WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Real Life Ghosting

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of date.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll admit I'm no dating expert, even though Brooke describes

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<v Speaker 2>me as a chiseled god of romance.

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<v Speaker 1>I said that I don't know everything.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never thought it.

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<v Speaker 1>When you just say it. I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 2>One thing that I would argue is kind of important though,

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<v Speaker 2>for a good date is you should probably be in

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<v Speaker 2>the same room or at least the same building as

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<v Speaker 2>them for most of the night your date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what, our.

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<v Speaker 3>Virtual date's not a thing anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Not counting the virtual stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And apparently that did not happen for one of our listeners, Mike,

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<v Speaker 2>who lost track of his lady somewhere along the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Mike, don't feel bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Even romance gods like ourselves make mistakes sometimes, right, Bud,

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<v Speaker 2>that's true for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, please tell me you were like a huge party

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<v Speaker 4>or something and that's why you couldn't find her, right

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<v Speaker 4>like he just didn't find the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Doesn't sound good.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it wasn't like that at all.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I meant the car online.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what's her name? I'm sorry, the car car?

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<v Speaker 1>The car?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, I thought you were buying a car and

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<v Speaker 2>that's a cool, unique name. So you said you meant

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<v Speaker 2>the car online on like a dating app.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she posted something that she wanted to go to

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<v Speaker 5>a you know, for Halloween and stuff like a horn

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<v Speaker 5>in half because she wanted to scream.

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<v Speaker 3>Now this makes sense.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was cute if I said, well, listen,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll make.

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<v Speaker 6>You scream and I'll take you to the hearted house.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well that this right off the bat on Tinder. But

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<v Speaker 3>that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It depends on alady. You do your thing, bromance, God,

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<v Speaker 1>you got this man?

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<v Speaker 6>I did? I did put the lo O L in

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<v Speaker 6>good and she thought it was funny.

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<v Speaker 5>Got a date okay, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>So we go out and to tell you it was

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<v Speaker 6>like a normal, pretty good day. If we grabbed some drinks.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you did beforehand. That's good. That's a good plan.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, usually drinks after the date is over to

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<v Speaker 2>erase all the memories of the terrible things that during

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<v Speaker 2>and after.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm drunk when I show up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my husband's especially if you're planning to go to

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<v Speaker 2>a haunted house.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I mean, what did you guys talk about?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, the normal stuff, talked about our families,

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<v Speaker 5>and you're also talked about Halloween memories and that's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, You're probably only person in the line. That's thankful.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a long line because you have time.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, usually walked in.

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<v Speaker 4>And well they were, they're at drinks when they're having

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<v Speaker 4>these conversations.

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<v Speaker 5>I think, you know, it was great that we had

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<v Speaker 5>drinks because we are able to make a reservation the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It all out, so you didn't have to wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Classy haunted house if they only take reservations, but we

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<v Speaker 2>don't accept walkins.

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<v Speaker 3>Like you have to book a slot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yea too, I mean, and that's like, I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you were dialed in on this date. I would be

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<v Speaker 4>impressed as a woman, like, you've got drinks handled, you

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<v Speaker 4>have the time slot available, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Can drink and you can keep time. You've won over

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<v Speaker 1>Brook already. Tell us how the Haunted house went.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, I have been to a haunted house

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<v Speaker 5>in a very long time, and here's the thing. So

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<v Speaker 5>we get into this place and I gotta be honest

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<v Speaker 5>with you, it was like way more scarier than I thought.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they're scared, right, They're not like the ones of

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<v Speaker 4>our childhood.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, where it's like a cardboard room. Have you one yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this stupid shows fourth we.

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<v Speaker 3>Need to make him.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you handle the tightened level of scariness.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I got scared, I don't know two or three times,

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<v Speaker 5>and I actually screamed. I mean the thing jumped out.

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<v Speaker 6>Of nowhere and I screamed.

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<v Speaker 2>And then wait, honkey, masculine scream.

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<v Speaker 3>It's more fun if both people are into it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, what was her reaction to you? I mean

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<v Speaker 3>she was screaming too, right, like a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>But I'll be honest with you, there was a couple

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<v Speaker 5>of times, but I was definitely screaming more.

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<v Speaker 1>But you were the scared one.

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<v Speaker 5>The crazy thing was we ended up in this room

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<v Speaker 5>and it was all kinds of strobe lights. Fog comes

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<v Speaker 5>in next to you know, like she's gone.

