Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Ashley is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: She's been with her boyfriend Ryan for four years, but
Speaker 2: now she thinks something might be going on, so we'll
Speaker 2: see if we can to help her out. Ashley, thanks
Speaker 2: for coming on the show. Sorry it has to be
Speaker 2: this way. What's going on?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, honestly, I've heard this so many times
Speaker 3: and never thought that I would call in, but hear Ian.
Speaker 3: So we've Yeah, we've been together four years, you know,
Speaker 3: ups and down like anybody else. I mean, not what
Speaker 3: you see on Instagram a couples. But I kind of
Speaker 3: just feel like he's done with the relationship. So it's
Speaker 3: just kind of like heavy on my heart right now.
Speaker 3: So I just want to test it. I want to
Speaker 3: test it. And so basically, what's going on. I used
Speaker 3: to travel a lot for work, but now I'm not,
Speaker 3: and he's been traveling for his job. But it just
Speaker 3: keeps kind of picking up.
Speaker 4: Mike.
Speaker 3: He'll he'll fly off somewhere for a week, and then
Speaker 3: he comes home for a couple of days, and then
Speaker 3: he leaves again. And then when he does come home,
Speaker 3: which has been like, you know, increasing over the last
Speaker 3: couple of months, Like when he's going away, so when
Speaker 3: he's coming home, he always seems like he has something
Speaker 3: better to do. So it's it's starting to be kind
Speaker 3: of it feels like he doesn't want to be at
Speaker 3: home anymore, and I feel like I deserve better when
Speaker 3: he's home, she's not wanting to be inimate anymore, which
Speaker 3: is ever?
Speaker 1: And what does he say? How does he stop that?
Speaker 1: He kind of like.
Speaker 3: When he comes home now, she's always hiding off in
Speaker 3: his office for hours. It's like he makes a team,
Speaker 3: Like he's writing emails, but as soon as I walk away,
Speaker 3: his messenger notification kind of pings over and over and over,
Speaker 3: like there's a conversation going on and we're always like
Speaker 3: really going to each other about like oh I'm talking
Speaker 3: to I'm Johnny Gonco. Like they're so funny, and you
Speaker 3: know it's women's intuition. You just kind of feel like
Speaker 3: he's he's messaging with someone, like we know each other's friends,
Speaker 3: we know each other's so for me, like we're really
Speaker 3: good friends with each other, you know, like I care
Speaker 3: about him, and so I did come bron him about it,
Speaker 3: you know, I'm like, you've been gone more, you haven't
Speaker 3: really been wanting to touch me, and you're hiding away
Speaker 3: in your office. He legit just shrugged it off. He
Speaker 3: said he has a new assistant in his office and
Speaker 3: he's been showing her the ropes, so that's kind of
Speaker 3: been taking a lot of time. But I've seen I've
Speaker 3: seen her, and I'm really not the jealous type, but
Speaker 3: she's legit his type, So.
Speaker 1: So you think it might actually be the assistant that
Speaker 1: he's talking to.
Speaker 3: I do. It's like a horrible feeling in my stomach,
Speaker 3: like I just I want to believe that you would
Speaker 3: never cheat on me, because we're really not, like we've
Speaker 3: talked about that in the past, like we wish how
Speaker 3: we wouldn't do it. I hope it's all in my head.
Speaker 3: I really don't know. I don't know. I have a
Speaker 3: lobble feeling so here I am.
Speaker 4: I just don't like how he handled you. Confronting him
Speaker 4: about the time spent shrugging it off and not taking
Speaker 4: the time to make you feel better is really unsettling.
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people do that.
Speaker 2: You know, it sucks because I think they think about themselves,
Speaker 2: like how I'm not whatever, and then they it's like,
Speaker 2: but you're someone else's talking to you that you care about,
Speaker 2: like it's about them at that moment, and that's fine. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you know, like so anyway, yeah, that sucks the way
Speaker 2: that was handled. All right, Well, you told us what
Speaker 2: a grocery store he's a rewards card member at.
