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: through and around of relationships, but when you're who helps

1144
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: you because relationships they're not easy for anyone. Relationships are

1145
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 1: a lot of work. Are you actually learning more material

1146
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: for your yes, for your speeches? I mean, by being

1147
01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 1: in a real life with a wonderful person. I think

1148
01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: I feel like the stuff I've been talking about for

1149
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: a long time has been like a really great pair

1150
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 1: of shoes that were too big for me for a

1151
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 1: long time, and they, you know, they were still a

1152
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: great pair of shoes. Everything I said was true and

1153
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:08,280
Speaker 1: I believed in it wholeheartedly. But I'm still a person

1154
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 1: who's going through phases of life, and so I think

1155
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 1: that I've grown into a lot of the things that

1156
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: I've been saying for a long time. Do you now

1157
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 1: now that you're in finally in a great relationship with

1158
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:24,320
Speaker 1: someone who's really wonderful, do you sort of go do

1159
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:27,920
Speaker 1: you rethink some things that you thought were true earlier

1160
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:31,960
Speaker 1: and now you're like, God, that was a bunch of bs.

1161
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,760
Speaker 1: I mean, really, how you're learning, you're learning through being

1162
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 1: in a real relationship. That's a good question, you know.

1163
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 1: I think one of the one of the big things

1164
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 1: that I continued to learn in every area of my

1165
01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 1: life is that if you live for the spikes in life,

1166
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 1: you're you're in trouble. You know, if you if you're

1167
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: always waiting for the next rush of some kind, and

1168
01:01:56,880 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 1: if you're living for that, whether it's with food or

1169
01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 1: alcohol or porn, pawns saying for a friend, relationships, you know,

1170
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 1: a fun kind of exciting, wild like that, those encounters

1171
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 1: like it's you're living for this, like you're living to

1172
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: be at a level eleven, but then we all know

1173
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:22,080
Speaker 1: you dropped down to like a four and then you're

1174
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 1: kind of are waiting for that next fix. And I

1175
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: think that's true of everything in life. And I've for me,

1176
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: what's beautiful about the relationship. I mean, it's a passionate relationship,

1177
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: it's exciting, but it's it's not about the spikes anymore.

1178
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 1: It's about a level of peace that I'm so grateful

1179
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: for in my life because I've been in relationships where

1180
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 1: I didn't have peace, where I was anxious all the time,

1181
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 1: where I was miserable, but saying I was happy and

1182
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 1: it just was it was hell? Now does she ever

1183
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 1: say to you, Yeah, this is a bunch of ballocks, Matthew,

1184
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 1: we did not put anything's coming out of your mouth.

1185
01:02:57,320 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 1: Forget it. Do you know? Does she have a say

1186
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:05,600
Speaker 1: that when I'm giving advice? Yeah, I'll go ahead and say, yes,

1187
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: I love that we can talk about her. Is that

1188
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: she's not here right? Hey, but wait a minute, getting

1189
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 1: back to the Spike thing. This is a conversation we

1190
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 1: had on our show several weeks ago. Yes, And you know,

1191
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 1: science is telling us more and more and more that

1192
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 1: as we reach for these levels of pleasure, we're really

1193
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:24,080
Speaker 1: kind of screwing ourselves a little bit. Yeah, we're killing

1194
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: our dopamine because everything is so instant and we can

1195
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 1: get gratified immediately, whether it's likes online or watching a

1196
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: TV show from start to finish that you love. We've

1197
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 1: really started to fry these dopamine receptors. And that applies

1198
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 1: to everything in your life, including a relationship. It's so

1199
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: so true, and I've I look at the areas of

1200
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 1: my life where that's true these days, and I try to,

1201
01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:48,920
Speaker 1: like I delete Instagram when I'm not using it. This

1202
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 1: is where you dropped all of those. We nearly go

1203
01:03:55,240 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 1: three five minutes. We'll get to that in a minute. No, no,

1204
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 1: you're right, because for you, Instagram is like it's like instant,

1205
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:08,400
Speaker 1: you know, scrolling and seeing things like food, porn and whatever.

1206
01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 1: You you know, I'm sure you followed some nasty nasty.

1207
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 1: I just realized I never came away from Instagram feeling better.

1208
01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 1: I always came away feeling worse. You know what. That's

1209
01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: a that's interesting. See I only look at puppies in

1210
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 1: Italian food and guys with their shirts and squirrel squirrel

1211
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 1: even but even the stuff like that, that's just I

1212
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:32,520
Speaker 1: find myself looking at and going, well, this is all innocent.

1213
01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: I still it just is like this, I've realized I've

1214
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 1: been hijacked, and I'm an hour later, I'm like, what

1215
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 1: am I doing? Where am I right now? True? And

1216
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 1: at that point I just realized I have no control

1217
01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:48,080
Speaker 1: over this, and so I just I delete it. And

1218
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:50,480
Speaker 1: every time I need to post something, I re upload it,

1219
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 1: post and then delete it again. Yeah. Yeah, you have

1220
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 1: a little game in your head. Yeah, I can't do it.

1221
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 1: I can't trust myself with it. Congratulations you look you

1222
01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: look happier than I I've ever seen you. Just saying

1223
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 1: thank you. I really feel that, I really feel that

1224
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:08,919
Speaker 1: I can tell let's make out. Now is the time.

1225
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: It's really great for me. She is Audrey has no

1226
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 1: context for you. Her name is Audrey. I was trying

1227
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 1: to like, no, no, you can. I she was terrified

1228
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 1: that you were going to bring her on and you

1229
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:22,000
Speaker 1: still might. I mean, would never do I would never

1230
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 1: do that. But she she has no context for you

1231
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 1: whatsoever other than me saying how much I love you.

1232
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: So it's really fun to watch her facial expressions as

1233
01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 1: she realizes in real time who you are. Well, I'm

1234
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 1: so honored that you you trusted us to beautiful Aubrey

1235
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: is very surprised that I would trust I'm shocked. I'm

1236
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: shocked that you would have the audacity to expose her

1237
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 1: to something so awful to us. Hey, by the way, Matthew,

1238
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:52,439
Speaker 1: I know people love to talk to you and ask

1239
01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 1: you questions about what they're going through in life and

1240
01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 1: maybe see what your take is. Uh, feel free to

1241
01:05:56,840 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 1: call eight hundred two four two zero one hundred. By

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Speaker 1: ninety minute live training session called Dating with the Results. Why?

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Speaker 1: What what are you seeing out there that requires you

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Speaker 1: to do this? I'm seeing and I've seen this for years,

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01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 1: but it hasn't gotten any better. It's people who really

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Speaker 1: want one thing. They really want a relationship. They want

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Speaker 1: to be intentional about their love life. They want to

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Speaker 1: meet someone amazing and build with that person, and then

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Speaker 1: they do the exact opposite things like that will get

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Speaker 1: them that. I mean, look, let me give you an example.

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Speaker 1: I will you joked about Audrey kind of saying I

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Speaker 1: like laughing at the advice. The truth is she doesn't

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Speaker 1: laugh at the advice, but she contributes to it with

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Speaker 1: the things that she has done in the time that

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Speaker 1: we've known each other. And one of the reasons that

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Speaker 1: me and Audrey ended up together. Is because she didn't

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Speaker 1: do those things, like, for example, when early in our relationship,

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Speaker 1: I was kind of the mess, not her. I was

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Speaker 1: the one who I've we met in London, I flew

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Speaker 1: back to LA. We'd had this amazing thing for a

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Speaker 1: few weeks. We then met in New York and that

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Speaker 1: was wonderful for a few days. I then went back

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Speaker 1: to LA and I did the classic thing of I

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Speaker 1: wasn't being intentional about it. I wasn't trying to take

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Speaker 1: it somewhere and make it work as a relationship. I

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01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to do the long distance thing.

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01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 1: But I didn't stop reaching out to her. I would

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01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:48,080
Speaker 1: kind of casual. I would reach out every few days

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Speaker 1: increasingly with longer periods of time in between those texts

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Speaker 1: and say something inane like I miss you or thinking

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Speaker 1: of you. You're bread crumbing her. Yeah. She then sent

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Speaker 1: me a message in response that said I think I

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01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 1: said I miss you one of these times, and she said,

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Speaker 1: I don't really know what to say when you send

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01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: me a message like that. To be honest with you,

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01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:18,000
Speaker 1: it hasn't felt like we've been close for a while now,

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Speaker 1: and rightly or wrongly. Messages like this just come across

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01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:25,599
Speaker 1: like a bid for attention. Yes, I love you for that. Yeah,

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01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 1: well okay, fabulous, And well there was no hold honest,

1287
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,679
Speaker 1: what happened here? You're supposed to be here giving us advice.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we should hug you. I feel like

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Speaker 1: we should get you drunk or stone or or something

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01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 1: something to lift you up ecstasy. I like we should

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Speaker 1: go dancing, lift up your spirit. No I I it was.

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Speaker 1: It was beautiful because it really put an end immediately

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Speaker 1: to a pattern that could have persisted, and often between

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01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: people does persist for a long time. So you know

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01:08:57,400 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 1: what you what you now can do, what you can

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Speaker 1: now say with license is hey, I see you are

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Speaker 1: going through this. I was just going to the same thing,

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Speaker 1: and here's what got me out of it. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: think this adds to your credibility because you're a real

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Speaker 1: person talking about it here. Yeah. Well I'm not. I

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Speaker 1: haven't helped anyone else except for yourself. No, I you know,

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Speaker 1: for me, I think that I think people have most

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01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 1: There are some truly bad people, and there are people

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Speaker 1: that just seem to have it all worked out and

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01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:33,800
Speaker 1: do the right things all the time, and then there's

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01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:35,960
Speaker 1: this huge swath of people in the middle that where

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Speaker 1: we all are, certainly where I was, where you're sort

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Speaker 1: of swing voter as far as you know good and

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Speaker 1: bad is concerned. And I think you come across people

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Speaker 1: who force you to raise your standard by the standards

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Speaker 1: they have for themselves. That's it. That's it. I am

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Speaker 1: who I am because of who I am with you?

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Speaker 1: And what a what a beautiful thing to say about someone? Why?

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Speaker 1: What's that look? You decide? Wh side? No? I So

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Speaker 1: this is a question I think for a lot of

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Speaker 1: people who are dating, where is the line between being

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01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:10,559
Speaker 1: very honest and true and intentional with how you feel

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Speaker 1: versus being a little thirsty and coming off as desperate

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01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:15,360
Speaker 1: by saying and I'm not saying this about you, but

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Speaker 1: I miss you too soon, even if you mean it.

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01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 1: You know, how do you walk that line anymore? It's

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Speaker 1: a dance, It's a game, right, it seems like it.