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<v Speaker 6>She's like, not with me anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>What I'm like, where did she go? I thought maybe

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<v Speaker 5>she went through the door before I did and she

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<v Speaker 5>didn't see It's why I gotta go into the next

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<v Speaker 5>room and she's not there.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you yelling her name?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's hard to hear in those places because

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<v Speaker 4>it's so loud, and you can't like go backwards because

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<v Speaker 4>there's so many people.

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<v Speaker 2>Are the haunted houses that elaborate now where they like

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<v Speaker 2>set you up on a date and then they have

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<v Speaker 2>your date mysteriously vanished in the middle of the haunted pool.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, it's a real life GHO scene.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, this place is elaborate.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I could see where it'd be easy to

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<v Speaker 4>lose someone, Like I've been separated from people in those

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<v Speaker 4>places because it's dark, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Drop your phone and you have to find it or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've done that.

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<v Speaker 6>Well you see, that's what I thought, but it catch

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<v Speaker 6>even works for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I get outside and.

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<v Speaker 6>She's still gone.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't like ask get around to like people that

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<v Speaker 5>worked there, and I.

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<v Speaker 3>Thought she'd be waiting at the exit for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I was like back in the parking lot, like

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<v Speaker 5>I just went to the car and yeah, listen, I

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<v Speaker 5>waited forty five minutes the outside of it. Then I

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<v Speaker 5>get a text from her and it just says got

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<v Speaker 5>an uber, And I was like, oh, kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So she left.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe she was waiting somewhere else and got mad that

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<v Speaker 4>you didn't find her, Like it's like, if you're waiting

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<v Speaker 4>for forty five minutes, that's all I would text is like,

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<v Speaker 4>gott uber thanks a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, so I typed in't but wait, I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>even make you stream yet, continuing that joke. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>nothing no text BacT.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys can't even talk in a haunted house.

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<v Speaker 6>There's not like anything change.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you mentioned maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't like him before she went in. You know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean? We don't know. I mean he thinks

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<v Speaker 3>that things were going well.

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<v Speaker 2>Or is it possible because you mentioned like the screaming

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<v Speaker 2>on your end, Brooke, is it a deal breaker if

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<v Speaker 2>your guide date screams louder and more often than you.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're you're turned on by by.

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<v Speaker 4>A scared I like him to cry too, No, honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>like like my dad is one of the toughest guys

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<v Speaker 4>I know, and like he would scream louder.

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<v Speaker 2>Third, to bring up your dad during a dating second

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<v Speaker 2>you're taking us.

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<v Speaker 1>Down a weird path. Please leave your family out of

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<v Speaker 1>one second date. Please.

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<v Speaker 2>When we call this woman Dakar and ask her what

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<v Speaker 2>happened at the house, don't don't talk to me like

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<v Speaker 2>you talk to your dad. We're gonna do this right

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<v Speaker 2>after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just joining us, we're in the middle of

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<v Speaker 2>a Halloween theme. Second date update with one of our listeners, Mike,

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<v Speaker 2>who took a woman named Dakar to a haunted house

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<v Speaker 2>recently lost track of her halfway through. He just turned

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<v Speaker 2>around in a strobe light room and suddenly she was gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Who wasn't waiting for him at the exit.

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<v Speaker 2>He couldn't find her anywhere, and then forty five minutes

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<v Speaker 2>later got a text saying she had.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotten uber home and that was her last communication to

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<v Speaker 1>a very happy text. Has not been responding.

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<v Speaker 2>And Mike, how long ago did this happen that you

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<v Speaker 2>guys were at the haunted house together?

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<v Speaker 6>It was about a week ago, so.

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<v Speaker 4>Not not enough time for a missing person's report.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think it's too late for a missing person. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we know she's I've heard forty hours long.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm gone for a week.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait a while for you.

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<v Speaker 2>We have no clue why she wouldn't be responding or

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<v Speaker 2>what happened. What are some of the theories that we

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<v Speaker 2>have about this, Jose, do you think is there anything

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<v Speaker 2>in your head? Well, we didn't ask, and this isn't

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<v Speaker 2>very like a proper question asked, but does she have

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<v Speaker 2>a d D?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I have add.

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<v Speaker 3>There's like shiny mirror a mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>Yell, a collar, and she could have just left.

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<v Speaker 5>The wrong door.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she seem easily distracted Mike.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think so. That's why I was like shocked.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought she just she went out of the different doors.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's a better question. Were any of the zombies super hot?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe she sing she liked better in the corner here.

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<v Speaker 2>I always got to keep an eye out for those

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<v Speaker 2>attractive circus workers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you got to make sure you go to the ugly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, just keep that in mind. Hopefully we can

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<v Speaker 2>get you another date with the car if she picks

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<v Speaker 2>up though.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with

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<v Speaker 1>the car.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>We're the show?

