1 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: There Are No Girls on the Internet, as a production 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: of I Heart Radio and Unbossed Creative. I'm Bridget Todd 3 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: and this is There Are No Girls on the Internet. 4 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: So this month Amazon Prime dropped a highly anticipated documentary 5 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: series called Luther Rich breaking down lular Row, the multi 6 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: level marketing company that sold buttery soft leggings and dreams 7 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: of girl boss entrepreneurship to thousands of women all over 8 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: the country. Now, I don't think I need to tell 9 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: you that this turned out to be kind of a 10 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: huge scam. The Washington State Attorney General filed a class 11 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 1: action lawsuit against Lularow, calling them a pyramid scheme, and 12 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: in February of this year, lu La Row agreed to 13 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: pay four point seventy four million dollars to settle. And 14 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: it kind of also seems like a cult. From gas 15 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: lighting motivational seminars to Lula Row's founder Deane, pressuring women 16 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: to travel to Mexico for weight loss surgery to maintain 17 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: a picture perfect presence, all the service of selling the 18 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: lie that lu La Row was a ticket to working 19 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 1: moms being able to live happy, fulfilled and balanced lives. Now, 20 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: what's so interesting about Lularo is the women that got 21 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: involved in it, and it's clear the company praised on 22 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: a type educated, ambitious moms, and it's pretty clear why 23 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: there just isn't a lot of societal support for moms 24 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: who want to do wage earning work in America. We 25 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: don't have paid leave, we don't have access to affordable 26 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 1: childcare solutions for parents who work. That creates this real 27 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: vulnerability for women that can be deeply exploited. Now, if 28 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: you've seen the documentary, which I definitely recommend you check out, 29 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 1: that you probably already know Reberta Blevins, the hilariously straightforward 30 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: former Lula ro retailer turned anti MLM advocate. Roberta once 31 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: had seventy five Lularo retailers working under her and when 32 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: she left the company, her goal was to get at 33 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: least seventy people to leave. And now, on our podcast 34 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: Life After MLM, Roberta helped so many more see the 35 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:58,279 Speaker 1: ways that multi level marketing companies like Lularo use tools 36 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: like social media to pray on women and who were 37 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: already vulnerable. So I binged watched Lula La Lula Row 38 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: documentary on Amazon Prime. I watched it. It seemed like 39 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: it went by in like twenty minutes, even though it 40 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: was four episodes. Um, my first question is the reaction 41 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: has been so huge. You know, I was reading your 42 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: piece and your your the piece and variety that quotes you. 43 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,679 Speaker 1: What is your response to seeing this huge reaction to 44 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: the film Lula Rich? Well, okay, so I was on 45 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: the phone of Lache last night and we were talking 46 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:33,959 Speaker 1: about this exact thing, and she's like, girl, I knew 47 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: it would be number one eventually, and I said, right, 48 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: but I just didn't know what happened so fast. So 49 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: that's sort of how I feel about it, Like this 50 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: has been the last four years of my life. They 51 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: don't really go into it in the documentary, but from 52 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: the day I left Lula Ro, I started speaking out 53 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: against them, I started exposing them. I've been probably public 54 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: enemy number one for the past four years, I said 55 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: the Vice documentary. I talked to Bloomberg. I've helped with 56 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: a lot of the you know sources say I'm a 57 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 1: lot of those sources. Um, I have a lot of sources. 58 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: I shared a lot of things, I've done a lot 59 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:10,679 Speaker 1: of stuff. So for me, like I sort of kind 60 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: of like expected it on in my small realm because 61 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: I have been talking about this and I have been 62 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: like promoting it in like the anti MLM communities and 63 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: like that small niche um. But like, like I said, 64 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: like I didn't expect it to sort of seep out 65 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: of our community quite so quickly. Um, And I'm just 66 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 1: I'm really excited because I just think people need to 67 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: hear the story and it's this is just literally like 68 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: the tip of iceberg and just a little bit of 69 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: a scratch, Like there's so much more stuff. There was 70 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: so much more stuff in this than there was advice, 71 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: and there's so much more stuff that hasn't been uncovered 72 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: yet that I'm just really excited to see what other 73 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: creators and and people discover and create from this moment 74 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: forward totally, So like what are some of the things 75 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: that you're thinking, Like, Oh, if they were to do 76 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: a part too, like and they got to mention this, 77 00:03:57,920 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: I wish they mentioned that. Like, for instance, I was 78 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: watching this really dark YouTube video that went in the 79 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: detail about the weight loss surgeries that that Danne was 80 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: like propped in folks to get and I was like, Wow, 81 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: they didn't really get into like how seedy and dark 82 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: that is, Like, what are some of the stuff that 83 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:15,839 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, they do a part two, they got 84 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,559 Speaker 1: to include this, you know. That was one of the things, 85 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: like there was not a lot of stuff about the 86 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: weight loss surgery. I think it was like glazed over, 87 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: which I get. You know, Um, there there's a lot there. Um. 88 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: Danne has taken a lot of people down there. On 89 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: their website on Facebook, their Facebook page of this place. 90 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,119 Speaker 1: There are so many before and after photos of women 91 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: in Lulu Ro, Like it's very obvious where they're coming from. 92 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: There's sometimes there's Lulu Ro business signs are like in 93 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: the photos too, and they're wearing the clothes and so 94 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 1: it's very obvious. And Danne has admitted to taking um 95 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: children as young as thirteen down there to get weight loss. Yeah, 96 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: so that's a lot of stuff that like just was 97 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: not included. But I understand, like I don't know, this 98 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: thing literally could have been to ten episodes, but I'm 99 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: not even joking it event and episodes, and I still 100 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: probably would be sitting here going and then forgot to 101 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: add this too. Um. There was one of the things 102 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 1: that bothered me. And I was already out when this happened, 103 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 1: But there was a lot of times, and we see 104 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: it with influencers to a lot of times, when you 105 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: have a lot of power and a lot of influence 106 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: in a company or on a platform, you can get 107 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: away from murder. Not technically like actually murder, um, but 108 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 1: you can get away with a lot of things. And 109 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: that was happening a lot and running rampant and Lulu 110 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 1: Ro and we thought that that wasn't really fair. People 111 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 1: were being terminated for like using the wrong fonts and 112 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: the wrong colors. And then somebody could go on Alive 113 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: and um basically mock someone with special needs and Lulu 114 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: Ro would side with them and say, well they use 115 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 1: lulu Ro as there the way they feed their family. 