1 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business. 7 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: What are the cases I want to hear from you? 8 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: Remember these are my thoughts and opinions. And if you're 9 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: suffering from an issue or hardship, you should seek help 10 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: from a qualified professional. All right, now go ahead and 11 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: leave your question at the sound of the beat. 12 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 2: High Cheekys, This is Judith from New York. We met 13 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: a few years ago at a we All Girl at 14 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: Dina event in Lumwich, California, and it was such an 15 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 2: honor to meet you and your sisters. You guys so 16 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: are so amazing, so down to earth, and I love that. 17 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 2: I think that's why a lot of people relate with 18 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 2: you girls. I've been watching Chiki Sinfiltrou and I got 19 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 2: my husbmand on it till and he's like, wow, like 20 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 2: she's really cool. Like I'm like, yeah, people, you know, 21 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 2: watch our documentary. She's really amazing. Anyways, he had a question, 22 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 2: so I'm submitting it for him, and his question was, 23 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 2: would you ever open a restaurant? We saw that you 24 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 2: were all like going to all these different restaurants when 25 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 2: you in Intenala, when you went out with your prison, 26 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 2: like she probably has a really good palette, like she 27 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 2: should definitely open up a restaurant. Would you ever do that? Anyways, 28 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 2: we love you and we bless you, and we pray 29 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 2: that God continues to help you with all your dreams 30 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 2: and aspirations. 31 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: Oh Judith, thank you. May God bless you and your 32 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: husband and your relationship. Thank you so much. Thank you 33 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: for getting him on Chikisin Philtro. That makes me really happy. 34 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: And yes a lot of people have been commenting on 35 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: how I'm eating in almost every episode or every scene. Yes, 36 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: that is my life. I like to eat. I am 37 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: a foodie and I don't have plans in opening a 38 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: restaurant per se. But I've had the idea of having 39 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: a food truck and I have the name of it 40 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: and everything, but that's kind of like on the back 41 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: burner right now because of my career and stuff. But 42 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: everyone that owns a restaurant that I know. They say 43 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: it's a lot of work, so I just want to 44 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: make sure that when and if I want to do that, 45 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: because I do love food and I feel like i'd 46 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: have a pretty bomb ass restaurant. I want to just 47 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: focus on that, you know. But it's not a bad idea. 48 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: Maybe I could start off with the food truck first 49 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: because I love to eat. That is very that is correct. 50 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 1: I'm a very good food critic too. But anyways, thank 51 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 1: you so much for your question, and tell your husband 52 00:02:55,919 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: I said hello, and keep watching chi. Okay, guys, so 53 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: our next question comes from an anonymous listener. Okay, let's see. 54 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 3: Hi Cheeky's I was hoping that you can give me 55 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 3: some advice on what to do. I know that the 56 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 3: following is may or may not be a little bit 57 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 3: triggering for yourself or further than listeners. But my best 58 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 3: friend actually who was molested as a child, and her 59 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 3: parents were aware, and her parents never really did anything 60 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 3: about it, never really helped her heal, never really took 61 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 3: her to therapy or talked to her about it, and 62 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 3: they actually the person that did this to her is 63 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 3: still in her family and still around. And the reason 64 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 3: why bringing that up is because I've had this friend 65 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 3: for ten years, she's been my best friend, and recently, 66 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 3: I feel like all of the trauma has really been 67 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 3: bottling up for her because it was never dealt with. 68 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 4: She's becoming very erratic, very chaotic, very aggressive, very defensive, 69 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 4: very like you don't understand what happened to me, which 70 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 4: I don't obviously, because it didn't happen to me, you know. 71 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 4: So I was just hoping that maybe you can give 72 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 4: me some advice on how to navigate, how to help her, 73 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 4: how to be there for her. I really just want 74 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 4: to make her know that she's not alone in this world, 75 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 4: because she is giving me signs that she may be 76 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 4: thinking about hurting herself if she hasn't already. So I 77 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 4: just her, you know, and you know, and her parents 78 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 4: are calling me with concerns as well. 79 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 3: So I just don't know. I don't know what to do. 80 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 3: I don't know how to help her. 81 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 4: So I was just hoping that you can give me 82 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 4: some advice on how to navigate this, because you know, 83 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 4: I know you went through something very similar. 84 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, Okay, this one is tough because, oh 85 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: it's a it's such a delicate subject. I definitely feel 86 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 1: that she feels like she's not validated, and that can 87 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: affect you a lot in so many different ways. So 88 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: it definitely will, you know, surface with time. I mean 89 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: I even thought that I had gotten over my dad's situation. 