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01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:24,120
Speaker 1: I think you have to be well. I think you

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01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: have to be honest with yourself first, because we all

1325
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:29,400
Speaker 1: feel things in early dating that are very intense. But

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Speaker 1: it doesn't make it a good idea to say those

1327
01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 1: things because you don't even know if they're real, yet,

1328
01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:37,160
Speaker 1: like we're all prone to that. I think you know

1329
01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 1: this term love bombing that's big in dating now, this

1330
01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 1: idea that someone comes along, they lavish you with praise

1331
01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:46,800
Speaker 1: and attention and all these big grand gestures, and it

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01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 1: makes you fall in love with them really fast because

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01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 1: they're coming on so strong, and it feels good that

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01:10:53,120 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 1: they're coming on that strong. But it's also there's something

1335
01:10:56,920 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 1: a little suspect about it, and you have to be careful.

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01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:02,320
Speaker 1: And reason you have to be careful is love bombing.

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01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:05,640
Speaker 1: Either on the extreme end of the spectrum suggests a

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01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:09,080
Speaker 1: kind of narcissism, but even on the benign end, it's

1339
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:15,600
Speaker 1: someone with really poor impulse control, yes, and addictive personality.

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01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: I'm sure triggered because that's me. Yeah. Well no, you

1341
01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:22,519
Speaker 1: know what, can we all just because we're living in

1342
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 1: a world full of static and fright and whatever, sometimes

1343
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:29,640
Speaker 1: we jump to the we jump the gun, we go

1344
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:32,120
Speaker 1: too fast, We say things just to try to like

1345
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:35,240
Speaker 1: reel them in. Well, that's exactly right, that's the problem.

1346
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 1: We're so busy trying to get something that we don't

1347
01:11:38,880 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 1: think about what the conser of consequences of that are.

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Speaker 1: And we also forget that we don't know this person.

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Speaker 1: You just had the most magical first date in the world,

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Speaker 1: and you think so much of this person and this

1351
01:11:50,320 --> 01:11:53,280
Speaker 1: could be it. And you've literally spent two hours with

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01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:56,800
Speaker 1: someone you have no idea who they are. You don't

1353
01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:59,040
Speaker 1: know who they are. When someone in your family gets sick,

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01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:01,599
Speaker 1: you don't know who they are. When you show something

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01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 1: that you're shameful about that you think someone's going to

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01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:07,400
Speaker 1: reject you for you don't know, like you just don't know.

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01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:11,360
Speaker 1: Character can only be measured as the average of someone's

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01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 1: actions over time. It cannot be gleaned from a couple

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Speaker 1: of hours with someone beautifully, So can I ask what

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01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: you roll back to that text message Charlie after she

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01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 1: said that I saw, No, I don't. I can't say

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Speaker 1: that there was anything I said that was as poetic

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01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 1: and wonderful as what she said. I think I sort

1364
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Speaker 1: of sauntered off. And when I think, did you actually

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01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 1: think about it though? Did you give it thought? Oh?

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Speaker 1: But it stopped it. Look, it didn't make me suddenly

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01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 1: go I must have a relationship with you right now.

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01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:41,800
Speaker 1: What it made me do is realize, oh, I can't

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Speaker 1: do this with this person, and so I stopped that

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01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:48,679
Speaker 1: nonsense like I was immediately just stopped in my tracks good,

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01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:51,599
Speaker 1: and I realized, if I go back to this person,

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01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:54,840
Speaker 1: it has to be with some intent because this will

1373
01:12:54,880 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 1: not be tolerated here, which is exactly what you want.

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01:12:57,439 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 1: As we take a break, we must. We'll be back

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01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:01,679
Speaker 1: with your question. And we also have a live issue

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Speaker 1: going on in Jacksonville, Florida. We have to give to

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01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:07,680
Speaker 1: an I know that the story you just told is

1378
01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:11,640
Speaker 1: resonating with someone right now, and they're going, hmmm, let

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01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:14,920
Speaker 1: me rethink how I'm communicating with this person. I owe

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01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:17,599
Speaker 1: it to them, but you owe it to yourself. You

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01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:22,720
Speaker 1: owe it to yourself to have solid intention and being

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01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,880
Speaker 1: aware of where you're going with this crazy conversation you're

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01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:27,840
Speaker 1: having not only with them, but in your own head

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01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: right and not exactly that and not appropriating their excuse.

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01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:36,439
Speaker 1: I see this a lot, you know, when you hear someone,

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Speaker 1: you see two people who are dating, and it could

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01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 1: go either way round. But he may say to her,

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01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:44,599
Speaker 1: you know, I'm just in a stage of my life.

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01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:47,120
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just having fun, just seeing where it's going.

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01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 1: And then when her friends ask her, how's it going

1391
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 1: with this? Guy that you're really excited about that you're seeing.

1392
01:13:52,479 --> 01:13:55,200
Speaker 1: She goes, you know, we're just having fun and seeing

1393
01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:58,520
Speaker 1: where it's going and just seeing and it's like, oh,

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01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 1: he's ren triloquising her right now, this is not her.

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01:14:02,600 --> 01:14:05,640
Speaker 1: She wouldn't say something like this normally, but she's appropriated

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01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:10,000
Speaker 1: his excuse because it's easier than feeling rejected that someone

1397
01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:12,559
Speaker 1: doesn't want the same things as you want. Right Meanwhile,

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Speaker 1: she's got a Pinterest board of their weddings. By the way,

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Speaker 1: the word of the day has been triloquising. I've got

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Speaker 1: to take a break. Calls on the way more with

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Speaker 1: Matthew and you if you want to call eight hundred

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Speaker 1: slippery slow elvist ran in the Morning Show's homestyle French

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Speaker 1: toast sticks are so good. Some are saying they're better

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Speaker 1: than your own mom's French toast. Perfectly crispy on the outside,

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Speaker 1: perfectly fluffy on the inside, perfectly perfect in every way.

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Speaker 1: Try Wendy's homestyle French toast sticks today and see if

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Speaker 1: they're better than your mom's. Radio showing radio. I'm the best.

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Speaker 1: I'm the best on the radio. Ever. Like to Chase

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01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:08,840
Speaker 1: you connect around now say the same thing. Take Chase

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01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:14,840
Speaker 1: in the Fading, Got what's running Cooty's Face? Make Way

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Speaker 1: for the King? Ran in the Morning Show Here with

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01:15:17,640 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 1: Matthew Hussey. Olivia, you've been in a relationship for seven

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01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:24,280
Speaker 1: months and you ask us this question, is it too

1416
01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 1: early to tell my boyfriend that I love him? Oh?

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01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:28,360
Speaker 1: That's a hard one to answer because we don't know

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01:15:28,360 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 1: what you guys have been through. Olivia. How are you,

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01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:32,439
Speaker 1: by the way, you feeling good? Hi? Oh my god,

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01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:33,720
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm going to pass out. I have

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01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 1: to pull over on the side of the road. Open please, No,

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01:15:36,880 --> 01:15:39,519
Speaker 1: you drive eighty miles an hour and pass out. That's

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Speaker 1: what I do. Hey, say hi to Matthew and um,

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01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:46,519
Speaker 1: and say hi to Olivia. Hello, Hi, Olivia, Hi, Hi?

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01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:49,639
Speaker 1: How are you good? Good? I'm excited to talk to you.

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01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:55,520
Speaker 1: So I've been dating my boyfriend for about seven months now. Um.

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Speaker 1: He's like super slow with the whole process. It took

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01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 1: him like a while for him to be like, Okay,

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01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 1: you're my girlfriend, which is like really silly, but I

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01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:07,000
Speaker 1: guess it's kind of what you were talking about before.

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01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:09,160
Speaker 1: Where's that line where you kind of like stear them

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01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:11,880
Speaker 1: off a little bit? When is it too early to

1433
01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:15,280
Speaker 1: tell somebody that you love them? I think you almost

1434
01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:18,320
Speaker 1: have to start with what you want, Olivia, like, what

1435
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:21,240
Speaker 1: part of your what stage of your life are you in?

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01:16:22,400 --> 01:16:24,080
Speaker 1: What are you looking for right now? What do you

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01:16:24,080 --> 01:16:30,280
Speaker 1: want to build? I mean a relationship where I have

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01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 1: a partner and you know, we're living together and taking

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01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:37,599
Speaker 1: all those next steps. I'm not looking for something casual

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01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:40,640
Speaker 1: which he knows and can I ask how old are you?

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01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 1: Twenty eight? So you want to start building something with someone,

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01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 1: That's an important thing to for you to recognize straight away,

1443
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:53,719
Speaker 1: because that's there's therefore a culture that you want to create.

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01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:57,599
Speaker 1: And most of us go into our lives if we're

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01:16:57,600 --> 01:16:59,840
Speaker 1: not careful, if we haven't decided the culture we want

1446
01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 1: for our lives, we just end up becoming part of

1447
01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:05,680
Speaker 1: the culture of whatever it is we come into contact with.

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01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:08,599
Speaker 1: A Mitch Album said, if you don't that so many

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Speaker 1: people don't like the dating culture out there right now.

1450
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:14,200
Speaker 1: There's a wonderful Mitch Album line which is, if you

1451
01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 1: don't like the culture, you have to be brave enough

1452
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:19,519
Speaker 1: to create your own and so you're kind of it's

1453
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:23,679
Speaker 1: almost like you're worried about the culture that he's bringing

1454
01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:26,880
Speaker 1: to the relationship, which is one of I don't want

1455
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 1: to say we're in a relationship. I'm not someone who

1456
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:32,000
Speaker 1: jumps into saying I love you, and you're not worried

1457
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:35,080
Speaker 1: enough about your own culture, which is I'm actually looking

1458
01:17:35,360 --> 01:17:38,760
Speaker 1: to build something here. So I think you can say

1459
01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:42,840
Speaker 1: to this person, I look, I'm having an amazing time

1460
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:44,760
Speaker 1: with you. I love that we're in a relationship. I

1461
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 1: want to feel like we are moving forward and there's

1462
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:50,679
Speaker 1: a progression here. It doesn't have to be all at once,

1463
01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:52,640
Speaker 1: but I want to feel like there's a progression. And

1464
01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:55,200
Speaker 1: I'm the kind of person that if I feel strongly,

1465
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:58,000
Speaker 1: I want to say it, and there's you know, I

1466
01:17:58,000 --> 01:17:59,679
Speaker 1: want to tell you I love you, but I'm also

1467
01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:03,200
Speaker 1: feeling resistance from you on your side. Are you in

1468
01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:08,640
Speaker 1: a position where you feel comfortable saying that. That is

1469
01:18:08,680 --> 01:18:12,840
Speaker 1: a very good point, But what's stopping stopping you from

1470
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:17,400
Speaker 1: saying that, Olivia, That's what I'm curious about. I guess

1471
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 1: just scaring him away and having him pull back, because

1472
01:18:20,800 --> 01:18:26,200
Speaker 1: that right there, that's the issue that fear seven months

1473
01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:28,439
Speaker 1: in which is not a short amount of time. It's

1474
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:30,360
Speaker 1: not I'm not saying you have to be getting married

1475
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 1: right now, but it's not a short amount of time

1476
01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:35,400
Speaker 1: to know that you really feel that way about each other.