116 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: And they said they were sorry, so we're not going 117 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: to terminate them. Um. There was somebody who was like 118 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: telling a deaf person they should just turn it up 119 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: if she can't hear them, and just really just obnoxious, 120 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: obnoxious stuff that made me wonder, like can do you 121 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: know people can see you? Like you know this is 122 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: like live in public, Like people can see you do this? 123 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: Why are you doing this? And again Lula would would 124 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: always side with them. There was a huge thing with 125 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: the national down syndrome Society for the National Down sydom 126 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 1: Society said, Um, you either terminate this couple that marked 127 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: special needs or will terminate our our our partnership, will 128 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: terminate our partnership with you, and um Lulu Ro said, 129 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 1: like I said, well, he already apologized and and you know, 130 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: he made them so much money. They sold hundreds of 131 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: thousands of dollars for the stuff. They made them so 132 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: much money, and Lulu Re sided with them, and the 133 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 1: National Down Syndrooms, the National Down Syndrome Society put out 134 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: a statement saying that they were entering ending their partnership 135 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:50,719 Speaker 1: with Lulu Ro. It's all on like you can find 136 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: all of this online. Um, they were ending their partnership 137 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: with lule Ro because they didn't feel that Lulu Rou 138 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: was really willing to accept that this was bad and 139 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 1: that they were gonna they were gonna cide with somebody 140 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: that had done bad things and it was against everything 141 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: that they were going because the person that he mocked 142 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: had Down syndrome and or he was mocking special needs 143 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: and then he used someone with Down syndrome as a 144 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: prop in his apology. Yeah it's great, Yeah, that's great. So, um, 145 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: I know it's just like so Lularu sided with our um. 146 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: Lula sided with this couple, and the National Down Society 147 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: said we're gonna end our partnership and this beautiful statement UM. 148 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: And then about an hour later, Lulure came out with 149 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: their statement, which was pretty much the exact opposite, and 150 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: they said that the reason that Luluro had decided to 151 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: end the partnership with the National Down Syndrom Society that right, 152 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: was that Lulauro felt that the National Down Syndroom Society's 153 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: UM mission was too narrow because they only wanted to 154 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 1: help people with Down syndrome and Luluo wanted to help everyone. 155 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's the first like example of 156 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: like an all lives mattered any think right. And I 157 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: remember here like like I was like, oh my god, 158 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: like they were the first ones. Oh man, I mean 159 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: that story really does crystallize how good they are at 160 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 1: twisting the truth to make themselves look like they're the 161 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: more like noble or like the people who were like 162 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: doing right like in that documentary. I was like, they 163 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: must have taken hours of like pr coaching too, the 164 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: way they twist words and twist stories where it's like, oh, 165 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 1: actually I just wanted to cut these people in because 166 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 1: it was such a good deal. Like blah blah blah, 167 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: Like how they're able to twist everything so that they're 168 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 1: so virtuous. I really I don't want to give them 169 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 1: props for that. It's so amazing. I mean, I will 170 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: say I was sitting there watching the documentary. Obviously I 171 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: was watching it, and um there was I mean, I 172 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: lived it, so there was really nothing shocking to me. 173 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: The only shocking thing that I really experienced, Um, we're 174 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 1: hearing the deposition, so I had read the depositions. I 175 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 1: was a part of that lawsuit. They also they don't 176 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: bring that up either, but I was a witness against 177 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 1: Lularo in the Washington Pyramids team lawsuit and I helped 178 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 1: with the investigation with the team incredible Team Bomb and 179 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 1: his team are fantastic, really really one of the coolest experiences. 180 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:18,319 Speaker 1: And it was the very first time that their parents, 181 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: their anti pyramid scheme law had ever been tried, and 182 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: it was a row and it was like a history 183 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: making case and they had it on the books for 184 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: like ten plus years, and it was the first time 185 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: that they had ever been tried. So it's really really cool. Um, 186 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: I'm really proud of that. And you know, they settled 187 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 1: in February for four point seven five million. Uh, the 188 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: point seven five went to pay for the three year investigation, 189 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,559 Speaker 1: so Washington took a hit on that. Um, they all 190 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: basically just did it at cost. And then that the 191 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: four million went into a restitution fund and checks went 192 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 1: out I think in August, So everybody should have their 193 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: checks right now. The most shocking thing to me in 194 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: this documentary because I had read the depositions, because I 195 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: had you know, I know what they had said, but 196 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: I had never heard the tone in which it was said, 197 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: and so I knew that Dan was like, oh she 198 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 1: really got two like that sad, but I thought she 199 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:06,440 Speaker 1: was saying I thought she was saying it in like 200 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 1: a oh, that's like hearing it. I was like oh, 201 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 1: and then hearing other the way that she said others, 202 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: it was just so cold and knowing her and being 203 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: around her and having conversations with her like I never 204 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: met that person. I saw the person that person on 205 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 1: the videos, but I never saw like calculated cold and 206 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 1: so that to me, just the way that Dan answered 207 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: questions was literally the most shocking thing for me. Yeah, 208 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: it was it was almost hard to watch. Also, the 209 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 1: level to it. She really is like, oh, I don't recall, 210 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, like I don't know what that means. 