90 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: I had forgiven him, but then as I've gotten older 91 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: and before I got married, I felt this need of 92 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: needing to go see him and anyway, So it comes up, 93 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: you know, as we get older, as life just does 94 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: its thing, you know, so it's very normal. I think, 95 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: as her friend, definitely don't take anything that she may 96 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: say to you or the way she may act personal. 97 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: Just be there for her if you can get her 98 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: some type of therapy. I think if you could say, hey, 99 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to give you at least one session or 100 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 1: whatever it is that you can. I know that there 101 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: are programs that they have free therapy, because I know 102 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: therapy can be expensive, but therapy will definitely help her. 103 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: You did mention her parents calling you, and they're very worried. 104 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if this is crossing it's a line, 105 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: it might be, but maybe it'd be a good idea 106 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: for you to mention it to her parents. How you 107 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 1: feel that this situation that they didn't deal with is 108 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 1: now affecting her, and maybe a conversation between her and 109 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: her parents and maybe this person that did this to 110 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: her can just not be around. I think that's also 111 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 1: going to help her because maybe the more she sees 112 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 1: this person, she feels like no one listens to me, 113 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: and it's becoming like a bigger issue within herself. And 114 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: I totally understand that. So maybe it's worth having a 115 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: conversation with her parents. Hopefully she doesn't get upset, but 116 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: it's like someone needs to kind of deal with and 117 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 1: talk about the big ass elephant in the room that 118 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: everyone's trying to ignore. It's not okay for her, it's 119 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: not fair to her. So those are my suggestions, and 120 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: I hope that they help. And especially if you feel 121 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: she's going to hurt herself, you need to call the authority. 122 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 1: You need to help her, You need to you know, 123 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: don't ignore the science, babe, you know. So I'm wishing 124 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 1: her the very best, sending her a big hug and 125 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: a lot of healing energy. Oh, because that's tough. It's tough, 126 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: especially where you don't feel hurt, you don't feel seen. 127 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: It's like it's not cool. And you, guys, anyone out 128 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 1: there that has thoughts of her themselves constantly, even if 129 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: it's just one time, please call or text nine eight 130 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: eight so that they can help you and guide you 131 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: and give you some support. Okay, and you guys, they 132 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: also have services available in Spanish, which I think is great. 133 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 1: Remember nine to eight eight. But thank you so much 134 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: for your question, and I hope I was able to 135 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: help you. Okay, guys. Our next question comes from Diana. 136 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 3: Hi, cheekies. 137 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 5: I've been a big fan of your wall, but you 138 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 5: know now I follow you. I just want to know 139 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 5: how you did it to move on from the biggest 140 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 5: breakup that you had, and what did you do to 141 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 5: be who you are now. I'm trying. I finally started 142 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 5: going back to college and I am going to boxing, 143 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 5: but I still cannot get over him and I cannot focus, 144 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 5: you know, me having problems with my kids too. My 145 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 5: older kids do not talk to me, and I'm so 146 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 5: lost and I need so much help and I don't 147 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 5: know what to do anymore. 148 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: Oh, Diana, it's tough. I know, I know how hard 149 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: it is. I was in a very deep depression during 150 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: that time. It's a pain that I don't wish upon anybody. 151 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 1: So I feel you. What helped me was just focusing 152 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:39,199 Speaker 1: on myself. And it's always easier to blame the other 153 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: person and say, oh my goodness, they did this, they 154 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: did that, and like we're pointing the fingers not looking 155 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: at ourselves. And I think once we forget about that 156 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 1: about them and what they did, and we start focusing on, Okay, 157 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: how can I become a better person, a better partner 158 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: so that I don't continue to feel this. I didn't 159 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: want to feel that more, so I said, I really 160 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: need to do therapy. I need to read books, I 161 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: watch videos on YouTube. I just did anything and everything 162 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: that made my heart feel better. I started meditating. That's 163 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 1: when I started meditating heavily. That helped me so much. 164 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: There's guided meditation, so look into that. Also going to church. 165 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: The boxing is great. It helps you release aggression and 166 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: tension and everything. So just keep doing that. Be patient 167 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: with yourself. Hug yourself, literally, hug yourself when you're crying. 168 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: What has made me feel good is like I just 169 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: hug myself and I cry, You're gonna be okay. Everything's 170 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:37,079 Speaker 1: going to be okay. Giving yourself a hug is so powerful. 