1477
01:18:36,080 --> 01:18:39,120
Speaker 1: So at that point you have to be more worried

1478
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:43,800
Speaker 1: about what your north star is than scaring off the

1479
01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:47,320
Speaker 1: wrong person. Because the wrong person, by definition, is someone

1480
01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:49,720
Speaker 1: who doesn't have the same vision as you do. You

1481
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:52,479
Speaker 1: understand that you can't someone can't have a different vision

1482
01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:55,439
Speaker 1: from you and be the right person. We have this

1483
01:18:55,520 --> 01:18:58,760
Speaker 1: misconception in life that if I really like someone, they're

1484
01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 1: the right person. That's not true. You have to someone

1485
01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:06,760
Speaker 1: who's right is someone who actually shares your vision for

1486
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:09,600
Speaker 1: what they want. They can't. That's why whenever someone says

1487
01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:12,960
Speaker 1: someone got someone dumped me, someone broke my heart, but

1488
01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:16,160
Speaker 1: they're the love of my life, they're not. You may

1489
01:19:16,280 --> 01:19:18,880
Speaker 1: feel you're in love with them, but you can't be

1490
01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 1: in love at someone, and if they've decided they don't

1491
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:25,599
Speaker 1: want you, then they're not the love of your life.

1492
01:19:25,600 --> 01:19:28,479
Speaker 1: They just feel like that. You can be disappointed they

1493
01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:30,720
Speaker 1: weren't the one, but you can't grieve as if they

1494
01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:33,760
Speaker 1: were the one. Does that make sense, Olivia, You've got

1495
01:19:33,760 --> 01:19:35,720
Speaker 1: to be less worried about scaring this person off and

1496
01:19:35,760 --> 01:19:38,080
Speaker 1: more worried about what you actually want. What's the culture

1497
01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:39,920
Speaker 1: I want? I want to relate. I'm Olivia, and I

1498
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 1: want a relationship where I can actually express myself. I

1499
01:19:43,320 --> 01:19:45,760
Speaker 1: want a relationship where I can actually say things that

1500
01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:49,519
Speaker 1: I say. I love you because I'm an affectionate person,

1501
01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:51,840
Speaker 1: because that's what I like. I want a relationship where

1502
01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:53,639
Speaker 1: I can walk down the street holding hands with you.

1503
01:19:53,840 --> 01:19:57,679
Speaker 1: Because I'm a tactile person. I'm not gonna continue to

1504
01:19:57,720 --> 01:20:00,320
Speaker 1: try to please someone all the time and hand it

1505
01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:03,760
Speaker 1: to their culture if their culture makes them incompatible with me.

1506
01:20:03,880 --> 01:20:08,920
Speaker 1: Preach yes, And I think it's important too. You know

1507
01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:11,160
Speaker 1: you always say not you, But in general, people say,

1508
01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:14,120
Speaker 1: don't get into a relationship with the intention to change somebody,

1509
01:20:14,360 --> 01:20:16,640
Speaker 1: and also, don't change yourself too much to try and

1510
01:20:16,680 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 1: cater to a person who doesn't like you for who

1511
01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:20,400
Speaker 1: you are. Olivia. You know you call up wondering how

1512
01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:22,160
Speaker 1: to deal with this guy. Now it's all about how

1513
01:20:22,200 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 1: you deal with you. Is that exactly what you think

1514
01:20:24,960 --> 01:20:27,240
Speaker 1: you should have heard? I could. I'll be honest. There's

1515
01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:28,840
Speaker 1: a lot of people, including myself. We should all be

1516
01:20:28,880 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 1: listening to this advice. It's very good advice. What do

1517
01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:34,000
Speaker 1: you think? Yeah, I think I think all of that

1518
01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:36,559
Speaker 1: is completely true. But I think there's problem is is

1519
01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:38,840
Speaker 1: that I know that people's the same way. I can

1520
01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:41,679
Speaker 1: feel it. He just doesn't say it because he's not

1521
01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:44,600
Speaker 1: that he doesn't express his feelings verbally the way that

1522
01:20:44,680 --> 01:20:47,160
Speaker 1: I do. So it's not even so much that I'm

1523
01:20:47,200 --> 01:20:49,720
Speaker 1: trying to change him, because I know that we're on

1524
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:51,519
Speaker 1: the same page, and I feel that we're on the

1525
01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:53,240
Speaker 1: same page. I just I guess it's like I don't

1526
01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:56,040
Speaker 1: want to say it first. How long is that? How

1527
01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:59,240
Speaker 1: long are you gonna be okay with that? I don't know.

1528
01:20:59,360 --> 01:21:02,400
Speaker 1: There's time. Can you look at the calendar and tell

1529
01:21:02,439 --> 01:21:06,120
Speaker 1: me what date later this year? Are you going to say? Well? No,

1530
01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:09,240
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. But you know, I think

1531
01:21:09,280 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 1: that the advice that in the conversation you just had

1532
01:21:12,280 --> 01:21:15,599
Speaker 1: with Matthew or from him is actually very It's really

1533
01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:18,280
Speaker 1: great advice, and we want all the great things for you, Olivia.

1534
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:20,320
Speaker 1: Now you have to get off the phone and go

1535
01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:22,479
Speaker 1: figure it out for yourself. This is when the scary

1536
01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:25,400
Speaker 1: part start starts, right now ready, you can do it.

1537
01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:31,200
Speaker 1: You deserve you deserve it. Always remember that. Okay, yes,

1538
01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:33,160
Speaker 1: thank you so much. I think I was gonna say it,

1539
01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:35,760
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you Olivia there you good for you

1540
01:21:36,000 --> 01:21:39,000
Speaker 1: by something I noticed about Matthew. You don't bite your

1541
01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:45,799
Speaker 1: nails anymore. Why did you have to throw in any more?

1542
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:48,120
Speaker 1: You used to bite your nails, but now they're nice

1543
01:21:48,280 --> 01:21:52,040
Speaker 1: manicure it. Maybe it's because I'm happier. Maybe the anxiety

1544
01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:54,439
Speaker 1: is left. You figured out there's really not a lot

1545
01:21:54,479 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 1: of nutritional value and fingernails. Hey, Froggy, where's Lisa? Where's Lisa?

1546
01:22:00,439 --> 01:22:04,639
Speaker 1: I think she's at the appointment that caused said disagreement. Okay,

1547
01:22:05,200 --> 01:22:08,519
Speaker 1: what do you mean? Okay, what happened? I don't think

1548
01:22:08,560 --> 01:22:11,000
Speaker 1: Matthew should be helping a relationship when only one of

1549
01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:13,479
Speaker 1: you is here, you know, you know what, because actually

1550
01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm asking for helping this case. I'm not blaming Lisa. Okay,

1551
01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:19,000
Speaker 1: So what happened is yesterday Lisa told me she had

1552
01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:20,479
Speaker 1: a busy day today, and she did go down to

1553
01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:22,320
Speaker 1: Lissa things she had to do, and one of them

1554
01:22:22,439 --> 01:22:25,360
Speaker 1: was go to the doctor this morning. That's all I heard.

1555
01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:27,160
Speaker 1: When she was going to the doctor this morning. So

1556
01:22:27,200 --> 01:22:30,400
Speaker 1: when she woke up, I just said, hey, I know

1557
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:31,720
Speaker 1: you have a lot going on today. I know you

1558
01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:33,040
Speaker 1: got to go to the doctor. You got this that,

1559
01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:34,720
Speaker 1: And she goes, what am I going to the doctor four?

1560
01:22:36,120 --> 01:22:38,000
Speaker 1: And I didn't know. I had no idea. She did

1561
01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:40,000
Speaker 1: tell me, but I don't know. And so she's like,

1562
01:22:40,360 --> 01:22:43,040
Speaker 1: it bothers me when I tell you all the things

1563
01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:45,719
Speaker 1: I have to do that you only take bits and pieces,

1564
01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 1: And she's very right, I do. I only I took

1565
01:22:48,720 --> 01:22:51,400
Speaker 1: doctor zoom call and she had to take one of

1566
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:54,679
Speaker 1: our dogs somewhere. I'm not listening for the details. How

1567
01:22:54,720 --> 01:22:57,800
Speaker 1: can I change that to where I hear more of

1568
01:22:57,840 --> 01:23:00,080
Speaker 1: what she's saying in process that not just take the

1569
01:23:00,120 --> 01:23:04,519
Speaker 1: bits and pieces. Such a good question. And it's funny

1570
01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 1: because I'm literally looking at Audrey, who's giving me a

1571
01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 1: look right now as if to say, that's exactly you.

1572
01:23:11,520 --> 01:23:14,000
Speaker 1: It is. It's a lot of us, it's for sure.

1573
01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:17,360
Speaker 1: I think the things it brings to mind for me

1574
01:23:17,680 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 1: are when is she saying all of these things to you?

1575
01:23:21,120 --> 01:23:23,639
Speaker 1: Because I think when someone says those things to us

1576
01:23:23,640 --> 01:23:26,720
Speaker 1: and we're kind of in the middle of something, it

1577
01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:30,920
Speaker 1: we're not tuned into it. We're then multitasking and we're

1578
01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:33,600
Speaker 1: not hearing everything that they're saying, so we're not intentional

1579
01:23:33,640 --> 01:23:36,400
Speaker 1: about listening, and they've kind of chosen a random moment

1580
01:23:37,000 --> 01:23:39,760
Speaker 1: to dump all of this information on us. And then

1581
01:23:39,800 --> 01:23:42,320
Speaker 1: it's frustration that if you you know, it's almost that

1582
01:23:42,360 --> 01:23:44,439
Speaker 1: the messages, if you love me more, you would hear

1583
01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:48,720
Speaker 1: everything that I'm saying. But I think a big part

1584
01:23:48,720 --> 01:23:51,760
Speaker 1: of it is almost like a strategy thing. It's how

1585
01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:55,720
Speaker 1: can firstly, how can I show you that mine not

1586
01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 1: hearing everything you said has nothing to do with how

1587
01:23:59,320 --> 01:24:02,320
Speaker 1: much I love you? Right, we are different in that respect,

1588
01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 1: like we are. You're detail oriented in this way and

1589
01:24:05,439 --> 01:24:07,800
Speaker 1: I'm not. This is like there's a lot of information there,

1590
01:24:07,840 --> 01:24:10,800
Speaker 1: and my brain captures the important parts or what it

1591
01:24:10,800 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 1: thinks is important, and doesn't remember the rest. So I

1592
01:24:14,160 --> 01:24:19,960
Speaker 1: think undecoupling the not hearing everything from being about love

1593
01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:23,000
Speaker 1: is important. But I think then on the other side,