211 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: It's like, Wow, for somebody who was running this like business, 212 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: you really don't know any of the specifics what went 213 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: on interesting No. One thing that really shocked me about 214 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 1: Lula Rich were the scenes of Lula Rose founders being 215 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: deposed in court. Basically, they really use the old I 216 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: don't recall trick to avoid incriminating themselves. It turns out 217 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: selective amnesia to avoid accountability is a big part of 218 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:12,599 Speaker 1: the brand. That even includes their founders kind of pretending 219 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: to not know Jordan Brady, their own family member, and 220 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: a lu La Ro higher up who was caught on 221 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: camera saying the company was trying to distance itself from 222 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:23,960 Speaker 1: being a pyramid scheme. Yeah. One of the one of 223 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: the things that we had to prove. This so ridiculous, 224 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: but one of the things that that we were tasked 225 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: to prove in the pyramid scheme lawsuit was that Jordan 226 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 1: Brady actually worked at Lula Row because he had said, 227 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: and you know, you see that he had said that 228 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: we need to get away from being a pyramid scheme, 229 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 1: and so they wanted to distance themselves from him as 230 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: much as possible. He is like Danne's youngest biological son, 231 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 1: and they were like, who's Jordan's and he was good, 232 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, did he work here? I don't recall um? 233 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 1: And so some of the evidence that I sent over 234 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: were like emails between Jordan and I about me getting 235 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 1: on boarded and having questions about things, and I was like, 236 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: and then a screenshot of him and I with my 237 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 1: old upline doing a webinar, like an official Lula ro 238 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: Lula famous webinaru, and he and I are in that photo, 239 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: and I said, here is this the Jordan we're saying 240 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 1: doesn't doesn't work here? So yeah, you know, because everybody 241 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: else's fault La Lula Row always, you know, I have 242 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: to ask, like I made one podcast about Lularo and 243 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 1: MLMs years ago, and I've covered so many different things, 244 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: like I've covered Nazis and like some of the worst 245 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 1: people on the Internet. But the time that I talked 246 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 1: negatively about lu La Row, I don't think I've ever 247 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: gotten more hate correspondents, more emails, and I know that, 248 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: you you know, people come after you as well. Like, 249 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: do you ever get scared or what is it like 250 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: to really be trying to hold folks accountable and just 251 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 1: tell the truth of what you've experienced and what you 252 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: saw and know that there's going to be an army 253 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 1: of people who are very, very invested in proving you wrong. 254 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 1: Like what is that? Like, I mean, I have the receipts, 255 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: so I'm not super worried. You know, it's really funny. 256 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: I've seen so many things said about me that are 257 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: so unbelievably not even close to being true. Um, I 258 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 1: was accused of running a hate fueled hate cult. That 259 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: was fun. I know, It's like, okay, all right, that's me. Yeah, 260 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: I hate cult. I was like, I hate cult. Um. 261 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: Someone on my TikTok went after me the other night, um, 262 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: saying that I was a liar and then I'm still 263 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: a hun and then I'm still scamming people, um, and 264 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 1: that I'm just mad. She said, she's just mad that 265 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: someone exposed this scam and her sixty dollar checks dried up. 266 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 1: And I said, one, I've never had a sixty check, 267 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: and too, I was the one that left and exposed it. 268 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 1: Like it's like that that was me, the one you're 269 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: saying exposed it, that's me. How can it be the 270 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: same person. So it's just like ridiculous things. People don't 271 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: want to listen to the truth. People don't want She 272 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 1: was telling my my my timeline was all over the place. 273 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, She's like, I'm super anti MLM and 274 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: your timeline is super sussed. And my followers were like, 275 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 1: you're clearly not anti ammale. That's one that has been 276 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: speaking out for four years. She has another movie. There's 277 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 1: there's no way you don't know who she is if 278 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 1: you're actually super anti EMLEM like you claim it was 279 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: a brand new account. Was one person following, like, no pictures, 280 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: no anything. I mean, it's a hunt. It's a hun. 281 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: It's a hun getting on TikTok on my account, hoping 282 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: to convince new people that don't know me, don't follow me, 283 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 1: don't know my story, don't know my history, that I'm 284 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: suspicious and that what I say in the documentary is 285 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: most likely lies and that people should investigate me. And 286 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: I was like, all you have to do is google 287 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 1: my name, like literally everything is there. Literally, I don't 288 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: I don't hide any of the stuff that I've uncovered 289 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: and I don't just uncover Lulu Roy uncover MLM's like 290 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: and so it's funny to me, I get all kinds 291 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: of hate from like other MLM. So I'm talking about 292 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: Black Oxygen Organics. I gotta hate email the other day 293 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 1: that said we're coming for you. You should have never 294 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: spoke about BOO And I was like, all right, bring it. 295 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 1: It's just weird stuff, you know, Like they went to 296 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 1: all of the the review sites Amazon, Rotten Tomatoes and 297 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: IMDb and they all mass reported and like mass down 298 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: voted and and gave him one star reviews and and 299 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 1: just said like how ridiculous it is. And I mean 300 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: it's not normal, Like it's not you know, you watch 301 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: Going Clear, or you watch Scion till like Aftermath, or 302 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: you listen to a little Bit Culty and you listen 303 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 1: to me. You listen to these podcasts and these these 304 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: these could shows. There's no other industry or experience that 305 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: you will experience this sort of hatred fair gaming like 306 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: bullying and attacking except for colts. Right, it feels like 307 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: you have to know when someone is responding that way 308 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 1: that they're they're still in and the fact that you 309 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: are telling the truth about what I have committed their 310 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: lives too, probably is like very threatening to them and 311 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 1: their whole sense of self. Absolutely absolutely, and I get it. 312 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 1: I was there. I'm sure if you go back five 313 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: six years you can find posts on lutle Row. I mean, 314 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 1: I'm blocked from it now, so I would never be 315 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 1: able to see but of me saying little Row changed 316 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 1: my life. It's the most amazing company. And these people 317 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 1: are just entertainters, like I'm sure there's at least one 318 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 1: of those somewhere, you know. But I was in occult 319 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: and I was brainwashed like most of us. Um and 320 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: you know, you when you see it, you can't unsee it. 321 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: Let's say a quick break and are back. I've noticed 322 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: on Instagram and TikTok since the documentary coming out, so 323 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 1: many other women, you know, looking back at their image 324 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: their pictures and being like, I can't believe the things 325 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 1: I used to say, Like it feels like it must 326 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: it must be incredibly cathartic for these women to speak 327 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 1: up about their experiences and just get it off their 328 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 1: chats and like all the things they did to try 329 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:15,640 Speaker 1: to make this this gammy call work for them. Absolutely, 330 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 1: so I always say on my podcast when I talked 331 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 1: to I have a survivor's podcast called Life After MLM, 332 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 1: and I talked to survivors from all different emilems, not 333 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 1: just little Round. There are a lot of lutle road 334 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: stories on there, obviously, but um, you know, I have 335 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,199 Speaker 1: the survivor's podcast. I talked to people from Amway, I 336 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 1: talked to people from mary Kay, I talked to people 337 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 1: from everywhere, herbal life, everywhere, right, And nothing in these 338 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 1: stories really changes except for like shocking details and the names. 