171 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: I know it might sound silly, but it's helped me 172 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: so much. You, guys, like that inner child that we 173 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: have that wants to be loved and health like, if 174 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: you just take the time to hold yourself and know 175 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: you know what, this pain will pass. This too shell pass. 176 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: Embrace that pain and pray. Just pray your way through it. 177 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 1: Do anything and everything that makes your heart feel good. 178 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: Can start talking to your kids. I don't know why 179 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 1: you're not talking to your older kids, but maybe reach 180 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: out to them, like, start healing certain relationships. That's going 181 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: to help you as well. It's going to take time. 182 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 1: Be patient, be compassionate with yourself. Don't try to rush things. 183 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 1: Just cry through it. Cry through it. Don't go back 184 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 1: though I don't know what the situation is, don't go backwards. 185 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:23,079 Speaker 1: Keep going forward and know that it will pass. I 186 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: promise you. I was on the floor. Girl on the floor. 187 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:29,559 Speaker 1: Look at me now, Girl, we got this. I believe 188 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 1: in you. Diana, keep us updated, please, I'm praying for you. Oh, 189 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: heartbreak is tough, guys. Okay, Diana, We're sending you all 190 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 1: of Dear Cheeky's listeners and viewers. We're sending you lots 191 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: of hugs and kisses. You guys, please send her good vibes. Okay, guys. 192 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: Our final question comes from Myra Let's see high cheekys. 193 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 6: I'm a fan of yours. I just love your personality, 194 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 6: how open you are with your fans. To be honest 195 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 6: with you, I don't really listen to a lot of Blanchetta's, 196 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 6: you know. I'm originally from Uruguay, so it's it's not 197 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 6: something that I grew up with. But for some reason, 198 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 6: you just catch my attention. And sometimes I do listen 199 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 6: to your music, you know, here and there, But I 200 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 6: mainly just like you as a person. I think you're 201 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 6: awesome and love follow you on Instagram and seeing you 202 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 6: on TV and things like that. But anyways, my question is, 203 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 6: would you ever consider having your mom's ex husband on 204 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 6: the podcast just to kind of like clear the air 205 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 6: or have, you know, have your fans listen to, you know, 206 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 6: an interview with him, not trying to be messy. I'm 207 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 6: just wondering, you know, would you ever consider that just 208 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 6: to kind of clear things up with you know, questions 209 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 6: that people had about you and historl Would that be 210 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 6: something that you will ever consider don't get mad at me. 211 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 6: I'm just funny. 212 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: Now, Myra, I am not upset with you. This is 213 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:13,079 Speaker 1: what dear cheekys is all about. I open up my podcast, 214 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 1: my heart, my mind to you guys to ask me 215 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 1: anything and everything, and I'm not afraid to answer any question, 216 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: to be honest. Thank you for your question. Thank you. You 217 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 1: are so sweet. Thank you for being so straight up. 218 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 1: I love that. I appreciate everything that you said. Now 219 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: regarding your question, I've never thought about that, to be honest, 220 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 1: until you brought it up, and I'm like, it wouldn't 221 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,559 Speaker 1: be a bad idea. I think for a long time 222 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: I was afraid to even speak to him, even if 223 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: he was like checking to see how Johnny was doing, 224 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: because I was like, oh my gosh, what are people 225 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: gonna think? But in reality, I have nothing bad to 226 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: say about that man. He was so good to my mother, 227 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,199 Speaker 1: so good to my siblings, especially Johnny. Johnny was a 228 00:12:55,200 --> 00:13:00,040 Speaker 1: tough ass kid to be around. Sometimes. He had a 229 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: very bad attitude, and he'll say this himself, so I'm 230 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: very grateful with him. It's just unfortunate that everything happened 231 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 1: the way it did and he was dragged through the 232 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: dirt as well. Mind you, I don't know what happened 233 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: in the relationship with my mom and him, and you know, 234 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: maybe he did do certain things I don't know, but 235 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: my experience seeing how he was with my mom, like, 236 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: I have nothing bad to say about him. I mean, 237 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 1: it's something I would want to talk to my siblings about, 238 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: to be honest, to see if they're okay with it. 239 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 1: That's the only opinion that matters to me, and of 240 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 1: course my husband's. But hey, it's something to definitely think about, 241 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: and I'm down to do it. I have nothing to hide, 242 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: I have no worries at all, and I'm sure he 243 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: feels the same way. So maybe it's a pretty good idea. Myra. 244 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: Let me talk to my siblings and I'll get back 245 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:45,839 Speaker 1: to you on that. But thank you for your question. 246 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: Thank you all. I'm really, honestly, from the bottom of 247 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 1: my heart, I'm hoping that my advice is able to 248 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: help you guys. That is all I ever want, and 249 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 1: not only help the person that's asking, but those of 250 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,679 Speaker 1: you that are listening and watch. I just want to 251 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: be here, you know, help in the world in any 252 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:05,439 Speaker 1: way that I can. So you, guys, thank you so much. 253 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 1: And if you have a question and you still haven't 254 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: felt like the courage to leave a question, you don't 255 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 1: have to leave your name. It could be anonymous. 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