Speaker 1: So we'll do the usual.
Speaker 2: We'll call and pretend to be from the grocery store
Speaker 2: and say that every single month, we choose one rewards
Speaker 2: card member at random who gets free flowers delivered from
Speaker 2: our floral department, and we'll see if he sends those
Speaker 2: to you or to somebody else. Okay, I'm su all right,
Speaker 2: well play a sound comeback here to catch a seat
Speaker 2: next right in the middle of to catch a cheater
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us.
Speaker 1: Ashley is on the phone.
Speaker 2: She's been with her boyfriend Ryan for four years and
Speaker 2: now she thinks that he might be cheating. So in
Speaker 2: a second, we're gonna call him and pretend to be
Speaker 2: from the grocery store that he's a rewards carmember at,
Speaker 2: and say that he's this month's big winner of flowers
Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that he wants from our floral department,
Speaker 2: and we'll see if he believes that first of all,
Speaker 2: and then if he sends those flowers to Ashley or
Speaker 2: to somebody else. But before we do that, Ashley, why
Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 3: So we've been together four years. I used to travel
Speaker 3: a bunch for work. He's the one that's traveling now.
Speaker 3: In his time away just keeps increasing. And then when
Speaker 3: he is home, he's been kind of avoiding me. He's
Speaker 3: been working in his office and you know, big run
Speaker 3: flag for me and not wanting to be in it,
Speaker 3: which no one should ever feel.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had that happen to me a lot.
Speaker 3: It's humiliating and like it's you know, I'm talking to
Speaker 3: him about it, like it's not like I'm like, he
Speaker 3: do you take up the trash? Like I brought it
Speaker 3: up to him, like this is a really big deal.
Speaker 3: I'm selling like this And he said, nothing's going on.
Speaker 3: But I still feel.
Speaker 1: Like there is with his assistant too, is who you
Speaker 1: think it is?
Speaker 3: Yes, total opposite looking of me, totally his previous type
Speaker 3: before me.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, were you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1: I guess Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, this is shorttle calling from I was looking
Speaker 2: for our rewards card member named Ryan.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, that's me Ryan.
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to say congratulations and thank you for
Speaker 2: your business. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 5: Uh okay, where did I win?
Speaker 1: The flowers?
Speaker 5: The flowers.
Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member who
Speaker 2: gets free flowers delivered from our brand new floral apartment
Speaker 2: to anybody that they want in the entire United States.
Speaker 2: It's absolutely free. You've won thirty six long stem red roses,
Speaker 2: a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 2: be delivered to anybody that you want.
Speaker 1: It's actually a three hundred and eighty two dollars value.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 5: Okay, So, so you'll send flowers anywhere?
Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, cool?
Speaker 5: Great.
Speaker 2: Let me let me just give it to tell you
Speaker 2: how it works. Then I can take the information over
Speaker 2: the phone. In a matter of minutes, I can call
Speaker 2: you back if you don't know who you want to
Speaker 2: send them to right now?
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, no, we can do it on the phone. Okay,
Speaker 5: let's send these flowers to Dano.
Speaker 1: Okay, and do you want to send a card along
Speaker 1: with this?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, say something like I cannot wait to hold
Speaker 5: you again and the thought of your arms gives me strikes.
Speaker 2: Okay, got that, And now at this point, I would
Speaker 2: like to tell you that my name is actually Jubil,
Speaker 2: and I'm calling from a radio show that's called The
Speaker 2: Jubil Show, and your girlfriend Ashley is actually on the
Speaker 2: phone listening.
Speaker 3: No, yeah, hold on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what this is.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Hi, you said, actually there yep.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I am. You know, like I asked
Speaker 3: you this and you told me nothing was going on.
Speaker 3: But I can't believe it. I mean, I I asked
Speaker 3: you about this and you told me now and now
Speaker 3: it's your assistant. Like I just knew it. I knew it,
Speaker 3: and I asked you and you denied it. Why would
Speaker 3: you do this? But I can't believe that.