339 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: Pretty much it's the same exact story of like being 340 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: in an MLM, being like what is going on? Figuring 341 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:56,199 Speaker 1: it out, and like escaping. I guess people just like 342 00:17:56,280 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 1: being like left financially devastated. When I talk to these 343 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: people on the podcast, we have these conversations I don't 344 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: want to call them interviews because they're very casual, um, 345 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 1: And we interrupt each other and we laugh and we 346 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: make jokes and sometimes they're you know, inappropriate for the time. 347 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:13,879 Speaker 1: We're talking about serious things, and we pop in with 348 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:17,679 Speaker 1: something because if you don't laugh, you cry. Um. And 349 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 1: it's incredibly cathartic to to talk to victims. And I 350 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 1: get so many email messages from people that are like 351 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,159 Speaker 1: I heard this episode, I wasn't Mary Kay. Thank you 352 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: so much to Laura for speaking about it. I felt 353 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: so connected to her. I felt so validated by her truth. 354 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: She explained something that happened to me that no one 355 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: has ever said, Oh, that happens, And this random person 356 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: that you talked to validated me. And I'm not crazy, 357 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 1: Like there's proof that I'm not crazy. I was gas 358 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: lit in this company and they told me all these things. 359 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: And I'm listening to you talk to these women and 360 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,159 Speaker 1: sometimes people and I have men on there too, and 361 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: sometimes people will say something and I'll stop them and 362 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: I'll say, well, that's a cult tactic that you just described, 363 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 1: like it's not your fault, Like that's a colt tactic 364 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 1: what you're talking about, And this is why that works, 365 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: and this is how it fits in the pyramid, and 366 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: this is why they will use it, and this is 367 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:12,679 Speaker 1: how it's all working together like a bunch of constant machine. 368 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 1: And I think a lot of people go, oh my god, 369 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 1: oh my god, and it clicks right, and they don't. 370 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:23,880 Speaker 1: It doesn't click. And so I think what's happening right now, 371 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:27,479 Speaker 1: like you said, is there's all these people that watched 372 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 1: a little rich they were like, oh my god, I 373 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 1: was a part of this company. It's a total garbage dump, 374 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: trash sheep. Let's watch this movie and they're thinking popcorn 375 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: time and by third episode there in tears and they're going, 376 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't believe I was apart. I 377 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 1: didn't know it when so deep, I didn't realize I 378 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 1: heard about this, but I heard it was a rumor. 379 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,160 Speaker 1: I thought this was happening, but I never had proof. 380 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,440 Speaker 1: And here's all the proof of everything you experienced, everything 381 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 1: you were told, told by people who were successful, told 382 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 1: by people who did see that there was a problem 383 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 1: and did speak out. All of us that are in 384 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: that documentary have been speaking out for a long time. 385 00:19:58,200 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: I mean not all of us. There's a couple of 386 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: movies in there I've never seen before, but the majority 387 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: of the people in there, I've been speaking out and 388 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 1: and helping investigate LUUOE for a really long time. And 389 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: so I love that there are complete strangers that I've 390 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:15,119 Speaker 1: never met hearing this message, watching this film. Finding the 391 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:18,680 Speaker 1: catharsis that they've never had the validation that they never 392 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,919 Speaker 1: got when they were gasolate in this cold. Finally, years 393 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: after are watching this film and going bully, sh it, 394 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 1: it's not me, and they are there. I call it 395 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,439 Speaker 1: Lula cringe. I posted all the time Lula cringe, and 396 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 1: you share your Lula cringe, right, and you're like, look 397 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 1: at what I'm wearing. There's a photo of men, like, 398 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: look at me standing by this giant lollipop. What the 399 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: hell am I wedding? This was the worst of it, 400 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 1: you guys. I left like a month later. What is 401 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: going on? And so we think a lot of times. 402 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 1: And then it's really funny because former survivors and victims 403 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:54,959 Speaker 1: will come in and they'll make jokes, you know, and 404 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: I go, I know that they know because they're making 405 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,479 Speaker 1: an inside joke that it's a dog whistle for us, right, 406 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,160 Speaker 1: Like they say something and I go, oh my god, 407 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 1: you get it girl, and we're laughing and we're having 408 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: a good time and we're saying, I can't believe I 409 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 1: did this. I'm so stupid, and I say, hey, you're 410 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: not alone. Okay, you're not alone. There was ninety thousand 411 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: of us. I mean, I don't know how many either 412 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: actually was that those numbers have always been inflated and incorrect, 413 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: and I never knew the actual number ever, not even once. 414 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: But you know, if we say there were ninety thousand 415 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 1: of us, then there's there's a lot more victims out 416 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 1: there that probably still think it's them and are watching 417 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 1: Lula Rich and going, oh my god, it wasn't me. 418 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,159 Speaker 1: So I love it. I love seeing everybody's Lula cringe. 419 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: I love seeing everybody's stories. I love jumping in the 420 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 1: comments and saying yes, I remember this, thank you, because 421 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:44,159 Speaker 1: it not only validates them, it validates me too. I 422 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 1: have so many haters that are telling me that I'm 423 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:48,959 Speaker 1: just bitter. I mean d M did literally did alive 424 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 1: today and said not to watch, you know, not to 425 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: bother with Lulu ro and Lulu or not to bother 426 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 1: with lul Rich because it's just the story of four 427 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 1: consultants who couldn't make im work. Out of hundreds, you know, 428 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: out of hundreds and thousands, it's just four of us. 429 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 1: And I was like, are you for real now, it's 430 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 1: just the four of us, just four of us. Okay, 431 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 1: they made a movie because there's just four of us. Right. 432 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 1: There was a big lawsuit because it was just four people. 433 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 1: There's a billion dollar laws because there's just four of us. 434 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: Um it's insane. I have four separate interviews on my 435 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: podcast with four separate LULARO consultants, so there's at least 436 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: eight of us. I mean. That's something that I think 437 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: the documentary really does a nice job of touching on 438 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: is that when women started going to the defector Facebook 439 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 1: groups and sharing their stories and getting that validation that 440 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:44,439 Speaker 1: like this the power of of hearing that you're not alone, 441 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: hearing that you're not crazy, like after you've been legit 442 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: no ship gasolate for so long, Like going back and 443 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 1: watching some of those motivational speaker style conferences, I was like, 444 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: this is just gas fighting, Like this is like brainwashing, indoctrination. 