1594
01:24:23,600 --> 01:24:25,639
Speaker 1: it's what I try to do, and I'm not This

1595
01:24:25,720 --> 01:24:27,600
Speaker 1: is not me preaching because I'm no expert here, and

1596
01:24:27,640 --> 01:24:29,400
Speaker 1: Audrey will tell you that. But what I try to

1597
01:24:29,400 --> 01:24:33,080
Speaker 1: do is say to Audrey, like if you if I'm

1598
01:24:33,120 --> 01:24:35,280
Speaker 1: in the middle of an email or something and you

1599
01:24:35,640 --> 01:24:39,639
Speaker 1: start telling me things, I'm absolutely not going to hear

1600
01:24:39,640 --> 01:24:49,320
Speaker 1: what you have to say. Well people, but what I

1601
01:24:49,360 --> 01:24:52,920
Speaker 1: will say is if i'll almost be more intentional about

1602
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:54,519
Speaker 1: it and be like, Okay, I'm going to stop what

1603
01:24:54,560 --> 01:24:56,720
Speaker 1: I'm doing right now and listen to everything, but I'll

1604
01:24:56,760 --> 01:24:59,720
Speaker 1: also communicate to her, you know, if I'm in the

1605
01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:02,479
Speaker 1: middle of something, it like, I need to be able

1606
01:25:02,479 --> 01:25:04,519
Speaker 1: to just focus on this and then I'll sit and

1607
01:25:04,560 --> 01:25:06,680
Speaker 1: give you my full attention. So I try and just

1608
01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:10,160
Speaker 1: demarcate these things a little more. Okay. When I got

1609
01:25:10,160 --> 01:25:13,120
Speaker 1: out of that, I wasn't listening. And when I got

1610
01:25:13,120 --> 01:25:16,679
Speaker 1: out of that was truly its foundation At its core,

1611
01:25:16,720 --> 01:25:20,040
Speaker 1: it's you know, I love you, but I don't always

1612
01:25:20,120 --> 01:25:23,360
Speaker 1: hear everything you say. But I'm not saying it's not important.

1613
01:25:23,600 --> 01:25:25,680
Speaker 1: It is important. Now, what is it you want me

1614
01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:28,360
Speaker 1: to know? And start over? I think you're good? Okay?

1615
01:25:28,479 --> 01:25:31,240
Speaker 1: She you know, she puts up with a lot with you. Yeah, no, no,

1616
01:25:31,560 --> 01:25:34,479
Speaker 1: as you do with her. No no, no, Yes, you're

1617
01:25:34,479 --> 01:25:42,960
Speaker 1: a what'd you say right here? Hello Tracy? Hi, Hello lady,

1618
01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:46,040
Speaker 1: Hello lady. Last time Matthew was here, he gave advice

1619
01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:49,320
Speaker 1: on ending a relationship and you did. Are you saying

1620
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:51,000
Speaker 1: this is some of the best advice you ever received

1621
01:25:51,040 --> 01:25:54,160
Speaker 1: from Matthew Hussey? Is this true? Absolutely? Yes? It was

1622
01:25:54,200 --> 01:25:59,960
Speaker 1: definitely before before a pandemic. Is what you said about? Hello, Yeah,

1623
01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:01,920
Speaker 1: you know your phone is messed up? Okay, go ahead.

1624
01:26:03,200 --> 01:26:06,280
Speaker 1: I didn't want that to happen. Sorry. Um, So it

1625
01:26:06,400 --> 01:26:10,200
Speaker 1: was before the pandemic and the caller called in and

1626
01:26:10,240 --> 01:26:12,880
Speaker 1: they were pretty much ignoring the red flags the whole time,

1627
01:26:13,320 --> 01:26:16,120
Speaker 1: and then just the way that Matthew described it, it it

1628
01:26:16,240 --> 01:26:18,160
Speaker 1: was just another way where I was ignoring the red

1629
01:26:18,160 --> 01:26:23,160
Speaker 1: flags and my relationships and legit, that night I broke

1630
01:26:23,160 --> 01:26:26,599
Speaker 1: it up with my boyfriend and it was the best advice. Yeah,

1631
01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:29,639
Speaker 1: there was sad, sad moments, but it was it was great.

1632
01:26:29,680 --> 01:26:31,879
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know how to explain Matthews

1633
01:26:32,320 --> 01:26:37,400
Speaker 1: breaking up relationships. Look at you breaking a relationship as

1634
01:26:37,439 --> 01:26:41,080
Speaker 1: happy when that happens as I am when someone finds

1635
01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:42,800
Speaker 1: love as a result of what I do, because that's

1636
01:26:42,840 --> 01:26:45,640
Speaker 1: it can be genuinely life saving. When someone leaves the

1637
01:26:45,640 --> 01:26:48,519
Speaker 1: wrong relationship, you've got your time back, and that's the

1638
01:26:48,600 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 1: thing you can never get back. So the tracy, what

1639
01:26:52,360 --> 01:26:54,600
Speaker 1: was the red flag that you could have ignored, but

1640
01:26:54,640 --> 01:26:58,519
Speaker 1: at that point stopped ignoring. Well, we were both you

1641
01:26:58,520 --> 01:27:00,519
Speaker 1: could I could tell he was unhappy and that was

1642
01:27:00,600 --> 01:27:03,920
Speaker 1: making me sad and unhappy. But I don't know, I

1643
01:27:03,960 --> 01:27:07,160
Speaker 1: just didn't want to like lose that connection. So that's

1644
01:27:07,160 --> 01:27:09,880
Speaker 1: where I just kept ignoring that he wasn't truly happy.

1645
01:27:10,280 --> 01:27:11,880
Speaker 1: And then finally I was like, you know what, you

1646
01:27:11,880 --> 01:27:14,559
Speaker 1: want to leave Wisconsin. Sorry, it's a fun state, but

1647
01:27:14,600 --> 01:27:17,479
Speaker 1: it's not fun for some people. And I was like,

1648
01:27:17,560 --> 01:27:19,920
Speaker 1: you can leave, this is really what you want. And

1649
01:27:19,960 --> 01:27:21,400
Speaker 1: he thought about it and was like, you know what,

1650
01:27:21,520 --> 01:27:23,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm moving and I just don't want to live

1651
01:27:23,960 --> 01:27:26,439
Speaker 1: here anymore. And that's where we ended the relationships and

1652
01:27:26,720 --> 01:27:29,439
Speaker 1: that's how it ended. And we were together for five years.

1653
01:27:29,720 --> 01:27:32,519
Speaker 1: So what a great moment that was for you and

1654
01:27:32,600 --> 01:27:35,759
Speaker 1: for him, and let's be honest, good for you, Tracy.

1655
01:27:35,880 --> 01:27:38,920
Speaker 1: So where are you now? Thank you in Wisconsin of course,

1656
01:27:38,960 --> 01:27:41,040
Speaker 1: But other than that, where are you? As for as

1657
01:27:41,080 --> 01:27:44,240
Speaker 1: relationships go or does it matter. I am in a

1658
01:27:44,280 --> 01:27:47,800
Speaker 1: new relationship. We've been together for two a little over

1659
01:27:47,800 --> 01:27:51,839
Speaker 1: two years, and it's a long distance relationship where he's

1660
01:27:51,840 --> 01:27:54,240
Speaker 1: been failing over the border. But I'm still Misconsin, and

1661
01:27:54,240 --> 01:27:56,519
Speaker 1: we see each other in person one or two times

1662
01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:59,639
Speaker 1: a week, depending on our kids' schedule, but otherwise we

1663
01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:02,000
Speaker 1: talk every day and FaceTime. We make it work and

1664
01:28:02,040 --> 01:28:04,080
Speaker 1: we're book actually really happy. Good for you. By the way,

1665
01:28:04,080 --> 01:28:07,240
Speaker 1: Wisconsin's is called and their new state motto is Wisconsin

1666
01:28:07,400 --> 01:28:14,800
Speaker 1: fun for some people. Tracy, It's an honor to speak

1667
01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:17,400
Speaker 1: with you, and thank you. Thank you for doing the

1668
01:28:17,439 --> 01:28:20,240
Speaker 1: reach around with Matthew. All right, thanks, what have you

1669
01:28:20,240 --> 01:28:21,879
Speaker 1: on the phone. I'll be in New York in April.

1670
01:28:22,240 --> 01:28:25,439
Speaker 1: Any fun restaurants to go to. I'm kind of like

1671
01:28:25,439 --> 01:28:30,160
Speaker 1: book Carmines or no, no, no, of course New York

1672
01:28:29,960 --> 01:28:32,360
Speaker 1: our city motto of New York where there are really

1673
01:28:32,360 --> 01:28:35,960
Speaker 1: no fun restaurants. Carmines is great. Go to Carmines. Promised

1674
01:28:36,000 --> 01:28:39,200
Speaker 1: me you will, okay, okay, thank Tracy. It's an honor

1675
01:28:39,240 --> 01:28:41,479
Speaker 1: to talk to you. There you go, by the way. Uh.

1676
01:28:41,760 --> 01:28:45,479
Speaker 1: February fifteenth, the day after Valentine's Day, What an appropriate

1677
01:28:45,560 --> 01:28:48,679
Speaker 1: day for Matthew to do this live training called dating

1678
01:28:48,680 --> 01:28:51,960
Speaker 1: with the results finding Love In twenty twenty three, the

1679
01:28:52,080 --> 01:28:58,000
Speaker 1: day after Valentine's Day, people will be crying at you, Matthews. Yeah,

1680
01:28:58,040 --> 01:29:02,280
Speaker 1: but it's free, did you? It is true, it's complimentary.

1681
01:29:02,640 --> 01:29:06,200
Speaker 1: The word free is cheap and tawdry. If you go

1682
01:29:06,240 --> 01:29:09,680
Speaker 1: to Dating with the Results dot com. That's Dating with

1683
01:29:09,840 --> 01:29:12,479
Speaker 1: Results dot com. Sign it up and you can get

1684
01:29:12,600 --> 01:29:16,599
Speaker 1: ninety minutes of this big hunk of man right here.

1685
01:29:17,280 --> 01:29:23,680
Speaker 1: Matthew Hussey, one more call and then all our lives. Hello, Jen, Hi,

1686
01:29:23,840 --> 01:29:26,280
Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the show. You're you're in the

1687
01:29:26,280 --> 01:29:28,679
Speaker 1: hot seat. Only ten and a half million people listening,

1688
01:29:28,720 --> 01:29:31,760
Speaker 1: So let's get to it. Uh, J. I don't know

1689
01:29:31,760 --> 01:29:34,719
Speaker 1: why I said that. Jen's currently in a relationship. Hi. However,

1690
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:38,480
Speaker 1: early on in the relationship, your partner was deceitful, disrespectful,

1691
01:29:38,520 --> 01:29:41,840
Speaker 1: and inappropriate and he was quite a turd. Uh. But

1692
01:29:41,920 --> 01:29:44,800
Speaker 1: you went to counseling, but things don't seem to be improving.

1693
01:29:45,000 --> 01:29:50,040
Speaker 1: This is how many years in. We're about two and

1694
01:29:50,120 --> 01:29:52,800
Speaker 1: a half years in, quite a long time. You don't

1695
01:29:52,800 --> 01:29:57,840
Speaker 1: trust him, I don't. I don't know. I'm going to

1696
01:29:57,920 --> 01:30:05,840
Speaker 1: say genuinely, no, we don't need Matthew for this. Yeah. Well,

1697
01:30:06,040 --> 01:30:08,439
Speaker 1: but something's keeping you in and that's what you need

1698
01:30:08,479 --> 01:30:10,840
Speaker 1: to kind of uncover. What do you think, Matthew? Well, Jen,

1699
01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:16,639
Speaker 1: if you're honest with yourself objectively. Have the things that

1700
01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:19,679
Speaker 1: bothered you at that time, the traits that you saw

1701
01:30:19,800 --> 01:30:24,000
Speaker 1: in him that you didn't like, that were disrespectful, deceitful.

1702
01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:28,760
Speaker 1: Has that genuinely changed or was there just a kind

1703
01:30:28,800 --> 01:30:31,040
Speaker 1: of he was well behaved for a bit and now

1704
01:30:31,040 --> 01:30:33,520
Speaker 1: you're starting to see some of those things re emerging.

1705
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:38,519
Speaker 1: Has there been a permanent change in the relationship. Yeah,

1706
01:30:38,760 --> 01:30:42,160
Speaker 1: it'll it'll be good for a while, and then it

1707
01:30:42,360 --> 01:30:45,200
Speaker 1: was that's a problem. That's the problem. Yeah, because you're

1708
01:30:45,800 --> 01:30:50,560
Speaker 1: after you've been betrayed. The thing that has to change

1709
01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:54,719
Speaker 1: is the traits and the You have to really believe

1710
01:30:55,240 --> 01:30:58,160
Speaker 1: that someone has had a shift in the way that

1711
01:30:58,200 --> 01:31:01,280
Speaker 1: they think and behave in the relationship ship, and that

1712
01:31:01,320 --> 01:31:04,160
Speaker 1: has to be something that is a permanent one. If

1713
01:31:04,200 --> 01:31:06,840
Speaker 1: you see it oscillating and you're like, well this he

1714
01:31:06,920 --> 01:31:09,800
Speaker 1: keeps going back to the same traits, then he hasn't.

1715
01:31:09,880 --> 01:31:12,280
Speaker 1: He's only changed to get his needs met. He hasn't

1716
01:31:12,360 --> 01:31:15,799
Speaker 1: changed because he genuinely believes in the changes he's making.

1717
01:31:16,400 --> 01:31:19,000
Speaker 1: You can't if he's just changing that stuff to please

1718
01:31:19,080 --> 01:31:22,040
Speaker 1: you instead of realizing, oh, I don't like the person

1719
01:31:22,120 --> 01:31:24,640
Speaker 1: I was then, and I'm genuinely going to do the

1720
01:31:24,680 --> 01:31:27,000
Speaker 1: work to change those things, whether it's with a therapist,

1721
01:31:27,000 --> 01:31:29,840
Speaker 1: a coach, or by myself. I'm going to do that work, which,

1722
01:31:29,840 --> 01:31:34,040
Speaker 1: by the way, is really really hard work to do changes.

1723
01:31:34,080 --> 01:31:38,320
Speaker 1: So there's a great quote by Jacob Abroad that's consider

1724
01:31:38,360 --> 01:31:41,799
Speaker 1: how hard it is to change yourself, and you'll realize

1725
01:31:41,800 --> 01:31:45,040
Speaker 1: how foolish it is to think you can change somebody else.

1726
01:31:45,560 --> 01:31:48,360
Speaker 1: Even everyone woke up on January first, I would say

1727
01:31:48,400 --> 01:31:50,519
Speaker 1: ninety percent of people woke up thinking I want to

1728
01:31:50,600 --> 01:31:53,720
Speaker 1: change something about my body. I want to go to

1729
01:31:53,800 --> 01:31:57,000
Speaker 1: a gym or train or do something. And those are

1730
01:31:57,000 --> 01:32:00,680
Speaker 1: people who are really motivated to do it. Whatcentage of

1731
01:32:00,720 --> 01:32:05,920
Speaker 1: those ninety percent are still doing it now in February

1732
01:32:06,479 --> 01:32:09,400
Speaker 1: very few. And those are people who want to change.

1733
01:32:09,720 --> 01:32:13,720
Speaker 1: So when you now take a guy who's deceitful or inappropriate,

1734
01:32:14,479 --> 01:32:18,920
Speaker 1: if he hasn't fundamentally decided he wants to change, then

1735
01:32:18,960 --> 01:32:21,439
Speaker 1: he's never going to change. It won't be because you

1736
01:32:21,479 --> 01:32:25,080
Speaker 1: want him to. If he changes periodically, it's because he's

1737
01:32:25,120 --> 01:32:27,680
Speaker 1: not getting his needs met in the moments where you

1738
01:32:27,720 --> 01:32:30,439
Speaker 1: don't trust him, and he knows by temporarily making you

1739
01:32:30,479 --> 01:32:32,920
Speaker 1: trust him again, he's getting his needs met. Again, and

1740
01:32:32,960 --> 01:32:35,920
Speaker 1: then when you quiet down, so that the changes he

1741
01:32:36,040 --> 01:32:39,080
Speaker 1: made revert back to his default. So this is no

1742
01:32:39,120 --> 01:32:41,640
Speaker 1: longer about him. This is about Jen. Yeah, this is

1743
01:32:41,680 --> 01:32:44,040
Speaker 1: about you now. Once her guard's not up anymore, he

1744
01:32:44,320 --> 01:32:47,080
Speaker 1: reverts right back to his own ways. Does that bother

1745
01:32:47,120 --> 01:32:49,800
Speaker 1: you to hear that? In my opinion anyway, and by

1746
01:32:50,280 --> 01:32:54,080
Speaker 1: means a professional, it's all about you now. Do you

1747
01:32:54,439 --> 01:32:57,920
Speaker 1: do realize that? Yeah? Absolutely, And that makes a lot

1748
01:32:57,960 --> 01:33:01,439
Speaker 1: of sense because I think I was really trying, you know,

1749
01:33:01,479 --> 01:33:03,880
Speaker 1: I tried for a while, and like I said, we

1750
01:33:03,920 --> 01:33:07,960
Speaker 1: did go to therapy and the therapist actually terminated the

1751
01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:11,639
Speaker 1: sessions herself because she said, this is not going anywhere.

1752
01:33:13,160 --> 01:33:16,920
Speaker 1: So even yeah, even that spoke volumes. But no, I

1753
01:33:16,960 --> 01:33:20,680
Speaker 1: appreciate you, you you know, walking me through that, and it's

1754
01:33:20,680 --> 01:33:24,120
Speaker 1: good to hear it from someone else's perspective. Yeah, I

1755
01:33:24,120 --> 01:33:27,840
Speaker 1: think I think you already know the answer. And when

1756
01:33:27,880 --> 01:33:33,479
Speaker 1: someone you're paying to help you stops wanting your money,

1757
01:33:33,080 --> 01:33:35,600
Speaker 1: that's a that's a fairly sure sign that they have

1758
01:33:35,840 --> 01:33:40,080
Speaker 1: decided there's something really wrong about that situation. Hey, you

1759
01:33:40,120 --> 01:33:42,040
Speaker 1: know what I want you to think about as we

1760
01:33:42,320 --> 01:33:44,960
Speaker 1: roll on, is I want you to look yourself in

1761
01:33:45,000 --> 01:33:47,360
Speaker 1: the mirror and start smiling and thinking about that moment

1762
01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:48,960
Speaker 1: that you're going to be totally free from this and

1763
01:33:49,000 --> 01:33:51,320
Speaker 1: you're free to fly anywhere you want, hang out with

1764
01:33:51,320 --> 01:33:53,559
Speaker 1: anyone you want, make any decisions you want to make.

1765
01:33:53,720 --> 01:33:55,599
Speaker 1: You don't have to worry about someone else. It's all

1766
01:33:55,600 --> 01:33:58,479
Speaker 1: about you. And then when you can get to that place,

1767
01:33:58,600 --> 01:34:01,720
Speaker 1: then you're free to go find that find remarkable love

1768
01:34:01,880 --> 01:34:04,479
Speaker 1: that's so true, and Jen, that the feeling I want

1769
01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:08,120
Speaker 1: you to remember if and when this ends, I want

1770
01:34:08,160 --> 01:34:10,760
Speaker 1: you to that. I want you to connect to the

1771
01:34:10,800 --> 01:34:12,840
Speaker 1: peace you're going to feel, because you're going to feel

1772
01:34:12,840 --> 01:34:15,920
Speaker 1: heartbroken on some level and you're going to grieve the relationship.

1773
01:34:16,360 --> 01:34:19,120
Speaker 1: But what you will have in your life that you'll

1774
01:34:19,160 --> 01:34:22,000
Speaker 1: initially won't connect with because you'll be too much in pain,

1775
01:34:22,520 --> 01:34:25,000
Speaker 1: is that actually, what you've got now is a real

1776
01:34:25,120 --> 01:34:27,840
Speaker 1: state of peace because you're no longer waking up every

1777
01:34:27,920 --> 01:34:30,680
Speaker 1: day with that anxiety or that fear that the other

1778
01:34:30,680 --> 01:34:32,920
Speaker 1: shoe is about to drop. And when you connect to

1779
01:34:32,960 --> 01:34:37,120
Speaker 1: how good that piece feels, that's a beautiful place to be. Jen,

1780
01:34:37,200 --> 01:34:38,720
Speaker 1: thanks for your cold best of luck to you, and

1781
01:34:38,720 --> 01:34:41,360
Speaker 1: thanks for listening to us. Thank you so much. I

1782
01:34:41,400 --> 01:34:46,519
Speaker 1: love you. Guys. Thank you, No, thank you God, I

1783
01:34:46,600 --> 01:34:48,519
Speaker 1: wish I had that. I'm gonna go m divorce, Alex.

1784
01:34:50,320 --> 01:34:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm kind of I'm excited about that moment I'm free.

1785
01:34:54,960 --> 01:34:57,759
Speaker 1: You've talked me into leaving my marriage. You're the best.

1786
01:34:57,800 --> 01:35:01,040
Speaker 1: Oh boy, I just hope I haven't talked Audrey into leaving.

1787
01:35:03,400 --> 01:35:05,559
Speaker 1: I'm sure once Audrey met her, she's pretty much done

1788
01:35:05,560 --> 01:35:12,400
Speaker 1: with you. Hey. Um, it's so great to see you again.