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<v Speaker 3>What we don't know this person? I'm sorry, I apologize.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 2>the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I was waiting, man, that was a bad welcome to

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<v Speaker 3>the show.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll turn out to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you wait?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay. We're a radio show. We're called Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>We do this segment called a second Date Update, where

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<v Speaker 2>we try to help our listeners if they get ghosted

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<v Speaker 2>after a date or in your case.

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<v Speaker 1>In the middle of a date, and they don't know why,

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<v Speaker 1>then they.

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<v Speaker 2>Can reach out to us for a little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>help in figuring out the answers.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, so why are you calling me.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you went out with a guy named Mike is

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<v Speaker 2>having like a week ago when you went to a

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<v Speaker 2>haunted house and he lost track of you in the

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<v Speaker 2>middle of it.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, that was a close call.

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<v Speaker 3>What.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know if I should like say anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, all right, we'll have a good day. This is

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<v Speaker 2>how it works on the show. The people who call

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<v Speaker 2>us agree beforehand to hear whatever the reason might be,

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<v Speaker 2>even if it's embarrassing or whatever it is. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>he's totally in the dark for what happened.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean it kind of started when we were

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<v Speaker 7>having during I don't know if he told you, but

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<v Speaker 7>we did some drinks before the main date was just

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<v Speaker 7>like a haunted house.

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<v Speaker 4>So it did start before you went to the haunted

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<v Speaker 4>house where you were getting some sort of weird vibes

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<v Speaker 4>or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>So I'm sitting there having drinks and like, he looked

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<v Speaker 7>so familiar to me, and I'm just racking my brain

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<v Speaker 7>we're talking about just you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Because of the picture online, Like you're like, whoa, he

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<v Speaker 4>actually looks like his profile.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, he did look a little bit different in

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<v Speaker 7>person than he did online. And I don't think I

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<v Speaker 7>would have gone out with him had I seen this.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's what she means.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, that's not the problem. Wasn't like what he looked.

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<v Speaker 7>It was like the night or two before. I was

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<v Speaker 7>watching the news and there was this police sketch of

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<v Speaker 7>a guy who was doing really lude and you know,

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<v Speaker 7>horrible things and haunted houses.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a flasher like that type of thing.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, catch looks like him in person, not like him online.

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<v Speaker 2>Just real quick, the sketch doesn't look like me or anything, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to make sure they.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't catch you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, No, that's not funny. That would be so free.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, did you look up on your phone while he

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<v Speaker 4>was sitting there to see if you're like, because sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>your memory can play tricks with you or something.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, I will excuse myself to go to the

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<v Speaker 7>bathroom and then you know, I can't be one hundred

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<v Speaker 7>per cent sure because it is a police sketch. But

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<v Speaker 7>I was just like, I'm not gonna take any chances.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, if you're not gonna take any chances, why would

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<v Speaker 2>you go into the haunted house with it?

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you leave at the drinks?

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<v Speaker 7>In my brain, I was like, oh my god, a

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<v Speaker 7>hot house. It's gonna be dark, there's gonna corners. I

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<v Speaker 7>can slip out at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>But now you're bringing the criminal to the place.

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<v Speaker 3>A minute though, before we jump on the like, this

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<v Speaker 3>is the guy.

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<v Speaker 4>He told us he hadn't been to a haunted house

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<v Speaker 4>in years, and he was actually worried that he was

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<v Speaker 4>screaming so loud.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's why because like, remember he was so scared.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, like I said, I couldn't be one hundred percent sure, Ok,

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<v Speaker 7>a lot like him, and I just followed my instincts

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<v Speaker 7>and I knocked out. You're in like a fog machine.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, all right, So you left in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of the day.

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<v Speaker 3>You call the police, did you the car?

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<v Speaker 2>There's two sides to every story. You should at least

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<v Speaker 2>hear Mike's version of what does.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that feels that.

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<v Speaker 6>God, are you serious?

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<v Speaker 2>Because Mike is on the other line right now wanting

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to you close on I assume.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean honestly, Like, if we had known, we would

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<v Speaker 4>have not said this up.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not convicted, even if he is the guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Comfortable and it's probably not even him.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know. Mike, Are you the guy? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>the flasher?

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<v Speaker 6>What are you guys talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, hold on, be honest.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't say no, I was a perfect gentleman.

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<v Speaker 5>We had a nice conversation over drinks.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't do any other I was getting it put

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<v Speaker 6>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, you they lure you in the perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>Streakers, aren't gentlemen?