445 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 1: The power are of hearing someone say no, you're right, 446 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: even for little things of like yeah, you're right. My 447 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,400 Speaker 1: leggings did smell like a dead part. You're right, they 448 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 1: did arrive wet, like things like things that they have 449 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 1: been told from you know, the lu La Row higher 450 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: ups that are not happening right, Like the power of 451 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:20,239 Speaker 1: that validation someone saying no, trust what you see with 452 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,240 Speaker 1: your own eyes, what you feel in your gut, like 453 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 1: you're you're you know you're right. You know your experience, like, 454 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 1: that's so powerful, you know. I even got some validation today. 455 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:30,879 Speaker 1: I don't know if it was I think it was 456 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: on Instagram. Somebody commented on one of my posts on 457 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 1: Instagram and said, I used to work at lular Row. 458 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,679 Speaker 1: The reason that you're legging smelled so bad is because 459 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: when they were outside and those big metal crates are 460 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 1: called gay lords. Without these big metal gaylords out in 461 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 1: the middle of this parking lot for months on end 462 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 1: under blue tarts. They said, well, they had like a 463 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: team because what would happen is rats and possums would 464 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 1: sleep in them, and sometimes they get stuck and die, 465 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 1: and so they'd have to go and fish out the 466 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 1: dead rats and possums, and then they would throw away 467 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: the garment that was touching it, but none of the 468 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,199 Speaker 1: existing garments around it. He's like, so that might have 469 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 1: been or she I don't remember it was a user 470 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 1: name I didn't check up, but that they were like, 471 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:15,160 Speaker 1: that might be why that your leggings smelled like dead rats. 472 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:16,920 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, I've literally called 473 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 1: them dead rat leggings before. And I was like, are 474 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 1: you fucking kidding me? And I was literally dead rats 475 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 1: in then I called that ship like three years ago. Well, 476 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, you know a dead rat when you 477 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 1: smell one. I live in the country, y'all, I know 478 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: a dead rat. Smell one. More. After a quick break, 479 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 1: let's get right back into it. There just is not 480 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: a ton of societal support for moms in America. And 481 00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:01,679 Speaker 1: it someone comes along and tells a mom that she 482 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,360 Speaker 1: can make good money, making her own schedule, and still 483 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 1: be able to be a present figure in the lives 484 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: of her family and kids, it's really not surprising that 485 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 1: so many of them would jump on that opportunity, even 486 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 1: if it seems too good to be true. The vulnerability 487 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,119 Speaker 1: baked into the experience of being a mom leaves women 488 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: open to being preyed on by MLMs. I have my 489 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 1: own thoughts about why smart, ambitious, educated women got involved 490 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: with and not just LULARO, but like m l m 491 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 1: S and l m l ms in general. I think that, 492 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 1: you know, it's very enticing to be told that you 493 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 1: can be there for your kids if you're a mom, 494 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,000 Speaker 1: make good money, you know, really be a present figure 495 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 1: in your parents and your kid's life. We just don't 496 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: live in a place that really has a lot of 497 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 1: options for a lot for like moms if you're trying 498 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: to work and raise your kids. And so I think 499 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: that my senses is that these companies prey on women 500 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 1: and a lot of times the moms who don't really 501 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 1: have a lot of options. And I just wonder, like, 502 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on why so many women get 503 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,679 Speaker 1: mixed up in m l M s um So, I 504 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 1: think the main component to getting lured in, like Robert says, 505 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,400 Speaker 1: I love that quote in the movie Robertson Robert is fantastic. 506 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,360 Speaker 1: If you guys don't know who Robert Fitzpatrick is, by 507 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 1: his book Ponsionomics, it is amazing if you are anti 508 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: MLM or want to be. It is the complete like 509 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: history of m limit is one of the best books 510 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 1: I've ever read, which is just fascinating. Um. But the 511 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: way that people get blured in, because that's what it is, right, 512 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 1: Nobody really thinks like this is amazing, like I need 513 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 1: to do this. It's always like, girl, it would be 514 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 1: so good at that, and you're just like, and it 515 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: really is a loover. It really is a lure. Um. 516 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 1: The number one thing is vulnerability. The number one thing. Uh, 517 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 1: and the more vulnerabilities you have, the more likely you 518 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: will get sucked in. Um. You know, people have hardships, 519 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: and they think, if I could just win the lotto, 520 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 1: if I could just make an extra hundred dollars a week, 521 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,959 Speaker 1: if I could just like get some money, or like 522 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: get like a really good deal or like something like, 523 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: it could change everything. If I could just go on 524 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: a game show and win ten thousand dollars, can pay 525 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 1: all my bills, I'd be back in the green and 526 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be a problem. Because so there's this whole like, 527 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,239 Speaker 1: if I could just do this, if I could just 528 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 1: be that person to just beat all the odds, Right, 529 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat all the odds. It's gonna be me. 530 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,639 Speaker 1: I believe in myself. These boss bibs believe in me too. 531 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,400 Speaker 1: They're telling me how great I am. I know I'm great. 532 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: It wasn't feeling how great I'm but now I'm really 533 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: feeling how great because these women are reinforcing what a 534 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,919 Speaker 1: rock star I'm gonna be. And I already believe I'm 535 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,439 Speaker 1: a rock star. And now someone I don't even know 536 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 1: susan in me, Oh my god, it must be true. 537 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 1: M So you're already vulnerable and what they're promising you ultimately, 538 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 1: because you hear it all the time. It's not about 539 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,879 Speaker 1: the product. It's about the opportunity. It's not about the shampoo. 540 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 1: It's about the sisterhood. It's not about the weight loss, 541 00:27:55,920 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 1: it's about the accountability. It's not about the product. It's 542 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:08,399 Speaker 1: about the opportunity. Right, It's just it. It doesn't matter 543 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 1: because what they're truly selling you is a dream. They're 544 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 1: selling you on the opportunity to possibly, maybe, if you're 545 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: lucky enough, have the ability to possibly get to the 546 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 1: top of the pyramid and all of your your dreams 547 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,919 Speaker 1: will come true. So dream big. Keep that dopamine rushing 548 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: through your veins, because as long as you're continually like 549 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 1: basically lying to yourself and living this fakett, you make 550 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 1: it lifestyle where the dopamines just coming in. You're like, 551 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 1: it feels so good. I'm just gonna keep doing this 552 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: because it seems to be working. It's a dream. It 553 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 1: doesn't exist, Robert says it. If you were to invite 554 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 1: five friends and tell them to invite five friends after 555 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 1: thirteen levels, you exceed the population of Earth. It's not possible. 556 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 1: Seven percent of people across the board losing MLM. So 557 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: what are we actually selling here? It's a farce, It's 558 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 1: a dream. It's the possibility that you might maybe one 559 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 1: day get the ability to kind of off like maybe 560 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 1: maybe make it if you work really hard. But if 561 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 1: you don't work really hard, that's on you. If you 562 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 1: don't make it, it's because you just work cut out 563 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: for this mm hmm. And I can't help but I 564 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,000 Speaker 1: know they touch on this in the film, but I 565 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 1: can't help but see the ways that like our sort 566 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: of social media landscape really feeds that. Like I you've 567 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: mentioned in the film that they wanted you to take 568 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 1: pictures of yourself making a big, messy breakfast with your kids, 569 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: or like, you know, they wanted people to have these 570 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 1: very curated, picture perfect Instagram feeds and hashtag everything because 571 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,239 Speaker 1: lu La Row. You know, I wonder what role do 572 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,680 Speaker 1: you think that things like Instagram and Facebook and Facebook Live, Like, 573 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 1: what role do even that played and in making lu 574 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 1: La Row sort of like what it was, It was instrumental, 575 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,479 Speaker 1: absolutely absolutely instrumental. Before Luluro i was, I had been 576 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 1: a professional blogger um and I had a decent little following. 577 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 1: It's all defunct now, but I had a decent little following, 578 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 1: and so I understood algorithms. I understood how to grow 579 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: on social media authentically. I knew how to brand myself. Um. 580 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 1: And when they heard that I knew how to do 581 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: that stuff, They're like, oh my god, you have to 582 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,959 Speaker 1: teach the class, like you're a social media a queen, 583 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 1: Like you're so amazing, Like you have to teach all 584 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: of us how to do that. And so it was 585 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 1: a lot of like me trying to you it's it's 586 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 1: I don't even know if you could teach it. To 587 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 1: be perfectly honest, some of it is just like just inherent. 588 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 1: I would say you have to have pretty pictures, and 589 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:37,720 Speaker 1: then someone's like, could you look at my feet and 590 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: tell me what you think? And I'm just like what 591 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: did you not even listen to what I said? Um? 592 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 1: So you know, I really didn't like as I was 593 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 1: teaching people how to grow authentically, uh, and to create 594 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 1: you know, authentic curated posts about your life, nothing over 595 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:56,719 Speaker 1: the top and ridiculous, but real, um, like a normal 596 00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 1: social media influence overdo um. It was like you should 597 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 1: be talking more about little Row and like, oh, you 598 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,800 Speaker 1: went to Disneyland. Did you put because of Little Row? 599 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, I mean, isn't because well, you got 600 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 1: to go because you're not working because of Little Row 601 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 1: and you had money to buy churros because of And 602 00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: I was like, what isn't I mean we here in 603 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 1: the documentary that because of Little Row isn't actually even 604 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: a hashtag at all. Indiana doesn't even know it, doesn't 605 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: even know what it means. She's never seen it before, right, 606 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 1: she's never seen it before. I will tell you, though, 607 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: there's another hashtag they didn't mention that Dane will probably 608 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: also deny knowing about. And that's the hashtag because of Dan. 609 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 1: I'm sure she loved that one, yeah, but has never 610 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 1: seen it. Right. Anytime Deanne had a bad day and 611 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,800 Speaker 1: like social media people were being mean to her, we 612 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 1: had to make posts of appreciation for Dan and tag 613 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 1: it because of Dane. Wow, I mean that's a cult. 614 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 1: That's like, that's could like absolutely it's a cult. Yeah. 615 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 1: I mean I figured out I was on a cold 616 00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 1: because I was watching Leo Romani's Scientology after Math and 617 00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 1: I was sitting there and I burst into tears. And 618 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 1: my husband at the time, we are we are divorced, 619 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 1: but it's not because of little row Um. He was like, 620 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 1: are you okay? And I was like, oh my god, 621 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 1: there I goll like I just knew. I just knew. 622 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: I just knew. God, I'm some most weird, but I 623 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,960 Speaker 1: just I just knew. I saw like the Scientology survivors, 624 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 1: and they were saying things, and I had an example 625 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 1: for everything, like a Lulu row example for everything they 626 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 1: were saying. I was like, that happened to me in 627 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:33,000 Speaker 1: this way, and it was just I was like, oh 628 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 1: my god, I'm in a colt. I mean, so smart 629 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 1: and educated, vulnerable. I joined a cult. It was so easy. 630 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 1: It was the easiest thing I've ever done. Joining that 631 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 1: could really exactly joining at least not maintaining, but joined 632 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 1: it right. I think if exactly what you said, vulnerability 633 00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 1: precarity like scarcely like that will dry otherwise, you know, 634 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:06,560 Speaker 1: like reasonable, rational, intelligent people to do things that like 635 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 1: one by you know, incrementially they're like wait a minute, 636 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 1: like what am I actually doing here? Like we're like, 637 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: how did I found myself so deep into this um? 638 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 1: And I think you're exactly right, But it's it's not 639 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: it's luring. It's luring them in. You know, first you 640 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: think it's so lifestyle, fake it till you make it. Yeah, 641 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: you look at those posts on social media. You look 642 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 1: at like actual influencers, right, and they post things and 643 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 1: I think there's this this need. And another reason why 644 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 1: social media fueled this so much was you look at 645 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: actual influencers and you go, they're just sharing like pictures 646 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,920 Speaker 1: of like PEPSI like they're making all this money, Like 647 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 1: I can do that, and it's coming from someone that 648 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 1: did it. It's way more than that. But um, you know, 649 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 1: it's tough, and people think they can buy this kit 650 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 1: in a box and become a social media influencer who 651 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 1: sells shakes on social media and they're using you know, 652 00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:00,040 Speaker 1: they're they're basically just free advertising for these MLMs, and 653 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 1: they're they're selling product that nobody really wants. And you know, 654 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 1: a couple of friends will help you out. But for 655 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 1: the most part, the statistic for MLM sales is n 656 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 1: of MLM stuff stays within the MLM. It's just MLM 657 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 1: hunts shopping from mL M hunts, like, oh my god, 658 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 1: I didn't get that next because it was sold out. 659 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 1: Well I got signed. Did you want to buy one 660 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 1: for me. Oh my god, we'll full price with courts. 661 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,440 Speaker 1: So you're buying in between and are it's sitting in 662 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: your garage? Ten percent? Ten percent makes it outside the 663 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:33,960 Speaker 1: MLM ten wow, temper that is nothing per cent ninety 664 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 1: stays in. It's in people's garages. It's in people's like 665 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:40,440 Speaker 1: closets or their jewelry boxes, and they doesn't have to 666 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 1: have it because the true customers are the consultants. True 667 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 1: customers are consoled in every single MLM. I'll get hate 668 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 1: for that too, but that's true. People go, um, you 669 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 1: were just bitter, like you just were in the wrong MLM. 670 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 1: I said, no, I wasn't. I've tried multiple and they're 671 00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,520 Speaker 1: all the same. I talked to victims and they're all 672 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 1: the same. They're all the same. I challenge anybody that's 673 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 1: listening to this that things they have an m l 674 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,880 Speaker 1: M that is not the same to email me and 675 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:09,960 Speaker 1: let me know and I will prove me wrong. It'll 676 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 1: probably take me about five minutes, so make sure it's 677 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:19,799 Speaker 1: a good one. So I had to ask. One of 678 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 1: my last questions for you, is I know in the 679 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 1: film that you said that your goal ultimately when you left. 680 00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 1: Lular row was to get seventy five people out, because 681 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: that's how many people you had in your your down line. 682 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 1: And you know, through your podcast, through your your work 683 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,719 Speaker 1: building communities with people who are involved with m l 684 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,439 Speaker 1: m S and reducing stigma and getting folks to talk 685 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 1: honestly about it, you've probably helped like that number of 686 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 1: times a hundred. How does that feel for you that 687 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,480 Speaker 1: you once were someone who were recruiting people to be 688 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,720 Speaker 1: involved in this and now you have kind of gotten 689 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,720 Speaker 1: so many people out of it and reduced that stigma 690 00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 1: for so many people, Like what is that like for 691 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:04,240 Speaker 1: you a resonal level? Oh? Man, that's a good question. Um, 692 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: you know, it's true. I wanted to get out because 693 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 1: I had at my height, I had seventy five women 694 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 1: in only a few of them I knew, you know, 695 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,000 Speaker 1: I talked about that too, being stacked. So there was 696 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 1: a lot of people. So I really, I mean, I 697 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,880 Speaker 1: feel responsible for all seventy five, but I feel deeply 698 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 1: responsible for maybe about twenty of them even more so. Um, 699 00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 1: and I just knew and a lot of them left 700 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,080 Speaker 1: before me, and they were like ROBERTA, And I was like, 701 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 1: it's weird, right, And they're like, it's super weird. And 702 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 1: you know, they also helped me get out, and I 703 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 1: appreciate them and I loved them for that as well, 704 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 1: because they helped me sort of see it when I 705 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: couldn't see it. And I needed that outside perspective because 706 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 1: if you're in an MLM and you're only asking inside perspective, 707 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 1: you will never get out of your MLM. You have 708 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 1: to reach out of the organization. You will never find 709 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 1: truth where it is being suppressed UM. And so I 710 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: knew that getting out was like something I had to do, 711 00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:01,800 Speaker 1: and I grappled with it. I grappled the struggle. I cried. 712 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 1: I I felt like the biggest piece of ship in 713 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: the whole entire world. But I had trusted the wrong 714 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,800 Speaker 1: people and had gotten people that I loved and trusted 715 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:16,799 Speaker 1: in it to it. And I I first turned my 716 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 1: shopping group into a goob mall. So goog stands for 717 00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 1: going out of business, and we called we called us, 718 00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:24,439 Speaker 1: we called ourselves goobers, which is that in the group 719 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:27,200 Speaker 1: it says like Roberta's Google goog goobing with roberta and friends, 720 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:31,359 Speaker 1: or that I forget UM and I turned it into 721 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 1: a goog mall and I said, you guys can use 722 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,879 Speaker 1: my group and you can sell your stuff, and we 723 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:37,840 Speaker 1: we helped a lot of people liquidate their inventory. In 724 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,600 Speaker 1: the beginning, because I didn't really know how to help people. 725 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,879 Speaker 1: I I wasn't so first on MLM, and I hadn't 726 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 1: found my voice, and I didn't really have a platform yet. 727 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:46,440 Speaker 1: I just knew that I was helping people out, and 728 00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 1: I helped a couple of people out that way. And 729 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 1: then you know when when the media came and they 730 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: asked me to speak, and and my team and Defective 731 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 1: were like, yeah, Roberta, you you do it because you 732 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,880 Speaker 1: talked to people better. I was like, okay, I'll be 733 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:03,719 Speaker 1: the face. All right, let's do this. And it was 734 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,640 Speaker 1: kind of reluctant, but also at the same time, I 735 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 1: was like, whatever, let's do this. You know someone has 736 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 1: to be the one to talk to media, It'll be me. 737 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 1: And ever since, from like that first the first thing 738 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 1: I ever did, I started getting messages from people saying 739 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:21,360 Speaker 1: I read this, and you confirmed some things, and I 740 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 1: joined effective and I'm leaving or you know something you 741 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,200 Speaker 1: said about this remind me about my time in Mala Lucca, 742 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 1: And so I looked into it and it's an m 743 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:31,880 Speaker 1: l M, right, And I said yeah, and they're like, 744 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 1: I gotta leave. And so all of a sudden, these 745 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,920 Speaker 1: people started coming to me. And it wasn't just seventy 746 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,799 Speaker 1: five women in Rowe anymore. It was like thousands and 747 00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 1: thousands and thousands and thousands of people across MLM. Like 748 00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 1: I get emails messages with my My inboxes are so full, 749 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:49,280 Speaker 1: I can't even get through them. Yeah, I mean, it's 750 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,880 Speaker 1: it's it's incredible. People want to tell their story. People 751 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,200 Speaker 1: want to come on my podcast and tell their story. 752 00:38:55,360 --> 00:39:00,359 Speaker 1: And you know, I was given that platform to tell 753 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 1: my story when I did the Vice documentary, and to me, 754 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,880 Speaker 1: it was the best therapy I could have ever gotten 755 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,600 Speaker 1: because I was given a platform to tell my story 756 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 1: and have somebody saying you're not crazy. It happened to 757 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:16,200 Speaker 1: me too. Um And so in February I started my 758 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,600 Speaker 1: own podcast because I thought, hey, that's a great way 759 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:22,719 Speaker 1: to help even more people and just sorry, I told 760 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:24,359 Speaker 1: my story. That was the first episode I Told My Story. 761 00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,479 Speaker 1: I think it has twenty thousand downloads that that first 762 00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 1: pilotus And you know, I just sort of sat there 763 00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:33,279 Speaker 1: on Valentine'sday was my first Valentine's Day single in a 764 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 1: long time. And I just sat there and told my 765 00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 1: story and uploaded it that same day, and I was like, well, 766 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 1: I guess I just started a podcast. And so many 767 00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:42,760 Speaker 1: people were like, oh my god, thank god you finally 768 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 1: started this podcast. When can I be on it? And 769 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,040 Speaker 1: the response has been overwhelming. I can't even keep up 770 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 1: with it. I probably meet like a producer or a 771 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,719 Speaker 1: helper of some sort, but you know, baby steps, day 772 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:55,800 Speaker 1: by day, We'll see where it goes from here. Um. 773 00:39:55,880 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 1: But to me, like everything I've done has helped more 774 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,400 Speaker 1: people each time I do it, and so I love 775 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,320 Speaker 1: that I've helped so many people. It makes me feel 776 00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,440 Speaker 1: like all of this was worth it, you know, like 777 00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 1: the butterfly effect of me saying maybe I should join 778 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: this buttery crotch pant company. Um. And like ruining, I 779 00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 1: didn't ruin my life. I don't want to use the 780 00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:23,040 Speaker 1: term ruined my life. UM. I don't think I'm ruined. 