1789
01:35:14,320 --> 01:35:16,840
Speaker 1: I'll leave it at that. A free ninety minute live

1790
01:35:16,880 --> 01:35:21,000
Speaker 1: training with dating. It's called Dating with Results. It's February fifteenth,

1791
01:35:21,000 --> 01:35:24,760
Speaker 1: the day after Valentine's Day. Finding love is a very

1792
01:35:24,840 --> 01:35:29,000
Speaker 1: very interesting, interesting challenge. If you're second part of dating,

1793
01:35:29,000 --> 01:35:31,160
Speaker 1: maybe you need a perspective from someone like our friend

1794
01:35:31,479 --> 01:35:33,840
Speaker 1: Matthew Hussey. You can register now for free at Dating

1795
01:35:33,840 --> 01:35:36,760
Speaker 1: with Results dot com. It's so good to see you,

1796
01:35:36,880 --> 01:35:39,400
Speaker 1: my friend. Thank you for having me. It's genuinely beautiful

1797
01:35:39,439 --> 01:35:42,559
Speaker 1: to see all of you. There you go. I think

1798
01:35:42,600 --> 01:35:44,519
Speaker 1: I may go on the back and play with myself.

1799
01:35:51,840 --> 01:35:54,320
Speaker 1: Matthew Hussey. Just do as search. You'll learn much more

1800
01:35:54,360 --> 01:35:56,280
Speaker 1: about him. We gotta take the break back after this.

1801
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:03,639
Speaker 1: This is Brianna. Hey, this is lady Gaga. You're listening

1802
01:36:03,680 --> 01:36:07,960
Speaker 1: to Elvis duran and the Morning Show. Wow, great time

1803
01:36:08,120 --> 01:36:13,400
Speaker 1: with Matthew Hussey. What do you think I love? Yeah,

1804
01:36:13,560 --> 01:36:16,120
Speaker 1: so cute. Something you did not see was his fiance

1805
01:36:16,720 --> 01:36:23,040
Speaker 1: was in the room with us and she's lovely, lovely anyway. Hey,

1806
01:36:23,120 --> 01:36:25,880
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1807
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1811
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Speaker 1: dot Com. Sign up. We'll see you in My Orca, Spain.

1814
01:36:48,120 --> 01:36:56,880
Speaker 1: It'll be beautiful show. You gotta get into some sound

1815
01:36:56,920 --> 01:37:01,280
Speaker 1: with Gardener is down there. High Garrett, Good morning, good morning,

1816
01:37:01,640 --> 01:37:09,840
Speaker 1: great time with Matthew on what's that? That's right? He

1817
01:37:09,840 --> 01:37:15,160
Speaker 1: has another job, fries her up insolent eye? Really is

1818
01:37:15,200 --> 01:37:17,040
Speaker 1: that what that means? Yeah? I'm kind of like iron Man.

1819
01:37:17,080 --> 01:37:18,599
Speaker 1: I have a little patch on and so then it's

1820
01:37:18,640 --> 01:37:20,960
Speaker 1: connected to my phone. So when my blood sugar starts

1821
01:37:20,960 --> 01:37:24,639
Speaker 1: to go up, So what causes that? Uh, anything from

1822
01:37:24,760 --> 01:37:29,360
Speaker 1: tiredness to stress to whatever. So food right, yeah, so

1823
01:37:29,439 --> 01:37:31,479
Speaker 1: now I just do that. All good? So now what

1824
01:37:31,520 --> 01:37:33,240
Speaker 1: do we do to fix it? Nothing? I got it.

1825
01:37:33,200 --> 01:37:35,640
Speaker 1: It's all under control. You want to donut? No, No,

1826
01:37:35,640 --> 01:37:38,599
Speaker 1: that's I don't need that. No, we got donuts, all right? Sound, yes,

1827
01:37:38,800 --> 01:37:40,599
Speaker 1: let's see what you got. What's all right? So here's

1828
01:37:40,600 --> 01:37:43,280
Speaker 1: the interesting thing about Lebron James breaking the scoring record.

1829
01:37:43,320 --> 01:37:45,479
Speaker 1: We're gonna hear the sound. You got to see the

1830
01:37:45,520 --> 01:37:49,120
Speaker 1: picture later on. Everyone at the game had their phones out.

1831
01:37:49,160 --> 01:37:51,479
Speaker 1: There was not one person that had their phone down

1832
01:37:51,520 --> 01:37:53,799
Speaker 1: watching them. Why they all had a high blood sugar?

1833
01:37:53,960 --> 01:37:56,960
Speaker 1: Oh yes they did. Probably it's all going off. But

1834
01:37:56,960 --> 01:37:58,559
Speaker 1: this is what it sounded like when he broke the record.

1835
01:37:58,880 --> 01:38:03,080
Speaker 1: Looking for James, He's got it, Lebron James a shot

1836
01:38:03,080 --> 01:38:11,280
Speaker 1: at history. So if you see the photo later on,

1837
01:38:11,320 --> 01:38:13,760
Speaker 1: you'll see everyone has their phone out there. They're they're

1838
01:38:13,800 --> 01:38:16,559
Speaker 1: at they're at a history record breaking game and they're

1839
01:38:16,600 --> 01:38:20,160
Speaker 1: watching it through their phone phones. All right, So have

1840
01:38:20,280 --> 01:38:23,559
Speaker 1: you ever been overcharged when you get a coffee? Probably

1841
01:38:23,560 --> 01:38:25,840
Speaker 1: a copy of Single Time Couple of Bucks. Right, listen

1842
01:38:25,840 --> 01:38:28,280
Speaker 1: to how much this guy got charged at Starbucks. It

1843
01:38:28,400 --> 01:38:31,160
Speaker 1: was four thousand, four hundred and forty four dollars and

1844
01:38:31,360 --> 01:38:34,280
Speaker 1: forty four cents. This is a real shock. We contacted

1845
01:38:34,320 --> 01:38:38,160
Speaker 1: their customer service helpline probably thirty forty times that day.

1846
01:38:38,360 --> 01:38:40,760
Speaker 1: They assured us that they are sending new checks, but

1847
01:38:40,880 --> 01:38:45,479
Speaker 1: as of today, we still have not fully finished the situation.

1848
01:38:45,520 --> 01:38:48,280
Speaker 1: We still haven't received checks. Yeah, coffees, it's you know,

1849
01:38:48,320 --> 01:38:50,519
Speaker 1: it's gone up. He had to cancel his vacation because

1850
01:38:50,520 --> 01:38:55,080
Speaker 1: the checks bounce because Starbucks got stuckops. All right, So

1851
01:38:55,200 --> 01:38:57,280
Speaker 1: here are the vocals yesterday, Elvis, you love so much

1852
01:38:57,320 --> 01:38:59,880
Speaker 1: from Big Time Rush, first performance ever in our new studio,

1853
01:39:00,120 --> 01:39:10,280
Speaker 1: and this is what the vocals sounded like. It was

1854
01:39:10,320 --> 01:39:14,240
Speaker 1: great having them here. Yeah, in their vocals, our first

1855
01:39:14,240 --> 01:39:16,360
Speaker 1: performance at our studio. That was really good. All right,

1856
01:39:16,760 --> 01:39:18,840
Speaker 1: So let's talk about Aaron Rodgers. So he is the

1857
01:39:19,280 --> 01:39:21,599
Speaker 1: quarterback for the Green Bay Packers for now, and how

1858
01:39:21,680 --> 01:39:23,799
Speaker 1: is he going to think about coming back to the Packers.

1859
01:39:23,960 --> 01:39:27,000
Speaker 1: He's going on a darkness retreat. It's four nights of

1860
01:39:27,040 --> 01:39:30,960
Speaker 1: complete darkness. It's a darkness retreat. I've had a number

1861
01:39:30,960 --> 01:39:33,880
Speaker 1: of friends who've done it and had some profound experiences,

1862
01:39:33,920 --> 01:39:35,760
Speaker 1: and it's something that's been on my radar for a

1863
01:39:35,760 --> 01:39:37,679
Speaker 1: few years now, and I felt like it'ld be awesome

1864
01:39:37,720 --> 01:39:40,479
Speaker 1: to do regardless of Wow, okay, darkness, yeah, darkness. And

1865
01:39:40,520 --> 01:39:42,880
Speaker 1: then finally, so Juju Smith. He plays for the Kansas

1866
01:39:42,920 --> 01:39:45,519
Speaker 1: City Chiefs. See, he made fun of the chief stakes

1867
01:39:45,720 --> 01:39:49,519
Speaker 1: in Philadelphia, so in return, the Eagles fans have found

1868
01:39:49,520 --> 01:39:53,880
Speaker 1: that Patrick Mahomes has a weird laugh. Yeah, it's unique,

1869
01:39:53,880 --> 01:39:55,920
Speaker 1: and so maybe I'll get like a deal from that

1870
01:39:56,120 --> 01:40:01,719
Speaker 1: having that unique voice, that's his voice, that's his voice

1871
01:40:01,720 --> 01:40:04,800
Speaker 1: and laugh it's unique. So maybe I'll get like a

1872
01:40:04,840 --> 01:40:11,880
Speaker 1: deal from that and having that unique voice that totally

1873
01:40:11,960 --> 01:40:13,920
Speaker 1: changed the way I think about Patrick mah Yeah. Right,

1874
01:40:13,920 --> 01:40:20,800
Speaker 1: you're a good American. Thank you you are. What the

1875
01:40:20,840 --> 01:40:23,080
Speaker 1: hell do we do for a living hell? Mister Ran

1876
01:40:23,280 --> 01:40:32,040
Speaker 1: in the Morning show, Mister Ran in the Morning Show. Hey, um,

1877
01:40:32,240 --> 01:40:37,280
Speaker 1: not that it matters? Okay, Okay, well it does. I

1878
01:40:37,360 --> 01:40:39,479
Speaker 1: will make it matter. Okay, Okay, you know us we

1879
01:40:39,520 --> 01:40:41,400
Speaker 1: can take anything that doesn't matter and make it matter.

1880
01:40:41,560 --> 01:40:46,439
Speaker 1: Today is a National kite flying Day. Okay, well yeah,

1881
01:40:46,439 --> 01:40:48,559
Speaker 1: I love it, well know, but my point is, like

1882
01:40:49,479 --> 01:40:54,080
Speaker 1: someone's listening to the show right now, going okay, and hey, question,

1883
01:40:54,520 --> 01:40:57,439
Speaker 1: when's the last time you flew a kite in my

1884
01:40:57,479 --> 01:41:02,400
Speaker 1: adult life? Never? I probably this summer or this past spring.

1885
01:41:02,479 --> 01:41:04,679
Speaker 1: My kids and I love it. We have this big

1886
01:41:04,720 --> 01:41:08,880
Speaker 1: eagle kite and it is perfect. You have you don't

1887
01:41:08,920 --> 01:41:10,599
Speaker 1: throw your kites away when you're done with them because

1888
01:41:10,600 --> 01:41:12,720
Speaker 1: I always crash them. What no, no, no, this is

1889
01:41:12,720 --> 01:41:14,400
Speaker 1: a good with me. With me, All kites are just

1890
01:41:14,400 --> 01:41:17,880
Speaker 1: supposed to they get wrapped around them. Kite flying is

1891
01:41:17,960 --> 01:41:20,360
Speaker 1: huge in Indian and it gets really competitive. They'll line

1892
01:41:20,439 --> 01:41:23,800
Speaker 1: the like string up to the top with glass, yes,

1893
01:41:24,160 --> 01:41:26,040
Speaker 1: and they cut each other's lines so that your kite

1894
01:41:26,120 --> 01:41:29,200
Speaker 1: close away. Oh my god, competition that it takes away

1895
01:41:29,240 --> 01:41:32,400
Speaker 1: the fun more fun. It isn't feeling of freedom though,

1896
01:41:32,800 --> 01:41:34,479
Speaker 1: Like when you see it up there just kind of

1897
01:41:34,479 --> 01:41:36,439
Speaker 1: flapping its wings and doing its thing and then it

1898
01:41:36,520 --> 01:41:39,120
Speaker 1: just kind of goes. It's it's a It is a

1899
01:41:39,120 --> 01:41:43,800
Speaker 1: cool feeling. It makes me want to talk about fun. Fun.

1900
01:41:43,920 --> 01:41:46,200
Speaker 1: We need to have more fun, go to the park,

1901
01:41:46,640 --> 01:41:48,880
Speaker 1: hop scotch. We need hop scotch. We need to go

1902
01:41:48,960 --> 01:41:51,519
Speaker 1: dancing as a show together. We need to go out

1903
01:41:51,520 --> 01:41:53,840
Speaker 1: one night, get hammered and watch Nate dance like Ellen,

1904
01:41:55,280 --> 01:41:58,040
Speaker 1: what's your questions? So is there a certain technique or

1905
01:41:58,080 --> 01:42:01,040
Speaker 1: a skill to kaie flying? But yes, you have to run. Okay,

1906
01:42:01,080 --> 01:42:02,720
Speaker 1: that's the trouble because every time I try and I

1907
01:42:02,720 --> 01:42:04,679
Speaker 1: just couldn't get it up in the sky. You can't

1908
01:42:04,680 --> 01:42:06,800
Speaker 1: just throw it as this skite it takes off. I mean,

1909
01:42:06,800 --> 01:42:08,479
Speaker 1: it's gotta be a very windy day to do that.

1910
01:42:08,600 --> 01:42:11,599
Speaker 1: I tried running it doesn't go off the ground. Well, yes,

1911
01:42:13,640 --> 01:42:16,160
Speaker 1: and you have to run faster than you're probably running. Problem,

1912
01:42:16,200 --> 01:42:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm just making an assumption. Did you know that even

1913
01:42:18,439 --> 01:42:22,000
Speaker 1: my sister law Robin, had my son Preston come and

1914
01:42:22,040 --> 01:42:24,760
Speaker 1: teach her daughter Ella how to fly a kite. So

1915
01:42:24,760 --> 01:42:26,719
Speaker 1: we bought her a little kite. We went to the park,

1916
01:42:26,720 --> 01:42:28,120
Speaker 1: he taught her how to fly the kite. It was.

1917
01:42:28,360 --> 01:42:30,760
Speaker 1: It was a special cousin moment. That's fun. There's an

1918
01:42:30,760 --> 01:42:41,360
Speaker 1: old song let's go fly a kite up something. But anyway, no,

1919
01:42:41,479 --> 01:42:45,360
Speaker 1: we we as adults don't play enough. We don't dance enough,

1920
01:42:45,439 --> 01:42:48,639
Speaker 1: we don't fly kites as often as we should. These

1921
01:42:48,640 --> 01:42:54,080
Speaker 1: are the distractions in life we somehow forget to appreciate

1922
01:42:54,320 --> 01:42:57,200
Speaker 1: when we're old and falling apart. And you can't do

1923
01:42:57,240 --> 01:42:59,160
Speaker 1: that if you're gonna fall apart and fall apart while

1924
01:42:59,160 --> 01:43:01,080
Speaker 1: you're flying a kite or do seem like Ellen DeGeneres.

1925
01:43:02,640 --> 01:43:06,000
Speaker 1: I got moves man. Okay, thanks. I think that's my

1926
01:43:06,080 --> 01:43:09,519
Speaker 1: love language playing playing. Yeah, I enjoy playing. I need

1927
01:43:09,560 --> 01:43:11,760
Speaker 1: other people to play with me. If I'm playing with you,

1928
01:43:11,880 --> 01:43:14,800
Speaker 1: it means I love you. That's that's the way I play.

1929
01:43:14,880 --> 01:43:16,920
Speaker 1: I love playing. Playing is fun, and we don't do

1930
01:43:16,960 --> 01:43:20,280
Speaker 1: it enough. No, what pull someone's hair today? I'm gonna

1931
01:43:20,280 --> 01:43:23,240
Speaker 1: pull someone's hair. Oh, I got in trouble for that

1932
01:43:23,280 --> 01:43:26,240
Speaker 1: in kindergarten. Oh I'm trying to I'm trying to talk

1933
01:43:26,240 --> 01:43:29,719
Speaker 1: to uh, Diamond, but the diamond button isn't working. What happened?

1934
01:43:29,800 --> 01:43:33,800
Speaker 1: Why is that not working? We'll move it back. I

1935
01:43:34,439 --> 01:43:38,479
Speaker 1: got you. We know you. Obviously you don't. I'm not

1936
01:43:38,479 --> 01:43:44,400
Speaker 1: playing Diamond. Hi? Hi? What's up? Um? When you? If

1937
01:43:44,439 --> 01:43:46,840
Speaker 1: I said I want you to go outside and play

1938
01:43:47,640 --> 01:43:49,760
Speaker 1: right now, what would you do? As an adult? What

1939
01:43:49,800 --> 01:43:53,880
Speaker 1: would you decide to do to play? Probably just skip

1940
01:43:54,040 --> 01:43:58,160
Speaker 1: through the streets of Manhattan, make like silly faces and

1941
01:43:58,240 --> 01:44:01,439
Speaker 1: other people's you know directions. Okay, who pays attention and

1942
01:44:01,479 --> 01:44:03,280
Speaker 1: who doesn't you know, just laugh. You can get away

1943
01:44:03,280 --> 01:44:05,920
Speaker 1: with a lot of that in New York City. No, seriously,

1944
01:44:05,960 --> 01:44:08,240
Speaker 1: we need to play more. Let's go for a run

1945
01:44:08,280 --> 01:44:14,519
Speaker 1: around the block, but like run it through the streets.

1946
01:44:16,040 --> 01:44:19,280
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. We should be playing more. I

1947
01:44:19,320 --> 01:44:21,400
Speaker 1: think we have a pretty playful bunch here. We do.

1948
01:44:21,479 --> 01:44:23,639
Speaker 1: We all try to scare each other. We will tackle

1949
01:44:23,680 --> 01:44:26,559
Speaker 1: each other, hide each other's stuff, pull each other's hair. Yes,

1950
01:44:26,680 --> 01:44:29,040
Speaker 1: you know it's great. I like it a diamond. She

1951
01:44:29,240 --> 01:44:31,120
Speaker 1: you looked at me like I was from another planet

1952
01:44:31,160 --> 01:44:34,280
Speaker 1: a few minutes ago. Because you know, every every morning,

1953
01:44:34,280 --> 01:44:39,880
Speaker 1: at this time, Andrew gives me the d oh vitamin D.

1954
01:44:40,560 --> 01:44:43,519
Speaker 1: I was told I am I am, I am vitamin

1955
01:44:43,600 --> 01:44:46,599
Speaker 1: D deficient. So every time, every day, at this time

1956
01:44:46,640 --> 01:44:49,479
Speaker 1: he hands me to D. So right in front of diamond,

1957
01:44:49,479 --> 01:44:50,920
Speaker 1: I'd take it, put in my mouth, this wallow it.

1958
01:44:50,920 --> 01:44:54,080
Speaker 1: And she looked at me like I was an alien. Yeah, okay, wine,

1959
01:44:54,120 --> 01:44:56,679
Speaker 1: where's the water? You know you need something to wash

1960
01:44:56,720 --> 01:44:58,559
Speaker 1: it down with. Oh no, I'm the same as you. Don't.

1961
01:44:58,680 --> 01:45:02,000
Speaker 1: It's not gund water. No for a pill? No, No,

1962
01:45:02,680 --> 01:45:05,040
Speaker 1: I don't not good. You can choke and it's and

1963
01:45:05,080 --> 01:45:06,880
Speaker 1: I get My husband yells at me all the time.

1964
01:45:07,120 --> 01:45:09,040
Speaker 1: Don't do it. You can choke you. Well, your husband

1965
01:45:09,080 --> 01:45:12,679
Speaker 1: should know. Gandhi and I don't have a gag reflects. Well, wow,

1966
01:45:16,680 --> 01:45:23,400
Speaker 1: I mean gag reflexes amateur children for children. That's gross.

1967
01:45:24,800 --> 01:45:28,160
Speaker 1: You're right, nasty. I think even my cat a pill

1968
01:45:28,240 --> 01:45:30,880
Speaker 1: every day, like for his allergy stuff. But it's a

1969
01:45:30,920 --> 01:45:33,280
Speaker 1: pretty big pill. And I have to like massage his

1970
01:45:33,320 --> 01:45:35,479
Speaker 1: throat and get it down, and he takes it without water,

1971
01:45:35,520 --> 01:45:37,240
Speaker 1: and I always think I'm going to choke him to death.

1972
01:45:37,800 --> 01:45:40,080
Speaker 1: How do they do that? Well, you know what. Our

1973
01:45:40,680 --> 01:45:44,519
Speaker 1: system was made to swallow things. What do you want there, Nate,

1974
01:45:44,520 --> 01:45:47,000
Speaker 1: You want to say something. It's past, We're past the point. Well,

1975
01:45:47,000 --> 01:45:53,160
Speaker 1: what was it? We don't want stra You can have

1976
01:45:53,360 --> 01:45:56,840
Speaker 1: your own set of wing your with your feet on

1977
01:45:57,000 --> 01:46:03,720
Speaker 1: the ground. You're a birding floor with your fist holding tight.