Speaker 5: Actually, look, it's not it's not an easy thing to say.
Speaker 5: It's not it's not something I'm happy about. It's look, Ashley,
Speaker 5: I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: It's just you're not happy. How disrespectful you're not happy about?
Speaker 3: What are you even talking about? It sounds like you
Speaker 3: you said you can't wait to be in her arms again.
Speaker 3: It sounds like if you want this to happen, what
Speaker 3: are you even thinking. Look, it's just it's I don't
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: It's it's it's an escape, it's a I mean, I mean,
Speaker 5: you know, things haven't felt good with us for a
Speaker 5: long time, and and you know, with with me traveling
Speaker 5: more and and she has to travel with me a lot.
Speaker 5: So like it's just we have things we connect on
Speaker 5: the lifestyle, to travel, the work, the loneliness. It just
Speaker 5: made sense and with us sort of feeling like there
Speaker 5: was a distance outside of.
Speaker 3: It, I just I'm sorry, Well, you should have broken
Speaker 3: up with me, then you should have told me, and
Speaker 3: you should have broken up with me. And we've been
Speaker 3: together long enough that you could have told me, and
Speaker 3: we could have broken up, and then you can do
Speaker 3: whatever you want.
Speaker 1: I love her, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know if I want us to be broken up.
Speaker 5: I just I don't know. I'm just trying to figure
Speaker 5: things out. And it's something I just kind of fell
Speaker 5: into and I should have.
Speaker 3: How long is this been going on?
Speaker 5: Like four or five months?
Speaker 3: WHOA I thought that this is legit only like two
Speaker 3: months and I asked you so long ago, Like, you're
Speaker 3: so disrespectful to be doing that to me this long.
Speaker 3: And I don't even know anything about her, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean? Like you have been taking intimacy away
Speaker 3: from me, which is so disrespectful to do to another
Speaker 3: human being. But you're disrespecting my body too. Does she
Speaker 3: know that you have a girlfriend for the song?
Speaker 5: Yes, of course she does. It didn't start off this way.
Speaker 5: I mean, I told her about my life, she told
Speaker 5: me about her life, her husband, all that, and then
Speaker 5: then we just sort of fell into this.
Speaker 3: Her husband, her husband. Oh my gosh, what are you
Speaker 3: doing her husband? She's married. You're in a relationship, You're
Speaker 3: not like in some fantasy land. She's married.
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm sure her husband would like to know what
Speaker 2: she's been doing on her business trips.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Now, I just feel like I should retouch her her
Speaker 3: husband and let him know so that he's not being
Speaker 3: disrespected as well as Ash.
Speaker 5: Come on, come on, you're already doing this on the radio.
Speaker 3: You don't look.
Speaker 1: I get.
Speaker 5: I get while you're married, and I care about you,
Speaker 5: But I but if you're going to be vindictive about it.
Speaker 3: You know. I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I can't.
Speaker 3: I deserve, I deserve better than this. I am a
Speaker 3: good person and I've treated them so well for four years.
Speaker 3: I've always been there for you, and I don't deserve
Speaker 3: to be treated like this. I deserve to be loved
Speaker 3: by a good partner and you should be humiliated by
Speaker 3: what you've done.
Speaker 5: Okay, actually, okay, okay, okay, just thank you for four
Speaker 5: years of treating me well and one nightmare of a
Speaker 5: phone call that you're blasting to the world. So get
Speaker 5: the better that you deserve.
Speaker 1: And he hung up. Ashley, I'm really sorry, so sorry.
Speaker 3: I am too. I mean I was in our list
Speaker 3: that would end up this way and it did. So
Speaker 3: I just need to go for a walk and clear
Speaker 3: my head right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure you need to do whatever you gotta do,
Speaker 4: but just know this was a two for you did
Speaker 4: your good deed, two for one for I have.
Speaker 3: The rest of the day. I'm going to walk in
Speaker 3: google her husband now that I have her Latin names, okay,
Speaker 3: so I can let him know the jewbile shows to
Speaker 3: catch a cheater