781 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 1: I do know that there were people that were ruined. UM. 782 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 1: I could have been ruined, but I wasn't. And I 783 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,839 Speaker 1: think I've used my strength my dad, who passed away 784 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,400 Speaker 1: in two thousand thirteen, is. It is a huge influence 785 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,880 Speaker 1: and in like just a strong force. He's with me 786 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,800 Speaker 1: all the time. He's probably disappointed that even joining the 787 00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:46,840 Speaker 1: Lure in the first place, but he's really really proud 788 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 1: of me that I'm fighting against them now. Um. And 789 00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 1: you know, for me, it's just he taught me to 790 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 1: do what's right and when I see something, to say something. 791 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,600 Speaker 1: And that's something that we're doing now. You know, there 792 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: there are so many different social justice issues that there are. 793 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 1: There's so many different social justice issues and so many 794 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:12,240 Speaker 1: different movements, and it is so incredible that the Internet 795 00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 1: has given us a giant platform to be able to 796 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:16,880 Speaker 1: talk to people, to be able to share our stories 797 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 1: and be able to corroborate experiences in any of these movements. 798 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,719 Speaker 1: And I'm just so happy that I get to be 799 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,120 Speaker 1: a part of this movement and I get to be 800 00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:29,080 Speaker 1: a part of helping people learn that, like Emma, limbs 801 00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 1: are nasty and not worth it. And you know, I 802 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 1: love to educate that on TikTok. We educate all day 803 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:39,280 Speaker 1: when I'm not banned on TikTok about why em limbs 804 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:43,760 Speaker 1: are bad. If you have questions, I will answer them, um, 805 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,840 Speaker 1: and we we break it down. We break down the stigma, 806 00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:51,560 Speaker 1: and we we take this really giant, complicated, confusing topic 807 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:56,920 Speaker 1: and we break it down into much easier consumable things. 808 00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,440 Speaker 1: And um, I was talking my friend the other night 809 00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:01,640 Speaker 1: because he's like, this this anti am olym thing is 810 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,399 Speaker 1: so confusing. I don't understand it. And I said, it's 811 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,839 Speaker 1: like math, right, you don't start with calculus on day one, 812 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,879 Speaker 1: so you learn the basic principles of why am alyin 813 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,799 Speaker 1: is bad, and then you work your way up to 814 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:16,880 Speaker 1: the government collusion. We don't start there. Like there are 815 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,560 Speaker 1: so many people are like, why aren't these companies still legal? 816 00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 1: And I said, the government protects them. They're like what 817 00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 1: I said, that's calculus. You're still in basic middle school altble, 818 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,120 Speaker 1: So let's start there. And and you know, I know 819 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,319 Speaker 1: this is like all Chicken walked everywhere and I talk 820 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:38,480 Speaker 1: a lot, but that's why I have a podcast, um um. 821 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:42,399 Speaker 1: But yeah, you know it's it's I just feel like 822 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,920 Speaker 1: it's a big jog or not and it's like just 823 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,520 Speaker 1: getting bigger and it's just rolling. And I've been talking 824 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:51,160 Speaker 1: with the producers because everybody's like, we need a second 825 00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 1: season and talking with them about you know what the 826 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:58,440 Speaker 1: future looks like and uh, We've been on the phone 827 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,400 Speaker 1: and in texts for the past couple day, so I 828 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,919 Speaker 1: can't really say anything yet, but there are definitely things 829 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 1: moving forward um and new projects being talked about because 830 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,880 Speaker 1: people are so enthusiastic. So keep commenting, keep telling us 831 00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,120 Speaker 1: that you want more episodes, that you want more m 832 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,839 Speaker 1: lens to be exposed, that you want more dirt uh, 833 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,680 Speaker 1: and more big batties to be taken down. Um and 834 00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 1: I will do my best two you know, get it 835 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,960 Speaker 1: to the right people's hands. Hell yeah, we need going 836 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:31,759 Speaker 1: Clear style docu series starring Roberta taking down m l ms. 837 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,279 Speaker 1: Like when where is the thing that we need it? Now? 838 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,720 Speaker 1: I know I want that. Let's do that. That's a baz. 839 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:40,479 Speaker 1: I got all kinds of contacts, like we could, we could, 840 00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:43,640 Speaker 1: we could bake that, we could bake that. It would 841 00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,600 Speaker 1: be amazing. I love it, Roberta. Where can folks keep 842 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,880 Speaker 1: up with you your podcast and your work? Okay, so 843 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,000 Speaker 1: you can find me on Instagram. I have two different instagrams. 844 00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 1: I have the real Robert of Levins where I do 845 00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,480 Speaker 1: advocacy stuff and I'll share TikTok videos there when I'm 846 00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,879 Speaker 1: when I'm banned. That's what you find me when TikTok's down. 847 00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,880 Speaker 1: And then my podcast has an Instagram as well, called 848 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,520 Speaker 1: Life After m l M Podcast. Uh. And then you 849 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,040 Speaker 1: can find me on TikTok at birda Like Woe or 850 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:11,440 Speaker 1: birda like Whoa two point oh. If I'm blocked currently, 851 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,120 Speaker 1: they're both blocks, and when you go to follow me, 852 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 1: it will tell you that I do have community violations 853 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:17,680 Speaker 1: and they're gonna ask if you're sure, and you're just 854 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:21,319 Speaker 1: gonna want to say yes, I am only the best 855 00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,279 Speaker 1: of us. Get those warnings. Uh. And then you can 856 00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,080 Speaker 1: find me on Twitter, which I just started doing, and 857 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,440 Speaker 1: that's bird of like Woe too. And then Facebook is 858 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,279 Speaker 1: Roberta Levens. You can find me there and I believe 859 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,279 Speaker 1: the podcast has a Facebook page two, but I'm very 860 00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 1: bad at updating things. I love it well, Roberta. I 861 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 1: cannot tell you how grateful I am for you sharing 862 00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:39,600 Speaker 1: your story in the film. You're probably my favorite part 863 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:42,080 Speaker 1: of the film, and honestly, I as soon as I 864 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 1: saw it, I was like I had to talk to her. 865 00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:46,400 Speaker 1: She is amazing. Thank you so much for all your 866 00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 1: work helping people you know, talk about this and all 867 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,759 Speaker 1: your honesty and sharing your experiences and just who you are. 868 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 1: You really I can listen to you talk all day. 869 00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,239 Speaker 1: You really have a lightness and an energy to you 870 00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,279 Speaker 1: that I think really bring. You bring so much of 871 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:07,239 Speaker 1: yourself to this. So thank you got a story about 872 00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 1: an interesting thing in tech, or just want to say hi. 873 00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 1: You can reach us at Hello at tangodi dot com. 874 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,400 Speaker 1: You can also find transcripts for today's episode at tangodi 875 00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,560 Speaker 1: dot com. There Are No Girls on the Internet was 876 00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 1: created by me Bridget Tod. It's a production of I 877 00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:22,600 Speaker 1: Heart Radio and Unboss creative Jonathan Strickland as our executive producer. 878 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,160 Speaker 1: Ary Harrison is our producer and sound engineer. Michael Amato 879 00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,799 Speaker 1: is our contributing producer. I'm your host, Bridget Tod. 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