1978
01:46:04,160 --> 01:46:09,360
Speaker 1: You know the words to the string of your kite. Oh,

1979
01:46:09,680 --> 01:46:17,760
Speaker 1: let's go fly a kite up to the hie. Let's

1980
01:46:17,840 --> 01:46:31,760
Speaker 1: yo fly kite, so up. The bulls are queer. Oh,

1981
01:46:31,960 --> 01:46:42,320
Speaker 1: let's Mary Poppins. Just a spoonful of sugar. You don't

1982
01:46:42,360 --> 01:46:47,200
Speaker 1: need it. No gag rep Mary Poppin. Mary Poppins obviously

1983
01:46:47,240 --> 01:46:50,439
Speaker 1: gagged on her metaced one. A spoonful of sugar seems

1984
01:46:50,439 --> 01:46:53,439
Speaker 1: like something you gag on, Yeah, Harry, powdery is now

1985
01:46:53,439 --> 01:46:55,320
Speaker 1: that I think about it, you make that face? Are

1986
01:46:55,320 --> 01:46:57,040
Speaker 1: we over end lines? Are we on the air? Even

1987
01:46:57,200 --> 01:47:00,920
Speaker 1: just even a show text? If you hear? Isn't it funny?

1988
01:47:00,960 --> 01:47:03,080
Speaker 1: How here at iHeart? I asked for like an old

1989
01:47:03,080 --> 01:47:05,080
Speaker 1: dirty bastard song or something. We can't find it, but

1990
01:47:05,120 --> 01:47:08,400
Speaker 1: we have Let's go Fly a kite from Mary Poppins Night?

1991
01:47:08,640 --> 01:47:11,200
Speaker 1: Why is that? What? Who's in charge of this music?

1992
01:47:11,400 --> 01:47:15,559
Speaker 1: Certainly not us? Hey, um, Diamond, whatever you want to hear?

1993
01:47:15,600 --> 01:47:18,439
Speaker 1: What do you want to hear? Take in requests? Oh uh,

1994
01:47:19,280 --> 01:47:25,160
Speaker 1: it's out you David Getta an usher? How fast was that? Hey?

1995
01:47:25,520 --> 01:47:27,200
Speaker 1: Play Let's go fly a kite again? If you'd rather

1996
01:47:27,240 --> 01:47:29,920
Speaker 1: have that? Oh no, I'm good with this. You know,

1997
01:47:29,960 --> 01:47:31,960
Speaker 1: every once in a while we got to hear a

1998
01:47:32,000 --> 01:47:34,040
Speaker 1: song we want to hear. Are you okay with that? Yeah?

1999
01:47:34,040 --> 01:47:35,280
Speaker 1: This is a great song. This is kind of a

2000
01:47:35,280 --> 01:47:38,880
Speaker 1: sad song. Actually, what a great song. Thanks for forcing

2001
01:47:39,000 --> 01:47:41,320
Speaker 1: us to play that, Diamond, I liked that a lot.

2002
01:47:41,720 --> 01:47:43,639
Speaker 1: It is a sad Hey, I'm talking to you. Hey, Hi,

2003
01:47:43,880 --> 01:47:46,599
Speaker 1: that's a sad song. It's so because in the beginning

2004
01:47:46,600 --> 01:47:48,360
Speaker 1: of our relationship, Alex and I had like a moment

2005
01:47:48,400 --> 01:47:54,120
Speaker 1: when we weren't together and I heard that song. I'm like, stupid,

2006
01:47:54,200 --> 01:47:58,639
Speaker 1: sad song. What's up? Straight? Nay crazy? I think music

2007
01:47:58,720 --> 01:48:00,240
Speaker 1: is really the only thing that can do that, because

2008
01:48:00,280 --> 01:48:02,799
Speaker 1: when that song started playing, I thought about a breakup

2009
01:48:02,800 --> 01:48:05,040
Speaker 1: I went through when that song first came out, which

2010
01:48:05,080 --> 01:48:08,280
Speaker 1: is which a song about someone missing someone. So therefore, yeah,

2011
01:48:08,320 --> 01:48:09,880
Speaker 1: but I mean, like, I'm sure a lot of people

2012
01:48:09,880 --> 01:48:11,840
Speaker 1: if they had a relationship or something at the time

2013
01:48:11,840 --> 01:48:14,160
Speaker 1: and they heard that song and they were going through something,

2014
01:48:14,240 --> 01:48:16,680
Speaker 1: they went right back to it. Hey, who is that?

2015
01:48:16,800 --> 01:48:19,800
Speaker 1: Oh that's my friend Joe Malva. So Joe's fault that

2016
01:48:19,840 --> 01:48:21,360
Speaker 1: you're here today. So Joe and I went to Saint

2017
01:48:21,400 --> 01:48:24,080
Speaker 1: John University together. He came in. He was he was

2018
01:48:24,160 --> 01:48:26,840
Speaker 1: program director for the radio station WSJO. You shout out.

2019
01:48:27,080 --> 01:48:28,800
Speaker 1: He came in and he's like, hey, who wants the

2020
01:48:28,840 --> 01:48:31,599
Speaker 1: Internet ze one hundred. I'm like, hi know, and that's

2021
01:48:31,680 --> 01:48:34,120
Speaker 1: history with that with that voice, you got a job here?

2022
01:48:34,200 --> 01:48:38,439
Speaker 1: Exactly what left? What? Really? You've cursed us all these years?

2023
01:48:38,439 --> 01:48:40,760
Speaker 1: With Daniel. I guess I am the reason why you

2024
01:48:40,800 --> 01:48:45,640
Speaker 1: have this lovely, talented, super delicious lady. Right, yeah, we

2025
01:48:45,760 --> 01:48:48,679
Speaker 1: love Joe. Now, were working in the same building as Joe. Yeah, yeah,

2026
01:48:48,680 --> 01:48:51,400
Speaker 1: that's right, Joe. You know what, if it's your if

2027
01:48:51,400 --> 01:48:54,479
Speaker 1: it's your responsibility that Daniel's here, we owe your lives.

2028
01:48:54,479 --> 01:48:57,280
Speaker 1: We love her, Daniel, I love her too. I haven't

2029
01:48:57,280 --> 01:48:59,840
Speaker 1: seen her in forever. We chat, we chat, we talked,

2030
01:49:00,680 --> 01:49:03,320
Speaker 1: but we haven't seen each other physically. With the same

2031
01:49:03,439 --> 01:49:07,559
Speaker 1: woman he knew in college. She's a sweetheart. His family's amazing.

2032
01:49:07,720 --> 01:49:10,599
Speaker 1: You know where you go. Well, thank you, thank you,

2033
01:49:10,880 --> 01:49:12,400
Speaker 1: thank you for taking such good care of her all

2034
01:49:12,400 --> 01:49:15,160
Speaker 1: these years. Oh we do. That's debatable. You have no

2035
01:49:15,240 --> 01:49:17,960
Speaker 1: idea what we've gone through to keep her happy. You

2036
01:49:17,960 --> 01:49:20,720
Speaker 1: should invite Joe to be on the podcast. Yeah we can.

2037
01:49:20,760 --> 01:49:22,840
Speaker 1: We want to hear about early day Danielle. Oh I

2038
01:49:23,160 --> 01:49:25,400
Speaker 1: love that absolutely. You may have another career going on,

2039
01:49:25,439 --> 01:49:27,439
Speaker 1: but call them, tell me you'll you'll be a little late,

2040
01:49:27,600 --> 01:49:29,240
Speaker 1: do you know. Do you work for iHeart as well?

2041
01:49:29,560 --> 01:49:32,679
Speaker 1: So uh kind of yeah, I mean we we will

2042
01:49:32,760 --> 01:49:35,920
Speaker 1: pretty much put you know, spots anywhere and everywhere. So

2043
01:49:35,960 --> 01:49:40,240
Speaker 1: these days it's all about so you must know scary emotions. Scary.

2044
01:49:40,520 --> 01:49:43,439
Speaker 1: I'm friends with scary on on Instagram, but we follow

2045
01:49:43,479 --> 01:49:46,320
Speaker 1: each other Scary. We do commercials for diapers and uh

2046
01:49:47,880 --> 01:49:51,519
Speaker 1: vaginal rejuvenation. Vaginal rejuvenation. I think kaffee doesn't have a vagina.

2047
01:49:51,560 --> 01:49:56,519
Speaker 1: He's all good. So Black History Month, it's crazy perfect.

2048
01:49:56,560 --> 01:49:59,920
Speaker 1: I've got plenty of sponsors for you, Scary. Well, it's

2049
01:50:00,080 --> 01:50:02,400
Speaker 1: it's a pleasure meeting you and uh on behalf of everyone.

2050
01:50:02,439 --> 01:50:06,200
Speaker 1: Thank you for Danielle like he created you? Cry? How

2051
01:50:06,240 --> 01:50:11,439
Speaker 1: many years ago? Was that a long time ago? Decades? Yeah?

2052
01:50:11,479 --> 01:50:14,080
Speaker 1: I don't know about you, but Danielle has a big

2053
01:50:14,120 --> 01:50:17,120
Speaker 1: birthday coming up now. I'm gonna be fifty baby, I

2054
01:50:17,160 --> 01:50:20,200
Speaker 1: don't care what I'm bracing. I'm mad. I'm getting yelled

2055
01:50:20,200 --> 01:50:21,479
Speaker 1: at by Scary. He wants me to play one of

2056
01:50:21,520 --> 01:50:25,760
Speaker 1: his commercials. Oh, let's see what's scaries? Can you no

2057
01:50:26,040 --> 01:50:29,920
Speaker 1: longer get an erection? Hi, I'm scary jokes. It's a

2058
01:50:29,920 --> 01:50:34,479
Speaker 1: pleasure meeting you. Joy the Mercedes Beans Interview Lounge, Bobby

2059
01:50:34,479 --> 01:50:36,880
Speaker 1: Flay is here. I watched all of your shows and

2060
01:50:36,960 --> 01:50:39,240
Speaker 1: you're just a genius. You're a legend. I love it.

2061
01:50:41,360 --> 01:50:44,120
Speaker 1: Your ego your ego didn't need more snacks, but he

2062
01:50:44,240 --> 01:50:49,960
Speaker 1: got it. Sleep, sporting, sophisticated, and that's just the grill.

2063
01:50:50,240 --> 01:50:53,639
Speaker 1: The Mercedes Benz Sedan family with redefined sculpting in state

2064
01:50:53,680 --> 01:50:56,720
Speaker 1: of the art cabins. You'll have everyone doing a double take.

2065
01:50:56,920 --> 01:50:59,439
Speaker 1: Learn more at mbusa dot com or test drive one

2066
01:50:59,479 --> 01:51:02,400
Speaker 1: at your local del Eric Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

2067
01:51:02,840 --> 01:51:05,600
Speaker 1: Thank you for synthesizers. Thank you for instant replay and

2068
01:51:05,680 --> 01:51:08,439
Speaker 1: peanut butter and standard time. What are they all have

2069
01:51:08,520 --> 01:51:11,280
Speaker 1: in common? I don't have the answer, but Crown Royal does.

2070
01:51:11,560 --> 01:51:14,080
Speaker 1: If you're curious, make sure you watch for Crown Royal

2071
01:51:14,240 --> 01:51:16,800
Speaker 1: during the Super Bowl Sunday. Please drink responsibly.