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<v Speaker 4>Was a guy doing it on dates to you though?

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<v Speaker 4>Or just randomly haunted houses?

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<v Speaker 6>Like I don't. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good question, Like we should ask him about it, Mike,

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<v Speaker 2>are you doing this on dates?

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<v Speaker 1>Or do you just save it for special nights?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I've never been arrested in my entire life for

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<v Speaker 5>any arrested.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why.

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<v Speaker 1>Loose.

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<v Speaker 6>I've never been charged. I've never been arrested.

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<v Speaker 7>Do you go in hanted houses exposing yourself? You haven't

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<v Speaker 7>answered the question.

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<v Speaker 6>I've never exposed myself to anybody. You got to be

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<v Speaker 6>kidding me.

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<v Speaker 2>I do think we have to jump to Mike's defense here,

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<v Speaker 2>you're making a big assumption about a guy based on

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<v Speaker 2>a police sketch.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not even an actual photo.

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<v Speaker 4>He would be a really, really dumb criminal if he

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<v Speaker 4>came on a radio station. Ye, public, there are dumb

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<v Speaker 4>criminals out there. We cover those in a different segment

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<v Speaker 4>called Laser Stories.

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<v Speaker 2>But well, so the only fair thing to do is

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<v Speaker 2>have Mike stand in a police lineup of a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of other creepy looking guys and you maybe and.

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<v Speaker 1>Take his clothes off.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, well we get to the bottle, we'll solve

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<v Speaker 2>a crime and hopefully get another date out of it,

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<v Speaker 2>because that's the whole goal here.

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<v Speaker 5>To Caryah, I'm taking a beating here.

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<v Speaker 6>This islous.

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<v Speaker 4>Because we don't think it just John w Do you

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<v Speaker 4>guys remember his scream joke that he put at the

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<v Speaker 4>end last text, like she thought that he was in

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<v Speaker 4>a police sketch, And he's like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, have you even made you scream yet?

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<v Speaker 6>House I then screaming a good way.

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<v Speaker 7>You guys, you're out of your mind.

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<v Speaker 5>This is completely ridiculous. Don't even bother asking about the

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<v Speaker 5>second date. How I'd be afraid to get near this woman?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we don't even have to ask you're already going

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<v Speaker 2>to meet the car down at the police station and getting.

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<v Speaker 1>That line up.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I will get I will get that lineup.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, he'll see the police line up for you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a first for our show, for this segment. For sure,

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<v Speaker 2>the lineup, most people get arrested immediately. So I'd be

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<v Speaker 2>willing to give him a chance if I were you

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<v Speaker 2>to car. But the choice is yours. We'll send you

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<v Speaker 2>guys out on a date and pay for it if

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<v Speaker 2>you want.

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<v Speaker 3>To middle of the day, very public place.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, listen, as long as you don't want a trench coat.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait for real, you're actually going to agree to this

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<v Speaker 1>to car.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, you guys said you were going to pay

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<v Speaker 7>for it, we might as well. And then I'll bring

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<v Speaker 7>the sketch. And then our waitress does it look like him?

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody thinks they're on a murder podcast right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I swear you know what I'll go.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll go on the date, just so I have something

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<v Speaker 6>to tell my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, Mike.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe if the date goes well, YouTube will end up

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<v Speaker 2>at the courthouse and then you can get married and

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<v Speaker 2>they can put you behind bars, and once you're found to.

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<v Speaker 3>Be the right person, and you have your photographs done

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<v Speaker 3>because the monk shots a.

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<v Speaker 1>Hallmark call us idea rook Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, when you look back on your life and think

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<v Speaker 2>about all time worst first dates, getting mistaken for a

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<v Speaker 2>serial flasher has got to be up there at least

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<v Speaker 2>top five.

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<v Speaker 3>You're getting busted as a flasher.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so concerned about that. I didn't think about that one.

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<v Speaker 1>If he was like, yes, so what, Yeah, I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're sure he's not that guy.

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<v Speaker 4>On the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>If he was, it's reverse psychology, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>And he's like doing the most to be that's a thing.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a real thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, luckily the police lineup should sort everything out for us.

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<v Speaker 2>But the good news is we pulled through for Mike

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<v Speaker 2>and got him a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>He kept his pants on the entire time he is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good reminder don't judge a man by what's

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<v Speaker 2>under his trench coat, but by what's in his heart.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like a bumper sticker, Jeffy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're also allowed to judge the trench go. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you need some help with your dating life,

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<v Speaker 2>you can always email the show, we'll call that person

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<v Speaker 2>who's not calling you back and go check out all

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<v Speaker 2>of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey